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This sub banned me for male centric advice on an old account so it's not better here. Mod was pissed I didn't just join a pity party
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/22 08:39 PM
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Some add their name in reports, or message mods as well with links
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 11:36 PM
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Pua material, so they can explain wns answer with more detail
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 06:39 PM
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oh, it makes perfect sense why... would just hate for the message to be lost because the voice is similar to this guy I will say though, after seeing all the different ways guys online protect themselves from Doxxing, I'd rather yours than what you see the MRA types doing now. that sarkkan graphic, the skull kool aid man, the eye patch, etc. promise me you'll never put a picture of the kool aid man behind your videos
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 05:52 PM
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If you would like some feedback from a first time listener. I see you say you change your voice for these things. I assume you're raising it? Is there anyway to go the other way? Because it sounds fairly nasal, and reminds me of the voice of that guy on youtube, I think his name is francais, yells a lot. Other than that, like it. Maybe turn down the levels a bit, the higher volume stuff seems to just be spilling over into the red, and it distorts sleightly. I'm not an audio guy, I think I'm talk…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 03:21 PM
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to be fair, he only admitted that her breath stinks... though I'ts not a huge leap to assume that her teeth aren't the only thing neglected
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:22 AM
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I thought that was opinions... Either way, it works here.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:21 AM
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Had to save this one... if it wern't for the fear of brigading, this is the kind of post that would actually belong in a bestof post...
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:18 AM
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so there was a study. Can't remember which university, but it was talking about the psychology of the glenn gary, glen ross speech... most guys took the alex baldwin type speech (in a lab, not just watching the movie) and took it defensively. Basically, fuck that guy, he's an asshole, and proceeded to defend each others ego. there was a smaller group, took it as a call to action. To the point where someone had a fire lit under their ass, for even being in a position where someone could come up t…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:15 AM
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ISIS has maybe one thing in common with WW2 germany, and thats a great PR campaign. Probably best to ignore most you see from them, check out /r/syriancivilwar... they tend to be better info than the news
/r/MensRights28/05/15 11:58 PM
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Then what reason is there for someone under 85? I'm not saying the job isn't worthy of social respect... it's just not the same ballpark as grandfathers fighting the nazis
/r/MensRights28/05/15 07:20 PM
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should have kept it up there, theres not many times you can talk about it without sounding like an unappreciative dick to the guy thanking you
/r/MensRights28/05/15 02:01 PM
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Theres just no way for you to respond, and it feels empty, but is coming from a good enough place that you have to be kind about it. It would be like me thanking doctors for saving lives. they do, but it's just an odd thing, and it really hasn't benefitted you enough to warrant a thanking. Honestly, you'd be better off thanking your local cop
/r/MensRights28/05/15 02:25 AM
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Thank you for your service. I may be alone in this, but people really need to stop that. I get the sentiment, but it just doesn't sit well with me, and is more awkward than appreciative for me.
/r/MensRights26/05/15 03:15 PM
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how about you fix the faucet because you are the kind of guy who takes care of his house? This isn't about every trivial whim that you should already have figured out, it's about not having to hear obvious things parroted back to you.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:55 PM
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I believe the official statement coming out of the south was states freedom... to own slaves.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 08:33 PM
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seems so out of character :)
/r/MensRights27/02/14 11:26 PM
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So she accused members of this sub coordinating that crap. I don't see mention. Are neckbeards running amok?
/r/MensRights27/02/14 09:28 PM
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Once you get your numbers past a bakers dozen, the novelty wears off.
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:37 PM
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Thats because you are ignoring opportunity. They aren't polar opposittes, its about a mindset. It assumes you are going to be social, and not every time you talk to a girl, you try to get laid, it makes you more casual and fun, this ends up getting you laid more. There's nothing wrong with liking sex, but everyone you approach isn't a hole to stick it in. It's someone you see if they are up to your standards, and since you are having fun, so long as they add to it, they deserve your time
/r/seduction30/09/12 10:37 PM
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fuckinmg broken arm. wingwomen rock, just go with it
/r/seduction28/08/12 01:07 PM
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more than anything. i used to pick up boy girl friends with her all the time, and a huge signal that you arent dangerous, just establish that you dont like friend
/r/seduction28/08/12 12:49 AM
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she wants you to be a man, and doemt want someonwe to placate her, why dishusted?
/r/seduction26/08/12 04:46 PM
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True, but more than one number a night became much harder, plus, I remember the exercise where you would compare numbers from your first month, to 5 months later, showing your progression in openers, and basic IOI
/r/seduction24/08/12 12:31 AM
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well their intention is to get people past their inhibitions, whether the person is snake oil or not, that one statement won't tell you much. And lately, no, but I started in the late 90's so you're probably the green one between us. I still remember when the advice was to bring a pen to the bar, since no one had cell phones, and didn't have any social media, everything was literally either bridging, phone game, or events. So I actually agree with that statement, if you take care of yourself, lo…
/r/seduction23/08/12 10:44 PM
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Absolutely no PUA says that, unless you truly have found a hack. I remember the mantra well. You won't get 'that' girl, but you will get 'more' girls.
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:58 PM
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status moreso. Physical appearance is something mostly guys put at the top of a list. At best, it gives you an easier opener as eye candy. Not to be confused with taking care of yourself, if you can't run a mile or lift a weight, brush your teeth or cut your hair, that's going to cost you.
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:57 PM
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Its not bullshit. If you have good hygene, have taken care of yourself exercise wise, and dress well, then yes, looks don't matter. However, if you are overweight, a slob, dress like a teenager, or have bad breath because you don't brush your teeth, of course it's going to matter. Have a six pack and a square jaw, plus those baby blues? It'll help, but only offers you a buy on your openers. Women are attracted to status, not looks, thats a male tenancy.
