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7

Then once you get a girl from the bookclub she's boring AF.
/r/seduction19/07/26 06:17 PM
4

Saw one some time ago and I couldn't help but chuckle. He got up, tried & failed miserably. Seeing it as a third party just concluded that totally random daygame as an anyone without contextual reason or input is just bound to be weird. That said, I don't see it often so that alone may give it some advantage.
/r/seduction10/06/26 10:22 PM
1

Yeah she just woke up sober with her hormones back to baseline and didn't feel like it anymore. Can happen to anyone and after the most perfect of dates.
/r/seduction09/06/26 04:24 PM
5

Get some wine next time. Not to get her completely drunk but just for the both of you to lower that last bit of silly wall. Although before randomly opening your shirt you obviously need to feel the situation and maybe start with a kiss. That usually happens before you just unbutton your shirt, my friend. Make some fun banter, get closer (which you did), break the touch barrier (which you did as well), look her in the eyes and see if she holds it long enough and slowly get closer and just kiss. …
/r/seduction07/06/26 09:00 PM
0

Be there at the right time and appear to not give a fuck to at least be different. Men around them usually give too many fucks and they know it. It's hard to keep that up as an experienced 10/10 will test you and men will approach her a shitload of times. Once you've had the forbidden fruit, it's not easy to go back down.
/r/seduction18/05/26 04:25 PM
1

If you're not a 10/10; on the apps there's always a 10/10 around the corner and hot girls will ALWAYS find hotter guys the moment they start swiping again. It is just unreal competition and girls don't even know what to do with it. They just cannot fathom and go with the flow the apps designed for them. You can have a great match, have great texts, have a great call, have a date planned; 1 new swipe and you're replaced before you can set up a true foot between her door. Only strong, responsible …
/r/seduction08/04/26 09:25 AM
-1

I feel terrible knowing women gossip about my micro penis.
/r/seduction31/03/26 02:20 PM
1

You didn't know women rate men on their dicksize & performance? But then openly in their friendgroups with name, photo and address. Just saying bro. Or sis.
/r/seduction31/03/26 02:09 PM
29

For so many it doesn't and those who do have great success don't come complaining. Simple as that.
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:36 PM
2

Girlfriends always do. They listen to her venting and will just amplify anything they say so even small things may become a problem.
/r/seduction08/12/25 10:08 AM
1

I meant it as about 9 out of 10; I'm not really in the position to "just find" 9's or 10's although it happened. Got to treat them no different (although admittedly it's harder).
/r/seduction08/12/25 10:07 AM
1

Interesting take however she felt attracted enough to go on multiple dates, right? It may very well be his increased enthousiasm / anxiety wrecked his confidence or just turned her down for whatever reason.
/r/seduction07/12/25 08:13 PM
5

He means the Disney type of stuff. Or Christmas movie stuff. Dance around in a field of flowers. Play guitar outside of her windows. Chase her for months on end for a first kiss on the cheeks and dedicate your life to her from the getgo. How young women think what dating is like but then find out at some point it isn't.
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:20 PM
72

Not a huge cold approach artist, but I've evolved my flirting and sexual skills to such a level I can close 9/10 of first dates with intimacy that would leave the woman hooked. It feels however it came at a cost of my emotional capacities. I've "learned" committing early is not attractive and you don't need to commit emotionally to get physical but now at the same time I'm a disaster at binding/committing to my girlfriend(s). I too, just don't (or rarely at most) fall in love. Needless to say th…
/r/seduction07/12/25 07:04 PM
5

If you don't keep up that flow by text they do forget lol or just find another man on the apps.
/r/seduction11/10/25 04:23 PM
2

How the heck do you "just go out and make female friends"
/r/seduction27/09/25 02:38 PM
7

What 2010's movie should we be watching
/r/seduction25/09/25 10:21 PM
6

What most people here somehow fail to acknowledge is that your caucasian appearance (I assume you are) is not just a sign you're living in a good country but is also plain hot to most Thai women. You're standing out the same way a Latina would in Europe. Thai people are very western oriented and many younger girls in the large city centres would love to date a "handsome tall white foreigner" even if it's just for a holiday.
/r/seduction18/09/25 08:22 AM
2

