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I get what you're saying, I really do. I understand that talking to humans should be appreciated simply for its own merit. I think that the easiest way, for me, to do this is to stop setting a goal. As a culture, we're obsessed with setting goals, and it can really help people to set goals in most areas of life. It helps you be more productive. But setting goals in interactions really stops you from enjoying the interaction itself. Journey before destination. My only real problem is... ever sinc…
/r/seduction07/05/14 09:47 PM
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Does your post not imply, then, that all validation is external? I feel like saying that the solution to neediness is more affection simply puts a bandaid on the problem. It treats the symptom without understanding the real problem -- a lack of core confidence. I believe that truly confident men feel whole in and of themselves, and simply enjoy sharing that wholeness with others to enrich both lives. My only confusion is how to attain that confidence in the first place.
/r/seduction11/11/11 09:51 PM
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Well, afungi's gone, and nobody's peddling that "Official Training" bullshit, so I think that we, as a community, could use you back around.
/r/seduction23/10/11 06:32 PM
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You realize that all he's doing is sharing what's helping HIM get through his breakup in case it has any value to others in the community, because he gives a shit about us? I personally found a lot of enlightenment in this post, because it detailed a logical way to deal with a situation where logic is commonly scarcely found. So I upvoted it. If you found no value in it, then your downvote would have sufficed. No need to kick a Guy when he's down, or tell him to "get himself together" when that …
/r/seduction22/10/11 05:54 PM
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Mind telling us what exactly you were reading? I'm one of those people that tends to "maximize the good ones and get rid of the bad," and though it works for me most of the time, when I get down... I get really down. I'd like to become more accepting, if your literature would help with that.
/r/seduction24/09/11 06:00 PM
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It might be rendered irrelevant the moment words come out of your mouth if those words are pathetic and unattractive. However, if you exude confidence when you approach a girl, I believe it will only serve to solidify the subconscious attraction supposedly caused by the color red.
/r/seduction27/08/10 12:02 AM
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In all honesty, that's probably the best situation to be in. Kudos to you for making strides in the journey that is your life. Enjoy it, man.
/r/seduction18/08/10 05:29 PM
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Like everybody's saying, it's probably a cultural thing (for numerous reasons) that she didn't want to kiss you. However, there is also another thing I'd like to point out. Although you're clearly more of an expert on Japan than me (and that's not difficult, seeing as you've lived there and I haven't), I've been doing a lot of research on Japanese culture lately. And one of the things I've learned is that Japanese people are incredibly modest, which you've probably picked up on. But one thing I …
/r/seduction10/08/10 06:58 PM
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As a man not in a science career, can we get a tl;dr? That thing is nineteen pages. A simply summary of any key differences between the ABC Piece and the original article would be cool.
/r/seduction07/08/10 02:08 AM
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And I thought you were gone. I'll definitely have to try this seriously balls-to-the-wall approach to...everything.
/r/seduction06/08/10 05:37 AM
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Whoops, I'm pretty sure I meant Osaka up there. This is all great information, though. Seriously, thanks for the time you spent answering my questions. I'll be out there sooner than later. :]
/r/seduction04/08/10 07:45 PM
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The only thing I'm worried about with the JET is being placed in some town that is really out in the countryside. I understand that everyone wants to be in Tokyo/Hokkaido so my chances of getting placed there are almost zero, but how isolated are you in a rural town? Is taking the train over to Tokyo every once in a while practical?
/r/seduction03/08/10 11:29 PM
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Cool FR, dude. Good job taking initiative. As they say, there's nothing better than IRL practice. It's extremely awesome that you live in Japan. I am highly considering becoming a JET sometime soon. Relevant to you living over there, you might want to check out the mASF Archives of TokyoPUA. He's like the tenth person on that list. The rest of them are pretty great, too. I've been attending conventions here in California every summer, but have only been getting serious about pickup in the past y…
/r/seduction03/08/10 08:58 AM
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Mnmnpau definitely hit the nail on the head. Two books that helped me the most, though, were definitely the Stylelife Challenge and Jeffy Allen's (of RSD) Nine Ball. The former walks you through it all so amazingly well, and the latter made me realize that I really could say fucking anything to a girl and have her love me for it, as long as I was congruent.
