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1

I think I remember reading or maybe watching a youtube video about it. It was off the subway exit. Out of all the girls, I think one girl answered yes. And then he said he wasn't being serious. Also, she wasn't hot.
/r/seduction21/09/25 02:02 PM
-1

Do: [... ]believe in something bigger than yourself Yeah that's a no from me, dog.
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:14 PM
6

"Wanna hook up"?
/r/seduction24/12/24 07:49 PM
164

Bulgarian 6'3 Use metric, bro. We get enough freedom units from all the US people as it is.
/r/seduction19/09/23 02:27 PM
19

He can reply. Why wouldn't he be able to talk to other girls? Tell them he's now taken, FFS.
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:21 PM
3

How do you convey "successful" without showing off material things?
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:30 AM
12

Well wait till you see my personality!
/r/seduction16/12/21 10:22 PM
7

I expect a longer version of this to show up in /r/tifu. This needs exposure.
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:49 AM
1

Be prepared for the worst, but go for it. She might be willing.
/r/seduction28/06/21 11:04 AM
5

Just my luck, the year I joined there was an extra man... guess who.
/r/seduction02/05/21 08:33 AM
6

My dog likes to lick me in my lips. Before going for the kiss, she locks her eyes with me for a second or 2 while pausing. It's unmistakable and it's like she got this urge all of a sudden that a kiss is in order. I don't know, maybe try that.
/r/seduction30/09/20 01:37 PM
10

Seriously, the cognitive dissonance is screaming.
/r/seduction31/03/20 10:40 AM
2

Your post makes me wonder, if the genders were reversed I bet it's a lot more common.
/r/seduction30/11/19 11:00 PM
2

Nice study with a sample size of 1. Maybe this sparks some interesting conversation, but your post as it is seems rather void of information to me.
/r/seduction22/08/19 02:42 PM
9

if the shoe was on the other foot. Eh
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/19 02:16 PM
3

Completeness (cue Jerry Maguire).
/r/seduction03/05/19 08:03 PM
1

I would ask her about it.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:38 PM
3

Any chance it's her friend that's trying to set you up, and sent the "where are you going" message? Would make sense.
/r/seduction11/11/18 10:22 PM
2

Yeah... Like the part where he tells you to not correct others, god damn it. Of course it's easier to let everyone else think they're right, but grow a little backbone and tell them. Yes they might resent you for it, but at least give them a chance to correct themselves. Some parts are really good though.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:21 AM
3

I feel the exact same way. It's a set of interesting ideas to build on, especially if you hadn't considered them, but shouldn't be taken as gospel. It's the sort of stuff that you should incorporate what you agree with in your persona, and be aware of what you don't and the why.
/r/seduction05/07/18 10:13 AM
1

I disagree. It's not really that much of an advantage to get the virginity out of the way.
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:09 PM
1

Sure.
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:37 AM
1

You tell them no like a parent would trying to educate the little brats. Remember you're the adult, you possess the wisdom by default if they cross some line. Though if you're only 3 minutes with them I doubt the situation will come up.
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:20 AM
1

I mean you shouldn't be a push-over with kids anymore than with adults. If you need to be an adult and stand your ground, be a fucking adult and stand your ground. Kids, like grownups, will most likely do anything to take advantage of you if you let them. Other than that, by all means have fun and be kind with them. Moms will love you for it, especially if you can say "stop, that is not alright" at the right time.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:08 PM
3

Why did you use a fixed-length font for this?
/r/seduction10/05/18 02:31 PM
3

TL:DW?
/r/seduction25/08/17 08:49 AM
2

What 30 day challenge?
/r/seduction01/06/17 06:37 AM
2

I think I should have included a [serious] tag.
/r/seduction28/04/17 01:25 PM
3

I think I need some clarifying or pointers or whatever... But how on earth do you manage to "play with her body" for hours?
/r/seduction28/04/17 08:03 AM
1

Thanks for that you're one nice gal. I won't try to contact her anytime soon but reading this made me definitely feel better.
/r/seduction14/04/17 01:06 PM
2

... yeah a bit. Not for sex, but for companionship. I wouldn't worry too much about that label, though. Now explain to me, why do you want a girlfriend and not any intentions of sex?
/r/seduction14/04/17 11:17 AM
1

Like others have said you need to improve yourself. You're 21, you're young as fuck so you'll have plenty of time to get there. You need to "learn the game", get confidence, be happy with yourself (feeling stupid and depressed gotta go). Tips... Read, watch videos, learn. Do stuff that's new. Challenge yourself. Surround yourself with people that lift you up. Seek others that are the way you would like to be. It's all part of growing up. And know that this is advice from a 37yo that feels stupid…
/r/seduction14/04/17 11:08 AM
1

He may be married but really lust after you. Happened to me, I spent weeks fantasising about barely touching lips with a coworker (that's how far my mind allowed me to go). In my case, I wasn't sexually fulfilled at home so that played a part. I would love to know what would have happened if things had progressed, but they didn't. Nowadays I'm separated, and part of me wishes I had done it then.
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:52 AM
3

What traits? Why do they say that? And why don't you agree?
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:38 AM
1

Maybe your dick didn't like the girls? Anyway, I think blowjobs might help you.
/r/seduction13/04/17 10:29 PM
2

37... sigh I appreciate the post, btw. I wish I could be around people like you so that mentality could rub a little on me.
/r/seduction19/03/17 03:13 PM
11

I want to save this post forever. I wish I could stick it in my head. It resonates with me, probably because it's about being more honest and aware of our own self and about not being a pussy, like I normal am around women and etc.
/r/seduction19/03/17 11:19 AM
3

/ when?
/r/seduction12/03/17 11:03 PM
1

/r/WholesomeSeduction
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:01 AM
1

But it's exactly what they do to us. Very very rarely do women show their interest overtly.
/r/seduction20/10/16 08:07 AM
3

"You should kiss her when the mood is right". Well, duh, how the fuck does that mood happen?
/r/seduction05/05/16 10:04 PM
2

Was she a pathological liar? You know she made stuff up about you, for sure.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/16 01:20 AM
2

Dolores, but close enough.
/r/seduction25/02/16 11:11 PM
5

Mulva?
/r/seduction25/02/16 10:49 PM
1

Yeah this is how I met my girlfriend.
/r/seduction27/10/15 02:10 AM
1

Just go talk to her. Can't hurt.
/r/seduction29/08/15 09:43 PM
1

Clarification request: what exactly do you mean with "and touching" in the first paragraph?
/r/seduction29/08/15 09:35 PM
21

