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The seddit version: http://i.imgur.com/BgQzZ.jpg
/r/seduction14/02/12 01:03 AM
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What was wrong with the other glossary? What do you mean by "shitty terms?"
/r/seduction10/02/12 11:23 PM
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Agreed. There are two parts to the game. Improving your life takes longer, but will make you happier in the longterm. However, having a great life is no guarantee for having great women in your life. There are also specific ways of communicating with women that the community teaches that will make you better with women, regardless of where you are in life.
/r/seduction16/02/11 03:59 AM
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Have you actually read either of those two books? I wouldn't recommend them to anyone.
/r/seduction15/02/11 12:27 AM
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Some girl tried to vote for him, but she was shot down.
/r/seduction11/01/11 04:58 PM
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Those are pretty grainy photos. Try: http://www.pualingo.com/pick-up-artist-profiles/
/r/seduction06/01/11 10:24 AM
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Sounds like you think that kino is used to build rapport? It can serve that purpose, but during seduction you're using kino to get women used to your touch and escalate physically. If you want to get physical with a woman, you have to touch her physically. That's what kino is about.
/r/seduction18/08/10 07:33 PM
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Please post a follow-up and let us know what happens. I'm curious to see how this goes.
/r/seduction16/08/10 03:18 AM
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Great article, solid advice.
/r/seduction11/08/10 09:38 PM
2

Game is great relationship game.
/r/seduction11/08/10 06:02 AM
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If she agrees to meet up with you again, it's definitely on, since you've already made your intentions pretty clear. Like others have said, the whole kiss could be a cultural thing, so just ignore it if she agrees to meet up with you again. In general, I would recommend going for the kiss earlier in the date. Saving it until the last minute just puts too much pressure on the moment. Make out with her throughout the date, and escalate from there.
/r/seduction10/08/10 10:47 PM
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That's not true at all. You obviously haven't been paying attention to fashion trends. Getting jeans that are fitted is a given. Rolling up said jeans does not make you look "grandpa", it's a fashion statement.
/r/seduction09/08/10 09:05 AM
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The rolled up jeans look is definitely in style right now. Just check out some picks from one of my favorite sites, The Sartorialist. You'll notice that practically every guy featured on the site with long pants has the bottoms rolled: http://thesartorialist.blogspot.com/
/r/seduction09/08/10 07:12 AM
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It's not just girls. The rolled up jeans look is definitely in style, and has been for the past couple years. If you have a nice pair of designer jeans, rolling up the bottom can really give you a different look. Just make sure you have matching socks underneath.
/r/seduction09/08/10 07:09 AM
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http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/shit-test/
/r/seduction06/08/10 06:46 PM
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First of all, I'm not white. Second of all, don't go asking for other people's experiences if you're not interested in them. Minorities are going to be at a disadvantage in some situations. That's a fact. Nothing productive is going to come out of bitching about it on reddit. There are pua products aimed specifically at asian guys. If you're having trouble getting over being asian, I suggest you check them out: http://www.pualingo.com/recommended/asiandating/
/r/seduction30/07/10 05:58 PM
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Dude, I have tons of Asian friends with hot white girlfriends. But yeah, it might be tougher for Asian guys to get white girls in some social situations. So what? What are you looking to get out of this thread? A pat on the back? Being a minority is going to put you at a disadvantage in some situations. Deal with it. See also: http://www.whitegirlswithasianguys.com/
/r/seduction30/07/10 05:42 PM
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Hey punkerdante182. First of all, don't worry about whether it's a "date" when you go out with a girl. In fact, you shouldn't be calling it date anyway. The word "date" has a lot of connotations that set the wrong frame, which is why PUAs avoid the term and call them "day 2s". Plus a "date" puts too much pressure on the girl. You guys are just going out to have fun, and seeing where things go (hopefully to your bedroom). Secondly, don't be concerned about what her intentions/expectations are. Yo…
/r/seduction23/07/10 02:43 AM
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Seconded. Channel that anger towards something productive, like crushing weights at the gym, especially if you're a programmer.
