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| 1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls... | Logistics | Chad_Thundermember | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | An honest advice from an old man who's done it all. | Fundamentals | Chad_Thundermember | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 11:55 AM |
| 0 | My own original lines. | Conversation | Chad_Thundermember | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:44 AM |
| 0 | I went to my favorite bar after many years. I experienced something new about the drinks. | Lifestyle | Chad_Thundermember | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 03:41 AM |
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| 0 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Okay, second comment of mine in this same post. This time, I read the entire post. It's worse than I thought. OP, forget about her and move on. If not, you're hopeless. Maybe I'm being harsh because I am used to Stoic philosophy values or something, but this kind of shit is peak pussy behavior. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 06:03 AM |
| -25 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Nobody cares what a psychologist would say about this shit. You can quantify it in a microscope for all anyone could care. All that matters is for the OP to snap the heck out of it. The moment I read the title, I fucking cringed. Seriously? You're being intimate with other women and your obsession over your ex got worse? That's fucking bizarre. Maybe I'm too harsh but I saw firsthand this kind of obsession from my dumbass, overgrown baby cousin and I almost slapped him in the face for being an a… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Listen buddy (OP) I'm not even gonna read your post in its entirety. All I can say is snap the heck out of it. Snap the heck out of it. Stop obsessing over some girl. Learn to hate her if you have to. No woman is ever truly an angel. Knock. It. Off. The more you dwell on thoughts of her, the more fucked you're gonna be and the more prone you are to stalkerish behavior. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?Good advice. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?If you don't cold approach how do you get dates? Are you telling me that your social circle is so amazingly vast that you can pluck out a woman any time in that social circle? | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???Yeah sure. Be the typical r/seduction redditor, you fucking amateur. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???Whoah. Even if you hate me, that's an extremely harsh thing to say. But more than that, who the fuck acts that way when he's sixty? That kind of hilarious behavior should only be done by pre-eighteen year olds with no life experience. I'm sorry man but it's fucking extremely difficult to respect a human male who is that way towards an old and ugly woman like my mom. It's fucking pathetic is what it is. lmao. I've lost girls in my life for far less stupid behaviors and then I see some dude who's … | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 01:17 AM |
| 5 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???Sheer practice and experience. Go out more. Socialize more. Get into the habit of engaging people with conversations. When you get comfortable doing that, start playing around with your future conversations with wilder and wilder jokes. If there's a comedy club nearby, participate in it with your own unique material despite the nervousness. Keep socializing and progressively expand your comfort zone. That's really all there is to it. You don't learn wit by book-education. I will also say that re… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:43 PM |
| 4 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???Just banter back. But no matter what you do you gotta escalate. Are these put-downs happening in face-to-face interactions? In phone? In text? I have never been successful with a woman who was actually able to outwit me with words. I don't know what the deal is with your girl but if you're losing the argument and she ends up laughing, you've probably already lost your chances. You can't let girls dominate you in anything. My mom dated a guy whom she could dominate and he ended up becoming a laug… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 10 | How do you pass the "I am too pretty for you" "I don't see what do attractive about you" when you're clearly good looking and she is interested too???Of the many women that I've dated, I have encountered a grand total of one woman who have flat out told me I wasn't good enough for her. I've seriously dated a bit over a dozen while the rest of the dozens were either quick, instant rejections or the occasional easy lays. Even counting those serious dates in which they ultimately had to say "no", I still really only had one who was cruel enough to say that. And that was when her and I were already fuck buddies and she refused to make it official… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Does ignoring girls work?Yeah. And these girls are extremely good at gauging just how much attention you need to get you hooked. Simply put, if you have strong feelings for her, you need to stay the fuck away because the temptation to allow her to manipulate you will be extremely hard to resist. If she isn't fucking you or at least kissing you, she isn't worth it. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:01 PM |
