I feel like shit.

tortillastomper · 2018-01-05T07:31:02+00:00

Depends on how bad you fucked up. Sometimes you just can't get over it right away especially of you really messed up, and you should feel like shit in that case. How else will you learn.

fuu999 · 2018-01-05T13:01:55+00:00

That sounds like you raw dogged the next door landwales, quit drinking!

unsheddogmatisms · 2018-01-05T08:04:48+00:00

On mistakes: embrace (don't fear) them and adapt.

What do you guys do besides hobbys and training to feel better and stop beating yourself?

Internalized stoicism + non-attachment can completely nullify that (works for me), though it may take some time and reading.

Just let go: No need to linger (negative emotions) on things that have come to pass, or are out of your control. Take it easy.

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-01-05T07:47:18+00:00

Keep moving forward.

sidel3 · 2018-01-05T13:56:09+00:00

Go to your local family court for a couple of hours and come out feeling better about yourself.

Ed_Moy · 2018-01-05T16:27:44+00:00

Go hiking on the easy path, once a week I take a 5.5 mile hike up the long way. It's basically extreme walking, the other paths you have to be part billy-goat to climb up. Turn off the phone and spend time walking and thinking. By the time I'm finished, I have a better handling of the situation.

There is an old Samurai tenant that works for me: Do not spend more than 7 breaths thinking of how to solve a problem. You have the answer, but you will over-think it past the seventh breath. Find your answer and commit to it.

I use the Seven Breaths to find my answer then I spend time hiking, to think it through to its logical conclusion and see if it works best for my scenario.

Jarwanator · 2018-01-05T11:35:20+00:00

If you made a mistake, acknowledge you made a mistake, accept it and move on. If it is something you can fix yourself then focus on yourself. If it is something that you may need outside help to rationalise and work through, then may be speak to a close friend.

Whatever it is, don't do anything stupid that may harm you physically and emotionally. It doesn't matter if the glass is half empty or half full, what matters is if we keep holding on to that glass for so long, its gonna hurt us regardless!

thenibelung · 2018-01-05T13:08:22+00:00

I made a mistake too, regardless of anticipating her behavior and everything I’ve learned with MGTOW.

Listen to Sandman in YouTube, that’s what I do.

Fix it, mitigate risks, and walk away.

Poofysmoof · 2018-01-05T12:51:47+00:00

Read, listen to lots of videos, audio books. All this information is so interesting to me. We’ve all been living life thinking it worked one way and you find out how things really are. After you figure out the under lying framework, everything becomes so entertaining. Life changes so much once you get to that point. Keep pushing forward it gets better, so much better.

Title	I feel like shit.
Author	dontmindme12345
Upvotes	14
Comments	10
Date	January 5, 2018 7:25 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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