/r/seduction02/08/10 06:11 PM
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There is nothing wrong with dominating and leading a conversation, as long as the rest of the participants aren't bored to bits with your storytelling. A commonly quoted rule says that for the first 10-15 minutes of an interaction, expect to be contributing about 80% of the conversation. Sometime after then (don't time it, obviously, just let it happen) the girl(s and guys) will begin reciprocating if you've entertained them well.
/r/seduction02/08/10 09:17 AM
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You rock, dude. Your enthusiasm, writing style, and outlook on life are all inspirational. So thanks for being a contributing member of this community.
/r/seduction01/08/10 05:41 AM
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This is amazing, dude. I was thinking about compiling a list like this for a while, but I can wholeheartedly say that I wouldn't have done as fine of a job as you, Quazzy. For the Female Perspective section, there was a female PUA Coach who did an AMA here, and it was pretty decent if I remember correctly.
/r/seduction26/07/10 08:33 AM
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While Tyler Tray did write the book, and Tyler Durden is an imaginary character in Fight Club, that's not who pooflinga was talking about. Tyler Durden (real name Owen Cook) is a PUA and the main antagonist in The Game by Neil Strauss. He (along with Papa, real name Nick Kho) founded Real Social Dynamics, which puts out a range of popular products in the community today. Just clarifying, bro. :]
/r/seduction28/06/10 04:51 AM
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I think putting something in the sidebar would be amazingly helpful, but what about, instead of putting the actual list in there, you put a link to a thread (like this one, perhaps) where we break down the best books.
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:22 PM
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Tyler's come a long way since The Game, if you're judging him based on what you've read in there. The Blueprint Decoded is, by far, the best product I've ever seen, and I've seen quite a bit.
/r/seduction08/06/10 06:46 AM
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First of all, you have a cool rabbi for helping you with girls. What happened to Shomer negiah? :P Second of all, nice username. Third of all, yes.
/r/seduction03/06/10 06:56 AM
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I read the first part as: I've tried to explain to my daughter (57, I'm 28) God, that was confusing as hell.
/r/seduction03/06/10 06:53 AM
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Those are some damn sharp keys; that's never happened to me.
/r/seduction02/06/10 10:09 PM
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Asking them something like what? Not sure what you mean. And I guess you're right about it being more of a dominant thing, I just have to change my perspective a bit. Thanks!
/r/seduction01/06/10 06:41 PM
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Peace and love, man.
/r/seduction01/06/10 06:39 PM
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Good points; I've never thought of launching straight into a story with it. Totally gonna think of something now, thanks!
/r/seduction01/06/10 06:39 PM
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I've only skimmed the Mystery Method, but I've read the Venusian Arts Handbook, The Game, Rules of the Game, and skimmed through the LoveSystems Routines Manual Volumes 1 and 2. Also watched a chuckload of Mystery Method seminars. Just hadn't heard that line, hahah. I used to be a major fucking keyboard jockey but I've gotten off my ass and approached lately, so things have been going better. I posted a couple of Field Reports on here, but one was obscenely long and thusly didn't get too much at…
/r/seduction01/06/10 06:21 PM
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That sounds incredible. I have no idea what to follow it with, though.
/r/seduction01/06/10 05:10 PM
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Totally, this. Just understand that just about everyone should be pushing and pulling, but since you'd rather have her come to you you want to tease her especially much. But there's no way that I can think of to simply sit back and get girls to come over and have sex with you simply through body language, unless you've got ridiculously high status in the area (i.e. owning a club or something).
/r/seduction01/06/10 07:07 AM
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It's all about calibration and the logistics. Knowing those will make or break every word you say. And yeah, just force yourself to speak suuuuperrr slowwww, even if it feels weird. Be comfortable with the possibility that you're overdoing it; after you've got the idea of speaking slowly down, you can fine-tune the speed to your liking.
