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I am looking for some advice on this situation. I thought this was a platform on which to ask these type questions. I see what you're saying about my backing off, but I assure you, it would've been very ill-timed. You don't attempt to throw game on a girl while she is literally crying tears over her separation from her husband. I used discretion here.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 07:14 AM
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I haven't seen any sort of intelligent responses yet. I'll wait
/r/askTRP06/10/17 05:08 AM
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You wont ever be respected by her again if you take Her back. She may gain small amounts for you over time if you keep working the MRP playbook but she'll never totally respect you. It's just not possible. What she did is inexcusable. And she should NOT be able to run back to you with her tail between her legs and beg for forgiveness and get her old life back. And I say fuck her for even thinking she should be able to. And what makes it worse is you were deathly ill, so what does she do, goes ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 03:15 AM
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I thought the post was great. I've always loved that movie. Had not seen it for a while and about a year after I had been introduced to TRP, the friend of mine who introduced me to TRP told me to go home and watch Fight Club. He said watch it once a day for a week. And some shit will start to sink in. He was right. I view the movie as completetly different now that I've unplugged. It's a BB becoming an AF. There's other details but that's pretty much the gist. The whole thing with Ed Norton not …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 12:19 AM
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I have to disagree with you, Peterson. There's nothing wrong with couples massaging each other. Now if he's doing it constantly for her and he gets nothing in return then Yeh that could be looked at as a beta thing to do. I don't feel like it's fair to say that massaging a woman is strictly a beta thing to do. My wife gets very loose and relaxed with a massage which leads to good sex a large portion of the time. I don't see a problem with using your masculine strength to sooth her and make her f…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 09:47 PM
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Yeh man, you can't let a woman tell you she's had sex and is infact a nympho and then say you can't have sex with her unless you marry her. That sounds like a textbook trap. She's testing the shit out of you right now. Sounds like you failed the first one. But that's ok. You haven't gone past the point of no return yet. Play it cool and confident and make it known that you're not into relationships without sex. I'm assuming you're not.... Don't act mad, just tell her she's not the one for you an…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 01:31 AM
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Well congrats on getting closer to your goals with yourself and your sexual needs. It took me about 2 years to achieve what I wanted. I had about 13 years of beta to make up for. So it was understandable that it took so damn long. I was actually in your same position not too long ago, maybe 2-3 months ago. The first 4-5 years we were together she wouldn't let me cum in her mouth. Then she slowly became ok with it. So that was that for about 6-7 years. I'd been doing TRP and MRP for just short of…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 02:39 AM
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Yeh I suppose so. But what she's saying actually matches up with what she's doing. She WANTS to suck my dick. She's been doing it and doing it very well. She said she didn't want me to cum in her mouth but I just did it anyway. Haha! Now she's taking a stand and saying she's not going to keep doing it if I keep cumming in her mouth. Im standing strong with my view that she's not gonna do it of she's not gonna do it right. But some part of me can't help but feel weird turning down getting my dick…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 06:14 PM
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Yes. The second one. She's been that good many times before. It's nothing too new. She's definitely not being taught by anyone. I've always been able to tell if her heart was in it but usually it's not. And now all of a sudden it is and she wants to take the happy ending away.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 06:00 PM
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I didn't move forward with any sort of expectation either way. I made it clear to her that it was not going to help our relationship at all. That infact she was setting us back a long ways. What she's saying is that she wants to give me badass blowjobs and not let me cum in her mouth until she's ready again. Which for a moment I actually considered doing but I was like, FUCK THAT. I can't even enjoy it if she's gonna pull out and jerk it off. She knows that and she's just trying to toy with me. …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 05:36 PM
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i didn't do anything to be unattractive. I don't understand your reply.... And by the way, I had no idea you had youtube videos Prof. I started watching them last night. Very good stuff. I'll be watching those over the next few weeks for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 05:12 PM
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Well this just sucks. No pun intended. I had a fucking horrible experience last night that was very similar but not quite the same thing. I don't post here much but I got on here this morning to post a question about my situation and looks like someone beat me to the punch. Haha! The situation is this, me and my wife have been together for 15 years. The first 5-6 years she didn't want me to cum in her mouth. So I didnt. Then she started doing it and it became a given that she was going to. She's…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 04:38 PM
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Man this post is solid gold to me. You put it in a way that makes so much sense. Sometimes I find one of my problems is I can be on the ball for days or even weeks and sometimes my inspiration and motivation run out. All I have to do is get on here and find a solid post (like this one) and it picks me right back up. I've saved this post and I'm going to ready it every day when I wake up to remind me of the track I need to be on. Hopefully I can be on the right track long enough that I won't need…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/15 04:54 PM
