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| 1 | I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible?Lots of people have done | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 09:24 PM |
| 3 | I’ve heard that some men are doing about 50-100 approaches a day, how is that possible?100 doesn’t seem possible. 50 is doable but still on the very high side. I’m guessing guys who do a high volume live in a major city and just hit the main shopping street on a Saturday for some daygame. In London it’s certainly possible to do 30 approaches every Saturday on Oxford street. | /r/seduction | 15/07/25 05:41 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a woman takes a position of ambiguity?Have you tried to fuck her? | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 07:28 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a woman takes a position of ambiguity?Have you met up with her yet? If so how many times? | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Is cold approach worth it?“ Also, on my city's (Vancouver) subreddit, most women said they don't wanna be approached.” And most people would say they’d never buy anything from an online ad, yet online ads generate many billions in sales every year. | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How to win a girl over in limited time?Bro, find other girls to hit on | /r/seduction | 06/07/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | How do you get the ACTUAL 10s?The girls you see on instagram mostly won’t look nearly as good in real life (filters, lighting, retouching, good camera work make a big difference). Instagram makes you believe girls like this are common as you see them all over the place online, but only a tiny % of the girls on the planet end up with high follower count on insta. This means the reality is that girls like this are very rare. If you’re trying to find them probably look at high end members only clubs in tier 1 cities. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 02:21 PM |
| 3 | USA way easier than Britain?American girls are more promiscuous than British girls + the english accent abroad. | /r/seduction | 18/03/25 11:23 AM |
| 1 | I just realized, you need to cold approach submissivelyapproaching a woman in a dark place Not a good idea to approach women who are alone at night. | /r/seduction | 31/10/23 12:28 PM |
| 2 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?It makes it harder to be intimate for a couple of reasons: I think there is some sort of chemical process of pair bonding that occurs after sex and your body gets a higher tolerance for it like a drug if it happens frquently with lots of women. It's hard to settle down if you know you can regularly find new sexual partners. NGL, I think for many men love occurs when they are offered regular sex with girl who they think is around the best they can do. From an evolutionary POV falling in love wo… | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?meetup dot com | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 12:35 PM |
| 11 | To guys with a high number of bodies(50+) how has it affected your life?If you're top 10% in looks, in 20s / mid 30s and live in a major western city you could rack up 50 notches in 2 years max just on tinder with very medicore game. | /r/seduction | 11/06/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says „we’re not having sex”, but we proceeded to make out intensely before and after, what should I take from it?"I'm probably about to have sex with you, but I don't want to seem easy / might want to back out last minute and not look bad" | /r/seduction | 02/11/22 04:59 PM |
| 1 | For this of you familiar with the Aziz Ansari sexual drama, do you agree that his seduction technique was just a total fail? How should have he done it differently?A couple of caveats: This is her side of the story, not his I wasn't there, so I can't say what happened Having said that, my read is that she wanted to bag a high status celeb bf, but once she realised she was just going to be a quick bang for him she got upset. I've had literally hundreds of girls back to my apartment, and I'll tell you they're perfectly capable of saying no, stopping things or leaving if they don't want sex to happen. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Do I have to go on a bunch of dates just to get laid?Yes, you're going to have to spend time with girls in order to sleep with them. | /r/seduction | 04/10/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Is Cold-Approach Really The Hardest Way To Meet and Date Women?I hear all the time that cold-approach has terrible ratios and that you only get to sleep with 1 in 100 women. If you compare that to swipe : lay ratio on most men's tinder it probably doesn't look that bad. A cold approach obviously takes more time / effort though. I think 1:100 is early days for most people, with practice I've known people get it down to better than 1:20. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | “Let’s Keep Talking And See How It Goes. Won’t Promise You Anything. One Day At A Time…” = “Not Interested In You. Go Away.”?I'd put her on the back burner. Generate other leads, but can still occasionally ping her to try and get her out. Wouldn't invest any thought or much time in her though. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:16 PM |
| 8 | Most common terrible dating advice: Just be yourselfis 'dont be nervous' actionable advice? No. It's hard (maybe impossible) to think your way out of nervousness. All you can do it manage behaviours which give the outward impression of being nervous (eg fidgeting, inability to make eye contact). Given time nerves should fade through exposure to that which makes you nervous. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:11 PM |
| 3 | Most common terrible dating advice: Just be yourselfDon't try to be someone you're not, not only because this typically comes off as fake but also because when the fake is found out she will scoot. True, but in order to change yourself there is a point where you have to act differently to the person you are now. This leads to a transitory period where you will act as someone who you are not. | /r/seduction | 23/05/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Being told the way to get the hot girls is to get jackedYou do know many of these ig “models” are pay to play, right? | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 11:20 PM |
| 1 | I think I’m attractive and successful. Society may think otherwise.Tinder is awful. It used to be good when it first came out (or maybe it’s just because I’m older looking to date the same age of women now!), but now it’s pretty useless unless you want woman less physically attractive than yourself. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached 500 girls statisticsThose stats sound about right for a beginner who isn't only approaching girls less physically attractive than himself (If you have good looks + physique + are well over 6ft and approaching 7s that's easy mode). I know a guy who went on to become an internationally renowned daygame coach (he's legit, not full of BS). I think these stats are similar to his in his first year. After a few years of obsessively hard work on his game he got approach:lay ratio down to about 25:1, so huge improvement is … | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]> do y’all think I should do it or wait for more “signals” ? No. Just approach. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?I've slept with just over 100 women (stopped counting last year when I hit 100). My secret: I've been rejected by over 1000 women. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | I think people here have been forgetting what the purpose of this subreddit isYeah, wouldn't give up the experiences of cold approach in London with my wings. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Todd V fake infield?The interactions in the bar look genuine enough. The potential smoke and mirrors is the shots of him leaving and getting into a taxi and going to what looks like a hotel with them. We get zero audio, so while it's implied he's taking them back for sex we don't know what's really going on. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]No, why would it be? Should get to whatsapp asap. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Less Success with Women after Quadrupling my Testosterone LevelsMy T is increased atm via TRT, my face didn't suddenly look different. You might be giving off a more predator vide with high T though. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:33 PM |
| 5 | I think people here have been forgetting what the purpose of this subreddit isI used to post on here years ago, and I'm recently single so came back here for a browse, and yes the sub seems to be more... 'cucked' (can't think of another phrase to describe it). I'm in the 100+ club when it comes to number of women slept with so I have some things to say about this. Is it fulfilling? Not really, but then it's not meant to be... Having dinner every month in a really high end restaurant isn't fulfilling, it's just pleasurable. But then it doesn't have to be fulfilling. Same w… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 29 | My almost year-old post on Twitter got a pleasant response.Exactly... it's not black people getting shot by police, it's black *men*. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/21 10:47 AM |
| 7 | He defended an age-gap relationship. A relationship between two consenting adults is “grooming” now….Yes, this is why female dating strategy goes ape over anything but a few years age gap. I think most women on that sub are mid 30s and struggling with the fact that a decent guy in his mid 30s can easily date women in their mid 20s. Mid 30s is the age point where the tables turn in terms of which gender has better options in the dating market. This is why women used to be pushed to be married by mid 20s. It wasn't patriarchy trying to control them, it was simply in their best interests to preven… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/21 12:20 PM |
| 4 | He defended an age-gap relationship. A relationship between two consenting adults is “grooming” now….At the beginning of the year I came out of a relationship where she was 21 and I was 17. It ended amicably because I thought us being at different stages of our lives would mean the relationship couldn't progress (she was still studying, I was looking to settle down). Despite this there was no 'grooming'. I wasn't the first man she'd been with after all, plus she rarely finds men under 30 attractive. Truth is women nearly always go for slightly older men, and there's a significant minority of wo… | /r/MensRights | 07/08/21 12:16 PM |
| 2 | About the draft now including women...Most feminists advocate for women's rights, not equal rights. The two things aren't the same. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/21 12:43 PM |
| 7 | Advice Please! Responding to Harassment AllegationFile a police report about the punch, it will make the harassment charge look like sour grapes. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/21 12:36 PM |
| 3 | Two teenage women, both 19, appear in court charged with sexual assaulting a man by slapping his bottom on a night out in PortsmouthWell the bigger thing will be to see if they end up on the sex offenders register for this as I think some men in the UK have. I'd rather do a month in prison than end up on the register. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/21 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Two teenage women, both 19, appear in court charged with sexual assaulting a man by slapping his bottom on a night out in PortsmouthI agree, maybe at worse a caution. The thing is in the UK men have ended up on the sex offenders register for this (I thought this used to be just of pedos...), which has a huge impact on their lives. This is obviously nuts, but I think it's not until women start getting on the register for doing this that people will agitate for this to be changed. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/21 12:23 PM |
| 5 | Woman who doused husband in petrol, set him alight pleads guilty to manslaughterI think the argument is that she didn't intend to set him on fire. She had a lit lighter that ignited him when he lunged at her, rather than her lunging at him with it and setting him on fire deliberately. I'm not condoning her actions and can imagine if genders were reversed the man would be in way more trouble, but I also think prosecutors sometimes push for lesser crimes (eg manslaughter over murder, GBH over attempted murder) as they are easier to prosecute as you don't have to prove intent. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/21 12:20 PM |
| 2 | UK: Woman jailed for stabbing man so hard between the eyes that knife penetrated his brain and had an eye removed. Unbelievably light sentence; 3 years.She plead guilty to GBH *with intent* which is more serious than GBH. Max sentence would be life, so there was no need to go for attempted murder, could just have given her a longer sentence. I think it comes down to sentencing guidelines are a lot less harsh than max sentences. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | How to not be impressed by an attractive girl ?Have you tried talking to them? Many attractive young women are a lot less impressive when you judge them on their words instead of looks. Also, you'd be surprised how insecure they often are. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Talked to 4 chicks no success?A whole 4 women and no success?! I first joined this sub over a decade ago. Since then I've been rejected by I'd guess over 1,000 women, and slept with over 100 women (been more focused on relationships rather then sleeping about for the past few years). Moral of the story, you're gonna need to get rejected a lot to get a lot of success. Welcome to the club. | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Talked to 4 chicks no success?I'm about your age too, and I feel the same. I know what I like now much more than in my younger years, so I'm always screening more than trying to "get the girl". | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 1 | John Cleese describes his horrible treatment during his divorce, being forced to pay "20 million dollars". 60 minutes interview, but timestamped to the point he talks about it.As much as the divorce is unfair (I think he's had to increase how much work he does despite being in his 70s due to the financial blow of the divorce), he's now on his 4th marriage... he didn't learn the lesson! | /r/MensRights | 26/11/20 10:53 AM |
| 4 | What happened to RSD?(Real Social Dynamics)Replied on your other post: This is 100% due to the BBC documentary and the fact that a Scottish daygamer has been sentenced to prison following the BBC finding his youtube channel and launching an 'investigation'. Google 'addy a-game prison' for more info, and 'BBC seduction bootcamp'. The whole UK seduction scene is shitting itself right now. Even non commercial London daygames I know are pulling down their personal diary type daygame blogs. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Tom Torero seems to have disappearedThis is 100% due to the BBC documentary and the fact that a Scottish daygamer has been sentenced to prison following the BBC finding his youtube channel and launching an 'investigation'. Google 'addy a-game prison' for more info, and 'BBC seduction bootcamp'. | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 09:24 AM |
| 1 | I’m 23 M hit it of with a cougar, asked to join a 3some with her male lover...Should I?I would do it. I’d make it known up front that I don’t do gay stuff, so him playing with me or visa versa is 100% off the table and non negotiable. People are saying this sounds fake, I don’t see why. Either it’s her fantasy and he’s agreeing to it, or, more likely it’s her bfs fantasy to see her get dicked by another man (quite a common one). | /r/seduction | 09/08/19 06:40 AM |
| 3 | Seducting women is a catch-22Wanting her is fine. Needing her (to get self esteem for example) is not. | /r/seduction | 11/07/19 01:18 PM |
| 17 | My mother recently told me that is not okay to hit a woman under **ANY** circumstance.I find it really odd that mothers would care about the physical safety of some random woman over their own son. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/19 06:17 AM |
| 13 | Check out this show on Netflix it's called ”you” cuck white knigthing beta male 101There’s flashes of red pill in it. Like she tells him about her first kiss. She was dating her first bf but he was too shy to ever go for the kiss, so it ended up being with his best friend instead. The friends name... Chad. | /r/MGTOW | 06/01/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | What would happen, if (by law) women were completely equal to men?Wait till a war comes and they get their letter calling them to military service. | /r/MensRights | 01/01/19 02:07 AM |
| 5 | A "Bleach" Blonde Moment: Mom accidentally fills home with deadly chlorine gas in attempt to unblock toiletWhat an idiot. I bought a litre of the same stuff she used, One Shot to unblock my pipes this weekend. The stuff is covered with warning labels. It’s not just normal bleech. It clearly states on the packaging that it’s 91% sulphuric acid and can react violently with water. I wore eye protection and used extreme caution when using it, and made sure I had the windows open. I also only used around 125ml like you’re meant to as per instructions. To be fair people shouldn’t sell this to normal people… | /r/MGTOW | 31/12/18 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Breastfeeding mum forced to stand on trainWoman who blogs about breastfeeding gets news article about problem while breastfeeding. Hmm. | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Single moms on Tinder these daysWhat percentage of men are over 6’3? | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 08:45 AM |
| 1 | I guess she thinks the draft is just for fun or somethingI’ve never got the idea that abortion is about equal rights, since men have no abortion rights. Also no, as a man, I can’t have any operation I please. If I asked for my legs to be cut off so I’d be like Oscar Pictorious, I wouldn’t be allowed. Also male circumcision as an infant. | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Relaxing/Exploring in Ukraine. GYOWOn tinder I was getting girls who matched with me offering around $60. Strippers in the strip clubs were asking to go home with me for 2 hrs for $130. You can eat at a luxury restaurant for $50 a person. | /r/MGTOW | 11/06/18 09:10 AM |
| 6 | You're Not In a Relationship: You're Just a Sugar Daddy Who Can't Afford To Be OneHave been on seeking arrangement and can confirm this. I was already fairly red pilled before going on there due to learning game and sleeping with nearly 100 women in the preceding years. Despite this SA was still an eye opener. All those women I'd been banging in the past having money to go out all the time and on regular holidays despite making very little money suddenly made sense. Some of the girls on there are obvious sugar baby types: they have instagrams full of pictures in high end bars… | /r/MGTOW | 05/06/18 12:37 PM |
| 8 | Beta provider kills himself after spending > $100000 on thotLike cheap hookers | /r/MGTOW | 04/06/18 02:52 PM |
| 1 | British free healthcare performing virginity restoration operations for women.They already have this for breast implants in the UK. Your psychological well being has to be impacted to get fake boobs on the NHS, but I've met a girl who said her friend just lied and said she was suicidal about her small breasts and she got bigger ones for free. | /r/MGTOW | 11/05/18 12:18 PM |
| 2 | CBS Los Angeles on Twitter: "He's at it again. A man who goes on dating websites then invites women out to dinner, orders lots of food, then skips out, leaving the woman with the bill."Chad is evolving. | /r/MGTOW | 03/05/18 08:50 AM |
| 1 | Secretary, 20 (Good girl example) kicked out of politics assistant job after selling sex on seeking arrangement, hoes gonna hoeThe pictures really aren't good. She's very attractive in the flesh. | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Secretary, 20 (Good girl example) kicked out of politics assistant job after selling sex on seeking arrangement, hoes gonna hoeThis is the UK. Selling sex is legal. | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Secretary, 20 (Good girl example) kicked out of politics assistant job after selling sex on seeking arrangement, hoes gonna hoeHaha, I met her via Seeking Arrangement and slept with her. | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Nothing can top this. NOTHINGWe've reached peak soy | /r/MGTOW | 27/04/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Guy (longtime gambler) makes money in Casinos, Starts Flirting With Other Girls, His NEW GF complains, He Dumps Her, Now She Wants 500k in Part Because her lawyer claims "She's a good luck charm"Yeah, I saw the bit about pooling their money and agreeing to share winnings. If that is true, I'm guessing she has a strong case, both legally and morally. | /r/MGTOW | 22/04/18 02:28 PM |
| 15 | Feminists are now conducting a concerted attack on Australian barbers, filing taxpayer-funded anti-discrimination lawsuits to try and run them out of businessThey should just agree to cut their hair. Give them a short back and sides, and if they protest, tell them they are a barbers, it's what they do. | /r/MGTOW | 20/04/18 12:51 PM |
| 4 | What the Friendzone looks like.12 years of friendzone. Jesus. | /r/MGTOW | 17/04/18 12:25 PM |
| 3 | How good looking do you need to be to get consistent matches on tinder these days?Like the other guy said, work on your pictures. When tinder first came out I was on it for like 7 months and sleeping with a new girl every other week. I came back on recently but can't get matches now. I put it down to me being 35 now, but I don't know. Being limited in the times you can swipe without paying could be a factor. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Women calling men creeps when it is unwarranted?I think one day this word should be considered misandrist. It's only ever really used to describe men, so it should be considered sexist. | /r/MGTOW | 13/04/18 12:49 PM |
| 25 | We've got a butthurt white Knight on the looseHe doesn't seem to know men are murdered in far higher numbers than women | /r/MGTOW | 13/04/18 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Browsing tinder in the 28-34 age group36 and can bang 19 - 24 y/o's np I'm about your age. You meeting girls that age on Tinder, or cold approach? I used to use tinder years ago now I can't meet younger girls on there, but I think cold approaching early 20s girls is viable. | /r/MGTOW | 13/04/18 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Porn star Nikki Benz sues Brazzers and co-stars for $5M over 'sexual assault during an unscripted scene'Well this is obviously her retirement plan | /r/MGTOW | 13/04/18 09:10 AM |
| 3 | I was talking to a stripper today and I couldn't believe how much she made. It makes my salary look like nothing.Yeah they can make loads. I remember an article written about UK strip clubs once. It was written by a woman but was surprisingly red pill. She said after spending time in the clubs talking to the girls, it became apparent that it wasn't a case of them being poor women victims of men, but rather men were the victims of the girl's shrewd ability to part them from their cash. She noted the average punter made less income than the strippers. | /r/MGTOW | 11/04/18 12:57 PM |
| 2 | UK's Bullshit laws strike again. The same country that lets women stab/kill their boyfriends, arrests a man that killed a burglar who broke into his house at night.Exactly. They must investigate, otherwise murders would all just be like, 'Self Defence!' and the police would not arrest them. This guy won't end up in prison. People usually get away with killing intruders to their home in the UK. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:51 PM |
| 2 | UK's Bullshit laws strike again. The same country that lets women stab/kill their boyfriends, arrests a man that killed a burglar who broke into his house at night.I've seen this all over twitter, and people are over reacting. If you kill someone in the UK, you're going to get arrested. They do this to investigate your claim of self defence. Now if this went down like the papers said it did, it probably won't reach trial, let alone prosecution. If he ends up in court, then I'll complain. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:49 PM |
| 12 | Sugar baby hooks up with guy then attempts to ruin his life when he wouldn't give her moneyPosting new pictures of him online? After revenge porn laws in the UK that's a criminal offence. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Be like JimAlso if the rent will be more than the mortgage, better not to pay the mortgage off yourself, buy more property instead. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Be like JimYes, London. 1 bed flat £1.5k to rent, or £400k to buy... and those are starting prices. I can get a mortgage on a 3 bed house for about £320 a month Where is this? I spend more on eating out per month, think the money would be better spent on a property! | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:31 PM |
| 8 | Be like JimI don't drive (Live in London), but would consider most BMWs to be middle class cars. When I say expect too much, it's when middle class families expect: Two cars Multiple foreign holidays a year A large house IPhones for the whole family Restaurants every week Cleaner Basically people complain they can barely afford a middle class lifestyle, but what they consider to be a middle class lifestyle is massively above what previous generations had. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Be like JimI'm guessing so, I was mostly kidding. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Be like JimIt hits at only 38k, or there abouts. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Be like JimWhy? | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:20 PM |
| 11 | Be like JimWithholding money can be considered domestic abuse :\ | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Be like JimWait till you earn more and hit the 40% tax bracket. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Be like JimMassively dependant on where you live... But yes, I think people in the west, certainly US / UK expect far too much in terms of consumer spending. | /r/MGTOW | 05/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 4 | “Give me more money, or I’ll marry someone who does”Teachers on my country (UK) complain about pay too. So I ask, why not do another job. They say they love teaching. This is the problem with jobs people love. Many people love them so the supply is high compared to the demand, which pushes down wages. In the UK teachers wages are actually artificially high compared to what they'd be if the government allowed the market to fully dictate them. If you do a job you love, don't expect to be well paid. I work for a large bank. Not the nicest working en… | /r/MGTOW | 04/04/18 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Castration of Odin: On the New Sexual-Consent Law in SwedenThis is fucking mental. Thing is, I can see it coming to other western countries soon. People will point to Sweden as leading the way. The thing is that this doesn't stop rape, it actually increases the amount of rape by expanding the definition of rape. I'll be interested to see the equality aspect of this. For example a man is accused of rape because he didn't get explicit consent, but then counter accuses because during the interaction she grabbed his junk without asking first. And a man and … | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/18 09:16 PM |
| 36 | If only i had a girl like this...sigh.And he gets to film it and distribute on pornhub under the title, "Amateur whore sucks cock for college cash". | /r/MGTOW | 29/03/18 08:50 PM |
| 10 | If only i had a girl like this...sigh.Doubt there's a point suing a broke person | /r/MGTOW | 29/03/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Woman spared jail when she glassed man for turning her down at barWell technically she did yet a year, it was just they suspended it. I don't know why they bother suspending sentences. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Woman spared jail when she glassed man for turning her down at barWould this guy have a case for a civil suit Pretty sure yes. Don't see much point in suing someone who doesn't have much money though. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Woman spared jail when she glassed man for turning her down at barHowever, Brown, an estate agent, was spared jail after saying she had anger management problems and issues with alcohol. She should be given the chance to work through these issues. While in prison. It's stuff like this that means if a girl ever does anything like this to me, I'll just ruin her face for life on the spot. The justice system won't give me justice, so I'll get it myself. | /r/MensRights | 22/03/18 09:39 PM |
| 9 | The average male redditor. Alternative title: male privilege on the left, oppressed gender on the right.and let their hamsters do the rest I have my new catchphrase. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | This is ridiculous. Prince Harry is knowingly walking in to the lions den with no protection and he doesn’t care. Is this the result of being raised in a matriarchal society?This is what people say, but they money they get is actually a cut of the revenues from the land the crown owns. There's an agreement where by the government manages the land, and gives the crown a cut of the revenue each year. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 12:27 AM |
| 3 | This is ridiculous. Prince Harry is knowingly walking in to the lions den with no protection and he doesn’t care. Is this the result of being raised in a matriarchal society?They own something like (estimated) 70% of all the world’s land Are you sure you don't just mean 70% of the land in the UK? | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 12:23 AM |
| 3 | This is ridiculous. Prince Harry is knowingly walking in to the lions den with no protection and he doesn’t care. Is this the result of being raised in a matriarchal society?She won't take his cash, unless she wants to end up in a car 'accident'. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 12:22 AM |
| 3 | The next time a women asks you to buy her a drink, try the Jack Reacher line “Sorry, I can’t afford you”A glass of your finest tap water for the lady, barman. | /r/MGTOW | 22/03/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | This is what "Dismantling The Patriarchy!" looks like. Enjoy that equality you fought for, sweetcheeks.It was a real uk frontpage. I remember seeing it when it came out, and thinking, just the same as men then? | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/18 01:38 PM |
| 4 | This is what "Dismantling The Patriarchy!" looks like. Enjoy that equality you fought for, sweetcheeks.Well yes, the irony of women moving into the workplace en masse is that it was due to male innovation which caused the rise of the service sector and knowledge based work, not feminism. | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | First sex doll brothel in Paris faces calls to close from feministsLess fat girls then? Works well. | /r/MGTOW | 21/03/18 10:40 AM |
| 1 | He invited a female coworker to a coffee. She said no and now he's on the sex offenders list. Isn't this very fucked up?In the UK you won't get the same punishment for stealing a pack of gum as you would for a TV. Just like you don't get punished the same for shoving someone as you would for punching them to the ground and stamping on their head. | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/18 10:48 AM |
| 1 | He invited a female coworker to a coffee. She said no and now he's on the sex offenders list. Isn't this very fucked up?Yea, this is pretty justified IMO. You can't just start randomly groping people. Are you fucking retarded? He didn't grope her. He just kissed her a couple of times. He probably genuinely thought she was interested, given how he reacted when she turned him down. Now he's on the sex offenders register. Lucky he's about at retirement age, otherwise his career would have been fucked for this. The sex offenders register was meant for people who were proven to be a risk to children, but of course the… | /r/MGTOW | 19/03/18 10:43 AM |
| 15 | Trip to Londonany good drinking taverns Yes! that ain't overpriced No. | /r/MGTOW | 12/03/18 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Guy auditions for katy Perry on new American idol having apparently never kissed a girl and katy calls him over.In a way I agree, but in another way, the reason things are as they are is because men don't make a fuss when things like this happen to men, but when the situation is reversed women do. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/18 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Just Another Afternoon in The UK...I saw some girls with these signs on Oxford Street today. Given that all statistics show that men are more likely to be victims of violence than women (I think the stat is something like men are the victims 65% of the time), this makes no sense to me. It's like the time our equalities minister spent a week in the media making a big deal out of some survey that said something like 25% said it may sometimes be ok to hit a women, when the same survey said > 50% of people thought it was ok to hit a … | /r/MGTOW | 10/03/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Joe Rogan: All this country would need for this system to flip on his f-ing ass is to legalize prostitution and guys would be like: "I definitely love you, but wait a sec, what do you what me to sign?" women would be like: "How am I going to have power over this man, if I can't control his sex?"You can get a girl round to your house within an hour... It's legal enough. Plus soho in london has dozens of single girl brothels. As in one girl in a flat. These are legal as it doesn't count as a brothel if there's just one girl. | /r/MGTOW | 08/03/18 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Joe Rogan: All this country would need for this system to flip on his f-ing ass is to legalize prostitution and guys would be like: "I definitely love you, but wait a sec, what do you what me to sign?" women would be like: "How am I going to have power over this man, if I can't control his sex?"No. It's pretty much just paying for sex which is legal. The illegal stuff is: brothels Advertising prostitution or solicitation Curb crawling It's also illegal to pay for sex with someone controlled for gain (ie a girl who has a pimp), in an attempt to stop sex trafficking. This is a fairly new law, and I don't think people ever actually get arrested for it. Edit: not sure if this one ever got passed into law, since the Bar council warned that men would be in a situation where they didn't know … | /r/MGTOW | 07/03/18 08:22 PM |
| 7 | Joe Rogan: All this country would need for this system to flip on his f-ing ass is to legalize prostitution and guys would be like: "I definitely love you, but wait a sec, what do you what me to sign?" women would be like: "How am I going to have power over this man, if I can't control his sex?"It's not illegal in UK (though some associated acts are), and things aren't much different to in the states. | /r/MGTOW | 07/03/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Why is it ok for women who wish to become men to be given the male hormone testosterone, whilst being praised for their braveness yet if a man wishes to use this hormone (in a non competitive way) to become more of a man it is seen as some kind of abuse that is classes worse than opioid abuse?It makes perfect sense. A woman can take it to become more manly, but if a man wants to take it to become more manly it's illegal. If a girl can get it prescribed, why can't I? (As it happens I live in UK so it's legal for me to own and use it for personal use, so am referencing the US here). | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:08 PM |
| 22 | Man on trial accused of putting his finger up woman's anus during sexIf he just stuck it in there once and took it out when she asked I'd say this is stupid, but if he repeatedly didn't stop when asked then yes that is bad. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/18 02:01 PM |
| 16 | Burglar gets surprised by police, useless lady cop tries to hide.I was once drinking in a bar in London on a Saturday night. As I was leaving there was some drunk guy being loud and causing trouble. He didn't look particularly scary. Average height and weight and probably in his 40s, and although acting up not being super violent. One bouncer easily restrained him in the door way. The police were called. The marked car pulls up, two women police officers get out. Take one look at the situation. Get on their radios. Don't attempt to arrest the man. 2 minutes l… | /r/MGTOW | 05/03/18 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Huge win for MGTOW: talking to women in a sexual manner incurs an 80 euro fine in France.It'll get to the point where hookers are cheaper than chatting women up! | /r/MGTOW | 03/03/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Continued Struggling With Cold Approach / Day GameI can go an entire day without seeing a woman worth approaching If this is true, your city may be no good for daygame. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:33 PM |
| 4 | How do i overcome the feeling of doing everything forced?The more you do it, the easier it gets. | /r/seduction | 23/02/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Shittiest argument ever"So you are gonna die alone"My grandad got married and had a large family. Died alone in hospital. | /r/MGTOW | 23/02/18 02:30 PM |
| 3 | The Downsides of Prostitution: Don't Hire an EscortI understand this. I’m mid 30s now and have slept with almost 100 girls without paying, so I don’t get the same kick out of gaming a girl anymore. As my income increases, it’s getting to the point where the value of my time it would take to game a girl into bed exceeds the value of the cash I’d need to just pay for sex. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/18 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Woman married for 8 years that got 50 million in gifts, plus a divorce settlement of $122,858 a month and a lump-sum payment of $1,262,121 says it's not enough!I don't get why rich men get married. | /r/MGTOW | 22/02/18 01:09 PM |
| 65 | "Guys are not allowed to ask girls contact information, but girls are allowed to ask guys"Given that girls rarely ask, even if they'd like to date the guy this is dumb. Also sexist. | /r/MensRights | 22/02/18 12:52 PM |
