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“So what happened to your girlfriend? Why did she dump you?” "My dick was too big for her." "I know. I didn't mind dating down because she has a great personality." dude, this is beginner A&A territory. Just let this stuff flow naturally. You were given the gift of preselection...run with it!
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:15 PM
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I only have a little bit, so I'm going to shoot from the hip now. You're a career beta. She knows it. Everyone knows it. Except you. You've found MRP, and now you're a child playing with dynamite. And shit blows up some times. She's just had a baby. You're in NY. Coronavirus is fucking up the world. She's at HER PARENTS house. (hint: she's not at your extra house in the Hamptons). SHE'S SCARED AS FUCK. And, she has no alpha, no oak, no man around to help her know it's all going to be okay; becau…
/r/askMRP08/04/20 12:52 AM
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Never, ever, ever live with a woman unless you're within a few months of getting married. Ever. she wants us to cohabitate. I declined. Good for you. She made it clear that staying friends is not an option. Either play the game or quit it. Ultimatums themselves are a reason to end a relationship. Your only answer to this is "k". And then you never speak to her or talk to her again and go give a great live. Am I too scared to pull the trigger ? Yes. However, you're light-years ahead of every man …
/r/askTRP07/04/20 02:13 AM
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I won't speak for all Dads, but just for me. Keeping with the numbering theme... 1) It is ALL IN. One you have a kid, you can't back out. All day, every day, every night, every event. This is why parents laugh at non-parents when they say their life is "busy". HAHAHAHA, you have no fucking idea. 2) It makes you a servant to the family. The kids become the priority, the wife is a huge input to the family (as she should be), and your role changes. It's DAMN HARD to keep living your life when the f…
/r/askTRP05/04/20 02:45 AM
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Whether or not you stay with her, I would suggest a few things. 1) Never ever ever give up your goals or your aspirations or your life even for a single moment. THERE IS NO COMPROMISE. She's welcome to be a part of your life, or not. But there is no "we", there is only "you". This is a tough one. 2) Be willing and able to walk away every moment of every day. Logistically, financially, emotionally. Stand on your own two feet Every. Damn. Day. 3) Be aware of the legal side of marriage and cohabita…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 10:11 PM
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"Hey, this isn't the path I want to go down, I wish you the best." And walk the fuck away.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:31 PM
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you are literally the definition of Billy Beta the ATM for her. Is this situation salvageable (mainly for kid)? You need to realize that the only thing you need to save is YOU. There is no "situation", there is only YOU. And, you need to accept that saving your kid means SAVING YOU FIRST. All you're going to teach your kid is to roll over and live a shitty life for someone else that doesn't give a fuck about you. Heck of a lesson there, Dad. Oh, and get a paternity test. Your sperm disgusts her.
/r/askMRP13/03/20 04:15 AM
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Can anyone recommend any lifts that help reduce stomach fat besides crunches and situps? Yeah. Drop your reps and sets of the spoon and fork lifts. Definitely recommend 2 sets a day, and do it every day. Keep it up every day for a year and see what that does.
/r/askTRP08/03/20 11:09 PM
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Geez, this is simply agree and amplify. Shit-test 101 stuff. "I don't use you for just bootycalls. You pay for dinner, too." she's thinking about you. she's thinking about fucking you. she's still talking with you. "watch what someone does, not what they say."
/r/askTRP08/03/20 06:25 AM
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I was just agreeing with you in more words. OP said, "How many dudes are partying like a college guy in their 30s?" You and I both said, "us older dudes are living life on our terms, and it's pretty damn awesome." rock on.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:08 PM
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1: you realize money is a way to live the life you want. 2: Hanging out with my good friends is gold. Partying at clubs? pffft. 3: Knowing that women want me and I can get women if I want. Choosing to do what I want with my time, which might be a woman.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:24 AM
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The funny thing about getting older is that #1, #2, and #3 are less important. But you will never understand why until you are older...
/r/askTRP04/03/20 03:43 AM
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she went to a girlfriend's birthday out of the state WITHOUT my permission what the fuck is wrong with you? she's your girlfriend, not your property. BTW, what's your body fat and deadlift numbers? It's going to sting a bit since this girl has a banging body and I've invested this much time into her Oneitis.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:01 PM
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However, I would be thirty years old by the time I’m done with it. A decade gone like that. Poof. You're going to be 30 anyways. Might as well be a rich doctor when you're there.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:19 AM
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Of course you take the money. Duh.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 07:32 AM
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the moment a woman feels secure in a relationship is the moment she stops trying. always be a little bit unattainable.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:43 AM
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There's a difference between an unreasonable boundary and a reasonable boundary. It's okay for women to have boundaries in relationships, just as it's okay for men to have boundaries in their relationships. If a reasonable boundary to her is unacceptable to you--and you alone get to make the determination of acceptable...then you go your separate ways. It's your job to stay attractive. It's her job to keep the relationship.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 03:44 PM
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Hospitality is a bullshit major. Remember, college is about getting an education, not about job training. Learn the fundamentals that can never be taken away from you: economics, advanced math, history, communications, etc. Then take those foundational skills and do whatever the fuck you want. All these fake-ass "majors" that are just training programs for jobs are fucking worthless outside their narrow vertical. And, guess what? they're not that valuable INSIDE the vertical, either. So give tha…
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:46 AM
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Sometimes it just feels forced. This is what you need to work on. Don't think of it as "cold approaching". Think of it as "just chatting with people". Anyone. Everyone. All the time. The content doesn't matter. Just the confidence. Start with people that aren't cute women. The goal isn't to get a number or hang out, the goal is simply to talk. The conversation will go that way on its own. Don't force it, don't focus on it. Learn to walk away. That way when you do find a nice HB9, it's second nat…
/r/askTRP19/02/20 08:32 PM
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You will never be in a more target-rich environment that a college campus. The same rules apply: be attractive, don't be unattractive. Be fun, approach, be bold, live your life. Should I be cold approaching more? Always. Every minute of every day. This should be so automatic to you that you don't even know you're doing it. Chat up the grandma behind you in the grocery store checkout line the same way you chat up the HB10 at the bar. Because it's practice and you DNGAF. Would you recommend going …
/r/askTRP19/02/20 07:32 PM
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I'm going to be the contrarian here.... I've had several women bosses in my career. And, truthfully, most all of them were very, very good at their job. I've found that both men and women can be incompetent, shitty bosses. Your strategy to maximize your career is mostly gender-neutral. Look out for your own ass, get visibility with people that matter, and take every opportunity you can to get more money. You're angry because there's incompetency above you in the hierarchy. Well, yeah, that happe…
/r/askMRP18/02/20 12:31 AM
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You can have a new marriage with the same woman, but you can never have the old marriage with the old you. By the time you transform yourself into the type of man you will need to be to have this, you won't want the same woman who cheated on you.
/r/askMRP17/02/20 08:53 PM
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Do. Not. Get. Married. You've already fucked up by living with her. Do not fuck up any more. Do not get married. You've just seen that she will weaponize sex. Right now all you had to do was walk out of the room. In a few years after she's secured an anchor baby, she gets half your net worth and thousands of dollars per month for 18 years. You've seen the writing on the wall. Now don't be an idiot and ignore it.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 04:52 AM
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nobody can even tell OP even liftts and, nobody even cares if he lifts or not. He's just fat as fuck.
/r/askMRP14/02/20 11:29 PM
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6'0 337lbs married 7 years together 10 years Bench Your lifts don't matter when you EASILY have 100+ pounds of fat on your body. In fact, nothing else matters while you're this fat. YOUR SOLE MISSION IN IN LIFE NEEDS TO BE TO LOSE THE FAT. ASAP. Stop eating like shit and start dropping 2 pounds per week until you're under 220. Nothing else matters.
/r/askMRP14/02/20 09:25 PM
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Female behavior doesnt add up Yes, female behavior does. You're too busy listening to their words and experimenting through an app. Mr. Model doesn't have any problem getting women to pick him up when he's out on the town on weekends. That's the part you're not seeing by living in your computer rather than out in the real world. Now delete that stupid account, hit the gym, dress nice, and go talk to some real women in person. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 12:57 AM
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If I do pursue the worst that happens is rejection You were already rejected. Don't you see that?
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:24 AM
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I'm sure you're super attractive, so don't worry about that. Because I'm also sure she'd tell Chris Hemsworth exactly the same thing if he asked for her number. You're fine. In fact, skip leg day--or skip the gym altogether. You clearly don't need it.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:02 AM
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I haven't seen the right answer yet. Here's the warning sentence, said right as she pulls out her phone and/or finishes what she's doing: "My date doesn't play with her phone on a date." Notice how this is an "I" sentence. You're not telling HER what to do. You're not controlling her. You're establishing a boundary ABOUT YOU and what YOUR TIME is worth. The second time she does it you stand up and walk away. You're done. If you're a high-enough value man she won't pull it out a second time. If y…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:34 PM
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Have you considered reading the sidebar material? Even a little bit? Red Pill is about becoming an independent, confident, successful, attractive man that women are attracted to. The paradox is that by focusing on yourself and your own goals, women will find you. You're still thinking from a PUA standpoint. Stop that. If you're a healthy, confident, own-your-shit, in-shape man who does nothing but take evening welding classes and whiskey tastings; women will STILL be everywhere making themselves…
/r/askTRP09/02/20 06:27 PM
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He hit her up. She shut him down. She disclosed this to you. It's fine. Don't panic. Now, if she keeps texting with him, they get flirty, she goes to meet him, etc...that's entirely different.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:20 PM
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is she just stupid. Let's assume she's not stupid, what would you conclude?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 03:16 AM
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sounds like you're a dick who can't show up to work on time. Start there.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 02:28 AM
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Ask how many happily married men in their 40s or 50s would get married again. "This stove is hot when I keep touching it. What do I look for in stoves to make sure I get burned less when I lick it?"
/r/askMRP07/02/20 04:13 PM
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Should I end this relationship? Yes. Immediately. Don't wait until she throws a steak knife at one of your children. You've been given the gift of a pre-wedding reddist of red flags. Honor it. The fact that you're even asking this question shows you do not respect yourself, your health (mental and physical), your time, and your life enough to consider getting married. I firmly believe that no man should even entertain the idea of getting married until his late 30s or 40s; and then after entertai…
/r/askMRP04/02/20 06:26 PM
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Is there no way I was going to get the lay tonight? Tonight didn't look likely. Why not go have a fun second date and see where that goes? Surely you've been reading TRP and you're in-shape, well-groomed, confident, fun, and have a great life she'd like to be part of....
/r/askTRP03/02/20 05:50 AM
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FYI, this also happens if she has a relationship opportunity with someone that has lower SMV than you. She wants to see if she can secure a better combo of SMV-Provider than the other guy is.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:37 AM
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Her: Just for future reference, if you had told me you had a nice time afterwards and wasn't looking for anything serious, I would have said yes. You: I had a nice time, and although I'm not looking for anything serious, I'd love to see you again. Seriously, amused mastery. Just roll with it. Make it just the edge of silly that you're simultaneously teasing her and validating her. She won't know which it is. And, dude, there's nothing in TRP that says you need to be a jerk. After a good hookup w…
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:38 AM
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not spend it. go to the personal finance subreddit and walk through the flowchart. It's pretty good. "Savings" and "Investments" happen after the rest of your personal finance world are in order...car loans, credit cards, emergency fund, etc.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:29 PM
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No
/r/askTRP22/01/20 06:01 PM
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you're too busy playing a role, and it comes off as desperate. douche-bros are a dime-a-dozen, and you've fit the profile to a T. Women are picking up on this. Anyone reading this post is picking up on this. TRP isn't about being a douche-bro, it's about being an in-shape, confident man who is chasing his own goals in life. Is that you? Or are you busy following someone else's script to get pussy?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:33 PM
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That’s not what dread is, though. Sounds like she doesn’t feel any dread.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 07:53 PM
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Why isn’t she worried some other woman will want to fuck you while she’s on holiday without you??? Answer THAT question, and you’ll realize more than you want.
/r/askMRP13/01/20 06:45 PM
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Frame. She has it. You don’t.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:21 PM
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Text your FWB. Tell her that her friend invited her over, "I think your best friend wants to fuck me too. I'm pretty damn popular." It makes them compete for you. You're not running around behind your FWB. Both their hamsters get running. There's no outcome here where you end up worse.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:41 AM
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It's better to have the confidence in yourself to be able to know who you want to fuck and not ask anyone else's opinion. Do you want to fuck a particular girl? Great, go for it. Would you rather not because she's less attractive? Whatever dude, your call.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 04:22 AM
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We've almost came to blows ah, so you lack frame, too?
/r/askMRP06/01/20 07:42 PM
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"figure it out" isn't the right thing. You need to SHOW him and TEACH him what to figure out. Talk to him. Involve him. Simple inflows/outflows. YOU also need to decide what financial lessons to learn. I talk to my kids about the tradeoff between labor and income; equity and earnings, and more. I've told them I expect more from them than a minimum wage job where they trade an hour of their lives for $10. But maybe that's not the path you're setting out for them. And MOST importantly: lead by exa…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 07:38 PM
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never would have thought such a (seemingly) happy inidvidual could do that. Lots of people who are happy on the outside aren't on the inside. my girl died in a car accident and i survived. I'm sorry that she died. That's a horrible thing. should i never ever get close to another one? 'Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. Think deeply about that, it's not just a cliche. just bad luck and move on? Most likely, yes. no reason, no cause. There was a reason. You just did…
/r/askTRP04/01/20 09:02 PM
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yea i know know abundance mindset etc etc No, you don't.
/r/askTRP04/01/20 06:52 AM
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70kg = 154lbs. How tall are you? You sound skinny. Bodyweight fitness isn't lifting. You have NO dread. Wife knows no other woman would fuck you, so why should she?
/r/askMRP04/01/20 04:18 AM
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hell yes. the complete lack of stress knowing you'll never have pregnancy scare is awesome. just 1-2 days of soreness, and other than that everything is the same for me.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:13 PM
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Every girl. Every minute. Of every day. You need to learn to take it as a compliment. This is her saying, "are you worth fucking?" "Can I break you?" "Because I don't want to fuck a man that can easily be broken by me." Learn to embrace them. That's why AM and A&A work so damn well.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 01:17 AM
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Lawyer said do what lawyer says. that's why you hired a lawyer.
/r/askMRP29/12/19 10:12 PM
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loose for the love of all things holy, please learn the difference between "loose" and "lose". in written communication, this shows as a huge weakness. it will matter professionally.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:04 PM
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I dated a plate for five weeks. She initiated everything, but lost interest and LJBF'd my beta ass. I’d had a massive oneitis crush on her all year, and her rejection cut deep. Like worst pain I’ve ever felt deep. You're using all these words together, but I don't think you know what they mean. You need to actually read the sidebar material. All your answers are in there.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 03:07 AM
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This is the correct answer. Any woman knows she can get an AFC's attention. "She wants a challenge" means she wants to conquer a man who can have lots of women, and has confidence (frame) with women. It also means she's young and still learning the power of her pussy. You know the 80/20 dating rule? Where 80% of the women want the top 20% of men? "a woman wants a challenge" merely means she wants one of the top 20% men. That's how she says it.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:27 PM
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I was sexting with this girl Massive display of low value. Completely in her frame. All the attention, none of the fucking. TEXTING IS FOR LOGISTICS ONLY. she says that it doesn't look real "come over and find out for yourself." and then be done texting.
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:56 PM
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should I command her control much? geez. grow up.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:22 PM
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how old are both of you?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:21 PM
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emotional manipulation comes in many forms. Her insecurity is not your problem. don't play the game.
/r/askTRP24/12/19 05:15 PM
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why are you auditioning so hard to be billy beta bucks?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 06:16 AM
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have you ever even read a teeny-tiny bit of the sidebar material? Like, at all, even for a moment?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 07:56 PM
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Yes, the knee-jerk reaction is cheating-wife is an immediate divorce and dismissal. However, the softer side said if you were a shitty husband and you now know why it happened, fix your shit. You're in no position now to have the relationship you want. So there's a certain value in staying where you are while you fix your shit. Maybe your wife will straighten herself out. Maybe you'll fix yourself. No point in blowing up the family when you have a a few years of figuring yourself out. But here's…
/r/askMRP21/12/19 06:33 AM
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when I reply don't do this.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:08 PM
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GFTOW
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:23 AM
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A better question is to ask your older married friends if they would get married again knowing what they know now about being married.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:20 AM
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she's projecting. she's cheating, so she's accusing you of cheating. and you spelled "ex-gf" wrong.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:27 PM
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How do you deal with the regret? I log into reddit and help 20-something men avoid years and decades of being taken advantage of by women. Everytime I think back to my mistakes the most recent was last summer "last summer". cute. Try wasting 22 years. That stings a little more....
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:26 PM
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Her insecurity is not your problem. Her living with you is a MAJOR fuck-up. Man the fuck up and read the side bar. And move her out of your place. ASAP.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 05:06 PM
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lets say I am high-value enough, let's revisit your post when you are.
/r/askMRP19/12/19 01:51 AM
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If I can't beat this level one crap At least you know what battle you're fighting. I'm so incredibly happy for all the younger men on here who are given the instruction manual to relationships and sex. Us older dudes wasted years of our life not having all this knowledge laid out in front of them. It will get easier. Keep trusting in yourself. Keep experimenting with what does and doesn't work. And above all else, have faith in yourself. You've got this.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 12:06 AM
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All in, marriage can be a pretty good deal if your wife has decent employment prospects. Huh? It's a great deal--for the woman. Marriage today is a shit deal for men.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 04:52 PM
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By the time my wife and I both finish school A man should not consider marriage in any way until into his later 30s or early 40s. Even then he should consider it and decide the risk to reward ratio is too lopsided.
/r/askMRP18/12/19 04:51 PM
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Always always always be a high value man that your wife needs to continually chase. The moment she feels like she can never lose you is the moment she stops trying to keep you. Be attractive so that your wife feels that other women are always eye-fucking you. Marry someone of equal financial background and earnings so that divorce won't be cash and prizes. Live YOUR life and chase YOUR goals so that every day you can walk away from the marriage. Be the one less in love. Marriage is dating on har…
/r/askMRP18/12/19 02:55 AM
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Oh this one is easy. "Texting is for logistics only". You simply text this: "BarName, Friday, 7pm. Wear something cute." And you don't say a word after that. She either shows up Friday at 7pm or not. There is no middle ground.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 02:43 AM
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Could you have sex with her? Yeah, more than likely. SHOULD you have sex with her? I would say "no". I wouldn't. "Don't stick your dick in crazy" is a VERY VERY good rule. "Religious Crazy" is just another kind of crazy. Go find a woman more comfortable with her sexuality. Abundance Mentality, ya know?
/r/askTRP17/12/19 03:09 AM
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It took her 24 hours to respond Watch what they say, not what they do. She wouldn't wait 24 hours to respond to Chris Hemsworth, would she? You and her are each playing dating games. She's better at it than you are!
/r/askTRP15/12/19 08:51 PM
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The gym is open at 6am for everybody.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 04:15 AM
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Also, you’re too young. Don’t marry till 30+ Would love some further clarification. Don't marry until you're over 40. Is that more clear?
/r/askMRP13/12/19 03:30 AM
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Be genuinely happy for them. Be the bigger man. THAT is the confident power play. We dated for a year and broke up about 3 weeks ago somebody is the dumper and somebody is the dumpee. Who broke up with who? And dude, you're 22, you shouldn't be in an LTR with anyone, and A FUCKING YEAR? what the fuck, dude? Go read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:07 PM
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I don’t want more kids. Asked and answered. But, this is an adult conversation with your wife. You say, "I feel like we have our hands full with two and having a third is not something I think we should do." But in true MRP fashion, don't forget the basics. Amused Mastery "Three kids we have not." Agree and Amplify, "Why not have 5? or seven? We can get one of those big-ass vans". Teasing, "I already have three" (while you smack her ass and hand her a glass of wine in a sippy cup). "Hasn't your …
/r/askMRP08/12/19 12:48 AM
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What is considered a basic level one should be able to achieve? You get your ass into the gym at 6am, three days a week for 6 months without missing a single workout. You lift heavy stuff. You get tired. Actual numbers don't mean anything. Don't get injured. Don't lift stuff that's too light. Follow a good program. The goal is to look good naked.
/r/askMRP06/12/19 08:27 PM
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I’m aware that most red pills say higher education is not worth it and starting a business is best Nope. Higher Education is still a great choice. Starting a business is super risky. Go be an MD if that's what you want. -maintain or improve 3.7 GPA That's shit. do better.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 01:25 AM
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I'm happy with my results right now. She knows. I know they may not be permanent. They're not. I may be wrong, but I do feel like things are taking a significant turn for the better They didn't. She just threw you some good sex to calm you down for a bit. and this can be a jumping off point to an improved relationship. Nope. You'll be in exactly the same place again in a few months. Better results than I think I'd get in marriage counseling or other traditional methods. Which is "temporary to no…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/19 01:15 AM
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If you stumble across any of that, I would love to read it. I target 0.6 to 0.8, mostly based on the links that guy put together. Always happy to learn and change.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 08:58 PM
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https://mennohenselmans.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/
/r/askMRP05/12/19 06:09 PM
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You suck it up and go, asshole. She wants to show off her cool LTR and it's important for her career.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:08 PM
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my alcohol addiction This one is above our pay grade here. I would advise any spouse to leave a relationship where the other partner is an addict of any substance. Life is too short. To me, she's taking care of herself. Anyways, I do sincerely hope you stay sober. MRP is about fixing the man, not the marriage, and you obviously know where to start. Good for you. I wish you the best. 145lbs; 5’8” You know that freakishly strong guy who moves some seriously weights while looking skinny? Yeah, that…
/r/askMRP05/12/19 04:29 PM
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I'm in my 50s. I've had a successful, rewarding marriage with a woman who takes very good care of me. I have a girl who is growing into a fantastic young woman. I am emotionally, financially, and physically successful. My advice? Do. Not. Get. Married. The cost exceeds the return. Horrible ROI. In order to do everything you need to have a successful marriage, your life will be FAR MORE SUCCESSFUL if you remain single. You want advice? There's your advice.
/r/askMRP04/12/19 05:31 PM
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Because she would totally forget to reply to Chris Hemsworth, too. Dude, don't be an idiot. Context means everything. Women communicate COVERTLY. Men communicate OVERTLY. She just told you--in a very bold and forward way for a woman--that she's not the least be interested in you and to fuck off. If you think anything else even for a moment you're an idiot. Reassess your SMV and get back to work. sidebar, that-a-away. --->
/r/askTRP03/12/19 04:31 PM
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she's not testing your smv. she's testing your confidence. be clear which test you're passing.
/r/askMRP02/12/19 07:53 PM
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Should I try to salvage the relationship? Keeping the relationship is her job. being fuckable is your job. don't confuse your roles.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 05:44 PM
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Okay, there are 30 comments now. You had yet another puke, we all jumped over you saying "fix yourself". What did you learn from this post and the replies? What action are you going to take immediately to improve yourself? What goal are you going to set for yourself? BTW, I already encoded part of the answer here because I framed it in a "for you" kind of way. Otherwise you'd start puking again about "my wife blah blah blah." We don't give a fuck about your wife. We're asking about YOU.
/r/askMRP01/12/19 07:30 PM
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So you're not a fat fuck like most guys. But, you are small. Both in muscles and size. Honestly, though, you're not fat fuck. Don't get fat, and keep lifting. Pick a good program, lift heavy, eat big, and GROW. You need more mass. If you dare, post a shirtless photo of yourself (faceless, too), and we can all see. How tall is your wife? How fit is she? Anyways, you have an "average" build. That's good news. That means the rest of what you can fix is in your head and you can just do it.
/r/askMRP01/12/19 06:58 PM
3

What is your height and lifts? 5'8" BP: 155, DL: 185, SQ: not sure right now haven't done a max effort How much do you weigh? Take your shirt off and look in a mirror. Of the pictures of the guys here, which guy do you look most like? https://www.builtlean.com/2012/09/24/body-fat-percentage-men-women/
/r/askMRP01/12/19 06:38 PM
3

Until you fix yourself the same thing will just happen with your next relationship. Fix you first.
/r/askMRP01/12/19 06:27 PM
9

You still don't understand a tiny bit about what MRP tries to communicate, do you? EVERYTHING it says is to be a high-value, high-quality man. Life a quality life on your own terms. Do not life your life for your wife. Life your life for you. Everything about your post is "my wife this, and my wife that." The idea is to take care of yourself FIRST--just like oxygen masks on planes. You can't help anyone else until you save yourself. Do you understand this?
/r/askMRP01/12/19 06:16 PM
1

Guess she found a better option. What's your deadlift, anyways?
/r/askTRP01/12/19 05:15 PM
5

most of what you have to learn is to take care of yourself and your needs first. Sleep well, eat well, be respectful to people and your parents. take care of your shit. Learn to do chores and be self-sufficient. School is fucking easy and you should be getting straight As. Play a sport. Be fun to be around. Getting girls is the RESULT of leading a quality life. NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND. Focus on yourself first, the rest falls into place.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 04:02 PM
119

He's your brother. save his ass.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:21 AM
8

true, but no professional company onboards a new employee in November or December. virtually everything is put on hold until January. Sure, there are exceptions. But generally HR holds off on new hires because nobody is around to train them.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:52 PM
1

Turkey, eggs, fish, etc. and make sure you soundly sleep at least 8 hours a night. Oh, you were looking for a shortcut? doesn't work that way. You need to assess your overall nutrition plan, workout structure, and goals.
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:36 PM
2

Had to quit my job couple of months ago due to circumstances that were out of my control. Right at the very first sentence you're not being honest with yourself. I'm calling bullshit. it's almost 4 months since I've had a job and this is making me depressed and lose my cool more often. "only" 4 months. Also depends if you're looking for a $18/hr warehouse job, or a $150k/yr technical job. You don't give us much guidance here. Here's the thing: You can't control what happens to you, but you CAN c…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 08:16 PM
5

start with self-help and life skills books and concepts that aren't specific to dating. A great book is "When I say No I feel guilty". Also look into "No More Mr. Nice Guy." You should read them for yourself, too. Use examples in your own dating life and interactions with women that lay out a positive relationship with yourself and how you prioritize your own needs over your relationship needs. Maybe he will indirectly get the hint. You can't dive right in and talk about his relationship. You ha…
/r/askMRP29/11/19 07:36 PM
20

your lack of confidence is far less appealing than your lack of dick.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 06:00 PM
6

He's not married yet. All he has to do is man up and tell her, "Nah, I'm out." That's it. There's no extra dynamics of being married, kids, intertwined finances, divorce rape, etc. ALL he has to do is walk away.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 02:56 AM
4

Wait until his Christian beliefs find out about the abortion. Two abortions, that is. This is just a test balloon for her. He doesn't even know it.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:48 AM
19

you deserve every moment of the shitty life you're actively chasing. I'm an older dude in my mid 50s, and I'm so damn jealous of all the young men being handed all this wisdom on a silver platter. To just throw it all away is fucking stupid. But, hey, society needs losers, too.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:44 AM
23

"I wanted to make sure you were really locked down before I sprung this on you. I know I should have mentioned this like when we were dating for a few months, but I waited until we've been serious for years and engaged for 6 months because you're less likely to leave me. And if you accept this wait until I tell you about all the other shit I haven't told you yet." Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 01:42 AM
1

Just be honest. "I think of you as a friend. We share the same friend group. I like dating outside our social circle. I've just started seeing someone and that might go somewhere."
/r/askTRP27/11/19 01:30 AM
13

I’m 30, she’s 27. We’ve been together for almost two years and engaged for six months. What a great deal for her. What a shit deal for you.
/r/askMRP27/11/19 12:47 AM
2

You really need to be doing around 1.5g/lb. https://mennohenselmans.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/
/r/askMRP26/11/19 11:47 PM
13

Chapter 1: Invest in low-cost index funds either at Fidelity or Vanguard. Chapter 2: Buy Now. Sell in Retirement. The End.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:44 PM
2

Girlfriend expects me... She's allowed to expect anything she wants of you. You're allowed to not do anything you don't feel like doing.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 05:35 PM
2

so why aren't you so awesome she wants to be in an LTR with you? THAT is the question you really need to be asking yourself.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:32 PM
1

how can I be prepared? for what?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 09:02 PM
2

What is your opinion on the matter? I was a competitive runner for years. Short answer? Being an average lifter is FAR better for your life than being a dedicated runner. Use light running as a nice cardio workout to work around your lifting program. Stay in shape enough to be sub 7 or so, and be able to knock out a 5k or 10k easily. But don't bother with anything beyond that. Go lift heavy things instead.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:19 PM
5

I'm 30M, girlfriend is 26. We've been together 16 months. We've seriously been talking marriage. It's like you haven't read a damn thing here. I don't think it's my place to tell her who she should associate with. No, not at all. But it is entirely your decision on who YOU associate with.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:00 PM
8

