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As it’s true that people are becoming less social over time, I don’t think that’s an excuse for a lack of friend group/social circle. If you have the social skills/charm/likability you should have no problems
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 07:03 PM
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It’s just how it is man, yeah it’s fucked up but millions of years of evolution makes people think men don’t have feelings or that their feelings don’t matter at all.
/r/MensRights10/03/22 06:33 PM
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Don’t act thirsty when sent a nude, that’s what she wants which will in turn lower attractive just a little. I’d give her some kind of backhanded compliment or just invite her other to see if that’s actually bout it
/r/seduction10/03/22 06:31 PM
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I completely agree man! It’s not all about fucking girls. It’s not about trying to look richer than you are. It’s not about impressing others. It’s simply about being cool with yourself and not needing all the external validation from girls and other dudes. If you ever look up how billionaires dress, they wear the same exact shit as when they were poor cause they know they don’t need to impress anyone.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 05:01 PM
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Good job bro I remember that fresh “I just lost my virginity feeling” (not makin fun of you FYI) but that’s a great feeling, now the key is to watch out for oneitis creepin in since she was your first
/r/TheRedPill11/10/21 12:36 PM
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Yeah obviously don’t consciously try to make yourself a zero empathy robot just to get women, cause once you go down that road you will eventually will start to develope mental issues, usually some type of narcissism. You need to have a good balance of empathy and being non empathic. Cause empathy can help w women if you have a good amount of it, not too much empathy but not too little Empathy can allow you to better understand the mind of women and people in general. This is crucial because you…
/r/askTRP27/09/21 02:51 AM
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Not exactly, studies have shown that those with dark triad traits (narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism) have more success w women than more of the nicer types of guys w empathy. I think it’s because women subconsciously see empathy as a weakness of some sort, and we know here that girls always try to find the highest value man that they can and the side effects of low empathy in men are the traits that women find attractive (confidence, dominance, wild, unable to be “tamed”)
/r/askTRP15/05/21 06:04 PM
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Yup came to say this Once people decide on one thing out of other things they obviously thought it was the right decision at the time, but may or may not realize that their choice wasn’t the best, but either way when asked, they will suggest the choice they made because of human nature. People want to feel like they belong, belong to something that other people are involved in, especially their friends, family, and people they look up to. So by suggesting to others that they should make the same…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 07:13 PM
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Hormones. Im sure you’ve already heard the other options from the other commenters, but this one is never really brought up when talking about depression and it’s causes. You may be asking, how tf do you know that hormones can cause depression ?? Your not a damn doctor Well, Sarms cause I TEST SUPPRESSION. It’s not as bad as regular steriods cause those usually shut your hormone production down completely. Also not saying that this is definitely the cause, just something to consider and get test…
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:55 PM
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This type of situation is one of my stupid ass rp fantasies lol as weird as that is, fucking the shit out of an ex that broke up w me or did me dirty by cheating then go ghost again and never talk to her again And I know mentally masterbaiting is frowned upon here but it happens when I have some free time
/r/TheRedPill14/05/21 03:42 PM
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That’s why I have never downloaded tik tok and never will Ignorance is bliss But ultimately you should not have this much free time, you should be working like crazy toward your purpose in life
/r/askTRP14/05/21 03:34 PM
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Another reason to ACTUALLY READ the damn sidebar unlike a lot of guys here. This will allow you to determine if a comment on one of your posts is right or not, if it doesn’t align with the sidebar then discard it And look at the persons profile also, are they an endorsed contributor ? Always take those guys advice Is it someone with high karma and has written some posts about trp and female nature, then his comment usually should be taken But if it’s some kid that just made a reddit account then…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:07 PM
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I like this comment. Too many guys here bring up rollos comment that said that “men love unconditionally while women love opportunistically.” And I think a lot of guys think that they actually love women unconditionally. This is wrong. We as men also love conditionally nowhere near the extent to which girls do it Like this comment said, your not going to love a 400 pound land whale of a girl unconditionally. I’d also hope that us rp guys wouldn’t even love a 8-9 unconditionally, she should also …
/r/askTRP13/05/21 09:00 PM
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I think it’s just caused by the broad social movement we have going on and I think it will go on for a while, so buckle up and don’t expect it to get better I’m going to list the sub categories of reasons why this happens: 1) technology- this is probably the biggest reason why this is happening. For many reasons technology is letting these social movements gain traction WAYYYYY fucking faster than before social media. One simple tweet could change the course of history through the butterfly effe…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:47 PM
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Only one way to find out You rlly needed to ask this ? Do you think we would just magically know whether this girl I’ve never met wants to fuck you who I’ve also never met. If you want to fuck her, stop overthinking like this cause overthinking ducking DESTROYS your game, trust me I know I used to overthink way too much early on Then isolate and escalate then there ya go you’ll have your anwer
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:33 PM
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Lack of chemistry = I found you visually attractive but after talking to you I found your personality to be unattractive so it turned me off Read posts on the main sub about how to not be boring, how to develop charisma, and other shit like that
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:29 PM
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I don’t think this is true Ya I know why people here say this, cause you have more experience, money, and girls naturally want someone older than them. But I don’t think it’s right to make the blanket statement that it’s definitely easier in your 30s than your 20s It really just depends on the person Some guys look like a Greek god in their 20s then something in their genes make their looks fade very ducking fast after hitting 30
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:08 PM
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Ya that’s a comfort test which is a good sign We usually say here that while in an ltr you need to throw in a little beta, something like 80% alpha and 20% beta as opposed to spinning plates where it is advantageous to go 95-100% alpha And ya u did fine in your response, a well placed beta comment in this situation, just don’t get in the habit of doing this everytime But remember this, do NOT respond in this manner to shit tests. You must respond in an alpha way like agree and amplify or pressur…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:03 PM
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My guess would be that she’s an alpha widow
/r/askTRP13/05/21 04:00 PM
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It doesn’t really matter, do it if u want or don’t if u don’t
/r/askTRP13/05/21 03:59 PM
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You go talk to them
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:03 PM
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Is this job something you must do in order to get where you want to be eventually in your career ? If you must do it then just suck it up and work until you can move to the next step up in that field But if you don’t really need the job then if I were you I’d start looking for another job and once you find one ditch this job and work at the other
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:57 PM
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It’s a anxiety and lack of experience problem Since you haven’t done it very much your brain thinks you suck at it and it fears rejection I had this problem when I started gaming girls after finding trp, I would be able to talk to them and get them interested to the point were they want to fuck, but then I would sort of freeze up once the iron was hot and it was time to strike What I started doing is the “3,2,1,GO” method, if you feel that anxiety coming on as you move toward the point of needin…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:52 PM
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I don’t even use online dating I’m more of a real life kinda guy I have always had much more success irl
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:44 PM
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Some guys here will say “don’t shit where you eat” but personally I don’t see anything wrong with approaching at the gym, in fact I have done this myself a few times: Important thing to remember about this is that your workout should be your main focus while at the gym, not the girls So either approach before you begin your workout or after
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:40 PM
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Personally I wouldn’t do this cause I’m not that desperate for sex, not exactly calling you out for being desperate, just something to keep in mind and possibly try to fix it But imo this is very beta. I think paying for sex in any way is a beta move Practice cold approaching/gaming girls from wherever you live at, cause you don’t wanna use this “sex tourism” trip as a buffer against talking to local girls
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:37 PM
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Why would I do this ?? We already know that women have it way easier on online dating apps
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:34 PM
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U might be right, or ya might be off a bit That’s what I’m asking man, and you didn’t even give me a specific answer, I feel like you commented because your ego wants some strengthening Do you have a specific answer as to how I stop the repetitive phenomena??
/r/askTRP12/05/21 03:32 PM
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If you aren’t already lifting like a mad man then you need to start that Also get your diet in check. Calculate the amount of calories you need to eat to stay the same weight (theirs some calculators online for this), then from there you can either add some calories and go into a caloric surplus to build muscle faster, or take some calories away and go into a deficit to lose fat If I were you I’d eat at maintenance cause you sound like your add a good weight and lift like an animal, set lifting …
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:17 PM
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Wherever human beings gather Literally could be anywhere, the grocery store, the mall, gym, etc. you don’t need to go to a specific place with a specific mission to game some girls. Instead, if you see a girl and you want to game her then just go up to her and talk
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:11 PM
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Yaaaeehhh, not readin that book lol
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:10 PM
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Classic shit tests Sounds like you know how to pass them so that’s not your problem. Just keep it up but don’t develop oneitis If your asking why the do this then it’s because when a girl finds a perceived alpha, her nature makes her try to betafy him by picking at his frame like crazy through shit tests and other shit. They do this because evolutionarily they need to get resources (beta bucks) and good gene nut inside her (alpha fucks). And their evolutionary desire to find the best seed from a…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:01 PM
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The most fool proof way to not hit her up is by closing off all potential methods of contacting her. What I mean is deleting her #, take her off your snap and other social media’s. I used to have to do that back in my bp days cause I was that guy that would hit her up too much cause I thought there might be still a sliver of hope that she would want to get back together lol so cringe Second, just realize that closure doesn’t do shit. It does absolutely nothing except give you a half truth bullsh…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:59 PM
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I’m assuming your jokin when u said she might have fucked like 300 dudes, are you? Cause what I’m getting at is your failure to vet her properly before committing to an ltr. If a girl has fucked over 10 guys there is no chance that I get exclusive w her. Obviously they lie about it but you can get a rough estimate out of her in conversation. If you don’t like the fact that she used to sleep around a lot then break up w her. Having a high n count is a red flag for many reasons. First is the obvio…
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:48 PM
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Definitely not ltr material It is a MASSIVE red flag that she would fuck her landlord for a discount on rent
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:55 PM
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Stop overthinking small shit like this It doesn’t really matter as long as you hold frame and remember trp principals But you said it was at the gym right? In that case I’d keep it short as possible cause you should be focused on your workout and not a girl there
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:48 PM
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This is a very simple thing that many guys here over complicate If your busy (which you should be busy on your purpose and lifting and any other goals you have set), then don’t reply and focus on what your doing and not her But if you have finished all your shit for the day and actually want to have a short text convo w her then there’s nothing wrong w doing that Inherently, if you agree to an exclusive relationship her interest will go down just a bit, this happens in literally 100% of relation…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 05:44 PM
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No shit, they’re not going to straight up tell the public that there’s no chance of them becoming billionaires, they have to keep up a good reputation But I bet you what they truely think is that there’s no chance of most people becoming one And also, have you met a billionaire or something ??? We’re are you getting this argument from ?
/r/askTRP03/05/21 06:57 PM
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This. Remember what we say here, that you never dig through the trash aka you forget about your ex for good. If your in a situation we’re you may potentially fight someone you ALWAYS need to quickly weigh the pros and cons to escalating to a fight In this situation, there is really no reason to fight him or beef with him because you aren’t ever going to go back to your ex so why do you feel the need to go try hard alpha. Pros: absolutely none other than the trill of a fight Cons- potential assau…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:57 PM
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Are you losing attraction/interest in your ltr ?? Cause if that’s the case I’d break up with her because why would you stay w a girl that you don’t even want to fuck ? Or go get your hormone levels tested by a doctor, could be low test
/r/askTRP03/05/21 02:45 PM
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Cause not everyone in a damn world can become a billionaire, cmon man use that brain u got there Like 99.99% of the time that people do literally everything right, they won’t become a billionaire, hell even getting to like 50 or 100 million is the same way, to actually become a billionaire you have to do everything right, have a revolutionary idea or new product and then throw in some amazing luck and you got yourself a billionaire
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:24 AM
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No, doing the work does tho
/r/askTRP30/04/21 05:03 PM
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My gut tells me you have oneitis for this girl, but idk for sure cause I’ve never met you or have never witness the dynamic between you two Take this as a learning experience, ask yourself what did I do wrong ? What should I do next time ? Proceeding from here I’d just hold frame and pull back your attention and your time from her, this will do two things, it will lessen your oneitis and it may make her more attracted to you
/r/askTRP29/04/21 05:05 PM
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I don’t quite understand what your argument is or what you trying to say about my response to OP
/r/askTRP28/04/21 07:50 PM
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You sound like a very new guy that hasn’t had much experience at all w women, but that’s okay cause this sub is to help the new guys. So as long as your consistently progressing, don’t be to hard on yourself and expect to be an alpha in a few weeks, it’s takes a long time Now to answer your question, correct me if I’m wrong but it seems like your main issue is that you care wayyyy too much. You need to simplify your game. Gaming girls is honestly pretty simple once you get some experience. Just …
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:14 PM
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That’s more of a comfort test, sometimes girls need that 20% beta from you in an ltr
/r/askTRP28/04/21 05:03 PM
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If you need external validation to believe you are a high value alpha male then you still have a ways to go before you actually get there If you allow society to tell you who you are then you’ll never truely become an alpha until you learn to get it internally That is one of the key traits of a true alpha, they get their validation from themselves and themselves only, but sure I know people are still going to validate them but the thing is is that they don’t rely on that type of validation becau…
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:58 PM
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Either she is shit testing you and your either passing them without thinking about it or you don’t notice them Altogether Or she actually isn’t shit testing you and that is rare but usually occurs in cases were the girl is shy/has low self esteem and she sees you as the best she can get
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:55 PM
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She’s an EX, keyword is EX. What I’m saying is she doesn’t even exist anymore to you my man, why would you fight a guy over a girl that doesn’t exist ?
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:58 PM
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I can’t tell what your even talking about ?? I’d like to help ya but idek what your asking or what this situation even is. Could u explain it better maybe then I could help
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:56 PM
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I mean u can overdose on anything really, I bet u if he took like 7 red pills he’d od
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:54 PM
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The important thing I need to know is exactly how strict the laws are where you are. Basically what I’m getting at is what social interactions are allowed? Which ones are strictly prohibited? Because if there is still clubs or some other way to meet people and be more social then definitely take advantage of that. Cause you could join some type of a club at your university;
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:39 PM
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Who knows for sure ?? Could be one of a variety of different things Just pass them and hold frame
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:36 PM
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Did you even read his post? Why is there so many dudes here that don’t give advice, they just comment some subtly bullying shit cause they need to strengthen their fragile ego
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:33 PM
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Usually you’ll notice a slight to moderate change in her behavior around you. And it is fast, like one day she could be all into you then the next she’s withdrawing and not seeming as happy around you . And that’s just one of the many signs. But that’s the one that I usually notice. The few times I got cheated on/ Others could be on her phone texting more often than usual when w you, not wanting to have sex, if you do have sex she doesn’t seem as interested, etc
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:28 PM
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That’s why we say “their words don’t tell you shit about them/the situation, you must look at their actions because they will tell you far far more about them then their mouth vomit of hamstring” She probably was really into this guy and he is the “bad boy” type of guy, then she got fucked by how an alpha fucks (dominant, aggressive) then he didn’t get hella attached to her like all the other guys did after she let them fuck for the first time. Then her rationalization ego had to come up with so…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:25 PM
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Scarcity is the beta mindset of trying to do everything to keep the first girl that comes your way due to a lack of options (scarcity). It’s a term from economics and it means there’s only a finite amount of a certain resource (women) that has value to people Abundance is the opposite. You have multiple options or at least just know you could pick up 2 more women at the drop of a hat if you lose one
/r/askTRP27/04/21 03:18 PM
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Single moms are always a no-go in my opinion, no exceptions. This is such a small thing idk why you are worried about it so much. But to answer your question, do YOU want to wait through that extra time or do you have better shit to do ? If it was me idk say forget about it depending on how much time she changed it to
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:25 PM
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Yup shit happens, you never know for sure what’s going through women’s head and why they do the things they do. Just be there for him, gather some of the other bro’s and go do some fun shit, show him how to pick up women and take him to bars/clubs. Maybe give him a talk about how life is shitty in general and you never know what shit is going to be thrown your way in life.
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:18 PM
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Everyone has egos almost 24/7 And either of those two things could happen, despite what some people say here, women aren’t robots that all follow the same pattern and behavior
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:14 PM
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Yes of course, you really had to ask this ??
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:13 PM
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Say something like “there’s only one way to find out” and set up the logistics
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:12 PM
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I would’ve just left. Standing there outside of her car like a puppy waiting for her to get off the phone is not a good move. Your time is valuable to you and they need to know that. You’ve said something like, “I’ll hit u up at some point” and leave
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:10 PM
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I’d say a BIG NO to doing the three things you listed. And personally, part of my ltr standards is that they haven’t fucked a ton of guys, usually I cut it off if a girls N-count is over 5 or 7
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:08 PM
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First off, why did you not respond to your ltr for 2 days. Was it because you were genuinely busy or was it some sort of game ?? What a lot of new guys don’t understand at first is that trp is not just a bunch of tips and tricks like pick up artists use, trp is about ACTUALLY becoming an attractive high value guy. Once you actually become that guy and develop and abundance mentality won’t need to worry about how long to wait till you text her back or how much interest you show. Instead, you simp…
/r/askTRP22/04/21 05:04 PM
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Bruh what is this question lol
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:18 PM
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Wether or not she keeps her male friends isn’t the big deal here The big deal here is you feeling threatened by a beta orbitor. This is a no no. It just makes you look insecure which is arguably the #1 worst thing you can do when dealing with women along with neediness. And if you haven’t already realized that girls get hit on A FUCKTON, and if you get noticeably insecure everytime she tells you she’s got hit on than she WILL lose attraction to you and dump you Your mindset should be something l…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:08 PM
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Do all women have hair ? No, there is at least some that are bald What I’m saying is that not ALL women are submissive, but most are to an alpha
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:02 PM
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This or a simple yes even if you don’t technically have a “girlfriend” which is an ltr in most people’s eyes. Or you could say “I have a few girlfriends why? You want some” Just don’t freeze up, seem insecure, or say no because as we know here preselection is very important
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:25 PM
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I used to play wayy too much. Like any “free time” I had was spent playing video games. After finding trp I cut it out almost completely, I play maybe once a week at most. What it showed me is that I have soooo much extra time that could be spent on self improvement or something more productive than video games
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:22 PM
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Like another guy already said, you answered your own question. The things most important for test levels that isn’t steriods is getting enough sleep, eating right especially protein and healthy fats, and lifting heavy. Sure you could go buy some supplements but really all they are are a ripoff. They barely increase test levels if any increase at all.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:19 PM
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Same general rules of gaming any other girl, maybe take the assholeness down a notch if that’s your usual vibe
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:50 PM
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Get a genetic test. Don’t just take her word for it, that’s how dudes end up paying a whole 18 years of child support just to find out down the line that it’s not even his kid Btw, I hope your friend learns the importance of condoms wether it’s his or not
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:44 PM
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Jesus Christ Man U need to talk to someone
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:44 PM
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Yeah I meant if there’s things that don’t meet your standards for an ltr, then don’t get in one or get out of it if you didn’t vet properly and her true colors show after you agreed to be exclusive
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:13 PM
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Go read or re-read the sidebar mate, seems like you haven’t yet to me None of them are unicorns and never develop oneitis for a hoe man
/r/askTRP16/04/21 05:05 PM
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Yes alphas ask for her number, but did you really have to ask this lol ?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:29 PM
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In general, if she does something you don’t like or if there is something about her that you don’t like, then you shouldn’t have got into an ltr with this chick in the first place.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:25 PM
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Yea this is what you should do, they could just be old ones she forgot about or she’s cheating, this is the best way to tell
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:22 PM
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Just ignore it or give them a quick look that says “if u say that shit again there’s going to be a big problem”
/r/askTRP13/04/21 10:21 PM
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She hasn’t brought up exclusivity ??? Then why do you feel the need to stop her from messaging other guys, that will only do damage, nothing positive Instead if you wanted her off the phone while with you, just tell her to get off her phone.
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:46 PM
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Yes, it’s very true What the means is you have to talk in a seductive/masculine way You see, girls run on emotions, you could possibly go so far as to say they are addicted to emotions. So when you talk in a seductive/masculine way, they get the tingles and start feeling some emotions But when you talk purely information with them in a friendly tone they don’t get the feels and they become uninterested very quick A guy that’s got great game could talk to a girl about fucking how he used to play …
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:41 PM
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Exactly what you should say isn’t nearly as important as this..... You need to actually not give a shit that your balding and own it. Once you actually don’t give a shit, the response will just come to you naturally The only reason they keep bringing it up is because they know it affects you
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:38 PM
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“I don’t love this girl” yet you admittedly got upset when you found this out and you cake and wrote a whole post about her Just be prepared to exit this situation
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:34 PM
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This is just basic banter, just don’t backpedal on what you called her Also, if your asking questions like this it’s probably best to give the ole sidebar a re-read
/r/askTRP13/04/21 03:29 PM
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It’s not really accepted by mainstream society at any age
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:43 PM
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Maybe because he didn’t want to be a slave his whole life to becoming a billionaire lol, especially since the odds of you becoming a billionaire are INSANELY fucking small even with this knowledge Maybe his passion/main goal in life was to become a successful author, not everyone wants to be a billionaire, I can from an insanely wealthy family and I can tell you two things for sure, money doesn’t make you happy and it often causes the people around you to become fake as shit
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:14 PM
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What was in the review my guy ?? Remember the 48 laws of power, “Think as you like but behave like others” Especially if your publishing something a lot of people will see But if what you wrote is perfectly fine then just stop giving a fuck about what they think
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:10 PM
1

