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horologist2018/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:57 PM
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horologist2018/r/askTRP27/08/19 02:04 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Wondering why OP hasn't submitted a 485 to adjust status. EAD is usually thrown out as soon as a valid 485 is approved. However. If money is this tight, it makes me wonder if her us citizen spouse can even fill out a valid affidavit of support, or if he'll need a co sponsor.
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/23 07:10 AM
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He also mentioned he cameback to live with his mother (didn’t mention why), but that it was good since he could save some money. A part of the process for either a K1 or a CR1 visa to get you to the country is to file an affidavit of support. He'll have to attach three years of his tax records or other proof that he has a sufficient income to support you. If he can't provide proof that he would be able to support you, then he'll have to get a cosponsor, which are his parents. I know that's a ver…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 03:28 PM
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Just want to say something no one else has pointed out: Is this man prepared to sponsor you to come to the US on either a K1 or CR1 visa? Does he have his passport? (A surprising amount of Americans do not have a passport). I run an immigration consultation business. And it's always surprising to people how much just the filing fees cost. Add on all the associated costs, and it very quickly reaches thousands of dollars. It's worth it; but has he considered the practical side? Also. The wait for …
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/23 01:56 PM
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Hello there, I understand you made this post hoping a traditional man would read this and message you. The ladies here I believe will tell you better than I can why that's probably not a good idea. The qualities you listed, I understand them and I'm certain there's a man for you somewhere. Do you go to church? If not, you should really consider an Orthodox (preferably, in my opinion) or traditional Catholic congregation. Make your intentions known to the ladies there so they can set you up with …
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/23 05:42 AM
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I'm so excited for you to make them! May you and your man's faces be covered in BBQ sauce!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 09:55 PM
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Oof! I'm so excited to give you a little help! First, I want to give you a WONDERFUL and super easy recipe that your man is going to lose his shit over: 1 Rack of Baby Back Pork Ribs BBQ Sauce Colgin Liquid Smoke McCormicks Grill Mates BBQ Rub Alright, first off, the baby back ribs. It must be baby back! You've got two ways to buy pork ribs, one is spare ribs, and that's the big giant looking rack, the then there's the baby back ribs. Baby back ribs are smaller, but they are much softer and way …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/23 07:30 PM
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Under the supposition I made, the supposition being that he is writing you off by not saying anything, then the answer is: Yes, he has familiarity with emotionally unstable women who do things such as throw drinks.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 12:38 PM
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chucked his drink at him (more context behind this but I think reasonable to do this) … he didn’t seem to care too much in the morning (a red flag?) So, you threw his drink at him, and you follow this up by asking if him not engaging the next day is a red flag. Throwing drinks at people is a red flag. None of us can know why he didn't care much in the morning. But I would venture to guess that he doesn't care because you mean very little to him. Emotionally stable men, men who know who they are,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/23 12:26 PM
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What countries are you and him in?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 04:31 AM
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My recommendation was going to be to stare with your mouth very slightly open until he makes eye contact, smile and look away. Keep smiling while you look down at your desk. It really is your best bet.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:08 AM
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For a newbie in charisma, the best advice for almost any situation is to start asking questions. What’s your name? Where are you from? You’re from Florida, that’s cool, where at? Do you miss it? That’s a neat watch; what kind of watch is that? Are those RayBan glasses? I heard those are comfortable. How long have you worn glasses? What’s your job in the company? That’s cool, are you going to stick with it?How long have you lived here? Do you like it here? I saw you drive a Tesla, what made you c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 01:05 AM
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Male here, Married. Rule 9 compliant. My wife is from a poor country in Eastern Europe. In her country, $400 a month is a middle class income. She made about $450 a month. Because of visa issues, we met in The Bahamas, a very expensive country. My now wife offered, and sometimes really pressured me, to pay her way through everything. We went to a restaurant and she tried to pay. We went on some boat excursion and she tried to pay. We went to the store and she tried to pay. She tried to pay just …
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 12:13 AM
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1.) That men are biologically wired to cheat, and that women are not, thus he understands why men cheat Red flag. Not only is he wrong, but he is making an argument that could later justify his actions in his own mind. 2.) That if a man is a total provider, most women probably won't care or be hurt if he cheats (to which I responded that women have feelings and absolutely do care about cheating as much as men do). Red Flag. There is the rare woman who will not care. This has nothing to do with w…
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 01:34 AM
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You said you wanted advice from other women. I'm a man, so this isn't from a source you were hoping for. But, my wife is from a different country, and we were in a long distance relationship for over a year in preparation for her coming to the US. She arrived to the US on a Fiance Visa (K1). The emotional things you're talking about and seeking advice for, I think that's for your sisters to answer, clearly. But I noticed in everything you said; there was nothing pragmatic about plans, strategies…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 04:31 AM
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What's your question for AskTRP?
/r/askTRP26/05/21 12:53 AM
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Do you have a job?
/r/askTRP25/04/21 05:29 AM
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What is your question? And my biggest fear of quitting? Not being able to have fun ever again, i fear life will be lifeless, dull and boring That will only continue to get worse. i feel (...) i feel (...) i feel (...) You sound like a woman. But yeah its stopping me from achieving my goals So you know what the problem is. What is your question? and causing a whole lot of other issues and i need to stop Yep. So what was your question for Ask The Red Pill? ​ achieved absolutely nothing in life. Ho…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 09:39 AM
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Fuck. Here we go. Yes. Here we go. I support capitalism. I am merely stating the benefits of owning less. Stating why committing to things in America can trap you. And I don't entirely disagree with you, and stated in my original response. In some sense, you are correct. But again, your entire supposition is based on incurring debt; which is bad personal economics. A house is not an asset.: Yes. It is. By definition. By logic. There are property taxes you have to pay even after you own the thing…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 05:49 PM
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This post is so misinformed, it's nearly unbelievable. In the 21st consumerist high-debt civilization called the united states, committing to anything will trap you. Incorrect. Committing to debt will trap you. Your pretext in this is debt. But you are attributing an entire economy to debt. Owning a house I'm curious how owning a valuable appreciable asset is going to "trap" you. This stinks of bad math, and a fundamental misunderstanding of the most basic PERSONAL economics. Owning a car I'm cu…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 10:13 AM
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AWALT = All Women Are Like That. Certain things that are psychologically inherent to all women.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:59 AM
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Yes AWALT. Also, keeping AWALT in mind, you can hedge your bets. Don't bet your stack on one thing (attractive girl). Instead hedge your bets on her politics, religion, world views, hobbies, etc. You can still lose your bet. But hedging will increase your odds on getting a woman who, while adhering to her natural AWALT, will give you a win.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 01:42 AM
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The Layguide is probably the best one as far as methodology goes, in my opinion. The Anti-Pickup Line is super short, but is just a condensed version of some very red pill ideas; short sweet and simple internal dialogue type stuff. Mystery's books aren't that good, in my opinion; his whole thing hinges on being outlandish and insane. It's not like he's entirely wrong; just that his game is for him. Bang and Day Bang are very literal, Roosh is a super-decisive person, and thinks strategically. He…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:56 PM
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This isn't always the road to a threesome. The other distinct possibility is that girl #2 asked girl #1 to come to "omg like can you please keep me from making a bad decision! I'm like so like omg trying to do the right like thing like." Girl #1 could be coming along with the sole job of being a cock block. Or it could be a set up for a threesome. Who knows. Just saying; be prepared for a snake pit.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:44 AM
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I'm pretty sure I did it wrong. Instead of going for a kiss I asked. Never ask. Ever. If you feel like you need to say something, say "I'm going to kiss you now." But even this is pushing it. You don't say anything. Lock eyes, look at her lips, and do it. If she looks away, she's not interested. If she sits there looking at you, she's waiting for you to kiss her. Simple. She said that'd be weird, Because you made it weird by asking. Let me translate her emotional language for you: "That would be…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:18 AM
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Are you lifting? You can increase your masculine look by doing masculine things. Dress more masculine (jeans, boots, etc). Do your hair better. Encourage facial hair growth by doing a good face scrub 2-3 times a week. Also massage your face frequently, and any facial hair you do have; play with it a lot. It worked for me when I was 14. What style hair cut do you have? Little things will make all the difference in the world. The baby face is from extra body fat, most likely. Get some cardio in wi…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:00 AM
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Whats your question?
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:37 AM
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So backstory, last Thursday I DM’d my sisters roommate after she commented on my insta story telling me I looked cute in the pic. That's great. I asked her to hangout and she invited me out with her and my sister that weekend. Typical. I told her that I was only interested in hanging out with her and asked her what she was doing the following day. She said she was going into work late in the afternoon and had nothing planned other than some laundry and errands. I tried setting this up as a way t…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:27 AM
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Ok so, a few weeks ago I matched with a girl on tinder, funny, attractive, nice. Everything went well, we decided to meet up on a date. Sounds good. We met, everything went well, drinking, eating, she seemed to enjoy the conversation, specially when I would tease her. Great. When we got to her building, I followed her up and kissed her (I know, cliche, would have kissed her earlier but she was shy to kiss if people are around). Common. Still good. I kissed her lips and neck, she loved it, couldn…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 02:31 AM
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Go with your gut. Based on the information you have, I wouldn't confront her directly. Maybe mention something about seeing her active on Instagram, that way you can force her to lie. After her lie, a simple "uh huh" from you should suffice. Go with your gut. My question though: What could have been so urgent that you needed to video call her eight times? It seems needy.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 06:08 AM
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U/rodent9 said it best: lift, you pussy! You sound like a fucking turd. Boo Hoo, I don't know how. How do I find a gym buddy? You sound like a woman. When I first started going to the gym, I didn't know shit. No one showed me anything. I found a routine. Put it in my phone. Then before going into the gym, I would sit in the parking lot and watch 45 second YouTube videos on the exercises I was going to do that day. No one told me to do that. I did this thing. It's called "thinking." Do you really…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 08:28 AM
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Ukrainian women have a joke amongst each other: Men are an ATM with a penis. You are their selected ATM machine.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 05:24 AM
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I think your suggestion is much better than mine. Follow this man's advice.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:47 AM
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I wouldn’t introduce my son to trp Are you ashamed of us?
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:13 PM
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There's this girl I've been trying to bang for last week. I'm a fitness trainer with ripped body, and also have good face. My smv is and confidence is good. Sounds good. I played cold approach. Got her number. Good deal. Took her out to dinner first date. Don't do this. This is a stranger, and you gave her a free dinner. It is designed to be a total bomb. It was mostly talking about jobs, life, daily stuff etc. Not good. Because dinner dates are terrible. Too much investment in someone you don't…
/r/askTRP24/09/19 11:04 PM
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Are you on the spectrum?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 09:45 AM
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Haha that's a god damned fact. It has good pay. Easy to get into. Plenty of room to grow. Opportunity to start your own small or giant business. When I hear people say "Don't be a plumber," "don't be an electrician," "don't do construction," all I hear is: "Don't be successful."
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:20 AM
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My older brother is a plumber and slays more pussy than most men I know.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:48 AM
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I get endless entertainment from trolling.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:29 PM
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U/copypastable just said this is a bait and switch technique. He's 100% right, and usually I just troll them to death for it: Idiot: snap or nothing Me: what's your snap? Idiot: idiotsnap never add her Idiot: you never added me/did you add me/etc Me: I don't have snap Idiot: then why did you ask for my snap Me: you said snap or nothing Idiot: but you don't have snap! Me: I'm aware ma'am. This isn't an exact conversation, obviously, but usually how it goes. This has never led to a lay, or to a ph…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 06:41 AM
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To answer your question, I'm going to talk about myself some. Starting at about fourteen (I'm in my 30s now), I started getting multiple interests, like you, and would focus on them for a period of time before moving onto something else. Chemistry, computer programming, writing, making wine, making beer, art, tattooing, taxidermy, mechanics. I would go back and forth on these things, and never become a master of any of them. I thought one would be my passion (I thought for a while that tattooing…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:39 PM
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So a fwb told me I should be paying for more stuff like dates, food etc as I make a lot more money than her. I replied with ‘don’t tell me how to spend my money, if I want to pay for you I will, but not because you ask’ Pretty shitty thing for her to say. Problem is this - I feel like a beta cuck when I pay for things so I’ll always split. Even though I could pay for shit I’ll only ever pay if it’s paid back. Maybe I’m selfish but I’ll barely ever spend money on anyone. If that's how you operate…
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:35 PM
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So I’ll be straight to the point I’m 18 just got out of school. Congrats! Found the red pill 2-3 months ago. Been working out, still a skinny twerp but making progress. Good deal! But if you've been working out for 2-3 months, you should have seen some size. Up your food intake. Glad you're working out, man. Never had a kiss before and this HB7-8 girl I’ve known for almost a year. A friend of mine we’ve been hanging out and getting closer and closer. Blah Blah. :) She’s super shy though gets ner…
/r/askTRP28/07/19 06:17 AM
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Sometimes it's easy to narrow down, other times, I'm baffled. One guy I used to work with, he was great. Super talkative, great laugh, muscular as fuck, very intelligent; overall just a very well put together guy. His wife was ugly as fuck. She cooked, cleaned, sewed his clothes, sewed the kids clothes, everything. Overall a great wife who did everything for him and their family. I brought it up to one of my friends, and he said "dude, they met in high school, did you see what he looked like in …
/r/askTRP27/07/19 07:36 AM
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Non judicial punishment? You're living in fucking la la land. Adultery is Article 134 of the UCMJ. If the husband wants, he can go to whoever your federal law enforcement is (Army CID, AF OSI, Navy CSI), and they WILL launch an investigation and you WILL be court martialed and most likely found Guilty. Being found guilty in a court martial makes you a convicted felon. NJP? No. Clearly you have the ignorance of an E2. Block her. Delete all information. Do not tell your friends anything like this …
/r/askTRP26/07/19 08:52 AM
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People here are making fun of you, and for good reason: You are attracted to fat girls, and it's pretty damned funny. Take it with a grain of salt, man. Yeah, we're all laughing at your preference, but it's all in love. You like what you like. You like fat chicks, cool, chubby chaser. A couple people narrowed down a part of your problem. 1: You are acting disinterested in the 8s/9s, so your frame automatically gets insanely strong, and they show interest based on that. When you're around your fa…
/r/askTRP14/07/19 07:08 AM
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The name of the hose is just heater hose when you go to the auto parts store. Theres only a few. I think the exact name is bypass outlet hose. It's a 19 year old car, so I would expect things like this to happen. A busted hose doesn't say much about an underlying issue, as much as it does just being 19 years old, no biggie. Change the hose. Keep the car. Drive it until it explodes.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:42 AM
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If I remember correctly (and it's been forever since I've had this car), the hose stabs through the firewall, goes to the heater core, and another hose returns back to the engine. I could be wrong. In any case. Should be able to loop it as a temporary fix until you can get the new hose to change out. Which sucks.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:25 AM
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Sounds like a hose going to your heater core. I used to have this car. If it's not the radiator hoses going to the engine, and it's a smaller diameter hose that's leaking coolant, then it's your heater core hose. I seem to remember, though, that it's a bitch to change because it's nose easy to get to through the firewall.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:13 AM
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I think your rule of thumb is wrong.
/r/askTRP09/07/19 10:29 AM
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You're not eating enough. Your TDEE says you maintain at 3,023 calories a day. If you want to gain muscle, you need a 500 calorie surplus; so you need to be taking in about 3500 calories or so a day. You say it makes you sick to eat so much. Well, there's simply no way around it. If you're not a big eater, then supplement with protein shakes in between meals. It's easier to drink your food, if you're not a big eater. Also, 50-60g protein? No. Try more in the range of 250g protein or more. Food i…
/r/askTRP09/07/19 09:52 AM
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Google "Mark Manson Fuck Yes or No," read the article. Literally every answer you want, and more, is in that article.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:17 AM
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I don't know where you read that, but it's bullshit. The first time I ever stepped foot in a gym was 1 year and 6 months ago; at almost 32 years old. Started at 132lbs, now sitting at 161lbs of lean muscle.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 01:48 AM
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Virgin, never had a proper relationship but have made out with a lot of chicks in clubs Okay, good start then. I cant keep people hooked... People don't look forward to hanging out with me. I'm pretty much looksmaxxed and gym maxxed. Good good. Due to social conditioning I feel very nervous to escalate when I'm alone with someone Lots of people do. Not just you. I just saw my mild oneitis hang out with a guy. And that's that. She used to take interest in me before i dried out her pussy. Glad you…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:58 PM
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have you had any unpleasant experiences where a woman would say something bad about your dick? This is uncommon, I think. Typically, if a woman is going to insult the size of your dick, it's because she is trying to dig in deep into what she thinks will hurt you the most. If a woman ever said anything negative about your dick, especially during an argument; you won, trust me. Or the other way around, have you been complimented about it despite it being average? My dick is slightly above average,…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 10:48 PM
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You are right but you could just write a dialogue and we could see if it would be helpful. It would not be helpful in the least bit. Of course it's not only about what you talk about, and for sure every girl would be different but woman are same on some level. This is beside the point. If you could give examples it would be helpful, believe me. Believe me, it wouldn't. Some conversations drives the girl away in a second and some hooks her. Maybe you should give examples, then. Because I have tol…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:15 AM
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No. And I'll tell you why I say that. You are coming at this from the wrong angle. The logic behind your post is as follows: I'm not fucking a girl --> I want to fuck a girl --> I see other guys fucking a girl --> He must have secret password to girl's pussy --> If only I could learn the password --> Ask AskTRP for the password. You need to understand that there is no singular conversation that beds a girl. Your question is not so much "how to be a smooth conversationalist" as it is the subtext:…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:51 AM
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I'm a Watchmaker and Jeweler, so my hobbies revolve around that.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:30 AM
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I do mind. I would rather remain anonymous.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 08:29 AM
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Are you going to a Christian College? One of the three major universities in my city is a Christian College; lots of freshmen virgin girls.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:55 AM
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No. Example: I just took the virginity of a 19 year old Christian College girl about two months ago. She was well aware of my exploits. She told me straight up she wanted to lose her virginity to someone who "knows what they're doing" so she could have a "good first experience."
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:44 AM
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Like what are your experiences? How has it helped you? Helped in lots of ways I'm sure. Definitely helps in getting laid much more easily and with minimal effort on my part. How has it harmed you? Giving me a slight sense of entitlement and probably some narcissism. Talk about some public interations you have had? This is a little broad. I'll just stick to what girls do: They go above and beyond to try and catch me in their web. They make themselves significantly more available than you would no…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 04:33 AM
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Before I start breaking this down. I'll just let you know up front: You must be retarded to participate in this bullshit. okay so, my sister had a fight with one of her best friends who liked me and was a great friend of mine too. Okay. Fair start. My sister even tho i know loves me, is sometimes extremely rude and a bitch to me . No shit. She's your sister. I'm sure you're rude and a dick to her, too. Look at yourself in the mirror. Now i came to know from her friend that they are through becau…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 09:52 PM
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No such thing. There are three categories (in my mind); Open Semi-Open Closed Open girls will play into your frame as soon as you say "Hey!." Semi-Open girls will play into your frame after some conversation. But they're on the fence, so they may go the other way. Closed girls will not play into your frame no matter how much of a clown you are. If a girl is closed, move on. The best is obviously "Open" girls. And this is where I apply Mark Manson's "Fuck yes or no" theory. If a girl is playing i…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:08 AM
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I recently got out of a LTR and have been seeing this girl. Great. Escalated to sex yet? We talk every night on the phone aswell. That's a little much, quite honestly. She's cancelled on me a few times the same day that she was supposed to come over. Flake is right. I still want to see her, how should I proceed? Soft next. As u/newtothepill123 said, you are likely giving off friend-zone vibe. Especially if you haven't escalated to sex yet. Soft next, build abundance, all the basics. Get not so d…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 08:04 AM
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"waiting for you to stop ghosting me and text me back". I responded with "been busy, I'll see you this week, what days do you work again?" I would have likely said something to the effect of: "Not ghosting. Not a big texter. If you wanted conversation, you should have called me, dork." Put it back on her. Make it her fault.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 09:31 PM
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What is your question?
/r/askTRP23/06/19 09:28 PM
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It genuinely depends on what type of hair loss you have. First and foremost: Yes, it decreases your SMV when compared to a male with a full head of hair. Accept it. Accept it as fact, and let's move on from there: Okay, you're balding. What type of balding? Some receding hairline up front? Or is it in the back? Or is it absolute hair loss on your entire crown? If you have a receding hairline up front, wait a while. Comb it, keep it around. You can work with it. If you have some balding in the ba…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 10:30 PM
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She was raped a few years back, by her boyfriend at the time. I always find this suspect. She told me he got very close(he was a big guy), and kept asking for anal sex. He asked. She said no at first, but eventually said yes. ... She said yes, and was raped with the yes? Which bothered me when she told me she said yes Because yes is not rape. to that but was able to say no to vaginal sex before that. What? I didn’t tell her i was bothered by that or confused by that You were confused because she…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 10:09 PM
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As u/Atheist_utopia said, if club game isn't your thing, then just don't go at all. But since you're going, advice: Get a club soda and lime from the bar. Don't let the bartended give you a plastic cup that no one else has. Carry it around. If the club has a pool table, play pool. You want to keep yourself genuinely entertained. Dance, even though you're bad at it. Girls don't give a shit if men are bad dancers. All they really care about is the confidence of a random man dancing with them. Appr…
/r/askTRP22/06/19 07:50 PM
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As others have said: Muscles and a Beard. Guaranteed you don't have any muscles. If you did, you wouldn't be hearing this. Beard, stubble, do it. Hair cut: Clean cut and conservative. What's your dressing style look like? A little juvenile? Band T Shirts? If so, don't do that. Dress older.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 12:48 AM
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EDIT: This became quite long, I just want to say before you start reading: Thank you to the community in general because without it I would still be the fat fuck I used to be with no friends and playing league of legends not knowing how the world works at all. I know I am just a few steps away from the goal I want, but to get there I am incredibly frustated and this is why I come here today Glad this sub helped. I dont know whats wrong with me, I just dont... At 19 I found TRP and was a kissless…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:34 PM
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Questions : Am i giving like a gay vibe or do gay men just approach straight men as well (however indirect)? No. Gay men are just horny men like straight men. Some are afraid to approach for fear of rejection, which for them rejection can sometimes be significantly more harsh (ass beating). was this like a scam and i narrowly escaped. Not sure what kind of scam it would be. I am 30+, she was 19. And i feel her interest shifted a little when she asked me how old i am. She was putting my age aroun…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 11:18 PM
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I find it hard to believe that any woman has told you they are disgusted by your ear.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:57 AM
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What’s the point? I have big ears yes I get iois but my ears make me so insecure (cauliflower)I can’t even talk to women without thinking about it. They can sense your insecurity. They have a sixth sense for this shit. The world is so rigged I can’t even deal with it anymore. Maybe it's rigged. We're not going to get into that. But assuming you're right, and that it is rigged; then play the system. My hair is shitty and thick and grows like fuck. Then fix it. I don’t think I’m meant to procreate…
/r/askTRP18/06/19 01:25 AM
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I am getting a lot of matches on tinder Great. but I can’t get a date. It's Tinder. What should I do different? Get off Tinder. Approach in real life.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 05:32 AM
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You are a retarded person.
