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Work on yourself bit by bit, and the depression will get better. It may not completely go away, even when you get all of the things you want, but it won't be anywhere near as bad as it is right now.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:32 PM
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Sounds like a good plan. Do you think your feelings of depression are because you don't have any of that yet?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:19 PM
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Different people have different views. If you don't waste time on it, and you only use it to take pictures of cool shit, then I don't see the problem with it. I use Instagram and have it linked to a Facebook account. I only really post on IG (which then posts on FB), but I use FB for the messenger to keep in contact with friends and family. A few times each week, I'll post something cool I'm doing or a view of somewhere cool I'm at or something I'm eating. Occasionally I'll take a picture of a f…
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:18 PM
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okstupid lol broken w/e It's just a girl saying girl shit. You handled it fine. I don't even think it was a test, just her blurting out some shit because she doesn't know the difference between thinking something and saying it.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:09 PM
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What do you want out of life, short-term and long-term?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:04 PM
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Why would you?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 05:01 PM
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Get a bitch that likes to ride your dick and choke on your cock and lick your ass and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:59 PM
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Well what the fuck ARE you doing?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:58 PM
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I'll assume the U.K. You guys never stfu about sarcasm Ahahahaha I fucking know right
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:43 PM
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Around the time of the First Agricultural Revolution, it was found that one man reproduced for approximately every 17 women who reproduced. Women rate around 80 percent of men as being below-average. Would Brad Pitt need to worry about women not wanting him to be exclusive? Etc.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:41 PM
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A major point of RP is that most women are ready, willing and able to share a high-value man.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 02:32 PM
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The problem I run into is that I am not interested in an LTR... it's just not an option. I need my freedom. Your problem isn't an LTR. Your problem is monogamy. You don't have to pick one or the other.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 04:27 AM
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Its harder to game someone when you actually care This is the fucking irony of the whole thing. For a lot of guys who aren't naturals, they only start seeing success with women when they stop caring about them.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 01:04 AM
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Shit, I mean the "out of your league" part, not necessarily the needy part. My bad.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 01:00 AM
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I really think she is way out of my league even though she is really needy She thinks the same thing about you. Funny how that works.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:52 AM
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The numerous studies I'm talking about show that your testosterone falls well below the previous baseline. But you can do your research or not, it probably doesn't matter at all to either of us since I doubt we go around without busting nuts for weeks at a time. Also, wtf to the poor bastards who were a part of those studies regardless.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:23 AM
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I'd like to add anxiety (whether over her, sex or something else that was going on unrelated) to that list.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:21 AM
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No, it happens regardless. You can look up the plethora of studies yourself since they're easy to find. It's an incredibly interesting thing.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:16 AM
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What does this indicate, if anything? That having jizz running out of your twat for the next half hour is not particularly comfortable. She doesn't want to get a UTI. Why this is even a question I will never know.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:21 PM
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Masturbating WITH porn is fine too. Agreed. The problem here is that OP is stuck on a girl that does not meet his needs, and he's (for some reason) struggling with that. Agreed. Why he feels a need to stick with this dead-end is the REAL question. Agreed.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 10:56 PM
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So sure, women know that I'm not confident in myself and for some fucking reason that's enough to make them not give me a chance. Frame is huuuuuuge. You cannot underestimate it. See the sidebar information on frame. (Fitness and Self-Improvement -> What is Frame?) I'm angry at women for turning me down and making me think that I'm not good enough despite all the effort I've put into becoming more attractive. They didn't make you think shit. You thought it all on your own. As soon as you own tha…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 10:09 PM
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Go a week without an orgasm and see what happens. Your testosterone peaks briefly and then drops off the face of the planet. There's a bigger picture here.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 09:47 PM
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Yes I lift, yes I try to dress nice, yes I wear cologne and have a decent job, my own place and car. None of that shit actually matters. We hear this shit all the time, and it always comes down to the person's insecurity over themselves. Women can smell that shit from a mile away. Anger because women don't like me. You aren't angry at them. You're angry at yourself because you think you're inherently not good enough.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:41 PM
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You're literally just wrong. Clearly. If cockblocking yourself was an Olympic event, you'd be the gold medal winner and have no idea you were even competing.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:38 PM
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She wasn't being sarcastic. She told you later that she wanted to come over. You blew it up because you had PMS over her posting a picture with a guy.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 08:14 PM
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I think she was being sarcastic because she was with some other guy according to her sc story saying things like "let's have a fab time" so I said I was actually busy monday and forgot to tell her and told her to post the coat. Congrats. You played yourself, as evidenced by: I ignored her and half an hour later she texted saying "sorry I a bit drunk, truth is I was just looking forward to actually seeing you and not just posting the coat? Sorry" Yeah. She is pretty hot Then why in the fuck did y…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:50 PM
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I'm worried if I don't I'll resort to master bating which will affect my mind and lower my energy. I don't know where you picked this up, but it's simply not true. The big push against beating your meat has to do with porn addiction and the effects of masturbating often to porn. Masturbating without porn is completely fine unless you do it so much that you don't want sex with people.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:47 PM
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How would/do you guys reprogram and just say 'fuck it' to this kind of bullshit without feeling like a creep? NMMNG addresses what you need here in depth. In short, you do not have to defend or justify your preferences, and you do not have to feel guilt for them. There is no standard by which you have to do any of these things.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:37 PM
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A book: When I Say No, I Feel Guilty.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 07:33 PM
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She has shown an increased interest in volunteering and serving in the community in the last week. I actually don't have any problem with this and think it would do her a lot of good. I'll probably encourage this. I think you should definitely encourage this, but make sure it doesn't end up with her taking on so much that it overshadows her duties at home and with her own kids.
