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This community is about sex.
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:40 PM
0

It's all relative
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:38 PM
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Don't worry I'm in London. Perhaps it would be more productive to point out exactly what bothers you and why.
/r/seduction04/06/11 03:25 PM
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I'm a 29 and I don't know what I want and that actually excites me more than anything! I know that one day, in one party, night out, or in one group of friends, I will find a woman that utterly blows me away. Until then I like to 'waste' my time with lots of different women because I know two things to be true: The more flings I have the more I will learn about life and, I love meeting new people! I know many women who feel that if they sleep with a guy who isn't 'the one' then they are wasting …
/r/seduction04/06/11 03:13 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction04/06/11 02:24 PM
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The point is, I am slightly more nice than the next-worse douche who will hurt her slightly more. I think it's better she learns her lesson from me
/r/seduction04/06/11 02:23 PM
1

Wow, explain the sexism. Women are more picky at choosing a guy to sleep with for obvious reasons. Women are more socially aware, they will give guys little tests to make themselves feel at ease. If they don't realise that I'm sleeping around then it's their problem, not mine.
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:56 PM
4

Getting touchy early on is always a good idea, as soon as a girl is comfortable with the fact that you're not some weirdo creep, which should be in the first 10 seconds.
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:51 PM
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Good post! I see your point, which is why I would rather not string a girl like this along for a few dates before we fuck. I wonder if having such a close emotional attachment with sex is a problem, it seems like a disability to me.
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:48 PM
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Good point! I knew one from college who was the innocence queen. Years later we met and she ran through a list of all the guys she was fucking back then, jesus! However, this is certainly not always the case!
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:45 PM
2

It's ironic because I actually don't feel at all comfortable lying about my lifestyle. Making up some crazy party/activity/event to sound fun, to me feels like real lying and I think people who do that are bordering on something bad. I have a fun life, I do interesting things, I have an interesting job and I don't need to make shit up - though repeating the same stories again and again and again does get old. No, its the other things I have to lie about. "So you're single? Are you seeing anyone?…
/r/seduction04/06/11 01:42 PM
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Exactly, that's why it's not a good idea to string these girls along 5 dates just to get laid, that will ultimately hurt them more than convincing them to have fun on the first.
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:28 AM
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I'll be frank. I'm a guy, I love meeting new people, I love getting laid. I don't go out of my way to lead someone on and fuck them up. But, I don't have a problem with lying or dishonesty within reason. There are thousands of guys out there who WILL lie to the girl I'm talking to and I'd rather be the one fucking her. Women are supposed to be 10x better than men at judging character and deciding who to sleep with. It's in their nature, so, if they can't figure out that I've slept with others be…
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:27 AM
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I find they've usually had at least one bf but not so many. I haven't met a virgin for a long time!
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:19 AM
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We all know that's not what this community is about. It's about being better, faster and more efficient than other guys. I had a thing for one girl I work with and it's been months of bullshit. Thats what we as guys want to avoid.
/r/seduction04/06/11 10:18 AM
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The key to which is to not come across as one.
/r/seduction04/06/11 07:42 AM
1

Here's 5: Be reasonably handsome and/or workout Be financially stable or well-off Be able to carry on an exciting conversation Treat women in a dominant yet non-threatening way Be good in bed
/r/seduction02/06/11 07:31 PM
0

Don't pull these stupid gay cooking dates until you have fucked the girl. Until you have fucked, only meet in a bar, anything else is just wasting time. I've always been amazed at my friends taking girls out to crazy places for first/second/third dates and ending up not having sex with them! Everything gets so much easier once you've fucked the girl that things like this shouldn't matter.
/r/seduction02/06/11 07:25 PM
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I second this question!
/r/seduction02/06/11 11:03 AM
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She is full of shit. I'm fucking amazed anyone is listening to all the shit she is spouting. "You're an attractive guy but I just haven't felt that physical desire with you yet" come on! Seriously?! If you guys have already done sexual things together, just do more, push her further until she leaves or fucks you.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:32 PM
2

What is a VC?
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:16 PM
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This isn't the solution. It will make his life better sure, but its not the problem. If she was attracted enough to get with him in the first place then she's probably attracted enough to stay. She's talking bullshit, women will say shit like this left right and center when they feel insecure in a relationship. I remember one ex telling me almost exactly the same thing and then going bat shit crazy when I left her. Women are like children, its funny how predictably immature they are, its kinda e…
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:14 PM
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If she pulls away from it wait a few minutes and continue. If she doesn't like this she will leave. Hint: she's not gonna leave.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:12 PM
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Sorry but you need to fuck other girls! You're coming across to me as a walk-over and you wanna show her that you are not. Fuck other girls and tell her about them and see how fucking quickly she changes her attitude.
/r/seduction24/05/11 03:11 PM
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Sorry but this is bullshit. Many times girls have come home and then stopped me half way through doing things. I always make it completely fair and obvious - they didn't have to come back and they can leave any time. God I sometimes even go to the bathroom on purpose just so they had the opportunity to just get up and walk out if they felt uncomfortable. One girl told me to stop and I said "yeah, I can't keep my hands off you if you're sitting here, go and sit over on that sofa". She smiled and …
/r/seduction23/05/11 01:03 PM
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You were acting rather wishy-washy and needy in the way you asked to take her to dinner. So, she is encouraging you to take control and be decisive. She just didn't want your next text to be "where do you want to eat?"
/r/seduction19/05/11 12:27 AM
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If you can't tell the difference between token no and real no then you are an emotional cripple.
/r/seduction17/05/11 02:45 PM
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You must post your picture! Holding a "I'm TofuTofu" sign. The internets want to know! You should also post a photo of your last girl, or the last one you have a photo of - this risk of her seeing this can be your punishment
/r/seduction03/05/11 06:06 PM
1

I'm the total opposite :/ I feel totally confident when I'm alone with a girl, in a bar or wherever but put us in a group of my friends and, unless we move off somewhere I feel self conscious.
/r/seduction01/05/11 02:48 PM
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You wanna elaborate on the bit between "We run out" and "there is a k-close" - I think thats the important bit
/r/seduction01/05/11 02:44 PM
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Please post a pic of this 4 or at least IM it, I'm totally curious! I find that girls way below your league are often harder to get! It sounds counter intuitive but I have some theories on it :P
/r/seduction01/05/11 10:56 AM
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(which I think is a bit underhanded; I wouldn't want a girl to lie about her age) Bullshit! Get over it. You're telling me you would drop someone hot because you didn't want to be underhanded by lying about your age? I don't even know how you deal with any of the more challenging issues that can come up in getting laid if you feel like this. People in bars are fair game. You can tell them anything if you think it will help you out, and you know they will be doing the same. And you give a crap ho…
/r/seduction30/04/11 12:53 PM
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What's wrong with girls who dress nice?
/r/seduction28/04/11 03:55 PM
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Not a disease but it is a serious medical condition.
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:25 PM
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I made a promise never to pay for an escort because I know I would spiral into addiction! A decent girl here is about £200/hr minimum, anything less than that and you're getting a fat skanky STD whore. Worse still, the girls going up to £500 are fucking stunning and I would probably be tempted to do the high-class models for a grand. A date costs less than £50 in comparison!
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:23 PM
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I'm totally reminded of this 18 year old a couple months ago who, literally 5 minutes after making out with in the bar I asked if she wanted to come back to mine, around the corner. She said yes, we were making out in my bedroom and as soon as I unbuttoned her shirt she was stripping off faster than someone who had just been told their clothes were about to burst into flames. I've also noticed that hotter girls are often less likely to have a problem. Its a combination of higher self-confidence …
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:19 PM
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Counting up the last year my 'rate' has been 50-50 - half the time a first date ends up in sex or at least both of us naked! I had a date last week that made up for those last 3 :) For sure, if something isn't working then I am doing something wrong at some level - whether it was rushing things or not picking up on the type of girl they were from the outset.
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:10 PM
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I don't care, I just want to get better at figuring out which girls are really down to fuck. I don't want to waste my time or theirs if I'm just out to get laid
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:06 PM
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When I go on a 'date' its to get laid, thats what it is. I arrange dates because I want some new pussy. When I meet women who I really enjoy being with I don't need to take them on 'dates', everything just gels. Of course I enjoy the company of women, but that doesn't mean every woman. Allot of the time I just want to flirt and enjoy the a short journey to fucking someone and I don't want to get all deep and philosophical about it. You could say I should only hang out with intellectually challen…
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:05 PM
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Introversion is curable.
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:37 AM
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Thats 'bitches' remember? No I'm talking about girls who spend the night with you, the chemistry is good, you're making out like crazy but when it comes to sex they're weird about it, as if its wrong, as if its something they should wait for.
/r/seduction20/04/11 05:23 PM
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You should send a maximum of 1 smily face per 3.5 messages. This rule is set in stone and accounts for all women of all personalities, ages and cultures.
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:36 PM
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I like it
/r/seduction20/04/11 12:40 PM
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Cocktease is even worse, it would make women thing they shouldn't even flirt with a guy. I don't think it carries the right message Scumbag doesn't really address the issue Stacy, wtf? Republi-cunts doesn't really do it for me either - being British, but maybe it works for you guys!
/r/seduction20/04/11 12:11 PM
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I'm getting really bored of time wasters these days. The last 3 first-dates I went on ended with fucking make-outs and since starting my new rule: "no second dates" its becoming more and more important not to waste nights on this shit. That post rings true in a kinda obvious way, I never thought about it before but girls I've slept with on day 1 do have some of these traits! We really need a derogatory term for boring prude people who don't like sex. The 'anti-slut' essentially. Any ideas?
/r/seduction20/04/11 10:25 AM
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I met my first girlfriend when I was a nice guy, she totally digged it, I didn't need to try and be anything I wasn't and we were together for 4 years until I left her. Simple answer: all women are different, just like us
/r/seduction20/04/11 09:55 AM
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I was one of them. I went through a few girl 'friends', I was crazy about them. I would follow them around shopping or whatever they wanted to do on the off chance they might like enough that our outing could somehow magically spontaneously turn into a kiss and more. I couldn't dress myself, I had no style, no confidence. She of course would have boyfriends and that would of course royally fuck with my head. Skip forward 10 years: I have a new girlfriend, we've been together 5 weeks and during t…
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:34 AM
1

Depends, if you're taking her to a party or going out with your friends just say "I'm going to (place) on (day), come along!" if you want to have a more private date (it will be smoother) then say "Hey lets go for a drink this week, I'm free on (day) and (alternate day)". If you don't think you're at the stage with her where you can 'go for a drink' then class it out with something like "lets go for a drink - I've never had a one-on-one with you!" or " - I've never gotten to know you properly". …
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:07 AM
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I used to be genuinely nice but I realised that what people want, what turns them on and what they need are three different things. For example, I want a nice quite girl who's happy with me the way I am. But history has shown that all the girls in my past who constantly pushed me actually made me who I fucking am today. They pushed me into far more successful career paths because they were never happy with my job even if I was making great money. They pushed me into taking risks, dropping everyt…
/r/seduction19/04/11 09:58 AM
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Racism is absolutely ingrained in humanity across the world. The worst part is, as a respectable looking white guy I have absolutely no interest in changing this situation! Police look right past me, i've been 'stopped and searched' once in my life and that was on my absolute worst-dressed day with greasy matted hair and a weeks worth of beard and even then it consisted of a sniffer dog being run around me for 5 seconds. Is it in my interests to fight for racial equality? Maybe. Do I actually ca…
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:26 PM
2

Women are just as bad! How many times has a girl dated some kind of gangster low-life because he was hot?!
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:16 PM
1

Pregnant girls can be a turn on! I'd say fuck her, get the hell out of there before the baby comes. Keep it casual.
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:25 PM
1

Is it ever right to abuse a man?
/r/seduction12/04/11 06:42 PM
2

I would recommend futureme.org. You enter your email and a message and it will send you back your message on the date you choose.
/r/seduction12/04/11 05:27 PM
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Neither are wrong. If someone is gullible enough to stay where you want them and you're not actually hurting them, then you should keep on milking. And men also put women in the friend-zone, as do women put guys in the sex-zone. If someone sees potential in you for a one-facet relationship then they will take it.
/r/seduction12/04/11 09:46 AM
3

Well that totally solves that. Case closed.
/r/seduction07/04/11 12:09 PM
1

Seriously? When a solar flare hits and half the worlds technology, infrastructure and economy is knocked out the last thing on my mind will be meeting Jessica at the station at 8. So how exactly do you communicate with people when you're not face to face?
/r/seduction06/04/11 05:50 PM
2

Just like crack, your body gets used to it way too fast :/ But my god those first few times are good.
/r/seduction06/04/11 04:31 PM
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Nobody knows what they want in a partner and everyone will change their opinion. If you've never had beauty you'll crave beauty, if you've never had intelligence you'll be curious for that. Traits/types I've at some point wanted, had and then realised I don't particularly give a fuck about: Asian girls Blondes Super skinny girls Older women Kinky girls Academic girls Business minded girls Ditzy girls School girls (yeah they're legal) It's come to the point where all I actually care about in a wo…
/r/seduction06/04/11 10:13 AM
1

I've had very similar experience! I used to crave an independent ambitious girl. Someone who could go out and stand up for themselves but also had a soft spot and needed me when they came home. I found this girl and she never ceased to amaze me with her resourcefulness. She was shit-hot - a great body and an amazing sales woman and it seemed to work well for a while. Like with your situation there was a kind of power struggle. I can totally understand abusive male relationships now - how a guy c…
/r/seduction06/04/11 09:58 AM
2

I do this! It usually means: Wasn't that attracted, would have fucked on the first date but they didn't want to, and I cant be bothered to spend another 2 hours with them for the possibility of mediocre sex Above plus their too-soon clinginess is freaking me out and I will lie and say whatever it takes to get rid of them without having to face a confrontation. I met someone better I'm a guy btw.
/r/seduction06/04/11 09:44 AM
1

No!? What part of the world do you live in? Even in poorer 2nd world countries people have cell phones. God even Mogadishu has coverage!
/r/seduction06/04/11 01:10 AM
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Its one thing to use that line when she mentions her boyfriend but to actually go out of your way to tell girls you're with someone, why would you do that?!
/r/seduction05/04/11 04:15 PM
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WTF?! There are people without cell phones? How do you call people? How do you text people? How do you meet someone in a public place?!
/r/seduction05/04/11 03:52 PM
1

Don't mention the war
/r/seduction04/04/11 03:02 PM
0

You cant have a social life and play WoW. I'm pretty sure it takes at least an hour or two a day to get to a decent level in a decent amount of time. You have an hour a day to play video games?!?
/r/seduction04/04/11 03:00 PM
1

