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Question For WomenCastamira/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 01:33 PM
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They can but I think it’s tremendously less so unless the woman is Star Fishing and or has a low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 04:58 AM
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My worry is the woman devaluing her next partner by comparing certain things about the previous, AKA ex was better at sex, etc. etc. instead of looking at the whole picture for the new partner. I get the feeling women(especially younger women) will compare sexual attraction and sexual performance from multiple men, and the more men they sleep with only furthers this, so instead of getting with a man who’s genuinely right and compatible for them, they end up looking for a man who gives them that …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:16 AM
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Easier said than done, trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 06:02 PM
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I can’t do anything besides what? Spending more years in the gym? Getting on steroids? Getting a hair transplant and taking medication that I’ve already tried that makes me extremely depressed and gives me low libido? I agree with you though overall she has way more options, it just sucks because she’s knowingly at this point getting herself into heartbreak because she wants to chase mr. Perfect, she’s not super caring about the finances but she’s obsessed with looks and personality, and when I …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:40 PM
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I also have a decent physique/strength. The girl I’m/was talking to is obsessed with finding some dude who she finds extremely attractive and gives off some personality vibes she really wants. This is after us sharing a ridiculous amount of hours on call and FaceTiming, texting nonstop, me being there for her when she was sad and depressed and venting, having phone sex with her many times etc. etc. Instead of giving me an actual chance she’s currently chasing some dude she met once in Canada and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:35 PM
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Sucks boss, just feels like no matter what I do it’s never enough, I’m told being in shape, being goofy/funny and genuinely nice is enough to land a cute girl and here I am, in a ending situationship with a girl who never actually gave me a chance who’s chasing some dude who’s more physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:21 PM
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Yep unfortunately it’s true. Sucks because there’s plenty of money to be made in nuclear families but right now with our current culture and dating scene there’s just SOO much more to be made in the chase vs stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/25 03:14 PM
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They literally are tho lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 08:24 PM
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I’m not asking for everyone to be perceived as equally attractive, just for men who might have traits like balding, average height to not be seen as hideous freaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/25 01:42 PM
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Considering joining a powerlifting club/training thing but that wouldn’t really be a great place to meet women, I’ve seen women there but I’m almost 100% they have boyfriends lol Mostly just interested in learning how to properly deadlift and squat and get some friends my age who are close, all my friends are out of state so I’m a pretty big loner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:44 PM
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Don’t get me started with the hair shit, you might as well be a monk until you actual achieve a bodybuilder physique or get on hair treatment. Again, even with a lean smaller physique you still need to obtain decent muscle so you’re not just skin and fat, not saying you need a TON of mass. Will still take year(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:13 PM
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If you’re actually set in a properly routine and diet? Sure, again still difficult, can’t be messing around and you have to actually know how to push yourself. Again if you are overweight or skinny it’s going to be more difficult. I’m not saying it’s impossible, I just hate seeing people say that going to the gym as a guy is really simple bro! Nah it’s a lot of trial/error and research. Compare that to just doing legs as a woman and messing around with light Dbs and a slight cut or bulk lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:10 PM
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??? Where are you getting any of that lol? All I’m saying is that bodybuilding and achieving even a good looking lean physique is more difficult than how people make it sound to be. There’s way more time and effort you have to put in as man vs being a woman. You could literally just slug around 5lb DBs, do some rope pull downs, and focus mostly on legs while being either in a caloric deficit or maintenance and you’ll achieve a female physique most guys will like.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 07:03 PM
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Yeah this again insinuates that you’re already familiar with bodybuilding and know how to properly diet. Bulking for the first time for about a few months than cutting isn’t gonna land you a super amazing physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:50 PM
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Not a skater boy unfortunately or Christian. I’ve tried book stores and cafés but I never got any super interested vibes to ask for numbers. Not trying to ask every girl there for a number either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:48 PM