/r/askTRP05/06/19 05:00 AM
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Hello gentlemen, Heya! I was with family at a restaurant and made eye contact with a HB7 hostess at the front; I gave her a warm smile and she smiled back. Take note: She is at work, she is being paid to be nice. I already decided I was going to talk to her when heading out, so I made up some excuse to linger behind. Fair enough. Sure enough, I turn the corner, she's there, and we make eye contact again. I low-key Quit saying low-key, dork. got nervous and had a little LMR, but I was like "3, 2,…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 04:55 AM
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u/project_zero_betas is likely not correct. She's simply comfortable that she got in a relationship, and isn't flirting (sending nudes) like she was. Do what u/maybelowsmv suggested, text her "send nudes" and see her response. She'll likely send nudes. If she's in public and "can't right now", then you say: "Okay. Go to the bathroom, and send me a short video of you fingering yourself. Now." She'll love the dominance, and should do as you ask. If she puts up a fight. Yeah, she's losing interest.…
/r/askTRP05/06/19 02:25 AM
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I’m setting up a first date with a girl from a dating app and this is on her bio: “If you want to go out with me, ask me out on a proper date. "Line up, boys, I am taking applications" Not interested in “chilling” or “hanging out” or some other lame, "I'm not interested in any kind of genuine connection with anyone." no effort shit like that. "I am Queen B WUT WUT" I love to have fun. "At your expense" I lose interest quickly so don’t bore me. "Entertain me, clown" 5’9 and very confident! "I'm g…
/r/askTRP21/05/19 10:01 PM
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Well, I wouldn't know. You didn't post any specifics of interactions for us to pick apart piece-by-piece. So some general advice from my own personal experience: Relax, have zero investment in the outcome of the date, talk a lot, ask pointed questions, put her on the spot as much as you can to get her heart rate up, argue with her when you spot something that makes no sense (but with a smile), monetary investment in a date should be a few dollars (I like coffee dates), dinner dates are for LTR o…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:24 PM
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A lot of backstory just for that question. First and foremost: If you are lacking in escalating during dates, not getting one night stands, getting friend zoned, etc, then you shouldn't be worried about text game right now. TRP generally advises against text game. This is for many reasons, the first being that it's simply not good to hide behind your phone when flirting with women. Second, because your chances of success are much lower. This is not to say that there isn't text game, or that text…
/r/askTRP20/05/19 12:05 PM
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This! ​ I was going to comment separately, but this is similar to what I say. Mine is more simple: "I don't have any expectations" and leave it at that. Usually they will poke and prod more, and I'll lightly expand, but not by much. They enjoy the mystery.
/r/askTRP11/05/19 12:10 AM
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What's the population of your area? Girls are everywhere. Grocery store. Convenience store. Sidewalks. Driving in cars (yes, you can hit on girls at a red light). Smoothie shops. The mall. The gym. The bank. In lines at the DMV. This is hardly a valid question. Women male up like 49% of the population.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 09:00 AM
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Not a sign of low T. Refocus your energy and get a game plan. Keep desiring a relationship if that's your end goal. BUT, since your end goal (relationship) makes you susceptible to settling for a toxic skank, make a personal checklist and time frame to go by. She doesn't meet this standard? Next. She meets this standard, check. You can desire what you want. And that's cool. Just keep yourself in check.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 04:39 AM
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Don't unmatch. Just don't respond to her. She wants to keep you in orbit. Her friend emergency was Bullshit. Just go cold. If she says hey just ignore it. Don't show her that you care by unmatching ; show her you don't give a fuck by just not talking.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 05:41 AM
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Those look bitchin. Can't wait for next arm Day
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:16 AM
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Stop watching porn If this happens again, do the following: Finger her for a minute or two. Relax. Go down on her. Focus on her moans, how wet she's getting, etc. If that doesn't get you hard then: Get up, lay on the bed, and say "get me hard". Some girls will ask what you want then to do. "Use your mouth, get me hard". Most girls will just go straight for it and go to work. Don't be bothered that she's sucking your flaccid dick. It will get hard in no time. As soon as it's rock solid: condom, f…
/r/askTRP16/04/19 05:11 AM
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Do what works for you man. 5 years is a long time. Go fuck some strange girls. Take time for yourself. Up your gym routine. Whatever you have to do to be you.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:07 AM
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I have only one plate, a 7. Get abundance :D Had sex twice. Great Still approaching other women etc. Keep it up. She’s cute yet not submissive or very enthusiastic about me. These things happen! Sex is mediocre because I like making a woman submit and she doesn’t do that. We can't have good chemistry with all of them. I fuck her good but it’s just that, very emotionless. No chemistry; no big deal. Is there a way to fix it or just hard next? Hard next? No. She's fucking you. She's your only plate…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 09:36 AM
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I picked up my fiance's phone and saw her friend "Abby" texted her. I thought it was weird bc the messages were weirdly direct, saying to "come over at 8pm" and "I'll get you an Uber" I brought it up, and then she got really uncomfortable and started crying when I pressed her. She was supposed to be at her Pilates studio. You clearly don't trust her anyway, if you were snooping through her text messages with Abby. It turns out this "Abby" is a guy. They are formerly co-workers and are "best frie…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:42 AM
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Exactly what I was going to say. Shit's a malignant tumor of a thought process.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:34 AM
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Ive known this girl for 2ish years. Dated casually, moved, and ghosted her for almost a year. Moved back and she reached out. I finally gave her my commitment a few months back. Sounds legit enough. Way better than a lot of posters here "I met this girl last week, looking at a LTR". Good job on the long game. Thumbs up. I have a hard time knowing whats a comfort test and whats a shit test. Ive done really well. She's still more invested in me. However, we're reaching that point where she knows t…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:32 AM
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Yeah man, wax the back, back hair is a big giant no-no. I get stray hairs on my back, and have girls pluck them for me.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 07:21 AM
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I used to model with my ex-girlfriend, so I have some professional photos that I've used on my Tinder. They can be worth it. Not sure about how much you should spend. Doesn't really matter if you don't have a six pack, as long as you don't have a gut. Flat stomach is fine. Hairy chest is fine. I have a very hairy chest. About 6 months ago I did a poll on instagram asking if I should shave my chest (genuinely curious). It was down the middle basically, half and half on "yes" or "no." Also, most g…
/r/askTRP20/02/19 08:12 AM
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Sexual Market Value, essentially what you're worth on the open market.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 01:48 AM
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What u/vandaalen said. Next. You have a problem with abundance. I was all over your story until you started hamstering about the "maybe she still hasn't gotten over him" bullshit. You say it doesn't really bother you. Okay, but you made this long ass post on this sub about this random chick you met once. Then ask a bunch of questions about the what if's on what you may or may not have done wrong, if it's worth trying again, etc. Also, you say she is exactly your type: Learn to expand your "type"…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:33 AM
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I need some advice on a date this weekend. Alrighty This is a girl who I went to school with but we didn’t have the same circles. She reached out to me about a month ago after I ran into her cousin (a 7) who used to be in the same circle as me. I’m going to be in this girls city this weekend and when she caught wind out that she initiated a meet up. She stepped out of her little comfort box and reached out to you. This is great. I’ve told her that I’m busy during the day but have some time in th…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:25 AM
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u/bellend77 linked you to the Shit Test Encyclopedia, which you should check out. They're shit testing you. They want to test your frame. They want to see if you break like a bitch, are a fraud, or if you're a real fuckin' man. Can you blame them? I will tell you, though, that they will shit test you less, test your frame less, the higher your SMV is. Very low SMV's don't get shit tests; they get shit thrown at them. Mid-range SMV gets a pretty good amount of shit tests. Higher SMVs get very few…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:17 AM
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Yes next her. Just to fuck with her head a little bit, I would say something like "I'm glad you feel the same way".
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:09 AM
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We were friends for 3 years and have been dating for 2 years. Okay. She's in her late 20s and I'm in my early 30s. Great. She started a fight where she said we needed to take a break. And you let her lead the way with that? Fine, whatever. Good thinking. I devote myself to the gym, work, family, and cooking at home. Great thinking! Good job man. Proud of ya! :D Surprised at how much money I'm saving by not having to pay for everything whenever we go out on a date. Totally! Crazy right? :) We sti…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 06:03 AM
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I immediately realized that this was some ASD/LMR but jokingly said I'm a virgin which wasn't satisfactory. Good move on your part. She kept pressing and I said 1000 which wasn't satisfactory and kept pressing some more Good move on your part, still. and I just gave her my count to which she acted shocked You had no other real option than do give her your count. She wasn't going to drop it. No biggie. The only other alternative is "I don't keep count, I don't know dude, why is it that important?…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:55 AM
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Block her if you need to.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 05:17 AM
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This belongs in Reddit: RedPillWomen Anyway, in my opinion, best to just be up front with him, tell him you want to hang out with him at his place tonight. Just be super forward, so there's no question in his mind what your intentions are.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 09:10 PM
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Basically what u/moviemaker10 said, except I'll got a little further: She's not just emotionally scarred; she has absolute mental issues. She hasn't left the house in 20 years, this is a pretty major red flag. What you described, she is latching onto you like no other, and will probably proclaim her love for you after sticking your dick in her even once. Best to avoid this one, OP. Easy lay? Yes. Worth it? No. It would just end up doing more damage to her in the long run. She is obviously mental…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:10 PM
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It's not pre-cum. There's not enough pre-cum for you to ever notice anything. It's from her. Typically girls have that white discharge when they're ovulating. Also. . . Don't ever - ever - trust a girl and her birth control. And quit referring to your dick as your gland, you sociopath! lol jeez dude.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:04 PM
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Point taken, well noted.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 12:19 AM
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I didn't notice until you pointed it out. Oh well, some people didn't like what I said.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 09:37 PM
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For me, it's been a mixed bag of Mostly Crazy, and a few Very Desirable Women. The crazy ones are really crazy. Some are fun, most have baggage, most are fucked up somehow or another. I have definitely met a few that were great women; super intelligent, talkative, up front, intuitive, etc. Probably 5 out of 100 were super normal girls, and will make amazing partners for some guy.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 09:31 PM
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Maybe so. Quite honestly, I don't pay much attention to song lyrics, except for maybe the chorus. The song is great, tonally.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 06:35 PM
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What's your question? Also, this song is on my gym playlist.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 06:26 PM
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Her LMR was either ASD, or she just didn't feel seduced enough/didn't feel like it was heat of the moment. Either way, look into LMR, Freezing out, etc. Also look at passion-building, push/pull in bed, etc. There's a few techniques you can use for LMR. One of them, in this situation specifically; if she keeps turning you down for sex, just pull your dick out and tell her you're going to jerk off to get some relief. She'll either watch you, help you, suck your dick, or she'll jump on top of you a…
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:59 PM
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Can you? All you gave was a short subject title, and almost no context.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:42 PM
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Yes, this was bad.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 03:40 PM
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Yeah that's right, lean carbs for energy, protein for muscle repair. And yeah I'm natural.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 07:40 PM
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Yeah man sweet potatoes are where it's at! Super nutritious
/r/askTRP21/12/18 02:59 AM
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I'm 5'8, 165. I aim for about 300g carbs/day, but like I said I'm not really a counter. I don't count calories, carbs, protein, any of it. I just eat the correct foods, and lots of it (as well as protein shakes). Yeah potatoes make up for a pretty good part of it! Especially sweet potatoes.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:58 AM
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Well I'm a hard gainer, and naturally very skinny, so I eat as much as I can. Lots of hard boiled egg whites, essentially as a snack I'll eat two of them. Lots of almonds. Beef, Chicken, Broccoli are my main go-to. Cauliflower as well. I stay away from rice for the most part. Pasta sometimes. I stuff down as much beef and chicken as I can, and then finish it off with the broccoli, or carrots, or some vegetable. Lots of sweet potatoes as well. Me personally, I don't really need to count calories …
/r/askTRP21/12/18 12:13 AM
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40lbs is a pretty intense increase. I don't know if those claims are true, but it's possible for newb-gains, I suppose. I see excellent results in the gym! Unfathomably good! But I go 5 days a week, stick to a very strict plan and diet, don't drink alcohol, etc. I can see where you would struggle. Just gonna have to come up with something, man! Time management. If you can't - you can't. But you should. Prioritize what is more important to you.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:14 PM
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Good advice here, OP. It's not a good long term investment. All of the crypto markets are HIGHLY volatile. Long term holdings is a bad idea. The only one that is currently promising is Ethereum because of Amazon (look it up). Other than that: Crypto is long term dangerous, short term potentially great. Do your research, invest wisely.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 10:06 PM
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No one knows where stocks are going to go, much less bitcoin. Invest at your own risk. With that said... Bitcoin was at like $500 or so for quite a while. Then started to uptick to around $2500 to $3k for a while which is when people started noticing it. As soon as it became the next best thing, it rocketed up to $19,000; this was a BUBBLE; investors driving up the price of it due to insane popularity. The bubble FINALLY burst, and it hovered in the $6k to $7k range for a while. Now the question…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 09:49 PM
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As the title says, warm approached this chick at my local gym. Solid. Has been giving me tons of IOIs for a couple of days so I approached her. Sounds great. Did my opener and then proceeded to ask her where she was planning to take me out. I hope you didn't go straight from the "Hello" to "Where are you planning on taking me out"? Or at least not too quick? Sounds like it was a pretty quick transition, which would explain: And she responds by telling me that she already has a guy, and interesti…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 06:29 AM
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Jeweler / Watchmaker
/r/askTRP19/12/18 11:10 PM
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Why do you want to start an instagram profile? You give zero context for your question. What to do after? You post pictures.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:34 PM
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Super solid advice.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:33 PM
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If you're getting a bunch of matches, and you want to stick with an abundance/red pill mind set, then just do this: Don't message them until you want to go on a messaging streak. When ready, message about 15-20 at a time. Comment on their pictures, something specific to them, or something in their profile, or just say "Hey Trouble" if you have nothing to go off of. Out of 20, probably 5 or so will message back. Message all 5 at once, at the same pace. Move the conversations to text, and go from …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 11:21 PM
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Sounds like you have all the leverage you need to A: Ask for a raise, again, and B: If you don't get the raise on the spot, say "Thank you very much for listening, but I am putting in my two weeks notice; I have an opportunity that I need to take in light of not receiving a raise." One of two things will happen. Your boss will either say "Sounds good take care!" or your boss will immediately reconsider the raise. If he does reconsider it right there on the spot, you can then name a price higher …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:20 PM
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Robert Downey Jr. is a good example. I like taking note from fictional characters. Hank Moody of Californication, Don Draper from Mad Men, Sterling Archer from Archer.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:36 PM
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Dread Game!
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:34 PM
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If she was a strong plate, she'll reconnect with you. I never reconnect with plates after they break up with their boyfriends, but they frequently try to reconnect with me. Not all the time, but sometimes. My advice is to sit back and let her reconnect with you. She may, she may not.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:52 PM
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I've always thought of it in terms of percentages. Rarity is attractive. The more rare you are, the more attractive you are. 2% of the population is blonde. 90% of the population is brunette. But this doesn't exactly explain redheads; which is generally not desirable in men. Genuine overall beauty is rare. Fat & ugly people are plentiful. Which do you desire? Ever heard of a girl say she loves green eyes? (I know I have). Green eyes are the rarest eye color.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:50 PM
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It's not beta. It all depends on what you want. If it's something you are totally against, then don't do it. Lots of us on here salivate at the thought of eating pussy. I know I do. I fucking love eating pussy. One night stand or not; if it's hot enough for me to put my dick in, it's hot enough for me to put my mouth on it. Not everyone is the same. Some guys are repulsed by it. Some guys will only do it with a LTR. Some guys will only do it with a FWB that he knows isn't fucking other guys. Som…
/r/askTRP17/12/18 11:45 PM
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True. Or take a trip to Thailand.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:27 PM
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Oh yeah dude no, tell me about it! The only reason I recommended it for OP is because from his post, he seems to be really well off. For the vast majority of us; total waste of fucking money. Not only do you have to pay the $90 a month just to talk to these trollops, but you also have to pay them their $400 or whatever the fuck to get a night with them.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:19 PM
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It's a "dating" website. Men sign up, pay like $90 a month to talk to "sugar babies;" girls who are hooking, but convinced themselves that they're not hooking. You pay them a certain amount, they go on dates/fuck/etc. Not all girls on there will fuck for money, but a lot will. I've never used it, personally, but I know some who have. It would be greatly unwise to every try and find a girlfriend on that site; they're all gold digging whores. But, as far as sex for money, it's the most normal girl…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:01 PM
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I think I look better with some stubble (but not a full beard). Most men do. However it's obviously prickly and I remember hurting a girl from kissing with stubble. That happens! Their problem, not yours. I've looked for tips online for how to kiss with stubble, without hurting the girl, but don't get any proper answers. There isn't one. Again, it's their problem, not yours. The answers from girls seem to be "I prefer clean shaven", "Depends how good of a kisser you are" or "I find stubble sexy …
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:00 PM
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I second this. OP, if you're 33 and haven't lost it yet; nothing wrong with paying for it. It sounds like you're pretty well-off, so I would say get a profile on Seeking Arrangement, and find a hot girl on there. I recommend that site because although you are definitely paying those girls to have sex, the dynamic is a little different in that they're not professional hookers. They are regular college going girls/etc, and making extra money on the side by fucking for money. So, with that said, yo…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:49 PM
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Yeah bro, good choice. I chose to watch the last season despite the fact that Spacey left, just out of dedication to the show. Let me spoil it for you: Claire is President. Frank is dead. Every episode revolves around hating the fuck out of Frank because he was a piece of shit. Claire replaces her entire cabinet with all females, because Feminism. The male lead character is show to be sexually attracted to powerful women, and is a total bitch throughout the entire show. The final moments of the …
/r/askTRP16/12/18 12:08 AM
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Great show, except for the feminist propaganda last season. I don't think my message is far off, though. Politicians are, by and large, snakes.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:06 PM
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Make up for your weak features by enhancing your strong features. This goes for anything. If you have a weak face, work on your physique. To answer your question directly: A woman will overlook certain things for other things. So yes, you can be weak in the face, but strong in the body, and she will bite based on that. I've witnessed this exact scenario (ugly ass face, super buff body), and the girl would talk about how great his body was.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 09:32 PM
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You're in high school, run a business, and invest? What's your business?
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:58 PM
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That's unfortunate. I was poking fun at the soulless swine that is politicians. But. Whatever. Most politicians start off as Lawyers. Most Lawyers do their pre-law in Political Science before attending law school. Debate team is common among politicians. Sports is neither here nor there; half of politicians do sports, the other half don't. The ones who don't all claim to be huge sports fans (how else do you get votes?) Few politicians are successful businessmen before entering politics (hence th…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:46 PM
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Too easy. Learn to lie. It's essential. Friends? Who needs 'em? There are only two types: Winners, and Losers. Life is a game. Doesn't matter who you have to step on to get to the top, they are the enemy. The only thing that matters is you, and your power.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 06:40 PM
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The foundation of the red pill is based pick up in order to attract women What? but social media is becoming more needed in the modern day. "Needed" is a strong word. I don't know what "need" there is for Instagram. How important is a good following with regular posts along to show social status? Not even slightly important. Your social status, as a male, is proven by the people who know you. No one talks about people and their social media; everyone talks about people and their in person demean…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 10:44 PM
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I suppose this is the hardest part. I am sure this requires very high SMV, but do you have some tips how to turn the conversation sexual right? Not very high, but definitely higher as far as looks go. You're an out of towner, someone she doesn't want to miss the opportunity to fuck. I do not have any tips on sexualizing the conversation. It depends 100% on the conversation at hand. narrowing down my options for which one is A: The hottest and B: guaranteed sex and a place to stay. The way I unde…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 09:59 PM
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Yes, the general advice is to set up a date within about 10 messages. Everything you said is correct. BUT, there is a Tinder long game, in my opinion. I use the passport mode. I live in a city of 120,000 people. So I get some pretty good matches. There is a large metropolitan city about 2-1/2 hours from me that I enjoy going to, so I set my Tinder there and get matches. The difference between normal Tinder, and the Tinder long game is that you would get matches in the nearby large city, game all…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:38 PM
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Nice feminist slogan. I'm not interested. My perspective of the future has more to do with space, and time. I have little interest in what feminists think the future should be comprised of, socially.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:24 PM
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Some people are better at things than others. The best blowjob of my life was from a girl who had only sucked a few dicks in her life. When I asked her how she got so damned good at sucking dick she said "I learned from watching blowjob porn."
