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moozilla/r/seduction09/12/09 09:57 AM
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"I told him to just be himself." (translation: Give no fucks. hold frame) Mind blown. Never realized the connection there.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 02:27 AM
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It's basically just Buddhism-lite. Read some Chogyam Trungpa instead - Journey Without Goal is good, so is Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:45 PM
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According to the /r/ASMR sidebar, ASMR is a different thing entirely. NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH MUSIC BASED TINGLES/SHIVERS Those are called frisson and can be discussed in /r/frisson
/r/TheRedPill14/04/13 07:03 PM
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It perfectly conveys not only his aloofness, but his desire for the girl with just the right amount of everything. Yeah, I picture the girl thinking of OP sitting in the car checking his watch, ready to leave if she takes too long. He's obviously interested or he wouldn't be waiting, but he doesn't seem needy because he could leave at any time. Genius.
/r/seduction02/08/12 11:41 AM
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Closer to kissing lips than kissing a cheek. I'd describe the way I do it as mostly like kissing lips but with slightly more sucking and biting. (As far as biting goes, start gentle and work your way up - calibrate!)
/r/seduction16/07/12 07:19 AM
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Read pickup techniques that aren't 10 years old? Negging has been almost universally thrown out in modern seduction.
/r/seduction09/03/12 05:22 PM
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It is scientific! http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-11223473
/r/seduction13/02/12 04:31 PM
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He was a virgin.
/r/seduction08/01/12 11:46 PM
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FWIW I know a guy who got herpes from a BJ. It happens.
/r/seduction08/01/12 09:40 AM
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Great job man, you're spot on about the kissing - just go for it. Oh, and it's better every time.
/r/seduction01/01/12 11:03 AM
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Question about club game: Last weekend I was out with some friends, dancing, when suddenly a girl comes up behind me and starts grinding on me. I turn around and she is probably an HB9, so I dance with her. We're really going at it, and soon enough we're making out. Here's the problem: I don't know here name, and we haven't said a word to each other. I think she eventually realized this, because she said "I have to go find my friend, wait here" and just left. I tried not to let it phase me and e…
/r/seduction28/10/11 05:48 AM
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I think it's more like this: He intended to be at spot A, he was trying to go to spot B - which he thought was spot A. So by missing out on spot B he actually ended up at spot A.
/r/seduction07/10/11 04:32 AM
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The Book of Pook has some cool stories about this.
/r/seduction21/08/11 11:51 PM
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"Oh, you like men with soft hands?" One that's worked well for me in the past is "You know you like it!" Said with a playful smirk.
/r/seduction03/08/11 11:35 AM
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Question: How big of a city do you live in?
/r/seduction21/06/11 07:56 AM
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Where did he ever say anything about looks?
/r/seduction11/06/11 06:51 AM
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Any product with salicyclic acid in it will work. I got some cheap generic body wash with it and use it on my face and it clears up all my acne. I've had a serious acne problem, so your mileage may vary.
/r/seduction26/05/11 07:14 AM
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Justin Timberlake once stole girls from me 3 weeks in a row at the Cabana Club in Hollywood. I would have said it was coincidental except the last time he did it he winked at me... Hahaha, I would be honored personally.
/r/seduction25/05/11 03:50 AM
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Try this link next time (from the sidebar): http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml
/r/seduction22/05/11 06:42 AM
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In college, yes.
/r/seduction07/05/11 10:48 PM
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Myth #4: PUA is about bringing a girl's self esteem down through "negs". Reality: PUA is about bringing yourself up and wanting to give her a chance to join that. The neg is a playful tease, like "you're a dork/You're drinking a Corona at a beer snob's bar? Fail!". If you've actually hurt her feelings, you've done it wrong. In addition, no one even recommends negs anymore, mostly because they are so misunderstood. Teasing is generally an effective form of flirting - many of us figured this out i…
/r/seduction06/05/11 12:45 AM
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On the sidebar under "kino."
/r/seduction17/04/11 09:01 PM
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I think if there was more eye contact and kino I would feel more comfortable. In that case, you should do more kino for your sake, not hers. Since she's already attracted, you don't need to worry about offending her, so doing whatever you need to be more comfortable shouldn't be too difficult.
/r/seduction17/04/11 08:49 PM
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The topic of this subreddit is getting pussy, but no individual should make that their primary goal in life Well said. It bothers me that so many people think being a member of a seduction forum or even knowing about seduction in general means that someone only cares about getting laid. I have many other interests and I'm a member of those subreddits too.