/r/seduction23/08/12 09:54 PM
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I've constantly fought over the inner game aspect, which for some reason, is not emphasised here, I agree with you completely. Though even back in the 90s when this was new, other than Tyler Durdin, most of the others realized the building yourself first was key, and the rest was just a way of empathizing with the female mindset to get everyone what they want out of a situation. From what I've been told, even TD has come out of it a better person, after some soul searching. Even if you followed …
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:38 PM
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I always got them for free from work, and most of my friends were too chicken shit to grab them, so I would take them by the handful, always had one on hand when I needed it. Hell, I've been with my current for 3 years, and we are still finding condoms around the house (haven't used them with her since she moved in 2 years ago) I have to have the 'no, im not cheating on you' speech usually once a month. Just don't have the time for a whole other round of PUA while I have this one at home lol
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:22 PM
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safety first assholes! I got lucky on the handful of times I wasn't prepared, but many aren't
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:16 PM
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Don't know why they downvoted you, inner game is the most important part, and supposed to be the reason guys are in here. Otherwise, you're no better than those idiots who are just here to trick girls into bed that keep getting brought up by femenists as the evil of seduction.
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:14 PM
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Engage the friend, you are going to get blocked hard if you don't approve, you've got to head the mother hen off at the pass, which has the additional benefit of getting the first girl slightly jealous of the attention she isn't getting. Especially if the other one is the less attractive one, since she is used to getting all the boys over her anyway. Just play it like you are talking to a group, and be gentle on the negs, since friends will stick up for each other if you push these too far
/r/seduction23/08/12 06:13 PM
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I sounds like you need to work on inner game first. build yourself up until you are stable, confident in your abilities, and mostly... stable. then work on chicks
/r/seduction23/08/12 01:44 PM
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yeah, not fucking them, going out all the time and having fun, picking up together, I don't know how one could think of that as a bad thing. Not sure what is bad about them, other than my last one (before the SO) bought this stupid beach cruiser, but never biked on it once, took up so much room.
/r/seduction21/08/12 02:09 AM
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then you've had some shitty female roommates. I've had three, and none of them ended up bumping uglies with me, infact, 2 of them had been the best wingmen ever. Not to say when they got drunk I wouldn't see them flash, but it was all in good fun.
/r/seduction20/08/12 11:29 PM
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yeah, it's like judging race car driving by looking at the bimbo texting in midtown traffic
/r/seduction19/08/12 02:59 PM
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That tells us nothing. Did he use an opener, or assume that just by being there, he would get IOI? Did he escalate? It sounds like an AFC just walked up to two girls, and attempted to become a third. That's not even game
/r/seduction19/08/12 12:05 AM
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first off, look for girls who come with a friend, not many friends. Second, use your outdoor voice, third, don't ask girls to dance. Fourth, if you want intimate, the smoking area is usually where you go. Finally, life is always a crapshoot, don't forget that.
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:11 PM
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Have fun, enjoy times with your friends, and chat up girls when you are bored, or a situation presents itself.
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:27 PM
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I kind of thought of him as Brian Benben in Dream on, only drinks and smokes.
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:36 PM
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he's right, take that advice, it's the best you'll find on here
/r/seduction16/08/12 04:36 PM
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isn't she an ex for a reason?
/r/seduction13/08/12 06:26 PM
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then work on your inner game. If you are boring, there's a reason, and hitting on chicks isn't going to fix that. People can go without smoking and drinking without being boring. There are adventure activities, cultured pursuits, hell, even being that intellegent book nerd has it's charm, gym rat, whatever. If you're boring, work on that, not on seduction, you have to crawl before you walk.
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:31 PM
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Let me get this straight. You want to frame the conversation as purely sexual, without coming across as promiscuous. You also are upfront about this, and think it's a paradox when the woman you are with starts to develop feelings? This is not brain surgery, you've been clear about your intentions, and if you don't want to come across as a playboy, or being uninterested with her, other than as a sex object, then you're probably better off wanting her as something other than a sex object. That, by…
/r/seduction13/08/12 02:24 PM
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being alpha had nothing to do with how others perceive your actions. you do things because they are the honest representation of your self. alpha men don't try to game breaking someone's off
/r/seduction12/08/12 03:37 AM
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yeah, you don't know women at all do you. Honestly OP, most of this advice applies, except for a few changes. While girls are attracted to status, guys are attracted to looks, so you're going to have a more physical game than what you see on here. Beyond that, so many things still work: Guys still want to have a prize Confident guys who get a lot of girls are going to hear compliments all the time, negging is especially effective, 'hard to get' et al since guys tend to be more direct, the IOI ar…
/r/seduction11/08/12 01:08 PM
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no, just make exuses as to why it isn't your fault, you'd rather be right than learn. am done though, gonna res block now bye
/r/seduction11/08/12 03:54 AM
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only someone who wants to be. I don't know where this idea that people are 'tricking' girls into bed, all it is is empathizing with the oppositte sex. If a girl truly isn't interested in anything, no amount of game is going to change that.
/r/seduction10/08/12 07:37 PM
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umm, have you read any of the material? Your failure is obviously the ability to read people. You can't ask them anyway, most girls wouldn't know what to tell you. When you do things, you obviously aren't looking for IOI, or IOD. You aren't paying attention to when you're getting eye contact, and when you're getting the polite brush off. When someone starts closing off vs opening up via their bodies. All these things are the way women instintually show you interest. Considering you even have a c…
/r/seduction10/08/12 06:52 PM
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yeah, so long as you're learning something, you just have to soldier on. Chances are if you are getting snake eyes, it's something you aren't doing. So you can either take an honest look at yourself, and fix your shortcomings, or you can sulk and start to resent chicks, blaming them instead of yourself. It's only depressing because you haven't embrassed failure as a teacher.