Listen to everyone. Take notes. Integrate their advice. Be humble and modest. turn your harshest critics into your biggest cheerleaders. It will take time. Do a damn good job. Don't "tell" people. Have their backs. Give away all the credit, take all the falls. If the 40 people know you're trying to do the right thing, feel valued, feel their input is heard (even if not immediately acted upon), they will move mountains for you. Don't start out making waves. Your first 90 days should be, "I'm here…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:02 PM
3

The only time we talked about it was our first date. And you think she doesn't remember? Words are women's weapons. And she remembers everything. Why do you think she didn't bring it up until now? I asked if she smokes, she said she used to but not anymore, So she lied. Because she knew she smokes once every two weeks with her mom, and that wasn't the answer you wanted to hear. The hiding it part is a problem, She's testing your resolve. She's testing boundaries. She was waiting until just the r…
/r/askMRP18/11/19 02:14 AM
3

But what would you do/have done in this situation? I wouldn't plan my future life with someone who dabbles in smoking. She's had her warning. She was smoking, and hid it from you. None of those qualities align with what you want out of your life. Why do you have such low self-respect for you and your values that you're willing to overlook a major deal-breaker for you?
/r/askMRP18/11/19 12:33 AM
6

but I know girls get turned off by inexperience They don't give a shit. If you're attractive, they don't care. If you're not attractive, they wouldn't fuck you anyways. Just be straight-up, she'll want to be the one. But DO NOT ask about her. And go get some damn condoms, man. Geeez. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 02:34 PM
4

What is the RP way 3-4 month relationship. I’m 23, she’s 21. Hmmmmmm.....
/r/askTRP03/09/19 05:01 PM
38

What are things you guys regret about college, or things that made college great for you? Try new things. Join groups. Leave groups you don't click with. Take a variety of classes. Walk around a lot. Be involved. Be on campus. Go to the party. Ask the girl out. As for academics: Go to class. Go to office hours. Read the syllabus word for word. Read the material before the lecture. Do the homework when it's assigned, not when it's due. Avoid the vices: don't drink too much, don't party too much, …
/r/askTRP01/09/19 04:42 PM
43

it's good you recognize that you need to work on yourself. That's the whole point of Red Pill. Become the man that women want to fuck. When a woman wants to fuck you, nothing will get in her way. She certainly won't blow off dates. You haven't really internalized how cruel and harsh the truth is, though. The fact that you had to even ask us means you're not quite there yet. You don't "soft next". you hard next. You spend zero energy or though on her going forward. Soft next is "I won't engage an…
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:25 AM
71

dude, her saying she's busy and not offering a different date is girlspeak for "I find you fucking disgusting that you're even talking to me." Women speak covertly, and that's a fucking megaphone of denial pointed right at you. Take your shirt off and look in the mirror. Would you fuck you?
/r/askTRP01/09/19 01:06 AM
185

all while she isn’t putting any effort into finding a good time. She is, just not with you.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 12:50 AM
1

Wow, I really hope she finds someone to be in a healthy relationship with. That's not you.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 10:01 PM
20

Geez, you don't even know how to swat down a simple shit test? "I want to be with someone who has an income. You have no income." "I want to be with someone who has boobs. You have no boobs. We all settle." "Me too!" "No income? You haven't seen anything yet. Wait until I burn through all our savings, too." You know she's not talking about income, or work, or business, right? She's crying out for you to have a shred of self confidence and MAN THE FUCK UP. She doesn't care if you succeed or not. …
/r/askMRP26/08/19 08:12 PM
13

So much wrong with this. You're using sexual success as your measure of success--continuing to place you deeply in her frame. You've missed one important MRP lesson: Success with women IS A RESULT of success with yourself. You're still ticking external boxes (career! fit! blowjobs!) You've likely also failed at comfort. Your wife is alone, without an oak. Without someone she can trust. You've been so busy being alpha, you forgot that MRP is about the blend of alpha and beta. It's passing both sh…
/r/askMRP19/08/19 06:48 PM
9

That's a big no on both, Chief. My marriage beta-ized me pretty hard, and only now am I understanding what happened--and how to fix it. Kids? Fuck they've been awful. 99% pure crap with 1% cool. Too big a tradeoff. My wife is a good woman, and a good partner. But I now realize the ONLY way for a man to have a successful marriage is to be attractive, be independent, and ALWAYS be willing to leave. And FFS if you're doing all that, why risk half your net worth in case some woman gets bored of you?…
/r/askMRP11/06/19 06:33 PM
11

In my point of view I didn’t believe all vaccines are safe The fuck is wrong with you? Is that what you would advise me to do? I would advise you to get your head out of your ass.
/r/askTRP24/05/19 08:42 PM
2

MRP saves the man, sometimes it saves the marriage. You just need to decide that YOU are more important to you than SHE is to you. She's already decided that for her. After you do that, the rest falls into place. Keep reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/19 11:48 PM
-1

we're just learning more about the effect of impacts on the brain. don't play contact sports. your brain is fragile. don't jostle it around. pick another sport.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 03:50 AM
19

It fucking sucks. Having kids is on the top 5 list of life decisions I wish I could undo. Yes, I love her dearly and would give my life for her without hesitation, but the time, cost, and energy expended on her is life changing. Between 0 and 2 they're just blobs that eat and poop. Between 2 and 6 you're constantly trying to make sure they don't die. Between 6 and 12 they're fragile and require full maintenance. Between 13 and 18 there's spurts of them being really cool and then being complete s…
/r/askTRP22/03/19 03:52 AM
0

not nearly as bad as using the word "tryna" unironically.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 11:15 PM
1

How badly have you been a beta in the last several months that she's not afraid that you'll dump her for any comeuppance on her part? Why aren't you strong, lean, busy, and have other girls flirting with you in front of her? Why weren't you already at the gym that morning? Do you understand that because she asked that in the first place you've already failed?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 11:44 PM
13

I’m 20. been with a girl for almost 2 and a half years. she doesn’t put out. I see where you went wrong.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 06:59 PM
7

Men have a 1-10 SMV scale for women. Women have a binary SMV scale for men. They will fuck you for dick, or they will fuck you for money.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 02:47 AM
3

if you have free time as an engineering student, you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:31 PM
5

"watch what they do, not what they say" is a two-way street. Is she going out on a date with you? Is she flirty and fun? Are you fucking after a few dates? Then focus less on the words and more on the actions. That being said, at 34, she's tired of getting pumped and dumped and is looking for a wallet and a sperm donor so she can look forward to cash and prizes in case she gets the tingles for Chad.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:52 PM
1

Debit card only. Debit cards have far less financial protection than credit cards. Get a good rewards credit card, AND PAY THE FUCKER OFF EVERY DAMN MONTH. It's a transaction convenience tool, NOT A LOAN. post is spot-on.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 12:06 AM
14

27 is a shit time to get married....for you. AMAZING time for her. 38 is even early. Stay in shape, stay single, keep focusing on you...you can ride a great SMV well into your 40s.
/r/askTRP03/03/19 11:22 PM
3

but was witholding sex a lot the last time I saw her. that's a full-stop for me, chief. you're doing everything right. you're just having a hard time letting go of the blue-pill narrative.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:55 PM
2

dad is starting to suffer from dementia and early alzheimer, caused by a chronic undiagnosed anxiety and depression disorder. anxiety and depression do not cause alzheimer's. this should be on the main sub, not asktrp. man up. You have some good content here. Polish it a little bit.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:35 PM
1

all sales is sink or swim.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 08:29 PM
2

high pressure sales usually involves low quality product. tread carefully.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 06:56 PM
8

no
/r/askTRP28/02/19 05:04 AM
1

IoT will be a growing field, until it fucks itself with privacy and security. Make sure you know your fundamental technology before you get into sales. The best salespeople really know how their shit works. Some employers will, but it doesn't matter that much. np.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:29 AM
2

is that added benefit of a 3.0+ gpa with good degree outweigh both the time and cost of switching? Probably. If you're getting a stupid degree (Sociology) from a crap school with a 2.0, you better have some amazing charisma. If you switch to a 3.0+ with solid classes and better program...then you will do much better. School only matters for the first 3-8 years of your career. After that it matters A LOT LESS. Your first few jobs are really important, they will lay down the foundation for your ea…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:21 AM
5

go back to school and un-fuck-it-up. Employers know that if you can't succeed at school, you can't succeed at work. You don't get paid for being smart, you get paid for GETTING SHIT DONE. School is a proxy to learn how to get shit done and do quality work. That's the secret that most people don't understand. You have to learn to code. Period. But don't become a software developer. In college, study technology, mostly CS. Some math. Electrical Engineering a little bit (that shit always comes up).…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 05:10 AM
3

Professional consulting, where a company flies you to the client site, you live in a hotel, and work on a project. That lasts from a week to a year, and you do it again next week. You live out of a suitcase. You travel every week. You get paid a premium and you spend nothing. Fantastic for 20-somethings. NMMNG is a good book. Industries? Biotech. CRISPR. Computer Science + Biotech. Genetic Pharma. And always sales. Know your shit, then go sell it. Make huge commissions.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:58 AM
9

spend less money on stupid shit. Spend less money going out. Less money in bars. Less money on women. Less money on toys. Less money on expensive trips and experiences. Still spend a little money--but on fitness, health, learning, and BUDGET vacations & experiences. Continually invest in my health and my career. This is going to sounds VERY wrong to 20-somethings, but don't invest as much energy into my friends. Yes, invest some, have good friends, but not too much. Take every chance and be a su…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:40 AM
3

I made the bulk of my net worth through healthy w-2 employee agreements, small equity agreements, and index fund investing since my 20s. I've made my (now) retirement comfortable by doing some light consulting. I'm cashflow positive and can work as much (or as little) as I want, and not dip into my savings, which means I can live really nicely. When I stop consulting, I'll never bother to work another day in my life. But I like doing it, so I don't mind.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:32 AM
7

first million in my early 30s, achieved financial independence (retirement) around 40. Nobody likes the hard advice: spend less, earn more, do without. It works. Everybody wants the shortcut (crytpo! 4 hour work week! leverage!). Protip: There is no shortcut. Don't get caught up chasing "your own venture". 99% of them fail. Many of my friends have chased their professional career, and have made a shit ton of money and are worth more than me.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 04:23 AM
1

It's definitely a component of that. Even living a basic life (regular city, $750k home, newer Toyotas), you still need a cash amount of $5MM to retire early (say, 40 yo). If you want to live in Manhattan or SF, or anywhere expensive, drive a Ferrari, spend a few weeks a year in Europe, Asia, or exotic vacations, go out to fancy dinners all the time...that target number quickly and easily jumps to $20MM or way more. But only having $2MM at 40yo as a net worth means you're still working really ha…
/r/askTRP26/02/19 10:50 PM
1

The millionaire next door.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 03:25 AM
1

take the money. and make a promise to yourself that you will be making $120k in two years. 60k is shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:00 AM
12

I understand that I need to get myself in order before seeing improvement in my relationship. you're still using "improvement in your relationship" as the measure of your success. it's not. the measure of your success is getting yourself in order. relationship improvements are a CONSEQUENCE of getting yourself in order, not a GOAL. As long as you're doing this to improve your marriage, you're failing. do this to improve yourself. a good mrp phrase is, "mrp saves the man, not necessarily the marr…
/r/askMRP25/02/19 10:09 PM
2

You ask this like it's some form of qualification, or gate that once they pass, they've "passed". That's not how it works. There are actions that disqualify women from being worth your time and energy. These actions can happen on your first date, or your 20th anniversary. It's a give and take in relationship dynamics that will last for the rest of your life, married or single, kids or no kids. You must always be attractive to other women. You must always live your own life. And here's the hard o…
/r/askTRP24/02/19 08:45 PM
3

"What should I do if you don't wake up?" Why the fuck isn't she worried that if she misses out on plans with you that you're going to be out doing something awesome and other, hotter, sluttier women are going to be wanting to ride your cock? Why the fuck are YOU asking HER what YOU should do? Why the FUCK are you asking PERMISSION about YOUR OWN ACTIONS? If she was going to take a nap, and we had plans after. "Cool. Have a great nap. I'm outta my place at 6 if you want to join." And be out of yo…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:54 AM
2

and there's no venn diagram intersection with any given number that's a "good" answer. Both "he's a man whore" and "why don't other girls fuck you" are simultaneously true. it's like Schrodinger's N-count. it is both too high and too low at the same time.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:45 PM
5

she simply doesn't give a fuck. She has 100 good-looking matches on Tinder waiting for her. What makes you special enough to do her hair and makeup?
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:48 AM
4

generally, yes, undergrad soft business programs are pretty useless. Think about going into a hard STEM program, and THEN learning how to MARKET what you've learned? Also consider biotech, too. Biology + computer science will be an incredible field. That does't mean you won't have a career in marketing, but as a business person, you'll be able to sell and market complex things that a "business major" simply won't. and, all that being said, an undergrad business degree is still better than art hi…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:47 AM
136

one of you is oblivious. it's not her.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 06:16 AM
3

Jumping into stocks is not smart. It is gambling. You need to spend months figuring things out before you invest a single dime. Most companies are just scams, issue stock, raise money, pay themselves, rinse & repeat. I would agree with this in regards to a single stock. However, broad index funds are the best bet.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 09:08 PM
1

There's several different definitions of "rich". Don't model your personal finance off Bill Gates or Zuckerberg or any of the other "got lucky" zillionaires. Go find regular people worth between $1MM and $5MM and talk with them. Also, having savings of $100k takes care of a LOT of life problems. When people don't have 1 year of life in cash, life can be very, very hard. Truth is, MOST EVERYONE can get to a point where they're not in debt, have a year of savings, and can live a little less stress…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:17 PM
3

Alot of these guys that comment this shit comes from privileged backgrounds and never want to admit it. State school. Worked through college. Parents never gave me a dollar. Yes, they gave me a place to live during summer when I was at home. They also gave me love and a warm place to sleep growing up. But money? Fuck no. We didn't have much. I see it all the time in the time in the real world as well. Parents helped them with their rent, moving expenses, car payments, food, college loans, ect...…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:03 PM
5

Investments and smart spending are something everyone can do but alone they won't make you a millionarie. Yes, actually they will. There is a lot of morally questionable stuff hidden behind a millionaire's money and they sure as hell don't want you to find out what it is. You're completely wrong. I know lots of high net worth people. You're bringing your disadvantaged socialist bullshit with you.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:22 PM
3

There aren’t any real millionaires on here op. Real Life might surprise you. :)
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:21 PM
4

You won't get rich by controlling spending. go read "The Millionaire Next Door". You're basically....wrong. The book says "You will never be rich if you're a spender"
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:20 PM
1

You won't get rich by putting 1k a month on a 5% interest fund. just ran a calculator. 1k per month, 7% return, 15 years....$313k at year 15. That's good money. Now make it 3200 per month. 7% return. 15 years. Bingo, $1MM at year 15. We're only talking $40k per year, which is very doable on a $120k salary. Don't forget a lot of these numbers can include 401k match and other perks. Go play with some calculators.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:19 PM
3

You have it backwards. Building a business is SUPER risky if you're sacrificing earning potential to do it. said another way, start your business on nights and weekends. index funds are SUPER SAFE. Yes, they're fluctuate, but in the long-run they always go up. Most businesses fail. If you spend three years earning nothing and your business fails, you can never get that time and money back.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:14 PM
1

Mainly for fun I like to pick some stocks. Sometimes I do well and beat my index fund but in the long run, the index fund is winning. Over longer periods of time (10 years or so), index funds outperform even portfolios selected by the brightest fund managers the majority of the time...especially when accounting for fees. This man indexes.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:13 PM
1

Open an account at Fidelity or Vanguard. NOBODY ELSE. Look at S&P500, Russell 2000, DJIA, or wide market. https://www.fidelity.com/mutual-funds/fidelity-funds/why-index-funds Pick FXAIX. THE MOST IMPORTANT NUMBER is the "Expense Ratio", which is the fee they charge you to own a fun. Managed Mutual Funds ARE THEFT AND BULLSHIT. You also don't want to pay a front-end or back-end load. There you go. You're done. FSMAX, FSKAX, FSPGX are also good.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:12 PM
3

I'm going to respond to you, but you're just going to argue with me. So this is a waste of time. Look at it like this: say you're making $100k a year in New York City. NYC is a shithole. Doesn't matter how much you earn unless it's $400k+, NYC will eat up your spending. You also have to pay for a car and gas (if you need one), Car and gas is cheap. But a $10k good used car that gets 25 mpg. Doesn't cost much. as well as student debt (approximately $400-1k a month I'd say, I worked through school…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:06 PM
28

the REAL key is not wasting your hard earned-money. spend less, do without, and funnel that money into the stock market. compound interest is a miracle. index funds are simply the highest performing way to invest in the stock market.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:23 AM
5

yes. earned high 5 figures and in early 30s cracked low 6 figures. never earned much more than that.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 06:22 AM
60

early 30s. solid job, nothing exotic. the secret to achieving net worth between $1MM and $5MM is controlled spending and index funds.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 05:28 AM
21

you lack abundance, Captain Save-a-vaginismus girl. You're going to waste years of your life trying to fix this woman. You will never get that time back. I feel bad that she has a problem, but her problem is not your problem.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 02:13 AM
11

find someone who isn't broken.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 01:55 AM
2

Are you still fit? Do you have sub-15% bodyfat? Are you still going to the gym and lifting? Are you attractive? Are other women eyeballing you and hitting on you? Are you still FUN? Very passive dread (early stages), STILL applies. MRP teaches you to place your needs above your wife's. Now you need to place YOUR needs AND your daughter's needs ABOVE your wife. Take care of your daughter, but don't slip into being a manservant to your wife and give up your goals and values.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 09:22 PM
5

Well shit, I’m not looking for more than friends either. Are you genuinely looking for just a friend? Or, do you want to fuck her? You want a friend: "Well shit, I’m not looking for more than friends either." You want to fuck her: "Cool. No worries. Best to you!"
/r/askTRP07/02/19 10:05 PM
-1

what's your height, weight, bodyfat, and squat?
/r/askTRP07/02/19 08:50 PM
4

She's allowed to get upset that you didn't call her. You're allowed to not give a fuck that's she's upset. It's a subtle reminder to her that there are more important things in your life than her. You don't owe her an explanation. Her: "Do you want to talk about it?" You: "No". Her: "You can talk to me." You: silence. your "no" was a complete sentence. asked, answered, and moved on.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:30 PM
2

I kinda miss chasing different girls .... I just feel I'm not ready to commit yet. Asked and answered. You make the best decisions for you. Maybe she'll keep fucking you, maybe not. It's not really that important. the rest is just noise.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:51 PM
2

Does she see me as a beta provider? She's not CONSCIOUSLY doing this. It's just how women act. Yes, she sees you as a beta provider, and is ACTIVELY selling herself to get upgraded from GF to fiance to wife. She instinctively knows she's hitting the wall and needs to seal the deal. she wouldn't have known to value me when she was younger. Are there any clearer ways of saying, "I don't see you as Chad"? Sure, keep enjoying the LTR, but you can NEVER give up staying attractive, having passive drea…
/r/askTRP04/02/19 08:17 PM
14

you're a fucking plowhorse. live your OWN life. Your kids need to see you be a man and be happy. Being subservient to a woman that's using you is pathetic and your kids are learning that.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 05:42 AM
2

because it's fun. it's social. it's a party. dancing and movement is part of life. you're just being antisocial. Yes, you're nervous. you might even suck at dancing. nobody cares. take a lesson. get slightly outside your comfort zone. Women love men being confident--including dancing. it's THEIR wedding. It's not about you. It's about them.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 05:40 AM
27

Am I getting used here or what? Yes, absolutely. I still got us a house and supposed to close in two weeks. Call your real estate agent and say, "get me out of the deal". Hopefully your agent will find a loophole and get you your deposit back. If she can't, DO NOT CLOSE ON THE HOUSE. Burn it all fucking down. Have a tiny little shred of respect for yourself.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 04:50 AM
4

you dance, you idiot.
/r/askTRP04/02/19 04:02 AM
1

if there was something I should have done something differently The game was won or lost months before you ever met her. What's your bodyfat? What's your strength? How happy are you? Are you a man with a mission and purpose? How strong is your frame? Her refusing to give you her number was just a consequence of months and years of you not being attractive.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 11:53 PM
4

I was going to hit him up with, "Whats your height, weight, bodyfat, and squat?", but thought I'd stick to the personality first. He'd just argue anyways.
/r/askMRP03/02/19 11:06 PM
43

My thoughts: you have so little awareness of shit you need to own and who you are as a man that you don't even know you need to own shit. She's absolutely right: you're a pathetic beta fucktard shell of a man. Read every fucking book on the sidebar, and the some; including Extreme Ownership, The Way of the Superior Man, and things like that. You're not a drunk captain. You're not even close. Drunk captain would be a huge promotion. You're a NPC deckhand at best. Write down some goals. Do somethi…
/r/askMRP03/02/19 10:33 PM
2

get a used iphone 6s+ or iphone 7+, make sure it is unlocked, check it out, pay $200 to $300.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 10:26 PM
11

please tell me this is a troll or sarcasm. oh god please.
/r/askMRP01/02/19 04:53 PM
5

of course. and I've been with low-n-count women who felt loose. Vaginas don't work that way. Now go grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:27 PM
5

I have an awful insecurity about girthier guys actively loosening out vaginas for average Joe's. Vaginas don't work that way. Grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 05:18 PM
2

Literally every fucking sentence you wrote screams "STAY THE FUCK IN HIGH SCHOOL" to any person with a tiny amount of common sense. You're not that intelligent, you didn't have a shittier house than anyone else, you're not wasting time, all "fields" need a HS degree, photography is a commodity, not a business (in spite of what photographers think of themselves), Lifting is a hobby not a profession, you have the same 24 hours in a day as elon musk. get a fucking grip. since you're intelligent...y…
/r/askTRP31/01/19 06:34 AM
14

is she redpilled. women aren't redpilled. This statement makes no sense. To a woman, all this is common sense. It's the default, natural behavior. "The Red Pill" just puts dating dynamics in language that men understand so we know how to function around women.
/r/askTRP31/01/19 02:47 AM
1

Take care of your body, it's the only one you'll ever have. Maintain a healthy weight. Take impeccable care of your teeth. Groom well. Get medical help when you need it (acne, etc). Be physically active. Eat healthy. Sleep well. Avoid vices like booze and drugs.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 04:33 PM
18

what part of "texting is for logistics only" don't you understand?
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:05 AM
-1

Supplements are bullshit. Get quality sleep and live a healthy lifestyle.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:24 AM
5

You have no idea how good at it she is. the only power people have over you is what you give them. you're fighting all of us here. Why is that?
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:23 AM
4

"You need to do x y z and I need your laptop." Why wasn't X, Y, and Z already taken care of? As an alpha leader you own the shit of your household. Fix the dripping sink, mow the yard, or whatever shit you need to own. Why haven't you provided her a laptop of her own, or whatever structure or independence she needs? You have to own that shit, too. She's being cunty because you're dropping the ball around your life, and she's pointing it out. It's what women do. By time the cunty comes out, you a…
/r/askMRP29/01/19 04:19 AM
6

Do you understand that a quiet, well-mannered male who is polite to everybody, doesn't fight, and isn't even very strong can be a most bad ass alpha motherfucker? Many people confuse the RP definition of "Alpha" with some twisted definition of being an aggressive asshole.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:55 AM
1

Am I completely fucking this up? Yes.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:49 AM
4

I found the problem. you're 20 years old in a 7 month LTR.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 06:10 AM
3

what's your age, height, weight, bodyfat, squat, and mission?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:57 AM
2

I don't care, but what is this supposed to mean? seriously? You don't know?
/r/askTRP28/01/19 05:54 AM
6

"holding frame" should be your default, passive state. It's not something you should think you need to actively do.
/r/askTRP28/01/19 12:23 AM
20

you have additional information nobody else has. keep it in your back pocket. could be handy in the future. but don't tell anybody.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 01:02 AM
3

pay off the cc before investing. if the cc rate is under 5%, have an emergency fund before paying off the cc. if the cc rate is above 8%, pay that fucker off asap.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 08:07 AM
2

What should I do? Bad things happen to good people, but she isn't your responsibility. Take care of yourself first. Move on.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 08:51 AM
2

Always have the mental model that there's a hotter woman that's going to walk up to you two minutes after you leave this one. That means you give this girl zero concession and zero wiggle room. That's Frame.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:34 AM
1

It was a good post. I would have left it up so others could learn.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:04 AM
5

I carry pepper spray in the cars and around. It's non-lethal, which makes me much quicker and willing to use it.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 01:03 AM
1

Her: Sure, if you buy me a beer. "I'm far too much of a feminist to oppress you by the patriarchy." "I can't believe you just said that." <Openly laugh in her face.> Me: It's my first time here, so you should buy me a drink instead. Not bad. Excellent deflection. Ultimately, you said "no", saying that you have value. Her: I can't, I'm broke. "I don't date broke chicks." "How are you going to afford the uber-of-shame home from my place tomorrow morning?" "How are you going to take me to Hawaii ne…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 12:59 AM
3

I have zero interest in her at this point asked and answered. but she might legitimately need someone to talk to. not your problem.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 04:51 AM
6

you can't achieve blue pill goals through red pill language. An LTR is always about you being HER best option, so she keeps trying. It's about you knowing your self-worth and goals so you END the relationship when it doesn't achieve them. It's not about "she has no red flags, so I can let off the gas and go soft and get tru wuv."
/r/askTRP19/01/19 12:39 AM
2

FWB demoted to plate FWB is blue pill language. Plate is red pill language. They're both the same thing.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:27 PM
1

more like 99.9% of them.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:15 PM
1

most everyone who tries it goes broke.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:01 PM
1

daytrading. HAHAHAHAHA!!!!
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:57 PM
50

Call her parents. When they come get her, the relationship is over. Block her everywhere. She's dead to you (fortunately, it's an analogy, she's not really dead, but you know what we mean here...)
/r/askTRP12/01/19 07:33 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/08/rooting-through-garbage/
/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:29 AM
1

this is filed under "you can't change someone else". which is deeply, deeply true. so you need to decide if you accept her skin tone, or want a girl with a different skin tone. YOU control YOUR actions and what YOU want. If your current GF isn't it, you go find what you want.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:54 AM
1

skin cancer isn't sexy. getting tan is stupid. I'm with her on this one.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:51 AM
2

This is the girls job. If the friends won't separate, it means the group of girls think you're not worthy. If you're Chad, the seas will part and you will be alone with her.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:38 AM
8

I can't ever wife this, right? The fact that you even took the time to post this shows how little you value yourself and your future. wake the fuck up and take care of yourself FIRST.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 01:32 AM
3

It's okay, she'd TOTALLY flake on Chris Hemsworth, too. It has nothing to do with her taking you for granted or not caring about losing you because you're not valuable to her. Why do you keep giving her the opportunity to flake?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 11:07 PM
7

change out the spergy language with something normal and generic and women think this is "common sense". That is heaps of TRP validation right there. don't talk about fight club. men aren't supposed to know this stuff.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:22 PM
2

stop being so damn insecure. it's unattractive. be her best option, she'll take care of the rest. Are you NOT her best option? Well get your ass to work.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:05 PM
2

you're being betafied because you're not attractive to her. she's giving you just enough attention to get your time and energy. BTW, what's your height, weight, bodyfat, and squats? If she shrugs off a kiss on the next date simply stand up and say, "It's been great having you over." and end the date and send her home. She's wasting your time. why are you letting her?
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:00 PM
4

Why the fuck women constantly fall for assholes like this one is beyond me; it's all perfectly explained in TRP. He's probably tall, jacked, doesn't care too much about her, and fucks her hard. He's the most alpha she can do, and she won't let go.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:56 AM
10

I normally flag any posting from women here. I'm going to make an exception: he's an ass. Find a different man.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 05:29 AM
1

College is not needed for that right? goodluckwiththat.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 04:11 AM
2

.....with you.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 06:14 AM
19

“you either have a relationship or you have long distance” correct. but HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
/r/askTRP03/01/19 10:56 PM
1

Agreed. But a 6-4 fat fuck has a different battle than a 5-6 skinnyfat fuck. It really just ties together to get to bodyfat.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:16 PM
1

Sigh........ time for my favorite leading question: What's your height, weight, bodyfat, and deadlift? Do you know WHY I ask this to every noob poster? Because in it are the keys to MRP. Height: Are you naturally alpha, or do you have to work for it? Weight: Are you a fat slob? Bodyfat: guess what, you're not 5-10, 220#, and 10% bodyfat. Fuck off. Deadlift: DYEL, bro?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/19 09:01 PM
6

Anything in Sales. College will give the foundation of WHAT you're going to sell, but not SELLING. If you're not a closer you're overhead.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:44 AM
3

found the sperg.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 07:40 PM
6

They tell YOU this because you're billy beta and not attractive. They DO NOT tell CHAD this.
/r/askTRP01/01/19 02:40 AM
6