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Really wish there was more 3rd places for younger people that encouraged socializing besides bars and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:35 PM
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Just gonna say don’t, you need to really do your research when it comes to cycles and understand what they can do to your hormones over time. And unless you’re taking several things including HGH and Insulin it’ll still take time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:33 PM
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Yeah that still takes a lot of time and effort lol. I really don’t think most of you realize the effort and time you have to put in to actually obtain a nice physique, especially if you’re overweight or underweight. Even with steroids it’ll take years to get something nice, unless you already have a low BF%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 06:30 PM
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Actually yes they’ve done studies on this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 12:10 AM
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Reminder that women like this who obsess over height un-ironically believe that tall men are healthier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:50 PM
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I wasn’t trying to do some own or shit talk women, I just genuinely believe a lot women have standards that aren’t necessarily realistic. If someone is so unwilling to change or make concessions that may ultimately benefit them then that’s on them. Maybe this is just me but I feel like we don’t tend to give this much sympathy or understanding to a guy in a similar situation. Oh you’re really average and out of shape and want a skinny hot girl? Well good luck with that idiot lol. It’s just diffic…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:40 PM
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??? Being autistic or short isn’t a sign of being “unhealthy” lol People who are taller are actually more susceptible to certain cancers and bone issues than shorter people. Shorter people actually live longer on average than taller people. Autism, unless it’s severe, isn’t going to ruin your life or make it more difficult, you’re just going to have a slightly more complicated time socializing or picking up certain cues, again depends. Terrible own btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:31 PM
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I mean fat and chubbier women are also sought after way more now sooo. The whole trans thing is a different bag because men just objectively want biological women who can produce offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 05:14 PM
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Bro trying to be as real and good faith as possible. Like again lol just saying if people want to be happier, sometimes it’s better to be more humble and realistic instead of having some super idealistic thing you want that’s probably way out of your league. I’m not saying people should be forced to change it, but again like people are not objectively happier with these choices, I just want people to be as happy as possible. And there’s definitely an objective to this, it’s not all just subjecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:30 PM
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They definitely want sex but they tend to pickier about it which is fine, although I think it’s gotten a little bit too ridiculous in some cases in which men they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:20 PM
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I mean again it’s really not benefiting them because nobody is really happy lol They have way more access to hook-ups with men who are probably leagues above them but like it doesn’t really mean anything if all they want is sex. The only people who are really “happy” and benefiting are a select few men and women who only want STRs and constant sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:13 PM
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It might not for you but I feel like it has a for a lot of men. Heavier and chubbier women are seen as way more attractive then they were twenty, thirty years ago and the same really hasn’t been applied to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:06 PM
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I’m kinda just saying that maybe people need to have more realistic standards and stop harshly judging the opposite sex for being “ugly” when they’re just as objectively “ugly”. If they wanna have high standards sure go ahead, but it doesn’t seem to really be working for anybody besides a select few men and women who only want hook-ups. Not saying we need ban make up or anything, but people shouldn’t be covered with that and call guys “ugly”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:03 PM
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Men and Women inherently need each other in order for society to work. Women are also lonely, they’re just able to mitigate it better through hook-ups and being perceived friendly which gives them access to more friends. Men are objectively lonelier that’s true, but you can blame society for treating men’s issues still in a 21st century post-modern world like it’s the 1920s and they need to pull-themselves up from their bootstraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 04:00 PM
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Is there potentially like anything women might be responsible for? Could there be a chance that women today might have higher standards that might be a bit on the sillier side? Could women just not be attracted anymore to their equivalent? Could things like makeup, fillers, extensions etc. be giving women a false sense of superiority over “ugly” men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:41 PM