| 1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Being a legend does not mean you are mentally ill. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Turning my life around at 26Go out more and socialize more. Start there. I will give it to you straight. If you're incapable of following something that simple (go out more and socialize more), you have zero chance at becoming good with women. That's the bottom line. That's the appropriate start for you. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to get over my fear of rejection when it comes to approaching total strangers, especially girls I'm attracted to.OP, find your life's purpose and work on fulfilling it. That will solve everything. Men get their self-worth from what they do. I am a philosopher. That's what I'm in this planet for. Even getting beautiful women in my life is part of my journey to be a great philosopher. And because their role in my life is crystal clear, I act more appropriate with them and they end up feeling my truest self. The effect is basically an ironclad self-confidence. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkIt's partly bullshit, yes. Many of what you'll learn is very useful and important, but true competence comes from on-the-job training. I literally can train many clients with their fitness goals much better than educated personal trainers who don't have a damn clue about lifting weights. It pisses me off but life is never really fair. I consider the true value of education to be the confidence boost, the prestige, and the professors' amazing ability to tell you which things are worth learning ab… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkI think you are underestimating the capabilities of an uneducated loser who has experience dealing with people. All education does is put labels on stuff. Everyone respects doctors and lawyers who are educated, but you can literally train someone to do their job with minimal schooling if they were given the right circumstances. Really, just teach them how to read blood profiles and you'd have a guy who knows how to spot someone with fatty liver disease. Of course you always want the guy who both… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkYou become yourself by stopping being a pretentious idiot. People don't know how to do it even though it's an excellent advice. It's actually hard if you know how to do it. That's why people don't do it. To illustrate, I have always been a complete and utter pervert growing up. I was taught to pretend like I'm not a pervert. And then when I accepted my perverted, porn-addicted nature, girls tended to be more accepting of me. All that was required was for me to not be a brutish pervert. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:30 AM |
| 7 | Seduction is easier than people thinkAttractive or unattractive, everyone should always be socializing. Talking to a girl about tame topics like books and movies should always be a default status when you are around them. But even when your aim is to actually get laid, your belief in being unattractive shouldn't hold you back. Seriously bro, if you're in a room full of strangers, nobody gives a shit about your outside life as long as you're dressed well, have good hygiene, and you're not acting like an absolute nutcase. Super attra… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is easier than people thinkWell-spoken! Extroversion is fucking overrated. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:15 AM |
| 4 | Seduction is easier than people thinkExtroversion is a personality trait. Social skills are skills. There are countless successful comedians who grew up introverts. No one has an excuse. I love the OP's post, truth be told. I've known people who are literally on the spectrum and still were able to be social to a huge extent. I honestly have deep respect for them. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is easier than people thinkYes! Absolutely! I agree to the OP 100%! I just have to emphasize the reading-the-room part. Not all places are conducive to flirting. This is why the OG Mystery wants you to isolate the girl at some point. The possibilities become much more vast if you're dealing with a girl who's alone with you. Of course, you gotta make sure she's willing. lol. You don't force her to be alone with you. lol | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 09:11 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...You're a waste of my fucking breath. I refuse to post anything in this subreddit until I have those two or three pictures of me hanging out with hot girls. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:12 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...I mastered his methods when I was fucking 18 and realized I can do way better. So fuck yeah, I'll diss the shit out of him. The true original gangsters in seduction are the 18th century libertines who were sleeping with celebrities and exclusive women in their day and age. Fucking some random bimbo is not an accomplishment. Results speak for themselves. I'll come back here two weeks from now with at least two pictures of hot girls by my side. I'm the seduction world's new guru. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...What the fuck is a fedora? And what the hell does "spaz" mean? I'm not familiar with Gen Z lingo. Also, you ignorant dumbass, playing Skyrim and Oblivion is a badge of honor. What kind of world have you been living in? There are hot girls who love these games, moron! My ex fuck buddy have been playing FFXIV for longer than I have! What the hell is wrong with you people? You're all supposed to have great social intuition. Can't any of you fucking recognize a legend when he appears here? You want … | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 07:48 AM |
| -1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Ego is meant to be fragile because if it's not, the person won't do the work to maintain it. An attack on a confident person will have no effect on him because the extent of his confidence is simply being himself, and that's a low-ass standard. An attack on the ego of a demi-god like me pisses me off, because people like me, Jesus, Jehova, Napoleon, and Hitler simply do not accept those who disrespect our immaculate names. I have street cred where I live. It's time to assert my dominance in this… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 07:38 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Scared of the younger girls my ass. Once again, you're making assumptions. Tell me your credentials then. What experiences can you show me that shows how great your game is? Which city in America and how did you do it? You have zero clue how I am in real life. I'm honestly better than all of you. It's not a delusion, it's a fact. And why are you wasting your time bringing down a seduction genius like me in some subreddit when you can be out getting laid yourself? Don't you have a life or somethi… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 07:31 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Because I have other priorities in my life, idiot. And I never said anything about being a beggar. You stupid or something? And also, would a sane college student who's out for a degree gonna be roaming around the campus looking for some girl to game? And what made you say I had misspent youth? I was literally jockier than the jocks. I was a competitive powerlifter as a teen and even the football guys feared me. Don't go making assumptions on some internet guy you've known for five replies. And … | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 07:08 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Ego is an asset. It's what made the legendary Napoleon attract soldiers who would die in his name. Ego is what allows me to bang hotter girls after some girl who's not hot rejects me. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:47 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...I'm fucking thirty too, dude. But your maturity is that of a twenty year old. And I may be a brainlet but it was never my job to be a genius. That shit is the occupation of mathematicians and astronomers, which would have zero impact on social intelligence. You also have to consider I wasn't born into wealth with free college money from mommy. I had to work hard to pay for my own education. And despite my low social status, I was still getting laid left and right. And if you think being able to … | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 06:44 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Will you take me up on my offer? My challenge? You amateurs made me wanna prove my legend in here. Buddy, I came here because I have no time to figure out amateur problems. This shit is your job and I, the legend that I am, needed your help. I wasn't bragging about anything but you amateurs and novices immediately attacked my competence without a second thought. Dude, just an hour ago I got out of a bar with a new contact in my phone. I didn't even put effort in it. lmao. It's freaking Tuesday a… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 05:37 AM |
| -1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...I'll send you a picture of myself and at the end of two weeks, I'll send you a picture of myself with a girl by my side. How's that? Nobody questions my competence in this endeavor. And I'm not trolling. | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 02:34 AM |
| -1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...I've done it before with my eyes closed!! Hottest girl in my English 101 class in a Summer Semester! Girl had a boyfriend, her confidence level was sky high because she is hotter than all my other female classmates! Me without really feeling too motivated decided I shouldn't leave that semester without scoring with her. On the last day, I just decided to flirt and get a tight hug. Bam. I did. A hug that lasted five seconds as I got to feel the warmth of her body for a bit. And that's me not even… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 02:03 AM |
| 0 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Whoah... Sorry buddy but you just triggered me right now. Dude excuse me? If I can't even get college girls in a campus it's over? Do you have any idea who you're talking to? You know what, how about I go on a game rampage and bang girls just to prove a point to you and everyone here? I came here genuinely looking for advice in a minor issue all you amateurs deal with, and I get questioned about my seductive capabilities? lol I don't know what world you live in man but college girls, unless you'… | /r/seduction | 19/10/22 01:59 AM |
| 2 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Gym and college in recent years. The night life in downtown, private parties, and bookstores many years ago. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...I might. Then post results here. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 08:36 PM |
| 1 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Yeah definitely. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 08:18 PM |
| -19 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Look buddy... (Sigh)... I'll just keep this concise. I'm not here to start an argument. I'm advanced, yes, but also not omniscient. Let's leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:34 PM |
| -15 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...You're right in saying that bar is easy mode. It's why I avoid them. But you have to understand I usually work my game in community college. Aside from the school work that I have to do, the girls there too are occupied with their school work. It's either work through those unrealistic boundaries with career-minded girls or I'd have to find a place more conducive to flirting. Gym is an option, but I honestly feel weird flirting with hot girls in the gym if I'm not the strongest guy around. I use… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Okay, please elaborate. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:55 PM |
| 0 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??LOL. (Post edited. Said stupid shit. Tired.) | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | DaygameMaybe, maybe not. All I was really saying is that it is very important to be able to blend in. It's almost like a defense mechanism, really. Being low profile. At key times, you have to stand out and show your vibrant personality. Maybe do some epic jokes, stuff like that. But the ability to blend in in your environment is, for me, key... That way you can angle yourself into a better position. And when she trusts you enough to have you around, going into flirt mode wouldn't be too big of a jump. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 02:21 AM |
| 1 | DaygameSpeaking from experience, being direct, I think, is never a truly good idea on day game. It's too out of place. I think day game is more friendly towards normal conversations. Just walk up to a girl and start a normal conversation about normal stuff. That way, you would be outside her "creep radar" since you're innocently conversing and not trying any moves. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?First of all, we shouldn't really be talking about teen nudes. That's just creepy. Secondly, I personally think it is never a good idea to brag to others about women in your life. That's not good ethics. You should let your relationship with the lady speak for itself. Let others see her being happy with you, whether it's a short relationship or long term. There are better ways to base your self-worth on than how many hot girls you can bang. Your friends are young and immature. That's fine, as lo… | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Should I use beacon grease as hair gel/pomade?Nice attempt at trolling. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 04:17 AM |
