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| 3 | Physical attractiveness more strongly affects social mobility (education, occupation, and income) for males than females.Who’s they? | /r/BlackPillScience | 23/11/23 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Physical attractiveness more strongly affects social mobility (education, occupation, and income) for males than females.Women care more about looks than desperate men. | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/11/23 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Physical attractiveness more strongly affects social mobility (education, occupation, and income) for males than females.By real life, I assume you mean in-person interaction. In-person interaction isn’t a good indicator of people’s true motivations because those motivations are veiled by layers of politeness. Edit: your point stands that dating-app behavior offers a warped image of motivation, but it’s a much clearer picture than in-person. | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/11/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Therapy in a few minutes, feeling like shit, and I just needed to ventWell I guess just keep living your life, then. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Therapy in a few minutes, feeling like shit, and I just needed to ventMeh. Many such cases. You’ve fallen victim to red pill success porn. Which is understandable. It’s what gets the most upvotes, the most views on YouTube, the most attention generally. The emotion you’re feeling is FOMO, a phenomenon caused by the curative nature of the internet, specifically social media. And it’s warped your understanding of the entire philosophy. The purpose of the red pill was never to “fuck 10s”. That may happen, but it’s a byproduct of the reaction, not the appreciable subs… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/20 03:47 AM |
| 2 | How much value do you put in a potential LTR's job/career/socio-economic status?10% | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 89 | My LTR (7 years) Just Moved OutA woman’s purpose on this earth is to get married and make babies. That’s her mission. She wasted 7 years of her prime fertility window waiting for you to help her fulfill her mission. And she has nothing to show for it. Are you sure this “one last dinner” isn’t her plan to murder you? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | What to do when girl shit tests you with “you’re text replies are so shit”^ | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 12 | Your thoughts on Linkedin?Landed my current job via LinkedIn. Didn’t have to lick any boots or asses. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Can I be too redpilled?The great white buffalo. Caught a glimpse of one as a young man while conducting field exercises in Tanzania. Many years ago... | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Any 30+ that wants to share what is like to have no kids but still find fulfillment in life?“They seem to have done everything right” “They do all sorts of things to get approval” | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 12:29 PM |
| 6 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.I don’t understand the question. How’s that pertain to your soul crushing 9-5? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 43 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.You do something way harder and more soul crushing than that for an extended period of time (multiple years). Then when you go back to it, it seems like easy street. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 4 | Is adoption beta?Check out total fertility rates around the world. Overpopulation is not a problem the West is contributing to; Africa and parts of the Middle East are the problem. The entire Western Hemisphere, otoh, is reproducing at a sustainable rate. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Total_fertility_rate | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 08:35 PM |
| 9 | Is adoption beta?If one’s motivation for adoption were truly intrinsic, then theoretically yes, one could still be alpha. (And a cuck, simultaneously.) But that’s one big if. The motivation for adoption is never intrinsic. It can’t be. We didn’t become apex predators on this earth from the desire to raise someone else’s genetics. It’s an evolutionarily engrained instinct. People adopt for a few reasons: because they themselves biologically cannot, because they want the self-sacrificing virtue points, or they are… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Help me understand why being an asshole earns more respectShades of Heartistian panache. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up after 2.5 year LTR ("perfect" girlfriend)If your dick doesn’t get hard for her, you must leave. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Why are women so unaware they're hypocrites?If you can take it, you deserve it... | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Too many red flags to elevate from plate to FWB?There is no “FWB”. She’s just another plate that your spinning. All this autistic subdividing only serves to confuse young men. And a confused young man cannot effectively lead. There are women you fuck without your commitment. That’s a plate. And there are women you fuck with your commitment. That’s an LTR. It can be a marriage, too, but I don’t recommend that. Some plates you spend little time with. Other plates you spend more time with. Doesn’t matter. If she’s not an LTR, she’s a plate. Wome… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Doesn’t using TRP to get girls defeat the purpose of TRP?The purpose of trp is not to fuck women. The purpose of trp is to achieve a greater degree of control over one’s life and the surrounding world. For most men, having women in his life, for whatever purpose he chooses, is a significant part of that control. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else find the Rational Male to be disappointing?Rollo’s contribution to red pill philosophy cannot be understated. He is one of the godfathers of the crimson arts. But he is a shit-tier writer. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone else find the Rational Male to be disappointing?At least one. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Alpha friend in Beta LTR/marriage questionJeff Bezos. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Started working full time on 42k/year. What should my financial plan be?It looks like bourbon hipster’s simplistic approach was correct. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Started working full time on 42k/year. What should my financial plan be?You just got done saying how complex our world is. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Get her to make the plansPrepare for SupremeGentleman-tier pussy. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Recorded FWB messing around with mutual friend while I was in the bathroom. I don't feel right about this but I want to ask this place for support first.Co-signed. That term is retarded. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 03:12 PM |
| -1 | True submission or role play?I’ll have to take you at your word re: BDSM communities. That’s okay if a man isn’t entitled to anything, but neither then is a wife entitled to anything. I think the “recalibration” will be macro, not micro. Understanding the true intersexual dynamics at play is likely to cause beta men to check out of society en masse. Which jeopardises the very protection/provision mechanism that allowed the dynamic to occur in the first place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | True submission or role play?It’s role play at best. At worst it’s the woman who has the authority because she has the power of the state behind her (depending on local laws). The woman is at all times free to divorce, take the kids, get a job, her own place, marry a different man, and possibly still get child support and alimony from the first husband. And if he tries to stop her he’ll be put in jail. You tell me, what “authority” do you believe a married man has? | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/20 07:01 PM |
| 20 | Odd question: Do taller women TEND to have longer pussies?In my experience the correlation is stronger with hip width than height. Wide hips deep pussy, narrow hips shallow pussy. Ymmv. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Boxing, Muay Thai or BJJ?Defend yourself from what? Bar fight? Boxing. You have to be able to knock someone out in a fight, and BJJ’s not really a striking discipline. Phenomenal sport, tho | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 01:06 PM |
| 2 | How to live with the guilt of straying?No women allowed. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 52 | Know anyone who is naturally redpill? How did they become like that? How are they different from regular RP?Every “natural” I’ve ever met had an RP father figure in their life from a young age. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:45 PM |
| 9 | I have a problem with my girlfriends promiscuous past. Need advice.No. The best indicator of future behaviour is past behaviour. OP, you are correct to vet the women you’re considering for LTR. And you are considering her for LTR, that much is obvious. My advice to you is: If it bothers you now, it won’t not bother you later. Do with that what you will. Your reason for clinging to this one is born of scarcity. You think you won’t find another woman you click with. So what if you don’t? Your life’s mission is not contingent upon you clicking with some wet hole. … | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 27 | LTR had post sex regretStorm on the horizon. Start saving your text messages. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What's up with all this redpill stuff about her being very experienced in bed being a relationship red flag?Agreed. Weak correlation at best. There’s also the matter of defining “good in bed”. That’s liable to throw red herrings because it’s so subjective. A girl with a body count of exactly 1 will seem amazing in bed if you and the previous guy have similar sexual proclivities. On the other hand, maybe she’s alpha widowed. That’s gonna be a tough row to hoe and might actually be a red flag. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What's up with all this redpill stuff about her being very experienced in bed being a relationship red flag?This all assumes you get a good read on their body count. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Would it be fair to say that one of the biggest reasons why men come to TRP, is because they have a lack of emotional intelligence?“The world makes no sense from a blue pill perspective...” | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 01:24 PM |
| 12 | How to handle relatives that give me 0 respect?You’re 27. Time to make a big boy decision and remove someone from your life. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Genuine QuestionTop comment | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Why do guys stare at me?Can get bobs but not vagene. How do rp? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 01:11 PM |
| 5 | Why do guys stare at me?It’s cause you’re looking at them | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women with lots of orbitters/male friends and absent father growing up?I think I saw this on askTRP | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | How much of a deal breaker is being brokeSee: Skittles man | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 02:56 AM |
| 13 | What does it mean when a girl says she wants a relationship but wants to wait "for the right setting"Yep. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for manners/etiquettes?Just say etiquette. Unless you wanna sound like beaner while you climb the greasy pole. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 06:56 PM |
| 23 | Girlfriend calling me "bro, bruh", she told me "I'm single". What should I do?You’re living in her frame. She’s not afraid to lose you. You are afraid to lose her. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 07:22 PM |
