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Yeah. I’ve spent years reading. I know all the theory. I logically know exactly what I need to do. I’ve overcome more physical fear in my life than I ever thought I would. I’ve had the shit kicked out of me, I’ve been left by myself in the woods, I’ve felt like I was drowning, I’ve been in open water miles from anything, I’ve come closer to actual death than I’d ever imagined, I’ve had close friends die doing what I do every day, and yet I’m brought to my knees by another human being that I’ve c…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 04:17 PM
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Yeah. And logically I absolutely know that. Talking to my psychologist about it in depth we both suspect there’s some degree of BPD at play here. I’m just so fucking conditioned to respond to it it’s really difficult to break the cycle.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 12:25 PM
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Maybe slightly less of a train wreck than last week because I’m not actively trying to put a bullet in my face. We’ll see.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 12:19 PM
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We’ll call this OYS 2 for all practical purposes. 6’1 215 sub 10. Married 7 years currently separated. I left this weekend to go back to my home town to clear my head. Turned my phone off for long periods of time to just disengage. Those periods felt amazing. Unfortunately the fallout from that was my wife calling and texting everyone I know asking if I was alive or if I’d killed myself because I was out of communication for 12 hours overnight. Getting back yesterday hit me like a ton of bricks.…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 09:27 PM
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I don’t cycle I’m just on TRT, I used to run cycles but found it wasn’t worth all the bullshit. I don’t really like to talk specifically about my employment here because it’s a small community, I’m in the military and I have medical requirements that are extremely strict, that being said what they don’t know they don’t know and testing isn’t rigorous. I think what gives me most pause is just that I think so much of my depression is situational. If I’m honest with myself I’ve kept myself locked i…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 06:42 PM
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I’m doing the therapy route. Meds are harder due to my job but if I can get T off the books I’m sure I can get a fucking SSRI if I really try. Thank you for the reply. I really appreciate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 03:33 PM
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You’re right. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 03:32 PM
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I appreciate it man. Honestly I do this with my job as well as my hobbies. I’ve always enjoyed doing dangerous things but I’ve gotten to the point where I volunteer for the dangerous shit because I’m like fuck it whatever. I just don’t want that to bleed out to the point where I’m being reckless or putting anyone else’s life in danger. Thank you for clicking the button and replying.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/05/21 03:32 PM
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31 6’1” 215 BF is very low, lifts are good. Married 7 years, no kids Everything is fucked. Things haven’t been going well for years. I got the wake up call 4 years ago and got on the gym train hard as well as unfucking my brain, reading, getting hobbies, all the shit. The brain aspect was always lip service, I don’t think I was ever truly independent or where I needed to be but I told myself I was because everything else was good. I was surface level killing it but dying beneath the surface. I’v…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/21 07:31 PM
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OYS #2: 30s. 6'1 220lbs, Married 6. No kids. Reading: Rereading everything. Currently NMMNG deep dive. Lifts: Bench press is almost to 4 plates. Foot is healed, I can squat and DL again. Career: I've made some progress here. I have my eye on several positions down the road that make more sense for who I am and what I believe my life purpose/mission to be. I am an extremely goal oriented person so the only way to steady my mind is to have a target to aim at, having this somewhat come into focus h…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/20 10:16 PM
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Excellent points. I’m about halfway through my deep dive re-read of NMMNG and I think your bit about habit is spot on. When I read the concepts I’m like well yeah, duh, but when I objectively look at my behavior I’m still going through the motions that reinforced how I used to think, and still do on a more latent level. I think the most resounding bit was the on about the fear of being alone and loneliness and falling back on addictive behaviors to relieve it. I crave human interaction and when …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 10:30 AM
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I genuinely appreciate the effort. You’re probably right. It’s hard to isolate a variable like that when my own bullshit is causing such a disruption to begin with.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 10:07 AM
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Yeah, I mean she definitely drives the show on that, I wouldn’t have them if she didn’t get enjoyment out of the social proof of it all. It’s not to say I don’t also enjoy having people over, but the driving force is probably what she gets out of it, and her explicit requests to do it. She definitely gets high off of people admiring the house we live in etc. It’s funny because so much of it is just below the surface level of consciousness for me. Trying to isolate the why is difficult, because I…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 09:53 AM
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Interesting. I’m probably fucked regardless then but I’ll look into it. I’d say that’s a pretty accurate metaphor. I guess the good part about this last bit is I do have a ton of hobbies and interests, if anything I felt like I’ve repressed my ability to pursue them in catering to my wife’s demands. I do get out of the house at least once a week with a group of people to work our dogs, I’d be lying if I said there weren’t some aspect of owning a dog that can fuck shit up that isn’t tied up in my…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 07:23 PM
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Yeah. That post is spot on me. Purchasing Unchained Man now. I need to do more reading on Frame and try and internalize it and contextualize it better. I’m only just now at the point where I’m actually willing to entertain the nuclear option, which is kind of ridiculous given we have no kids and I’m miserable. I also have some suspicion that she may have BPD so I bought a bunch of reading on that as well although at this point I’m more concerned with unfucking myself than trying to diagnose what…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 05:22 PM