| 1 | "Just get off the apps and go out and meet people bro"Maybe, maybe not. So you are affirming that the women on your dating apps are not gorgeous then. And neither are you rich. Fair enough. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 08:05 AM |
| 3 | "Just get off the apps and go out and meet people bro"Look... Apps and dating websites were meant for ultra wealthy men looking for gorgeous women and vice versa. Anything outside of that category within online apps are weirdos. Going to social gatherings, coffee shops, and the night life are pretty much where the rest of normal people make friends. Personally, me, it's the gym. I've never been intimidated by any man or hot woman in any gym because I'm the hotshot powerlifter that people ask advice from. For most beautiful women, they are the same … | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | I wanna ask my best friend for sexDid she end up feeling the same way you do? It rarely happens, but it can. If it's a no, it's a no. It's this kind of stuff that makes the internet come up with theories like "Men and women can't truly be just friends." Don't be a meme prototype. Nothing wrong with asking, but for God's sake don't get sexual with her immediately. Here's the thing. I, specifically I, me, can pull it off. Because with all of my female friends, I'm romantic, flirty, and downright sexual with them from day one. When… | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 05:44 AM |
| 0 | I wanna ask my best friend for sexYeah exactly. Outside of waiting for marriage because of religious reasons, no two people who like each other who are in their right minds would not have sex when they are alone with each other. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 05:13 AM |
| 4 | I wanna ask my best friend for sexJust masturbate and move on. Are you crazy? You're gonna go sexual mode on her after many months of being asexual? lol. Are you new to relationships or something? If she didn't fuck you in the first month, you're friend zoned. That's the reality of it. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 05:11 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksOn that front, I'm on your side. After people learn the social customs and the overall culture of whatever environment they are in, they can just experiment with funny shit and will probably come up with a good system for themselves. It's the path I chose and the path I think all people should choose if they want to strengthen their social skills. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksYes, which is why he came here for advice from real people like you and me. lol | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksGood advice. I personally don't really believe in "getting in state" as much as other people might, but I do greatly agree with you with the "just having fun" part and being spontaneous. Good advice. Would recommend. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 01:55 AM |
| 3 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksI love this. Lots of health problems will be solved simply by becoming stronger than before. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | How do I improve my life in 4 weeksI don't know how seriously you'd take my advice, but here it is anyway... Everyday, when you wake up, resolve to do at least one cool thing that you are able to do that'll make you more awesome tomorrow. The next day, do it again. For me, personally, it's doing schoolwork, lifting weights, and just socializing with whoever I come across. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?I didn't mean to sound hostile, so sorry. The way I see it though, is that women care about the whole package, and physique is a big big part of it. It's like Machiavelli's theory on "love." It's an extremely unstable and unpredictable emotion. You have young girls in high school falling in love with total losers. If you or anyone was perhaps one of those "losers" who had a girl fall in love with them, then consider yourself lucky, because as soon as they start rationalizing things at a better a… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?Yes they will. Maybe if you're relying too much on them they won't, but within reason, bigger muscles will attract female attention. I mean come on. Dude. Are you really gonna argue that a better physique won't make an impact? It's the synthol dorks who are the real incels. Women love muscles. Within reason of course. Also, claiming you were an enhanced bodybuilder doesn't mean shit. I've outlifted a ton of "bodybuilders" throughout my life. They were small and weak. If you're inclined to, tell … | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Gentlemen: how self-conscious of your face? And do you prefer to have "work done"?I don't know and I don't care. All I know is that getting surgical reconstruction for the sake of attempting to look better is one of the most pathetic things a man can do. Look, I'm a powerlifter. You can just imagine how I feel when I see those weirdos who inject oil on their muscles to look buff. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]Night dates in fancy restaurants should be reserved towards a girl you're practically ready to marry. It's just inappropriate for someone you met last week. Dude, just ask her to hang out at some festival or carnival. Or a coffee shop. A romantic dinner is way too big of a step. | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]R-E-A-L L-I-F-E | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Is " Hey, I know this is a bit weird, but I think you're cute, can I get your #/Snap/IG" a bad way to cold approach?I didn't realize that promoting business is allowed in Reddit. I didn't mean to sound disrespectful. Apologies. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Is " Hey, I know this is a bit weird, but I think you're cute, can I get your #/Snap/IG" a bad way to cold approach?Oh God. lmao. Are you selling something? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 06:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is cringe, OP. Unless this kind of stuff is normal in your country, culture, or city (which I highly, highly doubt), this just came off very wrong. You are lucky she just rejected you. I've been chastised by close female friends for much less sexual stuff than that. Forget about her and move on. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 03:16 AM |
