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Guitar pic is cringy.
/r/seduction29/06/18 02:26 PM
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Worked in a club for years where we had some very hot barmaids and they got rejected sometimes. Some guys just don't want to deal with their shit even if they are really hot. But, a hot girl with a nice personality is hard to say no to.
/r/seduction09/04/18 04:48 PM
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I'm pretty much like you. The big majority of girls I've been with made the first move and I've had it easy, but when I have to make an approach, I freeze. I'm just not good at making contact first. People tend to think I'm just cold and unfriendly while the truth is that I'm just a little shy. I don't do small talk because I find no interest of knowing anything of the people I don't already know. The way I meet people is by seeing them often because of school/work/social context. That way, we e…
/r/seduction21/03/18 11:57 PM
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Prices are expensive, but look at it this way: It's the best money you can spend. Count all the money you are wasting on other things and it'll add up more than a gym membership. You can decide to put no money on alcohol or fastfood/restaurants for a couple of months while you hit the gym and your money will return.
/r/seduction14/07/17 06:42 AM
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Doing physical activity increases testosterone levels. It helps on a lot if things in life. More energy, more confidence and being proud of yourself when you achieve new physique goals. All that together is good and you'll notice the difference. Hard work will pay off.
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:41 AM
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Dude start doing sports or work out. You already know the answer.
/r/seduction12/07/17 05:26 AM
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I approve on voyage. Very good cheap frag.
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:02 AM
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Dylan blue? I have it and it's a good juice.
/r/seduction06/02/17 04:01 AM
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I work in a club and I use Versace Eros there. Anywhere else I wear Armani eau de nuit oud. Not a compliment getter, but I love wearing it and it performs well under the big winter I have in Canada. In the summer I go for Dior sauvage and I can't wait for next summer to wear the new Versace Dylan blue. Some other frags I used in the past that ladies loved: YSL L'homme de la nuit, Montblanc legend and Trussardi uomo
/r/seduction06/02/17 03:59 AM
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Is it me or she looked really not into the guy at first? After that, things were getting good but I felt like he had no chance at the beginning of the video. Do I just misread her reaction? Well done overall tho. Good video.
/r/seduction16/08/14 06:45 PM
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There's no way to know if not doing kino was really the reason of loosing 90% of the girls. Reading one of your post: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/244knf/i_can_initially_attract_girls_but_i_can_never/ You can see that kino is not your problem with keeping girls. Kino is a good tool to build fast attraction, but I don't think too few kino will friendzone you. If a girl watches a movie with you, she won't be turned off because you don't touch her shoulder or her knee, but you might s…
/r/seduction04/07/14 06:24 PM
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I have to agree with roost on the majority of what he said and I would add this: I hate what PUA calls "Number closing". It puts a stupid thought that getting a number is closing a girl. While getting a number means nothing. People give their number to anyone because they just don't care. My advice would be to forget about the number until you are sure that there's an genuine interest to go on a date with the girl. With that said, flakes will always happen and sometimes you can't do much about i…
/r/seduction07/06/14 05:24 PM
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I love to go see comedy things or improvisation. It's free where I live and it's always sunny. Also, I often go on the ferry and have a nice "boat" ride, It's free too and original.
