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I feel like women know what "friends" means.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 06:15 PM
1

I used to be built like you. If you're still in your 20s, you will probably have to eat absurd amounts of food too. To be honest though the only thing that really helped me put weight on was beer. But that's all unhealthy weight. Anyway, learn BJJ. it helps you learn how to position your body to get leverage. I'm kind of a chubby chaser, and I found that it helps a lot when throwing bigger girls around in bed. Gentlemen, you may now commence the downvoting.
/r/askTRP07/07/14 03:41 PM
2

Look at how they interact with each other. Their entire social construct is based on lies. Oooh, I love that dress! Did you get a new haircut? It's sooo cute!
/r/askTRP05/07/14 04:30 PM
3

Dude, I honestly don't give half a fuck twice on Sunday about guys fucking other guys. But yeah I still get a "squick" factor if I see two dudes kissing. Its something we've been programmed to reject. End of the day, I'd rather be friends with a manly gay guy than a pussified straight guy.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 02:56 AM
1

The best way to avoid child support is to not have children. I have two, and regret nothing. I see it as a cost of doing business.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 01:47 AM
2

Seriously? What the actual fuck.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 10:02 PM
13

He's just saying that to trick us! Guys, he wants our alpha cocks! Just kidding man. Great post and it absolutely belongs here.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:11 PM
5

I, for one, applaud your friend zoning antics. My schadenfreude is all aglow.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:09 PM
1

Lol really? That's kind of funny. But in general you don't see that sort of thing. I definitely saw that as some creative journalism.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 03:23 PM
2

I manipulate women all the time. I provide them with charming and witty company. I impress them with my broad knowledge of a variety of topics and my ability to hold a reasonably intelligent conversation no matter where the topic may drift. I melt their panties by holding firm to opinions I believe to be correct. Funny thing is, they get pissed off when I say "no" to sex. As if they were really hoping my manipulation, gee, I don't know... Worked? Women. They're a mystery. Am I right, boys?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:29 PM
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The "how to avoid paying child support" thing kind of made me go "huh? I've never read anything like that on TRP." And then it struck me. Well, yes, I suppose technically we DO teach men how to avoid paying child support. By not having children. Or by marrying a unicorn. By that logic, we simultaneously teach men how to avoid being "deadbeat dads." But I guess that truth didn't suit her purpose. Just goes to show that women aren't pissed off at us because we're wrong, they're pissed off because …
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 12:17 PM
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I know a lot of what you would call "natural alphas" but they still do blue pill shit like pandering to women, pedestaling, oneitis, etc. Being a natural alpha isn't the end all be all.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 04:04 PM
1

Bjj is great for learning how to throw girls around in bed.
/r/askTRP01/07/14 03:47 PM
3

Well, I can't say I'm surprised. "Emotional abuse" was my ex-wife's last talking point once she realized that nothing else was sticking. They'll start out with the charge that carries the most social stigma they think they can get away with, and run it up the flagpole. If that doesn't stick, they go to the next most offensive label with a lower bar. "Theyre all rapists! No? Hmm. Abusers! No? Shit. Emotional abusers! There we go." To understand how meaningless the charge of emotional abuse is to …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 03:07 PM
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I have been manipulated by every woman I have ever been in a relationship with. That whole post is NAWALT, stay the course, be yourself, true love will find you. It's a subtly disguised shaming attempt. If it doesn't come naturally, there's something wrong with you. Self improvement is manipulation, you silly little man. You don't have a say in this. You need to let the women decide if you're worthy.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:29 AM
1

This is probably the most accurate and helpful summation of TRP I've ever read.
/r/askTRP30/06/14 05:19 PM
1

Yuuuuupppp.... Join the fucking club, man.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 03:17 AM
-1

I don't know. I actually am legitimately just friends with one of my exes.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 03:53 AM
2

Late to the party, but I agree 100%. And I said the exact same thing to all the people who warned me it would be "cheaper to keep her." Turns out I was right.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 07:15 PM
2

You fucking need help. Like Jesus or counselling or something.
/r/askTRP23/06/14 07:06 PM
9

Your sex life is off because you're suddenly questioning his leadership abilities. He was passed over in favor of a woman, and his work is being called into question. Had you not met her and formed a positive impression of her, you could have easily written it off as some affirmitave action bullshit, some incompetent corporate bimbo, who the fuck does she think he is, etc. In your mind, your husband has slipped down the ladder of masculinity a rung or two. You've basically emasculated him. Maybe…
/r/askTRP23/06/14 06:07 PM
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Not sure if you get what I'm saying... Either she's fucking someone or imbibing narcotics was my point. Just saying that fucking isn't the only option.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 09:24 AM
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Depends. Is she known to "party"?
/r/askTRP22/06/14 02:40 AM
1

Either that or just severely socially retarded. If I looked like him I'd have a line going out the door and halfway around the block. Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity, though.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:21 PM
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Jesus Christ. Look, I'm not ugly. I'm pretty decent, but not top 10%. I should just kill myself? OK. Let me get right on that. This week is looking a little busy since I have 2-3 girls lined up. I have the weekend free, but I'm dog sitting a really awesome mutt, and I don't want to let him down. Does Monday work? Mondays suck anyway.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:12 PM
2

She's working her way up. Come on, its only her second marriage! She's at the start of her career!
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:48 PM
5

$175k/half mil home sounds like a c-level in a lower COL area. Midwest, southeast, something like that. That half million probably bought 4500 square feet.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:34 PM
3

Staring is dead-eyed. You want to be reading with your eyes.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:19 PM
5

White suburban people are really shitty at judging how and when to make eye contact, and they almost NEVER do it right.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:17 PM
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I've done this and pulled it off. Going from one local hole in the wall to another though. You HAVE to be comfortable in your own skin to pull it off, its the whole IDGAF attitude that makes the difference yet again. It undoubtedly helped that I was a regular, but you can really pull off anything with the right attitude. If you look like you're wearing a suit because you just came from court/work/whatever and could give two shits, it'll work to your advantage. If you look like you're just doing …
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:13 PM
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Fair enough. Not just girls though. And it's not a hard and fast rule, but in general.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 01:58 AM
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This is going to sound racist as shit. It probably is. Fuck it, whatever. Not smiling works for black guys. Smiling works for white guys. Your average white dude in the club with a scowl looks like he just sucks at life. Average black guy looks tough and enigmatic. Average white dude with a smile looks fun and interesting. You see a black dude smiling, you assume he's gay.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 12:48 AM
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That bugs the shit out of me too. Sometimes I feel like TRP is overrun with teenagers.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 12:13 AM
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Just fucking divorce him already. Two sides to every story, I know. Don't care. Marriage is bullshit and trying to fix one is futile. Move on.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 11:54 PM
1

