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Mgtow teaches this, being by yourself is ok. Once you realize this, life is beautiful. You don’t need a partner to have value. You can create value within yourself. So simple but purposely hidden to keep men running on that simp wheel.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 01:05 PM
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Also more emasculated men that have no idea about tools. That’s why trades are going up in value. If you have a good salesmen your company can literally name your price.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 01:01 PM
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In a marriage they don’t do it either. The man will work a 10 hour day come home tired as heck and she’ll pawn the kids off because she needs a break.
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 12:55 PM
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White knights are everywhere. “I’ll protect me lady…”
/r/MGTOW222/07/21 08:29 PM
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It’s hard to sum up all you need to do to better yourself in the comment section. Go through books, spestnaz a old Mgtow creator would say. Strong body, strong mind, strong soul, journey towards improving those and you will find contentment. Jocko Willink is one author I always recommend and learn stoicism philosophy to start.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:45 PM
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Jocko Willink can be your new daddy. Read his books and there are many others out there. If you don’t have a good mentor which not having a father is. The authors of books are a form of mentor ship. Good luck
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:41 PM
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Ah well if you can’t get him onboard with the Mgtow life at least help him get into Redpill so his dating can be better.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:33 PM
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Some women can be really great for the right man. Minus the extremely ungrateful ones, if you are the best they can get that’s it. Problem is they will always be looking until they hit the wall.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:29 PM
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Living my life for others that wouldn’t appreciate any effort you put into helping them after the fact. Once I understood investing in myself would be the greatest and best investment I could do life became better.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:26 PM
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Is he anywhere near a pay to play area? If not tell him to save his money and take a trip to these places.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:24 PM
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Read books, that will calm your mind. Dive into philosophy books, stoicism is definitely the line of thinking you need to study.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:22 PM
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Go through the courts by yourself and get it in a ordered agreement. The law moves slow but you need to have all your ducks in a row. Especially right now he has no money just got out of prison perfect time to work with the courts. Now if he had money they’d be trying to get all the cash and prizes out of him. He can even use the system in his favor, work through DES get a job Corp lined up. Section 8, food stamps, affordable housing, use the system that we pay for.
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 05:16 PM
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I must be the weird one but my family and friends we don’t talk about relationships with each other. I find it a private matter, even if my mother tries to get nosy I just mehh the whole conversation and she gives up. Just change the subject, talk about anything else. Sports, weather, their life since it’s been a long time. Even purposely steer the conversation to things they give zero fucks. Some video game or a show you know they’d never like.
/r/MGTOW221/07/21 05:01 PM
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He can go start new but, huge but once he starts a new life and starts making cash. The law will grant his ex all the cash and prizes she needs. Not only will he have to start paying the law will grant her back pay…
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 04:05 PM
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We are all narcs it’s just how far in that scale do you move towards. Hitler, Stalin, Mao, those are some of the most evil of evil. Does his father fall on that side of the scale. Nah he’s just a asshole that the son could put in his place. The other side of the scale is empath, how far are you towards being like Ghandi or Jesus are you. Every time you see a bum on the side of the road do you stop and give him your shoes, money, sandwich. I never even knew the term narcissist existed for the lon…
/r/MGTOW21/07/21 03:09 PM
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Mgtow in it’s pure form no one would be against it. It is the incels and the men still stuck in a redpill rage that get them pissed off. Look at both subs on any given day and there is some type of women bashing. Once a man really goes his own way he doesn’t even worry about women.
/r/MGTOW219/07/21 01:13 AM
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That’s the point, without the plow horse the field won’t get attended too.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 02:35 PM
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So true, took me years to figure this out. When I took the fall like most older guys here I had no idea where I was gonna go, what I was gonna do… How was I gonna function. I spent my life taking care of a family and then it was just gone. Before I found Mgtow I told myself no more, I’m not gonna be like those guys married a bunch of times raising kids till they are dead. I’m gonna be here for myself and start living for me. But my mind was all jumbled so I started searching the internet for any…
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 02:24 PM
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You can have a gorgeous women but they age like milk.
/r/MGTOW18/07/21 03:07 AM
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Yep, and of course after all that she may leave…
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 02:51 AM
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I know it’s Mgtow but since you asked. The trick is don’t become betabucks. You have to do everything you would in a LTR as you would when dating. It’s a lot of fucken work, and majority here say it ain’t worth it. A female is like a Roller coaster, she’s the rider you are the track, literally. If her ride stops having the dips and curves, that make her heart flutter she’s hopping on another track.
/r/MGTOW218/07/21 02:46 AM
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This is just so sad. I could have easily been in this situation with one of my kids. The only thing that saved me is since they were young I’ve told them do good in school, get good grades because I’m not paying for anything after high school. There is way too much free money out there for me to pay for you. If you aren’t gonna work hard enough when it’s free why should I subsidize your schooling when it’s not. They listened and none have asked for a cent, of course I help with little stuff but …
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:58 PM
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Sadly, she’s already gotten as much as she needed from him…
/r/MGTOW217/07/21 01:45 PM
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Philosophy will open doors to your mind that you never thought were even there. Jordan Peterson 12 rules for life is a great one. Also Johann Hari lost connections is a great book also teaches about what the studies have shown to help live a more content life. You helped raise your son and didn’t give up on him. Hopefully he pays you back by having a better life then yours. Congratulations and good luck.
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 06:11 PM
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I don’t have the links. He’s removed a lot of his catalog from YouTube also. Idk where he’s uploading to now. Try mgtow.tv
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 07:12 AM
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Certain men need to be loved a certain way. The love you speak about is the motherly love that some men never got. I wasn’t given it, and I was one of these men looking for a mommy. Until I found the manosphere, learning that a women can never love you the way your mother could. Some mothers never will, not realizing the damage they are doing to their boys. It’s the reverse of a girl with Daddy issues. Once you realize it’s not that type of love you get from a partner you will be released from t…
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 06:50 AM
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No, what you want. Even put it to the most basic. Like a minimalist, we need food, shelter, basic needs. Do that for yourself and you’ll be there. How much value does a independent man have? Look around how many do you see? A man not bowing to a women, a man not crying about friendships, a man moving through life on his own terms. Find a man like that, and you’ll find a man that respects himself.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 06:40 AM
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To bad they quarantined theredpill, those are the guys you need to talk to about dating advice. Still a few good Redpill you tubers.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 04:14 AM
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Beat me to it, he’s made quite a few episodes on dolls.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 04:07 AM
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Without all the down falls of men before you how would you know all the traps? Mgtow didn’t just magically appear because some guy couldn’t find a women. That’s incels, involuntarily celibate meaning they can’t get a women. Mgtow men are men of high value or men attaining value. If you are just some low value male, why would a female or society in general care if you vow off women? Redpill men, play the game and use the rules to their advantage. Mgtow men, know the game but don’t play. Betabucks…
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 04:03 AM
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Maybe your idea of traveling is meeting people. Which that may be the issue. Go somewhere where the destination is the goal not people that can not really be counted on. Even with friends they flake out all the time. Go somewhere to enjoy a sight, or somewhere to enjoy the food, any other thing that can be enjoyed without having to count on others.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 03:54 AM
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Comparing yourself to others is a path to misery. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. Small continuous improvement is the key to contentment.
/r/MGTOW215/07/21 03:46 AM
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I have a dog and garden. That’s plenty to do, permaculture is a lifelong chore. You build a forest and it gives back. That will help your health, add some other hobbies and your set. For you mind go through philosophy, grow a business and sell it. So many positive things you can do with your time and money. Travel, see the world, camp, enjoy nature, go to different areas and try the tasty cuisines. Build your body up for your health and to test your own limits. I could go on for awhile with want…
/r/MGTOW15/07/21 03:42 AM
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It’s the only way to be in a relationship. Always be on your A game. You must live your life so at any given moment you can walk and start over. Once they feel you are complacent and they have you by the balls your done. Any women of value will move on, that’s why men with no worth have to put up with so much bullshit. And even then they may still walk because they found a better deal.
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 04:07 PM
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Is your father still in the household? He’s the one responsible if he’s still there. And now since he hasn’t stood up for himself now his son is getting treated as such. Get your shit together, focus on a path for yourself and take care of yourself. The only way to contentment will be to be self sufficient. As long as your life is in disorder they are gonna make you pay. If you have your life in order they will just use as much as you give, that’s why you have to go on your own. Definitely do no…
/r/MGTOW14/07/21 02:01 PM
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Got a Labrador mix, 50% boxer, 50% Labrador. It’s one of the most loving animals I’ve ever had. She’s only a year old but if she keeps up with the affection I should have forgone kids and just got a dog like this. Gardening, but a specific type. Got into permaculture, it’s a way of gardening that you grow a forest that eventually will be able to maintain itself. Just those two hobbies alone fill my time with lots and very fruitful. The dog is always by my side and nothing beats raising trees tha…
/r/MGTOW13/07/21 08:05 PM
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Teach your boys the traps they can fall into, just be careful of telling them to not be with a women. You were able to procreate and have children without that experience you would feel a lot different. The fact that you are leading by example is great. They will see your life compared to other fathers and may come to their own conclusion. You just don’t want them to be childless at older age and feel like they should have. If anything show them how to make themselves extremely valuable man and …
/r/MGTOW213/07/21 02:57 PM
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Leave it to someone here to point out the Diamond in the rough. You are absolutely right. She just showed him what she thinks of him. Lost his job and whoosh out the door she went. Lucky he didn’t have a job but got sick and then she left, at least he can find another job. Hopefully this is a eye opener for you to the nature of the world.
/r/MGTOW08/07/21 05:00 AM
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Don’t argue just say “I’m waiting for the right one.” Any luck they may even do the work for you and send you some friends that you can entertain. I have a adult son who is wandering the world experiencing life I could only dream of. He dated a female for years and she seemed like the perfect one. I left him alone until I could see the writing on the wall and she was ready to monkey branch away. So we went through hours and hours and Redpill, Mgtow, philosophy content. The main objective is he w…
/r/MGTOW207/07/21 03:50 AM
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You are looking for mommy. Your bad relationship with your mother is the reason for this. Realize mommy was bad to you. Other women cannot be your mother, only your mother can and she chose not too. The only person who can and will save you is yourself. Look into philosophy for meaning. The good kind, the kind that ask questions only you can answer.
/r/MGTOW27/06/21 06:33 PM
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Groups are a hit and miss. Look into authors, those are mentors you can seek out. Find a mentor that speaks to your calling. I personally like Jocko, Jordan Peterson, Stoic Philosophers. Also two great books, I can’t recommend the authors only because they catalog studies but the books are a great resource. Johana Hari lost connections, his research is on life’s meanings its great. And the boy crisis by Warren Farrell is a eye opener.
/r/MGTOW224/06/21 05:34 AM
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Being close to your mother isn’t necessarily bad thing, you do need masculine energy to compliment it. The problem with so many men is their relationship with their mother. It was either non existent so they are looking for a female to be their mommy, which as we know nothing dries up a female quicker then having to take care of a man baby. Or it can be to much which your mommy never wants you to grow up. You are identifying what you lack in life and now are able to adjust. At least you’ve seen …
/r/MGTOW219/06/21 05:52 PM
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If you are ready to leave, sell house, give her whatever her price hopefully just half and move on.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:15 PM
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Was looking for spestnaz videos that used to be hosted on YouTube. Turns out they are on mgtow.tv. Had no idea that it even existed. https://www.mgtow.tv/watch/male-grief-the-method_HwclsMLXt1mUFvt.html
/r/MGTOW216/06/21 05:27 AM
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You are here for a reason, if you weren’t looking for answers you’d be on another sub or other social vomit. You have to take all this info with a open mind. They don’t call it the rage phase for nothing. Men who find these answers are often angered by the answers. I will give you the best thing I can think of at this moment. Once you realize all the answers to the question you never wanted to ask it will be a paradigm shift. The best thing is you will understand, everything that has happened to…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 02:54 PM
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There are women out there that will love you on your worse days because you are the best they can get. Only problem is most men are not happy with bottom tier women. Or you could find a unicorn but that’s why they are called such, no one has seen one. Society only loves the winners and fuck the rest. Be a winner and elect not to play that’s the Mgtow way. Or bust your ass, walk the tight rope and hope you never fall off. If you do just look at your country or states divorce laws, that is what aw…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 02:42 PM
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Also this is exactly what Mgtow preaches, you are only worth what the world can get out of you. These men don’t like that and are now going their own way. I’m only chiming in on the posters question. I understand the game, and I’m ok with it. The only women that will ever love you unconditionally is some mothers, and those other men that had a mother that only wanted to use their sons well that’s how we ended up with so many broken men. Broken men that are looking for a mommy to take care of the…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 02:22 PM
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When you say family do you mean mother father, son daughter? Or wife and partners?
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 02:13 PM
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Women are like anybody else. They will treat you how you allow them to treat you. Men talk about how women changed after they got into a relationship but how did they change? I ask this question because that’s the exact idea I had, until I realized I changed myself and not for the better. Luckily I wasn’t to far away from where I needed to be but how many men gained a ton of weight, stopped attacking life, changed from conqueror to victim. Think about any movie star, sports athlete, business own…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 01:58 PM
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Started on this path years ago and it’s made my life better. The path to contentment is the true path for a man. Mgtow is a great idea but it’s been co-oped by other areas of the manosphere that are more toxic either by design or just a matter of coincidence. Toxic areas get shutdown and the other areas have to compensate. You are absolutely right, no need to explain what Mgtow is. People who want a explanation either are not ready for this information or are just looking for chinks in its armor…
/r/MGTOW209/06/21 01:52 PM
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I know we all want to blame the women but you have to accept any women can be a good partner. There’s a women that’s holding out on her loving husband right now and banging another man anytime he asks. There’s a women who won’t give you the time of day not even tell you thank you for holding a door for her but she’ll meet a man tonight and be in bed with him within a hour. As you rise in life so to will your standards, including what you’ll put up with in life. Don’t be that guy on his 3rd divor…
/r/MGTOW201/06/21 01:31 PM
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Read “The boy crisis,” written by Warren Farrel. Lots of studies in there, his book is full of them not some emotional vomit. Hard facts.
/r/MGTOW15/05/21 11:52 AM
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It’s interesting how they don’t want to make this legal everywhere. Imagine where men can just work their asses off and get their physical desires met.
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 11:22 AM
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Start slow, but keep it consistent. Walk, jog, bike, light weights, jump rope, etc. Just get moving and move everyday. Start building muscle to help your daily calorie intake. Keeping a decent weight is a concentrated effort. Think of it like a marathon not a sprint and it’s a journey you’ll be on for the rest of your life. Once you start moving, start cutting the bad stuff. Lower or if you can get rid of sugars, lower the carbs, less sweets and other calorie intense foods. And if you have vices…
/r/MGTOW215/05/21 11:18 AM
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Read the book “The Boy Crisis by Warren Farrel.” It has a lot of what to teach your son. It’s written from a teacher to father point of view. Read it to teach yourself, it’s a real eye opener. After you go through that continue more Mgtow reading to understand, life.
/r/MGTOW214/05/21 12:28 AM
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And then you find Mgtow, Redpill and the manosphere. To bad it’s not the reverse.
/r/MGTOW211/05/21 01:19 PM
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Cool, I’ll check it out.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 11:40 PM
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Maybe you are protected but other men that come here and learn, may not be so lucky.
/r/MGTOW10/05/21 08:18 PM
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Only problem with that, you run the risk of becoming just like them when you don’t understand the correct way to function.
/r/MGTOW210/05/21 08:12 PM
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Another post about women, I’ll contribute my two cents. If you are having trouble getting with women you aren’t good enough yet. And if you are at the top of your game then you may never get there or you aren’t judging yourself correctly. Getting with women is easy, the hard part is getting the exact ones you want. What I mean, “Casting a net you should be able to catch some fish. The trouble comes when you start sniping, then the fish get to choose to be hooked or not.”
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 02:21 PM
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You sound like you will jump in again if they are up to your standards. You said you didn’t want to date but then came a women a lot younger then you. So then you were game, that’s great you held your standards high. Only thing in order to keep women in general attracted to you especially in these times you have to keep the excitement going. That’s Redpill stuff you’d have to go there for that.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 02:15 PM
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Most men have to learn this lesson for themselves. Unless they respect you and your opinions they won’t give a shit what you say. I used to try to help men of all ages, it was a waste of my time. The only men that ever listened to me held me with great esteem. And even then they are just one good lay away from forgetting everything you said and jumping into her arms. If anything focus on your life, and become the man you want to look up too.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 02:07 PM
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She wants to make it seem out there but it’s just aging. Everyone gets old, just women age quicker.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 02:02 PM
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You say this but everything is connected now. You are at work but when you leave you can’t hide from social media. Just like that other post about the 6th grader she couldn’t hide so she acted out. We have to learn to censor our selves everywhere. If you don’t the machine will grind you down.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 02:01 PM
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This is the way society is heading, even the least to act out aggressive sex can’t take it. The passive aggressive society we are building is making lots of people extremely unhappy.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 01:55 PM
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Also in couples that have been together for a while. The wall is undefeated, men hold out longer for sure.
/r/MGTOW09/05/21 01:52 PM
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A book to help you understand more about narcissistic behavior is Robert Greene’s the Laws of Nature. It explains narc nature and how to go from both sides of the spectrum. Empath to Narc, I view it as full Empath is Jesus and a full Narc would be Hitler. In life you always can’t just get away from all toxic people. Considering how power is awarded to people that are able to toe that line. They show their empath side to their bosses and treat underlings like Narcs. Productivity pays the bills, a…
/r/MGTOW209/05/21 05:58 AM
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There was a place for him to see the lifestyle he’s looking for but sadly the attack on masculinity won that battle and TRP was removed.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 02:33 PM
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You hit the point right on the head. For some men it is depressing but with a different outlook life can be enjoyable. Mgtow isn’t for everyone, you seem to want to be involved in the game. For Mgtow it’s ok if you don’t want to play but develop a life without traditional ideals.
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 02:30 PM
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Most men are still in this mode. They have no idea that you can live life without a women. The majority of men I know only value themselves because of the women they have.
/r/MGTOW223/08/20 05:53 AM
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He has a generic flavor that’s easier to digest for some people but he’s not all knowing. You take what he has to offer that you need and ignore the rest.
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 02:22 AM
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You aren’t his father or his mother, you can’t really help him. You need to focus on yourself and make sure you do not end up like him. Yes he’s your father but just like any other friend, you can’t just hand out unwanted advice. I’m in the similar situation, but to help him only makes it worse for you. My father runs and tells my step mom anything I say and I’m not even trying to Redpill the man.
/r/askTRP04/07/20 01:55 AM
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I’ve raised my children to go in with people with a open mind. In that regard only respect those who give you respect. Be quick about it, I go from Mr Rogers to full blown aggressive in a heartbeat. If they are an asshole to someone they don’t know, they are probably an asshole.
/r/MGTOW214/06/20 06:32 PM
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Exactly, how are you suppose to be going your own way, if you are worried about anything other then building yourself up.
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 01:53 PM
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Why worry about how anyone makes their money? As long as it’s legal and it’s not hurting you. The more men stay in there house and simp on internet the less men are out in the world. A women with 100k is in the same place as a women making 30k, they still want and need a man. Isn’t this Mgtow?
/r/MGTOW04/04/20 12:58 PM
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Sounds like you want a relationship but you are right to be scared. Being in a relationship and being Redpilled is the best way. All the same obstacles for you are out there but with the knowledge within the manosphere you can arm yourself with the correct ideas to make a successful relationship. Like I’ve told many men, the most important decision you’ll make in your life. Isn’t your job, your house, your car but the women you choose to have a life with. If you do decide to be with a women you …
/r/MGTOW208/03/20 01:04 PM
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Read, read, read. Go through all the manosphere manuals. Let the manosphere be your father, teacher, mentor. Good luck
/r/MGTOW24/02/20 02:56 AM
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After the divorce, you see everything that these guys have warned you about. Your house sold to divide up the value. All your property divided up like a loot table to be plundered. Lastly if you’ve stayed in said relationship long enough she’ll be entitled to part of your check. Depending on state and circumstance it could be a very, very long time.
/r/MGTOW220/02/20 02:33 AM
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Daddy issues
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 09:47 PM
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Been there done that. If this happens though, you have to find it within yourself and know that you did the right thing. They are the ones that took advantage. It’s the best thing you can do for yourself, living with regret isn’t the way. Of course if you can avoid that ending, as in Mgtow more power to you men.
/r/MGTOW19/02/20 07:53 PM
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Exactly, there are so many more emotions then happiness. If your goal is to be happy all the time you’ll be extremely disappointed with life.
/r/MGTOW219/02/20 04:40 AM
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Just wait till you’re have to move on and you realize there is no relationship equity.
/r/MGTOW217/02/20 08:26 AM
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Not everyone’s sex drive is the same. I’m right up there with you with sexual desires. I’ve seen some men live a happy life just having one partner the whole time. Then there is us. For the men who are unable to play the dating game, spinning plates and such. Use all that excess energy to become successful in life and go hire professionals. After all that is similar to what the betas are doing. Go to school, get good career, have cash to land decent female and maybe make it or maybe not. Just Mg…
/r/MGTOW221/01/20 03:33 PM
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It’s your conditioning, society has raised us with certain norms. It is a fight within yourself to go against the grain. One thing you’ll have to understand first and foremost. “It’s ok, it’s ok to be alone.” Once I figured that out for myself, life has been so much more enjoyable. If you really want to see what female companionship feels like pay for a high quality escort. Hang out with them for a couple hours, go to lunch. After your money is spent imagine a life where not just a little is gon…
/r/MGTOW221/01/20 03:14 PM
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Become a loser, take a break from your job. Go live with your parents for a year or two. She’ll find a new simp to take care of her.
