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Thanks for your answear. When I make music I feel very spiritual and happy, Like I rather do that then watch movies and stuff like that. My beats = filled with holy spirit The artist vocals = filled with other evil spirits often The song = Contains both Thats the problem, I am feared that even if I only want to do good in my part. That god will judge me for produced the song, even If I cant controll what they sing or rap about. there are no evil in my beats. And all I want to do is share my love…
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 05:44 PM
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thanks for this, my music is from the heart and I at least for myself thank him when I come up with melodys, and I have plans to openly thank him when I upload my music. The problem when making beats is that they are not supposed to be instrumental, the singer or rapper ads the vocals you know and I cant controll that. So I can just hope that my spirit pulls people closer to God and that there are a small chance that the artist sing or rap about God or something in the lyrics
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 05:39 PM
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I get you, you saying "God pulls us to do certain things" I dont miss my sinful nature at all. The casual sex, the alcohol, and all that. Its just that when I am happy, I love making beats and writing those melodys, share them with the world. I have to read John 15 about this
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 05:34 PM
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Thanks, I feel a little bit stressed to becouse I am getting older and have many opportunities in music right now, still I am scared if it is the right thing to do for Christ. Its 50/50, somedays it feels 100% that I can spread my love and light to the world this way for just making beats, and other days it just feels like "I will burn in hell for supporting this evil music industry filled with drugs and casual sex" I have no problem with saying no to alcohol, drugs. I have been giving so much l…
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 05:32 PM
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Thank you so much for your answear, it means alot to me. Lets say I upload my latest single (I have produced a song for a rapper recently) And I struggle to upload the song just becouse he is very "Have fun, fuck bitches and enjoy your life" in the song Lets say I upload the song and give some message "God bless you" or something. Maybe people start to question "This music producer, he looks so happy, there is something about him! How can he be so happy and calm?" And that way I can talk about t…
/r/RPChristians11/07/20 04:44 PM
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thanks, glad I can help. They never in a relationship with "you" anyways, they are in a relationship with your value
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:33 PM
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sorry for the late answear, I have only read 50% of the sidebar but will take my time now. It seams like its supposed to be giving non-verbal the "Are we togehter" stuff. Never say it with words just let her know her place in action. The thing I like about the 6 stages of LTR breakup guide is that it makes it perfectly clear where you stand with the girl. For the next girl I will leave much much more early, before the re-gain old friends and prepare for branch swing part takes in. It feels like …
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:32 PM
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I have decided to pay $30 just to get her shit away, I dont want to be in her frame of "I have the right to pick up my stuff when I feel like" When she get back in town there will be no way back to me. I did some research and found her mom's adress where she lives during the corona. I will not send any sms or whatever just post it and let her figure out what the package are about It will also as a bonus state my higher value of "I rather spend money to send it then you meet me in person" That gi…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 05:23 PM
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yeah I guess I can figure out her moms adress and then post it to her, that would be cool. Even if her stuff is in the basement it feels like it can create some emotional investment without me even thinking about it
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:59 PM
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I feel you, its just 2 things. We dont have any mutual friends, she lived with some other students in a house and the owners have kicked everyone out. So she dont even have any place to live in this town right now, where I can drop the stuff. I dont have any clue where she will live when her school opens up again and she is back in the town (Corona virus you know), If that was not the case I would just leave the stuff to her rommie Its like a pair of jeans, 3 t-shirs, 2 books and some basic stuf…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:02 PM
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Haha ok I feel you if you compare to ifbb pros, but I mean if you compare to a normal gym-dude or a AFC you are like 10x more?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:59 PM
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I feel you, I got the frame like 5 month into the relationship. Blowjobs all the time, she stopped hanging out with friend alot, wanted to be around me alot, wanted my attention and respected my opinions about stuff. But... This was in the dating stage. The last 3 month has been horrible since I commited to her. How did I do it? Well, here is where I realize afterwords my first frame loss, She set up the commitment and just stated one day that "Since we in a relationship right now, I want to spe…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:48 PM
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I feel you, I just dont think it provides any value right now to smash tinder-hoes, I know I can do it. I need hotter/higher quality girls that comes with a stronger frame and body.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:36 PM
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How cant you not be happy with 100kg+ (If you was in decent shape) how many guys of the whole have that mass?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:32 PM
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Yeah, it feels really good to have the ability to walk away from a good looking girl, could have done it much more early tho but I try to not be to hard on myself. I will go into monk mode now and focus on lifting and meditation to be stronger in myself to be able to walk faster from girls next time Sure I can get tinder and start smash some 6-7/10 girls but I dont really get me any stronger I feel, I know I can smash avrage girls So I think my energy is better spent on building myself up more e…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 10:11 PM
