Aside from my other submit, Ive lurked r/seduction for awhile picking up on tips here and there. But Ive mostly been too scared to even make approaches.
Motivated by a breakup about a month ago I decided to finally face my fears.
So Saturday I was in Times Square NYC hanging out with 2 friends. Everyone once in a while Id try to PU women I found attractive.
Actually my goal wasnt even PU but primarily to overcome approach anxiety and make conversation with as many women as possible and things went amazingly well in that regard.
I approached groups, women by themselves, pairs and I even found myself having conversation with 2 older women for about 20 min while we were waiting for our tables outside of a restaurant.
My friends that I was with were amazed at how suddenly bold and knowledgeable I was about "baggin chicks". Which only boosted my confidence even more.
So towards the end of the night we were standing outside Grand Central Station and I approached two white girls who were having a conversation behind me. My friends were over to the side having their own conversation. I noticed an accent and opened with "I notice you guys have an accent, where you from?" and 10 minutes later we were talking about everything including but not limited to Megan Fox's thumbs.
I realized at that point that one of the girls in particular showed IOI and the other was being a blocker. Content with my progress I decided to end the conversation and didnt bother closing with a number. The one interested chick seemed disappointed I didnt close but I was happy regardless. It was amazing to me how suddenly easy conversation with strangers was for me.
It gets better though.
So after I rejoin my friends we walk into Grand Central and are posted inside the main lobby. A black girl walks in and is standing near by. I approach. Fast forward 10 minutes and shes giving me her number and Im walking thru the terminal with her holding onto my arm begging me to call her.
I swear r/seddit, I owe alot of this to you. Because before, during, and after all my sets that night its like as I was in action my mind was working over all the different ideas, tips and suggestions Ive picked up here. For example on that last set with the black girl. She would do something like touch my arm while shes laughing at something I said and Id think to myself "oh shit, this is 'kino'!".
So all that is Saturday right? Sunday morning I wake up feeling on top of the world...then I get a text from my ex...
"Hi, Love. Can I come over?"
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