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Make a to do list and number it. Leave space for people to write their names
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:12 PM
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If you go they will show
/r/seduction24/08/12 09:03 PM
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Work out and practice approaching
/r/seduction25/07/12 08:03 PM
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Better out than in
/r/seduction16/06/12 02:03 AM
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Do things that interest you.
/r/seduction09/06/12 04:54 AM
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Break your own perceptions.
/r/seduction09/06/12 04:51 AM
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Boss texts.
/r/seduction09/03/12 01:28 PM
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When you see her again go "OMG It's been forever." Also I wouldn't seek out sets you've already opened, let them come back into your frame.
/r/seduction07/03/12 02:05 AM
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I'm experimenting with what works and what doesn't If you got some suggestions on what to say I am all ears. I am trying to be direct. Which has not been getting me bad results. It also helps me focus not on the opener but the rest of the interaction. I had decent kino and didn't get blown out.
/r/seduction03/03/12 09:53 PM
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I # closed some of the better looking ones. The more I open sets the more it helps my flow.
/r/seduction03/03/12 09:44 PM
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Yeah it is a great line.
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:10 PM
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Thank you, I wrote it as soon as I got home. I learn a lot from writing them.
/r/seduction02/03/12 07:09 PM
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Thank you for letting me retire beautiful.
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:58 AM
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Good point I was just chasing the hb6 and hb3 around, aka beta. I will talk to my friend but he ended up dancing with hb6 and maybe making out. They would openly admit it. Thanks for the advice I do need to practice. I will look into the ladder.
/r/seduction02/03/12 10:39 AM
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Okay from what I understand the main idea I have wrong is ejecting. I eject from these sets early and often am forced into repeat run ins with the same set. I need to practice a little patience and learn to be better at listening. I need to get into a stronger frame.
/r/seduction02/03/12 09:52 AM
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Ask her the same question without answering or wait to think of something. You are in control of what you say.
/r/seduction01/03/12 08:37 PM
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Thanks, I will put into action what you said. I shook most of the girls hands.
/r/seduction01/03/12 08:34 AM
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I would have but I had a hard time finding when to touch her sitting down. I opted out and instead touched her while standing. The problem I had is she was doing a lot of talking and I was interested. I got talk to about girls in bikinis, friends that were millionaires, her successful website, and her interests. She was awesome and intimidating.
/r/seduction01/03/12 07:59 AM
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Yeah thanks, I tried really hard to listen a lot. She had a lot to say and it was a very fun, challangeing, and interesting conversation.
/r/seduction01/03/12 07:56 AM
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I have one friend who I will call A. I had invited a girl to come to a club with another friend, we will call B, and I. A called last minute as he was returning from Chicago that he want to go and to wait for him. So its My two friends, a girl, and me driving to this club, they get drunk and we proceed into the club. My friend B went to dance, so I went to open sets and dance. I had very little luck and when I came back A and the girl were sitting and talking. I sat down and A left to go to the …
/r/seduction25/02/12 01:34 AM
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H2 I have no chance for, just waiting to delete her again, she just randomly will message me a few times a year. H is confusing. She was all over me Thursday at the local bar I was at asking me to dance, but I left with friends after a few minutes to go downtown. Which by then she was hitting on some other guy at the bar, ignore every time. I think she is just ASD because she knows what I want and has not let me get it.
/r/seduction21/02/12 10:23 PM
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H: "You broke my heart" M: "Chocolate heals all" H: "So they say..." M: "Going to watch the mizzou game later and go to phat tuesday! Come with?" H: "I can't tonight ..." M: "When your not super busy we should plan something fun. What are your doing this sunday?" H: "Hmmm not reslly sure prob visiting my gramps then prob b free after." M: "Well lets think of something you want to do and we will go! Zoo or the park if its nice is always fun" H: "Yea!!! That would be fun" M: "I will wait to see th…
/r/seduction21/02/12 09:26 PM
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Your number 1 is a great situation for you, but it has to mature. Your old friend probably talks you up, social proof. If you were able to get these girls numbers in front of them you would have had the opportunity. Enjoy your interactions and get them to the bars with you to get drinks and open sets. Be direct and get what you want. Escalate and make her feel comfortable and try again.
