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Captain_pants4/r/askMRP10/02/19 11:50 PM
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For men, being first holds no value. I wouldn’t give it a second thought
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/25 12:30 PM
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Girlfriend? Don’t be a pussy. Just find a new one…
/r/askMRP24/06/25 01:47 AM
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It’s definitely something to ponder. It gets really weird when you see the same disposition render positive results on some men you interact with. Makes you realize that some of them are lady boys
/r/askMRP02/02/25 03:53 PM
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Maybe the dudes you date aren’t retarded and they can smell the fact you have no interest in them
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/24 12:20 AM
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The ironic thing is that no one is wired to treat bitchiness with love, outside of the parent-child dynamic
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/24 01:17 AM
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Hang out in coffee shops near high end car dealerships. Get a membership to a top of the line gym. I’m involved in multiple singles social groups and all of the women have the same gripe. They’re all dumbfounded too when I tell them that all they have to do is make eye contact and smile. As a man sometimes I’m just not in the mood to approach, but it’s hard to resist a green light
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 01:41 AM
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Let’s start with some of the basics to see if you’re even looking in the correct league. How old are you? How much do you weigh? Would the men you know say that you are pleasant to be around? How many men have you slept with?
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/24 01:30 AM
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Don’t be cryptic and gay
/r/askMRP16/07/24 12:20 AM
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It’s a problem. He’s looking to venture out
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/22 12:39 AM
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Become very busy in things outside of the relationship and learn amused mastery
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/21 11:43 PM
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Work on being calm in the midst of child tantrums
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 08:56 PM
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You have to completely remove sex from your mind and ask yourself, “Do I really like this woman? Do I like to talk with her and spend time with her? Are there emotional issues, or other red flags. Is she a responsible partner?” All of these things will be all you’re left with after a few years...
/r/askMRP13/12/19 04:55 PM
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It’s not a bad idea to drop a few nuggets of truth here and there but don’t deer it out
/r/askMRP30/11/19 10:53 PM
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I wouldn’t give this too much thought anymore...she is on her way to monkey branching to the first guy with a donut
/r/askMRP04/11/19 09:16 AM
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Cuck
/r/askMRP11/10/19 04:16 AM
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Cool, cool. Just start fucking someone else
/r/askMRP08/10/19 03:23 AM
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I was in the same boat. There is no love...just females that you like, females that you’ll tolerate, and females that you no longer tolerate. All of these females are trying to get something from you, which is fine. When they stop adding value NEXT. Life after divorce is good.
/r/askMRP29/09/19 10:34 PM
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Your English has gotten better. Kudos
/r/askMRP20/09/19 12:53 PM
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Don’t let anymore time pass...pull the plug. Grab your balls and never again think about how you’re going to justify something to someone. Even if 2 of your kids want to move away with mommy don’t let them. Kids are fucking stupid and have no idea about what’s good for them. They’ll come around eventually so make sure that you’re always in their lives and that they can feel your love. By the way, your wife’s dream is going to become a lot less appealing when she finds out that she can’t move tha…
/r/askMRP14/09/19 04:23 PM
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Just tell her that if she keeps opening her mouth you’re going to fill it
/r/askMRP06/09/19 01:11 AM
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I started this journey married. Ended up pulling the plug. Dating while RP aware is great
/r/askMRP25/08/19 03:35 PM
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I like that he specifically said he didn’t want to DEER, and then he D.........E...........E...........R....ed
/r/askMRP22/08/19 11:28 PM
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Let that hamster spin. Make sure to wrap the willy with those SB chicks.
/r/askMRP21/08/19 02:34 AM
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Jesus, I had to stop reading almost immediately. Your poor kids
/r/askMRP12/08/19 06:00 PM
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Not sure what state you’re in but I think most courts shoot for a 50/50 custody situation. I recently got divorced and have 50/50. My kids are fine, and the time I do spend with them is much more meaningful. Freeing yourself from some cunt with a toxic combo of childhood issues and perpetual depression is priceless. Being RP in the dating world great
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/19 01:35 PM
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I agree, take up BJJ
/r/askMRP10/08/19 01:26 PM
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Not sure that you’re entirely clear on what fogging is, or when and how to use it
/r/askMRP10/08/19 01:18 PM
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Good post
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 10:29 AM
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I question if I’m too rough at times, but then again my woman always cums right away when I turn up the heat.