Original post text was removed, and we're only hearing one side of the story. But here's a few things left unclear: Someone mentioned that OP presented herself as a virgin, supposedly as the husband. A comment mentions that OP denied the husband some stuff in bed. I can only imagine his reaction "she did MMF, but she wouldn't do X with me?" Who knows what the friend told him. For all we know OP might have been unfaithful and the friend somehow leaked this. We can imagine OP's husband to be wealt…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:31 PM
1

You're too short. You're too young. You're too old. You're too young. You're too well dressed. You're too black. You're too white. You're too atheist. She's too tired. She's a lesbian. She just put on braces. She's in love with someone else.
/r/seduction12/03/15 09:10 PM
138

she claimed I cheated the test to get out of paying child support. Not the first time I've seen that. Fucking delusional bitches.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 12:04 AM
2

Yeah I suppose it is. I posted in a "change my view" stance.
/r/seduction08/08/14 02:51 PM
29

"Most women deep down just want to be told what to do and fucked hard." (http://imgur.com/WOjxETI) That is quite the eye-opener of a quote. It kinda blew my mind.
/r/seduction08/08/14 08:02 AM
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This may be stupid but it annoys me... http://i.imgur.com/jiot61y.jpg You just lied here, since you really do say "you're too fucking cute" to all girls.
/r/seduction08/08/14 07:55 AM
2

23 here. It's nothing to be ashamed about, although you might feel differently at the time.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:20 PM
1

Uh. That was really easy. 'Till the end of time, you say?
/r/seduction01/07/14 01:08 PM
-3

Unless you're really tall.
/r/seduction09/05/14 05:02 PM
17

I like your willingness to admit your shortcomings. because that's the first step in overcoming them. Sounds good?
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:23 AM
3

Yeah... the delivery method is a bit "old", but the content itself seems to be genuine. And for good reason, as clearly it works.
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:19 AM
10

Though the more on you are, the easier it gets, surely.
/r/seduction07/02/14 08:17 AM
2

Ah, ok. Good for you for being consistent. Had the kid been the only reason for this I would have scolded you for denying a poor single mom some much deserved happy times. Again, awesome read. Carry on with your life spreading happiness.
/r/seduction20/12/13 07:03 PM
1

I swear I'm still having difficulty following you... but here's my interpretation of what you're saying: If you have sex with her, that might lead to a serious relationship; That will lead to you and her kid becoming attached; If the relationship ends, her kid will be hurt. Correct? If she didn't have a kid, sex would have happened?
/r/seduction20/12/13 06:54 PM
3

Wall of text was definitely worth it. Awesome reading. I don’t put out on the first date and would like to get to know her better before things escalate to that point, especially because she has a kid and I don’t want to risk doing anything that could hurt her kid. Can we discuss this a bit? To me this was so anti-climatic, and I don't really understand the reasoning behind it.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:31 PM
17

Kinda like books.
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:14 PM
0

This is why I avoid Facebook ...And, upvote.
/r/seduction15/10/13 12:11 PM
2

Yes. I see value in everything OP said, but "super-romantic" is definitely the wrong label.
/r/seduction28/09/13 11:25 AM
1

Somewhat related, I've had my girl tell me that some random morons she'd just met were saying that she deserves better than me. Half because they want to hit on her, half because I was chatting with another girl. What would you do?
/r/seduction22/09/13 04:56 PM
71

You had fun and didn't mess it up. That's no small feat for a lot of people. Plus, you write well.
/r/seduction26/06/13 08:59 AM
2

Self-help? Are we talking about the same book?
/r/seduction29/04/13 12:09 AM
3

That part felt forced, but still, better than nothing. And with the right delivery/she being drunk it probably worked.
/r/seduction30/03/13 03:51 PM
2

It's a thought I've entertained myself. I assure you you don't give up your personality though, it's still in there, you're just taking a deep breath before deciding to act on it. And, somehow, I think it's a step up for most people, being aware that sometimes not saying something is a better course of action. I do suspect that, if you're even more evolved (and you in particular might already be), it will be even better to do it - but you'll know how to do it without antagonizing your acquaintan…
/r/seduction02/03/13 09:56 AM
1

What about couples?
/r/seduction28/02/13 11:49 PM
8

Another drawback to being “too nice” is that people often perceive that as a sign of weakness and an opportunity to take advantage of you. Yep and they'll manipulate you to death.
/r/seduction08/02/13 01:28 PM
6

Opposite day?
/r/seduction10/01/13 08:01 PM
1

Define "failure". Because, to me, "trying" is pretty awesome in and of itself. Not getting something right the first time is pretty much expected. So, I really don't think "trying" is anywhere near the path to "failure".
/r/seduction02/01/13 08:11 PM
6

I am interested in subscribing to your newsletter.
/r/seduction21/12/12 09:18 AM
6

I thought you would be refering to this post: http://www.reddit.com/r/socialskills/comments/14k7wq/how_do_guys_flirt_or_otherwise_make_their/c7e4q7x
/r/seduction11/12/12 02:16 PM
16

Came here to say this. But you can't argue against topless girl licking my abs Which reminds me, is this a thing or are your abs particularly beautiful?
/r/seduction03/12/12 02:01 PM
1

How about a middle ground? YOU go to a woman then tell her, "my wife thinks you're hot" and you do all the talking.
/r/seduction19/11/12 10:48 PM
124

You. I like you.
/r/seduction03/11/12 08:14 PM
3

But sometime after 6th grade, something happened (I don't know what) that changed my whole personality. I became very beta. I'm interested in this. What happened in your life around this time? Maybe we could pinpoint the culprit and avoid future pain.
/r/seduction01/09/12 11:42 AM
3

I know what you mean. I would be wiling to send money to a seddit fund, I just have no idea what it could be used for.
/r/seduction29/08/12 08:01 AM
6

Upvoted for the message, smiled for the last paragraph.
/r/seduction22/08/12 10:55 PM
51

A guy in the friendzone is someone who doesn't want sex. They want kisses, hugs, cuddling, etc. And believe me, every man has experienced the friendzone. Oh god I've been friendzoned by my girlfriend.
/r/seduction18/08/12 10:07 AM
1