As someone who played video games too much between the ages of 15 and 23: video games are a fucking disgraceful waste of your adult life.
/r/seduction04/04/11 02:59 PM
1

I saw one guy making out with a girl who was obviously wasted and her friend came over, put her arm between them, hooked her friend and literally pulled as hard as she could. At one point the girl was at 45 degrees still making out with the guy! In the end he took her home, but not without allot of hassle.
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:13 AM
1

hard with heavier girls If you can't pick her up then you shouldn't be picking her up
/r/seduction30/03/11 05:09 PM
1

Even just a bar? I always go for just a bar. Find a few nice bars in your neighborhood and dates pretty much turn into 3-hour interviews for sex.
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:49 PM
1

Thanks, I didn't even think the first sentence was profound when I wrote it, it just seems logical: we all have standards that shift up slightly as we realize what our "market value" is. It shifts up to the point where we will settle only for those rare gems we meet every once in a while, not the ok-but-nothing-specials we meet every week or two. Girls are not going to settle on the low-hanging-fruit that approach them in every bar every week when they know they want and could get something just…
/r/seduction25/03/11 07:03 PM
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The fact is, this shit is embarrassing. Would you show any of seddit or related websites to your girlfriend? Would you talk about "Kino" and "LMR" in front of a woman? If not then this stuff is a little bit creepy. What if we could have discussions about self improvement that flowed more naturally and without insane acronyms? Once a girl asked me if I was 'negging' her. I asked her what that meant and she mentioned The Game. I haven't read it so I was able to keep more of a straight face when I …
/r/seduction25/03/11 05:47 PM
3

Some ideas Expensive books and DVDs are easy money. Do you know how easy it is to publish things these days? YouTube is your friend, and secret-filming is fun! Sometimes you fake it, sometimes its real, but it's sure as hell more fun than writing boring copy. Running a 'boot camp' or seminar is a great way to make people believe you can change them in 3 days in return for a shit load of cash, all it takes is a cheap hotel meeting room One-on-one mentors are possibly the greatest way to milk peop…
/r/seduction25/03/11 05:37 PM
1

Forget about lines, but meeting and sleeping with new people should feel natural and right to you. When that feels natural and right then whatever you say to people to get there will feel natural and right. If you jokingly used a cheesy pickup line on your girlfriend you would feel weird because you're already comfortable with her, for example.
/r/seduction25/03/11 02:13 PM
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I at some level reject women every week, whether I'm just not attracted, not in the mood, taken or too shy for the situation, I really don't think they had it easy. If I compared myself to my lady equivalent I could say she could go to a bar and get hit on in 10 minutes and hook up with a guy that night without effort. But at what cost? Would he be a guy she was attracted to? Would she feel safe or happy? Would she actually want this meaningless fuck with a total stranger? You might say these co…
/r/seduction25/03/11 11:21 AM
1

I'd been friends with a girl for about 5 years. Totally 'friend zone', nothing had ever happened, though one or both of us were in other relationships for some of that time. Judging by the kind of guys she would go out with, I was not her type. It was a classic, textbook friend zone. That changed very quickly, when I got into a serious fight with my girlfriend and started talking to this friend for comfort. One and a half weeks later we were in her room and she kissed me, we fucked, I then reali…
/r/seduction23/03/11 12:51 PM
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I'd been friends with a girl for about 5 years. Totally 'friend zone', nothing had ever happened, though one or both of us were in other relationships for some of that time. Judging by the kind of guys she would go out with, I was not her type. It was a classic, textbook friend zone. That changed very quickly, when I got into a serious fight with my girlfriend and started talking to this friend for comfort. One and a half weeks later we were in her room and she kissed me, we fucked, I then reali…
/r/seduction23/03/11 12:49 PM
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When I was a child I would sometimes be with an adult - parent, cousin, uncle etc., and I'd want them to help me with something - the spelling of a word for example. Sometimes they would try and give me an in depth detailed lecture on the semantics of said word and how I should learn to do x, y and z. All I wanted was the damn spelling! Lectures in this community are too often 57 minutes of sales pitches with 3 minutes of insight. While thats great for them and as a capitalist I have to love the…
/r/seduction22/03/11 05:28 PM
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This sums it up for me ;) http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/g81cz/women_of_reddit_whats_the_best_first_date_youve/c1lmkga Girl describes a date where the guy went all out and planned an amazing day, but they didn't fuck that night.
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:07 PM
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Yeah whatever, if this guy wants people to watch his videos (presumably he does) then he should make it easy. I watched 5 minutes of someone talking crap before I went to sleep. This is not music, you are not Jimi Hendrix and getting laid is not my entire life.
/r/seduction21/03/11 05:13 PM
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It's over an hour long! Would anyone care to list some of them? The whole point of tl;dr is for people to decide if the original is worth reading or watching.
/r/seduction21/03/11 11:28 AM
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tl;dr ?
/r/seduction21/03/11 01:38 AM
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Yes they have different timelines. For me, roughly half on the first date, most of the others on the second and maybe 10% will be special cases. If a girl is definitely up for it she can be as comfortable as you are - so drinks for maybe an 30 mins to an hour and back to yours. But with most girls you'll wanna spend a good 2 hours before you make a move and then another hour or two after that before you suggest going back to yours, otherwise it feels rushed. For second date girls just repeat the…
/r/seduction18/03/11 08:17 PM
1

Most girls I know greet with a kiss on the cheek. You make it sound like an XBox achievement or something. You should be able to tell when and where touching someone will be weird or not. i.e., you should feel the same way about it as the other person does, roughly. This is a part of getting comfortable with someone.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:40 PM
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If you're are good looking, confident and interesting you will get with girls. When this happens and you realise how many girls you can get with your confidence starts to run into arrogance. Power corrupts, attraction is power. So guys who get girls can get away with acting in certain 'bad' ways and they do, because it's easy and fun. Of course this affects certain types of guy differently and there are believe it or not decent guys out there. But allot just do what they can get away with. Don't…
/r/seduction16/03/11 12:42 AM
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Well then I'm a douche. I don't do it because I think it's what women want, I do it because I can and because I like fucking different women without any commitment.
/r/seduction09/03/11 02:31 AM
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If a girl means NO she should stop all contact. If she says no and moves your hand away from whatever you were doing but carries on making out with you then she's not serious. Its taken me dozens of no's to fuck some girls. They were the ones who stopped me but didn't move when I said "yeah you should go sit over there so we can't touch each other". They were the ones who grabbed my dick or jumped on top of me. If I 'respected' this bullshit I wouldn't get laid half the time.
/r/seduction09/03/11 02:29 AM
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Can someone please define what a douchebag is!? Here are some attributes, for example: Rapes/assaults her Makes derogatory comments Disrespects waiters and bartenders Doesn't make any effort to care about her or her comfort Lies about intentions in order to sleep with her Makes a move, goes for a kiss etc without asking She says "I'm not sleeping with you tonight", he thinks "challenge" She says "Stop", he carries on after a few minutes Jokingly teases a girl Doesn't call after sex 1 is of cours…
/r/seduction08/03/11 06:24 PM
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Chill dude it went fine!
/r/seduction14/02/11 12:14 AM
2

If you can meet her then you can get her into bed. If you can get her into bed you can meet her again, you just have to wait and not care about it too much. Just don't act needy or clingy.
/r/seduction09/02/11 10:06 AM
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The worst thing is that some girls are the opposite of this and actually really do want your love and affection, and i have trouble telling them apart. I have no problem with treating them either way, I treat it all as a game.
/r/seduction09/02/11 01:21 AM
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Yep I've had this too! No problems when you're face to face but once she's gone she's hard to get back again. text, phone, msn etc pretty much gets ignored. Sometimes she'll pick up the phone and everything seems normal, then poof! Gone again. It would seem like these girls aren't interested except for the fact they come back and even fuck you again and again! Basically she's busy and has her own life. Read into that what you want but when I'm too busy to text a girl back for a week it usually m…
/r/seduction09/02/11 01:15 AM
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Hot girls dont need anything to pickup guys, they could be limited to a single word and get laid every night: "yes". This is not realistic. You're putting yourself in a womans shoes in the most simplistic sense possible. Sure a hot girl can walk into a bar and pick up a hot guy with no more effort than it takes to stand there and say yes. If she's hot, and knows she's hot, and is comfortable with fucking random guys from bars within minutes of meeting them than she has done this many times befor…
/r/seduction05/02/11 01:07 AM
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My point is that girls can have 'game'. It's just what happens when you're experienced
/r/seduction05/02/11 12:12 AM
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Girls work just like guys. You can see how the frustrated girls and the player girls differ. I can see through many girls like glass, the things they say and do are so obvious. But the girls who are good (I.e hot and know how to work it) throw me off all the time
/r/seduction04/02/11 11:58 PM
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Every time this happens to me she's amazing. She has more to her than her looks. She has that beautiful stare. She's into the same things as me. The sex is amazing. Her parents were fucked up like mine. She's an interesting race. She does something interesting in life. Blah. Blah. Blah. Every single time, and this has yet to fail me: every time this happens, a better girl comes along and suddenly this girl is less attractive. I never learn of course but it happens every time. Well fuck that, why…
/r/seduction04/02/11 02:15 AM
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What do statistics have to say about this? First off mean averages are bullshit. I think about 50% of men have had about half a dozen women or more, and about 10% have had a dozen or more. So, lets say 6 is "normal", 12 is "decent" and more than that you go through the stages of "really good", "player" and "complete freak". I know people in all these categories and if you've hit triple digets you are a freak ;) So in conclusion, if you're normal, you probably meet a new girl about once a year or…
/r/seduction03/02/11 02:13 PM
0

I never take a girls number unless she buys me a drink, shines my shoes and sings two verses from 'Like a Virgin'. It's better to give them yours
/r/seduction01/02/11 11:39 PM
2

So you're saying hotter girls have more options, are fewer in number and are in general harder to get with and not as all-over-you as less hot girls. No shit! There are to things at play here: firstly, as the girl gets hotter compared to you, she will obviously be harder to get. Secondly, there is only so hot a girl can be, the scale goes up to 10, so when you get close to the top of the scale things go a bit crazy. It's like being a billionaire compared with just being pretty wealthy. There's o…
/r/seduction01/02/11 06:50 PM
0

Its too bad that my uncle will fall ill 5 days prior to Valentines day. But, it's gonna be a tragedy that he dies night before. My aunt is just gonna be stressing out, I'll be with the family all morning. "I just wish I could have been with you, I wish we could be just alone together. I've stay strong for my family tonight, some people are taking this really badly..."
/r/seduction31/01/11 04:54 PM
1

I'm fucking decent girls on the first date 50% of the time. Best part is, its the hot girls who are actually more up for this, probably since they don't have much experience with guys NOT calling them afterwards. 6-7's want to take it slow. 9's want to fuck a couple of times and then disappear for a couple of months, but I can't blame them for playing!
/r/seduction31/01/11 02:36 PM
3

What are you doing for it not to happen? It's about 50-50 for me, and if not then usually on the second. After the third I'll give up unless I'm desperate or she's amazing. I guess there are the obvious things: don't arrange a date somewhere miles from your or her place, don't arrange a date when there's going to be no time, or you guys have work the next day, or she has to go somewhere after. Avoid going for dinner, especially avoid 'unsexy' food (I'm amazed Indians have sex). I lose a lot of r…
/r/seduction31/01/11 01:36 AM
1

I occasionally get lucky from looks alone, and the attention I get feels fucking great but its not a free pass, and there's always someone better looking than you. I have a great looking face but no six-pack, I envy guys with big bulging arms! And, I have learnt how insecure even the most beautiful women can be, its crazy! The most important thing to understand is that the way you style and present yourself is just as important, maybe more important, than the way you naturally look. Women are th…
/r/seduction30/01/11 04:21 PM
2

I believe that you should put yourself in a womans shoes and really think about what drives them, what turns them on, what they need or want in life. Think of all the different kinds of women in this world and try hard to imagine how you come across to them. That's all you need to know or believe. Women like smart, attractive, confident guys, and, depending on what they particularly want in that moment of their lives, they will try things out. Oh, and the only people who can teach you how to get…
/r/seduction29/01/11 09:02 PM
1

It's pseudo scientific psychology. Videoing someone in the street on the other hand is perfectly do-able. Have you ever tried calling someone and putting your phone in your pocket? They can hear everything pretty clearly on a decent set-up.
/r/seduction29/01/11 03:50 PM
2

Do nothing. You know you're in the right and if you act like it everyone will pick up on that. Stop caring what everyone things about you, perceptions change.
/r/seduction27/01/11 04:00 PM
3

Agreed! And fucked means fucked properly. Falling for a girl is like sticking your balls in a vice, you need to make sure her ass is in the same vice first.
/r/seduction27/01/11 01:31 AM
4

The concept of love hotels is insane. It kind of seems 'weird' for a girl to go to this place with you, which is basically a sex room, to not have sex with you. I mean it would be more normal to just go back to your place. When I invite a girl back to mine there's at least the pretence of innocence :P Back on topic, it sounds like you were a bit out of sync with her. You were doing things that work with other girls but miss the point with this one. I know the feeling!
/r/seduction27/01/11 01:25 AM
2

Eh my bad!
/r/seduction27/01/11 12:03 AM
3

I hear ya! It's as if they think it's going to change our perception of them or not leave them 3 weeks later
/r/seduction26/01/11 09:37 PM
9

"We're just going to your place to sleep right? Nothing else!" "Of course!" (Said in an incredulous voice) We get into bed, she jumps on me.
/r/seduction26/01/11 04:33 PM
1

I cheat, I occasionally fuck someone once and don't bother calling again, I cheat allot.
/r/seduction26/01/11 01:26 AM
4

I had a few realizations between 20-25: First I figured that complaining about things was stupid. If "women liked assholes" then I should just accept that and become one. This was a kind of childish thought - you know how a kid would say "fine, if you wan't me to be quiet I just won't speak for the rest of the week!" Then I started to understand that women don't 'like' assholes, they like guys, hot guys, interesting guys, confident guys, these guys just happen to be assholes. I don't like Michae…
/r/seduction25/01/11 10:28 PM
1

Coke is a mans drug, and should be done by real men off a hookers tits or an executives' table. Not off a fucking dinner plate with your Oyster card at 4am with a bunch of randoms. I did coke with a hooker a few times but forgot to try it off her tits. Damn!
/r/seduction25/01/11 12:09 AM
1