/r/seduction24/04/14 03:32 AM
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What helps when I go to the bar alone is my relationship with the barman/barmaid. A lot of times a barman introduced me to the girls that came and order their drinks. Or sometimes you just talk to the guy(s) next to you and you talk about girls in the bar and stuff. They can soon become your friends and then you proceed to have a night at the bar with friends. The bottom line is: Even if you go to the bar alone, you are never alone. It's a social place and people will talk to you because we like…
/r/seduction20/04/14 01:14 AM
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I'll comment on one thing you said: "if I successfully have sex once my self esteem would benefit a lot from it" If you want to have a successful first sexual relationship, begin by stopping the porn abuse. It can be very toxic. Then you will masturbate less so you won't have to use your bad masturbation technique. Maybe you won't be able to have an erection in the first couple of weeks, but it'll get better after some time. It's better to have no dick when you are at home then to pay a prostitu…
/r/seduction20/04/14 01:08 AM
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I don't come a lot on seddit, but I find this post interesting. "How to do something when it feels weird to do it". People give way to much shit about kino. It is a tool, like anything else in seduction, a tool to gets what you want. A tool that gets natural with practice and very helpful when you want to close fast. But it is not the only thing you have in your toolbox. I see myself as a pretty experienced and successful guy with the ladies and I rarely use kino. It's not part of my routine. I …
/r/seduction20/04/14 12:51 AM
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Ignore, wait till you are with her, tease her, ignore again. And when you feel like it, make the move.
/r/seduction09/01/14 04:23 AM
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Everytime a friend comes and cockblock I answer something like: "heh, your mom said no?" The thing is, she won't really listen to the friend if she wants to go home with you, you'll just need to work harder. You really need to isolate her far away from the friends. I found out that it is nice to isolate, build attraction, get her back to her friends, rinse and repeat. Never wait till the girl wants to go back with her friends, you decide that you've spent enough time and you go back to your frie…
/r/seduction07/01/14 09:36 PM
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Going to Montreal might be though for me in the next weeks because school begins again and I'll work on week ends. I'll keep your name in my friend list and we'll see what we can do this summer.
/r/seduction05/01/14 08:41 PM
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Yeah, It will be a small group anyway because we are not a lot of people from here I think. I went out yesterday, bars are full at this time of the year but when school begins again so next week we can have some drinks in town with the guys who want to. And then we will be able to create the Seddit lair for our area. After that, it will be easy to find people and organize something nice.
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:29 PM
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I'm from Quebec city.
/r/seduction02/01/14 01:16 AM
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Since you didn't make a move I guess that she never picked up on the fact that you were interested too. That doesn't mean you are not because clearly you are. You just have to go for it and see where it gets you. Don't wait for a signal.
/r/seduction14/10/13 11:34 PM
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People get confused about all the friendzone thing. Yes if you never make a move you might loose your chances but sometimes it's nice to play it a little longer too. You can create attraction without any kino. I have some mixed feelings about the kino aspect of the game but that's another subject. The real question is: Why don't you kino? Is it because you are too shy/not comfortable enough or do you think you don't need it to make the girl want you?
/r/seduction14/10/13 11:08 PM
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Don't care about feeling to do something. If you know it is good for you, do it. That's all. Life can be so simple.
/r/seduction30/09/13 03:12 AM
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Life isn't easy for everybody, Seduction is the same. Some guys are naturally good with women, some are not. I'll only say one thing. One thing really important in my life. You can do anything you want to with dedication and motivation. The harder it is to have what you want, the better you will feel. It seems really hard for you, you made a lot of change and you don't see it going anywhere. Sometimes we just don't see our own progress until we realize that we just did something we would never d…
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:09 PM
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I don't see what is the big deal, it's just a kiss. I'm not a professional PUA and I kissed closed girls in under 15 seconds pretty easily. I always ask myself, Am I just lucky? Does anyone could have gone to that girl and kiss her? I think it's a luck you create. Be the guy that all the girl look at in a bar. Be the guy they tell her friends.. Oh god I want him. Then, when you interact with a girl. You won't need to think about how much kino you need, what signals she sent you, what IOIs you sa…
/r/seduction20/03/13 09:31 PM
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I think your game is good because it seemed to work but for me, you waste a lot of time texting. I'm pretty sure you had a shot to meet her in person on the 19th instead of texting on the 19th, and then on the 20th to set a date for later. You could close sooner.
/r/seduction20/03/13 04:47 AM
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This is what I do and it works well. I'll invite some girls I want to date, Some will/can, some won't. If 2-3 girls say yes. I'll just flake 2 and see them another time. It's not mean, they'll find something else to do anyways.
