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She's doing you a favor. If she doesn't want to be in a relationship with you it's a shitty relationship to begin with. Don't take it personally. Let her break up with you I just agree and amplify. Then cut all contact!
/r/askTRP29/08/16 05:15 PM
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Now try take some MDMA or cocaine, groom yourself and go to a rave have a good time dancing. Is like IOI porn.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 05:40 PM
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Sometimes before going out I say to myself: "He who hesitates, masturbates!"
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:22 AM
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Wow!! Never heard that one before. That's true even for me. The few girls that I start feeling "real love" I had thar sub-conscious feel I couldn't do better.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:19 AM
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I want to add two quotes from Rollo Tomassi that helped me dealing with rejection: Sifting through some of my past posts on the SoSuave forum it hit me; over 90% of what I advocate there can be reduced to overcoming a fear of rejection. as a Man, based on gender alone, you will experience rejection far more than any woman ever will. If that sounds like a bold statement let me clarify that, you should experience rejection more than any woman.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:12 PM
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Let's face it! About 95% when a male wants but doesn't approach is pure male hamsterazation. I know because I did and still rationalize a lot.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 02:04 PM
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In a LTR the attraction between a man and a women must be mutually high! Is simple as that.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 11:49 PM
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Several months ago I got caught in a massive drama between a ex-girlfriend, a plate and a obessesive jeaulous ex-boyfriend. Just let me tell how it ended...with me in a blood pool after being kicked several times in the head by this jeaulous guy and his best friend. Both girls moved on with their life and are being fucked by news guys and all I got was a scar in my forehead and a hell of a lesson. Learn from my experience - spinning plates is all fun but be very cautious with jeaulous crazy guys…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:59 AM
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For me being horny makes my game way better. I tell myself "You want sexual release? Go get a woman" No masturbation allowed! The hornier I get the less approach anxiety I have. Back then when I masturbated a lot I suffered from deathgrip/delayed ejaculation. Is so fucking frustrating. Masturbation and porn just ruins real sex for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 10:31 AM
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Most RP newbies learn #3 immediately. Is what brings here in the first place. #2 however didn't get in my mind until very recently...there are many women despite being sexual attracted to you won't have sex with you!
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 11:21 AM
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I agree! I still make this mistake from time to time. However there was one time I managed to change a lot of habits at once. Almost 2 years ago when my ex-LTR of 9 years dumped me. The pain was huge but somehow I got a fierceful motivation and changed my diet, started lifting, relight my social connections and much more. Nowadays many of these habits still persist but I don't have the same the same strength I had back then. I guess "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do an…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:47 PM
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Pleased by your reply. Sometimes people get stuck in the minutiae and simply refuse to try different approaches.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 09:30 AM
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Is a shitty thing to do beacause you're treating a symptom instead of the disease.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 09:01 AM
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year and half ago after my break up and I was kinda desesperate to meet women I installed a online app (in my city tinder is a small thing). I managed to get a date which I believe to be one of the most attractive girls I saw in this dating app. She had a really cute face but her body not so much. Once I start pulling girls IRL I immediatelly deleted my online profiles and I really doubt I will ever out one again. Get this straight in your head! If you want hot girls you have to get your hands d…
/r/askTRP04/07/16 08:58 AM
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The real question is how these type of banal stuff beeps on your radar? You're overthinking. Just say hi how are you or any other opener and see how it goes and leave it.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:51 PM
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Wasting sexual energy in porn than chasing women and money doesn't sound good.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:47 PM
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The Manual and Models are way better. The Manual is my bible. Top inner game!
/r/askTRP29/06/16 04:45 PM
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I can totally relate from your post. Before I had some degree of sucess I thought maybe the experience and validation of success will make fear of rejection go away. It doesn't. In the last year I plated over 10 women, had several make ups and have been complimented on my looks. Most of my approaches are drunk approaches. Anyway, I'm realizing the problem is in seeking external validation. It bothers me if people see me getting rejected. But to be honest the rejections I had wasn't that bad. I'l…
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:26 AM
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Height is part of your looks so it affects your overall atracttion. Face, muscles and style are also part of looks so try maximizing these. Insecurity and low confidence is a big no for basically every girl. With women don't show weak emotions, simply avoid it! BTW, one of my best friends is your height and is drowing in pussy. However he is very popular and very socially skilled aka high status.
