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Yea it definitely won’t happen again
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 08:51 PM
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I agree and she’s out today! Also I fixed things with new girl and we had an amazing night last night! On to bigger and better things !
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/25 08:35 PM
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She hit me back up and said when I sort things out we can continue !!! Ex wife moving out this week!
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 11:40 AM
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Yeaaaa I feel you , but ima see this through we connect on all levels
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 11:07 AM
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OP here , new girl contacted me again!!! I have ex wife moving into an apartment ! She’s unsure if she wants to hang out in person , but we are talking … atleast she helped me realize to get my ex out. She had gone a crazy stalker ex herself .
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 08:23 AM
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She contacted me again, and I have ex wife moving into appartment!
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 08:22 AM
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How often should I text her . She hasn’t answered me right as of now. Also ex wife is moving down south with her father . Should I give new girl some time . Or should i approach this as she’s not comming back ?
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 07:12 PM
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You are right man , no more being so nonchalant , I guess I’m the type of person that would never do this , and try to look for the best in people
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 03:57 PM
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I actually have been for awhile
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 03:54 PM
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My cheating ex wife is off to Myrtle beach to live with her family , sucks for the kids though
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 03:54 PM
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I texted her , she’s a bit reserved person . I told her I hope she’s ok, and if she wants to talk I’m here . I also added that if she doesn’t answer I understand , and that I was just making sure she’s ok.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 03:51 PM
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I never thought honestly
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 01:38 PM
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He lives with his parents and is a dishwasher
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 01:37 PM
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Any tips to get new girl back, want to send her a message asking if she’s alright , but I don’t know if I’m being too much
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 10:49 AM
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We have 2 kids . I don’t know if I should send her a message like, hey “new girl” I just wanted to make sure your alright, understood if you don’t want to answer , but I realize the other night was a lot and just wanted to make sure you are in a good place .
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 10:48 AM
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She the mother of my kids
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 10:47 AM
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It’s crazy because new girl was soooo into me , i feel like I might have a chance , but it might have been too much … maybe I wait no contact for awhile…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 12:09 AM
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She won’t sign the papers C and I told the new girl this
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 10:32 PM
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Haha she was a solid , 8? Any advice on other girl, should I say sorry ?
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 10:21 PM
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Just talked to her family , they are going to help with an apartment for her
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 09:46 PM
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Any ideas to potentially get the new girl back … I know I shouldn’t rely on another for happiness but life was just starting to look up
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 08:57 PM
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Fuck man this sucks
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 08:44 PM
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Yea I am a moron , I had a chance to pick the new girl and I fell into my exes trap. It sucks like I had this really good connection , and I know in my heart I need to let this girl , but we were so cool together.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 08:17 PM
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She won’t sign
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 07:28 PM
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I didn’t realize I had my location shared , never had to hide a girl away, and didn’t think she would do this …
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 05:08 PM
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1 . Yes she is 2. We are divorced in spirit , we agreed we are not together, but she won’t sign papers because of insurance. 3. I just am giving her 3 months
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 04:30 PM
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No she shouldn’t , but I did it for the kids and I thought it was cool because we each were seeing new people
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 04:16 PM
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She doesn’t have enough money to leave yet , but she just got a new job and should be able to love out soon , or vice versa
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 04:12 PM
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Honestly your right , I did kick her out and she was living in her car . She almost lost her job , and the kids were crying for her . I have enough love for her left to let her get her situation right and then she moves out to an apartment … sucks it makes everything way worse
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 02:26 PM
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Damn , I’m in a similar boat . 32M my wife’s 28F . Two daughters 3 and 5 years old. She had an affair , but now she has cold feet and has been trying to get sex from me alot . In the beginning I wanted to make it work, but recently I’ve let her go in my heart and I feel so much better . Even told her I might start dating ; and that I don’t care if she sees affair partner. Only difference is she lives with me, and we need eachother . The girls also need her , and I won’t kick her to the street, b…
/r/Divorce_Men13/10/25 01:35 PM
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Probably for the best
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 02:37 PM
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Ok,that’s what I’ll do , maybe there are people who are willing to casually date in this situation, but you are right .
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/25 09:03 AM
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Thank you !
