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Ok, that makes sense. Now, I need to figure out how to lead her there.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 11:27 AM
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You see what you want to see. I honestly believed it wasn't a place I needed to lead. Obviously, I was wrong. <fin> The system here is not as restrictive as in the states, presumably. Here we can literally go anywhere to see a doctor without worry if this or that insurance provider covers the care. While this is good, it also means there's no strict schedule and a bit of autonomy is expected.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 05:09 AM
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Yes, I understand. I didn't expect it to give us a diagnosis. Last time nuchal translucency was fine, but Quad blood test showed a higher than average risk for her age. So based on those 2 pieces of evidence, and her age, we decided not to do the amnio. This time around, we're only going to have the quad blood test and she's older, meaning risks are higher. See what I mean?
/r/askMRP20/04/17 01:25 AM
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Haha. What I did wrong, apparently, was assume that she knew what to do and when to do it b/c she did with the last pregnancy. I'm sure a smart man like you can see how that's not the same thing as me not paying attention to her pregnancy.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 01:10 AM
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Fair. But if you would read everything I wrote, her lack of critical thinking and finesse with words to get what she and I are after precedes RP. So do you mean that being submissive to me means being submissive in all her relationships to the point where, in many cases, she fails to act effectively?
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:21 AM
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Your really overstating the inaccuracies of the test and downplaying its role in creating a risk profile. It's not hedging for reasons to not take the pregnancy to term. Both of us would be OK ending a pregnancy if there's a high probability of a chromosomal defect. This is no way ruining the unpredictability of a birth. It's making the adult decision to look at potentially uncomfortable information so that we can make the best decision for our family.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:18 AM
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Thanks
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:12 AM
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I guess I don't. They seem mutually exclusive to me. How is anyone who follows independent?
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:11 AM
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Thanks!
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:10 AM
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Ok, fair. I'll consider that.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:10 AM
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Thanks, I will think on that.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:10 AM
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I agree with most of that. I haven't internalized everything.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:10 AM
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Where in the sidebar does it stay that a Captain stays with a FO no matter what? I'm voicing a doubt about my FO that I've had for a long time.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:08 AM
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Dude, read carefully. The window passed to have the nuchal translucency test. In addition to that, we wanted to have an ultrasound done to know the sex.
/r/askMRP20/04/17 12:07 AM
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I think you're getting ahead of yourself, mate.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:32 PM
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And it's basically how she approaches most confrontations, even if the confrontation is asking a tough question.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:29 PM
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You are right. Great advice. In some regards, I still am in her frame.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:28 PM
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If my wife is shrewder than I think, it's a decade-long game. I really doubt it.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:27 PM
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Not where I live. You show up and get an ultrasound if you want it. Nationalized Health Care.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:26 PM
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Fair.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:11 PM
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We went to the first ultrasound together. It was great. This appointment was rushed and I couldn't make it b/c of trying to get the nuchal transparency done. I will step up on this one and be sure to schedule and appointment when I can be there ASAP. Thanks!
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:10 PM
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It's not the submissive bit I'm unhappy with though maybe I didn't fully understand what it was and now I'm seeing it. I really don't know. Any tips on how to guide my wife to independence? And isn't that a paradox? I thought the RP dynamic was male led. If I lead her to independence, why would she follow me?
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:09 PM
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Right. Thanks.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:07 PM
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Thanks, man. This wife-as-teenager thing keeps slipping out of my mind. I appreciate your words. Less intelligent wife is not a bad thing? I will think about that. I've been avoiding this for years, ashamed to admit it until recently, sure it "meant" I must leave to find someone more on my level.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:06 PM
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I will. Thanks.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:05 PM
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It would. Thanks.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:04 PM
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This dynamic is much older than her pregnancy.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:04 PM
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The test isn't diagnostic. You're right. But it does play a role in creating a risk profile which influences the decision to have an amniocentesis or not.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:03 PM
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Yes, I have let the responsible teenager idea slip out of my mind.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:02 PM
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Thanks. That's helpful.
/r/askMRP19/04/17 06:02 PM
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You're a year in, huh? Yep. My post is all about her. I find myself in a relationship with a FO whose performance is lacking. What do you want/need to know about me? Your explanation of Teach-Mentor-Train is interesting. I'll put that on the clipboard. How do I teach thinking? Because that is most definitely what this is about. In a situation with an authority--doctor, boss, etc. My wife either does not ask questions or make statements to get what she wants. This and living with her for a decade…
/r/askMRP19/04/17 04:04 PM
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I'm not sure about you, but I've experienced enough of life to know that there are some dumb people in this world. My wife just happens to fall more on the slower end of the spectrum. Do I have a strong ego because I recognize that? Where am I failing? I'm building a side hustle that could become a real ticket to financial freedom for everyone on board. I work on it in every free moment that I have. Which means I've let things around the house slide. I am failing to keep the ship neat and tidy. …
/r/askMRP19/04/17 03:34 PM
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About the test...no, I didn't lead on what needed to be done. For our first child, everything went smoothly in the sense that she handled the responsibility well. My attitude is anything but carefree. A big part of my RP journey has been learning to be more playful and NGAF. Realistically, I cannot lead in every front of both of our lives. If she cannot be trusted with responsibility, then why is she here? I assumed, maybe incorrectly, that she should take responsibility for the pregnancy. Of co…
/r/askMRP19/04/17 03:23 PM
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Take an improv class.