/r/seduction27/06/16 10:58 AM
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Having fun while approaching is the key. This! Approaching will eventually improve your success. Fear of rejection is what prevents many guys from getting the quantity and quality of girls they really want. Right now I'm working in the approach/fear of rejection. It's my weakness and I do believe I'm not having the success I trully want because of this and I'm better than the average joe in bedding girls. I firmly believe that if you aren't getting rejected you aren't living to your real potenti…
/r/seduction27/06/16 10:48 AM
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What I did to improve my looks (and it improved): Whiten my teeth Got a tan. Sunbathing and eat food rich in caretenoids (e.g. carrots) Lower my body fat. My face become less round and more attractive. Cleared my mild acne. Some basic hygiene but most importatly eat a clean diet. Some months into a clean diet and I never seen more pimples. Buy some nice clothes, watches, sunglasses, etc... I did this one gradually and asked for help. 5 o'clock shadow beard, it doesn't have to be perfect, just bu…
/r/askTRP24/06/16 05:01 PM
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Phenibut + Music
/r/seduction10/06/16 01:02 PM
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Women want to be wanted not needed. I do believe if a girl is already attracted to you and you show that you care and genuine desire she'll be even more attracted to you. The key here is confidence and don't be needy.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:47 AM
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LDR? lol. Game her. Girls with boyfriends are great plates. Just don't end in a LTR with her.
/r/askTRP06/04/16 09:38 AM
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What 90% of People do After They Relapse They binge. They rationalize that since they’ve broken their personal vow and they might as well enjoy the fall. I relate to this. Especially when it comes to diet. For example if your cutting a heavy binge day will ruin almost a entire week of diet. I just become more aware of this. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 09:47 AM
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What do you think mantaining occasional contact (like once or twice a month) for former plates which you end in good terms?
/r/askTRP23/03/16 01:51 PM
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''its not the right time for me to get in a relationship'' aka you're not good enough to me.
/r/askTRP19/03/16 02:58 PM
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Firstly, you should use ASKTRP for this kind of question. Second, it's very rare for a girl to approach but it happens. Some years ago I was approached by a 39 years old finnish woman in a night club. She was oddly agressive. She wanted to dance and even after I politelly refused she insisted at least three times. At the time I had a girlfriend and didn't find her that attractive. She wasn't bad for her age. I was pre-trp back then but damm that was an agressive approach. After that I was warmly…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:41 AM
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Some things for you to try: Used flux or a similar app. Read instead of net browsing or chatting on social media. This will make you tired. Moderate your caffeine intake. Your room must be cool. Buy yourself a really nice mattress.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:35 PM
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From the Rational Male: From a biomechanical perspective, the indication is that men who consistently masturbate are essentially broadcasting their status as Pheromonal Betas – and women’s biochemical mechanics subconsciously registers this about them. Higher testosterone males manifest their sexual viability in both sexual assertiveness and scent.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 05:55 PM
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I used a customized dental tray like this http://www.ebay.com/itm/2-Custom-Dental-Teeth-Whitening-Trays-Gel-Reservoirs-/320591872440 I didn't order in ebay I went to a professional dentist. Worth it every penny. Got plenty of compliments from girls. Don't get teeths too much white or else you'll seem unnatural.
/r/askTRP15/03/16 03:50 PM
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Happened the same to me when I was 18 years old. I was completed obssessed by this girl. Luckily I managed to make her my girlfriend and I dated her for many years. Even nowadays she still has some effect on me. This perfect idealization you created is only in your head. She's just a woman, and believe me, after you fuck her and feel validated by her you'll wonder what was the big deal. No matter how many girls I'm with she won't leave me alone The most common reason for this to happen is the gi…
/r/askTRP14/03/16 12:39 PM
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Totally agreed. Low body fat between 8% and 12% is ideal. Especially for your face!
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:58 PM
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IMO body fat levels should be first priority! Aim for 8%-12% body fat. Then do a clean bulk. If you've a round face by all means lower your body fat. Don't even think in bulking.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 05:56 PM
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There are lot of great posts here in TRP. Writers like Archwinger, Rollo, IM and many more really inspired me and helped me a lot. One aspect I think is clearly overrated and harmful in TRP and is especially promoted by newbies (I presume) is that being a asshole will get women. For example just last week I lost two plates who really were into me, by being an asshole. To some extent I wanted to drop them but it still leaves me a bad taste in my mouth. TRP is very good at explaining female nature…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 11:43 AM
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Please don't tell me you're paying for these dates. Most of the times we split. Some girls if they really like me even offer to pay. I had only one girl which I had to pay for the entire date, ironically was one of my best plates - she was super femine and very submissive. How much money are you spending on dates or just getting girls in general? Very cheap. Drinks and gas. I always offer myself to drive them...well for obvious reasons. How often does sex "just happen" for you? From those 7. I h…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 08:18 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I'm thinking in packing caffeine and phenibut and cut off alcohol completelly. This way I can save money, don't consume useless calories and get a energy kick combined with social relaxation. Most important I won't black out. On a side note what kind of shitty advice is "buy a nice car"? Is this what ASKTRP is becoming?! - Alpha wannabes giving useless advice? Makes it hard to take this sub seriously. Anyway would love hearing some actual advice from serious members on this…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 02:40 PM
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For the guys on here who have slept around with at least 20 different women or well above that in their entire lives My notch count is only 9 and I'm 28 years old. Until very recently my notch count was only two (been in a LTR for 9 years). However I got better at this and had 7 plates in the past 6 months and several make ups (around 20 I guess). From my personal experience and observations what helped me: Maximizing looks. Went from 25% to 16% body fat and gain some muscle definition. Dressing…
/r/askTRP07/03/16 10:29 AM
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How about a proper cut? Calorie deficit, low carb and strength training?
