ChadsGrandfather Archive

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9	What’s her motive? Definitely a test. But could be totally unconscious w/no malicious intent. Or maybe she wanted to see your true intentions. I’m more in the school of thought that being direct is better to waste less time. So if she doesn’t understand your intentions then things like this happen. I would have waited to go out with her and her friends until after I’ve been seeing her for a little while. Going with her friends so early, especially before sleeping with her, could potentially send the wrong message …	/r/seduction	20/02/22 03:33 PM
2	[deleted by user] Yes be direct because if you’re indirect you might confuse her. Just start messaging her about whatever. And after some back and forth tell her something like “I think you’re really cool I’m doing (insert something fun here) want to come along? And you can modify what I just said to make it sound the way you would say it. You could ask her on a hike, or to the gym, or that you want to go bowling, or whatever your hobby is. Notice these are “action” dates not sitting at a movie where you can’t ta…	/r/seduction	13/12/21 07:10 PM
1	She needs more time? What is your question exactly? Why is she behaving the way she is after having slept with her? Or why isn’t she being more clingy instead of keeping you at arms distance? What do you want to know specifically? “Thoughts” is too vague of a question	/r/seduction	06/12/21 05:00 PM
3	[deleted by user] No one can help you. No one can make you go to her and have a conversation like a normal human being. No one can make you embrace your testosterone and listen to your balls and tell her you find her attractive. No one can make you get her information, ask her out on a date, pick her up, have fun and then take her home. No one can do this for you. No one can help you. Only you can do this for yourself. Only you can help yourself. You’re talking about having sex with this person but you can’t even…	/r/seduction	17/10/21 04:51 AM
1	Do people who have bad picking up skills decrease the chance for picking up and approaching women in general for all men around them? Super true. It’s like the womens are going to automatically reject or be non receptive if you approach randomly. Almost automatically like a reflex. Not a bad thing. It’s a way to weed out the weirdos lol	/r/seduction	23/09/21 03:25 PM
1	Conversation quality drops after first date You’re welcome. Hope it helped!	/r/seduction	23/09/21 03:23 PM
3	Conversation quality drops after first date If your life is interesting, you will have endless things to talk about. I will give you a list of activities that will up your “content for conversation” game: Watch the latest movies/shows Dive in deeply into your hobbies and passions Read extensively about things that interest you Watch comedy and see how these guys just constantly add value and are playing to the crowd (you can use this in conversation) Use the four pillars of interesting conversation: Silly Serious, Positive, Negative. For …	/r/seduction	23/09/21 05:56 AM
10	Do people who have bad picking up skills decrease the chance for picking up and approaching women in general for all men around them? Nah, it just makes those who have better communication/social skills look that much better. You will stick out (if you have skills), since there’s so much trash out there.	/r/seduction	23/09/21 05:30 AM
6	What are good date ideas for a 15 year old? Cheap things where you can talk to see if you guys are compatible/get along/like each other the park A hike coffee/pastries/ice cream a nursery with plants and flowers a trip to downtown in a city an arcade bowling play some video games a picnic Etc... etc....	/r/seduction	16/09/21 05:19 AM
7	What to do? The medium is the message. Maybe she found someone and wants to become exclusive with him. Maybe you’re not providing enough value. Could be hundreds of reasons she might be losing interest. No problem. Keep it moving. You have a life right? Self respect? She’s not yours. Welcome to the club. Be happy and grateful for having shared some good times together. Nothing to worry about here. There are many girls out there who are what you want and more. Keep it player, g	/r/askTRP	23/05/21 03:53 PM
1	Got HB9 plate, How do I stop myself from slipping up into thinking about marriage? I get it bro. Just here to remind you theres a lot of phat asses that are also worthy of marriage. The physical is one thing but the mental is another. You can overlook the mental aspect at your own risk. It’s your life my man . Just answering you to the best of my ability 💯	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 04:39 AM
