I've heard many top PUAs estimate the number of women they've slept with. Mystery, for example, states that he's slept with many more women than Casanova ever did (Casanova slept with around 120).

Now it's not that I doubt all of these claims, it's just I'd like to know what constitutes success for a PUA. Some people could say that if you're happy with your sex life, that's enough. Although I can't really argue with that, I'd still like some idea of best possible / great / ok / poor success rates for PUAs. It gives me something to aim towards. Runners know how fast the top people in the world run. Poker player's often exchange success rates in terms of $s per 100 hands. What about PUAs?

Many intermediate PUAs I have met seem to sleep with about 1 new girl a month. This isn't very helpful, since it makes a big difference to how impressive this is if they only go out every other weekend, compared to if they go out 4 times a week.

So, I think the simplest method is this: the percentage of times you get laid from a sarge. A lay is counted as sex with a girl who you haven't had sex with before, and each girl can only count once. It would also have to be over a given time frame.

For example, if you went out sarging 40 times in the last 6 months, and slept with 5 women as a result, your success rate for that time period would be 15%.

Personally, I would guess that a realistic breakdown would be this:

  • 100%: fuck you, your lying.
  • 50%+: mPUA (I think getting laid every other time you go out, or 50% is probably the best that can realistically be achieved).
  • 25-49%: PUA
  • 10 - 24%: Recovering AFC
  • < 10%: AFC
  • 0%: Eunuch

TL;DR How often can an average guy who studies and practices hard at game expect to get laid? What should our expectations be?