She hasn't responded because she found someone more interesting to fuck.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:54 PM
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Divorce her. Not even kidding.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 10:52 PM
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Lol no. Like I said, it's probably wayyyy too common a story.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 08:55 PM
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Isn't this the point where I jump in and start yelling about how this is all anecdotal and not all men are like that? Just kidding. This is all pretty spot on.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 08:09 PM
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Dude... I think I'm the guy that took her off your hands. Or maybe this story is just way too common.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 08:07 PM
1

Yeah I'm often pegged as beta, likely because I am. Then they see that I wasn't what they expected and it throws them for a loop. Hell, I get a ton of mileage out of telling them upfront what an asshole I am and how I'll end up breaking their heart. Women don't know how to logically process truth. Which makes honesty the best and most amusing policy.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:29 PM
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I do this. Sometimes it's to increase social value - if I turn one girl down, she'll want me more. If her friends see her wanting me, they'll start wanting me. Sometimes it's really just that I don't feel like it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:26 PM
3

You say lucky, I say smart. Either way I escaped, so there's that.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:40 PM
3

Christ, thank you. I would have immediately gone with option 2,
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 04:05 PM
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My ex wife used to try to blow me when she had open sores the size of a small island on her lip. One of the many ways in which she was directly out of her fucking mind.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 03:34 PM
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I've found that my ability to accurately predict any given woman's behavior in amy given social situation has risen dramatically. Along with a better sense of the truth behind their lies, I definitely seem psychic to them.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 02:51 PM
0

You ever watch Charlie Brown movies? Wah waaah wah wah wah waaah waaahhhh I'll return to my coke and hookers now, shitheel. Thank you for your input.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:11 AM
6

This is especially sad to me because I was in the same position. Then one day I realized she was a shitty cook, terrible childcare provider, and useless lover. All she did was spend my money. "Cheaper to keep her," they said. I did the math. It wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 07:04 PM
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Yeah, but more specifically it implies a constant testing for weakness and exploiting that. But among peers, as opposed to bullying and using weaker people. It's players playing the game. Savage and cutthroat, but morally neutral.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:30 PM
4

Picture jockeys racing horses. Shoulder to shoulder at full gallop, constantly trying to manuver their way in front of the next guy.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:20 PM
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All about first impressions. Strong people will try to prevent weak people from getting stronger. Jockeying for position is something you have to get used to as you move up the ranks.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:13 PM
0

Guess I'm an idiot then. You'll forgive me if I continue about my life learning from my own firsthand experiences rather than trusting some random shitheel on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 06:12 PM
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What did you expect? People who take advantage of other people are going to get pissed when the party's over. Fact of life.
/r/askTRP17/06/14 06:05 PM
1

If you do this, make sure you never frame it as "my ex is a crazy bitch." You have to make it clear that you loved her and wanted to make it work, but - sigh - "she has some issues she needs to resolve before she can be in a healthy relationship."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:51 PM
1

Positive or negative is determined by the results, no?
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:47 PM
1

I believe this point has been made clear by now. In no way am I deceiving myself; if you bait with gold, you're going to catch a gold digger. Point being is that I am coming to terms with being "boyfriend material." I can either choose to accept that and work with it, or I can get bitter and never get laid. The women of the world have forced me to become a heartbreaker. What am I supposed to do, cry and say "no! That's not fair!" and mope around being miserable? Nope. Broken hearts it is. So it …
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:44 PM
0

Bam! Also, bullshit. And by that I mean "your stated preferences in no way correlate to my real-world observations."
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 05:39 PM
1

You're looking at it from a logical, male perspective.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:25 PM
1

Yeah, doesn't really seem that far fetched to me.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:19 PM
8

Thank you. This whole sense of karmic justice that a lot of guys seem to have on here is ridiculous. Har har, she's going to hit the wall, joke's on her! No, dumbass. She'll get her beta bux. Guaranteed. The whole point of this sub is for you to see the world for what it is so that YOU don't become that sucker. That's it. End of story. You're welcome.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:16 PM
1

Yes. As has been said repeatedly in this treat, it's not necessarily a good thing.I often find myself in a BB position. I'm sure this has a lot to do with it. Hold frame, gents. Hold frame.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:40 AM
1

Huh. Interesting perspective. I haven't seen ridicule, indifference, or emasculation. But I do agree with the idea of seeing you as a potential provider. I think that you have to hold frame a lot better in situations lime mine.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 05:14 PM
2

Not to discount what you're saying on those three points, but I've heard whispers and rumors about myself. Is it true in every scenario? Likely not. But I do think its a factor to be considered.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 05:09 PM
0

It's all in how you frame the conversation I guess.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:43 PM
4

Not saying I made the right choice in getting married. I'm saying that the divorce cost me as much as a really nice car, and the ROI in pussy between the two is about equal. I'm indeed spinning it, but the spin is true. As investments in pussy go, this one wasn't half bad. Think about status symbols. The car, the suit, the watch, all of it. They cost money, and they get you pussy. You might be disdainful of using such things to buy your way in, but to me the ends justify the means.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:20 PM
2

She paid for her lawyers with money she flat out stole from joint accounts, which no one gives a shit about. So I paid everything.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:12 PM
-1

You're kinda chasing your own tail there, hoss. Think about what you just said, especially the part about your ex wife.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:09 PM
0

Must be a European thing. None of that is true here (except the relationship-bait for pre-wall sharks part).
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 04:04 PM
2

For now, dude. It gets better, trust me.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 03:37 PM
3

Fair point. I think one of the defining characteristics of what we see as truly "alpha" is a constant striving for perfection. With that comes a lot of harsh introspection. My observations of my own specific points of failure, and by that I mean "areas in need of improvement", might never be shared with anyone else outside of what is perceived as a safe space. Actually a really good thing to keep in mind, now that I think about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 03:25 PM
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OP is not so red pill as you think. You can see my history for details. But in this aspect, you are correct. Never a sob story; always "Divorced and thank god I am. Worth every penny."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 03:10 PM
1

I tend to disagree. You want to show that you divorced a high-value (e.g. beautiful) wife. Remember that a woman's greatest achievement is scoring a man from someone she subconsciously percieves as prettier than her. It is the sincerest form of female self-flattery.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 03:06 PM
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So to make a practical point out of this, I have this to say to any unhappily married man: Do NOT stay with your wife just because you're afraid of the cost of divorce. You're not just paying off one whore; you're investing in a whole slew of future whores as well. Think of it more as a club membership.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:45 PM
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Right, but also (as /u/monsieurhire2 points out) that you were willing to play that game. And might again.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 02:16 PM
1