| 4 | British justice system: Girlfriend cheats on army boyfriend and he’s forced to pay her!?There's no basis for this on British law. Common law marriage is not legally recognized in the UK. Unless she can prove some sort of financial contribution towards the property they lived in (e.g. she paid for work to be done to it, or paid the mortgage), then she has 0 rights to it. Either this is a made up story, or it's her lawyer trying to scare him into giving up cash. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/18 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I find day game terrifyingYeah I have the same problem. I think it’s the added social pressure of approaching women in the daytime being more unusual than in a bar or club. I go through a cycle of trying to crack daygame, making a small amount of progress, giving up, then starting again back at step 1. So far I’ve had only 3 lays from daygame over the past 5 years, compared to nearly 100 from night game or online game. So I haven’t overcome this problem yet! Next month I’m going to Kiev for 2 weeks to daygame intensely. … | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 08:17 AM |
| 4 | Duolingo CEO has message for 'idiots' mad about hiring equal number of womenDepends how you define work. There are lots of made up jobs out there. | /r/MensRights | 19/02/18 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameDoesn't work. You only have so much "bandwidth" This is so true. At the moment my main priority is increasing my income, starting by getting a side business up and running. I'd also like to get good at daygame, but have to put it on the back burner to focus on business. Someone has told me you can still be approaching all the time during the day and get lots of approaches in per week. The thing is it's not just about time. You can't just blindly approach, it takes a lot of mental resource to app… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 01:43 PM |
| 10 | Working on your looks is much more important than working on your gameThe game community massively undervalues looks. A guy who's a 10 can get laid without approaching. Just post up at the bar and wait for the girls to approach him. He won't maximize his results like this, especially in terms of hotness of girl, but he'll still get laid loads. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/18 01:38 PM |
| 12 | Duolingo CEO has message for 'idiots' mad about hiring equal number of womenI think this already happens with some big tech firms. A friend told me of a girl she knew who was a journalist. Decided she could make more money coding, so learnt basic coding. Within 18 months of coding she had a junior developer role with Twitter in London earning £67,500 a year. To put that in perspective, my career as a developer peaked at senior developer earning £65,000 in London about a year ago (I contract now), and this was with 10 years experience. So this girl is getting senior mone… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/18 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Twitch streamer Pokimane punches another streamer after he leaks her personal information. Has yet to be banned despite Twitch's history of similar bans for men even joking about committing acts of violence.That doesn't count as violence, come on. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/18 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Over 100 BBC stars face paying back thousands in tax as HMRC wins claim against presenterYes, exactly. I'm a contractor via my own LTD company. Not only do I recognise I have no employee rights, I also know that making any claim like I did against the company I'm in a contract with opens me up to a huge tax bill. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/18 11:05 AM |
| 18 | How to Destroy A Man Now (DAMN): A Handbook - Proof that MRAs are right about women and false allegationsFalse allegations and defamation are surely illegal. How can amazon publish a book on how to commit crime? If I were to publish a date rape book on there called how to rape a woman, surely it would be removed... | /r/MensRights | 16/02/18 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Just remember guys, short term investments onlyThis is your body on feminism. | /r/MGTOW | 15/02/18 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Vancouver swing-dancer banned from club for ‘mansplaining’You're so powerful that you should not have the power to appeal this decision. It's the standard inversion of power thing the left always uses. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/18 02:56 PM |
| 3 | The mindset of women perfectly explained. When a woman doesn't understand that "No" now actually means "move along".Because what is hard to come by is valued more, so women make men ask more than once to be valued more, as it means they’re not easy. Plus if a guy is persistent it’s a sign he really likes her, not just he wants any girl. I’m a man, but this is how some women feel about it. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/18 03:40 PM |
| 5 | Prosecutor speaks out about domestic violence case after public outrage at sentence | The gender sentencing gap on full displayI hate these bullshit suspended sentences in the uk for violent crimes. Yes in this case it’s partially gendered, but they let people off with suspends for all sorts of stuff. | /r/MensRights | 11/02/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Erections?Thing is most women don’t want men who hide their own sexuality, so the each to whom you refer is most women. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Erections?No this is the scenario in which I imagine it happening. First date, chatting in a bar. You’re still trying to fuck her in that situation. There’s a daygamer from the uk that has a great saying: “Don’t hide your dick”. | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 09:11 AM |
| 2 | I live next door to a cool bar, how do I use this to my advantage?Well you have an obvious first date venue and easy bounce. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:18 PM |
| 2 | What to reply if a girl says "maybe" when you ask her to a date.I’d just reply with the eye rolling emoji 🙄 then move on to another girl | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | STOTD - Would you fuck my friend?Does your friend know you’re trying to pimp her out? | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | What statement of intent lines do you use?Asking if they have a bf shoes initial intent and starts to move things towards dating talk. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What's causing my lack of success with women???Many will read this and deem it to be an overly simplistic solution. They would be wrong. Go out and try and meet and try and fuck 500 women. Not just open, try and fuck. Yes op may have some inner game issues, but the truth is the inner follows the outer in the long term. Action will get you laid. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Accidental Erections?Just let it bulge. You wanna fuck the girl after all. Trust me it’s worse for her if you can’t get an erection... If you see here noticing it you can call her out for perving. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 09:04 PM |
| 4 | How guys were seducing girls in 20th century, before all of this business of teaching guys how to pickup started?It’s only very recently that people became sexually promiscuous enough for picking up women to even be a thing. Dating as we know it is relatively new. My parents generation (they were born in the 50s) would probably only sleep with one or two people in their lives. Up until the 1970s the majority of women would be married before their 21st birthday. To cut a long story short pickup only came along once there was a suitable social environment. | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 08:59 PM |
| 1 | [Legal Rights] "Why rape cases should not be subjected to reasonable doubt" - Article Promoting False Sentences. WTF, Big ThinkThe article calls rape a violent crime. Well the trouble is, rape can no longer really be considered a violent crime. With a violent crime there's going to be plenty of evidence that a crime has taken place, in the form of physical injuries to the victim. In rape cases where the victim is injured, I don't think there's much doubt that a rape took place, and I'm guessing conviction rates are much higher. Most rapes these days, the trial seems to involve two people arguing as to whether or not a r… | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 10:37 AM |
| 1 | [Legal Rights] "Why rape cases should not be subjected to reasonable doubt" - Article Promoting False Sentences. WTF, Big ThinkThere's a famous quote, saying the purpose of our justice system is the opposite. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 10:26 AM |
| 1 | High-flying £100,000-a-year banker considered suicide after police took 70 weeks to clear him of fake rape claim from bitter Match.com date who told him: 'Now I will get my revengeI don't know. It's starting to get a lot of publicity. I'm seeing regular stories on BBC news about this stuff now. | /r/MensRights | 09/02/18 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsNot sure if they're stupid, more opportunistic. Some law firm says they can get them £20k on a no win no fee basis, who's going to turn that down? Stupid will be the courts if they actually win this. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Tesco faces £4bn equal pay claimNo, I think they men all just went to private firms, which subcontract the work the council used to do directly. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 05:20 PM |
| 3 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsI'm sure they will with £4bn at stake... in fact they'd be negligent towards shareholders if they didn't try to prevent this loss. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsI think this is why most uk gov tech jobs end up being contractors... Contractor day rates don't count as salaries to be compared for equality. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsI think this is why most uk gov tech jobs end up being contractors... Contractor day rates don't count as salaries to be compared for equality. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsI think this is why most uk gov tech jobs end up being contractors... Contractor day rates don't count as salaries to be compared for equality. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 05:11 PM |
| 7 | Tesco faces £4bn equal pay claimBirmingham City Council is now liable for over £1bn pounds in payments after settling an equal pay claim from women employed as cleaners, cooks and carers. Their pay was below men in comparable jobs such as bin collectors and road workers. [emphasis mine] And now bin collectors are all contractors working for private companies as a result. So this just means the councils have to pay a private company to handle bin collections, which no doubt costs more. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 12:26 PM |
| 18 | Tesco facing £4bn equal pay claim for paying people differently for different jobsApparently all of the UKs various supermarkets are starting to be sued over this. Next software engineers will have to be paid the same as low skilled non managerial admin workers. I believe this already happens in UK government jobs. | /r/MensRights | 07/02/18 11:53 AM |
| 24 | Google Manager to Employees: "Next time you get invited to speak at a conference, especially if you’re a white male – ask the organizer to confirm you’re the only white male on the panel / in the speaker lineup. If not, say you are honored, but must decline, and give the reason."I think google are in deep shit. A lot more people could potentially join this lawsuit. I’m ditching google for search. Email and docs will be harder, but I’ll look into it. The irony is that google was founded by white males. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/18 02:35 PM |
| 3 | NY Post: A Male Backlash Against #MeToo Women's MovementSex and relationships are a huge part of life. We spend a large percentage of our life at work, so why should sex and relationships be avoided at work? Women want yes means yes and are asking us for clear communication... can’t get more clear than asking for sex. | /r/MensRights | 04/02/18 09:37 AM |
| 2 | After feminist cry sexism over BBC pay, official review uncovers more underpaid men than womenWell I dispute that anyone ‘should’ be earning a certain amount. If you’re worth more on the open market, negotiate a raise or leave. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/18 08:11 AM |
| 20 | Woman considers she has "been forced" to perform oral sex by man whom she was dating where she could have said no, but did not say no because the power dynamic was surreal and she wanted him to like her. [So she sucked him off because she liked him and wanted him to like her. Seems like a pretty common reason to give a bj. Doubt she’d be complaining if she ended up his gf. Sounds like she needs to brush up on here bj skills. The worst part of this for Franco is that these girls aren’t even that hot. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/18 08:02 PM |
| 5 | The Guardian suggests male-only clubs should be cracked down on because they are "secret bastions of sexism" that "pose a danger to open democracy."This is a Uk based article, and here in the uk we don’t have a constitution. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How far behind must men be in education for institutional programs to take action?I did computer science degree and work as a contract software engineer. Some people I work with never got a degree. We all earn £115 - £138k. Don’t see the point in having a degree of you can make this without one. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | How far behind must men be in education for institutional programs to take action?Given that the average women is lifetime tax negative, countries in that situation will be in dire trouble. | /r/MensRights | 27/01/18 07:04 PM |
| 4 | UK: What gives you the right to touch me? More anti male crap from the BBC. The Fawcett Society said misogyny, and contempt for women, should be classified as a hate crime. It makes one worry what would happen if Labour ever get back in.Eastern Europe. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 02:37 PM |
| 10 | UK: What gives you the right to touch me? More anti male crap from the BBC. The Fawcett Society said misogyny, and contempt for women, should be classified as a hate crime. It makes one worry what would happen if Labour ever get back in.just completely avoiding women, working and society in general... British women, British working and British society. I'm starting to work on generating location independent income. I don't think I'll be able to stay in Britain all that much longer. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 02:01 PM |
| 17 | UK: What gives you the right to touch me? More anti male crap from the BBC. The Fawcett Society said misogyny, and contempt for women, should be classified as a hate crime. It makes one worry what would happen if Labour ever get back in.This really worries me. They mention unwanted sexual advances. The thing is, as a man, most of my sexual advances will be unwanted, that's just the way it works. Now, if I knew they were unwanted before making them, then I wouldn't bother making them in the first place, what would be the point? This is how mating works: the man (usually) makes a sexual advance of some sort (can just start with a compliment), and either gets accepted (wanted) and proceeds or rejected (unwanted) and he gives up. C… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Sexual harassment is systemic and unacceptable, Trudeau tells DavosHe's got this sort of apologetic yet smug face. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Civil rights groups are to sue Betsy DeVos over sexual assault policy. They want the courts to rule that the move by her department to give more rights to the accused as illegal.Well they don't want a situation where the girl is asked to explain her actions and has her story objectively evaluated. Also when going to the police there's a small possibility she can be prosecuted if it turns out she's lying. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | What exactly are we waiting for?Because the libtards that push anti male values control the higher education system (indoctrination), the press / media (propaganda) and much of the courts / government (enforcement). Without taking back control of these three areas, we have very little choice. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/18 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Men face fines of £80 if they comment about a woman's body or appearance in public under new French proposals.Well what I mean is that when the average man believes that feminism is a threat to societ, feminism goes bye bye without a fight. There will be no war if this happens. Average man en masse vs feminists = tyson vs a small child. Men can just not follow rules / laws they deem to be feminist anymore. The legal side of things won't matter, as at the end of the day it generally falls to men to enforce these things. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 06:05 PM |
| 5 | Men face fines of £80 if they comment about a woman's body or appearance in public under new French proposals.I think I'm a lot like Sargon in that if this shit gets pushed through to law and they keep putting people in jail for this sort of bullshit I am fully prepared to fight a civil war If they destroy the chances of beta males to get laid and have families, the SJWs will be removed. Once the average beta decides this feminism / SJWism has gone too far there won't even be a need to fight as such, everyone will just turn round and say no to the feminists. They have no enforcement power without men. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Men face fines of £80 if they comment about a woman's body or appearance in public under new French proposals.withdraw into your hobbies, careers, Your career will provide money to fund the state. Go self employed and try and drop your tax payments with creative accounting. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/18 12:20 PM |
| 34 | Male student sues Dartmouth College for expelling him over sex acts done to him by female student while he was passed out drunk. Unbelievable!So if I make an accusation about her, she can just be fired on the basis of that? She doesn't have a right to a job, after all. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Yale let accusers text each other to coordinate testimony against male during Title IX hearing: lawsuitYet, strangely enough they are allowed to hold tribunals for rape. Where no sane person wold trust them to hold disciplinary tribunals for any other major felony Yeah you can't really imagine some university committee conducting a murder trial. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017Production line workers only work on the phone's they touch. A CEO impacts every single item the company produces. Also, if you were to evenly distribute a CEOs salary / benefits package evenly amongst all workers at a large company, their pay increase would be tiny due to their being one CEO and so many workers. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017Nazi wasn't just the name... They wanted money to stop going to the elites so the workers could have more... they were socialists. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017I never knew that was the case. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017Is building a phone in the US worth pennies a day? So how can their labour really be worth that? I don't think you understand value. it isn't absolute. The same thing can have a vastly different value in different geographic locations. A steak in London costs me about £25, in Belgrade about £6. Think of a bottle of water in the desert vs a bottle of water on the main street in a populated area with easy access to running water. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017People seem to forget Nazi = National Socialist German Workers' Party. Nazi's weren't right wing since they were socialists. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017In London I need to make £165k a year to be in the top 1% of earners. Which country is it you can buy on that income? There must be a sale on! | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 10:12 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017haha. No, a capitalist can buy pile of ingredients, which on their own have no real use, just a pile of junk. Its the workers who put it together and give in any value or usefulness. The value of their labour and the value of the results of their labour aren't the same thing. The workers who built my £1,000 iPhone X probably only got pennies for building it, despite the end value being so high. This is because their labour is of low value, despite the results being high value, simply because it … | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 10:06 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017Some of the one percent are probably crooks, just like some of the 99% are. Workers produced some of the value, and they get paid for that. It's just usually the % value contribution of workers is much lower than that of the business creators / owners. If that wasn't true the workers would earn more. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Gender wage gap is subterfuge. Real gap here - The 1% grabbed 82% of all wealth created in 2017The 1% created 82% of all all wealth created in 2017. FTFY. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/18 08:26 AM |
| 1 | How exactly does "working on yourself" help you with women?Hitting on lots of girls regularly > working on yourself. The optimal is doing both, but in terms of getting laid, approaching and learning game is far more important than working on yourself in other ways. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Women And their ConsentWhat? | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:24 AM |
| 1 | If a random girl online asks a guy out, should the guy pay for just his food/drinks, or hers too?I take it you’re not going to a Michelin stared restaurant? Just pay for both of you, it surely won’t cost much. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Sexual assault bill gets few changes from MPs, despite lawyers' concerns over 'reverse disclosure'In the previous law you could wait until the trial and make her look like a liar, but now if she knows you were out of town on Tuesday she can adjust her lie and say Wednesday Well you only have to disclose evidence that contains private info about the accuser, I don't think this qualifies. Yes, I can't see any possible objective for the change other than this. I'm guessing it's been sold as protecting the accusers privacy. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Spend Less Time Thinking About Women Between Dates? Why Do You Think I Spend So Much Time Thinking About Her/Them?Have more women on the go. Have another purpose in your life which occupies your thoughts. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 08:40 AM |
| 1 | I can't figure out why anyone would want to have guy friendsI see your perspective. I’m very introvert, so have little urge to socialise, and so having friends just seems like an item on a tick list that needs ticking so I’m not weird. Having said that I’ve come to realise operating solo limits your options in life. Humans have evolved to work in groups because it’s often more effective than working solo. To this end view Male friends as allies to a given goal. For example if you’re getting into Pua, find other local puas to sarge with and share tips. Th… | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 08:31 AM |
| 3 | how to push and pullIt’s just a positive followed by a negative. Pull: you’re really cute... Push: ...for someone so nerdy Pull: replying to her messages promptly Push: waiting a long while to reply to her message Pull: enthusiastically agreeing with something she says Push: disagreeing with something she says (without starting an argument) | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Is day game the key for finding quality women?Yes because girls you meet in the day time never go to clubs. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 08:22 AM |
| 15 | Moderator of LegalAdvice goes on Anti-MRA rant in thread of man asking what his legal options are for child support now that he's found out his cheating wifes child is not his. Mod proceeds to double-down on their clear bias against mens rights when called out on politicizing it.Although yes it’s a fucked up law, I think that sub exists to give advice based on how the law actually stands. In that context the fairness of the law is not relevant. They don’t want the sub to turn into a political discussion about the law, and I understand that. Having said that the mods bad language and outright hostile nature suggest he’s anti mra and letting that political view slide into the sub, which is a double standard. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/18 05:43 PM |
| 20 | This is the woman who made false claims. Claims 6 sexual assaults and 9 rapes in 3 years all by strangers. She put an innocent man in jail for 5 years. She just received 10.I wonder if “she’s too grotesque to rape” would be a valid argument in court. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/18 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Even when she's on top.As in you can be put on trial for rape for technically just lying still? | /r/MensRights | 28/12/17 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Financial abortion will be costly to society, including YOU. Supporters of it: do you accept the consequences?I disagree that tax payers will need to pay more. I have no problem with single mothers being penniless. In fact, if this were the situation then you'd end up with less single mothers... women won't go down that route if they know they'll get no financial support. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/17 10:26 AM |
| 1 | I have a limiting belief. I firmly believe that having sex with a girl without the potential for a future in terms of relationships is meaningless. How do I improve this?Well it is meaningless, but so what? Eating a perfectly cooked steak in a restaurant is meaningless, that doesn't mean people don't want to do it. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:12 AM |
| 1 | London Wing / PUA (Central London)Pm sent | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Avoid “Event” DatesI sometimes think the whole provider / lover thing is taken too far, bet when I think of my own experiences and those of highly successful womanisers it does ring true. I'd say this article makes a good point. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 12:40 PM |
| 4 | All about the basics!Yeah whenever I see the just focus on yourself thing I think it's bs for just this reason. Focus on myself: fuck 3 women a year Focus on hitting on lots of women: fuck 23 women a year. Real stats. I mean if you focus on yourself for a while, then go back to hitting on women you'll have more success when you get back to previous levels of game skill, but why you're actually working on yourself results with women will suffer. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Top players are ruthlessly decisiveWell I for one thought it was spot on. | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I be ashamed of having sex with a chubby girlYes, but we've all done it! | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 08:00 AM |
| 3 | Focus On The Skill, Not The Women.And the skills | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:22 PM |
| 4 | The numbers game mythThere's always a huge element of chance. Most girls won't be interested in most guys most of the time. A blogger called good looking loser had a term for this. He said a girl has to be sexually available when you approach her. Better seducers will just get a higher % of girls who are sexually available, and will be good at avoiding pitfalls that would derail an otherwise promising set. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:19 PM |
| 2 | The numbers game mythThe best get rejected at least 90% of the time. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 01:15 PM |
| 18 | Probably designed by a manTo which you replied, "The same as the airplanes that allow this airport to exist, and for you to have this job, you mean?" | /r/MensRights | 23/10/17 10:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm 27 and my girlfriend is 21 and the hatred is real21 to 27 is a tiny age gap. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Pussy is a Commodity.There's two things that men get from sex: Busting a nut An ego boost (a girl wanted to fuck me). Fucking whores gets you your nut but not your ego boost, and many men just can't accept that despite getting the nut being so good. This is why before learning game I'd feel bad if I ever used a whore. Then I learned game and I'm close to 100 lays (with no cash involved). At this point I no longer value the ego side as much due to a respectable lay count, but still love the nut. This means I use hook… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 04:52 PM |
| 1 | It may be illegal to ask a woman for her number in France soonThis is it. It effectively discriminates against men since we're expected to be the more proactive of the sexes when it comes to the early stages of a sexual relationship. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | It may be illegal to ask a woman for her number in France soonThis has come about because of Merkel's migrants harassing women in the streets. | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 09:12 AM |
| 1 | It may be illegal to ask a woman for her number in France soonWait, you can't ask for a girl's number in Nottingham? | /r/MensRights | 13/10/17 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Finding quality girls?You have to date a lot of women to find the right one. Can take a while to know if you really like someone. If you don't have much dating experience yet then there's probably a difference between what you think you like and what you actually like. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Where to take girls if I don't have anything exciting going on?Well if you can get her wet on the first date, it's always a bonus. | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Excellent infield video: The Art of INDIRECT DAYGAME - Prague 2017No I just did a little daygame there earlier in the year | /r/seduction | 03/10/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Why would a girl on tinder (a hookup app) say "no hookups" in her bio?Because she doesn't want to be pumped and dumped for the 30th time and she somehow thinks writing that will stop guys who want to pump and dump her from messaging. She's naive, and that's great. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Excellent infield video: The Art of INDIRECT DAYGAME - Prague 2017The palladium ftw. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Today hits my 1 year mark of seductionIt is good. I did like 4 in my first year of game. Didn't get double figures per year till like year 3. Now I'm 7 years in I think and not far off the big 100 (slowed down a lot in past couple of years). | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 03:33 PM |
| 9 | Today hits my 1 year mark of seductionThat's more than most men get in a lifetime. | /r/seduction | 27/09/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Is pickup mainstream and saturated now? Why or why not, and if so is it a problem?I can only really comment on London. It seemed to hit peak about 5 years ago, riding on the wave of publicity of the book The Game. Since then I'd say it's declined. The media used to write about it but it's old news now, so doesn't get as much publicity. Although most men are aware of it very few regularly go out and practice. Of people who get into game, I'd guess 90% drop out in a few months. Some because they get gfs from it, but most because it's too much effort and harms their ego too much… | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:32 PM |
| 2 | The problem with this sub: Age is rarely taken into consideration.What age are you and what age girls are you getting? I only ask because I'm 35 and was worried about being too old, but then I recently got an attractive 19yr old gf, so I guess there's hope. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | The problem with this sub: Age is rarely taken into consideration.Rationale make wrote a book about how game differs by age group. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Is that true that RSD guys dont get laid and just make money?Unless they're paying the girls or buying them stuff this won't be true. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Asking for a girl's number feels so mechanical and unnatural, especially if I feel like I haven't escalated enough by the end of the night. How do I change that?It's just because you're not used to doing it. | /r/seduction | 04/09/17 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Realistic Daygame StatisticsThink him and Krauser did like 1 in 50 in London and 1 in 25 in Eastern Europe. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Realistic Daygame StatisticsNo idea. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Realistic Daygame Statistics1 - 2 lays per 30 approaches is probably a bit above average for successful daygamers. I read people saying you're game is bad if you do worse than 1 in 10. IMO that's only possible if you only approach off IOIs. Otherwise just too many of the girls you open don't like your look / have a bf they're really into / can't handle being street stopped / have a logistical issue. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | In 2010, Sweden scrapped affirmative action in colleges because it ended up favouring men, as women outnumbered them: ''The education system should open doors – not shut them in the face of young women who are motivated to study''Partly that. It's also partly because people don't choose what to believe based on logic, they just unthinkingly adopt the ideals of the status quo. Guess it's evolved to make sure you maintain favour within the tribe, so I guess that is actually close to what you're saying. | /r/MensRights | 31/07/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Like A Girl, She's "Talking" To Another GuyWell you've answered your own question then. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Nice cars attract creepy guys, not womenIf you have money and see good diggers for what they are, this is no bad thing. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Like A Girl, She's "Talking" To Another GuyYou're talking to other girls, right? | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth getting on gear to build a physique?At the time wasn't approaching much so can't really say. If you're thinking it will be a game changer when it comes to pickup, it won't. All it does it put on muscle really fast and can make you feel indestructible. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth getting on gear to build a physique?I've used it a couple of times. Some things to consider: You will be confident when on it, but when you come off your testosterone levels will crash to almost zero, and you may feel somewhat depressed. This can last for a month. You lose many of your gains when you come off. It's a 3 steps forward, 2 steps back kind of thing. You don't need to be particularly large to attract women. I've always gone for big in the past, but I think a smaller, ripped, athletic physique is better. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl on tinder wants to "meet new people and socialise"It means she wants dick. | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you meet women without cold approaching in a big city?Cold approach is the best way | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Woman threatened to Call Cops on me for Daygame ApproachThe point is this legislation doesn't apply in this situation... | /r/seduction | 30/07/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Woman threatened to Call Cops on me for Daygame ApproachSexual harassment usually isn't a crime. Something you can be fired for in a workplace, or an employer can be sued for but not sure of many western countries where this is a criminal offence. | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Woman threatened to Call Cops on me for Daygame ApproachSounds like you're in the uk? | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone read 'The Rational Male'?The book is pretty much the knowledge from his blog condensed and presented in a linear fashion. This means reading his book is a more time efficient way of getting all the knowledge. | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 02:05 PM |
| 12 | Can't say anything to girls on phoneThe next step after texting is meeting, not a phone call. | /r/seduction | 29/07/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | It has always baffled me just how many TRPers are in LTRs.Personally I don't do LTRs, but I can see why people do. Constantly having to find new girls to bang is time consuming. Settling down is just easier. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl posts her date results on the seduction subreddit. Prime example of Briffault's Law and beta bucks.She wanted sex, deep down. The guy just has poor end game / LMR busting skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!She deserves Kudos! It's hard to not say no 100 times. Give her some credit, guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/17 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Approach women for casual sex without misleading to a relationshipLoads of girls in your age group don't want relationships. | /r/seduction | 12/07/17 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Is 29 to old to start from nothing?Men don't peak till around mid 30s. I started at about 28. Not too old at all. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:21 PM |
| 2 | So when a girl starts fishing for compliments, what's the best way to respond?Don't give the compliments then laugh at her as she gets wound up about it | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Escort trapJesus that's only £45. I've spent up to £300 an hour... | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Escort trapHow was she costing you so much money? | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 10:07 AM |
| 1 | How should I have responded to this shower Snapchat? Also how bad did I screw this up?Any advice on how to recover from this the next time I see her? From a game perspective not responding was a positive, nothing to recover from. Tease her about being a temptress, and tell her you're a good boy she's slowly corrupting. | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I'm a girl going to study abroad, any advice to meet and attract foreign guys?Doesn't matter that much IMO. Plenty of cock to go round. | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 09:13 AM |
| 1 | Escort trapHow much are these girls costing? I'm surprised a 21 yr old can afford an escort every week, unless you're in investment banking. | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 09:10 AM |