Relationships feel like an extra full time job in which you can be fired and replaced without notice at any moment if you do not provide enough shareholder value.
/r/seduction02/07/25 10:23 AM
10

So basically filler questions you can answer horribly wrong for not always an apparent reason, correct?
/r/seduction22/06/25 07:18 PM
1

Thanks. They probably do (heck, I do too), but I've got the feeling it's a no-go for the majority. As celebs push on the limits of treatment, balding isn't considered normal anymore. Obviously it's shallow, but people can't help the way they feel (and are being indoctrinated how to feel).
/r/seduction22/06/25 10:01 AM
2

Happens to be I just started the fin/min procedure. Hopping on meds to be able to date. What a time.
/r/seduction21/06/25 07:02 PM
1

It has seen better days bud.
/r/seduction21/06/25 06:54 PM
4

Lmao feel free to add me :3 Love to have you as a bud So, also "never" had many issues but I've just been thinking lately. New to dating "this category" of women AKA women who are bidding to settle rather sooner than later. Might be just ghosts from the past though.
/r/seduction21/06/25 05:31 PM
1

I could always move in with her if she owns a big enough place x)
/r/seduction21/06/25 05:06 PM
7

Absolutely, but to get someone to be attracted to you... You need to date. Can't just spawn in a girl that's attracted to me...
/r/seduction21/06/25 05:04 PM
11

It's living crisis anywhere in the western world though... But yeah I get that it's underwhelming when you own a full appartment and your boy has a studio. It's not the money, but more the idea of it. I earn way above average and their house ain't paid off either. Maybe I need to upgrade my whole studio into some kind of futuristic palace to show off lol
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:58 PM
2

It's the location, the neighbourhood and my neighbours in the block. Most of them graduates also. Going to another place will be way out of town and probably triple the rent. Only makes sense doing that when going to live together, but yeah, need a partner for that first.
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:54 PM
7

For that, I need to date though...
/r/seduction21/06/25 04:53 PM
3

The young party (city)girls (18-23) you likely mention go for the classic copy-paste "idgaf" skinny fuckboys with broccoli cut or fratboylite who just goof around and have nothing else to offer. They basically want a girl and just like feminism taught them everything appearing slightly more manly must be treated with extreme caution. Slightly older girls or girls that don't need to party all the time appreciate the calmth and security an older guy can offer if he has the temper, money and status…
/r/seduction06/06/25 07:15 PM
2

Thats contradictory though; if you want to keep impressing your partner you gotta stay pretty.
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:59 PM
5

I've seen the exact same thing with my former girlfriends. Bait taken? ==> No need to be pretty or interesting anymore. Goes both ways.
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:12 PM
3

It's a second fulltime job to keep most women occupied and satisfied. They won't going to do that themselves. Combine that with your actual job and you have to keep your guards up 24/7 and that takes a damn lot.
/r/seduction25/05/25 12:10 PM
7

Flirting and making out usually is a sign she hates you. /s
/r/seduction25/05/25 09:04 AM
3

Don't be upfront but don't lie either. As you stated, if you be upfront immediately they'll likely never meet you to begin with. Keep your goals vague if they ask about it. If you build a small connection and have sex, just meet every now and then to keep it going but not enough to progress into a relationship. Keep it simple, focus mainly on sex and booty calls and absolutely don't do fancy dates or deep discussions about family or anything personal. At some point the girl will get it and eithe…
/r/seduction13/05/25 09:55 AM
1

Would definitely want to read that 🙌🏻
/r/seduction04/05/25 02:08 PM
1

But what if you feel extra confident in a d&d shirt stained with doritos and mountaindew? Yeah, let that sink in ^^
/r/seduction01/05/25 06:56 PM
4

Well, so would I and I assume most men, but I'll say you most men don't have huge social circles with all kinds of (single) women around. And so goes for many women.
/r/seduction19/04/25 11:56 AM
0