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I don't think that alorian is scared. Seems to me like he's just playing it smart. No one runs home and says " look honey I found something called TRP and its going to help us get back to the way things used to be!" Im a firm believer in not revealing my/your playbook. That's just foolish. TRP is like a magic trick, very wowing to people who don't know how you did it but when they find out then it really takes the air out of it. A very successful businessman once said "I have 2 secrets to succes…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/15 08:02 PM
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I like this post. It's a very good reminder to me personally. I've made a hell of a lot of changes in myself and household and I see a lot changes in my wife's actions being much more respectful to me. I do sometimes forget to reward that good behavior with a nice compliment here and there. Thanks esired
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 02:16 AM
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Thanks man. I appreciate it.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:40 PM
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Thank you sir. I felt like it did the situation justice.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:01 PM
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Very nice responses. Thanks
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:00 PM
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Ha! Yeh it is like that. I try to get others to join. Of course no one does because they say it's too strenuous. Then they go pick up some McDonalds and go home and watch video games. Maybe one day they'll wake up. Probably not but there's always a chance. Several of these people I speak of are the people I've tried to get to swallow the pill and they all rejected it. So I don't even bother trying to get through to them anymore. If they can't see truth right up in their face then I just can't he…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:00 PM
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Ummm no. I don't need permission for anything. I've come way out of my beta shell for a long time now. But even still it's not a good idea for your wife or girlfriend to know about TRP. Even the mods say that shit. It's not about me caring about whether she likes it or not. If she finds out about TRP then it kind of ruins the whole thing. It's like having a great magic trick, once she knows how you're doing it then it really takes the air out of it. Are you married? If so does your wife know abo…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:35 PM
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Hell yes!! I go to Crossfit 3-4 days a week. Don't know if you've heard of it. But it's a kickass workout! I can't really listen to it while I do that. But I can find time with audiobooks. That's a great idea. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/11/15 01:27 PM
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Honestly man, it depends on your crowd, what sort of chick it is, how perverted is the joke, and most importantly HOW you tell it and are you attractive. Low SMV guys telling nasty ass perverted jokes is creepy. But if you take a cut ass lean mother fucker and get him to tell the joke the results may be a little different. As for how dirty the joke is, if it ends with some sort of throat fucking and a cum bath then you wanna be very careful telling that joke around women, regardless of SMV. If i…
/r/askTRP06/11/15 06:59 AM
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I'm with mediamole. I have to support any article that tells women to fuck their husbands. But I think the problem is if they start doing it they're gonna stop pretty soon for the same reasons they stopped to begin with. The inspiration she gets from the article (if any) will wear off soon enough. Not a bad post though. I sent the article to my wife. Haha! Hell if I can get laid once off of it it will be worth it.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 10:47 PM
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Yes that's exactly what it will do to you. It makes you get so adjusted to that diet and if you break it to eat fried chicken or pizza or a pasta dish or such, you not only feel guilty for having eaten that food but it makes your body feel like total shit. So then you have negative mental and physical affects from the food. You have to choose your restaurants really carefully too, not all restaurants have a decent low carb selection.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 02:07 AM
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I understand that. The one here in my town is $75 for 1 person and an additional $25 for each additional member. Not so bad for our budget. I can only go 3-4 days a week. My body won't allow more than that because I'm pretty sore all the time. But I agree a regular gym is way cheaper. My old regular gym was only $30 a month.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 02:02 AM
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Commenting on the subject of dieting, a low carb diet works very well. I lost 90 pounds in 6 months doing a 30 carb or less a day diet. Meat, green vegetables, cheese and eggs. That was about it. It's hard to stay loyal to but it can change you into a new person if you stick to it. Also would like to say suggest a Crossfit gym instead of a regular gym. That is of course if you have one in your area. Look into it or look it up online. Crossfit is a very intense workout with a combination of cardi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 11:28 PM
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Yeah i noticed that aspect of it too. He should've obviously said no in the first place. I think the story has several points actually. That's just one of them.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/15 07:20 AM
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So is the point of the story that she was God in the first place?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 01:54 AM
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Thanks beans for being supportive. I know the post was a mess and I'll take more time to make it better in the future. You were the only person who had anything positive to say. I understand why some responses are harsh but it seems to me like too many people on here take a little too much pride in being a total dick to people without reason. I guess different approaches get through to different people in different ways. Anyhow, thanks for being supportive and I hope you do well on your journey …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/10/15 01:26 AM
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You're right. I just never expected an assault on how it was written. But I see your point. Thanks for your help. I apologize for calling you a cocksucker, i was just pissed off. I'll take more pride in how I present my posts in the future. Thank you sir.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 05:48 PM