| 2 | I'm a girl going to study abroad, any advice to meet and attract foreign guys?Do you have any advice for meeting guys abroad and specifically in France Go to a bar. Stay at the bar (as in the part where they serve the drinks) and men will make conversation. Pretty easy IMO. I'm leaving with other Italians from the same uni as me, and they are 3 guys. Would this scare off a potentially interested guy? You'll get approached less if you go out with guys. Find a couple of gfs to go out with. I just don't know if it's better to get experienced Wouldn't hurt. If you were in Lon… | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Could you make money off an RSD-style product? An ideaLook into selling on udemy. You can sell courses for up to $200 there but they get heavily discounted. I plan to start selling web development courses on there. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | How would you make the approach?It makes them anxious. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 11:23 PM |
| 2 | How does /r/seduction feel about long distance relationships?how does the seduction community feel about LDR? Don't do it. I just don't feel comfortable going to public places and trying to game Nor does any man when they first start out. It's called approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 09:16 AM |
| 4 | How would you make the approach?When it comes to cold approach, most guys don't do it. A very small percentage of guys can approach a girl stone cold sober. More can do it after some drink, but it's still I minority. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 09:12 AM |
| 1 | It seems as though girls DONT WANT to be approachedSame applies to wearing headphones/earbuds, reading I've known guys to get laid plenty of times after approaching a girl with headphones on / reading. Personally I draw the line if they're on a phone call, but I know some guys who will still approach in that situation. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How to get over awkward shy feeling and lead the conversationI guess my question is, will this awkward shy feeling go away when talking to girls? Yes, it will fade over time. Do lots of cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 12:29 PM |
| 2 | It seems as though girls DONT WANT to be approachedJust approach anyway. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Do conventional opening lines work?An opener is really just saying hello, so nothing has to 'work' as such. Saying that, some openers do get the set off to a slightly better start than others. Like people say, once you get around to sleeping with a girl she probably won't even remember your opener by that stage. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:48 AM |
| 2 | It seems as though girls DONT WANT to be approachedDo you mean they start looking at their phone once you've approached, or before you even approach? | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts in my head preventing me from approachingThere are plenty of guys without fit bodies getting laid. I got better results being low bf vs being fat, but I've never had a ripped physique. As long as you aren't a fattie or stick thin (will make things harder if you are but you can still pull), you'll be fine. I fucked loads of girls without having many friends. In terms of job, I recently started earning an income that probably puts me in the top 2 - 3% of people in the UK. Has made no difference. These things may help somewhat for getting… | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:37 AM |
| 3 | I'm an introvert: I only approach every other day. What's your story?I've always said being an introvert makes the opening part of game hard, but the later stages easier. I've always struggled to get in enough approaches to really hit my full potential. Even when AA as an issue I've always struggled to say approach 10 girls in one session. All the guys who've got really good were opening dozens of girls a week in their early stages of development. | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Where can I pull women while traveling??Get an airbnb. Go to Eastern Europe. Do daygame. Profit. | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Observations I've made about hooking up with women at barsMy experience is the same, except for 5. I live in London and people come from miles to go out there. You need to find a venue that has as many of these types of women as possible, with the venue being as big as possible to maximise your chances. When I used to do clubs I tried many before picking one and sticking to it almost exclusively, as it was huge and contained many women who were open to being picked up. You seem to be spotting patterns in terms of girls who are really open to fucking a … | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Approached 2000 Girls but still not getting good resultsThat's the tough one. Plenty of coaches out there, but based on some youtube videos of guys I've seen who offer coaches many of them are terrible. I first got a daygame coach after I was already good at night game, so I knew enough to know that the coach was decent. The trouble is most guys don't know enough to be able to spot a good coach. You could try looking for recommendations on forums, but guys can give good reviews of bad coaches because bad coaches can do what looks good to a newbie but… | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill AppI'm going for 'Lord emperor of the vagina'. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/17 03:37 PM |
| 2 | If you want to get good at this quickly, sign up to some facebook groups (and get coaching)Good, sensible advice. No up votes. Back to ultimately empty feel good posts I guess. | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Approached 2000 Girls but still not getting good resultsIt's hard to evaluate where you're going wrong without seeing you in the field. 2k sets and 3 lays shows there's definitely a problem. My only suggestion would be to hire a coach, or find a wing that has good success with women (needs to be someone who started out sucking but got good through practice), and have them watch you to see where you're going wrong. | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Alternatives to start getting into dating?It's hard, it takes time, but it's the best way to get good with women fast. Worked for me, and I was once in a position similar to OP. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Alternatives to start getting into dating?Find a good pickup system, go out and practice it by using it to cold approach. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Accept masculinity?Join the army, it'll turn you into a man. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Is Daygame a myth?Your main problem is a defeatist mindset. Get out there and start approaching regularly. I've seen guys here in this subreddit explain that girls called security after being approached. Never happened to me or anyone I know, but it isn't impossible. If that happens, so what? it will be uncomfortable for you is all. I don't want to creep out any women This may happen occasionally when starting out, but not nearly as much as you think. If a woman gets creeped out, so what? As you get better this w… | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 12:06 PM |
| 1 | What does 'frame' mean in seduction lingo?Frame of reference. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 09:07 AM |
| 16 | Are flowers a good option for a first date?No, it's a fucking terrible idea. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 09:02 AM |
| 3 | If you make eye contact with a girl how long should you look at them?Ideally the girl looks away first, but obviously you don't want to continue to stare her down if she doesn't! Hold eye contact till you feel uncomfortable... then hold it for another couple of seconds. If she doesn't look away first slowly break eye contact and look to the side, not down. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Should I pay for the first date?I'd just pay. Provider is more like when you take her to a really expensive dinner to signal you'd make a good provider. Cinema not a great first date, btw. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:46 AM |
| 4 | Have you seen a guy do day game?It's more that guys are too scared to approach during the day. Daygame has a high barrier of entry because of this. But yes, it's not socially normal. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Have you seen a guy do day game?Yes. I live in central London. The main shopping street is called Oxford Street, and I have frequently seen guys cold approach there as that street is where all newbie daygamers go to practice. A few years back on a sunny day you'd see up to half a dozen guys approaching there. Not so much any more. Daygame is very rare, though. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Is Daygame a myth?The other reason I am calling it a myth is because there are so many "PUA videos" on YouTube of men approaching attractive women and seemingly a lot of these women give their number, or whatever. This could be a slanted as a marketing technique (get more views, cut out all failed attempts.) Yes they tend to only show successful approaches. Blow outs happen. the only guys finding success with this are socially calibrated You will have to become socially calibrated to get laid. It can be learned. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:28 AM |
| 6 | Is Daygame a myth?I think I've responded to one of your posts before, and it was along the same lines, of trying to work out if game is effective by asking questions about it, rather than trying. You have to try it. The game is played in the field. In terms of daygame working, nearly every guy I know socially (as in guys I know from outside of work) has gotten laid through daygame, including myself. I'm no expert on daygame. I used to do well online (but now I'm too old and have too high standards to make this wo… | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 07:24 AM |
| 3 | How often do you go out to meet womenI actively go out with the intention of meeting women a a few times a week. Once you have overcome AA and have a reasonable success rate it's conceivable someone could work approaching into his day to day life. The answers pretty simple though. If you can get good results just opening when going about your day to day life, do that. If not go out regularly just to meet women and approach and approach. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Threw away 5 chances at approaching tonight. I feel depressed. Help?Haha, I've missed 1000s of chances over the years, I'm sad to say. Is it even worth approaching girls if you know for a fact that your level of anxiety is going to make your body language super awkward/creepy when you try to pull it off Yes, 100% yes. What's the point of approaching if you are going to act like you're on drugs? Because the only way to get to the point where you don't feel like that is by doing lots of approaches. Think of it this way. What you've said is a bit like saying, "What… | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 01:12 PM |
| 8 | how to pass shit tests on text?Girls don't start shit testing as a result of you gaming them badly, quite the reverse. They shit test when they're interested. | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Bad experience with park sarging (failed shit test)Successful troll is successful. https://www.reddit.com/user/davidstcrystal | /r/seduction | 09/06/17 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerWe'll I'll certainly admit there's no one true way. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerDisagree. The less you say the less chance there is you say something to disqualify yourself. Talking too much breaks sexual tension. Girls favourite subject is themselves, makes sense to get them to talk about themselves. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 03:19 PM |
| 6 | 7 Ways Introverted Men Can Crush It In DatingI'm very strongly introverted. I work in a field (software engineering) that is renowned for having a high percentage of introverts, and even within this group I stand out to others as being very introverted. I like spending nearly all my time alone, and often the mere thought of having a conversation with someone else makes me feel mentally tired. Despite this I managed to get very good with women over the course of 5 years (I dropped out of the game for 2 years for various reasons after that, … | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 01:31 PM |
| 1 | "I'll check my sched."I would treat it as such. I'm sure she knows if she's free or not. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 10:35 AM |
| 3 | My Confidence is too damaged for me to ever get a Girlfriend.I’m 21 and I’m too old to fix things now LOL. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerWhat is it about being an introvert that makes you feel you need some specific introvert material (I'm very heavily introverted btw)? | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Which approach for introvert & good active listenerSo being able to get the girl to do most of the talking isn't a good seduction strategy? Hmmm. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:24 AM |
| 1 | What makes a girl sexy? (23f)I'm not sure guys are actually more attracted to this, I think they just think they have more of a chance with these girls because they have a shared interest. I think people confuse this with attraction. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | What makes a girl sexy? (23f)Tits. Ass. Face. Plus good eye contact and the way they walk. Strong feminine polarity. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:19 AM |
| 3 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.His current values don't include things like being courteous and respectful towards his friends and family The his values are the problem, more than the fact he's unapologetic about them. | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly.It's people's values that cause them to be good or bad, not the fact their unapologetic about them. For example, say someone's value allow them to lie and cheat all the time, but every time they get caught out they're very apologetic about it. Contrast this to someone who's values do not allow for lying and cheating, but do allow for relentlessly trying to get laid. They never apologise for wanting to get laid. Surely the second person would be a better person, because despite being unapologetic… | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Progressing my approachIf you're doing daygame, what process do you follow? You may want to google Tom Torero. His daygame methodology was developed by a few top London daygamers and has been used by many guys with success. He uses things like accusations, and teasing to build attraction, then moves on to generally vibing with them, before finally shifting the burden of the interaction so they're doing most of the work and hence investing. All the while he sprinkles in sexual spikes, and goes for strong masculine pola… | /r/seduction | 08/06/17 07:31 AM |
| 2 | Progressing my approachIs this daygame or in a club? | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I can't find a reason for myself to go on like thisWell 50 - 60 approaches is about 2 weeks work for someone serious about getting good at game. You really haven't opened enough sets to be worried that things aren't going well for you. Approach 1000 girls and see what happens. Learn what's working and what isn't from the sets, and maybe get coaching at some point. As for the depression, I don't think anyone here can give advice on that, you may need professional help. | /r/seduction | 07/06/17 06:52 AM |
| 0 | I can't find a reason for myself to go on like thisHow many girls have you cold approached in total? | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 07:28 PM |
| 5 | What hobbies attract the most girls?Yeah what this guy says. Don't need to take up hobbies to get girls when you can just pick them up on the street. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 04:18 PM |
| 1 | For guys 30 or beyond, if you just want to hook up..If you can't get laid at home, you won't in a Slavic country. Once you can get laid it will be easier and with hotter girls in a Slavic country. This is because on average girls are far more attractive there, so a girl you'd consider an 8 would probably be on the same level in a Slavic country as a girl who is a 6 in the west. Also the men tend to not be very ambitious or worldly, so it's easier for you to be higher value than them. The combo of your higher value and their lower value is the win… | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | A great tip from Tom ToreroHaving seen some of Torero's stuff, he deliberately avoids romantic. There's no need to be smooth. It's normalising the situation and pointing out the male / female polarity. | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | A great tip from Tom ToreroWhy? | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 12:43 PM |
| 4 | About how important is being into fashion?Style yes, fashion no (the difference is style is good taste, fashion involves following the latest trends). Your style communicates who you are and what you think of yourself. For example you will have different first impressions about a person dressed as a goth vs dressed in a suit. I'd go one of two ways: either very smart (suits, blazers) or bad boy (leather jacket, boots, eye catching t shirt, think rock star). These are both good archetypes of guys who get laid. | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 07:23 AM |
| 2 | For guys 30 or beyond, if you just want to hook up..Well my best year for getting women was probably when I was 31/32. It was way easier then than at any time in my 20s. This is partly because I only started game at 28. I mostly dropped out of the game after that and now I'm coming back, so we'll have to wait and see. Have had some success with women over past 2 years, but have done very little approaching so can't tell what difference ageing has had yet (I have aged a fair bit since 32). Despite my lack of effort these past couple of years I did… | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | [intermediate] Approach'd, spent WHOLE day together, got to my place and then things got weird. Constructive feedback please!I do t think you did anything wrong. The only thing I'd have done differently is try and get my flat mate out of the apartment. Girls are less likely to fuck of other ppl are around. If you read anything KrauserPua or Tom Torero have written you'll see this happening all the time with SDLs. Girls freak out at the last moment as they realise they're about to fuck a guy they've just met and feel that that's too slutty. Those guys have a ton of near misses like this. The only way to solve it is to … | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 12:43 PM |
| 2 | To all of you pussies.I just visited that link... Jesus | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | For guys 30 or beyond, if you just want to hook up..What do you mean, relatively speaking? Not sure what you're asking here. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:05 AM |
| 1 | For guys 30 or beyond, if you just want to hook up..Im almost 35. Do you have to accept women with kids? Fuck, no. I aim for girls in around the 19 - 26 age range. | /r/seduction | 29/05/17 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Out of 10 dates you go, how many of them do you successfully f-close on average?Maybe 3 / 4 out of 10. | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Is the Shogun Method a load of bull?Just heard about this so googled it. Then proceeded to look for video infields of Derek Rake who created it. Found none. Verdict: Bullshit. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Dental Braces and Nightclubs. Is it not even worth trying?Chance of getting laid sitting at home: 0% Chances of getting laid with girl from club despite having braces: >0% | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Is being in really good shape a hinderance more than a plus?No. | /r/seduction | 11/02/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Can you excel at pickup if you're a loner?Well recently I don't go out much, but I used to do nightgame, and occasional daygame. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Do you really keep body count?I do. At the end of each year I remember my new lifetime total, then keep count of the number of girls that year for a running total. I'm on 85. Think average is around 15 for people of the younger generation.. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Can you excel at pickup if you're a loner?Yes. I'm a loner (very introverted, small number of friends I see infrequently) but I'm not far off fucking 100 girls. | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 08:11 AM |
| 4 | I feel like I did almost everything wrong but still got laid just by putting myself out there and not expecting sex.Pretty much. One thing a lot of guys don't get is that you have to pull the trigger, things will rarely 'just happen' if you don't. If you want to have sex with her you have to ask her back to yours and then try and fuck her. | /r/seduction | 12/01/17 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Help me realize where I screwed up and what should I learn from this.It could just be because of the whole thing with the ex, maybe they got back together. Should have tried fucking her on the second date (personally I'd probably try on the first, but second is ok). | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Where is all the actual advice?Open. Lots. Dress well, keep in shape. Take a devil may care attitude. Never focus on pursuing just one girl at a time. Be bold. When in doubt, escalate. It's up to you to move the interaction from meet to sex. Don't wait for her to do it / give you cues on when to move forward. Done. | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | All pulling attempts end when I say my age (18)Just lie and say you're 21. | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Seeking Arrangement = GoldmineHave fucked maybe 20 girls from there in past year. 11 of them were for free, the rest I paid for. I try and get them for free, but if they insist on money upfront I make a decision as to whether I'm willing to pay or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/16 03:01 PM |
| 2 | The value of one on one coaching.Do you mind if I ask who the bootcamp is with? For that amount for 5 days it really should be one of the top people who actually gets results (many commercial guys aren't that successful with women) for it to be anything like worth it. I would say that the idea of intensive bootcamps are bad. Would you go on a piano bootcamp to learn how to play or would you get regular lessons? It takes time to learn pickup because a lot of your beliefs about yourself, the world and women will probably have to … | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 03:11 PM |
| 1 | The value of one on one coaching.I cannot possibly think of what a guy could teach you in a few days that would be worth $5,000 Agree You would be better off by making a few girl friends and asking them what you should to become more attractive. No. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.But I tihnk most guys work to live as opposed to live to work? Agreed. Having a job you're passionate about usually isn't good for paying the bills. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Guys be more self aware. Saw a pair of dudes working the room at a bar the other day, and everyone was laughing at them.Yeah, if these guys stick with it for the long haul and learn over time, they'll be pulling whilst OP is sipping beer with his boys, and scanning the room to make eye contact. | /r/seduction | 18/10/16 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How can one improve day game?I'd recommend this book, by a top daygamer: http://www.lulu.com/shop/nick-krauser/daygame-nitro/hardcover/product-21666225.html | /r/seduction | 17/10/16 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Women cheating on their boyfriends to be with you. What're your thoughts?Most hot girls are fucking someone, you shouldn't let a bf stop you. If she's really into him, she'll shut you down. If not, game on. | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 01:40 PM |
| 1 | "Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response.If not, the message is clear: "This other thing is more important." Yeah, I'm busy translates to, "There's something else more important to me at that time" | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 01:17 PM |
| 7 | "Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response.But obviously we do care about when she actually is free because we're on a seduction forum discussing practical ways to get laid. Kinda hit the nail on the head there, made me lol. I agree with you. I don't do the "I'm going to x, you should come" unless I do happen to be going somewhere and wouldn't mind some company. This is rare though. Usually I'll just say something like, "Let's meet for drinks, 8pm, Friday, Piccadilly circus" If she says she can't, but gives an alternate time then this is… | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 01:09 PM |
| 1 | "Are you free this week?" = no response. "I'm going to X at X time. Care to join?" = immediate response.As well as the second one taking the initiative, the first one is quite hard to respond to. Like if someone asks you if you're free this week, how do you respond? List all the days and time you have free? People aren't ready to reveal to someone they don't know well yet all their free time in a whole week. | /r/seduction | 12/10/16 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Cole approach vs tinderI used to do both Tinder and cold approach. Tinder used to work really well for me a few years ago when it was new. Now I'm older (34) I can't seem to match with hot girls often enough to make it worthwhile (other people have told me tinder isn't as good as it used to be), so cold approach it is. | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Cole approach vs tinderno body can make it to 300 approaches (muchless 6 months of approaches like that other fucking moron in the other thread) and still be this idiotic. 300 isn't that many for a noob. | /r/seduction | 10/10/16 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Why invest in fitness, looks, clothes, hygiene, learning social skills, books, seduction... if the main goal is not to impress others?The goal is to impress others | /r/seduction | 07/10/16 08:32 PM |
| 1 | KrauserPUA Infield - Daygame Mediocrity #1He learned his daygame in London. But yes, being in FSU / EE countries as a Brit gives you an edge. | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 08:45 PM |
| 1 | experiment with indirect-direct?IMO the best way is to be slightly vague with the opener, like, I noticed your big eyes and thought you looked like a cute little rabbit. It sounds like your probably chatting her up, but it still retains intrigue unlike something generic and outright complimentary, "You like super cute". If you can do this whilst sub communicating sexual intent this would work well. Women love when you can make your feelings known without explicitly stating them. They're less likely to reject things that are su… | /r/seduction | 03/10/16 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Great daygame interactions... but they never go anywhere. Advice?Tell us more about how you open and what you do... do you stay in the same place chatting for an hour or bounce her somewhere else? | /r/seduction | 22/09/16 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Guys with high lay counts, how did you commonly get your lays?I'm not quite in 3 figures yet, but close to it, not sure if that counts as high... Anyway for me it was mainly 50% online dating (Pof and a bit of tinder) and 50% cold approach in clubs, but I did get a few lays from Daygame and social circle and that's it. Tinder / Pof don't work for me anymore like they used to now I'm mid 30s (or maybe my standards have gone up). | /r/seduction | 20/09/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Killing male ambitionSome googling tells me it's 98%, which means 2% of all women who have sex with a condom but who aren't on the pill in a given year will get pregnant. That doesn't sound too, but then if you're smashing a couple of new girls a month the stats start to catch up to you... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Uncontacted Amazonian Tribe Member Gets a Girl...Goes Hunting...Girl Sleeps With His BrotherSo a girl who was abducted from another village doesn't stay faithful to the man who abducted her? What a bitch! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/16 10:10 AM |
| 19 | Is 'Game' Really Necessary? How To Pull Hotties By Being Yourself And Boring +INFIELDYes, people reach unconscious competence then start proclaiming you don't need game. | /r/seduction | 16/09/16 03:30 PM |
| 4 | How to Rapidly Speed up Your GameAlthough I think it's unlikely he mastered game in 2 months (maybe he conflates getting some results with mastery), no one can fuck any girl whenever he wants, even if they've mastered game. | /r/seduction | 15/09/16 08:26 AM |
| 2 | Guys, what's better when you go out with friends to practice game: To hang out with people who have way better game than you or way worse?Given the choice I'd much prefer people who are better. This is pretty obvious, IMO: If I want to get good at bjj to I practice with people better or worse than me? If I want to get better at sales do I work at a company where the sales people are better or worse than me? You don't need good game to successfully wing guys with good game, you just need to be reasonably socially competent and not try and compete with them for a girl they've opened (chodes do this all the time). Essentially as long… | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 10:25 AM |
| 3 | magaluf/ibiza etc , anyone?Yes I can shed light. They guy you ran into was probably full of shit. There's this really common idea that places like these are full of girls who are up for it so guys can get easy sex. Now it's true girls do become more promiscuous when on holiday in these places, but this advantage is negated by the fact that the places reputation for easy sex drives a very high volume of horny men there, to the extent that men vastly outnumber women in these places (I heard Ibiza was 7 men to 1 women). It's… | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 06:30 PM |
| 1 | magaluf/ibiza etc , anyone?16 is legal most places. Even in the US, 16 is legal in many states. | /r/seduction | 09/09/16 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Remember, you are the prize, not herAnd in one simple sentence, you have exposed a major PUA myth. | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Has Anybody Here Bought a Copy of the "Ultimate Seduction Model"https://krauserpua.com/2016/09/02/deepak-wayne-analysis-of-his-fake-infield/ | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 02:55 PM |
| 0 | How do you pick up older women?With those compliment retorts you described, the first could just be a joke, but the second two, unless delivered in a really jovial manner, would lead to me just walking away. I wouldn't put up with attitude like that. The trouble with women in the very early 30s age range is that they are often harder to pull than younger women for various reasons, despite being lower value. | /r/seduction | 08/09/16 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How Do You Lead Girls? Can Anyone Help??Take the initiative. Like when you both arrive at a bar for a date, you'd say, grab us some seats and I'll get the drinks. | /r/seduction | 07/09/16 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here feel like there is just too much content to memorize and effectively utilize? What is the bare minimum you actually need and to memorize?Memorize one really simple direct opener, have a few stock talking points, and read about basic assumption stacking. That will get you through the first 100 approaches. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 08:10 PM |
| 51 | Is it pointless to go after a girl if there are no initial signs of attraction?I'd move on. Next time be a bit more up front about your intentions though. You didn't get her number to keep up with stuff, saying that's why you wanted to was a bit weak. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Is it pointless to go after a girl if there are no initial signs of attraction?No he says she hasn't done all that stuff. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 07:54 PM |
| 2 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)Yeah, you'd reject a 10. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 02:05 PM |
| 2 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)Most people I see are looks matched. If anything I see women with guys who are more attractive than them Yeah, I'd agree. You get the odd wtf couple, but generally this is correct. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)Guys who get laid a lot know that there isn't any "specifics" you can teach. Every interaction is different There are similar situations encountered in most pickups, and there can be advice given on what to do in each of these situations. It's certainly possible to give a road map of roughly how a pickup will go with examples of what to do at each stage. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 01:27 PM |
| 3 | How to date “out of your league” and get 9s and 10s (and why most of you won’t)And really, that is how humans learn. By copying what others do So true. I hate people, who when asked on advice on how to approach women, just say, be confident and talk about what ever comes to mind. This isn't actionable advice. I agree infields really help. | /r/seduction | 06/09/16 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that chubby girls are easier?Yes, significantly. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 08:25 PM |
| 1 | losing faith in cold approachCold approach: approach a girl you don't know, without being introduced to her by someone else, with the intention of sleeping with her / dating her. | /r/seduction | 05/09/16 09:36 AM |
| 5 | More often than not women pick men upFrom experience this strikes me as true. Most times when a man thinks he pulled a women, it was really her who initiated, even though she did it fairly passively. Back in my club game days I got my most success when I learned to spot and elicit these signals from women in clubs. I'd wander around the club with a smirk on my face trying to get eye contact with girls, and looking out for girls who seemed to want to be approached. My open:close rate was amazing, but there is a problem. Some nights … | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl has Bf - mixed signals?Guys expect way too much in terms of tells from a girl. It's like thus expect s neon sign to appear above their heads saying fuck me now. If a girl spends any meaningful amount of time alone with me I presume she wants to have sex with me and I go from there. I'm not the type of guy girls chose to be friends with so I guess that makes it clearer for me. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How to pull the 18-20s on Tinder?"I really like young guys" - No girl ever | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Is she Interested? Tips or how to tell if we're friends/dating?Be honest with yourself, do you care about the friendship? Would you be friends with her if she was fat and ugly instead of a 10? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 04:16 AM |
| 0 | How to pull the 18-20s on Tinder?I stuck to my own age when I was early 20s. Now I'm older that age I like just hasn't changed. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:52 AM |
| -2 | How to pull the 18-20s on Tinder?Finding it hard to compete with us older guys are we? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:51 AM |
| 0 | How to pull the 18-20s on Tinder?10 year age gap isn't old enough to be there dads. Women hit the wall by 30, men haven't peaked yet at that age, so no guy of 30 should want to fuck women that age. I'm 34. The youngest I've fucked this year was 19. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Not being creepyI really believe that girls always complaining about being approached by creepy guys is some mass preemptive shit test. Women everywhere complain about being approached by creepy guys. There's two ways guys react when they here this: An average guy with self esteem isn't great (low value guy): I better not approach girls, they might think I'm creepy High self esteem guy (high value): Yeah I guess it must suck when so many creepy guys approach them instead of cool guys like me. Basically by menti… | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:41 AM |
| 1 | HELP!!! I think I'm done with this shitWhat Daygame model are you using? | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Is she Interested? Tips or how to tell if we're friends/dating?If you aren't fucking her, your her friend. You need to escalate. If she blows you out when you do this you know where you stand. If not, you fuck her. If you escalate and she blows you off you haven't ruined anything because there was anything to ruin. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Age Gap?Yeah women generally don't like younger men. Just lie about your age of you meet an older women you like. Guys will say own your age it's all a shit test blah blah... No... Very few women want to sleepy with a guy 5 or more years younger. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Not getting anywhere with anything, what now?Well firstly, a few weeks isn't much. Depending where you started at, this stuff can take a long time to get good. I'd recommend getting one on one coaching for a single session. A decent coach will observe you approaching and will be able to quickly give you a rundown of your main errors. | /r/seduction | 04/09/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you sum up what game is in one sentence?Using the knowledge of female sexual psychology to act in a way which will maximise your chances of having sex with women. | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 12:23 PM |
| -2 | how to get a girlfriendWhy do you want a gf? I'm really of the opinion guys under 30 should refuse monogamy. It simply makes no sense for them. | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Question for those who are past the beginner stageConsider finding wingman who are into Pua. | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Girl has Bf - mixed signals?The signals aren't mixed, it's very simple. She has a bf back home but wants to fuck you while she's on holiday. Girls always fuck around whilst travelling, they feel like being away from their normal life let's them have sexual adventures without being caught. Be that sexual adventure. Go out with her. Both get a little drunk. Kiss her. Take her somewhere sutiable. Fuck her. | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 12:09 PM |
| 1 | What, in your opinion, is the single most important element to success with women?There is no one thing, it's lots of different things. | /r/seduction | 02/09/16 02:50 PM |
| 2 | What, in your opinion, is the single most important element to success with women?Hot women will often go to events where they know high status / powerful men will be in order to meet them. | /r/seduction | 02/09/16 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How often/many do I approach?10 per hour is one every 6 minutes. It's not going well if you get through that many. Approach maybe a dozen in an afternoon doing Daygame and you've done well. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 08:08 AM |