Where are they getting their fill then, or what's their/your expectation of where to find it? Waiting for the random approach that 98% of men don't dare to do? I'm seriously curious. I can count the people I know that have met a (former) girlfriend from approaching on half a hand, and all of them were in clubs. Most however met trough dating apps in the end, or social circles, as I have. And a whole lot of my acquaintices is still single.
/r/seduction19/04/25 11:40 AM
5

I've tried this enough times and most girls are way to "scared" to just go with a dude they only chatted with for 5 minutes. They need comfort or how they call it "get to know you" before doing stuff like that. They'll come up with excuses to delay the meeting. Just my experience. On the other hand, most chats indeed end nowhere even if you have their number. Even if you had a solid phone call. Your number is just one of gazillion in their list anyway. Obviously it's best to meet as soon as poss…
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:35 PM
1

Would be quite an usefull skill if you know how to. I don't, unfortunately.
/r/seduction02/04/25 11:05 AM
15

You just gotta set foot on the ship, basically.
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:26 AM
1

There's only 7 nights a week, and if you have anything to do, you've only a couple left for datenights. Generally you see the girls you date at least once a week, so it's almost impossible to keep more than "a couple" engaged. Abundance plays a role, I've experienced. When you've got girls, you attract more. When you've got zero, you need to be pushed over an edge first.
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:02 AM
11

Snap her while going out in the weekends and see if she's also out again. You two met in the clubbing environment so maybe that's where you two should meet up again and finish what's been started.
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:25 AM
1

"They don't ask questions, as they know answers won't come." Powerfull.
/r/seduction05/03/25 09:13 AM
0

Most women opened up to me on their own, if they felt enough for me. I never did. I'm a stone wall. A knight without dent. It gets me girlfriends, but keeps me single. I don't necessarily advice following that path, but it's my canon destiny.
/r/seduction01/03/25 06:43 PM
1

I return the favor to you; how do I get emotionally attached to someone. I have seen it ruin things. I can't anymore. I'm numb. I care but I can't (fall in) love. And it destroyed my last relationship. Better to love than to not feel anything at all. Just don't over do it. Love yourself first, then love someone else.
/r/seduction28/02/25 01:01 AM
2

Relatable. I've been called an avoidant, apparently it's something and you've got to converse your feelings or lack thereof into thoughts and logics and kinda "force" love upon you. It's damn hard, near impossible even. Maybe you're in that spectrum too. Also, if you do the same things over and over, a relationship will become boring and les intense in the long run anyhow. Try doing something else with her, or ask her to fix something. In the rare case she's willing to do a bit of work outside h…
/r/seduction04/01/25 12:38 AM
25

Maybe because they get 0 replies on Tinder in a year? That's sucking confidence bro.
/r/seduction16/12/24 08:11 PM
1

Stay friendly but you shouldn't be supporting the behaviour of girl that deep down her guts rather wants her ex to come back than being with you and apparently still actively tries to make this come through. Remember: it was HER DECISION to meet up with him. She might not really know why she's doing what she's doing, but she definitely knows what she's doing and how it may hurt you and your relationship with her. The only way to be competitive is to do your own thing, and try to have fun in ways…
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:33 AM
1

"She's not feeling it" because she's feeling her ex (and she knows). She's not over her ex hence they met up in the first place, probably had a great time, and now she's emotionally glued up to him once again. Things didn't work out for them so it probably won't work out this time, but it's indeed a situation you can't do shit with. I'd say cool off a bit, stay approachable but try to lower your expectations for now.
/r/seduction22/07/24 06:12 AM
9

Most girls go home by themselves rather early and the few who don't, get to pick the chaddest chad. Sausage party remains.
/r/seduction27/07/23 11:04 AM
7