Pardon my ignorance, but that was sarcasm, correct?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 01:47 PM
1

Yeah, I couldn't even watch the whole thing. Painful.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 07:51 PM
1

What makes this even more difficult is that sometimes women don't even know they are lying, they are simply overconfident in their perceptions (or woefully ignorant, pick one). This is the thing. Women often have no real concept of the truth. Both "that actually happened" and "this sounds like a good story" are morally and factually identical to them. Likewise, "I didn't lie, I just concealed the truth" presents their brains with no logical conundrum whatsoever. Always treat what a woman says as…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:46 PM
3

I'm stealing this.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/14 02:19 PM
1

Could just be the bar, too. Here there are college bars where there's no one over 24, and then there are bars where you get a few youngsters, but most people are over 25.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 10:31 PM
1

I am, and yes, bars are the place. There's a gap - the pre-wall girls are there, and the 40+ divorcee milfs are there. Not much in the 30-40 range.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:24 PM
3

That's the thing. It's girls 25-30. Screeching towards the wall. Still have the looks but they know the clock is ticking.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:14 PM
2

Are you past 35 yet? I got divorced at 35. I was in no way prepared for the flood of poontang that suddenly washed over me. It was not like this for me at 20. And it has been really hard not to keep falling into the relationship trap.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 08:52 PM
1

Former usmc checking in. Did my tour in dependopotomous-stan. It really is unfuckingbelievable how easily a woman can break what you think is a strong frame just because you're not familiar with the ROE.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:40 PM
2

Thank you. This is exactly what I'm always trying to explain. This is what I come to TRP for. Not all this bio evolutionary theory crap or bitter posts about feminists (though they are amusing). This. You are exactly fucking correct. I got laid plenty without TRP. I'm not a spineless neckbeard loser in a fedora, and never have been. I was always happy with all the female attention I got, because I didn't recognize the fact that I was their plan B. The marrying kind. And I would fall right into i…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:20 PM
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I heard the same thing when I told people I went out and bought a new bike. I'm like wtf... It's my money! Why the hell do I need permission? And these were my blue pill days.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/14 01:33 AM
1

Probably, I'm just talking about HER point of view.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 10:00 PM
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Dude, they have such rageboners for you it's not even funny. You can practically see them biting their lower lips and batting their eyelashes when they talk about you over at TBP. "Oh, that rascally GLO is at it again! TeeHee!"
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:29 PM
19

I cannot wait until this dude gets divorced. Cannot fucking wait to see the bambi-in-the-headlights look on his face when he gets anally raped by the totally not biased court system.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:25 PM
12

Oh whatever. Do you not understand the basis of female logic by now? They know the truth, but the convincingly heartstring-tugging lie suits their purpose better. Raise your hand if you're surprised.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 09:07 PM
3

What's funny is the one girl I've talked to about this that has her fallback plan lined up sees this guy as supremely alpha. Player, rich, handsome, etc. She really creams her panties over this dude. But he is very far away in their home country, so I guess that's the exception,
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:14 PM
1

Could not agree more to both.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:09 PM
2

Oh, but don't ask the fish how to catch fish, right? I swear to god women are the dumbest creatures on the planet. They'll spell all this shit out for you willingly and without any regard for the consequences. All you have to do is listen.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 03:08 PM
3

I don't even get this hash tag at all. It's like it was deliberately designed to be abused and mocked. All women are self-entitled whores. #yesallwomen All women are lying cuntbags #yesallwomen All women are x #yesallwomen
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:15 PM
1

Holy shit, that is fucking GOLD. I want to buy that dude a beer.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/14 02:09 PM
3

They amuse the shit out of me.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 08:16 PM
3

A-fucking-men. Exactly what this guy says. Women look at "scathing" breakup letters like a veteran trial lawyer would look at a subpoena from a six- year-old. She'll only look for the cracks. The weaknesses. She won't even really read it or comprehend it. Tuck it away in a drawer and look at it in a few months, after you've dipped your willy in scads of fresh, young poontang. I guarantee you'll laugh at yourself.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 08:12 PM
1

That was more the royal "dude" than you in particular.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 06:45 PM
0

Seriously. Option A: you keep doing this. Option B: you drop her like a sackful of kittens and go bang other sluts. Which of these two seems easier, more fun, and less stressful? Don't make me call you a fool.
/r/askTRP29/05/14 04:28 PM
2

Probably. I've sadly met women like this, though.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 03:25 PM
2

do things with other people I wouldn't want to do with my boyfriend See? See?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:30 PM
2

I thought it was funny. And a good lesson for why you don't want to be a beta.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:27 PM
1

Word.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:21 PM
1

Yes, such a new problem. "Hey, check out the gams on that dame!" "I'd take a dowry of one goat to lift her veil, if you know what I mean."
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:21 PM
1

Huh?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:45 PM
2

Dude, if you think this sub isn't an echo chamber, you're out of your mind. It isn't as bad as others, because people here tend to post what they think (and don't give a shit about community approval) a little more frequently, but it's still an echo chamber.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:25 PM
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I still say and do a lot of dumb shit. But yeah. I've been browsing TBP lately, and the amount of quilting-bee hand-wringing over there right now is unbelievable. You can just picture the looks of mock horror they've painted on their faces in a sad, desperate attempt to fit in with the rest of the hens who are desperately trying to fit in.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 01:15 PM
1

Yes.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 04:49 AM
1

Holy hell! See, that's what I think of when someone says "curvy" or "chubby" - Not the landmass of sweaty flesh women usually mean when they say it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:53 AM
1

Typical chubby chaser. 5' 10", 175, no muscle. Not saying I don't like thin women, I just find a higher percentage of chubby girls hot.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:46 AM
1

Women, however, have to invest in their beta. They play the long game. There are a million fish in the sea, but they're going to put effort into reeling in the one on their line. Sluts require minimal effort.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 02:29 AM
1

But you'll never get both unless you lead with being an asshole.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:53 AM
1

Well, if refusing to collect an analyze data works for you, then by all means keep it up. Myself, I'm considering giving up my ability to parse through bullshit in favor of spouting tropes at senseless times and adhering to heuristics whether they're demonstrably failing or not.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/14 12:36 AM
1

Two sides of this coin: if you want sex, you're going to have to earn it. Whether its with her or some random bar whore. Take that out of the equation, and think about the future. She's going to try to marry you. The more blue pill you are, the more likely you are to give in to this. Just a warning. My feeling apart from that is women will always have a residual idea that you're her blue pill bitch, even after you alpha it up. I'm a fan of fresh starts.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:59 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:51 PM
1