/r/MGTOW214/12/19 02:11 PM
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Get stronger in mind, body, spirit, and don’t be afraid to embrace the asshole. My philosophy resembles equal force, apply only what necessary pressure is required to any given situation.
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 08:50 PM
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Spestnaz, If you can find any of his vids they are the best. His channel was deleted or removed but some people have mirrors of his vids. I’ll get you a link. https://youtu.be/pgPCqKRvC0U
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 08:27 PM
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Not just that, Barbarossa one of the Mgtow founders stated if his work had saved just one mans life it would be worth it. I think this idea has saved more then one life. It saved mine, my whole world has changed since I started down this path.
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 08:23 PM
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You call them radicals, if they hate women they aren’t Mgtow. Incels hate women, Mgtow understand women and the courts and how they work against men. They chose to just live a great life not trying to run in that race.
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 08:19 PM
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These subs are a mixture of individuals, individuals that wouldn’t frequent these subs as much but Reddit has shutdown incel subs. Incels are concerned with hating women and such. The mods here control as much as they can but some individuals toe the line. I think most of the actual Mgtow have even gotten to the point of just by passing the hate women post and just focusing on self fulfilling post.
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 08:16 PM
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Go where you can make the most money for yourself. Since you don’t have your kids, and they have to travel to you anyways.
/r/MGTOW212/12/19 07:35 PM
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You will never regret improving yourself. Get to work on yourself, focus on you. Stop all your bad habits and build your life. https://youtu.be/tOYgiWEoJgs
/r/MGTOW204/12/19 02:19 PM
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Strong mind, strong body, strong soul. Work on increasing those things in your life, in tandem and you’ll see your confidence in everything increase.
/r/MGTOW204/12/19 01:59 PM
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They did have their own sub but it got banned.
/r/MGTOW204/12/19 01:56 PM
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Yourself
/r/MGTOW28/11/19 02:13 PM
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Believe it or not, your Dad has done you a huge service. You know and understand how to follow orders. I was in the same boat as you but it became a plus. Everyone will have a boss including people who own their own business, they have to answer to their customers or they will go somewhere else. You goal now is to understand your balance, what you will put up with and what you will not. Once you figure that out you are on your way to a great life. Imagine the other way, if you think you can just…
/r/MGTOW218/11/19 09:18 PM
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In the Rational male, Rollo calls it crabs in a bucket. If you have crabs in a bucket, the ones that almost get out will be pulled back into the bucket.
/r/MGTOW217/11/19 03:45 PM
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I’ve spent my life trying to give my kids a better chance at life then I had. Didn’t know it would turn out to be one of the best things I’d done. This is Mgtow, it would definitely been cheaper not have them and be inward focused. I didn’t find the manosphere till I was on the chopping block. So I did do the next best thing and make sure I did a good job at parenting.
/r/MGTOW216/11/19 06:57 PM
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I’ve never been a keep up with the Jones person, but have successful children you’ll see the envy just pour out of people. Who’d had known it would only take 18 years to figure it out.
/r/MGTOW216/11/19 06:51 PM
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Just say “I haven’t found the right one.” And if they press, “I really don’t want to settle.”
/r/MGTOW216/11/19 06:49 PM
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The kids that are getting the attention and extra parenting are the future successes. Just like anything in life, the more work you put into it the better chances for success. This includes parenting.
/r/MGTOW216/11/19 06:47 PM
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Strong body, strong mind, strong spirit, take it back to basics. Sounds like you need a huge dose of strong mind. Definitely keep reading and digesting everything related to the independence of yourself. Couple books you should read Jocko Willink extreme ownership Jordan Peterson 12 steps for life Eric Davis Raising men I was also raised by a narc mother, even now as a accomplished adult. With a complete life, not just material possessions but actual results of raising fully functional adults wh…
/r/MGTOW216/11/19 06:13 AM
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Probably the later, he’s white knighting in reverse. He wants to save you. I fault no man who doesn’t want to be in a relationship. It’s like anything in life, if you learn the hard way fine, but if you learn from someone else’s mistakes even better. Remember this quote as you grow . “The smart man learns from his mistakes, the wise man learns from others mistakes.”
/r/MGTOW202/11/19 10:23 AM
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Two books that you should go through. I didn’t have a father but I did try my best to not be like him and raised some good kids. These books seem to hit alot of lessons I’ve learned the hard way, right on the head. “A smart man learns from his mistakes. A wise man learns from others mistakes.” Jordan Peterson - 12 rules for life. Jocko Willink - Extreme Ownership
/r/MGTOW19/10/19 11:58 PM
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The only time I share this place is if it’s obviously a man who would benefit from the community. I’ve seen so many men turn around and see the light. They’ve gone from depressed loner to “this world is great.” They are smiling, happier men, they walk taller, dress better, they even take more care in grooming themselves. It’s a hell of a paradigm shift after you understand, “It’s ok. You don’t have to be attached to another person. You can live a wonderful life just loving yourself.”
/r/MGTOW202/10/19 01:59 PM
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You have to truly believe within yourself “It’s ok to not be with a women.” Go through a ton of material, stoicism, Theredpill, Mgtow, anything that can help you with developing a independent mindset.
/r/MGTOW213/09/19 03:30 AM
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Take care of the one person you now realize will always have your back. Get his mind in the right place, work hard so he has a cozy life, develop his physical body so when he’s older he’ll always be able to take care of himself. Enjoy loving yourself.
/r/MGTOW209/09/19 02:33 AM
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Ran into a new term to me, inner scorecard. The key to happiness is to be at peace with yourself. Keep up the good work, what will make you happy is being content and in love with yourself.
/r/MGTOW206/09/19 02:05 PM
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That’s the great thing about a trade and Mgtow, You can go where the work is.
/r/MGTOW05/09/19 03:05 AM
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I’ve seen this sentiment a lot, then you meet someone who may or may not be right for you. Then manipulates people into a situation that is total unhealthy. I have multiple family members who all said they didn’t want kids and then they fell into a true manipulators trap. Our biological urge to continue ourselves is very strong, make sure you understand yourself and if that starts arising either be able to snuff it out or beware you may be convincing yourself into the wrong situation and adjust …
/r/MGTOW230/08/19 02:05 PM
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It’s none of my business anymore. At the time I felt he told me because he wanted my take on it. Afterwards with other conversations he just needed someone to talk to.
/r/MGTOW226/08/19 01:31 AM
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Think about this, I was talking with a friend and he confesses his wife was cheating on him. She’s actually convinced him it was his fault. They are now in counseling, but she’s blaming him for her letting a guy dick her down, and he’s a mess for it. Then you try to help him by sending Redpill info and he says, “I’m not a blue pill.” Wtf, just stay in your lane and enjoy your life.
/r/MGTOW224/08/19 12:48 PM
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No fault marriages had a huge impact. If you are the cheater and ruin a good relationship you won’t be held accountable. They even get showered with prizes after they divorce rape their partner.
/r/MGTOW225/07/19 05:31 PM
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If you find getting with women is hard but you want to its quite easy. Take full responsibility for your life, grow yourself in every aspect of it. Strong mind, strong body, strong soul, after you’ve developed, you’ll attain the confidence that makes relationships work. The question you should always have after you’ve worked on yourself and built yourself up. “ This was so much work, do I want to share it with another person or can I live a great life alone.?” Mgtow answers this question for you…
/r/MGTOW224/07/19 03:29 AM
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So true, instagram is just Craigslist for humans. People want to get the most value for their item. The only problem is the 80/20 rule. That’s why std’s are on the rise.
/r/MGTOW14/07/19 02:13 PM
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I know it’s just a meme, but I have cats and they are great. They cleared out all my pack rats, their piss deters rattlesnakes, the little fuckers even eat spiders, Scorpions, and a whole array of other crap. I agree though, they are assholes and only come around to let you pet them when they are hungry.
/r/MGTOW11/07/19 01:56 AM
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Walmart’s 24hr or open super early. Go early as you possibly can. 6 to 8 is the sweet spot where I live. Shelves are stocked, fewer people and the cashiers are there.
/r/MGTOW10/07/19 12:21 PM
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You’re 18 years old and you stumbled onto this information. No kids, no wife, no alimony, no child support? You hit the jackpot my son. Use it to go through life, find validation in yourself. Have fun with women, don’t have fun with women. Just keep digesting all this information, it only gets better and better. I found this information late in life but it saved me in so many ways.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 01:08 PM
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That’s the truth, once you internalize it life becomes great. You are the one and only vehicle for yourself. No one cares about your pain. They sympathize with your pain but only you can help yourself.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 01:14 PM
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With daughters you have to raise them to be able to find a good mate. If you are successful they land a good one and that’s it. If not successful they can still land a good mate just monkey branch around. Men are stuck on their own, if they fail to realize the important of responsibility for themselves they are pretty much screwed until they can lift themselves out. On top of that if they are putting a women first, the majority of their gains go to relationship.
/r/MGTOW03/07/19 01:10 PM
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When I got kicked out, one of the guys at work let me stay at his place. Told me I could stay as long as I wanted. I’ll appreciate that man till the day I die. He opened his home to me, gave me a home. Turned out he had been married divorced 3 times. Only thing is he’s a alcoholic mess, so sad in his life. When I seen his life and what I was going through, I looked up to him. His life was so calm at night. He would relax drink and smoke till it was time to sleep. At the time I didn’t know Mgtow …
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 02:04 PM
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That isn’t how they met those men, that’s what happened to the men then they left. I’m sure if you asked the majority of those men they’ll all tell you, yeah that is what happened before she left me.
/r/MGTOW08/06/19 01:30 PM
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Every relationship in life is transactional, the sooner you accept that the sooner you can enjoy life as it is. The best thing about it, is men here are telling you how it is instead of learning it the hard way.
/r/MGTOW03/06/19 01:24 PM
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Being married is living life on hard mode. You can manage it but in order to be able to manage it effectively you have to be the best version of yourself. Sadly even sometimes that isn’t enough, hence Mgtow. Of course you can marry but Mgtow isn’t telling you what to do, just telling you there is another option. You don’t have to be someone’s mule. You can have a fulfilling life for yourself.
/r/MGTOW231/05/19 12:14 AM
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No, the best lessons in life are the ones you don’t have to learn the hard way.
/r/MGTOW223/05/19 05:52 AM
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Scanned through sidebar didn’t see recommended reading. I’d suggest go through some of the Redpill books. You have to be armed with knowledge or you may just fall into the same situation that you just got out of. No more Me nice guy, The Rationale Male, 48 laws of power. Mgtow Kiwi recommended a book called Iron John, it’s a fairytale with lessons book, if that’s your thing.
/r/MGTOW29/04/19 01:17 PM
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There are a lot of us that have real valid reasons why we remain in a relationship. But we have found Mgtow as a true salvation even though our circumstances do not allow us to truly be Mgtow. I was kicked out and living on my own and wondering why my life ended up the way it was going and I found Mgtow. After I accepted my life the way it was, she came begging me back. This was a women who had lost all respect for me basically shit on the person who I was but now all of a sudden wanted me back.…
/r/MGTOW222/04/19 12:50 AM
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Depends on what you want to use. Your brain or your body. In both you can find something lucrative, just keep honing your skills till you are at a comfortable work, living time balance. Time spent at work compared to money made. Since you don’t have the usual life holding you back from going your own way. You can travel and explore many more various avenues of employment that others can only dream of.
/r/MGTOW13/04/19 04:35 PM
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You sound like you are very stable with money. If you really want to start dating and make it easy. You have to work in the other avenues of your life. There is a point where you won’t have to chase women. They will start chasing you, money is very important but so is everything else. Especially in today’s age of everyone only puts out their highlight reel of their life. To make it easy you have to project you are a great catch. Are you are great catch? That doesn’t really matter just, you just …
/r/MGTOW213/04/19 04:04 PM
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One example in the manosphere people use is if parachutes worked 50% of the time would you jump out of a airplane? That’s the chance that you have, in certain scenarios it’s even worse and 85% of all divorces are initiated so of course all you see is rainbows and sunshine until it hits you like a ton of bricks.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 12:56 PM
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It’s only been a year, you’ve known her for 10 years. Give it time, there is a reason for AWALT. Also the saying “She’s never yours it’s just your turn.” You CAN have a good relationship with a women but you know can have a even better one with yourself. When we invest in ourselves we never have to worry about that investment going to waste. Head over to marriedredpill for relationship advice. Good luck, you’ll need it.
/r/MGTOW05/04/19 12:51 PM
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He put her name on his property last March. A little under a year she’s trying to cash out and made his life hard. So hard he goes back into drugs and takes his life. Learn your lessons Men.
/r/MGTOW05/03/19 12:37 PM
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Not all the men here listen, but most of them do. You are in good company.
/r/MGTOW06/02/19 03:17 AM
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I wish I had a mentor in my younger years, but if there was one there would I even listen. After living a life without this knowledge. I will say if you can get through to him you will have given your son a second chance at life. This is a downward spiral that if he gets caught in, it could ruin him. If you manage to get him out of this, start him on the path of self fulfillment. He has so much opportunity ahead of him, if he can avoid the mines.
/r/MGTOW30/01/19 12:47 PM
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When in Rome act like a Roman.
/r/MGTOW16/01/19 02:41 PM
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Building myself and just enjoying every minute. Life is so short but so full of wonderful things. You just have to stop following the hive mind and pay attention to life.
/r/MGTOW212/01/19 06:31 PM
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There is, it’s called redpillwomen. They discuss being with redpilled women and supporting their captain.
/r/MGTOW212/01/19 06:28 PM
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I don’t think it’s on purpose, most of us were just raised that way by society. Wholly shit the light bulb was burning bright the day I seen it. “It’s ok to live for myself?” And “You mean I don’t have to always take care of someone?” I helped so many men move forward in their lives and stop that thinking. They all say, “If I’d just found a better women.” My response, “Let me tell you a thing or two.” It always ends with me explaining how we are the ones who have a ton of value.
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 06:20 PM
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You bring up a great question. Maybe not completely abstain from it but definitely I’d place some limit to the amount I’d pay. If their partner was a decent human being I’d be for helping. One kid I have their partners great, another of my kids I haven’t even met them so why should I pitch in, and if I do meet them they could be a asshole.
/r/MGTOW225/12/18 01:22 PM
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How is living life for yourself bad? A Mgtow man doing his own thing, living his life for himself is a beautiful thing. I cook for myself, I clean for myself, I work for myself, I live for myself and have many friendships but I just focus on myself. It just takes the servitude out of a good man who is tired of giving his life for people who don’t really appreciate the workhorse, just what the workhorse can give them. The great thing about being a human workhorse, wholly shit do I make a lot for …
/r/MGTOW25/12/18 11:40 AM
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Mgtow is the answer for most men’s problems. Even if it’s just a short term affair with the idea. You’ll grow yourself and look at the world in a completely different way. It’s just a emotional response they give, them: “Mgtow bad!!”, Me: “Why?” Them: “Idk, it just is.”
/r/MGTOW22/12/18 12:53 PM
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Two options I seen which would work. Start telling her you love her so much, and other crap just go super needy. Or be just be super aloof and never come home start selling all your stuff. Say your losing your job in a couple weeks and you gonna be broke soon so she’ll have to start paying for everything. She’ll eventually leave you for someone else. Or she’ll really start treating you bad and then you can leave without any guilt because she’s so abusive.
/r/MGTOW15/12/18 11:59 PM
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Yeah I liked all his videos, didn’t download, always on mobile.
/r/MGTOW12/12/18 03:18 PM
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I have been thinking about this a lot. I’ve tried to enjoy the simpler things in life more. Your right repairing things, but also nature and all it’s beauty. What other things can we do as an individual? What gives a person a fulfilling life? I’ve raised a couple girls to adulthood, but now I’m suppose to see the benefits of my works. After all that work I’ve realized, there is some regret but what could I have done to have no regret? Invest in yourselves, 10 years from now you’ll never say I sh…
/r/MGTOW229/10/18 01:38 PM
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Good for you, go through “The Rationale Male, No Mr Nice Guy, and 48 Laws of Power.” Those books will give you another view of society and some ideas of where your at in it.
/r/MGTOW20/10/18 03:09 PM
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Go through this guys catalog of videos. I was in a bad spot a couple years ago and they gave me a new perspective. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW02/10/18 02:17 PM
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I went through the 1 hr video you linked and it stated this gentlemen had lived in Japan for long amount of time. It was just a explanation of why herbivore men exist. Also the study he was using stated that 75% of the studied men identified as “Grass eating men,” herbivore men. It was mainly him commenting on photos from ads. Maybe you linked the wrong video.
/r/MGTOW10/09/18 08:14 PM
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I commented on a path you could take but also. Get away from a single mother your too good for that. Your living in a scarcity mentality, you have to live with abundance mentality. Another gentlemen you should digest and digest fast before you find yourself paying child support for some kid that isn’t yours. Mr Tom, leykis” Here a link of one https://youtu.be/sESMzXEPSps
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 12:22 AM
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Your here but you haven’t digested the material. You would understand all these feelings within yourself. If you want to find the answers you’ll have to look for them. They are here. Read “The Ratinale Male.” “No more Mr nice guy.” After you see all the issues, then become a better version of yourself. Read “48 laws of power.” That’s where to start but the information out there is endless. For a jump start listen to Spesnatz YouTube videos.
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 12:16 AM
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However your drive is you don’t have to act on it or do it’s up to you. Just be safe and if you’ve studied the material life shouldn’t be so difficult.
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 12:10 AM
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There is a lot of women bashing going on. It’s not the point of Mgtow or Redpill thinking. What it does is give fuel to people who say Mgtow is a women hate group but how can you compete with all those post. It could also be trolls purposely pushing it towards a more radical view to eventually get it shutdown.
/r/MGTOW208/09/18 12:06 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with having boundaries. It isn’t your child and people expecting you too handle the situation are ridiculous. Your 19 years old, go out and enjoy the world but always be aware look at the bullet you just dodged. Never take it for granted, good luck.
/r/MGTOW04/09/18 05:53 AM
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That’s what makes the Mgtow mindset so beautiful. Before a man would feel lost and alone because society was always telling you through everything “You need a partner,” “You need, blah, blah.” That’s why suicide rates are so high among men. Once you start seeing those numbers start to drop you’ll know Mgtow is working. In Japan they have a similar philosophy, “Herbivore men.” Now it’s getting bigger and bigger and the idea of improving yourself and taking care of you is one of the greatest conce…
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 05:57 PM
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She’s gaslighting, it’s a feminine tactic, weaker men also use it.
/r/MGTOW26/08/18 04:42 AM
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Sad to see it, I talk with these guys all the time. They get no sex, treated like shit but then you ask them about it. “I’d be lonely without a women.” Then we continue to work a twelve hour day, while his wife is at home spending all his money so he has to continue working twelve hour day till he fucking dies.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 01:21 PM
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If this is true society is constantly going to have the bar lowered because too smart of a man is high maintenance.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 01:13 PM
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The problem is learning how to control those urges. Your lucky, you’ve mastered your addiction. Most addicts can’t just take a little taste. Once a man gets a great piece of ass, or for some men once they just get a piece of ass they want more and more.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 01:05 PM
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This right here, because simping like this harbors these attitudes. If men understood the game it would change for them. Men understand your worth and never settle for bullshit.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 12:52 PM
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It’s a sad state of affairs when the 80/20 rule is in full effect. They just don’t want the rest to realize you’re just here for resources.
/r/MGTOW25/08/18 12:46 PM
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You may live in a really great community or your just seeing the surface of everything. That’s why I browse the divorce sub. So many stories about relationships where one person thought everything was ok and the next thing you know they are getting hit with divorce.
/r/MGTOW225/08/18 05:56 AM
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Yes, it exists but it should be directed inwards. The one person you can always rely on is yourself. The one person you will never regret investing time in, is yourself. Same with loving someone, you will never regret loving yourself.
/r/MGTOW225/08/18 05:51 AM
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Here’s one of my favorite videos to help you with your mindset. https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DScHA
/r/MGTOW225/08/18 05:45 AM
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He’s not Mgtow but his information has been priceless to the manosphere. His book was a combination of trial and error and years of back and forth on the sosauve blog. Without all that information all these men groups would just be the opposite of feminism. Instead you can see the actual reasoning amongst all the different mindsets in TRP.
/r/MGTOW225/08/18 05:39 AM
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Good find, I’m subscribed but I haven’t listened to this one yet.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 01:59 PM
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He’s been through a tough divorce himself. It may just be a front, like Mgtow lite with the hopes that men will see beyond the mirage and be truly careful. There is so much information to consume, hopefully men will get started on that spectrum and head towards the light.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 01:57 PM
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I occasionally comment in the divorce sub, they haven’t banned me yet but they down vote my stuff. I just post there so other men will see there are other options. I’ve had quite a few thank me.
/r/MGTOW24/08/18 05:47 AM
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You’ve found the truths laid out in Themarriedredpill. There is so much that you’ve touched on, Idk if you’ve read the material but congratulations. Improve yourself, keep the hamster caffeinated and seek peace.
/r/MGTOW219/08/18 01:01 AM
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Read “48 laws of power,” and practice it in your life. The possibilities are endless, there are so many books on these subjects now that it will take years before you master them.