5	Got HB9 plate, How do I stop myself from slipping up into thinking about marriage? Lol it’s natural to think this way when your hormones and emotions are flared up. Don’t fight it. Enjoy it. Feel it out. Enjoy the music that resonates with these vibes you’re experiencing. The purpose of the red pill is to have an anchor from which to ground yourself so you don’t put yourself into compromised positions with women. Especially when your emotions are involved. Instead of stopping these feelings. Let yourself come back down after the emotions and hormones subside and wash over. Onc…	/r/askTRP	12/04/21 04:21 AM
2	How do I get rid of my validation seeking mentality? Oh ok got you. Well outcome independence is really just a fancy way of saying you’re investing your attention in the process rather than the result of said process. The reason being is that the “outcome” is contingent upon a sequence of events to transpire before any results come to fruition. If you’re going to worry about anything while trying to attain a goal, pay special attention and care to the process rather than the result. There is no result without a process. But let’s be clear, even th…	/r/askTRP	03/04/21 01:03 AM
23	How do I get rid of my validation seeking mentality? Good question bro. First you don’t look at it as an issue. It’s just a character trait of your current self that your inner, higher self doesn’t deem as the authentic version of you. Thus you have that inner conflict. You’re not living up to your best truer version. Your frame is just a by product of the way you see yourself. The way you see yourself is shaped by your accomplishments, goals you have attained, things that you actually do. In other words, who you really know yourself to be. The tr…	/r/askTRP	02/04/21 10:57 PM
2	How do you make dating and approaching women fun or at least less painful? You sound like you have insecurities. Are you overweight? Do you make any money? Do you have any skills at a very high level? I’m seriously asking	/r/seduction	29/03/21 06:10 PM
1	Should I clarify that I want nothing serious with her? Keep it going until she brings it up. If there’s no talk about an exclusive relationship then you’re in the clear. If she starts asking - “what are we” “what are we doing” “am I your girlfriend?” - Tell her that you’re not in the position in your life to be a boyfriend or to be in a relationship and you want to take it slow. That you want to let it unfold naturally. Tell her that it would hurt you if she left but that is where you stand.	/r/askTRP	20/02/21 09:47 AM
14	Can you have an exclusive relationship with a girl like this? 🤦🏽‍♂️😂	/r/askTRP	01/02/21 01:38 AM
8	How to deal with jealously of a “good looking” close friend You’re jealous because you’re comparing yourself. It’s a vicious cycle of a dog chasing its tail. There will always be someone better looking, someone with more money, someone with a badder bitch, someone with a better car. Etc. into eternity. You could be a multi millionaire and then a billionaire walks in and the you’ll be like “well I’m not that rich”. It’s never ending. There is no end to this line of thinking. There’s levels to everything. The key then would be to cease to compare yourself …	/r/askTRP	29/01/21 10:58 PM
2	desk girl at gym asked if i had a girlfriend when i was leaving What everyone is saying on here is on point. Don’t make it deeper than it is. She just signaled interest to you by asking. Now the ball’s in your court. No pun intended. Just talk to her and tell her you think she’s cute and ask her out. You already won but she’s not going to do the hard work to make it happen. That’s your job buddy lol have fun brother	/r/seduction	28/01/21 03:38 AM
2	How exactly do you TALK to girls? Got it. Cool thanks man	/r/seduction	27/01/21 07:17 PM
1	How exactly do you TALK to girls? Lol I realize that sounds a little crude. Can’t tell if you’re trolling or not but hey man the reality is that she’s just a person. Just trying to make a point.	/r/seduction	27/01/21 07:00 PM
1	Is this grounds for breaking things off with my LTR? Of course bro	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 06:56 PM
1	Is this grounds for breaking things off with my LTR? Of course bro 💯	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 06:56 PM
3	Book of pook gym To love it is to respect it. Put some respect on the process. By respecting it you know that it will take time. That you will have to go through some character building moments. The results won’t happen without the process anyway so the process has to be held in high regard. Everyone wants the shortcuts but like Charlie Munger says “To get what you want, you have to deserve what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.” Charles T. Munger …	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 06:18 PM
1	Book of pook gym That’s right the achievement is in the journey. The dream is in the process. Without the journey nothing will happen anyway. Taking action is where it’s all at. Looking perfect is the aim. But the beauty, and the fun is in the process. Love trying to get the girls. Love trying to be your best physical self. Otherwise you’ll just be suffering in vain because you’ll never be perfect for every woman and you’ll never look as perfect as you want. So all that work for what? Learn the lessons, grow wis…	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 06:07 PM