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:20 PM
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The future is later The future is ten minute from now The future is not now The future is not present The future is past the present The future is a different time ... I don't understand the purpose of your post. But thank you for the exercise in filling in the blank.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:16 PM
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she is pretty hammered, And then: "ya lets just go fuck in the bathroom right now" And then: I didn't make a move because I had no idea what to do. And then: I should have invited her home Okay man. You have escalating issues, for sure, but I don't really care about those right now. The fact that this chick wasn't just tipsy, but instead "Pretty Hammered," I don't see how your mind has turned this into a missed opportunity. If you were to fuck her in the bathroom, the risk of it turning from a h…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 08:35 PM
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Show up to her place randomly, on one of your non-scheduled times, when she answers the door, push in and fuck her like an animal. Or, invite her out to eat or something, pull her into an alleyway and fuck her in the alley. Just do something spontaneous. You sound like you may have some oneitis; maybe. Can't really tell from your post. But if she's a really good plate, and you enjoy her company, give her some excitement to keep her around. Really, just fuck her in a new situation.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:29 PM
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im 22 and so is my girlfriend, Rad! she doesnt want to move in with me until the age of 30 nor get married to me before this. She has an 8 year plan? Jesus. she says she wants to move in with her friend (her friend is a slut) until the age of 30, Wow this girl is a real winner, man. i asked what difference being 30 makes in terms of our relationship, Wrong question. she said "i want to live the bacheolorette lifestyle before moving in with you" Translate: You are a viable contender for me to set…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:12 AM
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Me and this girl have been talking for around a month now, but we only talk during class. Casual. Keep in mind we’re in High School. Noted. She doesn’t have a phone so I can’t really text/ call her. Texting should be for logistics only, anyway, so we really don't care about that. Her parents are really strict from what I’ve heard her say. I'm sure she's telling the truth. We do talk a lot during class. Cool. She especially does. That's good. I’ve noticed when we’re walking out of class she alway…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:06 PM
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Guys, I feel like I'm doing this all over again, Doing what? Alright. she is super attractive, Good deal. given where I'm on my RTP journey, Red The Pill? ;) she is way way over my league, You should probably work on this, internally. Based on what you're about to say; clearly she is not out of your league. Take a step back and look at this girl from an unbiased light, if you can. She is not out of your league. long story short, I met her in the elevator, she was with her sister, I will well dre…
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:59 PM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP10/12/18 08:53 PM
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Hey dudes, Hey man. virgin, Not for long 18 years old, 6 foot tall, Good deal 3 months into the gym (still skinny), Eat more. been told I'm like a 7 in looks That's great going out and cold approaching girls on a weekly basis in clubs and pubs can easily approach close to 10 different girls/groups of girls in a night, made out with 3 randomers in about 2 months, Pretty solid, really. It takes practice, and time. how long is it going to take me to start getting laid say once every 6 weeks? Thanks…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 07:02 PM
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What's your question, bitch?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 06:21 PM
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You've been speaking in very broad terms, you haven't given any specific situations, so I am only gleaning information. It's difficult to help with broad examples. But something I did glean, that is somewhat specific: It's not a case of LMR either, the rejections are usually over text. If you're getting rejected over text, then quit text gaming. Text for logistics only. An actual rejection would be in person. I still stand by my statement though; you are building experience.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 05:23 PM
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Second job out of the question?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:58 PM
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I think you're making a mountain out of a mole hill. You seem to be doing pretty good, just operating a bit more slowly. If you're getting rejected, look into LMR and ASD, and note some techniques to get past it. Likely, you're taking a soft "no" as a total rejection, and not using basic LMR techniques to turn a soft "no" into a hard "yes." Reading through your post, it really seems like you aren't doing anything specifically fundamentally wrong, you're just figuring out your social interactions…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:39 PM
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You may think a dry spell of 12 years is bad. It is. How about a dry spell of 12 years resulting in PIED? It's worse. I am 38 fucking years old. I'm in my fucking 30's as well. 6 feet 210 lbs. Overweight bald fuck. So get not overweight. I've haven't had my dick in a pussy for fucking 12 years. So fucking change it. I've fapped almost every day for 20 years (even having a girlfriend resulting in bad sex and limp dick). Stop watching porn. Although I could have dicked in 5 times in the last 3 mon…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:34 PM
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u/vandaalen
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:09 AM
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You forgot to mention that you've never met this girl in real life. Your Tinder odds are already exceptionally low. They're lower without social media. Go out and approach in real life.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:49 PM
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Is this a real question? Why are you under the supposition that not having social media would make you un-fuckable? Girl asks "Do you have insta/facebook/snapchat/etc" You say "Nope, sure don't"
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:41 PM
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Convo: Me- Looks like you can handle a long beach walk.. hopefully you can keep up with me 😋 Good enough opener. Personalized, etc. Her- I’m more of a runner haha so catch me if you can 💁🏾‍♀️ Good enough response. Me - Unless I see 20k steps/day credentials .. I doubt your chances Tinarra 😏 Nice tease/challenge. Her - You underestimate me... 🧐 She likes it. Me- Put your money where your mouth is.. we should make a bet This could be interesting. Her- A bet? Of what kind? Haha She's interested. Me…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:46 PM
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Matched this girl When texting back and forth I threw out some sexual innuendos just to gauge her reaction which was positive for the most part. By doing so she said something like "Ive thought about your dick twice now today." Neato. Usually text for logistics only. But hey it worked out. Good enough. Eventually she says she wants to hang but since she doesnt drink Good. My kinda girl. I was kinda confused what to do This is kinda sad, really. You don't know what to do without alcohol? but she …
/r/askTRP06/12/18 10:11 PM
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That too. Bring your own condoms as well. Those thai hookers buy the cheapest shittiest most breaky condoms on Earth. Also, get a thai dating profile. I can't remember what the most popular one is. Set up some dates before going over there. It's easy to fuck "Good Girls" when you're a foreigner.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:07 PM
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Thailand! Blowjob bars, hookers everywhere, cheap drinks, cheap everything, cheap food, pretty good hotels, a nice zoo, some cool shit all over the place, hookers everywhere, nice people, cool markets, hookers everywhere. Yes. Thailand. Go.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 07:04 PM
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Ask "What do you want to know?" When she says what she wants to know. Say "Why do you want to know about that?" Essentially just answer questions with questions. If she says "Whatever you want to tell me" just be like "I'll tell you on X date at X time" Don't answer anything. Just respond with "Hmm that's interesting" or "ah okay gotcha" and keep it as mysterious as possible. Only option, in my opinion. But someone else may have something better. OR Next.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:42 AM
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No, it would not put you in a less valuable frame. It puts you in a more valuable frame. Most men don't approach; you do. It puts you in a very confident "He gets what he wants" frame. An 11/10 is a movie star; he doesn't need to approach. You can't even compare.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:44 PM
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I am 30 years old In my 30s as well. and I did quite ok in every aspect of my life. Same. There is only one aspect of my life that is lacking and that is dating lots of women. That can be fixed. We'll have you assfucking 18 year old girls in no time. Throughout my entire life I had only 1 girlfriend. Sucks. I wanted to date a lot more but I think I have failed in that aspect of life. You have! No biggie, you're 30; you are now at the age where your SMV will be the highest it will ever be. Part o…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:38 PM
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u/ansec gave good advice. My whole thing is, reading your post, it's clear that you have the ability to pull yourself out of this, as you have in the past. You were a bitch-ass incel up until 21, then you did this crazy ass thing: You fixed it. Had some roller coasters like we all do, then got your count up to 200. That's more girls than most men will EVER reach in a life time. You do realize that, right? My point is, you have the ability. Your problem isn't your new situation (though it does so…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 09:15 PM
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Haha okay good point, I completely 100% overlooked the obvious. Give me a window to lick! :D
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:58 PM
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All over. Grocery store, sidewalk, mall, clothing store, coffee shop, convenience store, gas pumps. Contrary to popular belief, girls need to shop, walk on the sidewalk, shop at the mall, buy clothes, drink coffee, stop at the convenience store, and get gas. They frequent significantly more places than bars. EDIT: I do have the dating apps. They are a good supplement. A few hours a week on dating apps is great for setting up Delivery Sex; but they're definitely not good to rely on.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:42 PM
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I'm kinda short guy - 5'8/5'9. Same Was never really a problem for me, Because it's not a problem. but on the other hand I also realize that it's much harder to get higher girls. Only on dating apps. In real life, approaching girls taller than you catches them off-guard. Height goes out the window on cold approaches. Have slept with a girl who is taller than me, but date itself was kinda akward tbh. You made it awkward. She still slept with you, didn't she? Your concern with height is what made …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:33 PM
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Hey man, Glad you sobered up. That's great. Me personally; I rarely drink! Hardly ever. I absolutely refuse to meet girls at bars/clubs, and I will not have a drink with them under any circumstances. So, you and I are essentially the same boat as far as dating apps goes. What did I do? I put on my "About Me": "I don't drink." On the rare occasion that some girl suggests we meet for drinks, it's easy enough to say "Oh, you're one of those who doesn't read profiles." Occasionally some girl will as…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 04:20 PM
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I've recently went out with two chicks that i didn't know well, Rad so i have this bar near my house, which is pretty decent, small and cool for having a cool convo's. Neato. So i took 2 different girls, within 1 week there. As you should, it's convenient. This waitress was smirking when she saw me the second time, I'll bet she was. with a different chick after like 2-3 days. She knows what's up! Oh shit! You've been made! By the waitress! :) This make me feels little uncomfortable Why? while be…
/r/askTRP05/12/18 07:12 AM
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Have a LTR- dating for about 4 months seriously now. Cool. Trying to move past the plates phase of my life and think about starting a family. Fair enough. Stopped through LTR’s phone This tells me that there were already red flags. You haven't told us about them; but there are definitely red flags, whether they're covert or overt red flags doesn't matter. You snooped her phone because you already don't trust her. Clearly this is not healthy. and saw she texts ex plates of her own, saying things …
/r/askTRP05/12/18 06:00 AM
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My girlfriend got herpes type 1 a day after she sucked my dick. No. She didn't get it a day after she sucked your dick. She simply had a breakout a day after she sucked your dick. There's a difference. I asked her how, How could she know how? She could have gotten it two years ago. and she said she had visited a doctor and he said it was because of too much stress and anxiety. The doctor is right; he said she had a breakout because of too much stress and anxiety. ( I have checked before and I wa…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 08:10 PM
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I'm glad you gave up on that drug, man.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:07 AM
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So this may be an odd question but since I am a bit of a gamer even after swallowing The Red Pill, Then you're choking on the Red Pill. and I have been wondering why many people call gamers “soy boys”. Because gamers would rather sit on their asses playing video games than go out and get an actual hobby, or skill, or pussy, or literally anything else. People who call themselves gamers, as far as I can tell, have no life. When a game comes out that needs to initially be tested by a small group, i…
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:03 AM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP04/12/18 01:00 AM
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I bought it, I read it. It's a good book on PUA technique. But honestly, if you have a solid foundation already, then this book will not help you that much. Roosh V is a very intelligent writer, exceptionally analytical. "Game" is definitely a book for beginners. He, of course, emphasizes approaching, maximizing on your looks, rambling in conversation, etc. I'd recommend it.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 04:37 PM
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"I don't want to bring someone around who isn't my boyfriend around my family." This was when I asked her "would you be mad if I went out on a date with someone tomorrow?" and she said "hell yes..." From the sounds of it, she wants you to be her boyfriend, and is hinting at it. I'm not sure where you got the "She doesn't a relationship" part from? Nothing in the scenario you provided pointed to that; except for her saying she wouldn't want to bring someone around who isn't her boyfriend. Unless …
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:44 PM
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You shouldn't be going out with them. If they're ugly and fat, and you're that insanely horny, they will accept you coming over at midnight to give them a dick down, and leave. All they see is this guy who is WAY above their SMV (and they fucking know it) who is offering to give them some attention.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 12:44 AM
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You are significantly overthinking how much girls give a fuck about dick size. Are there size queens who will next you for a giant dick? Of course there are. But they are few and far between. Fact is, most girls you talk to would PREFER an average size dick. I can't tell you how many girls I've talked to about this, having a genuine conversation about the importance of dick size. By and large, the narrative is the following: Too small is bad, but occasionally it's perfect because the guy can use…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 10:39 PM
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I was in a similar situation a few years ago. My FWB told me about my friend, how they had been talking, etc. My friend didn't hide anything from me, it was out in the open. My friend is a great dude. My fwb brought it up while we were sitting in a drive thru "Would you care if I hung out with with your friend." I told my fwb: "I don't care what you do. I don't make your choices. BUT, if you fuck my friend, then I'll never be interested in sex with you again." Of course this lead to a further di…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 05:57 PM
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Have you bothered to ask her why it makes her uncomfortable? Something isn't adding up here.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 05:36 PM
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This is not entirely true. Yes, you have the baseline of age of consent correct, but you forgot to account for specific state laws that allow for consent when both parties are under a certain age, or close in age. These are called "Close-in-Age Exemptions." Every state has different standards. But just as an example: Some states would have a blanket age of consent of 18, but a Close-in-Age of consent of 3 years. So if you were 18, and she was 15, it would be legal, but if she were 14 it would be…
/r/askTRP30/11/18 03:06 PM
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“sorry to hear that. We can make it happen later when you’re feeling better.” Better response would have been something to the effect of "Oh, crazy, get to feeling better bud." My favorite parable: A woman is walking in the snowy woods. She comes across a snake, frozen, sick. She brings it home and nurses it back to health. One day, the snake bites her. And as she lay dying, she asks the snake "Why would you do this to me?" The snake says "Look Bitch, you knew I was a snake." If this girl is tel…
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:20 PM
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For PUA type stuff, check out Roosh V for a more red pilled perspective on game, as well as also teaching some of the best game. I just read his new book "Game" and it's solid as hell. Also check out Models by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 11:16 PM
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"Okay perfect! :)." Don't respond to her "Why perfect?" Soft next.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:28 PM
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It's almost always a game. If you ask any platonic female friends so you can get the real scoop, you'll find that they are given this dating advice, and a lot adhere to it. Also, 99.9% of females who claim "I hardly ever check my phone" are lying. It's 2018. They are glued to their phones just like we are. I think the "plans changed, sorry" response is appropriate. Weeds out the bad catches, shows them abundance mentality, gets their hamster spinning, and makes them doubt their bullshit child's …
/r/askTRP29/11/18 06:03 PM
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I understand. No problem man, English is your second language: I retract my attack on your grammar. You're doing it right by not caring what you say, that's the way to be. As long as it's not illegal to have sex with her, then go ahead and do it. If you don't, someone else will. Quit having feelings for her. You haven't even had sex with her.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:26 PM
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Been talking to this freshman girl Rad. and shes been flirting with me hard AF Good deal. since i took the redpill i flirted with her very hard and said fucked up things and all kinds of things because i was experiencing on her You need to learn to punctuate. What do you mean "experiencing on her"? ​ but i have slowly taking the blue pill because im getting feelings for her ... You're getting feelings for a girl you haven't even fucked. You lack abundance mentality. btw we havent met up because …
/r/askTRP28/11/18 06:19 PM
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It'd be cooler if you knew how to spell "Appreciate."
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:56 PM
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So did I. Refer to other comment.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:53 PM
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I spent so much time fixing your garbage writing, I finally figured out what your story was about, and decided not to answer it. Learn how to fucking write, dude. Jesus Christ. Questions about shit tests. So I’m standing outside of the building with my delivery bag waiting for the customer to come down and get her food. and these two old white women (one who was kinda banagble) walk by and go “I like your purse it matches your shoes” (bag is red shoes are white) “ I go thanks it was expensive co…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:51 PM
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So poorly written and so hard to follow; I quit reading. Good luck with whatever your question was.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 05:35 PM
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Hand an Incel a gun, say "Now Incel, don't shoot yourself in the foot, okay?" Incel shoots himself in the foot. "Ow that hurted!" says the Incel. "But Incel, I told you not to shoot yourself in the foot. Now you're going to limp" The Incel says "But only Marksmen can shoot guns" "No, all you have to do is not shoot yourself in the foot, like you were told, with clear instructions." Incel shoots himself in his other foot. "...Why did you shoot yourself in the other foot, Incel?" "Because only Mar…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 03:11 AM
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No shit. OP has been conditioned by porn.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:07 PM
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Girls cant help what their pussies look like. Quit watching porn. It's fucked up your expectations. I personally love huge pussy lips. Otherwise hot chick? "Roast Beef" pussy is just another pussy. There's all kinds.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 10:07 PM
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That's awesome. Listen to your doctor.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:10 PM
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If it's good enough for my dick, it's good enough for my mouth. Yes, I go down on one night stands. Not everyone agrees. Me, personally (just me), I get off on giving oral to a girl. I crave it. I love it. It's mouth watering. Not everyone feels the same. Do what you want, man. Nothing says you have to eat her out.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:08 PM
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I think your Psychiatrist is significantly more qualified than any of us here, so you should listen to him. I'm glad he recognizes the positives that TRP has done for you. Listen to your Doctor. Get off TRP for a while.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:06 PM
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Best decision I made for the direction of my life. Definitely not for everyone.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:00 AM
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Please help Based off of your post, I don't think anyone here can help you. You know exactly what the problems are, and are unwilling to make a lasting change. Who here could say anything you don't already know? You clearly identified what you need to do, but your complaint is essentially: 'I'm lazy' No external force is going to help you. You simply don't want to change. If you did want to change, you would be doing what you need to do; instead of sitting on your ass smoking marijuana and playi…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 12:31 AM
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I understand where you're coming from, but I have to say, this is garbage. I have a vasectomy, and it has been nothing but a giant billboard advertisement saying "fuck me consequence free." I have absolutely been nexted because of my vasectomy; I won't act like I haven't. However- big however - the amount of girls who's eyes literally light up when they hear I have a vasectomy, it's ridiculous. I can't tell you how many times I've slipped "I have a vasectomy" into a conversation and noticed an i…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 11:05 PM
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The failure rate for a vasectomy is more like 0.15% The most common cause of vasectomy "failure" is people relying on them too early; thinking they are sterile after 2 months, when really they still have active sperm.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 10:25 PM
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Exactly!
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:41 PM
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You clearly run pretty tight game. I try to get a hand in her pants and she tells me she's on her period. Not sure if this was a shit test or not, but I complied. I pulled out my cock and put her hand on it and she stroked it. She didn't finish or anything but still. Solid enough. Personally, when they tell me they're on their period, I'll usually do essentially what you did; suck on their tits, etc, except I'll grab their crotch (over the jeans, shorts, whatever), and rub it very hard, where he…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:30 PM
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Although it was a nice chat she basically said she had a boyfriend but it was nice of me to come and see her. Just something to make concrete in your mind: THIS is the face of a solid rejection. You are understandably nervous from approach anxiety, and it WILL lighten up. Really take in the fact that this is exactly how 99% of rejections go. Fear of rejection (which causes approach anxiety) becomes absolutely baseless once you see the face of how most rejections go. Girls are almost unanimously …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 09:17 PM
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"you're not cute enough to be my dog" That is just insulting. You responded with your hotel address, she came anyway. So it was the correct response.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:13 PM
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Yeah, it's ridiculously dramatic... Over a dancing video. Go into IDGAF mode. Don't give her drama any thought, or acknowledgement whatsoever. If she makes an accusation, don't explain yourself. Just ask another question. She will answer the question. Ask another question, and another, and another. The only response you should give to her answers is "I see."
/r/askTRP26/11/18 08:06 PM
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This woman defined our relationship by being "exclusive" by stating we're still getting to know each other after a little of a month of dating. Don't put all the blame on her. You followed along. We're having sex, going on weekend trips, she's coming by my apartment, we're introducing to each other to our friends, etc. Sounds good. We're pretty much 'acting' like boyfriend and girlfriend, but she wants us to be "exclusive" meaning we don't see anyone else. Again, don't put all the blame on her, …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 07:53 PM
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Woman = Human Locations of Humans: Everywhere. They frequent the following locations: Grocery Store, Mall, Convenience Store, Clothing Store, Sidewalks, Bar, Club, Festivals, Carnivals, Concerts.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:53 PM
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I've known this girl for 5 years, and we became really good friends back when I was a real beta, Understandable. But you're kinda talking like a bit of a little beta girl right now, to be quite honest. but know I've gotten a big oneitis on her. Clearly. I'm gonna try to keep this short. Thank you. I want to fuck he and I feel fucking pathetic about it, Don't feel pathetic about wanting to fuck someone. It's normal. I think about her all day This is the pathetic part. and everytime we spend time …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:19 PM
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Reading books, approaching girls, working out, school, working, meeting people, finding your path Reorganized your very correct list for order of importance: School, Working, Finding Your Path, Reading Books, Working Out, Approaching Girls, Meeting People
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:11 PM
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OP, listen to what this bad mother fucker has to say. Do you want to be the pussy that was afraid to talk to her, or the bad ass that took his shot? She may reject you. And if she does; who give a flying fuck? Also, to answer your question: Yes, that could easily be taken as an IOI. But at the same time, it's hard to tell without more info. Give it a shot!
