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You could attend clubs for 10 years and still not learn this skill.
/r/seduction17/03/26 11:24 AM
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I was a kiss-less virgin and she knew she was going to be my first. So she's been teaching me nuances of courtship. She makes it clear she's satisfied sexually. Last night, we went for a romantic walk in the park. She got a little teary eyed when I mentioned I had other options besides her.
/r/seduction07/03/26 01:38 PM
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For context, she's older than me where she had been in 2 really long relationships before. Now she calls herself being a slut having slept with many different men over the last 5 years. But somehow consistently chooses to go home with me at the bar we go to over other men. She did blow job on me but i dont feel like i can do oral sex on her cause i get nauseous easily.
/r/seduction07/03/26 11:15 AM
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I don't really have "feelings" for her. My brain naturally says: “Why spend energy convincing new women to sleep with me if this is already working? The reward system is already satisfied sufficiently.
/r/seduction07/03/26 10:21 AM
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How satisfying was the sex
/r/seduction07/03/26 09:03 AM
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You don't have to be a supermodel. The minimum looks standard required is just presenting yourself in clean, tidy, well groomed manner. And if you have noticeable hair loss, get treatment or get a hairpiece.
/r/seduction05/03/26 10:34 AM
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This happens when you build rapport successfully but fail to advance to the next stage which is breaking rapport. This next stage is just as important as building rapport
/r/seduction04/03/26 09:43 AM
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I don't have to do any of that and a woman who is into me can't get enough of me and willing to have regular sex all night with me.
/r/seduction03/03/26 11:20 PM
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Yeah it's funny that people act like its a cardinal sin when youtubers do this all the time, sometimes even with objectively shittier antics like doing annoying pranks on strangers for profit.
/r/seduction14/02/26 06:31 AM
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If you just mindlessly lift weights without having deep introspection on how it fits into your life, then yeah it will not help you with confidence
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:50 AM
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Long ago, I created a fake female profile on tinder out of frustration because I got zero matches just to see what it's like for women. It was 100% match rate swipe after swipe and it got flooded with dm's non stop instantly.
/r/seduction04/01/26 09:15 AM
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Do you wear elevator shoes?
/r/seduction02/01/26 12:27 PM
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It's got nothing to do with that. It's got to do with basic people skills. How would you feel if someone made you feel invalidated and totally insignificant with how no one cares about your own problems? Would you want to listen to that person's problems? Regardless of men and women, this subreddit seems to have people who are more interested in breaking down each other than building each other up. That's a very backward way of dealing with people and it won't really help bring any fruitful conv…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 08:33 AM
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When you no longer are in denial of mortality, it frees you from the anxiety of having to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 10:59 PM
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Volunteering to a cause that you are passionate about seems better than dating apps in terms of helping you find more potential quality dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:04 AM
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Then why is /r/DeadBedrooms so popular?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 09:44 AM
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I have korean parents who are boomers. They grew up poor in rural countryside without electricity yet managed to own a couple of properties outright. They were able to do that with modest income jobs such as teaching and patent translation work while living relatively frugally. Most newer Korean generations do not have this opportunity at all no matter how hard they try because the property price ratio to average income is gone crazy out of hand. My parents sold their apartment property in Seoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:51 AM
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I would 100% be a woman in SK especially cause conscription
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 01:58 PM
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Great, climate change denialist and fascist sympathiser
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 04:51 AM
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Farmers in Europe are protesting not out of goodness of their hearts but because the government is hurting their bottom line with new policies and they are feeling it hurts their livelihood.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 03:03 AM
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This resonates with me so much. Personally had many issues outside my control preventing me from dating or making dating fun. I just do things to have fun thats it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:48 PM
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Yeah cause womens problems are the only ones that should matter to men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:41 PM
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Always sucked even then for non top 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 09:32 PM
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Yeah TRP preaches a method that treats dating like a mechanic exercise where you have to cold approach X number of women and so on to build dating skills and ultimately be successful. But where is the fun in that? I find it more satisfying to just hang out with people who are happy to see me because we share common interests and go from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:20 AM
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That's just to appease the "taming the beast with the power of love" fantasy women have. But women want a beast that needs to be tamed in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 01:41 AM
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You can try to justify that but don't expect other people to take you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 07:19 AM
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Yeah so TRP crap can be ignored and substituted with making things fun for yourself and her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:56 PM
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No, it's more like someone claiming to be vegan but they love reading about hunting and killing animals and then salivating at the thought of taking a bite out of a BBQ rib from the said killed animals. Can you take that person claiming to be vegan seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 01:43 PM
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It's scientifically proven that women have far higher standards when based on only looks than men and much more critical of what they look for in a casual date. The gender imbalance on the apps alone can't explain the ridiculous match imbalance that was verified by so many people at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 11:17 AM
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Feminists harp on about equality but their guilty pleasure is reading about a two-meter-tall billionaire playboy mafia boss from a romance novel who controls their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:44 AM
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This is one of the reasons that I have trouble taking feminism seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 08:19 AM