There you go.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:50 PM
1

If you could ask a fish what they like to eat without them realizing what you're doing, would you? Come on, man. We're smarter than them. Act like it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:49 PM
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I tend to disagree on one point in particular. It seems to me that women absolutely DO NOT want an alpha man for a long term mate. She wants a beta man that she can use and control. Men are the ones who want both in one. Not scientific, but that whole concept is what got me going down this path. Women seem to be genuinely confused by the concept of being both, because they automatically and without conscious thought group potential suitors into one of two buckets: AF or BB. Just my observations …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:46 PM
1

You guys get confused about the word "attractive." You were not attractive to her. Not as a beta provider. You took yourself out of that role, demonstrating value. Shit test passed. Now you're attractive. It ain't rocket surgery. I kicked my gf out. Now she tries to get all over my dick. This is how it works. But its got nothing at all to do with the point.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:33 PM
2

Exactly what I meant in my other comment about setting expectations correctly from the start. I've always had issues with this - treating one woman as special because I wanted her to be. Then sadly realizing they're all the same. If you want a girlfriend, treat her like a whore. Its the only way.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 09:27 PM
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Make her think you're ready to dump her at a moment's notice for someone better. In my case it just happened because A. I have been ready to dump her and B. I get a decent amount of attention from women anyway. People here advocate doing it on purpose to keep your woman on edge and interested. It does work, but... Eh.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 07:30 PM
7

I think you're fundamentally right about the attraction. But I think the dynamic that a lot of people tend to ignore is the reason for the attraction or lack thereof. Just like the friend zone, you put yourself in the boyfriend zone. Not through physical appearance, wealth, or confidence, but in the way you approach the relationship. Come out of the gates acting like a beta chump who wants a girlfriend, and that's what you'll get. That's what I did. That was my mistake. I could have taken this g…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 06:42 PM
5

The idea being is that they're artificially trying to create value, ironically, by creating the illusion of scarcity. The DeBeers theory. I think Smirnoff did it in the 80s, too. The sole purpose of the slut shield is to make it seem like their pussy is more valuable than other virtually identical pussy, thereby making you covet and keep it more.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:17 PM
0

Took me a lo g time to realize this. Preach on, brotha.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 04:09 PM
2

I'm with you, dude. The examples you gave are bigger than what I like, but I prefer /r/chubby to /r/gonewild if that gives you an idea. There was a 21 year old girl at a party over the weekend who was between 90-100 lbs. Her body was not attractive to me at all. I know what the party line is here, but come on. I'm not going to try to force myself to like something I don't just to get validation from others. Fuck that noise.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 03:13 PM
0

Yeah, I was definitely guilty of it. Once there's a word for the behavior in your head, it's easier to recognize it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 05:01 PM
1

He was hitleriffic?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 01:34 PM
19

No balls good! Two balls bad!
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:40 PM
5

Welcome to my world.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:10 PM
2

Yeah, some women find it hard to concentrate when you're yelling out cadence.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:37 PM
-1

Bitches be trippin.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 01:14 PM
2

Hahahaha.... Missed that one!
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:22 PM
1

As would Machiavelli.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 08:15 PM
1

Yeah, I'm right there with you. Seems like a lot of low to mid-tier women want to bang me, and a lot of upper-tier women want to boyfriend-zone me. I fucking hate that more than anything. I guess I must look a whole lot better with my wallet out.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 07:43 PM
113

Work out, play sports, stop being moody and dramatic, get a fucking haircut.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 03:14 PM
2

They never seem to get the hint.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:43 PM
2

Yeah, I don't know what it is, but I've seen this from almost every woman I take to the range. Hit target, YAY!, swing around with loaded weapon still in hand pointing everywhere but downrange.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 07:27 PM
11

You're ready to learn a lesson from me? Wonderful. Sit down, make yourself comfortable. Here it is, lesson #1 from me, Mr. Nice Guy: I deserve better than you. Much better. And I'm in a position to get it. Good luck, and have a great day. Sincerely, Mr. Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:13 PM
1

And if you think about it, why do they want a wedding? A huge, expensive day of "look at me." Completely self-indulgent. Why do they suck at marriage? Because you have to not be completely self-centered for it to work.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 03:02 PM
5

My friends married first-generation Indian girls. Girls who grew up in India. Same thing, basically. None of them had any interest in your typical american whore.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:35 PM
5

This is true. There's a certain satisfaction in nipping that typical female shitbaggery in the bud.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 02:30 PM
21

Old school Indian guys like that are hard for westerners to get a read on. They're very non confrontational, but at the same time they don't back down for shit. It's really impressive.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 01:44 PM
9

Truth. Once you get away from her, you'll start seeing yourself for who you really are, not her crazy ass projections.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:44 AM
7

You don't. You break all contact as much as possible. She's begun the descent into absolute self-righteousness. For her, there is no turning back. The hamster is now on an overdose of meth and absolutely cannot stop running. You make every interaction with her brief, civil, and documented. Do not fuck around. Do not mistake her for the woman you married. That woman is dead and gone. This is the woman you're divorcing. Source: Married a ho, divorced a flawless cuntbag.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:41 AM
36

Here's the thing. If I got that far in a relationship without disclosing something from my past I was ashamed of (doesn't matter what - bunny killer, ex-kkk, drug addict, whatever - I didn't disclose it because I was ashamed of it that's not who I am anymore), how do you think the fine young ladies of the world would view me? The phrases "Girl, he's a liar and doesn't deserve you" and "good riddance" spring to mind. TL;DR: You go, guy. Kick that hoebag to the fucking curb where she belongs.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 02:32 AM
6

Wow. Just wow. I'm gonna go ahead and pass on the personal stories, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 07:55 PM
2

The thing is that confidence comes from success, and success comes from confidence. What TRP seems to preach that I think is muddied in the ebb and flow of a public forum, is building confidence through small successes. It's a snowball effect that has to start somewhere. What it isn't about is faking confidence. Yes, at some level you have to fake it till you make it, but that's a small part of it. Consistently faked confidence is PUA bullshit. That's why you hear the mantra of lift, eat right, …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:45 PM
8

Yeah, as a parent I can tell you flat out that it's far from the worlds toughest job. Ex wife used to yammer about this endlessly. I told her flat out that I've watched her "work" and frankly, I could find someone twice as competent for half the price. I'd say it didn't go over well, but she IS my ex. So I guess it worked out pretty well in the end.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 06:35 PM
12

Seriously that was fucking gold. And the fact that you called it immediately like that... Damn. Don't know where I'd be without this place. Probably married to another whore.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 05:48 PM
1

Give it a try. And get a nice haircut. High and tight. Try it out for a couple of weeks. That shit grows back, you know.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:35 PM
3