/r/seduction30/03/11 03:04 AM
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I'd go as far as to say nearly any girl could be at least a 7 with makeup, nice clothes, a haircut, and going to the gym. It's almost the same with guys, but makeup does wonders in some cases and isn't really and option for us.
/r/seduction25/03/11 11:30 PM
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You may need to try different ones. I've heard that some BCs can cause emotions to go crazy in some girls while stabilizing them in others; it all depends on your personal chemistry.
/r/seduction25/03/11 11:25 PM
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Decent advice, but you didn't answer the question.
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:38 PM
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How old are you if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction16/02/11 07:35 PM
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So did any of them call you back?
/r/seduction27/01/11 01:15 AM
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In my experience, extroversion is simply a matter of exposure.
/r/seduction18/01/11 04:22 PM
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Read the comments before watching the video and the guy's failures were much more subtle than what the author was describing. Honestly, I think he was over-analyzing. The dude totally could have scored if he had just laid on some kino and let the alcohol guide him.
/r/seduction15/01/11 05:27 AM
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Honest question: when did you see boyfriend destroyer patterns on seddit?
/r/seduction11/01/11 06:55 AM
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So why don't you get together with Jessica? You like her right?
/r/seduction05/01/11 08:13 AM
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Note: This is only accurate if you keep a consistent sleep schedule. That means getting up and going to bed at the same time every day (even the weekends).
/r/seduction31/12/10 06:43 AM
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For me and for many others (certainly Mystery, if The Game is to be believed), the desire to sleep with more women (or any women at all, as the case may be) stems from insecurity, which is really just another form of shame. For me it's the opposite. Insecurities are the only reason I'm not constantly sleeping with other women. I worry about what others will think of me, if I'm good enough for the girl, if I'm good enough to get the girl, and so forth. Sexual relationships are our biological impe…
/r/seduction25/12/10 01:28 AM
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Thanks. It looks like I was mixing up rAFC and gPUA (green PUA). http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/9levels.shtml
/r/seduction18/12/10 12:37 AM
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It would be better to just refer to new pickup artists are nPUAs or something similar. I believe the usual term is rPUA (recovering Pick Up Artist).
/r/seduction17/12/10 01:14 PM
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I wasn't trying to make out that heroin is common. I have a friend who had a pill that tested positive for it though, so it is not unheard of. I think my point stands though, amphetamines are common adulterants, and so are several other things that could be considered hard drugs, like DXM.
/r/seduction10/12/10 06:40 AM
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I think the confusing thing is that ecstasy pills are rarely pure MDMA and are indeed laced with hard drugs like speed, or even heroin. MDMA alone is less harmful than tobacco.
/r/seduction10/12/10 03:05 AM
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Let's Just Be Friends them.
/r/seduction21/11/10 11:51 PM
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if everybody enslaved one person, and all the slaves would be unhappy, all the masters happy...does it add up to 0 too? Yes, but note that that's less than if everyone was happy. And having a slave isn't going to make the masters unanimously happy.
/r/seduction21/11/10 12:15 PM
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am obsessed with reaching my goal of sleeping with lots of women. what is that saying about me? That you have a Y chromosome, ffs.
/r/seduction15/11/10 01:21 AM
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Bellingham
/r/seduction10/11/10 09:48 AM
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Any suggestions on how to find stylish but casual dress shirts? All the dress shirts I own are pretty formal.
/r/seduction09/11/10 10:41 PM
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Agreed, if dressing nice was so important why do many MPUAs suggest caveman style? (And why do so many guys have success with it?)
/r/seduction09/11/10 03:29 AM
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Can you simplify this a bit? Do you ever wear jeans? What about T-shirts? Do you get your jeans and T-shirts tailored? I'm not going to wear a suit around campus, and I don't think I can pull off (and I don't like) hipster fashion. How can I dress well without looking like a dweeb?
/r/seduction09/11/10 03:23 AM
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Just commenting to say I think it's funny that you think of MDMA as a hard drug.
/r/seduction07/11/10 10:09 PM
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There's always alternatives. Day game is a big one. Walk around places you like; the park, a bookstore, the grocery store (you don't need to buy anything) and approach girls. Plenty of guys get lays exclusively from day game, so don't let that hold you back. Even if you aren't as successful it's much better that sitting at home and not doing anything.