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:57 PM
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You should tailor "lines" for you, your personality, your vibe, etc. If you come up with some pocketed lines that fit you for certain situations, then great; but don't copy other people's lines that are tailored for them. My older brother has a very Tucker Max type vibe to him. As soon as you hear his voice, you just get that "this guy goes to jail a lot" vibe from him. He's fun, super outlandish, etc. I've seen him walk up to girls and say "Damn girl! Do you shit with that ass?!" and get the be…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 03:29 PM
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Assume all you want, bud. That's literally all you're doing: Assuming.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:58 AM
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Why woukd you add her on Facebook? I accepted her friend request. I didn't seek her out. I could give a fuck less. This is the part I don't get. Why? Refer to previous statement. You already know she's a piece of shit. As I stated/ Shes already disrespected you. Yes. My question is where do you draw the line? Did you see where I said "I added her so I could hopefully get in her pants"? No? Then there's your answer. Does she have to literally spit in your face for you to cut her off completely? I…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:57 AM
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Oh yeah, that girl is a real scumbag. With girls like that, I tend to leave an open door for making them feel like the ugly bitch they are. In your situation, I was trying to think of ways to leave the door open to flake on her. One Good Turn Deserves Another.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:01 AM
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What a piece of shit. -- Met this girl, agree to a coffee date (my usual), I said "let's do 3pm." She says she can't because she's doing a photo shoot, and 5pm would work better. "Okay cool, see you at 5, Starbucks". "Okay perfect!" Go to Starbucks, she's not there. Order my coffee, wait about three minutes, leave. 7pm rolls around, she messages me "Omg So sorry! I fell asleep, I JUST WOKE UP" I didn't respond. Go to snapchat, her snapchat story is filled with her getting hammered at some bar (a…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:52 AM
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No, it's not gone. Most girls are willing to give another chance, or multiple chances, if they're really into you. But their interest definitely depends on their attraction to you. Always escalate man. Even if she rejects you, she will respect you for being a man and escalating. Don't fear rejection. Definitely pay closer attention for those IOIs, though.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:25 PM
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It definitely made it easier, yes. But it has more to do with the whole package. If you lack in one area, make up for it in another, or multiple other areas. SMV is not just Money and Physique. SMV is a total of a HUGE list of factors. Lack in one? Make up in another. But yes, being social and outgoing is huge. If you don't have it; it can be learned.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:46 PM
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Too big of a laundry list. Lifting. Getting a good hair style. Wearing the proper clothes. Actively having conversations with strangers; everyone! Having no outcome dependence when talking to girls. Going to random parties. Focusing on myself. Cold approaching any girl I think is cute (again; no outcome dependence), going into IDGAF (I dont give a fuck) mode 100% of the time. Treating everyone the same. Making it known that I'm very sexual. Abandoning any girl who doesn't reciprocate sexually. H…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:27 PM
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I'm not underplaying my looks. I simply said I'm not jacked like an athlete. Do I look good? Yes. With WORK, I look good. Tattoos, good sunglasses, good style, good hair style, etc. I am NOT underplaying my income level. I am very - very - middle class. I'm pulling it off by working on it, working on myself, actively making an effort into myself.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:16 PM
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Again; this is a defeatist mindset. I'm telling you, for absolute fact, 100% guaranteed: If you work on yourself, and even MARGINALLY surpass 90% of men in their 30s; you will literally roll in so much pussy, you will be TURNING IT AWAY. Dude. For my 30th fucking birthday, I had a threesome with an 18 and 19 year old. One 7/10 with giant firm tits, and the other rail thin and fucking gorgeous 9.5/10. I'm not rich. I'm not jacked. I DO look good, but most importantly; I have life experience, I ta…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:12 PM
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All of those! Plus just the appearance of maturity. Even guys who don't have their life and career together; their age appears to make them mature to the younger girls. You can't help but be more well spoken, easier to talk to, the older you get; and that causes wet pussies. Plain and simple.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:05 PM
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u/ContinuousRegret3 is of a defeatist mindset, and is grasping onto it for dear life. No helping him; it's written all over his responses.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:02 PM
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Dude, 100% correct! Couldn't agree more! Any man on here over 30 who has his shit even slightly together will back up this fact. Including me! Turning 30 was the best thing that ever happened to me. It literally boggles my mind.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:01 PM
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I don't make 100k a year. My physique is not comparable to a professional athlete. I'm not going to spoon feed you facts to prove how wrong you are. You obviously have made your mind up already, and want to argue from your defeatist mindset. So, keep your mindset, and continue to live in Continuous Regret over the past.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 09:00 PM
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100% True! I understand where you're supposition lies, but I am telling you, for absolute fact: Since I turned 30, I've been regularly fucking girls anywhere from 18 to 45 years old. It doesn't just rise with comparison for women your age, it rises across the board.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:58 PM
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A) False and B) False
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:51 PM
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I did. Until I realized that SMV skyrockets after 30. Any guy with even half decent game, with half decent good looks, who lifts, who's in his 30s; it's ridiculous the amount of casual sex that is rampantly available at the drop of a hat. Don't worry about it. If you haven't hit 30 yet, you aren't even in your sexual prime. It's mind boggling.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:48 PM
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Ill just politely respond. No worries its been a pleasure. Yes Give me a call if guys arent able to work it out. NO! This translates to: Um okay so like um I have really low value so I don't mind taking the scraps. PLEASE CONSIDER ME SOMEDAY!!!!! ​
/r/askTRP25/11/18 08:19 PM
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The One Party/Two Party consent wouldn't matter. Don't believe me? It's cool man. Go to a Lawyer, put $50 on his desk, and ask him to run you through the scenarios. Second, don't worry about her economic status. You would be way more likely to have a girl try to trap you into getting her pregnant, if she were looking to shortcut her way to the top.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:07 PM
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Amazon: The Rational Male
/r/askTRP25/11/18 06:03 PM
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"Oh okay"
/r/askTRP25/11/18 05:57 PM
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Have you been cold approaching?
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:49 PM
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So I consider myself to be knowledgeable in how to handle LTRs, shit-tests, .etc but lately I've been scratching my head. That makes sense, considering what you're about to say. LTR of 10 months has suddenly increased her SMV. She always had the " model look" Hawt! and recently decided to get into modeling on Instagram. Ugh. She now has big photographers messaging her constantly for free photo-shoots, she has been getting free paid trips to tropical paradises to work with companies, runway shows…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:27 PM
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https://web.archive.org/web/20170106134346/http://www.redpilldoctor.com/skeptical-trp-theory-try-ex-gf-step-step-guide-chad/
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:15 PM
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Depends on the state you live in; one party or two party consent state. Furthermore, if you had an audio recording, it would never make it to court in the first place. When you are questioned by investigators (with a lawyer present), the audio recording would be made known, and the District Attorney would have no choice but to throw the charges out. Even if the prosecutor were stupid enough to proceed, the recording would absolutely make it to the evidentiary hearing, and the judge would most li…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:38 PM
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Set your phone to audio record as soon as she shows up, set it on your night stand, turn it off when she leaves. Have fun.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:05 AM
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Sorry to hear that man, that's fucking nuts. No, I don't record on approaches. I set the phone to record during coffee dates (the main date I go on), and then again when I know we're going to fuck. Just set it to record and put it on my/her night stand, and don't turn it off until I/she leave(s).
/r/askTRP25/11/18 03:10 AM
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I'm very curious about the details of the claim, man. Sorry this happened to you. I always set my phone to audio record on a first encounter with a girl. Hours and Hours and Hours of interactions. All labeled with the girl's name.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:56 AM
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What u/deadsansushi2 said; don't lie, it's not worth it. You will only end up being seen as a scummer. Short answer: Yes, some girls will consciously, even verbally agree to being FWB.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:28 AM
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I don't know how good invisalign is either. All I know is: Good teeth is a must. I should expand on what I said about your appearance. You should know that you're definitely not ugly (truly, you're not), but you do have some appearance issues at the moment. Ugly would be someone who has no potential, and is essentially doomed into forever unfortunate looks. Anyone who looks at your pictures can easily see that you COULD look really good, if you changed the things I mentioned. You're definitely r…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:50 PM
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The lack of IOIs is a direct result of both your approach, and your appearance. I can absolutely 100% assure you that if you do what I said, you will begin to notice a gradual increase in IOIs. Wardrobe changes are of course always good. But that's the easy part. The hard part is getting your ass in the gym, not eating as much, eating clean, and putting in some actual difficult work. Fortunately for you, you're not hugely obese; so the amount of time it will take you to get totally in shape will…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:34 PM
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I think you need to take a step back. Right now you're focused on gaming girls, but I don't think that's what you need to be doing right now. You have some issues to work though. I'm just going to point this out immediately: You LOOK like a creep. And I don't mean that to try and drag you down, I really don't; it's just the vibe your pictures give off. The closed mouth smile, those god awful sunglasses, the facial hair you shouldn't be growing (because it doesn't come in right), in some pictures…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:18 PM
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Not a shit test. Not everything is a game. Sometimes they just want to know if you want to meet them there, or if you want to come pick them up.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:30 PM
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...Mid December? Personally, I would say not worth it. Not even slightly. I would just ghost.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:31 PM
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I personally think long distance simply cannot work under most circumstances. MAYBE it can for you. We can't really help you there. But, fact is, most commonly it doesn't work out, for *insert multitude of reasons* I would probably not dump her though. And here's why: She is doing the right thing by going to Stanford. That's a huge opportunity for her, and she would be dumb to pass it up. The problem I see with dumping her, is she may forego going to business school just to stay with you; to pro…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 07:27 PM
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You handled it perfectly. 100% by the book. Yes, it was a shit test. Yes, you passed it, twice over actually. Telling her to set you up with a foursome was by far the best. Her hamster may spin: "Was he serious? Does he think my friends are hotter than me? Am I not enough for him? Or was a it a joke? Please tell me it was a joke!" Good job.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 06:30 PM
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Abercrombie is actually very good quality, they make very durable jeans, if you pick the right ones. American Eagle has really good quality too. Those two brands are my go-to for most of my wardrobe. Express makes nicer clothes, a little more dressy, and are worth the price as far as their fashion sense goes. But I wouldn't call them durable. Lucky jeans are expensive, and poorly made in my opinion.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 03:11 PM
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Hey man. I understand where you're coming from. If your mind naturally fills with women; you just can't help it. I'm the same. I love women. Even with the Red Pill, and being aware of their often shitty nature, I still love them. They can't help their nature. For me, it helps if for every good thing about her, I think of something supremely negative. If you back off from your positive feelings about these girls, and try to analyze with no bias, you will see the negatives clear as day. Just try t…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 02:20 PM
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There was a Vice article about this. This woman, feminist, said how she was talking to this dude, and he said something to the effect of "women like being controlled." She said she argued with him, and she essentially just wanted to spit at him for his words. But then she said, in the article, that she couldn't help herself: she was "wet as an otter." The next day she ended up getting fucked.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:55 PM
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An example of your typical interaction would help. But, honestly, anything I say doesn't compare to the three books I suggested you check out. Those book are gold.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 01:27 AM
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It is nearly impossible to tell what the problem is based off of what information you gave. Really you need to give us more examples for context, and we may begin to help. BUT, that would take a long time. Check out the following books: Models by Mark Manson Bang by Roosh V The Layguide by Tony Cliff
/r/askTRP24/11/18 12:40 AM
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So my girl friend wants to set me up with her hot friend. Good job on your frame there bud. Young alpha male in training. Good job! Seriously, I mean that. Keeping girls that are friends, letting them hook you up. Keep it up. They talked and that chick says how I'm hot and basically wants dick. Again, good job. Keep it up. But her brother is the same grade as me(don't have classes). So? He's on some real shit Awe yeah dawg. On some REEL SHEET. Ugh. Correct your speech. We don't know what "on som…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 11:51 PM
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Absolutely man! Glad I could help! Check out the following books: The Rational Male (Red Pill reading) Bang by Roosh V Day Bang by Roosh V Models by Mark Manson The Layguide by Tony Cliff
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:57 PM
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Hey guys, recent Redpiller here. Looking for some advice. Here’s the situation: I can tell you're recent, based on everything you said. 0.) 27yo, former bluepiller, looking to plate and potentially LTR. Okay. 1.) New HB7-8 starts at workplace. Don't shit where you eat. Read the side bar. There was some looks but we never really talked. She sent out a mass email offering cheap tickets to the entire office for a local show (she says her boyfriend is the opener). Okay. 2.) I hit her up about the ti…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 08:26 PM
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Let me repeat, in case you didn't read the first time: Eat... A.... Dick.... Faggot.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:53 PM
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Advertisement. Look at post history. u/swiet ; Eat a dick, Faggot.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:48 PM
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No, not some imperative. They simply want to see their son/brother be a chivalrous man. It's not an agenda, so much as it is a fantasy of Prince Charming who tells them to go fuck themselves while at the same time rescuing them on his big white horse.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 06:20 PM
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I feel your pain man. Most of us have been there. I want to expand on what u/awakenedsovereign said: #3: Approach new women & apply game This is what helped me the most. When I was married for 8 years (totally "perfect" marriage, storybook), same shit; she had an affair, etc, etc. I don't want to go into it. I was devastated. Truly fucked in the head from that situation. But the ONE silver lining I had was the hope that NOW I can go out and play with the girls. Threesomes. Group sex. Ass Fucking…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:44 PM
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I think honesty is the best policy with everyone you encounter. Plates are nothing special; why lie to them that you're sleeping with other girls? I understand your conundrum, but I think this could have been previously mitigated by being honest with both of them (i.e.: Yes I fuck other girls). The flip side of your story: I had a party one time that two of my plates were attending. The difference was that I told both of them that each other was going to be there, just so there wasn't any surpri…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:33 PM
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I want to ask you guys your opinion on this. I recently was fucking a hb9 planning an ltr and it went tits up when she met another guy. Unfortunately common. Straight after I started talking to a maybe 4/10 but she is very nice personality wise. She has to be! Do you guys think its worth dating her? If you can handle the fact that she's below average, yes. Has anyone who is quite successful been in an ltr with someone who frankly isnt? Me personally: No. I'm a very vain person, and only want to …
/r/askTRP23/11/18 05:24 PM
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Way to open ended to answer. Be more specific. Also read the side bar.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:50 PM
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Men are problem solvers; we tend to try to solve everyone's problems when they cry/complain about things. When dealing with a female, this is not the correct answer. If she is crying/complaining about something, and it's coming from a place of pain/emotion, just listen, say "I understand," and ask prodding questions. Never offer solutions, never tell them what to focus on. Just listen, and ask questions. Only give your solution/opinion when they say "what should I do?" etc. On the other hand, if…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:46 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:15 PM
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When cumming I usually make it a point to literally Roar. Most guys are fairly silent when they cum. Giving out a loud scream and "roar" is something a lot of girls haven't experienced; they eat that shit up, increases them wanting to come back for more. Afterward, it's natural for men to disconnect completely. I usually go into full blown passionate makeout session/hair smelling/facial petting etc, which is something a lot of girls don't experience; another thing where they just eat that shit u…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:12 PM
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Yes, it's a green flag. Threesomes are great. I'm a huge fan. They're some of the best sex I've ever had. Fucking mind blowing, at times. BUT, the type of girl who gets into a threesome with you is usually not LTR material, in my experience. So yeah, glad your new LTR is saying no to a threesome. Definitely a green flag; it's a green flag on some basic traditional values. Don't ever think differently.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:23 PM
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get the women I deserve and then I’m an only child These two things go hand in hand. Like u/thiago6tward said, you don't deserve shit. Anyway. Literally the only thing you said is "people say I'm awkward," but you give absolutely no situational context whatsoever. Essentially your entire post is just filler, and gives no more insight. How are you "awkward," what social example of "awkwardness" can you provide? Have you asked your friends "how am I awkward?" Define "awkward." There's a million th…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:16 PM
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Disgusting story. I'm curious though, What was your reaction in the social group? What did you say/do?
/r/askTRP23/11/18 03:01 PM
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Fuck an A Straight Man!! Glad it worked out!
/r/askTRP23/11/18 04:32 AM
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This! Abide by what this man says. Your initial approach was pretty ballsy, and solid as hell really. Glad that approach worked for you. That's great man! However... She hit me up a few days later we chatted and today she said “im near x” I said for how long she said “why” I said so we can see each other’s naked body’s. This was cringe-town for her. She likely hit you up hoping to move a little further, past just being used for sex. Sex was definitely on the table. But sticking to the same mantr…
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:15 AM
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I don't see it as a red flag. What I DO see as a red flag is no interest, hobbies, etc. If she has no friends, then where is her mind's energy spent? It should be on reading, hobbies, interests, something to keep her mind occupied. No hobbies and interests is just very odd. The no friends I can understand; some people are just introverts, and don't like having groups of friends. No biggie, really.
/r/askTRP23/11/18 12:11 AM
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All fair enough, Except for one thing: her lying was not your fault. This line of thinking comes from the myth of the Female Mystique. Puke up that blue pill, brother man. Clingy or not, being lied to is the #1 red flag you should pay attention for with any girl. I'm not going to sit here and act like I'm perfect; I've entered into an LTR with a girl who lied her ass off (and I knew it) about any and every stupid thing. But, it's a learning experience, man. In the future, next or plate any girl …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:41 PM
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First of all, new in this sub. So bear with me, please. Fair enough. Thank you for the warning. Because you're likely to get lambasted, based on everything you're about to say... So I and this girl were FWB for a few months. Cool... I really liked her and could see future with her. I understand that. Except for all these red flags I'm about to point out. I asked her to be my GF a couple of months ago. Solid. Things were good, other than I felt like she is lying to me about some minor stuff like …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 11:01 PM
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Give a more specific example. This question is asked a lot here. My general go to: Escalate, making out, hands all over the body, start sucking tits, move to touch her pussy, etc. As soon as resistance hits (if it hits), back up one step without saying anything, go back to the exact previous thing (ie: if she resists touching her pussy, go back to sucking her tits). Kiss down her stomach, go back to touching her pussy. Keep doing this. LMR usually means "I'm not hot enough yet." If that doesn't …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 10:07 PM
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You can keep it simple, but you have to remember: Eating a lot (Bulking) makes you gain more muscle and more fat Eating a little (cutting) makes you lose fat and some muscle. Just lifting and eating healthy will hold you back. You need to either Eat a Lot, or Eat a Little; depending on your goals. Protein should always be kept high. Adjust everything else depending on whether you are Bulking, or Cutting.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:47 PM
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90% is pushing it, but yes HSV-1 and HSV-2 are prevalent. It's not even worth worrying about. Keep your reading away from news articles and scare websites, and don't use medical websites are reference; they are biased in that their job is to deal with it. Check out CDC statistics, as well as your state's health and human services statistics. Take those statistics, and apply them to your local population, work it out as a percentage (race is the only percentage you'll be able to work off of for t…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:45 PM
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Pretty long post, I'll keep this short: You should read up on STIs and STDs, from the basis of statistics, statistics in your state, statistics in your region. Be sure to filter out with Race, Drug Use, and Sexual Preference. You'll quickly realize that most of the scary STDs are, for the most part, overblown by mainstream media, and your indoctrination in school. Not saying raw sex is safe; it's clearly not, but it's not as "dangerous" as you have been lead to believe. Still, wear a condom, it'…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:27 PM
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I've never heard that before. Is that true?