| 52 | How do I approach a group of girls.Make male friends and ask them to hang out with you in these places. When you're hanging out with them (or even just "him," one person), you will just naturally feel much better. Then, when you're in whatever place where there are groups of girls around, just walk up to them and say "Hey ladies, wanna hang out with an alpha Chad male like myself?" lol. It sounds ridiculous but that's the point. Just learn how to have fun man. Think of an honest magician without any romantic agendas. He's just th… | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:50 AM |
| 1 | If someone talks to you about their trauma/growing up.OP are you serious? If what you're saying is true, she obviously likes you. What else kind of signal are you looking for? She asked you out on a date. Take her on a date, have a good time, and show her that she's not wrong in thinking you're a gentleman. Believe it or not, a lot of women actually love nice guys. It's just that nice people are rare. The odds are, when the two of you finally end up in the bedroom, you will probably have the time of your life with her. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 11:54 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'll keep this short and simple. Workout consistently and fix your diet. Those two things are probably gonna be enough to massively improve your self-esteem. You and others will see yourself differently. Just make sure your workout regimen is well thought-out. lol. People jump into the gym doing stupid shit. | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 08:43 PM |
| 3 | How to stop thinking that Women are better than Men?Great attitude! | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 06:30 PM |
| 20 | How to stop thinking that Women are better than Men?Ugh. Therapy? Dude just find your source of self-worth and hang on to it with dear life. If you have a college degree, hold it with pride. If you're athletic, hold it with pride. If you're a brilliant artist, hold it with pride. People in general size people up even just subconsciously. People take note of others mainly by the other person's poise. A strong poise makes for a powerful presence. Here's a real-world example. I will feel absolutely emasculated if there are wealthy businessmen in a p… | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Testing the waters...I was agreeing with you bro. Don't be another Dalton Shields. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Testing the waters...To be fair you should. I treat her like shit because she's been a close friend for years and still have never been truly intimate with me. Just friendly affectionate hugs... But I've had women despite my hypermasculinity, yes. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Testing the waters...Yeah, and despite that supposed handicap, I have beautiful women in my life. Funny how that works, huh? | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That's because you're forcing it. That's not how friendships and romantic relationships happen. I hate to break it to you but you ultimately do not choose who you end up with. All you can do is up your odds of success by becoming more and more awesome over the next months and years to come. Seduction only happens when you are in a position to do crazy stunts. I would know, I've done it before. But if your goal is to have friends and have a girlfriend, you have to let things happen organically an… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]"What do you like to do for fun?" My goodness, the last time I witnessed a dude ask that to a girl he (painfully obviously) liked was when I was hanging out at a bookstore and saw that he couldn't afford their coffee. The dude once told me and my friend he bought cologne with pheromones to attract the ladies. Don't be like that. In fact, let me take it a step further. Don't treat women like they are a mathematical problem requiring a formula to make them horny. Only weirdos do that shit. Go figu… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Testing the waters...I'm an old-school guy with old-school cultural upbringing. Don't disrespect my culture. It's racist. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:15 PM |
| 6 | Testing the waters..."No dating girls that I don't find attractive. No shotgun approach. Only approach girls that are my type." Incredibly good advice. This is how it should always be for all good men. There is no joy in hunting a mouse. You gotta go for what gives you thrill. I have met men who have had way more women in their lives than I have and somehow they ask me of all people for advice on women because they saw firsthand that I somehow have the capacity to go for only hot girls. They get baffled and curious.… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Testing the waters...Why not? lol. You think being conservative means you're a pussy? | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Testing the waters...If you lust after a girl, she'll know it from the fist five seconds of meeting her. There is no use hiding it. If you've been friends with her for a long time and you have been romantically interested in her since the beginning, she has known it all along. At that point, you are nothing more than just another beta orbiter. That's the beauty of seduction. You don't mess around. You engage a girl into a sexual or romantic relationship from the moment you set your eyes on her, and at some point she… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Almost every girl I’ve been with has left me. I try to keep them engaged but I’m not good at keeping a conversation going. I’m pretty quiet. I don’t know how to flirt without coming off too strong or not flirtatious enough. If I ft after like 10mins we’ll just be staring at each other.I wish I can say "You should follow my advice" but I really can't, as the journey is different for everyone. But here's what I did... Firstly, for the longest time, women weren't in my radar. I was focused on my life's work. But an interesting effect of that endeavour happened on my general social interactions... I became the kind of person who can talk about