Yeah to be honest, without the beard your face looks a lot like mine only better. But I get hit on almost every time I go out to the bar. If you can't grow a resplendent, manly beard like mine, shave until you can. But honestly its like 70% the IDGAF attitude.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:31 PM
11

No. Dear god no.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:25 PM
1

Hmm. I'd guess it's 70% getting flustered/nervous/thrown off, and 30% that beard. The beard isn't terrible, but it's definitely off. Doesn't do good things for you. If you're too babyfaced without it, try styling it differently.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 06:19 PM
4

Yeah, fool me once...
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 08:48 PM
0

Same way you do anyone, really. Play on their obvious insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 05:55 PM
17

I'm actually kinda proud of him. At least he finally stepped up to the plate.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 04:12 PM
5

They almost never admit it. You just play. Act like you don't know you're playing or that there's even a game.
/r/askTRP10/04/14 04:08 PM
35

Even if you are declining multiple advances, it still isn't all that great. She's still burdening you financially, the thrill of cheating isn't there, you have to put more emotional effort into your primary partner, etc. Men succeed in polyamory when there's no primary partner. Women succeed in polyamory when there is. Source: Read about it once in a book.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:41 PM
0

I love working with Russian software engineers. Hell, people think we're autistic or something when they overhear our conversations. And shit gets fucking done.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:22 PM
10

Saw my ex-wife leaving for a date once. Stared at the huge rack that had magically appeared and said, "looks like someone's going to be disappointed tonight!"
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:08 PM
8

Guilty as charged. Was telling my buddy about this fat chick I got a blowie from at a wedding after drinking all day. After I tell him the story he says, "did you notice she went from 'pretty big' to 'Jesus she was fat' to 'fucking enormous' as the story went on?" "Yeah," I said, "Kind of the opposite of how it happened at the time."
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 03:03 PM
2

Depends on the area. Where I am, that 100k meant a comfortable but modest lifestyle. Then my ex wife decided that "modest" wasn't her thing. Similar story, really.
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:48 PM
1

They all have BPD, man. Cluster B disorders are code for "female brain."
/r/askTRP09/04/14 05:46 PM
4

Could be fun.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 03:11 PM
2

I'm just saying it's how it tends to be there. Because its such a high COL area.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:41 PM
8

$12 is basically minimum wage in the valley.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:26 PM
4

If you're making $12 /hr, live in EPA. Jesus. It's only "ghetto" to people who don't know what ghettos look like. Edit: guess I didn't read very well and she does live in EPA? Whatever. Is it better than whatever shithole in mexico you came from? Yes? Stop complaining. No? Move somewhere else.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 08:21 PM
6

Been doing exactly this the past couple years. Works wonders.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/14 02:44 PM
1

Jesus dude... That's hardcore.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:52 PM
1

YA DONE MESSED UP, A. A. LEWIS!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:56 PM
3

Lol... My favorite reactions are when I meet people (especially girls) that my ex wife has trash talked me to. Which is basically everyone she meets. "Wait, YOU'RE [name]'s ex? Jesus... You're NOTHING like what I pictured!" Nice try poisoning the well, sweetheart. I'm still pulling hot blondes with big tits 15 years younger than you, so suck my magnificent cock like you used to. Hell, you probably helped me. Meanwhile, even your little beta bux are getting tired of your shit, and you just keep g…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:53 PM
3

"I'm not racist, but any non-white heritage instantly reduces your score" Seriously wtf. You have any idea how many hot, classy black chicks there are in D.C.?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:42 PM
2

This is one thing that always puzzled me about women. They will never see you as anything other than what they saw you as when they met you. Not what you were, what they saw you as. Its almost as if they're so unfamiliar with self-improvement that they subconsciously ignore the evidence right in front of their... Oh... Never mind. I get it now. Thanks, TRP!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:30 PM
2

"What is that nudnik doing out of her cave?" -Jewish saying
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:06 PM
2

They have them in Philly too, but not the way my man Omar makes them. They put cheese whiz on it and shit.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:59 PM
1

I agree it's a mixed bag. Best and worst head I've ever gotten was from fat chicks. But on average they're better.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:58 PM
1

That's the damn truth. I was taught to back down. I had to learn the hard way that you're going to get a beating one way or another, so you damn well better give some back.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:55 PM
5

How close are you to Baltimore?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:12 AM
1

That's incredibly well-analyzed, and exactly what I was talking about.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 01:01 AM
3

Right, but that's the thing. They love teasing; they hate negging. They love bad boys, but they hate jerks. They love (female term x) but they hate (same TRP term y). It's the definition of hamster. They know they love it. They know it works. They know that we know that they love it and it works. But the only way they can DISCUSS their outrage is by pretending they're saying something completely different. Even though (and I can't stress this enough) everyone involved knows that they aren't.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:49 AM
18

"It sounds like he needs some time to figure out what he wants right now." Sounds to me like he already knew what he wanted, and he finally figured out how to get it. Boom! Mystery solved, and I didn't need seven fucking paragraphs to do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:33 AM
1

I used to hang out here when I first started looking for places. I think that's where I heard the term.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 12:00 AM
46

Have you ever tried crack wings? They're delicious.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:37 PM
2

I wasn't suggesting it would work equally as well on males., nor for the same reason. I was postulating that in the gay community, I.e. among men seeking men, selection preference would likely go to the alpha. Because, you know, he's the alpha. I also mentioned that it was pure speculation. I have observed heterosexual female behavior in the wild far more and with greater interest than I have homosexual male behavior. What I'm getting at is that my hypothesis runs parallel to the canonical TRP t…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:21 PM
1

Stay away from McDojos is the important thing. My kids take MMA at a local gym here. Everyone in town knows and respects the owner, and he personally teaches every class. Hard as nails, but still awesome with the kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:05 PM
2

Yes, and learning not to be a bitch is the result of that.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 11:03 PM
2

Which part of my original premise do you find questionable?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 10:59 PM
2

Quality. Though I do feel like we're headed down the rabbit hole with all this speculation.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 09:07 PM
2

It doesn't seem to imply that to me, but real world observation indicates that the least feminine females seem to get the most beta males.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:54 PM
3

And among these, I think "learning not to be a bitch" is the greatest.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:52 PM
1

Point being that being alpha is definitely going to help you in all aspects of life, gay or straight. Learning how to run women is going to help you, gay or straight. And being alpha will probably help you get the man you want if you're gay. Not sure about the last one, since I haven't personally tested the theory. But it stands to reason.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:42 PM
4

Might want to make it a fifteen year calculation, subby. How many women are going to hold out 10 years for the goods? Probably a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:16 PM
2

Didn't know that, but I'm guessing he's celibate by choice.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:14 PM
5