Agreed on coke 100% and I've had both types of coked-up girl you described, including one get up half way through sex to change the music WTF. E I have to disagree with, I loose all interest in sex, I don't think I could even get hard for a couple of hours. On the other hand, sex for about 5 days after doing E is mind-fucking-blowing. You're in love with her and the world. I don't recommend picking up women when you're on drugs, you end up coming across as an idiot. But the experience is amazing…
/r/seduction24/01/11 10:29 PM
3

London here: I don't see many built guys. In medium to high end clubs like Kukoo the guys are dressed smartly, in East London clubs people are more indie. Super-high end clubs are full of rich Arabs. There is a worrying trend of obesity I agree, it is absolutely fucking terrible and society needs to put a stop to it. Just on a practical level, if a club needs to be evacuated, fat people do not make it easier. We have lots of East European girls here, they are lovely :) in fact, I love the amount…
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:47 PM
4

It really depends on the girl and the situation. In many cases pulling a girl in a club and getting her number can mean absolutely jack shit, nothing, nada. I've been out with girl friends who've spent half the night making out with some guy in the club, we're sharing a taxi home and she's texting him - "ooh so you like him?" I ask, "nah its just fun I'll delete his number in the morning" she replies. Now on the other hand, meeting a girl in the day time and getting a number usually means allot …
/r/seduction24/01/11 12:30 PM
1

Sex should sound sexy, getting laid is not a military operation
/r/seduction24/01/11 11:23 AM
2

Well then he only needs to know three things: Be completely and utterly confident at all times Explore the club Learn
/r/seduction24/01/11 01:52 AM
1

Women usually think they're being played. Its almost a complement, as in "you're so smooth, you've just met me and we're making out" but the end of the sentence is "I bet you do this with 3 girls a week". Women don't really like this and thats half the reason they have second thoughts at the last minute. So basically, you need to keep a balance! Too far to one side and you're unattractive, too far to the other side and you're so attractive that you're obviously not really into the girl and you'r…
/r/seduction24/01/11 01:48 AM
4

The problem is 99% of the things you need to learn in life come from experience. 5 years ago you could have given my a signed letter from the President of the United States telling me a particular girl obviously wanted me to make a move on her but I wouldn't have believed it enough to act. Only after pulling half a dozen women did it become blindingly obvious to me.
/r/seduction23/01/11 07:02 PM
9

kill me now. this was intended as ridicule and parody.
/r/seduction23/01/11 06:55 PM
17

(Said in a big rushed single breath) Ok so to avoid AA, keep to the 3 second rule while sarging. Find a set of HBs and use a situational opener, then stack DHV stories while looking for IOIs. First sign of bitch shield or shit test: neg. Be calibrating at all times and initiate kino as soon as possible. Avoid AMOGs by maintaining frame always and never eject first. You need to escalate constantly or you risk LJBF. Once your target is isolated ramp up the kino escalation ladder and begin watching…
/r/seduction23/01/11 02:20 PM
1

Thats a dick move. Also she will tell all her friends and suddenly women everywhere will be paranoid that any guy who seems cool is "just playing them".
/r/seduction23/01/11 02:01 PM
1

It goes without saying that you should do things that make you look better, stronger, wealthier, sexier and avoid doing things that make you look weak, poor and boring.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:57 AM
1

Just lie. End of.
/r/seduction23/01/11 12:47 AM
37

The "pickup community" should always be denied. Never admit to a women you even know of its existence, and avoid telling other men at all costs.
/r/seduction22/01/11 10:45 PM
1

Arrange one more date, kiss her again. This seems pretty straight forward.
/r/seduction22/01/11 09:06 PM
3

Unfortunately the rest of the week seems to be spent in entirely the wrong state.
/r/seduction20/01/11 03:49 PM
6

Trying to kiss the same girl on 4 separate occasions and getting rejected each time: now I have no fear and understand that some women, like some men, are just crazy time-wasters that just want your attention
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:29 AM
0

There is no such thing as a slut. Some people have a different sex drive at different points in their life. Some people enjoy casual sex. Some people experiment. Some people change their mind about what they like. This is all totally normal human behaviour - as is it normal for you to walk down the street and see half a dozen women you would potentially sleep with. Finally, some people (men and women) are not ready for a relationship and will end up cheating on you, this is also a normal part of…
/r/seduction20/01/11 10:22 AM
0

Slut shaming is bad for everyone. Women read this shit and think "guys don't respect us if we sleep with them on the first date" which ends up bad for everyone, both sexes. The worst thing is, the only guys who actually care about a girl sleeping with them too fast, who think it must mean she's a slut, are the ones with fucked up mentalities themselves. These guys think a girl isn't marriage material unless she's a virgin. They have so little self worth that they couldn't possibly imagine that a…
/r/seduction19/01/11 10:33 PM
2

Fuck you. There is nothing wrong with sleeping with someone when you want.
/r/seduction19/01/11 10:28 PM
2

Never appear as a player, appear as if you could be a player.
/r/seduction19/01/11 09:23 PM
14

It's so cute when they don't want you think they're a slut.
/r/seduction18/01/11 08:49 PM
6

Take them straight to your bedroom as soon as you get home. Only two or three girls have ever actually expected to 'watch a movie' or 'listen to music' or whatever.
/r/seduction18/01/11 07:25 PM
6

I dunno, for me a fun experience would be her riding my cock at 6am.
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:30 PM
2

Always pay. I know people say "I can get a girl to pay for me and still end up with her sucking my dick 2 hours later". Doesn't matter, just pay, its part of being a guy. If she seriously wants to pay, let her get the next thing or whatever, but just make sure you try and pay. It might not get you laid but its a nice thing to do. Maybe 10-20% of girls I've met I can say my conversation with them comes as easily as with one of my good friends. I don't hook up with random women because of conversa…
/r/seduction18/01/11 02:28 PM
14

So basically, you see a girl and luck is on your side enough to recognize a dating website sound coming from her laptop. She's obviously single, obviously on her own and obviously looking for a guy. But instead of walking up to her, you take the absolute crazy risk of trying to message her, hoping that within the 100's of spam messages she gets she will pick out 'Kittenz n stuff', open it, read and understand its cryptic contents, look up, recognize you, and not get freaked out. Then when she le…
/r/seduction18/01/11 12:30 PM
1

And this is what I don't understand about the 'seduction' community - surely a bunch of people who had trouble seducing women would want as few people as possible to know about the methods they had just found for seducing women? Why would you want more competition?
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:59 AM
2

Why do you need to disprove his argument?
/r/seduction18/01/11 11:30 AM
1

Out of interest, could you link to a pic of a girl you'd consider a 3, 4, 5 or 6? I have no way to judge your scale.
/r/seduction18/01/11 05:21 AM
1

Everyone has three instant categories for people they see: yes, no, maybe. For guys, our 'maybe' range is quite narrow. We will mostly know instantly if we will potentially sleep with someone from their physical looks alone. We only need a brief few seconds to see them in action or talk to them to confirm this. Women have a slightly wider 'maybe' and can be swayed to one guy or another by things other than instant looks (but equally shallow) but mostly they are the same as men. However its very …
/r/seduction18/01/11 03:28 AM
1

Attacking a person rather than their argument is immature. This is the kind of thing Bill O'Reilly would do. Read his post again and instead imagine it was written by someone you admire. Now tell everyone what you think is wrong with it.
/r/seduction18/01/11 03:14 AM
3

It's not really telepathic. If I told a fat girl "I bet you have loads of good looking guy friends who talk to you about their girl problems but won't fuck you" would I be telepathic? What this girl was saying was "your looks aside, you don't have any confidence, your body language is shy, the way you speak is meek, I don't think you've ever made a move on a girl"
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:19 PM
1

Look at a naturally confident person and a naturally unconfident person and tell me what differences you see.
/r/seduction15/01/11 09:02 PM
5

I don't kiss on the first date is stupid. Kiss whenever you feel the moment is right and don't leave it until the end of the night. If the moment isn't right on the first date then its unlikely it will be right on the second. Dates should be somewhere where you guys can end up making out, like a bar. It just sounds to me like she didn't consider this a date and assumes you're not interested.
/r/seduction14/01/11 06:31 PM
1

15/20 - anyone else?
/r/seduction13/01/11 06:36 PM
2

I totally agree, logarithmic scale all the way! You really hit the nail on the head with 7 - everyone has a story about their first.
/r/seduction12/01/11 02:54 PM
1

I'm not sure the scale can be useful if you can't use it to score a girl you've never met on the other side of the room. Even if beauty is in the eye of the beholder, most guys can agree on 'no', 'yeah', and 'OMG' It's interesting to see how you change over the years. My first girlfriend was an 8, now she's a 7. I used to think 6 was the lowest I'd gone but now I realise it's 5. (I don't remember the 4). My latest acquaintance is a 9, if I sleep with her she'll be an 8. No mater how many times I…
/r/seduction12/01/11 02:38 PM
7

10: Reserved for A-listers. (She can be found somewhere in a recent top 100 list, no air brush) 9: She does modelling, presenting, high-class escorting or something related, or she turns down countless offers (and no, the Argos catalogue doesn't count). She will almost always be the hottest girl in the bar. (A hot guy has walked up to you in a bar and told you "you're one fucking lucky man") 8: The Sweet Spot. Gorgeous, memorable, the envy of your buddies, not just-another-girl. (When you're wit…
/r/seduction12/01/11 12:29 PM
2

I had this problem with one girl. She wouldn't kiss me half way through the first date and I figured she wasn't interested. Afterwards she texted things like "do I get to see you again?" and "are you single? I didn't even ask!" so stupidly I see her again, and this time she rejects my advances about 3 times saying she didn't think I was really into her! Actually it was a blessing in disguise, I'm totally confident with first kisses and when they're wanted or not wanted.
/r/seduction10/01/11 10:54 PM
4

Don't eat cheese when you're going to kiss someone. Ever.
/r/seduction10/01/11 02:40 PM
0

They are possibly the easiest culture/race to pick up for me. Almost all are up for fucking on the first night and they get drunk easily.
/r/seduction09/01/11 08:16 PM
1

Insane non-London (WTF is that) accent: "I live in Hampstead, it's kind of posh" This guy makes money teaching people how to get laid!?
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:29 AM
8

The ones that give it up right away are hoes. This is complete bullshit. I've fucked on the first night, women who were intelligent, sane and beautiful and totally girlfriend material. I'd loosely say that 50% of the time its first night, and the girls in that half are most of the hottest I've been with. The most intelligent girl I've been with I met at 4am at the end of a house party while we were both starting to sober up. We talked for 15 minutes, we ended up making out and she she came home …
/r/seduction08/01/11 10:13 AM
1

Why do you feel the need to tell her that you're only interested in sex? Women react unpredictably to these kinds of conversation.
/r/seduction08/01/11 02:09 AM
1

Ideally it goes: Bedroom -> Kiss Standing -> Kissing on Bed -> Great Times Sometimes it can go: Bedroom -> Get Drinks -> Sit on Bed talking for 10 minutes -> Kissing -> Etc. And occasionally: Living Room -> Music -> Drinks -> Talking -> Kissing -> Bedroom -> Etc. Bad: Living Room -> House mates are in -> Group talk -> (Thinking) Fuck this I want her in my bed! Worse: Enter house without having made out prior -> Awkwardness -> Getting to the right moment
/r/seduction07/01/11 10:46 PM
1

I've had luck in the bar situation about every other week.
/r/seduction04/01/11 11:49 AM
1

So does walking from bar to bar. So does kissing in the street. Some girls are very shy about that too.
/r/seduction04/01/11 11:49 AM
2

I'm not suggesting you never go to museums I'm suggesting that it's too much for a first date. Maybe half the dates I go on go from meeting to bar to bedroom in 2-3 hours. No way is that gonna happen in a museum (are they even open late evening?) and I will become that museum guy!
/r/seduction04/01/11 11:46 AM
1

WTF? Just take her to a bar or two, anything else is excessive. Save this level of planning until you're fucking. Cafe? Museum!? You can't make out in a fucking museum.
/r/seduction04/01/11 01:18 AM
1

3 girls but I particularly wanted to get my rocks off with this one. Its always better to keep hold of them either way.
/r/seduction29/12/10 11:06 AM
1

Hm you say that but its always the girls I don't want to date that do this. The girls I do want to date I seem to treat slightly differently subconsciously and this turns them off dating me. They do wanna keep fucking so that is a win I guess. It's almost what goes around comes around ;)
/r/seduction29/12/10 11:04 AM
1

Yes, this has happened before where they say "I can't do this anymore" and a month or two later they're back.
/r/seduction29/12/10 11:03 AM
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Take her to a restaurant, avoid alcohol and suggestive eye contact. It's a good idea to sit opposite so you can also avoid any kind of physical contact too, which could make you uncomfortable. Ask her 'safe' questions - what does she think of the weather, did she travel by bus or train. After this you can move on to the questions that will really help you get to know her: what religion is she, what does she think of your beliefs, what are her views on abortion, the death penalty and drugs. If yo…
/r/seduction25/12/10 05:07 PM
1

What the fuck?
/r/seduction23/12/10 12:09 PM
1

I didn't say develop a coke habit, I said try coke. And hookers != escorts.
/r/seduction23/12/10 10:16 AM
-1

He's seeing someone better. This I can guarantee.
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:41 AM
2

People in this situation generally lose their virginity in one of these ways: Lower your standards and fuck fatties until you slowly build yourself up. Meet a cute, shy, religious virgin who likes you for who you are and make her believe she's the one so she'll let her guard down and sleep with you a few times before you guys are married, and then get the hell out of there before her father gives you a shot-gun wedding. Experiment with drugs like weed, MDMA, speed and coke to unlock different si…
/r/seduction22/12/10 11:11 AM
0

If you can't see that these women were half joking with the guy then yes, don't take advice from them.
/r/seduction21/12/10 04:59 PM
-3

my infamous ex-stripper gf OMG! Hey everyone! This guy has an ex-stripper girlfriend!
/r/seduction21/12/10 02:12 PM
1

Its really simple: Whenever you are wondering what to say or do, always ask yourself "will what I am about to say or do help or hinder me getting laid". If its the latter, don't do it.
/r/seduction20/12/10 01:23 PM
-3

A relationship is when you stop being a man.
/r/seduction12/12/10 07:00 PM
2

If there's grass on the pitch...
/r/seduction12/12/10 02:20 PM
-1

Never go anywhere except a bar. Even if she doesn't drink! This is what bars are invented for, they're dark, not too quiet or noisy and you can sit close!
/r/seduction12/12/10 11:57 AM
1

This idea that sex is something special to be saved for the right person is the most absurd bs I can imagine. You will have sex with lots of people in your life, most of them will not be the right person.
/r/seduction10/12/10 04:15 PM
1

