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| 28 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned. | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 08:19 PM | |
| 21 | Seddit, Im a black guy... | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 02:14 PM | |
| 9 | Thanks r/seduction, Im finally doing it! But it figures that just when I start making progress in PUA my ex-girlfriend wants me back... | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:13 AM | |
| 5 | Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game. | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 03:58 AM | |
| 3 | [FR] Model Competition in NYC | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 12:33 PM | |
| 2 | Guy picks up a girl at the beach using a RC truck. Friggin amazing. (from r/video) | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 26/08/11 04:20 PM | |
| 0 | Redditor, farfaraway tells about his ballsiest pick-up line. | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 27/05/10 05:56 PM | |
| 0 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move? | CarterCool | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 03:53 PM |
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| 1 | [FR] Model Competition in NYCI assume lots of hot girls? Yes. Did you try to talk to anyone else? No. What was the age range and any details of the event? 18-35. | /r/seduction | 18/11/11 06:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Model Competition in NYCYeah its over, it was last Saturday. | /r/seduction | 16/11/11 06:12 PM |
| 4 | First [FR] First Approach (After Class) (Failure)You approached. Win. On to the next one. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 07:47 PM |
| 11 | How do I get this one girl? This is how.Indeed. But partly because we thought maybe...just maybe...there was newfound teaching on the subject. | /r/seduction | 22/09/11 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Taking advantage of being black.Sup Bro. For reference | /r/seduction | 15/08/11 03:51 PM |
| 1 | How to phrase shitExample? Edit: Nevermind, several examples noted below. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 07:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.Is it? Oh shit, I guess it kinda is. Thanks, that actually made me smile. | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 11:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.Forgot to mention that the reason she was in pain is because she has some sort of heart condition. Not necessarily life threatening or anything just fucks with her sometimes. I read what I wrote and realized someone might think; WTF is wrong with that chick? | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 02:55 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.How I picked up this girl in particular might be an interesting FR all in itself. The short version is that I was driving down the street towards my place and I spotted her walking. I had a hunch she was in the beginning of a long walk, not just one of those short walks up the block or whatever. Anyways just as I was thinking of pulling up next to her to offer a ride she drops down to one knee and starts holding her chest as if shes in pain. Im pulling up behind her on the opposite side of the s… | /r/seduction | 25/07/11 03:02 AM |
| 6 | A neat idea (I think): a grading rubric for self-evaluation of seduction/PUA skillsRight? The type of comment I read and think to myself "damn, wish I could reason and articulate that well". Im going to follow this guy. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Mini [FR], question about a state blowout, high fives are awesome.Run into them later on the street, change targets to brunette 7. Going well, they want to get pizza, I'm dieting so I don't want to go, I ask HB7 for her digits overtly and all 3 girls just laugh and say "didn't you just ask HB6 for her number, what is this, you desperate". How to change targets effectively, this is something Ive yet to figure out myself. Curious, when you say "they want to get pizza", did they invite you or did it come up in conversation that that's what they were about to do? … | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 08:47 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A bad Saturday turns into a great Saturday. Includes TL:DR and lessons learned.Yeah, was a very interesting day. Im not usually one to post field reports but the entire day seemed like it deserved documentation. | /r/seduction | 24/07/11 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Are you an INTJ pua? How did you become awesome?One of my favorite Seddit contributors is an INTJ. | /r/seduction | 02/12/10 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How to open a random HB walking purposefully down the street?CarterCool checking in from White Plains. Count me in. | /r/seduction | 16/11/10 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Cute girl in the library sitting across from me, what do I do?I can't find the courage to do this. Because you're looking for it. Don't look, jump. | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Full close via OkCupid.My feelings are in conflict about this post. One the one hand Im happy to hear you "fucked the police". On the other Im disappointed that in doing so you sacrificed the trust of a long term relationship. But hey, who am I to judge? | /r/seduction | 02/11/10 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Sedditor LocatorFinally a PUA from Fairfield County. | /r/seduction | 26/10/10 10:12 AM |
| 2 | Sedditor LocatorConnecticut | /r/seduction | 22/08/10 07:17 AM |