/r/askMRP03/07/17 07:20 PM
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This last week she has been pretty fragile. Part of this could be because she is sick. She is taking an antifungal medication to treat thrush. Maybe not directly related, but don't underestimate how bad this can make someone feel like absolute fucking shit. It's both mentally and physically draining as hell. Usually, I see questions about alpha-ing up, but I do think she needs legitimate comfort. I agree. I feel I have done a good job of this. I have given her numerous hugs and if I say anything…
/r/askMRP03/07/17 05:32 PM
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Tell her no. Read WISNIFG. It'll help.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:25 PM
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You should text her to confirm that the number is real and for her to have your number. I wouldn't go with boners as a catch-all.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:24 PM
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I had a buddy growing up who was gifted a brand new Mustang when he was 18 or 19 by a rich grandparent who paid his insurance as well. He loved that car, and he took care of it like you wouldn't believe. This wasn't the typical "run it into the ground and treat it like shit" teenage story like you almost always see. That car was his baby. Over time, that car started having problems here and there. No matter how badly he tried to take care of it and how much money he spent on it, shit eventually …
/r/askMRP03/07/17 05:21 PM
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You have so much work to do. Start working through the sidebar, starting from the top and working your way down.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:19 PM
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where do I take it from here? I saw your ages in the other comments and if you think she's shy and all of that. I think it's fine to ask her out one more time, and if she balks, then start ignoring her because it's going nowhere but orbitertown for you.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 02:18 PM
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How should I go about making a change Hit the sidebar. While you're doing that, get some hobbies and go do shit that has to do with those hobbies. Hit up meetup.com and find things to do. This will get you around people and put you in a position to build yourself socially in a new place. Work on improving yourself and give it hell.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 01:43 PM
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If only there was a book on the sidebar that was completely about this... Go read NMMNG.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:32 AM
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Go do shit for your hobbies and meet people there. If you don't have hobbies, then get some.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:21 AM
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I texted back saying yes even though I don't. This is a bunch of insecure faggot pouring out of your insecure faggot vagina. What does this mean ? How do I respond ? It means you need to read the fucking sidebar (start with NMMNG because of your tendency to fucking lie to get validation) and get off of this girl's fucking dick.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:18 AM
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Just for future reference, you fucked your formatting up pretty bad on this post.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:17 AM
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There's this whole fucking sidebar telling you what to do.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:16 AM
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Who gives a fuck? Did you open it for her to get a "thank you" so that you can feel all good and warm and fuzzy inside?
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:14 AM
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and she used to text me every day of what she was doing, now nothing lol. Translation: "Hi I'm OP, and my vagina hurts." Should I keep her around for fucking until it's over? Or should I drop her? Why do you think this changes anything at all? What makes you think her sex life suddenly changed because of this vacation? The main thing that worries me are STDs tbh See above. but again that could be true with any girl, since you can never know how many guys a girl is fucking on the side. There's yo…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:13 AM
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NMMNG, WISNIFG and the sidebar. Good luck.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 11:07 AM
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Atlanta area This is a city vs country thing. Go to any big city and the south, and you'll see a lot of the same shit.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:48 AM
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Read the first comment dipshit. Frame is more important than looks, but you should try to reasonably maximize both.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:46 AM
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Looks aren't mostly everything for men. They are for women.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:45 AM
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No one gives a fuck about your room.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:32 AM
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22 is the age people usually finish college. Most people don't go to or graduate from college, dipshit.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:01 AM
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This is a good way to get fucking doxxed.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 05:00 AM
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Check the assertiveness entry in Wikipedia. It's no joke. One of the things about WISNIFG's format that sets it apart is that it's set up as training material in the first place, which makes it perfect for the MRP side as well since it cuts the fluff and gets straight to actionable advice.