Ha! Then I will continue: I know a couple of other guys, older, who have gone through this in far more ways than me. They occasionally find someone they really like and stick with them for a while but I don't think they will be faithful. In fact I can guarantee that there are only two things capable of keeping a man faithful to one woman: fear of god, and a lack of opportunity. That's it. I hate to sound so cynical but the drive for us to fuck around is bigger than the drive for women to look at…
/r/seduction09/12/10 11:16 PM
1

No it's not a mistake. I never end up seeing someone again unless we've started kissing the first time - it just doesn't work out. Then again I've never not gone for it so I have no frame of reference! 3 times a girl has kissed me instead but really don't count on that. I've been rejected going for a kiss about 3 times. One of those ended up calling me and wanting to meet again and then rejected me another 2 times saying she didn't believe I was really interested in her! If a girl rejects your k…
/r/seduction09/12/10 10:34 PM
1

How is working as a nurse a bonus? Nurses have to deal with piss, shit and puke all day :(
/r/seduction08/12/10 03:13 PM
1

Yes, I should emphasise that I think the "PUA" community is mostly full of shit.
/r/seduction08/12/10 02:00 PM
8

There is no out. Once you realise that you can spend your life having sex with lots of different women you will realise that monogamy is not really a serious driving force of male biology. While I'm single I have sex more often than in most long term relationships. Sex is more fun too - I never get bored, I always see more than one girl, I never have sex with the same person twice in a row. Arguments and mood swings are rarely an issue. I feel my life is exciting every single day and I meet some…
/r/seduction08/12/10 10:55 AM
1

The first good thing you'll learn is that three dates is not usually needed. You can be fucking the same night you meet 50% of the time.
/r/seduction06/12/10 01:45 AM
-1

Try smacking instead. You can smack that bitch up in her head whenever she steps out of line.
/r/seduction16/11/10 06:11 AM
1

First off: 4'10 80lbs!? That's anorexic. We all like skinny girls but Jesus dude send her to a doctor. On second thoughts, you're probably in the US? Cheaper to take her to McDonalds. After a while of success you stop thinking of rejections in terms of your fault and start considering other possibilities: perhaps she was shy, scared of falling for someone who obviously isn't gonna commit, cheating on her boyfriend, etc.
/r/seduction16/11/10 01:47 AM
1

You're thinking of SoHo. Soho is an area of central London famous for brothels and gay bars and post-production companies.
/r/seduction15/11/10 04:39 PM
-3

"I'm kind of a big deal"
/r/seduction15/11/10 03:15 PM
7

To be honest the first thing going through my mind would be "is this some kind of gypsy con where her gang of friends rob me" and then "where's the hidden camera?" I'm not so desperate that I wouldn't at least want to have a chat with her first, to check her out. And that's really what it boils down to when it comes to women: Men can be scary, she might assume you're going attack her. Women are less scary to men. Strangers are strange, its amazing how much closer you can feel to someone after so…
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:59 AM
2

That would be awkward, since I'm sitting in Soho right now and I'm pretty sure I'm in London http://maps.google.com/maps?f=q&source=s_q&hl=en&geocode=&q=Soho,+London,+United+Kingdom&sll=51.51621,-0.13087&sspn=0.003739,0.00766&ie=UTF8&hq=&hnear=Soho,+Greater+London,+United+Kingdom&z=13 Actually the guy lives just off Frith Street opposite Nando's by the looks of it
/r/seduction15/11/10 11:49 AM
1

Arg this guy lives near me. I'm amazed I havn't bumped into him. It looks like he has a flat in Soho which would explain the mice.
/r/seduction14/11/10 11:04 AM
1

Buying shit and holding hands is fine, just don't see her too often.
/r/seduction12/11/10 03:10 PM
3

When you get a girl really turned on she will lose all self control. It just takes some thought and care and patience and not giving a fuck. I've gotten into the pants of a headscarf wearing Muslim girl. They have just as little self control as anyone else.
/r/seduction12/11/10 12:49 AM
1

It's called 'standards', you're getting some, congratulations.
/r/seduction11/11/10 11:19 AM
1

Who cares? They can leave any time, they can stop any time or they can not come back to your place. Guys should stop being so apologetic, women are not 'delicate flowers' they can deal with shit and if sex is too much for them to deal with then they're really gonna have a shock when they get out in the real world.
/r/seduction10/11/10 10:52 AM
1

Its just a case of getting someone over any hang-ups they have about sex. Its not about 'getting' sex its about her being comfortable with wanting it. For example, I dated a religious girl once. She was great in bed and really loved sex and we really loved each other, but, occasionally she would get convinced that sex was morally wrong. In another example a girl says crap like "we're just going back to yours to sleep right? we're not having sex!" and I'm not exaggerating, she jumps on me as soon…
/r/seduction09/11/10 04:44 PM
1

Women are also taught to keep it quiet. Though women will end up having less sexual partners they will have a more consistent number between them and be more picky about it.
/r/seduction08/11/10 06:37 PM
1

Haha you too eh? Marriage should be saved until you're in your 40's, find a nice 30 year old and make her happy. Until then, modern life has given us more time for awesome sex
/r/seduction08/11/10 06:35 PM
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What does gaming you mean? That really needs explanation because the way you're saying it it sounds like he's trying to con you out of something. You think he's hot, you like sex. He thinks your hot, he likes sex. Where is the game here?
/r/seduction08/11/10 12:38 PM
16

If he likes you he likes you and if he doesn't he doesn't. There's absolutely nothing your sex comment will have changed about that. If a guy is sleeping with other girls it just means he has standards. We all want to find a special girl but we're not going to sit around not getting laid in the meantime. We keep our options open :) Just go out with him and get to know him for a couple of hours. Fuck him and see where it goes. You'll soon find out if he's interested in something more serious. So …
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:35 AM
2

Actually we have the same double standard!
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:15 AM
1

I read some excerpts and couldn't read any more
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:15 AM
3

This is absolutely true but both books panda to the common social norms: it's cool for guys to play and it's cool for girls to catch men in the husband net. They cater for different deficiencies in the market: women have little problem getting laid if they know how to look good. A book like the game would be wasted on women. Sure you could teach them to approach guys without being shy but most women don't want to approach guys they want to be liked enough that guys approach them. Getting a husba…
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:14 AM
2

I've been chased by clueless girls and I've chased manipulative girls so there's both kinds out there.
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:07 AM
3

Agreed, tho, putting its effectiveness or failure aside for a moment, The Game seems to be more about being a great guy and getting together which benefits both parties. The Rules seems to be about proving yourself as a strong minded feminist while sheepishly following some bitch.
/r/seduction08/11/10 11:01 AM
1

Yes! My bad
/r/seduction08/11/10 02:00 AM
4

Actually I was talking about the tactics they recommend to keep guys guessing - don't pick up your phone the first time etc.
/r/seduction08/11/10 12:33 AM
1

If a girl does this then she's fair game: If you're not too busy keep at it until you do finally get together and at the appropriate time (after you've slept with her) start ignoring her yourself. This is fair and also goes for any other out-of-order things girls do with you. There's no better way to punish then ignoring or cheating.
/r/seduction07/11/10 11:48 PM
1

I disagree, if there's chemistry and he pulled her right then he could leave it 3 weeks and still be fine. Of course, there is absolutely no reason to do that - the sooner the better.
/r/seduction07/11/10 02:13 PM
1

Women can't handle the truth.
/r/seduction06/11/10 01:14 AM
1

She's extremely nervous and possibly had some strange issue with something you said or did involving other women. It's no biggy, but, like everyone else here I have to warn you she is crazy. Fuck her and chuck her and try not to let her know where you live or work.
/r/seduction04/11/10 02:17 PM
1

The police would totally ticket her for being a crazy bitch
/r/seduction04/11/10 02:14 PM
2

Kiss her. Next time she comes to yours or you go to hers and you are both alone just kiss her. Do it at the door as she greets you for best effect - but make sure you're alone. The absolute worst that will happen is you'll have read it all wrong and she will be surprised - which she'll get over. Just do it and then come and thank me here. Oh and I just got rejected trying to kiss the same girl 5 times this week and still she comes back for more. Unfortunately my girl is a fucking mental case who…
/r/seduction04/11/10 04:51 AM
2

Women are a drug. You will start out fine, you will settle for average girls. You will say things like "Why do you guys chase these hot girls when these almost-as-hot girls are right here?". You will slowly raise your standards. You will chase the dragon.
/r/seduction04/11/10 03:48 AM
5

Bullshit. You need to learn things for yourself to fully understand, believe and make sense of them. The Internet can only give you some basic starting points which you probably already have.
/r/seduction02/11/10 11:11 AM
5

It makes no difference. You can give a girl your number, you can ask for her number. All that matters is how interested she is. Perhaps in extreme cases where she's not quite sure it's better to get her details but this is just mental masturbation at this point. It makes no difference. Girls will call you if they like you. Just like guys.
/r/seduction02/11/10 11:07 AM
1

What.
/r/seduction01/11/10 11:34 AM
1

Its interesting you say this because I have turned down a few average looking women and while they didn't just come up to me out of the blue and ask me to have sex with them, it was just degrees away from it. I made out with a couple of them for the thrill of it, and the other just kind of ignored the advances. One got quite angry as I had sort of led her on a little and invited her back to mine before I sobered up. I love sex and I love new girls, this doesn't mean I'm going to sleep with anyon…
/r/seduction31/10/10 10:26 PM
0

Sorry but that goes for all genders
/r/seduction30/10/10 09:36 PM
1

Decent, good looking, well off guys with a sense of humour. You think I'm talking shit but if you actually read that sentence and have a think about what all those words mean it makes perfect sense. What do guys want? A decent (i.e. not crack whore, bitchy, cruel), good looking, girl who you don't immediately feel like getting rid off the moment you've finished fucking her.
/r/seduction30/10/10 08:03 PM
1

This is what I do when I want a fuck buddy. If I really like her and want it to be more 'dating' I want to see her as much as possible but say 3-4 times a week would be good. Basically what it comes down to is: you want to see her more, you want her to not be seeing other guys. This should all fall into place nicely. Well, as nicely as a relationship can be, enjoy it until you get sick of it.
/r/seduction30/10/10 07:51 PM
3

You don't need to specifically say anything, just see her more often and widen your range of activities. How often do you see her? I get pretty concerned when people I'm not totally down for a relationship with start saying relationshippy things. Oh BTW I totally get the same issue: girls I'm casually seeing and don't particularly worry about are the ones pushing for more, the girls I actually care about are elusive! This is a fact of life guys do it too.
/r/seduction30/10/10 07:36 PM
1

Yep, definitely find it hard. I like clubs and can have fun there but its really hard to get anything together, it just seems so messy, everyone seems drunk and not interested in anything but drinking. Partys on the other hand - totally different story.
/r/seduction30/10/10 07:34 PM
1

You didn't make it clear but you guys are fucking right?
/r/seduction30/10/10 07:31 PM
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Your first impression is vital, but after that your behaviour has limited effect. Of course there are exceptions.
/r/seduction28/10/10 07:24 PM
0

I rarely approach people unless it feels natural - if get a look or theres some other reason to. The only time I'll randomly talk to everyone is at parties. It is true that you can talk to 100 girls and have nothing come out of it. You need to make a move, its as simple as that, only twice in my life has a girl made a move on me and only one of those times was it completely and utterly without any work on my part. All this game shit on the other hand is unnecessary, if it works for Mystery and t…
/r/seduction28/10/10 04:20 PM
11

They're good looking guys They're well groomed They dress decently Their voices are upbeat, clear and confident and not monotonus or difficult to listen to Their body language isn't nervous or timid. They don't hide, fidget or curl up They carry a conversation and fill in gaps in such a way that you can enjoy speaking to them They flirt and tell girls what they like or jokingly dislike about them and try to take things to the next level Ok this is crazy I know, but this shit actually works! Can …
/r/seduction28/10/10 03:43 PM
1

This girl triggered my crazy flag. On the one hand you could probably be fucking her in a day if you work it right. On the other hand consider the repercussions first.
/r/seduction28/10/10 10:58 AM
1

This. Several times I've been rejected making a move and after blowing it off and assuming she wasn't interested I later get her coming right back to me
/r/seduction28/10/10 10:55 AM
1

That may have been true many decades ago but these days the hottest women in the world parade on TV and in magazines. We can all agree that the perfect 10 doesn't actually exist but someone in the 'Top 100 Sexiest' list comes damn close at 9.9 Since 1-5 is the bottom half of 1-10, 5 is the highest you are not attracted to. Therefore 6 is the beginning of attractiveness. Using this very real scale we can, like Celsius, place all attractive women along the line from 6 to 9.9 Your average girlfrien…
/r/seduction25/10/10 11:30 PM
-1

Perhaps Saudi Arabia is on to something. I'm pretty sure their women sit the fuck down and do as they're told. // Not sure how sarcastic I am about that
/r/seduction25/10/10 04:22 PM
2

Oh and also you will meet 'the one' again and again - I've met about 3 this year and got over them all.
/r/seduction25/10/10 01:03 PM
1

The 10 scale is a universally understood system throughout all mankind. If you say 'perfect 10' to any guy in the world he will know what you mean. Just because any number below 6 is irrelevant does not mean its broken, its just like that. Sure, call people attractive or moderately attractive, whatever rocks your boat.
/r/seduction25/10/10 12:59 PM
1

To be honest, if she has a face and body that can turn my mind to butter and my dick to rock then I'm going to give her a fair bit of slack in the annoying department. This is how it works.
/r/seduction25/10/10 12:55 PM
1

If you see an attractive guy do you try and give him a chance to approach you first, or just go straight for it? And if so, how do you make it obvious?
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:40 PM
1

Give this man an internet.
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:38 PM
2

Women don't approach men because they want a 'man'. In their mind that man is someone who can confidently approach her and in a metaphorical cliche sweep her of her feet. The exceptions come when the guy is either so above her league that her only chance is to approach him first, or when he is in a situation where he cant possibly notice her unless she approaches.
/r/seduction24/10/10 07:34 PM
2

Age difference was irrelevant, 27/32 is fine even for a relationship, for a fling its perfect. You didn't move too fast, it shouldn't take more than an evening to fuck most women. It shouldn't take more than a couple hours to kiss. Your apartment should back you up. Have you ever been to a friends place and felt it was too messy and dirty to feel comfortable staying long in? Have you ever been to a friends place and thought "wow I could just crash here all week"? This will sound controversial bu…
/r/seduction24/10/10 02:00 PM
1