| 1 | Tinder date literally asked "when are we going to have sex". That's when I realized I am not that type of guy... yet.Locate your testicles and fire off that text. Time to become a man, son. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | This dude does video field reports with his infield footage! It's fu*kin dope!Why no audio of the conversation with the girl? Very suspicious, not 100% convinced this was a lay. Note he never actually claims he laid her. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | This dude does video field reports with his infield footage! It's fu*kin dope!It's the truth. Looks matter. I've heard Mr. M from love systems is short but also good. Never seen him or his stuff though. If you're 5'6 wear boots with a good heel. They'll take you to close to average height. You may have to open more sets than taller guys, but you can get results. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 07:41 AM |
| 1 | This dude does video field reports with his infield footage! It's fu*kin dope!Why would you go for girls over 25 if they're more work given girls' sexual attractiveness peaks at about 24? Think about what he says about race and civilisation... Apart from not giving any credit to East Asians who are deserving of it, he's right. Civilised nations are a product of white Europeans... The rest of the world except east Asia is a bit shit. | /r/seduction | 01/09/16 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Done over 100 approachesApproaches do more than that. They expose any chinks you have in your armour, any ways in which your value is lacking, and forces you to improve these areas. Yes, there's more to it than relentless approaching, but most guys who have got really good with women via pickup have done thousands of approaches to get there. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Done over 100 approachesThat would tally with you getting asexual dates. | /r/seduction | 31/08/16 01:46 PM |
| 2 | This dude does video field reports with his infield footage! It's fu*kin dope!Try krauserpua.com. He's not short (average height), but IMO is below average looking (he's 40 something, bald and pulls girls in their late teens / early 20s). He has some videos knocking around somewhere, and a series of infields with breakdowns you can buy. | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 04:56 PM |
| 4 | Girls that open firstSmile. Playfully say, "That's the worst chat up line ever" | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Did I miss my opportunity?As a general rule, if you're ever alone with an attractive girl in her room or her in yours, you should try and fuck her. | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 12:39 PM |
| 2 | What should I think about before approaching a woman?Bending her over and ruining her. | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 09:47 AM |
| 2 | Bf complicationsGo out and cold approach, meet new women. Stop 'crushing' on girls. | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 09:46 AM |
| 4 | Do you ever get rejected for physical escalation by a girl even though she's into you? Why does it happen?does it happen sometimes that you try to escalate (even something as low level as kissing) and you get rejected, even though they're into you? All the time. I've lost count of the number of times I've been stopped when going for the first kiss but still got the bang. Any tips for better gauging when to escalate? Just because she rejects the first attempt doesn't mean you got your timing wrong. Men are the accelerator, women are the breaks. | /r/seduction | 30/08/16 09:41 AM |
| 3 | You should read the Nick Krauser books on game. I just finished "Adventure Sex" (Cross-post)It's a shame Krauser doesn't get mentioned more on Reddit. For some reason the hive mind doesn't seem to like his style of game. Truth is he's probably one of the best pick up artists in the world. He consistently, and quickly fucks girls who are much younger and better looking than him. Very few people achieve this. Most guys who say they're good at game fuck girls on their level of looks and below. For s good looking guy that can still be some good looking girls, but they aren't fucking above … | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 08:09 PM |
| 5 | What are some more "fun" ideas for first dates?Agreed. Terrible first date. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 07:23 PM |
| 6 | I hate the cheesiness of flirtingDon't say you love her hair if you haven't noticed. There must be something you like about her (or you wouldn't be flirting with her), so say that. Forget the being yourself bullshit. Guys who come to seddit need to change themselves from someone who is unattractive to someone who is attractive. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Top 20% have 80%What country? | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Top 20% have 80%They had to learn through trial and error, you still need to use trial and error to some extent, but if you follow Pua teachings you get a head start due to benefiting from the knowledge that took other puas years to obtain. I started at 27 and was doing well with girls by the time I was 30. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Who's your role model when it comes to pickup?If I remember rightly from reading the book, he never really banged more than a handful of women? Do t know where the best Pua in the world idea came from. | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 01:59 PM |
| 4 | My girl dumped me 2 years ago and I was at 5 sexual partners. I just hit 400... A.M.A!So you've fucked on average 3 - 4 girls a week for the past 2 years. Since most guys fuck the same number in a lifetime as you do in a month, how did you go about doing this? Online dating? Cold approach? | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Not all women like dominant menPUA does teach that girls like socially dominant guys, eg the leader of a social group. Look at the Mystery Method. It's designed to make the practioner look like this type of guy. This also identifies a large reason many guys who are fairly well adjusted and decent looking struggle to get laid and turn to Pua; they aren't leaders within a social group of hot girls and cool guys. Plus studies like this are massively flawed. Who girls rate as being attractive when asked are irrelevant. It's who t… | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What is your guys opinion on doing anything sexual with a clearly intoxicated/ drunk woman?For me it depends how drunk she is, rather than how much she drank. From all my years of taken girls home from clubs I only once decided not to go ahead with sexual activity due to a girls intoxication. In this case the girl was slurring her words and finding it hard to walk, and she didn't seem to be fully aware of what was going on. Due to her thick Irish accent and the noise in the club these things weren't obvious until after I took her out to a taxi. On arriving home with her I got her a ca… | /r/seduction | 28/08/16 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Places to fuck in central London for free?Try the toilets of high end hotels. Find some hotels that have bars near the places you go on dates. The last drink of the night would be in the hotel bar. Obviously pick one where it's not too obvious you're both going in the toilets together. The 'public' toilets in hotels tend to be empty because everyone uses the ones in their room, and the high end hotels have really nice well kept toilets. I live fairly centrally so can't say I really do this, but if I had no place to take a girl id maybe … | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 05:48 PM |
| 2 | What to do if not seeing any results in a few weeks?It took me months of cold approaching before I got my first lay. You should certainly analyse where you're going wrong (start writing field reports, or get a game coach), but it can be a long process to get good. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Bootcamp review - LovesystemsNice to see an honest review. I think the main problem with bootcamps is that they are one size fits all, not catered to the individual. There are many different problems guys can have when attracting women, so a coach needs to personalize tuition. The other problem is that, as mentioned, a one off bootcamps can't really change much as real change happens over to course of many months. Think about learning the piano. Do people take a weekend piano bootcamp and expect to be able to play really we… | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Co-worker sitting wide legs WIDE open?Ask her out and fuck her. If you keep procrastinating or looking for signs more obvious than her literally spreading her legs for you she'll assume that you're either not interested or a pussy. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Is she interested, or is this what people do nowadaysWhen in doubt, try and smash | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 01:00 PM |
| 3 | How terrible of an idea is it to just simply state you want to fuck?Why state it? Just take her to a location where you can have sex using some thin pretence, then try and fuck her. Either she fucks you or she doesn't. | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 10:33 AM |
| 10 | Is the whole "looks don't matter" mantra bullshit?You'd be better off googling for an answer, this topic gets covered weekly on PUA forums. Looks are important, but not everything. Good looking guys with 0 game can struggle, average guys with amazing game can do well. Game is just extra value. The PUAs say looks don't count because they sell game training, not plastic surgery. | /r/seduction | 25/08/16 01:05 PM |
| 3 | AlexSocial4wN - How To Get Into EXCLUSIVE Clubs! (Vegas, Sydney, London, Stockholm... Alex's Tips & Tricks)Ah, TigerTiger... that's where I trained myself in nightgame. Must have pulled a couple of dozen women from there. But you're right, it's low brow, and not many hotties. Only good for getting through your first 1k approaches as there are so many women there. It's certainly worth going to places like Maddox. The average girl there will be an HB8, plenty of 9s, and you'll never get fights or something like that at those places. I don't get why guys won't get it in there heads that you do need to g… | /r/seduction | 25/08/16 12:51 PM |
| 7 | How To Arouse A Girl And Get Her Emotionally Excited +INFIELD (A MUST KNOW!!!)He was playfully teasing her. Only some one with either low self esteem or a stick up their ass would react badly to that. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 07:36 PM |
| 3 | How To Arouse A Girl And Get Her Emotionally Excited +INFIELD (A MUST KNOW!!!)Come to think of it low self esteem girls do tend to be pretty good in bed. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Is asking for numbers relevant nowadays?Ask her for her number... Also, sounds like you're at uni. Uni is a social artifice to some extent. You won't get big friendship networks like this once you leave, so you'll have to start asking for numbers then. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 12:45 PM |
| 5 | How to respond when she replies with a like button?Stop talking on facebook, meet her face to face. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Question about girls "testing" guys.Possible explanations: When girls are jealous that a guy they like is giving another girl attention. People tend to project what they want onto others, so girls think, if I make this guy jealous he'll like me more. Girls like drama, doing what she did could create drama She wanted to gauge how much other guy liked her based on his reaction. Some girls self esteem is so dependant on male sexual attention that they flirt with lots of men to feel good. She wanted to be double teamed (unlikely that … | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:54 AM |
| 1 | I'm losing weight, but it's going to be awhile. Any tips for feeling like a badass and upping my self esteem while I'm still fat?That doesn't contradict the fact that it's stupid to do it for the sole purpose of showing off I don't see another reason for getting into really amazing shape. You can be healthy without looking good naked, so the only reason is really aesthetics to help you pull. The people who are in shape but not pulling probably never approach or never escalate, it's nothing to do with the fact they got ripped to show off. Find me a ripped, handsome guy of average height or better who approaches 20 sets a w… | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:41 AM |
| 3 | What is the best way to talk to a girl sitting by herself in a college lunchroom without looking creepy?There's a technique called calling out the elephant in the room. Basically you go and say to her, "I don't want to come across as creepy, but I saw you sitting alone, you looked nice, so I wanted to meet you." It shows social intelligence that you recognise some people may think it's creepy to go and talk to her, and by saying this it stops you being perceived as creepy. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:30 AM |
| 2 | I'm losing weight, but it's going to be awhile. Any tips for feeling like a badass and upping my self esteem while I'm still fat?I'm 15lbs overweight at the moment. It's because I'm bulking. I know I'll lose it when I shred up next year. I tell girls in gonna bounce them off my belly and they giggle. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm losing weight, but it's going to be awhile. Any tips for feeling like a badass and upping my self esteem while I'm still fat?Let's be realistic. You're gonna feel better about yourself if you're ripped compared to if you're fat. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:22 AM |
| 2 | Honesty vs. NeedinessHonesty is not lying. Not texting her all the time even though you want to isn't lying. | /r/seduction | 24/08/16 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Struggling with fetishes and inner game.Ok you're probably better off getting into the fetish scene in your local area. If you don't live in a big city, move to one, so much more opportunity for this stuff. As an example, London has regular fetish events at nightclubs called torture garden (I've never been). You'll find it much easier meeting a girl you like via the fetish scene and getting her to be your gf than by trying to find a girl via vanilla dating then getting her to do fetish stuff. I'm mainly dominant, but I do like occasio… | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 12:17 PM |
| 0 | Struggling with fetishes and inner game.Well yeah. But you're not gonna get in a relationship with the hookers so it should be ok. But seriously, what are you planning to do? get a gf and only fuck her for the rest of your life? Everyone's morals are their own, so it's up to you. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 11:53 AM |
| 0 | Struggling with fetishes and inner game.Do what most guys like this do. Keep it vanilla with girlfriends, use hookers for the femdom stuff. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How do I do?I've met and spent time with a girl who is literally perfect Friendzone in 3, 2, 1... | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How to keep atractrion over distance?She's going away for 5 months. She'll probably get smashed by someone else in that time. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 11:15 AM |
| 2 | How important is "good looks" and attraction from her part........This is discussed to death. There are a number of different attributes that women find attractive in men. Looks are one. Provider ability is another. Social dominance another. I think there's a full list in the Mystery Method. A man's total value is the sum of all these attributes, and generally it's total value that counts. So yes, an ugly man can have such high value in other areas that his looks don't matter. You also have to remember that different women weight different attributes different… | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 11:01 AM |
| 2 | Why is it normal for people to stop responding to texts or calls after successful dates?She might have found an option she considers better. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 09:31 AM |
| 3 | How to keep atractrion over distance?Very occasional messages, focus on girls closer to home for now. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 09:26 AM |
| 3 | I am a guy in open relationship with bisexual girl. We share stories of others we sleep with. I enjoy hearing about her hookups with women, but get a little jealous when she tells me about her hookups with guys. How can I stop being jealous? [Question]You can't really stop being jealous, it's human nature. Tell her you don't wanna hear about other guys. | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 09:25 AM |
| 4 | I am a guy in open relationship with bisexual girl. We share stories of others we sleep with. I enjoy hearing about her hookups with women, but get a little jealous when she tells me about her hookups with guys. How can I stop being jealous? [Question]Just tell her, "Look, obviously we have an open relationship, but I'm sure you can appreciate that I don't wanna here about the other guys you're smashing, so we're gonna keep that on a don't ask don't tell basis. I'm ok hearing about you getting it on with girls though, for obvious reasons!" | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 09:24 AM |
| 7 | I am a guy in open relationship with bisexual girl. We share stories of others we sleep with. I enjoy hearing about her hookups with women, but get a little jealous when she tells me about her hookups with guys. How can I stop being jealous? [Question]Grow some self respect, An open relationship with a bisexual girl seems like the holy grail to me... | /r/seduction | 23/08/16 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?If you mean Kiev (capital of Ukraine), I've never been but am reliably informed it's good. Don't know about Vilnius. Also I'm talking purely about Daygame. The disadvantage of Belgrade is that the central area is so small that of another group of day gamers roll in you're screwed. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Being rich can be a problem! How do I explain a complicated career and significant wealth?if she had aids, if she killed her last two lovers with a knife etc Would still smash if she was a 10 in looks. My chances of catching aids of her are like 0 even if I go raw, and I'll just make sure no knives are around lol. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Where would you spend two weeks in Europe?Belgrade. The women are hot, the guys are ugly and broke, daygame works well there. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | When she isn't responding - tips`?Wait 48, then send: Do you have a twin? I just saw you're doppelganger walking down the street. This girls was an exact copy of you. Usually gets a reply without looking needy. Often I just send '?'. But like others say, it's often lost interest. The fact that she was interested in the past doesn't mean she hasn't lost interest now. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 01:48 PM |
| 3 | How do I have a stronger 'frame'?Reframe: Girls are too scared to make the first move, so as a confident man who goes after what he wants you're proactive and approach first. This makes you better than the girls. They just have to sit around hoping to be chosen. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 01:39 PM |
| 2 | How do I have a stronger 'frame'?Intelligence? No. Intelligent people often have the most doubt in their mind. Ignorance? I've found this to often be the case with people with strong frames. Experience? Certainly helps. The been there, done that, got the t shirt feeling helps with frame. Found this helps with frame: https://krauserpua.com/2016/08/05/assertiveness-training/ | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Is tinder dying?Used to kill it on there a couple of years back, now I still get matches but the quality is lower. I put it down to my age now being above the upper limit that girls are looking for (I'm 34, looking for girls 18 - 27). Having said that, many people have commented that it's got shit now. No one seems to know why. | /r/seduction | 22/08/16 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Any recommendations on books about the art of conversation?https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/B00BAJ2MYM/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1 | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 09:49 PM |
| 1 | How can I make my "game" time efficient and scheduled?Some people need a schedule to get shit done. I do fuck all of I don't have a list and some form of schedule. It's not a problem. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Women giving conflicting seduction advice?These points are more than just 'valid'. This is the exact reason women have given you this bad advice. It's in their best interests. It serves the female imperative, and put you in their frame of them being the sexual selectors. This is what they want: A guy not too move too quickly, as he may seduce them fast, and then after sleeping with him the women realises he wasn't actually a good match for her Instead for guys to take it slowly so they become orbitors. This gives women a pool of man to … | /r/seduction | 13/08/16 08:57 PM |
| 1 | i'm great at opening terrible at closingPlease clarify what you mean by closing? Seduction resources focus on opening because it's the main barrier to entry when it comes to guys being good at seduction, and is the main reason that most guys who give PUA a try give up. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 09:28 AM |
| 2 | Getting very mixed signals from this girlSounds like she doesn't quite know what she wants. She's emotionally still trying to get over her ex, but still has sexual and attention needs. I think you played this right. You asserted your desires by refusing to hang out with her sex free, which was the correct move, she can't have it all her own way. If you just want sex with her maybe hit her up every now and again. If you want a relationship, then I'd say this isn't the girl for you. I get the impression she's emotionally unavailable. | /r/seduction | 08/08/16 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Should you ever create routines/pre made material or should you go all natural?I've found that if I've said something in a certain situation and it's gone down well I'll say it again in the same situation in the future. Over time it will get refined and essentially become a routine, but one where the words are my own, not someone else's. I don't see this as not being natural. If you watch people with strong 'natural' social skills for long enough you will see them do this. | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 09:34 AM |
| 3 | "Women are turned on by being wanted"Just because a woman likes being desired it doesn't mean she'll sleep with the guy who desires her. An example of this is girls in clubs who dance in a very sexual manner in order to garner male attention, even though they have no intention of getting with any of the men. Like another commenter said, being attractive to men is a big part of a woman's identity so they need affirmation of this attractiveness. As for nice guys, they tend to hide their dicks from girls there attracted to, and rarely… | /r/seduction | 07/08/16 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Yad's Daygame Coaching...Most people who know what they're doing don't believe yad gets laid. He's meant to be amazing at approaching, getting girls comfortable with him and getting the number, but may well not be getting laid much as a result. I heard from a top Daygame guy who has met yad that one of his friends (also a good PUA) hung out with yad for a few days doing Daygame. This is what he said: I couldn't believe how well yad was doing. He managed to stop virtually every girl, the interactions seemed to go well an… | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:48 AM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)They're mostly shot by instructors who travel the world doing boot camps, mainly in very international cities. When you say foreign I'm guessing you mean 'not american'. That doesn't mean they're foreign for everyone. I'm not American, and since 63% of American women are clinically obese, I wouldn't go to the USA if I wanted pussy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:41 AM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)The girls feelings have no bearing on whether a crime of rape was committed. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:36 AM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Any defence lawyer who isn't dreadful would probably use that video to easily get any charges dropped. She's clearly in control of what she's doing. She can walk fine, and isn't sluring her words. If you think she's too drunk to consent good luck ever finding an snl in a nightclub. Girls this drunk are fucking guys all the time. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:35 AM |
| -1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)He didn't drag her anywhere. She followed him there as he led her by the hand. Being dragged implied she was overpowered and taken there by physical force. That never happened. So what if she had a bf? The sexual marketplace is highly competitive. At any given time most attractive girls have someone they're fucking. It's her decision to cheat. This sub has become so blue pill that it's almost a joke to call it a seduction forum. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 09:29 AM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Of course it would. She was drinking but still in control of her actions, therefore capable of giving consent. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 08:21 AM |
| 7 | How can I stop putting my crushes on a pedestal?Spin more plates. When a girl becomes one option amongst a handful of girls, you won't put her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 08:15 AM |
| 1 | A Successful Close?It's moving you closer to the win. Now meet and smash. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:48 PM |
| -2 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)There's no way she's too drunk to consent. She's tipsy but still with it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:39 PM |
| 0 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)How is it rape? She went with him to the bathroom. There was no force used. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 08:35 PM |
| 5 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)who makes it very clear she doesn't want to cheat on her boyfriend No, she doesn't. You'd only think this if you choose to believe her words over her actions. People lie with their words, but tell the truth via their actions. literally not letting her go If she really wanted to get away from him, she easily could have done. Watch the video again, she's holding him and caressing his body. If people were to see this video, with out the seminar intro, and with the sound turned off, and weren't told… | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:29 PM |
| 2 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Yeah you should stick to all the stone cold sober girls who are in a nightclub at 1:30am... The guy explained the rhythm of the club earlier in the video. Early in the night you go slower, people are sober, more focus on conversation. If you haven't pulled by like 1:30, people are drunk and at the point in the night it's just about fast filtering to find a girl to pull. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:08 PM |
| 4 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Some of what he says was polarizing in that she would have shot him down / walked off if she wasn't potentially interested in sex with him in the very near future. She didn't do that and so wasn't filtered out. | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:04 PM |
| 1 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)She was a bit drunk, yes. Too drunk for what? | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:03 PM |
| 4 | The Most Effective Way To Get Laid - Polarize Hard And Screen Aggressively (+INFIELD Bathroom Pull)Why don't you like the video? What's wrong with it? | /r/seduction | 05/08/16 12:02 PM |
| 2 | A week in between dates. What's the proper method?Just the odd text should be fine. | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 07:32 AM |
| 1 | I had a convo with a girl who I think isn't interested in the guy she's talking toGuys can never be friends with girls in the same way they are friends with other guys, plus you aren't just going to go from wanting to bang her to strictly plutonic feelings for her. Not s good start of a friendship. As for her having hot friends, so what? You'll be that guy who was trying to bang their friend but got friend zoned. Not a good start. Also they won't bang you just because you know their friend... If you're attractive enough for them to bang then that's still the case if you weren… | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 02:31 PM |
| 1 | I had a convo with a girl who I think isn't interested in the guy she's talking toYou should read the book "The Rationale Male" based on the game blog of the same name, there's a chapter which explains why women instinctively collect male orbiters. The summary is that it allows them to be in a position of power when they find a guy they want to date, since their orbiters give them an abundance mindset. This is the very same reason guys should be chasing multiple girls, instead of just focusing on trying to win over a single girl. | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Recommend your favorite technical PUA books50 years of challenge ebook is great for nightclubs. Very simple. | /r/seduction | 31/07/16 02:09 PM |
| 1 | how do i take a woman home from a club or bar or anywere really? more clarification in the text field?I wouldn't ever say, "Come back for sex", more like, "Lets go back to mine". If she says no the first time (for the reasons you stated) I would try again later. If she says no a third time, go for an intermediate bounce. This just means move her to a different venue (preferably without her friends) rather than taking her straight home. This venue could be another bar, or somewhere to get food. This gives her a reason to leave with you without looking like a slut. After you're finished at the oth… | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Question. Why Do Some Guys Just Get Girls?Pretty good looking. Well there you go. He's probably also quite charismatic or has some other personality trait women are attracted to. | /r/seduction | 28/07/16 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why can I not get a 2nd date?Yeah a little over eager there. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why can I not get a 2nd date?Ok the reasons I don't ask a woman for a second date are: Was not attractive enough to bother seeing again Lack of chemistry Annoying personality / talks too much Bitch was crazy Not very good in bed I have so many other sexual options at that time, that even though I liked her I'd rather move on to other women because I like sexual variety. Lack of connection Maybe wait till the third date to put out if you're that worried. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Why can I not get a 2nd date?Hmm. You'd have to go on a first date with me in order for me to fully analyse this problem for you. To be through, you'll also need to sleep with me at the end of the date. Of course, I'm only trying to help you here. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?Impressive. I have hope! | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Opinion: Some of you are successful with women but are still noticiably awkward in day to day interactionsYeah also if you're good you probably have a regular rotation of at least 2 - 3 girls. This makes you waaaay more picky. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?Very good. What sort of age range do they get? | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?I think this is a good point. You don't get younger women by being an old guy pretending to be young. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?What sort of results do the 50 year olds get in terms of age, lay count per year? I plan to be single for life so this is relevant. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Gaming at almost 40? Possible?Take a look at: krauserpua he started out mid thirties and is 40 or above now. He mainly lays girls in the 18 - 25 age range, gets somewhere between one to two dozen lays per year I think. I'd actually aim for girls in their mid 20s if I were you. Women in their 30s are passed it, their looks have gone. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:31 PM |
| 10 | Opinion: Some of you are successful with women but are still noticiably awkward in day to day interactionsAfter I saw him approach many sets in 15 minutes or so my experience was not with a noob, he told me he was meeting one of them for drinks that night. He said he had paid for 4-5 programs and was definitely good. Guys that are good rarely approach with this frequency, I'm suspicious of him being any good. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm giving up on dating.This is very fluffy thinking though. Think of it as a business. You are the product. The target market is a subset of women (the ones you wanna bang). If some women aren't buying, fine. If no women are buying you eventually have to admit you either have: Shitty marketing A shitty product A shitty process It's sometimes important longer term for men to realise they have a shitty product, as realising this is true, and why it is true is the first step in fixing it. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I am 28 she is 19. Is it normal to feel a bit confused?It's not ok, more an achievement. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | I am 28 she is 19. Is it normal to feel a bit confused?Wait till you get over 30. There's no way you'll wanna date women your own age then. Women's beauty is very short lived. They usually wall at around 28. I'm 34 and women my age horrify me. I was dating a 19yr old at the beginning of the year. That was a 14 year age gap then. Oldest I've fucked this year was 28. Get used to at as you get older. | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 12:27 AM |
| 0 | I'm giving up on dating.If this happens to you a lot I really doubt it will just be because you called something a date. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm giving up on dating.For me 25% of girls flake from night game or online, 80% flake from Daygame (and I suck at Daygame). When I say flake I mean I get their number but I can't get them on a date. If you're counting a flake as setting up a date, which they later cancel, my rate for that is very low. Maybe < 10%. If this is happening all the time for you, you're doing something very wrong. We need more data to analyse. It may be quite easy to fix. I'd recommend posting a few detailed field reports from meet to flake. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:56 AM |
| 1 | A girl I slept with told my friend that some of the girls in our friend group made a pact to not sleep with me?This is good. Sounds like they all wanna bang you. Girls don't make pacts not to sleep with a guy they're not attracted to. Divide and conquer. Work the jealousy angle. | /r/seduction | 24/07/16 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Guys of seddit warning...He got the notch. That's a win :D | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls on tinder do this?I don't know what happened on Tinder, it used to be amazing about two years ago and I got many lays off it with little effort. Went back in it recently and it seems hard to get a number off a girl, or even matches. Maybe it's changed or maybe my looks have faded now I'm 34, not sure which. As someone mentioned, girls use it for validation. Some of them rarely if ever meet any of their matches. Last night a girl who was 5/10 in looks showed me with great glee how she had 3,000 matches, and how al… | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:24 PM |
| 0 | I'm continually strongly hit on by girls i dont find attractive but i don't get the same from girls that i do.My friend always said, if a girl approaches you, you can do better than her. It's usually true. You'll generally only get approached by girls worse looking than you. There's no incentive for for girls on your level or better looking to approach you. The uggers only do it because they need to be more proactive if they're gonna punch above their weight. | /r/seduction | 09/07/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I can attract them, but they never want to stay aroundSounds like either you don't have your shit together (a career, prospects) or that you only show the girl hard dominance, not soft dominance. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 07:24 AM |
| 1 | What's the difference between a boy and a man?"A man makes you feel like he took you. A boy makes you feel like he stole something from you" Line from some tv show. | /r/seduction | 28/04/16 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?Maybe look at getting a session with a pickup coach. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 01:02 PM |
| 1 | What are you supposed to do when you have made over 100 approaches and still have no success?100 isn't that many when you're first starting. Some of the top PUAs did many hundreds of approaches before getting their first lay. | /r/seduction | 10/02/16 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues)He's a sigma, not an alpha, but good write up. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/15 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to 'Why would I want to meet up with you'?Yeah I suppose it's down to tone of voice which doesn't come across via text. My immediate reaction was it was bitchy. You wouldn't lose much my killing this lead, getting this early on is a reasonable indication that things won't go well going forward. | /r/seduction | 21/10/15 08:28 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to 'Why would I want to meet up with you'?"Because you might learn something from me. Like manners." Like other people say though, I probably wouldn't persue her. The bitch is strong in this one. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 05:15 AM |
