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| 21 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in trouble | Capable_Pudding8061 | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 11:00 PM |
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| 28 | Why do women want their men to "improve" themselves after work?They probably see applying make up as self-improvement. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/24 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Merely stating facts is now considered “incelly”I don't even think most incels are really violent at the grand scheme of things. Else we'd be having shootings and stabings every single day (massive ones). Society at large is fucking up by isolating boys at the school level and later on in life. If they wanted to decrease the incidents, they shouldn't resort to shaming or ignoring tactics. It's apparent to me, a lot of people don't know how much hate could consume a person to the point of no reutrn. To add to your comment, i don't how much of … | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Merely stating facts is now considered “incelly”Great answer. I've found most women are just boring if there isn't anything that leasds to sex. And that's not even a problem tbh. The problems is they think they are god's most beautiful creation and i should beg them for their attention. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Merely stating facts is now considered “incelly”About your last sentence. Do you think society really cares if you just vent out your problems and remain calm? Like let's say a group of 10.000 men sign a petition about being discriminated about being virgins, it gains tractions, it even gets discussed in a parlaiment. But do you think anything is going to change after that? I think it's just going to be labeled as smelly virgins who don't know their place in the world. Did black people and lgbt people got their right just by sitting idly? Wou… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Men as a gender cannnot be blamed for bad apples or some women's choicesIt's funny how women like to project the good looking men's flaws to the whole male gender. | /r/MensRights | 03/07/24 04:25 PM |
| 21 | We have a generation of men who don't know what they are doing wrong.I came to the same conclusion. I've been trying for 5-6 years now with lackluster success and only almost 2 weeks ago i decided to pretty much give up on the pursuit for the time being. I'm in my early 20s and by the account of older generations, it shouldn't be this impossible and risky. It's actually insane how much time and effort i've wasted, for basically nothing. But i guess the experience is valuable since it showed the the right path for me. If i continue to pursue women right now, i kno… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/24 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Which words and phrases are some examples of hate speech or misandry against men?All of these you mentioned are very much infuriating in their own right. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/24 04:03 PM |
| 2 | I feel like men today are expected to live up to a stereotype while other genders can express themselves freelyOne perk of being a man is using logic and using it to your advantage. If society treats me like a machine or an object (the whole women are human beings, men are human doings) then i will use that but to my own advantage to benefit my own life in the future while at the same time i intend to contribute as little as possible to this gyconectric society. It can burn for all i care. | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Feminism claiming the loneliness epidemic?Sexual market value | /r/MensRights | 27/12/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?I'm from an Eastern European country and there's no such thing as "no feminism" | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 06:09 PM |
| 6 | Is it wrong to ask why Ukraine won't draft young able bodied women?> "Don't believe in feminism" yet they get to experience all the benefits and yet claiming to be traditional (and probably viewed it). Best of both worlds for them. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 07:07 AM |
| 6 | Has modern feminism ever helped men in some ways?Yep, Men still have the role of providing while still having to court women in the age of feminism, while having to self beautify themselves (which wasn't needed before and is so emasculating). It's funny because at the same time, women have the same role of the housewife while being a boss babe and chasing a career. It's their fault they wanted to drive on both lanes. Women still obviously want a husband to make more than them lol so nothing has changed, except the level of competition. | /r/MensRights | 20/11/23 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Reading stuff online about male birth control hurts my headWell, just imagine who knows how many years from now (100 - 1000) that giving birth through the natural way will be obsolete. If you did it the natural way, your child would probably be physically weaker, less intelligent and shorter. They would just be behind, not to mention the immune system that these "super humans" would have compared to ordinary ones. And who knows if some doctor is willing to deliver the baby. Tbh if it reduces the female power structure, i'm all for it. Don't think it wil… | /r/MensRights | 03/11/23 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Are Incels actually...Harmless?!we should be helping, to ultimately prevent them becoming monsters who carry out heinous crimes. If you really want to help them, legalize prostitution globally. If men can't satisfy their need of sex (yes NEED, not want if you have testosterone) that is heavily gatekeeped by women to the point where average men need to obtain impossible things in order to get access, it's only logical to think some men are going to get violent, maybe quit from society in droves (which is actually worse for soci… | /r/MensRights | 30/10/23 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel online dating is alienating the sexes more?I've done a tinder experiment with some random male model. Let me just stay, the conversations flowed without too much hassle and i was just saying whatever came to my mind. The convos i had were not really special, just everyday talk and you could easily arrange for a date. | /r/MensRights | 26/10/23 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel online dating is alienating the sexes more?no young man’s should be thinking “it’s over” just because of there looks. If you mean young as in not finished the physical development stage, i agree. Your 12 old cousin still has 5-8 years of that. And i don't know why guys are obsessed with looksmaxxing to the extent that they talk like scientists with how they use words describing aspects of one's face and body that can't be changed just like that (except surgery which i don't advocate for). At most i'd just say, don't be fat, dress your ag… | /r/MensRights | 26/10/23 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Iceland PM to strike over gender pay gapMaybe, just maybe those same women could get into careers that actually pay well instead of complaining about the patriarchy. But that requires years of effort to solve rather than the instant gratification of yelling pay gap. At least today you can't make the argument that women are excluded from academic opportunities or educate themselves to work in a more lucrative field. | /r/MensRights | 24/10/23 11:40 AM |