/r/seduction01/06/10 12:28 AM
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I agree with what's been said by intjpua and poncedeleon, but would like to add a couple of things: 1) If you're worried about getting friend zone'd, then take it sexual. Make subtle double entendres and poke fun at her for having a dirty mind if she looks at you funny. But to avoid coming off as needy, like intjpua said, use push-pull. A needy guy just pulls, a guy with choices pushes and pulls. 2) To add to poncedeleon's point, try just speaking slower. For a period of time (how long is up to …
/r/seduction31/05/10 11:19 PM
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I suppose you're right; I've just got to let go of my insecurities. However, I still am bothered slightly by the idea of looking like I'm sidestepping the question. I do understand that maintaining an air of mystique is attractive and important, but someone who is trying to hide something like whether they straighten their hair or not just seems so phony and unattractive to me. Still gonna give it a shot though.
/r/seduction31/05/10 11:13 PM
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I've never tried doing anything like that, so I guess I'll give it a shot next time I'm asked. Thanks, dude! :D
/r/seduction31/05/10 11:12 PM
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I feel like if I changed the subject immediately it'd seem unconfident and like I really did straighten my hair and was avoiding admitting it. D: While I definitely appreciate the attention, it's definitely not the reason why. I look like shit with short hair due to my extremely large forehead, head, and ears. The long hair helps balance everything out. I appreciate the advice, though! If I find myself in that situation, I'll remember it and do my best to snap out of it ASAP.
/r/seduction31/05/10 10:34 PM
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Subtle, not sure why I haven't said something like that before. With the right tone/attitude I think this could be pretty badass.
/r/seduction31/05/10 10:32 PM
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Brilliant, I agree with this 100%. I overlooked the whole winging aspect of this without realizing it. And you took the analysis much deeper than I did, so props to you, dawg.
/r/seduction31/05/10 06:43 PM
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I believe Sinn has a cute opener where he brings something completely random up to a girl and says, "How do you cook this?" If she knows, he hires her as his personal chef and they roleplay that throughout the interaction. If she doesn't, she's fired, and he'll bring that up throughout the interaction as well.
/r/seduction31/05/10 05:45 PM
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First of all, I enjoy reading field reports in general, and yours in specific, so keep it up, man. Second of all, you did well, just like in your last field report, until the girl started coming onto you. Saying something as simple as, "That's nice," in response to a compliment, especially one as personal (although the lot going on/still focused sounded ironically almost like a cold read) as the one she gave you is pretty rude, even though I know you weren't trying to be at all. When you basical…
/r/seduction31/05/10 05:41 PM
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I've got to agree with melbatoast, dude. I can't think of any other reasonable explanation for, "I didn't say that to get a thanks" besides her basically saying, "Kiss me, stud!" You seemed really resistant to her after that, and that probably really ticked her off. I would've kissed her.
/r/seduction31/05/10 02:14 AM
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I definitely agree with this. Especially with all the modern trends in the community leaning towards more internal, natural game. That sort of stuff is not something that a girl can pick up on. They're not going to start saying "Watch out! If he's cool and having fun, he must've read the Game!"
/r/seduction29/05/10 07:34 AM
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You don't believe the people doubting the validity of the recording, you mean?
/r/seduction29/05/10 07:20 AM
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This guy succeeded, though, didn't he? With the first, dark-skinned girl at 1:51, she immediately asked for his name to continue the conversation. I'm not sure where it went from there, but that's a great start, and not something I'd call a "negative" reaction to going direct. I do have to agree with what rubygeek said though, it may have triggered that thought process in her head. Plus, with this indirect/direct hybrid game of his (and a little palm-reading) he managed to get 4 numbers and an i…
/r/seduction29/05/10 07:12 AM
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I really wanted to believe that it was a regional thing, but I'm not sure. I Googled "burn a stop sign," and it only returned a list of 81 results, or about 3 pages long. A good chunk of them are people discussing this very video, pointing out the similar wording on the parts of Spidey and the officer. However, there's a forum link where user "wartime" claims to have contacted Spidey, who says that "burn a stopsign" is the exclusive term they use to refer to what he did in Montreal. This is just…
/r/seduction29/05/10 06:37 AM
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Then yeah, definitely download/buy The Game; it's a must-read for anyone getting into this community and will greatly enhance the lives of anyone else who reads it. Not to turn this into an advice thread, but if you're looking for a good How-To (The game is much more of a narrative, but I believe it has some amazingly profound lessons to be learned from it as well) on how to get women, Neil Strauss also has "The Rules Of The Game." It's a good 30-day guide to getting out there and approaching wo…
/r/seduction29/05/10 05:49 AM
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What else could he have used as an anchor instead? It has to be sufficient enough for attention to be drawn to it, right? For example, I don't think he could've touched his own thigh and used that as an anchor.
