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| 3 | 24 Hours On Girl's TinderLet's be honest. Guys swipe everyone and they idolise even slightly above average women. Seeing those stats seem like mean a lot but in reality they mean nothing. I always like to say, trying to get a girl through a dating app is like trying to do a job interview over email. You may get a few mediocre jobs paying minimum wage, but you're not getting those high tier 7 figure salary ones. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Rejection does not make you any less of a man.It's just like hitting the gym. You got this brother. Everyone in the community has gone through it and they got your back! | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 11:35 PM |
| 2 | One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 6 6️⃣Incredible, how come you were in toys r us then lmao. so many questions | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:33 PM |
| 7 | One Approach Every Day Challenge - Day 6 6️⃣Keep going buddy, more is more. Toys r us is still open though!? | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | As a boring guy how can I make girls laugh?Be bold and accept if people don't laugh. The only way to actually learn something fully is through failure, and I personally think humour isn't something you can just take a class on and get good. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Rejection does not make you any less of a man.Dude stfu. He put himself out there and is building on it. That absolutely applies to other cold approach scenarios. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:02 PM |
| 8 | Rejection does not make you any less of a man.Top tip for social media, the younger generations are obsessed with it and if your account doesn't scream alpha then it may hurt your chances (3k follows, lots of liked posts etc). I stick with the Snapchat. It's light hearted and allows you to build rapport without too much pressure. | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Rejection does not make you any less of a man.Keep doing that man! She rejected you because the fact is not every woman is gonna wanna go out with you and that's a fact. Hitting yourself over and over with rejection makes you more calloused to it, and you get to the point where you have a 15 sting of pain then you move on, if that! | /r/seduction | 01/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Using proven psychology to overcome approach anxiety - Systematic Desensitisation (the same tactic therapists use to help clients overcome phobias)Nothing I do is for money, I didn't make the video. Something I found that has helped me out a lot. Yes there is no 'cure', my bad for phrasing it that way but this shit is proven. Look into Systematic Desensitisation if you don't believe me... | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Hey, what are some fun places in nyc?Wouldn't have a clue mate lol. I'm from the UK! | /r/seduction | 19/12/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl I just met?no problem man. If she buys into the role play, just keep it going as long as you can. It's fun and differentiates you from the rest. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:14 PM |
| 2 | How do you differentiate yourself from other guys while talking to good looking women on Instagram?Have loads of followers... Isn't that easy and not worth your time. As a general tip for Instagram Dm's, reply to her story with a witty message which is easy foe her to respond to. I've had success with that. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Hey, what are some fun places in nyc?Go out by yourself to boost your confidence, when he turns 21 it should be child's play with a wing. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl I just met?It's bad habit to add people on Facebook, shows a lack of confidence. You really want to be getting those digits before you leave her forever. As its probably unlikely you will bump into her again you could use something like this: "Completely forgot to ask for your number! I'll give you 4 stars on the uber ride, I didn't like the music... " It covers the basis that you had a lack of confidence to get the number and also establishes the start of a flirty role play with a light neg. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 11:37 AM |
| 2 | No reply in 24 hrs from girl I've asked out, do I move on?I'd say 'moving on' is perhaps the wrong mentality. You need to have this idea that it's unlikely you will get a response so you should just call it a day and if you get a response, it's a bonus. Don't dwell, and focus on more promising endeavours. An abundance mindset is key here. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | 10 Tips To Stop Freezing Up Around WomenUnderrated post | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Pickup Artists of reddit, what was the pivotal point where everything clicked and you just 'got it'?You either win, or you learn That line. I think it encapsulates the learning curve really well. | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Pickup Artists of reddit, what was the pivotal point where everything clicked and you just 'got it'?Sounds like a good assload of work to me! What was the line that initiated a spike out of interest? | /r/seduction | 15/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Pickup Artists of reddit, what was the pivotal point where everything clicked and you just 'got it'?was there a point where everything became compentent | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Be afraid, and then do it anyway!'Interviewing' isn't attractive. Screening on the other hand? Shows a strong frame and that you are the one that is choosing. Studies show that guys who are actively picky in the bio of their dating profiles get more matches. What does this mean? Have a natural flowing conversation BUT weave in questions that make the girl qualify herself to you and if you genuinely don't like something she has said, don't be afraid to show it SUBTLY. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Be afraid, and then do it anyway!Literally reading this book as we speak for thus purpose! damn you xD! I will have a post soon which is a condensed post about the book with adaptations to fit in with pickup! | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | How are men that go out with female friends perceived?Rolling with attractive women gives you a massive advantage. Think about it, if another girl sees that other attractive girls have screened you to see if you are worthy, she won't have to waste her time trying to screen you herself. Sets blow open like magic, girls may even go over to approach you if it's clear you are the leader. | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Any nightgame infields from England that you can link me too?The cultural infields are likely sublte. Both UK and American cultures are individualistic, meaning individuals do their own thing and strangers aren't usually welcome (there are plenty of studies to back this!) There should be some very subtle crossover, if any. It's likely to do with your game in general, rather than the culture itself. To answer the question, I think I saw a few infields with Beckster in London. Not certain but try searching 'Beckster infield london' and see what comes up. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Approached a Girl at the Gym TodayI like how you didn't settle for the Snapchat. Good call, its easy to get lost in a stockpile of snaps as opposed to the classic text message. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | As a guy how do you build up sexual tension with a girl?Be in the moment, laser eye contact when she is talking but if In a group, shift your gase every 3 seconds or so naturally. If she is giving you positive signals, look at her and imagine you are fucking the shit out of her. She will feel it. Kino escalation is also key, this guy does a pretty good job: https://youtu.be/kmZa-dtruFI | /r/seduction | 04/12/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How to hookup on a cruise?Just give a guy non verbal signals that you want him (eye contact, smiling, playing with hair etc). He should approach you after that. Then let him do the work :) | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Night Game Fundamentals: Cheat Sheet. Open to suggestions, very brief but good for a quick reminder if you're already comfortable with game.What do you mean by Fclose? This one does lack comfort but it's the rough framework I use with natural game. I'll feel the vibe and integrate comfort building when necessary. | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Night Game Fundamentals: Cheat Sheet. Open to suggestions, very brief but good for a quick reminder if you're already comfortable with game.Xbox one and ps4 lol | /r/seduction | 03/12/19 07:36 AM |
| 1 | A girl invited me to a student party, should I go?Makes no difference. Don't overthink; just go! If she's interested, great. If she's not, make some new friends. The worst that can happen is nobody wants to get with you which is the same situation as you staying at home. | /r/seduction | 02/12/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.I'm a bit late but thanks for your advice to help out other guys, your generosity does not go amiss. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.it's a long read I won't lie but in my opinion it's the pickup bible. Don't take every word as law but all pickup you see today has stemmed from that. Pay extra attention to the M3 model. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.I'd say mystery method is a great place to start. Get the audio book and listen when you have some free time. If you have any queries with the stuff then feel free to PM me and I can help better your understanding. | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Ask a GuruHad a great chat w OP, can tell he's really passionate about helping others out. One thing that stuck with me was the inner game of one's frame. If you have a glass half full attitude, a guy who knows what he's got to offer, a guy who doesn't give a fuck yet isn't arrogant. Leader of men. All this is the foundation of one's game and can shatter if its not addressed. Attach a confident feeling of energy to an object and only carry that object when you are in that mindset, that way the object will… | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.Wouldn't say its the best for material man, it's more of a novel about the pua lifestyle. what material have you read so far? | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 01:43 AM |
| 3 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.finish off the routine with how it's kinda bs but fun. That's only if she's calling BS. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Just want to share my first ever approach from 7 years agoyou've got to start somewhere, good honest FR man. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:46 PM |
| 3 | I [20M ]Need solutions for very long response times [19F]I field tested a theory where you reward quick response times with quick responses of your own, if she takes a day to respond, do the same. I noticed the frequency in which she texted increased so it worked for me. Not saying this will definitely work as I've only tested it on one or two girls. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.or if you mean the actual content, I'm not sure. You can probably find it online if you type in the cube. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Hyper Effective Routine - The Cube. Old but still applicable.I believe its a segment from one of styles bootcamps | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Stay away from tinder.What I mean is in terms of making conversation it can be good to help develop text game. if it has that effect on you, delete it. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 08:43 PM |
| 2 | How does one learn to have an abundance mindset and actually get girl's whilst doing sostick it out for a couple of days then chack back in. do not acknowledge she ignored you or even ask, just reinitiate conversation. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Stay away from tinder.True to some extent. I've deleted all my accounts. In reality it can be a good training tool for beginners. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 05:30 PM |
| 4 | How does one learn to have an abundance mindset and actually get girl's whilst doing soTry your best not to think about it, don't check if she's read it, don't wonder why she might not be replying (basically don't overthink it).Get into the habit of working in that mindset and it will come naturally. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 03:24 PM |