I know I need to get back into lifting What else can I do? you're a lazy fuck.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 09:08 PM
10

Spending resources (time or money) on someone else's goal or mission rather than your own. that's a man's cardinal sin.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:55 PM
24

she locked herself into bathroom and scare me by screaming and keep saying she will commit suicide Call her parents, tell them what you told us here. Have them come get her because she needs help. The moment they come get her, she's dead to you. Block her on every form of social media, and move on. She's emotionally abusing you and holding you hostage. Get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:58 AM
9

Rule #4: Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not Who Someone Else Is Today
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:30 AM
2

What three actions will you take tomorrow before Noon that will lead you toward a career in Nursing?
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:09 AM
62

Yes.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:06 AM
2

there are many other roles between nurse and doctor; including higher-level nurses, PAs, etc--many of them being lucrative. but whatever the fuck you do get the fuck out of $14/hr retail best buy. right fucking now.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 08:00 AM
7

you're going nowhere at $14/hr. I'm sure people here at TRP will understand. No, we won't. TRP is about having a mission and chasing it. The worst thing about your entire post is being insecure about a great career path. Be a male nurse. Own it. Nursing is fantastic job security, reasonable compensation, and GREAT health benefits.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 07:49 AM
2

TRP teaches men how to be a top 20% man: https://therationalmale.com/2016/02/23/the-pareto-principle/
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:23 AM
1

you don't understand what a shit test is.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 06:20 AM
8

the real question you should be asking yourself....how did you lose attractiveness such that she thinks she could get away with this? Betafication happens slowly, and it's happening to you. she's weaponizing sex. correctly for her strategy. You respond by withdrawing attention and commitment. you have a busy schedule, with other women. Men trade commitment for sex, women trade sex for commitment.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:05 PM
9

she knew all of that ahead of time. she still won this round. You lost control of the situation. she capitalized on it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 10:01 PM
9

i aint cool with that. yes you are. you rolled over and went to sleep. If you weren't cool with it you would have said, "Okay, let me drive you home now." She won this round.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 09:58 PM
14

I found this community today, just in time :P stop posting. start reading.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 07:33 PM
12

be fit, happy, fun, muscular....and they will be everywhere "bumping into you." be skinny, awkward, depressed...and they will be nowhere. it's about YOU, not WHERE.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 06:07 PM
3

Can you answer the question in the title now? He did.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 05:50 PM
3

she's a plate. you shouldn't care. she can do what she wants and fuck whoever she wants. she's not your girlfriend.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:55 AM
9

What's your height, weight, bodyfat, and deadlift?
/r/askMRP27/12/18 02:25 AM
28

you don't. she's not interested. that was girlspeak for "I'm not the least bit attracted to you go away."
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:49 AM
12

did half a xan each you both sound like real winners. own your shit first. Is she damaged goods of course she is. i really wanna hit that, that's why they're called plates.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 12:14 AM
7

spend less than you earn. don't waste your money on stupid shit. cars, restaurants, alcohol, women, etc. keep a 6 month emergency fund. keep your investment portfolio simple: low-cost index funds.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:22 PM
-2

I vape that's nasty. stop.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 09:17 PM
17

level 1 desktop support is for losers. enterprise mission-critical infrastructure is studly. "IT" is a bit of a imprecise term.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 08:25 PM
13

These statements will work only if the OP will make it funny. It's not about the statement. It's about the man. If he's a high-value man that's fit, attractive, and has a mission the statements will work fine. If he's a low-value man that's out of shape and doesn't have goals in life, it will fail. It's about the man, not the words.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 07:32 PM
34

No, it's not full beta. But remember that what you're communicating and what she hears are two totally different things. "I love you too." "Can you drive me to my Moms?" "No." "But you said you love me." "I do, and I'm not driving you to your mom's." When you tell a woman you love her, they hear that they have a servant they earned through their pussy. Love her, but don't stop being unattainable.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:51 PM
235

"I use you for blowjobs, too" "don't forget your cooking." "I stole your netflix login too." this is RP101 stuff. Agree and amplify. It's also a comfort test, the opposite of a shit test. she's also betafying you. don't fall into the trap. "worry when I stop wanting you for sex" was good. Ignore this one and move on. don't get sucked into the vortex.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:45 PM
13

When I was in my 20s, the internet as we know it barely existed, and there wasn't a free flow of information. I had some basic awareness, but not the cohesiveness to weave together a framework and then take action. When I found Rollo's writings and the red pill, it arranged bits and pieces I knew and validated disparate ideas. Taking action on this newly organized knowledge has improved my life immeasurably.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:38 PM
16

I have not enjoyed being a father and having kids. It's been really really hard, and not fun. It's 99% fucking horrible with 1% kinda cool. I see many people in their 20s rightfully chase their own life and future, and not have much interaction with their parents. So as a man you give up the best 20 years of your life....for what again?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 06:37 PM
38

mid 50s here. family has taken my time and money and delayed me from my goals. being married doesn't give you a best friend, you'll never be more lonely than when you're married. you can't achieve blue pill goals through red pill awareness. that's why it's bitter. the single grumpy guys you see are blue pill. don't give up on relationships, but never sacrifice your goals and life for someone else's. BTW, when's the last time you called your Dad?
/r/askTRP25/12/18 05:25 PM
3

High Finance = NYC. Period. The second city is just the first loser. Don't kid yourself, you know it's true. I left my primary career city to move to a lifestyle town. That ended my career. That was an okay tradeoff on where I was in my career, and I knew it was going to happen. I'm happier living in a small town now, but if you're still climbing and chasing your career, you have to be in the #1 City for that career.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 09:14 AM
19

I just want an honest talk. With a woman? about her sexual past?
/r/askTRP24/12/18 07:34 AM
25

Always be funny. Avoid direct, honest answers about sex. My go-to for questions like this is "About an hour from now".
/r/askTRP24/12/18 05:41 AM
1

You have two separate issues. Work on them separately. Let them track you for your safety. However, when they use that to question your decisions, have THAT separate conversation. You're 17. Not 25.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 12:21 AM
1

What don’t you want them to know?
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:56 PM
5

I am an successful entrepreneur. Don't do it. Chase the high-finance job. Do IB on wall street for 5+ years, earn $5MM in cash. Live cheaply, save all of it, and when you're 30 you will have options and security in life. The ability to earn a shitton of cash while you're young and then invest it (in boring low-cost index funds) to compound and grow will give you a lifetime of financial security. When you're older, you won't have these options.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 11:16 PM
3

because you're letting a girl treat you like shit, and posting in a forum where the PRIMARY message is "don't let girls treat you like shit".
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:17 PM
3

you're either a troll or an idiot. can't decide which.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:11 PM
1

so now you've accepted that women are attracted to fit men.....and rather than eat less and go to the gym....you're whining about it? shut the fuck up and get in shape.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:08 PM
5

dont fuking study I.T you will be replace by rakesh in a heart bit and I.T is unhealthy job. worth an upvote.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 07:27 PM
5

What's your height, weight, bodyfat, and squat/deadlift numbers?
/r/askTRP21/12/18 06:27 PM
2

Edit: Be excellent to you friends. Don't get taken advantage of. Deliver quality on everything you do. Be polite to the world around you.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 05:52 PM
1

I'm looking at going for physical theropy, is this a good idea? No. It doesn't pay very much.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 05:25 PM
6

Take care of your body. No alcohol or drugs, sleep well, stay groomed, brush and floss, no hazardous lifestyle choices. You only have one body. Don't waste time. On friends, girls, worthless activities. Don't be lazy. Don't waste money. The world is meant to separate you from your money. Focus on yourself. What do YOU want? Do it. Pick hobbies that help you grow, such as athletics (lifting as suggested here), reading, business; whatever. Love your parents. You won't fully understand that for 20 …
/r/askTRP21/12/18 05:23 PM
6

Man up and post a FR on the main page.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:45 PM
25

have since gained 40 Take your shirt off. Stand in front of a mirror. Would you fuck you? Neither would she. Now own your shit.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 11:08 PM
19

Two years into our dating this stopped. Nope. Two years into your dating you accepted and allowed this to happen. Now it's going to be a hell of a lot harder to get what you want out of life. , but I love this women too damn much She knows. That's why she doesn't need to try. You can't negotiate attraction. She's not attracted to you and not afraid of losing you. You're a beta bucks, nothing more than security and wallet to her. You're certainly not her lover.
/r/askMRP20/12/18 09:01 PM
8

Drugs are for people escaping the reality of life. I love life and have shit to do.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 07:04 PM
10

A) are you under clinical care? If not, start. B) take her out for a coffee, tell her "I like you. I'm attracted to you. There's some things going on with me, but I'd like to keep doing this."
/r/askTRP20/12/18 04:40 PM
2

"There's this one girl..." Sidebar -->
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:49 PM
4

Not Your Problem. Tell her family, and then disengage.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:09 PM
5

YOU have an average dick. A strong, confident successful man with a small dick will have a happy girlfriend.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 10:10 PM
8

you're a sad little fuck. you haven't understood shit about red pill. if you're an attractive, strong, confident man with frame, your girlfriend will happily bounce on a small penis knowing she's snagged a man other women want. you have an average dick. literally, nobody cares except you.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:42 PM
13

do you know what's less sexy to a woman than an average sized penis? Insecurity.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:29 PM
1

Just wanted some insight on how to approach You don't. Go find a girl that isn't fucked up.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 08:00 PM
3

but tells me watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 06:48 PM
1

.....with you.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 11:58 PM
2

Fire up the resume. If you're not soon fired, you'll never be promoted or respected. Your career in this company is over.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:38 AM
2

No. She's your ex. You're never getting back with her. She's dead to you.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:00 PM
6

You wife doesn't need to do anything different because there's no risk to her stability and life. She knows this. sometimes you just need to walk away. why are you wasting your time with a woman who isn't fulfilling your needs? You seem to have hotties who want to ride you. Life is short. But everything else is 100%. Other than that, how was the play, Mrs. Lincoln?
/r/askMRP14/12/18 10:29 PM
1

So go get another girl. Maybe this one isn't the right match for you.
/r/askMRP14/12/18 10:22 PM
6

too much dread. not enough comfort. there's a balance.
/r/askMRP14/12/18 07:18 PM
46

but ${girl} and I ended our relationship today. just a slight upgrade on language: "I ended my relationship with ${girl} today." Take ownership.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 05:25 PM
4

Exercise. Sunlight. No alcohol. Healthy sleep. Healthy diet. Friends.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 01:53 AM
1

There's no such thing as an LDR. Don't break it up, but don't hang on to it.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:42 AM
1

straight fire and smart as fuck / not bimbos or hoes lol. You're aware they can be both, right?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 01:28 AM
2

Suddenly, this really gorgeous lady walks by and I checked her out. Don't do that at work. When you're at work, around colleagues, or on the clock...YOU ARE ASEXUAL.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 11:51 PM
5

Is there such thing as the '' right mindset'' for a successful marriage? The "right mindset" for marriage is to be a high-value man that your wife will remain attracted to. You have to be willing to walk away from EVERYTHING every moment of every day. You have to be willing to burn it all down for it to be successful. And, if you're doing all that, you're following your mission anyways. You cannot rely on anyone else for success in life--including your spouse. So own your shit and go from there.…
/r/askTRP11/12/18 04:44 PM
3

what the hell don't you understand? She's not interested. She has a better option than you. I am 21 ... am looking for a new LTR sigh. you kids will never listen. The thing is she tells me she needs time that's pretty overt communication that she's not interested. are you not listening? she told me watch what she does, not what she says. Its obvious I am her 2nd choice At best you're the billy beta backup plan. I can feel that she has the upper hand on me yes. because she's walking away and forg…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:50 PM
5

Anything needy bout that line? Yes, the fact that you were thinking about her at all. CONTEXT is everything. Women want a man that doesn't need them. They need a challenge. texting is for logistics only. If you were a high-value man with options, you wouldn't be thinking about her...which is what maker her interested in you.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:10 PM
35

I clearly need to raise my attractiveness. What's your bodyfat right now? How many days a week do you go to the gym? How strong is your frame? What goals do you have? But am I being a beta pussy about this or do you think this should be a boundary? Why isn't she afraid of losing you? Why do you care so much? If she's going to cheat, she's not going to announce it by going out with a group of guys. You need to focus more on you and less on her. You sound needy and insecure, and THAT is really fuc…
/r/askMRP10/12/18 01:49 AM
41

Hire a personal trainer, a life coach, and a chef/nutritionist. Get your bulk up and your bodyfat down. don't advertise you're a beta bucks. don't over complicate this. the only reason being short drops your smv is because you're not confident. it's just a shit test.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:59 PM
3

The "playbook" is to do a damn fucking good job at every menial task you're given with a genuine smile on your face so that you'll be given more responsibility. That's it. There is no trick.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:56 PM
1

You're missing something here: She's the boss. You're the employee. You scan the fucking customer items the best you possibly fucking can with a smile on your face and say, "may I have some more please sir?"
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:52 PM
6

I’m a very successful musician. Unlikely that you're measuring success in dollars. Can you earn enough to live comfortably and securely?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:56 AM
98

Here's something you need to think about: Every man in his 40s has been in his 30s. No man in his 20s has ever been in his 30s. Listen and learn.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:48 AM
3

No. Didn't even read all that crap.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:24 AM
5

You can live in Denver at any time in your life. As you get older, you won't want to live in NYC. I'd say go party hard now in the Big Apple. Denver is just suburban sprawl, great for getting married and raising kids. looking for a city I can party hard in on the weekends and enjoy a life of sex, drinking and meeting cool people in that sort of a scene. Yep. NYC. I fear that by my late 20s I will be too old to enjoy NYC and too old to mix and mingle with the party crowds there. The issue is, you…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:50 AM
6

sounds like a lot of drama. why don't you have many other options? why root through the trash? btw, you don't "apply dread". dread is passive. did you fuck that up?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 01:04 AM
5

I'm going to be a bit of a contrarian here.... Is her teasing AFTER she found out about it "lighthearted" or "cutting"? She might see you as so strong and successful that she can't imagine a little thing like this ACTUALLY BOTHERS YOU. The stronger you are, the less fucks you have to give, the stronger your frame, she may actually be amazed that she's found a weakness in you. Also, is there a way you can simply ACCEPT that you have it, have done great with controlling it, AND NOT LET IT BOTHER Y…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 05:21 PM
18

do you have so little self-respect that you really don't know what you need to do?
/r/askTRP05/12/18 05:44 AM
3

Things I did wrong: stayed in poor relationships too long. didn't take care of my health (dental, bodyfat, fitness) didn't cut out low quality people from my life. wasted too much money on stupid shit, eating out, etc. could have been way more focused on excellence. could have set goals 100 times harder than I did. Things I did right: professional success lack of drugs and minimal drinking kept it touch with quality friends took lots of chances splurged on some cool things. set goals
/r/askTRP04/12/18 05:34 AM
170

an actual investing genius (won't go too much into detail, but he made a killing with bitcoin this isn't investing. This is speculative gambling.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 03:58 AM
5

But my mind can’t help but creep in with hypergamic thoughts. “Hot girls. Mexico. Alcohol. Hit on Insecurity. Fuck this” I give her 3 months before she figures out you're a beta pussy like the rest of the soy boys.
/r/askMRP03/12/18 04:44 PM
2

guys don't have v-cards. stop thinking like a girl.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:43 AM
3

You don't even know what you want. How are we supposed to help you get there?
/r/askMRP02/12/18 06:43 PM
6

what part of "I'm a contractor" don't you understand? Don't burn any bridges.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 10:04 PM
2

Channing Tatum could do this. You can't.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 09:15 PM
3

I read an article today that the average date night now costs 125$. Talk about missing the forest through the trees. Chad doesn't pay for dates. Women pick him up, pay for his dinner, and then ride him. Billy has to pay for dates. Women wait for sex to see how many dinners they can get. They always need a good orbiter. The whole message of TRP is basically, "Be Chad". So are you a man worth dating?
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:12 AM
2

Her house, her rules. Your house, your rules. Really don't want to connect it to my wifi, Asked and answered. Aren't there apps that let you take control of the camera or microphone over wifi? Not really with a non-jailbroken iPhone. I won't speak to Android, and I wouldn't jailbreak an iphone either. also, this belongs on /askmrp more than here.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/18 06:20 PM
2

I'm in my mid 50s, and can say I was doing just fine until my mid to late 40s. In retrospect, I started looking older after my 50th birthday.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:19 PM
13

Look around at girls. Do you see how they all have their phones stapled to the inside of their eyelids? THERE IS NO GIRL THAT DOESN'T IMMEDIATELY SEE EVERY TEXT. The context IS the message. This is why TRP says "ignore what she says, watch what she does." Do you know why it's universal behavior? Because you're not an attractive, high-value man. All women have bucketed you into being an orbiter because you're not high-value. They know this. You've just never seen how women treat a high-value man …
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:48 AM
4

You lack context on the situation That seems likely. If she was in your face, I can see your angle. NBD. I recognized your name after I posted my first response. I always take an extra moment to read your stuff when I see your post. For all your posts, thank you. MRP has literally saved my life, and to you and that, I am forever grateful.
/r/askMRP26/11/18 11:41 PM
13

Have you ever ran a 19 Nor? Nope. I'm a novice lifter. I do not get aggression from them like many do. You sure? You are close, but I have to ask why do you keep white knighting the thots? I don't feel that my observation on your actions would ever be seen as white knighting. Had the roles been reversed and a guy approached a girl like this and got shut down, which I guarantee this thot shuts guys down like this all the time. Absolutely. The incels would have their heads. fuck incels. We're not …
/r/askMRP26/11/18 11:21 PM
3

If I was younger I would do exactly that. Go for it. 1000%.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:51 PM
6

this is just anger/temper from the tren/npp. so the thot has nothing to offer him, and that's fine. abundance and all. She was just flirting, albeit not very successfully. "You Can Easily Judge the Character of a Man by How He Treats Those Who Can Do Nothing for Him" https://quoteinvestigator.com/2011/10/28/judge-character/
/r/askMRP26/11/18 09:53 PM
18

have a margarita or ten. Lots of extra calories. Are you 12% BF already? Between them running outside to JUUL every 10 mins classy they must have built up the confidence to come up to me. not because they were attracted to you, as evidenced below. Edit: This actually isn't true. I thought about this comment and changed my mind. They had to have been at least attracted to you to approach, but asking for drinks is a straight-up beta-test. "Little girl, get the fuck outta here." This is where you m…
/r/askMRP26/11/18 09:09 PM
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I do think it’s possible to find a girl who appreciates you and is viable enough to possibly start a family with and remain monogamous. Nope. It's possible to find a girl and for YOU to keep fit, attractive to other women, and understand DREAD enough that she will remain sexually attracted to you. And, in the even she doesn't, you're enough of a man to end the relationship and move on without getting all fucked up about it. MRP is TRP on hardmode, because you voluntarily give up the most importa…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:33 AM
6

Take your shirt off. Stand in front of a mirror. Are you happy with what you see? Would you fuck you? She sounds like a respectful person. Say, "I appreciate the honesty, best of luck to you!", and then move on.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:57 PM
3

Just normal flatline. Your drive will come back when it's ready; and there's nothing you can do to accelerate that process. NoFap is useful if you've had a problem with excessive PMO. If you haven't, then NoFap is silly. As for 14 days..it's a 90 day challenge for a reason! Give it 45 days before you hope for some change. Or longer. Or much longer.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 07:50 PM
12

it's beta if you post it. it's alpha when she posts it.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:23 AM
42

If you are dropping girls for not fucking you after 3 dates, how do you ever find an LTR material girl? RP is a toolbox. It tells you what women are attracted to and how sexual attraction works. You choose to do with that what you want. spin plates, don't spin plates. we don't give a fuck what you do. Have an LTR. Get married and have kids. Seriously don't care.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:48 PM
3

what's with the infux of "rp 101" questions? dude, she's not interested in you. That was, in girl speak, a hard no.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:02 PM
1

Is this just a desperate attempt from her to secure a young guy after she’s had her fun? Yes. Because I cannot differentiate between if she’s really that into me or she’s really that desperate that she needs to lock me down ASAP. Neither can she. And one more thought: She's not afraid of getting pregnant. It's time for her to have a baby.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:53 PM
1

I wouldn't mind a relationship with her, but at the same time, i could enjoy a lot more college poon for the last semester i have left. Nobody can tell you what you want. You have to figure that out yourself. https://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/final-exam-navigating-the-smp/ Where are you on this curve? Where is she on this curve? What should I do? Whatever the fuck you want. Hint: Always chase your mission. Never chase a girl.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:58 AM
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What do you guys do? She wants to talk, share, unload, gripe, vent...you know, like a person. She wants you to listen, take her side, validate her feelings...BUT NOT SOLVE HER PROBLEM. Rub her feet or shoulders while you're listening. LEAD.
/r/askMRP24/11/18 01:41 AM
21

c'mon. You know the answer to this.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 12:54 AM
6

At the same time they are very aloof and avoid long eye contact with me. They're not interested. As far as I know I am not ugly at all, in fact most people I met have told me that I am very good-looking. Watch what women do, not what they say. I am also fit and drive a nice car. Skinny fit, or can you deadlift 4 plates, squat 3, bench 2, and OHP 1? What you guys think could be the reason women behave like that? they're not interested in you. you're not as attractive as you think you are. How tal…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:46 PM
3

Corey Worthington's the thing here was the 2008 video interview. here's a kid with nothing, who within a few minutes has a TV anchor eye-fucking him and flirting with him ON TV. His frame was so damn strong it melted her. THAT is why you don't need money to get women wet.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:06 AM
1

Google/Facebook/Netflix pay 200k+ to coders/data scientists fresh out of college. nope. source: not doxing myself. but nope.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:17 AM
1

women get wet over frame, confidence, and a good body. not income. your income doesn't matter. or, that you think there's lots of mid-20s women earning $500k.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:15 AM
2

have met women with very high incomes (200-500k) in their mid 20s. These are the typical incomes of someone in the best tech companies, high finance, law, etc.. nope. google corey worthington.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:58 AM
6

social media is useless. good looking or not. especially for "pulling bitches". BTW, where's the insecurity come from? Women are beautiful, wonderful creatures. There's no value in being degrading, it just shows you're still in the anger phase.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:57 AM
3

No. Don't lower your standards. Have abundance. Guess what? If the best you're pulling are 6s, you don't have the looks/game/frame you think you do. But seriously, go get someone cute you're excited about.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 01:55 AM
5

fuck her with a condom. suck it up, buttercup.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:27 PM
1

It's the same thing we tell the men here. Numbers don't matter. Take your clothes off. Stand in front of the mirror. Are you hot and sexy?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:23 PM
2

Is she just a discreet fuckbuddy, or a friend that you're also having sex with? There's your answer...
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:30 PM
2

treat that rehab like it's your fucking job.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 12:01 AM
4

as she calls me an asshole. Nice work. You understand that's a compliment, right? You've got this. BTW, ease up on the heavy weights. Volume and consistency matter. Numbers don't. Getting injured sets you WAY further back than not doing 3 hard reps to exhaustion with heavy weights.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/18 11:56 PM
5

it's strictly for people who want skin cancer later in life.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:47 AM
2

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:21 AM
2

Average is fine. I can't do ugly or fat. ugh.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:10 AM
1

Enjoy her company. Have a great time. She sounds like a great girl. Enjoy fucking her. Heck, even do an LTR. But don't for one single moment sacrifice your goals, your life, your time, and YOUR FRAME for her pussy. Because the moment you do is the moment she loses all attraction to her. The only way to keep her interested is to keep her chasing you. She can never catch you. Don't be emotionally detached. That's a lonely way to go through life. Just understand why women are attracted to men.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:23 PM
0

Would a clever girl not understand the risk she is taking in losing the billy by fucking a chad she doesn't care. Not for one single moment. she has men LINED UP to take her on dates, go to exotic places, and to fuck her. an 18 yo HB8 will live a life of sexual abundance you wouldn't believe. and, c'mon dude, have a reality check. You're just some average dude. You're trying to lock down her pussy with a commitment because you have an opening.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:05 PM
0

I was under the impression women prefer to settle for a guy than bounce around fucking people like guys do women do both. This is the dual mating strategy. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks. They settle for billy beta to give them comfort, stability, and pay their bills. The fuck Chad without a second thought because he's hawt and gives them tingles. Gotta be honest, you sound a lot more like Billy than Chad.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:59 PM
0

I am the best I can offer her in terms of a stable partner who understands her and connects with her, she doesn't want to be saved. she wants tingles and emotions. and I understand that she probably isnt stupid enough to sacrifice that for a quick fuck. yes, yes she is. AWALT. dual mating strategy. hypergamy. it's all true.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:55 PM
1

that depends, are you Chris Hemsworth? If she's an 8, she's going to be getting high-value dick thrown at her for the next 15+ years. Are you mr. super studly enough to HONESTLY be the best she will ever be offered? for real?
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:43 PM
1

AWALT. Would you consider her a 6 or a 7? or even a 9? https://therationalmale.com/tag/notch-count/ I like you kid. I really do. I don't want to see you waste time. Just keep reading all this stuff like your life depends on it. Question it. Disagree with it. But keep in mind everyone who wrote it all wants to see all us men be successful.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:34 PM
1

he's also having problems with "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife." hahahaha
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:25 PM
3

listen do the adults, you ignorant little fuck. you came to TRP asking for advice. You got it. And you're arguing with everyone here. You're trying to achieve blue-pill goals, and it just. doesn't. fucking. work. that. way. She's going to take a dozen dicks and treat you like shit and you won't even see it. Everyone here sees it all coming a mile away. start reading the goddamn side bar to save your own life.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:00 PM
7

this girl(18)...suitable for an ltr. No.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:34 PM
4

Much better word selection. Cheers. Enjoy the girl.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:19 PM
5

Do I need to get over this annoyance and accept the fact I'm going to have to hit her up first to meet Yes. Get the fuck over yourself. Man up. Chase. It's what men do. Men chase, women select.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:09 PM
3

it's beta to engage with social media. just cut that shit out.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 09:02 PM
5

Having kids sucks. Most parents I know wouldn't do it again. If you do, remember you're shopping for a mother, not a lover. adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:28 PM
1

I figured that if she wanted my exclusivity, then in return she should fully give me her body. This is pretty much the dictionary definition of "blue pill". Thoughts? Suggestions? Advice? You're 21. she's 18. You're both still figuring things out as young adults. She's learning how to get what she wants, you're learning how to get what you want. Red Pill is about putting your needs first, taking care of yourself, and learning how that makes you attractive to women.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:29 PM
5

True, you should never get married, Say this again slowly every morning. Once you realize this, the rest of your stuff doesn't matter as much. (Note: I'm in my 50s, happily married after finding MRP, and wouldn't get married again or recommend it to younger men.) but I can't really imagine that a girl would agree to being in a monogamous LTR for 30 years and living separately all this time. This is not your problem. Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. If she doesn't, just go find another woman. S…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 05:13 PM
1

it's the "coffee is for closers" scene from glengarry glen ross with alec baldwin. in TRP lingo, it basically says you're either a CLOSER or OVERHEAD.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:26 PM
3

Which one of those items on that list can you not achieve if you're 5-6?
/r/askTRP19/11/18 04:25 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4PE2hSqVnk
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:24 AM
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strength: go to the gym 3 times a week. squat 2 plates, deadlift 3. bodyfat: be under 15%. grooming: trim your nails, brush and floss, get a decent haircut, shave. dress: clean, don't overdo it. don't be a slob or too casual. have interests and hobbies. be passionate about them. care about success in life. spend less than you earn. have a positive net worth. save cash every month. don't have any debt other than a mortgage. don't do drugs and drink very little. don't do weed either. live comforta…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 06:10 AM
29

Not nearly as much as being a fit, fun, male with goals and drive in life. Then women will come out of the woodwork.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 12:59 AM
11

I don't want to be caught and dumped for infidelity, and I definitely don't want to hurt my GF as well. Be a man of your word. Red Pill isn't about lying to women to keep the sex flowing. Be congruent with yourself, and tell your GF that you'd like to fuck other women on the side. Maybe she'll stay with you, maybe she won't. That's her decision. You have to do what's best for you, and that my involve ending the relationship with your GF.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 07:30 PM
0

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:31 AM
3

Arguably long term relationships are different from flings. Okay. Kinda, but not really. Maybe. Red pill knowledge teaches us emotions and intimate emotional bonds are for betas Nope. and sexual attraction wanes out after being in a relationship for a long time Not necessarily when familiarity ' Nope. and too much comfort sets in. Hey! You got this right! Being a responsible male figure also in some sense, mean that you cannot walk away if you don't want to take her bullshit. I can walk away eve…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/18 08:08 PM
3

you're 15. FOCUS ON YOURSELF! Treat school like it's your fucking job. Groom well, be in excellent physical shape. Learn from everyone around you. Learn social skills, learn who you are, take control of your time. don't smoke, get high, drink, etc. it just wastes time. don't stress about girls and dating. How should I treat her in a relationship like this now? don't. she's just a person. she's not a girl, she's not a girl you're interested in. forget about her romantically.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 06:07 PM
14