/r/seduction20/07/10 03:23 AM
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I'm going to agree with ClevelandPUA, and say that you aren't the one that fucked up, she's the one that's fucked up. If she really has emotional trauma from past relationships, that's something that she is going to work through. Don't make it hard for yourself by chasing after someone who's not open to a relationship. On to the next one. And when a date brings up an ex, don't dwell on the negativity or listen to their sob stories. They will just associate the negative emotions with you. Try to …
/r/seduction19/07/10 08:11 PM
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Sign up for an improv class or practice the "yes and" game with a friend. Basically, have your friend insult you or shit test you or whatever, and reply "yes and..." and your comeback. The exercise will teach you to think on your feet, and by agreeing with the insult you show that you're not affected by it. Ultimately, though, it's not so much the words you say as how you say them. Get yourself into a fun and unreactive mood, and you'll be coming from the right frame to deal with shit tests, no …
/r/seduction16/07/10 07:30 AM
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I think it's natural to lose a little bit of interest in picking up girls if you've been doing it for a while. However, if you just aren't interested in the girls you're meeting (dumb blondes), avoid the clubs and try other venues. Bookstores, video game conventions, ballroom studios-- there are plenty of places to go to meet active & intelligent girls who have a little more depth than your typical club rat.
/r/seduction16/07/10 07:24 AM
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Best answer.
/r/seduction15/07/10 03:34 PM
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No idea what kind of bra you're talking about, but remember you don't need to take off her bra to have sex with her. As long as you can slip your hands beneath it, start by stroking her back, then her breasts, and then move to her ass. Standard kino escalation ladder. Just play it cool and hope she wasn't turned off by the experience, and hopefully the logistics will be better next time.
/r/seduction15/07/10 03:29 PM
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Just tell them you make fart apps on the iPhone :) I think all of your responses are good. If you're passionate about your work, you can still use it in conversation to relate with women. Talk about why you're passionate about your job, what you love about it, share some of the frustrations and challenges you encounter. Don't focus so much on specific technical details, just relate on emotions. Emotions are universal, and that's what women are looking for.
/r/seduction13/07/10 08:02 PM
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Like others have said, don't go looking for IOIs, instead just always assume attraction and just go for it. If you have to look for an IOI, remember that the most powerful IOI is how a girl responds to your touch. Plenty of girls will flirt with you or smile at you without it really meaning anything, but if you touch a girl and she doesn't flinch away or she seems to really enjoy it, that's about as strong an IOI as you can get. For that reason, always be kino escalating.
/r/seduction13/07/10 03:27 AM
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See also Last Minute Resistance (LMR)
/r/seduction07/07/10 05:29 PM
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I've seen him give a talk once, and he is a really cool guy. Neil Strauss played up the drama a bit in The Game to make the story more interesting, but they actually get along better in real life.
/r/seduction06/07/10 10:21 AM
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That's a good general rule, but not always true at all. Look at the upper class woman who falls for a biker/badboy, or the housewife who ends up sleeping with the plumber. There's more to female attraction than just social status.
/r/seduction05/07/10 06:32 AM
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You absolutely can be successful with women without having to be a dbag. Being good with women is all about learning what women find attractive, and bringing out more of those qualities in yourself, while trying to get rid of your unattractive ones. You probably will have to overhaul your personality a bit, but hopefully for the better. See also craigslist: http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/wdc/205576820.html
/r/seduction28/06/10 05:06 PM
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I assume she meant of the 20% of guys she's attracted to, half (10) have girlfriends, so she's left competing for the remaining 10% of guys (some confusion of percentages an real numbers going on there). Roissy had a great article on this phenomenon: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/02/11/is-college-a-poon-nirvana/
/r/seduction23/06/10 04:55 AM
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It's called Cosmo. Look for it at your local grocery store ;) Also, the conversational techniques from Charisma Arts apply well to both men and women. Ask open ended questions, use the I perspective, reward and relate, use sexual barriers and innuendos, teasing, storytelling, etc. all very applicable to both men and women. Also, look at companies that teach both guys and girls. Ask Romeo and David Wygant are the two that come up off the top of my head.