| 11 | How does one learn to have an abundance mindset and actually get girl's whilst doing soIf she gives you little effort on text, ignore it. You don't have time for people not giving you their full attention. In person act normal if she brings it up, almost as if she's looking too deep into it. Also the key to this mindset is constantly thinking you have other options. If a girl isn't worth your time, it will convey in the way you act and she will eventually hook on or if not, she wasn't the one to spent time on. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 10:49 AM |
| 8 | I’m a 21 year old virgin and I’m fed up!! I want to change my life.Do more approaches, even if shit hits the fan. Once you are in set, things should flow naturally. I wouldn't mention you are a virgin, say u have slept with a few girls. Good show of social proof. You should only have to lie a couple of times coz soon enough you will have, I'm sure of it! Stick to it and reap the rewards. A good sub to ask questions is r/askseddit as you can ask the smallest questions. -Captain | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 09:51 AM |
| 5 | Bumble/TinderI've deleted all my profiles. In my opinion it's lazy game. To truly build attraction and escalate that day, you need to be there in person. I can't tell you how many times girls have flaked even though I know i could have kept them in set irl. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How to be a Wingman?Get him to read mystery method or some sort of material that will get him up to speed. As how to wing him? open the sets for him, demonstrate high value for him and then let him enter set. (hot game) Handle interrupts for him and preoccupy the rest of the set if he's making contact with his target. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | The biggest problems with the "game" communityI respectfully disagree. Your in-game persona should be congruent with your true personality. To get to that level, you must learn how to do it by the book then you can develop your personality into it. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 08:23 PM |
| 1 | College day openersWhat we call an opinion opener: "hey, I was having a debate with my friend earlier over which is better, [food] or [food] (try and pick ones specific to your canteen), which one would you pick?" whichever ones she picks, agree with her, joke over commonality about how the other food is bad and ur friend needs a tastebud transplant and stack forward if you can. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 05:06 PM |
| 2 | College day openersthe place where you eat food. I'm not familiar with American colleges so I'm not sure the layout | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | HAIR THEORYlol I'm an admirer I'm in college | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:10 PM |
| 2 | College day openersdo you share the same canteen? | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | I got the girl. How do I keep her?no man just ask | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:08 PM |
| 2 | HAIR THEORYno there's a girl in the same room as me right now that disproves that theory | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachIm an advocate of not conveying interest right away. It will give her a a short ego boost and then bye bye. Approach: "I've noticed you always sit in front of me but I've never thought to ask you your name." "damn really? I always had this idea in my head that you were a Helen" (or any other name) "What are your plans after class/college" "I'm stopping by [coffee shop] to get a drink, I could use some company" tell me how that works for you -Captain | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:05 PM |
| 3 | HAIR THEORYthere is some truth to it but a lot of wiggle room. You will rarely, if ever see a girl who is gorgeous but shit hair but some girls who aren't so attractive get nice hair to improve their looks. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Met a girl a party - gave me her number, decided we weren't a match, then won her back all in 24 hours.play it cool about the date man. all the same, we'll done. | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had success with straight up propositioning girls?if you're getting slapped full stop your doing something wrong, that's the point | /r/seduction | 19/11/19 01:46 PM |
| 3 | Post-college dry spell. I have everything going for me except women.I think a change in mindset is important. Meditate, eat healthy, exercise. Your inner game needs work. Once you are content with yourself confidence will follow, with confidence your mindset will change and that will become apparent to girls who will want in. Also advice for gaming is pretty simple. Approach sets with high energy, don't worry about rejection and have an abundance mindset, not one of scarcity. -Captain | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 11:25 PM |
| 5 | What does it mean when I catch eye contact with a girl on the street and she licks her lips?doesn't make a difference now man, she's gone. should have approached. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Me and a waitress at a cafe faded out into each others gaze for 4 seconds, IOI?if you break eye contact first it's a DLV, if she breaks first it's a sign of submission. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had success with straight up propositioning girls?I would never expect success with attractive women to come from this you're more likely to get a slap. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl “hearted” my message but did not responddon't overthink it. you got this. pm me if you need any advice | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Me and a waitress at a cafe faded out into each others gaze for 4 seconds, IOI?it's all about context. what was her facial expression, body language, who broke eye contact first | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Closing at the clubbut if she's on the fence and her friends pull her away and a new guy shows up, that's a lost set. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Closing at the clubyes but don't ask, command. "let's go and meet your friends" vs "can we go and meet your friends?". Same message, completely different undertones" | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating regularly checks phone100% agree | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating regularly checks phoneI feel reinforcing the fact that she gets sex if she goes on her phone either way is not good. My op ofc | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl I'm dating regularly checks phonedo something about it or accept the fact that she isn't paying any attention. I think its obvious which one you should do. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 3 | 30M newly single and for the first time, very high SMV: how to make the most of it?You seem to have it all already man! get into the field and play ball. Good luck | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Struggling in life, am I the definition of a failure?Your mindset is all off. To put it harshly, your'e coming across as sulky. Focus on the positives more. If you learn to accept yourself, women will begin to as well. As for getting better at game, there's an entire sub for that r/askseddit . For a start, start going out to bars and approach women. Yes it will knock your confidence if you get blown out which you likely will with that mindset, but as you approach more women the feeling of becoming rejected becomes second to none. Put the effort in… | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl I'm dating regularly checks phoneI love your frame | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Girl I'm dating regularly checks phoneMeans you need to take charge and tell her to get off her phone. Shes probably just addicted to social media like half the planet | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Caption itTrying to stay in set with an internal interrupt | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | When a girl say "maybe" when you ask her for a date.learn from your mistakes | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..Lots of girls use that as a quick excuse to reject guys. Don't worry about it for now. keep approaching! | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 07:40 AM |
| 8 | Today i tries my first attempt at day game. It met this girl at the gym, and we just started talking. Even though it failed, i think this goes to show, that it's all about being confident and having great interactions. Not getting laid..it is possible that it was your game that was the issue. nonetheless its an approach and will get you closer to your goal. that was not a loss, that was a small part of what will soon be a series of wins. keep up the good work man! | /r/seduction | 17/11/19 11:08 PM |
| 1 | I felt like a real loser.The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Keep at it my guy, it can only go up from here. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Had my first of couple approaches during the daythings like DHV stories and screening the girl | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Had my first of couple approaches during the dayif you are hitting on her, the choice is in her hands after you have done any attraction routines. Hitting on her is wanting something from her let's be honest. Act inoffensive and unthreatening and you should have better results. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | My (Somewhat Embarrassing) very first field report.Best to compliment on things the girl has control over, not her looks. | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Need some concrete advice on my situation with my crushWhat really helped me was infield videos. It's good to have the formulas down but nothing beats seeing all of it happening in front of you. I reccomend beckster for that! I started just under 6 months ago and only recently did it just click and when it clicks, it CLICKS! Try to get out there more and analyse things against the M3 model. It's not perfect, but it's the closest thing to it! | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | What this might be?Well just go for it! (consensually ofc). Show you're interested and make sure to use kino escalation (look that up if you're not familiar). | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Had my first of couple approaches during the dayclassic beckster move is "you have the second best shoes I've seen today" if she asks who has the 1st best shoes, smile, point to your feet and say "me!" with a laugh. the other guy is right, compliments aren't the best openers as she has no clue who tf u are and just thinks ur some creep hitting on her. Try to only throw a compliment if she's invested and even giving you some signals she's interested in you. hope that helps -Captain | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | What this might be?Well what do you want from it man? | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Losening yourself to The Game?It's about extenuating the positive aspects that you already have in yourself. If you have a drive to be a better person, that is the real you isn't it? -Cap | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | My long distance relationship partner wants me to tell her how to get offno clue your relationship with this girl but release your wildest fantasies and don't hesitate! demand! nothing too kinky if you are just beginning your relationship | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Need some concrete advice on my situation with my crushmaking out with her friend!? Thats a bit much. Being deliberately flirty with her is maube in order but you will just blow the girl out cos she respects her friend. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Need some concrete advice on my situation with my crushI don't think you should be using negs in the stage you are in. It sounds like you are hovering in A2 which is what u use negs to get into. They are designed to disqualify you from being a suitor. Definitely a good idea to re-educate yourself on the M3 model. Wht you need to do is reward the good behaviour with IOIs of your own, if she laughs at joke or makes eye contact, use a light compliment. I like becksters one which is "you have the second nicest shoes I've seen today". she may ask who the… | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 10:18 AM |