This.
/r/seduction12/09/22 03:26 PM
317

Expensive lifestyle lol
/r/seduction11/09/22 10:36 PM
1

I was expecting some simpy convo but you tried escalating several times and she didn't bite... Her fault. I guess she didn't feel like going out that night (even when you're doing nothing; that's fine we've all got our lazy time), but was interested in talking to you nonetheless. Might've gone with some chatting first. Most women (and men alike) prefer some subtle and casual banter before catching an opportunity to meet up. Obviously cut it off when she's only trying to stay penpalls. But compli…
/r/seduction05/09/22 04:03 PM
0

And on this day, ladies and gentlemen, OP got a sneak-peek into the life of a chad and will forever cherish the moment as it won't happen again.
/r/seduction05/09/22 09:35 AM
31

Good fucking luck with Antarctica.
/r/seduction04/09/22 11:24 PM
2

So basically, just like OLD, if you're not Chad, it's over. Only social circle game remains. Which is the most natural and purest of the three though.
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:43 AM
40

What's the point? You two are in the now and here and you two are not one of your exes.
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:15 AM
1

If your personality fits with some girl, she can get attracted to you. It just has to match. However, you got to meet her at some niche location (shared interest, group, whatever). Won't be easy to pick up girls randomly at busy spots because you simply don't stick out of the crowd and apparently you're not confident enough to act on it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:45 PM
1

Younger generations tend to generally dislike or be scared by phone calls, especially by strangers. And I mean you don't want to scare a potential date. I'd say do some playful texting and grab an opportunity to set up a real life date, then on the day itself do a confirmation call or a call to "get the address" or something if applicable. But obviously every situation between two people is different.
/r/seduction15/08/22 10:35 AM
3

Take my message, turn it 180 degrees around and that's how you should text.
/r/seduction15/08/22 09:19 AM
6

Start everyday with a "good morning" and end it with "good night bby xx" and take weeks to arrange a real date; preferably letting her take the lead into arranging one. Daily texting, avoid short sentence answers, write whole paragraphs about your personal life so she already knows everything about you and truly commit to this one lady online. If she doesn't respond within 10 minutes, send her another text because she might feel down and this will cheer her up. Happy dating! Cheers.
/r/seduction15/08/22 08:56 AM
61

Grab 'm by the balls. Cheers, that's it.
/r/seduction14/08/22 10:48 PM
1

Eventually one, but more lead to one. Abundance mindset.
/r/seduction12/08/22 01:08 PM
1

Be a 2AM Chad with 2AM chad mentality but kinda skip #5 :')
/r/seduction11/08/22 01:42 PM
11

It would work, but most men don't get that amount of matches.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:16 AM
9

So when you ghost a man and he eventually stops sending you messages because they aren't been heard anyway, you two "stopped talking" so it's not ghosting? What a cope for the guilt lol.
/r/seduction11/08/22 07:09 AM
1

You aren't the only one. I've had it a couple of times. Maybe you two liked it and are afraid to close the book for good. You can keep going but if it's feeling like a chore... Cut it off...?
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:54 PM
2

You two are are forever-textingbuddies. Girls (especially the younger ones) like having texting buddies. Many of them are glued to their phones and they love having this venting system (AKA you) and some kind of brother (AKA also you) where she can come with all her stuff and problems for free affirmation and validation. She might genuinely like talking to you but in the end it's all void without real life contact. At one point in time she (or you) will move on, find love, get bored or simply to…
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:27 PM
1

But how do you fake being a player?
/r/seduction09/08/22 02:02 PM
15

So right this OP. It is what it is but jesus 2022 OLD is focked. And unfortunately that's where most of us (and girls) try to get it from. Sadness.
/r/seduction08/08/22 11:35 PM
5

Hear, hear.
/r/seduction07/08/22 08:03 PM
92

It's not in her interest that family or other guys see she's with a man. She still wants to show off her "oh so amazing and eventful life" but doesn't feel like answering questions about the man or risk losing (beta) male orbiters and social media validation.
/r/seduction04/08/22 10:32 AM
6