Where can I find like-minded people my age? Don't follow. Lead.
/r/askTRP17/11/18 05:06 PM
2

things that she drops are not your responsibility, even if they fall on her own head. manage your own life, she will manage hers.
/r/askMRP17/11/18 04:24 PM
12

Is it really a bad idea to have a woman as a good/best friend? I've had female friends before, even very good friends. It's perfectly fine if there's no sexual attraction. Even that being said, I probably fucked about half of them and the friendship dwindled. She can't be a friend if you have even the tiniest bit of feelings for her. AT ALL. As a general rule, men are your best friends.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 11:11 PM
4

she keeps offering alternatives. she's busy. that's good. don't stress about it. just keep juggling calendars until the time works. don't overthink this. she likes you. don't go beta.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:23 PM
1

because i truly love her and i feel that im doing stuff for her and not for me.. Understanding this is kinda the whole point of Red Pill.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:15 PM
2

160 would be way too skinny
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:06 PM
1

But doesn’t this mean that I should just abandon the idea of a woman with a low count? yes, that's exactly what this means. yet another way the red pill is bitter.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:50 PM
1

If she sleeps with me, why wouldn’t she have slept with the others? She fucked all the other guys, too. don't kid yourself. It seems to me either a girl is a slut and she’ll be all over you. Or she’s a prude who will make you wait and have no experience. it has nothing to do with a particular GIRL. AWALT. All girls will be sluts/thots for guys they're really hot for (alphas); and all girls will be prudes to guys they're not hot for (betas). a high beta will get trickle sex to continue the resour…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:40 PM
3

you're misunderstanding. really. for the right guy, ALL women are THOTs. That's what AWALT means. A top 10% man lives his life drowning in pussy. Beta man can't believe this is real, but it is.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:25 PM
4

says she wants to wait for sex, what do you usually do? take that feedback that I'm not a top 20% man, eat less, workout more, and focus on my mission. then go find a girl who REALLY wants me.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 11:18 PM
3

Why don't you have many other options? Why are you worried about this one girl?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:21 PM
5

most of the time my wife is sitting next to me and we all laugh like crazy. never let your wife get too comfortable or she'll stop trying.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:26 PM
1

the key to happiness or at least state of peacefulness Happiness is the work, suffering, and effort put into achieving your goals; not the state of being there. you have to learn to love the struggle and being uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:25 PM
3

on Clover I found where you went wrong.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:38 PM
5

It's not bad. You could also have gone with, "Um, this is awkward, but I'm gay." Let her hamster spin on THAT for a while! BTW, it's work, DO NOT FLIRT BACK. At work, you might as well be gay to women. you're asexual there.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:28 AM
13

delete the app. yes, beta as shit.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 06:02 AM
1

so she can’t hookup tomorrow. When she comes over, at some point just turn on the shower, get the water warm, and walk into the room naked and lead her into the shower. Give her a discreet moment to pull the tampon and pad. You've got this.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:50 AM
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Usually it's a girl asking; and I always say, "about an hour from now", and cheesily wink at her. Oh, I'm in my 50s and married with three kids. still gets a smile every time!
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:48 AM
1

You should have called her bluff and driven her home right that fucking moment, even if it was 3 hours and it was 11pm. A girl who wants to see you will make it happen. You were already being beta billy by driving so far to pick her up. You've got this.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:25 PM
17

You still haven't internalized that YOU are the prize. You should be asking yourself where young women go to meet awesome dudes like yourself. But to answer your question, when you're an awesome dude focused on you mission in life, great women are ALL OVER THE PLACE MAKING IT EASY FOR YOU TO MEET THEM.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 10:12 PM
3

I could not pull this off because I drove her and she lives far as fuck from me. She knew this.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:55 PM
15

Hopefully your friend finds better friends than you. You should tell him. there's two ways he will handle this: 1) be glad he found out his LTR is a ho; 2) be upset with you for fucking his girl. Only a very self-confident man could accept that his friend fucked his girl and not hold it against the guy. Bros before Hos man. Bros before Hos.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:30 PM
5

Is there a red pill way of handling this which doesn't involve simply keeping calm, not getting too attached and moving on? No.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 07:09 PM
1

Should guys initiate meet ups? Yes. So I've been seeing this girl probably 4-5 times. that's passive language. We met up on Saturday because you asked her on a date, or because you both ended up in the same place? and since then I've initiated no contact Why? was she disrespectful? , partly to see if she'll message me first to meet (she has high interest) women don't message first. and also because it shows high value on my side no it doesn't. you misunderstand. that i'm not desperate and i'm bu…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:44 PM
3

twenty-something women live a life of natural abundance. HB9s and up NEVER face reality. even into their 50s. the world caters to them. but more importantly, why do you give a fuck?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:38 PM
4

This is a conversation between her and her doctor. If you're small and it hurts...that sucks. don't waste years of your life in a relationship where the sex isn't good for you....even if that isn't her fault.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:36 PM
2

It's an odds game. You may not have done anything wrong, and things still don't work out. She's 17, she's young, she's fickle, and she's a woman. Maybe you really are Chad, but just not her type of Chad. Or maybe she was just feeling off or not interested. There's a million things that could have happened...many of which are outside of your control.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:12 PM
9

I actually agree with this feedback. Yes, Rollo's content is great. However, keep in mind that Redpillbrigade17 doesn't make his livelihood and life's purpose from the written word, Rollo DOES. This is just advice from student to master to continue to hone and perfect his mission. Rollo's message could be even more impactful. Every man should pursue excellent in every detail of their mission--no matter what that mission is. Rollo's mission is words.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/18 05:09 PM
3

put whatever wrapper around it you want...you're just not attractive enough for her now. women live a life of natural abundance. RP advice says....move on, you have lots of other women who are interested in you, right? RP doesn't say, "how do I get this one girl..." which is what you're asking.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:00 PM
4

What did I do wrong? You go back to the gym and add mass, while watching your nutrition to drop bodyfat. Can you squat 2 plates? Can you see your abs? she's okay being a sex object....just not for you. you're not attractive enough.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:57 PM
1

women want you to acknowledge their non-physical achievements. women want chad to see how physically hot they are. women do not want a non-attractive man to notice them sexually. which are you?
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:54 PM
43

What's your squat and bodyfat? Why isn't she afraid you're going to dump her lazy ass for a younger, hotter woman who fucks you more? You know this has nothing to do with laundry or kids, right?
/r/askMRP13/11/18 07:52 AM
11

It makes your wallet lighter when you head to the gym. Better gas mileage and all. That's kinda all I can think of.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:30 PM
1

Sidebar --->
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:45 PM
37

You're misunderstanding. Women don't CONSCIOUSLY bait and switch. They don't plan to do it. It's just how they're wired. If a man gains weight, loses frame, loses goals, etc....then the woman will lose sexual attraction. Women have a DUAL sexual strategy: provisioning and comfort; and hot sex and successful offspring. To women, this is as natural as "water is wet." THEY DON'T EVEN KNOW THEY'RE DOING IT. It's the man's job to remain sexually attractive to ALL women, thereby keeping his spouse att…
/r/askMRP12/11/18 06:41 PM
14

your first paragraph shows you don't really understand what red pill is about. keep reading the sidebar material.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:59 PM
1

Not your responsibility. And now that you know she’s crazy and manipulative, you have to end this relationship now. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:30 AM
1

I tell that I am not ready yet Good. and that living together usually leads to drama and arguments. You should have stopped there. You DO NOT need to explain yourself. "I am not ready to live with you." Just for clarity: YOU DO NOT NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF. But what should I do if they continue to arise? Continue to say, "No, I do not want to live with you." You have to do what's best for you. She might leave you, but you're a man of abundance and this does not bother you, because you're doing w…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:32 PM
15

You got your answer as clear as day. Don't you get that?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:41 PM
2

This x1000
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:14 PM
1

You're 14. You have MANY other things to focus on. Be impeccably groomed. Take care of yourself. Be fit and strong. Be fun and intelligent. Your clothing should be clean, appropriate, and correct for the situation. "Fashion" is a folly.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:27 AM
8

What can he do to recover the sex life? Find someone who wants to fuck him. What can he say/do when she refuses sex? "It's time for you to go home now." It really is that simple.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:47 AM
5

Would you consider just paying some hot 19 year old $1k/mo You could afford one hell of a personal trainer and life/dating coach for that budget. seriously, TRP lays out the roadmap to successfully date. Just execute. it's not that hard.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:36 AM
6

this is a frustrated girl venting about being a broke university student. No, it's not. She's genuinely testing the waters with the idea. Likely because one of her girlfriends is doing it and she's jealous of the attention the friend is getting. And besides, having sex with a rich, handsome older man who pays her sounds kind of exciting. She's not just venting. Be very careful. poor form mate guarding, or alpha boundary setting. Mate guarding is when you try to control her actions. Alpha boundar…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 03:58 AM
6

You simply establish boundaries. "My girlfriend isn't a sugar baby." She's welcome to do what she wants. You're completely in control to end the relationship if it doesn't meet your needs.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 02:53 AM
1

I currently live with my parents in my late 20's move out on your own.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:20 PM
3

when I know my dick isnt good enough for them. Your dick is fine. Your confidence isn't. Guess which is more important to a woman. And, fortunately, which one you can improve.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:55 PM
1

of course.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 09:03 PM
5

it's a test. women know that any man who sends her money immediately disqualifies himself. And she gets money out of it, too! they want a man you laughs at them and makes her send him money. that's frame.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 07:36 PM
21

"Worked a variety of contract and short-term jobs through recession period. Continued my educational growth and professional development during downtime."
/r/askTRP30/10/18 04:44 AM
2

you have to become a man worth being loyal to. and, even then, she still might cheat. you're just reducing the chance. and a good trp man knows he has options in life and it wouldn't distract him from his mission.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:38 AM
2

you completely misunderstand TRP.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:25 AM
4

So are woman pretty much only worth sex ? Absolutely not. A good relationship is worth a lot more than sex. That being said, very few men would say you can have a good relationship without frequent sex. I can’t tell if you guys think it’s possible to have a great woman in your life or not? Of course you can. But we want to be wanted and enjoyed for sex. Not for stability and money. I would hope that there’s at least some good woman out there (self.asktrp) TRP is a very harsh truth for men, becau…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:40 AM
5

"my girlfriend doesn't post soft core porn on tumblr". that's your boundary. and be prepared to enforce it fully if she breaks it even slightly, even once. remember, you're the gatekeeper to commitment, and she has to earn that.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:58 PM
2

fuck no. Separate her getting her car from you offsetting the use of her car. Those are two different things. She should get the right car for her, including what only she can afford. If you borrow it, you should kick in money for gas, maintenance, repairs, etc. But don't make any promises or agreements formally or informally about offsetting the cost or finances of HER car decision.
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:54 PM
2

Treadmills are bullshit for times. Actually, they're kinda bullshit all around. Go outside. Go to a specialty running store. Try on a bunch of shoes. Listen to their recommendations. You can get a nice $90 shoe. Or a nice $150 shoe. You can't get a nice $35 shoe. Congrats, too!
/r/askTRP27/10/18 04:43 AM
2

I'm kinda worried about getting a rep for banging old ladies. You don't want anybody to find out you're banging her. She doesn't want anybody to find out she's banging you. don't let it get out. That being said, it'll get out. Own it. "I'd date someone my own age, but I just can't do a fattie."
/r/askTRP24/10/18 01:56 AM
1

A woman looking for a beta bucks will audition like a porn star. But you've read TRP. You're smarter than that. You know women will get wet for an in-shape, fun, strong man with frame. He can even be broke. that's what you're working on, right?
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:43 AM
2

Congrats. You're a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP24/10/18 12:28 AM
3

I had been doing a side project for a client for a while, and that had been going well. I saw a gap in the marketplace and decided, "fuck it, I'm going to give up a few years of income, blow through all my cash and then some, and buy shitty health insurance and see if I can make something here." so, yes, several years and lots of cash later, I'm now making what I could have been at a job, but it's a deep hole to dig out of. Oh, I'm also really fucking good at what I do, and pretty good at sales …
/r/askTRP23/10/18 10:10 PM
16

No, this is a side hustle to my full-time job which is also digital marketing at a local agency. I do the same thing I do both at work and at my freelance side hustle. Make sure you have a written agreement that states your current FT employer has no claim to your side business. You might be in for a surprise. Just make sure they know about it and consider it non-competitive.
/r/askTRP23/10/18 04:30 PM
52

What does your business consist of? (Without going in too much detail if you don’t wanna share) Technology. How much money did it take? About a half a million in cash and 4 years 1 1/2 FTE. Are you doing your business full time now? Yep Would you ever go back to working if your business failed or start another one? Either. Working for someone would be easy and comfortable. How did having/starting a business change your life and the way you interact with others? I have little tolerance for lack o…
/r/askTRP23/10/18 03:29 PM
2

What makes you fun to be married to? You have to answer this question either for this relationship or the next.
/r/askMRP12/10/18 08:46 PM
1

the worst thing you can do for your kid is stay in a loveless marriage. Show your kid was real love is. go over to /r/askmrp for more specific guidance. but, shit dude, start living your own damn life. can't undo yesterday's choices, but you have complete control over tomorrow's choices.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 02:26 AM
5

I recently got engaged. So get un-engaged and go live your damn life.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 02:19 AM
12

got any strategies to what? she basically just told you she wants a quick fuck.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:41 PM
1

Today in AskTRP: "I just won the lottery, but feel like giving the money back because I didn't earn it."
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:32 PM
10

Did you know that people can describe someone as being "confident" before that person ever says anything? First impressions matter...are you fit, well-groomed, well-dressed, and carry yourself positively?
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:24 PM
5

I disagree. MGTOW seem to be men that don't realize how EASY it is to be a top 20% male, and have never experienced abundance mentality or outcome independence. TRP is the toolbox that helps all men achieve their mission. MGTOW is fatalistic in that they've given up ever having success with women. It's sad, because TRP believes that most all men can have success with women given the right understanding and putting in the effort.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:23 PM
8

Nobody runs background checks on 1099 contractors or the self-employed, just sayin'. As a guy who's never been in trouble with the law, I'm admittedly afraid of Felons. You did it once, what's to keep you from doing it again? The best chance you have of earning my respect is to accept it, say you've changed, and move on. As for employment applications, the ONLY chance you have is to bring this up early-on to HR. "Hey, you're going to find a Felony on my background check. I did my time, I learned…
/r/askTRP05/10/18 09:18 PM
2

Having "enough" money to live a comfortable life is absolutely essential. Having a tad more than that is fun. Beyond that it can just be a scorecard. But don't underestimate the value of having your financial security taken care of.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 04:34 AM
3

go enjoy your adventure, college will always be waiting. But once the basketball thing is over, DO go to college and get an education. It's not all just about making money.
/r/askTRP05/10/18 01:32 AM
1

she should be comfortable lathering you up at this point. it's just life.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 11:45 PM
1

Our relationship is at 1 year 9 months. Looks like you've got help in this one, dude. Leverage it.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 10:36 PM
2

insecurity isn't sexy. you failed texting her.
/r/askTRP04/10/18 02:35 AM
6

you're an idiot if you don't grind it out for the pension. The NPV of that is HUGE.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 05:17 AM
3

Be willing to walk away. Every moment of every day. And make sure she knows it. Once she feels like you won't leave, she won't try any more.
/r/askMRP03/10/18 05:15 AM
2

just looking for insight You're spending an awful lot of energy thinking about a girl who's actions told you she's not interested. Not only do your ACTIONS need to move on--which you've done very well--but your emotions do too. I know you're asking us to calibrate, but that's the first thing that jumps out at me. Do I also want to call her out for being a tease/trying to make me an orbiter? On if you end up in front of her. If you reach out to her in any way to do this you're still chasing. I li…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:35 PM
2

If I had abundance I would ditched the girl in no time. Then go fix the root cause. Life is better. But if we were in a fucking awesome LTR and still want to demote, how would you do? You don't.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 11:26 PM
2

demote your bad LTR to a FWB at best sex (wasn't and isn't great You lack abundance. Go find someone you like fucking.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 10:45 PM
3

This relationship ended ages ago, and you didn't have the emotional intelligence to pick up on it. She's been begging you to kill the puppy for ages, and you thought everything was hunky-dory. This is as overt as she can be to end the relationship. The next stage is for her to frame it all as your fault, and devalue you around her social circle so they all support her decision. How would you respond to her? That's the wrong question. How do you RESPOND TO YOU? You have to be responsible for your…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 06:25 PM
2

Men want Freedom, Women want Access.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:52 PM
4

I guess the idea of going from living at home straight to shacking up with my girl is freaking me out. As well it should. I just want other guy's take on sharing a space with your girl at this age when you're generally inexperienced. I did when I was younger. Against my parent's protests. I would absolutely advise against it. She has everything to gain, you have everything to lose. You're just now landing on your feet as a man, and her window to nail down an M.R.S. degree is fading. This is a ba…
/r/askTRP01/10/18 05:47 PM
40

The problem isn't that she makes comments. The problem is that you give a shit that she makes comments.
/r/askMRP01/10/18 04:11 PM
7

It's easier for her to secure resources from an AFC than a Chad. She doesn't want to compete against younger, hotter women for you. You must always make your LTR compete for you. ALWAYS. Source: been married 20 years.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:55 PM
3

/r/NoFap
/r/askMRP24/09/18 09:01 PM
1

how do I reduce all this flaky behavior? Chicks would totally flake on Chris Hemsworth, too. It clearly has nothing to do with how attractive you are, so don't worry about that. It must be something else.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 03:07 AM
10

if you're under 15% bodyfat and lift, it's alpha and hot and sexy. if you're a fat slob who dresses poorly, it's creepy. same action. different interpretation if you're a top 20% guy or not.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 07:49 PM
1

she is not plate/girlfriend material. What exactly is "not plate material"? Her past is her past. Every girl has a crazy past, some just tell you about it. Judge her on her behavior with you.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 03:57 PM
0

Teach your brother that being controlling comes from a place of weakness and a lack of self-value.
/r/askTRP20/09/18 01:23 AM
14

Eventually I said fine And BOOM! Your relationship ended right at that moment. She was testing you. She needs to feel that she has NO sway or control over you. That you'd be willing to walk away from EVERYTHING at a moment's notice. She knows her value. And you don't know yours.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 01:09 AM
7

dude, it wasn't about $20. Don't you see that? You and your fucking was worth so little to you her that she tested your beta-ness with a $20 request. If you were a better fuck, more fun, jingled her tingles, and were more Chaddy, SHE would have been filling up your car! If you gave in to the $20 request, you'd simply be her meal-ticket where she dispenses pussy on a schedule necessary to keep you provding. It's what women DO. The only way to win was not to play. Which you did. Now take it as a m…
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:44 PM
8

do you know why they're called plates?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:32 PM
0

and a common theme I've been seeing is acting like an asshole to people. That's literally NOWHERE in TRP. Can you please link to the sidebar content in which you believe it's telling you to "act like an asshole"?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 10:03 PM
7

If you don't give a shit about it neither will she. She'll shit-test you about it, and just laugh it off. if you're insecure about it, she'll pick up on the insecurity and you'll be unattractive. so don't be insecure about it. source: love dating much taller women. :)
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:42 PM
6

It's over. Move on.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:14 PM
2

always be investing in yourself, your professional skills, and your functional capabilities. agreed about shit jobs.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 10:30 PM
1

I'm in my early 20's and live in a rather poor EU country can you move? I highly value my time good that you do, but jobs and pay is about someone ELSE valuing your time. and really don't want to end up working 9-10 hour job just so I do not starve. suck it up and start busting your ass. that's better than starving. I have some slim savings and I wonder how this could be invested In the US the answer is "low load index funds". instead of spent for random shit. don't spend it on random shit then.…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:30 PM
-1

someone who isn't fat. ick.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:58 PM
24

From an old dude to a young dude: my advice is to skip it. You will understand in 15+ years. congrats on losing 100lbs. That's awesome. Be proud.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:05 PM
40

For your first? Nah, that memory will be with you for life. I skipped a few opportunities as a horny teenager, and NEVER regretted it. As your older? nah, have some fucking standards and don't be so damn thirsty. Why are you only pulling 3s, anyways?
/r/askTRP17/09/18 04:00 PM
1

don't worry I'm budgeting properly getting my first car at 21 looking into is the amg c63 HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Do you know how women get dressed up for other women? Men get fancy cars for other men. Virtually all women couldn't tell a Benz from a Camry and don't give a shit. And guess what? your finances are fucked. go to personalfinance and get some good information.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:28 PM
3

the TRP answer: DUDE NEXT GO LIFT SHE'S NOT INTO YOU. The "real" answer, with some moderate TRP: schedule another date, see if she's into you, and look for IOIs. It's possible she was drinking, caught herself off guard, just wanted some attention, maybe was on her period, had ugly panties on, or who knows. Give her some time to prep for a real date and know what's going on...but don't invest too heavily in her if you keep getting stopped.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 11:25 PM
2

I dont know what to do. go find someone that isn't broken. And after she told me about the rape she said she wants to take things really slow and get to know me better sucker.
/r/askTRP15/09/18 09:56 PM
3

I was thrown off balance by the drastic change in her attitude. She just met somebody cuter than you, that's all. You're her backup plan. Work harder to be the next girl's first choice.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 11:40 PM
5

She would totally forget a date with Chris Hemsworth, too. I'm sure her grandmother is sick or something. It has nothing to do with you not being attractive or interesting enough. Absolutely not. No reason to worry about that. In all seriousness, she sounds like she wanted to go out, let her contact you and explain what happened. But there's no reason for you to chase her.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 10:59 PM
1

Did you cause it? --> apologize. Did you not cause it? --> not your problem. One time my toddler was crying like crazy, and it instantly dawned on me she wasn't crying, she was negotiating. Just like your wife is.
/r/askMRP13/09/18 06:01 PM
5

what's going on? You have no idea what YOU want and what YOUR limits are. Do you want a gun in your house? Boom. DONE. She can make her own decisions about her life. It really is that simple. The rest is just noise. I went into the conversation willing to compromise The first tiniest step leads to a dead bedroom. This is why marriage erodes alphas into betas. It's always by tiny little steps. Aaaand, this should be on askMRP anyways.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/18 12:13 AM
1

my Team Lead, Accounting Manager, & the Director & VP of Finance) So you want to make a +5 jump up the hierarchy right to the CFO? Yeah, um, no. That won't happen. Ask for a lunch, be prepared to be denied (in a way you don't recognize as being denied), and a one-time meeting might happen. "mentor"? nope.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:18 PM
5

I am a bit out of shape, Before you fix this the rest is moot. nothing major, yes, it's major. but no excuses; easy to say, hard to execute. I'm relatively certain I have a much higher SMV. Relative SMV doesn't matter. Men rate women on a 1-10 scale. Women rate men on a binary scale: either you're in the top 20% of physically attractive men, or you're not. The good news is that it's not that hard for men to achieve this hurdle: stop eating like shit, and LIFT. (not run, not bike, not jiggle stuf…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/18 06:10 PM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 10:28 PM
17

Why do so many men still follow the red pill philosophy when there are so many women against that kind of thinking? Because it is an accurate model of reality. Quite simply put, "it works". Red Pill literally saved my sanity and my marriage, because it connected the dots on things I knew but didn't want to believe. I WANT blue pill to be accurate, and spent many years of my life wondering why I wasn't succeeding more following that model. Red Pill in all the harshness....is an accurate descripti…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 05:53 PM
23

So what do I do from here? What level dread are you on? what's your body shape, lifts, attractiveness, etc? Are other women flirting with you in public? Said another way, she feels so secure that you won't stop provisioning her that she doesn't give a shit about your boundaries. She needs to feel less secure in her relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/09/18 03:23 AM
1

that's still not a goal. Pick a specific number. Pick a specific time. Goals have to be measurable and falsifiable. Try again. Edit: Read this, too: http://www.hr.virginia.edu/uploads/documents/media/Writing_SMART_Goals.pdf Edit again: Here's a goal for you, "I want to have $1MM invested in my Fidelity account before my 30th Birthday." It meets the criteria of a SMART goal. Now go read /r/personalfinance, the mlllionaire next door, and mr. money mustache. You can do this.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:57 PM
-2

until I am a millionaire Oh, I thought you wanted to be "rich". Your goal is only a million. Nevermind.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:55 PM
17

because if she's not afraid of losing you it's a win-win for her. If you break up with her, you killed the puppy and she can blame you for the relationship ending. If you DON'T break up with her, you've showed her you're spineless, and she can control you and do it again and again.
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:52 PM
3

basically stating that women are on a timeline and are deemed undesirable after post wall. Nope. stopped reading. it's not a binary expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 11:42 PM
11

She respected me No, she didn't respect you. She thought the tradeoff of not going out was worth your attention for a little while. She's changed her mind. I wont let her go out drinking every weekend. A slight upgrade to your language and frame of mind will change all of this. YOU are simply setting a boundary about YOUR actions. "If you go clubbing and drinking I will not be in a relationship with you." THAT is not controlling. She is ABSOLUTELY WELCOME to go clubbing and drinking every moment…
/r/askTRP09/09/18 10:24 PM
1

false positive.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:07 PM
1

I know i can change things myself, then shut up and do it. He puts work on first place instead his family. how the fuck do you think you had a roof over your head and food on your table? take ownership. stop looking for blame. you're responsible for yourself, even if daddy didn't hug you enough.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 08:01 PM
2

LTRs in college are stupid. LDRs don't exist at any age. She's never yours, it's only your turn. Your turn ended. Also: We were pretty serious and we're planning to move in together next year. you clearly don't understand shit about TRP. Have you done all the sidebar reading?
/r/askTRP09/09/18 07:56 PM
4

You're mixing up two things... 1) how to manage a wife and family if you choose to have kids; 2) DO YOU WANT KIDS??? I wasn't sure if I wanted kids, but I was pretty sure I didn't want to grow old without having a family. So we had kids. BIGGEST FUCKING MISTAKE OF MY LIFE. They're a huge pain in the ass, take epic amounts of time and money, and have simply drastically reduced the quality of my life. They'll be out of the house in college in 3 years, and I'm sure I will miss them terribly, but gi…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 07:04 PM
1

Lifting won’t change that. Having the discipline and drive to lift three times a week for years changes that.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:24 PM
9

So you’re saying she’s single? :)
/r/askMRP08/09/18 03:38 PM
5

In short, a rookie on everything TRP. Probably because everything you wrote in the first paragraph is some utter spergy bullshit nonsense. go read all the sidebar material again. twice. and grow up a bit, too.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 12:43 AM
3

a good read for you might be "extreme ownership". it's the complete opposite of victim mentality.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 09:37 PM
1

iam16andthisisdeep. seriously dude. chill out. care more about yourself than the rest of the world. You believe yourself to be better than all the people around you. You're not better. You are far more average than you realize. Be humble. You're different. Grow, read, learn, challenge your own views. 240lbs? work to get under 15% bodyfat. How can I make strong and mature male friendships Be a friend worth having.
/r/askTRP07/09/18 09:16 PM
1

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes
/r/askTRP07/09/18 08:59 PM
2

He's trying. Many of us were there once. I hope he really reads the conversation and internalizes the meaning. He's still fighting it, though. Maybe he'll get there, maybe he won't.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:52 PM
2

much of what you're saying in the comments of this thread still drips of victim language. We can all see it, you can't. That's why we're calling you out on it.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:44 PM
2

he might be wiggling his sorry excuse for shoulders on a cable rower, rather than lifting some damn weight off the ground to do bent-over row with a bar.
/r/askMRP07/09/18 08:43 PM
2

Nobody has mentioned the 1000' rope here. You have a LONG history of a being an angry, whiney little bitch that people hate. Great, you've seen the light and decided to change. Those around you, those know you best, and MOST OF ALL your wife, will be the SLOWEST to accept that your changes are real and permanent. Of course she's going to get VERY defensive against your old self. And, truthfully, MOST people who say they're going to change never do and continue to be their whiney bitchey old selv…
/r/askMRP07/09/18 05:37 PM
11

She's just fucking with me like I was with her Sounds like playful banter. Have fun with it. WHAT you say matters far less than HOW you say it. Text her a picture of a bowling ball. Make that your running gag. Text pictures of smooth, round things, or smooth food.
/r/askMRP06/09/18 06:34 PM
1

I think we're going to need to agree to disagree. You sound like you're young, and your perceptions of finances are naive. But let me throw you a bone. There are two distinct levels of "wealth" you and I are talking about. So in some ways we are both correct. For a net worth of $5MM+ by your 50s, which is a VERY comfortable, upper upper middle class life, that is incredibly doable and achievable by Working For The Man and earning it through savings and index fund investments. Most every American…
/r/askTRP06/09/18 05:09 PM
33