Either start grinding and get a good job or stop giving a fuck about it Preferably both
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:07 PM
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She’s your ltr dude, there’s nothing wrong with going and hanging without fuckin, especially if her vagina is literally injured lol You may be going through what I call the “overly try hard alpha phase” Obviously I’m not saying to be a beta bitch, just tone it down a little bit cause some people/girls will be able to see right through that
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:59 PM
5

Your hormones can definitely go down while cutting, especially an aggressive cut
/r/askTRP10/04/21 08:36 PM
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Yep, this is her attempt to “beta-fy” you Really what it is tho is a shit test. She wants to be able to hang out with you and you be interested in her without fucking. If it continues start withdrawling your attention. Idk how many times this has happened so I can’t be sure if a soft or hard next is needed If it’s only happened like once or twice, then just proceed as normal, be more dominant, isolate and escalate If it’s been happening for a while, I’d either soft or hard next
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:08 PM
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It’ll most likely get taken down because this sub is for questions, you could post in the main sub tho
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:56 PM
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It’s your ego Most people’s ego does this same exact thing....it’s trying to protect itself from failure, your going to have to swallow your pride and go get the real world experience
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:28 PM
1

Yeah, peoples lives go in many different directions, sometimes it’s necessary
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:23 PM
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Do what YOU want, not what you think would be the right moves to keep this girl interested. Remember your abundance mentality If you still wanna go out w her Sat, then hit her with a “Ill see ya later tonite” earlier in the day. And if she flakes, who cares?? Think of it as a learning experience and not a hit to your ego
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:20 PM
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It’s happening because online dating is almost solely based on looks, and the 9s and 10s on those apps literally match with every guy so they have way too many options to pick u out of the bunch You’ll have more success irl if your game is good. Unlike online, irl you can display your solid frame, abundance, confidence and charisma
/r/askTRP08/04/21 05:16 PM
0

Lol okay buddy Ur right I’m a virgin obese motherfucker who does nothing all day.....jk lol Why you comin at me cause I gave the advice that would help him the most
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:25 AM
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Then break up with her
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:33 PM
1

I grew up with pretty bad social anxiety also, the only way to get rid of it is real world experience/exposure therapy. You have to go confront your fears and it will begin to go away the more you do it
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:12 PM
5

Setting up a time to meet up
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:10 PM
4

If it’s a new girl I usually go back forth with her over text a few times then go into logistics
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:07 PM
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How to meet girls 101..... Step 1: get off your couch Step 2: walk out your front door They’re everywhere my man, you don’t need to be at a specific spot where most dudes look for girls like you mentioning going to a bar/club, you can meet them literally anywhere where people are But to answer your question in your title, no, you don’t need a social circle to meet girls but I’d suggest it cause it makes it easier
/r/askTRP07/04/21 07:03 PM
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Could be low test, I’d go get your hormone levels checked by a doctor But remember, there’s no rule that says us rp guys need to be fucking like crazy just cause we can, if you don’t want to fuck a ton then don’t
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:58 PM
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Your overthinking this, just fuck if you want and don’t if you don’t
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:55 PM
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If it’s not cause of covid then that’s really fucked. It would make more sense if it’s cause of covid. But your 19, an adult male, have you thought about just going anyways ?? Make your own decisions But last time I checked body weight exercises are doable anywhere
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:55 PM
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Also true, but that takes a very long time depending on how insecure you were up until finding trp
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:04 PM
1