People seem to think hookers are black and white its so not that simple. I don't think there's anything shameful about paying, many many rich, successful, good-looking guys do this because, if you actually have a busy life doing other important things (like making money), this makes life fucking great - just like going to a nice restaurant. The people I judge who do this are the all the fucking Arabs. The number of rich Arabs in London doing coke and hookers while their wives are second class ci…
/r/seduction23/10/10 07:05 PM
1

Well. The best I can suggest is you talk to her as a friend. Hopefully you have her number right? Start with some text conversation, meet up for lunch or coffee, take it very slowly and not too flirty. Its really the opposite of what you'd normally do. Just remember she's fucking half a dozen guys a week. Does she do coke?
/r/seduction23/10/10 04:44 PM
1

And this is why you shouldn't pay for sex, you'll end up bankrupt. I was with one escort I met outside of her 'work' and the sex was weird, I felt like I was a client and couldn't do certain things. She was fucking skilled though :) The bravado of picking up strippers and high class call girls is complete bullshit. They are no harder or easier than anyone else and they come with the same strings. If a girl is into you she's into you.
/r/seduction23/10/10 02:00 PM
1

Put yourself in her shoes. Most escorts have issues and so would you if you were fucking so many random men for money with the potential dangers, awkwardness and emotional highs and lows. Many of them get coke moods, lots have surprising self esteem issues (its hard to imagine if you're regularly getting £500 that you would have any doubts about yourself but people work in strange ways) and all of them in some way are looking for a big break which will usually involve meeting a nice handsome ric…
/r/seduction23/10/10 01:54 PM
1

You're in London right? Where did you meet this one? :P Women are pretty similar to men. Just put yourself in their position, imagine yourself with their needs, responsibilities and worries. As you get more successful you'll get some incredible insights into what its like to be a woman.
/r/seduction22/10/10 01:30 PM
2

Yep. Getting laid is actually mostly about logistics - ie the right suggestion the right place and the right time. The attraction someone has to you, even for women, is made or broken in seconds from your body language and general presentation and only changes a little afterwards. The rest of an evening is just becoming comfortable with each other and I think this is what people confuse with seduction.
/r/seduction22/10/10 10:06 AM
3

This tells me she's decided to have sex with me You sir are a master of psychology. How would you guys have played this... This isn't really playing. She's into you, she wants to fuck you, this is an easy next date.
/r/seduction22/10/10 09:54 AM
2

Sup!
/r/seduction21/10/10 11:35 PM
5

Sounds like you didn't make a move fast enough. If I've not made out with a girl by the second time we meet then it's not gonna happen and she's probably thinking the same.
/r/seduction19/10/10 02:13 PM
2

She was into him before he opened his mouth. I had this a couple of times at parties and things went from talking to making out to taxi within about 10 minutes. When a girl is into you it feels like all the planets have aligned and suddenly you can walk on water. With the right combination of into you, alcohol, party and logistics it's going to happen.
/r/seduction17/10/10 11:58 AM
1

That guy obviously wasn't listening when she said her boyfriend was waiting outside
/r/seduction16/10/10 12:20 PM
2

I'm a virgin and and only want to lose my virginity to someone special, and I was afraid she was only interested in a one night stand. Hahhaahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah hah ahahaha hahaha ahahahahahaahahahhahahahahahah oh oh god! oh god! ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahah ahahahahahah ahahahahah ahah ahhahahahah To be fair I lost my virginity with my first girlfriend and we were together several years and waited a good few months. But seriously, don't waste your time. How old are you?
/r/seduction11/10/10 11:03 PM
1

Be so fucking careful with your emotions. Think of it as a drug addiction. If I had a penny for every time I've fallen for a girl who I later looked back on and thought "what the fuck did I see in her" I'd have some heavy pockets. Falling for someone who isn't absolutely into you will get you into trouble. I'm now more careful with the girls I fall for than with the drugs I try.
/r/seduction11/10/10 10:50 PM
1

I never touch guys for no reason, I just don't feel comfortable or the need. Girls on the other hand I've never had a problem with and can't understand why someone can't touch a girls hand, arm, shoulder, back etc.
/r/seduction11/10/10 10:45 PM
0

This is not healthy. You should be sleeping together or she should be off 'sorting her life out' whatever that means. Tell her you like her and "respect" her and because you "respect" her you're telling her that you're going to see other people "kinda casually" while she deals with what she needs to deal with. Try to use those words, if she's not jumping you this week then she's fucked up. End of story.
/r/seduction11/10/10 10:43 PM
0

This statement is retarded
/r/seduction11/10/10 09:49 AM
1

Totally agree. It's almost vital and I'm not sure how I would go back to just one now. It's like having money - it doesn't 'solve' everything but it sure as hell makes 99% of your life easier, happier and more productive.
/r/seduction07/10/10 07:02 PM
3

You're over analysing this, just message her. If she still doesn't reply move on. I've not bothered replying to texts and then forgotten about them and only replied when the girl sent another - it doesn't mean I didn't like her I was just busy
/r/seduction07/10/10 12:29 AM
3

I think this is bullshit and extrapolating causation from coincidence. As an example: I have fallen for girls who seemed interested I have fallen for girls who seemed uninterested I have been uninterested in girls who seemed interested I have been uninterested in girls who seemed uninterested It really made no difference how interested they seemed. The only difference me chasing them made was that it took slightly longer and was sometimes slightly annoying wondering why the fuck we wasted a week…
/r/seduction06/10/10 12:17 AM
2

Never mind other girls. We shouldn't be talking about this shit to other guys anymore. What the hell is in it for anyone to spread their secrets of success?
/r/seduction05/10/10 08:54 AM
1

Next time, think of a date you think you'll both be free and say "hey lets go for a drink at x on y-day if you're free?". If she's busy, suggest up to 3 alternative dates (this is pretty desperate btw) and then give up in the knowledge that you at least exhausted all your options. Its allot easier to give up on a girl knowing that you tried to the point of embarrassment rather than wondering if maybe she was actually genuinely busy.
/r/seduction01/10/10 09:15 AM
6

This isn't so much about what he said but everything that went around it in context. There are many many times you could text a new girl those exact words and still end up in bed the next day.
/r/seduction01/10/10 09:06 AM
5

When I get this kind of shit my respect for the girl falls and I feel completely justified cheating on her later. There are a load of girls who don't do anything like this, they're completely comfortable with sex and usually more fun. This is one of the things that really puts me off women - the things we have to do just so both of us can have a fucking good time!
/r/seduction28/09/10 04:34 PM
1

I had the same situation the other day. Its better to go for it than to ask for two simple reasons: Its really easy to say no, people are going to throw caution to the wind and turn you down. There are plenty of girls who I would say no to but wouldn't push them away if they actually made the move. She might be uncertain or even slightly negative towards the idea before you kiss her, but once you're kissing her theres are pretty damn good chance she'll enjoy it.
/r/seduction28/09/10 02:38 PM
2

You take a girl out on an insanely creative date, spend lots of time with her and generally go out of your way, but at the end of the night you're not making out. I'm not saying what you did was wrong, with a different girl it might have gone great, but you have to understand that some girls are weird, shy, reserved or just not into you, don't waste your time until you know she's worthwhile. You can take a girl to a bar, have a couple of drinks and be making out and then back at your place withi…
/r/seduction28/09/10 02:29 PM
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You say that but on the other hand I've made a move on girls who were difficult to read and its turned out great. I've even had them say they liked the fact I was confident enough to do it so soon. You should expect to fuck on the first date, if you don't even kiss, forget it.
/r/seduction28/09/10 01:55 PM
3

Let me throw this bit of info in: she used the F word some time afterwards, along the lines of we can be good friends. I don't mind ending up friends with her, she's nice, interesting and probably has some hot friends, but the guy in me says "fuck that".
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:35 PM
2

Naturally, I've never gone for the weird lines or stories i've seen here. I just make/wait for the right combination of closeness, eye contact and conversation.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:31 PM
2

She moved away and was surprised and maybe laughing in the same way someone might laugh if david blaine had just pulled a coin out of their finger. She seemed to think it was too fast but I can't remember how she worded it. Body language was comfortable and a little flirty but not obviously inviting me. I definitely didn't feel it was the right moment yet but there were some time constraints so I thought, fuck it, I don't have time to wait.
/r/seduction27/09/10 05:21 PM
5

Exaggerated kiss - I like it!
/r/seduction27/09/10 03:19 PM
1

Avoid afternoon coffee and go for an evening at a bar if possible. You really should kiss on a first date, preferably about half way in. I'm not even going to touch the kissing 30 guys line. Don't imply that you want to have a relationship with her. Not because its needy, but because you don't and you really don't want the headache you will bring yourself from lines like that.
/r/seduction24/09/10 04:17 PM
1

Pics or video of you talking would really help, but without that my best guesses are: Dress and presentation style could possibly be bad The way you move and speak could be very awkward, shy or creepy You may not be making moves or giving off indications that you're interested Its really important to find clothing and hair styles that make you look hot. If you have an eye for aesthetics then you can look in the mirror and instantly recognise how attractive you look. If not you'll need to find so…
/r/seduction23/09/10 09:45 AM
1

I'm not quite sure what to make of it really. Part of me just wonders about the situation and logistics that would precede a woman going somewhere private with you to look at how small your dick is.
/r/seduction22/09/10 03:08 PM
4

What I enjoy doing is tell girls I have the smallest penis in existence and joke around about it, then when they finally ask to see it, they get that jaw-dropped surprised look which normally leads to them wanting to 'try it out'. This has got to be the weirdest idea I've ever heard.
/r/seduction22/09/10 02:52 PM
2

One-girl-syndrome makes me sad
/r/seduction22/09/10 02:01 PM
2

Someone needs to make a definitive list of substances/activities that cause this. Alcohol and tiredness are a big cause, so are many drugs - K, coke, MDAi. There's just really no point in taking something that fucks with your most vital organ.
/r/seduction21/09/10 09:00 PM
2

I think this scale has been fleshed out over and over. Its a world standard, every guy knows what you mean when you say 7, 8, 9, 10. But let me try anyway: 7 is average cute. you're attracted enough but thats all. 8 is cute, she'll raise eyebrows and compliments from your friends and you could see a potentially pretty decent long term relationship. 9 is cute-plus. She'll have something extra and probably does some modelling. When you go out with her you'll generally not check out any other girls…
/r/seduction21/09/10 10:32 AM
3

Don't get attached/obsessed/blindsided by any one particular girl. 99.9% of the time there's a thousand more just like her and I really doubt you met the 0.1% first time round. There are always more girls. Don't make a big deal of it. Sex isn't special or meaningful, its just a fucking insanely great time. There's no reason to wait, there's no 'being ready' and there are no significant consequences. Don't be afraid of lying if it will get you laid, and don't doubt yourself: you're almost certain…
/r/seduction20/09/10 02:30 PM
1

Arg spelling Nazis should go back to Auschwitz
/r/seduction20/09/10 10:26 AM
0

I think its more complicated than that. If you're seeing more than one person you will still feel horny for one when you're not horny for the others. Its almost like the desert principle: you always have room for desert".
/r/seduction19/09/10 05:08 PM
9

This is like saying "this evidence you've given me doesn't seem accurate or trustworthy, but it matches with what I believe so I'll take it, thanks!"
/r/seduction19/09/10 05:07 PM
5

This makes no sense, whats the difference to your body between masturbating and sex? Are you saying you shouldn't have sex more than once a week if you want to pick up new girls!? I've never worried about this shit, this is pseudo science. This is mental masturbation over inconclusive evidence that you can increase your testosterone depending how often you cum. Which might not even be a good thing in itself!
/r/seduction19/09/10 05:05 PM
1

Befriend her, it will drive her fucking nuts and her friends will be impressed. But, her friends are not going to touch you unless theres no way anyone will find out.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:32 PM
2

Dates are still usually cheaper and better than hookers. Hookers are great people and fun to talk to but you don't wanna pay to tap that. You can get most dates home in less than 4 hours and it doesn't take that much work.
/r/seduction18/09/10 06:30 PM
3

To be honest this post is just as useful, if not more, as all the other posts on here. I think these reports are good because they just prove what can be done, what you can get away with and what kind of reactions you can expect. So tell us, for example, the most outrageous things you said, did and what people said/did in return?
/r/seduction18/09/10 02:33 PM
4

I blew a smart girl away by acting like a typical dude and then surprising her minutes into the conversation. At the beginning she was giving me that look of "you're a jock and have no fucking clue what I'm talking about" - which I recognise because I used to give that look too! 5 minutes later I just drop into my old geeky self and demonstrate that I do in fact know and appreciate what she's talking about and she almost did a double-take. We were making out 20 minutes later Moral of the story: …
/r/seduction18/09/10 11:26 AM
2

There are two types of friends-with-benefits relationships: She knows and accepts that you two are just friends with benefits She doesn't and constantly wonders if its going anywhere 2's are the most common and can last for a few months if done properly. 1's are rare and usually the type of girl will be mature and confident about her sexuality. Look for 1's in the swinging/sex-club/fetish scene, but, you'll find quality 1's are lacking!
/r/seduction17/09/10 10:01 AM
1

Post it like a PostIt Note nigga!
/r/seduction17/09/10 09:48 AM
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It has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with making your life easier and not getting into shit.
/r/seduction16/09/10 11:22 AM
5

Be careful with that shit, don't always assume the girl will keep her mouth shut. If she ever eventually tells her husband it will come back to haunt you.
/r/seduction16/09/10 09:38 AM
1

Friday evening, in a bar is the best time to get coffee.
/r/seduction15/09/10 10:57 PM
2

I actually get really turned on fucking girls I wouldn't date. Extreme, stupid, shallow, fucked-up, bring it on! I've fucked religious girls and it feels fucking great!
/r/seduction15/09/10 03:58 PM
3

Start by going out and getting into social situations. Almost everything you'll learn will be from literally just going out and trying. Most of the shit you read is useless, won't make sense until you've already experienced a certain situation, or won't apply to you because it just wont be your particular style of doing things.
/r/seduction14/09/10 02:11 PM
2

I think someone else standardised it as: 7: Cute, but if you dated her you'd see better girls every time you went out. She's "your average" 8: Very Cute: she has something more unique about her and you'd feel proud to have her on your arm. All your friends compliment you 9: Model looks: 9/10 times she's the hottest girl in the club and turns all heads. you seriously consider settling down 10: Some kind of virtually non-existent level reserved only perhaps for super-stars or girls with looks and …
/r/seduction14/09/10 12:00 PM
1

Some of the best sex I've had was with medium-to-hot women and some of the worst was with less-hot women. A small percentage of women I've been with were not worth going back to. Looks are very important to me, I'm a guy, I'm turned on by the way a girl looks, not whats inside. If I'm not turned on then sex is not going to be good. It's not shallow, its how everyone works.
/r/seduction14/09/10 10:46 AM
5