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Ok so thanks for all the answears It feels more clear already, the logic behind the actions.Thanks to TRP and daily meditation I can look at the end of this relationship with logic and truth instead of feelings and depression (That I am supposed to feel in terms of society) It feels like a beta-voice inside me tell me "Why dont you care? You lost your girlfriend, it was love dude, why dont you care?" And I can just sit back and be mindful that it was not even love in the way I wanted from the be…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:55 PM
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Love the metafor, and yeah I will not go back to sex becouse I know I can get new girls pretty easy, I just want to learn about the logic and it makes perfect sense right now. I guess I was a good use for emo-support and sex becouse I am broke and didnt pay for stuff ur help her with her school. But I did listen alot and spend alot of cuddle talk in between we had sex and stuff. Guess you can do that with a so called gf if it is in your frame. That I lost 6 month in
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:50 PM
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yeah + "Right now" her ego cant take it, tomorrow may be a sunny day
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:24 PM
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1st : this makes also more sense, its like a guy find outs she the princess is ugly or something haha! 2nd : yeah, it was my first red-pill breakup had 1 bluepill behind me and it was the same story. Crying and could not hadle it, 3 weeks later new bf 3nd : aslo makes more sense thanks, I get a picture in my head right now that the "FWB = be my orbiter" would start with sex and then slowly fade to me being an emotional dumpster for her problems in life
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:23 PM
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Thanks brother Makes more sense now for sure, I think I am good with just unfollow her on all socials and will leave her phone number open for her to pick up her stuff, its just a big bag in my basement and takes like 5 min to pick up if she want to. I just delited all the sms and contact information so the only option for contact is if she contact me to pick up her stuff, we didnt live togehter but she has some stuff her
/r/askTRP12/05/20 09:17 PM
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Thanks to everyone for giving advice, it feels so good to wake up from dreamland and realize how much it takes in weight and streight to even get a body to stand out at 6'3
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:28 PM
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Is it really common and needed with gear for 86-90 kg 10-14% bodyfat @ 6'3?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:50 PM
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I just stated my stats not that I look like that
/r/askTRP10/05/20 04:48 PM
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Cool, do you mind send a picture or something in DM? I would be nice to compare and see if 210 lbs really is needed or if I should aim for 190-195 lbs (86-88kg) it feels like 210 lbs (95kg) in 10-14% is a mass that I dont even are confident enough to aim for. But 190 lbs is like alot less muscle mass Also thank you very much everyone else for the feedback
/r/askTRP10/05/20 03:53 PM
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Cycles of bulk and cut you mean?
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:35 PM
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Really that much? Shit I got to be really unrealistic about how much mass is needed. He looks slim to be and not massive/big 210 lbs Wow
/r/askTRP10/05/20 02:34 PM
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Update Hi again, just wanted to give an update I see my case as learning from my mistakes and better myself for the future. I decided to "soft next" her and see if she works for attention or if it is really game over. I will not cheat but set up dates and start interact with girls again on Tinder, daygame etc I have accepted that it is pretty much start over with another girl, and my last card is heavy dread (Be open for other girls, start dating and soft next) But the last question is From your…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:04 PM
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I feel you, you said that you heard that line before alot and almost always bs from your experince why did your girl/girls stay with you even if they didnt submit or gave more to the relationship?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 07:56 AM
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I get it and thats what the big problem is for me, I am not happy becouse she dont submit harder. That also puts the paranoia in the gut all the time of "if she dont submit with me she will with someone else" cheating/hypergamy gut feelings Yes, I have alot of work to do and I dont know if she Will be giving me the time or cheat, time will tell. But are my "try to walk away" frame totally out of value if I pull into the relationship again? Dont my frame of "I can leave you, and if you dont behav…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:24 AM
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I get you, what could I have done better? Plate her and tell her that "I will see in the future if we be exclusive again"? Is there any way to turn my frame around at this point or will I be fucked sooner or later when she find a man with a better frame? If she see me as weak I just dont understand why she want to stay. Becouse she has not found any better options and are just talking me into trust until she does?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 12:02 AM
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Thanks for all the answears guys. I have come to the obvious conclusion that I need to go full Christian if I want to minimize the risk of hypergamy and cheating... Yes a christian girl can cheat but I belive now that she wants to follow gods law just like me to be faithful, sure mistakes can happen but its not as high as a risk to get a girlfriend from "The world" So yeah... I guess I have to keep building my value and dont expect much from my current girlfriend who are from "the world" I know …
/r/RPChristians26/03/20 08:18 PM
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I guess, but I also guess you talking about having to marry a women before sex then right? Thats the part I have a hard time to accept about my journey I can have a gf and dont cheat without any problem, its just the marriage that feels so big for me But lets see in about a year
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 03:17 PM
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So you think marriage will kill her urge to cheat?