| 11 | How to Have Casual Sex and Threesomes With Lots of GirlsWhy is everyone hating on "if she has a boyfriend". The main reason is because guys are terrified on being cheated on, either by current gfs or gfs they may have in the future. Many guys here are the type that get cheated on, rather than the player who a girl cheats with. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?Shit tests aren't games, they are a sexual selection strategy that allow women to make better choices of mate (from an evo psych poit of view). It is't the same as game playing. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?34 Is still quite young... For most women, it's post wall. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?Because older women have faaaar lower sexual market value than her younger counterparts. If they put their price too high, they won't be able to compete. Some people here are saying it's down to older women being more mature / confident / having better self esteem. Shit tests have nothing to do with these things. Shit tests are the method by which women try to ensure they don't get fucked by men of lower value. They aren't games they play out of immaturity, it's evolutions way of ensuring the qu… | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?Because you're a 28 year old dating a 34 year old twice divorced mother of two and you seem to think you're doing well. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do older women not shit-test you as much?and at this point in life, who has time for bull shit games and tests? That and you can't get away with the bull shit and games you could in your 20s. | /r/seduction | 18/10/15 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Smart to fuck someone I work with?Smart, no. Doesn't mean you shouldn't though :p | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Wife forces husband to live on the lawn of their mansionPolice officers who are familiar with the situation said they have been called out to the home 20 to 30 times in the last six months. There is nothing legally they can do because Khan has every right to be there and they can’t force his wife to let him in. "Our hands are tied," one officer said. Since he has the right to live there, surely with his permission they could kick the door in? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 01:49 PM |
| 4 | My outlook on dating women is purely for sex. I have been very successful with it. I'm starting to think it might be wrong. I'd like your opinion.I guess it comes down to how happy you are with the situation. I'm pretty much the same as you in this regard. I couldn't imagine being with one women long term. When people say, "meaningful relationship" to me, I always ask what the relationship means. They never seem to have answer, so I've always just thought that was a thought terminating cliché. If you don't want a family, I see no problem with your situation. Edit: You may be a Sigma Male: http://www.riseofsigma.com/2013/07/sigma-male-trai… | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 09:26 PM |
| 2 | What to do about girls getting into "man mode" on me.Sounds like you're getting together with the wrong girls. how many guys they beat up What kind of women do you get together with!? | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Do other people do this whole "pick-up" thing?Having said that what percentage of the subs 200k subscribers do you think regularly approach? I'm guessing < 10%, maybe far, far less. | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Do other people do this whole "pick-up" thing?Everyone has a way, or an angle when it comes to getting girls, even if they don't think they do. Cold approach is just one of them. Here are the many angles out there: Befriend girls, with the hope she'll see the real them and start dating them. Hanging out in bars / clubs hoping something happens (it rarely does). Online dating (very effective, but with limitations) Going to meetup groups Putting themselves in a position where girls will come to them (rockstar, diving school instructor, nightc… | /r/seduction | 06/10/15 01:26 PM |
| 18 | How to deal with slapping?Tell them to fuck off. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Field Video - Approach a working girl and handle interruptions (unedited) - w/Step by step explanationWell congrats for putting a video out there, not many people would do this. Having said that: I'm not surprised she was thrown by the opener. It came out of nowhere. Personally I wouldn't generally open a girl working at an information desk for the following reasons: You keep getting interrupted, as you found out. It's hard to tell where you're at with the interaction since she has to be nice to you and talk to you (it's her job...) For the first 2 minutes she has no idea you're hitting on her. … | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Field Video - Approach a working girl and handle interruptions (unedited) - w/Step by step explanationWhere I come from working girl means hooker | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Is she just a flirt?The medium is the message. ie if she won't meet you ot isn't on. You don't have a bond with her. Sarge more, get more prospects. | /r/seduction | 04/10/15 10:31 AM |
| 1 | My Guide to Street GameI often struggle with this, but as I do more approaches I naturally get better at it. Starting a conversation out of thin air is a skill that improves as you practice. Google 'Assumption Stacking' to help get you started. | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Newbie daygame struggle, any advice ?krauserpua.com | /r/seduction | 26/09/15 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Newbie daygame struggle, any advice ?its hard to compare ratios, they depend on so many factors, like: how attractive the girls you approach are compared to you whether you only approach off iois or go in cold whether you only approach the type of girl who usually goes for you or just go for any hot girl wether you pre filter girls before approach and only approach girls who look receptive | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Newbie daygame struggle, any advice ?One of the best daygamers in the world gets a date for every 10 - 15 approaches, and a lay for every 30 approaches, but he's 40 and most the girls he goes after are late teens to early 20s and hot. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Hootie doing day game in Miami (infield footage)Am I the only one who isn't very impressed? LoveSystems aren't cheap and this is their level of Daygame? | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Newbie daygame struggle, any advice ?2 dates out of 50 approaches isn't bad if you're new. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 12:28 PM |
| 2 | 35M - I always end up with girls who want a boyfriend - Help!Don't go to singles events, girls who want Bfs go there to find one. All sorts of girls go to clubs, not just club rats (besides if you just want sex why does it matter of they're a club rat). Either do clubs or Daygame for just sex. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 07:42 PM |
| 1 | What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..?Well done | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Can a rich guy get laid more easily?If they pay for hookers & sugar babies, yes. The problem with wealth in pickup is you end up on the (slow) provider track, rather than the (fast) lover track. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 01:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU?What counts as the best version of yourself? | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 11:47 PM |
| 15 | What do you think about the idea of completely not focusing on girls but on yourself to be really the best version of yourself and then wait for the girls to chase YOU?Waiting for a sexual partner to come to you is a female mating strategy. Unless you happen to be a rockstar it's not gonna work well for you if you want to regularly bang women hotter than yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 11:46 PM |
| 1 | What does your day-game approach look like?1% is about right for a guy that's moderately confident but doesn't yet have great game. One of the better daygamers in the world has 4% success rate. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women really enjoy being touched..?You should gradually build up touching as you go, and back off if it's obvious she doesn't like it. You have to touch a women in order to fuck her... Sex is a contact sport. If a women doesn't like you putting your hand on her shoulder, she's unlikely to ever fuck you. This means you can't ever really blow your chances by touching a girl this way. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Do women really enjoy being touched..?You can't just walk up on the street to a random woman and start touching her, of course, there has to be an undertone of some sort, either caring or sympathy or something other than "I'm trying to fuck you". you can if you know what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Do women really enjoy being touched..?Depends on who's doing the touching. When it comes to seduction, don't listen to /r/women. They're mainly deluded damaged feminist types who don't speak for the majority. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How getting hobbies help you get women ?It helps by making you a more well rounded person. Don't expect to meet women via hobbies, cold approach for that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Two questions, different openers and if they are dumb: asking for directions, asking for advice?Good for building up confidence, bad for getting laid. Good openers for getting laid are personalised to the girl and are a little playful. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How to become a great conversationalist?Read this: http://www.amazon.co.uk/How-Talk-Anyone-Success-Relationships-ebook/dp/B00BAJ2MYM/ref=la_B000APOPHO_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1442582902&sr=1-1 Go out and have a lot of conversations month after month after month. It's a skill to practice like any other | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Can't get past small talkGiven your stats and the fact most colleges in the USA are 60% women, they'll be a lot of girls that who'll wanna fuck you without you really having to do much. Keep that in mind. The one thing you'll have to do is move the interaction forward. Ask for the number, get a meetup, escalate to sex. Don't feel like you have to come up with a way to ask for the number. The whole vibe of the interaction should be that you're talking to her in order to get a hookup. Never explicitly state that, but neve… | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How should I react to women saying that they are going to call me?When she says she'll call you just say ok, but then just contact her first anyway. | /r/seduction | 18/09/15 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What is the timeline?!?1 year to start seeing any results 3 years to become a solid player 5+ years to get the really hot girls consistently | /r/seduction | 17/09/15 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Why does the average female have such a low number of partners?The average figure is for women of all ages. Each successive generation since the 50s has got more promiscuous. This means that many people in their 60s may only have had 1 - 2 sexual partners, and they drag the average down. You're right that many girls these days are hitting double figures by the time they're 20. I'd imagine the average for the under 30s age range is way higher than the average for the total population. | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Opened and a set and girls gave me her backyes | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Kept wanting to go for the kiss, kept feeling physically blockedFirstly, I'd say try and control the environment. I try and have dates in bars where I know I'll be sitting next to her on a sofa to kiss closing is logistically easy. You can also slowly escalate towards it and see if she gives you any red lights: Brief touches on the knee Leave hand on knee Hand on upper thigh Touch her hair If she shows you a red light to any of these then take a step back. A read light would be her moving away or going all rigid when you do these things. If there are no red … | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Opened and a set and girls gave me her backIt's just a blow out, it happens. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 11:54 AM |
| -2 | Slick reply to a drunken girl saying her friend wants to suck your dick?"Actions speak louder than words" | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")it really depends on how you say it | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 06:59 AM |
| 1 | full daygame pull footageBecause he's behind them. Also it looks like a shared apartment block. For all she knows the guy lives there. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 11:41 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think about this advice? Never isolate a girl from her group under any circumstances.While winning over the group can be a powerful thing (group approval is very important for women), I think isolation is important. It allows you to talk one on one and get that love bubble around you and the girl. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Thought the foundations of my Inner Game was solid. Evidently not.People think your inner game is at a fixed level. In reality on a day to day basis it is tied quite closely to your current emotional state. Since your emotions fluctuate, so does your inner game. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Time, energy and opportunity costsIf you don't have any skills with women yet it will take some time. Also you don't just get a gf, then that's it. She can leave you at any time, so you have to continually attracted her (although it's easier to keep a girl than get her in the first place), or be good enough with girls to get a new gf if she leaves you. It sounds like you aren't great with women at the moment. It will take time to get good. It all comes down to what your priority is: getting a gf, or starting a business? By prior… | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Direct vs. IndirectSasha is not a good role model, IMO. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said the best type is based on context. In a club, direct, because she knows what's up anyway. In other environments, like maybe a cafe, or queue at a shop, indirect my be more discreet and therefore more appropriate. | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Alternate ways to approach and secure girl's number and date ?I was raised such a way that it will take another 3-4 years to get to that level where I will be so direct with girls This is bullshit. I don't want to do direct approach though It's not for you to define the best way to meet women. If you want to meet a large number of women for dating then direct cold approach is the best way, the fact that you don't want to do it doesn't matter. Fatties don't want to not eat cake to get thin, tough. Kindly don't mention I need to change limiting belief You do… | /r/seduction | 19/06/15 02:42 PM |
| 2 | How to sleep with girls that are in a LTR?I don't have a lot of experience fucking girls in relationships, but do have a little. Since so many of the hotter girls always seem to be in relationships in the future I can see myself sleeping with a lot more 'taken' women. First, some women are telling you about their bf as a simple way to reject you. Others are telling you in order to push responsibility onto you for their indiscretion if you continue to pursue them. I think you can usually tell the types apart, it's about the way they say … | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl that gave me multiple glances but she found me awkward - How should I improve?Girls can be shy and so feel awkward when a man approaches them. I'd personally only leave if I picked up that a girl was feeling really uncomfortable, not because she says she's feeling awkward. Don't listen to what girls say, look at what they do. There is often a disconnect. As for getting better at approaching, you have to do a lot of approaches. It's the only way (even once you've done this, still many approaches won't go well). Approach 20 women a week for the next year (making sure you lo… | /r/seduction | 17/06/15 12:49 PM |
| 0 | Man receives sex act while blacked out, gets accused of sexual assaultThis is what I think. I've been very very drunk in the past, but never have complete memory loss, although things may be sightly blurry. My motor skills become impaired and I lose many inhibitions, but even when I'm so drunk I can barely walk in a straight line I still know what I'm doing. I've also never passed out due to drink. I've got really tired and fallen asleep very quickly, but this isn't the same as being rendered unconscious like people who use the term blackout make out they were. Ba… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Man receives sex act while blacked out, gets accused of sexual assaultYes, if she didn't explicitly say 'yes' to sex then she raped him. /troll | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Man receives sex act while blacked out, gets accused of sexual assaultWhat does blacked out actually mean? To me it's a term Americans seem to use to make excuses for their behaviour when they did something bad when drunk. If blackout means unconscious, and the University agreed he was 'blackout' when the incident happened, does that mean they've expelled him for a sexual assault he committed whilst he was unconscious? Also, surely this is an act that she performed on him. Unless there is some form of coercion (e.g. "Suck my dick or I'll hurt you"), how can the pe… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/15 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Sexual kino rejected, what did I do wrong?It probably has something to do with the fact she's a virgin. I wouldn't really get into discussing what's wrong with her. You can't logically talk a girl into sex. Doesn't matter if she was horny one moment, saying no the next. Wanting to have sex is an emotional thing for a girl. When her emotions change, wanting to have sex changes with them. Emotions can change easily and quickly. Since you know here and it's not just a random club pull you can just leave it and try again another time. She'l… | /r/seduction | 02/06/15 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Moves that have worked for you?It really depends on the girl. Some girls who see you going for other girls will throw themselves at you in response to try and 'win'. Others will write you off and move on. | /r/seduction | 21/05/15 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Approaching Feels ForcedMy first approach of a session always feels forced. Starting a conversation out of nothing will a girl you don't know who isn't sure she's interested can be hard. It's a skill though, you will learn it over time. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How should i treat a "failed" date.I think you went about it the right way. Wanting to fuck her isn't a good basis for friendship. | /r/seduction | 03/05/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | How To Pick Up Hot Girl In A Shop (Day game infield)Turns out she did: http://krauserpua.com/2015/04/27/decision-making-when-youre-getting-good-responses-in-set/ | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks.If girls are going to be that rude to my face I'd probably call them out on it. These girls seem quite immature, and even a little odd. | /r/seduction | 25/04/15 09:28 AM |
| 1 | What to do when the girl is willing to meet but has a boyfriend? Is it rejection?I'd say, "I understand. I'm still going to hit on you of course" | /r/seduction | 21/04/15 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Upset at Pushy GuysPretty much everyone gets their heartbroken eventually and experiences rejection, girls have to learn to deal with it the same as men. Life isn't happy 100% of the time, it's up to people to make their own mistakes. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Extreme skinny guy. Any hope?McDonalds, pizza, burgers, chinese food.... | /r/seduction | 15/04/15 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenThere's a difference between need and want. Needing is bad, unashamedly wanting is good. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenSuper awkward, right? So? | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenThe point of the exercise is more to get used to showing intent directly right off the bat. Doing this will build positive qualities. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Get off Tinder for a Minute, Drop Routines, and Cold Approach With Direct Intent to Get Better With WomenI think this is great. One change I'd make is that I would have the challenge be to do it until you get a date not just a 'solid' number. You can't tell you're doing it right until you get a date. | /r/seduction | 13/04/15 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Having Trouble With The Concept Of A Girlfriend/Wife After Extreme Success With PickupSame here. Once I found it fairly easy to get girls I got to the point where I couldn't really see myself in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 06:42 PM |
| 3 | How I view looks and seductionThe way I view looks is this. There are a number of attributes that are attractive in men. Looks are one of them. Different girls value different attributes differently to other girls. Looks have the advantage over most other attributes in that looks are immediately visible. | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 06:32 PM |
| 23 | How I view looks and seductionOr short... | /r/seduction | 11/04/15 06:28 PM |
| 4 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfThe problem with his post is that their is blatant denial of realty Yeah I hate all this rejection does not exist BS. You go out, approach a load of women. Say 100. You look at the results you got. These results are a realistic representation of your current attractiveness. If all 100 rejected you, you aren't attractive and have work to do. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 12:17 PM |
| 4 | If you’re introverted, stay true to yourselfAgreed. What OP posted was more of a feel good post than actionable advice. | /r/seduction | 10/04/15 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Be your fucking self.Because he wanted to bang her, not be friends with her, and to be blunt he failed in this. The fact he says, "this happened over 2 hrs ago and I'm still glowin" leads me to believe he doesn't spend much time alone with attractive women. Now he has he got a dopamine rush from it. He's still no closer to getting laid though. | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Be your fucking self.You got downvoted, but your statement is accurate. | /r/seduction | 05/04/15 10:24 AM |
| 1 | IOI do not work. what did i do wrong?Have you actually tried to fuck her? Doing this will force her to show her hand. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 10:20 PM |
| 2 | [Fr] How do I deal with white knights.Might have been better off just cutting your loses and leaving earlier. Sounds like she texted you wanting to hook up then invited her work friends. I don't know what to make of that. | /r/seduction | 31/03/15 10:18 PM |
| 1 | A reason for women to want the dating culture to change - Sons who can't get laidI don't think women give a shit about their sons' dating prospects. They're always on team woman even at the expense of their sons I think this is true, but I've never understood it from an evopsych perspective. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 04:19 PM |
| 3 | A reason for women to want the dating culture to change - Sons who can't get laidI think women have been hurt by alpha type guys at some point in their life, and as a result overcompensate by trying to turn their sons into betas who would, "never treat a woman that way". I guess they don't stop and think that this means they will have a severe handicap in their dating life. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 04:16 PM |
| 6 | Saving Face After RejectionOnly the players that put themselves on the line repeatedly get blatantly rejected. It's the ones who don't even try that don't. Therefore there's no shame in it. I still remember one time when I was in a club. There were a group of female friends dancing in a club. One of them was by far the hottest girl in the club, probably a 9. She was dancing in a very sexualised manner, and getting a lot of male attention. I'd go so far as to say almost every guy in that part of the club was looking at her… | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Shit test response.Ignore or Awww no, I wouldn't say you look awful, babe. A little ropey perhaps but not all out awful :D or Do most men usually compliment you when you fish for compliments like that (acts to highlight the contrast between yourself and chodes) | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Is it bad if i see every woman in a sexual way?Even the fatties? | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 07:18 AM |
| -2 | Is it bad if i see every woman in a sexual way?bollocks | /r/seduction | 27/03/15 07:15 AM |
| 2 | Shit Test:"What are you so afraid off?"I would just have laughed at her then started browsing the menu. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Rough clubs in my city - how to not get assaulted?Move somewhere else. Honestly, there should be no reason to live in such a dangerous place. | /r/seduction | 23/03/15 06:00 AM |
| -1 | I can talk to women, but I just can't closeStart thinking of girls as sex objects no potential friends. Imagine fucking them as you talk to them, in as much detail as you can. Get a hard on and escalate. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 09:32 PM |
| 3 | When a girl is very aggressively approaching you first, isn't that a sign of some emotional issues she has?no | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask the girl if she has any STD's before sex?lol no. I just always wear condoms. Mostly. Sometimes. | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 09:30 PM |
| 6 | How do you stay excited about dating/seduction when faced with constant rejection?I was in a very similar situation to you 5 years ago. I was 27 years old, no sexual prospects, never had a proper gf, only a handful of sexual partners. I found out about game and thought it was my salvation. For the next six months I went out every Friday and Saturday night practising game and didn't even get a kiss. It was after 6 months that I finally got a lay from online dating. Fast forward 5 years to the present day and my next lay will be number 69, which of course amuses me. In the past… | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 10:53 PM |
| 1 | Today my pick up journey has ended. Here's what I've learned.Doesn't stop a girl milking his prostate. | /r/seduction | 14/03/15 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Newbie Traps: The Problem With Direct Openers - The Social LifestyleShows social savvy How does being indirect project more social savvy than direct? The author's reason is anyone can go up to a girl and say she's cute, all you need is the balls to do it I agree. Many in the seduction community argue that going direct is what, "every other chump does". I've spent a lot of time in bars and clubs, and in my experience, this isn't true. Most 'chumps' actually go indirect. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How do I approach girls who are walking in front of me?Fuck worrying about being creepy. Risk creepy. Someone mentioned the Yad stop, and I'd agree. This is pretty much the daygame gold standard. Jog past her, and when you're maybe 5 meters ahead, do a uturn so you're facing her and blocking her path, then open. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:52 AM |
| 3 | Today my pick up journey has ended. Here's what I've learned.I'm done working on my pick up skills You never truly leave the sexual marketplace. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 07:45 AM |
| 1 | At 26, is it too late for me to build a new network of friends?What? Even 56 isn't too old to meet new people, although maybe harder than being younger. It will be even easier in a city that's very international / cosmopolitan. London is an example. There are people arriving in london to live there everyday, and they usually know no one there. Plenty of opportunities. I'm sure other international cities are the same (ie NYC). Just move somewhere like these places and it'll be easy. | /r/seduction | 10/03/15 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is asking if the girl has a boyfriend a valid question...?I sometimes ask this as an escalation as it shows intent. | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 06:40 PM |
| 1 | To the Guys Older Than 18-22, Let's Post Our Past Mistakes For The Younger Guys To Avoid.Not approaching enough | /r/seduction | 07/03/15 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How to turn Tinder matches into (eventual) F-closes?Chat to them Get number quickly Arrange date at a bar via whatsapp (or alternative since you're under the drinking age in the US, but having a couple of drinks will make sex more likely) Chat to her and find out more about her on the date Escalate and go for fclose on first date | /r/seduction | 23/02/15 06:27 AM |
| 3 | How many dates is too many dates?not afraid to be rejected by girls who only want relationships | /r/seduction | 19/02/15 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How many dates is too many dates?This generally happen when you give off the more provider / nice guy vibe. You need to be more sexual and not afraid to be rejected by girls who only want relationships. | /r/seduction | 18/02/15 01:52 PM |
| 3 | anon gives some adviseThing is I am attracted to women I want to sleep with varying levels of intensity. If I allow myself to sleep with women who are only just attractive enough to sleep with I'll probably end up never challenging myself to go for the hotter girls. | /r/seduction | 18/02/15 01:45 PM |
| 1 | "Everything you say is heavily manufactured", "Drop the act"Sounds like you're saying things in order to provoke a strong reaction in the girls. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 01:32 PM |
| 3 | It's me, the Nerd Virgin again. Been doing research and decided to read How to Win Friends and Influence People and Models but which book should I read first and which one is best for my situation?Getting out and approaching women is what you need, which book you go for at this stage isn't that important. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Explain something to me: how can you focus on self-improvement, yet be okay with ignoring the fact that someone else is in a relationship?First off I think this guy is a concern troll: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=concern+troll If I have sex with a woman who's in a relationship, she's the one cheating. Not me. | /r/seduction | 15/02/15 08:16 PM |
| 1 | What is confidence?Confidence is the expectation of success. | /r/seduction | 12/02/15 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Approached women at a bar, got called out for being a PUA.Maybe they were making a film on PUAs? | /r/seduction | 14/01/15 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Shit Test: Girl tries to friendzone me subtlyThe living with parents thing is an issue. You may want to ask other younger Sedditors how they get around that. You can still fuck a girl who's on her period. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How to acquire the balls to begin approaching?It's a chicken or the egg thing. You just have to start approaching. I wouldn't start with girls in your class first because you have to see them everyday. Plenty of other women on campus. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Results from 11 weeks of day gameVery good stats. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on a note approach with your number in it?I think it's far better to learn to open and game a girl properly. You need to get over the AA. It will be hard at first bur worth it in the long run. Also, how confident can you be when interpreting IOI's, specifically a girl checking you out? Every time I have thought a girl has been interested she has been, but I still don't really trust my instincts. You just have to lean to go for it. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:25 AM |
| 1 | The answer to shit tests is to agree and amplify. Have you ever found you aren't amplifying enough?I don't know why you think "What do you do?" is a shit test, it's just her hooking Yeah I've never understood why seddit considers this a shit test. It usually indicates a start of female to male interest. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Are "shit tests" even worth passing?This a difference between a few shit tests and a woman who just has an abrasive / difficult personality. Shit tests are hard wired, much like it is for a man to stare at boobies. You just have to deal with them. If a woman is generally abrasive, move on. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Shit Test: Girl tries to friendzone me subtlySo I'm on my second date with this girl -- in terms of progress, I've kissed her (not a makeout), I put my hands on her hips or hold her hand when I walk with her How old are you guys? Anyway, just try and fuck her on the 3rd date. If it doesn't happen, you should probably next her. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 06:11 AM |
| 1 | The UK is seeming to value men in society moreWell I'd want someone to fuck during the long lonely nights, so I don't know. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 12:01 PM |
| 2 | The UK is seeming to value men in society moreThat's the plan. Only trouble is this may lead to the right leaning vote to be split between them and the tories, allowing the leftist Labour party to gain power without a solid majority of votes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill EconomyNot a conspiracy as such. Just people coming together to follow their own best interests. Politicians realised it's easier to get elected if you offered women free stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Plugged Back In: A dangerous psychological trap known as monk modeNever heard the term monk mode before. But I think this type of regime is only really right for when you've made some progress but you can't make anymore. It's time to sit back and analyse what's going on so you can come up with a plan on how to move things forward. If you are going to monk mode, I'd follow a program like this: http://30daysofdiscipline.com/ | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/14 04:15 PM |
| 1 | being very attractive to some and very unattractive to othersSounds like your polarizing to women. This is a great timesaver as you'll get rejected fast by women who aren't interested and will close easily with women that are. The only way to tell is to escalate, and if she stops you then she's not into you. | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Handwritten Letter: Right Move?ouch. Honesty not sure if trolling... | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Notes and tips from 5 months of heavy tinderingI've gone through a fair few girls from tinder this year. I would say that the number of girls I could have banged through tinder is higher than the number I can be bother to bang, so it gives you abundance. All of your advice here looks pretty much spot on to me. The only difficulty I'm running into relates to age. As soon as I hit 32 in the second half of this year, the quantity and quality of my matches plummeted. Obviously I'm going for younger girls (hot girls over 29 are rare), and I think… | /r/seduction | 31/12/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Those who emasculate you.So we all have that friend or two that goes out of his way to assert his dominance by emasculating you I don't | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Did her cube in a social setting. What did I do wrong?I think all you maybe could have done is called out the bitchy girl. That might have got her to stop. Either way if people are doing something like that I tend to call them out on it because they shouldn't be able to get away with the rudeness. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Very sad and i want her back and its been almost a year since we broke up. I feel like a mess. Please help meStop going to the places she goes to. Start approaching. Fuck new girls. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Just got dumped from a great relationship. How do I deal with the ego death?Fuck a dozen new girls. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Went on a date, lots of touching and laughing, kissed her... but now she isn't responding to my text.Yeah this has happened to me a few times. The more first dates you go on the more you'll see stuff like this. My read on this situations is always that she liked me enough to kiss me, but not enough to take things further. There are other possibilities like: There's another man she's decided she likes more She thinks you aren't the relationship type and she's after a relationship Something completely random like she actually died / lost her phone /etc | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 11:50 AM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna go now"This sub is called r/seduction, not r/misplaced-morality posing as self-improvement You've just summed up what I was thinking. I think the lunatics are starting to take over the asylum. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 09:53 AM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna go now"I think the point is more that we shouldn't attach all these morals to monogamy. It's only really required when it's time to have kids. In the age of birth control and paternity tests, maybe not even then. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Any point in following up with numbers when she has a boyfriend?I've only had limited success with girls with bfs, but I've heard many other people say that if the girl's into you then the sex comes quicker than with single girls. It's always worth a follow up. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Any point in following up with numbers when she has a boyfriend?If your GF lets some guy ram her, who's the real problem, the guy or your GF? | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Girl in club pulls me over to Dance with her, and the Shit testing begins. How should I react to this?Her: Dance for me You: (pulling her in by the waist) I make the rules here, sweetheart Then you go in for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 29/12/14 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Follow Up: Nicole Ryan Pays No Price for Hiring ‘Hit’ on Husband Michael Ryan, claimed to "Hitman", an undercover cop, that he had never abused her.The wtf reading on this is off the scale. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/14 11:20 PM |
| 9 | What could probably happen in the future that will favor western men in their home countries?I believe that the downfall of feminism in the West will come about due to the fact that feminism simultaneously requires men to support society while at the same time making society something that men no longer wish to support. Due to some of the points you mention above men will start withdrawing from their traditional social roles of marrying women and fathering children at ever increasing rates. This will have a double impact on women. Firstly, women will be pissed off that no one wants to m… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 08:03 AM |