/r/seduction05/11/10 08:05 AM
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Well, I got laid a few times and my body language and posture are tons better. People seem to open up to me more in general. My only problem is that I still don't do many approaches (or have much success other than friendly conversation) in public. So no incredible success, but I'd say the info has definitely helped. If I had to recommend some stuff, don't bother with openers or "threading" or really any of that stuff. Confidence to actually talk to girls, body language, and especially kino are …
/r/seduction28/10/10 06:36 AM
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This is more like taking a practice test, feeling like you got all the answers right but not checking because you feel confident for the real test.
/r/seduction21/10/10 08:45 PM
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When you need to get past someone, put your hand on your and get their attention so they move out of your way. If they aren't moving say something like "excuse me man." (Some might say saying excuse me isn't alpha, but I don't think thats something you should worry about when you can't even touch people yet.) When you are sitting by someone, nudge them. You can do it to get their attention or just to tease them a bit. High fives and fist bumps With girls any sort of thing like comparing the size…
/r/seduction12/10/10 06:22 AM
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Every time I've been complimented on my smell is when I have skipped a shower and put on Axe deoderant. I think Axe has a bad name because of the spray on stuff, their stick stuff actually has a few great scents. Or at least they mix well with my BO!
/r/seduction05/10/10 06:52 AM
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An ad hominem attack is when someone uses an insult or personal attack instead of an argument. Otherwise it's just an insult. Edit: monkmonkmonk's post was an ad hominem attack. Duly downvoted.
/r/seduction01/10/10 02:01 AM
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Friend zone her. If you've built enough attraction this will drive her nuts. If you make it clear that you won't pursue a girl with a boyfriend and she's more into you than her boyfriend she might break up with him and then give you a call.
/r/seduction26/09/10 09:23 PM
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Jumbotron test: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2007/04/11/excerpt-from-the-book-of-alpha/ I think this is the other post you're talking about: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/09/22/how-to-attract-girls-by-doing-almost-nothing/ Edit: Bring the movies: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/07/29/chicks-dig-jerks-game-is-its-own-status/ Skittles: http://roissy.wordpress.com/2009/05/19/be-a-skittles-man/
/r/seduction24/09/10 06:56 AM
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Martial arts is more about the discipline and athleticism for me. I used to do Tae Kwon Do, and I've never been more fit in my life! I also feel like it greatly improved my willpower, both physically and mentally.
/r/seduction22/09/10 07:49 PM
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Do you find the DiCarlo Pandora's Box stuff to be pretty accurate/useful? I'm not sure it's realistic to try and judge every girl by just a few categories but I can see how it might help you make make certain decisions.
/r/seduction21/09/10 09:21 AM
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Check out the first part of the post, it's linked in the text. Edit: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/dg6m1/my_game_sit_down_for_a_long_read/
/r/seduction21/09/10 09:19 AM
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Do you ever have wet dreams because of this? Also, how old are you?
/r/seduction19/09/10 06:49 PM
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Can you give some examples of kino microescalation?
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:59 AM
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I think the attractiveness of men is completely different, and definitely more dependent on social standing. I'm not saying you couldn't find a dude who would want to fuck someone like the Chancellor or the Queen of England, but I don't think their power would make them more physically attractive. Maybe because, as a man, you would still be physically dominant? I think this is why some people find chicks who could kick their ass (someone like Michelle Rodriguez) both intimidating and attractive.…
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:53 AM
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I guess that might be misleading to the less experienced guys here. I've learned the key is to match how gentle/hard you kiss or bite to how turned on they are. A girl who isn't turned on won't want you to bite her earlobe, but will probably like it if you breathe softly and rub your lips on it. While at the same time that might be too slow for a sufficiently wet girl. Calibration is key!
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:49 AM
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I've recently discovered that a normal average milkshake from Burger king consists of 1000 calories. So I'm going to try to have one of those for 3x my daily fat intake. :P Just checked Burger King's website, here's the nutrition facts for a large chocolate shake: 960 calories 17g sat. fat 75mg cholesterol 153g sugar >176g carbs 23g fat 0.5g trans fat 17g protein 780mg sodium With that you'd be getting most of your calories from sugar, which will help you gain weight, but only if you want to get…
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:46 AM
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Being important doesn't make a woman look more "hot." It might make her more attractive, and while I don't think you would have a hard time finding someone who would want to bang the German Chancellor, I do think you'd have a hard time finding someone who genuinely thinks she is "hot." (We are talking about HBs right? :)
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:36 AM
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I think you're spot on about the normal distribution (and I posted a few times about it as well), but I think the situation is a bit more complicated than that. A bunch of factors skew the distribution so we don't see as many of the 1-5's: they might have too low self-esteem to go out, hang out in different crowds (Juggalos for example), use makeup, etc. I do think we should start calling average girls 5s or 6s though.