| 2 | I felt like a real loser.Honestly man you just have to jump into it. What you have to understand is when you first start out, like anything, you will have a lot of failure. Nothing personal, just stay strong and go into it with a positive mindset. Be prepared for failure but know that only makes you tougher and more experienced. i wish you the best of luck, keep the sub updated Captain | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 10:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl started ignoring meconfidence and courage is key, approach within 3 seconds | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 09:23 AM |
| 0 | How do you make a move on a girl when she’s in your room?Tell me what stage you're at then we can work off that. Have you been flirty, kissed? -Captain | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | My (Somewhat Embarrassing) very first field report.I'm an advocate of indirect openers, gives you more time to screen her, convey value and build attraction. The 'is kissing cheating' opener is my fave as it works in every situation. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 09:01 AM |
| 1 | My (Somewhat Embarrassing) very first field report.that conveys you're just interested in looks, massive turn off for girls. I'm a believer that depending on the situation you should wait 10-15 mins. This is for night game where time is abundant. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | How To Play 'Smart Game' Feat Todd Valentineonly on switch :( | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 08:01 AM |
| 1 | I couldnt escalate sexuallyhttps://youtu.be/kmZa-dtruFI this should help! | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Folding under pressureshows a lot of confidence and willingness to emote which flips those attraction switches! | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Importance of having a social identity?also, if you approach attractive girls and they friendzone you, keep them as friends. very good social proof and a good way to roll. i arrived at a party once with 2 fairly attractive girls and the girls at the party swarmed to get to hug me and introduce themselves. don't take that shit lightly as it WORKS | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Folding under pressuredepending on what she's doing, you could call her out which massively demonstrates value. if she's being flirty just say "enough of that for now" | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Number Closed this HOT Tall MILF, Look how i made her laugh her ass off.ah so you're more of an RSD guy than venusian arts? I'd maybe try and get some Skype sessions with the RSD guys as they would be cheaper and you can obviously send in your videos to them to analyse. if you were to do that it would be a good idea to get some audio. you cnn do that by using an audio recorder on your phone and putting your earphones underneath your tee and hanging out from the top so the mic is exposed. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Folding under pressureIndicator of interest. basically any sign showing that she's into you such as giggling, touching if the hair, going close to you, sustained eye contact etc. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | I'm finally off of Tinder and willing to approach girls in real lifekeep me posted | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Number Closed this HOT Tall MILF, Look how i made her laugh her ass off.I LOVE the dedication man, keep that up and increase the amount when it becomes less exhausting I.e. when you feel less anxious. have you ever considered night game? | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:53 PM |
| 6 | Number Closed this HOT Tall MILF, Look how i made her laugh her ass off.Blue you have a lot of success in your future, keep at it. Your experiences can only improve your game. may I ask how many sets you usually approach when gaming? | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:40 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally off of Tinder and willing to approach girls in real lifeI was thinking how to follow that up, you could go along the lines of its for a project and if she hooks tell her she's one of the friendly ones! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Folding under pressureI think you're very lucky to not have problems with approach anxiety. The main thing I would focus on is keeping a calculated brain when receiving these signals. just because she shows them, doesn't mean she's gonna take you home that minute and fuck you. it means you have a chance. keep a cool head and work through the anxiety the same way as the approach -Captain | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashianif your body language is incongruent with what you are saying, you will get blown out. ironing out an issue with a fairly simple fix is important to point out, even if he isnt working on it at this stage. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Folding under pressureso IOIs? | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Folding under pressurecan you expand on what you mran by choosing signals? | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this? Tried closing during cold approach day game, she said she has a boyfriend, so I said I had one too (pass shit test) then went for the close. What’s the best way to respond?maybe not stress the fact that she has a boyfriend in the response, if anything ignore it. "I understand, what boba place do you normally go to" that would be my response | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 10:01 PM |
| 1 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashianbut for beginners it's really a no go don't you agree? | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | I'm finally off of Tinder and willing to approach girls in real lifeMerging a situational opener and an opinion opener. Nice stuff! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Did some direct cold approaches and woman threatened me with her boyfriend, how dangerous is doing this?I'd say don't convey interest from the get-go. Initiate in small talk until she's hooked then you can make moves if she seems interested. If she's with a guy, open them both and ask after a little while "so, how do you know each other". Also that seems like a one off as she sounds a total bitch, most girls are likely to tell you that they have a bf at worst. Sometimes it's just an empty threat. Personally I wouldn't be deterred if she said she had one but to air on the side of caution, avoid gir… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:45 PM |
