Just want to have fun?

moozilla · 2010-05-20T22:05:33+00:00

There are plenty of men that you overlook. They are moral, stable, don’t do drugs, and don’t party or sleep around. They aren’t “bad” and aren’t into bars or clubs. But they are smart, interesting, and have had actual accomplishments — not notches on their bedposts.

None of these things are mutually exclusive.

2010-05-20T21:08:53+00:00

The article hits a good point. It is true if girls want to marry a guy who will treat them well, provide for them but still has the qualities of an alpha (i.e. Good Guy) they have to do it when their stock is the highest, i.e. 18-27 which also coincides with the time where most people like to go out all the time and get drunk and sleep around. After that there is still a chance that they land one, but the odds are definitely not in their favor. Or it will be a guy that is so often referred to as a beta.

mynewname · 2010-05-21T04:04:00+00:00

Newsflash, girlfriend. You’re not the player; you’re getting played.

Yes, you may still be young, but you’re running out of time. The kind of guys you’re attracted to only want you for sex. They will take your body, then toss you aside for a newer, fresher model.

Sooo, you had some hot exciting hookups in your youth with guys you didn't keep in touch with, this is being used? This thing is so written by the outdated "Sex is a commodity women have that men try to manipulative women out of" model. Did it ever occur to author that women want to "put out"? That they enjoy it in fact as much as the men they're doing?

Seaton · 2010-05-20T20:33:55+00:00

I feel like this was written by an AFC, and, in my opinion, won't really register with its target audience. Those kinds of girls are engaged through emotional means. Those "bad guys" are doing the things that get an emotional response from these girls, and this sort of sharp-tongued, albeit logical and rational, piece will be of little influence.

dontwanturvalidation · 2010-05-21T11:47:33+00:00

Yeah... any ladies reading this should go research "the marriage squeeze".

2010-05-22T16:03:18+00:00

Diff'rent strokes for diff'rent folks. Some women are totally down for an unattached life without having the hangups of "I'm x years old, I'm supposed to be doing y". They just like sex(who doesn't). Some women are into finding the right kind of guy to stick with. I think it's a question on the male side of which do you want. There are tons of women out there who are into anything you can think of if you look for them.

2010-05-20T23:12:07+00:00

This should be required reading for every girl who thinks she is perfection incarnate and the world exists just to serve her.

Title	Just want to have fun?
Author	Casually
Upvotes	10
Comments	15
Date	May 20, 2010 7:54 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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