/r/askMRP03/07/17 03:32 AM
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It's the most popular (or close to it) piece of training material for assertiveness training in the world, so yeah.
/r/askMRP03/07/17 01:20 AM
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But i havent showed her that i am. Yes, you have. But that's okay. You can get better.
/r/askTRP03/07/17 12:11 AM
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SIDEBAR MOTHERFUCKER NMMNG is where you should start, you people-pleasing pussy. PM me if you can't find it.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 11:29 PM
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News flash: Your chick is going to think other guys are hot. why does my girlfriend agree that he is hot with the girls but told me differently? Because you're insecure as fuck.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 11:27 PM
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Go get more friends. You don't have to replace the ones you already have.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 11:25 PM
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It's more difficult for guys to do the same just because the odds are so stacked against men. This is true for men in general, but it's not true for men in the top 5 percent or so. This is why self-improvement is so critical. Anything that I can do or just enjoy until she leaves? I mean what the fuck do you think you can do here? Cut her legs off so she can't run away and hide her in your basement?
/r/askTRP02/07/17 11:25 PM
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It's like this man, if you're Brad Pitt and whoever, and you get an invitation to go somewhere cool, you're going to do whatever the fuck you want to do, not just automatically say yes. For you right now, however, automatically saying yes is a great thing because it'll get you off of your ass and help you to re-calibrate yourself based on finding what you actually want by getting more experiences. Suppose you auto-say-yes for a couple of years and get a wider range of experiences and a better un…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 08:58 PM
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Basically there are two ways you can look at things. The first way, which is what most people do, is that they look for excuses to NOT do something. For example, you're looking for an excuse to not go do cool shit by saying you're not big enough or w/e. You do this several times in your post actually, but I'll let you examine it and find the others. This ends with you never getting the things done that you want to get done (ie: you sitting around playing video games essentially wasting time inst…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:31 PM
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I'm going to go ahead and tell you right now that there have been tons of examples of wives and girlfriends finding out about the red pill and absolutely losing their fucking minds and turning the dude's life into a living hell. Just don't let it happen.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:20 PM
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"Spirituality" is chick crack.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:18 PM
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It means you're a triggered faggot who is still hung up on your ex.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:18 PM
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Don't let her see this shit, read it, know about it, etc. First rule of Fight Club.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:17 PM
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lost my man boobs and was really happy Awesome. I still play some video games, since I cant find anything else to do honestly. Time to get a hobby, learn some shit and/or start a business broseph. I am looking into creating some social media profiles to get social proof and start chatting up with some girls. You've got to be doing cool shit to put on there before that'll work. Don't be a paper tiger. But the excuse I keep giving myself is: Fuck excuses. Go get a fucking life.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:16 PM
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WISNIFG deals with the set of tools you'll want to have here.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:14 PM
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He's saying read the sidebar and get a fucking life instead of getting triggered by Twitter bios.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:12 PM
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If you like getting your buttcheeks busted by some girl with a fake dick, that's your business. If you don't, then why do you even give a fuck?
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:12 PM
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Read the sidebar. Start with NMMNG.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:11 PM
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Read the sidebar, stop making hoes your girlfriend, and you'll never know if she's telling the truth about being raped or not. It really sucks if it was true, and it's really shitty of her if it's not, but your plan is the same either way. This girl is not LTR material regardless.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:11 PM
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Don't even know why she would send this to me Who cares? let alone what to make of it /how to respond Don't.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:09 PM
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What do you do in a situation like this? Your boss has a right to tell you what to do at your job. You do your job, which is whatever your boss tells you to do. I'm already planning to leave, isn't there anything else I can do with a boss like this? There's a ton of bad advice in the comments here, though they mean well. Go to the personalfinance sub, leave out all of the whining bullshit about how it's so unfaaaair and ask about applying for other positions without compromising the one you're i…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 06:07 PM
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But I don't think I'm a scared nice guy. Yeah well, you're fucking wrong.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:59 PM
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I told her that I'm against grabbing places. She was potentially showing interest, and you blew it with saying this. Way to spoil the fun. Me: "Because the place should be for people that came early." Okay Mr. Fucking Hall Monitor. You aren't making any panties wet with this shit. I could see the frustration in her face. Yeah because she was showing interest, and you shut her down (shooting yourself in the foot). I really am against holding places for friends that will come later though. One per…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:57 PM
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You're way off the mark on multiple things in this short post. You have a lot of reading to do if you want to understand how any of this works. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 05:34 PM
