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Fundamentals CaptainSprinklePants/r/seduction10/12/25 08:52 PM
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Fundamentals CaptainSprinklePants/r/seduction26/09/25 02:42 AM
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If you're approaching respectfully and getting these responses, it's not about you, it's a conditioned response to the 1000 other guys who she perceived as pushy that came before you. The amount of men who don't pick up on polite rejections is high, especially if a woman smiles and/or softens her rejection. This isn't meant as a critique of gender. Testosterone is powerful stuff. When I started transitioning and taking testosterone I had a lot of awkward moments where I misread someone being pol…
/r/seduction29/06/26 09:04 PM
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Sounds like you *were* one of those guys until you allowed yourself to stagnate. Self-actualization isn't a permanent state you achieve, it's an ongoing process, and it's easy to switch back to old default modes without even recognizing it right away
/r/seduction13/06/26 08:59 AM
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Mannn...that's not a looks issue, that's an energy issue. Women see you have preconceived expectations of what you want from them, and that pressure is repellent. My partner looks like an absolute nutbag- unkempt half-dreaded hair, fat, an autoimmune skin condition that is concerning to be near until you find out it's not something contagious. They're rarely employed, not particularly housed, and haven't had a consistently working phone in years. They have also slept with *hundreds* of some of t…
/r/seduction13/06/26 08:46 AM
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When I met the love of my life they had been single for 10 years. They preferred that over being with someone that wasn’t able to meet their needs, and they had plenty of deep friendships that kept them from being too lonely. Knowing that they were ok with being single gave them immense credibility in my eyes. I knew they wanted to be with me and didn’t worry they were dating me because they were afraid of being alone. You sound similar. It’s worth having those standards, because when you do fin…
/r/seduction01/01/26 07:33 PM
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Gosh, I felt sad when I read this. I hope you find love worth caring about one day. It’s the greatest feeling in the world.
/r/seduction01/01/26 07:18 PM
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By leading an interesting and busy enough life that you genuinely don’t have the time/capacity to do so. Everything else is an inauthentic game.
/r/seduction26/12/25 11:05 PM
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I have never had this problem…literally never. If we were planning to hook up and my date isn’t in the mood she’ll reschedule. Nobody’s time or money is wasted. Showing up for a pointless date costs her time, money, and effort too. Dateable women aren’t out there starving waiting to sucker you out of a free dinner. The only way I can imagine this happening is if you aren’t being upfront about just wanting something casual and led her to believe you were looking for a genuine romantic connection.…
/r/seduction18/12/25 11:36 PM
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Good lord, sounds like you’d benefit from getting to know someone better in the first place before going on a date. FaceTime them or something. If I’m taking someone out, it’s because I already know they like me. Why would I want to be stuck spending the evening with someone who doesn’t?
/r/seduction18/12/25 07:03 PM
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Taking a moment to point out the absurdity of your question when you heard I was married: ‘Then why are you giving advice to a guy looking for hookups.’ As if the fact that a woman willingly shares my bed every night somehow makes me less qualified to give advice on women than a single man. Seriously? No wonder this sub has so much misinformation.
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:29 PM
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One of the most beautiful women I know preferentially dates short guys, like under 5’6”. She says secure short guys are the best. They’ve gotten over being insecure, and in learning how to laugh off or clap back to short jokes, those skills they developed apply to other areas of their life too. A man who doesn’t take himself too seriously and can laugh at the absurdity of this world can be hard to find, and short secure guys are apparently where she finds them. Being slightly niche isn’t a bad t…
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:18 PM
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I understand the urge to seek this info, but for the most part you’ll be getting conjecture. A lot of language in this sub employs absolutes, which misleadingly suggest that women and dating are predictable and formulaic. That language does everyone a disservice by ignoring the incredibly nuanced complexity of two separate human beings, with different background and baggage, trying to figure out what works best for both. It ranges the spectrum, and there are many more factors than simply prefere…
/r/seduction12/12/25 04:38 AM
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Monogamy is not universal. Edit: she’s still giggling at your comments, your timing is impeccable
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:04 AM
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Women are not monoliths. One woman’s yuck is another woman’s yum.