anything with anyone any time. How I got there? I worked on becoming a better philosopher. I learned things and experienced things. As a h… | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 3 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingOnline dating were made solely to cater to two types of people: Rich men and trophy women. I lost my virginity with a woman I seduced in a book store. From then on, I've slept with a total of 8 women throughout my life. Not really an impressive number, but I have a friend who have slept with way more women than I have that he met on these online apps and he still thinks I'm better than him. And I've seen him try to interact with girls live in person. He's fucking pathetic. He flat out told me in… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Does the concept of Friends With Benefits exist anymore?It exists. I consider it to be somewhat rare. Either way, I would hate to be in one simply because the girl will end up sleeping with another guy, and to me that just does not feel right. I think the reason it's rare is because of slut-shaming in our culture, which is absolute bullshit. And even then, when it does happen, both parties if they're smart will tend to keep it a secret. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Approach Us!!!I mean it. I have a lady friend who is just like you. Although she doesn't go out of her way to invite flirting, she just doesn't mind it. And I new she should be my friend when she told me that she thinks women who easily get creeped out are stupid. My high school crush was the same way, and so was my first date from when I finally got to live on my own many years ago. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Approach Us!!!You're a breath of fresh air, lady-OP. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | How many guys actually have a “rotation” of females?Umm... I have a friend who is not even good at pickup and he has a rotation of three ladies he dates. lol. The dude is incredibly friendly and likeable, so that might be the reason they like him. So I guess if you don't have a likeable personality, just be good-looking or be rich or have a high social status. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 06:29 AM |
| 2 | What are your tips for reattracting after she grows cold?Move on. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There's nothing wrong with that OP. Just don't expect her to actually reach out in the future. If it's a no on the first time, it's gonna be extremely likely that it's gonna be a no forever. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 12:00 AM |
| -2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?I've seen men try their hand at advanced group sieges (for lack of a better word) and saw firsthand how awkward it is. I've done it myself, sometimes successfully and sometimes it fails. That was when I was a beginner. I can pretty much handle a room full of people and take center stage just like that, yet you say I only go for easy approaches? lol No bro. I'm gonna keep this simple... I'm pretty advanced. It's not a boast, it's just the truth. Sometimes the real difficulty is attempting to esta… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:36 PM |
| 0 | My own original lines.I'm sure your 21-year old inexperienced brain thinks so. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:16 PM |
| 0 | My own original lines.Yeah but it works. Were you expecting me to do Mystery Method storytelling instead? "Hey, I gotta go real quick but I just gotta get your opinion on something." Shut the fuck up. lmao | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:10 PM |
| 2 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?Huh?? Bro excuse me?? I make daygame work all the time for me. Do you even read people's posts before replying to them?? I said "unless certain conditions are met". If a gorgeous woman is at a distance and you're at a distance and you're in a good mood and you are in need of a girlfriend and you believe she is right for you, by all fucking means run day game. But if you have a gorgeous woman with a tall muscular guy with her and what looks to be a twin sister and they are all having a serious co… | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 12:07 PM |
| 0 | My own original lines.No, silly. I never claimed this to be "the magic one line". My God are all people in this subreddit as stupid as you? lmao | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 11:58 AM |
| -2 | My own original lines.Yeah, you wouldn't be able to pull it off due to your severe incompetence. That's exactly why you don't understand. My bad. I should take my wisdom elsewhere I guess. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Personal Revelation: We (millenials), are the first generation in recent history raised either fatherless or by beta fathers.The real problem is a combination of a bad culture and the bullshit self-help industry. That's it. If you want to learn social skills, you really truly need to get the hell out of your shell and into the wide open world and just accept the fact that everything you do in life is always a risk. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 09:49 AM |
| 10 | Only dating girls below my league. How to date hot girls?OP, go to a bar, get used to the environment, and socialize like there's no tomorrow as frequently as you are able to. If that doesn't improve your cold-approach game, nothing will. And honestly, bar game is really the only way to go. You meet people who are out to meet people. Doing it in the day is disruptive to others unless certain conditions are met. Like for example, if you're her classmate, it's totally acceptable to ask her out. But you being some random guy in a fast food walking up to … | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 08:31 AM |
| -6 | Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her homeOP, I'll keep this simple. She's a slut. That's all there is to it. Drunken parties are great for a quick lay and quick intimacy. After all, you managed to have a kissing session with her (good for you). But don't expect her to be truly emotionally invested. She's just there for fun and sex, and you shouldn't overthink it or feel bad about it. You had fun, and you should be glad. :) | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:52 PM |
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