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 03:59 AM
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No just on the nights that we agree on, so for example say I sleep there Monday Wednesday and Saturday. I’d be with the children Tuesday, Thursday , Friday , and Sunday at night . And I would see them every day . Also technically it is my parent’s house so they are also there if need be . Also my ex wife maybe a cheat , but she knows I’m a good day and we have talked about how important the kids have both parents. She is also a good mom.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 03:29 AM
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So it’s weird I actually told my ex wife about the date , and she seems to support it because she still feels bad about the affair . I currently don’t want to be back with her , but love her enough to want to help her get on her feet . And I’m afraid to tell the new girl before first date, but maybe I will . I was thinking about maybe taking new girl on a date , and then at some point explaining my situation ( before anything physical) so the very least the new girl gets free food and maybe just…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 03:10 AM
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There is an app called roomie. You can rent rooms for like $500 a month . I would go to work everyday and come home and take care of my kids until their bed time around 8pm. ( outside play , dinner, bath , bedtime story). The ex wife does the morning routine with them. The room is actually closer to my job so it would be nice to sleep there maybe 2-3 times out of the week. And as long as I communicate with my ex wife she wouldn’t care as long as they are asleep. Also on the weekends I can ask my…
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 02:55 AM
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Divorce is finalized ! All paid up, this has been going on for awhile, so I feel like I’m mostly over it …
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 02:45 AM
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Yeaaa ur probably right, we r getting divorced but i wont put her to the curb, still love her . Just gonna be friends have amazing sex build myself up and have sex with other girls . When shes financially stable she will move on her own and ill live my life happily single focusing just on the kids
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 10:51 AM
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You need to better yourself , if you want her back there is still a chance always until both you are dead . If your situation is like mine you will have to go to hell and back and be ready for her to act in ways you never thought possible . You guys will never look at eachother the same again, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing . To fix this you are gonna have to be a very strong man, and that might not be worth it to you . Don’t just listen to what most people say on this sub. There is a lo…
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/25 09:42 AM
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Thanks man, I have a feeling in my heart that this is the case . But I’m going to try for my children. And if it does all blow up I’ll have closure that I tried my best …
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/25 02:29 PM
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Thank you so much for saying that
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 04:21 PM
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I guess my point is I’ll make her want me again, and I’ll do it for the girls . I even considered still getting a divorce but making her want me again just so she is around for the girls … date her and other people . After the way it all went down I’m not at fault for what happens
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/25 08:23 AM
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Thank you so much my friend
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 07:23 PM
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You might have helped me change the trajectory of my whole life , I told her I’m selling my crypto, quitting my 2 jobs and moving to Myrtle beach in 2 months, because I need a change . She agreed to rent as a family down there . So now we’re far removed from this guy. I can’t believe what is happening, I’m start doing this all the time to people. I always hold my anger in
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 07:03 PM
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You know what man this is the only way, I’m gonna become the best version of myself either way
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 06:19 PM
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Holy shit I told her if she starts seeing this coworker then she will need to leave the house, because that’s disrespectful to me and I’m worth more then that, and she said ok… when she got home she sent me this long message about how she is going to take a step back and how it’s better if we live as a family for now until everything is figured out. Crazy shit right here …
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 06:12 PM
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Sounds so much like my situation… idk what to do. On one hand I want to stay quit until our trip and then lay it all on the table, but that’s a month and a half away. It might be too late by then
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 05:02 PM
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Ooooo shit I see … honestly that makes sense , today I literally decided that she would have to leave the house (or I ) if she can’t wait to date until we figure this all out… I just need the time to talk to her , with our busy schedules.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 04:51 PM
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I do not want to play that dance , but I will dance a little for my children… I believe I can rekindle what we have, and if not then I will know . I must atleast try for my kids . I need to be in their lives 100%
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 04:13 PM
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Thank you for the support, and I guess I already look at her different. Being able to be in my children’s lives %100 is worth it to me!
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 04:11 PM
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Thank you for a positive answer my friend
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 01:48 PM
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I understand, but it’s crazy because we actually get along really well and we don’t argue in front of the kids . We have he same sense of humor and hobbies and goals. She’s been through so much in life and is having an existential crisis. I didn’t take it serious and help her get help. But im 100% she doesn’t really grasp what she’s doing , and if she gives this one more chance and I can get her help I know there is a good chance this will work …
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 01:48 PM
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I totally agree that’s the right way, but for the sake of my kids I want to try . I’m willing to give her one more chance , if it happened again I would be done/. ( as I might happen again)
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 11:40 AM
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Damn I know what your saying , I just think the best version of myself can win her back, even if it’s just for the kids … I know it’s a big hit to my pride , but I can handle it. I just don’t want to wake up and think I could have tried harder .
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 11:38 AM
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I’m 32 male and she’s 28 female btw.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/25 07:08 PM
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