You might want to work on your reading comprehension there, hoss.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:12 PM
11

Yeah, its called the military.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:07 PM
2

Watch him sometime.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 08:06 PM
13

10 years is when permanent alimony and SS benefits come on to the table. I'd say any woman who marries me has a 100% risk of divorce within 10 years.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 06:01 PM
9

That's what I'm saying... Good shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:11 PM
3

Yeah, my family had farms I'd go up to in the summertime. Something about the authenticity of survival just resonates in your soul.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 05:05 PM
10

You should, and you should get involved as much as possible. No better father-son bonding than there is in facing adversity.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:58 PM
1

OK just making sure.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:46 PM
2

Let me put it another way: Tim Gunn is alpha as fuck. Top of his field, widely respected, takes no shit. What kind of ass do you think Tim Gunn is pulling? Grade A beef, I'd wager.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:45 PM
10

Same thing with women, really. Betas go for the brash, obnoxious sea cows. Alphas go for the twinks. Or something like that. I'm mixing metaphors again. Point being, it sounds more like your goals aren't well-defined than if you can use TRP in a dual-sausage context. Think more about what you really want than if TRP can get you there. And don't limit yourself to what you think you can get or what you think you deserve.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:41 PM
4

Have you ever been to Austin?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:35 PM
8

What kind of man do you want? An alpha, or a beta? I really don't focus too much on the "getting laid" part so much as the "holding frame in a relationship" part. The former isn't really my issue; the latter definitely is. Also, being more alpha helps you in all aspects of life, not just the fish taco buffet.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 04:33 PM
2

Cheers to that.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 03:30 PM
3

Leaders are not led into that position.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:50 PM
22

No one here can help you. The only way is to help yourself. Read, and decide who you want to be. What kind of MAN you want to be. Then do what you have to do, unapologetically, to become that man. Or don't. It's up to you.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:43 PM
5

If I had a dollar for every time I heard a woman spout some obvious lie right in my face, I'd... I'd have quite a few dollars.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:32 PM
4

Here's my take, for what it's worth. I really don't care about the number so much, but you almost always run into this: She made you wait and/or won't do things with you that she did with other guys. Hamster it however you want, it makes me feel like shit. She has self-esteem and/or self-control issues. Women can get laid much more easily than men; the fact that she opened her legs and mouth at every opportunity means that she needs constant validation. What's going to happen when she doesn't ge…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 02:27 PM
3

What? You mean that sort of thing happens? I don't believe it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:28 PM
5

But it's very FEELS. That makes it totally REALS. Ugh, you guys have no empathy!
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:21 PM
5

I like reading TBP. It makes me feel better about myself. The mental gyrations they go through to interpret some of the comments here as the complete opposite of what they said is frankly amazing. Granted, they do have the occasional solid counterpoint, but it's a public internet forum. Gets lost in the circlejerk. TL;DR: TBP is a fine source of amusement. Lighting up those strawmen must keep them warm for hours.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:18 PM
5

I feel better about my cash businesses already.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:12 PM
16

From the comments: "Do they think we lie all the time or something?" Bwahahahahahaha! No, of course not. Why would we think that?
/r/TheRedPill03/04/14 01:00 PM
2

Nice guys do not eventually win. You hear this because post-wall women will eventually settle down with a "nice guy" (I.e. a beta provider). Since marriage and the financial support of a man is their end game, their ultimate goal, they assume that the man has won as well. They simply can't imagine that it isn't "winning" for the man. They see things only from their point of view. Hence, if you "be yourself," you will be a nice guy who eventually "wins." This is the basis of their philosophy. Thi…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 09:01 PM
1

You forgot to put "solutions" in quotes.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:02 PM
-3

To be fair, I can spit out a coherent essay of 2000 words on any topic easily. Probably within an hour. And I've probably done the same for a woman at some point.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:15 PM
2

You figured all that out from one sentence?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:49 PM
13

He's a dirty commie. No, actually I have no clue either.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:47 PM
4

Lulz
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:13 PM
16

I've mentioned this before, but when I first picked up my current gf, I split out of the bar early so I wouldn't take her home that night. Because I wanted things to be "different." Dumbass. One night we're out and she disappears for an hour talking to an ex that showed up. I knew where she was and who she was talking to, but I just sat there in the back room stewing inside but having a good time anyway. Some chick comes up and starts chatting me up, plops herself down on my lap, and starts givi…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:53 PM
14

I like that. Fuck beta CarlsPudding. That schlub got what he deserved. Time to move on.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:45 PM
3

Dude... I don't think I've ever had an outrage boner before. That shit is going on my bucket list. Excellent post. Excellent. One that a lot of posters here seem like they could benefit from,
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:18 PM
2

The older I've gotten and the better I've learned to read women, the more it feels like I'm psychic. Not in a real Mumbo-Jumbo way, but like Sean Spencer. I observe and deduce. I don't tip my hand until I have enough evidence to be sure, and then when I do, I wait for the appropriate moment. You'd be surprised how often I've been able to nail down the truth just by being a student of female behavior. They always are. They love being an enigma to men, and laying them bare in a few words throws th…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:51 PM
52

I'm shocked. Shocked, I tell you!
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:58 PM
1

Actually, I don't try to justify my misogyny. I feel that it stands on its own merits.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:26 PM
1

Master of subtext, aren't you?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:00 PM
1

"Hi," I said to her. She said, "Not yet" with a sly wink. Tell me, says I, "How is a raven like a writing desk?" She began to mutter something about inky quills, but I simply grabbed her arm and spun her around to face me. I could see the excitment and vulnerability in her eyes as I said, " I've never banged a chick on either." It was a lie on both parts, but it became a lie half again on that day.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:52 PM
1

"LOUD NOISES!"
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:47 PM
1

What day is it today? I forgot.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:46 PM
8

I have such a heart on for this logo it's retarded
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:21 PM
1

3 clicks in and I still can't figure out what the hell they're proposing.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 04:14 PM
1

Not worth it IMO. What kind of man do you want to be? Self-reliant, or utterly dependent on a woman?
/r/askTRP31/03/14 04:24 PM
1

No, I've noticed the opposite. Vast differences.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:54 PM
13

I always wondered if it was just me, but I noticed something about the way women and intellectually inferior men converse a while back... The speak around each other. They listen just enough to pick up on a word or phrase they can use as a springboard, then launch into a tangential speech loosely based on that word or phrase when its their turn to speak. There's no thread of conversation, no context, no subtext. Just a blitzkrieg of bullshit. It's maddening to listen to.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 01:01 PM
3

Bwahahahaha!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 12:56 PM
1

Well... Bye.
/r/askTRP31/03/14 12:32 PM
1

Women cant cook worth a damn anymore.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:40 PM
2