/r/seduction10/08/12 05:44 PM
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You're depressed because your ego doesn't like rejection. that's no ones fault but your own. Power through and become a better man for it.
/r/seduction10/08/12 12:48 PM
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All aboard the HMAS Circlejerk. All hands, on the karma deck
/r/MensRights02/06/12 01:01 AM
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.3 repeater
/r/MensRights06/05/12 08:03 AM
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even the premise is ridiculous. It's never the stranger, it's 99% of the time uncle/aunt touchie that ends up doing something. If anything, the stranger is the safer bet.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 08:00 AM
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I am Liam Neeson, AMA.
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:56 AM
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the downtrodden often take refuge in that they can have power over those who fall enough to be in a position of weakness. It's like fast food. An easy moral indignation, in that society will back them, and the worries of retribution are null and void. A more sophisticated version of the father who beats the mother, who then beats the kids for being troublesome, and feeling good about providing discipline in their lives, and an example for their peers
/r/MensRights06/05/12 07:53 AM
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Cmon, you have to admit, it's simplistic, but I wouldn't get my panties in a bunch over it.
/r/MensRights09/02/12 11:21 PM
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It seems an awful lot like you are trying to find information to prove something right, when you could be just putting any credible information up there, and letting it be neutral
/r/MensRights27/06/11 09:01 PM
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I would disagree, respectfully. Both sides are doing the same thing, playing the victim card and playing off of each other. There is this sense of entitlement, that has an internal logic to it (which is insane when looked at objectively) and isn't interested in fixing anything, but just getting more and more justification for their viewpoints. The issue is the same issue for everyone in the middle of this, and neither extreme is making it any fucking easier. Equal opportunity for everyone. Sure,…
/r/MensRights16/06/11 08:52 PM
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in the same amounts that there are men who think they are being persecuted as a gender. I find that by talking about these fringe retards, it kind of gives them validity, and it only makes the issue worse.
/r/MensRights16/06/11 08:38 PM
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his post mentions nothing about blame. It was a trend he noticed about gender negotiations, and tips for others not to fall for it.
/r/MensRights16/06/11 05:59 PM
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blame the victim huh? When someone else acts immorally, that should stand on it's own, and falling to a little instigation by (female behaviour) is an immature copout. A real (hu)man should be above such petty things
/r/MensRights07/06/11 05:23 PM
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I think he's right, while it may be a symptom of the problem we are all in agreeance with, you're kind of stretching it.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 05:21 PM
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not one bit. Fear of confrontation and rejection would make more sense than giving us the compassion card.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 04:47 PM
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don't do that with girls either :) it sounds like you are bragging, and it's not good DHV
/r/seduction22/10/10 02:58 AM
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I want to prove her wrong... any tips? stop trying to get validation and be a man.
/r/seduction22/10/10 02:32 AM
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Well, good job, I guess. I would really like it when you up it a little and actually stop needing the acceptance of women for your self worth. Inner game is more important than any of the things you will learn. I've worked well doing nothing but having a good sense of self worth, and it should be your end game dude :)
/r/seduction15/10/10 04:31 PM
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just study psych activites, they are posted everywhere, a lot of the time it has some tidbits of info
/r/seduction08/10/10 04:13 PM
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never had the need for another game. It's always better to have one or two you do really well then a huge amount you only do sporadically imo
/r/seduction08/10/10 03:14 AM
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how do you know if a firefighter is at your party? don't worry, he'll tell you
/r/seduction27/09/10 02:36 PM
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I still don't agree. You are still basing your happiness on the reactions of another, and have completely ignored inner game. This is the big part of PUA that gives it any fight against the 'you just trick girls into bed' argument And honestly, I am a hard Neg, but still do just fine, but only because my happiness has nothing to do with the other person. This isn't to say I shouldn't have empathy or be socially aware though.
/r/seduction23/09/10 05:30 PM
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If you don't want to be friends, there really isn't a need to respond again.
/r/seduction22/09/10 07:55 PM
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nope. All I can say for sure is he has a bad taste in women, or that she is very good at playing her cards to her chest.
/r/seduction17/09/10 02:29 PM
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oh, it follows. It's a perfect example of why nice guys finish last. The opposite of love is not hate, its apathy. having said that, when most people say nice guy what they really mean is someone who doesn't emotionally engage a girl
/r/seduction16/09/10 09:35 PM
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Just take what everyone says and chop 2 off the top. Done.
/r/seduction14/09/10 04:14 PM
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for fuck sakes people! You don't need a womans permission on this stuff, if I wanted that, I would have subscribed to mensrights or mysogeny. BTW, could we at least get a FR for this fight? I missed the whole thing aparently.
/r/seduction07/09/10 08:07 PM
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Staunch away.
/r/seduction07/09/10 02:05 AM
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This is the worst advice ever. EVER. Girls don't like men who don't know how to go after a woman. Being their friend has put you into a friend zone, and you will not get out of it. You think you are being subtle, but they have already assumed you are a friend, so you are fucked. Be a man, act like a man, taunt them, but they have to think of you as a prize they need to win, not a god damn suprise 5 months after they meet you.
/r/seduction06/09/10 04:27 AM
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no way! It's his mad PUA skillz :\
/r/seduction24/08/10 02:23 AM
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Fuck everything about that. This isn't game, this is a train wreck on an Iphone
/r/seduction23/08/10 01:28 AM
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My god. You are one up on almost all the new guys on here. The inner game is the most important, and most undervalued aspect of PUA. And it sounds like it's where your putting your focus Kudos! And remember, sometimes getting the f close can be less fun than not... been there, and its always a good story.
/r/seduction22/08/10 04:30 PM
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I do it all the time, just smile and don't act offended, its amazing what you can say and get away with it.
/r/seduction21/08/10 04:27 PM
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When guys get sex, the challenge is more fun. When you turn down your first vag, you'll understand.
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:36 PM