| 5 | The kind of frame to adopt when a girl starts being physically aggressive?You shouldn't need to restrain her. If she has any ability to move you against your will, you need to get stronger. My plate tries to push me, ends up pushing herself away from me and looks all incredulous. She's done it a few times, but I don't know what she expects. I was thinking this. I would pretty much just walk through a girl who was trying to stop me leaving. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 07:42 AM |
| 3 | What if a girl says she's ugly and all that?"I'm not sure if you're actually serious or just fishing for compliments" | /r/seduction | 22/12/14 07:08 AM |
| 1 | books similar to models, no more mr. nice guy?I came here to say this. If he's already read those two books he needs to out the stuff into practice now. Self improvement material is either life changing or it's just porn. It all depends wether you action the advice or not. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Her: You aren't the only guy that I've gone on dates with or possibly will be going on dates with.Either move on to the next girl or just make her your fuck buddy. Forget any notion of having a serious relationship with this girl. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Men: what is something about a girl's appearence that would instantly put you off?Fat | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl invites me round to hers but says "no sex", how to proceed?They always say that, then fuck you anyway. | /r/seduction | 21/12/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | How important is it to be the leader/alpha in a group?I think it's important that the girl thinks that you are able to bend the world to your will and get what you want to some extent. This means she knows you can look after her. Although an alpha shows this trait, you don't need to be a leader to do this. Just don't be a pushover who always follows other people. I hate being a leader, I see it as a burden. At the same time I will not be lead by others. I like to go my own way. I'm also not a big fan of group conversations. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you always have to wait for the Anime Eyes to kiss?How do you know when to go in for the kiss with younger women, is there a different? No Should I stop being a bitch and cave man it? Pretty much. I mean if she's showing total disinterest then don't bother. Otherwise go for the kiss, don't wait for the right time. I'd say at least 1/3rd of the girls I've slept with have denied my first kiss attempt. It doesn't mean much. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I think I am done with cold approachSince many people get great results from cold approaching, something is clearly wrong in your case. My only suggestion is that you get a hidden mic setup when you go out (you can get these cheap on ebay), and post the audio from some of your sets here. I've got the feeling it will be immediately obvious that something's wrong. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 12:11 AM |
| 3 | What Do you Do When a Girl Brings a Friend to the Date?But sometimes….I think women are just social retards. They intentionally sabotage their chances with men because they have no idea what they are doing. This is something that the community always forgets to mention. Guys are so worried about whether they are doing it right that they forget that sometimes the girl fucks up. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Activities to do that, women are the majorityI live in a place where the ratio is 3 women to every man Jesus, just walk down the street. If the ratio is that much in your favour cold approach should yield a lot of success. | /r/seduction | 16/10/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Where exactly can you find that "perfect girl"?You probably don't know what you like yet. Date lots of different types of women, till you find one you really like. There's no such thing as perfect. You need to drop the whole disneyesque view of romance and happy ever after. The real world doesn't work like that so you'll be setting yourself up for disappointment. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests practice"So what do you do for fun/spare time?" Not a shit test. "You're too short for me" You're the one who's freakishly tall. Like a giraffe. Don't worry though. I do sometimes go for tall girls. or just ignore the statement. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Techniques to keeping an "I'm the catch" frame with VERY successful womenWomen's value comes from her looks and femininity. Their career success is meaningless to me. A hot, sweet waitress > a 35 year old CEO. Also, I'm looking to give a girl adventure sex, not a be her provider. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:37 PM |
| 2 | I forget everything I learned when I'm on the field?Try working on one thing at a time. I recently realised I wasn't making good eye contact in day game, so now I'm doing around 100 sets focusing on making good eye contact. The rest of the set can be shit, as long as I make the eye contact. At first you'll forget, but in time over the 100 sets you'll do it more or more often. Focusing on one thing stops the brain freeze that accompanies trying to remember everything. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Cant approach girls who are walking on streetsYou have to do it lots of times. It's the only way. I used to find this really hard, now I only find it a little hard. One day I may find it easy. I just did it a couple of hundred times to make it easier. I've finally slept with a girl I met on the street (after years of picking them up in clubs and online), and I got there by repetition. I got coaching from a day game coach and that helped. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:29 PM |
| 3 | I can talk without stop and have a ton of friends, but I can never create that instant connection. Girls aren't interested, I don't get instant FB adds etc. What am I doing wrong? Why can some of the most boring people I know, with the personality of a goldfish, create quicker, stronger bonds?It may be that despite being verbally interesting, your non verbals are off: eye contact, body language, vocal tonality. I often meet guys and within < 1 minute have decided I'll never be friends with them. Looking at the reason why it's usually non verbal. | /r/seduction | 14/10/14 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Date brings friend along with her, has this happened to anyone else?How old is she, 16?! I had a girl pull this recently, I said no. | /r/seduction | 04/10/14 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Someone needs to say itCreepy guys get laid. | /r/seduction | 29/09/14 12:50 PM |
| 1 | How should you bounce between sets?You're overthinking it slightly. People don't really notice that much of what goes on inside big noisey clubs anyway. They're more concerned about what they're doing. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 06:43 PM |
| 1 | 3 numbers, zero responses...wtf?From this alone it's hard to say. It's certainly not uncommon to get 3 numbers and no responses, it could just be bad luck. I usually get dates out of 70% of numbers for nightgame, and just 20% for Daygame (yes I suck at Daygame at the moment). As a note I'd say not to wait so long to text. Do it latter that day for Daygame, and the next evening for nightgame. Strike while the iron is hot. | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 11:04 PM |
| 1 | What to say if a girl is mad at me for hooking up with her friend?You'd be surprised. | /r/seduction | 07/09/14 06:10 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of girls...No I've read the article (or maybe it was his book) where Janka talks about his stats. Only 10% of his numbers lead to lays. This seems low but you have to take into account his style. He opens in very high volumes, and only does very quick low investment sets. As in open, take the number and leave within about 90 seconds to 2 minutes. If you search for his name on YouTube you'll see an example. With this quick style he'll get loads of numbers in a short space of time but most will flake. I'm gu… | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 08:16 PM |
| 2 | I'll be on a beer festival in my city next 5 days every evening. Thousands of people are coming, lots and lots of hot girls :) Anyone has idea for some funny/creative openers to use on a beer festival? I'm usually not 'canned openers' guy but this is the situation where I could really use it :)The one at Olympia by any chance? | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | "People who work out live longer, but those extra years are spent at the gym." This is funny, but now I am starting to think that there is some sort of truth in it. Shouldn't I spend more time in improving my seduction skills?I've seen fat guys with good game scoring really hot girls, while muscular guys with no game end up going home alone. I always hear this but never see it. I'm sure it happens, but it's the exception, not the rule. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:39 PM |
| 1 | "People who work out live longer, but those extra years are spent at the gym." This is funny, but now I am starting to think that there is some sort of truth in it. Shouldn't I spend more time in improving my seduction skills?Odds are it's not gym vs. pickup but gym&pickup vs. Netflix&WoW. Exactly. No ones sagging like 30 hrs a week. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:37 PM |
| 1 | "People who work out live longer, but those extra years are spent at the gym." This is funny, but now I am starting to think that there is some sort of truth in it. Shouldn't I spend more time in improving my seduction skills?Google 'High Intensity Training' (HIT). You can get a muscular body doing 2 x 15 minute weight sessions a week. Also, like other people mentioned, you'll be in trouble when you're older if you don't work out now. Although the gap in physical attractiveness of the average 20s guy trained vs untrained may not be huge, there is a vast divide between guys who are in their mid 30s plus who train and those who don't. Also the more physically attractive you make yourself, the quicker you'll start to se… | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:34 PM |
| 1 | How often do you realistically get rejected?How are you defining rejection? Blowout? Number close but flake? Date but no kiss? Kiss but nothing more? Handjob but no sex? Sex but she won't see you again? Even attractive men will be rejected by the majority of women. I'd say in terms of hooking sets, around a hook rate of 1/3 sets is good. Some guy do way better, but usually only by waiting for approach invitations. FWIW I've been rejected by over 1000 women. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 02:27 PM |
| 1 | A CriticismJust post questions relevant to your goals. I'm sure they'll be answered. FWIW I'm early 30s and only use PUA for casual sex. | /r/seduction | 26/06/14 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are women all of the sudden interested in you if they see you with another girlLike other people have said, preselection. For a woman it's harder than for a man to work out who's attractive. They need time to get to know you. When they see that other women find you attractive, they assume you must be attractive. It's like the other women have done the hard work in figuring out you are attractive so they don't have to. | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are women all of the sudden interested in you if they see you with another girlLike other people have said, preselection. For a woman it's harder than for a man to work out who's attractive. They need time to get to know you. When they see that other women find you attractive, they assume you must be attractive. It's like the other women have done the hard work in figuring out you are attractive so they don't have to. | /r/seduction | 18/06/14 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenQuite a few guys will chat to a girl but not escalate. | /r/seduction | 15/06/14 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Fear of being the creepy guyThose creepy guys get laid more than you. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 02:25 PM |
| 9 | How Nightclubs Work and Why They’re Bad Places To Pick Up WomenThe issue that a lot of people have with nightclubs within our community is that it's simply not who a lot of us are. I think many guys feel like this because they've never had success in clubs, and feel intimidated by the club environment. It's unlikely that anyone who has had a lot of sex from clubs would feel like it's not who they are. You have to be extremely well dressed. There's no room for error. Your clothes need to be tailored to fit, trendy, and just about perfect. You don't have to b… | /r/seduction | 07/06/14 11:54 AM |
| 102 | What do you do with girls that hang out with you whenever you ask then, but don't try to keep the conversation going or ask you anything?Some people are going to think that this is a joke answer. It isn't. | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys deal with mistakes you make?You gain confidence not just through success, but also by seeing that nothing that bad happens when you fail. | /r/seduction | 30/05/14 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Small change to Tinder game that makes a HUGE difference.Agreed. With Tinder they have so many matches that you need to move fast. | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 'Alpha' and 'forward' girls? Always feel like I'm being looked down on.There was no bet, just an attempt by you to cover up the fact you can no longer refute my argument. | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 'Alpha' and 'forward' girls? Always feel like I'm being looked down on.I disagree with what you said, and you didn't provide any further arguments to back it up. Easy sex != respect. | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 09:50 AM |
| 0 | How to deal with 'Alpha' and 'forward' girls? Always feel like I'm being looked down on.I'm wasting my time on you, but I'll bite. Like I said, ego. | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 11:30 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with 'Alpha' and 'forward' girls? Always feel like I'm being looked down on.Yeah I did think this. Next there will be a thread, "A girl asked me to come home with her and fuck her. What do?" | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with 'Alpha' and 'forward' girls? Always feel like I'm being looked down on.Just because girls want a quick fuck doesn't mean they don't respect themselves. The attitude of not wanting a girl because she'll go with lots of different guys actually shows low, not high self esteem. It's letting your ego get in the way, as your ego needs to know you were chosen by a girl because you were 'special'. | /r/seduction | 26/05/14 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the most intelligent women require more than just game?It worked every singl e time. So you've fucked every single girl you've ever wanted to fuck whilst you were single? | /r/seduction | 25/05/14 09:50 AM |
| 1 | As a man what exactly are we offering to women?Sex | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know what ever happened to Mystery.No confidence is the expectation of competence in a give area. If you learn a method that gives you the expectation of competence at picking up women then you'll be confident at it. | /r/seduction | 21/05/14 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Anyone know what ever happened to Mystery.Agreed. Mystery method wasn't an inner game book, it was an outer game book. In the book mystery acknowledges the importance of inner game. I thibk he refers to at is your default frame or something. That's just not what the book was about. In terms of being outdated, that makes no sense since what women find attractive hasn't changed since mystery published his book. People will say things like the openers have been overused and that makes it outdated. These people are confusing the tactics and… | /r/seduction | 20/05/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Should I lower my standards just to get laid?I'd agree with that. Most Hollywood girls are around an 8. It's the models and super models and the hottest few girls in Hollywood thet are 9s and 10s. | /r/seduction | 17/05/14 11:13 AM |
| 2 | "I'm too old for you" plus looking younger than I amJust lie and reap the bounty in younger pussy that most men your age would give their right arm for. | /r/seduction | 16/05/14 08:04 AM |
| 1 | How to handle the stigma of working in IT?What he said is pretty much correct though. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to handle the stigma of working in IT?I work in IT (web dev) and I've slept with 11 women so far this year. Doesn't seem to be a problem. What you do for a job doesn't really seem to have a big impact when talking to women. | /r/seduction | 15/05/14 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Billy's Guide to Assuming Attraction -- The Johnny Drama RuleAssume attraction until she gives you a reason to suggest she's not attracted. Escalate on amber lights, don't wait for green ones. | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 02:07 AM |
| 6 | What do you really want: One guy's thoughts after an F-closeI've slept with girls when neither of us liked each other's personalities and had great sex. I've also slept with girls where we got on well and had terrible sex. You don't have to like each other to be attracted and fuck. This is why the whole nice guy thing of being a girl's friend first doesn't really make sense. | /r/seduction | 11/05/14 02:02 AM |
| 1 | How important is having things in common with women?I really wouldn't worry about it, I generally don't spend that long talking about those things. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I get invited to 'chill' with women all the time. But that's the problem, 'chilling' is exactly what we end up doing. Help?I think a big part of your problem is that you're not out hitting on girls you've never met (cold approaching). Because you rarely get hangouts with girls that could lead to sex you're nervous and don't know what to do due to lack of practise. If you'd laid a dozen women in the past year from cold approach and had a few dozen dates you'd be thinking about this girl coming round, "Can't wait to fuck her" instead of "OMG what do I do". | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 09:44 PM |
| 1 | best book/resource for day game ?Stunningly good daygame book, takes you through mindsets / street approach / date /taking her home in great detail, with good ideas on conversation too: http://www.lulu.com/gb/en/shop/nick-krauser/daygame-mastery/hardcover/product-21441037.html | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The best opener I've ever heardThere are mixed views about this. I think if you want to fuck lots of hot young women, this is not the greatest approach. If you want to find a wife, it's a good approach (when some women hit a certain point in their life many want to settle down with a provider type and well reject the more alpha type men). As for the approach: It shows a lot of confidence It shows good social skills Since he offered drinks to both he didn't come across as supplicating, more as classy | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 09:40 AM |
| 2 | The best opener I've ever heardFirst of all, if they were together, they wouldn't have accepted a drink. True. The guy would be like "get the fuck out of here before I smash your face in." Given the venue is described as a restaurant not a diner or dive bar I very much doubt it. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Seddit is losing its focusThere are over 150k people now. 5 years ago when I first joined it was maybe 5k people. The point is that you have over 100,000 noobs so this is bound to happen. We'll only get advanced material if more advanced guys post it. I'd also check the new posts section rather than just the default 'hot' section. This is because some advanced posts may well not be very heavily upvoted because they go above noobs heads. | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Having her invite a friend on a date.You played it fine. She knew full well it was a date, she was just playing silly buggers. | /r/seduction | 18/04/14 02:51 PM |
| 1 | I've hit a plateau after 6 months of daygame, need advice from those who have been in my positionBuy 'Daygame Mastery' by Nick Krauser. It's expensive but it's basically THE Daygame book. Buy a hidden mic / recorder. Record your sets, upload and post online for feedback. The equipment is cheap, and you'll learn so much just from listening to yourself in set. I recently recorded myself, and within minutes of listening to sets I had a whole list of unattractive vocal tonality / mannerisms to fix. You can also get feedback from others online. My guess is you aren't coming across as attractive … | /r/seduction | 17/04/14 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Bar to bedroom: Tom Torero Complete uninterrupted first date daygame lay infield audioFirstly, he wasn't in any way awkward. What even makes you think that? Secondly he's a below average looking guy (http://lh3.ggpht.com/-bYVreFzgHH4/TnUtbsJrqCI/AAAAAAAADhE/ReCMM2i3TcE/s260/Tom%252520Torero%252520Pua%252520Coacher%252520Portrait%252520-%252520Tom%252520Torero.jpg) without extremely high social status who fucks around 3 dozen women a year from daygame. He must be doing something really well. His gaming style in understated, but he subcommunicates a lot in what he says, and he know… | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Bar to bedroom: Tom Torero Complete uninterrupted first date daygame lay infield audioOne of the main things he was trying to communicate to her was that he wasn't rich. He doesn't live in a big house or drive an expensive car, and wouldn't be spending a lot of money on her. By doing this he's trying to put himself in the secret lover, not the provider bf box. He was going for r-selection (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory). This makes sense since she was a tourist, probably open to a quick secret fling with an exciting guy while abroad, before going back to her K… | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 11:59 AM |
| 3 | Holy hell it works!I'm short, pale, scrawny and my long hair often looks like the ass end of an abused horse. All of those things (apart from short) can, and should, be fixed by you. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Bar to bedroom: Tom Torero Complete uninterrupted first date daygame lay infield audioNo, this was a first date. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on tinder?It's really effective / efficient for fucking girls who live close by to you as long as: You're willing to fuck girls who are at best on the same level as you in terms of physical looks. You live in a densely populated area. | /r/seduction | 05/04/14 07:26 PM |
| -1 | I'm hitting a brick wall going for heavyer kinoAlcohol | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Escalating Once Back in Her Apartment?Women don't always want to fast forward to the sex. | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Fellow introverts, how do you get yourself into state?not in the mood to socialize That's introversion Not in a confident frame That has nothing to do with introversion | /r/seduction | 03/04/14 12:51 PM |
| 13 | How does escalating look like for more quiet, low-energy, intellectual guys?Intellectual talk is ok as long as you force yourself to pull the tigger at some point. It honestly sounds like you're scared of escalation, and you're slipping into intellectual conversation as an avoidance tactic. | /r/seduction | 31/03/14 12:38 PM |
| 1 | With Tinder you have to go indirect.Not sure if trolling | /r/seduction | 25/03/14 10:35 AM |
| 1 | When a girl has gameYou're overthinking it, just find another girl | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I prevent being stood up?She doesn't like you that much. Move on. | /r/seduction | 09/03/14 05:36 PM |
| 1 | "Just as friends."Sounds like she's just being up front and doesn't want to give you the wrong idea. | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 09:15 PM |
| 2 | How can I move on from touching/kissing/cuddling to actually having sex? Girl almost kicked me in the headThat's just one girl. Unless you did something odd she sounds like a bit crazy. | /r/seduction | 23/02/14 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Guy grabs your girls ass in bar. How do you respond?A lot of girls are going to be too scared to do that. In theory they have a pussy pass, but deep down a lot of girls know that slapping someone who is twice their size and can remodel their face with a few punches may not be a great idea. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 10:32 PM |
| 11 | Guy grabs your girls ass in bar. How do you respond?I think that's true if he's verbally hitting on her. But if he grabs her ass as she walks by that's kind of different. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/14 01:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the likelihood of actually being successful with women at the bars?Yes. It's hard to say want my success rate is, because there's so much variance. At the end of last year I had a hot run and it seemed every other time I went out I got laid. I've been in a dry spell this year and have only got 1 lay out of 10 nights out. I think my average for last year was 5 nights out = 1 lay. It also depends where you go, and how attractive the women you hit on are compared to how physically attractive you are. | /r/seduction | 13/02/14 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Logistics: They suck; coping tips?I live in london, about 20/30 minutes from the area with all the best date venues. Unless they live right the other side of town this has never been an issue. By london standards I'm actually fairly central. What kind of logistics are you hoping for... Living above the bar where you take her for a date? I don't see how any of that roommate info is relevant. | /r/seduction | 05/02/14 11:19 PM |
| -2 | How to tell a girl that you don't want to be friends?Tell her you want to be lovers, not friends. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Overwhelming amount of things to keep in mind, how does everyone manage to keep tabs on all this stuff when in action?Focus on doing one or two things really well. When they become subconscious move onto other things. It will take a lot of work if this stuff doesn't come naturally to yo. By a lot of work I mean 2k approaches. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Girl challenged me to a drinking competition, wants to come overDon't get caught up in trying to 'maintain control', you'll end up fucking yourself over. Just have drinks then sex. Don't over complicate this. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Would not having a facebook hinder your success?no | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Are there any active sedditors from London here?Yes. Not so much anymore, but in the past. I know a lot of the most active sargers from that forum, some well, others just in passing. | /r/seduction | 12/01/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | My age is becoming a problemI'm 31. Last year I slept with two 19yr olds and a 20yr old. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:14 AM |
| 1 | When asked what the date is and replying "it's a surprise" - good or bad idea?If they're comfortable enough with you then great, it adds to the experience. If not they may be unsure. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you find certain senses of humor work better with women than others?Yes. Same with men. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Quick question: What's that phrase I hear a lot.. "present to the moment"?Your thoughts are focused purely on what's happening now, not dwelling on the past or thinking about the future. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Is there any good guide on Seddit that explains different eye contact while talking. Ex: Girl I was talking to looks away down and right a few times.Over analysis | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Whats the best single piece of advice on girls in general?Take consistent action | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Are there any active sedditors from London here?http://thelss.com Large london based forum with regular meetups, a biannual (almost) free boot camp, lots of active sargers and a wingman section to meet them. | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 11:40 PM |
| 7 | When you are single, how often do you ask girls out on a date?Weekly. And I'm always single. | /r/seduction | 05/01/14 04:16 AM |
| 0 | I am trying to advance in my game, but have a hard time identifying if a girl likes me or not. I flirt almost instinctively. A lot of girls I had crushes on in high school, when I talked to them after high school said they would have gone out with me in a second. How do I know???If she has sex with you, she likes you. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 10:35 PM |
| 1 | [Poll] How long did you work on your inner game before making your first approach?I started approaching before working on my inner game. You aren't learning game if you aren't approaching. | /r/seduction | 28/12/13 10:33 PM |
| 1 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeYes it is. For example, escalation. It's a general principle of seduction that the man needs to escalate towards sex. In a nightclub this can be done quickly and physically. But if you meet a girl in a coffee shop this is obviously less appropriate, yet the general principle that you need to escalate somehow still applies. | /r/seduction | 25/12/13 04:57 PM |
| 2 | "No More Mr. Nice Guy" vs "How to Win Friends and Influence People", two books often recommended on here. Has anyone else read these, and sees contradictions in following both of their advice at the same time?Yeah. I'm pretty sure how to win friends implies this should be faked if needs be. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 11:43 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I've gotten worse since discovering SedditAt first I got worse because I became more aware of what was going on in social situations and when dealing with women. My faults and mistakes were now more obvious to me and this threw me. Although uncomfortable at first it allowed me to work on my flaws and I've ended up waaaay better with women than I ever thought I would be. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 12:55 AM |
| 98 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeI thought this would be another rant about how we're all misogynistic weirdos who just want to get laid. I agree with all the points. | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 12:51 AM |
| 11 | 12 things that annoy me about this placeJust act appropriate for the situation and for the person you are talking to | /r/seduction | 24/12/13 12:50 AM |
| 2 | Is it OK to be a Nice Guy when you look like a tough guy?He gets girls because he's the lead singer in a band and he has a look that many hot girls at the type of places the band plays at with go for. The girls will already be sold on him based on this, so he can just sit back and let the girls come to him. Nice isn't really an issue here. | /r/seduction | 23/12/13 09:23 PM |
| 2 | The "Hello you're cute" opener is hated where I live ?If girls have no control over looking cute, why do they spend an hour or so getting ready? | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Moving to London, are there any groups of you guys hanging out down there?London has a huge seduction community. There's a large london group called the lss: http://www.thelss.com/ and people from there tend to know each other and meet up face 2 face often. In fact at the end of next month is their annual bootcamp where they have 3 days of talks by guys who are renowned for being good with women / pickup coaches. There's also the Saturday sarge: http://saturdaysarge.urbanistgame.com/ They meet every Saturday, with there being 4 different meeting times / points around … | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 05:27 PM |
| 1 | One of the most important attributes to get you laid: Killer InstinctUmmm, I posted it but I don't own the website / didn't make the video... Also, while I'm sure there's an element of persistence in there, this isn't the main thrust of the article. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Logistics suck for finding women - What to do?In a town of 35k people you're going to struggle to have great results with cold approach. To get really good, you'd want to approach 1k girls in your first year of working on seduction. A population of 35k would mean there are only maybe 1.5k attractive girls, so he'd have to approach 66% of all attractive girls in the entire city. He's best of moving. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Logistics suck for finding women - What to do?Yes, there's an option 3. Move to the bigger city and live there. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 08:14 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to seduce after giving off a beta impression?You can try, but don't just focus on this one girl. | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 08:12 AM |
| 1 | A question for The Red Pill from a feminist dude.Should we deny the truth merely because we dislike it? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 01:30 PM |
| 1 | A question for The Red Pill from a feminist dude.Saying you shouldn't be tearing through as many women as you can is the same as saying you shouldn't kill people. Your genes tell you to do both: kill to weaken the gene pool of competing males and mate to improve your chances of reproducing. Your conscience, hopefully, tells you to do neither. Why is sleeping with lots of women morally wrong? Also, you're arguing that because we don't kill people due to conscience we shouldn't sleep with lots of women for the same reason. From what I know, most… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/13 01:16 PM |
| 1 | how do you become less outcome dependant?No, you should be thinking about getting some. If you're not the type of guy getting regular lays from cold approach you do have to really focus on getting the lay. The whole don't be worried about getting laid thing only works regularly for guys who are already good. It takes time to develop outcome independence. It usually comes from knowing you're good enough to get consistent results. It means you won't let any one set bother you too much because you know you'll end up getting the win sooner… | /r/seduction | 13/12/13 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Talking less on purpose, people in general talk too muchI agree. You should read 60yrs of challenges ebook. He says that he feels talking too much breaks sexual tension. | /r/seduction | 13/12/13 05:18 PM |
| 1 | What does the seddit community think about: If a female observes you act in a certain way (pua, building attraction etc) on a Saturday night in a bar and in a different way (more reserved) Monday morning in school/office, then does that female observer think you're dishonest?Of course you act differently in work then when you're in a bar / club. It's called being professional. | /r/seduction | 13/12/13 04:27 PM |
| 0 | When I'm with a group of people, usually people that I don't know too well, I have a hard time contributing to the conversation and often end up saying nothing at all. I feel like a buzz kill, what should I do?This is really one for /r/socialskills, it's not seduction. | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for a beginner60 years of challebge's ebook. | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 11:10 AM |
| 2 | In 4 words, describe the traits needed to be a PUA. Go.What a ridiculous thing to ask. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 12:24 PM |
| 0 | California Men increasingly speak in girls dialect, raising their voice at the end of statements. (Xpost from r/psychology)American men often seem to sound like girls these days. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 12:01 PM |
| 1 | What time were you thinking?Give a single time first. If she's busy ask what her schedules like that week then work from there. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone broken through after no success after a long time?I didn't have any success with cold approach for my entire first year in game. 8 months in I started online game as well, and got 4 lays in my first year from that. I don't think I got my first cold approach lay until 16 months in, and that was with a slightly fugly girl. The end of this year will mark my 4th year in game. This year I have slept with 15 women, mostly from cold approach. True, a few of them were duds but most of them were good looking. Still 3 weeks to go this year and I have 2 s… | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 01:48 PM |
| 0 | [FR] Great vibes at frat party until shot down by AMOG--threw game offWhat do you mean by her 'temporary date'? | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle a no-show?Don't have any further contact with her. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 01:26 PM |
| 1 | I think I've made negative progress..Have a few drinks, then approach. | /r/seduction | 09/12/13 01:12 PM |
| 1 | [Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend?Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with one girl? That makes little sense to me. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 11:30 AM |
| 9 | so...I made my first direct approaches and this girl invited me to her house...In that situation I'd be looking to fuck her within 15 minutes of getting there. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 11:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Slowly killing off AA. Semi-insta date. Girl was underage unfortunately.I understand that. Having said that 80% of the girls I sleep with are younger than my little sister... | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 11:27 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Slowly killing off AA. Semi-insta date. Girl was underage unfortunately.From reading that I'm guessing you're in the UK. Age of consent is 16 here ;) | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 07:37 PM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up "flashing" you...I do mind. A flash isn't enough for me. Lets go for drinks Thursday. | /r/seduction | 07/12/13 10:31 AM |
| 1 | Why do the first 3 dates go fantastic but after that girls lose interest in me?Yes. Girls will be a lot more forgiving with you once you've fucked them. Plus it brings you closer together. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do the first 3 dates go fantastic but after that girls lose interest in me?Yeah that's right up there with a girl you met just that night saying, "I want to go home with you tonight, but we're not having sex". LOL. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do the first 3 dates go fantastic but after that girls lose interest in me?When you say 'take her home' on the second date, are you fucking her then? | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How to Initiate and Maintain High Energy?Open, chat for a few minutes then isolate quickly. Talk to her in a quiet area, preferably sat down. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Are introverts at a disadvantage?I think it's swings and roundabouts. What I have observed is this: Extroverts: Opening easy, closing hard Introverts: Opening hard, closing easy | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 03:56 PM |