Very true, sorry to say it but almost all alphas aren’t on reddit lol
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:03 PM
2

Be prepared for this plate to break But I’d just say something like, “I enjoy my time spent with you, but I take shit very slow so we’ll see where this goes”
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:01 PM
9

Frame is #1 most important for being successful with women
/r/askTRP06/04/21 08:00 PM
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In these situations it is very important that you keep this mindset, “these guys aren’t shit and my girl would never go for them.” Don’t get jealous, don’t get insecure. But I’m not saying to never do shit about it. Cause your lack of action could be perceived as you being scared. Just respond like it’s a shit test while also subtly making fun of the dude. For example, when the guy asked her if you were her bf you could’ve said something like, “Ya I am, where is your bf?” Or you could just say t…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:57 PM
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Very true, everyone tries to act all alpha and shit, but I’d guess that most are far from being a real alpha. Just mental masterbaition. Although there are also those guys here that are truely alpha males and would be cool to meet a few of them.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:50 PM
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Nice post I’ve struggled with depression for as long as I can remember, and I’ve read countless things that say you just need to accept everything. Your past mistakes that you beat yourself up over, who you are, and what life will throw at you in the future, but I feel like I’ve never been able to fully accept these things for some reason, I still beat myself up over things I’ve done in the past. How did you fully accept these things?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 07:47 PM
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The one thing to remember about texting is that it cannot increase her interest in you, only decrease it So if your going out of town and won’t be able to see her then there’s no reason to text Unless your to the “advanced” level of game we’re you text as much as you can because you truely don’t care if she loses attraction cause you have so many options
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:15 PM
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It means you aren’t sharing your insecurities and shit with her, which is a no-go cause they can use it against you Just keep doin what your doin
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:11 PM
3

Lift and get big or train some type of martial art But there’s really no reason to get revenge, just learn from it and move on
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:56 PM
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1) Hes probably full of shit and just lies about this 2) Or he’s a natural alpha with an awesome frame Either way, why are you so focused on this guy and not improving yourself
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:55 PM
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How often and how much time are you spending reading trp ? This was a problem I had at the start, I read RP material far too much. Don’t get me wrong the material here is awesome and I’m not saying to quit trying and just let beta you take back over, it’s just that reading too much of it can bring your mood down. Not saying that’s definitely your problem cause I don’t know you obviously, just something to keep in mind Just read it and get off here and go put it into action and find out what work…
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:50 PM
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If she’s boring then why you spending your time with her??? Why would you go for a girl that you think is boring Who cares if it’s a shit test or a game or whatever, don’t let this girl think she can be a boring slab of meat and you still want her
/r/askTRP05/04/21 05:44 PM
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I get what your saying but that phrase is made to relate to guys that are just learning about trp, so they obviously aren’t alphas. They can relate that phrase to themselves and understand it better.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 06:12 PM
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Read the sidebar
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:58 PM
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Your misunderstanding the idea of a “real man,” sure there are some guys that think that means they can never let their emotions out, and this is not good. What you should do is experience/let out those emotions fully, but do it either while alone, with a close male friend, or a therapist.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 02:57 PM
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I think it’s depression and possibly an anxiety disorder. I personally have been diagnosed with both so I’ll try to help ya out my dog First thing to realize is having depression/anxiety is no excuse to just give up on your goals and lay in bed not doing shit. You should still be working as hard as if you were feeling normal. You might be thinking that “this guy doesn’t understand, I have zero motivation to do it” I thought the same thing for a while, if I didn’t have motivation I wouldn’t do sh…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:35 PM
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I get what your saying, you feel like your going too alpha when gaming the what I call it “the library type” of girl. Ime some of them are just using that as a mask because of strict parents or caring too much about what others think, but deep down they a ho that wants to get railed by chad But some of them actually are somewhat innocent and genuinely nice. I think the best way to tell the difference is by knowing their true n count or number of relationships they’ve been in. I know girls lie ab…
/r/askTRP31/03/21 05:24 PM
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Odds are she’s not on fds. It’s most likely just low interest
/r/askTRP31/03/21 04:30 PM
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We suggest that every guy go through a period of strictly spinning plates after they swallow trp. This situation is EXACTLY why we say that. Spinning plates let’s you develop the mindsets necessary to be great w women. It develops an abundance mentality, outcome independence, idgaf mindset and makes your frame much more solid. So basically what I’m saying is your frame is weak if you live in constant fear of her cheating, you don’t have abundance or you wouldn’t be scared to lose her
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:41 PM
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If you have something that you can’t change then you need to realize one thing that’s very important You have two choices Either you get mad that you have this disability and go spend your days on black pill or incep subs which will only make you more angry and depressed Or (what you should do) is use stoicism. Accept the things you can’t change and change the things you can. Just fully accept the things about you that you don’t like that you can’t change and stop dwelling on it because that wil…
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:36 PM
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Nope Never dig through the trash Once y’all are done in a relationship, move on and don’t look back
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:28 PM
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If I’m understanding this right your question is wether or not we should take the guys that pay for sex out of the beta bucks category ?? Don’t think so. That is the most beta thing you can do, not bothering to put in any work and instead just pay a lump of cash to fuck a ho that’s been around the block many many times. And these “sugar daddies” are no different, as a matter of fact they actually pay wayyy fucking more for a girls validation than the dudes that pay for hos
/r/askTRP30/03/21 04:26 PM
1

Yup, man-up and discipline
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:28 PM
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Good shit It’s always refreshing to see guys on this sub actually go do the shit that makes them uncomfortable because they will know it will make them better So, learn what you can from this and keep doing this as much as possible because experience is by far the best teacher But at the same time, I personally wouldn’t go chat it up with a girl at the gym unless I was completely done w my workout. Your workout should be the only thing on your mind at the gym
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:20 PM
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Porn is horrible It manipulates the male mind in multiple ways and does nothing good
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:17 PM
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Most likely a shit test She wants to see how secure you are in the fact that your her top option. That’s how you become the top option in the first place, by being attractive and believing your the best she’ll get. Obviously, we are human though and it will affect you a least a little bit, but the key here is that you must not show it at all. No more neediness on your part at all, don’t even get into that hardcore alpha mood to prove your the top option cause all that does is make you seem like …
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:10 PM
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Yes it works because the #1 biggest turnoff is insecurity, and telling her you have some other job than what you actually have signals to her your insecure about your job
/r/askTRP29/03/21 06:07 PM
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“Always say less than necessary” from the 48 laws of power Don’t know for sure but that could be the issue You gotta realize that having a long conversation gets you no further toward fucking her, only lessens your chances. This is because the more you run your mouth, bigger the chance of you saying some dumb bp shit. Really the more you run your mouth the more normal you will seem to others, and alphas aren’t normal.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:14 PM
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Tell her the truth and don’t give a fuck
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:11 PM
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It’s probably not “because she thought I was catching feels” It’s most likely either that you actually were catching feelings or she is just a ho or she just wasn’t that into you and moved on
/r/askTRP28/03/21 10:08 PM
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Leave her on read
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:57 PM
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Have you read the sidebar ?? Ypu won’t really have enough knowledge from just reading posts, so go read the sidebar fully
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:47 PM
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Personally, I think buying sex is beta as fuck, but I know there’s differing views on that here so that’s just my opinion And sure, if you that shit keep fucking her But please for the love of god wear a damn condom every time and don’t get any oneitis for this ho
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:43 PM
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She self harms ????? That alone should be enough to warrant a hard next Get out NOW Delete her number if you have to so you won’t be tempted to text her again And read the sidebar if you haven’t yet
/r/askTRP25/03/21 04:39 PM
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Dude not everything is about meeting women, especially hobbies. Hobbies are supposed to be stuff you genuinely like doing wether there’s girls there or not. Just my opinion anyways
/r/askTRP24/03/21 06:36 PM
2

I was in a fraternity not too long ago. I’m a few years out of college so it wasn’t too long ago so I can help you out a little bit If your asking why you got rejected and how to not get rejected in the future what I would say is that, 1) You got rejected from that particular fraternity because they didn’t fuck with you. Simple as that. From what they saw from you, they didn’t think you were cool enough to hang with. But don’t take it personally, that’s just how it is. 2) you fucked up by suicid…
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:08 PM
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But even if you guys become exclusive, I still wouldn’t live with her. Reason being, nothing positive with come from it, only negatives. So since the negatives outweighs the positives, there’s really no reason to do it
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:27 PM
1

If that’s what you wanna do then go for it As we say here, trp is a toolbox, not a set life plan, do with it what you want
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:26 PM
0

Seems like oneitis is possibly creeping in I wouldn’t live w her
/r/askTRP23/03/21 04:21 PM
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Before you got this gf did you spin plates for a while first ??? This could be happening due to not doing that. Every guy here should go through a period of strictly spinning plates and maybe having a few fwb because it allows you to gain experience and develop the mindsets needed to succeed with women. Abundance mentality, outcome independence, and idgaf are all mindsets that are very very important and are created through spinning plates. So what I’m saying is, if you truly had an abundance me…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:53 PM
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Religion is bullshit It was created after some old dude in the past that had a realization that people need a moral code to follow to prevent anarchy and nihilism. If there were no religion people would realize that their is no rules to life, you can do whatever you want even if it’s bad. People would also fall into a hopeless mindset due to the realization that their is no heaven or god to go after death and people would become either depressed or nihilistic
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:49 PM
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Getting yourself in trouble, doing bad shit, and treating people however you want, even if it’s badly, is attractive to women This is because it displays a strong abundance mentality. If a guy can do all this bad shit and still knows he will have plenty of girls to choose from at the end of the day is a strong display of abundance. Which we all know is very attractive So ya, women will break their rules for an alpha. But it’s not like every single women in the world is going to do this, just the…
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:45 PM
4

Tip- Stop caring about your tinder pics and just use whatever you want But for real tho, tinder is ass. I’ve always had much more success in real life
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:41 PM
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Ya with a smile it’s her flirting Flip her off right back then go escalate
/r/askTRP22/03/21 02:39 PM
3

Just stop giving a shit about what level of attractiveness you think you are and go for the girls you want anyways
/r/askTRP21/03/21 06:20 PM
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There isn’t lol that’s the whole point of trp Now read the sidebar if u haven’t already
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:42 PM
2

You just this wrong, I think your equating not being nice to holding frame. There’s nothing wrong with being nice to people, it’s when you let people walk all over you and take advantage of you that’s the problem
/r/askTRP21/03/21 05:40 PM
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Idk maybe.... just walk out of your front door ?? Women are everywhere and the the typical guys success with online dating is so shitty, you’ll be much more successful in real life
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:28 PM
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As rollo said, “Men are the true romantics, not women” And it’s very true. Men are raised to be the more romantic gender. We are taught to treat women nice, pay for their stuff, and take them out on romantic dinners and shit. Along with the Disney movie blue pill programming that teaches guys that women are princesses and are made to be basically worshipped lol
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:27 PM
2

Yes, I assume your talking about the compound lifts right ? That is what we usually recommend here for beginners. Squat, deadlift, bench press, shoulder press, and bent over rows are the 5 lifts I would pick if I could only do 5 lifts for the rest of my life. Important point here, make sure your form is great. This is very important because you don’t want to injure yourself after only 2 months of lifting and can’t lift again for months, hindering your progress So remember good form and consisten…
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:24 PM
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Just say “okay” She may or may not actually have a lot on her plate, but do you give a fuck either way ??? No. Because she’s a plate. And wait for her to hit you up again asking to hang out
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:20 PM
1

Hell yeah my man It’s always good to see a guy that knows his value and doesn’t let anyone take advantage of him
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:18 PM
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Yea it’s been getting worse and will continue to get worse It is happening due to a mix of the increase ability for hypergamy to kick in because of our modern technology, Also due to covid and girls’ need for validation/attention. If they can’t get it in real life, they will download dating apps for the sole purpose of letting guys chase them even though they have no intention to meet up w these guys
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:15 PM
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Time to get in that man-up mindset Get your shit done ahead of time so you don’t feel overwhelmed. I know it won’t be easy but you gotta work hard as fuck so that you can relax at the end of the day because you know your shit is done and done well
/r/askTRP20/03/21 02:12 PM
1

