I'll spare you the long, boring details, but here are the facts:

  1. Me, 35. Her, 24.

  2. Girl is extremely sexual, but has claimed physical abuse by her boyfriend and emotional abuse by her mother in the past (a pattern forms).

  3. Yesterday, we're discussing the topic of how social media can ruin people's lives by making people's pasts permanent, and she drops that at 16 she was raped at knifepoint by two boys in high school.

She says the police didn't pursue the charges ("laughed it off"), she didn't tell her parents, and it was one of the reasons she had to leave her home town (Edmonton, a pretty rough city).

Alright /asktrp, let's process this.

Q1. If it's true, this conjures up the male protector urge in my and is absolutely terrifying. I have feelings for her, and felt gutted to think of a 16 year old girl in that position.

Can I actually return to a sexual relationship with this girl, with that horrible image in my head?

Right now I feel like there's a permanent impediment to me fucking her like I used to fuck her.

Q2. DOES HER STORY ADD UP, and CAN/SHOULD I attempt to verify it? Bitches are, and forever will be scandalous.

Q3. Is this girl damaged goods? If she's not being honest, this is deception to the point of insanity.

Let's hear it, boys.