Wow that hit me right in my stomach. Poor guy, poor (possibly former) us.
/r/seduction06/08/12 10:30 AM
2

What would you do in his case then?
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:05 PM
3

Upvotes all around. Being with a girlfriend I lived Vicariously through you. Thank you and godspeed.
/r/seduction04/08/12 02:49 PM
22

That desperately needs punctuation.
/r/seduction03/08/12 08:15 AM
1

I don't mind outside hate at all, unfortunately a quite large percentage of subscribers to this sub are like that. I see ridiculous comments getting upvoted about seducers being trash.
/r/seduction01/08/12 09:06 PM
2

I think that, you think that, but clearly some girls out there don't think that. So, where does that leave us?
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:25 PM
16

Thus contradicting his conclusion. Maybe if such a challenge is issued, the relationship is already in dire straits.
/r/seduction11/07/12 02:16 PM
0

...story?
/r/seduction02/07/12 02:29 PM
1

I already shave, guess I need to up my game.
/r/seduction09/05/12 08:13 PM
4

The best part was the end - I nutted on one of their tits, then wiped up the nut with both hands and had them both lick it off of my fingers /thread.
/r/seduction09/05/12 05:36 PM
2

So... uh... want to share details of the threesome part? Like, did they go down on each other or something... (and congrats man)
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:57 PM
1

Isn't "I" a pronoun?
/r/seduction09/05/12 03:52 PM
1

Hmm. So how could he have made a more original joke?
/r/seduction08/05/12 07:48 PM
2

Because of the title I thought it was a Don't-close, which got me really intrigued.
/r/seduction13/04/12 09:40 AM
2

I feel like seddit is growing up.
/r/seduction04/04/12 12:50 PM
23

I somehow missread that last word as monopoly and imagined the monopoly guy trying to kiss.
/r/seduction30/03/12 09:27 AM
1

Is there anything left to accomplish?
/r/seduction18/03/12 09:36 PM
8

Mind. Blown.
/r/seduction27/02/12 12:59 AM
5

I tried this once and it backfired, so I'm not sure. Maybe it was bad timing or something.
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:54 PM
7

Also laugh at his jokes. Making him googly eyes. Smile warmly. Break the touch barrier as often as possible. If all else fails, blowjob.
/r/seduction26/02/12 10:52 PM
15

Well, since everyone (rightly and for your own good) is pounding on you for that self-deprecating line, I'll praise you for this: You don't have to explain yourself. Have fun finding what you're looking for. That was NGAF™.
/r/seduction28/01/12 10:10 AM
10

Oh man please do (go on).
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:56 PM
25

Women seduce too. Probably more, now that I think about it.
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:54 PM
3

Just how do you get 2 people in the bathroom simultaneously?
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:33 PM
2

WITIDE...
/r/seduction23/11/11 02:05 PM
2

Listen to audiotapes. Watch videos by people who are good at it. Basically, immerse yourself in an (artificial but better than nothing) environment where confidence is in abundance.
/r/seduction13/11/11 09:27 AM
1

It's not about any particular girl, it's about learning the process.
/r/seduction11/11/11 09:26 AM
2

I wanna see those pics... :(
/r/seduction04/11/11 03:15 PM
4

Stop thinking of the guys who have little respect for you as your friends. Pick the 4 or 5 that do respect you. And start respecting yourself. You're not ugly. You're as capable of pulling tail as any of your "friends" and in fact even more so. Dress better. Believe in yourself. It's OK to be funny or clumsy, and anyone who tells you otherwise can fuck off. You haven't heard the phrase "Those who mind don't care, and those who care don't mind" yet but it's a pretty good one. You can do anything.…
/r/seduction31/10/11 03:04 PM
1

Not even that, most of the time the rejection will actually feel good because you conquered your fears. And girls aren't always bitches.
/r/seduction27/10/11 06:21 AM
3

I hate that word. I associate it with douchiness.
/r/seduction24/10/11 07:53 AM
1

No, I hadn't been laid yet, but the will to fap grew smaller.
/r/seduction18/10/11 11:40 PM
2

Fapping. Damn autocorrect.
/r/seduction18/10/11 07:11 PM
2

This happened to me with dapping.
/r/seduction18/10/11 06:14 PM
2

It's been 2 days.
/r/seduction02/10/11 07:16 PM
49

One older lady stopped me this morning and thanked me for making her day saying that people don't say hi to each other anymore like they used to. That was a first for me. I didn't need to read anything else to upvote. This alone makes it awesome.
/r/seduction30/09/11 09:46 AM
6

Highlighted Incongruence Variable
/r/seduction21/09/11 07:01 PM
1

The one time I tried this, years go, there was a deficit of women - for the first time in that school's history I might add. I ended up having to wait for a partner to become available. I learned nothing.
/r/seduction16/09/11 12:20 PM
2

"I'm an acquired taste."
/r/seduction28/07/11 12:35 PM
1

For reference, there are non-latex condoms. My ex was also allergic and I ordered a bunch of them on save-on-durex.com or something.
/r/seduction17/07/11 01:46 AM
2

That's some nice profit.
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:01 AM
27

Screw dignity, OP's trying to figure out why he doesn't get laid. He's on a mission!
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:24 AM
9

Best. Seddit post. Ever.
/r/seduction08/06/11 02:54 PM
4

It's been tough. My methods involve covering my ears, saying "lalala" and switching stations as soon as any mention to basketball is made. I'll be watching the game in about an hour.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:35 PM
5

Can sameone tell me if there's any spoiler regarding the NBA game? I haven't watched it yet.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:20 PM
7

I like this style of FTFY.
/r/seduction30/05/11 05:23 PM
4

He still can.
/r/seduction27/05/11 12:33 PM
1

David D talks about people outside think this is about the "tricks". Reality is, it's about improving yourself in a deep way.
/r/seduction06/05/11 07:55 AM
1

I completely disagree with the community pushing your "bad" lessons. I don't perceive that to be true at all. Some bad apples maybe, but they're usually called out pretty quickly and are not ingrained in the true community spirit.
/r/seduction05/05/11 04:55 PM
2

About compliments, even if you don't believe it's true, it's at least true enough for the other person to notice. So, even if you're not the best singer ever, someone else thinks you do. You should acknowledge that or else you're implying that the other person's opinion doesn't matter (social faux pas). I say "that's very nice of you to say that" at the very least, no matter how much I think otherwise.
/r/seduction04/05/11 07:20 PM
15