/r/seduction29/05/10 05:43 AM
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How can you use it on yourself? Isn't it more of a subconscious thing? You'd definitely be in on what's going on if you tried talking to yourself using patterns and stuff, no?
/r/seduction29/05/10 05:40 AM
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Sorry, I guess it's declining in popularity nowadays, but it is highlighted in The Game, like artytimmins said. If you haven't read The Game, I seriously recommend you do. I think it's something every guy in the world should read, honestly. He also said it was called "Neuro-Linguistic Programming" at the end of the video, if I'm not mistaken.
/r/seduction29/05/10 05:37 AM
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I agree with your analysis, but I'm just as much of an amateur as you. He also snapped his finger every time he said "forget" until the end, which I assume was some sort of anchor.
/r/seduction28/05/10 09:45 PM
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I've never seen NLP in action before this video, but I'm surprised it actually worked. Your thoughts, seddit? Edit: Wow, not sure why I'm getting downvoted here. I just wanted to offer my commentary since non-self-posts can't have a comment box up in the OP. Sorry? :/
/r/seduction28/05/10 08:01 PM
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That's not true. People start to laugh about your jokes, people start to listen to you, people start to follow you. Right, but you ignored a key word I used: Within. Those are external changes in the environment, and that is definitely not guaranteed. If someone was born with an inability to read social cues, he is going to be awkward no matter what. If someone who's rich as fuck goes up to a group of girls in the bar and says "Hey babies I'm rich as fuck, let's fuck," they are going to tool him…
/r/seduction24/05/10 04:13 PM
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I doubt Sorry, what? You doubt? How the flying fuck do you know who the hell apocalyptic has met? You sure as hell haven't been following him around his entire life. Rich people can be ugly. Rich people can be awkward. Rich people can feel hollow. There is absolutely nothing that magically changes within you once you have a social status that is "above average." Quit assuming. one thing they had in common was a desire to better themselves by lying. Alright, you clearly have very little idea what…
/r/seduction24/05/10 08:29 AM
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Here you go. And, if you feel so compelled, here is the rest of their stuff.
/r/seduction24/05/10 08:02 AM
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Thanks for the advice, and seriously, thanks for this AMA. I'd been wondering if you'd done one since I noticed you posting 'round here, and it's a really genuinely kind thing to do. This insight is a welcome perspective that could help just about anybody around here. Rock on.
/r/seduction24/05/10 07:42 AM
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How did you become a coach, and if your story is somewhat different/original, how do most people become coaches? Also, how likely am I to be chosen for an internship position if I'm considerably younger than most (if not all) of the candidates and have absolutely no work experience?
/r/seduction23/05/10 05:20 PM
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This is great advice. A really important belief system which lays a foundation for everything in this post is this: Be self-amusing. Don't try and make the girl laugh, say something that makes you have fun, and she'll be having fun, too. Don't sweat the outcome, play these "games," and just have fun with the interaction. The worst that could happen is you'll walk away. Then what? You'll approach the next girl. :]
/r/seduction18/05/10 02:29 AM
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It's natural. Just get out there and approach, and you WILL improve as long as you keep it up and identify your shortcomings. You MUST do both, though. If you just approach approach approach and don't consciously try to improve, your success rate will be dramatically lessened. If you over-analyze your first few approaches and don't get out and improve using what you've learned, that won't help, either. The anxiety you're feeling is called Approach Anxiety in our funky lingo. It's natural, and th…
/r/seduction18/05/10 02:24 AM
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That air of confidence from getting girls is so bizarre, and I really wish I knew how it works. It just feels like random happenstance, but every time I hook up after a dry spell or something, every single interaction with girls goes superbly. Like you said, it definitely works across great distances. Either way, I'm not going to bite the hand that feeds me, so I'm glad it works. :D
/r/seduction18/05/10 02:10 AM
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Whatever floats your boat, totally. I do like yours better than the other one suggested, though. :]
/r/seduction18/05/10 01:27 AM
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This is easily the truest thing in the entire thread. Being unapologetic about your manly desires is incredibly important.