/r/seduction20/02/12 08:40 PM
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Practice being more assertive in what you want, be direct in getting what you want. If you want something, ask.
/r/seduction20/02/12 02:45 AM
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I had a great weekend. I'm more confident, outgoing, and seductive than I ever believed. I have great potential all it takes it having fun. I learned how to be direct, bold, and fun. I got a makeout from a women at the club, saw lots of boobs, and had a great time with friends
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:49 PM
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I enjoyed your last point especially since i don't drink often but go to bars. I am going to go up to girls at the bar and ask them to get me a water because they get drinks faster.
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:38 PM
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You did well, you had two successful encounters. Practice being direct because it will help you establish what you are looking for early. That way if hb8 breaks up with her boyfriend she knows that you are interested in her more than a friend. The clearer you are with your intentions the more likely they are to succeed. To help with the voice I find speaking slow and loud is attractive.
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:31 PM
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Bingo, should be taken as sign a your not interested in her. I would have tried "Which friends of yours are single?" But other than that, I would have hit on her friends and tried to find someone who is able to hookup.
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:20 PM
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Her friend texted my friend and told him to bring me and to meet at a bar last night. I didn't go but the message gave me a huge boost of confidence. As for the original interaction: I think I failed for a few reasons that night, a) I tried to verbally arrange logistics on the dance floor b) I didn't isolate c) I tried "Making" my moves when I had progressed at the top of the crescendo instead of being direct from the start. To fix that I think I should have gone to the bar after making out for …
/r/seduction19/02/12 08:59 PM
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Practice touching with other people in not such a tense situation. Handshake to person at the bar you met, pat on the shoulder when just meeting people, and high fives. I feel the biggest obstacle is getting out of your head and that only happens for me after I open sets. It is impossible to get anywhere if you don't start.
/r/seduction18/02/12 03:19 AM
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She likes to dance, suggest to go dancing. If you wait the girl will forget about your interaction.
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:29 AM
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I understand what you mean on a crescendo now. I re built up the escalation which was easy because she was grabbing my hands and putting them all over her. I think I should have bounced to the bar to get a drink, to show I'm the leader. I know I got stuck progressing on the dance floor because I had this women wet. I was rubbing her and making out with her. But I didn't know any more escalating moves on the dance floor. What steps do you escalate after you have been rubbing a womens pussy and sh…
/r/seduction18/02/12 12:48 AM
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Last night I open hb6 and hb5 on the dancefloor. Open from the front dance with hb6 and spin her around, grind with her, and my friends step in and she likes my friend. I go to hb5 and dance, grinding. Spin her around try to kiss, get the check. AMOG walks infront of her when she has both her hands on the DJ booth. I stood there while i stop dancing and don't say anything, he moves away. I start rubbing her outside of her pants. She reacts positively and turns around and makes out with me. We ma…
/r/seduction17/02/12 06:37 PM
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Yeah she is great social proof and I should leave it at that. Thanks for your advice. With the not investing time, is it worth it to send her a text Friday and say something about going clubbing? or am I better off letting her initiate a conversation?
/r/seduction21/05/11 04:34 PM
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Practice making eye contact and keep your hands in the air. Other than that be polite to your waiter. Practice eating and leave.
/r/seduction20/09/10 07:08 AM
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http://www.erowid.org/spirit/meditation/
/r/seduction14/06/10 01:47 PM
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Go to malls, book stores, school, gym, and park. Talk to everyone. Understand your goals. Achieve your goals. Focus on what can make YOU better.
/r/seduction16/05/10 11:04 PM
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Not putting my eggs in one basket.
/r/seduction16/05/10 10:57 PM
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Under 10% for me with numbers. Under 1% of my approaches got numbers. I am lower than .1% of success.