/r/MGTOW16/08/18 12:10 AM
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It’s the least I could do for the life I’ve been given with this.
/r/MGTOW212/08/18 03:15 AM
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Thanks
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 04:40 PM
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There is so much that can go wrong. It’s like working on a car, would you just jump in and start taking shit off if your fixing it? Mgtows more of a car manual, “this is how it works, if this breaks here’s what you do.” You’re underestimating just how much damage can happen to men nowadays without good teachings.
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 01:59 PM
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This material is life altering, if a young man were to really dive into all the teachings you wouldn’t have to worry. Your getting Mgtow monk mode confused with Mgtow. A monk doesn’t want to be involved with women. Mgtow man is just going his own way building himself up. You don’t have to swear off women but you do have to be aware of all the trappings that are out there. At the core of TRP are a few books that are must reads. That’s why in TRP if someone seems to not understand the concepts the…
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 01:55 PM
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Unhealthy I agree, if you’re worried about maintaining healthy relationships. But this is the perfect scenario for females to gather as many eyes and search for the best possible option, including while they are already in a relationship. The problem arises when we start to look at the long term. STD rates are on the rise, divorce rates are on the rise, marriage is on the decline, single motherhood has increased drastically. I’m sure there are many more negative side effects but like any other i…
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 01:45 PM
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I have a friend who’s Mgtow with a dash of TRP. He pumps and dumps women, a lot of the women he dates are introduced by other women trying to find him a partner. Just tell her your waiting for a particular female. Unless you enjoy the attention you’re getting, then continue the chase.
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 01:33 PM
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Have you read “No more Mr Nice guy?.” That’s the book where the term is more defined, it’s one thing to be nice. Even doing things for people because you truly want to but it’s another to be taking advantage of, wether knowingly or unknowing. It’s a really good book, it’s one of the required readings to help you with your mindset. Certain parts get repetitive but as a whole it makes a lot of good points.
/r/MGTOW211/08/18 01:28 PM
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Tell them you haven’t found the right women yet. If they push further just say “You don’t want me to settle for any women do you?”
/r/MGTOW208/08/18 11:55 AM
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Mgtow has men of all levels in it. But if you truly do need to have a relationship TheMarriedredpill has lots of information on controlling a relationship. One of the most important steps with women is vetting properly. If your a high value man never date down, never accept less then your worth. Entrepreneurs in cars has a lot of videos on vetting women and who not to date, signs to look for and such. Good luck
/r/MGTOW206/08/18 01:11 PM
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You are a prime example of “The best mistakes are the ones you learn from someone else.” Good job son holding your ground. My father had a ton of kids and he raised none. I’m one of his only sons who talks with him, he’s getting near death. All he has is regret, to this day he can barely admit his failings but when he does he sobs heavily. Your father may come around but if he doesn’t always appreciate this lesson he’s taught you and if you ever do have a son never let a women come between you a…
/r/MGTOW206/08/18 01:04 PM
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You won’t find true happiness in anyone else, true happiness comes from within.
/r/MGTOW206/08/18 12:52 PM
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That’s the beginning phase, it’s called Redpill rage. It’s realizing your whole life you’ve been lied too and you just need to vent. It may be different men in varying stages of acceptance. I joined The Mgtow sub at 20k, imagine men just walking into the door. There’s gonna be new guys at 100k and so forth. Everyone’s different and this is a tough subject for men. Some men won’t even admit they’ve fucked up. Even you to a varying degree you need something, maybe this back and forth here is doing…
/r/MGTOW205/08/18 01:30 AM
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You sound like a women, your generalizing all these men and then your stirring up shit for no reason. Sounds like you need some attention. This whole post is you crying, just go back and read everything you have commented. For someone who’s going his way and not giving a fuck. You sure are worried about all these men. You don’t want men to complain about female nature but it’s ok for you to complain about the men?
/r/MGTOW204/08/18 08:37 PM
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It’s 65000 people on there now. Mgtow is taking care of yourself first and fore most. Some of it is a mix of incels and TFL men, they are there only because there subs got shutdown and the Mgtow mods are doing there best at keeping the bannable stuff out but the more milder stuff gets left up.
/r/MGTOW204/08/18 05:04 PM
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Your defending women and their nature. I see what happened, why you got banned. You haven’t taken TRP yet, I haven’t read through your history but I’m sure it’s filled with a lot of white knighting. It doesn’t bother me, but a lot of men come to these subs to enjoy the echo. Not the arguing we have to do in other subs. I made one comment that was very positive but tried to steer the man to Mgtow and Themarriedredpill, I was put on a stake. You haven’t even begun to understand what Mgtow preaches…
/r/MGTOW204/08/18 04:58 PM
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The sad part is the men getting burned are only a sub away from finding true answers. For some reason they don’t want them to find these subs...hmmm
/r/MGTOW04/08/18 02:54 PM
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Mgtow likes to shit on TRP but one of their mottos is “she never yours, it’s just your turn.” On the other side of the coin Mgtow is absolutely correct “Don’t even play the game. It’s the safest option.” It just depends on how bad you need a women. Either way, these subs have been changing lives for the better.
/r/MGTOW203/08/18 04:40 PM
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I’ll check that out
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 07:56 PM
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“48 laws of power,” the mind is our strongest tool.
/r/MGTOW02/08/18 03:08 AM
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I’m subbed to any good men subs I can find. They all have there good and bad. You have to take a little bit from each one and grow your self. I agree with the three main ones I read not in their entirety but each has its own special ideals. TRP has the teachings on how to be a sought after man, but you don’t have to be making yourself better for a women per se but you do have to do it for yourself. The marriedredpill, has a ton of stuff about how to maintain a relationship, wether married or jus…
/r/MGTOW202/08/18 12:03 AM
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I’ve lived both sides of the coin and what causes division is weak leadership. No matter who is in the pot. Anti white, anti immigrant whatever, strong leadership matters most. I’ve worked in many organizations and seen first hand, strong hand creates a strong unit. My current organization is filled with all types of men but mainly strong men. Let me tell you, it’s a beautiful thing.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 01:27 PM
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Focus on these three things in your life. Strong mind, constantly develop your mind schooling, skills, etc. Strong body, keep your body in shape and ready for everything life throws at you or everything you want to go through. Strong soul, be content to be by yourself, and not just cancerous women, cancerous men, cancerous jobs, be able to walk away from anything that has a negative affect in your life.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 01:12 PM
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You have to find happiness within yourself. It’s ok to be alone, my job is a very isolated I never realized just how great it was. Now that I understand how to move through life, I believe I’m just more of a whole individual. Loneliness is a side effect of you being bored with yourself, adding someone or something to it will only be a temporary fix. That’s why a lot of relationships are so sporadic. Keep working on yourself and eventually your gonna find out who you are, what you like, what you …
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 01:04 PM
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Don’t chase women, be the man that women chase. Focus on your futures and life goals that build yourself up. The one person you can always invest in and never regret is yourself.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 12:47 PM
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Not only is it ok to be alone but it’s very beneficial to a man to be alone.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 12:40 PM
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Imagine what you could get with 5k, and this dudes spending it just so maybe his wife will appreciate it...
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 03:02 AM
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Other people’s lives shouldn’t bother you so much. In my work place I listen to the other men’s stories all the time. It just deepens my resolve for the peace I’ve built for myself. The red pill doesn’t just help you with understanding women but also understanding feminine men, or bluepill men being controlled by society. Example, I have a supervisor whose wife makes his life a living hell. The trick is she’s treating him like shit until he can save up enough cash to take her on another vacation…
/r/MGTOW28/07/18 01:32 PM
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I did this for years, until everyone turned on me because I was burnt out and didn’t think I needed to give more then I already paid. It was the best thing that happened to me. Stopped shoveling money to my family. I was able to buy my own house and have plenty left over. The kicker is mom came asking for money again. I was completely on my own and didn’t want to take from my savings “My just in case fund.” Told her no. Low and behold my parents got divorced, turns out she was funding his gambli…
/r/askTRP27/07/18 02:02 PM
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Right here, https://youtu.be/dyenSX4XSZA
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 03:12 PM
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Great books to start with, “No more Mr nice guy,” “The Rationale Male,” “48 laws of power.” Great videos to start with, go through Spestnaz whole catalog of videos. Repeat reading and listening until everything is cataloged in your brain. Then enjoy your life.
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 02:44 PM
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So many men after divorces were accused of being the reason for the situation. Now with Mgtow its a breath of fresh air to see it for what it really is.
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 02:40 PM
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He may already know, your Dads in your life so that’s a plus. Use this opportunity to better yourself and move forward. He may just be holding on for you. Hopefully your the youngest and once your gone and on your own then drop the bomb on him. That way he can just leave and not have to worry about his baby boy. Of course your mom will deny it, she’ll hamster it to just a emotional affair.
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 02:21 PM
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I call most men brother now, it’s just became my thing. They have no idea even if they are lost blue pillers, I still feel for them in some way.
/r/MGTOW15/07/18 04:55 AM
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Or she had a shitty life and then you bring her into your fold and she replaces everything in your life.
/r/MGTOW04/07/18 08:52 AM
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Glad your making it, good luck. It’s amazing how easy they will replace you. Women are wired that way, they’ve always been the weaker sex so if a bigger better option comes along their brains need to be able to change lanes quickly. In “The Rationale Male,” they call it War brides.
/r/MGTOW04/07/18 08:48 AM
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Oh he payed, that’s what is really stupid. He paid a shit load of support and then never seen the kids. He has a bunch of hardworking tradesmen sons but none talk to him, so he pays strangers for everything.
/r/MGTOW03/07/18 04:11 PM
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Continually grow yourself, learn everything about everything. Read all the books suggested within these subs. Not just Mgtow, but TRP also. Two great ones to start with “The Rationale Male,” and “48 laws of power.” Strong body, strong mind, strong soul, it’s life changing I promise.
/r/MGTOW03/07/18 02:43 PM
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My Dad is a real pc of work, he liked to tell me how life works blah blah. I got him to stop by just being up front with him. There was a couple times that he threw a tantrum and hung up on me but it eventually leveled out and our conversations now just consist of how’s the day and such. He left me when I was 5, I got raised by single mother. I fell into all the traps of a blue pilled Mamas boy. Looking at what he did with his life I’ve now learned his life was a big fucking mistake. 2 failed ma…
/r/MGTOW03/07/18 02:40 PM
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Agreed, you have to hold your ground and don’t ride their emotional wave and they are like putty. Be respectful but firm and that gets the job done. In my job I deal with agitated women on a daily basis, I’ve been doing it so long it’s a game. How fast can I calm them down, get them to be cooperative, end game finish my task.
/r/MGTOW03/07/18 02:23 PM
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Tradesmen here, my motto is smooth is steady. Work on the application of the process and speed will come with practice. Of course always be mindful of time.
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 02:17 PM
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Small project? If you could put the teachings into digestible words it would be huge.
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 02:14 PM
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The main focus in your life should be focusing on building yourself up. Do things that will build you as a man. Acquire skills that will help you through life. Even if you decide to not go full monk Mgtow. Learn everything you can about the pit falls of dating. What to look out for, TRP teachings help with everything in life not just with women.
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 02:13 PM
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More men need this information, Mgtow isn’t some select circle. It’s part of the manosphere which is the subset related to Redpill thinking and living. Strong body, strong mind, strong soul in order for a man to live a enlightened life he needs this information. Any suicide the information in this sub helps prevent is a win. Barbarossa had said if he just saves one mans life with this information he’d had done his job. Look at these numbers I think the founding fathers have saved more then one l…
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 02:01 PM
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I have one, raised her to be independent and self sufficient. She’s doing great, works hard, pays for all her own stuff lives on her own. She’s mine 100%, no one can ever take her away from me. I know Mgtow bashes having kids but after going through it, once you’ve finished and looking back on it it’s great to see her go out and be productive in the world. Could I have done other things with my time, life, money? Of course but I took responsibility for her and raised her to the best of my abilit…
/r/MGTOW29/05/18 03:34 AM
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You have all this great information and you’ve been shown numerous times by this women and her motives yet you think it’s different with you. You’re in a great place, you have a decent career you have no baggage. I’d say a ton of men here would die to be in your situation. Yet your wasting it dealing with a women who treats you like crap. Definitely head over to TRP if you want to continue dating women. Mgtow is about building yourself up and realizing the deal you’ve been told is the only optio…
/r/MGTOW15/05/18 12:44 AM
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When I was having my rocky times I found a YouTuber Spetsnaz that literally changed my life. The content within his videos are very deep and extremely informative. It’s a Mgtow course in its own right. Go through his whole catalog, there are a few that are very niche like dealing with child abuse and suicide but the majority deal with all mens problems. I’ll link one of my favorites, good luck. https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DScHA
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 06:53 PM
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Focus all your efforts inward, working on yourself in all aspects of life. I’ve been building everything about myself up. One thing that it has given me above everything else is confidence. Strong body to have the confidence that you are physically capable of everything you’d like to do. Strong mind to be able to constantly grasp all things that peek your interest. Also give you all the tools necessary to gain your financial desires. Strong soul, this is probably the most important but all are n…
/r/MGTOW22/04/18 02:36 PM
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Exactly this, my relationship of many years took a bad turn and I found myself lost and alone. I was living in a studio apartment, 20 years down the tube and all I had to show for it was some kids that I might be able to see occasionally. I looked all over for answers and that’s what brought me here. I actually discovered Mgtow content first before I seen any information about TRP. I kept searching and felt the same way a lot of Mgtow felt. The creators I was listening too talked about don’t hav…
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 02:47 PM
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It seems kinda rough doesn’t it? I think that’s what you need to hear though. Some men are here because of a bad relationship and are here to pass on the story of the bullshit we went through so other men don’t have to suffer. You, you suffered but you hopped right back into that game thinking this new girl will be different. Mgtow will teach you Awalt, because eventually they all show their true colors. Let me tell you a little secret, “you don’t need a women to be happy in life.” That’s the wh…
/r/MGTOW20/04/18 12:09 AM
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Grew up in a rough neighborhood, never let anyone walk up on you without being aware and ready. I learned this lesson the hard way, doesn’t matter if your a pacifist the other guy isn’t and won’t care.
/r/MGTOW13/04/18 12:36 PM
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Your a college student so your income is extremely low. There won’t be a better time in your life to get a divorce. Don’t get her pregnant, pay her to move back to her family. Walk away with your head low and your heart sadden. Then after she’s not looking and safely out of your life. Give a big fucken sigh of relief. Finish your schooling, become a officer in the marines and do your 20 and don’t get another suzy rotten crotch. “Dog on, do you understand me?”
/r/MGTOW04/04/18 11:03 PM
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For myself it’s the urge of desire for women that fucked me up for years. I never shamed other men for not wanting to be with a women but I was always working for a women. I’m a decent looking man and get plenty of attention, mix that with the urges and I was fucked. You guys that can meet a hot women that’s into you and walk away, I applaud you.
/r/MGTOW04/04/18 10:48 PM
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Getting older now had the house, bills that come with it and upkeep. I was seriously looking into buying a small trailer and renting at a trailer park. You could move your house as you see fit. Seen parks near beach real reasonable. They have them really decent on Craigslist. With the money you save you could do a lot and if you ever wanna treat yourself hotels.com a nite. Get a gym membership at a place that has great showers.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:14 AM
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Have you been outside lately...Good luck with that.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 05:26 PM
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This is the perfect law for those men who get harassed about not being in a relationship.
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 06:03 PM
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You don’t need anyone. You just need you, work on you. Read all the lessons here, become a independent man. After living a life of independence my daily life attracts like minded individuals. It’s true the conversation is more fulfilling with a man doing his own thing. Be aware that once you become a high value man, low value men will try and see a chink in your armor. Good luck
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 05:58 PM
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He knows the risk, but he lives life the way he chooses to. Mgtow is one of a few philosophies on how men should move forward in today’s society. Is it the safest? By far and without a doubt the safest. Some of us had children already before we found the Red Pill, others were already married and the relationship was getting stale “Aka,” she was ready to move on. Either way the men here have looked for these teachings one way or another. Would I have liked to have found these teachings sooner in …
/r/MGTOW28/03/18 05:49 PM
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Here it is, a video I always go back too from time to time. When I accepted life isn’t the way I thought it was I searched many areas until I found the manosphere. I stumbled upon this beautiful video, it helped me jump start my life. I hope it does the same for you. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW15/03/18 12:31 AM
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Actually this is a good thing. Imagine if you started fucking her and she tried to pin the kid on you. Good riddance, with women if you just give them time they’ll show you a hint of what’s behind the curtain. Some are good at hiding it, those are the real dangerous ones.
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 06:10 PM
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It seems like you may be tormenting yourself. Mgtow doesn’t have to be pain, hate, depression, or apathy. This is definitely a great start because eventually you’ll be done building your mindset. Getting setup without having a bunch of bullshit holding you down will be a way better position then a lot of us here. Strong mind is my number one rule out of everything that is learned here. With a strong mind you can conquer and enjoy yourself. If anyone is having these feelings I’d say go through Sp…
/r/MGTOW14/03/18 01:41 PM
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Beautiful post, the only part that’s missing, mindset. When a man has all this, he’s ripe for the picking for some leech to come cozy up and latch onto him. You know as well as I do do that fucken little head has a lot of control over our decisions. Going against our instinctual drive to fuck and spread our seed is and always will be a road block to our success. The young men here need to be prepared for this. Getting laid is a hell of a drug.
/r/MGTOW13/03/18 01:01 AM
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There is a reason son, your a male making your way in the world. That’s enough for some people to take a shit on your life. My kids are honor students and very independent, just plain badasses in life. I can’t share my story with very many people. All it does is create resentment, I can feel the whole conversation just change if anything is said. So many people are so completely fucking unsatisfied in life they are just waiting to shit on others. Social media has just compounded this problem for…
/r/MGTOW13/03/18 12:40 AM
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That’s exactly what’s wrong about this whole metoo deal. He won’t be charged for groping anyone it’s a whole he said she said deal. There is also statue of limitations, it is sad that social media can put people in situations like this even false claims become true. Tons of people have been fired or refused employment but how many people are actually getting convicted? As far as I’ve seen just men’s lives have been ruined due to these allegations.
/r/MGTOW13/03/18 12:35 AM
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You may be able to make it, I hope so for your kids sake. Just the statistics are against you my friend 3 out of every 4 marriages fail. Your already in the situation so make the best of it. I’d say focus on your life, why are you here trying to validate your relationship. Your wasting time with men that are working on themselves. I’m in a relationship, I found this place because after two decades she decided she was gonna tell me to get out of our house. I’m the type of person if I’m not needed…
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 10:59 PM
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Your new here aren’t you? Keep reading, a lot the men here have their reasons. You’ll see some stories here that will hurt you deep. You act like you and your wife are the only ones in a relationship. Millions of men have had partners, and millions have dealt with women. Men still need a women’s touch, for those that are able to go without more power too them but most will need the touch of a women. If not always at least long enough to feel satisfied. It’s a whole system that men want to see ch…
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 09:15 AM
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Good luck with that, I have a partner that lived a very Redpill lifestyle. We’ve been friends for two decades. I always complimented him on his life. He was so lucky to be my age with no kids, he has a good job, he has residual income and works his ass off. Told him never settle down, especially stay away from single moms. Always telling me he understood, even occasionally tells me to mind my own issues. Low and be hold, he got a single mom pregnant. Oh did the issues start with him, i took a st…
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 07:32 AM
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Quit your job, can’t remember the post. Once they see there’s no money to be taken they change there tune. If the relationships dead what difference does it make that you have no money. Get fired, make it look like you got canned. Anything before the courts get their hooks in you. Afterwards it’s the reverse, you lose your job? Good luck getting payments reduced before your in the whole a couple grand.
/r/MGTOW07/03/18 07:22 AM
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Tradesmen here you absolutely right. We may not be rich but my stomach is full every night. But the work, it’s not monotonous. The enjoyment and enlighten life you live with using your body in a productive manner is priceless. I’m middle age and my body is still looks good in T-shirt doing another job idk how id fair. Sitting at a desk all day makes many men soft, some are able to maintain a physique but mine can use a sledge hammer.
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 03:13 PM
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Hello, your here? Nice to see you, we apologize that one of our raging brothers offended you. He may have just found out how the world works and it angers him. I assure you, myself included are good men and we have withdrawn from the bluepill programming. Some of us do not engage at all with women but others move through with this knowledge and navigate the waters as such.
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 03:05 PM
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Truth bomb that worked, badass. Some of you men here will be able to save others from those shitty fates. You my friend deserve a beer. Once you get outside the box, and your mindset really switches. You stop playing the game, and observing the game, then you’ll win.
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 03:02 PM
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It’s great you can pull yourself away from the game but some men need that companionship. In order to truly be happy inside you have to find peace within yourself. Always remember, if you do fail on your wishes and can’t be content with being alone. TRP is there helping beta bucks be more Chad like. I’d rather a man go into battle with training instead of being junkie who just needs another fix, because then your really gonna get screwed.