| 2 | How did the book "The Game : penetrating the secret society of pickup" transform your life ?After reading it made me do exactly what you are doing right now. Fast forward about 8 months and Im pretty damn happy with the change in perspective and direction in my social life with girls. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How to find smart AND hot girls?Subtle. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 11:24 PM |
| 5 | How to find smart AND hot girls?Right. Ideally every pickup situation should be win-win. Instead of going out of his way to environments or scenes that he doesn't like, the OP should explore what comes to him naturally. Opera not your thing? Ok, dont go sarging there. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 06:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "Lunch" with Coffee GirlAs PUA's we tend to not immediately take the beaten path. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 05:33 PM |
| 2 | How to find smart AND hot girls?Lectures is a good idea. I might use that one myself. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 05:09 PM |
| 1 | How to find smart AND hot girls?The OP asks where he can find them, hence he is not satisfied with his current selection. This does not infer that he isn't smart and attractive, nor would that be totally relevant to his objective. He simply needs to "go to where the buffalo roam". Once he's in the midst of the type of girls he is looking for, then he can start using value to his advantage. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 05:05 PM |
| 12 | How to find smart AND hot girls?Location Location Location. To a degree, intelligence is relative. A girl that is knowledgeable in one subject might be a dunce in another. So... Figure out the sort of smart you're looking for. Figure out where that sort of places that sort of girl frequents. Go to those locations and be prepared to kick game. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 04:51 PM |
| 12 | How to find smart AND hot girls?While its true that smart girls do frequent bars/clubs, in my opinion its much more difficult to discover them as such in those settings. The context of bars/clubs is one of fantasy. A fantasy that promotes the aesthetic over the astute. So the smart girls will be in "party mode" and not their usual character. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Newb here, require helpPosted twice? | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Hopefully this will put your anxiety in perspectiveI respectfully disagree with your analogy. When parents tell their children that, its an attempt at comparison. Here the objective is perspective. Perspective: 1) a way of regarding situations or topics etc. 2) the appearance of things relative to one another as determined by their distance from the viewer. | /r/seduction | 10/08/10 04:37 PM |
| 4 | Hopefully this will put your anxiety in perspectiveCorrect. Now when you make that choice, act like you didnt. Go. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 09:30 PM |
| 8 | Hopefully this will put your anxiety in perspectiveGentlemen, the Normandy landings. Today, tonight, tomorrow, this weekend...when your approach anxiety kicks in and you're concerned with getting shot down, perhaps this image will put things in a beneficial perspective. You see, this image captured the view of the Allied Force's young and inexperienced soldiers first moments stepping off troop transports right into engagement on Omaha Beach. Omaha Beach was the most heavily fortified beach of the operation, with high bluffs defended by funneled … | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 02:20 PM |
| 2 | What's one thing you've learned (A-ha moment) that pushed your learning curve way up?Mine was to treat my noob approach anxiety like the outcome didnt matter. | /r/seduction | 09/08/10 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Someone downvoted you, wasnt me. I see some truth in your first statement that some topics shouldnt be made with women I just met. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Haha. Went with your advice. Updated. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?I see. You make a good point. Then I need to work on adjusting my text game. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?b) then i misread your statement of "I wont lie, I nearly jumped out of my chair" in your OP as being keen. sure did sound like that tho... I was elated because her texting me out of nowhere was a fruit of labor from months ago. That night I was just done reading PU material for the first time and was just trying to get over approach anxiety. So to have actually reached that goal and surpass it months later was exciting for me. Its like being a fattie, doing something about it, losing tons of we… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?I realize thats what she was trying to figure out. Ignore that test though is something Ive noticed girls are very perceptive to. In their minds if you ignore that, then you have something to hide. Especially given that we were at the end of our convo and giving our goodnight speeches, a response was definitely necessary in my opinion. But, obviously for this particular girl it might have been the wrong one. I wont be inviting her out anytime soon because shes 7 hours away. For right now Im only… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?1) It bothered me a little that night but at the time. However, I had just finished reading PUA material for the first time and was forcing myself to make approaches. When I did make approaches and they would go well, like this one did, I wasnt too concerned about closing. So basically, at the time failure in any format was ok with me, my focus was getting over approach anxiety. Actually I remember now why I didnt ask her for HER number. Her mother was there. Ill explain in the thread with an ed… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?You may be over analyzing the situation. Im a hard-core INTP, forgive me. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?She had a good sense of humor for the entire convo, until right there. Like someone else said, if she doesnt have the sense of humor for that joke then shes not my type. But a part of me is wondering if she is just flipping it right back on me to see how Id react only to tell me SHE was joking too. Its happened. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Why did she have your number instead of you having hers? Like I said, I dont remember exactly why I didnt get her number in exchange but thats just how it went down. Thats what led to the over qualification in the form of unsettling jest. It kept her very much in the frame of the chooser, the selector Im going to have to disagree here. At the moment that it happened, the exchange of contact info, that might have been true. But when 3 months pass and she reopens the way she did, she put me in the… | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Honestly, even if I thought the joke was fine, I'd still apologize for not considering she might not appreciate it. Agreed. Ill go ahead and apologize then. And I know what you mean with the passive aggressive apology, I try to never do that. You think there should be a certain timing to the apology or should I just go in? Damn, Im asking you a lot of questions but I appreciate your explanations thus far. Very enlightening. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?Ok cool. But what if I dont actually feel bad for having said it. Like you said, I shouldnt apologize because I wouldnt mean it, right? | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?a) Maybe Im stubborn but I would repeat that joke. Funny or not I was going for a reaction. The sort of girl that I like, wouldnt take offense to it so Im gonna go ahead and maintain my frame on this one. Ive heard that joke delivered before and its fine. b) I never said I was looking for a long distance girlfriend here. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Then she says, "It wasnt funny at all you made me feel bad" - Seddit, whats my next move?When you say dont apologize more than once you mean for one particular faux pas, right? Im sure you dont mean over the course of a period of time only issue one apology no matter what. | /r/seduction | 07/08/10 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I specialize in seduction using OKCupid, which I really love. Let's make this an AMA thread and also if there's any others of you out there, let's share tips.But what about when youve been talking via inbox messaging, not the IM chat, how do you get her email or phone number from there? | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 07:22 PM |
| 2 | I specialize in seduction using OKCupid, which I really love. Let's make this an AMA thread and also if there's any others of you out there, let's share tips.Ive been getting a consistent amount of responses, the hard part for me is transistioning from the communicating on okcupid to communicating via email or phone. The 2x times it has happened so far it was the girl who made the offer to exchange numbers. How do you go about it? That is, getting off-okcupid communication. | /r/seduction | 14/07/10 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game.To me, that guy in Office Space IS alpha. And you're right, that is the attitude I want. Im not a book jockey, I definitely put in practice too. However I like to have something to actually practice. The advice and material like whats being suggested, including yours, is what gives me a starting point. | /r/seduction | 08/07/10 08:34 PM |
| 1 | A few things I learned that might help beginnersDetails? | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game.This is interesting. Im not even sure how to respond without being victim to the inevitable irony. | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game.Saw that. Actually what motivated me to post this. | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 12:40 PM |
| 1 | A few things I learned that might help beginnersWhats the furthest you've closed within these 600 approaches? | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, please provide me with material related to being a man, alpha-male, and/or inner game.I have audio portions of this program. Yes, definitely the type of material Im looking for. | /r/seduction | 07/07/10 05:55 AM |
| 7 | Seeing the Social Matrix and BeyondBoxing. I'm beginning to understand why boxing is called the sweet science. Over the weekend while working on mitts my trainer was breaking down to me different things about movement and technique in the ring. It gave me a complete paradigm shift. So now when I when Im watching a boxing match I see two human chess players as opposed to two guys slugging it out. | /r/seduction | 30/06/10 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Chick crack?Thanks for putting me on to Kokology. How exactly have you used this in the field? | /r/seduction | 28/05/10 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Thanks r/seduction, Im finally doing it! But it figures that just when I start making progress in PUA my ex-girlfriend wants me back...Might not mean anything to you but for my own sake this deserved to said: I originally down-voted your comment, mainly because I didnt like the idea of you questioning my manhood. Not to mention I didnt have my mind set on getting back with her. I eventually did though, absolutely regret it now and here I am 9 days later to admit defeat. You were right brother. I do need to grow a pair. And I will. | /r/seduction | 27/05/10 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Long bus rides?Im going to go ahead and borrow that tic-tac-toe bit and use it as an opener in similar and not so similar