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No kids. I haven’t yet, I probably should. Honestly idgaf financially at this point. She has her own pretty solid income stream and if she wants to take a bunch of my shit, whatever. Most of my assets are guns and cars and shit to maintain and clean those two things. I should probably be looking at this more in depth though as I’m sure there are more pitfalls than I’m anticipating. In the last few weeks I’ve been trying to do more of that. I definitely suffered through some heavy abandonment shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 05:15 PM
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OYS 1 Age: 31 Ht: 6'1 Wt: 215 lbs Wife: 31 Married: 6 Reading: All sidebar material. Currently rereading all the basics (TRM, MAP, NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP.) Physical: Best shape of my life. By far. Hit 375 on my bench press last week. Squat and deadlift are stalled due to injury but should both be over 500 once I recover. Recently started seeing veins on my lower abs so I'd estimate BF is close to 10ish. Work: I have a clear path to 500k a year in ten years, currently over 6 figures, looks good on…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/20 01:17 PM
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Yes. And the dynamic of an online forum dedicated solely to this subject matter promotes that kind of bullshit. In real world leadership roles things have much more nuance. In fairness I don’t think anyone that acts that way actually cares if anyone follows them, but perhaps that’s the problem. I think we should all want men who come here to succeed, regardless of how resistant they are to the hard lessons initially. I have benefitted immensely from mentors telling me to shut the fuck up and sto…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:47 PM
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There’s something to be said for not sugar coating things and providing harsh reality. There are plenty of guys here who get off on this obnoxious e-persona of being a dickhead to everyone though, so I know what you mean. Follow those who walk the walk, not those who talk shit all the time. The excessive energy expenditure required to actively be an asshole to people is indicative of insecurity and a lack of inner peace. Just recognize it for what it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/20 04:35 PM
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Dude. You look like shit, straight up. Don’t bullshit yourself. Not taking anything away from your accomplishments or your post, but your body is soft as fuck and you look like shit. You’re not doing yourself any favors pretending that isn’t the case.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/20 06:56 PM
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What other explanation could there possibly be? This is a stupid question. Just do what you know you need to do, who cares what she says.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/03/20 01:11 PM
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Haha dude, not to make light of your circumstances but holy fuck that’s a hilarious text chain. Please feel confident in the fact that you’re in the right and regardless of what happens you’re better off, because that’s fucking psychotic.
/r/askMRP07/03/20 01:43 PM
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This depends entirely on how you define the term “ego.” In a psychoanalytical context you will never kill it. What’s meant by “kill the ego,” in my interpretation at any rate, is that you’re striving to kill the part of you that seeks external validation in order to derive self worth. You kill the part of you that will rationalize anything you do to preserve the image you have in your head as a perfect being. You accept your imperfections, you embrace your flaws and face them head on. You reject…
/r/askMRP26/02/20 05:03 PM
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Dude. So the fuck what you voted for Trump, stop being a bitch and saying you’re not into politics anymore like you did some sort of grave wrong by voting for who you wanted to fucking vote for, holy shit. Call her back, say MAGA 2020 eat a dick, then wait it out til tomorrow, TRUST ME.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 12:37 AM
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Hahaha no way you’re serious, right?
/r/askMRP05/01/20 10:38 PM
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It’s not an easy process or a simple one or a short one, but recognizing it’s an issue you have is half the battle. It probably took me the better part of 10 years to really correct it in myself, and it’s still a battle.
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:49 PM
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There is no short answer to tell you how to get to know someone deeply enough to intuit their moral code and the degree to which they have the strength and character to adhere to it. It’s worth mentioning that the biological imperatives that govern us can almost always overpower the will of your average human being, so I would say trust can never be complete, which is why you can’t worry yourself excessively over the “what if’s,” she will do what she will do, you just worry about being who you a…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:40 PM
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Too much of your self worth is invested in her then. You are who you are, if she “disrespects” you then she clearly wasn’t worth bothering with anyway, so who the fuck really cares? Why beat yourself up trying to manipulate the actions of someone else when all you have control over is who you are and what you deem worthy of your time and attention?
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:11 PM
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Gay/10
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/19 12:16 PM
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Jesus Christ. Run away, run far far away.
/r/askMRP03/11/19 03:53 AM
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That’s fair, I didn’t read any back story aside from the brief sentence here, none the less I think SSRIs should be a last resort given the potential for permanent side effects, it’s scary shit.
/r/askMRP13/10/19 03:44 PM
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SSRIs are fucking terrible, you are right to be concerned. I got my wife off of them promptly. Massive surprise to no one- me getting my shit together and improving our life negated any semblance of a need for them. Healthy diet, exercise, a healthy sleep cycle, and a healthy and active social life should all be prescribed way before anything that fucks with your brain chemistry.