/r/seduction16/05/10 05:50 PM
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It works well, but, with that said, I should definitely post what I'd meant to post when I entered this thread but forgot shortly afterward. I believe it was Tynan (Herbal from the Game) who said that the best "boyfriend destroyer" is nothing at all. Simply ignore it and say something like "Cool," or "Awesome," before immediately moving onto the next subject the first time around, and if she persists with mentioning him like that, you can bust out of these bad babies.
/r/seduction16/05/10 07:51 AM
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I do, but I'm not quite sure what you're getting at. I saw this on the Attraction Forums ages ago, is it somehow being spread around Facebook, too?
/r/seduction16/05/10 07:47 AM
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Is that how you say it? To me, that seems to be beating around the bush a bit; I prefer to get straight to the point and not have to wait for a specific reaction from the girl.
/r/seduction16/05/10 07:46 AM
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Please clarify. D: I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/seduction16/05/10 07:39 AM
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Yet another man in my position! :D I'm not sure there's any way to describe a person's signature scent other than simply saying that it is so. Perhaps my friends are the only people able to smell it, being around me so often.
/r/seduction16/05/10 06:39 AM
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Wow, I had no idea that antiperspirants were so bad for you. If I use anything, it'll definitely be a standard deodorant. I've heard good things about "Tom's," and I think that one's all-natural, which means no aluminum. :D I'm definitely not doing this as a form of supplication or anything, though. My point is that, when I smell a fragrance, it has a profound effect on me. If a girl has on a fragrance that I find pleasant, I'm seriously drawn to her much more than otherwise. If her perfume smel…
/r/seduction16/05/10 06:36 AM
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I always loved the one that goes, "Cool! I have a pet goldfish, but let's talk about shit that actually MATTERS."
/r/seduction16/05/10 02:24 AM
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I think you missed this paragraph: I've confirmed this with several of my friends, and they say that while each person has their own signature smell, I don't get any B.O., and they simply smell "me" when they sniff any part of me after a workout or something of the sort. :]
/r/seduction16/05/10 02:22 AM
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Good to see that I'm not the only person in this situation, then! I hadn't thought of it, but I suppose I use it for that, sometimes, too. :D
/r/seduction16/05/10 02:22 AM
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The Blueprint is a DVD product RSD put out a while back. It's enormously fucking long, which is why GBR said "20 odd hours to spend." Good stuff though. :]
/r/seduction14/05/10 07:18 AM
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Fascinating, truly. I think the Mystery video is here. I've got a long way to go with my inner game, but I'm definitely working on it and improving every day. :]
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:52 PM
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I'm not sure if that glamorous bit is a joke or not, but if it isn't, I'm confused. How are they glamorous, otherwise? D: And everything you've said is quite fascinating. I'd really love to see an mPUA in a club working game, especially on a really bad night. Seeing the ways they keep themselves in state would probably be more valuable to me than seeing them execute solid game any day. Also, happy birthday. I don't care if the novelty of having a cute little cake by people's names has worn off a…
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:53 AM
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Interesting to get your perspectives on these things. PUAs just aren't as glamorous as they seem, eh?
/r/seduction13/05/10 06:31 AM
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Jeffy has a bunch of stuff about this in The Jeffy Show, as well as in Nine Ball (which is essentially just all the stories behind the Jeffy Show). I can't remember it all, but from what I do remember, I think it was similar to what you've mentioned, although he actually does use Style's Dual-Induction Massage technique at first. Eventually (again, IIRC), he just left it out because he was so natural at it that it became superfluous. I'm not sure why you think Neil's routine wouldn't work as a c…
/r/seduction11/05/10 02:43 AM
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Yeah, I'm 6'2", and I fucking love it when girls are above 5'10. ...Too bad I hardly ever see it around here.