/r/seduction21/06/10 03:42 PM
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Agree with most of it, but I would avoid digging too deeply into Facebook. That's just creepy. You can look over her profile a little, but don't go memorizing details about her life to bring up on the date. Save it for the day 2, when you're building rapport. It's more exciting to find out about things about her at the date, rather than "doing research" ahead of time. See also: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/06/15/women-dont-want-you-to-remember-everything-about-them/
/r/seduction16/06/10 11:45 PM
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I don't know about you, but I have standards. There are definitely girls I would not have sex with, and not just the hideously ugly ones.
/r/seduction16/06/10 09:43 PM
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Try disqualification: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/disqualification-dq/ Basically, start by thanking the person (and accepting the compliment), but then revealing something bad about yourself. For example, if someone compliments you about your weight, you could say something like "Thanks, but I'm still having trouble losing these love handles!" or something similar, which shows that you are accepting of the compliment, but modest about it. It's better than just accepting or rejecting …
/r/seduction15/06/10 04:49 PM
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Seconded. Learn the basics of how to play a guitar, and use it as a prop to lure girls back to your place.
/r/seduction10/06/10 05:07 PM
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If you just want to have sex, there are plenty of places you can pull besides you house, anywhere from her place, to your car, the bathroom, motel room, anywhere secluded. Be creative. If you're looking for a LTR, your sister is a part of your family and a part of who you are. Like others have said, they will just have to deal with it. Ultimately, though, I would recommend getting your financial situation handled and getting your own place. The ultimate goal of the game is to be the best person …
/r/seduction28/05/10 08:56 AM
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Sounds like flaimbait, but I'll bite. "It's impossible to tell if your success is a direct result of your PUA techniques or by some other factors that have come about naturally after you have increased your confidence and total effort. I think that they [the seduction community] get a lot of undeserved credit" It can be difficult to separate what exactly the reason is for improving your game, but not impossible. I think you make a good point that confidence plays a big role in a guy's success wi…
/r/seduction27/05/10 02:07 AM
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Exactly. And being good at game doesn't mean randomly approaching 300 women in a night club. That might be a good way to get experience when first starting out, but there are much better ways of picking up women once you start getting better.
/r/seduction26/05/10 08:52 PM
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Like others have said, game will always work. If you're relying heavily on canned material, you might have to change up the more popular stuff, but the fundamentals will be the same. This is is because: A) A lot of the stuff taught in the seduction community is just common sense and social intelligence. It is only a big "revelation" to people with poor social skills, i.e. us before we joined the game. PUAs didn't invent game, these are already things that most people know and do to attract mates…
/r/seduction26/05/10 09:48 AM
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I usually text within a few hours. It's a good way to build more attraction and rapport after you've got the number. It strengthens the number close, and decreases the chance she'll flake later. Don't set up a day 2 right away, but keep flirting with her through text to keep her interested. As for calling versus texting, I'm going to have to go with texting. Texting is so much less pressure than a phone call. If you call a girl, there are a million different reasons why she might not pick up (sh…
/r/seduction25/05/10 07:57 AM
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True, but it's still a good criticism of the modern dating scene.
/r/seduction20/05/10 08:38 PM
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Look up Vin Di Carlo's escalation ladder. It's the best material I've found on the subject.
/r/seduction14/05/10 08:34 AM
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What do you want us to tell you? :p Do whatever you feel like, enjoy yourself, and make sure you use protection if you decide to have sex.
/r/seduction14/05/10 08:17 AM
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It's definitely easier to hook up with a girl that you've hooked up with before in the past, than some girl who ljbf's you right off that bat. Not that it makes getting out of the friend zone necessarily easy. You have to decide what you want from this relationship. If you don't mind being just her friend, then it's no problem, but if you want something more, you have to let her know that's what you're looking for. If she still just wants to be your friend, start seeing other people, and spend l…
/r/seduction12/05/10 07:15 AM
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Seconded. Sex God Method is a very solid ebook.