Somebody find this and do a TLDR, please.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:14 AM
1

I've had difficulty with less-than-stellar hookups to the point that I realized "you know, fuck this. I don't like this woman. Why the hell am I continuing to try to have sex with her?" Sometimes your subconscious mind makes decisions faster than your rational mind has the balls to.
/r/seduction13/04/11 08:25 AM
31

Separate hard drive? Now there's a thought...
/r/seduction12/04/11 03:22 PM
2

it could be 26 years of misery.
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:14 PM
17

You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part. Becom…
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:28 PM
3

Best FR I've ever read. You're attitude and positive outlook were mind-blowing at various times. It was amazing to read. Thank you.
/r/seduction17/03/11 12:48 PM
3

You know, he's *trying* to be kind in his own way. He may not be succeeding.
/r/seduction13/03/11 10:04 PM
2

I agree with what you said except for the writing lists. I seriously think you can have stuff written in there that you wouldn't be able to remember next time you see the person. At least I wouldn't. Maybe with practice the writing becomes unnecessary.
/r/seduction13/03/11 06:35 PM
11

Who's the asshole? He is trying to be playful. You would be being a bitch.
/r/seduction13/03/11 06:25 PM
11

Funny. As a guy, this is exactly what I think when I see some other guy touching a girl. Or me, I get terribly focused on a guy who touches me. It feels so unnatural. Doesn't mean it is, but it freaks me out. On the other hand, it does force some kind of connection. Chuck is probably overdoing it, but it is still better than to not touch at all me thinks.
/r/seduction13/03/11 12:33 AM
1

Yes. In "the mating mind", the author puts forward that the human species owes its large intelligence to women selecting males who displayed signs of intelligence. Humor, being well-spoken, and other traits are indicators of intelligence.
/r/seduction09/03/11 12:07 PM
49

Yes, god forbids we actually find a smart one...
/r/seduction09/03/11 01:37 AM
3

Absolutely. Can't understand why this has upvotes.
/r/seduction08/03/11 07:51 PM
7

Yes, it's corrective. Your comment on the other hand...
/r/seduction06/03/11 11:20 PM
2

Baah I spit saliva all over my keyboard with the boner machine!
/r/seduction06/03/11 11:17 PM
5

2 weeks off? Fine, I'll give it a try. You (plural) better report here in shame if you fail. UPDATE : It's been 5 days and I haven't fapped. But now I'm coming down with a fever, so the experiment is pretty much ruined.
/r/seduction06/03/11 11:08 PM
4

Mind blown.
/r/seduction03/03/11 10:13 PM
1

That's not alpha, that's assholish.
/r/seduction02/03/11 01:00 PM
3

Random guess here, but you're probably better off avoiding this kind of thing with her. Just in case she's trouble for you. (I don't have a good history with women who need money for whatever. Though to be fair, you seem much more firm in your no-bullshit-allowedness than I was.)
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:49 AM
3

A semi-permanent thing... just for the record, for how long have you known her and nothing sexual has happened?
/r/seduction02/03/11 10:46 AM
5

Clarify.
/r/seduction01/03/11 10:35 AM
1

That's probably a mistake.
/r/seduction27/02/11 08:11 PM
5

Whoa nice post! I was going to comment on something else but this took the cake for me: Buzz kill: Never and I say never, say no to fun. I don’t care how cold you are or how tired, if there is a fucking outdoor slide and dodge ball on ice going on (which there was last night), don’t be the one to say you’re not in. This one invokes strong emotions with me. I think most guys will avoid anything outside of their comfort zone in fear of looking foolish or less cool. Fuck I hate that mindset. Alphas…
/r/seduction27/02/11 07:18 PM
4

Fuck yeah this is the kind of stuff I love about /r/seduction! Throwing away your limiting beliefs, one at a time.
/r/seduction27/02/11 01:57 PM
9

You're getting downvoted because of the complete irrelevance of your comments to the topic of this post. You need to create a new submission to talk about those other things.
/r/seduction26/02/11 12:57 PM
2

Much better phrased.
/r/seduction24/02/11 09:12 AM
2

I upvoted the post because it's a great topic but really I don't agree with OP as much as I agree with you. I think you said it all with that "awesome" quote. In the end, the OP does have a point. You need to be vulnerable and sharing and honest with your GF. I just don't think this should be incompatible with your "game".
/r/seduction24/02/11 09:11 AM
1

This is great. I feel like I'm learning how to live.
/r/seduction21/02/11 06:10 PM
0

Sexual... assault? You did good, OP. Don't worry.
/r/seduction15/02/11 11:54 AM
2

thats a pretty smart way to advertise your app _^ FTFY
/r/seduction09/02/11 10:09 AM
0

Yeah can't really call it "quick" when I have to scroll down to read it (great stuff, btw).
/r/seduction08/02/11 02:00 PM
2

Get lost.
/r/seduction06/02/11 01:16 AM
1

Congrats on everything and particularly in telling her you were a virgin. And for acting naturally about it. That probably spiked her hornyness to the 3rd degree.
/r/seduction06/02/11 01:15 AM
6

I once picked up a girl in a shop whose first eye contact with me was somewhat in that hero region. I knocked some glass off a table and managed to very instinctively catch it before crashing on the floor. I lifted my head and had this warrior gaze because I felt like I won a battle and wanted someone to witness my bravery. She happened to be the recipient of this very intense stare, and yada yada yada she was the greatest fuck ever.
/r/seduction06/02/11 12:56 AM
4

I really don't believe getting as horizontal as possible to be alpha male material. Smiling only to give approval, talking slowly, take up lots of space, master the gaze - those seem promising.
/r/seduction31/01/11 05:27 PM
2

Say what's ever on the top of your head. You will say stupid stuff, and two things will happen. First, you'll change your thought patterns over a short period of time as you learn what you can and cant say. Second, you'll learn how to hold a frame with whatever you say and it will be silly fun (girls love this). Loved this.
/r/seduction29/01/11 02:44 PM
2

Should one hide the fact that they're into PUA?
/r/seduction25/01/11 04:25 PM
1

I understood this immediately (because of good teaching material I guess), and it's what most people who look down on the "seduction community" get wrong. And from the looks of things, people within as well.
/r/seduction13/01/11 04:01 PM
1