Go read the millionaire next door. Wealth is created by savings, not income. Think about that. It makes PERFECT sense. It doesn't matter how much you earn if you can't save it. True wealth is created by compounding interest. Saving your first chucks of money are hugely important. MOST ALL startup/small business fail. When they fail, they cost you capital and opportunity cost. In the US, you should easily be worth $1MM by your early 30s if you're earning $100k/yr. If you can't achieve this, you'r…
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:44 PM
1

passive income is a myth. it doesn't exist. don't chase it. take your extra $1000 and put it into a low-load index fund. go spend time on personalfinance, and understand emergency funds, debt, savings, etc.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:34 PM
2

it's not weird at all. you're letting pussy distract you from your mission. Focus on YOU. Do you know why they're called plates? Because you put little effort into them, and sometimes they break. you want to see an old plate. go for it. You don't need to tell anyone about it. That's FRAME. You are responsible to yourself. because she's controlling you. it's what women do. pretty bad. you're divorced after 15 years and STILL can't see this pattern?
/r/askTRP05/09/18 03:31 PM
7

She knows she’s not adding value to your life. You’re letting her get away with it. Why isn’t she afraid of you leaving her?
/r/askMRP05/09/18 08:05 AM
2

Rule 10: Be precise in your speech
/r/askTRP04/09/18 08:47 PM
7

train his woman That has a negative connotation, and sounds controlling. Hopefully you're trying to say, "it is the man's responsibility to define boundaries, communicate when they are challenged, and leave the relationship when they are crossed." TRP isn't about controlling or training women. It's about respecting yourself as a man, and only allowing acceptable behavior in your relationships.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:51 PM
2

how it developed in a succesful LTR. It is the woman's responsibility to keep the LTR successful. It is the man's responsibility to continue to be desirable. So there are no "successful LTRs" for a man, there are only LTRs that a man has kept active because she is adding value to his life. Said another way, ALL LTRs are a failing proposition for men, it's just RP teaches a man how to battle against the inevitable failure, the nature of women to betafy their partner.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:31 PM
6

If not, I’m sure I’ll live, lol. that's are two great TRP skills: outcome independence and abundance mentality. But it's not dread. Dread is returning a book, and the super-hot librarian lingers her glance at you and flirts with you while your girlfriend stands next to you. Dread is EXTERNAL. You don't apply it. It happens. Dread is your girl seeing OTHER girls want you.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 04:13 AM
7

nope. yeah, the nerve you hit is that a successful woman just realized she's fucking a guy who parties with druggies. You will never see her again.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 03:58 AM
1

Even a mil in investable assets ain't that much. Preferably close to $4MM or a tad more. Maybe $3MM on the low end.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 05:44 AM
1

without being the guy who loves to blow his own trumpet? well you don't make it obvious, silly. everything everyone said below is correct--you have to do GREAT work. but don't expect that alone to be observed and rewarded. play the game. and that includes being subtle and discreet.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:41 PM
1

Set aside 10% to 20% of your time to self-promote your successes and quality. It is self-marketing. Work is not a meritocracy. You need to both achieve your success AND market your successes.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:40 AM
2

passive income yeah. it usually involves a huge shitload of work, topical expertise, executional prowess, and a lot of luck. everything you read about "deposit checks from this unique idea and travel" is complete fucking bullshit.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 07:42 PM
5

She's not afraid of losing you. You're not worth keeping. There's no reason she should change her actions.
/r/askMRP29/08/18 07:22 PM
11

Yes, here's the right steps. I've been married a while and can help with this. First, you and your lovely fiance need to clear the air, and sit down and look at ALL finances. Savings, checking, bills, EVERY credit card, car loans, mortgages, student loans--everything. Pull a credit report. Make sure you know HER full financial situation. Have an honest and long talk about your feelings toward finances, expenses, savings, vacations, and more. If you're not aligned here, life will be difficult. Re…
/r/askMRP29/08/18 03:54 PM
1

Regardless we occasionally Snapchat, messager, Instagram a Fail.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:26 PM
8

Am i missing something here? Dual mating strategy. women look for betas to exploit, and alphas to procreate. both at the same time. always. by moving on to a beta. her pussy never "moves on" to a beta. she will use sex to get resources from the beta, and still fuck the alpha.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 09:10 PM
8

I went along with it Fail. "Hey, sorry, no, I was looking forward to spending one on one time with you." OR, if you have to get vetted by the friends, make sure it ends with you two alone that night. which it could.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 06:16 PM
1

Guess who she fucked last weekend?
/r/askTRP28/08/18 05:28 AM
3

the bible of this is "the millionaire next door." If disagree with much of the content of this book, you will never grow wealth. also check out mr. money mustache. avoid ramsey, suzie, and most of the "gurus". if you can't live under your means, and be a bit austere, you will never grow your wealth. period.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 07:18 PM
5

You are a child in way over your head. Don't try to deal with this yourself. Get help. I don't even know where you'd start.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 04:58 AM
12

She was offering him just enough attention to be an orbiter and a girlfriend. Have more confidence in yourself. that being said, you have a boundary....great. and you enforced it...great. now you fall back on an abundance mindset and go get the next one. no big deal. wash, rinse, repeat.
/r/askTRP24/08/18 10:17 PM
7

uh, don't dominate your customers? you could start there....
/r/askTRP23/08/18 08:20 PM
3

We argued about it White Knight 1, Shamaiyn 0
/r/askTRP23/08/18 03:14 PM
3

lift heavy things. your body isn't unique, you're not special.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:29 AM
3

and how to fuck bitches. I would argue a slight subtle change to this idea....TRP teaches men how to be a a man women want to fuck. Be the prize. Be chased. She'll make it easy for you. TRP isn't PUA where women are tricked into sex. TRP makes a man sexual in the eyes of a woman. It's subtle, but an important shift in mindset.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 07:33 AM
18

you're not special. read the sidebar. delete your facebook account. own your shit. life isn't fair. work on yourself. be a better man than you were yesterday. women are a result of living a great life. live a great life, and women will come. make YOU your #1 priority.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 06:50 AM
0

So my friends, how would you take it from here ? Next. She's not interested. You're not attractive enough and your SMV is too low. She has better options than you. What's your age, height, weight, bodyfat, and major lifting stats?
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:35 PM
5

They do this because they know how important it is to landing Chad. It's literally their FUCKING JOB, so of course they're dedicated. Basically, they just control their calories. Thank heavens a "fit woman" is now considered sexy!
/r/askTRP21/08/18 11:07 PM
-1

I rarely give my # out though” ...."to guys that are average looking like you." This was a measure of your SMV. Time to hit the gym and drop the fat.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:01 AM
2

apologized for LTR acting out in a crazy way. This was your mistake. You were given the gift of preselection and threw it away. your fling has moved on. LTR is burned.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 05:00 AM
5

Hate is not the opposite of love, apathy is. Do you know what women hate more than being hated? being forgotten.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 04:52 AM
2

the moment you give in to her in the slightest is the moment she loses all respect for you. You know this. You have to live your life. You don't want her to move in. DONE. She's traipsing through Europe meeting up with Exes. Honestly, that doesn't bother me too much. Some guys are less secure. Do NOT let this relationship progress. She made an ultimatum, you called her bluff, and now she's behaving badly. She just dropped a level in relationship quality. You let your guard down and got oneitis. …
/r/askMRP20/08/18 04:49 AM
0

no matter what it does for your dating SMV, it fucks your career pretty harsh. source: I'm a successful executive, and it limits your promotions and exposure. side note: tattoos look silly and stupid.
/r/askTRP19/08/18 08:47 PM
3

HAHAHAHAHAHA seriously. it's like you haven't even read any of the sidebar material.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 09:55 PM
1

How fucked is my SMV basically? That depends. What's your height, weight, bodyfat, and main lifts?
/r/askTRP18/08/18 08:05 PM
1

let's see...waiting tables in a rando city, or a real grown-up job in a fucking way ass cool city that pays more money? the fuck wrong with you?
/r/askTRP15/08/18 06:38 PM
3

we’ve been actually like really close friends for almost 10 years. nope. you've been an orbiter for 10 years.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:49 PM
2

situation I’m trying to get out of. "I'd like you to leave. Thanks." It's that simple.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:39 PM
0

I’ve been a lurker for a while doesn't look like it. what's your height, weight, age, bodyfat, and main lifts? and have gotten some great tips that you have failed to internalize. and knowledge or act on. but I have recently found myself in a situation where I don’t know what to do. that's because you haven't understood and damn thing about red pill.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:26 PM
1

congrats on moving forward. that's great for you. women don't care about hard work. they just want the results. keep focused on your health and you'll be fine. when you get under 15% bodyfat dating will improve. and you're lifting heavy. best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 09:10 PM
8

I'm a bit overweight asked and answered. when im fat girls like me better. they perceive you're easier to emotionally control. they don't want to fuck you more. Would just getting one of those stubble razors work? one of those put down the junk food and get your ass to the gym things would work.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 08:31 PM
1

You're on the right track. Good for you. I think you'll be great. "Expect more of yourself than anyone else will." Be the guy that Gets Shit Done. Be the guy that can be relied on. Be the guy that people really want on their projects. Exude Excellence at every step. If you advise against rental properties, is there an alternative that you recommend? Cash is king, baby. Low cost index funds until you're financially independent. The underlying engine is spending less than you earn and living a lif…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:07 PM
3

I feel like all of the details are important to fully understand the situation. No, they're not. You've lost outcome independence and abundance mentality. How many of these fucking paragraphs are about her?
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:37 PM
2

BA civil engineering, things haven't been going as well as I would like. I see a few problems: career development is out of pace with expectations, You likely have unrealistic expectations. i'd like to make more money Good. I don't see the respect I would like at work, Then you're not doing great work. I keep a growing brokerage account and a healthy 401k Great! my goal is to purchase a rental property within the next 3 years using 60k of liquid assets. I advise against rental property. In gener…
/r/askTRP13/08/18 03:35 PM
1

clapped back at her You're a grown-ass man. Do not ever use this phrase.
/r/askMRP01/08/18 01:51 AM
10

I think I'm heading the right direction here. You're not. You're trying to achieve blue pill goals with red pill words. You know the red pill path exists, but you haven't accepted that it's the ONLY path. I love my wife, and i want nothing more than for her to be happy. Yep. thought so. You have to want nothing more than for YOU to be happy. It's only then that the rest of the pieces fall into place.
/r/askMRP23/07/18 12:35 AM
1

Been on TRP for ~5 years now And yet, you missed the forest through the trees. go over to askMRP where you will get properly ripped to shreds. short answer: you lost focus on yourself. you let yourself go. you're no longer her best option. you can't negotiate desire. you're not appealing to other women. she's not afraid of losing you. you're not her alpha.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 11:10 PM
3

just walk away from this woman and this relationship entirely. It's unhealthy. She's a low value woman who's hitting the wall, and you're just starting to wake up. just walk the fuck away. there's other pussy out there.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 04:02 PM
2

Do not marry this woman. Cancel the wedding.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 07:28 AM
13

She'd totally say that to Chris Hemsworth, too. Dude, it's not a shit-test. She's not interested in you. Move on. Get Abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:06 PM
3

Breastfeeding is a wonderful, natural, physical thing. It's a great bonding between mother and baby. It's literally LIFE. Same is similar with sex. Or taking a massive shit. None of these should happen openly in public.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:59 PM
9

And you're getting married why again?
/r/askMRP16/07/18 02:28 AM
12

Anyone notice a damned if I do, damned if I don’t attitude from the wife as you’re making this journey? The part where she knows she's losing control in the relationship and panics like she's never panicked before? That she's losing control of her carefully managed beta and is now going to have to compete for her own survival? BTW, good job owning your shit.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 12:24 AM
2

Most of my life I viewed a woman as something that should make me happy. not the worst thing you've said here. Really, her purpose is to make you a better man and love yourself. Nope. If you are good enough, you win her love. Nope. You haven't read a word of the sidebar material, have you? But also you need to make it her purpose to be a better woman. Nope. If you worship the ground she walks on and pretend she doesn't poop, then she turns into a monster. Yes. This is correct. Congrats, you stum…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/18 08:34 PM
7

Well, I am. Bummer for you. (The implication is that if it's not with her, you have another woman ready and willing.)
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:59 PM
3

Here's the recipe to good teeth health: floss every damn night. thoroughly. brush for the full two minutes with an electric toothbrush. eveyr damn night. floss out gunk during the day if it gets in there. don't be shy about a morning or mid-day touch-up. remember, you're cleaning out your gums, not your teeth. see your dentist every 6 months for a thorough cleaning. find one you like and do what they say. dental health is ALL about preventative maintenance. My teeth aren't bad now, because I bec…
/r/askTRP15/07/18 07:49 PM
7

1) didn't take perfect care of my teeth. 2) sacrificed my own goals for goals that weren't my own (friends, family, work, girlfriend, etc).
/r/askTRP14/07/18 10:32 PM
23

I'm already seeing it in consulting and professional work. Men don't want to be alone with women. No more closed door meetings. No more 1 on 1 meetings. No more closed conference rooms. Women are invited less to social settings. Men are voluntarily segregating themselves with the unspoken idea of "too much risk". I see quality men (executives) simply walking out of social settings when the young single women show up. This has completely backfired and screwed very capable, intelligent women who w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 10:22 PM
2

My two examples in #1 are specifically benefits and pension. Neither of those things are accounted for in the text for adjusted vs. unadjusted. So that link supports and justifies my example for #1, right? I'm genuinely trying to understand. For #2. Yep. It is very interesting. Its just anecdata, but it's been my experience. time and time again. And crystal clear. I apologize for not having a good link to #3, but I remember trusting the source, and it does make perfect sense to me. Somehow the S…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:54 PM
1

There's two concepts I don't see discussed when debating the wage-gap. 1) Women tend to choose jobs with low salary, but also high benefits and pensions. Think Teachers vs. Tech Startup Bro. The teacher makes $50k/yr, the tech startup dude makes $100k/yr. But the teacher gets benefits that would make a lawyer blush, and a locked-in gubbmint pension. But according to the stats she makes 50% of what the guy does. she can't get fired from her teacher job, and his startup will likely be insolvent in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:09 PM
13

good for him. with friends like you, he can do better.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:50 PM
2

Good for her. Respect.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:59 AM
2

kids today. I'm worth many millions of dollars, and I would give EVERY PENNY OF MY NET WORTH, and walk away from every material possession I own to trade my age for yours. So wanna trade? Some success for youth? Yeah? I'll trade!
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:19 AM
3

because girls in a bar or club are the product, not the customer. men are the customer, paying for access to the product.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 07:05 PM
29

You’re always alone.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:04 PM
8

130 lbs is a really good overhead press. Congrats, that must have taken a lot of consistent work.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:16 AM
6

A&A: she should see a dentist, too. Hardcore Red: I bet she'd be a ghost if you started having a pain in your wallet every time you bought dinner and paid for the evening out. Normal Person answer: She should go see her doctor. It could be many things. Rather than guess, she should go get checked out.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:42 AM
2

whether they are just another way of manipulating me. bingo. "I'm really upset!" (that I got caught).
/r/askTRP08/07/18 01:02 AM
1

it's been two weeks. What did you do about the whore who cheated on you?
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:41 PM
2

so no need to tell me to work a real job, im working on it. Work harder on it.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 02:32 AM
1

but technical wise, she is my best option at the moment. so create better options for yourself. That's what men do.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 08:18 PM
3

An HB10 is an HB9 that floats YOUR boat. The details only matter to you. The other comment about binary/tertiary ratings is pretty spot-on too.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:23 PM
3

learn how to record things discreetly on your iphone. without triple-level-deep irrefutable proof, your complaints will go nowhere. "sexual harassment" means men against women, it is not an equal playing field.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:46 AM
3

I'm amazed when people ask this. Like, really? there's no fucking shortcut: eat healthy. exercise. no alcohol or drugs. sleep well on a regular schedule. surround yourself with good things and people. Find something you're passionate about. Pay your bills.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:00 AM
11

being born with a vagina is like playing life on easy mode.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 10:04 PM
22

so the wife called you on your lack of owning your shit, huh? maybe if the damn window was painted YEARS ago, she wouldn't have to be worrying about this. Would the window need to be painted if you were divorced? Have you had time to paint the window? Why didn't you get the damn window painted? This is your wife saying, "I'm tired of you not owning your shit." It's not financial. Let the painter paint the window. Don't make a big deal out of it. And own your shit going forward.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 10:40 PM
80

Try being in your mid 50s, and feel like it was only yesterday when you were 22. DON'T LIVE A MINUTE FOR ANYONE ELSE BUT YOU. DON'T WASTE A SINGLE DAMN DAY CHASING ANYONE'S GOALS BUT YOU OWN. Nobody gives a shit about you. Live for you.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 05:28 PM
2

what u think? I think you haven't read the sidebar material.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/18 11:51 PM
33

I'm not entirely sure what I'm doing wrong or how I can get around this. You're giving your commitment to someone who isn't meeting your needs. Don't do that.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:40 PM
1

Exactly. You're connecting the puzzle pieces correctly.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:06 AM
1

women's attraction is binary. Once you're an 8 with game, you'll get all the women you want. Maybe not the perfect 10s, but other than that you are now VISIBLE to them.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:05 AM
1

If you're a 6, you're be a beta bux. if you become an confident 8, you might be a AF to someone.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:52 PM
1

What's going on? you're not a top 10% man. The bottom 80% of men are physically invisible to women. So, you're a "6". that's the same invisible as a 2, or a 5, or a 7.5 for a man. Once you become an 8.5 the world opens up for men. There is no parity. all the women want 8, 9, and 10 men. Men want their "equivalent" woman, up to +2 points. So you're a 6, and you think you can date 6s, 7s, and 8s. Doesn't work that way.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:20 PM
88

WTF do I do? I could never look at myself in a mirror and respect myself again if I accepted my cheating whore of a wife back into my life. It doesn't matter if she fucked him or not. She was at his apartment. at 3am. Dick or no dick, she's a cheating fucking whore. Oh, BTW, she fucked him. But you do you.
/r/askMRP25/06/18 07:12 PM
3

AFBB dude. Guess which one you're not?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:23 AM
7

DO NOT ENGAGE WITH HER IN ANY DISCUSSION. Women are master emotional manipulators. You're going to be tempted to listen to her, and she'll say many things--anything--to keep your interest. Actions speak louder than words, and you've seen her actions. If you find yourself tempted to give her a second chance, just picture her riding some other guys cock. That's her version of "Loyalty."
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:03 AM
4

She has nowhere else to go tbh this is not your problem. she should have considered that before she fucked someone else. maybe she could stay with the guy she was busy fucking, getting her pussy filled with his cum, and sucking his cock?
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:38 AM
1

Any software engineers working for a company they are not the founder of are seriously cucking themselves (unless they are learning from them) I would disagree with this. Most all software engineers are so fucking arrogant they really think that the code matters. What they don't understand is that SALES is the only thing that matters--even more than the code. Actually, the code barely matters. It's perfectly fine for a good engineer to be a cog in a machine as long as they're getting well paid f…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:30 AM
3

I think "de facto" means she spends a lot of time there, but still has her own place. He just needs to give her the boot.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:24 AM
7

She should come home to find her shit on the porch. This is gold. Respectfully pack all her shit. Don't leave anything out, don't break anything. Put it all together in one place. She can come pick it up. The extent of your conversation will be "Here's your stuff." She'll know exactly why. She won't have any idea how you know. She'll deny it all. You don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 03:04 AM
5

"de facto". get this cheating whore out of your life. like, yesterday. You don't owe her an explanation. Here's your discussion: "Please take all your stuff and leave. Tonight." Do not respond, justify, discuss, or engage. And, never respond to a single thing she ever says to you again. She's dead to you. If she calls you, your reaction should be, "holy shit, dead people can make phonecalls!" And then you block that number too.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 02:59 AM
1

bootcamps are bullshit. it will take a traditional 4-6 years of academia (undergrad, stats, CS) and a grad degree in your specialty to be taken seriously. anything less is just a code monkey.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 01:03 AM
1

Computer science. Math. Practical experience. Project Management. At LEAST at the Master's level. PhD for AI. Small business education. More Math. This isn't stuff you're going to get a foothold by going "school of hard knocks". You need big name schools on your resume. InfoSec is going blue collar. AI is a pipedream. But be willing to sell both.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:44 PM
7

Or she knows that if OP knows this and STILL marries her, that he has no self-respect and she can disrespect him their entire marriage and she can do whatever the fuck (and whoever) she wants.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:06 AM
9

It will start with a Tsunami of emotion, followed by begging/pleading, followed by hysterical bonding, followed by shaming, and then anger and threats. OP, listen to this. He's absolutely right. Remember, ALL THOSE EMOTIONS are her just negotiating and trying to save her ego in front of all her friends. The sex will be fantastic. BUT YOU CANNOT FUCK HER ANY MORE. Otherwise you'll be a daddy! She'll get pregnant to keep the deal. Do not let this happen. And when she realizes that you're gone, she…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 03:19 AM
34

Prior to leaving, I noticed that she was acting distant. I'm surprised nobody else has picked up on this. She had already made plans to "accidentally" run into her ex-Chad while she was there. Maybe she has cold feet. Maybe she's just a THOT. In either case, it's not your problem any more. another guy kissed her. well, if this guy tried to kiss her, and her immediate and only reaction was to punch him hard and leave, that's cool. Anything less than that, and she's just a whore.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 01:18 AM
1

Of course second chances work. For her. She gets to keep her beta bux. She's working the chance to fuck a semi-famous musician. Now go be a good little beta bux and rub her feet.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 11:19 PM
1

me: "yeah, I liked all of that... maybe the best blowjob you've ever given me" kissed her forehead, told her I love her and went to sleep. Good Job. Now keep working. Get fit, add a little dread, live a great life. Internalize that YOU are doing HER a favor.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 10:52 PM
2

Do not EVER missing a fucking workout for the next YEAR.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:54 AM
3

at 5-5 and 170, that's the last place you need to be going.
/r/askMRP21/06/18 06:53 AM
1

What's her PhD in? Something real? or some bullshit? In either case, she's smart and defined herself academically before kids. Raising kids is mind-numbingly boring as fuck. She's just bored. She wants to define herself through something other than her drooling kid. I don't see any red flags here. You're approaching things waaaaay too analytically ("and then I'd only make 3.3x her"). It's about her feeeeeels. She's professional bored and out of touch.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 06:52 AM
3

“If men could suck their own dicks humanity would end in one generation”.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:24 AM
1

Don't waste time or money. Have goals. Chase them with your time. Save your money. If it's not one of your goals, it doesn't exist in your world. Pussy is a by-product of living a great life. InfoSec or AI? It doesn't sound like you have the foundation to be employed by either of those things. If you want them, build the foundation. Go from there.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:43 AM
1

"that was weird." "Yeah, it was. I'm going to run to the store for a rubber ducky, two avocados, and some perler beads. I have an idea. be right back." You lack confidence. She wants a man who's confident in her life. A man who owns his shit. Who's running the damn house as a new baby fucks everything up. An oak. Question is what's the best approach now? Read everything on the sidebar twice. Read the top rated posts. Develop an action plan. Act. This will take years. Stfu, pass shit tests, and l…
/r/askMRP21/06/18 12:40 AM
4

Living alone is worth every penny it costs.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 06:05 PM
4

No matter the path and choices you make, always make sure you're looking out for yourself and prioritizing your own health and needs: physical, mental, academic, emotional, and so on. Mens sana in corpore sano. You have much potential. Now it's your job to bust your ass and realize it. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 11:31 PM
8

step 1: uninstall all those stupid female-validation apps. step 2: there is no step 2. go outside and live your life.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 07:52 PM
2

because even an average looking woman has men throwing themselves at her all day every day. Women live the most amazing abundance mentality that only the top 5% of men kinda get to experience. There's ALWAYS another great guy 5 minutes away for EVERY woman. It's something we literally need to explain to guys over and over again here.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:14 AM
8

Remember, WOMEN have nothing to lose while flirting at work. It's ALWAYS the man's fault, and the MAN will always lose their job. She's putting you in a no-win situation. You need to navigate out of it without damaging your career. You can't ignore her, because that will just piss her off and she'll concoct something to devalue your work life. You can't flirt with her, because you don't shit where you eat. So you need to be uninteresting to her. Let her find another target. Be beta. Don't be too…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:18 AM
22

I like to tell my gf that the only requirement I have to stay with me, is to make my life better than it would be if I were single. Relationships in one sentence. I've never heard it stated so clearly and succinctly before.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 07:49 PM
2

I want to make her a plate. What is it today? Is it a Friday thing? Do you guys not understand what a PLATE is? Do you know the analogy on WHY they're called plates?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:58 PM
2

I have a don't ask don't care policy about plates and yet you're asking and caring.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:51 PM
7

You should definitely rush into a contract with the Government such that if she doesn't have the tingles after a while you need to give her half your net worth, and then a monthly stipend so she can continue living a comfortable life. It's early on Friday, maybe you can make it to the courthouse and get that done by end of day.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 06:25 PM
11

GF has been waking up crying from a reoccuring dream that I cheated on her in. Not your problem. However, keep in mind that GF is TELLING YOU that she had this dream. Who gives a shit what actually goes on inside her head at night. Her TELLING YOU this is just a comfort test.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 06:02 PM
2

Current target diet is 155g protein/80g fat/<25g carbs. Don't be afraid of carbs. Be afraid of empty carbs. 155g P is on the high side. I target 0.6 to 0.8 g P of a target bodyweight (12%). Healthy carbs fuel a good workout. Eating healthy veggies is more important than "going keto". Any examples of someone my height who is looking great – what is your weight? I'm 5-9, look fine at 160, but could cut to 150. Extrapolate as necessary.
/r/askMRP15/06/18 05:28 PM
2

This is the part he doesn't get. She's too comfortable. She's too secure. It's called DREAD because she FEELS THAT YOU MIGHT ACTUALLY FUCK SOMEONE ELSE AND LEAVE HER. And it works.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 08:00 PM
1

Here's a trivially simple example... It's in the evening. You and the wife are sitting around. She asks, "What do you want for dinner?" What's your answer? Or another, you and the wife are sitting on the sofa watching TV. She says, "Hey, would you get me a drink?" What do you say?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:27 PM
3

How much do you understand about Dread? If your stats are true, women should be hanging all over you and eye-fucking you. Your wife should know this. Why isn't she worried you'll get tired of her shit and enjoy a younger, thinner, prettier pussy bouncing on your cock?
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:26 PM
1

So is frame me thinking every chick wants me (even tho not true) I think it. I believe it. So I act as If I already have them. Nope. that's "Assuming the close". Frame is a much bigger concept. And has little to do with chicks.
/r/askMRP14/06/18 07:07 PM
6

I don’t think I’m afraid as much as I hate dealing with it. Hate is still an emotion. You need to learn apathy. You need to become a man focused on your mission with a feeling of abundance toward women such that you simply don't care if she's being salty. She can leave. For an hour, a week, forever. You don't fucking care. Who wants to be around a miserable chick all day. The first time I told my wife that I would rather be alone than with her while she's being salty, it shattered her glass hous…
/r/askMRP14/06/18 06:41 PM
1

Sorry for all the post this will be my last one for a bit. but I’m trying to get out of her fucking frame. Good you're aware of it. I’ve read almost every post there is to read on frame and I still manage to end up in hers. It's like calculus. Once you understand it, it's obvious. Until then, it makes no sense whatsoever. My frame is focus on my mission (my career and business I want to start. Save money. While getting out of debt) Good for you! but I also want to be a better captain/man Yay! No…
/r/askMRP14/06/18 05:27 PM
11

Not "perfect". Don't fall into the mind trap of "top 0.0001% or worthless." But DO get to the top 10%. And, here's a protip: it won't happen while you're in high school. You'll keep growing as a man well into your 20s and 30s. Don't think of TRP as "a strategy to get you laid." Think of TRP as "a collection of notes on how women interact with the world." It's how you USE that knowledge that gets you laid. If you don't pass the shirtless test, focus there.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:43 PM
1

That's the thing. I've seen these girls do it to guys who are more attractive and less attractive than me. Were these guys they were doing it with more attractive or less attractive than Chris Hemsworth? Here's the thing, if a girl is REALLY INTERESTED in the guy, she won't pick up her damn phone. Additionally, the girls I end up talking to are pretty poor in the social area. They're in high school. They're still learning. But don't use that as an excuse or crutch to see they're not interested i…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 10:23 PM
-4

I'm guessing you're not buff, lean, well-groomed, and live an awesome life. She's asking you to entertain her. "Dance, monkey, dance!". Why should you? If she valued you, SHE would have made all the anniversary plans.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 09:32 PM
41

