My friend created a group chat in early 2020. We are ravers so he was basically trying to get people together to mingle and stuff. There was one girl in particular who I thought was really hot but I didn’t know her at all nor did I really care to, I was already fucking bitches in real life. Months go by and she DM me privately to meet for a rave. I met up with her and we end up hitting it off and really being into each other. We end up dating after that and eventually after 2 months casual I got her to admit that she was in love with me and wanted me to be her man, so I agreed and we made it official.

There was one fatal mistake I made before making her my girlfriend and it’s that I didn’t vet her properly out of fear of knowing the truth.... I figured “she’s not my girlfriend so I don’t care who she’s fucked or what she’s done, I’m just here to fuck” but eventually I started to actually like her. The problem is this.... before I ever knew her, before I ever met her, she apparently met up with my friend who made the group chat and INTRODUCED US, and hooked up with him “a few different occasions”. I’m stupid and found this out literally the day I made her my girlfriend and it made me super sad.

I kinda assumed they had met up, but as I said when we were casual I really didn’t care because I was talking to other bitches, but right when I made her my girlfriend it made all the difference in how I felt hearing this information.

Aside from this, she has been absolutely amazing. She is extremely submissive to me, we have insane sex 5-10 times every weekend, and in reality she has never lied to me about anything. Should I suck it up and wait for a better reason to end this good thing we have? Or should I feed into this jealousy that I’m feeling that my current girlfriend was a friend of mines whore for a few nights in the past before we ever met :(...