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 03:14 PM
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But There Will Always be men 2x better then yourself all the time, its impossible to be her top all the time. Some of the better men gotta show intrest for your girl
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 12:49 PM
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I got you guys, here is the answear to all of you. Redpill teach us to take women for what they are, and everything. Sure, they are alot of fun But how can we ever respect a person who cant even control her lust and emotions? Thats way below how I train myself to behave in life (the 7 deadly sins) Hypergamy = all women are whores? Even if she havent cheated yet for the better, she is trying to and want to if giving the right higher value man. How is that not whoring? And how can we even Be the h…
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 12:47 PM
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She admit it at least, did you break up with here or kept going? And also, this is not to you personally but to all. A women who drinks and goes out, is that really a "real Christian girl" I mean everyone know that going out can lead to trouble with Other guys Why put that risk? Why dont have fun with friends at home instead?
/r/RPChristians24/03/20 08:49 AM
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I get you, that part is more logic and easy to understand. Its harder to accept/understand that all girls are almost the same person
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:53 PM
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Damn, it feels that I get it now. No one is special, but are it the same on the male side? Now it feels more like... you can put your emotions more out of this and see her as a video game or something, sure it feels special at the moment then you go to the shop and find 10 Other games with the same shit Damn this is sick as hell, they feel more like machines now and not human
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:05 PM
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Why that aggressive tone? Just try to learn since ltr feels very redpill at hardmode, I dont want to marry just learn what to expect. I have accepted that she can never love me in sacrifice her own life and always fight for me no matter what! I just have found that many girls seam to have some specific kinks and hobbies that can stand out and I feels hard to not see them as "special" from the avrage women Why is it only originals, outlaws, outsiders on the male side? Women cant be that diffrent …
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:56 PM
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I dont understand, why should we even want to be with the girls if they dont make or life fun time to time when hanging out/having sex etc
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:47 PM
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Thanks for your tips, if will plate her and enjoy sex and the company and dont expect her to be more then sex & entertainment while I gear up with 1-2 younger plates. Work on my bussniss, drop the boyfried/Hero mode forever and yes The question I still dont understand is why she coming back? She must be smart enough to understand that I dont take her seriously after that heavy dread from her. She most understand that I Will be Open for Other girls
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:54 PM
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But I thought of try to plate/fwb her when I got my frame back now and fuck Other girls also Use her as a main-plate
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:21 PM
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I am more calm now when I know I have the power back so my plan was to do all you say get my life back and use her as a plate, fuck some Other girls to get a emotional distanse I actually Think she is fun to be with when we dont fight but I dont trust her
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:18 PM
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How would you guys take advantage over her now? She have witness that heavy dread dont work on me. Why not use here a a plate/sex object and let her emotionally invest if so the case while I just focus on my goals and later on cut her I dont ever trust her as ltr Anyways becouse of the try to heavy dread me
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:24 PM
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Update Yeah I guess, now she called me after 4-5 days of ghost and told me she had been working with the movie projects and was not in a mood to talk since I have felt so angry the last week at her. It felt like talking to a stranger almost, I told her I wasnt happy with how she behaving lately and It takes to much energy to argu with you. She tried to be like "we dont fight that much?" And then she goes speaking about meeting and stuff she would like to do togheter. I was most listning... Dont …
/r/askTRP11/02/20 03:10 PM
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Any tips on how to cope with the fact that I didnt even get an sms, call, DM or anything. Just ghost. It feels so unreal to accept the fact that she see me as such a low value not even worth contact for a good bye or to end it, no explaining or nothing Or she tries som kind of soft next and will call in some weeks, I just think It would have felt so better if I could at least get an sms "Sorry, But I dont want to see you any more" "I have found someone new" This 100% ghost really hurts
/r/askTRP10/02/20 10:26 PM
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for sure!