This post seems pointless because If only people who've slept with 100+ reply you have no idea what percentage that is of everyone else 100+ is a figure that most people don't realistically want to attain unless they're in fetish & swinging circles. Maybe a more interesting question is how many a month and how long have you done that consistently. I'm on about 2 a month for the last 6 months and I'm pretty happy with quality :) not even half way to 100 though!
/r/seduction13/09/10 01:01 PM
2

Yah, sex clubs and copious narcotics = unsure count somewhere in the region of half a dozen per week :P I have some friends who've done that
/r/seduction13/09/10 12:50 PM
1

One-girl-syndrome is like kryptonite to men. It has the power to turn sane guys into wrecks. It's also adaptive, so even further into life it will still get you sometimes, you'll be fucking half a dozen girls thinking you're the mother-fucking-player and then suddenly this one gorgeous, beautiful, cute, brunette walks into your life and sigh.............
/r/seduction10/09/10 10:13 AM
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Don't treat kissing as the close of the date. Kissing is seduction damnit!
/r/seduction09/09/10 10:04 PM
1

If they know you're straight then they're fine. If you're bi then.. instant threesome.
/r/seduction09/09/10 02:45 PM
1

Don't tell women you are or were married Avoid working at home or in anti-social jobs Keep going at it and make it your priority
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:47 PM
1

Why didn't you see other girls?
/r/seduction09/09/10 11:56 AM
1

This is why gay bars are good. Gay-guy-friends don't usually cock-block unless you're obviously a creep.
/r/seduction09/09/10 09:45 AM
1

How the fuck did you allow 4 years? Hell, how did he allow 10 months!? I would kill myself after 6. I would go crazy after 1.
/r/seduction09/09/10 09:39 AM
1

I think its the smoking laws here. Its ironically allot easier to pop in to the toilets to powder your nose than to go outside and make an obvious smell.
/r/seduction08/09/10 10:11 AM
0

Kissing at the end of the date and not going home together? This is weird. I go for it half way through and we usually end up fucking.
/r/seduction07/09/10 06:39 PM
0

I've always talked a little about exes, you learn a bit more about each other and its a good segway to lots of other subjects. For me the best way to ensure there will be no second date is to not have sex.
/r/seduction07/09/10 02:06 PM
1

I've tried maybe 4-5 times from separate people/sources and each time all it did was make my heart race. I didn't feel particularly energetic or buzzing but I wasn't able to sleep at all for a long time. Allot of people seem to do it though. In London I know more people who do coke than weed.
/r/seduction07/09/10 01:54 PM
1

Coke is possibly the most useless drug I've tried, there are quite a few alternatives with roughly similar but better effects.
/r/seduction04/09/10 10:20 PM
5

Female friends are the worst cock-blockers in the world. At least other guys usually have some common courtesy. This is why I stick to dates: no waiting for closing time, its only 2-3 hours work and you get to sit down!
/r/seduction02/09/10 10:09 AM
2

I think you could literally go from 0 to in bed with-in 5 minutes if you play it right at the door but the safest approach would be to at the very least take her friends advice and give her a light kiss as soon as you can. Cocktails at your place was a great idea, it involves your place and alcohol and her accepting which is pretty much the sex equivalent of leaving a can of petrol, a matchbox and a troubled teenager alone in an abandoned explosives factory. You can very easily salvage this. Don…
/r/seduction01/09/10 01:26 AM
2

Things get out of hand, hence why I respect a girl who would stop and get/ask me to get a condom. Respect being thinking of someone as on an equal or sometimes higher level.
/r/seduction01/09/10 01:05 AM
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I think there are 3 types of guys in the world What seddit would call AFC's - guys who aren't getting laid. who'll lower standards and treat every opportunity like gold. They will get jealous if they think a girl sees other guys but they're not gonna judge her. Guys who are getting laid and have options. They will be less likely to call a girl back unless they are attracted, they're still not going to judge a girl who sees other guys as long as she seems safe. Religious nuts who compare sex with…
/r/seduction31/08/10 02:07 PM
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if I'm too quick to put out Your attitude of "putting out" kinda sucks. Girls need to get over themselves. Guys don't always want sex, we just feel that sex is an important thing to do early on when meeting someone. If a girl acts like sex is a reward and is better for him than for her, the the guy will resent her. he might assume that I do so often Guys generally like to assume we are one of the very few guys you've ever slept with as it makes us feel better. If we're sleeping around too then w…
/r/seduction31/08/10 01:51 PM
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The big rule is: if a guy likes you, he'll see you again for sure. If he doesn't like you, or isn't too bothered, or has other girls to see then he probably wont. Things I respect in a girl: Sleeping with me because she's attracted to me Being comfortable with herself Wanting to be safe Things I don't respect in a girl: Saying "we're just going back to yours to watch a movie right?" and then jumping me when we get there. Making both of us wait because she doesn't want to look like a slut Making …
/r/seduction31/08/10 10:33 AM
1

The evil section seemed to miss the point. Girls are evil but: Lying to your boyfriend? I've lied to girlfriends more times than I can count and I bet everyone here has! Leaving someone because you found someone better? That's practically my standard breakup procedure! :( Nice girls doing coke? Everyone has experimented with drugs. As long as its not a damaging habit what's the problem? Girls are as bad as guys and they are very much driving by their surroundings and opportunities, just like guy…
/r/seduction28/08/10 10:10 AM
3

"Women love assholes" is a cargo cult mentality. What is an asshole even? What constitutes being a dick?
/r/seduction26/08/10 02:39 PM
3

People here seem to be trying to analyse this but the fact is saying "Look, I just couldn't be assed talking to you anymore" is really not what normal people say after that after a few messages in an online chat, no matter what you said before! Ignore it, it makes no sense.
/r/seduction25/08/10 09:37 AM
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Agreed, and when a girl does it, it's so blindingly obvious I just want to say "Why did you wait 3 days?!? We were both free this weekend we could have been fucking right now!" Phones are 1900's, you should be texting most of the time.
/r/seduction24/08/10 12:36 PM
1

Allot of guys have a thing for asian girls, if you're mixed race then you're probably fucking stunning!
/r/seduction23/08/10 10:44 AM
3

Some guys like fat girls, don't listen to them, skinny is fine!!
/r/seduction23/08/10 10:43 AM
1

Bullshit, from experience I've stayed with more 1st night girls than 'make-him-wait' girls. This 'low value' psychology is very misunderstood! Sure it has a place in some situations but people seem to simplify it and try and apply it everywhere. If you want to seduce a guy you have to understand that if you're not fucking him then he is fucking someone else. The best bet is to grab him on the first night and then the next day you can play a little hard to get. There is such a thing as too hard t…
/r/seduction23/08/10 10:41 AM
1

Its very difficult in bars/clubs its very often down to luck.
/r/seduction20/08/10 03:01 PM
2

A one-night stand is not the same as sleeping with a girl the first night you meet her. One-night stands are also not generally a positive thing: it means one of the people involved was not considered amazing enough by the other to do it again. It's really something you go through for no real reason. If you take home a decent girl you're going to want to fuck her a few times at least. I've only been with one or two girls who I would personally say "no more than once" and its not something I woul…
/r/seduction20/08/10 10:50 AM
1

what are some other ways to access that subconscious mind and make her comfortable with/attracted to you? Sometimes a girl is just into you, this happens more than you think. I've had a couple of situations at parties where I noticed a girl, didn't gauge any kind of interest from her but later ended up talking to her and taking her home with absolute minimal effort, and for the record I don't think I touched either of them until we kissed. Come to think of it, I'm not even sure how we kissed, it…
/r/seduction19/08/10 04:22 PM
1

Don't fuck co-workers if: You plan to fuck around with other people You see your job as longer term than the girl Anyone else in the office has/is/wants to be involved with her Do fuck co-workers if: They're incredibly fine, super-fine It will improve your position You'll get more respect from your peers
/r/seduction19/08/10 01:35 PM
2

Touching a woman is just confident. It shows her you're not scared of her and not opposed to touching her. It would also be extremely awkward to go from just talking to other stuff without actually touching in-between. Most importantly though, it tells her that it's ok for her to touch you or get closer. You can over analyse it.
/r/seduction19/08/10 02:03 AM
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For me the shadow doesn't seem to clear, it just moves. I know that when I was 19 all I could think about was why girls didn't think of me in "that way", when would I get laid? Why were assholes getting laid when they were probably shit in bed and just treated these girls like shit? Why wouldn't girls give me a chance? I look back on those questions and they seem quite ridiculous. I could answer/explain/dismiss them trivially to my full satisfaction, although my reasoning doesn't seem to fully m…
/r/seduction18/08/10 12:56 PM
2

Most marriages suffer from common problems: People (especially women) tend to think marriage will solve the problems in the relationship. e.g., "I know he's not perfect now but when we're married it will all be ok". Women are blinded by marriage to such an extent that they will ignore practically everything else for the chance of a white wedding or 'happily married life'. The pressure of marriage creates its own tensions: in your mind you're stuck with each other, you have no choice, its no-long…
/r/seduction18/08/10 12:35 PM
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Yeah, and they didn't advance or innovate.
/r/seduction18/08/10 01:33 AM
0

happily married life This is extremely rare, most marriages are fucked up.
/r/seduction18/08/10 01:31 AM
1

I'm in a spookily similar situation. I'm out of a serious relationship and now in a job I love with great people and a great lifestyle. I have no interest in getting with anyone, I get an incredible thrill every time I'm successful with girls, I'm literally in the bathroom straight after sex punching the air and updating my score. I get great satisfaction from pushing my comfort zone. The downside is when I'm seeing a girl I have to do things behind her back, I can't stop it, I feel like if I do…
/r/seduction17/08/10 08:27 PM
1

How did you lose it?
/r/seduction17/08/10 05:19 PM
5

Like money, it goes a long way to solving your problems, it makes your life allot more enjoyable. It might not be everything but its certainly a great deal.
/r/seduction17/08/10 05:04 PM
1

Now, when I am in a relationship, the moment problems come about, I just think about how easy it'll be to be with another girl. That realisation helped and hindered. I'm currently seeing someone and not looking forward to the day she starts something because I have no idea how I will handle it. I don't want to tell her to fuck off but I will. I used to take allot of shit from early girlfriends, I would always be the one apologising, begging, bargaining and 'changing' for them. I have zero tolera…
/r/seduction17/08/10 05:03 PM
4

The great/worst thing about sex is that as soon as you've had some, you want some more. You go to work thinking "ah, pussy is so overrated, I've totally had my fill this morning". You come back from lunch staring at every ass in the street. Of course, you will get bored of certain types of women but this is a good thing, you will improve your standards, you will drive yourself forward, you will always be on the edge, not quite getting what you want but being damn happy you had what you wanted la…
/r/seduction17/08/10 04:38 PM
1

The guys I usually go out with have drastically different taste, I also love going out with girls, there's no competition. I have no reason to compete, I don't care how has the highest number, I don't even know how many people any of my friends have slept with. All I care about is getting the kind of girl I'm craving in my head and whenever I get her I generally start craving another type.
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:52 PM
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It's not the 'game' that makes you a liar. I've never felt the need to lie about myself to seem more interesting even if its something as harmless as a slightly made-up story. What makes you a liar is the fact that we are not naturally monogamous. I can't stand to feel 'stuck' with someone when I think there's more out there to explore. This ultimately leads to being unfaithful which requires allot of lying
/r/seduction17/08/10 12:44 PM
4

England!
/r/seduction16/08/10 05:43 PM
6

Bullshit, I've had at least 2 girls say I'm a 'nice guy' and end up on my cock within hours of that statement.
/r/seduction16/08/10 02:53 PM
0

This is the most retarded thing I've ever read this week. Why do girls do the lets just be friends thing? They're not that attracted to you, your look, style or personality is not attractive, confident, fun or sexy. Perhaps they are chasing after someone else or some other type and they really want to see what that's like. Perhaps you've been friends to the point that flirting or doing anything together wouldn't happen naturally and would need some sort of major intervention. These are all perfe…
/r/seduction16/08/10 02:45 PM
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In in the UK Asian usually means Indian and neighbouring countries, Asian can mean Chinese but oriental is allot more descriptive. Also which one of these stereotypes is false? I make my stereotypes based on nothing more than pure, factual, anecdotal evidence!
/r/seduction15/08/10 01:14 PM
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Some pro tips for oriental girls (I think that's what you mean by Asian?) They get drunk very easily! They're generally pretty horny for non-oriental cock Don't be put off if you take her to a bar and she insists on paying her way To get them home you should make it clear that its not for sex, they will then repeat this e.g., "ok we're just going to yours to watch movies right?" but (this has happened 3 times) will jump on you when you take them to your bedroom and start making out again. Ok so …
/r/seduction15/08/10 12:09 PM
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You don't need to wait any amount of time, especially if you text Texting is fine, especially if she's shy! Organise a drink for some time in the next few days What could you possibly have to lose by contacting her?
/r/seduction15/08/10 02:32 AM
1

If you're kissing a girl then you don't really have any reason to be nervous or wonder what she's thinking. Just take it slowly, feel her reactions and trust your judgement. Where is your lack of confidence? I can understand being scared of approaching a girl when you know nothing about her, who she's with, if she's interested, if she's crazy etc., but a girl in your room making out with you is pretty much done. If not that night then another.
/r/seduction13/08/10 05:25 PM
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physically escalated too slowly. Too much emotional hugging, not enough sexual tension. How do you manage to not go to sex from kissing?
/r/seduction13/08/10 04:04 PM
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You need to remember that they all like cock.
/r/seduction13/08/10 02:01 PM
0

You shouldn't bother taking a girl anywhere that doesn't involve alcohol. I guarantee she would be kissing you on the first date if you had been in a bar for an hour.
/r/seduction13/08/10 11:52 AM
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Have you considered trying drugs? Something like speed or mdma would probably eliminate your anxiety enough and once you see what you can achieve without being shit-scared, you won't even need the drugs next time.
/r/seduction13/08/10 09:36 AM
1

Haha can you give me a run-down of the pick-up seasons please! - e.g July-September: Hot, January-March: Ice.
/r/seduction13/08/10 09:25 AM
2

It's always changing, but 2 of those girls have had no contact with me for a couple of months!
/r/seduction12/08/10 04:54 PM
2

Agh, that's the worst part, when you can't enjoy it as much because you have too much at once!
/r/seduction12/08/10 04:50 PM
6

I always go and beat a homeless man to death so that I can say "hey, my life was at least 10x better than his today"
/r/seduction12/08/10 02:05 PM
5