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I often assumed the stuff was interchangeable. Though the common thread I find is that women have much more opportunity to practice these things, and are generally better, and this is developed to level the playing field. Though the concepts are generally the same (minus LMR obviously)
/r/seduction17/08/10 03:35 PM
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this guy seems to be the same, minus violent.
/r/seduction17/08/10 05:36 AM
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then you need to understand subtext.
/r/seduction08/08/10 08:04 PM
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doh!
/r/seduction31/07/10 08:40 PM
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Just like PUA, only you don't need to build rapport, don't get punished for occasionally letting her lead, and you have to have more stories :)
/r/seduction31/07/10 07:16 PM
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Tell me about it. I mentioned the cube here and everyone treated me like I showed up to the bar in a zoot suit.
/r/seduction28/07/10 04:57 AM
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fucking relationships. I'm out for a year and I'm completely in the dark again!
/r/seduction28/07/10 03:54 AM
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well he was an author for the new york times, and best is a subjective term. how would you even rank them? Id say most memorable. Besides, I thought he settled down with one of courtney loves band members?
/r/seduction28/07/10 02:38 AM
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Huh... Flat out fuck off huh? I think you don't understand the neg.
/r/seduction26/07/10 07:18 PM
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got to love a second level shit test!
/r/seduction24/07/10 02:21 AM
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depends on the girl. Some girls can't drive a standard, some can. Your statement is a little too expansive to give a good answer
/r/seduction23/07/10 08:25 PM
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doens't matter. A lot of girls like getting seduced. They know what you're doing, but it's ok. Same as watching the theatre. You know it's not real, but you enjoy it anyway.
/r/seduction23/07/10 07:16 PM
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I seriously have no idea why Inner game isn't discussed here... At all. It's that part of it that takes your emulation to the next level. You practice alpha, and work on yourself. The inner game is what makes you alpha, and the rest is stuff to do before you get there, plain and simple.
/r/seduction23/07/10 07:15 PM
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best not to think of it like a sleight on your honour. I would strongly suggest playing the carefree role, though you still have to take charge. She expects you to have a problem with it, since she would as well. And if you act hostile in any way, why would she even consider being with you in any way? I mean if something small like this sets you off ... play it like it doesn't bother you (since it shouldn't) I wouldn't pick that as the thing to tease about either (though maybe asking if she will…
/r/seduction09/07/10 03:54 PM
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Rule number 1: Never let them see you sweat. A blowoff means she is trying to get rid of you. Being busy and trying to reschedule is something else. Don't respond to the shit test and carry on. Just don't let her dictate the terms.
/r/seduction09/07/10 03:31 PM
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Yeah, but I'm also in the Navy, and a supervisor(MS), so I am not sure which direction it came from, probably a combination.
/r/seduction08/07/10 03:24 PM
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yeah, I agree social value and status are different things.
/r/seduction06/07/10 12:17 AM
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bikers have status. Status isn't a damn harvard grad with a blue blazer, it's just a leader of men, or at the very least, capable of being one. You can be the college student who always has the best parties, the manager at work that everyone looks up to. You can be the biker that makes others cross the street to avoid you, the bouncer that decides who gets into the bar. Status is just simply a social way to differentiate an alpha from a beta.
/r/seduction05/07/10 04:07 PM
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the pool boy has status. It's just alpha male status. It's not about having money, it's being the best example of either a fuck, or a relationship. The first one, you should be statused sexually , the second, have status in the classical sense.
/r/seduction05/07/10 04:06 PM
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funny how I hadn't thought of that one before. Seems obvious in hindsight.
/r/seduction29/06/10 11:48 PM
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Such is life. :)
/r/seduction24/06/10 03:58 AM
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totally. My boss told me first day on the job. act like you know what you are doing, and eveyrone will believe you. so act like you are amused with everything you do, and everyone else will as well. of course actually being amused would be better
/r/seduction24/06/10 03:25 AM
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I only remember the article talked about women, and how attractive ones stay single longer. Since unatractive and overweight ones understand the hurdle they have to cross, and are much stronger at keeping a guy and marrying early. Attractive ones are used to having the pick of the litter, so tend not to pick until later, the problem being everyones out by the time they are ready. Different situation, but I have seen a lot of uglier dudes and chicks than me get a lot more tail, just because they …
/r/seduction24/06/10 01:16 AM
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call her on it. 'I'm not going to play into your games' but in a flirtatious way has worked for me in the past.
/r/seduction24/06/10 12:57 AM
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nice guys == scared. being nice and kind is not a barrier to getting women, but being scared of rejection and confrontation... is
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:52 PM
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they will fuck one they don't care for to get back at one they do, however.
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:51 PM
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Brought to you by the center of guesswork and subtle woman issues.
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:51 PM
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lot's of woman and men have learned that you can make up for attractiveness with tenacity. (to a degree)
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:41 PM
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A.K.A. any degree that guarantees you will not get a job after.
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:40 PM
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i like blowjobs and anal sex, I think they can save their virtue after that right?
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:40 PM
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going for an alpha male is lowering your standards?
/r/seduction23/06/10 09:38 PM
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go use it in the field. By asking others without trying it, you are performing mental masturbation, which defeats the purpose of learning. Good luck man!
/r/seduction22/06/10 09:23 PM
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Say what you want, or what you mean. You are studied in PUA, but still don't want to say what you mean, and mean what you say?
/r/seduction22/06/10 06:02 PM
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fair enough
/r/seduction22/06/10 03:37 AM
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If you look to the right, you can see a glossary of terms. I kept it acronym heavy for brevity.
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:03 PM
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Indicator of disinterest Indicator of Interest
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:03 PM
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she is a sore winner though, loves to rub it in. (no pun intended)
/r/seduction20/06/10 11:08 PM
1