/r/seduction28/04/10 12:46 AM
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I was 23 when I lost my virginity... I definitely second intjpua's advice. One of the things that holds people back the most is that they're not meeting enough new people. If you're out there meeting people every day, I guarantee you that you'll find some girl that's attracted to you, no matter where you are in terms of game. There really is someone out there for everyone. Of course, if you want to up the quality/quantity of girls that are into you, definitely learn some game ;) Also, don't stre…
/r/seduction25/04/10 07:22 AM
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Don't look for IOIs. Just assume that every girl is attracted to you, and act accordingly. If you really want to know how a girl feels about you, start kino escalating. How a girl responds to your touch will tell you how interested she is in you.
/r/seduction24/04/10 09:51 AM
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I've successfully dated three girls that I facebook closed, so it's not a bad strategy. Just make sure you have a cool facebook profile-- make sure your profile pictures are pretty good, and show you doing interesting activities. Your profile can be a massive DHV if done right, and it can also provide good social proof and pre-selection if you have a lot of friends and have girls posting on your wall all the time. Facebook chat can also be a low key way to re-establish contact, build rapport, an…
/r/seduction23/04/10 07:42 AM
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As long as she knows what she's getting into. Don't pretend like you want an LTR and break up her relationship, only to pump and dump her.
/r/seduction23/04/10 07:34 AM
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Just go out with a different set of friends when you're going out to meet women. Problem solved.
/r/seduction22/04/10 06:46 AM
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As long as she isn't married, she's fair game. I would hesitate a little if I wasn't interested in a relationship, tho. Breaking up a relationship for an ONS seems a bit cruel.
/r/seduction20/04/10 07:44 PM
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It's hardly comprehensive, but it offers some pretty decent advice for a free ebook.
/r/seduction19/04/10 12:32 AM
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As long as you're not using this as an excuse not to improve and go after your goals, this is perfectly normal.
/r/seduction18/04/10 11:03 AM
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Sounds like you're reading too much into the comment. It doesn't sound to me at all like he was insulting you, and he gave some really solid advice. If you "know what the fuck you're doing", why are you posting on seddit? You asked for advice, you got it. Now it's up to you to follow it or not.
/r/seduction18/04/10 08:15 AM
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Try to stay busy and meet other people. The more people you meet and the more things in your life that you're busy with, the less time you will spend fixating on a single girl.
/r/seduction18/04/10 08:09 AM
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Wow, what a nerdy analogy. Upvoted.
/r/seduction18/04/10 01:46 AM
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Yeah, if she hasn't even kissed you, it's hard to call her your girlfriend. She can say whatever she wants, but actions speak louder than words. This girl is either: 1) Not attracted to you. 2) Sexually abused in the past. In either case, you're better off pursuing other girls. Why do you want a GF that won't even kiss you?
/r/seduction15/04/10 09:58 PM
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"That's the worst pickup line I've ever heard."
/r/seduction14/04/10 07:59 AM
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For guys with severe anxiety, the Internet can be a good way to expand their comfort zone. I know David Deangelo talks about using chat rooms as a place where he tested out new lines, routines, and behaviors before trying them out in the "real world". And with the growing popularity of voice and video chat (chatroulette anyone?), the internet can be a legitimate way to strengthen your social skills.
/r/seduction13/04/10 08:58 PM
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Yeah? News to me. They have very good instructor participation, regardless.