Lastly, if any AFCs out there think I'm being predatory or creepy, fuck off, these women love it. It's their fantasy, not mine. Haha you just reminded me what I was like at 19. I actually would have thought "fuck this guy is an asshole taking advantage". This just gave me a ton of perspective over how much I've changed inside. Great post! How many of these women did you find? How many success/fail and why? What was the average story? Where are they from? And do girls vacation alone much? - I've …
/r/seduction12/08/10 10:00 AM
1

Not all, and unfortunately the UK is catching up on obesity. This is what happens when the government spends all its time worrying about fucking Mephodrone instead of things that actually kill people.
/r/seduction11/08/10 06:23 PM
2

Exactly! Would your friend say that about a guy? About you? About himself?! "Oh he's the dude, he's fucked 50 girls!"
/r/seduction11/08/10 06:21 PM
1

Many things are different in America, apparently their women require rather allot more work, planning, a car, and something about 'dating' and 'bases'. Over here we go to clubs and parties, drink, fuck and then if it was good, exchange numbers. Also sometimes you'll meet a girl in some other situation, invite her out for a drink, drink, fuck, and the numbers are already exchanged.
/r/seduction11/08/10 05:05 PM
2

First thing I notice is size and height - perfect height is about 4-8 inches shorter and I love petite girls! Then there's various other attributes: cute face, cute ass, etc., If she throws me some signs that definitely gets my attention and makes her more attractive. Smiling, glancing, trying to carry on the conversation etc. but subtly. There's a thrill in the chase but it should be a short and fun chase. Sleeping with me on the first night, if she's into me, is a massive win because it shows …
/r/seduction11/08/10 02:40 PM
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Why? I find sluts to be the the most fun
/r/seduction11/08/10 09:49 AM
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Women don't want abusive assholes anymore than I want a crazy mood-swung arrogent bitch. When guys say 'women want assholes' its like me saying "I want an overpriced, locked-down phone that drops my calls when I hold the bottom left corner". Would that make sense? No. I don't want that in a phone, but it just happens that the phone I do want seems to have some of those attributes. Like-wise, I occasionally (I'm much better now) fall for women who are fucking psycho's, they turn into monsters, ma…
/r/seduction10/08/10 06:36 PM
2

Bar is better than coffee, especially before you've kissed. Never underestimate alcohol and noise. Always plan a date somewhere near yours or hers, preferably yours, that way you have control over inviting her over, you don't have to travel home, and she's more likely to want to stay over rather than travel home. Maybe she has a reason why you should come on her boat.
/r/seduction10/08/10 06:18 PM
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Ah get over it. Women are bitches, men are basterds. No-one is perfect. The main point is, men and women are both out for themselves. If you list the things men and women have and the things men and women want you can see this. For example: What Women Have: A look that men find attractive (very big attribute) The ability to give men physical pleasure Social value (you're the dude if you're with her) Charm or charisma (to a certain extent this is important) What Men Have: A look that women find a…
/r/seduction10/08/10 03:13 PM
3

One thing that changed my outlook was the high I get from pushing myself outside my comfort zone for a while. Talking to a random girl and getting interest is almost an addiction. Making a move to kiss is a fucking rush. Getting a girl into bed is like being high. When you look back on a Monday morning to the weekend you just had you feel a sense of accomplishment. It's actually almost sad that I think maybe I need the validation and that chasing girls is sometimes all I think about but then I t…
/r/seduction10/08/10 02:21 PM
2

Some tips for London: Don't bother going more than one tube stop south of the river. Brixton, Peckham, Croydon etc. are shit holes. There's a reason why the tube map seems very sparse down there. High end clubs around WC/W1/SW1 are nice but you'll probably have just as much fun in East London and won't spend £10 a drink or insane amounts on tables/bottles. Get private taxi's late at night (blue circle sign in window), just stand on the side of the road and look like you're looking for one! They'…
/r/seduction10/08/10 01:23 PM
2

Make sure you learn to teach as well as you learned to get laid.
/r/seduction10/08/10 01:08 PM
2

Well that's great, stay with her as a close friend, keep some sexual overtones and meanwhile sleep with other girls until she gets over it. If you like this girl and she wants to be friends for a while there's no reason your sex life has to suffer.
/r/seduction09/08/10 03:34 PM
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Cargo Cult is an appropriate analogy. Here is possibly the best case in point I could come up with. There's also a tendency to overcomplicate things. Fucking women is really not as complicated as it first looks. Most people have the problem (I certainly did) that women don't seem interested in them. When you think you have this problem, every interaction, every sign someone gives you gets analysed based on this premise. I'm talking to this girl at a party at her house, I offer her my number, she…
/r/seduction05/08/10 01:53 PM
2

This is retarded. Just kiss her. Make sure she's comfortable with you and knows that you like her in some way so that it doesn't come as a complete surprise. This way you can give her plenty of opportunity to leave the situation (go to the bathroom and don't come back etc.). Make sure you're close enough already so that you're not going for some wild out-of-the-blue movement towards her. Make sure you're breath is good (and hers or she will get self conscious) and last but not least: Make sure s…
/r/seduction05/08/10 11:18 AM
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Honesty: I've lost track of the number of times I've lied, completely and unabashedly to someone's face, so that's out. I'm not sure what the limits of my dishonesty are, but I think I have fairly good intentions. Cheating: is something I never used to do, but now I seem to forget I'm even doing it. If I don't consider it cheating is it even cheating? Actually I do follow the do-unto-others ethic, so I probably wouldn't cheat on someone if I didn't want them to cheat on me. Leading someone on: I…
/r/seduction04/08/10 03:47 PM
2

This is overrated, girls are slightly less superficial then men but not as much as people think. If you're talking to the right girl then you can get away with quite allot.
/r/seduction04/08/10 12:09 PM
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It really depends on what kind of attractive you are. Attractiveness is relative and follows taste. But lets assume we're talking about a girl who thinks your her type and finds you attractive. She's unlikely to approach you anyway so you've still gotta make that effort. In fact, you might be 'too attractive' for her and all sorts of psychology could be going through her head making her more anxious to talk to you (we get the same thing when looking at girls). If she does approach (or gets intro…
/r/seduction04/08/10 12:08 PM
1

Oh London boy! Where abouts did you take them? You should kiss half way through the first date regardless of signs that she likes you. Also try and keep dates near your place - that way if the tube shuts you can still get home and she can use it as an excuse to come to yours.
/r/seduction03/08/10 11:38 PM
2

What is the worst that could happen?
/r/seduction03/08/10 01:14 AM
0

Kiss her, go for it, fuck it. When I'm in doubt I take the all or nothing approach: kissing someone and getting rejected feels much better than not going for it. And jesus, dragging it out like this is just wrong and painful. I hope this is your first and last time getting into this fucked up 'relationship' with someone. We all go through it once or twice and we hopefully learn. Last time I went for it and got rejected it was at a club a month ago and I had known her for 20 minutes. Nothing terr…
/r/seduction02/08/10 02:54 PM
2

What exactly do you say/do that you consider is 'nice' and needs changing?
/r/seduction02/08/10 12:24 PM
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Don't hate women, hate society that has nurtured this culture. Women are brought up like this and then they pass it on to daughters. Women are taught to feel ashamed, it's fucking sad
/r/seduction02/08/10 01:23 AM
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This is a cargo cult mentality. Women don't chase men who are "emotionally inacessable". They don't chase men because they are "bad boys". Women chase men for various qualities, it just so happens that men who have these qualities also have the former traits. A popular guy, who has many girls after him is not going to give three fucks about commiting to most of them. He is not going to need to make an effort to be "nice". He won't need to return calls, listen to their problems or do any of the t…
/r/seduction02/08/10 01:18 AM
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Don't bother trying to analyse this shit, there are far too many variables. You as much chance of figuring out what the person sitting opposite you on the train is thinking. Don't even listen to the other comment here saying you were clingy. You don't know that, he doesn't know that. No-one knows jack. The indisputable fact is she at least liked you at some point, which means other girls like her probably like you which means you just keep going.
/r/seduction30/07/10 04:42 PM
1

It's strange because I take almost no value in what other guys think about a girl. I, quite arrogantly, consider 'my' taste in women to be better and so if all the guys in the office are going after the new secretary I'm probably more likely to be looking at someone else. Now, of course, if the opportunity made itself fairly easy I might think "hey I can fuck this girl and be the envy of the office" - but that really isn't going to sway me over any other girl. I'm a simple guy.
/r/seduction30/07/10 12:56 PM
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Not an excerpt but stil a TL;DR: Men are more attracted to physical appearance than women (as we thought) However the significance of this is far less than people make out 'PUA attraction techniques' will mostly work on edge cases where someone is 'kind of' in to you. If they are not attracted to you, there's not much you can do short of making the situation ridiculously easy for them
/r/seduction30/07/10 12:53 PM
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Are you serious? That entire page reads like the cheesiest online marketing spiel I've read since the brother of the late PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA emailed me! And you already know I charge $1,000 per hour for personal coaching and you’re getting over three days of my time—that’s well over $24,000 in value alone I gotta give it to him, that's some serious value! I've spent about 5 minutes reading that crap and writing this comment to persuade people not to buy this crap, that's about $5 worth of my t…
/r/seduction30/07/10 10:06 AM
1

You know that feeling when a girl is obviously about to grab your dick and give you a blowjob/handjob but she just hasn't touched it yet. She's still teasing you, touching you everywhere but there and you're getting harder and harder in anticipation practically begging her to grab your fucking cock. You can do the same with women. But theres a catch. You need to punish her for fucking with you like this, tease her extra hard and then give her the time of her life. After that you need to see othe…
/r/seduction29/07/10 09:54 AM
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Really depends on the person and situation. In a very general way it might go something like this: Meet -> Talk -> Looks/Smiles/Body-language exchanged -> Get Closer -> Kiss -> Repeat -> Take Home I'd also say there are two 'modes' to this: sometimes a girl is obviously into you, in which case you have a fucking easy ride. It will be obvious because she will be making it obvious and you just need to trust your instincts here. If you've ever been talking to a girl at a party and thought "hm she s…
/r/seduction28/07/10 04:59 PM
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Ok: bad face (5/10) + perfect tits (10/10) + morbidly obese (0/10) = 15/3 = 5. But morbidly obese should weight that right down to 0.1 or something. Really it needs to be weighted by your own personal factor system based on each category diametrically balanc.... ah fuck it.
/r/seduction28/07/10 04:20 PM
1

How getting laid happens? Where do you want to start?
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:19 PM
1

I've never understood the 10 scale there are too many factors: Body size, body shape, face, boobs, ass, and thats just the physical types. There was one girl who wasn't all that physically but enough to make me hard and she absolutely loved giving me out of this world blow jobs. I was fucking hooked. There have been other girls with the most gorgeous, cutest, prettiest, to die for face but looking at her ass I could practically drop an erection.
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:17 PM
1

That's not entirely true, if a girl is hot enough to fuck then chances are you'll see her a couple of times in that week. Lots of girls I am satisfied with pulling and leaving it at that - if I have a hotter girl going on then I'm going to go and fuck her that night instead!
/r/seduction28/07/10 02:38 PM
1

The Male Sexual Attraction Chart looks roughly like this: Girls I'd never ever want to fuck Girls I'd fuck once, while reasonably drunk and horny Girls I'd fuck several times, while reasonably drunk and horny Girls I'd fuck for a month or two Girls I'd date Girls I'd date for as long as I can imagine Guys I'd reconsider my sexuality for Guys will usually try and have at least a couple of girls they can rely on at any one time and depending on how easy things are for us we will put up with more o…
/r/seduction28/07/10 02:26 PM
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Motivation is a combination of perceived obstacles and perceived reward. If you believe the reward is great and the obstacles are negligible you will be heavily motivated. Lack of motivation on the other hand, tends to come when you either devalue the reward, or, more commonly, you perceive that there are many or lengthy obstacles in your way. If you look back at the past times you got laid you'll actually see that it was ridiculously easy. You probably spent less than 10 minutes talking to some…
/r/seduction28/07/10 02:11 PM
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Maybe its a cultural thing? Alcohol is fairly standard here, I don't think anyone would lose trust in you unless you were obviously trying to get them drunk. If the sex is good she will be back for more most of the time.
/r/seduction28/07/10 10:22 AM
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Why do you get voted down? I couldn't agree more, the acronyms are the most retarded part of this. All that really matters is that you present yourself well: look decent, be as confident as you deserve to be, the rest usually falls into place. Or, you can open the set with some DHV, stack some NLP then neg, kino, neg, go from A1 to C4, look for 3 IOI's, make sure you defuse her ASD if she's >HB8 but be careful not to let her LJBF you'll need to lock her in the frame away from AMOGs and then run …
/r/seduction27/07/10 10:06 AM
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The answer is always: Go sleep with another woman, tell her all about it. Legitimately stop caring, there are always always always girls out there who are as hot as the one you're after. Grinding and making out with someone for an hour and then not going any further is not fun its bullshit, you should have fucking grabbed her after half an hour. Hold her and shove your hand down her pants. If after 15 seconds she's not smiling in silence and is telling you to get the fuck off then do so, walk aw…
/r/seduction27/07/10 09:56 AM
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An hours drinking is not going to get anyone wasted. It just makes the both of you a little more relaxed to the situation. Most girls will sleep with you for 2 or 3 weeks without having to define what sort of relationship it is. Why the fuck would she not trust you because you two had a great night? She's not going to think you 'tricked' her into bed unless you had some pretty shitty drunken sex.
/r/seduction27/07/10 09:45 AM
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Make sure he doesn't find out, that's priority number one. She can break up with him and after a 'few months' get with you but you've gotta play this properly or you're gonna regret it.
/r/seduction27/07/10 12:29 AM
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No that's fucked, I've never had a booty call who didn't want to kiss.
/r/seduction27/07/10 12:28 AM
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Take her to a bar Drink for ~1 hr, make good eye-contact, get closer, make physical contact. Kiss her The rest will sort itself out.
/r/seduction27/07/10 12:26 AM
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Now I think the idea of keeping a mindset that the man is the "prize" is just a delusional fantasy. Let's face it…there is no online community of women describing strategies and tips and techniques to manipulate men into sex or a relationship. What more needs to be said other than fashion tips from Cosmo. Men chase women because they are the prize. To fail to recognize this reality is to lose yourself in delusion. Women are always talking about guys, where to find them, how to get them etc., all…
/r/seduction23/07/10 01:58 PM
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This is reading way to much into it. You should generally assume a girl likes you and plough through. I've had many things you would assume to be bad signs that turned out great. Girls paying for drinks, shaking hands, telling me they're not going to sleep with me, telling me we're friends etc., stop this bullshit.
/r/seduction21/07/10 10:57 PM
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Why do you get voted down? Kissing her shows you're interested, and well, that you're a good kisser!
/r/seduction21/07/10 10:49 PM
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Lived in London all my life and I've never fucked an English girl. You're gonna find European (especially East) and probably Indian/Asian/Oriental/Iranian.
/r/seduction21/07/10 06:56 PM
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Confidence is everything, and the worst part is, until you have it, everyone will keep giving you this bullshit line that "confidence is everything" and you'll have no idea what it actually means. Listen to compliments people give you, remember them and think about them again from time to time Remember all the times you've been successful, all the times girls liked you and why Video yourself lots, or let others video you, watch carefully and look for the attractive aspects of your personality, v…
/r/seduction21/07/10 10:18 AM
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This problem is rare, if she enjoyed the night she will more than likely come back or at least get back in contact after a few weeks. Either way its "better to have fucked her and lost her than to never have fucked her at all" I think is the well known saying.
/r/seduction19/07/10 10:04 AM
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Most important things: Looks: whatever you look like, present yourself in the optimum way Confidence: build it up, compare yourself, stand up and speak properly One-girl syndrome: the sooner you understand you can meet thousands of girls, the less you will care about any particular one of them Total Bullshit: Most of the 'scene', books, courses etc., What everyone else says or does: figure things out for yourself Anything that seems creepy, weird and sad, basically is.
/r/seduction16/07/10 07:52 PM
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Why do I keep seeing this 8-12 hours stuff? You can be in bed with someone well before 8 hours.
/r/seduction16/07/10 05:05 PM
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Fuck her dad, your legal, she's legal, as long as you don't particularly care if you have to leave the band then whats the problem? Fathers need to know when to sit down and shut the fuck up.
/r/seduction16/07/10 05:01 PM
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Most girls will at some point say something along the lines of "I'm not sleeping with you" or "It's too early" or "I'm over all that stuff in my life" and even "Its wrong, I don't believe in sex before marriage". Since I've heard it so many times and still they've mostly ended up jumping me I really just ignore it, it doesn't mean anything so don't think about it too much. Put it this way: its 10x better to hear that than "Lets just be friends" Of course its fucking annoying, the best thing you …
/r/seduction15/07/10 11:39 AM
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I find its either 0-10 or a ridiculously high number (i.e., you become friends and only a year or two down the line do you end up sleeping together).
/r/seduction15/07/10 11:31 AM
2