Close ur eyes
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:44 PM
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You don’t even know if you even have it so why did you jump to “how fucked am I with women?” Just stop giving a shit if you are or not, you may be idk but odds are you aren’t and that it’s just in your head Switch that mindset to “I am probably an aspie, how am I going to keep all the girls off my cock ?”
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:43 PM
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Definitely overthinking. Always have been an over thinker and it’s fucked me over so many times in life, w women, making decisions, etc. After finding trp I was able to cut out most of the beta habits/traits I had but this one took a while and it’s really not even fully gone yet. I think it’s just so ingrained in me to overthink that it will take a long time to get rid of it
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:35 PM
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Read the whole thing, don’t just look up what smv is
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:30 PM
2

If there’s one thing I know about addiction is.... For them to get sober, THEY PERSONALLY must actually want to get sober. 9 times out of 10 they will relapse if they do it cause someone else wants them to, even a son or wife even though it’s shitty If I were you I’d distance myself from him. This is not in a cold heartless type of way. What I’m thinking is, if you stop coming around and trying to help him, he will realize the damage that his addiction has actually caused, it’s made the ones he …
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:35 PM
1

Okay then that’s good, I’m a big psychology guy also, got my degree in it
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:34 PM
1

Leave her on read or just say “nah I’m good” And mark my words, she WILL hit u up within the next few days asking to meet up And if she doesn’t, who cares??? It just shows you her interest wasn’t high enough and cause of that you would have wasted energy on her just to come up empty But the important thing here is to let HER come back to you instead of you hitting her up again with a double text. Pulls her into your frame
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:30 PM
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Nah, just stop giving a shit bout them dude Nothing reeks of fake alpha more than a guy that puts up petty social media stories to get back at ex’s
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:28 PM
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Holy shit, go read the sidebar RIGHT NOW You should have read the whole thing before you posted
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:26 PM
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The guys w the highest smv Unless your under the assumption that all red pill guys have the same smv No two guys have the exactly same smv, even if it’s different by just a little bit But also you have to factor in the girls preference. Even though we say that smv rules all here, girls still have their “type” Even if it’s their “type” of alpha/bad boy, they still have a preference. Some go for the druggie bad boy, some go for the super dominant bully as kid guy, some go for the asshole businessm…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:23 PM
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No. That’s a sure-fire way to not fuck a girl if she has some type of ltr/fwb/whatever Doing that just makes them feel guilty and shuts down the rationalization hamster in her head that’s pushing toward cheating on him with you
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:19 PM
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Usually it’s 2nd time seeing her ime But always escalate and try to as soon as you can, but at the same time, don’t seem too eager
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:17 PM
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For what? Learning about psychology or using it as a way to not actually put in the work I’m not accusing, cause I don’t know you so I don’t know what your like, but just realize that there is no substitute for putting in the work But if your just genuinely interested in psychology, then go for it my man
/r/askTRP19/03/21 08:16 PM
1

REMEMBER THIS, the only way to get yourself out of this hole is to fucking climb You talk about never socializing, watching porn, being out of shape, and I’m just puzzled at to why you couldn’t answer this question yourself You MUST put in the work There are ZERO shortcuts I also struggle w depression and anxiety. My depression used to be almost in the “severe” category, I couldn’t do shit. I had zero motivation and just fucking hated life. Borderline suicidal. Not good. But guess what? My depre…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:00 PM
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Ya I think this happens because they are looking for a guy that doesn’t need them. And when a guy loves his life and has fun without needing a girl, they just can’t resist this guy
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:11 PM
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It’s a good life if YOU think it is It’s all in your head
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:08 PM
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Dude, I’m assuming your asking for those little tips and tricks to get girls, right ?? Correct me if I’m wrong tho What many guys here fail to realize is that trp is NOT about any type of psychological tricks or pick up tips, It’s about ACTUALLY BECOMING HIGH VALUE. Once you put in all the work and put yourself in the top % of men in terms of smv, you won’t need any tips or tricks to pick up or keep a girl, it will just come 100% naturally
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:58 PM
1

It’s all going to be similar I assume Atl here. It is what it is tbh, I don’t have much of an opinion on the dating market here.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:55 PM
2

It’s really wild how obsessed a girl can become about you if she sees you as her top option and she sees you as the alpha It can get to a point we’re it’s creepy as hell lol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:28 PM
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Fuck no, NEVER DIG THROUGH THE TRASH Act like she don’t even exist no more
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:25 PM
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If you frame is weak as shit and your abundance is close to none, it’s probably because you didn’t have a period of time after finding trp where you strictly spun plates to learn game and develope frame and abundance If your frame and abundance mentality is weak, you aren’t ready for an ltr. Because as someone said here, “Ltrs are like trp on expert mode,” Ultimately, you want to get to a point where this type of shit doesn’t affect you that much. So you can make decisions based on logic and not…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:22 PM
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Idk the answer to that cause it’s not red pill. You could ask some other sub if you aren’t actually acting red pilled. Which isn’t a jab at you, it’s your life and your choice
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:20 PM
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Your response would have been good enough But tbh, if some dude threw a basketball at my head with any type of aggressive force to it, I’m probably going to go over to him, make him apologize in front of his gf, then go on with my day. And if he doesn’t, I might end up fighting this dude Or you could go with the long drawn-out route of fucking with him. Find his “thumbscrew” or insecurity that affects him the most and make jabs at him verbally to amog him if he tries anything else. But don’t go …
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:15 PM
2

Actually, Yes you can, mind-blowing I know Unless your purple pill instead of red pill and want to marry this girl eventually
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:11 PM
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Do YOU want to go ?? Is this a place where YOU think you’ll have a good time ??? If yes, then go and be the leader, escalate, get that submissive girl out of her that’s inside, and lead her to quiet place to fuck. Don’t worry too much about the parents cause they aren’t your parents lol If you don’t wanna go, then don’t go. Simple as that
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:10 PM
2

Didn’t read but..... Do what YOU want to do. Make the best decision for YOU not for your ltr cause relationships end but your stuck living your own life so make decisions to make your life the best
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:06 PM
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Why the fuck did you say “so we gonna do this?” ??? That’s like saying, “I’m kind of hesitant to make a move on you so I am going to ask for some validation from you so that I can boost my ego enough to gain the confidence to make a move” In other words, beta move there
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:04 PM
2

You care way too much about what everyone else is doing Focus on you my man, nobody else except obviously family and good friends Plus you need to realize that being angry about this literally does NOTHING. You personally can’t go change an entire generation of women, so why worry/be angry about the way they act ?? Accept the things you can’t change and change the things you can change
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:00 PM
1

The best test of a true friend is seeing what he does when your truely in need of help or another big one is watching how he interacts with a girl of yours If your truely in need of a friends help and he knows that and doesn’t do shit, then next him, if he ain’t a good friend better ditch him before he fucks you over somehow But I learned the second one even before I knew about trp. If you watch how one of your good “friends” interacts with a fwb or ltr of yours is a huge indicator of how much h…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 04:56 PM
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^ this right here my man. Humans need fun to be happy
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:57 PM
2

You’ll slip into the imcel victim mindset if you keep believing this shit. Obviously though, looks do help a bunch. But there’s the majority of guys that aren’t too good looking so they must make an important decision that will determine how successful you’ll be w girls in the future.... Either 1) You become angry that you don’t have top tier genetics, so you decide to stop trying with girls and complain like pussy that girls aren’t just jumping on your cock left and right without you putting in…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:53 PM
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Not always, you just need to go through a bunch of shitty friends to find and keep the true friends. Think of it like gaming girls, play the numbers game, test your friends to see their true character, and keep the true homies and leave these fakes as an acquaintance at most
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:45 PM
2

Nah homie, be a king and give unconditional love to yourself
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:42 PM
1

Ya I mean I’d like to say I respect them, but that wouldn’t be 100% true. Instead of a black and white answer (“I respect women” or “I don’t”) , it would be much more fair to say that I respect SOME women, but not all. This really isn’t even a sexist thing, there’s also tons of guys in the world that I don’t respect. I respect people based on their character, work ethic, and the standards they have for themselves. If a dude I meet is shy and scared of talking to strangers, doesn’t put in much wo…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:39 PM
1

She’s manipulating you and insecure as fuck..... Both are big red flags bro, you’d be best off to next her imo
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:32 PM
1

This is most likely like a nuclear level shit test. And shit tests are good because they indicate that she’s still interested, especially acting petty as fuck about it, it shows she has strong emotions for you. She wants you to chase her, apologize multiple times, and fall right into her frame. Don’t do that. Just hold frame and act as if this one is done for good (no texts or nothing). If there’s one thing I’ve learned about the nuclear shit test is.... if you pass them it will probably be the …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:30 PM
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Even though there will be some guys here that will make a joke about your bi-ness, I’ll still answer your question. Understand and internalize this..... you are not obligated to like/fuck ANYBODY Fuck who YOU want to fuck and stop thinking about hurting your friends feelings
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:36 AM
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Porn signals to your unconscious that you have an abundance of mates to choose from, even though obviously you don’t. It’s just a screen. It also takes some of your drive away to find girls in real life because of what I said above. It can also slightly instill a cuck fetish in you if your addiction is bad. Sitting there watching some dude that’s not you fuck a girl you want to fuck is straight up a cuck move. Porn addiction is how most cuck fetishes are born. Can lower your test/motivation for …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:33 AM
2

I have a psyc degree and I very much get what your saying, people (usually the younger generation) see some trending psychology study or description of a disorder on social media and immediately start trying to pin it on themselves or others. I think this is because they call others a “sociopath” or a “manipulative narcissist” in order to defend their ego a bit. Cause if a girl is dumped by an alpha that she was obsessed with, her ego cannot stand the fact that some guys don’t want them/have bet…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:23 AM
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Although, at the same time, there are many males that do the same thing. Mostly the more feminine type. I’m not saying that they do this in this kind of situation, cause we all know they aren’t high value enough to get that supply of girls/money. Instead, they do this to protect their fragile egos. If a guy is a beta, he will unconsciously know he’s a beta that most girls don’t want, so they hamster and play the victim, sometimes to the same extent that girls do. It’s easier for them to believe …
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:18 AM
1

Yea my bad I didn’t see the non part
/r/askTRP16/03/21 03:10 AM
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Ya, it’s called the “anger phase” or the “depression phase” It is very common in newly red pulled guys, including myself when I first found trp. But what you will eventually realize is that there is literally nothing you can do to change female nature, so just be glad you know about female nature unlike most guys in the world. You can prevent it a little bit by researching stoicism. The basis is what I said above, you just have to accept the things you can not change and not let it affect you to…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:28 AM
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Just wear a condom
/r/askTRP16/03/21 02:21 AM
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I’m assuming your asking this because you fear the negative emotions that will come with it, and it’s normal. So many bp guys stay in relationships/marriage that they don’t really want to be in just because they are scared of her not being there and the negative emotions that come with parting ways. What so many guys fail to realize is this.... as a man, this is actually a GOOD thing. An alpha male trait that is very important is the ability to be content even if you have zero women in your life…
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:46 PM
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Do what YOU want
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:33 PM
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If you put literally any effort into the selfie is automatically feminine
/r/askTRP07/03/21 05:13 PM
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Get on your purpose my man. Surely a man on his purpose wouldn’t even think to ask strangers on the internet this question. Just forget about it. Unless she responds with interest to meet up if you initiate date logistics
/r/askTRP07/03/21 05:08 PM
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Just games some local hos lol
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:39 PM
1