The what?
/r/seduction05/01/11 02:33 PM
2

I kiss two more girls (totally random, grabbing them out of the crowd, no game at all. Gotta love NYE) I wonder if this is an American-only thing. I never saw anyone doing that here in Europe.
/r/seduction05/01/11 09:47 AM
1

I'll grant you that one. I was just a bit pissed and wanted to vent. I like to call names when I vent.
/r/seduction02/01/11 07:07 PM
2

It's not silly, it just speeds things up. There is jargon in every field that could be said differently but it really helps to learn it so you can better/faster convey what you mean.
/r/seduction31/12/10 10:37 AM
5

WTF How is this +35? Bunch of wusses in this subreddit that REALLY don't understand what we're trying to achieve here. Seduction here is usually treated as morally/ethically as you can find. Shallowness? We're trying to go much deeper here than in any other subreddit. We're trying to understand the inner reasons of what works and why in human interactions. Damnit with all the haters outside I figured at least within our own boundaries we had people who got it. +35 boggles my mind.
/r/seduction31/12/10 08:34 AM
1

Ah ok, that's not necessarily true in my country.
/r/seduction29/12/10 04:12 PM
4

It is, you should all try it. And don't limit yourselves to club/bars.
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:52 PM
7

First of all, it's not really a method. Not for scoring at least. When you're in the zone and you can do no harm, you can just barge into a group and set yourself up to receive all kind of fire they might have. And absorb it all and whip it right back with some pizazz. When the initial shock is past and they're out of ammo, it's your turn to talk - after all, you disrupted the monotony of the group, you must have something to say, right? And you say what you want... since you probably feel by th…
/r/seduction28/12/10 10:46 PM
3

keep the date cheap Amen!
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:27 PM
9

I have gone to groups of young women, basically said "hi, what's up?", and very soon after ask which (if any) of them were over 18 and would get the numbers of the ones that were. Also not that young women, now that I think about it. I guess age doesn't matter much (except for legal purposes). Fearlessness rocks!
/r/seduction28/12/10 06:20 PM
3

Stick it in her butt
/r/seduction20/12/10 10:17 AM
5

I think he's awesome, but that doesn't mean I always agree with him.
/r/seduction19/12/10 09:51 PM
6

In a bit of a mood? He might have phrased it badly, but he doesn't deserve to be called despicable. And I see no wrong with him lurking specially if occasionally he's able to pitch in some insight.
/r/seduction19/12/10 07:37 PM
2

That would certainly explain some ugly chick's behavior.
/r/seduction15/12/10 06:33 PM
3

Now that you remind me of it... isn't it amazing how 4s-6s will blow you over to your face that you're nothing and that they're all that, but really hot chicks will in fact love you? Can't articulate it much better than that but it seems to happen fairly consistently.
/r/seduction15/12/10 06:31 PM
2

Is it that bad if you admit you forgot? I do this plenty, and just ask them again. I also do something else. When I forget their names I'll say "I bet you have forgotten my name", unfortunately they rarely do, and then they suspect something is up and ask me right back. Then I say "of course I remember... it's Alice. Mmm-mm? A...mber. Mm-mmm? Er.... big grin". Anyway, I don't really mind if they find out I forgot. Not something I'm realistically embarrassed about. Like I said, it happens plenty.
/r/seduction13/12/10 12:03 AM
22

That is a long list. Let me see if I can bullet it up: “So the hotter and sweatier you get…”, “The easier it will be for women to smell your future together” “It is as hard for a woman to have a climax as it is for a man like you to get laid.” "you simply do a little bit of something amazing just to get the scent in your smoke.” “The more languages you know, the better,” "You don’t need to go to South America [...] All you need to do is learn a little Spanish.” “Never brag. Women who smell your …
/r/seduction10/12/10 10:14 PM
2

Thank you for that. I just get so tired of everyone-around-me's mentality that you can't allow yourself to fuck up, ever. Here I feel at home. Thanks seddit and reddit in general.
/r/seduction09/12/10 02:47 PM
1

She would always be fishing for me to say I missed her, and if I happened to say it, she would jump at the chance of telling me the same -> "Aha! you love me!". And I couldn't deny it since it was my own logic. I never told her "I love yous", that was the closest she got to it. All in good fun.
/r/seduction27/11/10 12:00 AM
6

I used to reply "that's because you love me." On the long run, it would turn into a game of her trying to catch me saying the same thing.
/r/seduction26/11/10 12:01 PM
1

Did he at least tap that?
/r/seduction25/11/10 10:09 AM
1

7) Finish what you start. Get into the habit of finishing each task you start, get into the habit of doing this and it becomes a real source of happiness and confidence in your life. Start by ensuring you finish all your small tasks, such as reading an article or hitting on 5 girls (or whatever target) in a night. Don't set your goals too wildly I haven't finished anything I start in quite a while. Years, really. Therapists/family/friends have all talked about how important it is to straighten m…
/r/seduction18/11/10 02:23 PM
3

f-closes: 9 (5 were SNF's; 2 ended up being ONS's) Request clarification.
/r/seduction14/11/10 07:30 AM
3

Ah, flashbacks of me dumping my VHS collection down the bin...
/r/seduction13/11/10 04:32 PM
10

So my crazy ex was a right one? Jesus.
/r/seduction12/11/10 05:01 PM
1

Absolutely, I haven't own a watch in ages and think they're obsolete. Well, that is, unless you count them new bluetooth watches I've been craving: http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=554551 http://forum.xda-developers.com/showthread.php?t=362218 http://www.thinkgeek.com/gadgets/cellphone/9e31/ http://www.sonyericsson.com/cws/products/accessories/overview/mbw-150classicedition
/r/seduction09/11/10 01:47 PM
9

Don't equate PUA = asshole . Most of us here preach honesty and non-deception. As for the finding an awkward girl, you don't choose who you're attracted to.
/r/seduction06/11/10 02:54 PM
1

I remember seeing some PUA saying he teaches his pupils to have the palms facing out like in a Jesus-like manner.
/r/seduction06/11/10 11:16 AM
4

Well, he had to get over that hump.
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:06 PM
1

* ** A P P L A U S E ** *
/r/seduction01/11/10 06:04 PM
1

It does to me.
/r/seduction29/10/10 12:55 PM
1

He's not an asshole, AFC was just jealous of him. Actually I posted this because I used to feel this brand of AFCness a lot and now that I know a little more about how attraction works it is funny (in a tragic way) how retarded my frustrated thought processes were.
/r/seduction13/10/10 09:58 PM
1