/r/askTRP03/03/16 11:54 PM
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Found about red pill a year ago. Haven't cried in 15 months. Last time I cried was when my ex of 9 years dumped me. I cried like a baby in front of her, hell she cried a lot too. After this episode I just can't cry. I really think I just internalized everything is temporary.
/r/askTRP03/03/16 02:32 PM
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I have been in a LTR for 9 years (from my 18 to 27) and been single for year and a half. The way I see it a LTR can be good if you satisfy two requisites: The girl must have a relative high SMV, for example if you're a 8 she's a 7 (minimum). The girl must be really crazy about you. If you've satisfy those two requisites and apply TRP you're good. However being in a LTR is generally bad: You get lazy. You don't have motivation to be better. She has advantage in the sexual market. Guys will hit on…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 12:17 PM
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You want to lose your V-card in a first time going to a club? Don't pressure on yourself! Patiente is a virtue. Just have fun.
/r/askTRP20/02/16 09:22 PM
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Being good in bed is overated. If a woman is highly attracted to you then you just have to do your job! Her pleasure derives mostly by the fact she is fucking a high status male. To some extent is the same in men. Imagine two girls - A and B. You're very attracted to girl A and you're not very attracted to girl B. Girl A may be technical inferior than girl B but sex will be way better with girl A. Personally I had girls saying I fuck really good. But I'm aware this is the result of my pre-sex ga…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:18 PM
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Women are designed by nature to feel a strong urge to be associated to a high status male. Women have less muscle mass and are shorter than men. The average man is way much stronger than the average women. Men also have better spatial awareness (hunting) and strategical thinking. Is obvious why a woman feels the urge to be always in a relationship. They innately need a man to protect them. I would say the main goal of women is to get man. Not any man, a high status male tha can protect, provide …
/r/askTRP17/02/16 02:26 PM
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If it was me I would mentally check out of the relationship. Like I said before - focus on improving yourself. Focus on making new friends and game other girls. She'll eventually get the vibe that you aren't needy and probably she'll resume her respect for you. If she doesn't, end the relationship and believe me - better ones will come if you work for it. The questions is - do you want to be the guy that worries to death at home while your girlfriend is (maybe) being fucked hardcore on a night o…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:45 PM
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Hard next for sure! I'm a firm believer of being persistent but in this case you'll be better if you just leave it. Lost case IMO. You must increase your SMV. Game another girls. If she contacts you I would text for about 5 minutes then try to set a date, if she doesn't show any interest in going to a date go hard next forever.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:48 AM
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Imagine the roles were reversed. You had some party saturday night with your friends and you know some hot girls would be there. What would you do? Stay with your girlfriend or go to the party? If you choose to chill with your girlfriend it means two things: You prefer to spent time with her than to party AND you respect her because you're afraid of her leaving you if you go to the party. By going to the party she's already disrespecting you, she ain't afraid of losing you. Redpill 101 - A woman…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:38 AM
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The best body for picking girls is low body fat (around 8-12%) and some muscle! Why? Most guys underestimate the importance of low body fat, but here's way low body fat is a must for almost every man: Face -> Your face will be more defined and attractive. I went from 25% to 16% body fat and female IOI's increased a lot! I'm now trying to get to 8-12% range. V-Shape -> Low body fat makes your belly smaller which acentuates your V-Shape torso. Abs Muscle definition Low body fat is a must for almos…
/r/askTRP26/01/16 06:19 PM
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Great comment! By indulging in short term pleasures like porn, eating crapy food, watching mindless TV you're ruining your long term happiness. In my early twenties I focused in short term pleasure I thought I was living life. I was fooling myself as I slowly became a weak boy with a belly beer. The highest point of my suffering was when my ex-LTR dumped me. At that point all the short term pleasures activities I did in the past worth nothing. My self-esteem was low as fuck. There's no reason fo…
/r/askTRP25/01/16 10:18 AM
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I really don't know how many drinks but it's a lot of shots before I black out. I decided to not drink any more shots. I'll stick with beer all night and limit my intake. Yes I think my main problem is associating going out with drinking. Worse, picking girls while drunk. Last year I hooked up with so many girls all because of alcohol. Right now it seems hard to do it without it. My main problem is blacking out. If I mantain a good booze my game is way better. For now I'm thinking in only drink …
/r/askTRP15/01/16 12:08 AM
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