| 4 | I cringe at idea of marriageTbh where i'm from (in the Balkans) the marriage laws are actually very fair as far as i know. What you owned before the marriage belongs to you after a potential divorce, and what was acquired during the marriage itself is shared 50/50. So even if you fuck up by choosing the wrong person, i don't think you would lose a whole lot. Now i'm saying this from a strictly financial standpoint. Mentally and physically i don't know, depends on the marriage itself. I cringe at the idea of marriage too lo… | /r/MensRights | 16/10/23 08:42 PM |
| 3 | How do you get rejected your whole life and not be bitter?Same, i don't really give a fuck if someone rejects me if such opportunity came along. Before it used to bother me so much, but i'm very numbed and don't care. I only care about maximizing my own enjoyment in life, other people's opinion be damned. If i can't get it from conventional means, i have no problem going through the alternative route. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/23 08:42 AM |
| 8 | Why hate women?I hate humanity as a whole. | /r/AllPillDebate | 01/08/23 10:37 AM |
| 7 | "Women these days want men who are emotionally available and emotionally intelligent"Touch deez nuts | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 11:19 AM |
| 1 | "Women these days want men who are emotionally available and emotionally intelligent"They conveniently forget to mention they have looks as a requirement besides those requirements. Actually if you don't meet the looks criteria, even if you were really emotioanlly available and emotionally inteliigent (whatever the fuck those terms mean in reality) you can't get her. Do they seriously expect a top 10 % man to be automatically loyal and have these traits when he can easily replace her. Instead they shouldn't listen to their ego and make it work with a guy on their level. I'm sure… | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 11:18 AM |
| 23 | A woman yelled at me for checking my watch during the Barbie movie. The whole theater felt cult like.This | /r/MensRights | 22/07/23 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is the worse/harmful sub out thereSeduction/Game is basically jestermaxxing for a girl in hopes of convicing/secucing/manipulating her into liking you. You're not even being yourself, it's just an act to aqquire it by talking and body language. Only genuine sexual desire comes from looks. No other way around it. You just exist and say whatever. boom, job done. I definitely don't envy men who try the PUA route, it's undignified and feels like you're a dog looking for a treat. Not saying it doesn't happen if you're at least a 4-5 … | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/07/23 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troublesure, i have no idea what that is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/07/23 12:47 AM |
| 2 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityYes, you should take the chance to improve them when the opportunity presents itself, with experience you definitely can, mostly working or in school even. It's outside of that people don't want you to bother them. You will be just yelled to fuck off. Funny how you social skills copers never tell others how to actually improve them, just "social skills brahh you need them" | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleNah, women have already determined that. And besides i don't think there are any girls you can approach lol you rarely see young people at all, they be just staying inside their circles. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleThey are just in the business of selling overpriced courses for approaching to desperate guys. If they simply said outhright that it isn't all meant to be and were trutful about the factors for success, almost nobody would be bying it. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleAgreed though the conditions for an approach are almost always non-existent. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleI'm 20. Why i don't go for younger than 18 is obvious. And older than 20 i don't think it would work out. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleNo point in talking to women for dating related stuff unless you're 7+ in looks, that's the conclusion. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleNah all women are the same. Why would anyone who is jaded should care about being a good person and brightening someone's day when people walk all over you. If anything you could get shit on if you're kind so why even bother. It's like i don't expect anything for being nice but being walked all over, why?? | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleIf i was attractive i'd just slide into DMs and not bother approaching. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleIf you need a dating coach, it's a wrap. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubletrouble part is a meme. Idk why guys online think women will scream rape if you walk up and compliment them. Even it happening once is a big risk. What should a guy think when he reads a tweet that says men shouldn't approach women ever in public with 30K likes. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:20 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleDid it at least work lol | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:17 AM |
| 6 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleYeah exactly. If you're in some place and she gives you the looks, giving you signals that you should approach, in that case it makes sense. It's very easy to figure out if someone is interested. | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleObviously you can approach someone other than for dating. If i'm in a situation when i need someone i approach them and make small talk, doesn't matter if it's man or woman. I think it's pointless to do it with woman since you're basically just simping, you won't get anything out of it, ultimately she's the winner because you gave her attention and you didn't even get anything in return, i'm not even talking about sex, but at least something insightful that you can learn from or something in tha… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 10:14 AM |
| 4 | Cold approaching is pointless and it could get you in troubleIt's funny how you think that cold approach only works by being attractive, but you don't think the same applies to online dating (it's worse). You misunderstood me. Being attractive is the #1 thing that matters, doesn't matter where you present yourself. You missed the whole point of the thread. I'm not scared of being perceived as creepy, i know how to behave and what i can say vs what i can not say. I don't even give a shit about rejections. I've pretty much killed off my ego, it doesn't affe… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/07/23 12:56 AM |
| 7 | If you are unsuccessful with women, it is 100% your fault. You are not a victim. Being attractive is not a static or predetermined qualityYeahhh social skills, where you can't even improve them unless other people give you the chance. And chances are if you aren't good looking you likely won't get the opportunities for it. See how your arguement falls apart? And before you assume, i have a decent level of social skills, i'm not a neckbeard or a basement dweller, and women don't want to do anything to do with you even if you're the god of social skills but you're ugly. Social skills is important for connections, working and busines… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/07/23 09:02 PM |
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