/r/seduction13/04/10 02:35 AM
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First off, try to improve your lifestyle as much as possible. Not only will it help you get laid, but you'll feel a lot better too. If you're not in shape, try to hit the gym 2-3 times a week. Try to improve your style (kinowear.com is great site), at the very minimum get clothing that fits you right. Get a cool haircut. Next, try to be more social. You don't have to be a social butterfly, but in order to meet more women you need to be in situations where you can meet more women (obviously). Joi…
/r/seduction09/04/10 10:19 AM
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For even more acronyms: http://www.pualingo.com/pua-acronyms-list/
/r/seduction05/04/10 10:55 PM
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Good point, but forums can still be a good way to meet guys in your area who are also interested in improving your game, and can be good places to go to ask questions from more experienced PUAs.
/r/seduction04/04/10 02:34 AM
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RSD Nation probably has the most active one, with a lot of instructor participation: http://www.rsdnation.com/forum You can find a pretty comprehensive list of forums here: http://www.seductionlist.com/category/pua-forum/ Local lair forums are also good too, and you can find guys in your area that can go out with and that can wing for you. http://www.bristollair.com/lairlist/
/r/seduction04/04/10 02:32 AM
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The line about being quiet in the library is a good one, just make sure to do it with a playful smirk to let her know you're joking. If she smiles and enjoys it, you can start bantering from there.
/r/seduction02/04/10 07:17 PM
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Take a bootcamp. Have guys who have years of experience to help motivate you and show you how it's done.
/r/seduction01/04/10 11:41 PM
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He also wrote Brad P's Fashion Bible, which is a pretty good book on putting together a look that will get you laid.
/r/seduction01/04/10 11:39 PM
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An oldie but a goodie.
/r/seduction25/03/10 07:42 PM
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Amen.
/r/seduction25/03/10 05:45 PM
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Yeah, I didn't see anything sexist in there. I just thought it was a very interesting look at the male sexual lifecycle.
/r/seduction25/03/10 03:30 PM
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Looks fine to me.
/r/seduction25/03/10 02:35 AM
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The term comes from Ross Jeffries' cat, "Sargey".
/r/seduction24/03/10 08:46 PM
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Yeah, this is a dupe, but still a great article. Here's a link to the 1-page, printer-friendly version: http://www.weeklystandard.com/print/articles/new-dating-game
/r/seduction24/03/10 08:10 PM
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You should listen to this interview with DJ Fuji: http://www.seductionlist.com/dj-fuji-interview/ Fuji is an Asian PUA instructor, so height is an issue for him as well. I think some of the things he mentioned were wearing platforms and also having tall hair (i.e. mowhawks) to make himself appear taller.
/r/seduction22/03/10 12:12 PM
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And talk to a qualified physician or school doctor.
/r/seduction21/03/10 07:48 PM
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Sad, but true.
/r/seduction20/03/10 12:24 PM
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Stop asking these girls "what's wrong?" Please.
/r/seduction18/03/10 09:11 PM
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Text version: http://www.puaratings.com/vin-dicarlo-escalation-ladder-free-ebook-download
/r/seduction15/03/10 01:42 AM
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Think of her as your bratty little sister. Be playful, tease her, don't take her too seriously. Also, don't be needy or reaction seeking.
/r/seduction14/03/10 08:41 PM
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If your goal was just to practice conversation, how did you fuck up? It seems like you did everything you set out to accomplish. If you want more specific results, you're going to need a more specific goal. For example, if your goal was to get her number, you could have ended the conversation like: "Yeah, I have to get back to my friends too, but I really enjoyed talking to you, why don't you give me your number so we can catch up again sometime?" Ideally, you would have prefaced this sometime b…
/r/seduction14/03/10 03:57 AM
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Welcome to the world of 21st Century communication, my friend.
/r/seduction13/03/10 10:01 PM
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It may sound silly, but misspelling a word or two helps you come across as very casual and not invested much in the conversation, especially when dealing with younger women. Properly capitalizing every word in a text, and using perfect spelling and grammar comes across as try-hard.
/r/seduction13/03/10 09:58 PM
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Reality tv is not reality...