| 2 | How to Initiate and Maintain High Energy?Open lots of sets, that usually works. That being said, be congruent with your current mental state. If you feel low energy just go into sets low energy. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How important is a kiss on the first date?If it's really the wrong vibe then don't go for it, if you do it will seem try hard. | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 03:42 PM |
| 1 | META - decline of pua scene150k subscribers | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 11:27 AM |
| 1 | [Outer game] Subtle AMOG tip: "Haha you remind me so much of myself when I was younger" - field testedMy response if someone were to say this to me: Fuck me, you've gone down hill | /r/seduction | 06/12/13 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Tips for IntrovertsI see no reason for introverts to become extroverted in order to be successful with women. | /r/seduction | 04/12/13 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Moving too fast? But a girl doesn't mind the advances?Sounds like she wants to keep you around as a potential backup option, but she isn't that into you. | /r/seduction | 04/12/13 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Deal with insults from other menNo, don't agree and amplify out downs from other men. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 05:23 PM |
| 0 | How to ask this girl out. ( lil bit complicated )Facebook or wait to do it in person. It doesn't matter. The die is already cast. What I mean by this is that it's already decided whether she'll go out with you or not. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Proper way to react to an ass grab?"You could have just said hello" | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 07:26 PM |
| 3 | [FR] I thought sex was being thrown at me, my friends perspective was slightly different. F-CloseYeah, before I even read that bit I had lol'd hard when she said she was a Virgin. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 11:40 AM |
| 3 | Girls avoiding eye contact!I live in Britain. People here won't often make eye contact with you in the street. | /r/seduction | 24/11/13 11:40 PM |
| 34 | I'm curious what's the most common mistakes areNot taking action (ie never actually going out and meeting girls). | /r/seduction | 23/11/13 01:56 PM |
| 1 | On smoking and crutchesYeah. If you're regularly laying girls you find attractive that means you're attractive to the type of girls you want. A small 'crutch' can't really do that for you on it's own, it's something core to you. It's just a matter of practise in louder environments, they'll be some minor adaptations to make to the early stages of your game (mainly just the first 5 mins of the interaction) and then you'll replicate your results in the new environment. trust me, the changes will be relatively minor oute… | /r/seduction | 22/11/13 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Information overload - can someone simplify things for me?Approach Introduce yourself Brief Banter Isolate Comfort (skip or fast forward through if she's really DTF) Escalate Extract Close | /r/seduction | 20/11/13 03:26 PM |
| 2 | SOMEONE HELP PLEASE!!!!You seem to fear sexual intimacy with girls. Build a fear pyramid. Each step of the pyramid. Each step of the pyramid is an increasing level of intimacy with girls. Sex will be at the top. The bottom might be something like isolating a girl at a party by taking her outside. The rest things in between the two. Keep doing each step until you're completely comfortable with it, then move on to the next. | /r/seduction | 19/11/13 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with social pressure to live a normal life (i.e. Settle Down / Get Married etc).I'm like you. I always wanted to settle down with someone when I was awful with women. Then I got a lot better with women, since then I don't have the fear of being alone to keep me with one girl now. I've slept with a decent number of women since I started game almost 4 years ago. At the moment I sleep with more women in a year than most men do in a lifetime. I really don't see this changing within the next 5 years, and I'm 31 now. I don't really have a problem explaining this to people. I know… | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Where do I go from here?Facebook her, ask for her number, then text her to ask her out | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Advice on taking the girl elsewhereI really doubt she's that into you if she won't be alone with you. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 01:00 PM |
| 1 | How much should looks matter?If you want to fuck her, try to. Otherwise don't. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 12:58 PM |
| 1 | When a girl starts asking you about your placeI think there's a point here about red lights vs green lights. Most guys look for green lights in order to proceed, where as the best way to go about it is to keep going until you get a red light. | /r/seduction | 18/11/13 12:55 PM |
| 1 | The PedestalJust a reminder to treat women like friends Lovers | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 03:48 PM |
| 3 | [META] Seddit focuses too much on inner game.Appearance helps a lot, but guys need to go to the mfa and fitness subs for questions about that. Guys do need some outer game pointers, but inner game is huge. You can't pull off the outer game stuff well without good inner game. | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Is this normal approaching everyone does or is this the wrong way?Some people like the talk to everyone approach. As an introvert I prefer to just go after the ones I'm attracted to. Both methods are viable, the one you choose should be based on the one that feels right for your personality type. Seddit pushes the idea that you have to be hyper social to get laid. This is false. I'm really unsociable, but this year so far I've slept with 14 girls. I've had 3 snls in the past 3 weeks. As for the disrespectful thing, I think you have a bad mindset here. What's w… | /r/seduction | 17/11/13 01:33 PM |
| 2 | How can I logistically go out 7 nights a week? What is that like financially?I had a week off work and went out 4 nights in a week. It's really exhausting and can be hard to find places busy enough some nights. I'd recommend 3 nights a week. As long as you push it and approach a decent number each night, and add a little day game, you'll quickly rack up the experience and start to notice patterns, and this is what you're looking for when going out often. I really think much more than this and you'll burn out quickly. | /r/seduction | 15/11/13 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Response to "I regret rejecting you"I'd just say 'ok'. | /r/seduction | 14/11/13 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Text vs. CallTexting. People rarely make phonecalls these days. They're intrusive and annoying. | /r/seduction | 09/11/13 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Question to all of you who believe in "Mind over Matter" - should I do meditation or visualisation to improve my confidence?Confidence is the expectation of competence. Go out and do things, become competent in them, and confidence should follow. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I have no problem approaching, but how do I break the ice?Sounds like you hook 20%. If you're good at escalating after that, then this figure is about high enough. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How do a bring up sex?Sex is something you do rather than something you talk about. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 08:28 PM |
| -2 | "I only approach cute girls" If you're a beginner read thisSaying "I only approach cute girls" is like saying "I like baseball, but I only play in the World Series." No it isn't. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 10:22 AM |
| 5 | "I only approach cute girls" If you're a beginner read thisAgreed. I've meet many guys in the seduction community who are below average in terms of attractiveness, but refuse to go after any girl who isn't an 8. In addition to this, these guys often complain that girls have too high standards in men. | /r/seduction | 01/11/13 09:19 AM |
| 6 | Anyone else get paranoid about underaged girls during daygame?I'm 31 and I've opened 17 year olds. If when I get up close they look really young I just ask how old they are and eject if their too young. 20 is usually the cutoff age for me, despite 16 being legal. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 02:17 PM |
| 3 | College setting: how can I plan meeting with a girl without losing social value?Just ask her out you twat. | /r/seduction | 31/10/13 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Why You Shouldn’t Bother With Online Dating Sites (and what to do instead!)Don't know why you got a down vote. I'm on POF and I too noticed you get more visitors after editing your profile. What you describe here is the attic I use. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 11:08 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Beginner going for a # close. Not quite sure what happened..I'd like to take you out sometime. Give me your number. | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 12:17 PM |
| 0 | First night trying this out...total depression.So just have a drink? | /r/seduction | 25/10/13 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Is the stuff in here supposed to work in most countries?Google rooshv. He's had epic success cold approaching across all of South America using game, although he makes tweaks based on the locale he's in. | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Does it matter why you're rejected?So just don't take her to dinner till you've fucked her. Do drinks and get her to buy the second round. | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Is sex a necessity?Just to add that if you want to bang new attractive girls regularly you do probably need to be in around the top 10% of guys in some respects. | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Is sex a necessity?Knowing how to spot the 1 out of 6 girls is a good start. | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 12:58 PM |
| 5 | Is sex a necessity?What does a relationship 'mean'? 'Meaningful relationship' sounds a bit like a thought terminating cliche. | /r/seduction | 23/10/13 08:28 AM |
| 1 | 10 sets in 10 days: didn't think I had seen any 'sets' posts by girls, so I thought I would startJust go direct on guys. There's no need to be indirect by coming in under the radar and letting them get to know you before you show intent. They aren't the same as women. They've already decided whether they'll fuck you before you've said one word to them. Focus more on maximising your looks and being direct. | /r/seduction | 19/10/13 01:41 PM |
| 17 | When girls talk to you about her problems, how would you respond?Which is why you're the guy who girls talk about their problems too. | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 12:27 PM |
| 1 | When girls talk to you about her problems, how would you respond?If its got to the point where she's doing that and you haven't already fucked her, it's probably too late. You should have made a move already. If you don't want to fuck her but at the same time don't want to hear about her problems, just stop her and tell her you're not really a feelings / agony aunt type guy. | /r/seduction | 18/10/13 12:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired of being in relationships. I need to learn how to put off a one night stand kind of vibe. Help?Yeah making out with her within 10 minutes of meeting her then putting her hand on your cock gives the one night stand vibe. | /r/seduction | 16/10/13 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Had sex with a girl 3 times, she wants to "talk" tonight. How do I avoid LTR if that's what she brings up?She might be telling you she has an std lol | /r/seduction | 30/09/13 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Couple of Alternative Ways To Meet Women If You Just Can't Deal with AASedfast? | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Couple of Alternative Ways To Meet Women If You Just Can't Deal with AAYeah I'm the same. I remember reading an article by assamova when he was still active. He commented how he noticed all his friends on average would pull the same quality of women online as they did by cold approach. | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Struggling with club game. Help needed!How do I learn to be more physical. I am scared that physical contact might creep her out. After how much conversation should I escalate and how? Should I look for any signs to keep going? I am a non-white kind of ugly dude so this is kind of tricky for me You just have to do it. I you need to get rejected due to escalating and being creepy a handful of times in order to learn how far / how fast you can push things. As 60 years of challenge says, risk creepy. | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 01:55 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "You have the same full name as my ex"? [Semi-FR]Ask her out and then try and have sex with her. I don't see the problem here. Please enlighten me? | /r/seduction | 28/09/13 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Online dating game? Is it possible?Good makeup can make a huge difference on a girl. Same thing with a suit in a man. | /r/seduction | 24/09/13 12:24 AM |
| 3 | Online dating game? Is it possible?If you're only getting a send:response ratio of 30:1 somethings going wrong. It should be between 3:1 - 10:1 depending on how physically attractive the girls you message are compared to you. Means there's room for improvement, which is good news. I'd use POF if I was you, it's got more people than any other free site. If you live in a really small town or city, you will struggle. It's always going to be hard to be a womanizer in a small place. A few things: You're photos need to be really goo. I… | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Luck with websites or apps? Recommendations, success rates, expectations vs realities?POF Tinder I've had lays from both. Takes a bit of time to get into it, and online is a mixed bag (many girls will turn out fatter than their pics make out) but all in all a good tool. | /r/seduction | 22/09/13 11:11 AM |
| 2 | Model says she gets approached 70+ times a weekThe big shopping areas in London are filled with hoards of local seduction community guys doing direct approach day game. I'm not surprised this happens there. | /r/seduction | 20/09/13 11:35 PM |
| 1 | IT worker hit with £1,200 legal bill after first date row over who should pay for drinksI went on a date with a girl I met online in that very same bar this year. We went 50/50 on drinks and I didn't end up in court. | /r/MensRights | 15/09/13 12:52 PM |
| 1 | In general, better to call or text after a number close?I wouldn't wait 48-72. Certainly not 72. I've done that by accident before and waiting too long seems to decrease the chance of getting her out on a day 2. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 02:34 PM |
| 1 | [SARGING] LondonYeah, I go out often. | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Having trouble with assuming attractionHow many times have you been rejected? | /r/seduction | 30/08/13 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Shit tests,Today a girl said to me on a date, "I think you're boring". I said OK and carry on talking. She said that I don't even care what she thinks. I told her I just care about my opinion of myself more, and I don't think I'm boring. She stormed off home (was the end of the date anyway). She rings me later to apologize. Saturday night on a date a girl asks if I'm going to fuck her that night (it's our first date). I tell her given it's the first date and I'm getting on with her quite well and think I'd… | /r/seduction | 27/08/13 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Girls not responding to texts after #closeTry having standards for a number close beyond just their looks, and don't close till she's shown them. For example I don't usually number close until I think she's interesting enough that a day2 with her wouldn't bore me. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Shit tests,Know who you are Know what you want Value your opinion of yourself higher than you value the girl's opinion of you | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Girls not responding to texts after #closeWell that text really didn't warrant a reply. The main reason girls don't text back is because they aren't attracted strongly enough to you. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what is your current major mental blocks/sticking points?Since I've yet to overcome this problem, I'm not the best person to ask. Having said that I doubt they're different. I would say generally the more attractive a person is, the more attractive a partner needs to be. | /r/seduction | 26/08/13 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Seddit, what is your current major mental blocks/sticking points?Believing all the hotter girls (HB8+) will always reject me. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Doesn't feel like techniques are working; What am I doing wrong?Your problem is you're not a closer. Pussy is for closers. Can you please elaborate on the whole being a gentleman thing. I want to know what you mean by this. | /r/seduction | 25/08/13 12:26 AM |
| 2 | What do you consider to be a HB 5,6,7,8,9 and 10?Going to have to agree with this. Her personality might make you want to date her more, but it's the looks that define how hard your dick gets. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 12:13 AM |
| 1 | I'm seeing a trend of condoning cheesy openers?I agree with the crutch thing to a certain extent, they helped me when first opening because I had faith in the lines (looking back some of the canned stuff I used was fucking horrible though). THe thing is, I think guys need to realise as early as possible that attraction is about who you are rather than what you say. They need to know this so they can start working on who they are ASAP. | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Request. I cant seem to find the link that was posted a few months ago. Someone did an awesome job of summing up "Models". Can anybody send it to me?Wasn't quite what he said. He said to understand the point the author is trying to make. You rarely need to read every word to do this. He says he reads about 2/3rds of the words written. Also he makes the good point that many people are only interested in certain sections of a book, but often force themselves to try and read the whole thing, because that's how you're 'supposed' to read. | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Two problems; 1) I'm not DTF... Really. 2) I'm ONS worthy but not BF material apparently.Try fucking them really well and then seeing if they want a relationship. Wanting to jump straight into a relationship can be seen as needy by many people. When girls start to act like they want to go long term with me on the second date before I've even fucked them (this is happening with a girl at the moment), I think it's a bit odd. They don't know me yet so how can they already want me as a long term partner? It also makes me think they'll be clingy. The girls you meet are probably thinking … | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 10:18 PM |
| 1 | For the Next 3-4 months, I am fully devoted to studying 6-7 days a week. What can I do to improve my game while not going out?I think this is really good advice. I remember reading a book about not procrastinating and getting things done. One of the points in the book is that as well as devoting time to your main activity (in this case studying), you must schedule in time for fun activities. Without doing this it makes the long stretch (a few months in this case) of activity seem so daunting, which may cause a lot of people to procrastinate, and possibly give up. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Strategies to get more female FRIENDSThe difference is intent. | /r/seduction | 13/08/13 12:15 PM |
| 2 | [Woman] Where and how do I find *quality* men?If you work on your attractiveness they should find you. Maybe look for bars near to offices where successful people work. They will fill up on Friday nights after work. A party environment where many of the people there won't usually go out partying but will have friday night drinks. | /r/seduction | 31/07/13 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Problems building attraction after openingJust tell the girl you want to go somewhere quiter / sit down to talk to her. She'll tell her friends. If they are resistant just tell them you'll only be literally 5 minutes then you'll bring her back. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Be a fucking value giverGuys need to be careful of drawing too many conclusions from one lay. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 12:23 PM |
| 19 | Never Buy A Girl a Drink.And you never but women drinks, ever? The only rule I ever follow 100% of the time is that no rule is absolute. Agreed. Guys should be able to tell the difference between girls who just want drinks and girls who are interested. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 12:14 PM |
| 1 | If you're out by yourself how do you handle that situation?/u/recyclablebantha has it spot on. Just tell people you're there alone. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Problems building attraction after openingHave you tried isolating within the venue you originally meet her? | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 09:32 PM |
| -1 | Problems building attraction after openingAre you actually trying to fuck these women? If not, then that's the problem, simply not taking them home and fucking them. If you are then where are you getting rejected? Asking for the number, the pull home? | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Indirect vs Direct: Let's end this once and for allHe's right overall saying it doesn't matter. I'd expand on thus by describing direct vs indirect as a red herring. Its just not a huge factor in someone's success or lack thereof. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Why are girls more prone to reject guys if said guys approach them when the girl is with a group of friends.Because they think their friends will be judging them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are girls more prone to reject guys if said guys approach them when the girl is with a group of friends.Because they think their friends will be judging them. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 01:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Finally can post my first day-game, judge meYou won't even talk to one stranger a day. Important distinction. | /r/seduction | 26/07/13 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only one that gets intimidated when reading these posts?So how can I stay true to myself Who you are isn't fixed, your personality is clay which you can mould. Having said that people do have certain genetic predispositions. You're only 19, and as such it's unlikely that you even know who you are yet. | /r/seduction | 23/07/13 06:04 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #Closed a breathtaking finnish girl from a cold approach on the street.It wasn't me, I don't really do hi 5s. It wasn't editors. Google "Saturday sarge". | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How to avoid "interview" style conversations?Assumption stacking. You essentially make a series of assumptions about the girl. Although the assumptions aren't explicit questions, implicitly they are. You can either make the assumptions serious and realistic, or playful and unrealistic. Examples: You look like you study business. Its because you have a serious look on your face. Like you're just itching to wear a power suit to work when your older and act all important in the boardroom. You look like a nurse, you have a caring face. You loo… | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 04:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] #Closed a breathtaking finnish girl from a cold approach on the street.I was in Covent garden yesterday, but then so were many other aspiring puas. What sort of time was this? | /r/seduction | 21/07/13 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Unable to do first cold approachUp vote for mentioning the Yad stop. | /r/seduction | 13/07/13 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to "I've only known you for x days"?I didn't realize we were counting the days... | /r/seduction | 06/07/13 05:41 PM |
| 2 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upThen stop with the online dating when you find the right girl. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 11:54 PM |
| 1 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upDating is difficult unless you are attractive. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 11:53 PM |
| 2 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upJust to pitch in about the level of attractiveness of women you can lay from online game. There seems to be a belief that you get uglier women online than you would in real life. It is true that you will end up on dates with women who looked a lot hotter in their photos than in the flesh. Obviously you can just chose not to sleep with those women. My lays are around a 50/50 split between cold approach and online game. From this experience and based on an article written by a respected pua blogge… | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 11:52 PM |
| 3 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upI can imagine there are lots of disadvantages to living in a small city. | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 09:27 PM |
| 3 | The shy guy's guide to approach-free pick-upHe meets them face to face at some point... | /r/seduction | 30/06/13 02:26 PM |
| 7 | Is it creepy to go to the city just to approach women?Yes, it is. Do it anyway. You need to want to get laid more than you don't want to appear creepy. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Is the most important factor in pickup your level of socialbility? It seems that way. Also your ability to go through the obstacles of pickup including other ppl trying to keep u from succeeding including cockblock frenemiesI think social skills are really important. Willingness to be social less so. You can just only open girls you want to fuck, which isn't massively sociable. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 11:08 PM |
| 2 | London, UK lair? Also, venues.The London pua scene is quite large. There isn't a lair on here because there's a London specific website, thelss.com My favourite club for pickup is tiger tiger, just off Piccadilly circus. Only trouble is many of the girls in there don't live in London. Despite that the place his huge with a capacity of almost 2000, and usually the bouncers control the gender ratio, so quite good in that respect. If you pm me I'll give you my number, I sarge most weekends. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 10:05 PM |
| 2 | I can get numbers, but they wont answer when I call?Text, don't call. I rarely answer calls from unknown numbers, and I'm sure girls are the same. Also many people actually don't like taking calls on their mobile's; it's an interruption. If lots of girls don't answer the most common reason is that they aren't very attracted to you. Read up on becoming more attractive to women. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 09:32 PM |
| 3 | I can't approach for the life of me..tips/suggestions please!I can't won't approach for the life of me FTFY | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 09:29 PM |
| -1 | How do you actually turn down a girl? From your personal experiences.Tell her you have a gf. | /r/seduction | 23/06/13 03:01 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, it's Sunday. What have you done this week?Spent two nights in Paris on my own. Went out to try and find a nightclub one of the nights. I found one but it was small and expensive, it had good music though. Opened 4 sets despite not really speaking French. Two instant blow outs, 1 just a conversation, 1 a conversation and a dance but no kiss close. | /r/seduction | 23/06/13 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl says, "Are you gong to buy us drinks?" What is your response to that? Not much of a FR, but I came away from last night with some questions.Yeah, I'll buy a girl a drink, but only if I decide to, not if I'm asked. If a girl asks it pisses me off. | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?What's your bf%? Muscle on its own doesn't help much, its muscle + low bf% that does the trick. Also dressing to accentuate your v shaped physique is good. In addition to this if youve been doing lots of reads and squats and so most of the new muscle is lower body, this will have less of a positive effect than if most of the gains are beach muscles of the upper body. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Is the most important factor in pickup your level of socialbility? It seems that way. Also your ability to go through the obstacles of pickup including other ppl trying to keep u from succeeding including cockblock frenemiesDefine socialbility? Is it your social skills or your willingness to be sociable? These are two different things. | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:39 PM |
| 0 | fu**ed up with hot girl, need advice on how to progress from such choadnessShe didn't reject you, she just wanted you to slow down a bit and / or wanted you to be more persistent (girls feel less slutty if they don't let you escalate at first and you have to work for it). The other guy got the kiss because he was there towards the end of the night when she'd be a little more drunk and have lower inhabititions, and because he kept persisting. If you were the one dancing with her in the second bar you would have kissed her. Also, you should have number closed her in the … | /r/seduction | 16/06/13 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Is starting the hardest part?You do get more done solo. | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 10:26 AM |
| 2 | AFC, what's the best way to get started in the field?This is Tyler Durden's 6 step process for a good night out. I'm working towards doing this every night, but I'm not there yet. It's a good thing to work towards. Open everything on sight. Doesn't matter if you don't want to fuck the girl, or if it's a low percentage set. You're working towards building social momentum that will help you pull when you do see that great girl later and the situation is right. Minimise time between sets. Again a social momentum thing. Don't judge yourself on how wel… | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 10:12 PM |
| 1 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.I was thinking that. If I think things were going ok but her friends drag her away and I don't manage to stop them, I usually just go back to her later. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 10:00 PM |
| 2 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.Not even really a rejection, sounds like things went OK for the first approach of the night. Rejection is just I way of knowing when it's time to move onto the next girl. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 09:59 PM |
| 2 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.Someone downvoted you, don't know why, I like this. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 09:58 PM |
| 2 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itMy flake rate is super high and I think it's mostly from my texting. I doubt it... Unless you're actively doing something really terrible via text. It's very simple, there is no magic 'text game'. Actual texts which resulted in a day2 with an HB8: Same night me: Nice meeting you. rmbarnes her: Het, nice meeting you as well :) Day later me: I'm guessing you've recovered from Saturday night by now ;) Her: Haha yes I certainly have. That was a bit of a wild night though Me: The wild ones are the be… | /r/seduction | 05/06/13 10:07 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itWith my friends and I we're so used to saying 'good looking' explicitly when referring to looks, attractive is taken to mean a myriad of things. Should have thought more about that when I posted. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 08:24 PM |
| 0 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itIndeed. As I said to a girl the other night, the difference between romance and friendship is basically fucking. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 08:09 PM |
| -1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itIMO the point scale is about physical beauty in a woman. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent it? | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 03:18 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itWell one of your complaints seemed to be that there was no point to it. I have never pretended to be an authority, but if I think I've figured something out, I share it. My success (or lack of it sometimes) are never hidden in my blog, including in this post. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:51 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itThat's the point. Make yourself the person the more attractive girls would be interested in. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:49 PM |
| 2 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itHow can you present yourself as an expert on flaking when you get 80% of 8s flaking on you, and you've never #closed a 9? I present myself as someone who has figured out (mostly, the reasons I'm sure vary slightly) why women flake. The why is the first step. The what to do about it is a second step. Most guys have never even spoken to a 9. IMO there are very few of them around (although I suppose it depends where you live). I don't believe in the concept of a 10. To me 10 = perfection, no women … | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:48 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itI say this about attractivenes / SMV: Your SMV is the total package you present to a girl as man. It is a sum of your value plus your game. What constitutes value is a huge topic, and one I need to learn more about. There are so many different parts to it, and the things girls value can differ. I would say: Attractiveness = Value + Game | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:45 PM |
| 2 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itYeah this is certainly an issue, and I am aware of it. It's hard, because on the one hand if you act like a girl is out of your league, then your doomed. On the other hand, it's necessary to realise that some girls are simply out of your (current) league in order to make the changes required so that this is no longer the case. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:42 PM |
| 2 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itThere is no insight to be found, no lesson to be learned, and definitely no major truth to be gleamed from this idiotic wall of text. He basically just told everyone, "Want to know why girls act like they don't like you? Because they don't like you! How can you fix it? The fuck should I know." The point is that there isn't some quick fix technique to massively decrease your flake rate, as some people claim. You have to work on your total package as a man. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls flake on you, and how to prevent itI never said physical attractiveness alone. This is just one part of a total package. Have you ever hung out with Lovedrop longterm and seen him constantly get with the most attractive women? Maybe you have and he does, but most probably your basing this on people online saying he does. I'm not so sure I believe the hype of big name PUAs. | /r/seduction | 04/06/13 12:38 PM |
| 7 | How to approach two girls when trying to only get one girls number w/o a wingmanI wouldn't do that, sends out the wrong signal. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to approach two girls when trying to only get one girls number w/o a wingmanJust approach. Some girls friends will back off and let the two of you talk. If not involve the other in the conversation a little. If you can't isolate then and there because of the friend then just take the number. You can also reapproach later in the night with a wing or when the situation is better to get some one on one time to help make the number more solid. | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Girl wants me to bring her flowersWinner | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm not trying to have sex with her, i just want to make her my girlfriend.Not wanting to have sex is a bit odd. | /r/seduction | 29/05/13 12:07 PM |
| 1 | How much enthusiasm do you show talking to a new girl you just met?Act with the amount of enthusiasm you feel in that exact moment. Feeling subdued? Act subdued. Feeling hyper? Act hyper. When you try and act differently than what you feel people will sense it, and it will count against you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 09:39 AM |
| 2 | What are some good opening questions to ask a girl at a college bar?Are you single | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Help! Picked up a ten on thursday now what ?Text her and ask her out in a date. Do it now. Waiting decreases the chances of getting her out. Sometimes I'm too sluggish in asking girl's out after getting the number, and this leads to more flakes. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 09:33 AM |
| -7 | you're too young for meDon't worry, I like older women. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Help. After failed approaches,my brain resets itself.How easily you can approach girls is very closely linked to both your own self image and your current emotional state. The self image of the guy who is good with women takes time to develop. You need time to get lots of positive reference points. Your emotional state varies day on day, hour on hour. This is why you could approach one day and not the other. Over time, as your self image improves , you'll find that to be able to open even when you aren't in the best emotional state. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 04:17 PM |