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My dick's so small that I piss on my balls.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:08 AM
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Daily meditation. Also, make sure you keep some free time and don't overbook yourself. That's very important to being able to maintain a strong pace in a lot of different things.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:06 AM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:03 AM
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Strong introvert here. There's nothing inherently wrong with preferring to be alone a lot of the time. I get so many stupid ass comments referring to me as a self-identified special snowflake which is fucking stupid, i expect something better than that this time That could be the case though that's probably a completely separate issue from your obvious introversion.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 03:00 AM
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Been a week since I swallowed the redpill Oh fuck, here we go. You are the shit, you are better than everyone, or even if you're not, pretend like it No. Girls will test you, both for alpha traits, and for beta traits. To just spin plates, just pass the shit test, but to hold a relationship, you need to give a mix of both More or less. (sometimes holding your frame, sometimes doing what she wants /giving compliments) Always holding frame, but holding frame does not mean you can't give compliment…
/r/askTRP02/07/17 02:59 AM
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That's because you're insecure and afraid that no girl is ever going to want you with a weak ass frame. The only thing beta about the situation is your butthurt feelings.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 08:29 PM
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If you work at being a high-value male, you won't have to play little girl games like this. You're very insecure as well, and this is evident by the fact that you give a shit that a "plate" is hanging out with other guys.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:31 PM
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and I feel really embarrassed about it. Why? Nevertheless this completely killed my confidence this night No, your confidence was weak before this or it wouldn't have been able to bring you down. but the fact that my friends know about my horrible performance really killed my confidence and I want to ask you guys what I can do to recover from this? How the fuck should I act the next time I meet her? I don't mean to sound like a whiny bitch but I need your help. You've decided that all of this ma…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:30 PM
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And it's like they can see right through me. This may simply be an issue of your frame crashing in the face of actually liking someone.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:26 PM
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I haven't seen anyone but incels use that tool or really talk about it at all. It's pretty much useless since people just randomly click to get their own karma up to get their pictures rated, so don't look too much into it unless you thought you were some kind of piece of human trash (which would play into the incels hive mentality actually) and use it to verify that you're actually not. Edit: I looked at your post history after I made this post, and give me the phone because I fucking called it…
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:24 PM
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I know it sounds weak as fuck. It's actually fairly normal when you find a girl that you like and who you want to fuck. They aren't particularly common for any given guy. You handle it by avoiding falling into her frame, which you haven't necessarily done just because you like her a lot.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:23 PM
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You should have been actively seeking out and applying for other positions before this even happened, so start now if you haven't already. The personalfinance sub has a lot of information about how to go about all of that.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:18 PM
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but I think that in certain age you must take the responsibility and provide for your family. You think this because it's a value that was pressed on you, not because it's naturally what you want to be doing. This is the crux of the whole thing.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:15 PM
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Or you could just be a good bro instead of getting insecure and butthurt. It's not a shit test because she's not into you; she's into your friend. Tempted to have my friend add her while girl is drunk and see what she does. Beta as fuck. Why do you want to be so catty? Get your balls up, be a man and hook your boy up.
/r/askTRP01/07/17 02:14 PM
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My wife doesn't flirt. EVER. You're in a tremendous amount of denial.
/r/askMRP01/07/17 02:05 PM
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2) Get a Dry Erase Board Calendar Adding to this: I have different colors of markers for marking things that are specific to each person like work schedules, gym schedules, family events, etc. They all sit right beside of the fridge on top of the microwave in some faggy ceramic owl cup thing along with an eraser, and it makes it a bit easier to see what's going on when things start piling up a bit. As an aside, I also have two other whiteboard uses. One is to just keep an ongoing shopping list o…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/17 08:42 PM
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I have a real struggle. I am now exactly where I want to be and get triggered or dwell on the slightest insult...I feel like "Is it all going to be taken away!??? SHIT!!!" I stop. I breathe...I let that thought pass. The fear of it being taken away or flipping shit on slight insults isn't really my thing, but I appreciate your perspective since it's given me more to think about and be thankful for.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 08:33 PM
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I can definitely feel you on that. I keep having this feeling like I should be happy with the shit I've got going on too, and I think that might be complicating with some degree of guilt. I'm figuring it out, but I thought I'd get some opinions. I appreciate your comments.
/r/askTRP30/06/17 12:55 AM
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I appreciate your response. Like saying: "well I've finally got to the top of the mountain, now what?" I can definitely relate to that in a lot of ways. I said it over and over to myself, like "Okay I got A, now I'm going to get B," and it took a shitload of work that kept me occupied for the past decade or so. I just feel like now I've ran out of letters on that chain A -> B -> C -> D... to give a shit about.
/r/askTRP29/06/17 10:48 PM
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