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Can’t society help tho by building more 3rd places or create like government agencies tasked with matching people? Isn’t there countries right now with dating services used by the government?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:38 PM
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Maybe not the government but what’s wrong with the idea of the media making guys who might have more “undesirable” traits be perceived as more attractive? The media is literally doing this as we speak with women when it comes to body types, defects, weight, height etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/25 03:36 PM
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I mean that’s nice and all but my standards aren’t high and im unable to find anyone who meets them lol You’d have a point if my standards were like:must be supermodel, blonde, have an education, like everything that I do, be extremely athletic, want babies immediately. But it’s not, I’m just looking for a mid who’s in decent shape and doesn’t already have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:46 AM
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Just gonna ignore 1 since I’m not married but 2 & 3 only really apply to neets who are complete shut ins and don’t bathe. There’s plenty of men out there who put themselves out there, groom themselves, talk to women and men etc. and are still unable to attract a suitable woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 12:56 AM
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Sure but you’re not going to find any data to suggest that this occurred more in the past than it does now lol And in the end regardless of how “toxic” those households were, they were ultimately more productive and beneficial to children then being raised in single parent(mother) households. Data suggests that children raised in these homes are far more likely to commit crimes, fail in education, and succeed far less in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 08:52 AM
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Well unfortunately for men there’s very little socially acceptable ways to hide or enhance our natural beauty. If women weren’t able to wear makeup, get lip fillers, shave their eyebrows and put fake ones on, wear wigs, wear hair extensions, etc. etc. they’d be just as ugly. I’m really sick of this shit that women are just naturally beautiful than they do all of this lol Again I think men and women are the same in terms of ugliness, we just culturally value women’s more and everything in terms o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 08:47 PM
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Most of our grandparents didn’t have marriages arranged, that’s still a bit early, at least for white america. My grandparents met through college, and my parents met at a highschool party. Even my great grandparents weren’t arranged, they met in the UK during WW2 when my Great grandfather was an Air Force Officer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:35 PM
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Well ultimately what I want is a society that’s actually happy and responsible and is able to have replaceable birthrates. I don’t think a society with millions of single mothers is good, children raised in these households are more likely to become criminals, anti social, violent, and not be as successful. Again being promiscuous is just a net negative to society, nothing good has come from this. Now we have this male single problem where a growing amount of men are virgins and single and women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:28 PM
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Unfortunately none of my friends know women or have sisters/cousins available. I’ll very rarely get asked by my parents who do know a lot of people if I want to meet a girl they know from their friends. And either they’re not my type(overweight) or they are, but before we even get to meet they say they’re not emotionally available. And we never get to meet in person, even as friends or acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:12 PM
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Well first of all I don’t know that many women in life, I don’t go college, and my Job is like 5 older men. This logic would work if all of those things pertained to me but they just don’t. I go to the gym, cafés, my B&N’s, and vinyl stores, I do small talk, try to engage with them and it doesn’t lead to anything. I don’t randomly try to flirt and do bad pick up lines. I’m not trying to be egotistical but I don’t think it’s my personality, in fact I really don’t think having a bad personality st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 04:03 PM
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Let’s say thats true, that it’s normal for guys to be promiscuous and sleep with many women, is that ultimately a good thing? Is it a good thing for society to have people be promiscuous? Men or Women? I don’t think it is, I think this kind of behavior results in bad situations and outcomes for not only individuals but society as a whole. Reminder there’s a difference between actually being promiscuous and a guy seeing multiple different women attractive and wanting them. I’ve had a couple chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 02:44 PM
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Well something is going on because women don’t want us. And no men aren’t objectively uglier now than the average woman. We’re the same ugly, women are just allowed to hide a bit of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 12:45 AM
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This is a really dumb conversation, you’re arguing pure semantics that’s irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 09:40 PM
