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| 0 | Am I a new type of "pill"? | Cash50000 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/19 11:28 PM |
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| 3 | What is the bare minimum for you in a partner?Um, guys, is finding chubby girls attractive really that uncommon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | A man's best chance at a sexually healthy relationship is one in which he is far more attractive than his partner.Well, it fits my life experience perfectly. And I genuinely believe women dislike sex. AMA lol I do admit I'm a massive loser and outcast though, so it could be those post are just people like me having a circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: How much is your self worth tied to how sexually attractive men/women find you?I have never been found attractive by anyone ever, but I still like myself so I guess not that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Is casual sex a privilege for women and a small percentage of men?Um? I'm gonna be honest, I don't actually know what you're getting at. I was using "privilege" in a colloquial sense. Sure, there are advantages in being sexually desirable, but the act itself is worthless to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/20 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Is casual sex a privilege for women and a small percentage of men?Sex is not a privilege for women because they do not want it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Are most men really attracted to everything?It sure feels that way, although personally I would only have sex with a girl I trusted, which is a pretty high bar in itself. Not that anyone is interested, but, you know, hypothetically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/20 10:07 PM |
| 8 | What are your physical deal breakers?You literally described my ideal girl lol. Guess that just goes to show every woman has a market. For me though, it's a turn off if she looks really... Typical? Like girl next door type shit. I just don't see that as sexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Don’t you think it’s unrealistic to want women to feel raw, immediate sexual attraction for you if you’re average or below?Wanting it immediately is indeed rather stupid. But expecting sexual attraction from a woman is completely rational, even if unrealistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Opinion on Dyed HairColourful hair, tattoos and piercings are hot af, reddit can suck me on this one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Masculinity in a comfortable first world country is a superfluous, unnecessary, pitiable caricature peformance--a charade.This really is a bronze age mindset, I'll give you that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | How many people here are not "redpill"?Check my flare bro | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 12:57 AM |
| 13 | Do you resent women for getting you horny?I mean sure, I resent it, but in a general sense. It's not really the woman's fault, is it? Plus, it's really not that bad. I'm 22. Never had sex. I don't just start salivating at the sight of a female. I get the impression that men overstate how bad it is. Or maybe I just have low libido, idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What are the best books about female sexuality?If you like being bored, sure. That book is like ten times the length it needed to be. And it's required reading where I'm from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 11:39 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Why would extremely high standards in some women bother you? Doesn't this just make filtering out picky women easier?It bothers me, but not the way you think. There is nothing to be done about it, it is just extremely unfortunate. Because you just described almost all women, therefore filtering them out leaves pretty much nobody to choose from. The way biology works, if I'm not in the 1% I may as well give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/20 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Men who say they "want more sex" mean what exactly? And are they willing to choose?I just want more instances than zero | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/20 01:28 AM |
| 0 | Women are not actually sexually attracted to men.Yeah, man. It's all true. And I really, really wish it wasn't. That's why I understand why people stay in denial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Men dont really believe "Sex comes before commitment" or "Sex comes before love" do they?Well... I guess it doesn't necessarily come before love: you can absolutely fall for a girl you haven't sexed yet. It's not even really a choice. However. Most men consider sex to be vital in a relationship, so making sure you're compatible before commitment is just common sense, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Guys, if you have feelings for a female friend I think you should just tell them!Very true, but in my experience it's still better to tell the truth and end the friendship than to stay in a limbo of misery | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | For men, are all friendships with women, orbiting?This is wrong on many levels but consider this simple scenario: What if she's ugly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | How is sex NOT a need for women?Yes, it's true. And I'm so goddamn jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | FDS and their Hatred for Republican MenSome top shelf cringe here, good lord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How would you feel if you were objectified and sexualised by homosexual men constantly?Truth is, I live in a country with a lot of homophobia, so most gay men don't show interest in public. Perhaps if I found myself in a gay friendly environment, I'd get hit on. But I'm not going to seek that out. It'd be kinda a dick move to go there just for validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you believe that if you never learned about the pills...I already had my beliefs formed before I knew about pills. Not much has changed