/r/seduction11/03/10 07:27 PM
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I definitely follow a number of blogs, as there is a lot of overlap when it comes to creating an attractive lifestyle. Some of the categories of blogs that I follow: Self-development, lifestyle design, fashion/style, business/entrepreneuship, evolutionary psychology
/r/seduction10/03/10 11:15 PM
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Double Your Dating is a good basic pickup book. It's what I started with, and it's a lot more affordable than a lot of the other material that's out there.
/r/seduction09/03/10 09:26 AM
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Being nice to girls is fine, it just doesn't build any sexual attraction.
/r/seduction04/03/10 11:03 PM
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Here's a list of a bunch of female pua sites: http://www.seductionlist.com/category/pua-blog/women/
/r/seduction04/03/10 10:56 PM
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Second joining clubs. If you're adventurous enough, you can even start one. Definitely go to events around campus that interest you, and try to strike up conversations with people in your classes. Usually, people are most receptive to meeting new people in the first 1-2 weeks of class, but it's never too late to make friends. Try starting with something simple like asking a question about a homework assignment, and going from there.
/r/seduction03/03/10 09:08 PM
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A conversation should be balanced... you don't want to be talking at the girl the whole time. The more you allow the girl to talk, the more she becomes invested in the interaction, and the more she feels closer to you because she is revealing stuff about herself to you. This also gives you a lot more material for you to relate on. If the girl isn't really opening herself to you initially, it might be necessary to share a little more about yourself first, so that she reciprocates, but the convers…
/r/seduction03/03/10 03:52 AM
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Yeah, check out pickup podcast. It's by the same guys, and they're up to over 100 episodes now. Some of the best, free pickup advice you can find online: http://www.pickuppodcast.com/blog/
/r/seduction16/02/10 09:05 AM
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Oldie but a goodie.
/r/seduction11/02/10 09:36 PM
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Pickup Podcast. Not reading per se, but a great, free resource.
/r/seduction10/02/10 11:21 PM
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There's an article that this guy wrote recently for ELLE magazine, that's been mentioned on alpha-status: http://alpha-status.blogspot.com/2010/02/comfortably-numb.html
/r/seduction10/02/10 04:26 AM
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I don't see how this teaches them how to avoid PUAs, just uncalibrated trainees.
/r/seduction09/02/10 09:09 PM
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Great article. Why's it dated for next week?
/r/seduction08/02/10 10:30 PM
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Yeah, if you really do dress nice (make sure your clothing fits you well), and women are still ignoring you when you walk by, focus on your body language. Stand up straight, shoulders rolled back, stick your chest out a little bit. Don't overdo it to the point where you're intimidating, but try to appear confident and relaxed. As for conversations, I've had the same problem myself in the past. Part of it is just practice-- if you have conversations all the time, you will start to recognize patte…
/r/seduction08/02/10 10:06 PM
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Cool site, I've added it to the SeductionList directory: http://www.seductionlist.com/james-social-coach/
/r/seduction08/02/10 10:02 AM
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Young girls tend to be pretty flakey. However, if you're getting flaked on a lot, it probably means you aren't building enough rapport during the initial interaction. If you can build a stronger connection before you set up the date, you're less likely to get flaked on. That being said, if a girl cancels at the last minute, and you want to continue seeing her, I would wait a few days, and then send her a spontaneous text, something funny or random that will get her to reply to you. Once you open…
/r/seduction08/02/10 09:53 AM
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Seconded. And even though looks matter less for women, they still matter. I definitely get approached more when I'm in great shape.
/r/seduction08/02/10 03:57 AM
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Fun post. I've added the blog to the SeductionList: http://www.seductionlist.com/beta-to-pua/
/r/seduction07/02/10 07:44 PM
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Fun thread, but you're just wasting your time if you expect to change women's natural sexual preferences just by complaining about it on Reddit. Women will always chase after the most attractive guys, even if those are precisely the guys that have the most competition. It may not make everyone happy (i.e. the girls who aren't picked and the guys that are overlooked), but human beings didn't evolve to be happy, just economic in their mating choices. And most women do eventually settle-- when thei…
/r/seduction06/02/10 09:31 PM
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