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“Im so fweakin winning here” If you have to say you’re winning you’re not winning anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:21 PM
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This is a really boring conversation, having friends and families can’t fill the hole romance and love fills. My male ass has to be the romantic gender here to explain this to you. I have decent amount of online friends, we do stuff irl occasionally across state, we talk every day which includes ours problems. Yes it would be nice to have more IRL friends, STILL NOT A LOVING GIRLFRIEND.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:10 PM
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Unpopular opinion but genuinely good people deserve love and romance if they want it. I know very crazy. A lot of us have friends and families in our lives, that still can’t fill a certain void in our souls that want romance, sex, and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:07 PM
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When a large amount of men are talking about the male loneliness epidemic they really mean the romantic aspect, a lot of us do actually have some friends either online or IRL that make us happy and have parents/siblings, etc. Not denying a decent amount don’t, and that getting friends will definitely improve their happiness but it’s not a 100% cure. Again we don’t wanna wife up and have children with our bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 08:04 PM
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Again though like he was saying you can 100% have friends and family in your life and do shit with them and be happy. But for a lot of us including women that isn’t enough, we’re human, we yearn for love, and yes have sex, not just sex though. If it was just sex we’d hire prostitutes and be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:58 PM
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Stop turning this conversation into something else. Just asking for women to not be obtuse and make general statements categorizing their entire gender into a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:54 PM
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Yeah I don’t know what universe where you think hanging out with 5 old guys who drink and do drugs nonstop is a good way to meet women and men my age lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:52 PM
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Is your work 5 dudes in their 50s busting out concrete and pouring it with you than preceding to go get drunk and high?(latter part isn’t me) Again just stop with the gaslighting, no “creating a community” is not feasible. You think our fathers and grandfathers had to create a community to meet a nice woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:33 PM
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Man I just think guys want romance and love in their life. You can definitely get emotional support from friends and that can make you happier but I got a constant hole in my heart that can’t be filled by male friends lol Yeah for SOME guys all they need is some bros and they’re good, however again, a lot of us want romantic relationships with women not just sex(yes sex is a part of it). Sorry I’m not trying to wife up my best friend and have sex with him. Downplaying this as silly and men just …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:24 PM
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I mean I think it’s reasonable to think that people shouldn’t be rude for no reason unless given one. “Well that’s just the way the world works” I’m not arguing from how it currently operates, it’s why I made this post, and right now cold approaching and dating apps are really my only feasible ways to meet women. I’d like to eventually get into martial arts or maybe power lifting training at my gym. Maybe take a cooking class(expensive).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:09 PM
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How are you seriously asking this? How do you not know the difference between saying “guys it’s just an opinion every woman thinks a bit differently when it comes to cold approaching” And saying “NEVER approach women(all) here because here is BAD and if you do it’s GROSS and you’re BAD if you do!” Like again the point is that it’s very confusing lol men want to know where it’s acceptable to cold approach and meet women, we don’t wanna look like creeps.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 07:02 PM
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It’s ridiculous because “creating a community” isn’t a reasonable thing to expect a man to do. Nor is becoming a leader, not every man can be a leader within a group. It’s not a feasible or viable thing to tell the average man to do. Playing a sport COULD make you more attractive depending on what it is and whether other women play in it too or if you already have a preexisting group that includes women. IE if you enjoy Soft ball or baseball join an adults league. Women are often involved and yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:56 PM
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Yeah I don’t think large amounts of men are saying that anywhere besides very certain online red pill communities. When was the last time in person a man told you that? I’ve been told these things by women in person not to do, and I’ve seen countless threads, videos about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:47 PM
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Again point is that stating something that’s purely opinionated and subjective to different women as pure fact and demanding men adhere to it is fucked up. It’s very confusing and nerve racking to hear women say that if a guy ever approaches women at X they feel vulnerable and just don’t, don’t ever do it or you’re a terrible man is just very toxic and shitty behavior. Like I’m not stupid but I am a guy, I got simple guy brain for certain things and I don’t want to make a woman feel uncomfortabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:44 PM