I'd call it experience. Wisdom is when you can take your own advice.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:56 AM
1

IShe got half the assets on top of what she stole. And lawyers didn't seem to do much. But ongoing, the percentage is roughly comparable. I only know the formula this state uses to be honest.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:55 AM
1

You can imagine the look of surprise on my face.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:57 PM
1

So fucking tired of hearing about that contract bullshit. Bitch, this is at-will. Contract my ass.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:05 PM
1

Oh my god, it is ridiculous how they all want to top from the bottom. All of them. Like one big shit test. Nope, sorry. Session over. Come back begging and maybe I'll give you a second chance.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:43 PM
1

Yeah I don't know that my issues were actually caused by the vasectomy, but there is strong correlation. And it's not extremely common. But I'm not the only man to have reported this.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:06 PM
5

This is also what I did.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:02 PM
1

Recognizing that simple fact was the first step of my journey.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:52 PM
1

Hahahaha... It wouldn't surprise me if he did. Maybe I should have talked to him about my feelings on that more.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:30 PM
1

I agree with that. I've done the Dom thing for a few women, and I found that if you make it clear that you don't really enjoy it and that you're only doing it for their benefit, they don't really get what they want out of it. I tell them after, though. But more to the point, I literally cockblocked myself because I wanted this time to be "different." What a deluded fool I was. I might actually have a really good relationship right now if I had just fucked her that first night.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:08 PM
9

I got one about 6 years ago. Here's my take: Find out how much it costs to freeze sperm and pay for artificial insemination. Compare to the cost and risks of a reversal. Further compare to the cost of child support. I say this because as a father of two, I thought I was done. Now I kind of wish I had the option. I started experiencing occasional ED and loss of sex drive after the procedure. The doctors swear these are not side effects of the operation, but I have read similar stories. Post-vasec…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 03:31 PM
7

It's not uncommon. They just claim that you're emotionally unstable or some such. Judge can't be criticized for "erring on the side of caution" (because all men are abusive rapists) so bam - supervised visitation. If the bullshit allegation is abuse, its a court appointed supervisor instead of your ex.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:33 PM
2

Just so you know, in my state the standard formula for alimony is 1/3 of the difference in income. So even if she earns no income, you're "only" paying 33.3% (which is still ridiculous, but not as bad as you think). I pay my ex wife about 22% of my gross income in alimony and child support.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:20 PM
10

I had trouble reading it until I started reading it in a thick Russian accent. Then it became awesome. No offense meant, /u/10199 - your English is a hell of a lot better than my Russian.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:15 PM
7

I literally had a marriage counselor say this to me once. I looked him dead in the eye and told him I neither wanted nor expected sex from my father.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:29 PM
7

You have to remember that women are terrible liars. They rarely get called out on it, and if they do, they just hamster until the man loses interest and they assume they've won the argument. They're permanently stuck in a false positive feedback loop. And they say shit like this because they want "the past to be the past" and hope that you'll be the one to accept that. That's where trickle truth comes from. They're testing the waters.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:27 PM
1

Yeah, I did the same thing with my current gf. I feel like such a fucking idiot now.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:22 PM
1

Ugh. It's true. And I hate knowing it sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:20 PM
4

It seems to me that whores would be more likely to use protection every time. Can anyone confirm or deny? Seems like every girl I've rawdogged gives the same "I can't believe it, I NEVER do that!" speech. And it's always confirmed bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:39 PM
1

This is why I've always wanted to try fucking a whore. That I actually paid for. I hear good things.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:36 PM
1

Preach it, Luda.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:31 PM
6

You may have noticed my comment in the other thread. One bit of practical advice I can give is when they start to get bitchyfaced and bust out the "I'm sorry you..." IMMEDIATELY cut them off (preferably before they get to "you") with a firm, dismissive "I don't give a fuck if you're sorry or not. Don't let it happen again."
/r/askTRP26/03/14 12:41 PM
2

A lie agreed upon. A basis of understanding. Not truth, but a plausible story. In improv, it's the scene; e.g. "you are a clown at a barbershop. I am a Vietnamese barber who speaks little English." In life, it's the projection of self-image: "I am a hard-working single mother oppressed by the patriarchy at every turn."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:32 PM
2

Their entire social construct is based on spin. I don't have any fancy anthropological hypothesis to explain why, but if you listen to their interactions it's like watching improv. They've all agreed to a premise they know to not be true, and everything that follows is just agreement and amplification.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 04:01 PM
13

A woman's "apology" will always start out with "I'm sorry YOU..." "I'm sorry you feel that way." "I'm sorry you got hurt." "I'm sorry you can't see that I'm a good person in spite of my actions." They're only ever sorry they got caught, and they're careful to show that in the language they use. Never will you hear them say "I'm sorry I did X because of Y consequence."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:08 PM
2

Yeah, I read about that once in a book.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 11:49 PM
1

Nothing wrong with chain smoking cokehead vegans as long as you don't have to eat with them or fund their habits.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:16 PM
1

That's my theory. Exceptions to this rule are pretty fat girls, which are rare, and former hotties that let themselves go.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:13 PM
13

My philosophy over the past couple of years has been to work my way up. Went after someone a little hotter each time. I doubt that people here will recommend that, though. In my defense, fat girls do give good head.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:26 PM
1

If you're talking to me, I already know what the problem is.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 08:19 PM
7

Look down. You see that red handle labeled "EJECT"? Yank that motherfucker. Hard. Right now. Bail out of this relationship and never look back. Work on becoming the man you were never taught to be. Because you will never, I repeat, NEVER man up with her around. This is the advice I wish someone had given me 15 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:52 PM
1

It's just the formula. Whore around and party through college, start your "career", decide that working is for chumps, put 100% of your effort into landing "Mr. Right" - I.e. your meal ticket. Any one will do.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 05:47 PM
1

I go on TBP sometimes just to see if I got quoted. It amuses me.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 04:03 PM
1

I'm in this situation now. GF, not wife. What are the reasons?
/r/askTRP21/03/14 03:50 PM
1

Don't think you meant to reply to me. If you did, you're singing to the choir, bub.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 08:17 PM
1

Common law or not, married or not, this is all sound advice. Even if not followed to the letter, what you need to start thinking about now is (as op said) establishing this pattern of protecting your assets well in advance of a potential marriage/partnership. Always remember that even in the most atrociously pro-woman states, premarital assets are still considered sacrosanct.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 05:55 PM
3

I dunno... I say after a month it's not orbiting. If it results in a booty call, great. If not, fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 05:06 PM
1

Well... There's room for debate there.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:29 PM
1

Fair enough. My game ain't the greatest.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 04:06 PM
1