While I do believe I understand what is going on at a deeper level than OP, it still hits a bit too close to home.
/r/seduction13/10/10 03:44 PM
18

Give a man a fish vs teaching him.
/r/seduction13/10/10 07:50 AM
10

I'm proud of you.
/r/seduction03/10/10 02:34 PM
5

haha yeah please do.
/r/seduction03/10/10 01:33 PM
3

They do. It's just that AFCs apologize much more than they should, so as a general guideline they're (we're) taught to not apologize at all at first. As a balance to what they're (we're) used to.
/r/seduction02/10/10 05:22 PM
3

Man I can only imagine how the girl must have felt... I'm creeping out and I was looking for a redeeming quality in the dude.
/r/seduction02/10/10 02:59 PM
1

Nice idea. Also, let me reiterate the idea of a separate subreddit (I commented above but not to you).
/r/seduction27/09/10 10:20 PM
2

Maybe a subreddit, like seddit_challenges or something
/r/seduction27/09/10 10:19 PM
1

mm OK, thanks!
/r/seduction27/09/10 10:15 PM
2

Argh help I tried to approach my first "put together" woman but couldn't get past the "hey that's a nice dress", so all I got was a smile (which was good!, but soo far from the challenge)
/r/seduction27/09/10 04:47 PM
4

"mixed set" - group of both men and women "two set" - group of 2 women "k-close" - kiss close, i.e. you get to make out
/r/seduction27/09/10 04:43 PM
2

This, what?
/r/seduction26/09/10 10:32 AM
2

beginner question: are we suppose to tell them we think they're "put together" and that is the reason for us wanting their opinion? Or should we open with something else and somehow steer the conversation to this subject?
/r/seduction24/09/10 08:43 AM
1

/sarcasm, I guess.
/r/seduction19/09/10 02:59 PM
1

Shit.
/r/seduction19/09/10 10:24 AM
2

I don't think she would refuse. But I also think she really did have a BF.
/r/seduction18/09/10 08:00 AM
1

Hey, my inspiration lead to a damn good post.
/r/seduction17/09/10 09:52 PM
3

Definitely a very natural reaction. Glad the girl wasn't the bitchy type. I kinda did something like this, only with nowhere near that level of confidence, but it went pretty well. I saw this ridiculously hot girl at the groceries section of a gas pump and fought with AA for about 2 minutes but I just had to open her. So eventually I threw myself in her direction and said "I can't believe you, and now that I don't have a GF" (or something awful like that). Anyway I continued with "please tell me…
/r/seduction17/09/10 03:07 PM
1

Oh this is from Throw? I had voted up not noticing, now I really really want to read it!
/r/seduction17/09/10 02:46 PM
5

I just wish the analogy was a tad more relevant to my world. 10 sports cars...
/r/seduction16/09/10 11:25 PM
1

I may have to friend you. I'm really liking your style. Why does reddit not like you?
/r/seduction13/09/10 10:40 AM
1

Yes age schmage. If you like the girl, that's all the permission you need. Well, that and she being of legal age wherever you are.
/r/seduction12/09/10 06:26 PM
2

Oh. That changes things. But, after the initial "hello" you got back, what was said?
/r/seduction12/09/10 06:24 PM
2

You were right.
/r/seduction10/09/10 02:15 PM
1

Yeah I'm seriously considering calling it all off. She says she doesn't understand why I would want to have such a detachment, but since those are the terms she agrees with them as she doesn't want me to be gone.
/r/seduction10/09/10 01:22 AM
1

I want my dick blown I want to get my confidence back to score with other chicks I want to have a good time. I'm not interested in her, but she's kinda helping in all those 3 counts.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:38 PM
1

One-itis? Hell no, what gave you that impression? She did sound that, that's why I wanted to be so adamant in explaining I didn't want a relationship. Good advice.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:36 PM
1

I basically meet very few girls. Home-work-home, almost no friends. And when I do, I'm usually AFC and afraid to go for the glory. Well who wouldn't, they're so rare to me (scarcity mentality FTL).
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:31 PM
2

** Update ** (same text as edited in OP) Yesterday she texted me saying she hates me, she never wants to see me again and that she was nothing more than a prostitute to me. Today she sent me a message I deleted without looking by mistake, and decided to call her and ask her about it since I was driving. Told me she had an awful night and couldn't sleep, her body was aching in several places (that's sex in a car for you) and she had taken a bath and scrub a lot but couldn't get my scent off of he…
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:29 PM
1

Well the "blew it" part was when I was driving her home and we didn't talk much after that. Agree 100% with your post.
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:22 PM
1

You should read the update - http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dbdj0/update_date_with_girl_im_not_attracted_to/ I do appreciate your post, though. Looking forward to hearing more of your opinions.
/r/seduction09/09/10 12:16 PM
1

Hey Throw nice to see you. Nice Guy (tm), hm? Oh well, guess I deserve that.
/r/seduction09/09/10 02:39 AM
2

No, whoever that is.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:44 AM
2

Thanks for that. Maybe it was all for the best.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:43 AM
1

Here's my sympathy upvote, man. That's rough.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:27 AM
3

I wish I could, more for her sake because I really didn't want to break her heart, but I don't think she'll ever believe me again. Not that I ever lied or mislead her, but I'm sure she'll just think I was trying to get in her pants again. Also possible, she might know exactly what I'm feeling (or have the general idea) but didn't want to get attached to someone who isn't that interested. Whichever the case, I'm going to respect her decision.
/r/seduction09/09/10 01:25 AM
3

She did call me at work .... (I didn't leave my number, but mentioned where I was employed). OK now I'm concerned.
/r/seduction08/09/10 09:08 PM
2

Ok, so how do I do that? If it comes up what should I say, if it doesn't come up what should I do / hint at?
/r/seduction08/09/10 08:30 PM
2

Your description could fit me. Thank you for the rooting, and boy do I need it. I'll hit the gym as hard as I can 3 days a week, I promise. Don't know about the rest though but if you want to motivate me for trying something I'll definitely listen.
/r/seduction04/09/10 06:15 PM
5

Nice, you're doing great. Loved the part where you blew out the girls that were ignoring you when they suddenly got interested. Small question, what is DTF?
/r/seduction03/09/10 01:15 PM
1