She would totally do that to Chris Hemsworth, too. NOT. That's the red pill. You weren't valuable enough for her attention. Now go keep reading the sidebar material. This is RP101 stuff. Oh, and DO NOT touch her or her phone IN ANY WAY. You simply walk away, she signaled to you that she's not interested. Preferably, walk away to your awesome life, the gym, and great eating habits.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:30 PM
1

That said, (and this part is moralizing, not redpill) I feel for the girls. Women don't age as gracefully as men do, they can't put off kids and family like we can. If you are not ready for kids and marriage I would ditch your LTR, no contact her and let her get on with her life. I personally feel bad for girls who want to commit and have kids so they commit to a LTR that isn't going to end up that way for them. This is all VERY true. It took me many years, introspection, and wisdom to come to t…
/r/askTRP13/06/18 06:22 PM
1

Wise man told me once that education is one of the few things that can't be taken from you. Which incidentally is the concept behind the fact that educational loans aren't dismiss-able in bankruptcy.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 03:34 AM
19

grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 02:21 AM
1

I'm giving you a hard time and pushing you because you're still a little tiny bit in denial. You're circling around the concepts, trying to do the actions, but still glossing over the BITTER parts of the red pill. And it's bitter. I do sincerely wish you the best.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:28 PM
2

I'm 6'4" You've been given the genetic gift of being very tall. And you're throwing it all away by being a fat fuck. You don't even know how much advantage your height has given you because you've never experienced anything else. Do you have any idea how much better your life would be at 6'4" and 12% bodyfat while doing a 155lb OHP?
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:17 PM
3

but my height hides it ok. no it doesn't.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:11 PM
6

god dammit you little fuck. Listen to some fucking men who want to fucking help you a tiny little fucking bit.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 06:09 PM
0

Problem is with the new wife You actually got married again? Wow....
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:06 PM
1

he still doesn't get that women simply use sex to control their betas.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:02 PM
2

he still doesn't get that women simply use sex to control their betas.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 06:01 PM
1

(I know, I’m still fat & shouldn’t be using her behavior or sexual frequency as my measure of success in my journey) I didn't read the rest of this post. I'm going to guess her little Beta is acting up, and she needs to reel him in with a little more maintenance sex. She knows that will put you in your place for another year. You need to read up on Dread. If another woman won't fuck you for lust, your wife doesn't need to either.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:46 PM
14

Fuck no.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 05:04 PM
7

How many times are you going to ask this?
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:58 AM
3

I missed the "red pill attitude" in your story. I saw oneities, lack of abundance, lack of outcome independence, pedastalizing, lack of frame. There isn't a single part of the "theory" that "says she should be really into me again." You need to go back and keep reading. beggining And take pride in your spelling and communications. If this was a resume I would have just put it in the "no" pile. Because even if I show alphaness in the group You still don't know what Alpha is, either.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:54 AM
1

is this my way of meeting more single women due to my situation Become a man a woman will seek out. You're not there yet. Keep lifting and keep being awesome. I bet even though you're consistent with lifting, you're still skinny.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:40 AM
6

so A couple hours after seeing it I decided to answer her text and setup a meet. That was your mistake.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:37 PM
2

Amused Mastery works well, too. You're fine.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:14 PM
4

You're doing great. You get it. Read and STFU. Most men never get that far. she starts crying. Fake crying. I don’t even know. It's just negotiating. I tell her stop it. I would have engaged less. Just disengage. A&A. But don't rationalize, DEER, or control. She's a smart girl, she'll get it.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 06:11 PM
51

What should I do? Blow this relationship up and never fucking talk to her again. She's dead to you. Fuck, have even the fucking tiniest amount of self respect. Should I give her another chance? Are you a complete fucking idiot? Anything less than completely blowing everything up, and she has your balls for life. Or should I leave? ya think? Should I make additional ultimatums? There are no ultimatums. Get her the fuck out of your life RIGHT FUCKING NOW.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 02:27 AM
2

what's your height, weight, estimated bodyfat, and 3 main lifts?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:14 AM
2

cheers!
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:20 PM
2

Nah. Black pill is just spergy guys taking "be attractive" way too far. They conclude that if you're not 0.001% attractive you're worthless; as the spergs do. TRP says, "be top 20%, and really, it's not that fucking hard to be top 20% because most men are lazy." black pill says "only looks matter". red pill says, "many things including looks matter, here's the framework." black pill is mostly MGTOW+spergs.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 09:17 PM
2

Exactly. Being born with a vagina is playing life on Easy Mode.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:44 PM
2

To me it seems obvious...women like men want to win at life. Agreed. Red Pill is just men telling other men about the RULES of this game that are VERY DIFFERENT from the rules that most all men have been told growing up. Men who find red pill go "oh, shit, yeah, okay, I get it now", and start winning at life far more successfully now that they know the REAL rules to the game! Men get upset because they've been lied to their entire life. Women get upset because men's knowledge of this reduces wom…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:37 PM
2

Imagine what Chris Hemsworth could say and not piss her off. It isn't the words. It's the man saying them.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:09 PM
2

So i recently got fired from the job i was working at, a factory. It was unfair, but that's what it is. First, you need to take ownership of why YOU got fired. Yes, it was fair, you're just deflecting. go read "Extreme Ownership".
/r/askTRP09/06/18 08:07 PM
6

If you're over 20% bodyfat, it's not a shit test, it's mockery. A shit test is her qualifying you to see if you're worth fucking.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:57 PM
1

When Im flirting with a girl its obvious shes interested with me. When I ask her to go out(like meeting)if she rejects me what to do? Ask yourself how you so badly misread the signs of her being interested. Because she wasn't.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:37 AM
5

https://www.ruled.me/visually-estimate-body-fat-percentage/ https://www.builtlean.com/2012/09/24/body-fat-percentage-men-women/ http://truth-dealer.com/physiology/fundamentals/lean-body-weight-03.html To answer your question, absolutely under 15%, and probably more 10% to 13% before they show nicely. This is why getting to and below 15% bodyfat needs to be done for every man.
/r/askMRP07/06/18 08:02 PM
1

216lbs I'm 5'7" Nothing else matters until the scale under your feet says 159.0 pounds. Count calories like your life depends on it. Hint: it does.
/r/askMRP06/06/18 04:57 AM
8

would I be breaking frame? Your frame was broken the moment you installed Instagram. And then signed up for it. And then followed her. And then responded to her DM. She owned you every step of the way. And you don't even see it. Turn that shit off.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 07:57 PM
10

This is covered by Rational Male: https://therationalmale.com/2016/07/29/the-cardinal-rule-of-sexual-strategies/ The Cardinal Rule of Sexual Strategies: For one gender’s sexual strategy to succeed the other gender must compromise or abandon their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 02:43 AM
18

You weren't hot enough to be an AF. Because you were a BB in her eyes, fucking you would get her no resources because you're married. There's nothing for her to gain in this scenario. She won't get to fuck an alpha, and she won't get any bucks from the beta. She played her strategy correctly.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 12:01 AM
11

I'll get your started with a template: "Mom, Dad, as you know I really enjoy my time at the gym. I apologize if I've become more agitated or aggressive after a good workout. I would like to improve that part of myself, and if you see it happening please let me know. I also understand that 10 hours a week at the gym is a lot of my free time. What would you like to see from me so I can continue my gym habit? I'm open to suggestions, and would like to find a way to have your support. Maybe you'd li…
/r/askTRP03/06/18 02:34 AM
11

own your shit, little dude. 5 days by 2 hours a day is a LONG time. You can get most of your workout in with less time. that not withstanding, you're not accepting responsibility for your behavior and attitude at home. Start there. Own your shit.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 02:25 AM
49

how do I convince them to give me permission to go back? Don't be aggressive and agitated after a workout. Wow, that was easy.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 01:09 AM
1

plate Do you know why they're called plates?
/r/askTRP02/06/18 11:12 PM
1

yes. absolutely.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 10:04 PM
3

money + much harder. go with the bank. never stay with a counteroffer.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:34 PM
9

"I'm a whimsical person. I'd get interested in someone/something obsessively and then just stop altogether". Listen carefully when you first meet someone. Most people will tell you EXACTLY who they are in the first 30 seconds you meet them, and then never again.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 10:20 PM
18

This, gentlemen, is what abundance mentality looks like. For her. I'm 20 years old...looking for a long term relationship Why?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:12 PM
9

She's trying to recruit you to be her orbiter. You, having some awareness in life, aren't falling into the role of giving her free attention and being an emotional tampon. You will learn that without your attention and resources, she has no need for your "friendship". Good for you.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:01 PM
1

Let's see, you work 5 minutes from her place. You have a car and she doesn't. She was an LTR, not a one-night-stand. Really, honest, sometimes it's okay to just be a good person. "I'm sorry things didn't work out between us. Here's your stuff. I really wish you a great life."
/r/askTRP01/06/18 06:19 AM
1

I think RP has a lot of great insights into women. But, you know, sometimes it's okay to be a quality human being and simply coordinate returning your ex-LTRs stuff...
/r/askTRP01/06/18 05:54 AM
4

if this is your first meetup, she's just inviting her friend for her own safety. seriously, don't over think this. if you're not like your pics, weird, or a jerk....the friend will not leave and stay in the way. as designed by both of them. if you're who you said you were, the friend will excuse herself at some point and leave you alone. she's interested, but just being safe.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:56 PM
3

Just like being an adult, you typically have 3-5 people you're really close with, and another 10-30 that are "kinda" friends, but not nearly as close. It's not a bad thing, it's just life. Sometimes that's mixed gender, sometimes not. The biggest problem with the friend zone isn't being friends with a girl, it's orbiting a girl giving her friendship when you want a sexual relationship. Your homeschool friends will still be your friends.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 11:25 PM
1

My lawyer told me this, if they had enough evidence, they wouldnt ask to speak to you, they would just put a warrant out for you. If they dont have enough evidence for a warrant, anything you say could help them, nothing you say will help you. Since they dont have enough for a warrant, your clear to totally avoid them until they do. Which, if they had enough for a warrant, again, they would already have done that. So STFU, STFU, STFU. They showed their poker cards by saying they needed to talk t…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:24 PM
2

If you have a good relationship, this just sounds like fun flirting on her part. Don't stress about it.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:11 PM
1

If you think this is at all correlated or related to frame and alpha, you need to keep reading because you're missing the forest through the trees. It is entirely possible to have amazing frame, be a true alpha, and be incredibly polite, supportive, and helpful to those around you.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:55 PM
49

How would you feel if an attractive girl blushed and got hard nipples while flirting with you? Exactly. Own it, don't hide it, but don't flaunt it. Play it cool.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:44 PM
4

Women want access to your life. In order for a woman to want access, you have to live a fun, cool, life. You have to have your shit together. Congrats on losing the weight. That's MAJOR owning your shit. Same with the degree. That's fucking awesome, dude, be proud. Now live a fun life. But it's up to YOU to decide what that FUN is. In almost all situations if you're living a fun life, a woman will want to be part of it. Do you know what one exception to that is? Playing video games in Mom's base…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:57 AM
7

Cut the shit. https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/82875i/cut_the_shit/ It's the #1 stickied comment on AskMRP for a reason.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:53 AM
2

do it as a side gig not your main gig, and unfortunately for me it's my ONLY gig... That's the irony. The only way to get laid is to NOT make it your main gig. Once you do, the pussy knows it and you don't get laid. But, I feel like if I quit trying, then I'm admitting defeat and would be a lesser man This is incorrect. Do I really need to just stop and force myself to refocus on other things for a while, Not for a while. Forever. That's what being a man is. Chasing your mission. Pussy comes whe…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:51 AM
5

Age, Height, weight, 3 main lifts, and bodyfat estimate, please. If this were a marriage, there could be lots of things you could do to improve your situation. Since this is a non-live-in GF, why the fuck don't you just walk away? Oh, you're an AFC, that's why.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:23 AM
0

Take your shirt off. Stand in front of the mirror. Commit to going to the gym more and eating better. Why isn't your LTR worried that a hotter, younger, thinner woman would be excited about hopping on your cock? THAT is your answer. Men trade commitment for sex, women trade sex for commitment. She's getting her end of the deal, you're not getting yours. Why are you still engaged in this transaction?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:56 PM
8

Is this a joke?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/18 06:42 AM
3

she sounds like total wife material. stable, supportive, has a great life on her own. definitely wife this one up. You'll never do better.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:53 AM
3

on approaching customers/clients at work Don't.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:56 PM
3

Show up before everyone else. Leave after everyone else. Dress well. Always keep your boss's boss off your boss's back. Shut up and listen. Everyone knows you're the newbie. Embrace it. Take the shit tasks. Do every task, no matter how menial, like your entire career depends on it. Every moment of of every interaction is an interview for a job offer you may or may not get. Don't make anyone look bad.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:29 PM
12

The rules of the world are the same no matter your age. If you're looking TRP as some kind of "get laid" shortcut, I have bad news for you. That being said, 18 years old is an excellent time to start focusing on yourself in life and putting your own needs first.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:30 AM
11

Send away. He won’t take action, though. Men find trp when they’re ready, not when they need it.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:09 AM
0

You're still hating Chad. You shouldn't hate Chad, you should just know Chad exists. Chad isn't a static profile. Chad is unique for each woman. Every woman has her unique Chad. It might even grow or evolve or change over time. Chad is the guy that a woman looks over and it ticks ALL of her "I'd fuck him" boxes. And she knows it. Chad has almost perfect or perfect SMV when evaluated from this woman. His RMV is irrelevant. That's where your example misses. Chad may have perfect SMV, and sometimes…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 01:28 AM
3

How do you explain to an ex Huh?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:14 AM
1

50 is another big hurdle, too. Employee #51 triggers a lot more regulations, too. Yeah, maybe I'll grow to hire a small staff. I'm hoping I can avoid it, though. We will see. Good clarification for everyone reading here.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 08:12 PM
3

Help (18M) Ive been with my girlfriend for like 9 months You should read the material in the sidebar. All your answers are in there.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:56 PM
3

LTR thinks Not your problem.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:55 PM
1

everyone I talk to advises me against getting an office/staff as they are a nightmare. One of my parameters for my business was "no hired staff". Legal and HR is a fucking nightmare. Not for me. I have some 1099 contract workers available when I need it, and that's strictly business.
/r/askMRP28/05/18 07:35 PM
2

Is this common for guys my age? Have you experienced the same? How do you get through this? Yes. Yep. I found some goals. Number 1 on my goal list was: "Never work for someone again", followed shortly by, "Have enough money in savings where I never need to generate another dollar in income to live out my life." Beyond that are more personal goals, which are specific to me. I wish each day was 40 hours so I could do more!
/r/askMRP28/05/18 06:37 PM
2

Your mom is an alcoholic. This is not your problem or responsibility. I would encourage you to seek therapy or help, especially in regards to "Adult Children of Alcoholics". You don't know me, but I NEVER refer people to therapy. You are responsible for you. You are not responsible for your Mom, or your Dad. Your Mom needs to decide she has a problem and to help herself. Your Dad needs to decide the role HE has in HIS relationship. I might encourage you to skip the 5-6 months of savings, and get…
/r/askTRP26/05/18 07:24 PM
1

Now I don't have any motivation to continue being with her. You don't need a reason to leave someone. You just need to want to. You are the only person you are responsible for. Yes, she sounds like a great girl. But it's not the right time for you. And that's okay. You have this internet stranger's permission to break up. What do "Hey, you're a great girlfriend, but I'm just not feeling it any more. I'm sorry." And then go chase your goals and mission.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:28 PM
4

I believe NoFap is similar to people with a drinking problem. If fapping doesn't get in the way of your life and it's not a problem, then you won't notice any change in life from not fapping. If you have an alcohol problem and drink a fifth every day, than going sober will dramatically improve your life. However, if you're stuck in a bad habit of fapping to porn several times a day for several hours a day; then adopting NoFap can help remove that negative situation from your life and start on a …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:46 PM
-1

I have a little invested into Crypto stop gambling.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 07:10 PM
1

You absolutely focus 100% of your energy on succeeding at college, especially because you're at a top school. Borrow and leverage every dollar you can, and your lifetime NPV will be dramatically higher. You have ONE SHOT to knock this out of the park. Do it right. Any job you could get will simply take time away from your studies. Getting straight As and getting involved in EVERYTHING IS YOUR FUCKING FULL TIME JOB NOW. Congrats, and go kick some ass.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:39 AM
1

support of my mission Which is what again? I didn't see it up there. I saw every damn sentence about her, and not about you.
/r/askMRP25/05/18 05:31 AM
1

I still consider myself as ugly with a receding hairline at 20. nobody gives a shit. I've taken a gym membership of 3 months but I feel very anxious when I'm around Normal people. nobody gives a shit. I'm afraid they'll bully me. they won't. Do you know what I silently think to myself when I see a scrawy guy, fat girl, or literally the least athletic person in the fucking world in the gym? "good for you. congrats for showing up. you've got this." start with the basics. sleep from 10pm to 6:30am …
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:07 AM
18

it's not a shit test. she's not interested in you. move on.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:45 AM
2

the fuck?
/r/askTRP24/05/18 08:52 PM
9

I'm anti marriage. I love my wife and have a good marriage, and she provides a LOT of value to me and the family. I absolutely would not do it again.
/r/askMRP24/05/18 04:40 PM
2

(would have divorced myself), This is a great hurdle for most men. When you can reflect upon yourself and realize YOU were fucked up. Lots of guys ask whey they can't get laid. Well, take your shirt off, stand in front of a mirror. Would you fuck you? Anyways, congrats on the hard work. You've earned your success.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 04:12 PM
11

They all smoke weed, expirement with drugs, have criminal records and don’t own cars. Get better friends. You are the combination of your 5 closest friends.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:49 PM
1

Opportunity often comes disguised as hard work.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:18 AM
1

https://markmanson.net/fuck-yes A core tenet of red pill is that it is important to be a top 10% male. It sounds like you're still working on that. Remember, average girls get dick thrown at them every moment of every day, which is why they're picky AF. So don't be a chubby. That's all it is.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:34 PM
8

Social skills ARE INCREDIBLY IMPORTANT for success in life. DO NOT underestimate how valuable these are, and for the love of all things holy, don't be that weird home-schooled kid. Now that being said, High School is a complete bullshit shitshow of crap. If you think you can swing a community college experience, develop good social skills, and SKIP the completely bullshit experience of high school, you have this internet stranger's permission. However, take it upon yourself to really learn, unde…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:25 PM
2

How do I manage this? Why do you care?
/r/askMRP23/05/18 06:14 PM
1

TL;DR asked a girl out, she rejected me So why did you bother to keep typing the rest of this? I definitely know that I could make a long distance work Long distance doesn't work. Not for you, not for any man.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 12:55 AM
12

it's literally the FIRST FUCKING LINK ON THE FAQ ON THE RIGHT. "There's this one girl...." You lack abundance mentality. Go read and work on yourself. You're 18 for fuck's sake.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 01:45 AM
2

it's not exactly "which life experiences". I know you're looking for a list to choose from and compare to your experiences. But for me, I experienced ALL THE INDIVIDUAL COMPONENTS, but was never able to/smart enough to put them together and learn from them. Red Pill was the FRAMEWORK that ALIGNED all my prior experiences. Now everything I went through MADE SENSE. EVERYTHING FIT. Let's see if I can think through a few examples: I've had several good women friends. I wanted to fuck them, they neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 05:54 AM
3

this is written as such angsty teenage bullshit, I'm tempted to agree with your old boss that you're a slacker and a pain in the ass somehow. but if that's not the case, I fail to see why a boss from your old job you quit would have any influence on your new job. btw, this is a real career job, right? not some hourly server bullshit? oh, you're worried about the old boss calling the new company and you losing your offer. ha. guess what. you can't do shit about that. hope it doesn't happen. you n…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:48 AM
12

Been with her for 6months now. We live about an hour apart from each other LDRs are stupid. Attention for women, nothing for men. LDRs aren't a relationship at all. and are both in university. There's no reason for you to be in a relationship in college. You have more important things to do. She told me she wouldn't be doing anything today. Watch what she does, not what she says. I went out with my brother (who I haven't seen in 5months due to distance) to catch up. Good.l That's important. I co…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:24 PM
1

Your wife isn't afraid that you might leave her. Why is that?
/r/askMRP13/05/18 10:44 PM
1

Do you know what "red pill" is? have you even once, for a moment, glanced at ANYTHING over in the sidebar? if you're looked at the letters and words, have you thought rationally and critically about what message they might be telling you?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:06 PM
1

Lots of talking about her and your history and her feelings. What do YOU want? JUST YOU. You get to write your future. What's your story? THEN DO IT.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 10:02 PM
17

Never feel guilty about putting your own needs and desires first. Nobody else in the entire fucking universe will care more about you than you.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:10 PM
1

if she changes her mind You're not understanding her. She just hard nexted you and never wants to hear from you again. There is no changing her mind. There is no alternative. She lives in a world of abundance and isn't interested in you. Now, or ever. You can't next her, you were never even visible to her sexually. You're failing rule 0: be attractive.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:54 PM
1

I think my deep agenda is to fix our relationship as you keep reading and re-reading MRP, you'll accept that your deep agenda is to achieve your mission, and your relationship/wife/marriages/sex is a tiny little sidebar in your big picture.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 05:42 PM
1

im definitely eating under my tdee. no, you're not. if you were, you'd be losing weight. but you're lifting and cutting at the same time. Only possible when you're a beginner (and you are). You're targeting 160g of protein (way too much), and 1600 calories. All three of those facts cannot be true at the same time. which one is false? (hint: you're eating more than you think because you're estimating portion size.)
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:33 PM
0

eating under my tdee but am still not dropping body fat. You're not eating under your TDEE. your macros are all messed up. Are you weighing EVERY LAST ITEM that passes your lips?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:23 PM
1

6'4, 205lbs....95 press, 145 bench, 245 deadlift, 135 squat I'm 6" shorter than you, 30lbs less, with numbers higher than that, and I still consider myself a fat, weak fuck. keep lifting heavy and add mass and bulk.
/r/askMRP10/05/18 04:39 PM
1

find better friends.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:34 AM
1

Listen to everyone here. Don't bother with extreme calorie cutting. It works on paper, but it doesn't work. Learn to eat a VERY healthy 1400-1800 calories a day on a cut, and it takes a long as it takes.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 02:18 AM
2

CICO. r/loseit. Fat loss is 90% nutrition. Eat healthy. This is your mission. You’ve got this. It’s easier to never put a calorie in than burn it off.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:10 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 01:05 AM
4

Body type is a gating factor. Once you're "physically attractive", women will then respond to game, evaluate your personality, and let you engage them. You simply need to be not out of shape and well groomed to pass this gating factor. If you do not pass this gate test, you are sexually invisible to a woman. This is where the "80% of women are attracted to 20% of the men" come from. But we all know it's 80/10/10 anyways. For the top 2% men who are male models and physical gods, women will fuck t…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 08:35 PM
1

Because you'll get fired.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:29 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:25 PM
11

Good for her. It's exactly the advice we'd give to men if a woman treated you poorly. Work on yourself. She's taught you a lesson. Ignore until she double texts? Depends what you want out of the situation. She's moved on. Are you willing to root through the trash?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:53 PM
4

Get to know a few super hot women non-sexually. You'll find out they're just people who were granted the gift of genetics and good habits. A few motivational ideas that I remind myself of are: No matter how hot she is, somebody, somewhere, is tired of putting up with her shit. Imaging her taking a shit. Or puking. Or digging out a booger. Go look at those with/without makeup photos of porn stars. Scary shit, huh? Read "Models" by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:18 AM
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Keto works by removing sugar and restricting carbohydrate to a moderate/low level. This is less true than more true. Keto works to lose weight because it reduces the overall calories you consume, many of which are empty, sugary, simple carbs. It's really damn hard to overeat on protein and healthy fats. You just feel stuffed. But it's easy to down a bag of potato chips and still be hungry. The mechanism you described is HOW your body burns fats for energy, but not WHY you lose bodyfat adhering t…
/r/askMRP02/05/18 11:43 PM
0

Getting cancer is a shit situation. Having your parents killed in a car accident is a shit situation. Having your car break down when you're broke is the result of a sequence of poor life choices that aren't the least bit your responsibility.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 12:46 AM
1

Remember, marriage is a team. You're on her team, and she's on her team too. ;)
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:32 PM
1

my intent was to say, "women are women no matter their age". As a man, you STILL need to be fit, funny, and be attractive even in your 60s. Marriage will NOT grant a man some easy "companionship pass" as we get older. The BEST we can do--at any age--is to be strong, chase our goals, and pass these lessons down to other men.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 04:00 PM
1

But I don't plan to perpetually plate-spin into my 60s. You say this implying there are any other options. The only way to a happy male life is to know your goals and chase them with every ounce of your soul. AWALT, at all ages.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:53 PM
1

Keep reading the sidebar books like your life depends on it. There's tons of red flags in your post about your wife. Don't lose years of your life looking the other way. Best of luck to you, sincerely.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:52 PM
1

I can make a goal for anal sex Never make another person's actions your goal.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 03:51 PM
2

you married an alpha widow. let me guess, he's taller, leaner, and stronger than you? you have a good job, could lose 20 pounds, but you're really funny and you two get along? He's exciting, edgy, dangerous; and you're boring and stable. How many polo shirts are hanging in your closet right now? You casually mention, "Hey, when I had your phone so-and-so snapchatted you. My wife doesn't keep in touch with ex boyfriends on snapchat." Notice how this is a "me" statement. Not a "you" statement. You…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:40 AM
0

I'm sorry, I misread this and thought you said "$100k income and $100k savings is money". No, that's just barely getting by.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:10 PM
5

Agreed. Those are some reasonable numbers. But he really need to be under 15% bodyfat, and it's my hunch that those numbers are a bit exaggerated, and he's probably 199 (oops, did he mean 204?), and a lot softer around the belly. But, yes, 315 sq/dl and 250bench are very good numbers at 190#.
/r/askMRP29/04/18 09:13 PM
12

I could see clearly 100% that my SMV was briefly up in her mind and I was potentially a cash cow Your SMV never changed. Your RMV and BB value jumped dramatically. Men are graded on nothing other than $ and possessions. Men are graded on looks, too. You're clearly not a 20% attractiveness male.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 03:06 AM
3

Was looking to fix my dead bedroom, wandered through relationships, too. Stumbled across TRP and MRP. Devoured the sidebar books, owned my shit, and I'm WAY more at peace with my life, my marriage, and my sex life. For all the critics of red pill; they overlook one fundamental fact: it fucking works. I'm a better, happier man after learning this. I view purple pill as a nuanced blend of RP and BP. It's akin to "red pill is a toolbox, take what works for you." But once you see RP, you can't unsee…
/r/askMRP28/04/18 05:57 PM
14

5'9" 190# Lose 20 pounds.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 09:16 PM
-1

Girlfriend said Was sexting with my girlfriend girlfriend I see where you went wrong here. Let's break it down: 1) you listening to her words and not watching her actions. 2) you're texting. texting is for logistics only. 3) you have a girlfriend. 4) you're completely in her frame.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 06:41 PM
2

S:110 OH:70 DL:125 BR: 90 R: 80 BF:16%. 110 squat is weak. Overhead press of 70 is weak. deadlift 125 is pathetic. 16% bodyfat doesn't matter when you're incredibly weak. Guessing from those numbers, without height and weight, you're skinnyfat. You need to lift big and eat big like it's your religion.
/r/askMRP27/04/18 02:48 AM
2

Less Talk. More action. And you're probably above 15% bodyfat.
/r/askMRP26/04/18 05:00 PM
3

Would you ever LTR someone who takes antidepressants or anti-anxiety medication? Not in a million years.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:46 AM
1

So he's the boss. You're the employee. What's the ownership split of this venture? It feels like this is nothing more than, "I don't trust my boss's judgment." Right? Do you know the cool thing about being the boss? You and your ego don't have to give a fuck about anybody else's feelings.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:20 PM
1

That's your decision, but you should learn from this and make sure your next venture has clear leadership. There can only be one boss.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:09 PM
1

So my business partner and I Partnerships don't work.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:03 PM
1

all those words, and no height, weight, bodyfat, and lift numbers. "pervert" isn't about the words. It's about the man saying them. Chad saying something is "funny and sexy", dadbod saying THE EXACT SAME THING is perverted. Internalize this.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 06:30 PM
3

it's a 90 day challenge for a reason, not a 2-week challenge. don't edge even for a moment. you're 100% committed, or failing. there's no middle ground.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:09 PM
3

97kg 1.85. 6', 213lbs. Lose the fat.
/r/askMRP21/04/18 12:05 AM
2

Good man. I would advise against rental property, but I am conservative that way. My negative is: Rentals are great when things are going well, but a bad renter (non payment, eviction, damage) can quickly destroy YEARS of profits and take a huge amount of time. If you have the personality for Sales, find an industry that compensates well, such as Pharma or Enterprise Software. You could easily be making $500k/yr.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 06:34 PM
1