/r/seduction13/05/10 04:22 PM
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Tell girl A you want her to hook you up with her friend? Get her number, don't go out with both together.
/r/seduction12/05/10 12:11 PM
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Must be there in order to get there. Must have experience to get more experience.
/r/seduction11/05/10 01:38 PM
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"Cool guys get laid and will always get laid"
/r/seduction07/05/10 03:20 PM
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To practice I approach girls and start talking to them. She is always the most attractive girl in the room. Being friendly, asking questions, being funny. Being attractive. I get a number every 25 girls.
/r/seduction15/04/10 04:53 AM
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Winning.
/r/seduction14/04/10 03:43 PM
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Scared. I had a teacher who was a wo"men", we had rules by which she must be addressed. Personally, I treated her indifferently and it was awkward. I felt it wasn't appropriate and she enjoyed the attention.
/r/MensRights11/04/10 01:36 AM
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Make her want you to call and don't.
/r/seduction31/03/10 01:16 AM
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Realizing why I failed and accepting it.
/r/seduction27/03/10 03:27 PM
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Think about touching her and you shouldn't do it. When you feel like touching her do it.
/r/seduction18/03/10 12:12 AM
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Smoke weed.
/r/seduction15/03/10 04:19 AM
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You'd be more successful if you approached more women. Allowing yourself to open on interesting people(girls) is going to give you CONFIDENCE. If you've approached 5 girls at this dance bar then you have been not used pick up. If you wanted some real advice, go get your neighbor.
/r/seduction14/03/10 07:48 AM
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Power in a relationship? Being able to end it. What I am wondering is, what do you want from her? Negs are whatever but more important is to develop a strategy of success. If your not succeeding, find out what is going wrong. How many women have you approached for pick-up only?
/r/seduction14/03/10 06:17 AM
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I do not think any of these signs are of interest. Go hit on women you don't know. Go back to your group and share your story. If any are interested in you, you will now know.
/r/seduction28/02/10 03:59 PM
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At this point, I need to make a distinction, and so do you. Divide women into two groups: women you want to have sex with and think you could have a relationship with and women you only want to have sex with. I realized this today for myself.
/r/seduction24/02/10 03:12 AM
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Your in a relationship idiot.
/r/seduction24/02/10 03:07 AM
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Right, I was thinking about it last night. I need to be a better person, strive for perfection, and stop letting people get in my way. I think about stuff way to much and I don't need to. I am so glad I started trying Pick-Up because it has shown me so many flaws in my previous attitude. I agree on what you said asking out is doing and I want to get away from that, trust me. I understand I need to bring up my level of interest, but I pussy out afraid of rejection and so I create the LJBF. I have…
/r/seduction19/02/10 03:06 PM
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Today, I talked to a girl from my chemistry class about a test we had taken and how it was tougher than expected. Went well and had good eye contact, rapport, and closing. I have class with a few other girls who are interested in me. I need to improve on more girls and need to ask a specific girl out. I need to just approach her after class. I need to improve on the amount of women, length of conversation, and own personal issues.
/r/seduction19/02/10 12:08 AM
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Interesting I really need to work on those areas.
/r/seduction09/02/10 05:37 AM
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Okay, honestly I would try to forget everything you think you know because obviously you know nothing. First, acknowledge them, second find something else to focus on besides them, third say hi. The bad thing is there is no advice that will fix it besides just trying and learning for yourself. On conversations I find the best way to get through the door of awkwardness is achieved by allowing yourself to let go. You have to understand there is no formula, Hello, How are you today, best two opener…
/r/seduction09/02/10 05:32 AM
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I am turning 21, I was wondering what advice you can give me before I go to the bars? Also, what about college, any tips?
/r/seduction03/02/10 01:58 AM
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If guys were allowed to play in womans' leagues it wouldn't be "equal", it would be unfair and funny as hell. You want women to be successful in sports professionally support them yourself, don't blame others bitches.
/r/MensRights13/09/09 11:41 AM
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