Basically I can decide whether I want to sleep with this one girl or not.

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I will be at a house party tomorrow and saw that this one particular girl who tried to have sex with me in the past will be there too. I rejected her 5 months ago while we were making out. I had other options and was honestly a bit scared since we were at a beach and I didn't carry any protection with me.

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She said she has an IUD as a contraceptive so she said I shouldn't worry to much. Infact I wasn't scared as much of becoming a father as the potential of catching an STD.

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I do not know her history, but she seems to be the type to sleep around quite a bit. Hence the IUD.

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The girl messaged me about tomorrow, but I told her I won't be able to stay at the house party for too long since I will be working on saturday. Oddly enough when mentioning that, she offered me to drive me home.

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So the deal is pretty much sealed if I want to. I have an inner conflict though. You have to understand that I've been on a dry spell now for a few months and the imagination of letting out all my sexual frustration and fucking her raw doesn't let me go. Sex with a condom is just so boring to me. It's almost impossible to cum for me.

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I don't want to catch anything while doing so. And even if I wore a condom there are chances of catching things like herpes. I might be paranoid here too and maybe she doens't even have anything.. I never had to deal with shit like this before because I mostly had sex in LTR's with 2 virgins.

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I am sure some of you have some experience there.

I need advice.

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