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 02:58 PM
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All of the men I know, their misery has been caused by their choice of women. That has been my advice for years to men. The most important decision in life, isn’t where you live, what you drive, even what you do, but who you choose as a partner. Now after my bluepill life has been shattered by fucken truth bombs, the question men need to ask. How can you live your life without a women making you feel fulfilled? This goes both ways, men who are in a relationship need to be as independent as possi…
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 02:53 PM
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This is great advice, nice how you try and not make a big deal about your decision. Some people want to make a big deal that they aren’t into women. Think about people who want to always talk about their sexual orientation, or their married life, or kids, attention seeking for withdrawing isn’t any different. You’ll even notice how the world works. The less interest you are into others the more interest you are too others. If that’s what your going for. This whole strategy is recommended in TRP …
/r/MGTOW06/03/18 02:46 PM
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Tbh, it never crossed my mind until I ran across these subs. Think about it, how many of us really sat there and said you know what I don’t need women. All they do is make more work for me. Want a girlfriend? Yes, then get a job and make money and buy stuff. Want to keep her? Yep, we’ll make more money acquire more shit to show her you’re cool, buy a car or two, shit get a bigger house for her to live in. Next you want to spread your seed don’t you? Yes, yes, this pussy feels so great let me mak…
/r/MGTOW05/03/18 05:18 AM
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There are different phases of TRP acceptance. Some of the men that are just pissed and have their reasons. That’s the early phase, they feel it’s wrong and feel anger is the key, “fuck you women, you’ve made my life hell so I hate you.” Well that is what we as mature men have to work through. Take a step back and think about it. That’s a victim mentality, true Mgtow men aren’t victims. Once you truly push through all that and are at peace with yourself. The true and final goal of Mgtow is peace …
/r/MGTOW204/03/18 08:50 PM
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Feel for you brother, even biological kids are assholes. That’s why the men here with no kids have no idea how much of a blessing they are doing themselves. You raise these little fuckers, protect them, feed them, nurture them. What do we get afterwards? A fucken kick in the pants. Only advice I can tell men with kids. Which worked great for me. Promise nothing, tell them when they become adults they are on their own. Do not become your child’s friend, under no circumstances allow them to think …
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 03:16 PM
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Good you made it out. Now mold yourself through lessons. Read through, “The Rationale Male,” and “No more mr nice guy.” Good luck
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 03:10 PM
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I’m the reverse of this to men who have their shit together. I’m like a middle aged Wanna be Yoda. No one has any idea I’m on this sub. After I congratulate them on being so fucken smart and keep it up. They’ll confide in me and tell me how all other men will tell them they need to settle down. I’ll give them a quick lesson from the “Rationale Male.” “They are just like crabs in a barrel, they see you climbing out of the shit they are in and they want you inside with them.”
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 03:04 PM
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Glad to see you found this place. First thing read “The Rationale Male,” you will really pull the curtain back. It’s a great book of information about gender relations.
/r/MGTOW23/02/18 02:57 PM
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Looking back on my decision for kids I was like She’s good looking, it feels good why not. Oh how I should of thought about so much more. If we added a female twist to it men should have kids only if they really want kids and to really think about the kind of child your making. Like the same way they look at us as far as financial gain we should see them as what kind of traits are they gonna give our kids. My father had a ton of kids but he left them all over the place and paid for it. He’s old …
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 02:12 PM
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It’s a hard pill to swallow when you realize how much worth you have and the way you used to just give it away. Once you realize the way the rules are laid out and how everyone was just happy to let you do your thing and just get everything you had to give. The really sad part is the men who work the hardest to give the most are the men who will get shit on the worst. Some men may never see it but just falter once and you’ll see it, let that stream of resources stop and watch all the smiles turn…
/r/MGTOW05/02/18 05:57 AM
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One of the best books subscribed around here “No more Mr. Nice guy.” Excellent information in there, could help you a bit. Check it out when you get the chance.
/r/MGTOW27/01/18 03:15 AM
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Keep working on yourself, stay away from substances. Find the inner piece, accept that all a man needs is his health and his mission. Work on maintaining that and I hope it comes together for you.
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 11:56 PM
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Good luck, glad you found this place.
/r/MGTOW24/01/18 11:54 PM
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Any women can be a unicorn to the right male. But remember awalt, eventually you won’t be the right male. TRP teaches how to raise attraction levels to the highest possible for each males individual case. Also how to enhance your arousal levels which are harder and the process is a lot longer to help. A lot of us men know this and how to do it, or are doing it for ourselves but as they say, “The juice isn’t worth the squeeze.” That’s why it’s going your own way, men are choosing to walk away.
/r/MGTOW19/01/18 10:53 PM
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Mgtow is a beautiful thing, there is nothing wrong with putting ourselves first. Mgtow growing is great for quality of living for all men. If just one man takes his life by the reins and enjoys his life because of this sub I’d say we all have done a great service. Guess what? It’s more then just one man. I’ll link a story I just seen a couple days ago and it was absolutely gorgeous. The list goes on and on, I’m sure you’ve seen a ton post just like this one. You don’t have to go monk mode Mgtow …
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 08:17 PM
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Good job on standing up for yourself. It’s a sad fact but most women or as Mgtow says AWALT see us men as a utility. Something to be used for everything we can possibly offer and after they are done discarded with the weekly trash pickup. I’d like to share a video with you that’s a primer for seeing life with your new eyes. I link these videos because they say so much more then what I could ever get across. Take care and this is just the beginning of a new life for you. https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DS…
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 08:03 PM
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Spetsnaz is free, his content is on YouTube. His videos are some of the best mindset material I’ve ever listened too. Go through his whole catalog if you really want help. I’ll post one of my favorites, I’d be happy to link any other topic he has available. A lot of us here HAVE hit rock bottom. We aren’t some men trying to tell you to cheer up life gets better. We’ve been there, the suicide thoughts, the alcohol, the slow burn, the self hate. At some point you going to be honest with yourself a…
/r/MGTOW15/01/18 07:56 PM
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I’d like to add to this. Avoid bluepilled men, as you grow in your understanding of how it is you’ll notice them easy. The real whiny ones are the most taxing, especially at work. The guys that are super insecure, they can all be draining. Basically any man who acts more like a women then man.
/r/MGTOW14/01/18 12:39 AM
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Sounds like your families in a rough patch of life. Idk your whole story, if this is just a phase or does your family just make bad decision? Either way take care of yourself and try not to get involved with anyone’s else’s mess. Life’s hard enough without dealing with other people’s fucked up situations.
/r/MGTOW13/01/18 07:00 PM
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I’ve seen a lot of comments here telling you to get help. If you don’t go there at least try, try and understand yourself. I’ve been telling men such as yourself who are in this situation. Go through spesnatz whole catalog of videos. That would be the best place to start, get your mind straight. Then after, after your fear of failure has dissipated, learn to love yourself. Really love yourself, we get one life to live, live it with you in mind.
/r/MGTOW13/01/18 12:56 AM
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No kids? You lucky fucker.
/r/MGTOW12/01/18 04:12 PM
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This is why I enjoy coming to this sub. I see questions I’ve had to answer and work through. It took me lots of effort to conquer my demons. There are still a ton within me but I’ve been able to move past the most detrimental. Maybe some insight might help you on your path. After seeing your post I went through a video on rage. I’ve gone through it many times but this time it answered a question for myself that had come up. One quote which struck me hard was, “How can you expect compassion from …
/r/MGTOW12/01/18 03:58 PM
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Yeah your father, other men.
/r/MGTOW12/01/18 03:38 PM
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They are still plugged in. They just think that’s the way to be. Men living life like we have for years, breed, work, die. It’s operating on the expectation that men are just a utility and we are meant to provide and sacrifice for no reason other then to do it. Glad you’ve been able to see the light at such a young age. Good luck
/r/MGTOW12/01/18 02:34 PM
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I have a family and found out how easily I could lose mine. I love my kids and knowing I helped them grow and become something good makes me feel good. The thing about kids, is they are yours. As long as you take care of them they will never have another father. A stepfather maybe but I had a great stepfather but he wasn’t my biological and it just wasn’t there. If you choose to have a family it’s gonna cost you. The most obvious is the women, “She’s never yours, it’s just your turn.” The cost a…
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 11:38 PM
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Beautiful, always great to see a man who hasn’t made too many mistakes discover these truths. Some of us had to learn the hard way. Glad your listening.
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 11:22 PM
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Good thing your not married yet. Any kids? Hope not, cut your loses and remember this feeling. Women will use us men as long as we are useful. Work on being a man that is able to project usefulness and don’t give away anything anymore. Better yet just build yourself up and be happy alone but if you still wanna date Just be aware. “She’s never yours, it’s just your turn.”
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 11:21 PM
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Yeah field reports usually seem like fiction but they could be true, and just be an attempt at a disguised humble brag. Since following the philosophy I’ve seen a major change in my life. Just observing your surroundings you see how right Mgtow and TRP are correct. I wouldn’t discount the whole philosophy, definitely take FR with a grain of salt, I wouldn’t put any bets on them being true for sure.
/r/MGTOW11/01/18 11:16 PM
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Go through spetsnaz whole catalog, it may just save your life. It may just change your life for the better, I hope it does.
/r/MGTOW10/01/18 01:08 AM
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Agreed, it is a lot of work to not be the beta bitch in a relationship. Is it easy fuck no, think about it. You have to be a Alpha provider, meaning you make good money, you take care of yourself, you stand your ground always with anyone. How many men actually put in this kinda work and don’t break. Think about what do you think happens to men like this? They get pussy thrown at them at every angle. Your a self made man, you take no shit, yet you have to be committed to one female after all that…
/r/MGTOW10/01/18 01:06 AM
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“No more Mr nice guy,” explains why you were conditioned to be the way you are. More likely you were raised by a single mother, a over bearing one, or had a weak father. It’s harder for those men to fit in with the boys as per se. That book was great at identify many issues in people, then there are a ton of YouTube videos how to be Alpha. I know that’s more TRP speak but those issues if corrected will change your life. Good luck
/r/MGTOW08/01/18 02:57 AM
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Found the link for you, your obsoletely correct. https://www.cdc.gov/media/releases/2017/p0926-std-prevention.html
/r/MGTOW08/01/18 02:50 AM
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People say that because it’s easier for them to settle in their mind that people choosing a completely different path have to be fucked up. I mean they’ve spent there whole life trying to make people proud of them, make people want them, the need to be accepted. Then there are these men who have decided to build themselves up and for go the societal pressures of keeping up with the Jones and comparing themselves through whatever means they thought mattered. Well guess what mother fuckers... you …
/r/MGTOW206/01/18 07:34 PM
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I get what your saying, but imagine finding MGTOW at 16? Imagine all you’d have learned from other men instead of the hard way?
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 02:17 PM
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I was in a very aggressive branch also. That’s why while I was in all the guys could talk about is “When I get out of this fucken place.” We never talked about “oh shit look where I’m going next, hmm I have room and board, free meal, my check is basically fuck it money,” no I’m working harder for all that shit and when you make 100k you somehow spend 100k. I’m lucky I do have a job with a pension but the release date is years longer then federal service. 20k a year isn’t bad but when our retiree…
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 02:15 PM
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If there was someone else willing to put his face out there and lived up to the standards I’m sure he wouldn’t even bother sharing his wisdom. He doesn’t walk the walk because he didn’t have to his information was gained from thousands of other men in his so suave forum. He’s not a guru like I’m sure some men may look at him but he’s more of a keeper of knowledge of great men that have walked the walk. Believe me if his information had not had such a profound effect on so many people it wouldn’t…
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 11:59 PM
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Read more here son, listen to the men here. Build yourself up, become the prize. If you wanna fuck women, fuck em. Get yourself a harem if you want, just be very careful. There are STDs, pregnancy, fuck lying women just to fuck you over. Be safe come up with a game plan.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 10:07 PM
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“She’s never yours it’s just your turn.” Plus don’t shit where you eat, unless you can keep it quiet. Like, your a ugly fucker and you can pull hot chicks because of confidence. Yeah they’ll help you keep that shit quiet.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 02:16 PM
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I’ve never lived in those shoes, hope your pushing through it with your head held high.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 01:33 PM
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Not just fast, you see it everywhere now.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 01:31 PM
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Would you have noticed without TRP? I didn’t, not my little buttercup. She only has eyes for me, im the center of her universe. I’ve been to hell and back for her and the kids. I was there when she quit job after job, I was there for all our children’s births. My job was there for us always it supported us through good times and bad times. I’ve been the pillar for her and our child’s push for higher education. She would never shit on me for who I was, this brick that was starting to show cracks …
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 01:29 PM
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The sting of being used, it’s a son of a bitch. I feel you brother
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 12:53 PM
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Read, listen to lots of videos, audio books. All this information is so interesting to me. We’ve all been living life thinking it worked one way and you find out how things really are. After you figure out the under lying framework, everything becomes so entertaining. Life changes so much once you get to that point. Keep pushing forward it gets better, so much better.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 12:51 PM
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That’s why it’s necessary for men to understand what it’s like to be alone and enjoy it. Or you’ll end up like this, it’s not you’ll end up like this. He can go outside he can be somewhere he enjoys. But he sits around and mopes and waits for society to give him what he thinks he requires.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 12:48 PM
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“The Rationale Male,” talks about this in depth. It’s not that she moves on fast she just moved on way ahead of when you thought. She’s already gone through the whole process. You just find out after she’s done. Women have been trained to hold onto a man until the very last moment needed, then once it’s time to throw out “their trash,” they start the process. Some of them will even get you to do it for them. That’s why once a women starts changing and treating you like shit the TRP teaches chuck…
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 12:41 PM
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Love the modesty, but imagine being with the majority having to count on that oh so fabulous SS.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 05:55 AM
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I don’t know if it’s beating myself up, but definitely accepting “What I did to myself and pushing forward.” It’s a hell of a lot better then look what people have done to me.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 05:53 AM
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Welcome brother, two books to give you a wholly fucken shit. “The Rationale Male,” and “No more Mr. Nice guy.” And a third to help you on your journey of conquest, “48 laws of power.” Again, this is eye opening shit. I’ll link you one of my favorite videos https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 05:51 AM
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Umm, you have nothing holding you down. No kids, you want to lose weight, that’s easy. Take a break, your working yourself to death, supporting a women you don’t love or care for. You’re not attracted to her, you get no sex. I’d find myself a hard working job, help me lose some weight. Even if it’s less money. Less money in the pot, less money to take. Give yourself a reset, after you get divorced. Read here, read TRP and don’t do this shit again.
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 05:26 AM
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Not married, no kids? Your whole life’s ahead of you. Your just stuck because she was the best ass you ever had. Your so blessed to be at this cross road and here with us so early in life. You lucky son of a bitch, build yourself up become the man you wanted to become for you. Find some of the best men you know, if you can’t find them ask some men around here. Ask them what would they have done to made their lives better at their current state? Now about your female, fuck her. She’s riding that …
/r/MGTOW05/01/18 05:13 AM
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Exactly, anything that helps add value to a father. Society right now wants people to believe we aren’t important. As people start to notice the kids with fathers out performing the kids without you will see a change. Fathering is hard work, and thankless but if you have kids it’s important to take care of them. Raising them early in life is a heck of a lot more enjoyable and productive, then dealing with lost children and their adult issues.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 04:49 PM
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I guess your right, I’m always thinking of my girls. I raised them strong and independent but they also listen to me religiously. I’m sure other men they may not listen too, then again there are a lot of lost men also. Still with this new shaming good men are gonna see it’s not worth the effort.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 07:19 AM
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Thinking about this in a broader sense. If this is the case and becomes the norm. Women are going to miss out on some really good mentoring. The really only good leadership a women will get will be from other women and their fathers. That leaves out a ton of help out there. One side of this all the girls with good fathers are gonna thrive and all the men will be able to take advantage of all the mentors available to them. Because as humans we want to share our knowledge with the next generation.…
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 05:31 AM
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Congratulations on your success at moving forward in life. Good to hear some men can move forward successfully after the storm.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 05:20 AM
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Just say “I’m waiting for the right one. She hasn’t came along yet.” If they push just tell them “I don’t want to settle.” That will probably make some feel a little uncomfortable but you’ll be left alone. If they continue, yeah your being harassed and escalate as necessary. My partner uses this all the time, he’s even gotten setup with some good lookin women.
/r/MGTOW02/01/18 05:16 AM
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True looks do hold you back to a point but TRP teaches men how to hack a feminine mindset where as you increase your attraction levels. That’s why lift, get money and shiny shit, increase self awareness. TRP is how to increase your value and lay women, not lay women so you can get them house with a white picket fence. That’s bluepill mindset, it’s a shit ton of work and the cards are stacked against any man that goes this route. You’d have to read the sidebar more to figure out the difference be…
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 08:34 PM
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Calm down, the ugliest bastards are the best tradesmen. Not many pretty boy tradesmen, the ones that are get hardened real fast and swooped up by a female. Even if we can’t have a relationship with women they will still fuck us for resources. As TRP mindset grows men are getting more picky and won’t just take care of any women or have kids for that matter.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 08:20 PM
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Agreed, even here we disagree. I enjoy this sub because discussion is some what encouraged. Compared to other subs where you will immediately get shit on. Just read a philosophy post that was interesting, but even the rules say they don’t want discussion. I’m sure there are a few other subs that will allow debate but most are “Right speech only,” speech they feel is appropriate.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 06:46 PM
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No it’s not about money, it’s about self love.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 08:34 AM
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They talk its just mainly with a bluepill mindset. I have a few men that are living Mgtow but then of those few some are just doing the slow burn and killing themselves slowly with alcohol. The others that I’ve found are extremely enjoyable to converse with, I was only able to gain their respect after I spoke their language.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 01:03 AM
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They are two different numbers. What your talking about is Smp, and smv. The sexual market place is the area your at. Sexual market value is your value at any given area. example: Los Angeles 9 compared to Some Midwest town 9. Rollo Tomossi breaks all this down. Why it’s important to read all TRP sidebars, we don’t have to reinvent the wheel.
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 08:41 PM
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If you ever find yourself in 20% bracket you would know. Not until finding manosphere and all the information did this make sense. One of the earliest rules that turned a light bulb on when I started looking around here. “How to not be a creep. Rule number 1. Be attractive. Rule number 2. Be attractive Rule number 3. See rule 1 and 2.”
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 07:32 PM
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Drink more ovaltine?
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 07:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing this. It is maddening to be here at this place with all these like minded men and be traveling a path of appreciation and love for oneself. Then to look out into our own worlds and see just destruction of our families. Brothers, fathers, friends, even acquaintances, my heart feels for them. We are helpless if you try and help them it will only infect you with their sorrow. To have these answers and be unplugged from all the bullshit, we are extremely fortunate to have found th…
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 07:15 PM
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This is TRP 101, Mgtow is going your own way. TRP teaches exactly this, for a crash course listen to Tom Leykiss on YouTube. If your interested in getting with women and you still need to work through this, TRP is the sub for this. I’m not shaming you just telling you where all this information is posted. Go through TRP sidebar and you’ll see major improvements in your mating game. Practice with the hitting wall women and after you get your confidence up and built up your life so your smv is top…
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 05:24 PM
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Yeah in one of his videos he talked about trying to help men and some how they let him down and he no longer wants to try. I think he means as far as hands on approach but his videos are priceless. I mean just look here, the majority of us men just want to try and help but our comments turn into a argument. Now imagine the amount of replies he had to go through. Then include the trolls. I’m sure it was exhausting.
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 02:53 PM
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Spetsnaz, going through his whole catalog can give you great insight. I consider him a solitude master. After listening to all his stuff it made me take a look at life differently. I’d say his videos are on the top of the list for men if they are having trouble finding peace being alone. Switching the mindset with “I need a women, I need to breed, look at her beauty, omg she is into me.” With “Look what I’ve done with my life, it’s a beautiful day, what am I going to learn today, this is great c…
/r/MGTOW31/12/17 02:13 PM
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Judgement? Your 28 living with grandma. I don’t need to judge, proof is in the pudding. By your emotional response your not happy with it yourself.
/r/MGTOW30/12/17 10:41 PM
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Your 28 years old and your families still taking care of you? If my kid had me take care of them till 28 I’d be giving them a little heat. Cut your family a break, I wouldn’t say cut them off but give it some space. Once you go off into your own life see what it feels like to pay all your own bills.
/r/MGTOW30/12/17 05:06 PM
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Agreed, the trick is finding the message that helps them pass through the anger phase.
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 09:43 PM
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I was raised with a single mother. Not until finding TRP did I realize how toxic she was to my upbringing. Start to dedicate part of your time to reading the books that will help open your mind to the manipulation that she has been using on you. One of the books is “No more Mr Nice guy,” also “When I say no I feel guilty.” Many of the Redpill required reading will help you realize your power and path. Now from my personal experience, learn to STFU. Don’t engage with her, she’s just like the majo…
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 09:40 PM
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I have noticed an increase in the post you described. I agree it had to do with some of the incels calling Mgtow a new Home. Most incels are stuck in the anger phase. The good news is they can now see there are more phases in their path not just, hate, hate, hate. Also you asked about policing, that’s what you have to do. I’ve seen some post that go over board on their hate and you just have to report them. The mods have been doing a good job keeping it at a level allowed by reddit. We definitel…
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 08:29 PM
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I’ll try and explain this to men from time to time. It’s hard to get through a bluepill mindset. I’ve found one explanation works well, “when you have trouble with the family car who’s expected to fix it? If something is outside the house, who’s expected to go check it out? If the family is threatened by anything who’s expected to go stand their ground?” Men never argue with this line of thought, they just nod in agreement.
