So last night I posted a question about this but there’s been an update to the situation.

Me and this girl kind of hit it off. We are both young, but shes 3 years younger than me. Barely 18. She’s a virgin and didn’t have much experience before me. We’ve been hanging out for only a few weeks now, but things are going great.

She is very into me and very invested. I was the first guy to eat her out, I was the first guy she ever gave a blow job to, and yesterday she had her first mouthful of cum from me (twice actually). She swallowed every drop and said she loved it and told me “you taste so sweet”. She calls me daddy and is always telling me how she cant stand how hot I am, that I make her “feel so safe”, etc. I made her cum 4 times last night. We are most likely going to fuck soon, now that we’ve gotten the other things out of the way.

The last times we’ve hung out she’s pressed for some commitment and I’ve been doing a good job deflecting and putting it off. The first time she said she wanted to be a thing. Then last night she asked if we were exclusive. I basically just told her

“I mean we’ve only known each other for a little while, but I’d like to get to know you more”

And then it was dropped. Had a great rest of our night. Then this morning I wake up to a missed call from her and a text that reads:

“If you wanna be with me, I wanna be exclusive. So that's your choice, I really like you but I dont want to be led on”

She just basically kept saying she really likes me a lot but that she doesn’t know if I’m serious about dating her, doesn’t want to be led on, wants me to be honest with her, etc.

Usually I’d be rolling my eyes, but because she’s very young and giving up a lot of her firsts to me, I understand that she wants exclusivity. I personally have no problem with exclusivity as I’ve been focusing on myself lately and honestly have no time to spin plates or deal with extended girl drama.

I do like her and would be okay LTRing her. But I also don’t want to give away my commitment. In my mind, exclusivity isn’t quite the same as commitment (although it can be a type of commitment) as I wasn’t fucking around with anyone else anyway (therefore exclusivity wouldn’t cost me anything).

My response was:

“If you are asking for exclusivity, that's okay. I just want to make it clear that being exclusive doesn't mean that if we don't work then either of us should feel obligated to stay in something that's not the best for us. Are we on the same page there?” (As in, we wont fuck anyone else but we aren’t committed to anything super serious).

She said “Yeah, totally”

And so I finally said

“Okay. Then I'm willing to be with you. But if I'm gonna do this I want all of you”.

I figured that if she wanted my exclusivity, then in return she should fully give me her body. I didn’t want it to come across as too “transactional”, so I worded it suggestively.

Did I deal with this in an okay way for what I want? I’m fine trying out an LTR with her because she’s been a good little girl for me so far, but I don’t want to give up all the commitment power I have. I also want to fuck her senseless and I know she wants that too. At the same time I understand why she’s doing this - the situation is a little different because she is giving me her body in ways she hasn’t given it out before. It’s not like some girl who’s ridden the CC suddenly asking for commitment or wanting to wait to have sex to play manipulation games.

Regardless, I am willing to walk away but I would rather not ruin this for no reason. She does seem to be a decent girl (I could be wrong). At the same time, there’s no way in hell I’m becoming someone else’s bitch.

Thoughts? Suggestions? Advice?