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Ahhh. Just forget it. I never thought a bunch of guys would be so hung up on grammar or format. As if that were the only thing to comment on. I don't even care anymore, the post was removed so there's 2 hours i won't be getting back. Thanks to the few people who actually got to read the fucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 03:06 PM
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You're the second person to comment on the b. Jesus Christ. Ok, I get it. I simply don't see it as being a big deal. And I did say that we don't use drugs anymore. And I am on the road to taking other substances out of my life. Do you seriously have nothing else to contribute to the post? Guess no one else will get to comment on it either. I'm fairly certain it got removed. Another big thank you to the RP community. Thanks for your input, for what it's worth.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 05:23 AM
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That's a very good point. I ask myself that sometimes. And my goal is to get clean and figure that out. We don't do any drugs anymore. And all we ever did was the exstasy and that was rare. Maybe once or twice a year. But the alcohol has got to go.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:47 AM
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Yes I thought someone may think that. But she was already pregnant and we didn't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 04:43 AM
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That's fucking brilliant. That's exactly the kind of feedback people on here need. Correcting the the way they type. I hope this sub fills up with more cocksuckers like yourself. You're the real MVP
/r/MarriedRedPill28/10/15 03:31 AM
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Yeh yeh I get all that. Let's not make this post about me. And just focus on the issue at hand shall we.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 04:36 PM
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If I thought for a moment she was lying I wouldn't still b here.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 07:18 AM
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My gut and everything else tells me she's not lying to me. Maybe u can't tell when someone lies to u, but I can. U can take that or leave it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 07:16 AM
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I too was in a very similar situation. Although my wife didn't cheat on me with a woman, she asked me for PERMISSION to have a same sex experience. We were on ecstasy at the time and it was hard to process so I didn't really get to think about it logically until the next day. But when I did confront her about it the next day I was sad angry disappointed, u name it. I told her that under no circumstances was that ok to do and if she ever brought it up or hinted at it or did it I'd b out the door …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 01:26 AM
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I can appreciate what your saying. I personally dont let someone call me a bitch and have nothing to say about it. Thats just not who i am. I actually think u r right about my behavior. I just didnt appreciate your use of words. As far as the side bar material on MRP goes, it all trying to get me to buy books. Theres very little available info right there. I cant get these books and read them without her knowing im reading them and that takes away from the secrecy of what im trying to do. Ive be…
/r/askTRP14/03/15 10:44 PM
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Show a little respect to your fellow man and keep the "bitches" to yourself. Theres really no need to insult me to give me advice. Makes u look like a weak bitch tbh. Deuces ✌️
/r/askTRP14/03/15 02:20 AM
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Nice story. I like that. Funny too. And yes, i do. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 03:36 AM
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Started about 6 months ago. And yes i work out. Im actually at the parking lot of the gym now. Ive lost over 100pds in the last year or so. So i was workin on getting into shape before TRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:16 AM
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Yes i did start acting differently all of a sudden. But its slowly grown more and more over the last 5-6 months. Yes i have somewhat of a life outside her and the pregnancy but not a big one. I go out every now and again. Not a lot of friends to do shit with. They've all moved away or died. Why rub her back to begin with? Well, just cause she was in pain. She has a spot on her back thats always hurting her. So i felt it was a nice thing to do to help her with that. Its just getting old cause i g…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 02:14 AM
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Im going to negotiate this. We'll c how it plays out. I'll keep u updated.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 01:29 AM
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Very positive response. Thanks. I needed that. 👍
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:52 PM
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It just seems to me that while a girl is pregnant, its not the worst idea to cater to her a little more than she caters to u. It is after all a stressful experience for her and i get that. I dont even have to have a bj for every back rub. But the ratio is WAY out of whack. And thats what pisses me of about the whole thing.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 10:50 PM
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I guess. 50 back rubs may return 1 unemotional bj. Or i may not even get that. Cause like i said, she doesn't believe thats a fair trade.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:42 PM
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I am working hard on myself. I go to the gym and have weights at home. Also doing sit-ups and push ups etc. u r right tho, soon there wont b any time. This will b our second child. And last!! Im fuckin done having kids. I didnt want to have this one. But she wanted a second and was gonna b miserable the rest of her life without it so i said ok. Plus we agreed a long time ago that we would have 2 kids. So im just living up to my word.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:03 PM
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I go to marriedRP as well. But when i want to post a question i come to askTRP. If u think thats a better place for this question ill post it there as well. Ty
/r/askTRP08/01/15 09:00 PM