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Will do, from now on my ass isn’t taking what they say as pure fact. And yeah I tend to forget women will do that mean girl shit and get annoying if something like an ick or “red flag” isn’t stopped immediately for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:38 PM
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I think the biggest difference between that though and what I’m talking about is that those aren’t IRL situations in which someone is subjected to put themselves in and engage with strangers. Yeah stating those as facts is dumb as shit but it’s not going to confuse women when engaging with men and potentially get them rejected or just prevent them even trying. The OF/Porn star example does kinda but that’s an extremely small subjection of people who this retains to. And I know this is just an op…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:16 PM
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It just makes it 10x worse when it comes to cold approaching, like in theory I don’t have a problem with it and when I have tried I wasn’t a weirdo or did cheesy pickup lines. And with the way things are nowadays men can be accused of things they didn’t do or mean(yes I know this isn’t common but it’s happening more than ever). Like I’d feel terrible for days if I cold approached a woman and she was an asshole immediately or accused me of something, or asked her boyfriend that I didn’t see to co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:08 PM
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Which is fair but again it’s stating them as fact and demanding all men to never do X only do Z or they’re bad people or weird. Then having another group say the exact opposite or something slightly different and again demand men adhere to it. I think most men know their sexual or attraction preferences are just opinion. They’re not going to demand women get boob implants because “all men like them and bigger boobs”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 06:01 PM
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Yeah if those are being stated as fact that’s sad. 1.) no they won’t, I had a couple moments to hookup with someone and I didn’t because it was a terrible idea. 2.) most men aren’t pedophiles, and we aren’t living in the Bronze Age anymore raiding and pillaging for little girls. 3.) I’m 25 and I’d really prefer someone my age up to 30, older men do like older women too. 4.) again we’re not in the Bronze Age anymore, you’re not a steppe warlord with 3 wives lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:56 PM
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Yeah I’ve thought about this a lot, in highschool I really didn’t have any interest in women or having a girlfriend. Then I moved states right after highschool and lost all my friends. Didn’t go to college, and my job right now consists of 5 older guys in their 50s who drink heavily lol(I’m 25). That being said I still have time to go to college and not be that really old weird guy, I am thinking about it, but not just to get girls or friends lmfao. But yeah I wish I was told more about that, ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:47 PM
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??? Except they aren’t stating their opinions as just opinions they’re stating them as facts that need to be adhered to. If I hear a woman say “NEVER approach us at the gym we don’t like it, it’s gross” that’s not just an opinion that’s them making a statement and an order.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:41 PM
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All very fair points. I think my main problem which i didn’t really state is women telling their preferences to men as fact, and demanding men adhere to them, regardless if they’re a feminist or not. I’ve had a lot women tell me as fact that they don’t like being approached for example at grocery stores and Gyms, to never do it, there’s also a lot of guys who say the same but they could just be doing the same thing as me. Like I said very tiring and confusing, you’d think logically to a degree t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:40 PM
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In what ways are men doing it? To be fair I think men could be a bit more monolithic on certain things? I’m sure there’s things men aren’t though, especially on what we find attractive. For example I think a woman with a very pretty face is more attractive than what the rest of her body looks like(besides being in relative shape).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:30 PM
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Yeah I should, although I think women should be called out on this because again it’s kinda shitty behavior and it’s not helping guys out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:27 PM
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I’m fine with cold approaching I’d just rather not be rejected every time, I don’t think most men are lol. Like whenever I have cold approached we have decent small talk and I compliment them on something a bit more meaningful, they just don’t lead to anything besides that, I get a pretty clear message they aren’t interested and I end it as friendly as possible. Id say my confidence is fine, although being rejected can stab it a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:22 PM
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Sure that makes sense, I think my problem lies with women stating these things as fact and not just preference, as if the majority of women believe it. Then having another separate group of women saying the opposite, then both groups demanding men adhere to it and never approach them at X but it’s fine at Z( X and Z being swapped). Like i said very confusing and tiring, and cold approaching is nerve racking regardless of how confident you are in the moment, you never know where it’s going to lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 05:05 PM