/r/MGTOW28/12/17 02:27 PM
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I’m sure you could relate them. I was pertaining to the way they trained him. They watched him and pushed him through situations that they believed he could conquer but never helping him. They always pushed him for more and more because they knew he’d have only himself to count on and the mission was the most important. He sacrificed those ships with thousands of lives and even in the end he destroyed the whole planet to make sure he won. My kid believed she had no help, I would never be there t…
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 10:03 PM
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Travel the world, workout, practice a craft of shooting shit and blowing shit up. After 20 years you get paid for staying in, a pension, life time medical. I wish I would have did a full tour till retirement. As far as the job, that’s your choice my friend. You can’t go wrong as far as joining the military. Killing as a job, you’d have to ask other men who have had to deal with it. Have a uncle who did two tours of Nam, and fought in desert storm. He had no issues, if anything he made me regret …
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 08:28 PM
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I work on this everyday. Ive raised one adult and am working on two more. The first one I succeeded with instilling independence. I was left to rot when I was a child by my father. He was a typical bad boy, lady killer wannabe, fucking up his children’s lives in the process. One thing I learned from him is if I ever got a women pregnant I wouldn’t quit on my kids. Hence another rule, don’t fuck ugly women because they may get pregnant. Here’s what I’ve discovered. I had no idea how to raise a ch…
/r/MGTOW27/12/17 07:38 PM
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Your fine son, just keep doing your thing. The fact that you don’t have this unnecessary obsession with women makes you not a incel. Matter a fact I’d say a head of the game because you’ve learned from other men’s mistakes. I’m sure your fathers looking down from where he’s at, proud of his son not jumping into the dating game. It must have been a hard pill to swallow when he realized we are only worth what we bring to the table that given day. Keep building your life, learn as much as you can a…
/r/MGTOW26/12/17 12:32 AM
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Your mom controls the house, you can’t fix your fathers issues. Best bet for your sanity is handle your own business, live your life on your own terms.
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 05:19 PM
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Depends on the circumstances, is your mother still with your biological father? Single mothers raise their boys differently then a women who has her own man. Also is your father a beta or Alpha provider? Basically who controls the household? Does what your father say goes or does he differ to her and say ask your mother? The mother of my children is the sensitivity, she is the nurturer. My children look to me for guidance and strength, they look to their mother for love and support. I was raised…
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 03:47 PM
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Exactly this, we can say the same thing a thousand different ways but if just one more man hops on the train and improves his happiness we have done a good deed.
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 03:37 PM
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You bring up some very valid points, but why start with saying your unsubscribing? I’ve seen some post about this, we just need more positive posters. I see the highlights as too what frustrates men about women, it can be overwhelming. I agree with you, you are absolutely right. What helps the journey? Where do you go to find the solace that this path needs so you can start your healing? If your a man that doesn’t need healing but are in search of direction, where do you go? I have conversations…
/r/MGTOW23/12/17 01:26 PM
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I agree with you on every point except when you say do not try to convert others to Mgtow. Convert is a very strong word, at least leave them a trail they can follow if they have the will to do so. You have found the secret, many more men need this. If just the men here are the only ones with this message then all the other men are left out there to get screwed. One of the major factors in the founding of this mindset was male suicide, other men seen the damage society was pushing men towards an…
/r/MGTOW22/12/17 01:53 PM
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You and me both internet stranger. Or should I dare say Mgtow friend?
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:47 PM
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I have many men actually enjoy my advice. I also frequent marriedredpill and it teaches lots about relationship dynamics. Lots of men respect the life I live and listen to what I have to say. That’s one of the benefits of living a life for yourself, it sets a example for others to follow. Just be careful about preaching to extremely bluepill men, those are the ones I’ve had to distant myself from.
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:45 PM
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Imagine if you had kids with her? Or owned a house? Many men have found these truths after the fact.
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:41 PM
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The conditioning is what has to be squashed, society has conditioned us men to want to serve. To sacrifice our life’s for others, to be a utility. After you understand this mindset it’s like a fog was lifted. One of the main issues afterwards, wtf did I do to myself? A lot of us such as myself, what the fuck was I thinking? Hahahaha
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:35 PM
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This is what Mgtow offers more then any of the other Redpill sects. Divulge in the videos, in other men’s thoughts and it pushes the loneliness away. The loneliness becomes replaced with a love of self. I’ve posted his links many times but for those interested go through spetsnaz videos on YouTube.
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:31 PM
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You say don’t try? Why not? Men all over need this mindset. If I had this information in my younger years wholly shit The life i would have lived. The real trick, how? How can you make this information digestible? Easily consumed by the masses, men need this. I literally just had a man die from the stress the family courts put on him. His wife took off with another man, fucked around on him ruined his world. Then afterwards took him to court and destroyed what little life he was trying to have. …
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:27 PM
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It’s the holidays, lots of people are absent right now. I haven’t checked in, in weeks. I’m sure lots of others are on holiday. Always remember it sounds cliche but be the change you want to see. Nothing’s stopping you from posting something positive. Also the incel sub was shutdown, so of course some of those posters are here also. If they go overboard report and move on.
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 10:16 PM
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This is the information that men need to see. Why should you have to maintain a pussy your no longer able to use? It’s mind boggling how this can even be considered sane. She doesn’t want him why is she entitled to any more of his money?
/r/MGTOW21/12/17 09:58 PM
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Exactly, they can be the most well meaning women out there. But they are all handed a gun and at any given time which they can decide on whim they’ll be able to pull that trigger and destroy your world. Society has stacked itself against men, in the court system, at work, entertainment, shit men are loosing there jobs right now just for being accused of harassment, fuck due process right?
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 02:03 PM
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Your mistaken, we don’t hate women. We understand them, we help educate men on their nature. What men do with the information is completely up to them. There are some men who love the touch of women and do so cautiously, others who have gone monk mode and no longer need their touch. At the core of all this Mgtow tries and as you’ve seen from these post succeeds at helping a man remove the need of external validation, such as a comment like yours which seeks to shame. Mgtow at the core is to deve…
/r/MGTOW09/12/17 01:50 PM
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I’m sure you have gone through “The Rationale Male.” One of his new books is now in audio format, I can’t lie some of the information in there makes me emotional. Check it out, “Preventive maintenance,” one section describes my life to the T, it explains the underlying dynamics and how it all happened...
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 08:47 PM
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Life changing shit, ain’t it?
/r/MGTOW08/12/17 08:14 PM
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She’s not your responsibility, wake up. You’ve been raised to be a utility and your doing exactly what women raised you for. I bet your a great provider? Your able to take care of yourself and her. Imagine a life that you work for you? Imagine a life that all the hard work you put into it, you can keep for you. Imagine a life that you can build a future for you and not worry about a women taking it away.
/r/MGTOW05/12/17 10:02 PM
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Your slowly digesting the pill. Everything takes a different meaning after you know these truths. Relationships are different, work is different, your attitude towards life, fuck even the way you interpret a movie. Yes it really is that fucked up out here. Go TRP use the knowledge to get the women you want, but you’ll know “She’s not yours it’s just your turn.” And you’ll be navigating through a mine field as you’ve already seen. Or go Mgtow and bypass all the bullshit, set your life on overdriv…
/r/MGTOW04/12/17 01:41 AM
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You answered your own question. You need a women. You have to learn to love yourself more, a women should be secondary to your goals. That’s the soul part, it’s hard being alone, it’s hard letting go, it’s hard walking the road less traveled. As you can see the road your on has just kept you miserable. I’ll link you some of the best vids I’ve ever heard in my life, Spetsnaz is a fucken master of mindset. Go through all his vids, if certain ones you feel don’t pertain to you move on, then get bac…
/r/MGTOW04/12/17 12:39 AM
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Your not there, your need for external validation is killing your life. Learn to live for yourself. Stop worrying about women, fix yourself, right your life, strong mind, strong body, strong soul. Start to work on that and the rest will come into place.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 11:31 PM
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This knowledge is so powerful but it’s hard to get men to swallow. The sad part is us men need these answers and eventually we will go looking for this. It may be only after we’ve lived a life and find the answers only came out after we’ve been smacked in the face with reality.
/r/MGTOW03/12/17 08:07 PM
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Your coming to a sub where dealing with women is regarded as high risk and then you want to argue that a man should settle. Wrong place, if any man here wants to even entertain the company of a women she should be worth his time.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 08:33 PM
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He’s real young, he has plenty of time left before he has to deal with left over women. Warlocks right, use your youth for the treasures in life, don’t settle if your gonna risk anything.
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 08:31 PM
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If you do ever date, just remember one quote thrown around here. “She’s not yours it’s just your turn.”
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 12:59 AM
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Ignorance is bliss, would you rather have not known? Then you could go through the motions and do the whole divorce fucking and all? Learn how to love yourself first, then go from there. Good luck
/r/MGTOW02/12/17 12:55 AM
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They all come from the same mindset, just each subset uses the information differently. I’m sure it’s just new guys seeking attention with the hating on each other. TRP is at the core of all this, looking at society through a different lenses is what makes all this possible. Mgtow understands the dangers and has chosen a withdrawal tactic. TRP the name is the same as main mindset but the actual sub caters to younger men, men that are still needing to sow their oats per se. They use this informat…
/r/MGTOW29/11/17 01:46 AM
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I thought Mgtow was like fight club?
/r/MGTOW28/11/17 08:49 PM
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Just say “I haven’t found the right one, I want her to be the best I can possibly find.” That ends the majority of fights because they should feel like shit for trying to make you settle. If they continue just tell them, “You want me to settle for less?”
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 07:17 PM
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They want this information contained
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 07:14 PM
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Amazing isn’t it, but that is living Redpill aware. I enjoy Mgtow content more because it has lots of material about being accepting of your life. At the core of happiness is living with internal validation as your main objective in life.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 06:38 PM
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Have a partner who does this, his wife always pushes for more and more. In his case it’s not just the debt, we are the same age but he’s all grey and I still have my same hair color, also his face looks like he has 10 years on me from all the stress. It looks like she literally sucked the life force out of him.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 04:25 PM
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I’ve seen some here professing their thanks to this community for showing them another way.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 06:39 PM
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Slowly add others to the mix, You’ll be amazed. I’d recommend a fish oil, and joint pill to start. I also take super B, testosterone boosters and mind enhancing, some biotin, vitamin c, just a few suggestions.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 03:07 PM
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Thanks, Nietzsche reaches for godlike? Definitely on my list.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 03:02 PM
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I’ve tried RBK but I just can’t get listen to the robot voice to long. Bar is great just some of his videos run long, and use dated facts which I’m sure if made now the stats would be even worse. These are just my opinion, I do appreciate all his effort.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 03:00 PM
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Not knocking anything, I’ll check it out. Looking for stuff that’s easily consumed. High penetration, low investment time stuff, videos that can make points in 10-20 mins segments. I’ll link one of my favorites. If the man is really interested of course he can indulge further. https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DScHA
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 02:02 PM
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Listen to everything spetsnaz, here’s a link. He’s a mindset master, he’ll get you on track with what you’ve done with your life and where you should go now. Good luck. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 01:03 PM
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“Raises hand,” you were raised as a utility. There is so much material out here about this here in Mgtow. One article I’ve been racking my brain looking for, maybe someone can help me. It was titled “the story of the lost boys.” That article is life changing, I’ll keep searching for it.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 12:57 PM
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Upvote for owning the balding
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 12:53 PM
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You probably hit a nerve but people just try and deny their true feelings. Living bluepill is about suppressing the truth. Society has built in these social norms in people, “If he searches your phones he’s controlling.” How about if you make him feel like he needs to search your phone your a piece of shit.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 12:50 PM
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Your halfway there, you’ve gotten some good years out of your wife. But then again it’s only been 10 years, the problems start arising in “A good relationship,” when her looks start fading and she can’t look down on the other women. Younger women will up the bullying and jones talk. I commend you 10 years is still that 10 years. You’ve managed to keep her home, keep her happy, good job. A lot of men fail way before that. Read the “The Rationale Male,” you may be doing the exact things required t…
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 12:39 PM
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It’s one thing to shame Mgtow. Honestly how can men not participating in this mess be held against them? It’s a whole other to try and defend it. When a man gets divorced, it isn’t pretty. He will lose half his shit, he’s now going to be paying for pussy he’s no longer has access too, and if he has kids he has to pay for most of their cost and gets to see them if he’s lucky a couple times a month.
/r/MGTOW19/11/17 12:18 PM
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The sad thing is she screwed your brother thinking she got one over on him but all she did is ruin your brothers ability to have a huge positive effect on their kids life. In the end the kids gonna suffer not her.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 11:21 PM
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Just listened to a video from stardusk and he quoted someone who said a successful relationship is a man who can constantly pass shit test. His take was “The juice is not worth the squeeze.”
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 11:18 PM
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It’s a switch you have to find in yourself. Taking the red pill per se is exactly that. Your running life on the old mindset with an insight to possibilities. Once you can go from needing external validation, to living life from within, using internal validation, life becomes better. Three areas to improve and your life will change, strong body, strong mind, strong soul. It’s simple but a lot of work, your body build it up to do all the things you want to do in life. Your mind, always be learnin…
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 06:09 PM
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Thanks my friend, this is my story from a little over a year ago. This is the strongest life changing event I’ve ever had in my life as far as very positive. I just want to explain as best as I possibly can so other men can see, it’s ok if it’s seems to take forever and that it requires lots of effort.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 05:06 PM
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Don’t worry, I work we the majority men and there are men who take over when women are absent.
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 03:37 PM
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Hahahahaha, me too I guess
/r/MGTOW18/11/17 12:28 PM
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What type of information is out there to help us understand it more? Do you have links for material? That would be much appreciated. Thanks again
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 08:26 PM
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Just seen this, you are absolutely right. That’s exactly what was going on. I’ve heard it a few others ways but the easiest way to explain it. “There is no relationship piggy back,” that shit you’ve done for her will not be able to drawn out at a later time when you need it. Maintaining a relationship with a women is all about how you make her feel at the moment.
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 05:15 PM
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Had a drill instructor and it’s not that, they just shit on guys to shit on guys. It’s a echo chamber, like I said though the sidebar material is priceless. Not a drill sergeant, you’ll know the difference. Glad they helped you, that’s all us men can ask is get the help we need.
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 03:40 PM
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Your doing it wrong then, your over extending. Luckily your at the right place, look into the material that will help you get rid of external validation and let internal validation take its place. You have to live with you in mind, at anytime you have to be able to walk away from anything.
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 03:32 PM
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The married Redpill to be exact. It’s good stuff, just don’t disagree with anything.
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 03:29 PM
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I know it is sad, the participation is stagnant because of that. It’s just a bunch of bros circle jerking the same mindset. I already tried to speak about this. If some of the guys have had arguments somewhere else on there they’ll follow each other around to shit on their post, even if it’s good. I got temp banned for speaking up, I won’t contribute but the sidebar information is priceless. I’ll never take that from them, just the mods have encouraged that pussy attitude. It’s very emotional
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 03:03 PM
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Can you display a example of the correct way to post it?
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 02:57 PM
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It’s the go too for most men trying to command. They think shame and bullying works, it’s cool for the people who are intimidated or no other power with them. Give them a HR hotline and few people pissed off enough and their power can be taken quick. That’s how it works in the real world but on the interwebs, if the mods allow it, shit some even act like that, not much you can do. So it just breeds that type of attitude.
/r/MGTOW17/11/17 02:53 PM
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I really enjoy this space to see other men with similar thoughts as myself. So many men with bluepill mindsets IRL, it’s a chore to navigate away from those thoughts. I’d recently just had to realize one gentlemen in particular is a feminist, I talk with him daily and enjoy his conversation but I picked up on his white knight mindset through a recent conversation. They disguise it to catch you off Gaurd, only to pounce on you unexpectedly. It’s almost as bad as getting in a argument with a women…
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 06:11 AM
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Of course we stay around, if you can save one mans life and help him find meaning. What’s not to like about that? Maybe I’m just really in the early phase, embracing this philosophy and the feel good aspect of helping others is therapeutic for now. I’d like to think a lot of men will stick around to help other men, look at all he content providers for Mgtow on Youtube, even women are hoping on the Redpill express.
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 06:03 AM
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Well I’ve recently gone through this. I’ve finished one adult, supported her through it all. Took her to sports, pushed her through school, just made sure she’d have a good start on life. I try and not be a person who lives through others accomplishment. Does it feel good to talk about how she’s left town and attending a good university and paying her own way? Yeah it does but now looking at it with RP lens, a logical mindset was it worth the 18 years you invest in a child? What could I have don…
/r/MGTOW16/11/17 05:53 AM
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Here’s a beginning link, go through all his videos. If your listening to one and it doesn’t pertain to you at all pass it. You sound like a good candidate for this. Go through all his stuff, get back to us. These videos put my life on a new path, hope it can do the same for you. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW15/11/17 06:03 AM
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People are finding out it’s ok. With all of societies programming we were programmed to want to have a partner. Once your able to flip that switch, the power of internal validation is life changing.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 03:02 AM
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I get what your saying, but trying to help out with men’s issues only to get shit on does effect you. See this discussion your having with him, as far as some of the other subs you get one side would attack you, and if you stood up to them you’d get banned.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 02:52 AM
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Agreed, you have to take a little bit from each mindset too really find the truth for yourself. I’m glad I ran into Mgtow content first, the mindset of being ok with being alone is golden. It actually really helps and piggy backs with a RP teaching abundance mentality, especially if your in a volatile relationship, where day to day your trying to figure out the truth.
/r/MGTOW13/11/17 02:42 AM
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Won’t allow sharing? What’s the work around?
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 11:54 PM
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Your living the dream young man. Keep building yourself up, I’m sure a ton of men here would love to be in your shoes. Keep up the great work. Sounds like you’ve answered your own question. Hobbies, learning, and that stuff will help you build yourself. Join some men activities, sports clubs, martial arts, have fun. Take advantage of all the traveling your offered, travel on Uncle Sams dime. Go to one base go see everything you can then move to the next one. Good luck, and good job.
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 08:36 PM
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Hate to Monday morning quarterback here. The advice from a attorney that’s comes to the sub every so often is when shits going south. Quit your job, don’t make it obvious but it will be assumed she’s leaving because of that. After the divorce is finalized, grow your wealth back according to your bills. Why lose life when the money isn’t going to you anyways? Now that the order is in place, unless you can get the courts to revaluate your case fast after your money dips you are facing jail time an…
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 08:06 PM
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They don’t care, the things you think they respect, they don’t. The reason she doesn’t give a shit is because a women can move on the next day. She has orbiters and backups ready and waiting. Most women have a instinctual drive that their wall clock is ticking they have 10 years or so to secure the best they can get and if you can’t cut it they have to move on quick. https://youtu.be/mC149YY2G-I
/r/MGTOW12/11/17 02:08 PM
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Agreed, the majority of my learning has been from outside sources. I come here to enjoy the community but my path has been shown to me through many sources. When your ready for a true lesson in life and see why you’ve been able to navigate a relationship the way you have. I promise you it can be seen. Would you like to see what you’ve been doing to make it work? Want to take the guess work out of your relationship? Read “The Rationale Male,” get it on audio if you don’t have time to read it. Get…
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 08:29 PM
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I’m not one, I’ve been in a relationship for two decades. A lot of the men here just want you to be prepared. Some men will say don’t do it. Some will say your an idiot, don’t do it!! Others will say here’s the information, see? Don’t do it. Etc, I’m more of the line, here’s the information, live informed enjoy life, enjoy everything it has to offer. The founders of this philosophy weren’t “hate women they are evil,” if you research them the main factor in why they did so much work are the suici…
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 06:08 PM
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I’ve been on this journey for years, when I was younger I took care of myself because I was chasing pussy. It worked great, I never knew why but I never had problems hooking up with the women I wanted. One thing about my social life was I always expected respect, if I didn’t get it I was pissed. I would act out in anger, sometimes it would work and other times you can’t use that technique and id just be fucken pissed. Years past and I became a family provider no longer did I need the bulging mus…
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 02:17 PM
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Just focus on yourself and grow as a individual. You’ll surprise yourself how many people will listen once the improvements in your own life are to obvious to not notice. That’s if you want to effect others, which it sounds like you do. The better I get the more influence I have over others. Put it this way would you listen to someone who was always miserable or someone who has their shit together? Now with social media everyone lives through everyone else, so the changes have to be really appar…
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 05:34 AM
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Being truly happy I imagine is truly a hard thing to come by of course people will tell you they are but how many truly are? I always felt I was doing pretty good in life but until I found these subs I can say I’ve truly found where I need to go in life to get there.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 05:27 AM
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Good replies but one of the main stats we use around here is for instance would you jump out of a plane if 50% of the time your parachute would fail? That’s the state of marriage right now. You sound like you are pretty independent right now, but once you marry then she can take half your stuff. Not whether she would take you for a ride but the state has allowed it so the cards are always stacked against us. Mgtow doesn’t have to be your not ever gonna be with a women but you need to understand …
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 05:23 AM
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There is so much good for them to learn here. Let them lurk and learn the meaning of self love and reliance. It’s if they pull that depression and weird shit that you get rid of them.