for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | How should the minority of men with a sexuality that aligns closer to the female sexual archetype deal with the modern sexual and relationship market place?These men have won the fucking lottery. If you can live your life not caring about sex, you are a happy man. Why complain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:26 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel if you were objectified and sexualised by homosexual men constantly?Lol, it'd be pretty cool if it happened at all. It's hard for me to imagine what it would be like with too much of it. Alas, I am so repulsive, not even gays give a shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Men Crave Sex cause it's the only way we dont get shamed for admitting we want physical affectionNgl, could use a bro hug or two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | What impact would widely available legal brothels have on America? (Culture, Dating, Relationships)I've just had to check if prostitution is legal in my country because i didn't know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Have you actually taken care of a child?Sort of. I am a volunteer at an educational organization. We organize workshops and lessons for kids 6 to 16 yo, though I've mostly been dealing with the younger ones this past year. I find it very satisfying, as I consider my own education to have been lacking. And so I want the new generation to have it better. It's quite different from a full experience, but I assume a parent-like role for a couple hours. Interestingly, I am one of, I think, four men in that organization. Out of, like, fifty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Can you advocate for both men and women’s rights?This guy knows what's up. Both sexes have issues specific to them and can use a movement dedicated to addressing them. And yet most men, instead of trying to help each other, put incredible effort into tearing down female initiatives. Because sadly, men are generally not that good at cooperation. And you're only capable of so much on your own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you be ok with a woman sleeping with you because she has to?I'm literally a virgin and I wouldn't take pity sex. I guess my libido ain't that high | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Is being a genuinely nice guy seen only as a detriment in the pursuit of sex or as a detriment period?I mean, being genuinely nice will help with making friends. It won't get you laid though. So it depends what you want, really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Male sexuality is an exploitable weakness unless sublimated & controlledI, for one, am doing my part, by being an incel and not doing anything to change that. No need to thank me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird that I relate to these people?It's not particularly weird. You have a more "female-type" sexuality i guess. Which is pretty much like being a highly attractive man with little to no sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 11:34 AM |
| 9 | Do men still pump and dump if she’s less attractive but REALLY good at sex?Is this how women think about Chads? Fuck, now I'm depressed again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Would the average man rape if he was 100% sure he could get away with it?I sure wouldn't. I truly don't get the point of rape. I want a partner, because I want: 1. Validation 2. To give pleasure to someone else. Neither can be obtained from rape. If I was only concerned with getting my urge satisfied, I might as well jack it, no? Also, the average man is getting laid. I am not an average man though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Would you Date someone on the opposite end of the political spectrum.It would certainly be interesting to meet a hardcore conservative woman, but by god, I would not want to be around her for long. That being said, for all of my wokeness, I am still a loser virgin, and the conservative guys I know don't seem to have much trouble finding a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4ALL] Let's talk about something that TRP and FDS never talk about. Shall we? What do you think about LOVE? Do you believe in it? Are you looking for it? Why is it that FDS never mention it?I believe in it, sure, because I've been in love. It very well might be the worst thing to have happened to me, ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/20 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Women approach Chad; for him they don't need to be seducedI thought we agreed that was a troll post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 3 | So if the average young man is lacking "Alpha" traits why are young women sexually attracted to and having sex with their average(beta) boyfriends?Heh. It's amusing to think that there might be a genuinely, objectively perfect partner for you out there, but she will spend her whole life in some obscure town in Africa you will never go to. On the other hand she might literally live next door and you'll still never interact, because you're a socially retarded shut-in like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:21 AM |
| 2 | The No Makeup Makeup Look is Destroying the Dating Market and Hurting WomenWhat did the poor guy ever do to you? We don't know what his expectations are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Has the "keeping your options open" method worked for you?What options lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | When you look at average tier men, what is it that you think women should be finding SEXUALLY attractive about them?I'm here too. Though I guess I hardly count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 02:13 AM |