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That’s understandable. It’s just very nerve racking cold approaching strangers regardless of how confident you are and preceding to fail constantly because like you said, it might’ve been a no from the beginning. My other problem is women stating what they like as fact and kinda implying most women have the same opinion, then demanding men follow these rules only to have another set of women saying the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:58 PM
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It’s just confusing because women very often present their preferences as fact and demand men adhere to them. “No it’s not acceptable to approach women at X never do it, it’s Ok tho at Z”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:54 PM
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Sure that’s fair, like I said to another woman it just really makes a big difference in whether anything leads to something or not. I could be automatically disqualified from the beginning and having your confidence squashed constantly isn’t fun. I think my other problem is just women stating these things like fact and saying “NO men DONT do X do Z women won’t like that!” It’s very damn confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:50 PM
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That’s fair I guess, yeah I know women aren’t a monolith but when it comes to dating and cold approaching it really makes a difference. It being a 50/50 or 60/40 or 70/30 split on it being not acceptable to acceptable makes a massive difference in whether it leads to anything or not. So what’s the solution then? Should I just keep on cold approaching random women until it works? Edit: My other problem is women presenting their preferences as fact and demanding men adhere to them as if all women …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:46 PM
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I mean I can bring up data that supports what I’m saying, post Sexual Revolution, and 2nd wave feminism things haven’t gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:07 PM
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I think there’s a pretty big difference between another conservative administration and what we have going on now. The situation right now with Trump, Red pillers, the Single male Crisis, and the rise of the ACTUAL far right isn’t comparable to something like Bush or Reagan. The country wasn’t nearly as divided as it was with those administrations. We are so divided on so many levels, be it race, class, or gender, it’s not good. I’m not saying this 100% going to lead to a fascist takeover becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:03 PM
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Maybe when it comes to hooking up with but you kinda answered it yourself, they’re physically attractive men. They’re not giving the average Joe Schmo free sex in the meantime while they wait for Mr. Perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:46 PM
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Yeah I just completely disagree lol Liberal women in cities especially educated, are very notorious for wanting a man who’s educated, liberal, but also makes just as much money/ more and add on top whatever immutable traits they like. Go on Tik Tok and search up Icks and red flags, 90% of them are clearly women in cities/urban areas with the dumbest preferences and standards. EDIT: unless you’re referring to a kind of very progressive radical woman who isn’t attractive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah I just don’t agree? What are you saying that women with high standards aren’t in places like cities or progressive areas? That it’s actually the opposite? I just completely disagree unless we’re specifically talking about the black or Hispanic communities in cities(not racist).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:22 PM
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I think you’re overly placing how common guys like these are. I think the more attractive a guy is, wealthy or socially relevant will probably do this kinda shit. I think a large amount of average attractiveness men like myself do want long term relationships and aren’t promiscuous. I think a lot of the guys who watch Andrew Tate and the idiots who say this shit probably do too, they’re just infatuated with the toxicity and occasional acknowledgement that men have it hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:12 PM
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Well the reason why at least in my opinion, you can partly blame the SR for it is because the SR opened up men to being overtly and openly promiscuous and lowering their standards across the board. This inadvertently gave women a ridiculous amount of options packed on top women entering the workforce and losing the need to marry men for financial security. Because women now have a lions-share of availability when it comes to suitors, don’t need men for FS, means they can now have high standards …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 03:03 PM
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Yeah I largely agree with this, I find it very cringey when these guys try to justify men being promiscuous as normal. Hard take here but I think promiscuity is overall a net negative for society regardless if it’s a man or woman doing it. Everything points to the sexual revolution being overall a negative, IE: more divorces, lower birthrates, single mother households, and now this single male crisis.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 02:18 PM
2

Yeah if you live in a city and people are critiquing you hard for not having a car they’re just trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 12:46 PM
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