I’m sure social media is part of it, but I think the main reason why this is happening is something else. It happened the first time I left home. I didn’t know about trp so I was still a pussy. I didn’t put myself out there enough freshman year, so I barely had any friends. Found trp at the end of freshman year and I decided enough was enough, I’m going to enjoy college and not be a pussy that’s too scared to make friends. So I rushed a fraternity and was off to the races. But in your case, I ca…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:36 PM
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First off, DO NOT use alcohol as a crutch for your game. So many guys do it and your actual self will show through if you rely on alcohol for confidence. But I’m not saying to be a Mormon weirdo and not drink. You can still have a few as long as you aren’t reliant on it. But what I’ve realized is alcohol helps up to a certain point, then it actually makes my game worse. A few beers and I’m smooth and my game is dialed in, but once I get somewhat drunk I change too much. I just turn into a mad dr…
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:31 PM
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Attractive alphas...... have you read the sidebar ?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:27 PM
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First off, for all the new guys reading this post, this is the spot you want to be in. Abundance, a man with actual abundance, or almost at the point of abundance anyways. To answer your question, you don’t need to explain why. Just say something like, “Hey, something came up, I’m going to have to cancel, but let’s do next week instead.” Then leave the ball in her court as to wether she’s down for next week or not. And if not, who cares?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:24 PM
1

Focusing on yourself with most of your energy. This is why we tell guys to “get on your purpose in life”. Focus on your purpose in life, your self improvement, your lifting, your diet. Next comes family and close bros. Then after all that comes women.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:20 PM
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Also was in one of the best fraternity’s on our campus, this is true. Sorority girls for the most part are strictly plate material and nothing more, sometimes not even plate material
/r/askTRP07/03/21 03:17 PM
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I think it’s caused by a variety of different things It starts when they are kids, their parents usually baby them and spoil them much more than young boys. Since they are kids at the time which is where their most concrete beliefs about the world are formed, they have a deep belief that they deserve the world and that they are the center of the universe. Then you have hormones. They have much much lower test levels on average, and high test is associated with being secure with yourself, confide…
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:15 PM
1

Have you read “No More Mr. Nice Guy” yet ? That book perfectly answers your question, and it all comes down to covert contracts A covert contract is basically you doing something for someone else with the expectation that they will do something back. This is not what you want to be doing. BUT, I’m not saying that you can be nice and genuinely want to help others Just as long as you aren’t doing these things as a covert contract like most “nice guys” do.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:08 PM
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Once you switch where you get your validation/fulfillment/happiness from. Most guys naturally will allow their success with women to be their source of validation/fulfillment/happiness, this will always lead to oneitis and giving way too many fucks about women. The alpha gets his validation/fulfillment/happiness from themselves. Once you make that switch your game will shoot through the damn roof and you’ll be pulling like it’s nothin
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:04 PM
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Motivation and inspiration come and go, so it’ll come back after a while, just don’t rely on motivation to get shit done
/r/askTRP05/03/21 08:00 PM
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Yes, discipline and mental toughness
/r/askTRP05/03/21 07:27 PM
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I say, go if u want to go If you go you should just not give a shit that they called you ugly, cause that is somewhat of a shit test and they will be aware of how you interact with them while there. If they can tell your more insecure around them, they will be turned off. But if you act the same and don’t give a shit about them or what they said, you could turn them on But just go and have fun and don’t think about it too much
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:34 PM
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Do you think all the high status dudes at your school are walking around constantly thinking about not being high status enough ?? No. So, stop worrying about it so much and just be cool and talk to the high status guys/girls at your school and don’t let the aura of “insecure about my social status” show through
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:29 PM
4

The biggest simp is the one that is willing to betray their closest friendships for a piece of ass
/r/askTRP04/03/21 08:21 PM
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It’s not your looks, maybe a little but not nearly as much as your personality and social skills. I used to also suck at building connections with others, then I finally figured out the reason why. It’s because it didn’t care about building connections or a social circle, I only cared about myself. So what I did was just force myself to care about others and become interested in getting to know them better
/r/askTRP04/03/21 06:03 PM
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If you told her you guys are exclusive then why are you on dating apps?? Sometimes I just don’t understand some of the guys here train of thoughts. If you want to fuck multiple women at once then don’t get into an ltr Sure, I know some guys here will say “actually trp is amoral, so it doesn’t matter” but in my opinion, having a girl that thinks you guys are exclusive while you are actively seeking other women is a beta move cause your keeping that girl around cause your scared to be alone. Being…
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:54 PM
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Fuck u for this lol your the type of “friend” I’d ditch ASAP Stop letting your scarcity mindset lure u to ur best friends sister, there are millions of other girls out there, why the fuck would you go for your best friends sister out of all of them? Lol
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:51 PM
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Nahhhh, all people over 30 are in shitty health and look like a dumpster lol Obvious kidding. Why would u think it’s not possible to become healthy and attractive at 40? Don’t listen to your excuse hamster
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:50 PM
1

Yes him also, I just didn’t think of him off the top of my head
/r/askTRP04/03/21 05:48 PM
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I mean it will factor into smv a little bit, but not enough to make any kind of real difference. Gaming women is all about mindset. Abundance mentality, idgaf attitude, outcome independence , and having a solid frame are by far the most important. Source: Me, I was born into an insanely wealthy family and I was a “frat boy” in college.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:20 PM
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I like this except for “Do not stay alone with your thoughts.” While yes, that may cause you to ruminate and feel shitty, you also need to feel those emotions so they go away faster. So what I usually do is set aside some time to fully feel those emotions, I know it sounds lame and weird as shit but I think it’s very important. I usually go for a drive alone and fully experience/embrace all that shit then once I’m done I go back to keeping myself busy and grinding on lifting and my purpose Avoid…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:15 PM
1

Sounds like you are one of those guys who can’t balance their life that well. I have a few buddies that are that way along with my brother. What I would suggest is keeping a notebook to plan out your days and keep your life balanced out. Make sure you add time in there to meet up with old friends or make new ones.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:12 PM
1

Perfecto
/r/askTRP03/03/21 07:06 PM
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Not much different, except with the 8,9,10s you will probably have a subconscious belief that she’s too good for you, and that will be a turnoff.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:58 PM
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Your ego is scared of rejection. Swallow your pride and go get rejected a ton of times, then a feedback loop will happen, You stop caring about being rejected the more you get rejected, and this lack of care about being rejected actually makes you more attractive
/r/askTRP03/03/21 06:55 PM
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I’d say yeah in general, most guys at the top of the food chain are generally less empathetic than the rest
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:58 PM
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Been on this sub for a while and I know if someone is asking something about “text game” , they have already lost. Instead of worrying about what to text, when to text, how much to text, worry about working on your purpose, developing abundance and start not giving a fuck about shit like this.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:54 PM
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A Huge misconception about trp is that we promote PUA bullshit. We don’t. Even though it may seem that way the majority of guys here know the pua “tips and tricks” are bullshit. Sure, you may be able to trick a ho into fucking u once, but the lack of a solid frame and abundance will show through eventually. Instead, we promote actually becoming high value instead of mimicking a high value guy. Actually increase your smv by working out, building your career/purpose in life, developing an abundanc…
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:50 PM
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Watch some stand up comedy, preferably the more alpha-ish comedians like old bill burr This helped me a ton at becoming better and faster at comebacks/shit tests
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:44 PM
2

Idk what the majority of trp thinks about this topic, but personally I really couldn’t give two shits about people talking shit about me unless it’s to my face and they have some sort of social value
/r/askTRP03/03/21 05:41 PM
1

She prob won’t ask but if she does just say it’s a good book and switch the subject. Unltimately, wether you can play it off if she’s confrontative depends on how solid your frame is.
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:53 PM
4

Being insecure about your height is far more damaging to your game than height is
/r/askTRP26/02/21 08:11 PM
1

No, you don’t have to be a “woke” liberal to be successful w women. Just be attractive, steer clear of talking about politics, and hold frame
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:32 PM
2

Personally, I’d say if she’s been w like 10-15+ guys
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:28 PM
4

I usually hit them up earlier in the day and say something like “Been busy but I’ll see you later tonite”
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:27 PM
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Didn’t read any of that bullshit Delete her phone number off your phone, Un-add her on social media, and lastly but most importantly, grow a pair and move on to new girls And you don’t get “revenge” just move tf on
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:25 PM
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Were not “fixated” on them, they are just better than girls who have been ran through and have the “1000 cock stare” lol it’s common sense
/r/askTRP25/02/21 05:23 PM
2

I saw a post about this the other day.... It doesn’t fucking matter why you think you want to wear them, just don’t. Just quit being an insecure pussy.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 12:26 AM
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1) Stop caring that your still a virgin, or at least act like you don’t care that your still one. Many guys I know and myself included, before I lost my virginity a few years ago, would beat themselves up pretty bad because they are virgins, and there’s no reason to do that to yourself so stop giving a fuck that your still a virgin. 2) Put on your big boy pants. Go lift hard and heavy, get on your purpose in life, and face your fears like a man. 3) this may be obvious but it seems this sub will …
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:07 PM
2

Listen to your therapist. I’m assuming you’ve been avoiding stuff like this for a while cause of your social anxiety. So, listen up and remember this... now you actually MUST go put yourself in those situations, START RIGHT NOW no more procrastinating. Men face their problems/insecurities head on and get over it. Trust me cause I had social anxiety pretty damn bad from birth till I found trp and actually fixed it. The ONLY way to get rid of social anxiety is exposure.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:00 PM
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Def a humble brag but well let that slide cause I respect a man that actually puts in the work and becomes the man he wants to be. To answer your question, yes I’d bet on it being a respect thing, but obviously I’ve never met you so I don’t know for sure Usually A good sign that someone respects you is not wanting to offend you or get on your bad side
/r/askTRP23/02/21 03:54 PM
2

Stop caring about being superior or likable, the alphas that are respected by others don’t really think about this bullshit unless they are a narcissist, which IS NOT something you should aspire to be. Narcissists are just insecure little pricks with little to no sense of self. Instead, you can display some traits of a narcissist like confidence and putting yourself first, but don’t do it out of a place of insecurity. So, How do you command respect among men?? Be a man worth respecting. No littl…
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:11 AM
2

Idk world’s biggest mystery haha, you never get a clear answer when you ask them even in a joking non-judging way
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:04 AM
2

“I tell her I’m not a simp” Lol, only a simp would say that and she knows this. You also realize you have oneitis but you didn’t call it oneitis cause you haven’t read the sidebar and learned that term. Go read the fuckin sidebar ASAP. And to answer your actual question, the only way to tell your not a beta orbiter is if your fucking her if your old enough for that.
/r/askTRP23/02/21 12:02 AM
1

It really just depends on the person, their is no one particular goal people here want out of this info. But we do recommend that every guy spin plates before getting into anything else
/r/askTRP22/02/21 07:44 PM
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No just quit being an insecure pussy
/r/askTRP21/02/21 08:16 PM
5

It’ll help w girls a little bit but it helps more with self control and discipline
/r/askTRP21/02/21 04:42 PM
2

I’m not sayin that you 100% have oneitis, but our brains can produce a story to tell ourselves that our ego likes to hear, so you might be just convincing yourself that you don’t have oneitis when in reality you actually do. Again, not saying you for sure have it, just something to keep in mind
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:48 PM
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Cmon man, do you hear yourself, stop giving a shit about what people think especially girls that you have no chance with. Unless she is rejecting you as some sort of shit test and you can tell she is somewhat genuinely interested, but that is rare so just stop thinking about this
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:41 PM
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First off, DO NOT GET ONEITIS. I have a fear that it has already started to develop, so if it has shut that shit down immediately or next her cause never get oneitis for a ho. And she sounds like one. To answer your actual question, the only things that fuck with our ego is the things we have invested our ego in. If a guy invests his ego( gets his validation) from picking up chicks then she will be able to fuck with your ego in some way. Instead, start not seeking validation from women wanting y…
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:38 PM
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If she’s not fun to hang w, I’m out after 1 date If I enjoy hangin w her then 3 dates and maybe 4 in rare cases
/r/askTRP21/02/21 03:31 PM
2

Find your purpose, first and foremost. This helps with lowering loneliness, helps attract more women, fulfills you as a man, and gives you less time to sit around and ruminate over your loneliness. Also, lift hard. Get your training form, your diet, and your progress on point. This also helps with fulfillment along with confidence and test levels. And lastly, you probably already know the answer.... you need to put yourself out there more and make friends and talk to women.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:40 PM
1

Muscles have very little correlation with being alpha vs beta It’s all about MINDSET. Abundance, outcome independence, idgaf, having standards for girls and their friends, and not letting anyone push them around or disrespect them.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:33 PM
1