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:33 AM
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so whom knows? Just FYI an easy way to check if you're using whom right is to substitute "him" and see if it makes sense.
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:29 AM
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I think the scale is off if you can say there are plenty of >7 to go around. In my reasoning I'm assuming female attractiveness approximately follows a normal distribution - see this graph: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Standard_deviation_diagram.svg. The end of the second section (by 13%) is about the halfway point, where a 7.5 would lie. This means that about 5% of all females are above a 7. Now in a club or wherever you go to pick up hot girls might be overrepresented, but I think that is…
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:28 AM
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I think this scale is weighted a bit too much towards higher numbers. Sorry if this is too math-y, but take a look at this graph of a normal distribution (which I'm going to claim models attractiveness distribution): http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Standard_deviation_diagram.svg Average is the middle, which I would put as a 5. Three standard deviations account for 99.7% of all girls, which I'd say is 2-9s. 10s are those that are so beautiful that only 0.3% of all girls can be called a 10. A go…
/r/seduction18/09/10 03:18 AM
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I see where you're coming from, but I think adding personality to the scale may be a bit of a crutch. Personality is a lot more subjective than how "hot" a girl is. Also, it's definitely not an uncommon thing to hear about a super-hot vapid bitch; she's still super-hot. Whether or not basing the girls you attempt to pick up based on looks alone is shallow is debatable, but I think you are dead wrong that it lowers self-esteem.
/r/seduction18/09/10 02:54 AM
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Also maybe this is less general, but I've had great success with the ears. Just make sure to be gentle.
/r/seduction18/09/10 01:49 AM
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I'm curious, are these girls you've previously met? I can't imagine this technique working on a girl you are meeting for the first time.
/r/seduction12/09/10 08:25 AM
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Can you remember the specific video?
/r/seduction12/09/10 06:58 AM
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It depends on what you are comparing to. Sure, if we were just saying "better off in general" it might be a subjective. However, I think the two most obvious interpretations of onenifty's statement are "better at picking up women" or "better suited for life." In the first case I think it's pretty objective that these things can improve your ability to pickup women. In the second case, I also think it's pretty objective that going to the gym and improved social interactions would improve your qua…
/r/seduction09/09/10 08:06 AM
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And now I'm banned from the subreddit. Classy.
/r/MensRights30/08/10 11:01 PM
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Start off with baby steps. Make sure to sit by the cutest girl that you can every class period so you can practice chatting with them before class and during breaks. It's good to just befriend these girls and have them introduce you to their hot friends, so you don't even need to worry about attracting them if it's causing you too much anxiety. Also, sitting next to someone in class is an amazing excuse for kino.
/r/seduction27/08/10 08:33 AM
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Listening to Man Transformation as I post this. The part about the opening the girl in the coffee shop (~12min in) is blowing my mind. The girl is trying to get coffee to get some energy for the day at hand. If you ask her for some female advice on your friend making out with someone it will take her completely off guard. This got me thinking though, there's got to be ways you can use a topical opener that still accomplishes things like a DHV.
/r/seduction26/08/10 08:44 AM
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Link is broken.
/r/seduction26/08/10 06:21 AM
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Thanks, I'll give it another chance.
/r/seduction25/08/10 11:08 PM
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I started watching The Blueprint but I got bored after watching two videos that seemed like common sense. Does it get a lot better later on?
/r/seduction25/08/10 10:55 PM
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Uh, good for you. Gunwitch is a respected PUA, nearly on the same level as people like Mystery.
/r/seduction15/08/10 11:51 PM
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"I don't kiss on the first date" I think this was a test. You probably could have gotten away with kissing her. Especially how you describe the look she gave you, it sounded like she wanted it but her ASD was kicking in.
/r/seduction13/08/10 11:39 AM
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Uh, for people like me (college age, but not drinking age) to meet each other/get laid?
/r/seduction11/08/10 01:24 PM
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No. Some clubs are 18+ in general or at certain times and do not serve alcohol. Since I'm not 21 and don't have a fake ID those are the only ones I can go to. BTW, the drinking age in the USA is 21. Also, I think there are some clubs that are "16+" but they don't check ID at all. I think they just say that so they can kick little kids out.