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:25 PM
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Yes I totally see this now. I cant be a hero for a girl and all her problems and at the same time furfill your goals, the time and energy is to little for that. I will sit down and think about his,who and how. I wish I will be able to deal with people and girls outside of my family In the same natural way I deal with my family. I was getting much love as a kid and that is good, but it also turned me realy naive to the world as I have thoguht my whole life "I should never do that to anyone! So no…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 04:06 PM
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Thank you for your answear its really helps and is what I need, not to hear from my friends and family that "I am the best!" Maybe I was a little too non-specific but what I mean with being Alpha all the time is like "The rock, the one she relies on all the time" And to be able to be both firm and hold her while she is crying. But to be honest It felt like I was not confident enough to know what I actually want, what I did just for validation, and what maybe was beta in the textbook but felt rig…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 03:35 PM
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Thanks for your answear, yes in some mounths its gonna be all right. Thanks for the tips, I will take my time today and put everything that is hers in a bag and place it in the basement, and also hide her posts on instagram (I think it will look to butthurt to block her/unfollow) I can simply hide her and later on unfollow/block. Dont you think that sounds like a good plan? problem is maybe I am not strong enough to not check her instagram even if I have turned off the "Show story & posts" it ju…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 02:12 PM
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I guess its just denial/pain face. I just wanted to hear your thoughts She give me the chance to kill the puppy with all the abusve before the trip, and when I didnt she ghosted and broke up mentally and for real in her mind or her trip The only call I guess I will get is if she wants her books, stuff and so on in my place. Its just that I am stuck in a blue pill mindset where we are supposed to have talk, leave her things stuff like that Guess I am in denial form the fact of the lightswitch-eff…
/r/askTRP10/02/20 01:24 PM
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Yes thanks, I have dread hear 1 time it worked really good
/r/askTRP06/02/20 08:04 AM
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How would you re-do this besides downgrade mentaly and let her do it right to work up from a fwb position
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:31 AM
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Thanks for your answear, please dont get me wrong here I do understand what I do wrong. But arent we a little to strict also? Yes the descision that she put the LTR status on, 100% agree I am in her frame tecnical. But Most we dont also look what have happen after? Does she gives me blowjobs? Does she do Most Contact? Does she get clinchy and want to hug/cuddle much? All those things are going greath, she really feels attracted to me right now She use to be very "on" with cuddle and all that whe…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 10:41 PM
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And like arent There more factors to decide who owns the frame the she asked me indirect instead of "what are we"? She told me for some weeks ago that "why most it be me to call all the times" and yesterday she Said that she never gets the credit for stuffs Isnt that complain/testning about she try to gain power If I was in her frame totally why does she try to gain more power then?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:32 PM
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Okay I got you, yeah I agree I was lazy and in comfort "Cool its a ltr, thats sounds greath" To be honest it have gone fast as hell we have only meet since the summer and the partner talk came indirect for like 2-3 weeks ago What happens if I hit her tomorrow at the coffea with "You are a greath girl! But I have felt things go very fast here and Im not sure I am ready for a LTR. Lets be FWB instead and see each Other for like 1 time a week instead of every Other day/every day" Then I can just fu…
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:15 PM
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Dont get me wrong. I do want to learn and handle this good for my heath. But I dont understand why it is wrong to help a girl if I want to help, how is it that I am in her frame? It was my idea becouse it makes me feel good to guide and stuff like that. I am 7 years older and have more expericne in many areas How Am I in her frame for helping some (a little beta) and get the pussy and so on? Tomorrow she asked about taking a coffea at city Call me dumb, naive, but I dont understand She takes up …
/r/askTRP05/02/20 09:04 PM
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We plan it together like 15 mins on sundays. I thought it was possitive to being the more structured one that helps with structure and direction in some cases. Why is this wrong?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:42 PM
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I thought it was up to the women to decide if she wants to be LTR and my job to just focus on my goals/be attractive. Most it be so strict that she have to ask me the "Question" cant it happen a little more indirect where she just start to refer as a partner and look for how I react about that?
/r/askTRP05/02/20 08:40 PM
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Update First of all, thanks for all the greath answears in this thread. I got alot calmer mind in this situation now. Together with re-reading TRP and mindfullness meditation I manage to get way more distence emotionally with this girl. She tried to call me on x-mas while I was away in the woods with no phone connection, it was a sms with "are you awake" and a phone call after. Called her back the other day and didnt even talk about why she havent called any or something. She told me she wanted …
/r/askTRP26/12/19 11:59 PM
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True man, she is on her phone 50 Times a day, of course she would have re-called if she wanted to The rule I break is the : "2 or none never 1" I have not slept with Other girls since being more fwb with her Now I need to do what I should have done from the beginning, getting busy with Other girls Or maybe I need to build up my self estem or something first Im just curious that I have to game Other girls first now becouse if I dont then I Will just drown in her frame when she reach out Will pick…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 01:24 AM
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Sure I Will read sidebar again and rational male
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:33 AM
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I see, I have a hard time taking girls words to serious and really Think they are into me after some month with steady sex, having fun, Nice talks and all that I think to myself "Nice! Soft! Now I can drop the Other girls and just focus on this one, and soon she Will ask the question" Do you know what is funny? When I had most abundance even and Didnt really cared becouse I was about to move to Another city, a decent girl tried to commit me after 3 days Im dissapoited becouse I have been here fo…
/r/askTRP25/12/19 12:28 AM
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True, she must have realized on her trip Home when new dudes came in the picture how low I was Besides Reading the sidebar, what can I do to not forget about this and learn to not put myself in situations like this? Its the second time and I have read it once the bar
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:06 PM
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I just try to learn
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:04 PM
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True...