| 25 | Do LTRs serve a purpose?Pair bonded monogamy is the bedrock of civilisation. At some point in every man’s life he’s going to feel the urge to secure his genetic legacy. And doing so will require a suitable vessel. That’s what LTRs are for. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Working 9-5 - upsides and downsidesGood: Medical/dental 401k/HSA PTO Bad: No overtime Sitting on your ass | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Social proof is everything when you want to score pussy (not a question, just taking this off my chest)Responding to title only: No one thing is “everything” when you want to score pussy. The totality of the circumstances is everything when you want to score pussy. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Need some guidanceRead the rational male. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Picking up women and going red pill are not the same thing.You don’t get to decide what “living a life of significance” means to other men. Also, where’s your question. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many red pillers shit on sports?Hey chief, if you’re so “above” it all then why are you asking in the first place? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 02:48 PM |
| 10 | Why do so many red pillers shit on sports?Be more interested in your own storyline and less interested in others’ storylines. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 02:35 PM |
| 3 | How does one handle *this type of shit* with their wife during a soft next?I always get a kick out of guys who misinterpret the red pill with catastrophic results. Should be it’s own sub. redpillwhoopsies | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | The position of TRP on cheating.What do you mean you “can’t”? You can do anything you want, but all actions (and inactions) have consequences. The better question to ask of yourself is: “What are the potential consequences of my actions, and am I prepared to accept those consequences?” You “can” do anything the consequences of which you are prepared to accept. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do RPW seek LTRs while RPM spin plates?This guy is incorrect. Go with Tomassi. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 135 | No desire to meet girls after breakup a year ago. Need help.Well if you went from “borderline suicidal” to “feeling great” after one year, I’d say... see where you’re at after two years. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Is feeling better than others and being cynical of others really a problem?I’m better than you. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Why do people give a fuck about sports or Sluts dancing?Of course, playing a sport is living through yourself, not anyone else. And it’s an opportunity to test your mettle against other athletes, show courage, demonstrate leadership, etc. Teaches you how to lose, how to win. All good things. I was referring to the sports nerds that worship pro (or even college) sports like it was a god damn religion. The type of guys that do nothing but drink beer and sit if the couch to watch MUH NFL. Useless bastards with beer guts and bad facial hair. You know the… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 7 | Why do people give a fuck about sports or Sluts dancing?Obsessing over sports is cucked. Living vicariously through other men, wearing another man’s name on your back. Very gay. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | 1st LTR in 4 years, going well, very happy. She’s planning a trip to Colorado this spring with her slutty best friend.OP, do not take this guys advice. He’s clearly working through some personal trauma right now. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | 1st LTR in 4 years, going well, very happy. She’s planning a trip to Colorado this spring with her slutty best friend.I wouldn’t say the odds are “good”. That doesn’t seem right. Of course it’s possible. What do you mean by “fling”? An affair? If so, then the relationship is over. No question. That’s not oneitis at all. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 2 | Guilt after hard nextI hate to be a paranoid old spook but this sounds like a false rape accusation waiting to happen. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 11 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?Nice report. All sex is paid for. Period. Point blank. You pay with your time, your energy, your sanity, sometimes your fucking dignity. But no pussy is free. I don’t understand guys who get up on their high horse about how they’d “never pay for sex”, yet they’re wining and dining and being emotionally available to a woman in order to get laid. It’s all the same shit. You’re leveraging something you have (in this case money) to get that nut. It is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I feel so drained and demotivated after sex and masturbation, is this normal?Yes, you absolutely do feel an unbelievable urge to cum. But you resist. You keep your essence inside you instead of blowing it all on/in her. And you spend the rest of your day feeling sharp as a tack. We’re talking about some next level discipline, but I found the juice worth the squeeze. YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I feel so drained and demotivated after sex and masturbation, is this normal?At different points in my life, yes. Maybe not to the same degree as you, but I definitely feel very mellow after busting. This is a great feeling at bed time, but not in the morning/afternoon when you’ve still got your whole day ahead of you. I think the book recommends 1 climax per 5 sessions. That was impossible for me but I managed to work up to 1 out of 3. Tapped into some primordial fucking energy, bro. Fucking lethal. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | LTR disrespects me heavily.. Is she BPD?Her condition, whatever it may be, is of absolutely no concern to you. This woman should have already been a distant memory. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 14 | I feel so drained and demotivated after sex and masturbation, is this normal?You might check out a book called The Tao of Health Sex and Longevity. In it, the author makes a compelling argument against climaxing every time you have sex. Edit: never watch porn | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean if you are not shit-tested when you approach?It means you’re in. Or out. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 1 | In a ltr for almost 2 years, things are great but we end up only having sex every day, should I give more comfort/spend more time apart from sex with her?Stop trying so hard. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 01:27 PM |