/r/seduction11/08/10 12:32 PM
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That approach made me notice something I think is important. I could tell by his phrasing and how he spoke that his line was meant for more than just getting an opinion or in that case congratulating the girl. Compare the way the girl responds and how he is talking. I think if he opened in more of that style he'd be more successful. His body language look okay, but I bet he could even be successful with lines like this if he added a FTC and focused on his delivery.
/r/seduction11/08/10 11:21 AM
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I think the perfect negs are all non-vocal.
/r/seduction02/08/10 05:55 AM
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Did you even read it? The author disses conservatives later on. He also agrees with the female author you talk about most things and seems impressed that she managed all her research without a degree.
/r/seduction02/08/10 05:31 AM
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I disagree, but I'm going to reply instead of downvote. I think it's more useful to think of the rational mind and the emotional mind as two separate entities. Anecdotally, you can completely understand and be fine with a situation rationally, but be scared out of your mind because of an irrational emotion - like most phobias or how panic attacks happen. Obviously you want to avoid making the girl feel like this during pickup. Edit: I think you have the right idea regardless: A whole-mind (inclu…
/r/seduction27/07/10 08:55 PM
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Why don't you give him some tips on how to score chicks? Once you've befriended him just tell him you're interested in X girl and to give you some space.
/r/seduction24/07/10 05:15 AM
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What's the context of her mentioning that she has a boyfriend? Is it a defense mechanism (she says it to try and get you to stop making her like you) or a DHV (show you how desirable she is)? It sounds like she has a thing for you. You could probably go for it if you wanted, but it doesn't sound like you want to if she's still with her boyfriend. You should say something to her about how you don't respect/would never sleep with girls who cheat on their boyfriends. If she gets the hint and wants …
/r/seduction22/07/10 06:37 AM
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Thanks! I'll definitely check it out.
/r/seduction12/07/10 02:24 AM
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Any tips on getting started with weight lifting? I want to get into it but I can't tell what info is good or bad and I don't want to waste a lot of time doing it wrong when I could be making gains.
/r/seduction12/07/10 01:45 AM
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There was a really great guide for women in the Playettes section last time I checked.
/r/seduction21/06/10 07:49 AM
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Your "slut" friend is into you.
/r/seduction05/06/10 12:23 PM
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Good find! Uploaded to Mediafire: http://www.mediafire.com/?uziimmknyy2
/r/seduction27/05/10 02:02 AM
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There are plenty of men that you overlook. They are moral, stable, don’t do drugs, and don’t party or sleep around. They aren’t “bad” and aren’t into bars or clubs. But they are smart, interesting, and have had actual accomplishments — not notches on their bedposts. None of these things are mutually exclusive.
/r/seduction20/05/10 10:05 PM
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Congrats dude! Any chance of a lay report?
/r/seduction18/05/10 06:49 AM
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I second talking to him about it. Just make sure you're nice about it. Try and give off a vibe like "you may not be the best right now but with my help you'll be a great wingman!"
/r/seduction16/05/10 08:23 PM
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Could you elaborate a bit on vocal tonality?
/r/seduction11/05/10 06:57 AM
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"Gimme a hug", is never going to freak a girl out, not ever...just be the first to separate, and you're fine What's the reasoning behind separating first? I've heard the opposite before because it shows dominance.
/r/seduction07/05/10 10:17 AM
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Is anyone else sick of this harping on "the community" meme?
/r/seduction07/05/10 10:12 AM
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So have you gotten laid from any of these girls?
/r/seduction06/05/10 08:42 AM
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19) BEING BOLD INSTEAD OF CONFIDENT = that you know that you can't pick her up, so you compensate with self-defeating actions so that the snub can be on "your terms". Saying "I'm sexy right?" or "baby I want some of that" or even just approaching when the logistics are totally unrealistic is too eager, because a CONFIDENT person wouldn't feel the NEED to say these kinds of things.. these things are symptoms of OVERCOMPENSATION for INSECURITIES.. which leads to.......... This one is great to know…
/r/seduction06/04/10 07:41 AM
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I'm not the guy who'd ask how to do a perfect cold approach, or have crazy stories about sneaking one chick out to get another one in or crazy orgies or anything (though I have some stories) Well let's hear them.