/r/MGTOW11/11/17 02:08 AM
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Was raised by a single mother, she’s the typical got by with child support and the state. One issue why she wasn’t the same was she wanted to stay with my Dad just he was a typical Betacuck looking for validation through women. After my mom got fat after popping out a couple kids for him, he moved on. She was very emotional to this day, when I’m around her I have to have a filter on, she says fucked up things and tries manipulation techniques however she can. One thing with all my siblings is we…
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 11:05 AM
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Learn about gender dynamics. In a relationship it’s amazing how much it helps understanding what your partner wants. If your trying to maintain a relationship for it to be fruitful it’s gonna be a lot of work. If your already at the point of self reliance it’s easier but if not getting to that point takes time. A great book is “The Rationale Male,” not a Mgtow book because it’s about maintaining a relationship. “48 laws of power,” is required reading for any male navigating society. Good luck
/r/MGTOW10/11/17 10:47 AM
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I’ll chime in, my boys in his teens. I talk with him about all these things. He’s seen the changes in our families life as I’ve fixed my shit. The difference in respect between when I was blue pill traits to Redpill are glorious to say the least. I have a adult daughter but I raised her very stern maybe to stern, so much so she resents men. I’m taking a better approach with my other kids. When I was natural Alpha I thought do as I say, and do as I do. Then bluepill, I just escaped in the backgro…
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 01:22 PM
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Welcome here’s a video to help you along your journey. Indulge in all the manosphere content it’s badass. https://youtu.be/ov58o2xJqu0
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 01:12 PM
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Even if sometimes you do it’s our space. We’d expect the same if we went to twochroma or any other feminism sub. Each sub is it’s own echo chamber where they help reinforce each other’s views in life. That’s why it’s understandable that incels was ban if they were inciting violent acts, you can’t have a echo chamber like that public. Here at Mgtow it’s a mixture of men, in varying walks and areas of life. One thing the Mgtow agree upon is women are dangerous and tread carefully when interacting,…
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 01:09 PM
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Silive posted a link yesterday that breaks it down real quick for you. https://youtu.be/8byGFryWQRU
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 12:20 PM
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You know that’s a option, but how does that go? Your honor I’m a man but I need my wife’s money? It just sounds so crazy, you know she’s actually pretty decent. She had talked about separating everything even taking out from her savings to help me on my way, and I told her I needed nothing. I really didn’t either. I would work as many hours as they would allow me. When I was home most meals were power bars and I spent my off time reading and working out. Oh yeah and discovering everything in the…
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 05:26 AM
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It won’t get banned, just stay the course. Strong body, strong mind, strong soul, sounds easy but it’s a lot of work. Focus on growing yourself everyday, enjoy life. No regrets
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 04:54 AM
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That man has saved so many lives. I’ll pull up the links for you, and anyone else that may see this, that needs them. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc https://youtu.be/iy-atlNSG2c https://youtu.be/E3TzOBARWAs
/r/MGTOW09/11/17 04:45 AM
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Come on the proofs right there, 13% are happy in a marriage. Wow great video
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:39 PM
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Radical your rough, but I see your point it’s just these manginas just want To love, and be loved. Thanks for pulling the old men out, believe me we are our lesson everyday.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:28 PM
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It’s not that you can’t or she won’t or never will. It’s just the probability is very high. What’s the latest statistic? It’s 3 to 4 right now I think the last number they were throwing out there. Mgtow are trying to warn men don’t do it, live your life for you. Of course such as myself I found these truths after I had a family and almost had it all pulled away. Now I’m doing marriedredpill style, working my ass off to make sure my kids and yes her have a good life. I will tell you though it’s a…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 09:25 PM
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Yeah, but lots of people look like that. He was actually recently divorced and asked for help. He may be really smart, that’s the problem with today there are some really brilliant individuals who aren’t going to be able to further the human race with their mind because of their failure to meet a women.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 08:58 PM
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I don’t know didn’t pay attention to the guys making the study. Interesting the way the women’s views changed about him though.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 08:52 PM
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Did you watch it? It shows a man in a study who was rated a zero the usual way he looked. Get dressed up by the study then come out and raise his attractiveness. The op seemed so sad, this guy in video is nowhere near a good looking guy. Check it out, it’s interesting.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 08:44 PM
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I was wondering what a incel post would look like. It is sad though, they don’t realize that some of the Mgtow men here look like that. I’m sure these aren’t the post that got them shutdown. And for little brother posting this i watched a video yesterday that might give you hope. https://youtu.be/PUs1n9l4DoE
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 07:09 PM
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Your right, I’ll pay head as i write next time. They tolerate us, until their hypergamy kicks in and they jump your ship.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:50 PM
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I think if we were honest about it. It’s the sex, good sex is one thing I really enjoy. Yeah people say “ I want to be loved.” In the end it’s what goes on in the bedroom. See Deadbedrooms, divorce, marriage sub, all these problems start in the bedroom. I have decent mindset but I’ve always been a horny bastard and my relationships reflected that. Most people don’t accept that within themselves and try and go feelings first, instead of physical compatibility.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:45 PM
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Tell me about it. If anything maybe they will actually help themselves instead of being in a echo chamber that helps breed that mentality.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:34 PM
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I agree with that, because yes they are pushing along the Chads to bang as much pussy as possible. Sooner or later Chads gonna fuck up and whoops here comes the baby. Chad becomes Betabucks and is on the hook providing money to the system.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:32 PM
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We don’t know the exact circumstances, could it be that the mods told reddit admin to go pound sand? I’d think it would be a bit more then just a poster pushing an idea, at least I’d hope.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:25 PM
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I’ll take this one step further, we are the men that your interested in but wonder why we don’t notice you. No we are not all gay.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:22 PM
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Good job brother, you are a prime example of why Mgtow was created. Because many men don’t get to your point, they choose to end their life or the slow burner effect and engulf in self destructive behaviors.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:10 PM
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I understand, my situation is a little different just due to the fact I have two younger kids that I wanted to offer the same opportunities as my oldest. If I were to give up on the mom, I’d be leaving their life’s in a state of uncertainty. I did leave the option open if I had to leave I was ready. She too has the power to take pretty much everything I own away but that’s why I’ve come to love me, my body, my mind, if need be, the man I am now could rebuild whatever life I want, She can’t take …
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 05:07 PM
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Your messing my story up, lol but another spoiler. I’ve changed that statement now, “Look what I’ve done with my life.”
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:31 PM
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Exactly, the funniest shit... get this, once you do all those things she won’t want you to leave. How do I know? I’ve done it
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:26 PM
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That’s it brother you hit it right on the fucken head, WE are responsible for ourselves. Accept that and you will be ahead of most people.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:24 PM
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Ill piggy back my last comment, that’s why loving yourself and handling your own life is the cornerstone of living life your own way. We must be fit to always be healthy, we must be financially independent or have skills in high demand to never be without resources. Lastly, we as human beings are emotionally weak so we must be mentally stable to be able to live life alone.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:22 PM
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Of course, abundance mentality, you must live your life so at anytime you can walk if needed. I don’t care what relationship it is, friends screw you? Fuck em. Job screws you? Fuck em. Wife screw you? Well you know the answer. FUCK THEM!!!!
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:19 PM
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They do, and she did but I was also responsible. That’s what the journey has taught me, men control their lives. My life now has been under my control for the past year. I was a natural Alpha with some beta traits due to being raised by a single mother. Now I know what makes social interactions work, before I would handle a lot of confrontations with anger. I’m a decent size man and when my emotions take over it can intimidate some but what about the others. With my new life skills I can push th…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:16 PM
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I’m not gonna argue with religion. Many times have I faced death, maybe he was there maybe he wasn’t but as a man you and I both know we are the deciders of our life. We make our decisions, until you accept that and let anyone including god make you whole you’ll be forever in search of answers.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:08 PM
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It was rock bottom brother, Spetsnaz said most men won’t become fully aware till they hit the bottom. I was there, it was the saddest time of my life. Now that I’ve digested this life I’m glad for it. It is also said many men will never find the way out.
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 04:03 PM
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You are seeing the tail end right now. A lot of men have come and gone, even the creators of content don’t make content anymore. It’s a live community that is thirsting for more content. Mgtow ideal has been around for 100’s of years, see men like Tesla just was not packaged the way the internet allows us to bring our ideals together. If your really interested in seeing what Mgtow offers go through Spestnaz videos on YouTube. I’ll leave a link to video to start with. Also some of the men here ar…
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 02:56 PM
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What got them banned? Can the mods help keep that content out?
/r/MGTOW08/11/17 02:20 PM
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As with anyone don’t let it go, especially with women you have to stand your ground. Even if you are scared use the landlord, fuck it they don’t give a shit about your feelings. These people are your partners in this living arrangement, make sure you enforce your boundaries. Good luck
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 09:20 PM
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Ah, k thanks. Well hope it helps someone
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 12:18 PM
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You came to a Redpill sub for relationship advice? I wouldn’t think a lot of the comments would be very supportive. Mgtow men are going away from women not trying to figure them out, and throw in some incels or TFL and well your gonna her shit on. I will give you some advice from a older mans perspective, which I have a adult daughter and Tbh it’s what I’m instilling in my younger kids. Your saying you want tingles. All women run on emotion and that’s just it, a lot of women are in the same boat…
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 06:05 AM
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Good idea, People don’t understand how big of a bullet you dodged. Plus if she’s paying she may try and mess with you in all sorts of ways. There isn’t enough data to show the effects that single fathers have on a child, but I’m sure it can’t be anywhere near the data of what has happened with single mothers. Good luck
/r/MGTOW07/11/17 03:21 AM
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What is your goal? To tell men to get married? Just curious, but I do think you should indulge in Mgtow and Redpill content. It will help your life ten fold. At the core of Mgtow is self reliance and getting away from external validations. Even in a relationship if you are internally strong and do not count on external validations life is so much better.
/r/MGTOW06/11/17 10:40 PM
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Thanks, for this I’ll go through it this week and get back with you
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 03:53 PM
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Praise kek
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 05:04 AM
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I will have to check out RazorbladeKandy and Stardusk is now thinking ape I believe, Thanks.
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 03:29 AM
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Glad you liked it, keep your head up. Take care
/r/MGTOW05/11/17 01:27 AM
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Your not alone, today is a good day. No regrets -Spetsnaz
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 11:33 PM
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I’ll share a favorite of mine, when I feel the need to just bathe in my isolation. I hope it gives you the feeling I get when I listen to it. https://youtu.be/YxvSvu1vtCc
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 11:04 PM
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Such violence, but yeah we are in a battle of thought.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 09:54 PM
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Welcome to the ban hammer, I was banned from a sub but not because of here. It was a temporary one but still irked because I thought it was a free speech area unlike a lot of the subs where it is right speech.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 09:49 PM
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That’s the definition of a TFLer you made my point. It’s not going your own way living off someone else. Mgtow was created to help men better themselves in life and not do the slow burn effect or just kill themselves. Just because someone post on this sub doesn’t make them Mgtow, I’m sure there are feminist subscribed here just like liberals sub to TheDonald. Give this a listen, then get back with me. https://youtu.be/iy-atlNSG2c
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 09:28 PM
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I’m retarded? Haha, you haven’t read the whole line of comments that this comment was meant for but he didn’t add it to the comment thread...what a cuck
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 08:49 PM
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Found a better one by sandman https://youtu.be/V2gqPUEt2H0
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 08:39 PM
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True force loneliness, it’s men that can’t get with women, not by choice. Found this for you, this will explain it better https://youtu.be/utGRdIXZI1g
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 08:18 PM
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I just commented on another post about this. They had posted a barbar video, who was one of the founding people of this idea. He started looking into this because of the mass suicide epidemic of men, and as of this year it still isn’t slowing down. True you can go your own way, but your missing the other great part of Mgtow. It starts with self reliance and loving one self, hows it gonna help you if you go your own way in a corner somewhere and feel like shit or worse kill yourself. Every Mgtow …
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 07:33 PM
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Went through it again, you call these classics which they are but some of these older videos should be required viewing for Mgtow pursuing men. Such as Barbar one of his videos it was asked what makes him do all this work? His answer the men’s suicide epidemic, if he were to help one man not take his life it would be worth it. My point is the philosophy was created to help men feel whole without women, if men think I’m just gonna go my own way but still feel like shit they are missing the beauty…
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 07:15 PM
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Men built civilization, we have had to kill, and die for this world. Not only that we maintain it, how many women construction workers are there. How many lady cops? Infantry women the list goes on and on. Like all women once they have the Lifestyle fuck how they got it. That’s what is so funny about the new Thor, they reversed the roles, the lady wanted to continue to kill and grow her civilization while the man Odin wanted to be civilized.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 03:50 PM
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Continuing with my other post it was getting long. The youtubers I’ve listened to and continue to go through everyday. Barbossa, he is considered one of the founders of this mindset, philosophy whatever you want to call it. Spetsnaz, he’s the best imo, his videos make you take a look at society at your life what you have done to it. Sandman he has general topics, his voice sounds very robotic but his content is always very interesting. Angry Mgtow his videos are what started me in this journey, …
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 03:45 PM
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Son I’d love too, that’s exactly why I’m starting to post things. Since finding the Redpill I’ve digested all things with maintaining a strong life. My life was good before, it’s gotten so much better. My job is in sales so I’m on the road for a lot of my days so I listen to YouTube, audio books and I’ve just jumped into this stuff. Since you’ve asked I’ll go through a list for you. Audio books I go through constantly and I mean I’ve listen to them at least 10 times over. “The rationale male, 48…
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 03:36 PM
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Just because you want it to be something doesn’t mean it is so. My view as I’ve stated is subjective, I can see it has put your panties in a bunch. Probably because this is you, get out of the basement and make something of yourself.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 03:13 PM
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Actually lll even go further, the majority of Mgtow men want to effect society by them withdrawing themselves from the rat race. How’s that gonna work if a bunch of losers withdrawal themselves? No ones gonna care, and Imo that is the difference between a Mgtow man and TFL, with Mgtow men, women and society hate to see them leave, True force loneliness, well no one cares.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 03:06 PM
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What is it? Explain your take, I explained mine.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:59 PM
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I don’t know about her being there for men as far as not for just her own interest. In her own relationship her man was a beat down dog but it was cool that she helped out men like that.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:47 PM
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Ask and you shall receive, I’m subbed to a bunch of Mgtow and redpills channels on YouTube. Work in all men field don’t have to worry about being outed as a Mra or something like that. So I get a ton of men’s related suggestions. Here is a guy who said he’s backed up Mgtow is freedom channel. https://youtu.be/2-ekxu8Mw2A
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:38 PM
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Haha, it’s what you want to make of it. Mgtow isn’t fuck women I’m just gonna go grab pizza and play more video games in my moms basement. Those are TFL guys, Mgtow is being a man that moves through life Of his own accord, takes from life what he wants and loves life. That’s my take on it, there have been discussions, arguments, debates on this very subject numerous times. The one thing that all minds can agree on don’t trust the women.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:30 PM
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When I was down on my luck I found a lady that has little studios for rent and she only rented to men. It was great for a couple hundred bucks and she had everything already on electric, water, the thing was even furnished. I stayed for a couple months till I went back to the farm. This would be a great market, only issue is you’d have to weed out the men with substance abuse problems.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:19 PM
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He’s gonna come back, they just recommended to him to make his channel private until his strikes fall off. The enlightened kiwi made a video for him after him and John talked.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:15 PM
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Spetsnaz is great, I listen to his stuff all the time. To bad he hasn’t made much lately.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:13 PM
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Whatever it is, they don’t want you to have it. Edit: that’s my short answer, but digging deeper into it more I’m sure she’s talking about beta male traits vs Alpha traits. Think sitcom Dad vs the king in the Vikings show.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:09 PM
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You lucky son of a gun
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 02:03 PM
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Just made a post in fatherhood about this. After they are done and grown up, it’s like a car you take care of it for 18 years and when it’s payed off it’s done. At least with a car you get to keep it but with a adult child they may call every so often but umm that’s about it, hahahaha. Kind of a cruel joke, considering I’m not one of those people who lives through my kids. My first adult is very successful, I’ll get back with after I finish my others.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 01:30 PM
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Here is link https://youtu.be/RI2Yt2lbMaA
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 01:24 PM
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Yep, it isn’t just some nut job either. She’s a professor at a University.
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 01:24 PM
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Here is link http://youtu.be/cKukSuYOGcU
/r/MGTOW04/11/17 12:55 PM
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Agreed, it helps men get to the anger phase. You have to go through that first to accept what you have allowed your life to be. How can you go your own way if you haven’t taken responsibility? In order to get there you have to see the manipulation.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 04:20 PM
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Be careful, it seems like every place is a hive mind. You either play along and stroke everyone off or offer a differing opinion and get attacked by keyboard warriors. The funniest shit is in Redpill subs where we are suppose to have control of our emotions they attack you like a emotional bitch.
/r/MGTOW03/11/17 04:17 PM
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You have to understand the behaviors either way. You’ll always have to deal in the system. Of course a lot of the FR are about chasing pussy but the sidebar and underlying application is so valuable. Think about this way, if you raise your level of worth so high that women will flock to you to fuck you, how will everyone else treat you? I picture Mgtow men the same way except they are like a happily married women, except they love themselves more then anything and the women part doesn’t matter.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 06:56 PM
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Boot camp for men on how to be a feminist? Wow, and that’s gonna help men with women to be more feeling. Again this is why the Redpill message needs to get out there. It’s a culture war and if they win society as a whole will suffer. You already see it in workplaces with sensitivity training. Also universities and the demonization of men before they even start class.
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 08:14 PM
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Redpill is geared towards banging pussy. MRP is how to maintain a pussy. Mgtow how to be satisfied with yourself. I enjoy all subs, they have each helped me in my journey. Beginning the journey is the most important part. My father is in his 70’s he’s gonna die miserable because he has never loved himself and still searching for validation. The majority of men will go through life working for that external validation.
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 07:30 PM
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I see what your saying, some of this shit is great. I send this shit to my partner she laughs it up. The one about the pregnancy test was a good one. Yeah some guys here are TFLers but they do need a place to go I’m sure. A good question is traction? What makes a mans mindset switch from I need to get laid to shit she’s gonna screw me over. The feminization of society is what’s causing havoc in the western world but how do you make it click. I’m sure the sidebar could be redone, like a 101 forwa…
/r/MGTOW23/10/17 12:13 AM
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Concern? I was asked why it added value
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 05:17 PM
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How is this so hard to believe? If you apply the teaching in all the books and videos you get these results. Redpill isn’t some seniority based philosophy where you have to be in it longer then others to get something great out of it. Redpill is something a student can easily surpass the master, all you need is the blueprint. Why? Because we are all different in ability, you’ve been here longer, so what I’m better looking. Oh your better looking? I have a better job. Oh yeah, he has a better job…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/17 08:20 AM
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This is exactly what I was talking about, but your a moderator. This dude took time out of his day to write a “imo” decent post that yes is 101 stuff but good for new guys and perk interest in this sub. You even went through his post history to argue a point he hasn’t been redpilled enough. I’d rather have a ton of these post then the whiny ones we’ve been getting lately. And no I didn’t go through your post, I’m sure your great.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 11:14 PM
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Hello mod, I would like to see if others agree as this place gets bigger I’ve seen a influx in men trying to reframe what a man is. I came here because of the frame work that has already been laid out. I work and I’m sure a bunch of other men also. As part of our journey we are working our asses off to improve our life’s and I don’t think it’s beneficial to see commenters or poster for that matter have to argue over points that have been taught in sidebar material. I lurk for most of the time an…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 10:52 PM
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Abundance mentality, you need it. “Another vagina bus will show up in 10 mins.” -Tom Leykis
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 10:36 PM
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Agreed, another great book or audio “The Rationale Male,” a great clip from the audio is hypergamy doesn’t care. Search it on YouTube, I listen to it every so often. I’ll explain, it says a lot of activities that us men think she should appreciate us for but Hypergamy doesn’t care. A lot of what your gonna figure out is your not giving her tingles anymore, it’s a nice way of saying arousing. Which is sad when you think about it...I don’t arouse my wife. Thanks MRP and Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 10:15 PM
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Constant improvement, always be pushing yourself. I know I had gotten lazy and all kinds of shit hit The Fan. I grabbed my balls and hit that grind, figured out it was my fault and took care of my business. Now I don’t just get iOi from the woman, I get it everywhere. Shit, I’ve even seen men pointing me out maybe to shit on me but the lady their with licking their fucken lips like I’m prime rib. Don’t do that, women will notice other men without you pointing them out and if it’s a guy like me I…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 09:54 PM
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Exactly, if your the man she won't. Never under estimate competition anxiety, it's one of the best tools a Redpilled living man can use. No women wants a man that no other women wants. If you have options, they won't want to give you a reason to leave them.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 05:04 PM
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I wouldn't believe it either, if my life hasn't been completely changed by it. I was a natural who lost my way after years of living life my way. Accepting responsibility like I used too before has brought my life back. I credit TRP, MRP, MGTOW, shit even the marriage, DB, and divorce subs to the rekindling of my life. Once you understand, you must love yourself more then anything else in this world it gets better. After all other people really don't give a fuck, unless you make it worth their w…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 01:25 PM
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I've wanted to post something like this in Marriage and Divorce subs. This is the underlying message of Redpill for men in a relationship. All the comments there are more like seek counseling, communicate more, try adjusting to her needs. These are men that are at the end of the rope, I mean they are asking for advice from some internet strangers. Its entertaining to see issues that could be fixed if they would come to these other subs. If those men would take this message and internalize it, it…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 01:17 PM
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In a relationship, Mgtow has helped my life with the mindset of love thy self first above all. TRP talks about mindset of abundance, as in there are more women out there who would enjoy a man of value but what if you really just want to make the relationship your in work and if not your done. That's what was the draw for me and all the talk about how feminism helped to push away masculinity. Being raised by a single mother It really interest me how it affects boys and their growth. Spetsnaz is a…
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 11:36 PM
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Since learning about all the underlying dynamics amongst people I've enjoyed life so much more. That guy at work that had a chip on his shoulder, I always thought something was wrong but now I know the truth. The majority of the time he has a women running his ass ragged at home. The women messing with you they are shit testing you, once you pass the test it's smooth sailing. Before I would keep my cool, but still feel emotional afterwards but now I know to be a redpilled man you must think logi…
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 09:18 PM
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I have a boss who makes good money, has two houses he owns free and clear, drives a top tier muscle car, just has his life together. Tells me the truth he never wants anyone, he's content with himself and knows the true nature of women. With other people he doesn't say why he's not with a women. He just says he just hasn't found the right one. They hook him up with girls in their 20'and 30's, of course he dates them for a couple months and moves on, he's in his 50's. Other people's desire to loc…
/r/MGTOW07/10/17 04:56 PM
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True, but that's giving others power over you. Red pill is controlling what you can, not what you are unable to see. Think abundance mentality, worrying about that crap is living a scarcity mindset. If she walks, she walks, you are a man of value and you can get another.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 06:30 PM
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There are different levels in a relationship, when she's going from down right asshole to shit testing I would say your applying dread and she's fighting it. There are other levels, there was a post that was a top post on TRP a while back that explained the top level of relationship. When she's happy, giddy, enjoying your presences, just wants you with her, you know you hit a sweet spot. Women are in a constant emotional state like a child. Think about your kids would you want them to be constan…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 01:18 PM
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This picture hit me hard because it's the way I feel. I was born into a family that got broken up early and I was then raised by a single mother, as the story goes broken families produce incomplete individuals. I'm the incomplete individual but I've worked very hard to make sure my son is the man I'll never be.