| 2 | How would your life change if you knew for certain you would never have physical or romantic intimacy again?Yeah, same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Here's the simply reason why you can't get a girl/boyfriend.Oof. I generally try not to take anything too seriously and have fun here, but this is seriously insulting. Just go away bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Two evolutionary psychologist argue that Evo Psych should move from a MCFC(males compete females choose) model of human mate selection, and focus more on a MMC(Mutual mate choice) model.Boy, I'd love that theory to be true. But it ain't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 18 | CMV: Men being seen as a ''Safe option'' as a partner is an issue.I'm going to take a break from my usual whining to say this was a very nice explanation. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | If prostitution was legal and unstigmatized would a lot of negative sites go away(Inceltears, Redpill, MGTOW1)What? As far as I can tell, most incels absolutely do have access to hookers. So whatever the problem is, it clearly can't be solved that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What is the female equivalent to blue balls? And does female satisfaction even matter enough for there to be a word for almost getting there and not getting there? Female dissatisfaction is the norm but we don't even diserve a word for it because our sexual pleasure is unimportant?Women can't get satisfaction from sex so what does that even matter? Why should there be a word for it? Geez. If you don't like it just don't do it. I don't understand why women ever bother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: What does your love/sex life look like? How has that influenced your beliefs about gender dynamics?Well. Over my 22 years as a virgin, I have come to realize that women are just not interested in sex. Which is fair enough, I suppose, but puts me in a position of having a need I can never fulfill, and so I come here to let out some steam by bitching about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | CMV while biological instincts make a difference for relationships, the ideal solution would be to minimize them rather than to acknowledge and go back to tradition.Yeah, I agree. Small point though: aren't arranged marriagies still common in third world countries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Do men know what it feels like to not be attracted to someone?Well, let's say there is 5% of all people that would be attracted to me and they just don't know me. That is certainly possible, probable even, but functionally, us never interacting is exactly the same as if they didn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 01:55 PM |
| 10 | Do men know what it feels like to not be attracted to someone?There is a world of difference between "this particular guy isn't attracted to me" and "there is literally not a single person on the planet attracted to me". Obviously you can't know what it is like, and I hope you never have to learn. I do not blame women for it though, and for exactly the reasons you've mentioned. I know they can't just flip a switch and be attracted to me. It's just the inherent cruelty of nature. There is no sin. Just suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 1 | “Selling dreams to these girls with they guard down”I've never been anything but genuine. I have also never gotten laid. Hmmmmmm In all seriousness though. Even if I knew for a fact that it would work, I wouldn't manipulate someone into sleeping with me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | How important do you think sexual desire is for women in a relationship?I remain unconvinced that women have sexual desires at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Porn, FOMO and the romantically unsuccessful...but it's not real. My fear of missing out on sex stems from the fact that I ain't having it. If anything, porn helps me relieve my urges in a safe environment. And I really struggle to guess what the "alternatives" might be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/20 01:07 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Most men don't give a shit about woman's age, even for LTRs and marriage. If a woman is hot enough, they won't care if she's 25 or 50.Well, even though I couldn't care less about having kids, I wouldn't ever consider dating a girl too far from my own age range. As you said, the young ones would annoy me, but likewise the older ones would have life experience too far removed from my own. All in all, aiming for similarly aged people seems to me the best option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/19 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Everybody is wrong here.I have a completely different view. For me this sub (and others like it) is just like porn. I can't have the real thing, so I'm letting off steam. It's an outlet for frustration. Only in this case it's not getting romance instead of not getting sex. I know very well there is no solution and I have no hope of finding it here. You say I'm wasting my time, but what the fuck else would you have me do? If you have the "correct" view of the issue, present it. Plus, just because someone presents an "us… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Men don't like feminine women, they like feminine LOOKING women with "masculine" energyI'm a man and I'm often attracted to masculine looking women. Whaddya make of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/19 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Why all the hate for tattoos?I love tattoos on women. I mainly see them as a display of confidence. Which is also why I will never get one myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/19 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Q4All: When was the last time someone approached youMale. I don't think I need to add anything more, do I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | If you could live In any time period- what would it be?Somewhere in the far future. As long as people still exist... Actually scratch that, even if they don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/19 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Men who suffer from Depression or other ongoing mental health problems, how are your experiences with relationships and dating?I went through two years of quite severe depression. With meds and therapy, I dug myself out and I'm almost entirely fine now. But I've never been remotely close to having a girlfriend. I have pretty