/r/seduction18/03/13 11:34 PM
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I don't even know you, but I'm really proud of you.
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:08 PM
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Yeah that's right.
/r/seduction23/02/13 01:30 PM
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I'll have to disagree with some points. I think everybody looks at everybody. I went a lot by myself and people approach me, because they looked at me and they noticed me. They try to seek validation when they talk to me. I'm the mysterious guys who walks alone in a bar being confident. And I sit down and talk to the barmaid and have fun with her. People see that and they react to that. If someone isn't noticed, he is just not noticeable.
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:25 AM
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I've done that a lot in my life. I'll often go to a bar alone, take a beer and stay sit at the bar and just drink. I'll talk to the barmaid, game her hard. Because I'm a guy different than all others, she'll play with me. This makes me noticeable for other people in the bar. Everybody looks at you, you need to have strong body language. What happened to me when I went alone: Girls approach me for some random information, Talk a little bit then Fuck close. Guys paying me drinks even if I never sp…
/r/seduction23/02/13 08:21 AM
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Wish I had a dad.
/r/seduction23/02/13 05:21 AM
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Nice, I like that.
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:08 PM
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I can understand that. There's only one time I went out after watching some PUA videos. The night was amazing, I felt like god around women and everything was really great. But I don't know the relation between the videos and my mood at that time. All I know is that it didn't hurt that night. But I get what you say about focus.
/r/seduction06/02/13 05:17 AM
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Shut down your phone for a couple hours. Find a way to look at it only some times a day. Bad text game will hurt a lot. Use the phone to set a date. Then forget about it, Say something like: "Alright, don't change until next Tuesday and we'll get along fine, See ya." And when she says: "Haha ok :) see you tuesday!", You don't respond.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:51 AM
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Work on your text game. There's good guides on the internet. Texting the right things will get you on dates a lot. You need to set a date really quickly and forget about long conversations over texts. Your phone gets you dates, Your body gets you laid.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:47 AM
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Respect the fact that they are shy, Don't force them into situations they are not comfortable with. Give them space, be flirty but not too much : "You know I love geeky girls and here you are acting like one!" --- Sentence from Bobby Rio that I like a lot. I don't like shy girls, but I've met some and I never went hard kino on them.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:42 AM
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I tend to just ignore the boyfriend thing and things are ok. Act the same way as before. Flirt/touch/arouse her when you make the move just persist a little bit more and listen to puaCurveBall.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:37 AM
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Friendzone her, All gay people I know tend to be really sociable and very good people the hang out with. I have a gay friend who does everything he can to introduce women to me. I know a lesbian girl who does the same thing.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:34 AM
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Watching some PUA/motivational videos before you go out is nice.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:31 AM
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Learning the game can help you. Maybe you have a testosterone level problem..It can be a lot of things really. You might wanna talk to a professional about that.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:30 AM
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Go for a walk, It is so simple but it is really good. You always have something around you that is interesting, you can kino her a lot when you walk side to side, you can be the leader and choose where you go because she is just following you, etc..
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:29 AM
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It affects you more than it affects women. You might be a little shy about your job but if you don't care, they won't care. Just assume that at the moment you have a shitty job. Maybe tell them something like: "Well it's just a little job but it is actually really fun and I've met tons of nice people there".
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:28 AM
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I would just ignore that. And talk to her the same way I would talk to her.
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:24 AM
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I read everywhere that eye contact is really important and if a girl finds you interesting, she'll hold eye contact with you when you see her in a bar. Why do I always catch the girls who look at me but turn down their heads as soon as I catch their eyes? It happens 95% of the time and everywhere, at work, street, venues.. At first I'd say that I'm just not attractive but I know that this is not true. Well I mean, Almost everyday people tell me I'm good looking and I've been with a lot of girls.…
/r/seduction06/02/13 02:00 AM
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When I have nothing to say I'll just go like: Ok now it is your turn to talk, Go!