Yep. Been there done that (unfortunately). I guess it's all about calibrating our senses of what is a shit test and what isn't.
/r/seduction01/09/10 10:48 AM
1

Just think of it as "a 6 in the HB scale".
/r/seduction31/08/10 07:06 PM
1

I can pretty much imagine the responses you would get at Relationship_Advice, ha.
/r/seduction30/08/10 03:30 AM
2

OK dude!
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:01 PM
2

You're WHAT AGE again? Because I've never seen anyone look so young in a text report that I think is making us live a bit vicariously through you. Kudos sir.
/r/seduction29/08/10 04:42 PM
1

the woman I open is rather elderly, maybe 65, but what the hell [...] And now that I look at her, she's kind of hot too. Hmm.. she may be older than me, but I'd still do her. Hehe love it that you found a 65 years old hot.
/r/seduction29/08/10 04:34 PM
2

Influenced what I wore too. And I can't say it didn't work.
/r/seduction29/08/10 04:33 PM
2

Knowing not much of this "The Woman", or why you're obsessed with her, I'll reply to your question: Speaking the blunt truth to someone is often the best way to help them.
/r/seduction28/08/10 10:55 PM
1

It's not going out, she'll be working.
/r/seduction27/08/10 07:50 PM
1

* jelous *
/r/seduction27/08/10 03:06 PM
1

Thank you for that, because everyone who I talked about / experienced it (family, some exs) never saw anything like that and either get mad as fuck at me or don't know what to make of it. I always felt it was a good (the best) natural response, but it's great to have some confirmation.
/r/seduction27/08/10 09:57 AM
1

Laughing when others get angry is alpha? Yay found one good thing about me today :)
/r/seduction26/08/10 03:10 PM
17

Clap clap
/r/seduction25/08/10 11:08 AM
7

I'd just like to point out, in the first paragraph you're making it sound like all flirty people aren't intelligent and classy. Also, I don't see mentioned anywhere in the text that you feel intimidated. Would you mind expanding a bit into that?
/r/seduction24/08/10 04:55 PM
1

Stop masturbating.
/r/seduction21/08/10 10:11 PM
9

Just a thought, how about holding it and acting full on "faggoty", to the point where she's either laughing or regretting ever handing it to you?
/r/seduction21/08/10 06:21 PM
1

I think this is the definition of an ironic statement.
/r/seduction20/08/10 10:44 AM
2

Applauses all around. Keep posting progress. You'll be a ladies killer in no time :)
/r/seduction18/08/10 05:09 PM
3

You should switch to gmail.
/r/seduction17/08/10 10:46 PM
6

Thanks for the question, I never get to talk about this and my mind likes it. So let's try to recap events from some 2 years ago. I feel a mini-wall of text ahead. First off, Maybe I can tell you how I 'gained it'? I've always been very nerdy and afraid of socializing. I've always been a very intelligent semi-depressed dude with a non-existing romantic life. Oh, and very lazy. Somehow I found myself with a girlfriend and was even going to marry the bitch but fortunately we broke up. Shortly afte…
/r/seduction17/08/10 07:55 PM
3

Having been a bit up there, I gotta say all of those sound true to me. What can I add... You stop thinking things are impossible, you focus on how to accomplish them (for women and life in general). You're happy. You can feel it, you can say it to yourself and feel it's undoubtedly the truth. Big big change. You start paying a lot more attention to (qualifying?) a girl's personality rather than just her looks. You can see through the hotness and see the faults. Conversely, you'll appreciate a go…
/r/seduction17/08/10 05:09 PM
1

Portugal
/r/seduction15/08/10 11:06 AM
3

Yeah line of the day for sure.
/r/seduction13/08/10 12:49 PM
6

Your waiter seems pretty zen. Male or female? I'm guessing male.
/r/seduction13/08/10 12:48 PM
3

Thank you for saying that. I get really tired of my (male) friends saying "she's not worth much, she sleeps with a lot of people" and I just keep wondering "so?..."
/r/seduction11/08/10 05:42 PM
1

Next post from you, I'm grabbing popcorn^
/r/seduction01/08/10 02:11 PM
1

Do it then tell us how it was for you.
/r/seduction13/07/10 10:04 PM
16

I like it how you're so enthusiastic and happy about this. As opposed to the "this is hard work, but mew might pay off" attitude I typically see in guys. Actually, optimism and happiness seem to be a trend in guys who are successful with women.
/r/seduction13/07/10 03:41 PM
2

No, you don't. You sound fine to me just need to make it.
/r/seduction08/07/10 02:47 PM
3

You don't need to go out (though you should). Whenever you're at some situation where you have the chance, go for it. In the grocery line, on the beach, in a restaurant.... Whenever you feel an opportunity.
/r/seduction30/06/10 04:55 PM
4

Don't even think about it. The time to start being social is whenever you find the opportunity. Specially in the summer, man.
/r/seduction30/06/10 04:40 PM
1

Yeah I found that myself. Congrats on a better self.
/r/seduction29/06/10 09:08 PM
0

Watch VH1's "Tough Love".
/r/seduction21/06/10 09:49 AM
1

If you came in with cute girls, and they've all been laughing and having fun with you, you'll be able to get away with pretty much anything with other girls in the club. The only barrier is your own limiting beliefs. Really? This is new to me.
/r/seduction20/06/10 10:32 AM
3

Oh those challenges sound great. If you or anyone else wants a distant challenge buddy (trying to do them as well, just a few thousand Km appart), keeping in mind I'm really begginner level (not even that), I would love it.
/r/seduction19/06/10 09:03 AM
1

Thanks. EDIT: This is the first step towards getting out of the AFC zone, right? Or is there something that should come before?
/r/seduction18/06/10 02:48 PM
4

I see a girl I like and start playing the eyesmile game with her. What is the eyesmile game?
/r/seduction18/06/10 09:24 AM
2

I just want to say, based on your posts, that I really like your positive energy and points of view. I wish you hang around more so it may rub on me. I know it can. Sincerely, joazito.
/r/seduction17/06/10 09:25 PM
1

Wow I totally understand this. Thank you.
/r/seduction17/06/10 09:16 PM
5

A random one... I guess I have the fear of letting women I know suspect I'm attracted to them, thinking that will make them lose their comfort around me / stop wanting to talk to me.
/r/seduction17/06/10 07:59 AM
19