I sell services door to door in a big city. Get a real career.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 05:51 PM
1

How can I gain a position of power if I pull the filing and continue with our relationship? You can't.
/r/askMRP17/04/18 03:00 AM
7

This. 1000x this. OP, listen to this man. And you might try reading the sidebar, too.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 09:28 PM
20

The opposite of love isn't hate, it's apathy. The most devastating thing you can do to a woman is forget them. Stop letting her have power over you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:31 PM
3

women don't "love" the same way men "love". For women, "love" is a tool they use to gain commitment and resources. She will never love you the way you love her.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:20 AM
-7

First, TOGTFO. have always been faithful doesn't matter. it matters to women because women think men have the same endless opportunity for sex women do. I have gained some weight after 2 children and am not at my college weight but am within 15 lbs of it. lose it. ugh. but I gave BJs Does he wake up with his dick in your mouth? I honestly don’t think he is cheating but I feel like I’m ready to. you're just rationalizing. Because, woman. See my first line. I look very good for my age and take goo…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:20 AM
3

always prioritize yourself first. Take care of your basic needs: education, success, foundation. Although you don't have to look like a supermodel, never be out of shape. Learn nutrition and cooking. Learning personal finance. Don't stay in a relationship that you put more into it than you get out of it. Don't have a girlfriend until you're much older, 30s at the earliest. Recognize THE ENTIRE FUCKING WORLD is out to take your resources. (money, time, commitment, energy). Don't let that happen. …
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:25 AM
5

I just read the post guidelines. Yes, he made an assertion without it being tagged CMV. It would seem CMV is the correct framework for his assertion. That being said, it caught me as funny that his post says "discussion is..censored" was quickly followed with "will be removed". it's all good. And thanks to all mods, even the ones I tease!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:18 AM
3

oh the irony.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:14 AM
2

I have always had a stable, productive, healthy marriage; with many years of dead bedrooms. That's now fixed due to married red pill. it's all good.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 11:13 PM
1

There's a difference between "forget" and "can't remember". Yes, I have "gotten over" my prior relationships, meaning I don't actively think of them. If I try to think of them, or something reminds me of them, sure, I think about them. But then it's gone again. Time heals all wounds. And you also forget everything over time. It's kinda sad.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 10:56 PM
3

Not that anyone will read this because the thread is old, but even if you listen to half these words it is worth my time. I don't think my story is unusual. Was smart, successful, but never "got" women. Rockily navigated women with occasional success, and eventually got married. Because, that's what you do, right? I got lucky. My wife is a good person. We have a good marriage. I worked hard to make our life a good one. But along the way the sex dried up, life got hard, and then life got harder. …
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:38 PM
3

Good. They should. That's the absolute fucking worst age for a man to get married. You're FINALLY establishing yourself as a man, knowing what you want in life, just as she knows her attractiveness and eggs are expiring. Who's getting the better deal here? Ask yourself deep down inside: Are you something OTHER than Chad? Are you average looking? Do you have a good job? Are you stable? Is she more interested in "being married" than "being married to you"? She's on a timeline to lock down her beta…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:14 AM
2

No, I'm not. I'm actually quite happy. Much more so after I found married red pill. HOWEVER, I can see what my alternate life would be without marriage and kids, and that looks a whole lot fucking better. My kids are great kids. They still take a 100% all-in commitment, and they're expensive in time and money. I would give everything I have for them 10x over. (and that's one of the problems!) My wife is a great wife. She's hot, I get sex when I want, and she's an amazing partner. I can imagine h…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:54 PM
3

Yeah. They're on the list of worst decisions I've ever made. Skip them too.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:50 PM
6

Getting married was one of the worst decisions of my life. Not because of the threat of divorce, or because of a bad wife pick (my wife is a great wife). It's because there's NOTHING in it for me. There's nothing you get from marriage you can't easily do for yourself. Of course she's still trying hard. She's still auditioning. The day AFTER the wedding she'll stop trying. The only way you keep the marriage fires burning is to CONTINUE to be an awesome man with options. Why forfeit abundance? You…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:34 PM
11

Congrats on making a decision FOR YOU. Feels good, doesn't it? I didn't read your other post. But here's a guess. The other guys she fucked were fun, tall, and well-built. I'm guessing you're stable, emotionally grounded, probably 20 lbs overweight, not ugly, but not hawt. You probably have a stable job. You're the beta bucks. You're who she's settling for to pay her bills. This is just how women are. Don't hate the player, but know the game. YOU WILL BE FINE.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:05 PM
7

don't be in a relationship when you're 21. didn't read the rest of this bullshit.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 05:45 AM
2

You can't buy confidence. That's why it's worth so much.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 01:23 AM
1

Im 17, in a super intense, academically tough, time consuming school and education system. Tutor. Like the other poster said. This question answers itself. but at the same time like really, really hard, hence i need to spend alot of time on it. Nope. You have shit for time management and prioritization. Stop lying to yourself and get your shit together.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:36 AM
3

You'll be fine. High School is just something to get through. You won't keep up with any of them after you graduate. You'll start with a fresh slate in College, and you'll be fine. Keep in mind that the reason they're still doing it is precisely because it bothers you. You have to deep down inside NOT let it bother you, and let that DGAF come out. Your other option is to approach the school board privately, either by yourself or with your parents and claim you're being bullied. If school ends in…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:21 AM
2

I'm afraid they'll find out I'm a bum. Protip: Women don't care if you're a bum if you're hot. That's why the redpill advice is to LIFT and get below 15% bodyfat.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 11:59 PM
2

She told me Watch her actions, not her words. Are you: a) fucking her, b) not fucking her? There's your answer.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 11:17 PM
18

There's a reason I pay my underground septic trench repair person $150 an hour in Winter!
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:15 PM
195

The parallel to the red pill is "put your own needs first", and "work your fucking ass off." Increases in pay come from switching jobs to higher title and pay band. Sticking with the same company doesn't increase pay as much (in most all cases). Be damn good at what you do. Spend some percentage of your time (10% to 20%) internally marketing yourself and doing self-PR. Pick and industry and field that pays well. (this one is often overlooked!) Focus on your personal NET WORTH, not your INCOME. T…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 07:24 PM
5

How do I change this? Don't worry, life will kick you in the teeth really hard soon enough and you'll be forced to take a few servings of humble pie up your ass. You will be forced learn modesty and humility, and maybe grow as a person because of it. And guess what? I'm not the least bit kidding.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 01:48 AM
7

Once a day is over, you can never get it back. Don't waste a single day. Ever.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 12:09 AM
3

Another possible purpose is to recognize when you, as a man, are employing these tactics. By recognizing that, you can then discern what works appropriately within your frame and not. Thanks. I hadn't thought of that. I'm rereading now. I appreciate the idea and clarification.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 06:25 PM
16

I'd rather prefer to have lean muscle Then there's your answer. What do you guys think? I think you need to stop giving a shit what other people think about YOUR goals and YOUR values.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:14 PM
7

I found this hard to read due to the gender reversal, I'm assuming that's how it was written in the book. MRP is for men about men defending against tactics from women. Trying to read through the list and constantly being distracted by gender made me give up. That's unfortunate, because I think there's good content in there.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 06:06 PM
1

For me, the gym is sacred ground. There are no IOIs at the gym. There are no women at the gym. There are bros with vaginas at the gym, but no women. I'm there to do a job, with 100% singular focus. Same as with work. Don't shit where you lift.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 12:11 AM
26

STFU, enjoy your vanilla sex tonight, and keep reading like your life depends on it. Anything else is going Rambo for you.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 09:15 PM
3

I accepted that my physical attractiveness was a prerequisite before a woman would consider evaluating my personality to date me.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:36 PM
4

That's an excellent observation. The biggest assumption is the "expected rate of return", and nobody really knows that. Historically, long-term we do. However, we're at the top of the longest bull market in history, so...... Which, statistically, still doesn't change the action plan!
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:07 AM
1

is it worth it to buy a house? I plan on moving out my state within 4-5 yrs No. Only buy a house when you're ready to live in it for 15+ years. And the hidden costs ARE FUCKING HUGE. If you know you're planning to move to the city, there's no point in buying all the home-ownership stuff that you'll have to get rid of. Live lean now.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:08 AM
3

found it too time-consuming to do the research Open up an account with Vanguard. Choose VTSAX. 0.04% expense ratio. Total Market Index. Or do something similar with Fidelity. FSEVX. FUSVX. You're welcome. Can I haz 1% now? they made me 14% last year after fees. I just looked at my portfolio. There is NO managed fund in my portfolio. My one-year return was 16.98%. The ONLY thing you can compare performance against is to an index.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 12:26 AM
8

That's exactly what they want you to believe. Protip: They're wrong. It's widely accepted in the personal finance world that NO managed fund outperforms their fees over a low-fee index fund over the long term.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 11:11 PM
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Make sure your "foundation" is settled. The /r/personalfinance sub has a great flowchart. No debts, no cars that will break down on you tomorrow, you have insurance, etc. Now repeat to yourself: "How would I invest ONLY $1 million?" Changes your perspective a bit. There is NO BETTER stock market investment than a low-cost index fund. Boring, but optimal. It's $70,000 growth in year 1, and then it's worth $2,000,000 in year 7 if you're not an idiot and blow through principal. Nice, but it ain't g…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 10:51 PM
1

no response to message. That's your response. it's done. You lost it at your ?. That was your opening to explain the trainwreck thing. Instead, you fumbled and lost her interest.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:28 AM
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I want this LTR to continue Only because you lack options. Does anyone have any experience in dealing with something like this? Yes. There are many great women out there who don't have depression. It's a monster she will fight on and off the rest of her life. And it's not your responsibility. Get out while you can.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 06:12 AM
1

Go to askMRP for better advice. Painful, honest, accurate, better advice.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:13 AM
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Is this going to work against me? You're 15. Everything is going to work against you. Focus on yourself first. Approach school like it's your fucking job. Eat healthy, sleep well, avoid alcohol and pot. To answer your question, no, it won't.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 08:36 PM
2

the classes I'm facing now are very tough quantitative ones. Good. Tough times make strong men. my progress has been declining as the difficulty of classes constantly ramps up. That's victim speak. Your progress has been declining because you aren't putting in the effort. Im addicted to porn and masturbation Give that shit up. I haven't been working out regularly either. work out regularly. Eat well. Sleep well. I'm in a tough spot. Please tell me what to do to get rid of this shitty situation Y…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 05:45 PM
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Wait for what? You already made plans with one of the other several women who want you because you lift, you're less than 15% bodyfat, and you're fun to be around. You forgot this girl was even considering coming over tonight because you have so many other quality options. Create abundance.
/r/askTRP11/03/18 01:07 AM
1

I know I'm an asshole to him. He doesn't deserve it. I apologize. I read an entirely different tone in your post. Have you accepted deep within yourself that your Dad is just another flawed man doing his best in a flawed world?
/r/askTRP10/03/18 10:15 PM
0

He always asks if I'm okay and he always says he thinks I'm sad and he's worried about me not having any friends or making any friends. He always asks if I met any girls because he sees me growing up similarly to he did and he wants me to be more social than he was. Wow. You're right. He sounds like a complete dick. I don't know if it's because he has bad memory or he doesn't listen because he seems to remember every single name of any girl I have ever mentioned ever. A horrible memory. What an …
/r/askTRP10/03/18 06:49 PM
0

You could start by not being a druggie, too.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:40 PM
7

Of course you fucking go you idiot.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:03 AM
1

40s here. I worked my ass off in college and in my 20s, and developed a solid foundation of finances and career. I LOVE the stability, mobility, and flexibility that having "fuck you" money gives.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 08:19 PM
7

Any thoughts? I'd get the fuck out if it was me. Strategically, she's fucking wacko. Find a lawyer, start getting video, and shoot for full custody to save your kids.
/r/askMRP05/03/18 03:20 AM
3

Will I ever get a committed woman who will work with my troubles in life? No.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 02:28 AM
6

Would you rather wait longer for better sex or get the standard issue sex at date 3? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:26 AM
15

What would be an even better thing to say? "Don't smoke in my apartment or while you're here." Have higher standards, man. Smoking is nasty.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:48 PM
2

Yes and no. Learning to think critically and gain academic knowledge is ALWAYS a good thing. Socially? You can recreate that experience in lots of places that aren't college. As for making money...if you're making $50k/year, that's not shit and you should have bigger plans. If you're making $250k/yr now and it's likely to burn out in 3-5 years...make the money now, save every fucking penny of it; and college will be the same in 5 years. As for "more than enough money": If you NEVER HAVE TO WORK …
/r/askTRP04/03/18 06:59 PM
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don't shit where you eat applies to your career, not some bullshit min wage job you can walk away from at any moment and not give a fuck. bagger at a grocery store? Fuck every damn one of them you want to!
/r/askTRP04/03/18 01:56 AM
2

1.85m 105kg 6-1, 231 lbs, BMI is "obese" eat less. lose 40 lbs. Nice leadership.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/18 07:48 PM
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She's already fucking him and/or she's going to fuck him no matter what you say. Are you okay with your wife fucking other men? I'm not okay with my wife fucking other men.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 06:45 PM
1

the question is really, is someone like this recoverable, or not really? No, that's not the question. That question implies that you're somehow responsible for the outcome. None of this is your fucking problem. at all. It is a confusing situation. No, it's not. Block her. Never think of her again. Be responsible for yourself. There isn't one fucking shred of this situation that is confusing FOR YOU.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 05:27 AM
1

Great post. I'm on a similar path. Thanks for the confirmation.
/r/askMRP26/02/18 05:25 AM
1

TRP, what do I do lol Move on. Her happiness and life is not your responsibility. Go live your own life, find people and women who enrich your life. This is her family's responsibility. Not yours.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:24 AM
2

You have to know your walk-away number. And you have to be willing to walk away. What this means is that your salary is ultimately determined by YOUR SECOND BEST OPTION. I don't mind bringing up salary first, because I always shoot high. I also know what they're likely to be paying, and the market dynamics. I also start the salary negotiations fast and early. In THE FIRST interview with either HR or the hiring manager, I simply state something along the lines of, "My understanding is that this r…
/r/askMRP26/02/18 12:38 AM
1

What are you good at? What do you enjoy? What would other people PAY you to do? And, more importantly, what can you do that once built WILL CONTINUE TO EARN REVENUE. That's the challenge with trade/labor work; once the job is done, not another penny is coming in.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 07:06 PM
10

Girlfriend 17 years old I know where you went wrong.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 06:31 PM
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You can't do a 1750 daily calorie deficit. That's just stupid. It won't work. Nobody ever tells you WHY it won't work, so let me help you out. You're not going to believe me now, but it's true. We all say your goal is "LOSE WEIGHT!", and it's true. But, really, the TRUE goal is "lose body fat while preserving body muscle, and maximize your T levels." Working out is hard. Gaining muscle is hard. Naturally maximizing your T level requires a lot of consistent good habits. Dramatic calorie deficits …
/r/askMRP25/02/18 05:51 PM
3

Which one is right? Why does it matter to you? Read more of the sidebar material. If you're a top 20% man, a Chad, a woman will use sex as a way to work her way into your life. If you're a bottom 50% man, you are sexually invisible to women. If you're an average frustrated chump in the 20% to 50% range, you might pick up some stray HB5s and wonder why dating is so hard. Men and woman are DIFFERENT sexually. Embrace it, learn how to achieve YOUR goals with this knowledge. It is impossible to dire…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 08:46 PM
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still fat (27%) All of this is moot until you're under 15% body fat. You have ONE FUCKING MISSION IN LIFE EVERY FUCKING MINUTE OF EVERY FUCKING DAY UNTIL YOU ARE 15% BODY FAT. Eat healthfully like your life depends on it. It does. I bet your wife is a landwhale, too. Or is this par for the course and it will go away with her PMS? This is par for the course. It will go away when you stop giving a fuck if it's there or not.
/r/askMRP24/02/18 08:14 PM
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Work harder to be the manager, not the employee in a shitty job where you help people via email and get scored based on surveys. get a real damn career.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 04:00 AM
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My LDR Stopped reading here. I think you get the prize for the fastest intro to a post to completely discard the rest of it. Seriously, six characters including the space. Bravo!
/r/askTRP24/02/18 03:50 AM
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I couldn't do it. I'd bail. I know that is frowned upon in society; but I only get one life to live; and I don't want to spend that energy on someone other than me who can't or won't help themselves. Or can't be helped. It also saddens me that if I had a major illness I know my woman--any woman--would stop respecting me. It sucks. You have to take care of yourself first. Nobody else will. I'd suggest you read up on major caretaker emotional issues; and perhaps get some counseling. You're flirtin…
/r/askMRP22/02/18 07:46 PM
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Sometimes it's okay to be a decent human being and friend rather than just a Red Pill Man.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:49 AM
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keep her in my life in future She may have been in your life, but you were never in hers.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:03 AM
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This long-distance girlfriend of 3 years of mine I stopped reading here.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:54 AM
3

Take your shirt off. Stand in front of a mirror. Ask yourself this question again.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 01:45 AM
1

https://www.aworkoutroutine.com/the-beginner-weight-training-workout-routine/
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:19 AM
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I don't know what the fuck im going to do in life right now Stop looking for validation through women. Find your mission in life and chase it like a hungry rabid dog. Don't make a woman your mission or scorecard. Things get me down easily and deep down I am not happy. Fix yourself first.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 10:17 PM
5

Should I go? Yes.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 07:32 AM
1

In highschool You're living in the past. I don't give a shit what you did in high school. Your wife doesn't give a shit what you did in high school. I met my wife at 18 at my physical peak. She's pissed off that the jock she landed in high school let himself go and is a fat slob now. SHE earned better than that; and YOU didn't keep it up. That's her point of view, anyways. Weight: 155 Height: 5'8" Bodyfat: not sure You're either sub 15% or fat. Get on it. You're likely a skinnyfat little fuck th…
/r/askMRP16/02/18 05:56 PM
1

Now it's like a smart young adult can run a profitable business by coding a great product without necessarily having social skills. You couldn't possible be more wrong. programming skills are the commodity. sales and social skills seal the deal.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 01:31 AM
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I don't disagree with what other people have posted, but I have a slightly different insight into this. Assuming that she's at least a relatively attractive woman (like, HB6 or better), this is merely an insight into the RIDICULOUS amount of "abundance mentality" that EVERY woman experiences. An attractive woman lives this so easily it's like breathing air for her; and us men literally have to study the concept to begin to think it might be possible. If you run into a future situation like this,…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 05:26 PM
3

Do you A&A Absolutely. A THOUSAND fold. A&A is the MOST AWESOME brush off "what you're saying doesn't bother me in the slightest." I think with you we need to do some foundational work. The core of MRP is "owning your shit." Do you own your shit? What's your age, height, weight, bodyfat, and squat, anyways? Are you well-groomed? Fun? Someone said it before: YOU ARE YOUR OWN JUDGE. You don't give a shit what other people say about you, BECAUSE YOU ARE CRUSHING IT IN LIFE. If you're not crushing i…
/r/askMRP13/02/18 09:53 PM
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This is PURE A&A. ANYTHING else comes off as loss of frame and butthurt. You should be knocking these out of the park so quickly and subconsciously you don't even remember it. Remember, be playful and fun. It's just life. It's YOUR life. She sounds like a good, involved MIL. "Wow is that all you do all day sit at home and eat sushi?" "Sometimes I stand." "We're out of steak." "I even set my alarm clock early to get up for lunch time!" "Thanks for reminding me to update my sushi auto delivery sch…
/r/askMRP13/02/18 08:09 PM
1

Women want a top 20% man. Red Pill outlines exactly what that means to be a "top 20% man". It's fucking EASY to be a top 20% man. IT'S FUCKING EASY. Don't be fat. Be confident (frame). Be attractive (weights). Don't be unattractive. ITS' NOT THAT FUCKING HARD. You don't have to be a top 0.01% man to have success. And, "red pill only works" is the wrong way of thinking about things. RP describes how things ACTUALLY work. The world doesn't give a fuck if you believe that or not.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:38 PM
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Your plan is horrible. Please go read the sidebar. Here's the short answer: Your wife knows how to lose weight. She doesn't feel she needs to because her marriage isn't at risk.
/r/askMRP10/02/18 10:34 PM
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you're a completely negative little fuck. Which is A HUGE REASON pussy isn't interested in you. in the hopes you might read this with an open mind, I'm going to waste a few minutes and respond to you. You're going to argue with me and dismiss this, so whatever. how am i supposed to crush my job Show up before everyone else. Stay after everyone else. Take pride in what you do. Work harder than everyone else. Ask for the shitty assignments. Crush it. Make every task from the smallest to the larges…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:30 PM
2

Ive been in an LTR with this girl for around 6 months. We are both 21 and seniors in college You've already failed. " would you do if I ever cheated on you" You look her straight in the eye and say, "I'd instantly forget you ever existed and move on with my life like nothing happened." I just find it weird because she keeps mentioning the BO. You find it weird because you haven't read a fucking thing about TRP. You have Oneitis. She's giving you trickle truth. What's not to understand?
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:57 PM
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So I backed away and we went along Yay! fight avoided! You're uninjured and alive.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 01:16 AM
1

My LTR of 1.5 years has just lately been absolutely fucking vile. Why should I read anything beyond the first sentence?
/r/askTRP06/02/18 12:15 AM
1

I work for myself. Professionally. Don't do it. Takes way too much time! There's no such thing as "being done for the day". nights, weekends, holidays. All work days. There's no sick days, no days off.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 07:56 PM
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the fuck dude. you're defining your success through the actions of other people. stop it. in order to get fucked you have to be fuckable. DYEL, bro? own your shit. make your bed. The core of RP is self improvement, not PUA or game. i set myself a goal of cold approaching 3 girls every week your goals should be foundational. Lift. Eat well. Be in shape. Own your shit. Crush your job. Get back into college. Man up.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 06:13 PM
1

80+ for about 3 years now, weekends included.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:48 PM
3

I felt the same way when I was 18 leaving home for the first time. You'll be fine. 2 hours is nothing. Take a big breath, jump in with both feet, and embrace the adventure of your life. "Everything in life worth having lies outside your comfort zone."
/r/askTRP04/02/18 09:51 PM
1

A 20M shouldn't be in a monogamous LTR, independent of her legal status. Let that sink in for a minute.
/r/askTRP03/02/18 10:44 PM
3

I want to continue dating her then you're done. asked and answered. but how should I address this? you don't. Maybe after a while of dating, suggest we both hit the gym together? you go to the gym. what she does is HER responsibility. She's a bit shy/depressed not your problem. and I feel like saying the wrong thing might set her off not your problem. but I wanna get her to be the most attractive version of herself she could be. You can't help or control other people. You can only be responsible…
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:04 AM
4

Good. You're not a fat fuck. So there's hope. Why don't you have any control over your life? What's going on?
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:46 AM
3

Height, weight, squat, and bodyfat estimate please.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:15 AM
2

What your height, weight, squat, and bodyfat percent?
/r/askMRP30/01/18 06:28 AM
2

Why did you skip the first part of the sentence? Because "50 pounds overweight" and "30 pounds overweight" and "15 pounds overweight" IS STILL OVERWEIGHT. Women look at all three of these bodies as "dadbod", and are NOT sexually interested in them. Yes, you've come a long way; but women don't give a shit how far you've come. You need to get to 15% body fat for it to MATTER. Here's a relatively well-known image: https://www.builtlean.com/2012/09/24/body-fat-percentage-men-women/ The 25% guy, and …
/r/askTRP29/01/18 05:53 PM
7

Male 33 107kg 1.85 I just did the conversion. You're 6-1 and 236 lbs. You're fat fuck. Diet and lift. Get to 89 kgs PRONTO (199 lbs). This is your life mission now. You won't be fit, but at least you won't be a fat fuck.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 01:12 AM
0

that is 4 days monthly, the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/askMRP29/01/18 12:59 AM
2

I think more and more men are aware of the current sexual dynamics from women; and the huge risk to their own finances and emotional stability from marriage. I expect marriage will continue to decline, and women will cry louder and louder about "where have all the good men gone?" that being said, there will always be AFCs to troll the bottom.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 12:59 AM
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you can't negotiate attraction. Get over to r/askMRP where you will be properly ripped apart. while BF% is still high (primarily on my belly). Hint: stop being fat. You're unattractive, to her and other women. She doesn't feel any dread because she knows you're fat and knows other women won't fuck you either.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:29 AM
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Your answer lies in your frame. Life happens. Shit happens. Are you a man who controls your destiny, or a person where life happens to them and you're the victim? "Hey, guess what? Got laid off. Too funny, huh? Guess I should work on my resume, thank heavens I have an emergency fund! Dinner?" or: "Oh shit. You'll never believe what happened. I have no idea what to do. I can't believe they did this to me. What the hell? I'm so screwed."
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:07 AM
7

pays her share Wait. Are you living together?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 11:28 PM
3

How to correctly handle the situation with my female coworker? I have group of friends It's one or the other, but it isn't both. Don't be friends with your coworkers, especially the girls. I always act as non passive-aggressive, change the subject or make a joke. Deflect and defer. This is the correct path. You need this landwhale to focus on someone else. Or she'll make your life hell. I don't like how she crosses the line touching me, "Please don't touch me."
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:22 PM
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My SMV isn't high Eat right. Get under 15% body fat. Groom well. Dress well. Be fun. All controllable. and I'm going to a a huge college where the guys have a high SMV and girls are hot You're focused on extremes. You don't need to be a 1% guy to have success. You DO need to be a 20% guy. The good news is that's damn easy to get there. But they only go for the frat and athlete chads Again, you're focused on extremes. Are you on the spectrum? I'm super intimidated by crowds and things like that s…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:20 PM
8

"Have we met?"
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:41 AM
3

I need advice on how to not fuck this up. Read up on "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bux". You literally just asked us if it's okay for a woman to fuck you for your money and then go fuck Chad for passion. Read the damn sidebar. Specifically for you, hide your money. ALL OF IT. If you're that rich, hire a personal trainer and a nutritionist, and get a damn fucking awesome body. Might as well hire a life coach, too.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:18 AM
1

Been reading the books and lifting and feeling good. You didn't put in your height, weight, bodyfat level, and dead/squat/bench numbers. What level of Dread are you on? Do you know what the 1000' rope is? Whenever I stand up to her she gets very angry She's allowed to get angry. You're allowed to not care. "Stand up to her" is already the wrong mindset. You're already putting her in a position of power and validating that; and THEN putting yourself in the responsive role.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 12:22 AM
11

her failure in life is not your responsibility. I'd never think of her again.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 06:28 AM
1

She will keep testing you as long as you give her testing validity. The moment you stop giving a fuck is the moment she stops trying to get under your skin.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:25 AM
2

that's one of the worst workout plans I've ever seen. that's pathetic. If your last set of 8-10 reps of a set is with good form, you need to add weight. PERIOD.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:23 AM
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6' 0". I weigh 264... am working on getting down to 240 You need to lift heavy and watch your nutrition until you're 189. not 190. not 191. You're too damn fat. 1 lb/week. 240 is still a fat ass that no woman would want to fuck.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:20 AM
1

Men trade commitment for sex; women trade sex for commitment. Women are the gatekeepers of sex; men are the gatekeepers of commitment. She has 100% of your commitment now, without trading any sex. She doesn't believe you will leave the marriage, and/or doesn't care. Why should she change? She has all of your commitment, attention, and resources. YOU HAVE TO BE WILLING TO BLOW EVERYTHING UP AND WALK AWAY. Until your wife believes you might walk away, she won't have any need or desire to up her ga…
/r/askMRP17/01/18 06:17 AM
3

A woman who sees you as the prize will speak the Male One Love Language.
/r/askMRP17/01/18 05:49 AM
1

Take your engineering foundation and move into Sales. Become an expert at SOMETHING, and then go sell it. Sales people are ALWAYS alphas!
/r/askTRP14/01/18 05:51 AM
4

Sports is like Sex. Do you want to watch it or do it?
/r/askTRP14/01/18 02:01 AM
3

For the past two years I tend to work 3-4 months at a contract before moving onto the next one. Currently I am making approx €110k, paying very little tax, getting paid hourly. Nice. Congrats. I will generally just hit the road in my car and drive to wherever my next contract is, I have worked all over europe. Sounds like a great life! An opportunity has come up to work at a prestigious place back home, Cool! However, "prestige" doesn't pay the bills. it will be very good for my resume to have t…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 03:25 AM
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Is there any reason WHY a college MAN would want to be accepted into a group of high schoolers? What are you trying to do, nail a high school chick? a) check your age of consent laws. b) it's her job to be accepted into YOUR group. She'd do that if YOU were high SMV.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:12 AM
2