lol, theres more out there, trust me. Theres another story about her trying to makeout with my buddies fience (gf at the time) but neither one reckognized each other, but that's for another time.
/r/seduction20/06/10 11:08 PM
1

its a game where you can get to know a girl, but making it more pleasant than just asking questions like an interview.
/r/seduction20/06/10 11:06 PM
2

Granted, no Mother hen, not much for shit tests. a 7 is easier than a 9. Theres been harder, but it was fun to practice again.
/r/seduction20/06/10 08:09 PM
1

Don't get drunk, and if you don't know how not to look like a jackass when you go out, might be best to work on inner game.
/r/seduction18/06/10 04:40 PM
1

Wasn't like that at all for me. I just dated and fucked around a lot, and I was getting bored with it. PUA rekindled my interest, now it was a game, something I could do, get better at, learn and have some fun. My only fear was boredom. And it was a wonderful fear that made me more interesting as a side effect.
/r/seduction17/06/10 10:47 PM
3

Say thank you, then move on. PUA doesn't trump polite.
/r/seduction15/06/10 05:14 PM
1

my posting, or lack of, has no bearing on the accuracy or usefulness of yours.
/r/seduction11/06/10 09:54 PM
7

Yup, I would never pick a girl with that low of a self esteem, well... at least longer than a week.
/r/seduction11/06/10 04:22 PM
5

I think you're confusing emotional escalation with old fashioned chivalry. Every Time I see your posts I facepalm, every time.
/r/seduction11/06/10 04:21 PM
-2

I don't like to date a girl unless shes a prize, I consider it a prerequesite for me.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:32 PM
1

working with others. Most guys I have seen who want to get better at it have the hardest time breaking bad habits. Mind you, I am sure it can go the other way too.
/r/seduction09/06/10 05:11 PM
3

gimmie time, I got 4 classes and a full time job, plus I have lent all my books to a friend ;)
/r/seduction09/06/10 03:03 PM
1

Start with simple. Touch the forearm. Simple way is if you want to agree with something she has said. Carefuly what you agree with though, there's a difference between agreeing that you guys had a great time, or that the dude over there didn't have a chance with her, but you don't want to seem like you're doing an IOI. Then upper arms, shoulders. Personally i stay pretty close to them, it's kino, they are sensitive, and you don't have a chance of blowing it early if you misread here IOIs
/r/seduction09/06/10 04:32 AM
3

I wonder if a lot of the guys on seddit actually read the stuff like this. Can't wait to see the tie in articles about shit tests and LMR. It's the boring stuff thats the most fun to know out there on the field imo
/r/seduction09/06/10 04:29 AM
2

fair enough. Haven't really been in the game for about a year. I caught onto the inner game aspect and went with it, the rest just fell into place. I was never a fan of the guys doing it to battle demons. Good for him then.
/r/seduction08/06/10 03:15 PM
3

everyone after you will thank you. Screwing with peoples heads is best left up to the pope.
/r/seduction08/06/10 05:13 AM
1

that seems like a question that answers itself. :) In my experience, i haven't seen a girl who talks like that about someone unless he is extremely creepy, at which point she probably wouldn't be hanging out with him at all. I hope the OP knows this person enough to be able to judge what kind of pivot/wingman she could be, if he wants to go that route. On a personal note, I don't like the situation to begin with, not dating materia, and not worth being friends with, just discussing what he can g…
/r/seduction08/06/10 05:12 AM
0

great, he's notorious? Hang my head in troll shame
/r/seduction08/06/10 05:10 AM
1

She has to think you are great, but a female freind doesn't have to want you, the other girl simply sees that this woman sees something in you, possibly getting a sales pitch on her behalf about how great you are. Good, yes, but not necessary.
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:51 AM
2

hell, hit a few. I'm up to about 13. Some less than a week unfortunately.
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:24 AM
1

I fall for it every time. At least I'm not imagining things.
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:22 AM
1

no she doesn't, she's there so you can get over the preselected by woman hurdle. She doesn't have to be into you for it.
/r/seduction08/06/10 12:21 AM
23

You completely missed real confidence, but summed up the 'fake it till you make it' part. How about Accomplish things: get promotion, get a job with subordinates where you have a leadership role, go skydiving or other things that take balls. Take care of yourself: work out, run a half marathon, play a sport, and play to win, take care of your skin, eat well, wear clothes and wear them properly And as a sub for the clothing: know how to wear a suit, know how to take care of leather shoes. Learn a…
/r/seduction07/06/10 09:24 PM
3

Troll, Should have guessed. /facepalm. Well done.
/r/seduction07/06/10 09:12 PM
1