12	How exactly do you TALK to girls? The approach is not an approach but a mentality. No gimmicks. No techniques. Just you being authentic. Actually BE that guy. You have to remember you’re talking to a woman not a man. Meaning they speak “womanese”. Covertly not directly like men do. And you don’t talk AT them you talk with them. She will ask during a car ride “do you have to go to the restroom?” Meaning she needs to go. Whereas a man will say “Pull over i gotta take a piss”. This is not always the case but it’s more common when y…	/r/seduction	27/01/21 05:59 PM
8	Book of pook gym For the book of pook question - perfect is boring means that perfect is not as fun as imperfect. In perfection there’s no error, no mistakes, no contrast to the experience. So if you were physically built perfectly you wouldn’t have a need to lift, this would make lifting boring or living the life where you don’t lift would make it more boring. The fun is in the imperfection. In the process. The striving. Approach the girl, fail miserably and laugh about it later. Have sex and cum too fast and f…	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 04:58 PM
11	Is this grounds for breaking things off with my LTR? It depends bro. If it bothers you enough that’s fine you don’t have to wait to end things. You feel how you feel and you can always find girls who are just as submissive and amazing in bed who haven’t fucked your friends. If you consider that she wasn’t your gf at the time of her fucking your friend then it’s forgivable and you can let it go and keep it going if it’s going well already. Either way you’ve hopefully learned from this experience and now you will be able to have a better vetting pro…	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 04:46 PM
17	"You only want to talk about sex/only want me for sex" What do I say Yeah bro most of the time girls will test you and try to make something that’s small seem like a big deal. She wants to see how well you handle pressure. Or just how you carry yourself in general You can easily brush this off with vulnerability and light heartedness. Be like (jokingly): “Hell yeah you’re hot! Your personality is a little eh though” Or you can say “I know I talk about it all the time, Oh no I think I’m a sex addict ...do you think I should go to a psychologist? Or “yeah you’re ri…	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 04:27 AM
7	Chick is Confusing TF HELP It’s called “the medium is the message” If you want to figure out what they (gurlz) are up to just look at what they’re doing and not what they say.	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 01:32 AM
5	Chick is Confusing TF HELP It means you don’t go	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 01:31 AM
1	How did you guys give up alcohol and not look like a total pu$$y Totally understandable but yeah bro not drinking has nothing to do with masculinity. Try hanging out with your plates without drinking. You might find you don’t really like them. You might be able to spot more red flags that may be an indicator of why they’re such heavy drinkers to begin with. Just throwing out suggestions. Maybe new friends and plates, or just a change in lifestyle that more conducive to a sober lifestyle may be in order.	/r/askTRP	26/01/21 10:02 PM
1	How are you supposed to bring a girl home from the bar/club if you live an hour away from it Lol just get a hotel bro. Or fuck in the car get creative and adventurous.	/r/seduction	26/01/21 04:26 AM
1	How are you supposed to bring a girl home from the bar/club if you live an hour away from it Lol just get a hotel bro. Or fuck in the car get creative and adventurous.	/r/seduction	26/01/21 04:25 AM
6	How did you guys give up alcohol and not look like a total pu$$y I know this will be hard to believe but there’s a whole world of people out there you can be friends with that aren’t into drinking and if they do drink, are light drinkers. Nothing manly about getting blackout drunk, destroying your liver/body, and not having a strong enough backbone to say no to those who wish to bring you down to their level. Manliness is discipline, not binge drinking. A pussy is the one who needs to drink to approach. It’s doesn’t make you manly to give into your environmen…	/r/askTRP	26/01/21 04:17 AM
2	Am I shutting where I eat? YOU always have to be the point of origin where major decisions in your life, like having a girlfriend, have the last say. Not what others around you want for you or pressure you to do and be like. So the real question is what do you want? Do you want to remain single and enjoy your abundance and keep building? Or do you want to put the load and responsibility upon yourself and add a girlfriend to the mix. No matter what these guys tell you, having a girlfriend becomes a responsibility. You’re e…	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 10:26 PM