Keep bank accounts separate, minimize joint assets, withdraw cash as cash back on debit cards when shopping and hide it somewhere secure and untraceable. Never pay her credit cards or debts from your money. Stop contributing to retirement, start funneling cash. Bail at the first sign of trouble. The reason married men are blue pill is because once you enter in that contract, your balls are in a vise and she knows it. She no longer has to compete because she has your options locked out. Good luck…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:30 PM
10

I only do it if she already told me what she wants. Flag down server, "She'll have the..." They eat that up because it shows you were paying attention.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 02:22 PM
5

God I wish I were better at following my own advice, but the thing you need to remember is this: Shut up. Talking to women is like being deposed in a legal matter, you say only what is required and then you shut your damn mouth. Because anything you say can and will be used against you. A man judges his success in a debate buy how well he has proven his point, and he will take however long he needs in pursuit of that goal. A woman judges her success by the length of time and emotion expended in …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:59 PM
-7

Forget her for maybe a month, then give her the "I was just at x place, and y made me think about you. How are you?" text.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 01:42 PM
1

I see what you did there...
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 12:14 PM
1

Fair enough. I was just thinking of my own personal experiences.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 10:37 PM
52

Don't you just hate being right sometimes?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 09:14 PM
1

If I had a son, I'd teach him two things: Never pick on someone for being different. If you're going to voluntarily be different, you damn well better be prepared to go to the mat over it.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:30 PM
11

I didn't even bother clicking. I just assumed I was right about women all along.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:26 PM
1

Bout sums it up.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:24 PM
1

If you find that you and your friends agree on everything, find new friends.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 08:23 PM
6

Also ITT: People who have never met my mother. I ask you this: Am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:01 PM
1

I would say if she starts the sexy talk again, tell her to put up or shut up, because you don't have time for her games. I don't know if it'll work or not, but I get boyfriend zoned a lot and I wish I had said this more. Side note: if she thought you were hot enough to fuck 20 minutes after meeting her, she would have.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 04:22 PM
2

There's this thing called a "joke."
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:43 PM
4

Stand by. I just decided to tattoo "the patriarchy" on my dick.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:32 PM
22

Well, I don't know about you, but my mom is a farm girl from a generation that predates feminism. But she still put herself through college, had a career to help support us, took care of herself and us, never disrespected my father, and had a strong moral compass. In short, I see her as different from the sluts I encounter because she IS fundamentally different at a core level.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:13 PM
3

Wow... Just wow. The article is one thing; the "you go girls" in the comments is quite another.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 07:56 PM
1

Do you really want to be that branch? Stop second guessing yourself, stick to your guns, and go looking for more poon in the meantime.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 06:20 PM
1

Lol I was just thinking that. Yup, lots of those too. Amazing pool players.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 09:09 PM
1

Probably. I was in a ltr when I lived there, and when I did hang out it was the valley dive bar scene. So I guess my perspective isn't really germane to the SF scene.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 07:16 PM
5

What I've learned, and wish I could pass on, is that "be yourself" means "You won't get laid much, but when you do it will be with someone you feel really loves you for you." Its all bullshit, though. Even if that's the sacrifice you wanted to make, and the "be yourself" premise advertised itself correctly, it still wouldn't deliver that result.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:17 PM
1

My experience in the bay area was that most of the "nerdy programmer" stereotypes were true. Not many of us have game. Add to that the gay men and Asians that don't want to date a white woman, and I can see this scenario playing out pretty easily. As a reasonably attractive and fit straight man who isn't socially retarded, you have a lot of options to choose from.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:52 PM
2

The whole bay area. Mostly Indian and Chinese. Although pre-wall Indian girls seem to have a thing for white guys.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:44 PM
1

I have three good female friends. One is my cousin, one is an ex gf with no residual sexual feelings either way, and the other has feelings for me but I have nothing for her. Obviously the last one is the only one that's difficult.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:39 PM
6

I just wish I could see the look on his face when he finds out that the little princess he married wasn't quite as chaste as she let on. B-bb-bbut I had to fight for your affections! How could you just jump on every cock in your path, but make me wait for marriage?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:30 PM
1

Yeah I wasn't thrilled about hearing that. But it was also just one of many issues.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:28 PM
4

Does she? Does she really? To what end?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 05:24 PM
0

This is also true. She was a time ho when I first met her; only after I stopped talking to her for a month, booty called her, and completely dominated her in bed did she come around. I get a text from her every now and then asking what I'm up to. In other words, red pill works even if you don't know what red pill is.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:27 PM
1

Happy to help.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:17 PM
4

Just stating an observation. She was, and presumably still is, very openly narcissistic and sociopathic. I'm not saying it was the only factor, but she explicitly said that she got off on all these young, inexperienced boys lusting after her, the hot teacher. So it does make sense - every woman wants to be lusted after. Every woman wants to feel like she's in control of who gets to fuck her. This is just a situation which she deliberately took advantage of by dressing and acting slutty, then tur…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 04:01 PM
11

I knew a girl like this. She got off on the power dynamic. Is it really that surprising?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:52 PM
1

No. Well, I mean sometimes. But I've banged a few mothers, and there's no correlation. Loosest pussy I've ever encountered was with women who had never given birth.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 06:27 PM
0

Well, it's more the broad political concept, but yes. This. Every broad swing brings the blade another inch closer to our own gut.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:27 PM
1

Human: Look at that stupid hamster! Just running and running, not realizing it's going nowhere! Hamster: Watch this. That dumb human will stare as long as I keep running. They can't help themselves!
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:13 PM
1

Guess that answers that.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:57 PM
1

Do people here know what that means? I thought it was an inside reference between me and my friends.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:26 PM
1

So you made your decision and you're sticking with it. Good for you. When are you scheduled for your vasectomy?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:09 PM
6

Lol... You're cute.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 03:01 PM
1

Let me start with the disclaimers. I am new here. I am not a hard core, hard charging, alpha-as-fuck RP god. I got my own shit I'm dealing with. So have mercy on my goddamn mortal soul if my opinion here isn't exactly in line with this whole group. I have female friends. It works, but ONLY if there is NO sexual attraction on either part. For example, one of them is my cousin. So in your case, let me be perfectly clear: You do not need or want her as a friend. You will not get anywhere with her b…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:42 PM
10

This is basically how my marriage ended. She comes to me and says, "Maybe it's time to talk to a divorce mediator." "OK," I said, pulling out my phone and hitting dial on the number I had already programmed in. I made the appointment right then and there. She couldn't have been more shocked. Best decision I ever made.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 02:22 PM
10

As a divorced father and alleged distiller of spirits, I can confirm that this is the damn truth.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 02:29 PM
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