It was put more eloquently here, and it sums it up nicely And here And I don't give a shit if you respond at all, and would have preferred you didn't for your sake. It was a rhetorical question, and there was no right way to respond to it without looking insecure and easily offended.
/r/seduction07/06/10 08:24 PM
3

yeah, she doesn't sound like much of a winner either. Unless you just want to fuck and move on, but that kind of thing doesn't happen at this point, she has already boxed you as a friend.
/r/seduction07/06/10 07:41 PM
1

you honestly sound like you have ignored inner game. You aren't ready yet. go work on yourself and then worry about the rest.
/r/seduction07/06/10 07:40 PM
4

you're an idiot. That makes no sense, and your assumptions are way off, you either have never been in this situation, and are performing mental masturbation, or really have no ability to be social. Ultimatums are weak, girls don't like to be put in uncomfortable situations, and that is one of them. Tell you what, you explain to me how you can engage a woman emotionally in a positive way by threatening to leave her unless she gets intimate, and I'll apologize.
/r/seduction07/06/10 07:39 PM
1

Walk up to 50 random girls a day on the street and ask them the time. Thank them after. Build confidence to walk up to everyone First exercise. you don't need a coach, you need to be confident enough to sarge until you can get a network
/r/seduction07/06/10 05:55 PM
7

you lost a while ago. You aren't going to change her mind, stop getting one itis and move on. Learn from this experience. Your only hope is friendship and a pivot
/r/seduction07/06/10 05:50 PM
3

man fuck tyler durdin, Style for life! It's like mystery without the emotional baggage.
/r/seduction07/06/10 05:44 PM
3

a couple corrections: Not power, status. power shows status, but not all status implies power. Not acting like you have status (except at first) it's about getting status, the most underrated part, called internal game
/r/seduction07/06/10 05:44 PM
2

/thumbs up
/r/seduction04/06/10 07:49 PM
2

Just assume, stop asking and learn through experience.
/r/seduction04/06/10 04:46 PM
1

It's common. You have to remember why you started this in the first place, it's different for everyone: find a wife get laid more get better with people etc. It's a game, but you aren't enjoying it anymore, enjoy yourself and remember, it's not about gaming a girl. That implies you are meeting her standards, it's about seeing if someone is right for you fro the /night/weekend/year etc. It's one of the rules people tend to throw out fairly often. But don't become one of those people who thinks th…
/r/seduction04/06/10 03:16 PM
5

I just want to hear what I think I'm going to from the ladies. I don't have the heart to tell the OP here that 'lets be friends' is woman code for 'I don't want to sleep with you and am worried you'll stalk me for 6 months if I hurt your feelings'
/r/seduction03/06/10 04:31 AM
1

done
/r/seduction03/06/10 01:52 AM
1

I hate to put it so bluntly, but stop being a friend, be polite, but not nice. Let her know (subtly) that you want her. then just work on your social skills so you aren't sending the wrong message, they aren't made of fine china, and you won't break them. And remember, the antithesis of love is not hate, its apathy
/r/seduction02/06/10 09:08 PM
1

If you are suggesting a change pocket for condoms, the edit won't be a factor :)
/r/seduction02/06/10 05:25 PM
3

Protip: If you don't want to knock up a one night stand, don't use the change pocket as a condom holder, the friction and heat will ruin it. If you really have to, put it in a pocket you don't use much in your coat
/r/seduction02/06/10 05:24 PM
2

age of consent | social pressures from friends, family and coworkers | it doesn't matter. Pick two out of three.
/r/seduction31/05/10 06:09 PM
6

yes, change how you act because of someone else, that always looks good on the confidence resume. Just do what you want, do remember though, if it's a real boyfriend and not a shit test, if she would cheat on him ...
/r/seduction28/05/10 06:15 PM
2

lol. Wasn't a question of manhood, figured tough love might be worth a shot. Inside I knew you wouldn't listen though, I never did when I was in that situation. Some things people just have to learn through experience. Be glad it didn't end worse, some people end up knocking up girls in situations like this, so if it helps, it could have been a lot worse.
/r/seduction27/05/10 03:06 PM
1

no one should say they are struggling short of 50 approaches. I would say a hundred, but I think Style set it to 50 If I'm not mistaken
/r/seduction21/05/10 03:56 PM
1

Anything in theory could work. The point is to try things, though I would suspect you'd look like you were dying for attention and turn people off.
/r/seduction21/05/10 03:46 PM
5

Damn I thought you figured out it's simplicity, then you got bogged down by the details. It's just a method to: have a standard for yourself and a woman you want. Goals to make yourself a better person.
/r/seduction19/05/10 08:33 PM
3

lol, dodged that bullet
/r/seduction18/05/10 08:02 PM
3

boring girl
/r/seduction18/05/10 03:11 PM
2

So? They aren't called Ex because they are next in line. Go Grow a pair
/r/seduction17/05/10 06:33 PM
1

5 and 5 is the test bro, have you actually read the book?
/r/seduction13/05/10 09:16 PM
0

It was rhetorical, stop trying to save face
/r/MensRights06/05/10 09:09 AM
1

soruce source 2 source 3 and 4 5 Get wikipedia out of my face, you know better than to use it as a reliable source. And thanks for pointing out the auto spellchecks error, I will chew him out over it later :) Plus 2 pairs of twins is not a scientific study, and the wiki seems to argue my point on it's admissions moreso than yours
/r/MensRights05/05/10 04:05 PM
3

reinforcing bad behaviour is a bad idea imo
/r/MensRights05/05/10 10:03 AM
-3

digress much?
/r/MensRights05/05/10 10:02 AM
1

yeah, but my experience in europe has been people knew how to break the touch barrier properly. Try having a girl slap a dude randomly in croatia and tell me you wont see that same response
/r/MensRights05/05/10 10:01 AM
–