/r/askMRP21/03/17 12:30 AM
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Wow. Didn't see that one coming.
/r/askMRP12/03/17 01:36 AM
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Awesome.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 01:49 AM
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Thanks for that.
/r/askMRP07/03/17 01:49 AM
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Thanks man. I appreciate you taking the time. You sound level-headed and you make sense. Like I said in my other response to you, I will consider your words.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:21 PM
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Right. Honestly, the sneaky way feels...unctuous. The alpha way is just a bit more difficult to accept b/c I am risking a direct confrontation that can affect my ship and her crew. I will consider this. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:19 PM
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What? You reported me for trolling? How old are you? That is the funniest thing that I've seen today! It's not complicated. If I make an overt attempt to get rid of the dog, fail or win, I will have started something with neighbors who have done some fucked up shit to others they have disagreed with. That's not something I'm willing to risk getting started. Does that make more sense?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:17 PM
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Hahaha! You're right.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:09 PM
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Thanks. I will consider this.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:08 PM
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Thanks, mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:07 PM
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Yeah, I hear you. I go back and forth about this one, mainly b/c of this family's reputation. If I go overt like that and involve the authorities then I've made them lose massive, massive face and they will be enemies. No doubt about that. So I may win the battle only to start a war. See what I mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:06 PM
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Why's that?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:04 PM
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Thanks, man. Your experience shines through. I'll consider the justifiable, but not covert plan. Much obliged.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:03 PM
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Hint 1: I have done some shit. Hint 2: I think you mean I reek of social autism, which is weird not only b/c you misspelled it but b/c the word means to smell real bad and I'm not sure how you smell me through the computer and also b/c I don't think the autism spectrum breaks down into social and non-social aspects. But what do I know, I'm just some smelly autistic guy in asia looking for excuses to kill mistreated animals. Carry on, Captain.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:01 PM
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I haven't done anything overtly with the neighbors b/c I do not want to create enemies. See the comment about the car they torched. And the idea of poisoning the dog is to make it look like natural causes, which I think isn't too difficult to do. I will check out the book.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 12:57 PM
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Yeah, I hear ya. It's not an easy thing to consider. Agreed, after writing this, seeing the costs, it does seem way too high. I appreciate your input. Thanks, mate.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 05:09 AM
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Yeah, it's the corner of internet where I've found the most down to earth men. If you've got another, please share.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 04:50 AM
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Right. They're not really pets are they, if they've been so badly mistreated that nobody can touch them? I've listened to them being beaten on more than one occasion. While I thought it was clear in my OP, perhaps I wasn't--this is not a knee-jerk response from me. What part of my post made you think it was? Ahh...it probably wasn't my post so much as your assumptions about the world and how it should be. I'm going to go out on a limb here and assume you've not spent much time in Asia, have not …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 04:35 AM
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Ok, I think I get it. So by not tolerating it, does that mean setting a boundary? As in, "wife, I know you're pregnant and I know you're going through a lot of changes, yada yada yada and I still don't want to hear you bitching at the sky for being blue." I get the difference between the two, but not tolerating must surely mean doing something about it. Right? Or am I missing something?
/r/askMRP06/03/17 03:10 AM
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Thanks for the input. I could have searched, but I actually want to have conversations with people. Yeah, I agree with you that most of the advice from the experienced is to ease up slightly, don't make any sudden moves, but in general, keep on with the red pill. The advice I've gotten here is to be more oak, tolerate more moodiness as long as it's not directed at me or my son. The difference being is that if she's bitchy when not pregnant, I'll set a hard boundary. But now, my plan is to not se…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:31 AM
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This is the balance I'm trying to find. From what I've read about pregnancy before is that I need to be careful b/c her hormones are all over the place, meaning she's even more emotional. But where do I draw the line. I read somewhere else that, in general, we put up with more moodiness as long as it's communicated as disrespect towards me or the other members of the crew. So if she wants to curse at the sky for being blue, fine. But she can't bitch at me for the sky being blue. That makes sense…
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:27 AM
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Good advice on the doc's visits. I will implement that immediately. 3rd trimester anal..serious? Thanks for the input.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:22 AM
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Awww...someone not getting his needs met? I'll ask your wife to give you a hug.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:21 AM
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Thanks. I look forward to the 2nd trimester!
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:20 AM
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Thanks, dude. That's helpful. I've noticed myself moving into more oak-mode, and so has she.
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:18 AM
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Haha! I don't understand. Means she was so horny or the pregnant pussy had a different quality than the non?
/r/askMRP06/03/17 02:17 AM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/17 01:05 AM
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