/r/askMRP28/06/19 12:17 AM
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This guy’s right. Let’s abandon this
/r/askMRP26/06/19 07:18 AM
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Fuck ha!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/19 11:29 PM
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I wouldn’t say anything about the act itself. Talk about something else. Tell her something funny that happened to you that day. Sex is fun but it’s not that big of a deal to you because you could fuck any of the women you encounter during the day, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/19 11:24 PM
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All that good girl behavior she exhibited in the beginning was because she was excited about the relationship and wanted to nurture it. Now that you’re living in her space it’s not so exciting anymore. She probably fucks you everyday because she wants a baby. Babies are exciting
/r/askMRP21/05/19 01:16 AM
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Don’t make an excuse as to why you won’t get her the shirt. Just sprawl out, close your eyes, and tell her that being a little cold while she sleeps is good for her
/r/askMRP14/05/19 12:17 PM
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The problem with DEERing is that once you start they will always fish for it. Ideally, your $80 would have been better spent on her or her kids from her perspective. Way too early in the relationship for any of this shit. Red flag. Bounce
/r/askMRP05/05/19 12:26 AM
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She makes twice as much money as you do, and you like her? Get married, sidebar, work out, keep emotions in check. Marriage is probably a lot easier if you’re red going in
/r/askMRP11/04/19 10:38 PM
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I trust men only slightly more than I trust women in the corporate setting, and a woman would slit everyone’s throat if she thought it would get her ahead even the slightest bit
/r/askMRP05/03/19 08:07 PM
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Jesus, people do that?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/19 10:04 PM
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She sounds great. Can you hook me up?
/r/askMRP24/02/19 10:44 PM
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I hear ya. The shit tests are annoying but the comfort tests are the ones that killed the blood flow for me. New plate
/r/askMRP23/02/19 01:48 AM
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Can you get your fat wife to respect you again? Of course, she has no other option. Get into the gym and work off some of that anger. While you’re contemplating this and trying to justify not doing it, you need to STFU. Shutting your fat mouth will be harder than you think but will do you a lot of good
/r/askMRP21/02/19 12:32 PM
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I expected redundancy
/r/askMRP12/02/19 04:59 AM
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Sounds like you don’t really give a shit that she’s moving on. Good for you. Embrace the higher quality to come
/r/askMRP10/02/19 09:47 PM
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She sent you a breakup text. MOVE ON. The only relationships worth being in are the ones where the women adore you. Chad is probably already in the picture, but don’t fret over this. She just gave you the kick in the ass you need to go get a better chick
/r/askMRP10/02/19 07:27 PM
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Use withdrawal of attention for the purpose of putting yourself in a better position instead trying to get her to respond in a more favorable way. I.E. if she’s being a bitch go do something that you’d rather be doing. If you’re using it for any other purpose then it’s just a shit covert contract. The end result may be that she gets a better attitude but that’s just a bonus. Put yourself first
/r/askMRP27/01/19 12:31 AM
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I move my woman around a lot. I don’t ask her to move, I just reposition her.
/r/askMRP18/01/19 04:50 PM
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It’s funny to see you faggots fight like catty little bitches. Dude, you’re not married nor do you have kids with this chick. Your post was long so I stopped reading after a paragraph but I assume you don’t live with her either. Just learn from this experience and move on. I get that you live in a small town but there’s got to be other pussy out there. If this bitch is starting to scale back on the respect then start scaling back in your time. And I don’t mean just for the purpose of seeing what…
/r/askMRP17/01/19 04:27 AM
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Don’t dump her, use her as a backboard. Start implementing RP and see what kind of affect it has on her. Get into the gym and hit the sidebar
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/18 10:50 PM
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DGAF is what may save you. Start building a life outside of your marriage. Keep building muscle, but Rambo only goes away when you’ve created a life outside of your relationship that your wife can’t affect. Start working on potential plates, but don’t flaunt it
/r/askMRP06/11/18 01:58 PM
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Old ladies don’t get pregnant
/r/askMRP01/11/18 12:25 AM
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The part I regret is not taking more time in that situation to sharpen my RP skills, with my kids under my roof. Don’t get me wrong, I have 50/50 custody and my kids are fine, but after seeing how effective an outcome independent and DNGAF attitude is on the ladies in the dating scene, I wish I would have stuck around a little bit longer to see how it worked on my ex wife (truly internalizing DNGAF took quite a bit of time for me). My girlfriend now is everything that I’m looking for, and one of…
/r/askMRP29/10/18 07:06 PM
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3s and 4s lead to 5s and 6s, and so on. Abundance mentality is real. Don’t go Rambo and pull the plug too early; I did this and regret it. Your situation sucks but you’re in an optimal position to make good gains without giving anything up
/r/askMRP29/10/18 12:42 AM
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You’re actually in a great position. You get to stay with your kids, and have a sparring partner to sharpen your skills, whom you can fuck when you feel like. Spin plates, work on yourself, and do whatever you want. The longer you hold out, the more alimony you’ll walk away with
/r/askMRP28/10/18 04:12 PM
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Just having the option is key
/r/askMRP22/10/18 01:23 AM
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So if her ass and tits were bigger you’d stay?