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:36 PM
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You're not the only one! You're simply nervous, that's all. Just thank god or whoever that your nervousness doesn't translate into a limp dick like it does for some! That's really what it boils down to: You're simply nervous. If you relax more, you'll cum on a dime. It happens. Try some pleasure exercises; focus on touch, how good it feels, the moment, etc. Don't focus on her or her pleasure (likely what you're doing), simply focus on the moment, and don't think about it so much. The more you th…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:15 PM
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Everyone who's done a bit of swiping on Tinder & Co. Tinder & Co! Hah! As a Jeweler, I'm in love with this. Literally laughing hysterically. knows those girls who are most likely only on dating apps for validation through match counts Absofuckinlutely right. and seem like they couldn't hold a decent conversation if their life depended upon. You are correct Replies like "lol 😂😂" and "haha yes". Yep! Until now I've dismissed such girls as time-wasters And you've dismissed correctly! and attention …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 08:10 PM
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Unnecessary. The young lady asked a genuine question in regards to her sexual market value. I've seen your post history; you're normally very helpful to people.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:55 PM
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It's genuinely difficult to say. Quite honestly: You could either be way too average looking, or "unapproachably sexy". The girls in the middle tend to get approached the most. My ex is a 10/10 on anyone's scale, blonde, skinny, model. You said that other girls tell you you're pretty; I've seen this exact thing with my ex. She is a bombshell and every girl's jealous dream. My ex never gets approached; ever. Guys are afraid of her, she's literally "unapproachably sexy;" very intimidating for lots…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:50 PM
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First, let me give you a quick story: I was at PetsMart a few years ago. Checking out, there was this SUPER CUTE redhead girl working the register. She was smoking hot, 9/10. She's scanning my fish food, she asked why I picked that fish food (blood worms), we start talking about tattoos. She shows me her wrist, I held her hand turning her arm looking at her arm tattoos. She's touching my arm turning mine to look at mine as well. Easy IOIs. Lots of smiles, instant chemistry. Some customer started…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:42 PM
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Likely a shit test, in that case. She's likely trying to get you jealous in hopes that you'll make it official with her. Also, you have a touch of the Oneitis. Simply keep doing what you're doing; ignore her talking about the other dude. You're doing basically everything right; nothing you have done is overtly wrong. But I truly think you need some more female abundance in your life, from the sounds of it.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:25 PM
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So I’ve met this girl recently, Neat. she’s in my class at uni. Cool. We’ve spent a lot of time together Have you fucked her though? and she treats it like a relationship, Have you fucked her? always nagging me about not replying to her or not talking to her enough, making me dinner etc... Great, have you fucked her? I’ve kept it casual and just ignored most of it. Good move. Have you fucked her though? I do actually like her Have you fucked her? but don’t want to seem too eager or beta. If you …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:10 PM
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It can work, yes. It depends on your approach, and your delivery, entirely. The one great thing about giving a girl your number is that it weeds out the ones who are semi-interested vs totally interested. If you get a girl's number, she is either Semi Interested or Totally Interested. If all you want is Totally Interested (they are few), then yes give them a card. But if you want to raise your potential numbers: Get their number and game the semi interested and totally interested. You're not the…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 07:04 PM
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Jesus you are overthinking this way too much. It is only a way to diffuse a potential situation, while at the same time maximizing on approaches! Approach all the girls! All of them! Sometimes they have boyfriends. And when they do, my essential methodology is to diffuse a potential bad situation by showing the man that I am not a threat, that I think his girl is gorgeous, and that I'm going to move on to other prospects. Congratulations on your wedding? What the hell? All it is, literally, is N…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:31 PM
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If you say so. It's a fool proof method.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:13 PM
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It happens man! Here's what I do: If her boyfriend comes up and it becomes apparent that it IS her boyfriend, I'll turn to him and say (with a smile) "Hey man! I was hitting on your girl, I didn't know she had a boyfriend, you're a lucky guy, she's VERY attractive!" Shake his hand, "truly didn't mean any disrespect bro! Y'all are a good looking couple!" 99.9% of men could care less as long as you show them respect. Men operate from LOGIC. His logical brain will say the following: "He didn't know…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 06:03 PM
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Should I just go ahead and give up? You initially asked this question, and you were given a correct answer. THEN, you proceed to argue with the answer. We are not willing to help you. I didn’t say that. At this point, I don't care what you said. All I’m saying is that it’s too late. And you are wrong. Guys my age have had ten plus years to learn how to game women and shit. I don't care. I haven’t, therefore I can’t compare to them. Certainly not at this moment. And if I start now I’ll be 34 befo…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:58 PM
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Doesn't matter. The universe is against you. The fundamentals are only allowed for those who are dealt those cards, like you said. Read my other comment.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:48 PM
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Yep, it's the universe, luck of the draw. Nothing you can do about it. Nothing can be learned. You're shit out of luck, forever.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:47 PM
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You're right. May as well just give up. There's no helping you. It's too late for you anyway. Skills cannot be learned. Sorry we couldn't help you.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:42 PM
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This statement only goes to show how your fundamental understanding of women is completely wrong. You need to reprogram your mind to understand the fundamentals. Is it too late? No. Do you have a hard road? Yes.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:39 PM
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I care. You care about the wrong things then. And yea 24 is way too old to start from scratch Incorrect. especially when dudes ten years younger than me already have more experience than me. My son is 14 (10 years younger than you). And yes, he likely has more experience than you. Why? Because he's been practicing being a bad ass fuck since he could talk. Nothing says you can't start late. If you lack in certain areas; pick up the tools you need, and start building. ​
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:38 PM
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This is significantly more common than you think. First and foremost, do this: Quit freaking out. Second. You need to deeply analyze what the hell is going on. Likely you were VERY comfortable with your ex, so you could get hard on a time. This new girl, she turns you on a lot, and she makes you nervous. Getting too turned on can lead to cumming within 3 minutes. It happens man, lots of excitement, no big deal. In time, you will get over that completely, trust me. Not getting as hard after; it's…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:34 PM
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You need to provide more info. But the short answer is: Really behind guys my age when it comes to experience with women Who cares and I’m way too old to start from scratch. You're wrong Should I just go ahead and give up? And no. ​
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:26 PM
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Long story short- she plays tons of games. Then quit fucking around with her. At first I played into them. Not this time. Good deal. Yesterday morning I told her to come to my place that night, she thought about it then that night said she made other plans sorry. Bitch move on her part. Act accordingly. I ignored her, Good. and got an Im so sorry text and she tried to facetime me, I said an hr later I was busy. I then got around 10 texts of her just being fucking crazy and asking if im still bus…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:46 PM
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Jesus that was a complicated exchange... I think reschedule.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:41 PM
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Check out the youtube channel Charisma on Command
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:51 PM
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Doesn't negatively effect me. Both my arms are sleeved, arm pits are tattooed, stomach is covered, back is covered, tattoos on my legs, and more to come.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:37 PM
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I haven't smoked pot in 12 years. I'm sure I'll smoke again at some point. Yes, I felt a huge difference when I quit smoking weed. Now I just don't think about it, not even slightly.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:52 PM
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Yeah that's one of my favorites too. Especially considering that marijuana is often smoked. I don't expect the average pothead to have ever taken a basic Organic Chemistry class; but suffice to say that combustion of ANY plant material is going to be exceptionally carcinogenic. Tobacco or not; marijuana is carcinogenic. But like I said, I don't expect any pothead who sings the medical praises of marijuana to have ever taken an interest in reality.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:00 AM
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Hairstylists tends to have relationship problems and cluster b personality disorders I agree with you completely. I think it has to do with the typical lazy, low quality of person it takes to go to cosmetology school. It's a shitty course, cheap, very trashy. The types of girls that are hairstylists are not very high quality women at all; personality wise. ​
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:51 AM
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They're also all obese! Eek.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:49 AM
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What u/tension1234 said. It's obvious that she chose some other dude over you, that dude cancelled, and now she wants to go back to you; her second choice. Do what you want, but me personally, I would probably hard next. But that's just me, my own personal preference, you do what you want. Either let her come over, if you don't give a shit. Or, soft next, be nice, whatever. Or hard next, straight up tell her "I'm no longer interested. Take care, ma'am" Entirely up to you.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:48 AM
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I think a lot of times people try to act like marijuana is some miracle drug, when it is clearly not. I've only met a handful of successful potheads. I'm not saying they don't exist; I've met millionaires that smoke pot daily. BUT, big but, I have met 100 times that amount of potheads who are the biggest fucking losers imaginable. I don't have anything against weed in particular; I just think it's often a crutch for people. They try to jerk themselves off by saying "it's medicine!". Yeah, sure. …
/r/askTRP22/11/18 04:45 AM
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Definitely overthinking this. Accept, send her a first message. "Coffee, XX Time, see ya then" Done. EDIT: If she says "I can't because *INSERT REASON*", just don't reply. Just wait until the time you said, then send her a pic of your coffee cup at that place and say "I understand, I was going anyway, maybe we'll catch each other next time"
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:14 AM
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Yes, get both Bang and Day Bang. They're great books as far as PUA type skills go. Another is Models by Mark Manson. Those three, and you should have all the tools you need. Edit: Roosh is a cold, calculated, genius. He narrows everything down into a tight little package for you to internalize, go out, and do. He is very methodical, step by step: Do this, do that, if this doesn't work, do this instead. Wonderful writing.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 03:11 AM
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haha I totally understand. I'm the same way. There's nothing like fucking some 19 year old girl who's never had it raw, or been blasted inside. It's the biggest advertisement ever, if you can sneak it into your conversation easily. The second they find out you have a vasectomy, it's like their eyes light up. "Omg really!! :D :D :D " Love it.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:20 AM
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All up to you man. I'll take your word on that statistic. I didn't prepare for my argument. But my personal preference overrides any statistics you can throw at me. I don't advocate what I do as being for everyone. I also have consistent unprotected sex (I have a vasectomy). Is it more risky? Yes. Do I care? No. I'm willing to take the risk; just who I am. I understand what you're saying, though. All personal preference man. No argument here.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:23 AM
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No, I'm not afraid of STIs. Also, if you are fearful of genital herpes, then I suggest you become celibate. Condoms do not protect from Herpes. If she has genital herpes, you're up shit's creek.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 01:03 AM
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u/lokiwantstoplay said it best. Eat pussy on your terms. If you don't, then don't. Me, personally, I fucking love eating pussy. Easily my #1 favorite part of foreplay. I could care less about receiving oral; I give oral every time, especially if it's my first time with a girl. If you give good head, and you genuinely enjoy it, and you go down on her like it's the end of the fucking world, like you are CRAVING it, they lose their fucking mind. But, again, on your terms. On my terms, I crave it.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:36 AM
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Huh? Sorry you don't see the point. Americans are easy to convince to spend their money on shit they don't want to do. I'm not going to spend my time here coming up with ways for other people to make easy money. So no, I will not customize it. It wasn't my idea to begin with. Just something that I noticed is an easy way to make money.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:11 AM
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In a lot of neighborhoods in the US, house numbers are painted on the driveway curb/concrete. They fade, and need to be repainted. Most people either repaint their own, or forget about it. ​
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:05 AM
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It's not that your suggestion is "wrong" at all; it's actually okay. I just think this situation is likely better to let her know you could give two shits about even acknowledging anything she said. Think of it like when someone asks you a question, and you say "yeah." It drives people up a fucking wall. Drive her up a wall, if you can.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:56 PM
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Sounds like yet another socially autistic bitch who forgot that we have a life outside of Instagram and Snapchat. like omg like going outside of school and snapchat? omg but like what if *insert female logic* ​ like omg you mean actually go to the neighbor's house and ask for a cup of sugar? But like omg like what if they look at me. Women are increasingly socially autistic. From what you said, you did nothing wrong. ​
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:22 PM
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Bumble is definitely the new Tinder. Tinder got the reputation of "The Hookup App," so it became repellant. Bumble is the go-to as far as better/quality matches. Tinder still has higher numbers, though.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:57 PM
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So many ideas out there. But there is one thing I've always thought was an easy way to make money. I'll tell it in story form instead. This dude knocked on my door one day. He says "Hey! I noticed the numbers on your driveway are really faded! Do you want me to spray paint them for you?" I was like "Well... Are they that bad?" "Yeah come look!" so he pointed out the numbers on my driveway; super faded, unreadable. "Yeah sure man. How much?" "I'll paint them for $15. Cash, check, card, paypal, wh…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:09 PM
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The answer is too big to post here. You need to start doing fundamental research. There are two basic ideas: Bulking, and Cutting You eat excessive amounts of clean food, super high protein, with tons of calories, and that will help you gain muscle. But it will also make you gain fat. When you are ready to cut. You cut back on your calories, while maintaining as high of protein as possible, and begin losing weight. This will make you lose fat, as well as some muscle. Again, the answer is too bro…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 09:03 PM
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I totally understand where you're coming from. When any plate / fwb of mine fucks other guys, I could care less, personally. I have no emotional attachment to them, so I don't care. But that's just me. What you said, though, about her trying to "show off," or rub it in your face; that's the part that would piss me off. I've had girls do it to me before, in similar fashions, and usually it just results in my ignoring them completely. In my mind: 'Good job shooting yourself in the foot, dip shit.'
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:39 PM
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Precisely. Work off of what you are given in that situation.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:27 PM
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You question "what can I say to get her over" has a false, unspoken, pretense attached to it. There is no magic phrase, assembly of words, or "thing you can say" to get her over. Everything is situational. Everything is based off of her body language, verbal cues, IOIs, how far you've gotten while outside, her demeanor, your demeanor, her willingness, her lack of willingness, etc. I can't tell you what to say. No one here can. Think of it this way. . . When I've divulged my sexual promiscuity to…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:23 PM
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I would reply with "ah okay" and leave it at that. Why "Ah okay?" Because it makes it seem like you didn't really read her message. "Ah Okay" isn't really a response to much of what she said, it's basically just acknowledging that she texted you; which is IDGAF. ​
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:17 PM
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Yep! Exactly this. "Let's go to where it's more quiet" ​
/r/askTRP21/11/18 08:12 PM
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Question: Due to circumstance, I definitely don't wanna take her to my place. I'm a fan of plausible deniability what is best way to achieve that and saying lets go to her hotel instead? What circumstances will not allow you to take her to your place? I have several out-of-town plates/friends. Some of them occasionally come to my city, and they always stay with me. There is no "probably" in the F-Close; it's just guaranteed at this point.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 05:39 PM
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Some people are saying to text her "you're wishing those were my sheets". I disagree completely. It reeks of being way too over the top, with a hidden layer of jealousy. I think your response was great, and is very IDGAF. Yes, if it bothers you, I would soft next. You handled it well the first time, and you handled it even better the second time.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 03:21 PM
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Everywhere. And it depends on the girl.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:46 AM
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Do it then. There's clearly no talking sense into you. So do it. The rest of us will continue getting laid without having to pay hookers to make us look good. Enjoy.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:30 AM
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If she's a FWB, then you should probably be splitting the bill. If she's looking for free dinners, call her out on it.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:26 AM
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It's not valid for a plate, no. Semi-Valid for a FWB. Depends on the situation. need more info.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:24 AM
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so name ONE reason I shouldn't try this plan. Reason 1: It's fucking weird Reason 2: It's weak Reason 3: It's probably the biggest crutch I've ever read Reason 4: It comes from a place of falsity Reason 5: Your algebraic logic is fucked up Explanation of Reason 5: If you are paying a girl to up your game for this scenario, then the goal is to raise your SMV for that moment in hopes of getting a different girl. So you are paying one girl to get another. But it's not even guaranteed you will get t…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 01:17 AM
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I'm going to ignore all you said about your injuries, because I'm not a doctor. As far as lifting at home vs the gym: The gym is the clear winner. You have significantly more options on what you can do at the gym vs at home. I highly recommend you get a gym membership. As far as your gymtimidation: Stop it! Everyone there is there to better themselves. No one is there to intimidate you. It's a friendly, welcoming environment. Even if Mr. Universe is in there working out, he's HAPPY TO SEE YOU DO…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:51 PM
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Hey guys, I’m 24 years old, got into TRP, read the “Book of Pook”, grew some balls and found myself in a situation I’m not used to. Getting into new situations is always a good thing. There’s a girl from my school thats been giving me signs for the last two weeks, asked her out on Thursday last week and we went out yesterday (Monday). Solid. Took her bowling then walked in the area for a couple of hours, about 1 hour into walking we found a place to sit, she laid her head on me, Major IOI: "Okay…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:02 PM
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Walk up to her, kneel down to talk.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 09:41 PM
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If you don't care about the rumor anymore, then you answered your own question.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:30 PM
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You need to speak to a lawyer.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:24 PM
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Approaching triggers my fear of rejection, and my fear of embarrassment. It does for everyone. You're not the only one. I notice when I do cold approaches I'm hesitant to do them in public places that I return to often for fear that my reputation there will be tarnished. It will not be tarnished if you approach correctly. I appear alpha by being indifferent, having dominant body language, and being fashionable. Good things. So appear Super-Alpha by talking to strangers. But I am scared to approa…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:13 PM
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My ears are quite protruding and it does make me look quite weird I have no doubt about that. I have a nice face, as I've been told by many girls, but there is always the "but your ears are weird/strange" Not a big deal, it's often either just honesty, or a shit test. I'm tall (6'1), I'm lifting (only recently) and I am trying to improve myself especially my long term career goals All good things man, keep doing that Any other red pillers that have protruding ears and if so how has it affected y…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 08:06 PM
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Just like other like things; once you have a taste of the real thing, it's hard to go back. Get a variety pack from Trojan, and try them to see which one hits your liking.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:32 AM
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Work on your grammar structure, dude. That was painful to read. Anyway. Yes you did good with the shit test. No. Do not text her. She is interested, but she's equally uninterested. Just move on, get her out of your mind. If you text her and "chase" her, she will almost definitely not fuck you. If on the other hand you play it cool, ignore her, just go about your business; you'll increase the chances exponentially that this girl will initiate a time with you to hang out.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:14 AM
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Yeah definitely wait a day or two. It's VERY DIFFICULT to make texting attractive with someone you just met. Bragging here: I'm really fucking good at "text game," and even I hit massive walls with it. You have a leg up becuase she's already very clearly into you, so all you have to do is maintain that attraction. The thing about text is that the more you text - especially with someone new - the more it increases your chances of killing the attraction completely. In your situation, in my opinion…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:07 AM
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Not being sarcastic at all. She's interested. Coffee takes 10-20 minutes which is why it was my suggestion. Barring that recommendation, then yeah keep in light contact over thanksgiving break. Wait a few days, send her a picture of your MacBook charging port saying "MacBook needs your charger". Whatever she says back, make it a joke, "yeah. But my MacBook is dead".... she may say something like "haha I'll be back X day"... You say "Okay... Can you mail me the charger then?".. Point is, keep it …
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:53 AM
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Definitely. Gain Abundance.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:41 AM
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You're overthinking this all... long story short, met this girl saturday night studying in a library at college. Cool. i needed a macbook charger and she gave me hers, then said i could study at her table with her which i did. Neato we talked for about 2-3 hours until the place closed then walked back together. How cute :) conversation was good, lot of laughing and she did about 75% of the talking... Super insanely good sign. next day i texted her if she wanted to study together again and that i…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:39 AM
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I don't understand exactly what the problem is? Y'all fucked. Parted ways for a minute because Life. She's still interested. You're still interested. You both know life happened. What's the Big Fuckin' Deal, man? Don't overthink this. Reconnect with the girl. Be your usual self with her. Have fun. Make mention of the fact that "we both ghosted for a month! Damn! what is wrong with us!".... "omg crazy month, I've been so busy, what've you been doing". Make light of it, fuck her more, move on.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:25 AM
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It's a great place man. You're right, it's a cheap place, just like any place you go in Louisiana (unless it's Mardi Gras). I like Southern girls quite a bit, and I especially like Mississippi & Alabama girl's Appalachian accents, and sweet but wild demeanor. Next time I go to Biloxi I'm gonna go scuba diving.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:00 AM
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haha spot on!!! I love the South, man!!
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:53 AM
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I think those are all valid points, for the most part. I have minor grievances here and there with it, but overall I see where you're coming from. Can you tell me more about your experience? Has your method proven to be right one? I doubt that sole fact of approacning 8+ girls is enough to get them want you. It is not the sole fact of approaching 8+ girls; there is significantly more to it than that. I look pretty good, dress well, fairly built, drive a nice car, have a really attractive career,…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:21 PM
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This is a fun question. I have actually flown to meet a girl. But lets put this into perspective before I get lambasted: I enjoy traveling, I like going to new places, and of course I like sex. Moreover, I'm a cheap traveler. If I can avoid a hotel, I will. So when I get a hair up my ass, I'll set my Tinder location to somewhere random, like Biloxi Mississippi. Wait a day or two for my Tinder Gold matches to add up, swipe on the ones I find super attractive. When they ask why I'm so far away, I …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:14 PM
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Thanks for taking time to dive into my post in very analytical manner. Anytime bro. Intent of this post is to share my practice with Community and recieve some constructive feedback on is it good/bad. I totally understand. I meant nothing I said with malice. I want to minimize my chances of being rejected and that is not bad thing. I 100% disagree with you hear. Minimizing your chances of rejection is due to fear of rejection. Why fear being rejected? Rejection is not a bad thing; it just means …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:02 PM
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First of all: What is your question? After many unsuccessful approaches to girls, I figured I should stop showing initial interest, as a way to: -Avoid unecessary emotional wastage; -Prevent social reputation damage; -Filter genuinely interested girls from those who seem to interact ONLY if I'm the one to initiate everything. As soon as I read this, I figured you likely have a bad approach. Nowadays, Man is expected to make the first move (initiating chat, buying drinks...). Nowadays? More like …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:48 PM
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Aite, Gross. so I fucked this girl last week, Bitchin! then the following days I got really fucking beta, Gay... and now she's not interested (even said herself). At least she told you. I've realised my mistakes with the whole beta shit. Good deal! My attempts of flirtation have only left her unwilling to participate. We all fuck up man. So she said today that she wants to be just friends, Oh well which I declined, I told her I don't see her as a friend. Eek! Bad idea brother. I've also mentione…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:35 PM
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Don't. You've done everything to the best of your ability. Anything else will break frame. There is literally nothing you can say to her "na" that will be effective. Do what u/lacktoestoddlerants suggested. Keep hitting the gym, when you see her, smile, do not approach her for conversation. If she says hi, say hi back. You Friendzone Her, not the other way around. EDIT: With that frame in mind, her hamster may start spinning. "Why isn't this guy more interested in me? Am I ugly? Why isn't he blo…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:25 PM
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You'll definitely be more than fine; the seasoned attractive older guy is correct.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 02:10 PM
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Have a first date coming up with this girl but she blatantly told me she doesn't kiss on the first date. Likely a shit test, but she could be serious. Should I just ignore what she said and try to kiss-close when we meet? Yes. Even if she doesn't, she won't respect you if you don't try. I don't like to move things forward too quickly so f-close would probably be on the second date. If she's serious, and it's not a shit test, then you'll get in her pants by the 15th date. Is this a good idea in o…
/r/askTRP17/11/18 09:58 PM
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Yeah. Don't text back. Loser the number.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:51 PM
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My frame is so damn shaky depending on my mood. That happens. Pretty normal Some days I just wake up and feel great and confident and energetic, nothing bothers me, I feel like even if everything went wrong nothing went wrong. I feel like no inconvenience can bother me. Frame is strong, shit tests passed no problem, everything is all fun and games. That's preferable! Other days I wake up and I'm like fuck. Triggered by everything. It happens. Nothing to worry about. Side Note: Drop the word "Tri…
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:48 PM
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You provided zero backstory. Without any context, the only answer I can give is: Don't say anything. Provide context next time.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 09:41 PM
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Yeah sounds like you misread it. She is only interested in fucking you, doesn't want to hang out. Still doesn't really sound like an excuse. The thing is, man, she only gets to lie with the period excuse once. You now know her time frame for getting her period. If she magically got her period again in two weeks, then you would know one of the two is a lie. Just believe her. She got her period. They get them every month. Just saying you misread is good enough. Leave it alone, don't overthink it. …
/r/askTRP16/11/18 12:43 AM
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Sounds like you just got nervous and kept losing your erection. Don't go raw unless you plan on having a kid. NEVER trust a girl's birth control. ​
/r/askTRP15/11/18 07:16 PM
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Yes, that's ridiculous.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 01:51 PM
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That works too. ​
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:38 AM
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Dude, sometimes girls are just terrible at giving blowjobs. It's difficult to tell a girl taht she sucks at giving head. I generally just don't say anything, I don't tell them they suck. Sometimes they'll ask for a critique, and I'll give it to them straight. My advice (me personally): Just get head from different girls. Some are great, some suck, some are okay, some will blow. your. fucking. mind.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:32 AM
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Happens all the time. What counts here is that you've fucked her before. She's likely telling the truth. Me personally, I show up anyway, make out, grind, play with tits, grind more. Usually they'll give a blowjob. I don't hold their periods against them; they can't help it, we were going to hang out anyway, it came early, so I'm going be a man of my word and still hang out. And if we're the best of friends, we'll fuck anyway. Just me.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:22 AM
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Guys, I need some mentoring here, Hey man! Alright let's see! I recently started TRP, about 6 months ago, Fuck an A straight you did! right after the divorce, Congrats buddy! I recently met this girl OooOo ( probably a 6) Ahhhhh , she is explicitly showing interest Good deal! , I mean " I want to see badly", "I really like you" kinda messages, Solid. shit like this tend to freak me out, Why though? You never actually explained this. I don't think I am at stage yet when women would be attracted t…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 05:18 AM
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True. Always gauge the situation. Also, set phone to audio record.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:15 AM
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Yes, it was LMR. I've had that exact situation. You can increase your chances of beating it significantly by going a few steps forward, one step back. So, making out, playing with her tits, then going to finger her (3 steps forward) she says she has a boyfriend, so you go back to playing with her tits. Keep making the tension happen, get her hotter, then go to finger her. If she says she has a boyfriend again, you go one step back again. Keep doing this over and over. Finally, if she relentlessl…
/r/askTRP15/11/18 12:09 AM
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All over. The mall, grocery store, convenience store, tinder, wherever.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 09:49 PM
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What is wrong with you? Better TLDR: TLDR: I'm a 30 year old boy who gets drunk and plays video games, ignoring my girlfriend in the process. Girlfriend is wasting her time with me, and voiced her concern. She got fed up with my being a complete child, and ghosted me. I went to her place to tell her how video games are the most important thing in my life, but she blew me off to go work and said she didn’t care about catering to a child anymore. She is CRAZY. I'm baffled at your arrogance. Normal…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:52 PM
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Met her at the club, we did know each other through a shared social circle before. We hooked up that night. Fuck an A Straight you did! We met up multiple times afterwards, Good had Sex everytime, Very good but did do normal stuff as well ( going out for dinner, going to the club ). We didn't meet often, every 1 or 2 weeks. Perfect! One Week ago after I tried to arrange another meeting, she answered with "Of course we can meet, but I want to inform you that I am not looking for a physical relati…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 02:37 PM
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Definitely spot on. I didn't even touch the possible escort/hooker aspect.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 06:35 AM
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The real big issue for me is that whenever i approach girls and talk to them i end up flustered getting asked what my n-count is ,which is 0. This is easy bro. You have so many solid options for this. One: Comedy. "Hmm well, oh jeez, let's see! 107 total. 7 of which were over 60, 20 were 18, 4 prostitutes, 2 trannies, and that one dude I fucked in the b hole!" Two: Lie. "I've been with a few" Three: Obfuscate with a lie: "I Don't kiss and tell." Four: Tell the truth, with comedy. "Virgin! Got my…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 05:33 AM
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Met a girl on Saturday night, Rad. had light conversation over text and responding back and forth over a couple days. This is likely the problem. We set a date up for the following Wednesday, and she cancels on Tuesday. Hey man, at least you got that! Kudos to her kindness. This is a sweet girl. I'm her biggest fan, over here. She said she’s “not ready to get to know someone” Fair enough. and that she would be wasting my time. She's right! Any ideas what may have gone wrong here? Yes. For one, w…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:54 AM
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So i met a chick at my gym who i used to go to high school with. So you met her in high school. Semantics, on my part. Just saying. I knew from stories that she was a hoe and how she used to be an escort. Interesting... She approached me at the gym +1 points = 1 point. and i gave her my number and she said we could study together. Solid She hits me up that same night just saying it was nice to meet you without me messaging her. +1 points = 2 points. She msgs me the next day and invites me out to…
/r/askTRP14/11/18 04:46 AM
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Maybe she's not crazy. It is only a major red flag to me. I could be wrong. But I know the level of stupidity it takes to think "mansplaining" is a valid complaint.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:19 PM
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I know it doesn't sound like much of a big deal, and possibly even a shit test. But, in my opinion, this should be a huge red flag. Although seemingly innocent enough, and perceived as a possible tease, or something of the like; it is not. Her accusing you of "mansplaining" tells me immediately that this chick has done a significant amount of man-hating feminist garbage reading. And, more importantly, subscribes to those ideas. Mansplaining is one of the more ridiculous 4th wave feminist ideas. …
/r/askTRP13/11/18 11:16 PM
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haha fun post. But I have to disagree with your method. For one, your method doesn't tell you your actual SMV. A lot of factors make up an SMV; your method is focusing on Physical Appearance Only. Two, the biggest problem I have with your experiment, is that girls on Tinder often have an SMV much lower than they think they have. In other words: A girl who is a 3 on Tinder might think she's a 7, etc. Average 6's think they're 10's. This really fucks up the numbers. Further, taking the first 10 do…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:58 PM
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A lot of foods gives me trouble such as eggs, gluten, soy, nut butters etc and then... It would be a lot easier if I could just grab some junk food and get an easy 1000-2000 calories You sound like a picky eater. ​
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:15 AM
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You got it brother! Sounds like a solid plan to me.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:57 PM
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I'm not going to offer direct advice, instead I'll take the opportunity to talk about myself: As a teenager, I was always interested in computers, programming, etc. Learned everything I wanted to know; thought that was my passion. Turns out it wasn't. Joined the military; lots of fun with that, definitely not a passion. Got into tattooing while I was in the military; loved doing it, it wasn't my passion. Got into eBay sales, made a good amount of money; not my passion. Do you see the trend here?…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:53 PM
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I would say yes, it's an IOI, but a subtle one. Text for logistics only. Probably don't escalate during the project. Put a feeler out by making a sexual joke, or something similar. Don't ask her to do something after the project; tell her you're doing something after the project, and invite her along. Escalate if she comes with.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:38 PM
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Ah okay. Yes keep doing what you're doing. Change it up. Have fun. Fact is, if you're fucking like you say you are, she'll be chasing that the rest of her life, especially when the next guy she fucks cums in 2 pumps (more common than you think)
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:22 PM
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Huh?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 11:15 PM
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My roommate and I have a dry joke: "Did you ruin her sex life?" Meaning: Fuck her so insanely good that she can never get that anywhere else again, so she will always be comparing you to her future lame ass fucks.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:41 PM
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sure
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:50 PM
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Right now I do, and I will for the next two months.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:30 PM
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Not game over, but definitely doesn't work in your favor. Without escalating, the girl simply will not have respect for you. She expects you to escalate, even if she gives you a hard "no," she still walks away respecting the fact that you're a man.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:49 PM
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Still not enough info. Expand your post significantly, add context. We're not going to hold your hand and play by play for you.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:30 PM
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You never stated any of that in your original post. I'm not going to play guessing games.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:27 PM
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Your post is way too long. I didn't read all of it. But what I did read, here's my suggestion: Get Viagra.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:22 PM
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You don't. Text for logistics only.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:20 PM
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32 here. Yes, the SMV does go up with age until about 48. If you're good looking over 30, you slay like a mother fucker. Your SMV is not based only on your looks. It has a lot to do with your social status, and where you stand in life, as well as your IDGAF attitude; even if it's perceived. At 18, I don't care where you think you're at: I guarantee you those 40 year old men give 10 times less fucks than you give. Post 30, your IDGAF attitude comes on almost naturally. Your SMV is higher than som…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 07:14 PM
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I was curious about your history with this girl, so I went to some of your past posts. I didn't really read them, but it seems to me that you have been bouncing back and fourth with this girl, putting up with lies, etc. I don't think we can help you. I think you need to read the sidebar. I think you need to read The Rational Male. I think you should find your standards, and stick to them. Maybe I'm wrong. Just my two cents.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 06:18 PM
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What is the advice on girls who seem completely non-sexual? My advice is that there is essentially no such thing. There is this one girl I know and whenever I say something sexually funny she will laugh Nervousness, shyness. and it never seems to bother her Because she's sexual. but its like she never says anything back. Because she;s shy I feel like sex is 100% something she never thinks about Don't do her thinking for her or is interested in with ANYONE. Not true buddy Do you guys know what I'…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:45 PM
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I was curious so I went to look at that link you posted. What exactly is that? I clicked on the "Newbie Guide" but even that assumed you already knew what you were looking at. So what's that site all about?