Evolution made men horny as fuck, all of them, unless they are very low in test or something. So men have the drive to reproduce so that leads them to try and hit on as many girls as they can because they desperately want to fuck some girl, even if she’s ugly she will get hit on by a fuckton of the guys that are near or lower smv than her. So yes, it’s ultimately supply and demand. Women have a massive supply of guys throwing themselves at them so an abundance mentality develops from that.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:30 PM
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I’ll copy a comment I gave on another similar post: If your asking what to respond, you already partly lost. Trp isn’t about what to text, what to say, or what to do, it’s about becoming as high value as you can and instilling the right mindsets in yourself that will make you successful in life and w women. You might already be doing those two things, but idk cause I’ve never met you. But to answer your question, just hit her up when you want to set something up with her So, once you become as h…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:24 PM
2

Either “nah it ain’t” or agree and amplify
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:23 PM
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Yes, every single time a guy agrees to become exclusive with a girl his attractiveness goes down at least a little bit in her eyes. The reason behind this is validation and smv. Agreeing to become exclusive, even if she knows you fuck a lot and are sort of a player, is the validation that they crave. Also, when agreeing to exclusivity that signals to her that you believe that you two are near equal in smv, cause why would a super high smv guy go for an ugly chick? Hopefully that helped you under…
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:18 PM
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It’s the DUFF
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:12 PM
1

Low interest, move on
/r/askTRP20/02/21 06:08 PM
2

It’s pretty solid imo
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:06 PM
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If your asking what to respond, you already partly lost. Trp isn’t about what to text, what to say, or what to do, it’s about becoming as high value as you can and instilling the right mindsets in yourself that will make you successful in life and w women. You might already be doing those two things, but idk cause I’ve never met you. But to answer your question, just hit her up when you want to set something up with her
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:00 PM
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By being masculine, dominant, and by reading the sidebar
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:56 PM
3

Lol RIP to you man, your going to go back into simp mode fast as fuckkk cause you weren’t even here for that long
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:09 PM
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If I were in Vegas I’d put like 92% of my chips on that she used to fuck this guy or still does every once in a while. Could’ve been an ex or a fwb or just a quick fling we’re she got alpha widowed. If I were in your shoes I’d give her one and ably one shot. Stoically tell her that Your done with her being your gf for a while and just treat her like a plate. If she falls back in line and doesn’t act suspicious like this or texts any other dude and treats you like a king then I’d give her another…
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:01 PM
3

Ya I’m sure it will work somewhat but ultimately why don’t you just go to a TRT clinic ? Cause then if you are low you’ll be prescribed on spot instead of testing at home, then testing again. Unless it’s a $ issues, that would make much more sense
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:46 PM
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A good intro into red pill topics. He was one of the first guys I found on YouTube, he was good, but then I found AMS and the rational male then I really hit the ground runnin
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:44 PM
3

Ya idk why some guys think that they need super ultra masculine hobbies like welding or some shit lol. Just work on being a masculine person yourself and do the hobbies that you love
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:27 PM
4

Whoever you want to fuck, why are you asking us who YOU should fuck, especially if your just talking about plates/side hoes. If you were asking about standards for an ltr then that’s different cause you emotionally invest in an ltr, but plates you don’t give a shit about so it doesn’t really matter. If a girl is to slutty and it turns you off, then don’t fuck her. If she is a video virgin w no experience and that turns you off, don’t fuck her. Fuck who you want to fuck.
/r/askTRP18/02/21 08:20 PM
1

Be who you want to be, but I really think you can still be the person you want to be while also displaying alpha male traits. You don’t necessarily have to become a totally different person, it might seem like that’s what guys here are told to do, but in reality that’s no the case. You can still do the same hobbies that you love doing, and hang out with whoever you actually like hanging with, all your doing is adding in some natural confidence that comes with lifting, developing an abundance men…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:10 PM
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Do you have a purpose for your life? I’m sure raising a great son is part of your purpose but I think you need another purpose to go along with that for this reason, it seems you are deriving your validation/confidence as a man from women and not from yourself/your purpose. Once you switch where you get your validation from wether women want you or not to deriving it from almost soley from yourself, multiple things click within you and your life, you are attracting women almost effortlessly, you…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 03:04 PM
2

The red pill is a toolbox. You take what you want from here to achieve whatever relationship goal you have. So, if you just want a girlfriend then just do that, you don’t necessarily have to spin plates but your sort of setting yourself up for failure because spinning plates gives you an abundance mentality which is one of the most important things to have to be successful with women. And if you just want to keep being a beta then you do you man, but don’t come back here cryin if your girl cheat…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:53 PM
2

Ultimately it’s up to you and what YOU want to do. Not enjoying your time with her anymore?? Move on to the next
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:42 PM
15

This is the oldest trick in their book, ultimately all female manipulation centers around your need for sex and her ablility to be the gatekeeper of that. But who does this manipulation not work on?? Us, the red pill guys that don’t need any one particular girl. So remember, abundance mentality and idgaf attitude, you simply don’t care about her manipulation attempts cause you know you could find another girl fast as hell
/r/askTRP16/02/21 05:39 PM
6

Cause your approaching for pure fun, your validation and happiness shouldn’t be tied to that even though that’s easier said than done Just realize that every single time you approach a new girl, your learning and evolving because reading a bunch of trp can only get you so far, experience is by far the best teacher Realize it happens to literally all guys, unless their famous or some shit, so why get so down on yourself if it happens to everyone? Hell it happens to some dudes everytime they try t…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:37 PM
2

That’s pretty normal, id probably just get her something small but meaningful next time, but don’t let her manipulate you into buying her tons of shit
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:34 PM
2

First off, how did you let yourself gain 40 lbs? I know you had an injury and all but you need to try to be more disciplined than that. And that decreases smv by a good bit. In terms of friends, you just have to treat it like the numbers game when gaming women, try and start convos with random dudes at the places you frequent And this may not apply to you but something important I realized about having good friendships is you need to take a genuine interest in getting to know more about them, ca…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:29 PM
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You should handle it by taking her off your potential ltr list, before getting into an ltr you want the girl to be all over you, trying to please you, and definitely not “getting drinks” with a “friend” of hers That’s what I’d do anyways
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:25 PM
1

We don’t play pretend here. Either actually become rich or stop trying to use money to attract girls, that is the rich beta’s only move
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:24 PM
1

Do you actually want to escalate with this girl or are you doing it cause you think your supposed to for some reason ? Cause if you don’t want to escalate, then your probably not that into her Unless that’s not the case and it’s just that you don’t know how to or are scared to, in which case, remember rejection is always better than the regret and shame of being a pussy
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:22 PM
0

Focus on HOLDING your own frame as opposed to “never letting yourself into her frame” I’m basically saying the same thing but I just didn’t like how your question is worded, it’s almost framed in a way that puts you in her frame already lol
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:16 PM
1

Ultimately, pay if you want and don’t pay if you don’t want The key thing to remember about this tho is you don’t want to subconsciously or consciously be using money to get/keep girls. She will sense it and put you in the beta box.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 06:13 PM
2

Yep, if you think about it there is literally no reason to talk to her about it if your just going to break up anyways, just ghost her immediately
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:22 AM
1

I didn’t mf someone else did lol and that is my advice. Not all advice is nice and sweet.
/r/askTRP12/02/21 12:01 AM
2

Hypergamy is not only influenced by looks. Most of things that gets these guys hot girls is whats in their head, not what you see on the outside. Abundance mentality, a solid frame, outcome independence, true confidence in yourself ,IDGAF attitude, and having standards is whats most important and they are all mindset things.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:10 PM
2

"I would love to work on myself so that I can be..." You answered your own question. Do the work. This whole post is ultimately you looking for any way to not have to actually put in effort and do the work that you know you need to do. No one here is going to get your shit together for you, only you can do that.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:05 PM
3

You don't need to go to college to find your purpose, your purpose can be anything really, you could start a lawncare business or work with addicts in rehab or fuckin teach elementary school if you love doing it
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:56 PM
3

I wouldn't necessarily say anyone could become an "alpha", because becoming a alpha means your at the top of the social hierarchy. Now Im not saying any guy, even ugly ones, can't display TRAITS of an alpha male. Cause wether we like it or not, that is most guys here, not truly at the top of the social hierarchy, but still displays alpha male traits and gets laid plenty. So yes and no, ANY particular guy can display alpha traits if they want to enough. All they have to do is stop giving a fuck a…
/r/askTRP11/02/21 08:50 PM
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Are you in college currently ? If you are then you could take a variety of different classes that you think might interest you and if you find something you really love then major in it If your not, you could just try a bunch of different shit and see if you find your purpose that way
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:35 PM
14

Get on your purpose in life This is happening because female attention is your main form of validation/happiness
/r/askTRP11/02/21 06:26 PM
3

Oh, well don’t expect her to fuck you more than once unless she needs to be with a submissive man Dominance is what makes you attractive
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:44 PM
8

Fuck whatever this means, why are you sitting around worrying about why your ltr un-added you from the “close friends” feature??? Surely if you were on your purpose and had abundance you wouldn’t give a shit or even have the time to worry about small shit like this
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:42 PM
1

Go for it then. I didn’t catch this at first but are you asking about being the submissive man?
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:39 PM
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Go for it if that’s what you want, no rule here that says you can’t go for more dominant women Just be ready to hold frame like hell cause it will be tested constantly Btw beware of that ego, it can sometimes do more harm than good if unchecked
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:37 PM
2

Shoot your shot if you want, but don’t expect anything from it cause dm’ing on social media is one of the lowest success rates
/r/askTRP10/02/21 06:35 PM
2

What she really wants to see from this break of yours is how much you need her. She wants an ego boost, she wants you to be calling her and texting her like crazy. Or she wants to see if your a high value man that doesn’t like his time wasted so he forgets about her after a week or two and fucks other chicks
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:15 PM
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I hope you spun plates successfully for a while before finding this “dream girl” of yours, cause if not then your setting yourself up for failure But if you did spin plates for a while and have a solid frame and experience, there’s nothing wrong with becoming exclusive. Now to answer tour questions: 1) You can’t be nearly as mysterious as when the girl hasn’t known you for that long, but there’s a few things you can do. Don’t text/call very often, don’t tell her what your doing or where you are …
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:12 PM
1

Realize that everyone here has probably done some cringy bluepilled shit before finding trp But ultimately you need to realize that it is in the past and there’s nothing you can do to go back and change it or erase your memory, so why ruminate on it ? Also get busy lifting and being on your purpose
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:04 PM
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Your in her frame in this relationship, “she said now I’m ready to talk to you” She doesn’t call the shots, you do. If it was me I’d leave this girl for good
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:58 PM
3

High school is probably more about being popular (status) and looks
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:55 PM
1

For the most part, yes I’m sure most are aware But there’s definitely some that think they walk on water and that they’ll always be hot shit
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:52 PM
1

You can do whatever you want with the knowledge you gain here, including being in an ltr if you want BUT we usually recommend newbies spin plates for a while first. Because ltrs are “like trp on expert mode” in other words, being in a successful relationship where you hold frame and don’t become a bitch is much much harder in an ltr
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:50 PM
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If your asking how to reply to a specific text message, you already lost You may be new idk but the red pill is not about little tips and tricks, that is for pua’s to do everything in their power to not actually better themselves. Here we work to better ourselves instead of tips and tricks Read about abundance mentality, frame, and outcome independence. The last one is key here, if you truely don’t expect a certain outcome then you wouldn’t be sitting here asking what you should respond
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:46 PM
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No it’s not too late. Why the fuck would you think it’s too late ?? Sounds like your just rationalizing an excuse to not better yourself
/r/askTRP09/02/21 06:42 PM
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1) Your anger is there because you've placed too much importance on women up to this point in your life. Specifically them being nice and sweet like the bluepill wants to tell us. So you have to change where you place that importance. Instead of it being on women, place that mental energy into worrying about your lifting goals, your purpose, or maybe some other hobby. 2) You cant change your age, so stop thinking about if your age will prevent you from certain things. Just start right now and go…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:16 PM
2

Gear in that situation
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:07 PM
9

When in doubt, don’t respond
/r/askTRP08/02/21 08:06 PM
1

Dude don’t even call her to tell her that, do you not understand what NO CONTACT is ? The more you talk to her or see her on social media the longer it will take for you to get over her
/r/askTRP08/02/21 05:41 PM
5

Masculine men don’t think this much about what type of words the say
/r/askTRP07/02/21 05:30 PM
6