/r/askMRP08/10/18 11:33 PM
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You’re too available. Stop initiating for a while. Engage in a level of dread in the female level
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/18 12:15 AM
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I squat 315 and I didn’t think it was a lot. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill25/09/18 12:25 AM
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You should set goals and get your life straight before getting married (if you decide to get married at all). Take your time and date/fuck a lot women while you’re getting established in your career and saving money (resources accrued prior to marriage are shielded in a divorce pretty easily as long as you don’t co-mingle). Don’t ever marry a woman that you think will change for the better; people are who they are generally. Pick a woman that has good habits already (cooking, cleaning, financial…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/18 09:44 PM
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Women sometimes cheat because they think they’ve found someone “more fun to be around”. You don’t sound fun at all. Stop being a pussy and just live your life
/r/askMRP22/09/18 02:09 PM
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Go back and read thundercock’s first response. Then read it again. Once that truth sinks in it will give you the IDGF mentality that you need
/r/askMRP21/09/18 10:51 PM
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It’s only a waste of time if the relationship is your goal. If you have more important goals then it won’t matter as much if it ends. I’m not sure about your culture but in the U.S. most relationships end. I ended my marriage a year ago and it was the best decision I have ever made. Don’t be afraid of relationship demise
/r/askMRP21/09/18 10:30 PM
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Peterson is purple at best
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 09:07 PM
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Every woman I’ve ever met. Your wife’s probably too scared to tell you
/r/askMRP10/09/18 09:57 PM
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I wouldn’t talk about it again. Pretend it never happened and be happy. Seriously, be happy. All women have girl-on-girl fantasies and she pretty much just opened the door to your threesome world. If your woman isn’t into threesomes, or she isn’t into you, then she also just have you the green light to fuck other women. Don’t flaunt this just go do it
/r/askMRP10/09/18 12:53 PM
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The more muscles you have the less height will come into play. Focus on women between 5’ and 5’4”. The online game is rough until you get it. Try multiple dating apps at once
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 12:19 AM
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Divorce was the best decision I ever made. Your wife sounds like a blob of shit
/r/askMRP06/09/18 01:24 PM
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Red pill men spend a significant amount of time gaining control over our emotions during the early stages of swallowing the pill. A red pulled man would likely not react like this to a simple change of plans
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/18 11:38 PM
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You stayed the night at his apartment and he didn’t try to have sex with you? I’d say the issue is with him, not you
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 01:32 PM
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Women manipulate men in the exact same ways, it’s just that no one ever brought into the light before the red pill. If you don’t like the parameters that a man has set forth for your relationship then don’t play with that man. I’ll bet dollars to donuts though that if you’re attracted to that man you’d operate in any paradigm he sets up
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:06 PM
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You’re obviously attractive and therefore all men will want to sleep with you; it’s just nature. It’s only a problem for you if you’re not attracted to that man for whatever reason, i.e. he’s too old. Why try to punish men for just being men? I disagree with the other comments about this type of environment being unsafe. Some men are tactful in their approach, some are not. Why not just say to these guys “Let’s keep this professional”. That simple sentence lets these guys know how to proceed
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/18 11:58 AM
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Say “shut up bitch”
/r/askMRP30/06/18 02:22 AM
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This is the best answer you’ll get
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 11:33 PM
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Men love little girly girls. Just ask in a supplicating way as soon as he initiates something. If you feel fresh in that area then that’s not the issue
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 11:29 PM
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Do you guys all wear the matching track suits? I love those. The Eastern European tuxedo
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 04:35 PM
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Continue on with your PHD and start online dating. There are a ton of good men out there, some RP aware and some not, that will appreciate an emotionally stable woman who brings something other than her vagina to the table