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:34 PM
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My feelings exactly.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:23 PM
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Hey all Hey man I would lovd to get your advice. I'd love to give it to you. I just ran into my ex, Alright we dated for 3 years, And broke up and somehow haven't seen each other since (2.5 years ago). Time. The breakup was complicated and long (took a month), Jesus Christ but in the end I said we should try one more time, and she refused. Display of weakness. I had a ltr since, which ended a couple of months ago. Glad you moved on, at one point. Today, at the library, she came up to me and aske…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 05:22 PM
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Sounds like a shitty deal, I understand where you're coming from. Consider your options. Have you considered going back to school, but going to be a Dentist instead? I think the YouTube idea is a terrible idea as far as money is concerned. Your competition is exceedingly high. Your chances of success are exceptionally little. That is more of an In Your Spare Time venture. If you want to jump into something where you make good money with no experience, working for a plumber, electrician, general …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:47 PM
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anti slut defense
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:31 PM
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Be stoic; don't care. Just be ice cold. Don't be mean, don't be friendly, just don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:04 PM
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Don't concern yourself with it; move on, soft next. Next! To answer your question: Who knows? ASD maybe. Maybe she has a boyfriend Maybe she's fucking insane Maybe she felt her period come on Who knows? Not your problem.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:02 PM
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You just about answered your own question; professional photos. Something else you can do, something I used to do, is give your friends (girls) 10 or so pictures, and have them pick which photos they think are best for tinder.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 02:00 PM
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There's a whole list of articles and reading material on the sidebar herewith RP theories. In the "about" section if on your cell
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:29 PM
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Good to hear. I think the dynamics are slightly different with a girl who hasn't been slutted out yet. I understand not being against the possibility of a relationship. Just apply RP theory, even still, and take it slow. Just because she loses her V card with you doesn't obligate you to be in a relationship (which you already know). But she will definitely bother you like a puppy after that, in hopes of a relationship; which isn't exactly a bad thing, in my mind. You're more than on the right tr…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:22 AM
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Read this first. I did absolutely everything I could to get over her. I'm pretty attractive so girls come really easily to me. Well bro, if you're posting here, then I don't think you did everything you could. Glad girls come easy to you. I rebuilt my entire life once she left. Got my shit together. I'm doing really well now and am happy with myself/my life. Very cool. I rebuilt my social life and have many friends now. Awesome. My grades are stellar and I'm on my way to a high paying job. Aweso…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:17 AM
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Hey man! Don't worry about it! And I'll tell you why you shouldn't. First, I have thin wrists. So I know where you're coming from. When I first started lifting, I remember looking at my wrists thinking "Jeez, small, ugh." About a month ago, I realized I haven't had to adjust my wristwatch since I started lifting back when. It just never even crossed my mind. So my wrists haven't grown. At first I was a little disappointed, but then i realized something: It doesn't matter. In fact, it's actually …
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:08 AM
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You touch on a lot of things, and I would love to break it all down for you, but overall it really seems like you're saying and doing all of the right things. Her: “I mean... I would like to be” Me: “Yeah?” Her: “So are we?” Me: “we can be” In my mind, this is pretty deceptive from the sounds of it; assuming you don't want her as a LTR. But, I won't say it doesn't work; this is definitely how this girl is going to open her legs for you. She will fuck you at the drop of a hat. She briefly mention…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:02 AM
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Just from the outset, the way you explained it, it looks like the guy who told you this might be trying to lie to you to get you away from her. Is he her orbiter? Also, I don't know if English is your second language, but the way you wrote it makes it fairly difficult to interpret. I wouldn't rely on what the other guy says. Go with your gut.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:34 AM
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Looks, social status, charisma, "game," money, type, a little luck, any number of things.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 12:18 AM
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Multiple things, really. It's to do what you said; push her away, letting her know that you're valuable It's to let her know that you don't give a fuck It's to let her know that you have no interest in her And most importantly, it's to let yourself know that you don't give a fuck. It's an open-ended soft next. Just saying "nvm" gives you the opportunity to walk away and forget her, and gives her the opportunity to reach out and beg for forgiveness.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:50 PM
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Put your phone on audio record for the breakup. Any girl that would greet you after 3 months is, in my opinion, emotionally unstable. For real though, what others have said: You're doing her a favor. By leaving her, reality is going to smash her in the face like a tidal wave. She will look in the mirror and realize that she has let herself go. Shape up or Ship Out.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:34 PM
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Absolutely man, anytime! Make the feeling stick! Youtube search "Tony Robbins - How to Be More Confident and overcome shyness"
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:27 PM
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Hey guys, Hey Pal! I’m 24 years old 6”1 and weigh 210 lbs. A little overweight yeah. I’m not that overweight but still got plenty to lose. I’m currently losing weight rapidly due to a new diet and working out routinely. (Lost 10 pounds in the last 2 weeks) Good Fuckin Job! Keep it up. Anyhow, there’s this girl (22) Hawt from college Loose that I really clicked with Awesome and it seems like she likes me. Fuck yes Initiating conversations, Fuck Fuck Yes. keeps touching me, giving me all the signs…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 11:08 PM
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What u/easeanddelight said, higher reps should help you. Look into the SARM MK-677.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 10:06 PM
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I edited it from my phone. Dip shit.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:13 PM
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I've never been, but you're not the first I've heard with this issue in Los Angeles.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:03 PM
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Are you ten years old, or just retarded? Go back to school. Here, I corrected your grammar: **Fuck a hooker pop a Cialis or something cheap from a sex stores** Fuck a hooker. Pop a Cialis, or something cheap from a sex store. **U gon have amazing sex and Ur brain Will start craving for real sex** You're gonna have amazing sex, and your brain will start craving real sex. **And if u dont get real sex again u Will start masturbatin with the things u did with the hookers and not porn** And if you do…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 09:01 PM
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Check out the YouTube channel "Charisma on Command," I think this could be your bread and butter for some conversational skills. As far as the emotional side of it, YouTube search "Tony Robbins - How to Be More Confident and overcome shyness".
/r/askTRP11/11/18 08:18 PM
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I see...
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:28 PM
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"You can't thieve my sweater, sweater thief"
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:23 PM
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Yes. Like I said, it's a multitude of factors that increase the commonality.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:21 PM
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Sure thing, troll.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 07:20 PM
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Short answer: Yes, they are plentiful and exceptionally frequent, depending on a multitude of factors.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:52 PM
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The easy answer is to get an abundance mentality. But since you don't have any abundance, and have stated reasons why you have no interest in having abundance, then clearly this is going to be an issue for you. I have no advice for your emotional state, since you're too busy to have an abundance mentality. The only advice I have is practical: Do not text her. She probably will text you back, likely later today/later tonight: "omg I'm sorry *insert excuse*." Either don't text her back, or just sa…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 06:19 PM
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"nvm" and next.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:51 PM
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Yes I still think that's the case. Girls often don't want to feel like they are sexually equal, or even close to "in control." Also, although your age difference isn't that much, she likely sees you as older/more experienced, and wants to lose it to someone who she sees as knowing what they're doing. She already said she's down to fuck without knowing you're a virgin. She wants it already. Quit overcomplicating it. Ah okay, I missed that in your original post.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:58 PM
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Best to not tell her. Girls tend to prefer the man they're fucking to have experience, so she can see him as being in control, etc. Just don't mention it. Also, 17, the laws you in your state better reflect a legal age of consent. . .
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:51 PM
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i validated that bitch and her friend What "bitch"? Huh? when i was drunk as fuck, You can't control your alcohol. Neato... i maked out with one of them and i was chasing in front of all the girls from my class. You "Maked" out with them, huh? Next morning i excused myself, she told me ''we all have our moment" and i told her " thanks for understanding" two weeks later that bitch fuck a dude i know. Oh no, she fucked someone else. Get me a violin to play you. i'vent spoken with her and her frien…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 02:24 PM
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You're welcome.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:52 AM
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Seconded
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:39 AM
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I'm not sure? I haven't even thought about it.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:31 AM
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Coming out of a bout of few years bad mindset, anxiety etc etc Good deal! First red pill real life action in years - approached a (19yr old) girl at GAP where she works. I'm glad you made a cold approach. But I'll tell you it's generally not a good idea to cold approach a girl at work. Not the worst thing ever - just can be difficult. She gave the IOI and seemed friendly and open in previous 2 visits, which sparked this action. I don't think they were IOIs, based on what you're about to say here…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:26 AM
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Marijuana = Paranoia (Discomfort) for a lot of people.. Get used to it if you want to keep getting high with girls.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:48 AM
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Met a chick at the gym a couple weeks ago. She made it clear she was attracted (asked me for help on her work out then followed me around the gym doing my work out and we just met). Very rad She was clearly nervous and anxious. We exchanged social media info. All good Asked her to go to Starbucks yesterday, Good... but I decided to cancel Why did you cancel? and reschedule for today for her to come over and “hang out.” First mistake, sort of... Escalated to talking about fucking etc. And boom, i…
/r/askTRP11/11/18 12:43 AM
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Put your phone on Audio Record for your safety.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 06:57 PM
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A couple things man: One, just flow with your thoughts. Free association: Cold, North Pole, Cold States, South Pole, Penguins, Santa, Elves, Presents, Christmas, Holidays, Halloween, Costumes. That took longer to type than to think of. See what I mean? Second, you do this all the time. The problem is that you're freezing up when around girls. Your brain is in "impress her" mode. Loosen up, quit caring about the outcome, just talk, ramble, go on and on, tease her for fun. Check out the YouTube Ch…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 03:51 AM
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I think it's a huge deal for some of us. Just because it's not for you, doesn't mean some of us don't get immense satisfaction from it. I, personally, find sex to be a defining part of who I am. So, it's a big deal, for some of us.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:34 AM
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Elaborate.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:25 AM
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Fair enough point of view. Glad you've accepted celibacy, in that case. I speak for most of us, not all of us.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:24 AM
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"Yeah, group dates are good for underage girls and guys"
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:19 AM
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Of course there's still plenty of dudes that are still virgins at 24. But considering that the average age of a male losing his virginity in the US is 18; you're 6 years (late) on the right side of the bell curve. So, yes, in my mind it's a big deal, and should be solved immediately before it manifests as a psychological issue.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:14 AM
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You're a 24 year old man. At this point, and not to try and make you feel bad (genuinely), it's getting weird at this point. So: Fuck this woman. You've built this up in your mind a lot. All I can say is: Relax bro. Enjoy yourself. Enjoy her body. She's not going to be perfect at 40; she has a woman's body, but I'm certain she'll make you feel great. Fuck her ASAP. Lose that V Card.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 01:03 AM
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Seconded!
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:59 AM
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hah!
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:59 AM
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I matched with a girl on an app. Coolzies... She was slightly overweight Gross but she had a cute face Sure, we all need to get laid sometimes. and a nice... chest lol. Omg heehee (facepalm). Your age shows here. Man up ya lil mother fucker! :) She messaged me first saying “Hi, oh my gosh. You’re so freaking cute”. Great. Solid. Neat. Next. She asked for my snap without me mentioning it. Good deal. She asked me to send her pics of me, and said I was “a cutie”. Great. I would have tried something…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:57 AM
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I went out last Friday and got really pissed Okay and she didn’t like it so she didn’t speak to me for a few days. This has happened before, several times. She knows it works on you. She still wasn’t speaking to me into the week Big deal so I decided not to speak with her. This is a childish game, but okay, sure. Got to tonight and we still weren’t speaking. So you're "winning," right? She doesn’t come home from work until 11 Because she's out fucking someone else (or wants you to think she is),…
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:50 AM
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That's a pickle. A big pickle. Quit smoking! You have a pretty clear grasp of what is going on in this situation. Just keep ignoring Karen's advances, and quit isolating yourself with her. Simple as that. ​
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:42 AM
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Bro, you should have read it. I was on the edge of my seat with this one, not gonna lie.
/r/askTRP10/11/18 12:38 AM
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Listen to this man. Don't overreact next time. No reaction is best.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:34 PM
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Yes, you overreacted. She said she couldn't make it that weekend; big whoop. Appropriate response would have been something like "It's cool no biggie" then don't talk to her for a few days. Maybe it did reek of disinterest - I really don't know. But that is neither here nor there; you did overreact. She bugged the hell out of your sister because she is/was into you. Something else: You should probably learn to think of your sister as a Soft Wingman. If there's one thing about sisters, it's that …
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:27 PM
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Bro, I second literally everything Charlie_wright wrote. I couldn't have said any of it better, no way.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 09:57 PM
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I don't go to bars or clubs either. Cold approach at the grocery store, while shopping, book store, clothing store, anywhere. My city is 120,000 population, no problems with cold approaches. The question isn't about going full beta on insta messages, or advertising yourself: it's about the sheer volume that girls get messaged on there, as well as their inflated egos. They simply don't care about anyone messaging them on insta. But if you feel like you have the magic formula, then by all means go…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:21 PM
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Quit overthinking it. She didn't text you back: She's not interested. She's likely just sending the same picture to 30 guys. If your mind is saying "Maybe she didn't check her text and she just uses snapchat," yeah, no, it's 2018, we all check our notifications.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:11 PM
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Due to your inexperience, I'm not going to lambast you like some here will/would. The simple answer is: No, it's a terrible idea. You're right, the pool is very wide. The problem is that the numbers do not convert into meetups. Girls on insta get blown the fuck up, they are the coldest of all of them. Even the average, and below average girls get blown up. On insta: A 10/10 is in Goddess status, she would think she's out of Channing Tatum's league A 6/10 thinks she's a 10/10 A 4/10 thinks she's …
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:05 PM
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Those don't sound like angry responses. Just sounds like you need to work on your charisma, body language, general approach. The last thing you said is very important: you realize what you're doing wrong, so you know how to improve it. You answered your own question, really. And for some more specific help: You: It's Cold outside today! Her: Nope! You: Oh you don't get cold, huh? Her: Nope! You: You from the north pole? Her: Nope! You: You from Minnesota? Her: ...No You: You from North Dakota? H…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:47 PM
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No argument here brother. 95% of girls who want to communicate through snap are often attention seeking.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:24 PM
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Yes, when she seeks validation. She'll often mass-snap 30 guys at a time with something generic. Open the snap, don't respond. Or delete her off snapchat.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:18 PM
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how do you get the girl fuckboy style? Also, just to comment on this specifically. This isn't really the mentality to go for. The definition of who you are as a man shouldn't be dependent on women. It's all about self improvement, being the best version of yourself, lifting, being in shape, and being overall very desirable. The little games I described a second ago, those are only one part of it.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:11 PM
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Again, that's very broad, so I'll answer broad: Some of us fuck hours after meeting them. Some weeks, some days. The simple and short answer is that it's a huge mixture of different games. Physical attractiveness is the first and foremost. Social skill, Confidence, Charisma, Money (in the worst cases), Perceived Power, If you're her type. The strongest, in my opinion: Numbers Game. TRP teaches "Abundance Mentality," meaning to never put all your eggs in one basket. In other words, your mentality…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 06:07 PM
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Your question is significantly too broad to give you a concise answer. Can you be more specific
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:53 PM
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They can be ridiculously boring at first. You know the saying "Open a can of worms"? Apply that: They won't say shit, talk about shit, or anything unless you open that can of worms. If you talk to them, ramble enough, she will eventually open up. Once you open that can of worms, there's no closing it. She will talk about anything and everything that comes to her mind.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:43 PM
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From everything you described, sounds like you should blow the whistle. Any owner who likes his money is going to love you forever for bringing this to his attention. If he's a bad business owner, he'll shoot the messenger (you), and like you said; you'd be taken care of.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:05 PM
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Honestly depends on the plate! Some less than weekly/once a month, some weekly, some a couple times a week. My best plates I've hung out with every day for weeks straight. Just depends on the quality of the plate, and how much fulfillment she contributes to your life. Use your best judgement.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 04:15 PM
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u/irtotallynotrobot is basically right, no response is likely best. 99.9% likelihood that it will not go anywhere. However, if you do want to try, I suggest simply messaging "Hey. Gotta cancel, my bad". If she asks why, just be super vague "I got busy." etc. This will increase your chance by approximately 0.1%.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:51 PM
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Seconded, buddy. Mitigate risk.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 03:15 PM
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Last night I had this great date, we went back to my place, started drinking and hanging out. Eventually we started making out on the couch and it was pretty intense. Sounds good. So within 10 minutes, Might have been a tad too fast. I lifted her while making out and she stops and asks, wait where are we going? My bedroom. Just don't move so fast next time. Warm her up more. Make out, grind against her, then stop, do something else. Make out with her again, grind against her, grab her tits. Then…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:56 PM
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Yes, you are significantly overthinking this.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:05 PM
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I have no idea what she feels, I'm not a woman. "These days," girls are the same as they always have been. They're cruel to beta orbiters. Soft next, be cool, and her friends will all want to fuck you after observing her pining over you. If you're so worried and insecure about the social outcome, then I guess you're stuck with her forever, huh?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:53 PM
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She also doesn't have a tight vagina It's funny how you worded this, because everything you said before says "She doesn't have a tight vagina." I mean, clearly she doesn't. It happens man. Some girls are tighter, some looser. If you can't handle it, if it drives you that crazy, move on. I'm afraid she'll tell the whole school my penis is small She won't. Very Soft next if you can't handle it. Why very soft? Because she didn't do anything wrong. Don't tell her her vag is loose; that's just hittin…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 01:47 PM
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Subreddit raisedbynarcissists ​
/r/askTRP09/11/18 02:16 AM
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Fair enough man! You're right this sub doesn't take too kindly to video games. Like you, I grew up playing video games as well. And I have a lot of fond memories staying up all night playing Mortal Kombat, Mario, Road Rash with my friends. But where we differ is that starting at around 14, I slowly got off the video games, and went to do better, more fun, things. I see where you're coming from, and I get it, AND I think it's time to get off the video game tit for a while. I think going without a…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:43 AM
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I'm a 17yr old dude Still pretty damned young. Whatever you're about to say, my general advice is going to likely be "you're young, try again" and I am writing this post from bed after a terrible gaming session of Fortnite Lame. which triggered me Triggered huh? Don't be a pussy, bro. into a depressive and self concious state that I can't shake rn. A game "triggered" you into depression? It made me realize that whenever I decided to put in time and energy into something it never ended successful…
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:16 AM
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Hate to burst your bubble, but you're making excuses. I was expecting you to say Denmark or something, which I would 100% accept as "Yeah... Cold approaches don't work, not in Denmark!". I spent two years in Lakenheath and Mildenhall, I did plenty of cold approaches. Take the advice from the other people in the comments, especially the pointers u/CainPrice gave you.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 11:37 PM
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I'm in my 30s; not in college. I approach women in public, which apparently is "off limits" for you (not sure what commie hellhole you live in? I've been all over the world and approached women). My advice, since you gave us nothing but negatives: Think outside the box man
/r/askTRP08/11/18 09:00 PM
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Do what makes you happy man. Don't let anyone tell you "THIS IS BETTER." Just because college works for some people, doesn't mean it's for you. College is a wonderful thing, and people who want to go should go. But if you want to work blue collar, outside, then that's admirable, and just as valid as a white collar job. I'm not going to say one way or another what you should do, because I'm not you. YouTube Mike Rowe's Ted Talk "Learning from Dirty Jobs."