/r/seduction10/05/10 07:45 PM
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I love Juggler, but haven't touched his material. You've now convinced me to take a glimpse at it over the next few days.
/r/seduction10/05/10 05:11 AM
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I understand completely now. I'm horrible at thinking several steps ahead. D: This is still so great though. They may not be golden rules, but they're so incredibly valuable. Thank you.
/r/seduction10/05/10 05:08 AM
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This is encouraging, and I really appreciate the encouragement. I'm just not sure if I can fuck this girl, though. I'd sure like to, though. Haha. :] And I thought I'd typed up this response days ago, but I guess it didn't submit and I forgot about it.
/r/seduction10/05/10 04:35 AM
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These are amazing, well-phrased words of wisdom. I love it. First of all, I can see that you've read the new Rules of the Game. I love that book, and it's the only material I've ever paid for. It's an amazing resource. Secondly, I've got some confusions. Like DJBJ, I don't really see the difference between the two book recommendation requests. Also, what's wrong with "call me back?" I'd think it conveyed that I'm not working for her approval, and expect her to chase me, since I've already set th…
/r/seduction10/05/10 04:26 AM
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This rocks. It's really inspirational, and I completely agree with the statement about how women everywhere simply sense the confidence emanating from you after hooking up with a girl. After the act, my interactions in every field go exceptionally well. Somehow, it even seems to travel to women that haven't seen me in a while. Girls I haven't spoken to in weeks will IM, call, or text me for no apparent reason other than the fact that I macked up a honey last night. Kudos to you on your success, …
/r/seduction09/05/10 02:23 AM
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I can't stop singing your praises. The way you've written this post is in such a great coaching way, and you've really broken down great advice for beginners having trouble with getting touchy and preventing falling into the friendzone. You're giving tough love, and it's so...effective. Every time I read one of your posts I feel inspired to head out and sarge.
/r/seduction07/05/10 07:29 PM
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Yeah, there should be a link in the sidebar to one of the posts where we churned out a bunch of beginner's resources.
/r/seduction07/05/10 07:22 PM
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Thank you for the encouragement; it means a lot to me and I really appreciate it. :] I'll be getting it on soon enough.
/r/seduction07/05/10 06:14 PM
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Entirely possible, and I sincerely hope that's the case. Only time will tell, I suppose.
/r/seduction06/05/10 04:38 PM
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I completely agree, I just don't know where to buy that stuff. :/
/r/seduction06/05/10 04:37 PM
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You're completely right. Are you saying my issues might've just been due to my brain not being satisfied without a challenge? If so, that definitely may have been a partial cause; I hadn't thought of that.
/r/seduction05/05/10 06:28 AM
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(Putting this in here because apparently you can't have text in a link submission.) First of all, I'm really digging this site; not only is it well-designed, but it's got plenty of good info: A podcast, regular video and article updates, and a comic book. I think Afungi posted it a while back but it got virtually no attention because it was in its incipient stages. Anyway, this is a really subtle body language tidbit, but I think it may be important. I'd always thought that raising eyebrows was …
/r/seduction05/05/10 05:20 AM
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You make good points and are very encouraging. Thank you; your efforts do not go unnoticed.
/r/seduction04/05/10 01:19 AM
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This is great, really digging it, especially the dork propeller cap one. A favorite of mine, somewhat similar (but better than, IMO) something he listed: Girl: Offers hand to you to shake. You: Put that thing away! Slaps girl's hand and hugs her. edit: Formattin'.
/r/seduction04/05/10 12:24 AM
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Your post is extremely informative and helpful, so thanks for the insight into some theory behind your life and game. I only know of one bar/bowling alley near me and it looks pretty pretentious so I don't plan on ever going there, let alone working there. There is a restaurant/bowling alley, though... And that line sounds pretty great, please try it out and get back to us.
/r/seduction04/05/10 12:14 AM
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How often has that response helped you out, out of curiosity?
/r/seduction03/05/10 02:53 PM
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Her number? It's 10. :D And you're right. I'm just freaking out about these questions because I'm treading into unknown territory and not going with my gut instincts.
/r/seduction03/05/10 05:48 AM
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Not sure if I understand what you mean there. Are you saying she'll get pissed if I finger her for too long, or that she will enjoy the teasing?