/r/askTRP24/12/19 03:04 PM
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Right now I am low value for sure, I just dont understand the 180 turn off just becouse I called her first one time out of 100 just becouse she asked me to put more effort in She have been really into me and giving blowjobs on demand all the time and now a 180 just becouse such a small failed shit test?
/r/askTRP24/12/19 02:36 PM
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Guess its the bitter truth that if she is still intrested she would call me and dgaf if she had to chase one more time If I was Chad I dont Think she would risk to lose me and Think "I dont call Chad back, I try to play hard" she would be scared to lose Chad Now she has for some season decide I am low value
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:49 PM
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Thanks for your answear, 70% sounds Good. When her intrest dropped with your girl, could it go a weeks here and there with no contact? Maybe she get tierd of the 90% contact and felt that I just called her becouse she wanted me to do it and It wasnt really genuine Anyways, Should you double call this girl and make sure she knows that you do care or let her come? I like to spend time with her genuine, but she feels to slutty for a serious girlfriend and dont seam to have any intrest for a future …
/r/askTRP24/12/19 01:46 PM
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I Will for sure read the sidebar becouse I fall in the same fail every year thinking that "Now I have found a Nice girl, so I can drop frame and game and just relax, getting the pussy on demand and life is greath" then I get a cold shower after about 4-7 month with the fwb/dates when they I guess realize my value wasnt that High Are you open to discuss my failure with this one after I have read the sidebar? I guess it Will be obvious but right now I dont see my fail for just calling her once she…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:21 AM
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Thanks for the answear, do you also see this that I have already failed her shit-test that I called her first (as she was whining that she does 90% Contact) Isnt the shit-test starting right now when she refuse to call me back to see if I Will be needy? Or how I will react with her no Contact game I have Other stuff to do on new years and we dont really going to do stuff togheter she just asked if we should sleep togheter after both are done I Think you have right tho The is on her phone all the…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 11:07 AM
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I agree that writing that much about just a fwb/date is oneitis/risk to oneitis But how Am I enter her frame? Its true that she do the calling 80-90% and I guess you mean that I fucked my frame by calling her first. Why cant I still have frame even if I take up the Contact like 70/30 or 60/40 There she do the Most but I do a little just to keep the relationship alive? Wouldnt it be frame-loss if I call her a second time or sms her like "why dont you answear" etc I have just called her 1 time and…
/r/askTRP24/12/19 10:51 AM
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complaining? I just ask questions and want experience from guys in the same situation Like you said it is her job to to the talk so of course I dont do it, as I focus on my purpose and stuff like that. What advantage does she then try to take from me? Emotional support or what. I dont get it how she gives me sex several times a week and pretty much want to see my every day it makes no sense at all to not give the talk. It must been that she dont know where I stand If I am willing to get a girlfr…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:17 PM
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Wonderful Of course I want to be with her, but I need her to do the "talk" of course. I dont need to see other women becouse we have sex 2 times a week and I focus on other things when we dont date Maybe she to unsure of what I want to give the talk, but I really dont know why she dont just ask when she calls like everyday and want to spend time often
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:59 PM
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Now she called me (as usuall) Telling me she going out with classmates and asked if she can come and sleep here after (as usall) Why dont she commit if she dosnt even try to fuck another chad when she goes out and come and sleep here all the time after?