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I agree. But all this im trying to incorporate into my life at the moment is just shitty timing i guess. I gotta just wait till the baby is here and let her get back to normal.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:59 PM
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Soooooo, u dont think i should rub her back because shes in pain? Or r u saying i should have and it would have avoided the entire situation from the beginning.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:56 PM
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Yes i agree. But she's always miserable and complaining about pain and wanting to sleep. If i make any sort of move in that direction she just asks for a back rub. So i actually try not to b too touchy feely with her cause i dont want her to ask me to rub her back. For fuck sakes my hands cant take anymore! Im thinkin maybe rub her back and get her relaxed and then maybe sex but NO!! Not happening. Ill rub around downt here or anywhere i know gets her going and what do i get, nothing. She just l…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:53 PM
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Im with u. :)
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:47 PM
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I know right! What a crock of shit. But she feels that its my fault cause i dont initiate sex with her. And i dont because shes always miserable and not in a good mood. Let alone, in the mood for sex.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:47 PM
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I thought about that. And i just responded with the one text. And after that she actually got out of the bed and came and talked to me. Started telling me about what was different with me when we first got together and now. Basically that i dont care about seeing her or being around her. Which to some degree is true. Cause we've both been pretty distant for a long time.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:46 PM
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Ive actually done that. And she says that she's not willing to trade bjs for back rubs. That thats not fair to her cause i havent been making her cum. I'm not very good at it. And THAT is a huge part of our problems to begin with. But i agree with your way of thinking.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:44 PM
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Thank you. I do feel like im expected to give way more. But at the same time i feel like i should because of the pregnancy. Maybe im just being selfish.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:42 PM
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I agree. I did pick a bad time. Im gonna cut back a little on the alpha shit until a little after the baby is born. She isn't in the right frame of mind to respond well to my new actions.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 08:40 PM
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How am i being alpha with her: i dont ask anything anymore really. I just say i want something a certain way or that im gonna do something and do it. I need no sort of permission. I look her dead in the eye while talking to her. Ive been keeping very calm and being "the rock" in stressful situations, as opposed to always losing my cool. I used to do that constantly. If i say no about something i dont let her pull that whiny emotional shit to get her way. And she's really dumbfounded when i do. T…
/r/askTRP01/11/14 03:33 PM
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Thats what im doing now. Acting like im single and doing what i want. Pretending that im jumping back into the sexual market. We have a weird history as well. She used to babysit me ffs. This relationship is the most odd and rarely circumstantial ive ever come across.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:41 AM
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That in itself is a bit of a problem for me. I cum kinda fast. Shes not able to get what she wants because of this. And its a huge fuckin problem that i cant help. I dont know what to do about it. Ive tried all kinda of weird shit. Nothing works. I just pop!! And its not even enjoyable because i know im letting her down. And its a fuckin shitty endless loop. And i get pissed about it every day.
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:32 AM
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I confronted her about everything. She said my friend was full of shit. He was fucked up and misread the situation. Looked me in my eye and assured me that she had never ever tried to get with him. And would b willing to have a face to face with him in front of me. The guy was on acid for one thing. This is a face verified by him. I know what sceptical minds r thinking, shes full of shit. But i know her for a long time. Shes being truthful. As for the matter of the girl, she admitted that for a …
/r/askTRP27/10/14 06:27 AM
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I posted this last night. And last night after i posted this, i talked to a friend of mine, turns out my wife tried to fuck a friend of mine 8 years ago and he wouldnt do it. It all surfaced last night when he and i talked on the phone. I think i may have to b done. And to top it all off, she recently confided in him that she was in love with a girl who is a friend of ours. And doesnt know what to do about it cause shes never felt this way about anyone before. Thats what she told him. I dont thi…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 05:42 PM
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Ive tried to get her to come work out with me she went once and just wasnt feelin it. Ive tried to press her to do it but she just wont give in. It like, ultimately she doesnt gaf. I think she feels like "the show is already sold out forever". Im starting to think that dread game is the correct shoe here. BUT!! Shes 4 months pregnant. Seems like a fucked up time to run dread game or make her feel worried about the future. After all this is something we did together and i stand by what ive done. …
/r/askTRP26/10/14 10:11 AM
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Very funny myoba. I actually already read that post. I thought it was good.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 08:06 AM
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I thank u both for your advice. U really reinforced what i was thinking. That was my first response was to stay strong. I wanted to have some positive reinforcement to push me along. Also, i have been on a low carb diet (30carbs or less a day) for about 2 months. I was off of it for a while and went on and off for about 8-9 months. But before that i was on it hardcore with gym activity and i lost 100 pds in 6 months. I weighed 382 pds. I was fuckin big. Looking back, it was disgusting. Im so hap…
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:59 AM
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