much accepted that it isn't going to happen. Because of my prolonged isolation I have no social circle and my people skills are not sufficient to make a new one at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/19 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What is the deal with porn hate?Well, since I don't get to have sex for real, porn is a very convenient outlet for my physiology. I'm therefore rather thankful for its existence and availability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/19 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Men shouldn't settle.Look, you're probably not understanding the level of enthusiasm men operate on. And if by some chance you're neither lying nor mistaken, you have to realize you are truly one in a milion. Which is good for you, but hardly helpful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:37 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: What's the problem with being in a relationship with a woman who used to sleep around/has a high n-count?Here's the deal: it wouldn't matter right now. As a matter of fact, it'd be cool to have someone experienced as a first partner. But if I'm still a virgin in my thirties and get attention from a girl who slept with all kinds of guys and now she's turning to me, you'd better believe I'm sending her ass away. Or at least I hope that's what I'd do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Why Do We Have Sex?Bold of you to assume we do xd | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t men appreciate the shit women go through with birth control and pay for dates?What...? Why a dinner? How does that follow? What do those two have to do with each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How are you with your female *friends*?Obligatory few cents from a lifelong incel: my friend group has pretty much always been around 50% women. I have to be honest though, I tend to pursue friendship with girls I don't see as a potential partner, so as to avoid losing a friend after I one-sidedly fall for her, which means most of them are either rather unattractive or have some other disqualifying trait - not necessarily a bad one - just incompatible with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/19 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you think you would be happier if your n count was higher?Well, it depends... I'm a virgin too, and of course I'd like to experience sex before I die, but the circumstances are very important. If the n doesn't stand for a person I care about, then I don't believe it'd be much of an improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/19 01:08 AM |
| 2 | What Do You Get Out Of This?Yeah, I figured that was the case. Apology accepted. And good luck man, may you find what I could not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | What Do You Get Out Of This?I'm straight up just an incel, here to bitch about how unfair life is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/19 11:48 PM |
| 3 | A lot of the anger from mgtow/omega types is because who "they are" is fundamentally unattractive to womenHah, I wish XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 11:10 PM |
| 8 | A lot of the anger from mgtow/omega types is because who "they are" is fundamentally unattractive to womenSo if I'm understanding you correctly, you're admitting the female Johns are not just rare, but that they only end up in those spaces looking for a mate to settle for? I'd also like to point out an aspect of the original post you've missed: changing yourself to become more attractive is not necessarily "improvement". Quite the opposite actually. I don't want alpha traits. I am perfectly happy with my beta self. But to appeal to women I'd have to change that. And that is not going to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 11:00 PM |
| 7 | A lot of the anger from mgtow/omega types is because who "they are" is fundamentally unattractive to womenI used to be like that, but now I don't even hate myself anymore. I am a cool dude, just unappealing in a sexual sense. Like our hypothetical John. Perhaps I could change myself to the point where I would become attractive to women, but I have made the decision that I value my own identity more than finding a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/19 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What do you want to be appreciated for?This sounds enticing. To finally find out what it's like to be desired by liteterally anyone? But I can't bring myself to do that. I'd be deceiving them in a very shitty way. But if I ever get an opportunity to visit under a legitimate reason, I will take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/19 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Q4Men: under what circumstances would you turn down sex?Not a hypothetical I actually need to worry about, but honestly, I would turn down any girl I didn't know enough to trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: what difference does it make to your life watching porn vs not watching?Actually, I do have an experience of not masturbating at all for like two years. I was very young and religious, so I thought I was sinning or some shit. It fucked me up. I learned to fear and hate my body and it's desires. I suppressed it all, up until I parted ways with religion altogether. Nowadays I wank and watch porn regularly, because I'm well aware it's the only sexual outlet I'll ever get, so why wouldn't I? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/19 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Would you rather be rich and loved by women for your money or poor/average and be looked over by women.This is the worst would you rather question I have ever seen. You're supposed to present some sort of dilemma. This is just a back handed insult towards the people that disagree with your generalizations... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 10:26 PM |