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:02 AM
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My wife is lying in my lap while we watch reels and laughed so hard at that. Thanks buddy, I hope you enjoy your choices too.
/r/seduction12/12/25 03:00 AM
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Lean into it. Ebbs and flows are a natural part of life, and you gain as much from the hard times as you do from the fruitful ones. An endless upward trajectory is not sustainable. Look at corporations that try to churn out increased profits and quarterly dividends every quarter. Their product quality falls, their customer service reputation gets worse and worse. The companies who’ve been successful for a century or more, and are on target to continue to do so, don’t have the quarterly returns o…
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:59 PM
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I don’t approach or convert. I’m just a kind person and caring friend. Women will make the move if they think you’re worth it.
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:49 PM
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Women are not monoliths. One person’s yuck is another person’s yum. Do you feel seducing with chapped lips? Or are you uncomfortable? That’s what matters, and what women will see.
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:47 PM
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Yes! I’m transmasc and before I came out I was…inauthentic in an off putting way. I was trying to be who people would like, instead of being me. Now that I’ve given up on ever being universally liked, people do like me. Turns out, the best game in the world is showing up as your authentic self, transparent, self-aware, and vibrant. Being exactly who I say I am, with no deception, helped me realize that we’re all capable of being desirable and loved. It’s the games, masks, and lies we tell (to ou…
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:45 PM
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“We analyzed Machiavellianism scores of 56,936 adults across 48 countries. We operationalized gender inequality at national level using two indices (the Gender Inequality Index and the Global Gender Gap Index) and assessed Machiavellianism at the individual level using the MACH-IV scale. Multilevel modeling indicated that men scored higher in Machiavellianism than women, with a larger sex difference in countries with higher levels of gender equality, irrespective of the gender inequality index u…
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:37 PM
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Ad hominem is an attack on the person rather than the content of what they are saying. I am critiquing your content, not attacking you.
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:25 AM
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Nobody with an academic background would ever use the word ‘proof,’ nice try tho. The correct term is evidence. Proof is not something that exists in science. Edit: u/ketcupkin spotted it, thanks bro! Disregard u/FixAccomplished9993 as they’re a Russian bot, sowing divisiveness as they do. I’m embarrassed I didn’t spot it myself.
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:15 AM
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My background is in psych, I’d love to explore why you had such a strong reaction to this? You’re exactly my target demo, and I’m so glad to hear that you didn’t just read the whole thing, but you checked out my source material as well and came back to comment more <3
/r/seduction11/12/25 12:55 AM
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This was written by a real AFAB feminist, in support of women. The last paragraph reads ”If you hate manipulative women, stop treating them as conquests or sex dispensers, and start treating them as equals. Equality is the antidote to manipulation.” The entire premise of this post is to point out that patriarchal attitudes and inequality are what feed manipulative behavior. Seriously, I spent hours writing this and from carefully selected peer-reviewed studies. I chose the title and formatted it…
/r/seduction10/12/25 11:58 PM
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These aren’t mutually exclusive wants, both are true buddy
/r/seduction10/12/25 11:27 PM
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Yes!
/r/seduction10/12/25 10:42 PM
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Oh honey, I sound like ChatGPT because myself and other academics wrote GPTs training data. ChatGPT sounds like us, not the other way around.