Kiss her just before you get into bed. Just walk up to her and kiss her.
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:07 AM
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This is entire thread is completely ridiculous. I'm not even sure what all these C/S-codes are about but just take your girl to a bar for a drink - this is what normal people do. After a while, if you're getting a decent vibe, kiss her. It usually ends up with her at your place that night or the next. 12 hours!? WTF
/r/seduction15/07/10 01:02 AM
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I didn't say you'll never fuck her, I just said you're in for allot of torture. Ok think of it this way: Does spending 12 hours with a girl make you want to sleep with her? No. It only takes 3 seconds for you to know if you want her, and maybe a few minutes of talking to her to know if she's a sane individual. Women are similar, it might take a slightly different amount of time but essentially everyone knows pretty soon if they potentially want to have sex with someone else. The rest of the nigh…
/r/seduction11/07/10 08:54 PM
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Why would anyone want to be intimate with someone they don't enjoy the company of? Because looking at her ass makes me fucking hard?
/r/seduction11/07/10 08:31 PM
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How the fuck, in one hour, did he reap the benefits after I spent a great 12 hours with her. Stop this bullshit! Next time you want a girl you need to make a move fairly quickly. Also avoid taking them to lunch or museums or in fact anywhere other than a bar until you've at the very least kissed. You're probably not going to start making out in the middle of the renaissance section or across the dinner table so whats the point? If you like her because you honestly enjoy her company then just enj…
/r/seduction10/07/10 05:31 PM
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Its completely natural for guys to want a fling with every pretty girl they see. What makes you think you can walk up to random guys and just be friends with them, without any weirdness? I find the best female friendships I have are with girls who I'm kinda attracted to but where we've gotten everything out of our system. Its a careful balance and very rare to find someone you want to be friends with but not fuck.
/r/seduction10/07/10 03:33 PM
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Screw dinner, take her to a bar, its far more easy to get things going there. Just remember, nothing will happen unless you eventually (say 1-2 hours in) make a move. In my entire life only two girls have kissed me first. Avoid telling her you liked her in the past unless its literally followed by a kiss Get closer to her, but make sure she's comfortable, give her opportunity to back-off/leave Tell yourself you're not leaving the bar until you've at least
/r/seduction09/07/10 04:53 PM
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Personally (and this is of course merely my own taste), I find that if a person is physically attractive, I tend to enjoy fucking them. On the contrary, if a person is mentally stimulating, I do seem to enjoy conversing with them. Its rare that these tendencies cross over mutual exclusivity. For example, I do not want to talk to someone uninteresting 'because they are cute' and I do not want to stick my dick in someone I'm not at all attracted to 'because they are interesting'.
/r/seduction09/07/10 03:50 PM
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Haha what did she think of it then?
/r/seduction09/07/10 08:38 AM
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Giving your own number is kind of bullshit Not really, if she likes you she'll call. I've given my number several times and they do end up calling after a couple of days
/r/seduction09/07/10 08:36 AM
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Jesus Christ! What club was this? What city? I need to find these places
/r/seduction08/07/10 05:56 AM
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Just go and try things. This isn't medicine or law, you don't need a degree and license. No-one is going to bite your head off and you'll be far better off learning things for yourself. All this crap is based around a few simple psychology concepts and even they are dubious. Really just put yourself in a woman's shoes and imagine a guy from her perspective, what would make him more attractive? How would you feel about him approaching you? How about him kissing you? What would it take for you to …
/r/seduction07/07/10 05:42 PM
1

and got at least an OK reaction on well over half of them What happened with the other half?
/r/seduction24/06/10 11:20 AM
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Everything 90% of people need to know about men and women can be read in about 20 minutes.
/r/seduction23/06/10 11:46 AM
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What exactly is there to nail? I'm doing fine without any weird escalation ladder crap, am I missing something?
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:48 PM
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Touching someone isn't a ballsy thing to do, most people do it naturally. Approaching someone and making the first move to kiss are the only ballsy things I find. I don't have much problem with the first kiss anymore, its actually the most fun part. Approaching on the other hand is fucking daunting 75% of the time.
/r/seduction21/06/10 02:28 PM
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Firstly take everything you read here and anywhere else with a pinch of salt. The 'PUA' community has allot of cringe-making bullshit. You don't really need to read anything, you certainly don't need to buy anything. The absolute most important thing you can do is understand that you can and will meet girls anywhere. No one girl matters really, you can always always always meet more, always. There are millions of them out there, literally, that's all that matters. Every guy has gone through roug…
/r/seduction21/06/10 01:39 AM
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What do you do on the dance floor after eye-contact/dancing-with-them if its too loud to talk? I've never really got the hang of this!
/r/seduction21/06/10 12:32 AM
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If I'm meeting a new girl I'll always meet in my area and take her to a couple of nearby bars. After a little while make a move and kiss her in the bar and after some making out it usually ends up at my place :) Always be totally casual about going back to your place, if she says no just ignore it, most of the girls I've slept with have at some point said something along the lines of "I'm not going to sleep with you" - they then completely change their minds or jump on you at some point later.
/r/seduction21/06/10 12:02 AM
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London - Everyone is so insular and doesn't want to speak to strangers; if you speak to a stranger, people will stare at the spectacle. And the idea of sarging on the Underground makes me actually laugh. This is totally untrue! I've had more adventures with random strangers in London than anywhere else I've lived. You'll only get weird looks on the underground if you look like a crazy drunk. A guy going up to a girl here is completely normal. Oxford Street - Pretty wide and busy street, difficul…
/r/seduction19/06/10 07:27 PM
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Thats exactly what I did - I went from relationship to relationship scared shitless of being single for more than a day, so I ended up making sure relationships overlapped, not a good start for my conscience. In these relationships I was always thinking what it would be like with other girls, also not good. I don't really want to think about how many 30 year old virgins there are out there it actually kind of saddens me more than starving children I guess because it hits closer to home and I als…
/r/seduction12/06/10 06:07 PM
1

I wonder what a 'realistic' number is. I'm averaging about 1-2 a month.
/r/seduction12/06/10 02:10 PM
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The average is seven?!?
/r/seduction11/06/10 07:31 PM
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I'm definitely not asking 'how to get her' I'm just wondering if she had a reason someone else might have come across before or some girl could shed light on...
/r/seduction11/06/10 02:18 AM
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You're right, the best indication that a girl likes you is, after talking, moving closer/touching, and kissing her, she doesn't leave or move away. Anything else is a pure guess.
/r/seduction10/06/10 07:35 PM
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I've definitely had that both ways round and I think if I'm honest with myself my recent curiosity with this girl is partly one-girl-itis. Its strange, I had amazed myself over the last year with the way I had gotten over one-girl-itis and it really is one of the most important things you can do, but it does tend to rear its ugly head when you meet certain girls who are different from your average. Right now I'm seeing another girl I met the same day and I also have a fuck buddy going on yet I s…
/r/seduction10/06/10 07:20 PM
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I'm not sitting around waiting for her, just wondering why a girl would do this.
/r/seduction09/06/10 02:39 PM
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Yes I did assume that about coming on too strong, I only sent two pretty short texts. To be honest I was just curious as to why someone would reply once and then just stop. Point taken about one night stand girls, I just didn't get the horny vibe from her - girls are usually obvious about it! I made the moves, she just said yes. Easy come easy go? So yes, it was great sex so of course I'm happy, just really confused, I mean if we texted a couple of times and it petered out or she said she was bu…
/r/seduction09/06/10 02:35 PM
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Short is usually better, the ultimate test - if shes laying in bed with her head on your shoulder you're arm behind her should be able to reach between her legs and finger her properly ;) Petite girls can be thrown around easier and you can pick her up without struggling - though I guess that's personal strength, I'm not comfortable lifting a girl who's my height!
/r/seduction14/05/10 04:10 PM
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Hm what I'm trying to gauge is for example: given two women, you can only approach one of them, which one seems like the most likely to be up for it right now judging by her appearance and body language?
/r/seduction14/05/10 03:25 PM
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Elaborate on that...
/r/seduction14/05/10 10:26 AM
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Absolutely, I try and use my perceptions to decide which girl to go for in situations where I can only really choose one. There are of course types girls I would like to avoid with a 10 foot pole, but, generally I like to get a really quick feel for who I'm about to talk to.
/r/seduction14/05/10 10:21 AM
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That sounds pretty good! Whats the worst single response you've had? And whats an example of an average first few seconds of conversation like?
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:09 PM
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"You're gonna love my nuts!"
/r/seduction13/05/10 02:27 PM
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Interesting! Gotta give it to you! Also what happens in the complete fails? Do you just get completely ignored? Shouted at? Asked "what the hell do you want?" etc.? Or is it more awkward silence and just walking off?
/r/seduction13/05/10 02:20 PM
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I've gone for the absolute opposite, I ask girls who I've been successful with why, and what they first thought of me and for example, why they didn't jump me in the first 5 minutes. Its actually quite funny to listen to girls talk about how they felt shy and kept needing to drink more to work up their courage with me. Interestingly allot of them have really praised my 'niceness' i.e., that I was quite respectful of them and not just another creepy guy. One of them was impressed that I was brave…
/r/seduction13/05/10 02:06 PM
1

Its hard to come up with meaningful stats when you take a persons decision to walk up to a girl into consideration. If you think a girl is unavailable for example you wouldn't be likely to talk to her, but then there are plenty of cases where she might look single but isn't which further screws the stats. As if that wasn't enough, there are locations where girls are more likely to be available - consider clubs vs coffee shops for example. Now biasing it the other way is our natural instinct to g…
/r/seduction13/05/10 01:50 PM
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And out of interest what percentage of those are: complete fails / hold a conversation / really click / lead somewhere?
/r/seduction13/05/10 01:39 PM
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In the last 6 months I've met up with 7 girls with the intent of getting laid (so a date basically) and its happened with 5 out of 7 - some on the first night, some on 3rd, 4th, 5th etc. Out of the 2 that led no-where, they were the first two, both only met up with once, and one of them was an old friend so there were issues there, I feel pretty happy that I've learnt from those two. I've not really met any of them 'cold' so I can't really compare stats on that.
/r/seduction13/05/10 12:24 PM
2

I took a friend of 5 years and was fucking her within about a week. It just took allot of work. Of course, there've been other girls who I've never gotten with but I've accepted this and moved on. I have friends who I'm not attracted to and no matter how nice and caring and 'different' to other girls they are, I'm not gonna sleep with them and will instead get with some random slut I just met. This is exactly what girls do when they friend-zone you, I am absolutely no better than them. I think f…
/r/seduction04/05/10 11:02 AM
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I'm implying that if you switch the word 'her' to 'him' the statement sounds ridiculous, and I think its just as ridiculous with 'her' instead
/r/seduction29/04/10 05:19 PM
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If you like her so much, quit trying to fuck her "If you like him so much, quit trying to fuck him" - your statement sounds just as ridiculous.
/r/seduction29/04/10 03:04 PM
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Heres an example girl: we exchange a dozen messages on facebook and meet for a quiet drink. About 1-2 hours later we're making out, arms around each other etc., 3rd hour we part ways after making out in the street for about 10 minutes - everything is going great at that point, she's into me, i'm into her, she's commented that im a great kisser, i've told her the same, end of night. I see her again the day after next and things carry on roughly from where we left off, kissing gets more intense, h…
/r/seduction29/04/10 02:25 PM
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I was about 19/20, I actually don't remember the first time since I had been doing just about everything else with my gf at the time - we just 'transitioned' into it, heh. It was great, we had allot of fun and learnt allot of things. At that time of my life I was an absolute fucking wreck, being a virgin at 19 makes you think there's something incredibly wrong with you that you have no hope in hell of fixing. Just thinking about all the other guys out there fucking the girls you want to fuck is …
/r/seduction29/04/10 11:29 AM
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Me: "I've gotta go - whats your number?" Her: "Oh I can never remember mine, here write yours on this card" She was a bit disorganised and didn't even get her phone out to put it on there, I assumed it was dead so I was fairly impressed when she got back to me. In a couple of occasions girls have asked for my number and they've always got back to me. I've never really thought about numbers as an issue until reading this - I just ask directly "whats your number?" and she gives it to me, or she as…
/r/seduction29/04/10 10:51 AM
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