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She's trying to backhand you. Dont be that guy
/r/seduction12/07/19 01:44 PM
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I'd say the "average male Tinder experience" is extremely dependent on what I'd call the average male self-selling, which I predict to be pretty bad. I'm a decent looking 22 year old guy however with the physical appearance of 15-16 years because of babyface, skinny etc, meaning I honestly shouldn't get any matches at all. But I do. I get a match about every other day- and yes about half to 60% of them are 19, but the rest are actually my own age or older and their body types vary. My point is, …
/r/seduction10/04/19 09:15 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:20 PM
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Both. Repeatedly
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:57 PM
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For reference I'm an average-looking babyfaced slim dude that looks like he's 17 - the least dominant looking person you can possibly imagine
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:08 PM
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Alright, I literally just met up with a girl a few mins ago and to you're question whether or not it's hard, it's really not. I've never in my life been at a worse point neither physically or mentally than I am right now- and some how I still managed to walk away from this meeting pretty successfully. At its core, I think tinder dates are nice because you know they find you at least a little bit attractive in some way so in my eyes you're already half way and from here you just gotta not fuck it…
/r/seduction30/03/19 02:58 PM
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I'd say shittest
/r/seduction17/03/19 02:21 PM
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My profile is a PowerPoint first of all. There was a guy posting on r/tinder with like original profiles. It's kinda like that
/r/seduction23/02/19 12:41 AM
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Indeed. It counters your point :)
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:51 PM
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I'm most definitely in the bottom 80% looks wise, but I get pretty consistent hookups from tinder because I'm innovative ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/seduction22/02/19 05:04 PM
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Brother I'm 22 and look very young too. I used to hate it like you, I couldn't grow a beard and my metabolism stops me from putting on weight. However what I've realised is that looks has a threshold. If you're very attractive then looks definitely matter and you'll feel it so much. But if you're somewhat attractive, normal or somewhat unattractive looks has very little to say. It's all about your attitude, confidence, personality etc. All the kliché crap people talk about. When women tell me I …
/r/seduction07/12/18 01:31 PM
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As per the law of high numbers, when 1 population is bigger than the other you cant trust the % difference of actions between the two. Meaning when the population of men is quite larger than that of women the % of right-swiping cant be trusted since the sample population doesnt properly represent the real population. :) Tl;dr % of right-swiping is most likely BS due to rarely-acknowledged statistical laws :D
/r/seduction09/09/18 10:06 AM
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Your response was imo way better than "ey gimme a call". No reason to leave that door open for yourself when, in reality, if she really changes her mind that "ey gimme a call" wouldn't be a tipping point
/r/seduction11/08/18 09:22 AM
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Inspiring redditors like this are so rare. Well said!
/r/seduction11/06/18 12:34 PM
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My rule of thumb is if you have gotten to the point where you gotta ask for the girls interests by text, you've already lost. Interests should be discovered not presented as attributes in a text.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:15 AM
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Very nice post! Props to you man
/r/seduction15/04/17 08:47 PM
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A passion is basically what they call "inner game" in PUA lingo. When you speak about it you shine confidence all over the place, casting shadows on other guys, the trying guys. When I say you have the attitude of not giving any fucks it probably ties into this passion since that's what you focus most of your attention on instead of girls, like I would guess many others do. As for the mystery factor: Being mysterious means that people that know you or know of you will never exhaust you as a topi…
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:37 AM
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Good husband material directly translates to friendzone IMO. The person you are in a relationship is very much unlike the person you are as single/dating
/r/seduction30/03/17 09:20 AM
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Honesty and communication is the way to go. If you really need help look up Dan Savage Lovecast. It's a podcast about healthy sex and healthy relationship.
/r/seduction29/03/17 06:11 PM
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You sir understands the true meaning of game. I applaud, well said!
/r/seduction29/03/17 06:09 PM
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Well seems like you have an attitude saying you don't give any fucks which basically translates to confidence in the eyes of women. You think of them as female friends and so don't ever seem desperate. You spend most of your time at home learning, meaning to them you spend your time in mystery doing something I would think you speak passionately about - more confidence, and the element of mystery.
/r/seduction29/03/17 05:40 AM
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Dear future me; watch this.
/r/seduction29/03/17 05:30 AM
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Thanks :) In this case I'd say since 70% of our communication lies in body language, attitude and the like no-one on the planet would know the answer to that without at least a little context.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:33 AM
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Through 20 years of experience I have learned that you can never trust what anyone says about themselves. What we say and what we do are two very different things. Thus, women know men way better than most men do and men know women way better than most women do. She generally don't know her own subconscious, but the world's male population probably has a pretty good idea.
/r/seduction13/03/17 07:23 AM
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I get what youre saying, and technically theres nothing stopping me from joining him. The thing is I've studied a lot of theory, but I'm really having a hard time getting off my ass and doing more stuff in field when it comes to the clubbing / party enviroment. I've grown pretty good in the day game but struggles at night which is why I made the decision to try to learn from my friend yesterday.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:34 AM
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On it
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:30 AM
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The field report is not based on jealousy but a strong desire to learn from someone better than me :) Also I was drunk when I wrote last night at 4 AM in the morning so that might explain my english.
/r/seduction11/02/17 11:30 AM
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Quality shitpost, I approve
/r/seduction28/01/17 04:55 PM
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I'm exactly the same man. What I've experienced is that this oneitis usually happens when i proceed too slow with a girl and I know (now, but never in the moment) that when that oneitis first has set its root i dont have a fucking chance. Give it up, game other girls and as soon as you truly forget about her you MIGHT have a chance again - but by then you shouldnt care
/r/seduction23/01/17 07:00 PM
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hip hop classes sounds pretty good actually
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:00 AM
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This helped a lot - thanks!
/r/seduction23/01/17 01:00 AM
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I'd say we're equally good looking actually but him being physically stronger. Specifics? Well it just seemed like immediately when he went on the dance floor he had an easier time initiating dance moves and shit with girls than I had. Like they were more friendly towards him. He would easily make eye contact and grab a girl and do some dancing with her and I would struggle for eye contact with another girl before grabbing her doing half a dance move before she politely stepped away
/r/seduction22/01/17 01:13 PM
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Thats almost exactly what I do in those situations but last night I was completely outgamed by my friend who barely moved his hips. I was thinking it had something to do with focusing your attention on the girls instead of the song/music?
/r/seduction22/01/17 11:15 AM
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Interesting!
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:10 PM
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