| 2 | What is the best program for learning Night Game?I would say mystery method (or venusian arts) as that's the fundamentals. It's very old and I consider it the pickup bible but not all of it applies today. Get the audio book and listen. I also recommend checking out www.bestpuatraining.com as that is a good view of all the courses put into one site -Captain | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Importance of having a social identity?girls are attracted to a guy with friends that would back him up no matter what. there are aspects of attraction in being friendly with everyone but not as attractive as having a close circle of friends. hope that answers the question -Captain | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:37 PM |
| 4 | I'm finally off of Tinder and willing to approach girls in real lifemy go to opener is the 'Is kissing cheating'. lean over your shoulder and get an opinion on something. "hey guys I've only got a minute my friends are waiting for me over there, I need your opinion on something real quick. If a girl who has a bf goes out and gets drunk and kisses another guy, is it cheating?" the group will likely say yes "OK so what if she goes out and kisses other girls?" you will get mixed responses "see I'm asking because my good buddy has a gf and they have been dating for … | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Thinking of hiring a coach, but could use some opinionsA coach could be a good option, it depends if you find a good one or not. Colgate does Skype sessions relatively cheaply and he's equally into personal improvement as he is seduction. He is who I would invest in and I've done my research but it's up to you. coaching certainly can fix social problems so if you feel you want to invest in that then go for it! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | How to ask indirectly if she has a boyfriend?Becksters advice: "have you ever had a secret lover?" | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How much talking?Its your job to make sure she talks in a way. Ask her questions that provoke emotions. Not WHAT happened but how it made her FEEL. If its a one off she may just be shy, if it's consistent with other girls then look into that. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Asking for Netflix and Chill?the wording is suggestive so maybe ask her if she wants to hang out with you and watch a movie with some snacks. if she's interested she will come or at least re-schedule if she's busy. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | I couldnt escalate sexuallyin order to escalate you need good kino. there is plenty of material out there how to do it (YouTube for example) but you need to make her familiar with your body slowly by touching her, not necessarily secually from the first few minutes you meet her. Also if your game is tight, she won't care about them not having the drink she wants, she might settle for a different one or even not drink at all! Also I like the initiative of having some form of game plan but you need a little more than hingin… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashianExcellent points | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 07:57 PM |
| 2 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashiantrue, I'm just saying this is more fidgety and unsure rather than that. if i were to lean up against a wall but shuffle my feet and keep my hands in my pocket, big DLV. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 07:55 PM |
| 1 | First semi successSuch a good attitude to have, I really have nothing else to say. Good work OP! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 05:24 PM |
| 12 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashianI used to have the same issue, sticking just ur thumbs in your pockets or belt look keeps ur hands and arms relaxed. As I'm saying though your ability to approach full stop is a feat in and of itself. Well done! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else got afraid of telling jokes because they've been ridicouled at a young age?I have to watch that right now! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | For the average looking guys who overcame their approach anxiety, how do you get over the awkwardness of the first few approaches?Well said! | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:50 PM |
| 0 | For the average looking guys who overcame their approach anxiety, how do you get over the awkwardness of the first few approaches?I think diving into the deep end is the way to go, approach girls that are 6-7 outta 10. Don't worry if it flakes and don't assume anything will come from it. Releasing expectation and going for a casual chat should ease you up. Keep at that routine till you feel more confident in yourself. The AA won't leave but it will become manageable. Also I found the way I combated AA best was having an opener ready to go. www.bestpuatraining.com has a good section on that which will help you pick one if u… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 173 | One of my better approaches as a newbie. Watch carefully and u can see when she rejects me, and that i ignore it and keep going and she gets sucked back in. This is a tall sexy blonde with fake lips, tits look like a blonde kim kardashianNice work! Careful of the body laguage tho! Hands in pockets and legs crossed doesn't scream confident but that's an easy fix. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | First semi successI like that analogy. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:40 PM |
| 3 | First semi successAbsolutely on your way to success, just make sure you don't have the attitude of an opportunity coming to you and more of a proactive seeking out your own opportunities. Also and for the date, you've already got the attraction in the bag. As much as anyone says it, Be yourself! They say it because it's true. If she's not interested in you then you found out earlier than u would have if u put on a facade. | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 04:40 PM |
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