/r/MensRights29/09/17 03:10 AM
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He loved you very much, why do you think he worked so hard. It's a fine line we have to walk in caring for our sons. We show too much it's natural for our young developing men to think we are weak, we show too little they think we don't care. I'm trying hard with my boy, but it's a struggle.
/r/MensRights28/09/17 12:08 PM
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Always live life for yourself, set yourself up so no matter who's in or out of it, your life will be great. I've done things in life to make sure other peoples were comfortable , and taken care of, sacrificing my needs and time in the process. What it comes down to is us men have no safety net, when we fall there will be no one to pick us up. We have to pick ourselves up, if, if we want a good life. The really odd thing is when you live life for you, life is better. You get more respect, because…
/r/MGTOW21/09/17 01:51 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with your wants. If you want it, find it, take it, live with it. Doesn't matter what others think, that's what's so great about self improvement, it's for the self no one else. A lot of men came to MRP because we knew we were lacking in our relationship and wanted to figure it out. I don't know about others but my relationship was about to end and I wanted so bad to make it work for my kids sake. I was at a loss, and then I found MGTOW, TRP, and other subs an…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 06:36 PM
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Anywhere you guys go out. That good looking female at the supplement store, the lady helping you with shirts at Jcpenny, shit the hot pharmacist that helps with your prescription, they are everywhere. "Nothing makes a women want a man more then a man other women want to fuck." - Rollo That's part of the sidebar required material "The Rationale Male." EIC stands for entrepreneur in cars, it's a YouTube channel, he also does stuff with cars.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 02:10 PM
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And the hamster is warming up. Next get good at talking with high value women that show interest. Nothing like competition anxiety to push the hamster into a full sprint. Depending on your fitness level once the gains show through the beta bod you'll see even more changes. Go through all the content, read, read and watch some good videos. I like EIC he covers good topics and doesn't put you too sleep with his voice.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 01:32 PM
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The man explains the situation that you get when you own your shit. There is a lot more too it. I didn't go back through his history but women can become deranged people, extremely entitled and very unappreciative. He may not be the type to share the rest but I'm sure the sex was amazing that night. Before the pill I'm sure that wasn't the case, shit maybe a kiss in 3 weeks was the best he'd get. The best place that you want your partner is as the fun loving women she was when she was trying to …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/17 12:33 PM
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Mgtow men don't want to deal with the bullshit your dealing with. Then you put a restriction on advice that you don't want to hear "leave her advice?" I'm in a relationship but enjoy the content on this sub. I'd say your in MRP territory or just TRP territory. It's up to you MRP will tell you how to maintain a women but it ain't easy because you have to fix yourself and see if she follows. TRP will tell you to if you still like her, which means you want to fuck her more, demote her to plate stat…
/r/MGTOW24/08/17 12:18 PM
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So fucken this, always go to the comments. I was reading...hmm sounds interesting but it doesn't add up maybe he needs to lift... bam boot in ass get to work son. Thanks I should add more then just be a cheerleader. I too have a high powered partner, she negotiates, hires, fires, a down right ball busting *****. I read it in one of the post I believe from this sub, he said only a real Alpha living man will ever experience the female in her true feminine form. He was right, she goes to work kicks…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 07:24 PM
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Thanks for this, i have taken a lot of things into account. It helps out to be aware of what your going to do if your relationship blows up. Some of the men here are on the tail end of the relationship and this information can help them adjust and maybe even stick it out a little longer to get there eggs in a basket. I was listening to a Tom Leykis show yesterday and they were talking about a similar issue. On the other end the females divorce attorney advised the callers mom to stop working and…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/17 01:23 PM
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It's all here son, within these subs you can get all you need. Digest the sidebar in all these subs. I'll link some of my favorites and give you a list of the books I think are great. The marriedredpill sidebar is wonderfully put together, it has a 101 layout. I went through the YouTube links and one of the best for Mgtow minded men isn't there so definitely check out his stuff. Spestnaz made imo some of the best mindset videos out there. R/Marriedredpill R/Theredpill R/Mgtow Digest all the side…
/r/MGTOW12/08/17 01:07 PM
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Read, you can be strong in body but weak in mind. 48 laws of power is also required reading for RP men. The 19 law comes to mind, be careful who you offend. The story about Ghengis Khan is great. I'm great in my occupation but I don't attract the wrong attention. I ride the waves, sometimes I even lead them. I left my last job and one of my partners asked me, "Poofy there's a bunch of assholes over there what are you gonna do." My response "I don't know, I'll see what happens." He gave me one of…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/17 04:39 AM
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That's why I come to the comments. Thanks for the recommended reading. Now my take on it for our partner here, I work with men. Hard men, soft men, weak men, strong men, loud men, meek men, all types. Just like the women they respect a man who owns his shit. You lift, but does it look like you lift? You work but does it look like you work. Can run 14 fucken hours and say is that all you got? I've always been able to work within a team, sometimes thrive other times fall behind. It was a hit and m…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/17 10:17 PM
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There is no better indicator then a man who has a women, to other women. If other women want you they think you have something going on that they want. When I take my women out, my partner or daughter who are both attractive women I get much more attention. Also when your already with a women you have a less needy mindset. Neediness is a huge turn off for women, if you need them they definitely don't want you. When you are a man on a mission, in your own world, doing your own thing, that's when …
/r/MGTOW06/08/17 12:50 PM
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I had the same idea, I didn't want to bring it out but. It seemed to me like she was just trying to get out of eating around that area. The crying afterwards was for her flipping the script on you, not only did she get out of being seen in public with you but she gets you kissing her ass afterwards. I've felt some odd tension in the areas where my partner works at also. I will tell you what I did, and it changed. You may or may not be having issues because you feel something isn't right with you…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/17 06:57 PM
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Yes and yes, I made friends fine. Think about it this way, would you cross a friend who was a asshole or a friend who was quiet and went along with everything. I'm referring to asshole as having a natural IDGAF attitude. As far as attracting women I never had a problem getting the ones I wanted.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 03:14 AM
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I think your assuming he has the option to not see that same person again. What if it's a co-worker and he's getting bullied to where his job performance is being questioned? Or in a social circle and his dating prospects are being affected because said jerks are making him look like crap. I know it's all good to say turn the other cheek but life is ever changing, you can make your own way or be moved by others waves.
/r/askTRP31/07/17 01:01 AM
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48 laws is essential, I have it on audio and go through it monthly. What's very interesting to me is another book I read before I found the pill was Manvotionals: timeless wisdom. It talks about virtuous men, honor and all this feel good stuff. Then you go through laws of power and some of the men quoted in the book were fucken cutthroat. There is a lesson in there, somewhere along the line that good men have to make tough decisions and not everyone wins.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 10:37 PM
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I've given myself rules in confrontations and it has worked well for years. I will say as my relationship and myself slipped into a beta world I acted as such. Until I found the information contained in these subs I didn't understand what was going on. When I was young I was a arrogant asshole. I was in the military could do a shit ton of pull ups and all this other crap that helped my physique. "Yeah shut the fuck up Poofy. What's your point?." I had this attitude that I don't give a shit about…
/r/askTRP30/07/17 06:22 PM
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I enjoy them all, but if I'd had to chose a favorite I'd go with Male Grief - The Method. To me It's about letting go, and that's what brings the freedom. In second would be Male Martyr
/r/MGTOW28/07/17 12:19 AM
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Glad to see you found this place, I see the place your at. Mgtow is a place to find mindset, after all we've been programmed to want to always be in a relationship. It's that idea that keeps me coming back and reading the post. I will tell you a lot of the information of Mgtow has already been created. I listen to Spetsnaz on a weekly basis, his videos talk about this mindset. The hardest time comes to the men who can have women but just don't want to do it anymore. I don't know what changes in …
/r/MGTOW27/07/17 12:39 PM
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YouTube search Tom Leykis, his shows are very entertaining and he talks a lot about a alternative path. In between Mgtow and bluepill, he leans more towards Redpill but his crutch is his money, and the majority of us here don't have millions. So he can get by with being a big boy. That's why TRP preaches lift because it's the cheapest and fastest improvement you can do for yourself. You sound like you want that type of life. Not marriage but not be celibate, check his shows out.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 04:53 AM
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It's a guide on how to get pussy in today's society. It also helps you not be a beta male, such as being in the friend zone or being a orbiter. Alpha behavior is what turns a female on, beta behavior is what turns them off. It also helps with a mans masculinity, a lot of us men were raised by single mothers and or also with a weak father that the mother mother brow beat down. Are you the type of man that can't walk into a room of males and assert yourself? Well raising your masculine traits help…
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 04:46 AM
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Go check out marriedredpill, you'd fit in with those guys. I enjoy Mgtow for the mindset material, teaching men how to be content with being alone. Even though I have a partner it isn't always like that, and who knows what the future holds.
/r/MGTOW22/07/17 04:23 AM
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I've read some guys expect changes within the first couple months but shit if you've lifted for years gentlemen know it takes months before any gains are realized. Especially if you've been out of it for a couple years and then there are new guys who have never lifted, they want a cookie for attempting fitness when women are like anyone else in life results count. Be honest with yourself, get results first then expect cookies.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/17 10:25 PM
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That's exactly what they want to do. Drag you down to there level, read "The Rationale Male"it explains a lot, I do the audiobook and go through it every so often. You are putting yourself in a great position, besides not getting into responsibilities with women watch your debts. Being so young and with a positive mindset you can build yourself up, gain skills, build your body, grow your mind, start a future plan with retirement in mind. Once you have the confidence in what your doing, instead o…
/r/MGTOW19/07/17 11:58 AM
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I'd like to second that, thanks to all the men who post here and other subs like these. I had a way with women back in the day but I never knew what I was actually doing just using my natural gifts and my thirst for women to get by. Now with all the videos, readings and post I have a more focused understanding of the world. I'd like to share a gentlemen I ran into through my videos. Search YouTube Tom Leykis, a lot of people post his shows they are very entertaining and informative. Good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/17 05:07 AM
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It's so easy for us to walk away from this shit but someone said taking care of kids until they are old enough is better then taking care of deadbeat kids when your in your 60's. It's a tough decision, it's easy if it's just a couple but once kids are involved it jacks up the whole situation. You may be absolutely right but I've read a lot of twochromosones post and that's exactly what they would say, "dump him move on." With men if it's in our control you can still have some what of a say. You …
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 03:02 AM
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I've read a lot of people talk about parents fighting a lot because they are staying together for the kids. I understand uneducated people who don't understand the game but this is MGTOW sub, there are thousands of videos related to this. There are also other sub that will help with this. It's about a independent mindset, what's the real difference between being alone and being with someone for the kids. No reason to fight, just raise the kids and adjust to a situation where slowly you are going…
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 02:48 AM
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I'm talking in a professional setting, I'm not walking around trying to feel a bunch of mens hands. I don't think the question is are you Alpha or not. It's just are your gonna let some guy smash your hands? I don't know how many guys hands you shake but I think on a daily I run into 5 or more and it's just a respectful greeting but the younger guys do this. Your last part is I'd love too punch them in the face for trying to smash my hand for no reason but I wouldn't keep my job after that. They…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 01:29 AM
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I've noticed the squeezing of hands from a lot of younger men. I give a firm handshake but I'm always ready for the squeeze and I have a tradesman grip enhanced with weightlifting so I can crush their grip and will if they try. Why wouldn't you crush their hand? I'm curious, when I first noticed this trend and just let them squeeze without crushing them, it didn't feel right. Now that I grip tighter, it just seems like another way to assert dominance.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 04:35 AM
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If it bothers you now, it will bother you later. Just walk away.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 11:34 AM
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It's not that MRP gives them a pass but we are honest that we MAY have been the cause and do not completely absolve ourselves from being responsible. It's if we always looked at all the fucked up shit the women have done to us and always holding baggage how can we ever move on? We aren't young, we have gotten lazy, we have to work at maintaining our physiques, our bosses have beat us down so bad we find outlets and it is sometimes directed at our families. Getting olds a bitch, it's not for puss…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/17 03:21 PM
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I don't believe he's acting like feminist, he's trying to warn men in their prime years what not to do. Could he have done it less callous? I'm sure he could but his point has a lot of weight to it. Men who have made it that far without getting kids are prime real estate. Especially the ones with a decent job and in a cozy financial situation. Why would you want to get a ready made family that you didn't even make and have to pay for it and not get the respect? I've seen it time and time again, …
/r/MGTOW29/06/17 12:05 PM
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Abundance helps this, if you know you can get other women easily your on the right track. You should know you are the man and you add value to her life. Even though you don't plan on leaving be the man that she wants and others want. This keeps you in the right mindset. I live by strong body, strong mind, strong soul. I've improved those core areas in my life and I now control my life. This helps you raise your value. If I can keep her in the right mood I know I'm in the right frame, it only tak…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/17 11:31 AM
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Exactly, after they mistook my daughter for my girlfriend. My college educated daughter then tells me she wouldn't be with a man in my trade. This man and his trade took care of her little ass all the way through school. Felt like Rodney Dangerfield that day.
/r/MGTOW26/06/17 01:12 PM
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It seems weird but thinking about it that logic makes it very acceptable.
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 11:31 PM
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Make sure to take care of you. Every decision in life should be with yourself in mind. If I'd have known I and only I would be here for myself 20 years down the road I would have lived differently. Gather skills, experiences, think about 20 years in the military and gather pension and experience, also travel while in. Either way just have a plan for yourself, adjust as needed but make sure you enjoy it. Protect yourself financially, physically, mentally. Your way ahead of the game just by unders…
/r/MGTOW22/06/17 11:39 AM
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I'll get downvoted to heck and beyond, my family life has been saved by TRP. Pm if you want to hear the other side of it. You say he was a great man until, so you still want to work at it. I know of one major change you could try and it would up right your partnership.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 12:20 PM
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Came from a divorced family, was raised in the typical manner by a women. Not until my family life was going by the way side did I find the pill and see all the damage single mothers do to their kids. It's a sad state we live in when this situation is encouraged and pushing women away from working on the family. I'm glad I chose to push through for my kids. I'm teaching them and anyone that will listen, independence, and validation from no one but yourself is what matters.
/r/MGTOW13/06/17 10:04 PM
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I've been thinking about a travel trailer for retirement but it would work out good for Mgtow gentleman. Looked up some of the rates near the beach 470 a week, that's in a high tourist area. Rates should go down from there.
/r/MGTOW13/06/17 01:49 PM
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I see, yeah you are having issue with the men in their anger phase. It comes after you've been burned, how long it last who knows but that fire is what comes from being screwed over. I'd make sure to listen carefully because their relationship started and were created also with the best of intentions.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:05 PM
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It is a choice, hence Mgtow. Men here who have been burned or completely aware of the issues warn other men of the consequences and try and deter them. When you get married or shack up with a partner for who knows how many years and then find yourself in a bad situation. You are gonna sit there and say man if only someone had warned me of these issues. Well through the manosphere and other content on the net men are being armed and warned about the risk. Some men who create this content want to …
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:52 AM
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You dodged a bullet, imagine if you had given in and had kids. Not only would you be pissed abut a guy at her place but kids to deal with sharing and paying for. Great job standing your ground.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:33 AM
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Philosophy (from Greek φιλοσοφία, philosophia, literally "love of wisdom"[1][2][3][4]) is the study of general and fundamental problems concerning matters such as existence, knowledge, values, reason, mind, and language.[5][6] The term was probably coined by Pythagoras (c. 570 – c. 495 BC). Philosophical methods include questioning, critical discussion, rational argument and systematic presentation.[7][8] Classic philosophical questions include: Is it possible to know anything and to prove it?[9…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 11:11 PM
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It is great, the change in life when you follow the philosophy. I found TMRP not too long ago but before that I was using all redpill and Mgtow material as a blueprint. Redpill for how to game wife, can't spin plates when you have only one plate. Mgtow for the strength in self reliance, not the angry side but the men that have accepted the world the way it is. They all overlap with certain ideas but TMRP is for LTR men. I see a lot of those post and my mornings I try and post one comment, not so…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/17 11:56 AM
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Have you really worked on yourself first? Have you lifted, building abundance in your life, with everything. I read a couple of comments saying you shouldn't have to make more more money. Which is true but you do have to bring your best to the table. Has your body been improving, when you go out do other women see your worth? Gaming the wife can be exhausting and a lot of work especially when your new to all this but that's exactly what it is work. When you see the out come and change in your li…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/17 11:25 AM
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I've been told by her, it's her job and she enjoys doing it for the family.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/17 09:10 PM
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True, I don't know what you would categorize this as but maybe it was a opening for sex. You said you've been working on yourself, she may be submitting to you. Just look for the signs to open up, one big thing I've taken from the pill is watch her actions she's more attracted to you then you think. And don't talk about what does she wants, I just escalate it with kino. It is weird using tools to game a women we've been with for years but hey it works, and who am I to question that. I've gotten …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 02:19 PM
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Make sure your divorce situation is all squared away. Once your wife finds out your value, as in seeing you with girls you used to think were out of your league. Shes either gonna want to beg you back or be one hell of a bitch with everything from that point on.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/17 12:08 PM
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I agree, I see both sides but when in my life the pill has been such a positive influence and I see men suffering. And I mean in turmoil, as in about to be divorced, wife's are leaving, monkey branching in 1-2-3, kids acting out, families just falling apart. I never realized just how much society runs by gender dynamics and how it affects everyone. Also never knew how many really weak men there are out there. I agree though, you can't help them unless they come to you for advice even then who's …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 02:16 AM
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Turn him onto marriedredpill, I don't know if it would work must guy's are just so far gone. After seeing life through redpilled eyes you see all these issues. I'm close with a lot of men and this is the source of most misery amongst men. Divorcees, or relationships heading toward one, alimony payments, retirement confiscations, lack of sex, the list just goes on and on. It's a rough life out there, for those of you who can stay strong more power to you.
/r/MGTOW25/05/17 03:02 PM
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I read a post similar to this question, one good suggestions. Just say you haven't found the right one. If they offer help, just say whoever or whatever nah isn't your type. "She's not my type, too tall, too short, too dark, too light, not the right whatever." Also the advice was people see you happily alone and they want you to be connected miserable, like them. Haha
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 02:17 PM
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Even men who are living the lifestyle have a hard time understanding this. They've been doing Mgtow for whatever reasons on there own then to come find out there is a whole community. I think it's tough for them to swallow. I feel your plight because so much of the manospheres information is life changing you just want to share it. I'm also coming to terms that if a man wants this information he must search for it himself or at least ask for advice.
/r/MGTOW21/05/17 12:28 AM
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It's should be fine, they haven't shutdown the Donald and look at all the crap they sling at them. They even have changed Reddits underlying mechanics to target them.
/r/MGTOW19/05/17 11:32 AM
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It took a couple months to show some good gains but now I'm just adding muscle on muscle. The hardest part is staying with a program, mean while your hoping your marriage isn't completely destroyed before you bring your backup. Men I will say it helps a shit ton, just look around, unless you run in some extremely high level circles most men don't take care of themselves. One quote I'll. Always keep with me "look at Michael Phelps, he trained something like 12,000 hours and all he had on the line…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/17 12:54 PM
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Exactly this, I just recently switched jobs where I was a established leader, It's a all man work field. Leaving my old area the atmosphere has began to crumble to infighting again. Even one of the gentlemen I used to have discussions with is now on the verge of divorce. I had a feeling that I was the glue that helped hold that place together. That place was humming, it was the place to go to work. We ran like a well oiled machine. Now at my new job I've had to work on the solidarity. It's a uph…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 11:48 AM
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She's giving him the attention he craves in all kinds of different ways. Then to top it off she's giving him the sex, that's the hook right there. It happens all the time, your just not plugged in anymore so you see the other side of relationships now.