When I asked her out, it looked like I threw her off balance with how direct I was. She's not interested. She wouldn't be thrown off balance with College Chad. After a brief pause, she kind of smiled and said that she was still recovering from her breakup, She's now said she's not interested. and she only thought of me as a friend. BAM! Friendzoned. I just gave her a generic response: "Oh, that's cool." and went about my day. Well you did that right. Would have been good if your whole thought pr…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 01:09 AM
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so i work with Doesn't matter. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 02:38 AM
1

I'm getting ready to embark on some cryptocurrency purchasing. I consider Bitcoin and the ilk "speculative gambling", not investing. That's fine if a little ultra-high-risk-gambling fits within your budget. Just remember you're not taking ownership in a revenue-generating company; you're buying a tulip bulb because you think someone else in the future will buy your tulip bulb for more. Just be willing and capable of losing 100% of that purchase. I also buy the occasional lottery ticket when it's…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:39 PM
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I don't disagree with you at all. However, he's not looking for "uncomfortable societal truths about personal finance". He's not asking about how men's finances and appearance of wealth affect sexual relationships. He's 18 with a little extra cash and needs MUCH more general advice. I just read the /r/personalfinance wiki section for 15-20 year olds, and it was really damn good. I hope the OP finds it too.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:18 PM
2

go to /r/personalfinance. red pill is a sexual strategy forum. your question is miscategorized.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:57 PM
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Me and girl had an argument where she accused me of telling people I slept with her. Hopefully you didn't add drama to the "argument". I didn’t I'm going to answer the rest of this post as if this is a true statement. and she doesn’t believe me Not your problem. cause some guy told her I told him about sleeping with her. She called 2 friends and they confirmed it too. Weird to have so much incorrect validation to her. I honestly didn’t tell anyone but whatever I'm going to continue to answer thi…
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:28 PM
2

Millionaire next door, it’s quite an old book. How much is still applicable? Every damn word. The more things change, the more they stay the same. I googled "Millionaire next door 2017", and this was one of the reviews, there are many more: http://rockstarfinance.com/millionaire-next-door-book-review-thomas-stanley/ I could do with spending less on shit. I don’t really leave myself wanting for things which is bad. MMM teaches you to want less. Happiness is wanting what you have, not having what …
/r/askTRP09/01/18 07:36 PM
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Financial Independence/Retire Early I’m deeply interested in attaining financial independence. Go read "The Millionaire Next Door". EVERY word of this is pure gold. Go read every post from Mr. Money Mustache. (note: I agree with about 80% of what he says, not all of it.) Track your expenses down to the penny. I have less than $100 of "unknown" expenses per year. Yes, PER YEAR. Financial independence is where you can fund your lifestyle for the rest of your life without having to earn another dol…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:35 PM
2

Im 16,178cm and 71kg. I am not fat nor fit . Good for you. That's a fine foundation. I wanna get fit and as i have no equipment running is the only choice i have. No, it's not. Go look at bodyweight fitness. Are you in school? that might give you access to a gym. Do you have a nice gym nearby? Go get a part-time job. I want to start running You should lift. Source: Was a competitive runner for years. but idk how i am afraid ot go outside. You might want to work on this. Why? Is an elliptical eno…
/r/askTRP07/01/18 10:18 PM
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if you don't have a significant equity position (or own the business outright), you're working for someone else. the millionaire next door: net worth is the goal, not income. saving leads to more millionaires than earning. mr. money mustache: avoid consumption. FIRE.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 07:46 PM
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The best fight is one you avoid. If someone shoves a knife or a gun in your face, give them the wallet, the keys, whatever material thing they want. Throw your wallet, run the other way. Just get your healthy ass out of there. There's nothing alpha about being dead. NEVER go with them anywhere. That being said, I carry a stun gun when I walk my dog, and bear spray sometimes too. I have bear spray in my cars. If it's a situation where I can have some control over it, I won't hesitate to use it. I…
/r/askTRP04/01/18 10:40 PM
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Supply Chain is a good career. A bachelor's degree from a REAL college (no University of Phoenix crap, even community college is better) is the gateway to the professional world. You'll still have life problems, but it's nicer to contemplate them when you're making $100k plus benefits.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 03:28 AM
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Her old flame sent dick pics and apparently they met? Even if they didn't fuck I'd be done. She never mentioned it before. gee, wonder why? she says she gave back an old vaccuum cleaner her forgot with her when they lived together, because clearly a semi-pro basketball player can't afford a new vacuum. then cried so much you mean "negotiated" so much. with tears. and told me I'm paranoid and not being a good husband. Gaslighting and Projecting.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 07:23 AM
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How would you explain TRP to the lay person? The ONLY way I broach the topic is with a leading question: "Gee, I wonder what women experience when they're literally THROWN DICKS ALL THE TIME while dating in their 20s?" It's a discussion that leads to hypergamy, AF/BB, the Wall, 80/20, Chad, Alpha Widows, and more. But seriously, don't talk about fight club.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 07:21 AM
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It's a good read. Even that is high, according to the conclusions: "There is normally no advantage to consuming more than 0.82g/lb (1.8g/kg) of protein per day to preserve or build muscle for natural trainees. This already includes a mark-up, since most research finds no more benefits after 0.64 g/lb."
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:46 AM
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https://bayesianbodybuilding.com/the-myth-of-1glb-optimal-protein-intake-for-bodybuilders/
/r/askTRP31/12/17 12:39 AM
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I hope not. I have faith in you. You're trying to do the right thing, but don't know what the "right" thing is. You've found a fantastic resource in MRP, but will you learn from it or reject it? Post back on Wednesday, January 31st and let us know. Your homework assignments: read the MRP OYS posts each week. read all the sidebar books. Take notes. Read the books again. For real. Develop a vision statement for your life. An interesting question that helped me with this was, "If my wife died in he…
/r/askMRP29/12/17 07:44 PM
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I don't even know where to being with this complete puke mess all over our nice clean subreddit. I’m looking for advice as to how to save my marriage. You entirely have the wrong goal. This entire post is about your wife. MRP fixes men. Somtimes that fixes marriages. We don't care. We fix men. And holy shit do you need fixing. I’m 6 feet tall with a slender frame and am down to 155 lbs. What's your squat, dead, and overhead press numbers? She’s at the point where she wants a divorce, She was the…
/r/askMRP28/12/17 01:57 AM
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Having kids was one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I love them dearly, but my life would be so much more awesome if I never had them. Above about 34, and especially 37, risk of birth defects including Downs goes up dramatically. Same with losing the baby weight, energy, etc.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 11:58 PM
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So she works with me, at my PARENTS cafe. No. I know the saying goes "Don't shit where you eat" Apparently not. but majority of my friends have told me to go for it, The majority of your friends are wrong. my only concern is how it can impact the business and fellow co-workers. It has the possibility of turning into an epic fucking shitshow the likes of which you can't imagine. What should I do? Go fuck somebody else.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 05:49 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 02:13 AM
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I actually agree with that. But I'm holding firm to "never get married"! Which kinda negates living together while you're on that path, ya know?
/r/askTRP27/12/17 01:27 AM
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We have been talking about moving in together Don't. Ever. Only after the wedding day. Protip: Never get married. So do you think this deserves a next? In and of itself, no. Women share EVERY detail. This isn't disrespect as much as mere womenchat. And this was from when you were a new boyfriend? She was searching for validation from her girlfriends. And, be honest, do you have a small dick? The big thing is for YOU not to care. Own it. Might as well, there's nothing you can do about it anyways.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 12:31 AM
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Agreed. But he's going to blather anyways. I figured I might as well give him a go-to that's going to be a thousand times better than what he'd make up on the spot. It's the same way when you fire people. You don't give them a reason, because they use that to attack you. You simply say, "Today is the last day of your employment. Here is your check that pays you through today, and security will escort you out."
/r/askTRP25/12/17 11:13 PM
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You can't control her, you can only control you. Remember this. Do you know what you can control? Who your girlfriend is. And how awesome you are. I'm guessing since she doesn't give a shit about losing you, you still have room to improve your Awesome Score. So get to work. The correct thing to do is not explain to her why you're ending the relationship. That's a bit mean and spiteful, because it won't give her closure and her hamster will go crazy. If you MUST explain something, the most you ne…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:50 PM
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Children learn through observation. The best I can do is SHOW and BE the qualities of a good man. I can't tell them exercise and fitness is important without exercising and being fit. I can't tell them keeping your cool is important if I lose mine. I can't tell them not to overreact if I overreact to things. I can't tell them to engage with their life if I'm disengaged from mine. I take small teachable moments to explain why I'm reacting in certain ways, or what is going on. I connect the dots f…
/r/askMRP25/12/17 10:45 PM
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Because "coach" and "athlete" are very different roles. Not only in the literal sports sense, but professionally and more. TEACHING someone how to do something is different than DOING something. Sometimes the best DOERS can't explain themselves worth a darn, sometimes people can TEACH far more than they can DO; and sometimes both skills are in one person. Rarely in this case are they 10/10 teachers AND 10/10 doers. Learn to uncouple those two things, and you'll find yourself more successful purs…
/r/askTRP25/12/17 08:53 PM
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dude, some girls (and people) are just broken. you can't help someone who won't help themselves. You have one life to live, focus on YOU. There are good women out there (high value). Find one.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:31 AM
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Her happiness is not your responsibility.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:42 AM
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I don't need "dont shit where you work" answers as I am aware of the risks associated with such actions and am willing to face potential consequences. So much so you're willing to tap a single mother. have some standards.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 01:41 AM
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Go do some more reading on Alpha and Beta, especially in the context of MRP. "Alpha", correctly used, has NOTHING to do with being "hard" or "soft", or anything like that. It has NOTHING to do with being a jerk, or ordering people around, or being an ass. That's a very superficial misunderstanding of Alpha. I don't disagree with you at all that you likely need to be a strict manager with construction worker employees, but that is UNRELATED to being an Alpha in your relationship and in life. Keep…
/r/askMRP23/12/17 10:00 PM
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Is she worth fighting for, or is it a lost cause? Are you worth fighting for? Or are you a lost cause? Can I be the man she thought she was marrying? Are you a man worth marrying? I know who her boyfiend is (I hold far less grudge against him as opposed to my wife) That's wise and honest of you. and the dude could never provide...Stop. She wasn't looking for a provider. She has one. That's you. Go read up on "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks." You're her meal-ticket, not her lover. And you cultivated tha…
/r/askMRP23/12/17 09:10 PM
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then order some Dominos as a reward for those monumental tasks. First misstep. I've been absorbing the shit out of this sub for the past few days. What about the part about being physically in shape? What's your height, weight, and bodyfat? lack of time I gave her over 15 years, and I see that, but it doesn't forgive her betrayal. It doesn't forgive it. But as you accept Red Pill, you'll see why it explains it. It involved working obsessively for several years to the point that there was nothing…
/r/askMRP23/12/17 08:17 PM
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College Chads.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 07:38 AM
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It's our hero, Captain Oblivious! She's not into you. Move on. And read the sidebar, too. Especially the part about 0) being attractive; 1) not being unattractive. Abundance mentality. Earn it. You shouldn't have even thought about her since she ignored you because you have other girls to date and you're busy doing awesome things.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 12:53 AM
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You're 32, so your dick should work just fine. What's your height and weight? estimated bodyfat? Squat? If you don't watch ANY porn or jerk off (and, be honest, have NO false sexual stimulation of any kind), then you really need to figure out what's going on. Your dick is a barometer of your general health.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:48 PM
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Are you jerking off at all? Remember, you'd leave her if she wasn't putting out; why should she stay with you if you can't fuck her? It's the same thing. Find the root cause of your issue and fix it. ASAP.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 09:24 PM
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I'm a total blue pill. Help me fix my relationship? You already have the wrong question. You should be asking, "How do I fix myself?" Me and my girlfriend, both 17, have been dating for almost 2 years I FOUND THE PROBLEM!!!! You're 17. You should be single. Focused on YOU. Not focused on someone else. However.... blah blah blah. didn't even read. Advice? Prioritize yourself. Read every book and link on the sidebar. Twice. And then a third time. Read it like your life depends on it.
/r/askTRP22/12/17 07:53 PM
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There's no shortcut. Sticking to a healthy sleep schedule is a culmination of other healthy habits: No caffeine, especially later in the day. Maybe 1 cup in the morning. No alcohol. For many reasons, including this. Exercise every day. Lift heavy weights. Set your alarm well before you need to get up. Feet on the ground bed made no more than 1 minute after the alarm goes off. Plan on sleeping 8+ hours per night. For a 6am wakeup that means lights out by 9:45pm. Don't eat junk food. Have a good b…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 10:46 PM
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never reward a screaming child Just to expand on this...they are either letting you know they need something (food, diaper, burp, love), OR they are negotiating. Know them so damn well you KNOW all their needs. Once you recognize they're negotiating, it gets more interesting.
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:18 PM
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I want to punish her somehow punishment comes from a place of anger. You need to be in a place of strength, indifference, and confidence. This is what's meant by "let go of the ego". Now I have four days left on this trip with the whole family and it's fucking awkward. You have an awesome opportunity to NOT BE A PUSSY. She'll test your boundaries again. Disengage, STFU, say "No." (note: not "No, $valid_reason", just fucking "No."). Don't lose your cool. Have fun. Don't engage or fuel the drama s…
/r/askMRP20/12/17 10:16 PM
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How tf would he even know? Easy. He gave it to her.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:31 PM
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Don't get an STD. Especially uncureable ones. Exactly how you go about doing that is your business. Condoms, skipping high-risk pussy, minimizing one-night-stands, etc. Ask her. See what she says. If she confirms that she does, then you know. I would never fuck a chick knowing she has herpes since I don't. If says no, then she might be lying.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:10 PM
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Most of you will tell me to kick her out or find another place to stay. That's because it's the correct advice. While I can handle the rent myself, Good. she’d literally be on the street if I kicked her out (no friends or steady job). Not your problem. We’ve agreed to have a “roommate” arrangement No. She guilted you into it, and you gave in like a pussy. until she gets on her feet Goals without deadlines are just dreams. Give her a date to have her and all her shit out of your place. Like, with…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 10:39 PM
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TRP is about getting laid, and is highly (and rightly) focused on getting the first fuck from a girl. MRP is about the man. It's about unfucking yourself so that you're fuckable, and using your wife as a barometer of your fuckability. MRP often says, "we fix men, sometimes that fixes marriages." Us married guys have RISK that a single guy cannot comprehend. Hundreds of thousands of dollars in home equity. Access to our children. Availability to unfuck THEM as much as possible. Alimony payments. …
/r/askMRP18/12/17 07:43 PM
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If you're Chad....0. They approach you. If you're a top 20% man....with game....single digits. If you're not a 20% man...a shit ton. And you just got lucky due to the odds game. Maybe. It had nothing to do with you.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:25 AM
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alpha fucks, beta bucks. Guess which one you are?
/r/askTRP18/12/17 02:23 AM
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Her: I have 10 big dogs... Next
/r/askTRP13/12/17 06:08 PM
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10 points for Gryffendor!
/r/askMRP10/12/17 10:51 PM
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I'm glad you took it in the spirit my reply was intended. You know you want to fuck other chicks. Your challenge is to continue to improve yourself where you have radical honesty with yourself and those around you. It's not easy.
/r/askMRP09/12/17 03:28 AM
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Now, she wants to be in a monogamous LTR long distance for 5 months I don't give a fuck what SHE wants. What do YOU want? women I would very much like to experience sexually and as human beings interacting with my deepest self. Well there's our first clue. I want to marry my gf and have a kid one day. That's fine. Do you also want to fuck some other chicks? how can I NOT try out my new glorious self out with other women when the temptation is literally in my face all day ?! Easy. You make a fuck…
/r/askMRP09/12/17 03:14 AM
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You're missing context and core RP thinking. When NerdyNed walks up to to the girls, he's literally going to need to be a pro standup comedian to get a smile out of them. If Chad Thundercock walks up to the girls and says, "Hi", they're all going to melt and say, "OMG! He's sooooo funny!" The idea behind the "game" was to get people used to smalltalk, introduction, and friendliness. That's all.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 09:27 PM
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what is this "free time" you speak of? I'd love 40 hours days and still wouldn't have enough time.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 08:14 PM
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If you like your job and your life and you get well comped doing it and get satisfaction out of it - why would you stop? Oh, I didn't say STOP WORKING, but why not up those goals and STOP WORKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE? If you're good at your work and like doing it, start the company, AND DO IT. The reason to do that is as long as you're working for someone else, at any point in time they can call you into HR and says, "Mr. WeakAndSensitive, today is your last day of employment with us. Here is your f…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 08:12 PM
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I know what you are saying, but I would literally DIE of boredom. It's not boredom, it's freedom. Instead of someone else giving you goals, give yourself goals and achieve them. I had got to the point where I had enough "fuck you" money and enough side stuff going to be just fine. Have a higher goal than "just fine". Have enough "fuck you" money that you never need a job to walk away from again. I have to be challenged which is why I do what I do I'm not saying DON'T work, I'd go nutty too. I'm …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 07:50 PM
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I didn't even read all the oneities words you put in the middle. I could tell everything about the situation just from the title. Here's what you do: Do you like this person as a person and want to be friends? Great, you have a friend. Do you want to fuck this woman and not just be friends? Great for knowing what you want. It won't work with her. Move on. Hint: You're not her desired first choice. Better yourself so that you ARE the first choice of the next woman you desire.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 07:39 PM
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Since you're doing very well for yourself, let me throw out another theory that has been working well for me. Think about your house, your major future expenses (kids going to college type stuff), and your lifestyle. Get to a point where you have enough savings and investments in stable vehicles where you can literally DO ABSOLUTELY NOTHING FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. This is just a math problem: I spend $X thousand dollars per month, my savings is $Y millions, combining the 4% rule with age here…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 07:36 PM
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I agree with much of what you've said here: No employer loyalty Earn your own income Millionaire next door Lots of good concepts. HOWEVER, I would urge some caution about becoming a landlord. In some situations, you can make very good money. When home prices are rising, you have a good tenant, and nothing goes wrong. HOWEVER, this is risk: home prices may not rise. You could get stuck with a nightmare tenant. Maintenance and repair is all on you. There's a HUGE amount of hidden costs and risks w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 07:08 PM
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Is this normal for the situation Yes and will it go back to normal? Yes. Oh, wait, you mean will you get sex like you did before? HAHAHAHAHA!!! fuck no. I thought you meant, "normal for every woman who's finally secured her lifetime paycheck with the alien growing in her body and has no need to have sex with her beta bux because she's going to get his money anyways now." My bad.
/r/askMRP05/12/17 03:56 AM
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I am 20 and have had a girlfriend for 2 years. You lost me there.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 10:56 PM
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I don’t like muscly guys "I don't like how much harder I'm going to have to work to keep you interested in me and not younger, hotter, prettier women when you get all muscly."
/r/askMRP03/12/17 04:15 AM
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Not married, but 3-year relationship so sort of similar HAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Nope. what my next move should be in this text conversation? Text is for logistics only. numerous people responding "no sorry I don't sell weed, etc." So she was looking for weed? Nice catch you found there. live kinda far away from each other but we didn't when we got together, that's all a different story though. You're not in a relationship. to make her respect me and You can't make anyone respect you. You can only be res…
/r/askMRP01/12/17 04:35 AM
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Good clarification and insight. Thanks.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 06:29 PM
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holy shit. she's just insane. seriously, you can't do any better than that? I hate seeing her sobbing because I could see how upset she was. Once you realize the tears are just negotiating, you won't even be phased any more.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 06:46 AM
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My daughter is on the lower end of average The "lower end of average" doesn't make a woman's life effortless. This is EXACTLY what your wife is coaching her. Said another way for women, 8s and 9s live a life of infinite attention. 5s and 6s battle for leftovers. 2s and 3s are invisible.
/r/askMRP27/11/17 04:59 AM
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So let's see here...your wife got and stayed married by being thin and in shape. She's passing along to her daughter literally THE MOST IMPORTANT thing women need for dating success--"be physically attractive." The Red Pill is bitter. You're just tasting another part of it now. As for your situation, you lead by example. What's your bodyfat & fitness? Is your daughter "thin", "average", or "chubby"? Be honest, could she lose a few pounds and be physically more active and focused on her appearanc…
/r/askMRP26/11/17 10:59 PM
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Love is a real thing man. It sure is. But don't expect a woman to love you back the same way you love her. Men and women "love" differently. Men love romantically, women love opportunistically.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 12:59 AM
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Mine is high, hers is extremely low. ...for you. She attributes this to depression and some chronic medical issues. NEXT! I decided to spend more time focusing on doing everything I could to make her happy You're a fucking pussy. Maybe you should put that effort into making YOU happy. I think I have 3 options: Instead of those 3, you could try manning the fuck up. Read every book in the MRP sidebar. You've been manipulated and you don't even know it.
/r/askMRP26/11/17 12:55 AM
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hehehe. "only" 8-12 hours a day. man that would feel like a fucking vacation.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:49 AM
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Have you internalized Rule 0 and Rule 1? "Be attractive, don't be unattractive." Are you in the top 20% of attractiveness? (said another way, what's your age, height, weight, bodyfat, and squat?) What level of Dread are you in? Why isn't your wife afraid of losing you to a younger, hotter woman who's a better fuck than she is? You're worried about details when you're likely still overweight and out of shape. But to answer your question, if YOU thought what you said was acceptable, then the corre…
/r/askMRP24/11/17 04:58 AM
1

Yes, the smile helps. I would advise to go to the BEST, highest-quality orthodontist in your region. It's as much a skill and trade as it is technology. Just go the traditional metal route. I did Damon Braces, and my Ortho was highly skilled. The output was great. The process sucks.
/r/askMRP23/11/17 08:27 PM
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My only regret is that I came upon this so late in life. I will ensure that my boys are RP educated when they are old enough to understand. Ain't that the truth! I'm incredibly envious of these kids who discover RP concepts in college and their 20s. Good for them.
/r/askMRP21/11/17 12:30 AM
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The last paragraph shows hope. You need to keep reading the sidebar books over and over again until you really internalize the depth of the phrase: "The stay plan is the same as the go plan." Don't be angry at your wife. Sounds like she endured you being a low-value pussy for a very long time. Be angry at yourself for being a low-value pussy. Now own YOUR shit. Not to save your marriage, but to save yourself. Feel free to reach out to askMRP if you're having troubles.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/17 12:46 AM
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Age, Height, weight, squat, and body fat please.
/r/askMRP16/11/17 05:38 PM
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I have kids. Would definitely recommend against. If you decide to ignore this advice, approach marriage like you would hiring. You're hiring a person, at extreme cost and risk to you, to perform a role. Think about it that way. My kids are great and my wife is a fantastic mother. It's still a shitty deal, though. Even worse than marriage!
/r/askTRP12/11/17 03:00 AM
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My girlfriend got drunk and made out with some guy at a party a while agoand I found out If you've even glanced at the sidebar for a moment, you'd know this relationship was already over. You'd then do some introspection on why you're such a weak pussy (frame, game, body) that she doesn't give a fuck about losing you. when I questioned her about the night. just ghost man. WTF? I'm contemplating cheating on my gf You don't have a gf. Should I cheat? I think you should man the fuck up before you s…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:51 PM
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It's fucking hard as hell. Don't do it. For every success story you hear, there's tens or hundreds of complete failures of time, money, and energy. The optimal path is to get a good corporate high-paying job, take every transfer and company change to up your salary, and play internal politics like House of Cards. Live like a pauper for 10+ years, save every penny, and then be retired in your mid 30s or 40s. Source: have been running my own company for 15+ years now. Too hard, too expensive, fail…
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:11 PM
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Your pay is defined by your SECOND highest job offer. Think about it...when you have two offers in hand, you pick the better (most often higher) offer. When you only have one...you have no options. In practical terms, you need to be able to respond with something like: "I'm excited about the job and the company, and look forward to working there. Unfortunately, the compensation package isn't something that I can accept right now. If we change it to $XX,XXX I can accept. Thank you." And here's th…
/r/askTRP07/11/17 09:28 PM
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This is not ok The only thing that's not OK here is how much you fucked up your life. Accept that. Let go of the ego. And do what's best for you now. more of just stating my problem, Your problem is that you still haven't come to terms with how much of a 1000000% fuckup you were 10 years ago. This shit happened 10 years ago when I was a drunk captain Drunk Captain would be a huge compliment. You keep saying "she cheated". You were only married legally and on paper. You weren't enough of a person…
/r/askMRP07/11/17 04:53 AM
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Nope. Not even close.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 09:34 PM
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This girl needs to give lessons. She executed HER strategy brilliantly. Good on her. She'll never work another day in her life and live a life of luxury off another man's money while she fucks whatever dicks she wants.
/r/askMRP06/11/17 06:13 PM
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Everyone's allowed one victim puke. You just used yours. Go read every damn book on the sidebar twice. Perhaps I can teach her how to be woman. Perhaps you can teach yourself how to be a man. Worry more about you, less about her.
/r/askMRP05/11/17 09:26 PM
15

Absolutely not. If she wants to cry she can get her cheating-shaved-pussy a fucking hotel room. NEVER GIVE UP GROUND.
/r/askMRP03/11/17 03:18 AM
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I think the bigger issue is that 20-something men MAY FINALLY WISE UP AND STOP GETTING MARRIED. That'll be fun to watch.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:46 PM
1

age, height, weight, bodyfat, and squat please. Why isn't your wife afraid of losing you? Every damn paragraph is about HER. Prioritize YOUR life. Be a man worth having.
/r/askMRP01/11/17 05:46 PM
1

I would agree. Many men will post the same thing you did, but are also 30+ lbs overweight, can't lift for shit, and are generally unfuckable. For them, the first bit of advice is stop being a fat fuck. I'd agree with you, frame...and read a lot.
/r/askMRP31/10/17 06:40 PM
1

What's your weight and estimated bodyfat? Generally, Dread is useless above 20% bodyfat.
/r/askMRP31/10/17 05:55 PM
1

Age, height, weight, and squat please.
/r/askMRP31/10/17 05:27 PM
2

Oh. My. Fucking. God. You're kidding, right?
/r/askTRP24/10/17 06:16 AM
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MRP Dread is useless above 20% bodyfat. Every woman knows what makes a man attractive. Since your wife instinctively knows you're not attractive to other women, that's where you need to start. Lose the bodyfat. Keep reading and working on Frame.
/r/askMRP22/10/17 10:41 PM
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Currently halfway through a finance degree. Not a big fan of finance degrees, but you do you. Better than nothing, or a degree in art history. Recently I've been having thoughts that I'm not going to live a very fulfilling life slaving away on Wall Street. That's okay. You won't get a job on Wall Street anyways. And, even if you did, you're only supposed to do it for 3-5 years making $500k/yr. But you won't do that either. And even if you did, you'd waste it on hookers and blow. Jobs are just jo…
/r/askTRP21/10/17 11:39 PM
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Age, height, weight, bodyfat, and squat, please.
/r/askMRP21/10/17 11:34 PM
3

I'mma given you an uppen vote.
/r/askMRP20/10/17 05:29 PM
1

I told her before that she's not allowed to have male friends She's allowed to do whatever the fuck she wants. You're a controlling asshole. I kept reminding her about the rules. No guy friends and blah blah blah. Yep. You're a controlling asshole. Confirmed. But she went behind my back and broke my no male friends rule. So you have a boundary. She tested it. You found out. You only have one choice, you end the relationship politely, cleanly, and move on. What the fuck is so hard about this? How…
/r/askMRP20/10/17 05:28 PM
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You haven't read a damn fucking thing here, have you?
/r/askMRP20/10/17 04:14 AM
3

That night, when we got into bed, she jumped on me Now grasshopper, do you understand WHY she did that?
/r/askMRP20/10/17 02:12 AM
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Having kids is a one-way, absolutely 100% all-in life-changing experience that will take your BEST years and make many, many other things WAY more important. There's no days off, there's no rest, and there's absolutely no room for failure. Basically, it justs "costs" (in time and money), way the fuck too much for what it's worth. Look back at your own childhood and life. You did your thing, hung out with your friends, and in your late teens or early 20s just moved on. Have you even called your D…
/r/askTRP19/10/17 04:55 PM
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Go hang out in married red pill, read the sidebar, and you'll be fine. MRP saved me; and as a result my marriage. Never stop unapologetically being you, never give an inch, never compromise, and always be vigilant against betaization. never let your foot off the gas even for a second!!!!
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:25 PM
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I have kids. With a good woman. One of the worst decisions I've made in my life. Would totally recommend against it.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 10:17 PM
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your children will get half their genes from the woman you choose. And don't feel guilty about instantly disqualifying women who have bad genes. Its not her fault; but it's not your responsibility, either. Look at her family history. Heart Disease? Short men? Mental Instability issues? Low IQ? No success anywhere in the family tree? Cancer runs rampant? All smokers? NEXT.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:46 PM
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Not married yet but it looks like I'm going to intentionally nail my coffin soon Don't.
/r/askTRP18/10/17 09:43 PM
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