| 2 | What makes a girl physically attractive to you?Most girls have some angle to work, but what really gets my peepee excited is anything "alternative". Piercings, tattoos, short, colourful hair, extravagant outfit. Even a relatively plain girl can get to hot territory with some spice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.Does it not though? What I'm trying to show you is that while you have that ability and see no benefit, I see the detrimental effects of not having it. Unless of course you are arguing that women are wholly uninterested in being desired, which seems dubious to me. Following you coupon analogy: you only scoff at shitty restaurants because you can afford better ones. So if you don't want it, I'll take it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Given the chance, would you switch to being a woman? How do you think dating/sex would impact your life?Although women have it way easier when it comes to dating, I don't see them having it easier overall, so nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.As a man with no ability to get sex in any form: You have no idea how much I would give for a random drunk teenager to come onto me. I would never take him up on the offer. Hell, I wouldn't have sex with a pretty girl I didn't know well. That's not what this is about. The only real difference is that you could get sex if you wanted. Whether it'd lead anywhere is hardly relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Can you have a good life as a single?For me it all comes down to this: If I was single by choice, I'd be fine with it. As it is, It'd be just trying to convince myself that "I didn't want it anyway". It's bullshit because I don't know that. And I never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traitsI think you are right in that I've accepted my situation. I am absolutely not willing to change solely for the purpose of attracting a mate. And if the price for being myself is dying a virgin, so be it. Doesn't mean I'm not bummed out about it. As for my standards, I don't think they have anywhere lower to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traitsSorry. I'm just really sick of hearing that in general. Is the person willing to take me somewhere and be actually helpful? Plus it's so vague: "get out there". Okay, where? Lets say I want to meet someone. I leave my house. Then where do I go? When you have no friends it making new ones nearly impossible. The rich get richer. The poor get poorer. And now I'm ranting like every time I go on relationship reddit. My therapist is starting a group therapy project next week and recommended that I joi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traitsOkay then what is it? Am I ugly? No, not particularly. Am I overweight? No. Am I boring? I think I'm pretty interesting, if I may say so myself. If there's anything I'm lacking, it's social skills. But I like talking to people, I'm just not very good at it. Would that be enough to render me completely ineligible? I've gotta say, I'm pretty comfortable with who I am and I'm hardly willing to change just to appear more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traitsYes and no. The one thing i sorely miss is a circle of friends. Especially since I used to have one I brought out of high school. But since that has come apart, I have only loose connections here and there. I do however "put myself out there", which doesn't seem to be much help. I go to a place, do a thing, then go back and never see any any of the people I met there ever again. Don't get me wrong: I am having fun, if I didn't, I'd have given up long ago. But the claim that it's enough to go out… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Study: Women's sexual attraction towards men is less affected on the men's personal traits, men's sexual attraction towards women is more affected by women's personal traitsI mean... I've been living my life for quite some time, and have had found not a single woman interested in me. At some point you have to stop and ask yourself why. Sure, I'd love to just forget about it and move on, but there's a whole part of life I'm missing out on. These aren't feelings I can just ignore. At least not all the time. That being said, I don't actually think there are any answers to be found here. I'm just meant to be alone and that's that. And so I comfort myself by watching ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How long was your longest dry spell?I was going to comment, but I would just be repeating after you. The only difference is I'm only 21. And I gotta say, browsing these subs isn't particularly helpful, yet I can't help myself. Stay strong brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/19 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Men should not allow sex to influence their actions.Holy hell, this is a depressing post to read. I actually largely agree with you here. It suprises me every time how many men treat sex as the ultimate goal of their life. I don't understand it and I don't think I want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/19 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: purely philosophically, wouldn’t it be more honest for a man initially approaching a woman for the very first time to comment or remark on her appearance, looks, or how attractive he finds her?Look... Correct me if you will, I have literally zero experience with dating, but this just sounds like a made up problem. Why would you need to start with that at all? Think of some opening line about the place you're in or whatever and if she ever asks why you approached her, say she caught your eye. There is no need to lie at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/19 12:00 AM |