3	My hottest and first lay of 2021 keeps double texting me. IDK what to do. Help. Oh got it. Damn it would help a lot if you hung out with another girl so it would keep you grounded and not spinning your wheels in this one hottie. Remember abundance mentality brother. You’ll be alright I think if you just keep it lighthearted. It’s cool maybe she’s just trying to see what kind of guy you are. You could test her back like “nudes or gtfo” I’ve fucked around like that and they’ve sent pics. There’s always more girls out there anyway. It’s important to be outcome independent. Not…	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 09:35 AM
4	Witchcraft it only works if you believe in it Seems like you do Abort mission! Abort! Otherwise best way to deal with this without developing bad blood on her end is to be honest Tell her that you’re interested but her witchcraft stuff makes you uncomfortable Also tell her that you don’t want a relationship She might be completely cool and tell you she just wants to fuck. Just my two cents. You do you though	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 09:21 AM
7	My hottest and first lay of 2021 keeps double texting me. IDK what to do. Help. short and sweet is good. Also saying that you’re going to be doing something that you’ll text her in a bit. So that you won’t have to keep texting You can also reply in such a way that makes it sound like the ending of a convo. Like “talk soon” “take care” “have fun” “looking forward to seeing you soon” shit like that. Obviously within context like it has to make sense to say that lol She’s probably testing you and at the same time exhibiting her needy behavior because she wants to keep momentum…	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 09:12 AM
3	Plate frequently brings up how badly ex husband treated her. Of course man. As far as the whole oneitis thing. TRP will make you feel like a bitch for having emotions, but at the end of the day we all can’t be psychopaths. we are human and we naturally grow feelings for these girls and that’s okay. I think the idea is not to let it blind you so much that you act impulsively exclusively on that feeling and making decisions that could be detrimental to you down the road. The fact that you’re questioning and keeping rational despite having feelings is a good…	/r/askTRP	21/01/21 06:55 PM
1	How do I ask fwb to come fuck while setting the sexual tone ? You can if you want but you don’t need to. You’re already getting it. She knows what it is. if you want to experiment you can no problem. Anticipation can be sexy too. Maybe it will arouse her. Try it out. Send her a Netflix a chill meme. Make it funny/fun. Try stuff out. You’re already fucking. No big deal. Texting is mostly logistics anyway. That’s okay. But if you want to sext for your personal fun go for it man	/r/askTRP	21/01/21 06:33 PM
11	Plate frequently brings up how badly ex husband treated her. If you’re considering her for LTR. Yes red flag. If she’s just a spinning plate. No problem she can feel how she wants it’s not personal. But even then you have to consider that you found a good girl. That means you can find another one. With this girl pretty strong baggage. She’s already divorced, she’s too lazy to change her last name, she’s bringing up her ex a lot meaning there’s still some entangled unresolved feelings. You can get an LTR that cooks, cleans, gives everything sexually AND wh…	/r/askTRP	21/01/21 06:26 PM
1	Disloyal “friends” The worse that can happen is he’ll try to use whatever “dirt” he has on you but it’s unlikely that he will at all. A person like that doesn’t have the balls to pull the trigger on things like this. Low character. He doesn’t have the strength to follow through in his own life. He won’t have it in him to actually harm your life. But even if he did try not much could happen. Especially if you get tight with management. Build a strong reputation amongst your co workers. If you uphold a code of condu…	/r/askTRP	21/01/21 05:40 PM
3	How do I stop simping for big booty latina girls? 🍑❤️	/r/askTRP	20/01/21 03:52 AM
28	How do I stop simping for big booty latina girls? I was laughing reading this. You’re a fool for this one. I don’t know if you’re serious or just trolling. But the remedy is talk to more of them 🍑🍑🍑🍰🍰 Get more options dawg	/r/askTRP	20/01/21 03:24 AM
1	18 in high school now what? Well damn dude you’re already killing it. If what you’re saying is true I don’t even know you and I’m proud of you. That’s amazing. Maybe keep that shoe reselling game going and see how far up you can run it. National guard? Savage. Very cool. Most guys your age are not as self aware as you are. Notice how you’re not cool with just sitting around not being good with talking to girls. And also notice how you know porn and masturbating to it is loser like activity. This is a good thing. Your inner…	/r/seduction	20/01/21 03:03 AM