/r/seduction27/03/10 09:08 AM
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Question: If a girl performs kino on me, does this mean I can go to the next step on the ladder? For example, a girl brushes something off my face. Can I kiss her right then?
/r/seduction15/03/10 06:09 AM
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There are a few reasons she could be doing this. One reason she may be doing it for to try and DHV. I read a good post about this somewhere (except it's about boyfriends) but I can't find it, anyone know what I'm talking about?
/r/seduction12/03/10 02:18 AM
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If she is down for a dinner and movie at your place, she is definitely interested.
/r/seduction09/03/10 05:31 AM
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http://www.fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml
/r/seduction05/03/10 07:37 AM
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Statement of Intent (S.O.I.) - Step up and play your hand. You might be able to close based on attraction and rapport alone, but S.O.I. makes things transparent. - 90% of S.O.I.'s fail because you have no built up enough rapport or gotten enough information Think you could elaborate on this a bit more?
/r/seduction03/03/10 09:09 AM
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It's called "cave-manning." I think the point is to give you the ability to think "I approached X women without a shower so this will be a piece of cake," it's a confidence builder. I've heard it mentioned before by some PUAs, I think the general idea is that if you go out without shaving/showering without being too gross, it's also a slight DHV because it shows you are confident enough to go out without really caring. Also, I've noticed that nearly every time I miss a shower or forget to wear d…
/r/seduction24/02/10 10:31 AM
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I've read a bit of the book, but haven't tried the challenge. It seems like good stuff to me. You should post you experiences so far.
/r/seduction24/02/10 10:07 AM
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I've skimmed the book. It's basically a guide from going from AFC to getting laid in 30 days. I don't really remember specific days, but for example I remember one of the first ones was to not shave or shower one day and go make a few approaches.
/r/seduction24/02/10 10:05 AM
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Anyone want to point out what the winner did right and what he could have done better? (SPOILERS) I thought the flower buying was tacky, also mentioning his dog seemed like a DLV. Besides his dumb hair, I honestly thought Tom did a much better job. If it weren't for the dancing, he probably would have won. I guess it just goes to show that simple things like being a good dancer can have a huge impact on your game.
/r/seduction05/02/10 05:24 AM
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Hi, what do you think is the best starting point for someone familiar with game but not experienced?
/r/seduction02/02/10 08:11 AM
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I read a very good article from the female perspective (the one falling for the "friend") about a year ago but I've never been able to find it again. Basically the idea is to stop being such a huge part of her life. Find a hobby or something you really enjoy, start hanging out with other girls, etc. Don't point it out, but just suddenly become very busy. After there's been some distance you can reapproach her and sort of start things over. I really wish I could find that article, will definitely…
/r/seduction01/02/10 10:38 PM
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Somewhat more intuitive when stated as: Youngest girl you should date = (your age / 2) + 7 So since I'm 19 mine would be 16.5. If you're 31 it would be 22.5, 35 would be 24.5, and so on.
/r/seduction20/01/10 02:50 AM
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Great advice, thanks for taking the time to write all that out.
/r/seduction06/01/10 04:44 AM
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I actually watched this seminar a few weeks ago, he has some great ideas. The distinction I was trying to make was that I think community college is a crappy place to meet girls as opposed to a university. I'm working on transferring for spring or fall quarter so maybe I'll have better luck then, but I think DeliciousWolf hit my problem head on: I just need to change my attitude and start seriously looking around me and approaching girls. Thanks for the advice man.
/r/seduction10/12/09 03:49 AM
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Thanks man, this is great advice too. The one problem is that I'm 19 so I can't get into bars, I'm sure the same sort of thing would work in a different place though. the best part is that you've already explained to them you're from out of town. so if a girl wants to hook up, she already knows she's taking you home, not the other way around. Haha this is a great way to think about it. In your experience is it harder to get a girl to take you home than to take her home? Also, do you play it like…
/r/seduction10/12/09 03:46 AM
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Man, I can't thank you enough, this is great advice. Start repeating "There are attractive, available women all around me" I totally know what you mean by this, I actually did this a few days and those are when I did notice the 3-4 girls I was talking about earlier. Speaking of that though, I think you hit the nail with this: I'm saying open up your possibilities for who you would consider spending time with and date some. I suspect you are still in the mindframe of looking for your next 'perfec…
/r/seduction10/12/09 03:42 AM
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http://www.fastseduction.com/youarenew/
/r/seduction10/11/09 01:42 AM
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