Damn, you made it a part time job.
/r/seduction04/08/22 09:13 AM
1

So basically you're answering your own question. You change (become clingy) and aren't the person anymore the guy fell in love with at first. Stop doing that and stay who you were.
/r/seduction03/08/22 01:07 PM
1

Sounds like you change your behaviour after some form of relationship is established? Maybe you change in such a way your partner loses his attraction towards you. Maybe you dress down, start getting too attached, being mean or whatever... Or you happen to choose the wrong guys who aren't treating you fairly.
/r/seduction03/08/22 12:38 PM
1

Your online "success" or validation doesn't determine your attractiveness in real life. Every single somewhat average girl, I repeat, EVERY single girl, will get 99+ likes within a day of installing Tinder. It's just a given. Even fatter (which is generally considered unattractive) girls will get plenty. Too many, if you ask me. In most cases it will boost the girls' ego to monstrous heights. In your case it backfires. You think you're so attractive due to all this online validation but in reali…
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:59 AM
1

What is this for nonsense. A girl can't be attractive AND nice to be around at the same time?
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:52 AM
1

The scarcity principle comes into play. The more texts and validation you send to her phone, the less value they will have over time. If you don't progress things in real life, eventually your communication becomes so lowly valued the attention of another guy (which every average girl has plenty of waiting in her DM's) will be perceived as higher valued. Then it's over for you. It's hard to limit communications with a girl you like, but try getting a mindset of "I'm busy and not checking my phon…
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:49 AM
1

Don't. Unless you know you have a highly attractive face for pictures. Otherwise, try somehow approaching girls offline.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:23 AM
41

A definite no no is texting forever without real life progression.
/r/seduction03/08/22 10:20 AM
0

Had to chuckle. As a white man, your feed will be 99+ within a day. You'll have the most attractive thai girls in your feed and even some who will approach you.
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:27 PM
1

This comment deserves my rarely given upvote.
/r/seduction01/08/22 08:20 PM
1

Not worth it. Eventually if you two match it will come out and worst case be regarded as a big red flag because you lied. I'm 26 and it may be a deal-breaker to younger women but anything over 20 probably won't care as the difference in lifestyle probably ain't that big. That being said, you don't have to tell if no one asks. After all, age doesn't say shit about you as a person or your experiences. I don't understand why so many people tend to focus so much on stuff one can't alter anyway.
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:20 PM
-1

If you're truly 100% interested and willing for this guy to commit you shall enter panic mode. The same goes for guys by the way, to some extent (which usually is a pure attraction killer). But apparently you're not emotionally mature enough given your reaction ("I have plenty other guys in line" --> all younger women do).
/r/seduction01/08/22 04:38 AM
7

It works when there's already some kind of attachment, in whereas the women is certainly interested in you. "No contact", or rather a slowing down of contact (which shouldn't look forced) can immediately set up some panic mode in a woman. When she isn't being overwhelmed with attention anymore like she's used to, she'll start to (unconsciously) wonder if anything is going on and will potentially throw herself at you in an attempt to get your attention back. She may think you're not that interest…
/r/seduction31/07/22 09:31 PM
7

She wanted dick, you gave her dick. Then she decided she needed some new dick, and she got some new dick. Now the old dick is of no use anymore. Don't worry, the new dick will be an old dick as well soon enough. By the way; she used you and you used her, but you got outplayed. She's a fuckgirl who knows how to be a fuckgirl.
/r/seduction26/07/22 09:42 AM
1

Thanks. All communication feel pretty unnatural due to the seemingly unbalanced emotions in the present situation. My confidence rekt. Might just be better off starting anew again with someone else, even with everything I know about and experienced with this one... Sadly. Nah, I will go on with it nonetheless. Need to let it go somehow to get back to my original self.
/r/seduction18/03/22 05:10 PM
1

Appreciate your reply ^ Any advice on how to react on these female emotional states? Are they black and white? Once it's over, it's over? I'll be seeing her through mutual activities basically every week so I feel kinda stuck on how to deal with this. Ignore her? Act like always and seek her out as I would've done before?
/r/seduction18/03/22 04:15 PM
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