/r/askTRP04/11/19 06:41 PM
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Yes we have been having sex for like 2 times a week and on weekends the time we where in diffrent cities
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:02 PM
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What abilitys do I lack more specific in your regard? It is mostly she that bring up the meetings and stuff like that, I am just curious why she dont want to commit. I would love to get feedback on what I can practice on and what part of sidebar that subject can be found. I have read it
/r/askTRP04/11/19 05:01 PM
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Thank you for your answear! I am for sure not exclusive with her. It just strange that she dont give "the talk" it mess with my head to not know if she is intrested but needs more time to commit or if I am being played No other plates right now. I dont want to give it the time and as we see each other much I dont have had any need for more sex. It is more of the thing that I dont want to take away time for goals and waiste my time and life If she dont even want to commit anyways So its like, if …
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:58 PM
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Got some more questions around this. First I got to say, I got WAY deeper connection with Younger girls this way 19-21 (im 29 myself) I set ut a "caring" frame and just ignore bullshit talk, pretty much operant conditioning. Questions Should I frame a 18 year old at the same way as a lets say 30 year old? From my new experience if feels like the 18-20s really are more like 6-8 in the behaviour(and brain?) but I guess im supposed to Think more like teenagers 13-18 for ALL women I just noticed som…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 06:46 PM
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Finally after 2 years I can accept the pill and im out of the anger phase. Can you belive it? Two YEARS with daily reading was what It took for my brain to start rewire serously. I guess this text "Women ARE children" was supposed to get to me now, I wouldnt have taken it seriously before. I remember this sick feeling in the gut when you see the pill for the first time, when I see all the "Red pill chad Tinder convos" I almost wanted to throw up Sorry guys if I asked this in the "Asktrp" part, b…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 08:27 AM
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I cant get over this, the amazing DDLG-sex we had made me feel so special and Im not even know if there are many girls out there who into daddy/ageplay and stuff :( Is there any way I can save this? She will like 99% not call me, and I have blocker her from social media and refuse to start text to her there
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:02 PM
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So today I have been sitting and staring at the wall for like 1 hour, she gave me a cold shower or reality and pretty much pointed out the fact that you already told me...I feel so beta, loser, weak that you guys dont know. And it seams that I never learn either... Moral All In my head I belived that she looked up to me, we had really good sex and alot or roleplay and the whole "daddy" vibe, she made me feel so special for "introducing" her to all of this stuff, I have a kink for the whole daddy…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 09:40 PM
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Yes, well I can also say that calling myself "high value" and her "low value" is not 100% true, I have alot of work to do for some years, building my body more, new closet, getting money etc etc But I wanted to take the easy way out and thoguht of it like "Lets have this girl as my current girlfriend, and in 2-3 years when I have gotten some serious result, I can date up or decide if I want to hang more with her" All for the sake of avoiding spending time chasing pussy, but I guess I need to mon…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:38 PM
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Well the biggest mistake I can learn is to focus in only 1 girl and hope that "She will be the one so I can stop spending time in the dating cycle"
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:19 PM
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Thanks for the answear, well I guess you are right, I like the girl and want her but it seams that she is to young or dont value me enough to settle down with. I have soft next her from now and 7 days, but my hope is that she will regret that she disrespect me and be like "kind and loving" again, like the soft next guide are supposted to be And from there on, I have time with her to be cool, chill, and wait to see if she will make any hint for some mouth to LTR-hint. And if she dosnt THEN I can …
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:51 PM
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So if I want a girlfriend (mainly becouse I want to focus on my job and hobbies and have a stable love/sex-life) I have no other option then Plate alot of girls, like always atleast two Be as fun, cool, greath in bed I can be = There is only a numbers game if a girl choose to want to try to make me a LTR? I am totaly forbidden to even take up the subject? Im serious about this thoughts not meaning to sound arogant
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:31 PM
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Well is feels very hard to realise this and depressing but you are right and I can see myself in this. I got sick of the Tinder and going out-fucking culture since I dont want to be in that anymore, I want to focus on my job and hobbies, so I thought to myself that "This girl is good enough to be a girlfriend" and then I got mad for getting the cold shower of reality that I didnt have her locked down, and that turn me into a beta. Of course she is fucking other guys, and I though in my stupid br…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:14 PM
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I admit that I am wrong, but as I said I want to learn becouse I cant understand the logic why a low-status women reject a high status man for asking her to be his bae. Is there any specific text instead of the whole sidebar? becouse I understand alot about hypergamy If I am enough and high value enough for having sex, why cant I have her just for myself if my value in terms of looks and so on is so much higher? I have slept with way more hotter women, But like I say, I want to learn to be bette…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:05 PM
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Well I just said that I cant stand her having sex with another guy if we are going to be more serious, It was as a purpose to go from sex to dating "You’re the one escalating the relationship from plate to dating, not her" I guess you mean "She the one escalating..."? The purpose of the soft next was to re-frame the whole situation and give myself another chanse of hoping that she will miss me during this period and value me more and then I can meet her more and again and stfu about the "being s…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:50 PM
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But we have talked about things to do besides sex when she is back (and we talked a little about that before also, we have been having walks togehter etc), like spending time togehter and doing stuff outside the bedroom. And I have said to her that I dont care about having sex with another girl, and told her that I dont want her to sleep with another man becouse we want to try to "Take It to a next level" thats the reason why I was upset and calling her names becouse IF she was serious about tak…
/r/askTRP08/01/19 03:21 PM
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Yeah true, But I dont understand why they choose me to fag on most of the picks
/r/askTRP24/04/18 12:03 AM
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hahaa So cold but so true
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:45 PM
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But it scares me becouse It feels like I can do so much MORE if I stop being a lazy coward But its hart to break free, Its like I settle for mediocre results in gym, girls, make music and all
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:29 PM
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"then you need to succeed and that is a motivator" What do you mean? That In most cases in life if you Do everything that takes, like acually everything you mostly gave sucess?