/r/seduction10/12/25 09:29 PM
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Gender Differences in Aggression (Hard vs. Soft Power) -Crick & Grotpeter (1995): Found that when "relational aggression" (social manipulation) is measured, girls are just as aggressive as boys, just using different channels. [DOI: 10.2307/1131945] -Crick, Ostrov, et al. (2006): "A longitudinal study of relational and physical aggression in preschool." Journal of Applied Developmental Psychology. Confirmed that distinct relational aggression emerges early and remains stable throughout preschool …
/r/seduction10/12/25 08:52 PM
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Yeah that’s…nuts. I’m physically disabled as well which impacts both my mobility and stamina. It never crossed my mind that I should specifically only seek out other disabled people once I became disabled. Online is tough because your disability looms large in concept in the other person’s mind. It’s scary to them because they don’t know enough about it and knowledge gaps tend to get filled with fears. Bear with me here if you will…I was having a tough time finding a job once when I was young an…
/r/seduction03/12/25 02:23 AM
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This is a Reddit (well and internet) issue as a whole, it’s filled with armchair experts.
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:36 PM
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What in the ableist fuck? ‘People like yourself’???
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:36 AM
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I didn’t pathologize or diagnose you my friend, I pointed out what I was seeing that others likely were as well. You asked, and I gave a factual, objective answer. I have no emotional stake in this. You’re continuing to play the victim and escalate this interaction with me though, which is more of the same behavior I was pointing out. Giving you the benefit that I may have been hasty, I took a look at your post history, and it’s more of the same. Interacting with you is off putting, so I’ll be m…
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:29 AM
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No problem at all friend, wishing you love & happiness.
/r/seduction29/11/25 03:06 AM
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It’s not ‘just some language’ it’s your mindset. Your language is just demonstrating that mindset. Examples: a) you asked ‘bruh how’ and when I responded with specific examples you came back at me with an ad hominem attack. You chose against engaging constructively with me about why I perceived your language as problematic, and opted instead to attack me as the problem 🚩 b) You ended your post by suggesting that the ‘universe is against you.’ This is a common cognitive bias called attribution er…
/r/seduction29/11/25 02:56 AM
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Ok I’ll hear it, present your argument…why do you disagree? What substantive reasons can you provide that show you’re not throwing fuckboy energy?
/r/seduction29/11/25 12:11 AM
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“Body count” “successful lays” “feeling very neutered ish” “much bigger dry spell” “the universe is punishing me” Aaaaand that’s enough for me…
/r/seduction29/11/25 12:07 AM
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See!? Red flag. Trash takes out itself.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:57 AM
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You’re cutting out a huge segment of potential romances that way. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve genuinely had to cancel on a guy and they handled it so poorly I was glad to see the red flags early and decline to reschedule. At the same time, I’ve canceled on guys I wasn’t super into and they handled it so gracefully that I found myself more interested in them. An even-keeled man who has plenty of alternative options to entertain himself after a canceled date is sexy af.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:56 AM
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What are you defining as success? I have a type…until they start talking. Then personality always wins out over looks. As for who I go for, I’ll beeline to a man who’s the poster boy for my aesthetic, then end up spending the night chatting with a woman I’d never look twice at on the street. It’s not about type or availability but connection.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:49 AM
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Work to develop your subconscious pattern recognition. The feedback’s there, you’re just not noticing it: chicken sexing phenomenon
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:43 AM
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Psh, ignore everyone saying you shouldn’t have quit your job, and welcome to a different kind of life. Work when you need to, experience everything else when you don’t. Especially with your tech experience there’s no reason to work a 9-5. I know a scene you’d fit right in on as authentically you. Which, btw, is the most attractive thing a person can be. Home party with my crew for a week, you’ll meet plenty of women. Deadass, DM me.
/r/seduction23/11/25 06:39 AM
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I mean, garbage in, garbage out. You get out of it what you put into it. With your kind of mindset, you’ll get exactly what you describe. Alternate option: move through the world with authenticity and an open heart. You will find so many beautiful people that love you. Pro tip: when you truly fall in love with someone it doesn’t matter if they’re a ‘perfect 10’–they’ll be irresistibly attractive in your eyes.
/r/seduction26/09/25 02:10 AM
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