/r/seduction03/05/10 04:10 AM
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I don't know why you got downvoted; this post is entirely great advice, plus a super smooth attempt at a number close. I'll be getting all the practice I get, haha. You're right, I should've switched it up a bit more often. I'm not sure just how often to do so, though. I understand that I need to be dominating and just do it whenever I feel like it, but I don't want to be switching too fast for her to get into any one position. Lights will definitely be on from this point forward. You know, you'…
/r/seduction03/05/10 02:16 AM
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It helps immensely to see the similar situations you guys are in, so I'd really like to thank you. Honestly. Also: Cool username, dude. And if you edit within the first minute, it doesn't add the asterisk, so I find it pretty silly to add in the edit tag. :P Just a factoid.
/r/seduction03/05/10 02:04 AM
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You're right on every level. I have zero attachment to this girl, and I'm very sure she's absolutely fucking insane and lost. I wouldn't mind fucking her again, but there are plenty of women out there just waiting for me.
/r/seduction03/05/10 02:01 AM
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Good lord, I'm terribly sorry, and I am definitely looking forward to that AMA; I'll save my questions for then.
/r/seduction03/05/10 02:00 AM
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That's very interesting, I really didn't know it was looked at like that, and it probably would've taken me a while to figure it out, so thanks.
/r/seduction03/05/10 01:57 AM
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Thanks, both of you. I appreciate the support and advice, and you're both probably very right. :D
/r/seduction03/05/10 01:56 AM
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Yeah, I forgot that I'd mentioned it, haha. That's a great line, I'll use it when the need arises. :]
/r/seduction03/05/10 01:56 AM
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You're very correct; from the moment she realized she'd had sex with me, the frame of the interacting shifted dramatically. Whereas I was very dominating and teasing before, she was definitely now "asserting her sexual superiority." I tried turning it around. For example, when we were going from her car to my house, she was going through her purse and was about to run into a pole. I warned her in a teasing tone, and she said something to the effect of "Well, what would've you have done if I did …
/r/seduction03/05/10 01:55 AM
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You know, I'm not sure why I didn't think of fingering her. I've honestly read tons of shit about it and have been dying to try it all out. I guess i just dismissed it because I assumed she just wanted to get to the sex asap. Thank you for all the advice. I'm doing some weightlifting, and the masturbation refrain starts today. :D
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:52 PM
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Great response, it really calls the AMOG out on his behavior and will probably result in him getting his hat back.
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:20 PM
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Yeah, she said that it had happened to her a couple of times before. Thank you for the encouragement. :]
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:17 PM
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Thank the heavens, this seems to be my problem exactly. Sounds tough, but I'm going to follow that dude's advice. Thank you so much for this, dude. :D
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:14 PM
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It's a group called GuerilLA Improv. Just email the email on the site to get onto the mailing list, and they'll send you the dossier as soon as it's out. Another useful resource is the twitter feed. Looks like the next activity is an open planning session, tentatively set to May 5th. Basically, they have a very transparent leadership model; if you come up with an idea for a mission, you are the leader. They'll back you up 100%, but you'll be the leader. It's great.
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:10 PM
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This is encouraging. Thanks. :D
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:06 PM
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It's good to know others have been there! Now that you mention it, the light was off; you have a good point!
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:05 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement, I appreciate it. :]
/r/seduction02/05/10 02:04 PM
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Yeah, I felt like this had to be a long winded entry because 1) it was my intro, and I feel that a great deal of effort needs to be put into it and 2) it was also two field reports. Even if nobody was going to read them, I felt it necessary for my own good to put my all into these. In the future, I'll write more abbreviated FR's and get to the point quicker. In fact, I'm about to write one right now. I'll do my best to keep it short and to the point. Your points about writing are enlightening an…
/r/seduction02/05/10 07:02 AM
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Thank you. Honestly, I cannot rightfully express to you how thankful I am for your time and effort. I plan on continuing this writing. Although I would like some specific feedback, I'm not entirely sure if that's possible with what I wrote. D: Otherwise, yeah, that's exactly what I want. I've actually got two seminars of David DeAngelo's on my computer, and they were pretty sweet. I know I wrote about how I consumed material vehemently, but I totally forgot to add in my current view on material.…
/r/seduction01/05/10 02:20 PM
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Just like GBR said, I really think this is what we need here on Seddit; like nearly everything else you post, this submission is comprehensive, well-written, and chock-full of knowledge. So thank you, for the millionth time. It's also nice to see your flaws and that you are human. I can't say much else that hasn't been said already, but I can stress it. You, as well as multiple others here, know that the major problem is that your frame was shaky. I've come to realize lately that nearly every pr…
/r/seduction29/04/10 05:50 AM
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Yeah, Herbal (cornrow here on Reddit) did an AMA a few months ago, and he said that Neil distorted the situation a bit, if I remember correctly.