| 6 | Are bluepilled men really ok being emasculated by the insanity of modern society, or is there more to it?Except reddit. Don’t delete reddit. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Blue pilled relationship is making me question red pill beliefs“She eventually grew bored and lost attraction (they all do)” Huh? How much experience with women do you have? It sounds like she left her extremely blue pill dude for a slightly less blue pill dude. Which is what women do, they trade up. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives me advice for the next girl I see? Just ignore?The way you phrased your comment was like OP only has two options: break frame and get laid, or keep frame and not get laid. If those are my options, I keep frame. It’s more valuable to me than any one bang. But I think I understand your point. What you’re saying is figure out how to keep frame and get laid. That’s obviously the ideal. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl gives me advice for the next girl I see? Just ignore?I think you mean keep frame or get laid. And the answer is keep frame. Although that may (or may not) mean losing a piece of pussy in the immediate, learning how to keep frame at all times will net you more pussy in the long run. Your frame is a long term investment in yourself. On the other hand, willingness to compromise your masculine values to go after one little fish is scarcity mindset. All that does is reinforce the idea that it’s okay to break frame for the right woman. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Intimidated by big MILFS?Is that you Macklemore? | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Guys need help asapNothing applies to exes. They’re dead to you. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming P.E.?Can you sneak away into the bathroom to crank one out just before sex? | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 4 | Am I a pussy for not liking women with masculine hobbies or is that my gut telling me something?This is correct. Unless you’re looking for LTR. In that case, vetting is crucial, and your gut is your best friend. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who have suffered from it, who did you deal with constant negative thoughts, feeling social isolation, and being in your head practically all the time?This. Get help. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 06:30 PM |
| 5 | Do any of you have a healthy and happy relationship with different sex drives?I think you’ll find the exact opposite. Exercise is a great way to increase libido. Sounds like he’s the one that needs to get more active. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?In my heart of hearts, I wish you were right. I wish there were an abundance of men capable of being a good head of the family. But that's obviously not true, otherwise we wouldn't have so many women like OP who can't find them. There has to be another explanation. The most compelling explanation I've seen is that (for whatever reason) a majority of women are pursuing a minority of men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?That depends on the degree to which a given social structure is Civilized. Obviously evolutionary prerogative is practiced most openly, and to the greatest extent, in Savagery (think prehistory, think the jungle). On the other hand, Civility is an attempt by man to curtail some of the more deleterious aspects of our evolutionary prerogative, and therefore it is stymied by social constructs like law and religion which act like societal "bumpers". But, predictably, man's attempt to tame nature is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?To some extent, I agree with both those points, but that's irrelevant. What's relevant is that OP seeks a captain, i.e. a leader. Unfortunately for her, so does *every woman*. Which wouldn't be a problem **if** there were as many captains as there are women who seek them. But that's simply not the case. Captains are the minority, and for that reason, most women don't get one. So when OP says "I just want a captain...", that's a tall order. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 12 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?Admirable. Your first post was misleading the OP into thinking there are men out there who don’t want to fuck other women. Men will always want to fuck other women, but not all of them will act on the impulse. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 03:11 PM |
| 0 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?Welcome to real life. Most men are not captains, let alone “principled” ones. Principled captains are extremely high value targets. And they know it. Asking such a man to forfeit his evolutionary prerogative (unlimited sexual access to unlimited women) for the confines of monogamy is not asking a small favour. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?“I just want a principled captain I can support and whom I’m their one and only.” That’s not a small thing you’re asking for, there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 02:15 PM |
| 5 | Are there really men who don’t cheat or who strive not to?Do you ever find other women sexually attractive? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/20 01:50 PM |
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