And the internet retard award goes to…
/r/MensRights05/05/10 10:00 AM
1

I've swatted a few arms in my day. Get your own damn fedora
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:56 AM
-1

guess she'll remember that the next time she commits assault. He could have gone all out, and there was a measure of restraint, I might be hesitant to argue the 'david and goliath' scenario.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:55 AM
0

It's only clear in your head.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:53 AM
6

its not about winning or losing. no one knows what she does next. maybe follows him around tauntin him, maybe throw a bottle at his head. You do what you can with the info you have, and definitely don't turn your back on an assault IMHO
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:52 AM
-1

Morally, you might have a point. Legally, we have deemed it appropriate. I would go with your eye for an eye thought if there was any provocation or pre meditation on his part, but I can't find any in the information given.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:51 AM
1

I wish there was a clap() function on this. I honestly wish in these things people would imagine the genders reversed before they decide to weigh in. Kudos
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:49 AM
4

switch the genders, does your expert analysis still hold water?
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:48 AM
1

Consider instead a man of the same size in this situation. Would everyones pigeonholing still make sense? And psychos are not in control, he sounded like he was more than in control, implying otherwise isn't cool man.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:47 AM
1

I've noticed the line of consequence is far away from it's assumed place often enough. Though from what I am told america is a litigious society, so maybe not.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:40 AM
63

not in a spelling bee.
/r/MensRights05/05/10 09:38 AM
1

yeah! get em with that science Dr. Fancypants.
/r/seduction04/05/10 10:20 PM
3

understanding of the human condition sounds good to me.
/r/seduction04/05/10 10:20 PM
1

think of it as a new take on coming pre selected. Appealing to survival instincts is a much stronger emotion.
/r/seduction04/05/10 10:20 PM
6

preach it. 2X sometimes gets a little too close to a mirror of /r/mysogeny for my liking.
/r/seduction04/05/10 10:19 PM
2

Are you wondering who is for and against it? Though I would say a frail ego is a bitch sometimes.
/r/seduction04/05/10 10:18 PM
5

girls are natural puas. the guys have built this up to compete. you just have to be better at it. You have the advantage though, he knows he is, he doesn't know you are.
/r/seduction27/04/10 07:23 PM
-1

practice.
/r/seduction27/04/10 07:21 PM
1

Mental masturbation. Waste of time.
/r/seduction27/04/10 02:59 PM
5

Lol, if you start using movies as help for real life experience, than you had better start hoping you have a large DVD collection, since you'll be watching it alone many a night
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:45 PM
1

Did it work for you? out of those 100+. I had sent 5-10, had two dates, and one is my current girlfriend for 1 year. You call if AFC, then substantiate it with nothing, if I'm going to argue against schoolyard antics I'm done. You ignore facts, numbers, and argue with me for the sake of being right. Anyway you have it all figured out, so have fun, keep messaging, and let me know when/if yours works.
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:44 PM
1

It looks like he's against mental masturbation and inability to improve.
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:35 PM
1

oh and the difference between 1 in 4(25%) and 1 in 6.3(15%) is big. It's almost a 50% increase.
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:35 PM
1

Exactly, a short message. Not multiple. There's something about seduction techniques I don't think you've fully grasped yet. And that's the inner game. It's not about meeting a girls standard, but having them meet yours. There's no way you know any more about a girl than a profile pic by your messages, and that sends a strong signal. Please respond to me, I'm worth your time. I think this is the biggest AFC move ever. Out of the 100+ messages, I doubt you could tell me one non generic trait of e…
/r/seduction21/04/10 06:33 PM
1

source read the section on The Desperation Feedback Loop. Now I'll put those hard numbers up against any facts you have on the matter, though I would like to see them
/r/seduction21/04/10 07:05 AM
1

it's not about efficient, its about effective. Granted, you are completely right, but studies have shown girls get a huge amount of traffic, and if your generic message is going to be the same as 10 other guys, it's really just wasted effort. I had my roommate have an account for a while, and she showed me her inbox. 10-25 messages a day, and 24 of them were all exactly the same, its a real eye opener.
/r/seduction20/04/10 08:19 PM
1

Yeah, subtext is everything. Though it's not like they were busing down my door, it went from a 1 in 10 response rate to 1 in 5, so def not beating the 5 in 5 to make a pua
/r/seduction20/04/10 08:14 PM
1

i had to break team a lot myself, they tend to sabotage me. get a bar friend, no more then 2, female would be better, then competition isn't an issue and you can look pre selected. one whose on the prowl is even better, than you are put on the clock, since she will beat you for a man, you are on the clock to get that approach up.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:58 PM
1

Im out of the game now, but was somewhere around 10 hours a week. work got in the way, add a few hours a week on text game. sarging is a bad example, get some strong internal game, and you'll starting getting friends, pivots, aquantances, and you shouldn't be sarging after the first few weeks dude.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:57 PM
1

OKCUPID had a blog post about how that inverly affects response rates in the negative. They got some cold hard numbers you can't really argue with.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:54 PM
1

back in the day, i had the best luck with a description about how I pee my pants in front of girls and live with my parents. Honesty isn't important as much as humour is. Then all the pics were me with girls as preselection. the rules don't change OL IMO, but it does make it harder without body language, voice and such, but it will tighten your ability to be creative.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:54 PM
1

besides, I ended up hooking a girl right when I started learning text game and online game, they seemed fairly new at the time. I would love to see how that progresses
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:52 PM
1

internal game.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:51 PM
2

Internal game doesn't get the focus it needs to IMO, I find that to be the most important part
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:51 PM
3

comfort through agreement, its a standard human trait
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:50 PM
3