/r/MGTOW11/05/17 08:26 AM
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Don't mistake pleasing everyone with that man being sought after. Since taking the pill I have people follow me around. Some will just stand there wanting to talk more but I've been the one having to cut people off. Now I have noticed some men who don't want to submit to my aura but I really dgaf but I'd say this don't be the hater.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 11:21 PM
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Here's the link https://youtu.be/E3TzOBARWAs
/r/MGTOW08/05/17 12:26 AM
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We are from the same family, I was raised as a utility. Shit I even embraced it, boasted about it only to realize when shit came crashing down. Where's my safety net? Who is there to take care of the man when his life is falling apart? That's exactly what I'm talking about. When I say become Independent i mean either way. With or without your family, you want a life right? I was in a similar boat but yes I fixed my issues but still either way if she had chosen to not work on our family I would h…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 11:45 PM
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Don't listen to some of the guys here. Mgtow has been infiltrated by TFLers, you want some sound advice and a place where some badass men roam. Go to marriedredpill, those are some strong fucken men. That's what you need, shit I could go through all my journey but it would take forever. I will tell you, you must make yourself independent of everything. Become your own man, lift, build your mind, build your soul. I was on a similar journey, I uprighted my ship. If you want to save your family, yo…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 10:38 PM
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I don't know if it's the true case. It may just be the culture at your job frowns upon overtime, so to go along with the herd everybody hates it. I've taken a passive approach to OT, I just say I'll take it if it's there and if not I'll go home. Don't let people know your true intent because for whatever reason they want to do the opposite. I would say "I want all the OT I can get" and low and behold, someone else nope I'll take it. Fine, "I want to go home early," yep you guessed it no one want…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 09:53 PM
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"The Rationale Male." Warbrides, it's in their nature to go with whoever the conquer is. If they didn't they'd die, that's part of hypergamy. It's a survival instinct, it's the same reason why she can dump you and be shacked up with another guy in a second.
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 09:31 PM
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Glad to see this, I enjoy all your post about game, theories and such. I've taken TRP and applied them to life and I agree it works in all avenues. That's why I cringe when TRP shits on MGTOW and vice verses because essentially TRP is about building the masculine and just making yourself a more attractive individual. And MGTOW there is a lot of information on mindset which builds the character and allows for true independence. Thanks to everyone that contributes, you've helped a old natural Alph…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 03:57 AM
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Be ready though, I've had the money deal come into my family. Matter of fact that is what started my journey. I forgot where I seen the statistics but it was in some of these posts. Most issues start when she makes 10% above the mans income. I'm surpassed that mark by a long shot. Stay strong, build yourself up. I almost lost my family to Hypergamy, at least that's what I felt it was. Definitely something was going on but because of kids I've worked my ass off to up right my ship. I'll tell you …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/17 08:15 PM
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The Rationale male would be a great starting point. It explains just about everything in detail, from the differences in the varying manosphere mindsets to the push back you'll get from AFC. I've found solace in Spetsnaz videos, some of his stuff is just beautiful. The main thing amongst all of this is grow your self, strong mind, strong soul, and strong body. Once you concentrate on that life seems to become more clear. Good luck
/r/MGTOW04/05/17 12:52 PM
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When do our actions become us? Who says you are who you are? This question has been answered multiple times. The rational male speaks clearly about this. It is one of the cornerstones of TRP, it took 12 years of research. Use it if you want to understand.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 10:04 PM
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You glorious bastards, I've found you
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/17 06:57 AM
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I let my rage out for months, as time progressed slowly the acceptance came. The more I read, studied, lifted and just enjoying my job helped me over come the truth I was having to swallow. Understanding relationships with all people and seeing how you've been used your whole life is a hard thing to accept but once you do it's s calmness that fills your inner self with peace. Occasionally there are cracks in my armor, but I realize now just about everything is within our control.
/r/MGTOW25/04/17 12:02 PM
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Mgtow is not true Force lonely people. TRP is exactly MGTOW Philosophies without the banging women part. TRP teaches how to be a man, of course the first thing these guys want is pussy but it's not the goal. TRP is about becoming a masculine man, a masculine man attracts all the right attention wether he wants to use it to bang women or he wants to use it to be fulfilled is his decision. I'm sorry but until you improve your life your gonna be sad, bitter, even angry. Mgtow and TRP isn't a place …
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 09:26 PM
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Succeed at everything you do just like the redpill preaches. It's been a long time since I was on the dating scene. But When I was single, my daughter was never hidden, the women just didn't care. I just made sure I was a catch. Had money, nice vehicle, decent place. I did get comments, like "wow, most guys try and hide it." My response was like one of the other comments," I'm looking to have fun, I take care of my kid. Not looking for a LTR." At the time I was still dating baby mama also. Told …
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 01:01 PM
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I know a ton of men who never figure it. Shit even myself I would have never seen the light without all the fine gentlemen of the manosphere. I know a man who is on his 3rd divorce but he'd jump in a heartbeat into another marriage. Only reason why he hasn't is he's on a self destruction path due to depression he works and goes home then downs a bunch of alcohol till he passes out. Mgtow, TRP, even some PUA guys have shown me the light.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 05:25 PM
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This is a new deal right. Working for a women you have to be like Bruce Lee said like water, have to be able to fit any mold. Something like that, it also works in general life. I have a acquaintance I'll call him, he's a executive level leader and his boss is a women and he charms the hell out of her. Not to much flirt because a women in leadership will sense it and may get offended and well if they don't well that's a different story. He taps into her emotions and just has her wrapped around h…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 08:33 PM
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Definitely learn as much as possible about your job. If you go at her very aggressive about it and she knows more then you and is able to prove it you will get put in her list of insubordinate males. But if your right and you can prove it, be respectful and explain the situation. Working for a women your gonna find it's like riding a wave at times it high tide and others it's low tide. The best part about understanding this is you'll be ready for the emotional ride, this isn't to say males won't…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 12:10 PM
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Definitely I have both on audiobook, those are filled with so much useful information I couldn't believe it. Chapter by chapter, Rollo took 12 years of research to compile the information in The Rationale Male. Not just that, he discussed it on forums continuously. Also look into the Mgtow stuff. I've been consuming all this information. TRP, Pua, and Mgtow, Ive used it to strengthen my relationship with my partner. The redpill is definitely on building your masculinity but I've found Mgtow to h…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:47 AM
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Grow the Alpha, your just getting shit tested daily. Learn how to stand up for yourself, tit for tat you know. Give what you get, he talks shit give it back but try and deflect it. You really can't just say "oh I'm Alpha." Are you really? have you been lifting? If you have do you have any gains to show? Is your mind in the right place? Sounds like your not in the right mindset if you can't handle stressful work environment. I work with a bunch of assholes, so I've learned how to get along with a…
/r/askTRP20/04/17 11:31 AM
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Just move her bag next time, of course say "Excuse me." Maybe even smile afterwards.
/r/MGTOW19/04/17 09:19 PM
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Took me a little while to find a good video to share with you. The money one was just one I had ran across that day. TRP is about self improvement, in order to fully see your own self worth you must first put your own best foot forward. If you want to know what it takes to be Alpha read "The Rationale Male." Or get the audio version it's sidebar reading, the information in there is golden. Here is a video I found that may be of interest to you. In the video itself it talks about a man crying out…
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 09:03 AM
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Sidebar reading, I've found a reading by Henry Rollins. Very enjoyable https://youtu.be/c_E5Z0MoNm0
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:32 AM
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Exactly, what they say and what they want are two different things. I work in a job where I work with different people daily, even those women respond better to not taking their shit. It's not about being a asshole either you just don't let them walk over you. Thanks, TRP
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 08:29 AM
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Also if you were talking about Spetsnaz, I really enjoy this one. Man on fire. https://youtu.be/MRA6LjB7OrY
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 12:08 AM
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I have a ton but I don't know what you guys enjoy here. I found this new guy the enlightened Kiwi yesterday. He's not as heavy hating on women, but interesting so far. https://youtu.be/GfBvZo-3ydo
/r/MGTOW13/04/17 12:06 AM
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No reason to name call, I'm just trying to be humorous with you. Here's a link that you may find interesting. Take care. https://youtu.be/E8lpzOkBBDw
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 08:48 PM
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Get out of the damn basement!!
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 05:57 PM
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I agree fully, the whole "Mgtow will show them." Won't really make a difference if it's just a bunch of basement dwelling men. Now if it starts being women start running into a bunch of outstanding men who won't marry or have children due to societal roadblocks and hazards. Thats when you may see change.
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 11:51 AM
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https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DScHA This is one of my favorite Mgtow vids. Spetsnaz doesn't really make any videos anymore but I feel he has a couple that are Mgtow master pieces they helped me come back from a dark place. I hope you enjoy these as much as I do. This particular video is a weekly listen for myself.
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 11:47 AM
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I get this post, but until you see the benefits people won't understand. I have two close men in my life who need these independent philosophies but one is following my lead and the other I'm having trouble getting him to try. I will report that men beyond my circle of influence seem to be motivated by my actions. Some come to me and talk about how they've stopped drinking so much and how they are starting a workout regime. These are older men past their 40's, it is encouraging to myself. Also t…
/r/MGTOW11/04/17 11:40 AM
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You really are ahead of the game. The core mindset of a man is strong body which you seem to have covered. Strong mind which includes finances also you seem to have covered, just learn more from the manosphere. The only area you seem to really need help is with your soul, strong soul. I listen to spetsnaz videos constantly, there are s few really good ones that guide my ideals and help with questions I have. I'll link one of my favorites but his whole catalog is great. https://youtu.be/8tf3B0DSc…
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 11:56 PM
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Big John has Mgtows back in this one. He wants to debate him, if anyone's able to get this to him. https://youtu.be/g1hQDmBnk8s
/r/MGTOW08/04/17 11:38 PM
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Just seen this video, enjoy. https://youtu.be/9iGqK6pFd1c
/r/MGTOW03/04/17 02:50 PM
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I've thought about this, I feel just improve yourself and in the end if you feel like having a companion there will always be one ready and willing. No matter your age.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:04 PM
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I'm always preaching strong body, mind, and soul. I've learned so much from everyone within the Manosphere and it's amazing the simplest blueprint has become the most effective for my life. I agree, all areas must be strong. I'm always battling within myself the soul part, the need to depend on my partner.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 03:51 PM
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Definitely do not feel bad you have plenty of life to live. I found these philosophies out of necessity, I had found myself in a dying LTR. It would have been easier to throw in the towel but I didn't want my kids to live the same life I suffered through. Through TRP and MGTOW I found a template for a chance at redemption and so far it's been working. If my partner wouldn't have been accepting of this new life I'd have to had given up. Always improve and push to be the best you can be and if tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 01:00 PM
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You may not be ready for Monk Mgtow. I've read a lot of men say there's a certain number of women you have been with that you will feel content afterwards. Right now Mgtow itself is in a debate era, idk how long it will last. Some Mgtow are saying a Mgtow can only be TFL mode and the other side is saying don't marry, don't kids but sex is ok. If you feel this urge imo you shouldn't run from it because eventually you'll give into your man desires and you may land on a women that makes you feel li…
/r/MGTOW25/03/17 02:06 PM
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You're preaching Abundance, I get it. It's great for all you single guys out there but for us LTR that want to maintain a good household this is golden advice. Think of it like a automobile, a good owner maintains it so it doesn't break on us. Be the best you can be and if she doesn't respect that well then it definitely is time to throw in the towel.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:47 PM
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There was no red pill or manosphere. Men believed women and it's been a transition from a decent partner to what most men have been given now. Also women with all their flaws, men still enjoy them. With this community now you don't have to go blindly forward into the mess with your eyes covered. One youtuber explained why he pushes so hard to get this information out. Male suicide is alarmingly high and if he's able to just help one man not take his life he'll have done a service.
/r/MGTOW07/03/17 12:07 PM
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I was Alpha to my oldest, problem was she was a girl. She's already hurt one beta bad, she's basically a man with resentment towards my harshness but she's a badass women. Out of the house right after high school, pays her own way for everything. Putting her self through college, but she complained about how harsh I was with her and I took it too heart. Developed beta traits raising my boy and after finding out what I was doing wrong he doesn't know what the heck hit him. His grades were sufferi…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 02:34 PM
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Like the example "hard to go beta to Alpha." I went Alpha to beta, I had no idea then I found you gentlemen and I'd like to give this sub credit for saving a family. Had no idea I had it right the first time, beta traits even affect the kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:42 PM
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I liked your in depth answer. What about money? My partner works with people who make a lot more money then me. Occasionally this subject comes up. It feels disrespectful when she boast about how much money the guys at her work make. I've tried being silent after this but then it does seem like I'm butt hurt about it. It's not the first or do I think it's the last time.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 07:18 PM
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Agreed, I came here for some of these exact reasons. You may be letting some of your beta traits reemerge, if your able to hold frame it should adjust itself. Some of the things here are unnatural for myself but just trust in TRP. Lastly you said you can't walk away, that's actually very important you must always be ready to walk away. A independent man is a strong man, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 11:22 AM
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Just my two cents but maybe it's not so much the achievement. He could be trying to encourage your fitness, he enjoys seeing you building your body. Shaming a women doesn't work but I've seen encouragement is a good motivator.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 12:12 PM
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Is he redpill? Redpill women can only be if the man is also redpill. When mother runs the household it creates betas. It's great that your trying to be the women he needs but he also needs to be the man you need. I protect my women from as many negative aspects that I am capable of, friends and family included. https://youtu.be/PGyduVLBJoI https://youtu.be/qoFVbL5pAS8 I apologize for not fully disclosing why. New to this sub but I seen no one had answered her, hope this helps to explain. The red…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/17 11:01 AM
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Your brother is like this because of your mother. It's too bad it's been going on for so long, that it's gotten this bad. I have seen brothers even after death of mother will think it's there families problem to help them. Your not your brothers utility either. Wish you well, good luck your in a predicament. Let go of them for your own life or stay and help their mess, either way consequences.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 06:50 PM
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I'm on the other side, I have a constant changing environment at work. I run into all sorts of people. Due to TRP, younger gents seemed to have a taken a interest in me. I'm trying to make sure to steer them the correct way so I'm constantly studying all there is about TRP and related subjects. I was one of those younger men once without a path, I too wish someone had directed me a different way. Seeing post like this encourage me.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 12:09 PM
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It's kinda like that but a bit more. Here are a few examples: you lift so you have a goal of benching 300lbs, your not gonna tell yourself you can't do it because if you do, you won't. Another one, your a drone at your job. You take orders from everyone and anyone but a promotion comes up, you have to tell yourself your great at your job and your ready for that position. Again if you say you can't, well you won't. Like in the military you always act like your a grade higher.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 11:52 AM
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For us LTR though my experience of course can't have that part but the others hit the nail on the head. I've practiced this and it has given my life strength. At work, them knowing that at anytime I can walk away, respect. My finances help that with abundance mentality, knowing in life I'm able to just walk away. Of course the thought of abundance that if your relationship fails everything will be ok is reassuring. Great post, thanks for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 11:45 AM
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And understand your body, learning about sex at the wrong time could get you a kid. Don't do that, be safe.
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 06:33 PM
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We aren't dead brother, we are right here.
/r/MGTOW16/02/17 06:29 PM
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Too much talking maybe? Sounds like she knows a bit about your future plans, and i read it doesn't really include a LTR. More sex and less talking next time. Just my two cents.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:24 PM
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Good luck, time to find your solitude. Improve your frame, be the man you now know your capable of.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 06:17 PM
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Only problem is they see the same crap and the passive aggressive comments about not getting anything take there toll. I've had years when I send some good stuff and years where I don't but it's always a chance because Awalt, and it may just be a emotional day for yours. I've gotten in the habit about getting her something not to expensive, but just so she can say see my old man cares after all these years. Then we can move onto the next day.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 11:26 AM
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I've seen dread game used in quite a few post, are there any good post or other information on this subject?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:31 PM
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Or when you have kids, but glad you guys are out here showing the problems that men will go through. All these points are extremely valid, I completely agree you have to be ready to walk away and be secure in your own right.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 08:27 PM
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Swim, swim, swim... that will help you drop weight good. Try it a couple weeks, it's better for your joints and it's a whole body workout.
/r/MGTOW11/02/17 09:43 PM
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We preach brotherhood here but yet I read shit like this. No ass is worth destroying another mans family. But I get it, they are the sheep your the wolf. Just remember one day you could be the sheep.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:46 PM
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He found out something in her past that he didn't like. She failed to disclose and he found out. I'd say he has every right to pull out.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 12:45 PM
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He's trying to explain another philosophy from another sub in a sub about self improvement and masculinity . I only understand what's he's getting at because I subscribe to both. I'm just a subscriber here but do we want men to understand what happens afterwards? If you work on game and land the baddest female and want to keep her and somehow you lose the game. As in marry her have kids and divorce, lose family. I can't promise anything because as you said women are emotional beings but if you l…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 01:21 PM
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I work in a majority white and Hispanic field and I have brothers of both colors. The one thing I always ask, who's countries would you rather live in? These countries aren't magically better for a reason. Those societies require a certain mind set, to change that formula would change the outcome. We can't change our race but we can change how we act toward each other. Try it you'd be surprised at the results.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:58 PM
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Hello partner, I'm in same boat. I'm glad I've found this sub it's helped my life enormously. The main thing I had to learn were these same skills work on matured women with kids. At first I thought this stuff won't work on my relationship but low and behold it's stop this leaking ship.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:51 PM
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I'm a reader not poster, I appreciate most post here. If I don't, I close post and move on. Thank everyone for all content, but think about it. Some of these men posting here are those Chads you see out with the hot girl you only look at. They are actually sharing a piece of their knowledge with you. I'm not looking for women but in a LTR and I've applied things I've learned here and they are working. My relationship was slowly falling apart due to blue pill taking over my being. Funny thing is …
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:42 PM
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This is exactly what the sub talks about in the Mano sphere. As men we have to be able to accept constructive criticism. I mean in my opinion it's not like he's shitting on anyone that is truly practicing TRP. Since Friday idk if any of you gentlemen ran into it but it just seemed like something has been in the air, but Men are acting on their beta traits more in my neck of the woods. If you have jumped into the majority of guides, the number one rule IS fitness. If your here and digesting all h…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:26 PM
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The game never ends, that's why married men are here too. What went wrong or what is going wrong? That's the first question we have when we decide to find something. I'd say the same goes for married guys also, keep updating yourself, for the rewards of sex. I don't know how many men have confide in me about the lack of sex in there LTR. Live TRP, it may just save your relationship.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:00 PM
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I'd say read here, learn here, apply the philosophies you'd be surprised at the outcomes. Like one of my post I said there are times that it feels really unnatural to me to do things that are taught here, but they work. Definitely "lift," I believe most post about rules here make that number 1. Before you give up make yourself a better self. Then if it's time to throw in the towel do it. But at that time you'll be in a lot better position. Stronger mind, stronger body, stronger soul, good luck.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:48 PM
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It's tough if you have a family and it arises. Have to swallow that pill fast and make some changes.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 07:32 PM
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He's not the first or the last person to give you unwanted advice. Just do like you would with anyone else listen and hear his point of view then do what you want. The other aspect, why he does this he probably wants to live through you. He sees his young, healthy son and thinks man if I had what he has...and so forth. Your understanding of his failures but respect for his input shows your love of him. Keep it up. Last thing for a quick shutdown for anyone. Just say "I'm too busy learning/making…
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 10:59 AM
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Thanks for sharing, your understanding of life is great. Self appreciation is the main focus in life. Once you find it you can just forge your own path.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 01:59 PM
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Use the knowledge daily. It's very satisfying seeing the philosophies at work.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 12:17 PM
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I've spoken with quite a few only because with this knowledge for some reason men like to tell me a lot. I don't name the philosophy but I make suggestions, text them some of the great writings here. Even if your not giving up women completely these philosophies help with relationships.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 04:01 AM
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Your absolutely right, queen bee is a female thing. Society now has men who act like women. A queen bee is someone who usually has no power but rules through intimidation. Where as a true leader will lead by example and yes banter here and there but not at the expense of a individuals worth. And 800 lines are usually posted on work place walls for harassment and intimidation. It's hilarious when someone who's a bully or close too uses these.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 09:30 PM
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I've been in a lot of these situations and i enjoy them but at times I'd say it is usually the queen bee because they are usually a little whiner themselves. If it's a good queen he'll take his licks and move on when challenged, I've had literally bees call harassment on me. That good ole 800 number posted at shops. Be wary of the supposedly leader that can dish it but can't take it.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 07:10 PM
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I see what your saying but I meant more on the lines of girls becoming women. My daughters a adult and very strong willed. She runs over her man and it's great now but as time moves on she's gonna get tired of her beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 07:43 PM
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What about daughters? I've raised one and she's out of the house now extremely strong willed. Reading through the redpill idk how she'll be in life. I know she runs over her man because I've made her so masculine. What should we do when raising our little girls? I don't want to raise them to be stepping stones. Any insight?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 01:58 PM
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I think he did what he was able to do. He did say he gets very emotional, so this is his first step. First you have to realize if there is any hope for the relationship. Truly if she would have just continued with bad behavior then one can only assume she's just trying to push for something else. Seeing her reaction is also assuring to him, it is also nice to see what you learn here is actually true. There are times where I want to get emotional and I have to hold it in because it's likely a shi…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 01:11 PM
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Not trying to get out but it's been a great journey reading through all this and listening to a lot of podcast. A lot of these philosophies are spot on, Spetsnaz has been my favorite.
/r/MGTOW28/12/16 01:06 AM
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