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Not a specific applicable dating advice It's just a fact that women will dismiss majority of men on dating apps and only choose the top 10% of men or so. So the lesson was to quit dating apps and work on demonstrating charisma in person when meeting women in events and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 03:42 AM
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It helped understand from female perspective what they are going through. Cause if you don't understand the other person, then you won't be able to tailor your communication to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:53 AM
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I think he just relied on the apps too much and therefore didn't see much success if any. I quit dating apps after creating a fake girl profile and finding out that I got a match virtually 100% of the time and got non stop message from guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 02:23 AM
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If you shoehorn a narrative like this for women. Wouldn't you also be able to say the same for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 12:16 AM
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Society without mutual aid is much more brittle and will fall apart when shit hits the fan
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:20 PM
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Add white to it. Ppl talk about ethnic minority fetish as shameful. But i couldnt find many articles about white fetish non whites have
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:09 PM
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I mean sure you could always find a social justice issue somewhere down the chain in our society. That was besides my point. The point is that you don't have to be an asshole and make other people under your influence miserable just to win. And regarding how the society creates losers and winners, there are social justice movements to address this too. Seeing life only as a series of win-lose situations is not good for anyone's mental health since it encourages unhealthy social behaviours too li…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:42 AM
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Not sure about your professional working experience. Office backstabbing is not the dominant way of getting up the corporate ladder from my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/24 07:30 AM
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Okay not talking about starter gf, that's ridiculous. Just saying men could still find a match even in old age as long as he sticks to his age demographics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:36 AM
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As long as a man has his faculties intact and maintains a reasonable value proposition, he could find someone in his age range. I hear a lot of stories of women finding another partner even past 60 year old, presumably found someone in a similar age group
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 11:18 AM
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As a late bloomer, I feel like I need to go on a man whore phase to gain experience and really explore my options.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:59 AM
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What we see from our perspective may be just the asshole side because those bullies weren't nice to those that they bullied. But it doesn't mean they didn't show warmth when they interacted with those girls, regardless of what they said in the locker room.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 10:00 AM
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If you want a balanced nuanced take, the world can't be simplified as a hyper-competitive toxic arena where assholes are the only people who achieve success in life. People don't get that next promotion by being an asshole. They get that promotion by building positive working relationships with their colleagues. There are many areas in life with positive role models who achieved success without being an asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 09:31 AM
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If she does not behave in a way that instills confidence in her partner that she's being faithful. Then the partner is also not obligated to instill the same confidence in her.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 08:14 AM
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I would do the same if someone did this to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:51 AM
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Exredpill addresses the toxicity in red pill theory but fails to come to a balanced nuanced middle ground that fully acknowledges the challenges of being a man in the dating market. I see a lot of "just be yourself" type advice there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:35 AM
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The red pill detox first aid kit in r/exredpill disputes this idea of "alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:14 AM
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Women like men who let the other person win despite knowing he could beat them in their game. Not men who let the other person win because he will lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:49 AM
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Where do you draw the line. Everyone working under someone is feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:45 AM
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Because he had a master?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/24 05:37 AM
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She gave him the blowjob on the first date to try to seal the deal with gf status. Its like a male simp complaining about his crush after he gave an expensive gift unprompted and finding out she used it to win favors with her fling. There are good men out there but dating apps just make everyone part of the problem in objectifying eaxh other
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:22 PM
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I will be a useful tool in that I can make a woman feel positive&interesting emotions with voice. I plan to sing to people in this voice one day, just like the male singers I mentioned. Besides, this voice training thing rekindled childhood wonder in me. I feel alive again after feeling dead inside for so long. I'm just gonna go all in and see where it takes me. I am not trans, I just like doing cool voices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 12:20 PM
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I saw a female comedian doing standup about how her tinder date was hot and they seemed like a good match but he blew her off because he wasn't feeling it. I was just thinking yeah it's because you ignored 99% other men to pick that top 1% man so of course that top 1% is going to feel like their match feels like anther disposable option for a free blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:14 AM
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I can sympathise with women's grievances such as physical threat to violence which is a totally legit thing. But the kind of stuff that men can't stand listening is when it becomes self absorbed whinging on full throttle where there is no balanced nuanced middle ground and they just wanna go make everything about them even in things that are not about them, with not even a nanosecond spared for another man's perspective. If you want people to care about what you have to say, then it helps to mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:01 AM
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I saw an old graying man at a meeting once. He looked quite ordinary but when he started doing a speech in front of people, he suddenly seemed decades younger and full of vigor which I couldn't sense before. There is a value to be had in honing charisma
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 08:54 AM
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I don't particularly disagree with what you said. This whole thread was created because I just want to talk like a dommy mommy and feel charismatic doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 10:39 PM
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But do you know if he had women admirers who wish he was straight. That's the important question