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:36 PM
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Another girl another story + Thoughts about the "dad thing" TRP way So I forget about this girl and smashed a new one, funny thing is that now I handled LMR another way, I teased her and get her to want to kiss me and then "Its to late" worked wonders Same time with "Round 2" play it out to be just a "Good night kiss" and then escelate Back to the dad thing, any thoughts about how to handle this TRP on the new girl? She is very into me and text me very much after the smash But do you guys think …
/r/askTRP18/04/18 04:47 PM
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It makes sense absolutly, thx man. Its no shit test that they want me to be "pushy" its just that I dont lead hard enough or alpha hard enough for her to let me smash and Its some biological brake inside her that tell her "if you let a beta smash, you risk your life (at childbirth) with a beta that is totally NOT worth it! You need only alphas to smash you! Stop it! brake! And there I think the theory "Try again" fit in Becouse maybe you can buy 30 min more to make her belive you are alpha (real…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:49 PM
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Not sure if serious, But women for me is NOT a skill like swimming or rinding the bike, you can just pick it up when you want Women for me its like to gym, not regular sex, regular dates, regular plates = I become (weak) aka beta within 2-4 weeks
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:45 PM
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yeah I can totally see this now. But can you please explain the psycology behind the LMR thing, it makes no sense to me even if I have read about it She give resistence Question ; Then how in the hell can It work to try again when she already made up her mind "give him resistence" Is it all some sick shit test even in the bed? It makes no sense at all, if she want to have sex, then why in the hell does she test me and risk to loose it, why dont just let me smash? I mean I havent got so much expe…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:16 AM
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yeah I guess, Even if I fucked like 60 girls maybe or more or less It only take 1 mouth without sex for me to become full beta again Its so strange!
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:10 AM
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To be honest, I have no legit reason. Its just a Auto-habit But im very intrested in music so much of it is to check out new updates from favorite producers etc To bad I have no own productions to show, So i guess im just wasting time Feels like its better to have a narcisistic mindset to instagram to, Like everything else? "If I have nonting to post for MySELF then I dont care about the app" Aka The "Single mother" mindset haha
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:58 AM
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Thx for the article, I think its time to finish that 48 laws of power book and put the narcissistic game on, and acting like "them" Does it give me lower value if I mention kids? its 50/50 so better stfu about it No sex from women = "Your not sexy enought, but I can use as validation and let you chasse me" It all most get down to get sex as fast as possible, and not give up. Its my only power over them to get them at least a little hooked in thesse swiping pump n dump tinder- generation Lift dre…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:00 PM
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Thx man! Even If I have fucked maybe around 60-70 girls, i CANT get into my thick head why they want me to NOT care? The ilussion of that the girl want someone to make them feel unique "He just want me of all the other girls" I cant understand why I get punished by the girls when I try to make them feel special? Is it becouse its a lie? But what if I think the girl is really good looking, polite, why in the hell do I get punnished for "care" a little about her then?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:47 PM
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Thats a really god plan, Only problem is that I have pictures on my instagram and facebook with kids. But I guess I can just frame it my way Unluck your legs and then I unlock my instagram aka "I dont give instagram to people I dont know" Thats a really good power for me to have, sex is the only way to get them "More hooked" so now I understand why its a really bad idea to talk about the kid before
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:14 PM
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I guess the first LMR can be a form of "Shit test" then? Is he going to give up or try again. Ah damn I get headache of this shit, they want me but only if I struggle and keep it up. In my dream world I get a girl to relax with dou I struggle hard in other areas in life (Money, work) but I guess that aint happen.... Its scary how manipulated one can become, damn its like I know everything in Theory but its another thing to apply it live & direct My frame was so beta, is was trying to dispaly non…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:50 PM
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Yes I can totally see this in a bigger picture now, To be honest she was a little bit extra flirty in the convo. How can I be so stupid! She is 22, she want to have sex with me no movie, eating and bla bla Now she is totally turned off becouse I didnt live up to "Older sexy guy with experience in bed that just fuck me raw" But on the other side, it IS hard to get 8-10 years younger girls, it so much more easy with 27-30 The problem for me is I find 18-23 the must sexy women I dont have energy fo…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:28 PM
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Thx man, the fact is that I acually dont "Care" that much, I just want to become better About the kid thing ; I have a facebook background with us, I always stfu about the kid on dates (we dont live together) Do you recommend me to to that for "LTR-Dating/Plate/Ons" everything? My plan is always to get them hooked, in love, or anything before they find out that I have a kid. Kind of "evil" maybe but it isnt a friendy world anyways
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:43 PM
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Aha I get it
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:40 PM
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What do you mean about the "Medium is the message" sry dont understand. I usually dont get LMR, 90% they fuck if i invite them to my place so I dont have any good strategy on that one, need to think about it tho Yeah soft next is everything I can do from now