You weren’t very attracted ?? Ya right, then why did you make this post lol Who knows why she stopped, could be multiple things. You might not have striked when the iron is hot and hot her number. Next time do this.... If you see a girl that you want to fuck, you go get her number during your approach and you set up a date and escalate
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:34 PM
9

Learn how to invest in stocks. You can make so much passive income that way
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:32 PM
3

She isn’t interested enough and probably never will be so you know what that means....next!
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:31 PM
10

It depends how YOU live your life.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 03:28 PM
1

Either go fuck her or forget about her cause some oneitis may start to form
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:45 PM
4

Most of them aren’t as alpha as they want to think
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:44 PM
3

Does asking if that makes him feel powerful make you feel powerful ?
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:43 PM
10

Drugs
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:41 PM
3

Whatca mean, your the shit so why even think that. That is the mindset you should have because there’s no reason to worry about it cause there’s nothing you can really do about it.
/r/askTRP06/02/21 07:36 PM
2

As long as your not being a pussy and rationalizing excuses to not talk to girls cause your scared. Not saying you are but that’s just something to keep in mind
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:54 PM
5

I’d next her right now before your oneitis grows out of hand
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:51 PM
12

I figure out how to be satisfied with no girls around the once I had the realization that I could get girls anytime I wanted
/r/askTRP06/02/21 06:49 PM
1

Firstly, I hope you learned a lesson by dating a crazy girl What I would probably do is either send her a quit text saying "Im sorry this affected you so much but we must move on," and block her and never get in contact with her ever again or you could just do the second part and block her on everything and never text her again and if she somehow reaches you dont respond Also, Dont put any blame on yourself if she hurts herself in any way. Its not your responsebility to make her happy or fix her…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:13 PM
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Yeah this is very common and it happens because women are judged hard by other women and most bluepilled guys cause they think all women are nice and not sluts, so the ones that are openly sluts should be judged. The important thing to remember about this is that most girls will be sluts for you and fuck you like crazy if you dont judge women for being sluts
/r/askTRP05/02/21 07:09 PM
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Who gives a fuck what they think? Insecurity is the biggest turnoff for women so just wear them be confident and don’t give a fuck what they think
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:56 PM
1

Use the ole 1,2,3 method. When you feel that hesitation when your about to approach, just count down in your head “1,2,3, Fucking Go” then you go
/r/askTRP04/02/21 07:54 PM
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Not giving a fuck. If you give zero fucks about her bullshit then it won’t affect you at all. The only reason that shit works on betas is cause they have feelings for her so they are scared to lose her. And if they are scared to lose her then he will easily be manipulated
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:18 PM
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Act like you already get laid plenty, fake it if you need to. So basically, don’t be needy AT ALL, don’t be too eager to meet up, and once you meet up, don’t be too eager to fuck her. Just focus on having fun and fuck her at the end of the night if she’s into you. Also, read or re-read the sidebar, that will help you a ton also But the important thing to remember here is the numbers game. You need to talk to a bunch of different women. This will teach you what works and what doesn’t, how to hold…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:14 PM
3

The important thing here is that no matter what answer you give, that you remain unaffected by her comment. Ultimately that’s why girls shit test, they are looking to see how shakeable you are
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:08 PM
6

Why would you assume frame is counter-productive when the only examples you gave were from bluepilled puss boys? Frame isn’t counterproductive at all. In fact, it’s the lack of frame that caused the drama your describing.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:05 PM
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Go read “How to get laid like a warlord” on the main sub, it should be one of the top posts. It is one of the best posts I’ve ever read about trp, it gives a really good description of frame and explains how frame is the most important thing for getting girls There’s also other posts on the main sub about frame
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:01 PM
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Dude, you got this all wrong. Hobbies are for YOU, not for meeting women. You can meet women literally anywhere where people are so just do the hobbies you love and forget about the women for a few hours
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:58 PM
2

First off, read or re-read the sidebar Secondly, you shouldn’t be the one looking for an ltr/marriage, it should be the girls trying to get you to commit to it. Plus, long term relationships are “like trp on expert mode,” in other words, it is much more difficult to have a successful non beta relationship, especially if your a newbie. So for that reason, we suggest spinning plates and having fwb for a while before you even think of an ltr/marriage. It will help you to develop an abundance mental…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:54 PM
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Well they sort of think they want to because they want to give closure or whatever, but the main driving factor is seeing you in pain. They also do it to prove to themselves that your lower value than her and that she made the right choice
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:48 PM
3

Don’t act butthurt or effected emotionally. Then, what I would do, is secretly book a flight home and get yourself an uber to the airport without saying goodbye or anything
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:41 PM
0

Exactly, the betas version of acting alpha is to insult people and project their insecurities subconsciously.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:35 PM
3

Just talk to her a little bit, and that should be enough to display your confidence, abundance, and outcome independence, which get the girl interested. Then before she leaves your house one day, ask her to go to this bar down the street or something. Then you escalate and invite her back home
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:34 PM
1

I have always been better looking than the average guy, so I figured I’d get plenty of girls, but boy was I wrong. I would get dumped after about 2-3 weeks of talking to a girl like clockwork. I would get so bitter at them and myself, but eventually I came to a point where that went away and I was just puzzled, “why wouldn’t girls stay with me for longer than 3 weeks, after all, I am an attractive guy” I asked myself. So I started researching and I stumbled upon Corey Wayne first, which has a fe…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:32 PM
1

It’ll probably be like 2-4 dates until she’ll do something that could be seen as too slutty like that. But when she is ready, just take her for a walk on a secluded trail, find a little bench or something then escalate
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:26 PM
2

Mona lisa by lil wayne Grace by lil baby and 42 dugg
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:24 PM
1

You don’t nessesarily need to be a super talkative extrovert if it isn’t in your nature. But also don’t be a sperg and not talk. Just have that “quiet confidence” on the date. Your fully confident in yourself and you don’t need to talk a lot to prove it. You just know your the shit
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:22 PM
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Keep doing what your doing Do not talk to her or get into contact with her in any way. The only reason why she even wanted to “talk about the breakup” in the first place was to see you in pain. Girls are fucked up like that, when they break up with a guy they like seeing him in pain, it boosts her ego a little bit.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:20 PM
2

Neither too alpha nor too beta, the ultimate reason why she wanted to leave was she found a better prospect. Although, you being too beta was the second reason. This is why we say here to not get into an ltr unless you are fully ready. Spin plates first to instill an abundance mentality, outcome independence, and a solid frame.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:14 PM
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Great way to end up getting a sexual harassment charge
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:12 PM
2

What exactly are you asking?? If you want to fuck her then go for it, but always studies first
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:08 PM
1

Hold frame, be confident, don’t be scared of her at all just cause she is older.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 07:02 PM
2

What’s your question Most of us are failures 😂😂Someone sounds a little bitter
/r/askTRP02/02/21 06:59 PM
1

I talk about mental health with close friends because I don’t give a fuck about them judging me cause I know they will always be close ass friends.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 10:09 PM
7

Do your work multiple days before it’s due. That helped me the most academically when I was in college. Use a planner, plan out exactly what you need to do each week so you don’t forget any assignments. Idk where your from but consider rushing a fraternity if they have them at the college your going to. I was in one in college and it helps so much with girls status and having good friends
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:25 PM
19

These terms aren’t just used by us. Almost everyone knows about those terms
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:22 PM
3

Are these very close friends? If they are why do you feel weird about telling them what’s going on? Your good friends should understand and not think lesser of you. If it’s just aquiantences then I probably wouldn’t tell them cause they don’t care enough about you to not think lesser of you.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:18 PM
3

Your friends with benefits, this is similar to a plate. So you should just not give a single fuck about her seeing a another dude. You messed up a little by saying “I’m going to take this other girl on a walk” that signals to her that you care about her and her seeing her ex. Instead of that, just bring another girl home and fuck the hell out of her
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:15 PM
3

It means either that you give her enough beta attention for her to feel like a man actually loves her or it means she sees you as an aloha so she wants you to be her daddy and fuck the shit out of her. If it’s the first of those two then you need to work on not giving them too much attention and become more of an alpha
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:10 PM
2

Isolate and escalate That is how you could possibly get this girl. Because girls love a guy that isn’t afraid to make a move, and if you make your move before the other guy does, she might forget about that other dude and want you. And if your thinking that you’ll get rejected or some shit, remember she is giving you iois so that means she has some interest in you. Plus, REJECTION IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN REGRET
/r/askTRP01/02/21 04:06 PM
4

Your either fucking with mostly sluts or they don’t see you as “boyfriend material” What I mean by “boyfriend material” is that they 1) enjoy the non-sexual time spent with you and 2) the see you as higher in smv
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:28 PM
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Stop reading so much rp stuff if your reading too much of it. Reading red pill content too much can make you angry as hell and kind of miserable because it’s hard to be happy when your mad. Go out and just try to genuinely enjoy your time spent with plates or other girls. You don’t need to try to develop oneitis or anything, you just need to learn how to love women APPROPRIATELY. Getting bad oneitis is not loving them appropriately. Simping and being a nice guy isn’t either, but you don’t seem t…
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:21 PM
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No, you don’t owe any women your exclusivity. And if you feel guilty for it then either tell her you don’t plan on becoming exclusive anytime soon or just move on from her Cause I’ve been in that spot and the guilt can fuck with you
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:17 PM
2

Yep, Awalt. Almost every single type of women follows the general guidelines that the red pill talks about. I used to be a devout Christian and grew up in the church, I am no longer that religious, but I know what it’s like and what Christians are like, so maybe I can help. Ultimately, I’m assuming the part of Christianity that is holding you back is the guilt you may feel for hooking up with different women and spinning plates, correct? Well if your not straight up lying to your plates telling …
/r/askTRP31/01/21 11:16 PM
1

Controling your emotions in stressful situations and being able to accurately read other peoples emotions
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:57 PM
1

I’d say it’s mostly guys age 18-30
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:55 PM
2

Kinda hard to tell, this situation could be two different things... One being, she actually wanted to go to her room but you weren’t assertive enough, Or she was testing you to see how much value you give to your time. She wanted to see how long you’d sit there like an idiot while she ignores you and talks to her friends. In the second case, you did the right thing. And honestly even if it’s the first scenario, if you weren’t enjoying your time with her then there nothing wrong with just leaving…
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:54 PM
3

Nahh, men are just more honest about it. Some girls will take that shit to grave and never tell a single person
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:16 PM
3

Yes there possible, you just have to be of high value and cool to hang out with if you want to meet some hood high value friends. You literally just need to treat it like picking up girls. You have to meet a bunch of guys and vet them so you know they aren’t lazy fucks
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:13 PM
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Your 23 so this may not be an option but I was in a fraternity in college, I made a ton of friends and most of them are pretty high value and masculine. Most of them work hard to get where they want to be in life. That being said, you could try to join some type of club or group that has masculine guys. Maybe some type of powerlifting group or something. Or you could join a crossfit gym or just meet some dudes at your gym.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 06:10 PM
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No contact, AT ALL. I know it’s tempting to call her or text her but that just makes it take longer to get her out of your head. Get on your purpose and work at it like an animal , meet and fuck other chicks, lift a ton, hang out w some bros, and you’ll get over her in no time
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:49 PM
2

Just go hang with them when you can. I think it’s very very important to have high value masculine dudes to hang out with. The banter and shit testing of each other makes you more masculine and helps you become quicker when you get a shit test from a girl
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:47 PM
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You missed a red flag, she’s a “rave girl” Not saying all rave girls are this way but the ones I’ve met are usually very free in terms of having sex, in other words, the get fucked a lot. If this doesn’t qualify her to be ltr material in your mind, then I’d break it off ASAP, cause you don’t want your oneitis to get worse for a ho Me personally, I’d dump her cause I don’t want to ltr any girls with a n count over 5 or so. But ultimately it’s up to you my man, just learn from this vetting mistake…
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:41 PM
3

If u were you I’d keep the finances and payments separate. You keep and use all the money you make, while she makes some and keeps it and also uses daddy’s money. I wouldn’t fall into the trap of paying for her shit if I were you because she is used to using her dad like a piggy bank and thinks she can spend a ton. You don’t want her to start using you in that same sense
/r/askTRP27/01/21 04:37 PM
1

