A lot of you guys have seen some of my posts here about my LTR and I genuinely appreciate all of the input, it has helped tremendously. This is the most complicated and emotional relationship I’ve ever been in, and it’s actually my first LTR after becoming red pilled 2 years ago. It’s become clear to me that I still had and have A LOT of work to do in every aspect.

This relationship has gone through all of the phases. The beginning was absolutely phenomenal. Things couldn’t have been more perfect. Few weeks go by, one small situation after another, I start to notice things fading a bit for me. I’m doing ALL of the work to keep this together.

I’ve realized that it’s time for us to break up. I’m no longer happy. I truly did and do love her, but I don’t think I’m in love with her anymore. She’s revealed so many things about herself to me that I just do not like at all. She can be very trashy behavior and disrespectful, and I noticed recently that this entire relationship she has shit tested me and trying to take the power, that has been so tiring always having to lead in a way where I am battling against my own partner.

I realize that I need to break up with her, but she pulls me back in every time. Then, it makes me think “am I doing the wrong thing by walking out when I should stay in this relationship that I committed to and TRY to work things out??” and then I end up saying “ok we are still together” for another week until something else that she does or says that brings me back to “fuck this, i can’t deal with this shit anymore.”

She’s told me “I want you to tell me anything I’m doing that bothers you so that I can work on not doing it anymore.” I tell her “that sounds pretty exhausting”. We are 3 months in and nothings really changed. She still does and says hoe-Ish things that I just don’t feel like a girlfriend should do or say or act like. I’m clearly rambling.

How to do I break up with her? I know I will be sad but actually inside I know I can also get over this shit fast, faster than my first heartbreak. I read the 3% man book by Corey Wayne and he suggest that you must “break up with love” meaning end things on good terms and be there for each other through the breakup rather than some dramatic and depressing break up. What do you guys think?