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:52 PM
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Damn! You've got that on lockdown, good job. How to deal with it WHEN (not if) it happens again? Keep doing exactly what you're doing! Glad you through in that exclamation point at the end of your text; way better to be short, logistics, etc, but still friendly. You're doing exactly as you should, keep it up man.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:10 PM
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No argument here brother. Sex definitely improves with higher quality girls. Club/Bar one night stands are definitely hit or miss; I just love the roller coaster ride.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:35 PM
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Also, if her pussy smelled like deep fried grease then you need to fuck healthier girls, jesus christ. Seconded, that's gross. ​
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:27 PM
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100% depends on you as a person. I am the polar opposite. For a lot of people, one night stands and hookups, like u/bucknekkid18 said, are assisted masturbation with a live human. For me, one night stands and hookups are like a roller coaster of joy and excitement, before, during, and after. I compare it to going to an amusement park, where some rides look great and are great, some rides look great and are terrible, some rides look terrible and are great, and some rides look terrible and are ter…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:26 PM
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It happens man. Easy Fix: The YouTube Channel "Charisma on Command" is super useful, search that channel for "How to Be Popular Without Trying". The rest of his channel is gold, but I think that video might be a good starting point for you. Just remember: Alpha doesn't mean asshole, it doesn't mean nice guy, it's situational. Plenty of super friendly Alphas out there that will do anything to help anyone around them. Stop putting others down :D
/r/askTRP08/11/18 07:18 PM
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Keep doing exactly what you're doing. Don't drop her; it definitely has not reached that point. Stick to your guns as far as not using text for escalation. If she is not interested in person, and needs to do her flirting via text, then you will soon find out.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:19 PM
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They have a sidebar that has a pretty specific rating system that people have to abide by, nothing is foolproof, but that community is pretty legit and brutally honest
/r/askTRP08/11/18 06:13 PM
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TrueRateMe Subreddit
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:58 PM
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If you're not emotionally attached, have nexted her in your mind, and have no interest, then you will by default not be her orbiter, and it will show through your text/snap replies. Just keep it cool.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:41 PM
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I met this girl (hb 8/9) at a party and from how our conversations went I can tell she is pretty into me, but she has a boyfriend. If it wasn't for her boyfriend we would probably fuck, but for now I'm friendzoned. Usually I'd next her and not give a fuck, maybe she'll come around again, maybe not, but this time it's different. What's important here is that you've already nexted her, in your mind. I'm pretty new in this city and I don't have a lot of social contacts. I did get invited to a house…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:26 PM
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Seconded.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:25 PM
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... Women must be like the embodiment of a mysterious cryptic Egyptian hierogyph in your mind, if you think this shit is worth thinking about. These things don't matter.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:16 PM
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Should i care about this? No. Is it very important or just good to know/have control? Not very important. Have control...? What? Control over what? This makes no sense whatsoever. How can i identify when gf starts bleeding etc Ask her. - how can i know when the cycle starts/ends etc Ask her. If she was angry, emotional, pissed of with little things i or our friends did PMS is overrated. Any girl who relies on "I'm on my period" as an excuse for being a bitch is mentally handicapped. - where she …
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:10 PM
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Check my last two posts for backstory. I went ahead and asked about the number she showed me. She claims to have been texting him and admits to just be trying to plate him. There's some probably irrelevant chatter, then this: Me: "It's been what, a month since we met up?" Her: "That's wild". Her lack of interest is apparent. Me: "We should do it again soon. Sometime when I don't feel like I'm about to be kicked out any minute". We should do it again soon is good enough. But - big but - she never…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:43 PM
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To me it sounds like this is just her personality. Everything you said about her says that she's not lazy at all. If it's not a personality type you can deal with, then you're incompatible for a LTR. Can't blame her for being who she is and a normal personality type.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:29 PM
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You are not understanding the broader concepts. Re-Read everything I said.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 05:00 AM
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Boom! You got it man. Simple as that. One step at a time.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:54 AM
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Bro, You are significantly overanalyzing. Keep It Simple. I know I'm right, I laid it out clear as day, then you went to YouTube and heard. . . The exact same thing. You asked why I mentioned that a possibility is that you end up fucking: You need to go back and re-read what I said. I said "Once you learn to quit being dependent of the outcome." I didn't say that it was going to be immediate. I was saying that it takes social conversational practice. Practice in conversation, practice in reading…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 04:10 AM
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Don't rely on drugs. Correct, just talk. Sure, attempt to get their number if you feel like the interaction is going good. If not, move on. You have no reason to be terrified. Rejection is easy. It's never bad. Girls are nice, they always let you down easy.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:38 AM
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Seconded!
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:23 AM
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Well, you answered your own question then. Go to another location and cold approach, then. Yes it's reasonable.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:23 AM
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For more context, what was the push?
/r/askTRP08/11/18 02:13 AM
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Seconded!
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:18 AM
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I was raised in a strict, religious home where women were pedestalized as holy little angels. Blegh I’ve been internalizing the Redpill for 2 years and have made tremendous strides, Congrats man! but I’m still massively underperforming when it comes to sex. Sorry to hear that! I’ve never understood rough sex. There's not much to understand, honestly. Girls desire it, simple as that. The idea of slapping a girl or choking never even occurred to me growing up due to my bluepill upbringing. Totally…
/r/askTRP08/11/18 01:18 AM
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"Hey Sarah, what's up? I like your bag" "Hey Emily, what's up? I like your brows today, that looks like hard work" "Hey Elizabeth, what's that perfume you're wearing?" "Hey Jessica, I tried this new cologne today, can you give me your honest opinion on it?" "Hey Rebecca, what's up? Do these jeans make my butt look fat?"
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:10 AM
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I'm glad you like reading the breakdowns man! Analyzing social situations is fun.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:06 AM
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Yeah the whole photography thing has been talked about at length, and I think the general consensus is always that it's a bad idea, and for a multitude of good reasons. Give it is a shot if you think it'll work for you. My advice is only based on not being creepy, even though I think it's an approach that will not work. Like Ponder3277 said, if you need an excuse, you're doing it wrong. If you want to take photos, you're doing it right.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 12:01 AM
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Something like that would 100% depend on your vibe. If you put off the wrong vibe even slightly, you'll be considered a creep. If you do try it, make sure you approach with big smiles, big body language, super excitement, etc. "Hey! I saw you over there and I like for real I REALLY dig your look! I'm a photographer. Can I take your pic?" etc. But... Honestly I don't think it's a good approach. It puts you into beta provider role immediately. Every girl wants professional photographs, and you're …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:57 PM
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Seconded.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:40 PM
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I'm in my 30s, and to answer your question: Yes.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:37 PM
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Hard to tell what her mindset is, based on what you gave us. I would send her a picture/GIF of a donkey, say something like "I'm an ass, sending you an ass." Also, your question makes an assumption: that you should escalate/make intent known over text/snap. This is not a good idea, since you have an established in-person social relationship. If you had met on tinder, then yeah text/snap escalation/intent is acceptable (it's almost required, sometimes). But in your case, you need to make your int…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:30 PM
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"Whatever, young lady"
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:03 PM
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If you can find women to have sex with, great! Just apply plate theory; keep multiple plates, and then choose wisely from there. Find a better plate? Drop one of your plates. Keep doing this until you find a girl who's worth it. She may have appeared as classy, but she's clearly not. But that's okay, I'm glad you two had a good night together. Correct, do not ever tell a girl you are looking for a relationship. The idea is to get her brain questioning your intentions: "Does he want to date me? D…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 11:00 PM
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Sure haven't seen those videos man! I'll look them up though. I see your point, totally. In my defense, though, I've never done the "let's go for a drive!" on a bad vibe. I'm generally pretty good at the dating scene. Of course I can't account for all situations, and of course there can be a bad outcome for any situation; but I just don't see it as being a real problem with my social interactions. Not saying you're 100% wrong; you're clearly correct, but I think that outcome can be, and is, miti…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:44 PM
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Hello ASKTRP, this is my first post here! Hey bud! I moved to a new city not so long ago and posted an entry in a forum that I am looking to meet new friends in that city. Cool. 1 month ago I met a girl that way online and we decided to drink cofees in a cafe. When we were drinking she told me she has a boyfriend who is unbelievablly perfect, so caring, so cool etc. Clue #1: She is going on a coffee date with a guy she doesn't know, while she has a boyfriend. I didn't care much cuz I wasn't look…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:32 PM
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there's always the loud goofy guys that everyone is naturally drawn to. Have you considered approaching this group of guys and asking what's so funny? Lots of smiles, "what's up man, my name is jim" handshake. Sounds like a group of guys that might be cool for you to associate with, if possible. While I know I could never be like that, Bulllllllshit brother! You can SO be like that! I would at least like to improve enough to get a joke once in a while. Make it your mission! Right now I just stay…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:17 PM
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It means she wants you to be her boyfriend, or is at least considering it.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:13 PM
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I gotta ask man: What problems do you see arising? I'm totally open for analysis, and am always all about protecting myself from future problems. My go-to is to set my phone to audio record for during & after any sexual interaction.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 10:10 PM
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This is pretty basic. Just be rough, be controlling, be a gorilla. Before tying her up, shove her onto the bed. If you need her to turn over, don't ask her to turn over; forcefully grab her, and flip her over like she's a rag doll. Don't hog tie her; it makes sex more difficult. Blindfold her. Get some Vinyl Tape (it's not sticky; it sticks to itself, they sell it at like Spencers I think), and wrap it around her mouth/head like four or five times. Fish hook her mouth with your finger when you'r…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:52 PM
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Virgin College freshman here. Time to break that! I am just getting into TRP Congrats! and I just can't talk to girls. You can, we're gonna talk about this. I am so confident when I'm with friends, I want you to keep this in mind, it'll be important in a minute. but when I'm alone I just freak the fuck out and can't talk to girls or say anything. There is a very specific, measurable reason for this. We're going to fix it. I am quiet 100% of the time when I'm alone. What? How do I get over this? …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:41 PM
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Boom! Good thinking brother.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 09:15 PM
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I honestly couldn't point you toward any text game resources. My roommate, who is a fucking social puppet master, helped me over the period of a few years to develop text game.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:49 PM
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Sorry about your pain, brother man. Women, in general, do not factor in the past for their current decisions. Remember that. Lots of us have been through the same thing, including me. Not to take away from your story: I was with my ex wife for 8 years, bought a house, had a dog, bought her new cars, great sex life; best fucking friends! We literally got compliments all the time on how perfect of a couple we were; which we absolutely were. It was almost weird just how in sync we were. Then all of…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:41 PM
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"Deep? get your mind out of the gutter, ya lil perv"
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:16 PM
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So glad you told us you are getting these flakes from Tinder; because that was going to be my first question. Yes, flakes are rampant, especially on Tinder. I suspect that your text game is off. For the most part, TRP advocates for using text for logistics only, which is sound advice, but there's still tons of text game to account for (and if you're good at it). We might be able to better help if you give us some transcript of some of the conversation. The big answer, though, is like I said: Tin…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:15 PM
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Depends upon the agreed upon relationship of course. I've personally always had an Open Phone Policy with any LTR I've ever been in, and they've used it to snoop through my shit; I have nothing to hide. To be fair, too, I actually don't care if a plate snoops through my phone either; whatever she finds is her own fault if she can't handle it. Yeah what you're saying, critical cases, definitely reasonable for this type of situation.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 08:10 PM
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Hey! Congrats! Good job. There's so many. You're 100% on point about dinner being shit. Save dinner for Plates/FWB/Girlfriends/Friends etc. Don't ever feed a stranger. Anyway, You can do basically anything! If you want a super simple date, the coffee shop is pretty hard to beat. Other than that, I've taken girls to do all kinds of shit for first dates: Fly kites, shoot guns, the gym, play frisbee, all kinds of shit. No one here knows how you are as a person, so they can't give you a play by play…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 07:50 PM
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Yeah definitely don't do that. It will almost definitely push her away. Just be vague. Let her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:31 PM
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Should be determined by your ability to manage emotions. If you have solid control of your emotions: No problem with staying in contact with and fucking your ex. If you are incapable of maintaining an emotional distance, though, then demote to a ghost.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 06:27 PM
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Staying vague, being mysterious, is always a good thing. It'll get her hamster spinning, thinking about you, which increases interest and desire.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:31 PM
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Completely agree with you there; people who constantly worry about shit tests, frames, etc, are doing just that: Worrying. I will tell you though, from my own personal experience: When I first discovered this years ago, I was worried about shit tests, frames, etc, and would be cognizant of it during my social interactions. Over time though, probably about a year or two, it became second nature, just a part of who I am, and I hardly think about it anymore. When a girl does shit test me (and that …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:27 PM
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I've got a list of dealbreakers that I think are reasonable Let's hear 'em! (no single moms, Check. no divorcees, Check no excessive tattoos I love tattooed girl, but yeah, check. no questionable sexual pasts, Check no drug use, Double Check. no fatties, XXL Check. no feminists, No shit, right? Check. but that seems eliminate 99% of girls. That's a little steep. It's constant left swipes on tinder and bumble. Whoa whoa whoa. Are you screening for a wife only? And I can go a week without seeing a…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:18 PM
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I understand where you're coming from. I wouldn't want to get involved with someone like that either. And I don't think that's a true Red Pill philosophy. The real idea is for a man to stay stoic in a relationship, to simply embody masculinity, and not be an indignant, petulant whiner. There's nothing wrong with a man being equally as emotionally invested; The Red Pill simply advises that men don't be a slave to their emotions over women, and grovel in their wake. A truly red pilled man would lo…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:02 PM
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Your question will not receive very good reception here, for one reason: You are asking us to tell you who to avoid, with the assumption that someone in this community should be avoided. A better question would be: "How do I tell if a man I know is truly red pilled, and not an indignant whiner, so I know he's actually a man I fucking want." I think your question has the supposition that Red Pilled men are all whiners, completely insane, etc. And I understand that view based on some of the posts/…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:44 PM
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Later that night, she texts me and says she's not going to the grad party after all. Obviously there's not much to read into here. But I find it interesting that she dropped the grad party, only to later on go to the Halloween party. My hamster is spinning with this: She obviously already knew about the Halloween party, but she didn't want you to know about it. It makes me think she's interested in someone you know, who was at that halloween party. But I'm making a huge supposition with that sta…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:03 PM
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Just tell her that plate 2 came and got it, if she asks. Simple as that. This reminds me of a bra that one of my plates found. It was slightly under my bed (I didn't know it was there). I was in my bathroom, and I hear "DAMN! This girl has some big tits!" I turn around and she's holding this bra. "Oh yeah, she has good taste, too, that's a quality bra."
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:43 PM
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It could lead to her developing something for me, right? It could, but I doubt it. Don't bank on it. Normally I would say "just be friends." But obviously you can't emotionally handle that very simple task. . . So, ghost!