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:59 AM
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Good thing that some women did approach you. I lived long enough to know that I will stay single forever with no relationship no nothing if I don't do anything and passively wait for women to approach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:08 AM
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I mean there are ways of looking at it so that one side is always the correct one. If I just took everything those people say seriously, it would kill my dating confidence to do anything. It all has to be taken into context so for me, cold approach approaching a total stranger off the street is not productive most of the time if at all. But then even in social situations that are about meeting new people, men have to be able to gracefully introduce himself and stuff, that's an important skill to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:56 AM
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No, some people say that men should never cold approach regardless of how respectful they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:28 AM
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Well, then you go to a feminist subreddit and people disagree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 04:15 AM
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I'm just bringing up something I observed over the years firsthand. Men do try to project being alpha by being physically aggressive and bullying physically smaller people. The whole concept of alpha originates from a misrepresented wolf pecking order experiment anyway. Being a leader is about building other people up, not about feeling dominant over others and expecting other people to submit to them. Alpha male theory is based more off fantasy portrayal from popular media such as James Bond. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 02:31 AM
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Gotta listen to this influencer who makes me feel manly and special on all meat diet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:55 AM
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Why not both for yourself and for women too? Your happiness is the greatest gift you can give to others. I have been vilified for working on myself because people criticise I'm not being myself when I do that. People should acknowledge there is a middle ground
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:52 AM
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Never got into the "cold approach" method preached by dating coaches. It goes against common sense like. If the person's body language, tone of their voice, etc all indicate they don't want to talk to you, then trying to talk to them is not going to be productive. I have been enjoying going to activism events where people share a lot in common in the first place and there are things to talk about besides trying to flirt. Making a flirty comment feels a lot more nature than trying to create that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 12:11 AM
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Regarding status/power thing, I don't believe that being a doctor/lawyer automatically gets you in a relationship if you got no personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:22 PM
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There will definitely be a tall man who decides to bully around other men in the room for sure to project being "alpha". Doesn't mean every woman will fall head over heels for him over other men because he's the "Alpha"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:19 PM
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But there seems to be a mixup of the word masculine and associating it to character qualities which are genderless. Feminity is associated with being submissive, passive, shy and weak. And masculinity the opposite. So a man could have a female voice but the tone could be confident, assertive and generally project power while still having warm qualities and come across as attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:48 PM
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For example? Is there a real life comparison we can draw to come to a shared understanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:46 AM
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What is the definition of attraction competency? We agree that coding or playing video games do not fall under that. I would say having alluring voice, humor, being able to foster positive emotion in the other person, making the other person feel special, etc are all a part of attractive competency. So if I understand you correctly, a man has to do all those things in a traditionally masculine manner to attract women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 03:28 AM
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I'm not sure if we are talking about the same kind of thing. There was an interesting critique of alpha theory, saying you could replace the word masculinity with competency in the alpha male theory and it would make just as much sense. What do you think about that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 02:56 AM
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Disagree with the analogy. It's like choosing food but women have to smell it first to really like it. While men can just be enticed to choosing a particular food just with the visual look of the food. i.e. women have to sense charisma to feel attracted to a man. but men can be attracted to a woman visually without having to verify her charisma. So for women, they will reject choosing most of the food just looking at the photos of them except the few they know will smell good through intuition /…
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 06:26 AM
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My brain is so messed up I don't even feel excited at the idea of going on dates anymore. I've read too much stuff with men saying how marriage sucks because their partner stops being intimate and stuff like that. I'm trying to slowly wake up romance cells in my body doing baby steps like giving compliment when talking to women I meet from time to time in events and stuff.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 01:16 PM
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I felt this way but over the years, I notice it's not so simple. One factor is a woman's personality. If she is an unfaithful person, she is more likely to cheat and more prone to not resist temptations. Second is not every woman prefers the stereotypical alpha bad boy, unlike what's portrayed in media. Third is some women value shared beliefs, personality and other traits over just hotness. Fourth is having some assertiveness yourself so that you clearly convey to her what you bring to the tabl…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 09:29 AM
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Dating feels like one of those old school video games that requires a lot of practice due to its hardcore difficulties. It's also unforgiving in that it will punish you for small mistakes. For example, heard of how a guy may never see a girl because he didn't pull the chair out for her in a date. So I'm hesitant to play that game unless I feel like I can control my character with gamepad the way I want even if the game may throw obstacles which are outside of my control
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:35 AM
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I also feel it's unfair that women can just get a date instantly from dating apps while it's much harder for guys to find a date unless they have a very good game. So I want to get a taste of what it's like to actually have some options instead of feeling like a beggar that needs to take whatever is offered to him. And also I am too content with being self-reliant and independent now from focusing all my time on having my own thing going on, that I feel like being in a relationship could actuall…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 06:34 AM
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Being attractive helps, to know you are an equal or superior. You would get intimidated if a guy is very well groomed and handsome and hitting on a girl you are interested in too.