1	18 in high school now what? Right now you being 18 you’re still on the come up. This is the perfect time for you to grind. Get some money. Work towards moving out. Workout, lift get swole. Get deeply involved into your hobbies. Things that interest you. Sleep get some rest. Stay healthy. The secret they never tell you is that the older you are as a man the more attractive you are to the womanz. The more in shape, the more successful, the better your options for women. Right now is the time to get your shit together. Build …	/r/seduction	20/01/21 02:27 AM
1	Do you prioritise sleep? You’re an over achiever and this is great. You will perform even better when you’re well rested. I think the question is what matters most to you? Do you want to perform really well on what you work on? Or do you want to go in with a half tank on what you’re working on? Focusing your energies will help you. Maybe you feel you need to get there quicker. Give yourself a bigger timeline. Maybe you need to do all this stuff to make you feel like you achieved something. That’s fine. But what do you w…	/r/askTRP	20/01/21 12:23 AM
2	Guys, I need your advice. I'm always in my head and thinking about different shit and it doesn't let me relax. Meditation - Breathwork - Long distance running - Lifting - Drawing - Basically anything that puts you in your center so you can experience a little peace FROM mind. Something that concentrates you so you can be focused. The meditation process is getting you to enjoy what’s in the here and now. You have to practice this process and it will take time. Also magnesium will help you relax a lot. Specifically magnesium chloride or citrate.	/r/askTRP	20/01/21 12:18 AM
1	Should I wait for a reach out from her or stick to the “contact once a week to set up a date”? Got it. A little message won’t hurt it seems like you have the fundamentals down pretty well bro. But they’re just guidelines. That’s why it’s called the “art of seduction” You use the basics as a foundation and then you put your twist to them and break the rules as you see fit. I was also told “you can’t THINK your way into a better seduction, you can only feel your way through” so I would go with my gut.	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:37 PM
1	Should I wait for a reach out from her or stick to the “contact once a week to set up a date”? There you go did she text when you posted it?	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:24 PM
2	Should I wait for a reach out from her or stick to the “contact once a week to set up a date”? I used to calculate this when I was younger but once you’ve built up rapport to the point where y’all are naked in bed it’s okay to just text as you feel. I usually keep text for logistics ( i have a girl now and I still do this) And I would try to text 2-3 days before I wanted to see her to set it up. But I think the real issue here is lack of strong desire. She needs to feel that she can lose you or that she is replaceable and that you are happy without her. She might feel you are too easy (em…	/r/seduction	19/01/21 11:11 PM
1	The Men of RP, I Need Advice. I always see a lot of Indian guys having trouble. And I know this going to sound racist but I mean it with all the respect in the world. I think the Intelligence of the Indian people is what makes it difficult with the girls. The good news is that you can use your intelligence to your advantage. I can tell youre highly analytical just by reading this post. (Think too much) And you have a lot of built in beliefs that have come by way of your logical analysis of your life experiences. She says you…	/r/askTRP	19/01/21 08:54 PM
2	sex but no bj I’ve had this before and it’s kind of like how people have different tastes for different foods. I wouldn’t take it personally. Like some people are picky about things and that’s cool. If someone doesn’t like mustard, you don’t force them to put on the mustard on their food. it’s just their preference. Nbd. There are some girls that don’t mind and will gobble a dick, condom and all. And then there’s some that really would prefer to suck your dick with no condom which is actually not bad, imagine…	/r/askTRP	19/01/21 08:12 PM
2	How effective is it paying and getting along PUAs to setup or improve your game? I’ve paid for coaching/mentorship and it boosted my results with women But it only did that because I was already doing it myself and was getting pretty good. Going with a professional gave me the extra something to really take me to another level. So until you take this seriously as a lifestyle and make it a point to get good with women it’s probably best to save your money. Once you really have some experience and good Idea then you can look for a good coach you can tell they’re good from thei…	/r/seduction	14/01/21 02:15 PM
