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| 22 | Leading your wife in Scripture Memory | ChadDownUnder | /r/RPChristians | 20/05/20 03:57 PM | |
| 14 | Power Prayers | ChadDownUnder | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/19 03:19 PM | |
| 14 | Share your experiences with fasting | ChadDownUnder | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/19 03:02 PM | |
| 11 | Proposal, Engagement and Marriage Traditions | ChadDownUnder | /r/RPChristians | 06/11/19 11:23 PM | |
| 3 | Bad Habits | ChadDownUnder | /r/askRPC | 08/05/20 05:56 AM |
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| 5 | What the point of getting married for men? M18r/askRPC is the place for these sorts of questions. To answer your question: https://youtu.be/-W5eZE8Hv9U | /r/RPChristians | 28/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 21 | Has anyone run a "Red Pill" type course for men at their church?I’ve led a similar initiative before with young men (aged 21-26) and led a scripture memory group with teenaged boys (aged 14-16). The best wisdom I can share from my experience is this: You have a small spray bottle, the kind you water plants with. When you spray someone standing in front you, the mist falls on them entirely. They get as saturated as you can make one person with a spray bottle. If you stand in a circle of men in a small group and spray, some of them will get a light drizzle at … | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (10/14/20)Mission: To know Jesus and make him known, by being a living witness to his salvation and making disciples. Sub-mission: To teach men how to be masculine by being strong and being a leader amongst my peers. 24M, 5'11'', 73kgs, 17-19% BF, Enagaged **PHYSICAL: ** Still staying very consistent. My upper body strength is still improving with progressive overload on the gymnastics rings. I couldn't reach past 10kg weighted pull up and found that I had a mental block which prevented me form lifting he… | /r/RPChristians | 17/10/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (10/07/20)OYS Mission: To know Jesus and make him known, by being a living witness to his salvation and making disciples. Sub-mission: To teach men how to be masculine by being strong and being a leader amongst my peers. 24M, 5'11'', 73kgs, 17-19% BF, Enagaged NOTE: I make excuses for not doing OYS. I need to. I'm not invicible. In the past four months I've been going through hills and valleys of spiritual productivity. OYS and the feedback I get helps keep me consistent so I need to do it. *PHYSICAL: * M… | /r/RPChristians | 07/10/20 11:30 PM |
| 5 | Blocking PornFor 20 months I did not masturbate or watch sexual material. Your body adjusts. You become more confident, more energetic and you’d be shocked how your brain lies to you when it tells you that you ‘need’ to masturbate. | /r/RPChristians | 25/07/20 03:19 AM |
| 6 | Blocking PornHave you read much NoFap material? YourBrainOnPorn.com? Have you watched Universal Man on YouTube? His older videos are especially helpful. The more you fill your mind up with God’s word, have a mission and spend time learning from NoFap materials, like those listed above, the more your motivation to quit will increase. Having had a relapse myself a while ago, I listened to universal man’s videos each day and it inspired me to keep going. My longest PMO free stint was 20 months. It can be done. | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/20 11:31 PM |
| 19 | Socrates Quote on LiftingThe ancient Greeks believed that a man was achieving success when he excelled in both intellectual and physical pursuits. Unfortunately today we can seperate the mental and physical in our minds. An example that contradicts our assumptions is meeting a jacked I.T. Programmer. | /r/RPChristians | 07/07/20 01:50 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/03/20)Scripture memory is a 1? How can you improve this? Are there any outdoor gyms near you? Olympic Rings or pull up bars you can set up inside? It’s good to keep the mind sharp and body moving, even if in a limited capacity. Sounds like a good use of your home and time. How are you connecting with men at the moment? If relationships don’t strengthen, they weaken. How can you forge or maintain your current discipleship relationships? | /r/RPChristians | 04/06/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/27/20)Which verses have you attempted memorising/have memorised since last fortnight? Great to hear that your AM/AA, her apologising is a good sign. Are you able to come up with these on the spot now or still using pre-planned game? | /r/RPChristians | 28/05/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/20/20)Most things I'm seeing here check out, you're doing the work. Have been doing ~3h/day since. Excellent work, cutting two hours is a big feat. Can you get it down to two hours? Been consistently praying 30m/day minimum. 3 Bible chapters/day in order to finish it in 1 year. I'm on schedule. Currently reading Acts. Scripture Memory: 0%. I haven't been memorizing scripture lately. You're committed to quiet times and this will benefit you greatly in your own walk but also as an example to the men you… | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)you can only use the same counter/ AM / AA counter so many times Yes exactly, so once you have used one devise another. Like I mentioned before though, after a few weeks of doing this you will be able to come up with responses in the moment with no problem. Before the past two weeks I was lounging around in my hotel room watching Netflix. It sounds like you're really putting the work in and just that change alone is a big one. The next step is to fill your day with other value increasing, produc… | /r/RPChristians | 