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:50 AM
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Approach all of them, talk to guys first. You are just a guy who has fun and likes to meet new people. Then you can flirt with the girls. The rest is you and your game doing your job. Isolate the girl you want is important.
/r/seduction06/02/13 12:50 AM
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I love your idea of sharing every pickup nights with us, I'll read your posts a lot. I think you know what you did wrong, There's not a lot of things of us to comment on. You spent all night with one girl and that's pretty much it. The thing I want to know is: What happened after your kiss attempt? Did it killed the mood or did you ignore and kept talking to her as before? There's nothing bad about 1 failed attempt, For me it's how you react when it happens. Maybe she really wanted but for some …
/r/seduction21/01/13 02:05 AM
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I'll go for a 3rd one : We got to a bar late.. Around midnight and the bar closes at 3:00am. We get our beers and go sit between 2 tables of 2girls, in the front of the stage (They had musicians). So we're pretty much in a good spot. 5minutes pass and the girls at our right put their table right next to us and they sit with us and start talking.. They were really really cute, but really toxic, the kind of girls that just get free drinks and act like bitches.. We didn't like them, we felt that al…
/r/seduction18/01/13 03:44 AM
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Yes, that! I've been in bars/clubs game for some years now and I can identify them really quickly now. It's good because I don't waste any time with those girls.
/r/seduction12/01/13 03:49 AM
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They didn't say anything. They literally took the table and merge it with ours. And then they said Hi!
/r/seduction12/01/13 02:20 AM
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What you respond to a text depends of what game you play. Are you the nice guy? The asshole? the fun one? What I would respond to that is simply.. "I just got home." - "Congrats!" You see? That's who I am, I make fun of little things like that and I love it. Respond something original that comes from your own game, not us. The age thing can be work the same way as a boyfriend thing. Ignore it completely. You don't have to respond to everything she says. You choose where the conversation goes, no…
/r/seduction09/01/13 11:16 PM
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I've read every answer and it all makes sens.. I am over-analyzing that sort of things.. In fact, the girl called me yesterday to invite me again at another party but I already had a date. I found out that when it happens I may just connect sexually with the girl and my phone/text game is really bad at the moment.. Need to work on that. Thanks for the insight it helped a lot!
/r/seduction05/01/13 05:30 PM
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-Hey what's your name? -(Girl name) -Me too! I use it when I'm with a group of girls it's always funny.
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:46 PM
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Name
/r/seduction31/07/12 08:46 PM
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Gonna start smoking to do that.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:14 AM
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Cigarette.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:06 PM
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I'm a doctor, she's safe now ;)
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:06 PM
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(long hair) Hey do you think I look more like Jesus or a rockstar?
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:05 PM
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It didn't happen a lot to me cause I always go out with my good wing. (Pretty important imo) But when I interrupt an interaction I never return to the girl where I left before, I start all over, but it's a lot quicker to escaladate. I just talk to her normally and often she'll start leaning in again and we'll get to the point we were at before.
/r/seduction27/07/12 01:35 AM
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French girls, Mmmmm :) Are you from Montreal? Also, good job on everything, Starting from AA you are doing good now.
/r/seduction30/06/12 05:33 PM
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When I am with shy girls I try to tell her something like: "I think people who don't talk are the ones that have the most interesting things to say." I make her really comfortable and don't force to much on physical contact. I think it's important to respect the fact that she is introverted and let her know that you'll be open to her when she is more comfortable.
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:51 PM
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Loved the read, I am also working with a friend when we go out in bars, It's nice to know how nights are going for 2 other guys out there. I'm confused about the last girl tho..Sometimes when I talk to a girl she says something like that : "I know what you are trying to do" I don't feel like this is bad for me but it blocks me completely. for me it's just another test but I can't deal with it and do like nothing happened.
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:23 PM
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