3	Just Made My First Day Approach That’s great man. You got it you understand. Yes congruence, empathy, vulnerability all just become ingrained into your personality after a while And Vulnerable in the sense that you’re frank about your current (emotional) state you don’t have to fake the funk basically lol I learned about the sister/daughter thing from this badass playboy from Toronto. Once I got that part I was able to be more lighthearted and playful, more chill, more “normal” not trying to get anything out of her type of vib…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 10:17 PM
4	Just Made My First Day Approach Great job this is excellent. Pat yourself on the back for growing some balls. Your approach was fine. Good thing you asked her age. 16 is too young lol Cold approaching a girl doesn’t have to be high pressure. You can’t get rejected if they don’t know you so it’s all good. Also understand she’s someone’s daughter or sister, how would you like your daughter/sister to be treated? And then go that way. Everyone will say that you have to be smooth or perfect but it’s not true, I’ve still scored whil…	/r/seduction	13/01/21 04:36 PM
11	Do you feel the music you listen to affects your alpha mindset? Music definitely has an effect on your psyche. It’s literally hypnotic and will put you in a trance state. The rhythms and beat entrances you and then the music gives you a certain feeling, then BOOM the lyrics come in and enter your subconscious once you’re hypnotized and basically programs your mind. So yes I’m super selective a f. Theres beautiful ass beta minded songs but I won’t listen bc it will make me think that way	/r/askTRP	13/01/21 04:18 PM
3	Got rid of porn, but having trouble giving up insta thots and the like? I would say the best possible way is to have a steady stream of girls that you see (bang) regularly. Around 3 girls at least in rotation. See one on Tuesday, another on Thursday and another on the weekend. You won’t have time to jack off or be scrolling around on Instagram looking at thirst traps if you’re too busy preparing for work, working out, setting up dates, handling business etc. that’s just my 2 cents.	/r/askTRP	13/01/21 04:12 PM
2	Plate telling me her sexual encounters Yeah man holy shit poor girl has blue balls	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 11:09 PM
3	Kiss closed after soft nexting her, what now? Dude if she’s not your wife or a girlfriend who cares if she gets hit on or has photos of her ex? Play it off lightheartedly you don’t own her. She already told you that she doesn’t want a relationship but she’s still interested in getting piped by you so what exactly is the problem?	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 05:37 PM
3	Serious Question:- Is True Love Impossible to find There is no true love And even if there was, it’s destructive to live within that paradigm If a girl who you considered your true love is everything for you...treated you well, cleaned for you, cooked, but she cheats is she still your true love? If a girl pays for all your expenses but treats you like shit is that still your true love? It’s all relative. You have to consider the context of ConorMcgregor. She knew him as a fighter, he was obsessed about fighting. He was on a mission. She went alo…	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 05:20 PM
8	Any tips on how to grow taller? This mentality is why even if you were to grow to 6 feet you will still be trash with women. You need to love yourself as you are right now by being your best version possible with what you have. You can be 6 foot and still insecure with horrible game . I’ve seen short chubby ugly ass guys still pull bad bitches. What’s important here is your lifestyle and and your vibe which has everything to do with how you feel about yourself. Lift and get deeply involved in your hobbies. The taller guys with…	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 11:00 AM
8	How do you control urges while working on yourself? It’s a lifestyle make it part of your routine. Working out and fulfilling your needs. No problem. Just more discipline needed.	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 10:00 AM
77	How do you control urges while working on yourself? The urges never go away so long as you’re a healthy male. So you have to learn to live with them and to channel those energies to help you reach your goals. Use them for working out, getting money, having adventures and being fun. Don’t be a weirdo who’s afraid of his own sexuality. Embrace it. Be a man. You stopped working out after you got with her not realizing that working out is what made you attractive enough to get you in the door. Now you know better this time around. This is the importa…	/r/askTRP	10/01/21 09:41 AM