/r/seduction24/04/10 03:44 PM
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Gold. This is so...coherent. Thank you. Somewhat relevant (though on the other side of the spectrum, making you do the work) is Mystery's "Hook Theory" (I think that's what it was called? Doesn't really matter) mentioned in the Game at some point. Basically, (almost) every word a girl says is a potential "hook," and you can choose to follow the line attached to it however far you like, even if the particular conversational avenue seems somewhat stretched. For example: She says, "I met an Italian…
/r/seduction24/04/10 08:29 AM
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I love this post. Honestly, it was amazing. What you did was immensely honorable, and I think you deserve to be praised for it. Believe me, we care, man. I've noticed the same phenomenon you speak of, and it's pretty amazing. Confidence will get you far with women, and like intjpua said, it's impressive and awesome that you can realize it this early. You've got potential, and I hope to see further posts from you, man. There's a book by Jeffy from RSD (The Game makes them out to be total doucheba…
/r/seduction24/04/10 08:12 AM
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It could've been at this anniversary party sort of thing he had a few weeks ago. Also, you probably know this, but on the offchance that you don't, Herbal from The Game did an AMA a while back. That's as close as we've got for now. :P
/r/seduction19/04/10 05:00 AM
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Jesus christ, man. Your posts are literary gold, and I hope you know that. You are so helpful, so thanks.
/r/seduction18/04/10 07:09 AM
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I agree with everything said so far -- read a few books (firstly and most importantly bar FAR The Game), and get out and practice. There is NOTHING that will improve your game more than field experience. It's how the books you're reading were created. But when it comes to the books, don't get too dogmatic and force your way of thinking into one method. Take what applies to you and discard the rest. One thing I haven't yet seen recommended by anyone is Nine Ball by Jeffy from Real Social Dynamics…
/r/seduction18/04/10 07:06 AM
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This is a great post, chock full of knowledge and very comprehensive. Thanks for devoting your time to this! Definitely gonna work on doing it.
/r/seduction13/04/10 02:44 AM
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First of all, you can get them all online in various ways, as others have said. Second of all, Book of Pook is good and free, so it wouldn't kill you to read it, as others have said. Third of all, the best of those three is definitely Rules of the Game. Nothing I've ever read got me in the field and operating smoothly better than it.
/r/seduction10/04/10 07:53 PM
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Really never understood why they did that stuff. :/
/r/seduction07/04/10 03:32 PM
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Yeah, with day game you don't have to dedicate time out of your day to go "sarging." You simply meet girls as you go about your life. I understand liking the feeling of being in more social environments between sets, but your time between sets in day game could be hours, if you go somewhere else in the course of running your errands, for example. Sinn, for one, claims to get regular same day lays off of day game, which seems pretty outrageous.
/r/seduction26/03/10 04:01 AM
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A lot of people prefer day game waaaay more than clubs. You can still adapt Mystery Method for use in day game, but certain methods tailored specifically to day game would be better.
/r/seduction25/03/10 05:49 AM
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I know you've got Rules of the Game, but I really recommend Neil Strauss' first book, The Game to anyone and EVERYONE, especially those looking into pickup. Not only is it supremely well-written, it really teaches a few valuable lessons while serving as a good primer to pickup and giving you a great background history to what you're learning. I think it should be the first thing anyone reads, hands down.
/r/seduction23/03/10 11:49 PM
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