| 8 | My Red Pill Detox has been simply having female friendsAs a native Pole, yer welcome! I honestly think having female friends saved me from becoming hateful by falling into the trap of overly generalizing. Whenever I catch myself making a statement like: "all women...", I can think: "yeah, but so and so isn't like that". Didn't save me from being a kissless virgin, but what can you do. It's not the women's fault I'm undesirable. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/19 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Why don't more guys who want casual sex, and observe that assholes get casual sex more easily, just....behave like assholes?I don't like hurting people. We could talk about moral systems and such, but in the end it all comes down to the fact that it feels good to be nice and it feels bad to be an ass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Why don't more guys who want casual sex, and observe that assholes get casual sex more easily, just....behave like assholes?Because it isn't worth it. Sure, I'd like to see what sex is like, but not at the price of being an asshole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you really don't understand why men don't wanna be the "great guy" who ends up with you after you go through all the "assholes"?Not for me. If being a good person prevents me from being laid then I will not get laid. I've been a virgin for nearly 22 years. It ain't that bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I am female, but I might have gone down the TRP path if I were male.Hmm. Well I might just be the male version of you, and yet, I did not turn to red pill ideology. Why not? Honestly, I think it's because my libido is below average. I am merely uncomfortable with my celibacy, not desperate. If being a good man isn't enough, then so be it. If getting laid requires "games" and "strategies", then it's way more trouble than it's worth and my sex drive isn't strong enough to compel me to pursue it. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/19 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Dunno. This thread will serve as a valuable set of data for me. I'm sure I'll talk about this at length with my therapist. The responses, as varied as they are, seem to agree on one thing: I'm basically commiting the fallacy of argument from personal incredulity. Just because I've never witnessed a woman being sexual doesn't mean that never happens. I can't really argue with that. Which naturally leads to the next logical question: why have I never seen it? I'm not gonna jump to conclusions here… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/19 09:39 PM |
| -1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Hmm. We might just have a winner. The real way I'm unattractive is by being unmasculine and too agreeable, but no woman would ever tell me that. And you know what? I'm fine with this. If it's a choice between being friends with women or fucking them, I guess I'll stay a virgin forever. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/07/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?I think I see the difference you're trying to find. For you, sexual attraction is something that appears AFTER a relationship has been established. For me, this happens BEFORE, even though I also can't see myself engaging in sex outside of a relationship. If I were ever in one, that is. This turns me away from even wanting to approach women, tbh. I'd be coming in already being influenced by my drive and she'd be free of this burden. Which puts me at a perpetual disadvantage. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?This is definitely a helpful answer. To clarify, my number of partners is exactly zero. As is the number of people who have ever shown any interest in me in that way. And believe me, if I could just stop thinking about it, we wouldn't be talking. On the topic of meeting people though. I've lately been making an effort to attend various events. I love music, so concerts. I love tabletop games, so RPG sessions with strangers. I like arguing, so a philosophy club. I don't regret doing this. I'm hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Am I a new type of "pill"?You know what? I think I will read that. I doubt it's gonna make me feel any better, but at very least I should be depressed for the right reasons | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Hmm. You might be closest to a reasonable explanation. It's not that women aren't sexual at all. It's just that they're not sexual towards me. And I guess I could blame my looks for it like all the others. But I can't buy that. I'm not particularly ugly. I'm not overweight, I work out, I adhere to proper hygiene. My face looks pretty average. Maybe I'm just a piece of shit and people can tell at first glance they're not interested. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:42 PM |
| 0 | Am I a new type of "pill"?O mean... Do they? I have always looked at same sex relationships as "better", even though I wouldn't want to be gay myself. All the discrimination more than makes up for any benefits. And by better I mean more equal. With two men, they both want sex and that desire can be fulfilled. With two women, there is no desire and thus no disappointment. They just love each other, live together and do all the other stuff. Sex isn't necessary. Kind of beautiful if you ask me. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Right. I think this is a very key point. How did I arrive at those conclusions? I think it all starts with what I know from home. Last time my parents had sex was sixteen years ago, for the sole purpose of conceiving my younger sibling. I have never sen them display any affection, kiss or even hold hands. That alone could lead me down the path of sexuality being a hoax altogether, but for male sex drive I have direct, first hand evidence. After that, it's mostly the work of culture surrounding m… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Right. Not very helpful, but thanks for your input. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Yeah, I do have female friends. Long-term ones. All of them are in relationships AND I am attracted to none of them. Have I heard them talk about sexuality? No, never. With a few, I tried asking myself, and have gotten wildly varied responses: from "no, sex is fine" to "I absolutely have no interest in it". Evidence inconclusive, I'd say. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I a new type of "pill"?Are one night stands even a thing? I thought it was just code for scummy men manipulating drunk girls into sleeping with them. And for your second point, I think you misread my post. I DO NOT think they're doing it for money, but for the good of the relationship. At least mostly. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/19 03:02 PM |
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