/r/askMRP13/10/19 03:06 PM
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OYS #4 Sunday 13 Oct STATS Age 30, height 6’1”, weight 219 lbs, BF: let’s be serious, I have no fucking idea, my abs show and I have veins on my delts. LIFTS SQ 405x1 DL 495x1 BENCH 325x2 OHP 225x1. PHYSICAL On a deficit, still increasing max lifts, trying to fight the urge to eat more out of fear of losing mass. The body dysmorphia is real. RELATIONSHIP It's been a good week, always striving to improve though. Less concerned about the relationship and more with myself, my marriage adds a ton of…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/19 03:03 PM
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Whatever you say bud.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 07:03 PM
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Dude. I promise you I’m 1000% more in shape than you and I still don’t talk about myself like this. Wake up. It’s fine to be confident, it’s not fine to tell yourself you don’t need to lift heavy and that you’re already perfect. That leads to the inevitable “I’m not the problem” rationale. Your golden ratio is retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/19 04:55 PM
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Jesus Christ dude this is the most autistic shit I’ve ever encountered. Stop telling yourself the math indicates you’re attractive, just like say that out loud to yourself twenty times.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 09:16 PM
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I think you’re projecting bud. “Yea I ain't denying that. A lot of guys come on here and think it's all about how much you can lift. You can lift all you want, but women are always going to find men who have the golden ratio of 1.618 between shoulder and waist with a V shape to be most desirable.” This is bullshit, that’s what I’m referring to. Relatively speaking the percentage of people who are below 15% is minute. There are a healthy amount of runner types who are low BF and don’t lift weight…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 09:02 PM
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Okay? I don’t care. I’m not overly concerned with how you gender my comments. The point of the post remains valid, and you’re lying to yourself if you think lifting heavy isn’t worth it for you because you measured your shoulders and your waist and calculated that you’re attractive. I don’t particularly care that everyone lies about their BF%, but it’s worth noting the fact for those that think they’re somehow in the minority because they aren’t shredded.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 05:55 PM
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Whatever you say golden ratio.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 12:39 PM
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Oh yeah, big time. It’s just easier to tell yourself you’re killing it and you look great I guess, they’re only lying to themselves and the mirror and their lack of progress will continue to tell them the truth. Golden ratio, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 11:30 PM
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So basically Tom over here is exactly who this thread is talking about. It’s a given on the internet that dudes are gonna lie about both their BF% and their lifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/19 08:56 PM
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Jesus Christ. You don’t defend yourself, you laugh at her because this is fucking retarded. You, presumably, have balls, and thus your legs may fall at a different angle than a woman’s when sitting in order to be comfortable. If my wife ever even said the word “man spreading” in a serious context I would contact a divorce attorney.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/19 05:23 PM
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Well your opsec is pretty shitty because I looked at your post history for half a second and determined you’re probably talking about being a pilot. I am a pilot so I can probably provide you some good insight. Being a dick aside if you want any non public advice feel free to send me a message, I fly military but have plenty of friends in civilian and other spots.
/r/askMRP05/10/19 01:34 PM
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That’s vague as fuck. How bad do you want it? Everyone can’t be everything, but if you want something bad enough you’ll find a way to at least touch it. Given the wealth of detail you’ve provided I can’t really delve deeper, but plenty of people told me I’d never do what I do now, and that it was a pipe dream of a career. The difference between me and them is I just kept pushing. I’m also not in astrophysics and thus I don’t feel I was exceeding my own intellectual limits, and I had a fair bit o…
/r/askMRP05/10/19 12:36 PM
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OYS #3 Tue 1st Oct STATS Age 30, height 6’1”, weight 222 lbs, BF: let’s be serious, I have no fucking idea, my abs show and I have veins on my delts. LIFTS SQ 405 1RM DL 405x9 BENCH 325x2 OHP 205 1RMish, I try not to push it as I’ve dislocated my shoulder too many times. PHYSICAL 5ish weeks into a cut/recomp. Dropped 8 lbs or so and increased all my max lifts. Briefly tried the famous Tren Ace diet and determined it wasn’t for me as it makes me hypo as fuck. I could deal with the other sides but…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 12:16 AM
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It works really well for some guys. I personally need my carbs. Get your eating under control and start actually tracking calories and macros before you try something that extreme. It requires a high level of baseline self discipline to be sustainable. Losing weight is the simplest thing in the world, I’ve never understood the motivation to complicate it.
/r/askMRP29/09/19 02:17 PM
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OYS #2 29 YO. 6'1" 215 lbs. BF%: low AF. Married 5 years. Health/Fitness Started doing 20 minutes of stretching every day to alleviate injuries. Been extremely consistent with lifting and diet, although I'm a bit free form on both. I have no structured plan, I tend to tailor every workout to how I'm recovering from the day prior, probably not ideal if I were trying to crush maxes, but my focus has shifted to primarily aesthetics and I'm happy with progress on that front. Also started reading the…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/19 12:39 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 6'1". 220 lbs. 29 years old, married for 5 years. B: 275 x 5 S:405 x 3 D: 455 x 2. BF%: https://ibb.co/93PmMnY (I'm not paying for a bodpod and I'm not gonna give you some bullshit caliper measurement. Reading: NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, BPPs SLSM, MAP, TRM, WOTSM, SGM, 48 Laws of Power, 40% of The Unchained Man currently. Background: Back in 2011 I meet my wife. At the time I was at the peak of game and was becoming quite prolific in terms of my ability to pull women, however I was 11…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/19 12:30 AM
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