/r/seduction10/05/15 10:36 AM
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/r/theredpill sounds more appropriate for this topic
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:36 AM
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You might as well say Ooo, eee, Ooo, ah ah, Ting tang; Walla walla, bing bang.
/r/seduction27/04/15 09:53 PM
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If you feel good about yourself, talking to girls get exponentially easier. i.e. take care of your hair, don't be fat, be hygienic, get $$ with a job.
/r/seduction27/04/15 05:38 AM
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Don't know why you were downvoted. Yeah I agree, some ppl who claim to be red pill aren't much different to rad feminists who insult others of differing opinions.
/r/MGTOW22/04/15 01:14 AM
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Even if sex is off the table, being just friends can work in your favor, if the girl is genuinely nice. Increased self esteem Increased value (ppl think you 2 are dating) Can be a wingman/wingwoman etc
/r/MGTOW21/04/15 10:52 PM
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How do I know if there's some kind of "chemistry" between me and a girl? Is it just a gut feeling that I'll notice, when I feel that I should try to make that girl my girlfriend? When you smile at her and she smiles back, when you ask her name and then she asks your name. When you feel that it's right to move onto the next level and you can feel that she feels so too, without saying a word.
/r/askTRP13/04/15 10:27 AM
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I'm not good at this. But the few times I managed to do it, are times where I tell my own stories that's fun to talk about
/r/seduction01/04/15 03:17 AM
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You can't know for sure over text. You can feel it if you see her face to face though.
/r/seduction01/04/15 01:04 AM
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Sounds like something that would happen in a movie/TV show.
/r/seduction16/03/15 03:23 AM
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Gain new life experiences. I'm a bit like you. I started taking horse riding lessons and I always had something interesting to say to my friends about it after each lesson. It made me want to write a diary too.
/r/seduction12/03/15 08:39 PM
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I remember going out with friends back in the day and feeling the same way. They told me. Getting laid the same night isn't guaranteed. But having a good time is.
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:18 AM
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You feel that there is something wrong with you and with them...if they want you. Reminds me of this If you can't accept someone likes you, you won't like them back.
/r/seduction10/03/15 05:16 AM
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Yes I do, which is why I like salsa dancing where women are quite receptive and I forget about that silly girl being standoffish
/r/seduction10/03/15 03:42 AM
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Sweet advice. I wish more people were aware of this. Can you clarify what you mean by being merciful in seduction?
/r/seduction10/03/15 01:03 AM
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If you read The Game, Neil Strauss is your height and bald and been successful. Just saying. I think skin care is more important if you are bald.
/r/seduction10/03/15 12:42 AM
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Sorry I see a little contradiction. You don't need validation but you care about the outcome of an interaction. Whether it's frustration or validation, it helps to have something that you can feel normal with? After all, no man's an island. Hope that helps
/r/seduction09/03/15 10:45 PM
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I think it helps to have some validation elsewhere so that rejection from a random girl is meaningless to you.
/r/seduction09/03/15 09:06 PM
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Better quotes about fiction: "You should see the world as it should be, not as it is" Fictions tell us about possibilities and the future instead of just what happened in the past.
/r/seduction09/03/15 02:40 AM
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Others are just like you, they just take charge of their life and do what they can. Step by step, you can start setting yourself up for success. Everything will get better from there.
/r/seduction07/03/15 01:46 PM
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