21/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)That sounds like a good plan. Report once you start reading it on your OYS. | /r/RPChristians | 19/05/20 04:42 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)When first developing my game, I considered what fitness tests I was being given, or could be given, and then came up with AA or AM responses to them ahead of time. At the start it felt unnatural because I wasn’t coming up with responses in the moment. However after a short while my confidence and ability had increased from the pre-planned responses so much that I didn’t need them anymore. You could have a think about the most common fitness tests your wife is giving you during this period (beca… | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)My Dad taught myself and my siblings a lot about the bible and being Christian, yet didn’t teach us how to read the bible. It was expected of me me but not directly modelled. This reflects the attitude of a lot of churches today. You’re not required to fill the shoes of your Dad, but you can bring greater glory to the kingdom if you model to your siblings the essentials. The first I recommend is either No More Mr Nice Guy or the Biblical Masculinity Blueprint. Both of these are the essential fir… | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)In this power struggle with your wife, how do you rate yourself in the DEERing department? Have you tried incorporating any dread? Are you leading your wife in household duties, or leaving it up to her to delegate tasks and stay on top of things? Sounds like you're on the right track with the weight loss. Tracking hotel food is not impossible to do, even if you must track each item on the plate individually is better than not tracking at all. Spiritual is looking good, how is the scripture memor… | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)Are you lifting at the moment? Or doing bodyweight workouts during this period? This will help you twofold in building a better body but also burning off steam that is currently fuelling your fapping habit. Things to consider. In regards to your siblings, you can hang out with them, but is it possible for you to pray or read the word with them? Have you read any of the sidebar? Blueprint? NNMNG? I like Owning Your Shortcomings and it's great that you've recognised the need for confessing to one … | /r/RPChristians | 18/05/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/13/20)PHYSICAL: Still seeing good progress on the gymnastic rings. I’ve been committed to stretching on my off days. I’m very tight so I’m getting a remedial massage next week. Haven’t seen any significant weight loss but it’s only been one week since I started tracking calories instead of just protein. Each time my fiancé and I make out she becomes tempted to take things further, so I’ve decided to start cutting back on kissing. 7.5 months to the wedding now. I posted in askRPC a week ago with little… | /r/RPChristians | 16/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/06/20)OYS covering period from 23/4 to now. PHYSICAL: Well the Olympic Rings workouts are paying off. I’ve had multiple people complimenting me on how big my arms are and my fiancé is VERY happy with my progress. Touches my arms more and calls me sexy. I’ve started doing body weight squats with a kettlebell to do something about my skinny legs, but until the gym opens my lower body isn’t seeing much development. My fiancé has begun a bad habit of picking her face. I’ve told her that I don’t like it a … | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/20 08:24 AM |
| 2 | Are there some worship songs you enjoy?I recently read his life story. It’s a valuable read. An observation from the book, Keith never regularly attended a congregation in a church building (basilica). Keith was saved through a bible study and then ended up running his own home church and saw hundreds saved personally and thousands more through his ministry. But the ones he saw saved personally and lived with all went on to do things for the kingdom. | /r/RPChristians | 28/04/20 07:46 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)What's your goal right now: bulking, cutting or maintaining? Current goal is cutting whilst putting on muscle. I've been reading that gym newbies can often make gains while cutting and it seems to be true for me at the moment. Set an alarm on your phone to remind you If you fail to plan, you plan to fail Both good points of feedback, I've set iPhone reminders so I'll see this week if they are enough or if I need to do more planning. Thanks u/rocknrollchuck. | /r/RPChristians | 22/04/20 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Find Something to Lift around the HouseI’ve been setting Olympic Rings up, it’s been great. | /r/RPChristians | 19/04/20 09:54 PM |
| 4 | Let's Have a Little Talk About RespectCan you provide some definitions of love and respect? If possible also some situational differences between the two. Thanks! Good post. | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)Thanks for the response. Wedding is set for December. The alarm is a good idea. We don’t live together but I could still use it so I’ll give it a shot. | /r/RPChristians | 18/04/20 07:28 AM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)My girlfriend and I still have not had sex yet, but that is because we both do not want to have it until we are married and we are thinking about getting engaged soon. We are kinky together so we have been doing some non sexual and slight sexual kinks. We are getting more tempted each day but we refuse. Do you have a good reason for living with your girlfriend? 