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/18 11:19 AM
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You said a few things that gave me the impression that the underlying issue is the fact that she can’t rely on you emotionally to weather he storms. Shit happens in life and your woman will not be able to handle it nearly as well as you do, and she doesn’t want to. Just be a calm emotional rock. If she’s still disrespectful then cut her loose. On a side note, most women will be on their best behavior until she has a baby in her belly. Everyone is right...divorce would be as painless as it can po…
/r/askMRP22/06/18 06:07 PM
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Women talk, Men do. Women complain about the problem. Men solve the problem
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:31 PM
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Not only does she have you by the balls, but so does her daddy. Extricate
/r/askMRP15/06/18 07:12 PM
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Lift. Talk to everyone with no agenda. Lift some more
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 07:08 PM
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Start being honest with your motives. If you want to do something different than what he suggests tell him why, even if it sounds stupid (“I’m just really excited about this package and I want to take a walk”)
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/18 12:07 PM
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This is funny. I agree though; it’s hard to not see things in this light when you feel your wife doesn’t bring much to the table. I got divorced a few months ago and the woman I’m seeing now fucks like a pornstar, pays for half of everything we do, cooks and cleans for me, then goes home when I have my kids I also pay a hefty amount in childcare costs and CS but it’s worth it. 500k is quite a lot, but how much would it be 2, 4, 6 years from now?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 05:29 PM
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So you’re not going to fuck the sister? Selling yourself short there
/r/askMRP10/05/18 12:32 AM
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Being calm and NGAF is the answer, and spinning plates is the way to get there.
/r/askMRP24/04/18 10:30 PM
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“Run with it”? That’s so vague. The fact that you are aware of how things work should be enough to combat anything
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 08:35 PM
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Don’t give any serious thought to MGTOW; they’re the red-headed step child of this movement
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 06:59 PM
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This concern seems to be pretty common for women just learning about the redpill. I don’t understand it though, and maybe it’s because I’m a man. Taken advantage of in what way?
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 06:51 PM
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This is the answer. It may help to practice being submissive to someone that you don’t always agree with (there will be times when a man that you love and trust fully will make a mistake or do something you don’t agree with)
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 04:17 PM
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I think it’s safe to assume every woman has slept with twice as many guys as they have ever reported to anyone, even their friends. Vaginas clean themselves so I don’t think it necessarily devalues them as long as they haven’t contracted an incurable disease
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 12:08 AM
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The fact that your wife is being positively introspective is a great thing. This is a long road and most of us don’t/didn’t have the luxury of a woman that actually wanted the same outcome. Ignore her and get to work filling up your time. The desire will come back.
/r/askMRP01/03/18 01:06 AM
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At that moment he probably needs a little empathy/mommy then submissive. You can figure it out by saying something along the lines of “I’m sorry honey. I don’t like to see you all worked up when you get home. What can I get you?” He’ll likely tell you what he needs, and if he doesn’t and the behavior continues then he just needs to get it off his chest or is looking for empathy
/r/askMRP22/02/18 11:22 AM
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Try not to think about girls and just focus on having fun, like you’re in a room full of guys and you have to entertain yourself without the element of sex. I’m not saying that you should ignore the girls that show you IOIs but you also don’t need to jump up with your dick out every time a girl smiles at you. Girls are attracted to guys who appear to be fun and having fun, even not in the presence of women. If you do get An IOI practice being fun, teasing and flirting, but don’t immediately go t…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 05:05 PM
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Anyone that went to a university knows that all college girls at parties are looking to get fucked. A little RP knowledge in college would have gone a long way for me 20 years ago. Not to diminish your accomplishment, and good on ya brother, but home runs like this become a lot more difficult when you’re older and out of that setting
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 09:45 PM
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