I would agree, but guys who make excuses why pua is bullshit, and all those methods won't work bug me more. I have never seen someone fight, kicking and screaming into something so much in my life.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:50 PM
2

Like the effort, but this would be like asking her how much she likes you on a scale from one to ten. Surely you've seen enough episodes of blind date to know how that one goes.
/r/seduction19/04/10 08:01 PM
5

How many other girls are you dating right now? If you have one itis, you're doing it all wrong. If a girl truly wants to date you, she will either tell you when shes free when you ask or make time. You're getting played my friend. Its not malicious, but you've already lost this one. Don't worry about 'face' thats just ego disguised. Go date a few other girls, and don't fall for it again ok?
/r/seduction19/04/10 07:59 PM
2

GO felicitas! I love that place. Plus, I love making those freshmen who think they have it all figured out eat their words
/r/seduction17/04/10 07:52 PM
1

If anything, shouldn't that make it clearer, not less so? I see the same thing at the gym, and l can say 100% those women don't want to be disturbed. Though i never really did any at coffee shops, most of our hipsters go to noodle box Though you are right, home turf can be a cruel bitch and a crutch. hook us up with stories after dude!
/r/seduction17/04/10 07:13 PM
2

she put them on because she didn't want to be disturbed, move on man, if you study pua at all you should know how to read an obvious sign like that.
/r/seduction17/04/10 03:21 PM
4

absolutely not. Neither does kissing on the cheek, pat on the back, hugs or any other formal greeting. Without any tension, there is no kino. Hell, you'd almost be better off not doing them as a neg, to make breaking the touch barrier that much better. But it's all subjective, whatever works for you is what works, so long as you practice and it's not mental masturbation.
/r/seduction16/04/10 11:50 PM
2

this probably belongs in circlejerk
/r/seduction16/04/10 11:15 PM
2

I'm usually too busy enjoying myself to do more than just take note. I just remember to make kino as soon as possible then go back to whatever I'm doing. I say whatever comes to mind at first, and if I run out of things to say, just tell her that I can't think of small talk, need to go mingle and will flirt later when I come up with something witty. If a girl actually has the gumption to come up and kiss me, I do my best to make it a moment for her, as I understand that girls don't exactly do th…
/r/seduction16/04/10 08:53 PM
1

I love it. I say I want to be a man in the 50s, then slap the SO in the can. Though I tend to make it a game, have seen guys that go down that alley, and it never ends pretty.
/r/seduction16/04/10 07:25 PM
2

Fake it till you make it. probably the best pua quote, ever. God bless Mystery
/r/seduction16/04/10 05:04 PM
1

why he waited three years in such an asymetrical relationship is beyond me.
/r/seduction16/04/10 04:27 PM
3

Dating just wasn't fun for me anymore, this helped me turn it into a game to keep interest. The one thing I miss is hitting up a cube during the comfort phase. Though it's the main reason why I'm not single anymore. Just remember, it's more about finding a girl that meets your standards and improving yourself. Not about making yourself meet her standards.
/r/seduction16/04/10 03:35 PM
9

yeah. A lot of people just assume this stuff is innate and no one needs to practice, or it's a skill one can improve. Just remember, the key was to create relationships with women. For how long, it's up to you, just don't go down that road where its borderline sociopathic. P.S. you need to work on your alpha, even when you did it, you assume it's because she was easy. You still don't understand if you don't have confidence in your abilities.
/r/seduction16/04/10 02:20 PM
9

Im early 30s and look like a college kid. Its a blessing, and you are ruining it. You are literally talking your self out of metting what could be a great woman. for the night or for a year, it doesn't matter. If you want to turn it into an advantage, then stop using it as an excuse to do things and just go about it. You are mature, distinguished, and look youthful. What, would you like a penis made of gold that shoots out chocolate before you have enough home court advantage?
/r/seduction15/04/10 11:28 AM
1

I wish I could clap on the internet.
/r/seduction15/04/10 10:20 AM
1

You are outside your comfort zone. Practice man, realize they don't have the safety blanket that networking gives (my brother likes him, so I know hes safe) all you have to do is remember that you have to establish you are not going to cause them harm before you pretend theyll like you as much as someone who knows you come pre selected.
/r/seduction15/04/10 05:30 AM
0

It's not about tactics. They are good to start with, but the idea is to be a natural eventually. Confidence, a few games, and understanding patterns. Example, I swear by the cube, the most fun thing I play with a girl, yet I can't do styles EV to save my life.
/r/seduction15/04/10 02:51 AM
1

Dude, first thing is work on your internal game. You need to establish yourself. Get a better job, better financial situation, learn the language, keep the accent. get a hobby or two and build your confidence. You are in no position to pick up anyone right now.
/r/seduction15/04/10 02:40 AM
1

There is no impossible situation. Once I found out about it, it made those awkward day after texts/calls make so much more sense, relaxed and useful. Besides, you know the best way to get a girl is to show no interest in her. Who knows, maybe this one ends up being a great friend. Maybe she introduces you to the one you actually have interest in. So many ifs, but you better set up with this one first, no sense getting one itis over an 8 man :)
/r/seduction14/04/10 09:21 AM
1

Well, I would have started with 'anything' then moved onto 'setup a timebridge to see this woman again, since they gave me the strongest IOI I have seen in a while' To buy you the time to decide if she's worth your time
/r/seduction14/04/10 08:05 AM
1

Try looking 23 when you're 30. Dress like an adult though, it will make you look more distinguished. It's only a problem if you think it's a problem, but realize a lot of women equate age with status, so it might work against you.
/r/seduction06/04/10 02:04 PM
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