1 Thessalonians 5:22 "Abstain from all appearance from evil." In my opinion to engage in "non-sexual and sexual kinks" provides the appe… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)How is your diet? Are you tracking your calories? Diet is key to losing weight. It's more important than how much you exercise. | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 12:42 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)You said that you’re calling and messaging people. That’s a good start. Discipleship is harder during this period, but is there something more you can do than just calling and messaging? For example, can you organise to lead a bible study with one person or a group over Skype or Zoom? Are there any other ways that you can invest in others? It’s good that you’ve recognised that you need to read the sidebar. Are you currently using your spare time productively? You seem to be doing a great job rea… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 12:31 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/15/20)OYS 2 Previous: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/fx84fp/oys_where_progress_is_made_040820/fn9u3ha/?context=3 PHYSICAL: Height: 182cm Weight: 70kg Bodyfat: 16% or 17%. Hard to say, I'm naturally lean and all of my weight goes to my stomach. I don't look cut but I certainly don't look fat. Training has been going well as usual. Diet is doing well. I'm eating just below maintenance with plenty of protein. Due to being an ectomorph change takes a long time for me so I'm waiting on my r… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/20 09:03 AM |
| 1 | unattractive yet godly girlIf it's not a hell yes, it's a hell no. | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/08/20)OYS 1 I've decided to start an OYS. I've been part of RPC for a while now but have never participated. Better late than never. PHYSICAL: Continuing with my gymnastics rings training and seeing some good progress. I've had an increase in strength, for examples my eccentric ring pull ups have increased from 3 x 5 when I started to 3 x 8 and eccentric chin ups from 4 x 3 to now 4 x 7. My strength has increased in other exercises too, such as dips, push ups and holds. I'm looking better too. My fian… | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | What worked for you to get rid of the pleasure from porn, masturbating & viewing women sexually?In addition to the other advice provided, I'll give you some specific prayer suggestions that helped me conquer masturbation and lust. How do your prayers sound? Do they sound like the prayers of someone who is more than a conqueror in Christ (Romans 8:37), who knows that the one in them is greater than the one who is in the world (1 John 4:4)? WEAK PRAYER: "God please help me not sin today. You know how weak I am and that I struggle with lust in particular. Please help me to avoid these temptat… | /r/RPChristians | 13/04/20 01:04 PM |
| 7 | I feel like this girl wanted me to kiss her last date.In my opinion her claim of wanting to “take it slow” is to test if you’ll listen to what she says or if you’ll lead and move in your own direction. If you want to kiss her then do it. Make your own moves in the relationship instead of waiting on her to lead. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/19 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Helping the predominately but not exclusively gay guyThere is no need to make this distinction. Temptation is not sin. Sinful thoughts are sin and Jesus did not have them. | /r/RPChristians | 15/05/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/08/19)OYS - 05/08/19 PHYSICAL Been hitting the gym for 10 weeks now and have no problems staying consistent. Went from being able to lift precisely no weights to the following 3RMs this week: Deadlift 80kg/176 pounds Squat 80kg/176 pounds Overhead press 37.5kg/82 pounds Bench press 40kg/88 pounds Smashing my macros to keep up with my incinerator metabolism and seeing some minor increases in muscle density. It’s too early to see any significant changes. MENTAL/EMOTIONAL Reading Deep Strength’s book and… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/19 04:18 AM |
| 3 | Helping the predominately but not exclusively gay guyI don’t believe the dichotomies of heterosexual, homosexual, bi-sexual, pansexual, etc, are helpful for Christians. God gave one ideal fit for sexuality, a man and a woman in marriage (Genesis 2:24). Anything outside of this arrangement is a perversion of marriage including but not limited to beastiality, sodomy, pedorasty, fornificafion and adultery. The reason I make this distinction is because to say that one is a homosexual implies that their desire for the same sex is natural and unchangeab… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/19 02:34 AM |
| 4 | Helping the predominately but not exclusively gay guyBased on your description here, in the least you wrestle with lust towards men. This is a sin and no sin precludes you from reading the sidebar. You can make the changes necessary to devote yourself to Jesus and become a strong man of God. A woman should be an accessory to your mission for Jesus. She will pursue you because of your mission and desire for God, instead of you pursuing her. As you focus on your mission and becoming more like Jesus, He will change your heart and desires. With discip… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/19 12:06 PM |
| 5 | What are practical things I can do to be more manly, masculine?Embrace uncomfortableness. Do things that hurt. Develop an eye for everyday situations you can increase your suffering in. Some personal suggestions: Having a shower? Make it cold. Playing table tennis? Play stingers rules. Feel like watching Netflix? Open up a book instead. Sitting down to read a book? Read it standing up. Wasting time? Delete social media for a week. | /r/RPChristians | 07/04/19 02:15 PM |
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