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:10 PM
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You're probably right, it likely can't wait until Sunday. Attempt to do a spur-of-the-moment meetup at her place or your place, create sexual tension, make it sporadic. It's the only real option I see. And if that was still his number, she could have just as easily text him to see if it was him :)
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:33 AM
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Not particularly. Again, she's trying to get you to man up by giving you a massive shit test. That other guy is likely just a second option, and she's essentially letting you know that, while conversely making it appear that he is now a first option; she's giving you the opportunity to present some masculinity, be alpha, etc, to prove y'alls last interaction invalid.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:19 AM
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Hey! Quick question though... The screenshot she sent you. Was it actually his number, or no?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:14 AM
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Consider the factors, based on your last interaction: She was interested She was then interested to the point of wanting to get fucked by you (giving you the opportunity to take action) Now she is doubting you, and is putting you through a shit test to see if you can man up. This usually means her interest is waning. Her: "Do you know [former bandmate of mine]? This is very important." "This is very important" is a very interesting thing to say. It's clearly not very important, as you will soon …
/r/askTRP07/11/18 05:10 AM
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On your last post, you talked about how badly you fucked it up, and I gave you a Play by Play analysis of what you did wrong, and what you should have done. Based on your last post, yes, this is a massive heaping shit test. What she is up to is testing if you are a man. You really screwed up that last interaction you had with her, that interaction where she was essentially BEGGING you to take action and fuck her, and NOW she wants to know if you are a Boy, or a Man. You didn't respond to my last…
/r/askTRP07/11/18 04:50 AM
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Block her on all social media platforms. ​
/r/askTRP07/11/18 02:03 AM
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Yes: Don't hit up sisters of girls you've had sex with.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:10 AM
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When girls say "that guy is a creep," they are referring to shit like this. You're a creep.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:03 AM
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I'm literally facepalming myself right now. Why are you messaging a girl who's sister you fucked? It's weird. It's scummy. She sees you as a weird, scummy creep, which is exactly what you are if you are hitting up the sister of a girl you fucked.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:52 PM
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Sister of a chick i banged (she saw me as a threat for his sis) Why are you trying to hit on the sister of a girl you banged? Sounds... Scummy. Convo via facebook: Alrighty. Me: Heyyy Why did you hit up the sister of a girl you fucked? It's weird. It's scummy. It's creepy. she: tell meee Tell her what? I don't understand the context here? All you said was "hey". me:how are you? Alright. she: good and you? Okay. me: (after a day) me too, what are you doing? Me too? she: i'm Shitting, and you? Hah…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:44 PM
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Yes you're overthinking. Wear whatever you're comfortable with. Show up in your pajamas if you want, which would be quite hilarious, and she'll likely laugh with you about it. Pack a bag. Bring it with you when you show up to her place. I do this allllllllll the time.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 11:28 PM
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Like any career, the military is for some, and it's not for others. I've seen some RPers bitch about the military, even prior veterans. I've seen some talk about it in high regards. I hold military service in very high regard. Air Force here. Deployed multiple times. Traveled the world for free, tons of stories, great brotherhood, life long friends. Is it all good? No. Is it the highest paying career ever? No. Does it pay well? Yes. In my mind, the military is Man Shit. Kill the enemy, break the…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 10:32 PM
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Secondly: I def notice girls eyeing me more / seeming to be attentive / notice my presence since lifting especially since it's started to show more. This is great! Good Fuckin Job! How else can I prepare myself for newfound attention? Be selfish. Enjoy it. Enjoy the attention. Also: I've noticed girls at my pt job being way more flirty Great! Just don't fuck anyone from your job. especially now that I'm near graduation for my coding class. You Nerd! ;) It's almost uncomfortable as it's not congr…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:18 PM
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Is this a RP question...?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 08:51 PM
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You can talk about literally anything; just be fun, outgoing, talkative, and don't take conversation too seriously. Like, one time, my brother tried to tell me "I wear X brand of jeans because ALL girls know the difference between Abercrombie and American Eagle jeans based on the stitching." Which is stupid, but whatever. Anyway, that night, the entire night out, my brother and I would approach groups of girls, and I would say "HEY! You're a group of girls! Y'all can answer something for me! My …
/r/askTRP06/11/18 07:51 PM
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If there were IOIs, great. Small window, could work in you favor. If she is eager to talk to you in that small window, that's a good sign. Yes, get her snap. Open snapchat, go to the "add friends" part, tap on it so the keyboard is open, and hand your phone to her during class, preferably while the teacher is talking so that it's nonchalant and smooth. Okay now that that's out of the way... Don't focus on one girl to be a girlfriend! Your mentality should be: I want to see if this girl is a good…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:10 AM
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We need more info to dissect the social situation. All you've told us is: There's a girl I like, I want a gf. We need more information.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 12:02 AM
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Incorrect, good sir. "Nothing is going to happen." "We're not going to have sex" Super Standard Shit Tests.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:55 PM
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This is too easy: AGREE AND AMPLIFY
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:48 PM
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This, 100% Yes it's a shit test. Dude, one time I met a girl for a one night stand, from Tinder, while in a Chicago. I matched with her a week before even going to Chicago, because I wanted to set up a one night stand while I was there. So I get to her house, this entire time we were vibing, it was all cool, nice girl. Already knew I was going to be staying the night, obviously. Get to making out, she told me she was on her period, which I knew was a lie. She said "we're not going to have sex," …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:41 PM
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Hi guys, Hello. I was hoping you could offer me some advice with a girl I am talking to. Sure thing, pal. Me (25M) recently started talking a few months ago to a girl (24F). Neato Bandito. She has told me several times she is concerned that I only want sex. Shit test. Each time this comes up I reassure her that is not the case Incorrect. You failed already. and I want a relationship. Translate = I'll be your beta orbiter, gurl. A few days ago this came up again Because she wanted to re-test you.…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 11:30 PM
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Hard to say, really. If you don't have one, don't worry about it. The only real advantage that it gives, is letting potential tinder prospects get a further glimpse into your life, as well as helping with comfort that you're not a serial killer (for the ones that are socially retarded). But it's not worth getting an instagram just for tinder if you don't have one already. Instagram is a phenomenal waste of time, really.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:52 PM
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I banged this girl in an LTR, then cut her off after 2 nights of wild sex. She couldn’t get enough. Why did you cut her off? Of course, she is still with that boyfriend. Poor guy. Yeah, poor guy. Anyways, she always tries to contact me on Instagram through my stories, which I usually ignore since I’m busy. Okay then Now, I want to fuck her again. So fuck her again. But, I want it clear that I JUST want to fuck, I'm assuming she does to. Which is why she's cheating on her BF with you. no going ou…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:47 PM
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Great book! Free? Bruh. Bro. Dude. Man. It's $12.88, Twelve Eighty Eight. Twelve Dollars and Eighty Eight Cents, on Amazon. . . Dot com.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:39 PM
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Use as many pics as you can upload. What types? All kinds. Out having fun. Smiling. Try to find ones with less sunglasses. Professional looking photographs are always best. Pics of you with other people. General lifestyle photos. Keep the bio light, fun, and interesting. Turn on "Smart Photos." Link your instagram, if you have one. Something I used to do, and it's super helpful: Any girlfriends you have, even if they're platonic, send them a shitload of pics, and ask them to pick the most attrac…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 07:55 PM
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I started working out 4 months ago. gained 8 pounds. I was so happy, Bad ass. then I stopped working out 2 months ago because I started accutane (acne drug). I think you still could have done some physical activity. It really fucked up my joints (i am not risking any permanent injury). This obviously led to me bulking less which slowed down my progress and made me lose most of the weight that I gained. I guess I should have been more clear. You're skinny as fuck, but want to be bigger; how's you…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:41 PM
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I approach so many girls all the time. Yet rejection, rejection, rejection. That does suck! It does happen though. I hate my job, Your attitude may have something to do with your rejection stats. Work on your inner self. have acne Ouch. and I am skinny as fuck. Ouch. I am not going to bore you with my emotional life story. Thank you. But basically I am working on improving all of these things i mentioned (working out, bulking, skincare, cold showers etc.). For the skin care, have you been to the…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:26 PM
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There's a lot of YouTube videos on this. Gold Standard is typically recognized as having all the best qualities. Body Fortress from Wal Mart is cheap, and surprisingly good whey, though it is higher in calories, carbs, and cholesterol per scoop. And of course there's the question of whether you even need to use protein supplement or not. If you're a big eater, then you could easily get away with stuffing down food instead, which is better. Me, personally, I'm not a big eater at all, so drinking …
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:57 PM
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Look into faceandLms. I will, later tonight, after my plate goes home. ​
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:59 PM
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If your attitude in real life is as shitty as it is here, then women are going to insult anything they can about you to get the creep away from them.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:58 PM
1

... What? Your post is incoherent.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:55 PM
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The blackpill: your dating life is predetermined by genetics and nothing you can do to change that fact. We know what it is. The redpill: women are attracted to certain characteristics in men that are more important than looks. And looks don't matter. Mmmm, Nope. True Red Pill philosophy has ever said "looks don't matter." I personally believe the blackpill is true I'm sorry. since it always proven time and time again. Negative. Women prefer looks over personality. Semi-Negative Lots of tinder e…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:48 PM
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I'm friends with my ex. We hang out, do all kinds of shit together, have sex occasionally. There's no emotion there, just friends. She's an ex for a reason, and that reason doesn't preclude us from being friends; quite simple. I don't think there's anything that says you can't be friends with your ex. It only just so happens that most people can't handle it, and it's usually because of an emotional attachment, orbiter/oneitis situation; which goes against RP philosophy. That's the problem. If yo…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:38 PM
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If you can't handle being around your ex without being pulled/losing frame, then you need to move on and ghost. There's nothing wrong with plating an ex, as long as you can emotionally handle it. So either back off emotionally, or back off physically.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:23 PM
1

You come off as exceptionally traditional. Are you religious, by chance? Church might be up your alley, if so. If not, then consider things like volunteering at homeless shelters, animal shelters, other community involvement, etc.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:37 AM
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There are decent, respectable women in all age groups. What you are experiencing is typical college girls. The demographic just isn't your cup of tea. Find a different demographic that better suits what you are looking for. Like, if you lived in China, and didn't like Chinese women, would you complain about Chinese women, or would you move to America? See my point? Best of luck.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 05:23 AM
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Cool move grabbing two cokes and giving her an ear to talk to. As get-tilted said though, the "as friends" comment is all you really need to know.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:29 AM
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"You know [name]?" "Yeah...I fucked one of her friends." Good you said this, some guys are very shy about their sexual nature. This is good. she keeps trying to work with this guy. And accomplishes nothing. At first I didn't think this was an interesting detail, but it's about to be. But why just sit on a couch? She moves one leg over the arm. She's cozying up. This girl is in control of her sexuality. Relaxed. She leans back a little bit. Like I said. She puts the other leg over. Yep Her head's…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 04:16 AM
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Well, man, you're doing more than most in life. Med school is a pretty big deal. She might want to adopt your Type A personality. Med Students/Doctors are a hypergamist's dream. Your career/future career alone should be enough for her to put in her best effort as far as her life skills.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 03:53 AM
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Totally makes sense. I applaud your method, sir. And at my blue collar 55k a year, it's not for me. Damn good niche, though.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:42 AM
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It's fairly normal, unfortunately. 2 years is a pretty good spread of time. I wouldn't throw that away just yet. Out of curiosity, what about you? How are you doing career wise; your primary fundamental skill as a man? I would sit her down and explain in detail what you are fed up with, and what you will not tolerate. Tell her you are beginning to see it as disrespectful to you as a boyfriend, and you expect better out of a girlfriend. Start on a positive note (You're good at this, you do this r…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:18 AM
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It's semi-important. But quite honestly, at your age, it's not the most important thing ever. What really matters the most is how you present yourself, your body language, etc. Fashion gets more important the older you are, because it becomes expected. At 14 though, you can dress like a bag of shit and still get girls attention as long as you're the cool guy.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 02:09 AM
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A little bit of a shit test. Do not ignore! Use it! Something like "Yeah I'm getting into the biz. I'm going to have to start charging you $50 per session from here on out". Something like that. Make it fun.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:21 AM
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Glad your night got turned around! Sometimes it's worth it, man. Memories for the book!
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:16 AM
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Interesting game. Out of curiosity, what sugar daddy websites are you using? Seeking costs $90 a month. That's a pretty steep investment, in my opinion.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 01:03 AM
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Very interesting situation. Or, you could go there, and just dance with her. Any IOIs you get, just toy with them, toy with her, and insist that you are only there to dance. If she gets frustrated and starts flirting, feed it back to her: Hey bud! I'm here to dance. Toy with the puppet. And, this is just me, but this also sounds like a situation where she could claim sexual assault. But that's just my paranoia, I don't trust them...
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:34 AM
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Just tone it down some maybe. You can still be shit-talky, of course. If it's affecting your social interactions, definitely tone it down. Or, stay shit-talky, but go way over the top with your body language to make it more than clear that you're just being fun. As an example: There's a reason why some guys (my brother) can walk up to a girl and say "DAMN GIRL! Do you shit with that ass?!" It's all about the vibe and body language. If I used that line, I'd get slapped; my body language would nev…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 12:22 AM
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I understand your predicament. I can assure you Seeking will not be good for you. My ex (who I'm still friends with) go on there, I help her bait guys, and she gets paid out the ass (10/10). You will get little to no fulfillment from these girls. They are beyond hypergamy. If you want to fuck high priced gorgeous hookers, then it's going to be for you. But past that, it's just not worth it. As a side note, for that whole mess: The girls on there are in this odd state of mind where many of them t…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:43 PM
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Shit happens man, sometimes it just isn't happening, you're not vibing well, things are off. So this weekend wasn't your weekend; big fuckin' deal bro. Sounds like you had fun Saturday, focus on that. Fuck a hooker if you want; if you feel like it'll be fun. Do what you want. Just don't focus on one bad weekend.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:35 PM
1

I ask "do you go to school?" She says "yea I'm first year uni." "Oh, let me guess. Psychology. ;)" "Omg how did you know!" "You look like a psychology type of girl :)" Good enough. She gives me a weird look. She says "So are you in school?" "Yea" "What are you taking" "What would you guess based on talking to me" Still good. another weird look "uh how am I supposed to know?!..." I just stay silent and look at her. Cool beans... she looos back " you have an attitude" I say smiling Eek. Too much t…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:20 PM
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Easy, just be friendly, don't be needy, don't ask her/beg for attention, don't be a dickhead. Pursue your other leads actively!!! It will help you even the playing field in your mind, and the plate process will come easily. For me, personally (and others may have different rules for themselves), I always keep the texting up after a first lay. Don't blow up her phone, but I definitely don't ignore a girl for a few days after a first lay. This will make her feel used, etc, and she will back away. …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:10 PM
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Yeah, or something. Shit man, even doing street performing for tips is viable. A little extra tip money for playing guitar/singing on the sidewalk. Nothing wrong with it. Do you brother.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 11:02 PM
1

This question can't really be answered here. Everyone has their thing, man. Me, personally, I love money. I turned my hobby into a business, and now make money with it. But maybe you're not entirely money driven? Maybe you get more enjoyment out of playing guitar? Maybe your desire to get better clothes outweighs your desire to play guitar/be in clubs. This is a very you thing. No one here can really answer it. We can only tell you what works for us, not what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:18 PM
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To be fair. Since you seem stuck on "Trying Anyway.". . . Just say something like "Too soon? haha, dork :P " Or send her a GIF (Search "James Franco" and send her the one of James Franco standing up and looking down with a funny looking face). It's not going to work, but that's the best you can do.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:14 PM
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I know exactly what your thought process is, and I understand where you're coming from, and I disagree for a few reasons: Why would you want to have to convince a girl to come out on a date? 1. 2: The type of girl who needs extra comfort to meet in a public location is likely not a winner, and a social retard. Thirdly, Tinder has a purpose, and she knows that. If she is not willing to abide by these very basic digital social purposes, then she's not worth the effort. (What are the purposes of Ti…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:11 PM
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I agree here. Nothing compares to in person body language. I think the video chat is a good bridge for this, but still nothing compares to text/call for logistics for an in-person meet up.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:03 PM
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There's no hard rule. Just do what you're best at. Used to, there was a hard rule in PUA community to not text, but to do phone calls only. I think this rule is dying/dead. No one does phone calls anymore. ​ Video chat seems to be pretty damned common though, I've noticed. It seems to be a pretty good bridge to getting to know someone and get things more personal. ​ If you randomly video call her during a text-spree, and she doesn't answer, and texts you instead asking why you video called her, …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 10:01 PM
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She's likely on Tinder for validation. No one was hitting on her in real life, so she needs validation, and downloaded Tinder to get it. What should you reply? Nothing. It's a waste of time. Don't even unmatch her. Just quit talking to her. No biggie, man. Next :)
/r/askTRP04/11/18 09:56 PM
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Shrugging it off is definitely a pass. I get caught up in it all too. Yeah man, be yourself, as long as it's the best version of yourself, and yourself isn't a total pusshole. :D
/r/askTRP04/11/18 08:39 PM
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Yeah man I mean even there were hiccups here and there, I think the overarching point is that the night as a whole went pretty well in your favor. And yeah dude, don't take the nice guy comments literally, ever. Again, they allllllll say they want the nice guy, they don't like chads, etc. I never take this literally. Sometimes I'll say "Oh yeah, I want a nice guy too. Pay by bills, rub my feet, bring me flowers, sing me to sleep, blow my phone up, I want a nice guy in my life. Lets go find a nic…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:39 PM
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I can't help but think: What if a guy compared a girl to one of his (platonic) girlfriends? Guys pass this type of comparison off, we dust it off our shoulder. Stupid, but meh! Whatever. Girls though. Can you imagine if you compared a girl to one of your platonic girlfriends? That would be a fucking nuclear explosion. Anyway... What to do? Depends on if you want to keep the plate. If you want to drop the plate, drop her, "I understand where you're coming from, you need a guy like Orbit. I don't …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:25 PM
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I read what you posted a couple times, and I honestly don't see the problem? Let's analyze: After trying to internalize TRP for a year, I feel as if it hasn’t changed my behaviour or personality, rather now I just understand women better and their tendencies. While I never really had problems attracting women because my looks help me out (been told by many women that I am attractive), my lack of game stops me from pulling women. Lack of game? We'll see. I’ve read NMMNG and I am nowhere near the …
/r/askTRP04/11/18 07:10 PM
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Just out of curiosity, how old are you? How old is she? Women often think their vagina is the only currency they need. 'Oh babe you wanna withhold sex? Cool story, new brother, you may as well have a penis then, bud; I'm gonna go find a girl'
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:59 PM
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She is suicidal, depressed. ... Someone that is mysterious, strong, Strong... STRONG? You have built an image of this girl in your mind that doesn't exist. Only when she feels like it and have the mood to go out. "Hi, my name is Ms. Shits the Bed, welcome to my frame, chump" I didn’t manage to make an impression Whew! Thank god that's over. but not so much as in I mostly just trying to figure her out. Oh. . . It's not over? Trying to figure her out? What is there to figure out? You know everythi…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 06:51 PM
1

I understand where you're coming from. I like the last thing you said: "I don't want to talk about your guy friends" she probably wouldn't really have anything to talk about. If this is the case, then great. Let that be it then. I mean think about it, man: You can tell her what you don't want to hear, and if she has nothing else to talk about, then you get to be the guy who was cool enough to still be friendly, but have standards for who you're friends with. If she has nothing else to talk about…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:50 AM
1

You can get over oneitis and still be friends with a girl. I understand you don't want to be her emotional tampon, and that's great; keep that mentality. But nothing says you can't still be friends with her. Unless of course she just disgusts you as a human being. If you can be friends with her, and go about your merry way, then I don't see anything particularly wrong with that. But if you can't be friends with her without going back to beta cuck orbiter ways; then obviously just keep distancing…
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:22 AM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:02 AM
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I responded that everything is ok. I think this is where you broke your frame. Her childish pic of her crying got exactly what it was aimed to do; your validation for her bad behavior. Next time, respond with something like "you know what went wrong," etc.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:47 PM
1

Big red flag for a relationship. Polyamory is a good theory, and worth talking about, but ultimately it fails miserably in 99.9% of scenarios. I believe Jordan Peterson covered this extensively on a Joe Rogan podcast. Don't do anything different. She'll likely be more honest with you about how many partners she has at any given time. Probably a good idea to keep your dick wrapped up with her. One of my best plates ever was polyamorous. When I say best; I mean this girl was a certifiable genius. …
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:20 PM
1

What's your question?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 09:16 PM
1

Just out of curiosity, what was the line?
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:37 PM
1

No paying huh? Is that why your post history talks about how much to pay girls? Go cuck, Chuck.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:27 PM
1

Upset that my ex gets gamed? Not even slightly. She's an ex for a reason, for one. Two, and this is the third time I've stated this: I help her bait beta cucks into giving her money. Pretty sure "upset" doesn't even begin to qualify. The only ones getting gamed are the ones dumb enough to pay $90 for a website that promises pay for play.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:08 PM
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Yeah, good job on going dumpster diving. Where could I find a basic pricing guide and any experienced SD have a guide on how to protect ourselves? Quite young, made quite a lot and looking to have fun and spoil people, university student aswell! \^\^This is from another one of your posts. There is nothing Red Pill about this post, or your post history. You are getting guaranteed dates with prostitutes. I have no problem with paying prostitutes for services. But do yourself and everyone here a fa…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 08:02 PM
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I'm just not seeing what this chick did wrong here. I had to read this post three times, and I still can't see it. It appears to be all you, unfortunately.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:39 PM
1

Bro... Seeking costs like $90 a month, 1. "Acted" like a sugar daddy? Define the word "acted," please. In order to even message a girl on that garbage website, you have to pay $90 for a membership. Thirdly, Learn game? Excuse me? Guaranteed dates? Of course they're guaranteed! These girls are looking for a free ride, first and foremost. Expect to drain your wallet more than you could dream, for little to no return. You're not fooling any of these girls. I am very familiar with Seeking/Seeking Ar…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 07:36 PM
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This guy is helping you. By talking shit about you, he is running your game FOR YOU. Pay him no mind. Don't let her know that it bothers you (as it SHOULDN'T). If she brings him up, talk positively about him. She will likely talk about some girl he likes. Say things like "that's so kind of him", "what a sweetheart," shit like that. Just remember; this guy is helping you and he doesn't even know it. Love every fucking second of it!
/r/askTRP03/11/18 04:12 AM
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Let's hear 'em man. My general theory about those TBH: It's girls looking for attention, A, and her exchange for that attention is to validate Betas blowing her up. I don't see any way around that fairly algebraic social media situation. But I'm curious about your thoughts.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:46 PM
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It's garbage. Don't feed the monster posting it.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 07:40 PM
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When you say "talking". Have you had sex with them? Known them for a short period of time? If all you've done is talked, and not known them for a pretty good amount of time, and you're getting feelings, then I think you might need to up your Red Pill dosage. I'm just making assumptions here though, based on what little information you provided.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 03:24 AM
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what do i do now? Move on, ghost. When she messages you again, screenshot the convo, circle "this is over, bye" in red, and send it to her. ​
/r/askTRP02/11/18 12:20 AM
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Anytime. I can assure you, the answers are quite simple as far as this goes. It's really just about doing the right thing; what normal people normally do. Get your diploma, get your career going, do all the right things. In the meantime (between now and 18/diploma), maybe do some volunteer work, get a shitty job digging ditches for a plumbing company or something. Use your past experience of fucking up to know the right way vs the wrong way. You already know this, it's just a matter of applying …
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:49 PM
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I think those of us that are successful could offer lots of tips. But the real question is, will you listen? Clearly you have a streak of bad choices. But yeah. I've got tips: Graduate High School, then Go to College OR Join the Military OR Get a job in High Paying Manual Labor (Construction/Oil/etc) Quit using drugs until you have your life together Quit getting in trouble with your poor choices; i.e. quit committing crimes.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 10:39 PM
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What this guy said. I'll just add one experience I had. A very good friend I had a few years ago, we got on the subject of what we were, and we both agreed to "Best Friends Forever with Benefits." Fun while it lasted.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:24 PM
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Do what works best for you and your personality, man. Hours/Days rules will just hold you back. Do what works for you and your situation. Something I've done in the past: Right after getting her number, I'll say something to the effect of "Yeah so apparently we're supposed to wait 3 days to text each other, but I'm kinda sorta a little bit of a rule breaker... So I'm gonna text you like... Right this damned second!" Then I'll text her "hey cutie" or "sup homeskillet" while standing there talking…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 06:02 PM
1

What? Who cares if she gets hit on a lot? Any time I bring a girl with me and she gets hit on, it's a good thing for me. If she meets some guy and goes home with him, great! Glad my bud got laid; on to the next one. If she gets hit on and gravitates toward me, great! Glad I could get a new plate. Simple exchange: Girl: "That guy asked for my number" Me: "Oh yeah! Bad fuckin' ass! High five! He looks good too, you should go home with him" Girl: "...He's not my type though" (now the hamster starts…
/r/askTRP01/11/18 02:06 AM
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Just party and have fun. Have zero expectations out of her. She's one of your buds; treat her as such. Buy her AND one of your friends drinks. Just party with your new pal, pal. She's already interested enough to come out for the night with you, if she's interested in more, she'll let you know. Enjoy yourself, she'll follow if she's enjoying you, too. Simple.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 12:07 AM
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Elaborate...
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:59 PM
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A couple things: Fucking in the car is fun. It's spontaneous, it's exciting, it's hot. Get over it. Just be sure to crack the window, because the car will fog up. Girls don't care if you live with your parents, Move out of your parents house! :D
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:26 PM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP31/10/18 11:16 PM
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Too Easy: Be super cool about it. Don't let anyone know that it bothers you, even a little. In this specific situation, you could have smiled (smirked), widened your eyes, point at him, and just look at your other friends without saying a word. The non verbal communication here is: "Is this little bitch serious? Hey everyone, look at what a little bitch this bitch is" Don't talk shit about him in your group of friends. If someone says something about him, defend him in some way. Saying something…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 10:30 PM
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What are you wanting to network for? To meet women? I think it's best to do what you want, and do your own thing. Me, personally, I am a Jeweler and Watchmaker by trade (started as a hobby). My network comprises of mostly old men and women. The interactions with women is through either making, or repairing their jewelry. In my opinion, it's best to have a hobby that you enjoy, by yourself, and if that happens to flow into meeting women; great. If not; who gives a fuck. It gives you value to have…
/r/askTRP30/10/18 11:02 PM
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I wouldn't have blocked her. I would have just ghosted her and let her reach out at a later date, and arrange for her to come to your door, no strings attached.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 10:53 PM
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