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:07 PM
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But it dont make sense with the "Good bye kissing" Or maybe she just kissed me becouse she didnt want to say no. But from my experience if the girl is not attracted she turn away and dont even accept kissing But since she refuesed me to fuck her I guess she aint that attractive to her one big turn of can be that her legs was bigger then mine, she trained alot and im tall and skinny and have slacked on the leg training and my weight is to low for my height (im tall)
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:03 PM
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Someone down to have a look at the pics today? Im down to get my tinder on for the weekdays hehe
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:23 PM
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100% true Im scared of the fact how easy it is to get manipulated by women when you dont have your shit togehter and a strong frame, know what you accept and dont, and know your "standard" of a girl. they are just some fucking little girls, but can destroy you when you are low, but as soon as the life goes up and frame goes up, money goes up, they aint shit outher then "Girls" and "women" Its fucking scary how this goes, but I aint complaining just being realistic Im better of not meeting girls …
/r/askTRP07/12/17 05:09 PM
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Im stuck in fantasy land cus the sex was amazing for like 1 year ago, and I have a really shitty period right now, no girls, no money, lack of progress in life. Thats why I feel low and ask her again to meet up. I know I have to work on myself and get a higher SMV for spinning new plates, I guess im lazy and to much fantasy land
/r/askTRP07/12/17 01:17 PM
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I have thought about my sitvation and realized that it may not be as bad as I have believed. I do not know if it was "Venting" that helped, but I had a long conversation with my dad also today, pretty much talked through life saying that I want to be more fuck the world and just work hard 2 goals. I remember thinking how meaningful it would be for me one day to help my son with life as an elder. Help him with training, girls, studies and money, things that really mean something in life, and not …
/r/askTRP11/11/17 09:13 PM
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Its feels like fapping & diet is a small thing in this big pain. But bad diet and fapping is make me feel more like shit, also the fact that I hate my skinny body
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:17 PM
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Lift yes, but my diet sucks really hard, and I cant stick with meditation and no-fap that made me feel by FAR better. I was on a no-fap streak and i didnt think about this shit that much, but I thinking fapping can destroy me even more
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:14 PM
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But you get it wrong, Im not finish with my life yet to be that person, sure I try and show my love and that he always is the nr 1 and that he can choose what he wants from ppl or not, but im not fully ready 4 it
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:13 PM
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I dont even remember, I was so into the pain that I didnt even think about that, but I think we did that. He looks like my twin so I guess he is mine
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:11 PM
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yeah easy to say for you, but Im far from strong In myself so its not that easy to just "auto-fatherhood" over a night
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:07 PM
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I try to now show It to him and blame school for not see him that often (Another city) But the problem is that my hometown is a ghost-town with Zero life quality and very few jobs. So I have to trick him into beeliving that moving to a bigger city is his best choose later on also. I guess I just have to stack up cash for now and buy a crib in a bigger city that he can come to and realize it IS better then a ghost town, and maybe when he gets older he will understand me & also move from that town…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 05:07 PM
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yeah I have been a good dad, but im stressed out when I see time running trough my hands cus of 2 weekends dissapear every mouth Is it a good dad to say like this "I only got time for you 1 weekend / a mounth cus of 2 much to do" He will feel sad cus he is not my nr1 priority
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:47 PM
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Thx for that, but the hard truth is that "there is nothing to do" I am a dad and cant undo it, and my kid will always love me and will never say like "Its ok dad, See you in 10 years focus on your hobbies and life THEN we meet" I dont even know if I ever wanted to have kids, but maybe when im like 35-40 with a stable life and and own apartment that HE can come to, or with a caring mother that do alot of the work
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:36 PM
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yeah I know, I dont think I have the guts to kill myself. But I am already so damaged and hurt, I walk around and smile and have alot of friends, pretty easy to fuck women, and love my hobbies, but I cry on the inside 24/7 cus it gives me so much anxiety to be "forces" to be a happy and loving father. And If i fuck it, my kid will feel sad. So life will NOT get better 1. Either I die and my kid will be 100% sad 2. Or I live & spend minimal time with him and he 50% sad But I can never be 100% hap…
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:29 PM
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Hmm yeah, but its not my ex who is the biggest problem, its the fact that I have to live with bad conscience if my son want to be with me more, And im like "satisfied" to see him every other mounth of so, not every other weekend. It sounds selfish but im far from finish with things to do, and weekends is the time im free from work/school to focus on my hobbies and I dont want to travel that often to a city that is totaly dead just to be a happy dad and fuck my personal wants & needs
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:23 PM
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So if you hade a plate/gf who was pregnent with you, lets say you both was drunk and skipped the condom. You are young and full of dreams, are you just going to "suck it up" and be a happy dad and give up on things you want to do?
/r/askTRP11/11/17 04:21 PM
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