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[–]BarronVonSnooples 21 points22 points23 points 15 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
We do it because we enjoy talking to women and feeling confidence. You know how you feel when you see a super hot girl and you can't imagine building up the courage to even talk to her - much less get her number or even take her home? Imagine being the kind of guy which that kind of girl feels the same way about. THAT's why we do this. This isn't solely about 'how to successfully hit on women', this is about reaching the highest levels of self-realization so you can lead your life in the direction YOU want to go, not the other way around.
[–]tagus 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
i once read in a book about poetry that "mathematical rigor is an illusion"
[–]ProBonoPUA 3 points4 points5 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Relevant, and yet somehow completely unimportant.
If we analogize mathematics to be equivalent to pickup, then we're the mathematicians that demonstrate full rigor and then some because we're enjoying life too damn much. Sure, you might argue that pickup is unnecessary, bigoted, silly, or even stupid (and all of these are true on some level), but the fact is that this is what we enjoy doing, and we think it helps us. You might as well tell us there is no purpose to life.
[–]MothershipConnection 3 points4 points5 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a bizarre post, because I can't understand what exactly you are talking about. Could you not open up and talk to a pretty girl? Could you not hold a conversation with someone you find attractive? Did you whip your dick out and find yourself completely incapable of having sex?
All I can say is this. There is nothing wrong with enjoying yourself with people you like and are attracted to, whether it's sexually or just even talking to them. In fact, considering that you're the result of several billion years of successful reproduction, I have to say it's pretty much your goddamn destiny. It's not a big deal, because everyone does it, and everyone has been doing it for a long time into the past. Enjoy your life while you have it, and if enjoying the company of attractive people is something you want to do (it is for most people), do it while you can.
[–]joazito 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This, what?
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 15 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Wait, you mean try to pick up, meet, and take home women? I thought most men like to do that. What do you like to do with women?
[–]senatorkneehi -4 points-3 points-2 points 15 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Maybe he likes to meet them in a non-intoxicated environment, develop an interest in them as complete individuals, date them and then take them to bed for some spectacular not-at-all-jackhammery-and-smothered-in-Ed-Hardy sex that doesn't reek of panic in the morning when one person realizes that the white guy with a soul patch forgot to tell him what to do once he actually caught the car.
Or maybe he's like a total loser, brah.
[–]intjpua 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Have you seen any Ed Hardy types at seddit, brah?
[–]senatorkneehi 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I haven't actually seen anyone at seddit.
[–]mysedditaccount 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I fuggin hate ed hardy types. just throwin that out there.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do what exactly? Approach a girl? Escalate physically? Providing context to what you couldn't get yourself to do will get you advice on how to go about it.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sheesh, you make it sound like you're talking about coprophagia. You really know how to make a guy feel special.... To respond to your question, I don't think there is a single reason why "us people" do it. Everyone has their own motivation; some genuinely enjoy the company of gorgeous women, some really like getting laid, some see it as a form of self-improvement, and yes, some guys are just skeezy.
So, what's your story?
[–]mitigateaccomp -4 points-3 points-2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I actually agree, and commend you for not "getting it". Some men prefer quantity over quality, and some men prefer quality over quantity. Be yourself. Have fun. Enjoy experiences as they arise.
But never try to fit into the "mold" of what a "man" is.
[+]issem -8 points-7 points-6 points 15 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yea, it's all kinda slimy
[–]intjpua 0 points1 point2 points 15 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be specific. Which post(s) at seddit do you find slimy? You say "all", but I find that hard to believe. Have you actually read any of the posts and commentary?
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