| 17 | Clear intent vs needinessThe difference between intent and neediness stems from mindset. Neediness: when you want to get the girl because doing so will validate that you are an attractive guy. Intent: when you want the girl simply for either the pleasure of her company or the pleasure of fucking her (or both). Whether you get her or not has no bearing on your self esteem. | /r/seduction | 12/05/13 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Some bullet points for your MondayI recommend the book Mastery, by George Leonard. It expands upon this point. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Pre-screening girlsThis works well from me. I've had some good relationships which started as snls. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What's a good response to "you probably say that to every girl" or "do you say that to every girl?Only the ones who seem dumb enough to fall for it Or Yeah, pretty much | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Sedditors, if you're already out at a club/bar and you find yourself falling out of state, what do you do to get yourself back into state?Open sets. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What is going through your head when you are talking to a girl?How many sets have you opened? You get to the point where you don't really think you just talk. Your subconscious knows whether the interaction is going well or not based on previous interactions. Then you just have to think of how to take things forward. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Why you NEED to set success criteria before you go outThis mirrors what RSD's Tyler Durden says. His goal is to follow a process he has which he knows gets him results. As long as he follows the process he knows he has done well, it doesn't matter if the external results don't follow on any given night. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What to do if the girl gives IOI's to everybody and uses her flirty personality to people to do favorsHave you actually tried to fuck her yet? If not, do that. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 01:25 PM |
| 2 | What to do if the girl gives IOI's to everybody and uses her flirty personality to people to do favorsYeah people seem to have massively overcomplicated this. Ask her out Get her back to your bedroom Have some alcohol Fuck her If she opts out at any stage, take a step back and try and push forward at a later date (e.g. if she won't come home with you, just ask her again next time you're out with her). | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 01:25 PM |
| -7 | What is a good comeback to a guy saying something like "I've had sex with your girl, enjoy the sloppy seconds!" or "Your girl is a slut" ?You pretty much need to fight here. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 11:57 PM |
| 1 | How to reconcile two conflicting "trains of thought."On the other hand I feel that if you look for it you might end up too desperate to talk to women. I don't even know what you mean by this. | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?The good feelings come about because such a man will get the material things that are useful for her. In this day and age that's money. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Hey r/seduction, how do I flirt/try to get women when I'm fat?If the guy with lots of money is ambitious, successful and hardrworking it's his personality, isn't it? And surely the main reason for a women to like these personality traits is because it often leads to the man making... lots of money. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 11:21 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean when girls bring up their exes in mid-set?It means you're over thinking things. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Flirting is a lot more complicated than I thought, or I am retarded.The actual communicating myself without feeling insincere. That's not what you said the problem is in your OP. I never mentioned clubs, you can cold approach in other places. It's not just about being able to approach, that's not the only thing people learn to do from cold approach. So now I am stuck on too extremes; I like someone, but they don't even fucking know because the vibes I send are sub-zero, or I go overboard, get rejected, and feel like a piece of shit for a couple of days. Lots of … | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Flirting is a lot more complicated than I thought, or I am retarded.I'm so sick of this cycle, and don't know how to break it. Do at least 500 cold approaches over the next year. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 09:19 PM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate for a guy to go in for a kiss when hitting on women?Agreed. I think actually getting turned down on the first attempt is really good for guys. It gets them used to this happening, and also often just because they turn down the first attempt doesn't mean they'll reject subsequent attempts. When guys learn all this it stops the first kiss being such a big important thing to them. | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 09:00 PM |
| 2 | The 'Are you asking me on a date?' replyEither 'Yes' or "We'll see how it goes' | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 08:29 PM |
| 20 | What do you say after kissing a girl?supercalifragilisticexpialidocious | /r/seduction | 28/03/13 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls that are flirty with everyone?I don't see the whole point in the bait thing. Often times playing it cool will just make the girl think youre not interested. | /r/seduction | 26/03/13 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Girls that are flirty with everyone?No, I think escalating is better, otherwise she may just think you're not interested and move on. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Reposted because I didn't get any responses about a recurring theme I keep experiencing. Not building enough attraction with girls before asking them out.Are you telling them you think they're hot / cute? Make it very obvious why you want their number before taking it. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Reposted because I didn't get any responses about a recurring theme I keep experiencing. Not building enough attraction with girls before asking them out.Try some cold approach, not just asking out girls you have class with. It'll be more obvious what your intentions are. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Tyler Infield CompilationYeah people always say anyone can fuck drunk girls, but yet few guys seem to be able to consistently doing it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 01:39 PM |
| 2 | An open letter to all emotional over thinkers; aka too smart for our own good.You're still going to be scared Diet and exercise can boost testosterone levels. I believe that people with higher testosterone levels will be more likely to approach girls. Maybe your brain's capacity for thought increased because it's getting the nutrients that it needs, but it's capacity to think & what it actually thinks about are not related. The brain is an organ in your body that thinks. How well this organ functions (which means both capacity and quality of thoughts, for example feeling … | /r/seduction | 17/03/13 01:06 PM |
| 2 | An open letter to all emotional over thinkers; aka too smart for our own good.I doubt there are many DIY enthusiasts who refuse to buy a hammer, and come up with large rambling pseudo intellectual rationalizations about why they won't get one. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 07:01 PM |
| 1 | An open letter to all emotional over thinkers; aka too smart for our own good.The fit guys will barely notice you. You won't be on their radar tbh. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 04:23 PM |
| 1 | An open letter to all emotional over thinkers; aka too smart for our own good.A fit body does not alleviate the mind The body and brain are part of one organism. To think one part has no effect on another makes little sense. | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 04:02 PM |
| 12 | An open letter to all emotional over thinkers; aka too smart for our own good.Have an actual usable piece of advice to give us? Yes... Get fit. So many in the seduction community neglect it, so it needs restating. Anyway, I'm off to the gym... | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 03:58 PM |
| 7 | How do you deal with a girl taller than you?Girl: Haha, I'm taller that you. Me: Don't worry, I still like you. Although women are less likely to go for shorter men, its mostly just in your head. | /r/seduction | 15/03/13 12:31 PM |
| 3 | ErectionsI don't see a problem? | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 08:28 AM |
| 1 | I've been reading some horror stories and would like some new perspective.Marriage is a scam It amazes me how many western men haven't cottoned onto this fact yet. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 12:48 PM |
| 2 | [Julien from RSD] How to Analyze Your Game for Maximum ImprovementSeems like really solid advice. It's really easy to fall into the trap of just doing the same things on nights out, every time you go out, for a year. I'm certainly stuck in the intermediate purgatory he mentions. | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 12:30 PM |
| 1 | If you could sum up everything you have learned here in one sentence what would it be?There isn't one sentence that can do that, stop looking for a quick and easy answer. | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 09:47 AM |
| 3 | The Rationalization Hamster Of Female Pedophiles. You Have To Listen To Believe-- Woman who had an affair with a 17 year old when she was 22 I don't have a problem with that... 17 is legal where I come from. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/13 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Just can't open at all (day game)Just won't open at all ftfy | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 10:39 PM |
| 0 | Trying to figure out what women want when they go out in bars and nightclubsThey all want cock. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Calling girls the day after the night you met them?There's no perfect time, but don't wait a week. They may well forget you in that time. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 03:22 AM |
| 6 | I can't compete with the other guys at collegeYou're separated by a sheet of perspex like in prison visits? | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:55 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Dominating the chodesWAT | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:53 PM |
| -2 | How to deal with alpha female types?No such thing as an alpha female. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 12:29 PM |
| 1 | In a few hours I will turn 21, I want to know how girls in bars typically act towards men who try to pick them up.Go and find out for yourself. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Great old post for more advanced players, on how to maximize your resultsI'm going to incorporate this into my game. A lot of truth their. I think you have to be willing to accept a lower hit rate in order to maximise the total number of lays you get. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 12:07 PM |
| 1 | [FR] also Questions on escalationShe was certainly interested in you, but you showed no interest back. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 04:58 PM |
| 8 | How do you approach a girl who's being hit on by more than one guy at the same timeGo to another bar, that one's no good. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 04:47 PM |
| 1 | The only line I use, and it's magic.I swear to god I sometimes think this subreddit is full of Armchair PUAs who haven't actually approached any women. Pretty much. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Improving your nightgameYou should quickly by isolating your girl from her group to a less noisy part of the venue (preferably where you can both sit down). You'll find conversation flows much more easily from there. Alternatively, take her to the dancefloor where you can dance without talking and escalate. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 12:56 PM |
| -1 | As a woman with a mediocre appearance, how to do I attract and seduce men who are appearance based?Make it very obvious you're going to put out quickly. That's the only I'll ever go for less attractive women. | /r/seduction | 19/02/13 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it "normal" to approach a woman out of the blue?Girls like to feel special, but they aren't. There are beautiful girls all over the place, and until we get to know your personality you're all interchangeable to us. | /r/seduction | 09/02/13 06:45 PM |
| 7 | New personal rule - Only hitting on HB7-HB10 even though my success rate will vanish. Anyone with experience from hitting higher than their comfort zones?Maybe just have days where you only hit on the better women, but I wouldn't do it all the time. You have a bell curve when it comes to quality of your sexual partners, and you have to work it: http://www.rooshv.com/the-i-have-standards-excuse | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 05:46 PM |
| 25 | I feel the need to apologize for womenBe yourself. The truth is that if a guy has developed a personality that is not attractive to women, then this is bad advice when trying to help him get laid. | /r/seduction | 01/02/13 07:21 PM |
| 69 | Something quite bemusing happened after school today...I walk on first. Ladies before gentlemen Don't worry, I'm not gentleman. | /r/MensRights | 01/02/13 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Women are wanting and willing sexual creatures. Your thoughts.Many guys seem to take a very adversarial view of pick up (is him vs the girl). I think guys with this mindset need to learn what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 30/01/13 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Woman Murders Husband & Gets A Pass, Now Murders 2nd HusbandYeah, when claiming self defence you're admitting guilt, and then have to prove you were justified so shouldn't be found guilty of an offence. | /r/MensRights | 29/01/13 01:46 AM |
| 1 | I have exponentially increased the amount of girls I successfully date by using free online dating/meetup sitesBecause like OP said, easy way to meet women. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I have exponentially increased the amount of girls I successfully date by using free online dating/meetup sitesOne of the biggest cities in the world, so yeah, I never run out of women. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Students in a Vancouver suburb protested a local strip club. A former exotic dancer takes a unique stand to protest their protest. (x-post r/Vancouver) - ImgurNo, because they shame the customers (guy paying the stripper to dance) not the workers (the strippers themselves). | /r/MensRights | 24/01/13 10:14 PM |
| 4 | I have exponentially increased the amount of girls I successfully date by using free online dating/meetup sitesMaybe, what's your point? | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 10:14 AM |
| 5 | I have exponentially increased the amount of girls I successfully date by using free online dating/meetup sitesHaving done with online dating off and on for 3 years I agree with all of this. Once you have your profile / process down you can get more women than you have time for. My only bottle neck is that I'm always too broke to go on loads of dates. I think the only reason guys spin the community seem to be very anti online dating is because the community if fuelled by pros who make money by teaching cold approach. They don't much like the idea that there's an easier and more effective way to do it. I … | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 10:13 AM |
| 9 | Aggressive girl attacks schoolboy, coaxes him to hit her back.Well said. I really don't see why violence is so looked down upon in this day and age. At the end of the day the whole of western society is ultimately predicated on violence. I don't see winning the war of the words as being morally superior to using violence. Words can be lies, at least violence is honest. | /r/MensRights | 17/01/13 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Husband tricked into believing wife's children were his own wins £25k payout in UK Court. Kids blame him for "Ruining their lives."For contrast: Paternity testing: Illegal because a man's rights are less important than the peace of the family. Abortion: Some people equate this to murder, but is legal because a women's right to choose trumps an unborn babies right to life. | /r/MensRights | 13/01/13 11:11 PM |
| 3 | I think we should tone down the Us vs Them.A lot of people aren't ready to hear what we're trying to say, and we can't make the red pill taste any less bitter than it already does in order to do this. This. Softening the message just makes the information less effective for people who are ready to listen, and does nothing to help people that aren't willing to listen accept it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/13 03:12 PM |
| 3 | I think we should tone down the Us vs Them.The zero tolerance, no compromise mentality is what separates this sub from others that touch upon similar topics. The other subs have had their message softened out of fear of alienating blue pillers. No matter how much we soften the message, first time readers are still going to find it a bitter pill to swallow. The red pill challenges people's core paradigms regarding gender relations and society. Whenever you challenge someone's core paradigm they will react aggressively. Logic, truth, facts… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/13 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Let's take a break from theory! What's the funniest thing that has happened to you while out sarging?You do realize that in most US states the age of consent is < 18? | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What are the best ways to reward a girl who is qualifiying herself to you?Have sex with her. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 12:26 AM |
| 1 | This happened last night with my mother, and really made me think about male inequality and female priviledge.This is true. Although it's a bad situation, he can walk away from it at any time. He chooses not to. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/12 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Section 5 of the Criminal Law (Sexual Offences) Act in Ireland: "A female child under the age of 17 years shall not be guilty of an offence under this Act" (ROMEO AND JULIET LAW)Under UK law a women cannot commit the crime of rape, only a man can. This is explicitly stated in the governments guidance regarding the law of rape. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/12 09:55 PM |
| 1 | At a party and its doing my head inMake like a shepherd and get the flock out. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/12 11:44 AM |
| 1 | "You probably couldn't handle me". How does one handle this blatantly obvious shit test?The best thing to do here is probably to ignore it. She's fishing for some kind of response when she says this, and when she doesn't get one it will intrigue her and probably push her into the chasing frame, where she's attempting to get you to react to her. | /r/seduction | 26/12/12 06:41 PM |
| 1 | “Regular price is €299 and we have a special price of €199 for Women in tech”I have an issue with that. It doesn't really happen here in the UK though. I'm pretty sure there was a test case on it in the US and it was ruled legal, sigh. | /r/MensRights | 15/12/12 04:47 PM |
| 8 | “Regular price is €299 and we have a special price of €199 for Women in tech”I'm sure that's illegal. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/12 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What is your success rate from approaches to phone number?Could someone define what counts as a hook up please, we don't use that term where I live (UK). | /r/seduction | 09/12/12 12:47 AM |
| 2 | How to make out with a girl in 40 seconds or less...A lot of people here are talking about the line he uses, but it's the pre screening girls before you approach them that is the real trick here. | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 05:32 AM |
| 5 | Remember the Warren Farrell protest video? Of course you do. Well, now feminists are trying to get that removed from YouTube.Actually her actions could well make her guilty of assault in many places. Depends on the law, but it's a common misconception that assault requires the offender to actually physically touch the victim in some way. Think of it this way, if you walked down a really busy shopping street yelling "fucking scum" in the face of everyone you met, do you reasonably expect not to get arrested for that eventually? | /r/MensRights | 05/12/12 02:41 PM |
| 6 | So, there's lots of stuff on how to pick up girls, but what about some tips for a girl who wants to pick up guys?The key is to not overdo any of this because we might mistake you for a prostitute Really? | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Here is one of the easiest ways to make out with a girl at a bar/club. I present to you: The Gum TrickOr just kiss them. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Date Resuscitation: How to inject some chemistry and attraction into a lifeless date?I was going to say pretty much the same as puaCurveBall. I think you can find enough women you get on well with to have sex with that you just shouldn't bother with women you don't. You really have to ask yourself if you're having a good time on the date before you ever wonder if she is. | /r/seduction | 05/12/12 01:16 AM |
| 9 | First successful F close thanks to this sectionWas she a mom? Did you ejaculate on her? If either of those are a no, I'm really not interested. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 09:52 PM |
| 37 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 11/30/2012Tbh you'd be better of working on not feeling vulabrable and ashamed. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?This is a bit of an extreme response, but the general principle of bringing the passive aggressive insult to light for all to see is good: http://krauserpua.com/2010/06/07/another-angry-unemployed-irishman/ | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with other guys who subtly treat you disrespectfully?Its 60 years of challenge, but yeah, micro avoidance is a big thing, but I've never heard other PUAs discuss this in such a simple way. The way we act (ncluding the small things) over time defines who we are. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 11:01 AM |
| 1 | The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me...Agree entirely. | /r/seduction | 25/11/12 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Tips for getting past age / younger looks with older chicksI think you did the best you good. Many women like older men, it's just life. Just try and not to talk about the age issue. I've got a third date with a women 12 years my senior next week. When I found out how old she is (she looks way younger), I was just like "that's cool" and moved on with the conversation. It's all you can do. | /r/seduction | 24/11/12 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Training my AFC friend in the ways of seduction. Any Tips?(I've included my current "training" setup)Sounds more like an intro to socialising than seduction. Hang out at a bar, by the bar and open girls as they get drinks. That's what I'd do. | /r/seduction | 23/11/12 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else have a tough time dealing with cocky gay dudes ruining their interactions? How would you respond in this situation?is he always like this? I was going to say this too. PUA stuff always teaches that you should never verbalize the fact that someone's annoying you. I don't think that's the correct approach if they're being persistent. | /r/seduction | 22/11/12 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How to go about dealing with girls who add nothing to the conversation?Tell them they don't seem to be saying much, and ask them to tell you about themselves. If still nothing then move on to a different girl. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I tend to talk about myself too much (I think so anyways) Is this a bad thing?Over thinking. | /r/seduction | 21/11/12 12:23 AM |
| 1 | RANT: A brief history of PUAGuys who were nerdy virgins through high school were now picking up and fucking models every night The standard of project hollywood was "mastery" which meant that you opened five consecutive sets and got relationships, not just f-closes, out of all five. I'm calling bullshit on this. | /r/seduction | 20/11/12 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Tell me if I was out of line. Just got a call from HR to stop talking to a girl.Nice link. | /r/MensRights | 19/11/12 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Looks Don't MatterThis is pretty much spot on. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:56 PM |
| 0 | Looks Don't MatterExactly. Just a burger costs less than burger, fries and a sugary drink. If people are fat, it's generally their fault. | /r/seduction | 16/11/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Question: What part of your game are you working on right now?The more holistic stuff. Lifestyle: travelling more, expanding my circle of friends, reading more, removing bad habits, progressing my career. Basically all the stuff that isn't actually directly linked to interacting with girls, but over time can have a huge payoff when it comes to getting laid. | /r/seduction | 15/11/12 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Quick tip for restaurant datesSofas and alchol = win | /r/seduction | 14/11/12 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What about the sedditors that have lives?Three nights a week is plenty. You could easily do 15 approaches in 3 nights. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 10:53 PM |
| 2 | I feel like sedditors make the whole "confidence" thing sound way too easy...It is that simple for a confident man. Takes time to let go of the fear is all. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 11:47 AM |
| 7 | A lot of guys in pick up need therapy, and not pick up.There are guys who already do really well with women who are in the community, but lets face it, guys like you are outliers and not typical within the seduction community. | /r/seduction | 11/11/12 11:42 AM |
| 7 | How to be the guy the girl comes back to at the clubYou should be isolating the girl very early on. This decreases the chances of this happening, plus seems to generate a very powerful "we're together now" couple feeling. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Call out to UK/London Sedditors, sarging and lair?The seduction community in London is huge. The reason that there isn't a London lair on here already is that all the London guys are centred around the LSS http://www.thelss.com/forum. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Call out to UK/London Sedditors, sarging and lair?That article got ripped to shreds on the forum. The journalist that wrote it actually posted there saying how the editor had completely rewritten his piece to make it massively critical, when it was not meant to be that way. | /r/seduction | 09/11/12 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Seducers of Reddit, what are some fast, quick meals that I can make?Seconded. One of the best dishes you can make in terms of skill:taste ratio. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Standards?Sounds like you care too much what other guys think about the attractiveness of the women you pull. http://www.rooshv.com/the-i-have-standards-excuse | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I've known about this stuff for years but just can't do it. I need a coaching/bootcamp. Suggestions?All that will happen on a bootcamp is they'll give you a pep talk, point at a woman and tell you to approach her. There's no way they can force you to approach. | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Sorry if this has been asked, Any tips or tricks for remembering names?People often forget people's names when they first get told them. I don't see why this is an issue. | /r/seduction | 04/11/12 10:13 PM |
| 1 | To ask or not to ask? verbally asking consent for ALL forms of physical contact, good idea or no?Throughout the entire interaction. The whole vibe should be romantic / sexual. If during a cold approach the girl doesn't even realise you're hitting on her then I think you're doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 05:13 PM |
| 3 | When Direct Openers Collide: Too many Day Gamers, too few HBsAs soon as she told you "some other guy came up and said the same thing like an hour ago" it was practically over. Thats actually the reason why she laughed when you asked for the number. I dont know exactly know what it is but you'll get some pretty harsh blowouts when girls knows whats going on. Disagree. Knows what's going on? Of course they do, like they've never been chatted up before. Doesn't have a big bearing on whether they like you or not. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 11:47 AM |
| 4 | To ask or not to ask? verbally asking consent for ALL forms of physical contact, good idea or no?I don't think you need to hide your intentions from a girl.In fact, I never do this. I do however think that there's a difference between showing intent and asking for permission.I don't think you should ask for permission, but should stop if she tells you no. I've never had a problem with doing things this way. | /r/seduction | 29/10/12 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, Why do I lose attraction for a girl once she begins liking me?It's possibly that you like the thrill of the chase, but also it could be a low self esteem issue on your part. If deep down you hold yourself in low self esteem, once you know a girl likes you you start to believe that she isn't worth having because she likes you. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 09:16 AM |
| 3 | Stop looking for IOIs and just approach.Beginners with AA should just approach, otherwise their AA will head fuck them out of it. Once people are over AA it's actually quite a good idea to only approach on IOIs, especially if you are good at forcing IOIs. It ups your success rate which can make you more efficient, and you're less likely to wear yourself out approaching uninterested women. | /r/seduction | 26/10/12 04:29 PM |
| 4 | I Feel Like I'm Not Progressing, And It's Getting Frustrating.Plateaus a natural. You just have to keep going http://www.rooshv.com/just-keep-going Also, don't expect your AA to completely disappear. The fear is generated in your animal brain, which cannot learn to stop this reaction. Over time your fore brain learns to override the fear response from the animal brain. This means you can approach despite feeling the AA, which isn't the same as getting rid of AA. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:51 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Firstly starting to approach, whether it's in a club / bar on messaging girls via POF. This made by far the biggest difference in getting laid. After that was going to the gym, losing weight, putting on muscle / dressing well / better hair cut. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Talk to people, keep busy, you never know who is watching. [FR]When you say 'work' it only got a number. To get a girls number you don't really have to do much more than introduce yourself, give a little small talk, then ask for it. Girls give there numbers out easily. Having sex with them is harder. | /r/seduction | 23/10/12 12:02 PM |
| 1 | When a girl shows clear sexual interest in you one night, but doesn't respond when you text the next day (what game is she playing, how do I handle it?)His text was fine. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:49 AM |
| 3 | A great advice a friend gave me to help me to stop over-analyzing girls."Don't worry about what she's thinking" - David x, rule number 1. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about something real, here. How many dates does it usually take you to get it in?http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/04/21/screening-game/ | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about something real, here. How many dates does it usually take you to get it in?When did I say I quit after 4 dates? 4 dates was the longest it took to lay a girl. Other girls I went on 1 - 2 dates with and then they didn't want to see me again. I gave up on a couple of girls after 1 - 2 dates because I decided I didn't like them that much. | /r/seduction | 21/10/12 06:10 PM |
| 6 | Let's talk about something real, here. How many dates does it usually take you to get it in?Just averaged mine out for the year and it's 1.7 dates. That includes one ons which I counted as zero. The longest was 4 dates. Mostly 1 - 2. Doesn't include the times where thae date went nowhere or ended with just bj / hj and but no sex (happened a few times). I think I've missed out on a couple of lays due to logistics, so I'm going to try and find a good bar nearer to my house to solve this. Logistics count for early sex. Your main problem is your belief that very well educated girls take lo… | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl for 3 things she's into, later another guy did the same, she pointed it out and awkwardness ensued.I think it's quite a common getting yo know you question. Then try an isolate her. If a girls into you then you should quickly try and get into a position where it's physically awkward for anyone else to hit on her. Like the two of you sat at a table. | /r/seduction | 20/10/12 12:55 PM |
| 2 | How does one manage to perceive AA as an opportunity and not an obstacle?AA is an opportunity to overcome fear. Since in life fear is the number 1 thing that holds people back time and again, it's good to get practise at overcoming it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/12 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl here and very annoyed with a guy using the pua techniques on meIf you have so many problems with him move on. Attempting to fix a broken person rarely works, they have to fix themselves. | /r/seduction | 18/10/12 12:10 PM |
| 1 | 8 Honest (and Somewhat Harsh) Criticisms from a Dude who Gives Dating AdviceIf you get caught up caring a lot about group dynamics, competing to be alpha of the group, talking to the group as a whole instead of one on one with the girl you like or taking a long time to get sexual / physical, then you're probably being just social. I can't say for sure since I tend to be introverted I've never really fallen into this pitfall myself. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 12:14 PM |
| 1 | 8 Honest (and Somewhat Harsh) Criticisms from a Dude who Gives Dating AdviceAnd they won't get all that much confidence at approaching women until they have approached a lot of women. Confidence generally stems from competence. | /r/seduction | 17/10/12 12:12 PM |
| 22 | 8 Honest (and Somewhat Harsh) Criticisms from a Dude who Gives Dating AdviceOne of the better blog posts I've read in a while. If you’re asking about this “one girl,” you already lost her Not 100% true but pretty close. It’s not your so-called “high standards” that’s stopping you from flirting with that “moderately cute” girl—it’s your pride I've met / read posts by too many guys who basically have almost 0 success with women and jump right into wanting to only go after girls who are 8+. When you tell them to lower their standards they whine on about being able to get h… | /r/seduction | 16/10/12 12:24 PM |
| 1 | We've all heard of the alpha and beta male. Now who here's a sigma male?Although I agree you don't need to be 'douchebaggy' (we don't use tat term in the uk) to be an alpha, most the stuff in the link you provided is wrong. Being an alpha male is about being dominant. Nothing else. The author of this link makes the same mistake a lot of former nice guys seem to make when talking about alpha male traits; he assumes that an alpha male is a morally just person. Morals don't come into it. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 08:31 AM |
| 6 | We've all heard of the alpha and beta male. Now who here's a sigma male?People pleasing wouldn't be on the agenda for a sigma. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 08:16 AM |
| 1 | A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approachingUsually due to giving up prematurely, not so much lack of theory. Even if you learn theory most of the real learning is done in field through trial and error. Much of the theory is wrong or part wrong. | /r/seduction | 12/10/12 12:54 AM |
| 3 | What's an easy way to find out if a girl has a boyfriend?Just ask her. Don't be so worried about awkwardness. That's born out of fear. I ask girls this all the time within minutes of meeting them. It's an easy way to frame the whole interaction as romantic, and so it counts a escalating. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 11:23 AM |
| 28 | To be honest whenever I meet Alpha guys they annoy me because I don't like how they just seem rude and douche-y to me. Is there any way to get over this?There is another way. Google 'sigma male'. You sound a lot like me, in that you hate the thought of being lead but at the same time don't like leading either. The sigma is a lone wolf who exists outside of the male dominance hierarchy as he is neither an alpha (leader) or beta (follower). Think Clint Eastwood in just about any wild west movie he's been in. Sigmas can do well with women. There's really no need to be an alpha if that makes you unhappy. Sigmas can get plenty of women. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 10:06 AM |
| 4 | A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approachingThe basic principal of learning through trial and error applies whether the situation is life and death or not. | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:30 PM |
| 2 | A brief psychology lesson to demonstrate why you should stop reading and start approachingMany people have learned 'game' through trial and error without reading any theory. Theory may speed things us slightly (but also initially slows guys down a little). | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Is kino absolutely necessary?Well to some extent it's vital because kino is touching and having sex with a girl involves touching her. Sounds fairly obvious, but some many guys focus on the verbals and do need to remember sex is a physical thing! To other extents no. Like the whole thing of gradual escalation steps as per the dicarlo escalation ladder doesn't seem that important. I think you can go from basically just chatting in bad with no kino than back to yours and fuck her straight away with no slow steady escalation b… | /r/seduction | 10/10/12 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Suddenly, almost every girl I talk to "has a boyfriend"?Sounds like you're coming across as social rather than sexual. To be honest though, from a statistics / probability point of view a period of 2 weeks isn't enough to indicate you're doing something wrong. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:50 AM |
| 1 | Suddenly, almost every girl I talk to "has a boyfriend"?I don't think telegraphing too much interest is his problem. Probably the reverse. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 06:48 AM |
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