situations. | /r/seduction | 25/05/10 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Long bus rides?Im picturing a demotivational poster that says "PUA, its how I met your mother". But seriously, did your father plan it out that way or did the logic become apparent in hindsight? | /r/seduction | 25/05/10 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Gentlemen, I believe it's all about standards and goals. Agree or disagree?I like this post and I agree with most of what you said. Making your own choices and living up to your own ideals will make you stronger and give you more personality. If you are living by your own standards, and not achieving your goals, then your standards are not congruent with your goals. Im particularly fascinated by that and the rest of the paragraph where you discuss standards & goals. Question, what exactly is a "metastandard"? I could probably google the definition but Id prefer you tel… | /r/seduction | 20/05/10 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen, I believe it's all about standards and goals. Agree or disagree?Spoken like a true INTJ | /r/seduction | 20/05/10 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Thanks r/seduction, Im finally doing it! But it figures that just when I start making progress in PUA my ex-girlfriend wants me back...I've gone through one of those. Nothing better than getting over that I got dumped feeling, even when you didn't, than banging her later and not really caring. Yep, exactly this. | /r/seduction | 18/05/10 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Why getting blown out sucks so muchthe moment you totally ignore all responses, you become a cold and calculating sociopath. No. A sociopath has no regard for rights and is antisocial. Having the balls to approach and be rejected does not equate. | /r/seduction | 18/05/10 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Thanks r/seduction, Im finally doing it! But it figures that just when I start making progress in PUA my ex-girlfriend wants me back...Getting laid with a new girl will bring prior girlfriends out of the woodwork. I agree, Ive experienced this enough to begin believing there is something to it. Be careful of the ex. You broke up for a reason. Maybe it wasn't a good reason, but you should think it through when you're not horny and excited before deciding that. Good point here. Ill be doing that. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What is your best "I have a boyfriend" retort?Ever since that song came out I made a mental note to never use that response. Thats when I was like...10? Way before any PUA whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Why getting blown out sucks so much"This is very important to people like myself who are suffering from approach anxiety. The sense of dread you get from approach anxiety, when viewed logically is completely disproportionate to any reasonably likely negative outcome of opening a set. In other words the fear of approaching is completely illogical." Gold. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:43 AM |
| 2 | how do i get started?This, but Id suggest also reading and studying PUA in order to at least have a plan regardless of whether or not you later choose to abandon it at will. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:37 AM |
| 2 | how do i get started?Agreed. "Rules of the Game" was my introduction to PUA and it completely changed my perspective on not just pickup up girls but life in general. Its awesome that it reads like fiction yet can be informative as an instruction manual. Yes, "Rules of the Game" is the bible of PUA. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:35 AM |
| 4 | Thanks r/seduction, Im finally doing it! But it figures that just when I start making progress in PUA my ex-girlfriend wants me back...I let her come over and banged her like Ive never banged her before. True story. It was one of those breakups that start off mutual but in the end you feel like you got dumped. | /r/seduction | 17/05/10 05:24 AM |
| 1 | After 24 days out hardcore and roughly 450 approaches, this is starting to get fun!!I took you up on that and searched Alan Rickman and found this video where he is being interviewed by Kimmel. Kimmel mentions that a college study did in fact find Rickman and Irons to be the benchmark of the male speaking voice. | /r/seduction | 11/05/10 01:36 PM |
| 1 | A girl " ahhhh .. yeaah"'s you, what's your next move ?Ive come across this term in PUA before "reward". In your comment what does it mean and whats an example? | /r/seduction | 10/05/10 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, Im a black guy...If the women in the bars aren't interested in you, then something is majorly wrong with either them or you. In my defense and theirs, I havent made enough approaches yet to decide either way. Mainly because of this idea in my mind. But given some of the advice here Im changing my perspective and going to make more now. | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 06:18 PM |
| 11 | Seddit, Im a black guy...At the end of the day, it isn't much different from being rejected for any other physical feature, and my guess is that you'd have more difficulties being fat or short than you would being black. I really like this perspective along with the idea of it being a litmus test. | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, Im a black guy...Solid points, no offense taken. | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Seddit, Im a black guy...Ha! I like that. | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, Im a black guy...AA = Approach Anxiety. Do a ruthless, by-the-numbers comparison. After that, it's up to deciding for yourself. Good point | /r/seduction | 09/05/10 06:09 PM |
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