Your girlfriend gives you flirting tips?
/r/seduction16/06/10 06:53 PM
3

Wow nice thank you for writing that positive post.
/r/seduction13/06/10 10:05 PM
4

Haha I guess. So precariously means in bad condition, right? Which is what my skills are right now.
/r/seduction13/06/10 12:41 PM
9

Damn I loved reading that. No advice, just living precariously through that text (I'm very AFC). Man congrats, post more please.
/r/seduction13/06/10 12:26 PM
2

I seem to have struck a nerve with you, so I'm sorry for that. What?
/r/seduction11/06/10 12:04 AM
2

You're making valid posts individually, but I can't connect them and probably neither can rankking. So, the woman didn't leave because the conversation was interesting. Ok nice. The man acted beta because [still don't get it. He tried to be alpha and get you to leave, you wouldn't, so he left... what would have happened if he behaved alpha?]. EDIT: I read some more of your posts below and kinda see your point now. An alpha wouldn't really be bothered by the other guy, or try to get you to leave.…
/r/seduction09/06/10 03:57 PM
2

Hmm. I do like exercises where you have no bail out possible...
/r/seduction08/06/10 11:24 PM
1

I remember watching a beauty pageant in loco and commenting "I wish we got to hear them talk". This very good looking guy with the drop dead gorgeous wife turned to me, assumed I meant they were dumb, and said "see, you shouldn't assume these girls are dumb" and then cut me off. I did assume a few things from him after that line, none nice. I was one of the smart kids of my class growing up. Until evidence to the contrary, I never assumed anyone was any more or less smart than me. Not that it ma…
/r/seduction08/06/10 06:25 PM
2

Yeah maybe I'm doing it wrong (and I don't care if I am) but the number one thing I got from the PUA community is to be a sort of super myself. There are training wheels, and many, but they all lead (should lead?) to a bigger connection between two people.
/r/seduction07/06/10 03:52 PM
1

Nailed it.
/r/seduction04/06/10 05:36 PM
1

How come?
/r/seduction03/06/10 04:57 PM
1

Me too. What I did was write a short story with fictional character that mimic the situation, metaphorically. Now it's easy to analyze why I reacted like I did, and I can forgive myself. Not too sure how to recover the lost-of-frame witnesses. I guess recovering my frame and possibly explaining them exactly how the child inside triggered it all might help. Also, I'm going to fuck them out of their senses when I have the opportunity.
/r/seduction02/06/10 11:40 AM
1

Thank you. That makes my feelings feel that extra bit validated :). Also, I've had a good night's sleep and my mental stamina has recovered. (mental note: stop watching TV in bed - rest!)
/r/seduction30/05/10 02:31 PM
1

Thank you :). That conclusion, even though misspelled (hehe just poking a bit of fun) combined with the smiley really lifted my spirits. Genuine thank you :). I love smiles. I guess I miss them too.
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:54 AM
1

Wait wait wait, the teen wasn't the target, just a random person giving me a compliment. I'm not gonna make a strong bond with the 3rd person, that's completely out of the question. There is no possibility of jealousy here. I might with the EX, but she's not at all interested and frankly neither am I. Good sex is what we all want, frankly. (Well, and in my case, I would like to get my fix for thinking I'm attractive i guess...) Now that I think about, that has been a constant flux of problems fo…
/r/seduction29/05/10 12:02 AM
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Really? That seems too simple to be true...
/r/seduction25/05/10 05:34 PM
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Thank you, that was nice to read and motivational.
/r/seduction24/05/10 11:24 PM
1

Actually I don't do that either. I read this in some romance guru book, could try finding the actual source if you'd like, but paraphrasing it was like this: When a girl asks me what I do for a living I answer some thing like M&M supervisor or batman's stunt double (point being, something obviously not true but funny). The reason is that the real explanation, besides being boring, has no practical use in the dating context. If you tell her you're a succesfull whatever, you're just getting set up…
/r/seduction24/05/10 09:19 PM
1

This is what I do when my dad interrupts and it works magic, I'm not sure if I can pull it off in front of unknowns.
/r/seduction24/05/10 11:59 AM
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About the money: stop showing signs of having money. Not that I have much, but I certainly don't show/talk about anything that might lead to girls thinking I may have some. Quite the opposite in fact. About STDs mindset: I guess it's ok to think girls can have STDs. Some do. Always wear a condom and all that. If you get in a relationship, you should both get tested. About not approaching: I'm there as well. I wish you were in my neighborhood so I could motivate the both of us.
/r/seduction24/05/10 11:54 AM
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I have one-itis (ex who I disrespected and won't give me another chance). I'm pretty much in a home->work->home routine. I guess I'm semi-depressed and don't feel like leaving the house, besides it's scary out there alone. Some 2-3 years ago, after stumbling into some stuff by David DeAngelo, I was able to become this sort of magical creature that essentially loved himself and, although had only a superficial understanding of game, seemed to always have fun and was fearless in connecting with ot…
/r/seduction23/05/10 11:44 AM
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Frankly, I think it works. Because I'm happy, caring, daring, intelligent, playful, a good person, honest... Wow and I'm pretty low in my self esteem at this point. This seems pretty magic.
/r/seduction20/05/10 11:39 PM
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Oh that was crazy fun. Awesome and I wish that happened to me.
/r/seduction20/05/10 05:54 PM
3

"Vicky Christina Barcelona" - Or is that the other way around? ;)
/r/seduction16/05/10 09:04 AM
1

It means... oh boy here comes the part that I usually hide from people. For a very long time, I have got by by doing the minimum. That means: I don't put an effort towards achieving goals; I can't trust myself to commit to anything; For instance, I would like to work 1 hour daily in my pet website project - by day 2, I just hit the couch and watch TV/ play poker. Even when I am working, I do the minimum (sometimes less) to basically get the work done. I'm usually not very honest to myself or oth…
/r/seduction14/05/10 09:48 AM
1

Whoa that is a many many levels above what I... have thought about? (I'm new here) Anyway it seems like a nice plan. I'll dismiss the 3 girls at the same time thing. Making out with 3 different girls in the same night? I have never made it with 1 (in a "bar/club, just known her" circumstance), let alone 3. I would like to be your friend :) (for expanding the possibilities of my mind) Anyway, lazy slob that I am, to honor what was a nice and well directed message I am going to get some nice cloth…
/r/seduction13/05/10 05:15 PM
1

yes. Me wants.
/r/seduction13/05/10 12:24 PM
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