If she’s a hoe and that makes you anxious then just get in the mindset that she’s a hoe so you don’t give a shit if she likes it cause she is not a prospect for any kind of serious relationship
/r/askTRP26/01/21 07:48 PM
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It’s prob not the T, your prob just a narcissist. The myth that high test causes more aggression is not true. Studies have come out recently that higher test causes more calmness and fairness. While decreasing t levels can cause unnessary aggression. Research narcissism so you can understand it and tell if your one.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 07:43 PM
2

I just keep giving them vague answers if they keep asking about possibly being exclusive. Stuff like, “I like my time spent w you, so well see where this goes” and “I have never been a guy that rushes into stuff like this”
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:25 PM
3

Ya if his status is that of a celebrity he will get tons of girls no matter what he looks like But in general, it depends. Take this for example, there are two dudes. One has half the status of the other but looks twice as good, who would get more girls ? W all other factors even. Certain girls may value status over looks and go for the higher status less good looking guy, while others value looks over status, and go for the other
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:18 PM
5

“Acceptable aggressive behavior” in my opinion consists of you demanding respect or defending your honor. Basically, if someone is trying to start shit with you, don’t back down. That is what I mean by getting respect. If they are verbally escalating with you, don’t be one of those guys that backs down and let’s the guy amog him. Be the guy that gives him a stern, “You better calm the fuck down or this will end badly for you,” followed by either an ass woopin for the other guy or he respects you…
/r/askTRP26/01/21 03:12 PM
2

If they don’t work for both sides then they don’t work. That is my train of thought. If a relationship is solely benefiting one of the two people, then I’d say that it doesn’t work. But I get what your sayin 💯
/r/askTRP26/01/21 01:13 AM
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That’s what I’m sayin dipshit, thought it was understood we were talking about it from solely a mans perspective
/r/askTRP25/01/21 09:33 PM
7

Sure, you can act like the prize if your a newbie to get the ball rollin, but ultimately you want to actually BECOME the prize.
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:44 PM
1

Seems like you already know what we’re going to say, but here ya go... Long distance relationships NEVER work. Ever. You should have ended it the second it became that way. But I get it my man, you have emotions and it’s normal to catch a case of oneitis from time to time. You just need to realize when oneitis starts to develop and nip that in the butt. But it will just take some time to stop thinking about her. Just please for the love of god don’t sit around and get depressed. Stay on your pur…
/r/askTRP25/01/21 06:40 PM
1

The main reason it’s not recommended for newbies is that ltr’s are like trp on expert mode. It is much harder to hold frame, not be afraid to lose her, not let her games work on you if you are still new to trp. Spinning plates helps you develop and abundance mentality, outcome independence, and the other things that make you better w women
/r/askTRP25/01/21 05:38 PM
8

You literally answered this yourself, they were lied to by society.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:09 PM
1

You answered it yourself, they don’t have a personality disorder, they are just wound up tight or they are mad
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:05 PM
11

If their interest is high enough they don’t give a fuck where or when
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:02 PM
2

Yes you need to weigh the risks of what you do. You don’t want to end up getting thrown in jail for some stupid little argument. Most of time it just isn’t worth it. BUT, there are time where you should definitely fight back. If someone puts their hands on me in an agressive way of any kind, I’m defending myself and kicking his ass.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 04:01 PM
1

Read the sidebar and leave this bitch in the rear-view mirror
/r/askTRP23/01/21 09:15 PM
1

Could mean, “let’s not talk about sex, just fuck the shit of me” but not sure
/r/askTRP23/01/21 05:06 PM
3

You’ll never know for sure, some girls will take that shit to the grave w them. But a good way to estimate is to take the number she told you and multiply by 2 or 3 to get her real n count.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:58 PM
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I’m personally not a big fan of “monk mode.” I think that in most cases it’s just used as a rejection buffer. I’m not saying to not focus on yourself and put women over your goals, I’m just saying that you can still game some women and gain experience irl and still put your self improvement at #1 most important
/r/askTRP23/01/21 04:56 PM
1

I’m the same way, it runs in my family pretty badly. But don’t use it as an excuse to not work hard
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:55 PM
3

Stop giving a fuck about women and they’ll flock to ya, So in other words, understand them by not trying to understand them. Just read the top posts and the rational male and go out and get a lot of first hand experience. Yes, you will get rejected a lot but it happens to every guy here. It’s the guys that push past just rejected a ton without giving up that end up being absolute slayers
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:51 PM
2

So it was more of a depression thing then right? First, you need to get rid of your depression. You probably won’t be able to fully get rid of it cause I can speak from experience, there’s always a little bit left in the back of my head. After that, start working hard on increasing your smv, working on your purpose, and practice talking to girls in real life.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:48 PM
1

Dude you shouldn’t be the one worried about her not wanting to spend enough time with you, it should be HER asking if y’all can spend more time together. That puts you in the weaker position in your relationship. But ultimately, if you aren’t happy or satisfied by your relationship, then end it. You Remember the abundance mentality thing right ?? You will always be able to find a new girl if your relationship ends
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:45 PM
4

What the hell were you doing during your two year long “monk mode”??? You realize there’s a difference between “monk mode” and depression right ? Not saying it’s wrong to be depressed or anything, I’ve been through some bad episodes myself. Ultimately your “monk mode” time should have been spent on increasing your smv like crazy. And once your smv is high enough, you shouldn’t be having problems like this.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:41 PM
2

Just make some small talk about random shit, could be anything, it really doesn’t matter. It’s more about how you say it instead of what you say but it seems you somewhat already know that. Just talk in a seductive masculine way, talk slow but controlled, mean what you say and don’t just spit out words to fill a silence. And if the convo is dying or boring you then make you exit out of the convo, cause your time is valuable to you.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:37 PM
3

I think someone else already said this but it’s not really about where you go on the date, it’s about you game while on the date. But a few I do often are taking her to a hole-in-the-wall bar that I like. Some places that won’t be an option tho due to covid. Going on a hike then take her back to my place, going to grab a quick bite to eat, and cooking at my place. The important part tho is that you need to be the leader throughout the date and also escalate at some point during it
/r/askTRP21/01/21 04:04 PM
1

Meditation and practicing mindfulness. Mindfulness is basically you being aware of your thoughts and realize your ability to change your thoughts. After a while you will be able to get out of your head and live in the present much more often
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:55 PM
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The vagina thing doesn’t mean much but the delete texts thing is concerning. This is what I would do if I were you, since you don’t know for sure that she’s cheating but have suspicions, I’d act as if this relationship is about end. Go meet new girl to set up some other options, start un-investing yourself from your gf, un-invest your emotions and whatever else. Then most likely cut the cord on this relationship, and spin plates and focus on yourself
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:49 PM
3

I’d recommend splitting your routine up so you can hit each exercise with high energy. Maybe something like alternating between legs and upper body But the most important thing is your form, make sure it’s good
/r/askTRP21/01/21 03:02 PM
2

Inspiration is for kids and soccer moms, you need to grab yourself by the balls and finish with discipline
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:58 PM
3

No, nothing wrong with it, in fact, it may be good for preselection in the future
/r/askTRP21/01/21 02:54 PM
2

NEVER be afraid to lose her. Any girl, a plate, a fwb, a ltr, never be afraid to lose any of them. I’m not saying that you can’t enjoy your time with them or hate them, I’m just saying that you should make yourself mentally tough enough to lose any girl
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:56 PM
1

Great ducking genetics man, that’s a great natty physique for your age! Keep it up
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:48 PM
2

Guitar is fun as fuck
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:47 PM
5

Snowboarding and mtn biking
/r/askTRP20/01/21 11:38 PM
3

She’s simply not interested enough. It happens to all guys here, even ones with top tier game. If a girl doesn’t meet the interest threshold when first meeting her, it’s hard and way too time consuming to try and get her to have even a little interest And you don’t tell a girl that you aren’t interested in a relationship at all, no wonder she left. You tell her something like, “I enjoy hanging out with you, so we’ll see where this goes” even if you have no intentions of a relationship
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:11 PM
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Welp, take this as a learning experience. She wanted to be fucked, but you didn’t take action cause you were scared of being rejected, not metoo’ed The only way you get metoo’ed is if you have like zero social skills. If a girl doesn’t want it, you can easily tell once you make a move. If you can tell she has no interest in sex, then you back off and next her cause it’d be a waste of time. Or if you go for a girl that obviously has mental issues That’s why a huge part of having good game is bein…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:04 PM
3

Always content but never stop working on new goals. Happiness/contentment is found in the process of working toward your goals, not when you reach them
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:02 PM
2

2/3 rule if your talking about texting. You text only 2/3 of how much she texts you. This isn’t a strict rule but a good guideline to follow for new guys. If she send you 3 texts, you only send as much as 2 back But don’t sit around all day texting her even if your following the 2/3 rule. Your time is valuable, you don’t have time for that shit. You should be on your purpose, so you don’t have to intentionally not text her back
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:59 PM
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This isn’t any kind of test, she’s just making convo But that’s a good sign, next time she’ll probably be ready for you to escalate all the way
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:57 PM
4

The only way to get full loyalty is to be her top option and STAY her top option. When your a girls top option she will be all fucking over you, almost to a point where it’s creepy.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:56 PM
2

Delete your ex’s number ASAP, un-add her on all social media’s. That will help get her out of your mind faster and stop you from possibly texting/calling her. But now is the perfect time for you to focus on yourself and increase your smv. Lift like hell. Write down your lifting goals and come up with a plan to reach them. Work on your purpose in life, and if you don’t have one, then work on finding it. Then lastly, practice your game with some of your extra free time.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:54 PM
4

I could tell just by the title that you need to read or reread the sidebar
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:50 PM
1

Just don’t overdo the zinc thinking that more will do something, you could hurt your liver
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:49 PM
2

Yes, too many guys gere fetishize psychopathy and dark triad traits. Sure, using some of those traits at select times can be to your advantage, but if you go too hard on the dark triad people will realize it and no one will want to be friends with you And I’ve found that social interactions and good relationships make life worth living, along with a purpose of course
/r/askTRP18/01/21 09:30 PM
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Ultimately, frame is you. Frame is what you are, and the “solidness” of your frame depend on if you change for others or do you stay the same. You know those guys that bend and mold to whatever people they are currently around, that’s a weak frame. But frame is also being centered and self-validating. By “centered” I mean that a girls bullshit and mind games does not affect your mental state. A guy with a solid frame doesn’t give a fuck if a girl is trying to play the jealous game on him to get …
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:15 PM
1

Fello natural introvert here. I’ve been a introvert for as long as I remember and so are both of my parents so that’s where it probably came from. When you say, “should I accept myself as an introvert ?” What exactly do you mean here ? Do you mean that you will just stay in your room all day and be quiet and unsure of yourself in social situations? Or do you mean that you accept you are naturally an introvert but you still try to put yourself out there as much as you can ? If it’s the second one…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:09 PM
1

Psych degree here, the main indicator of bpd is that they have a “favorite person” that they are basically obsessed with and are very very fearful of being abandoned by them. They will go to great lengths to keep that person around if they talk about a possible breakup. But it’s very possible she was if she ticked the box above
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:05 PM
1

As long as she’s imitating some and is submissive to you, then it doesn’t really matter
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:01 PM
1

Just lose weight, that’s really the only way to make your jawline better, those exercises just strengthen the jaw muscle, not the jaw bone which is what the jawline is
/r/askTRP18/01/21 04:00 PM
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I’m sure most brands are fine, it’s probably all the same. But like the other guy said, vitamin d also helps a little with increasing test But personally, I’ve never felt anything from zinc in terms of an increase in testosterone, it just gave me anxiety for some reason, although I’ve heard zinc is also great for your immune system
/r/askTRP18/01/21 03:57 PM
2

Validation is their drug, no wonder they’d become addicted to social media lol
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:34 PM
6

Invest
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:25 PM
1

I wouldn’t put it in there at all, guys that do that just bank on the fact that they are talk to get girls instead of being truely confident in yourself and thinking that you don’t need to qualify yourself at all to girls and they’ll still want you
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:17 PM
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Sounds like you still have a bit of oneitis for this ex of yours and it’s understandable, it happens to every dude That being said, it will just takes time for those feelings to go away. In the meantime, you should be working on your purpose, and if you don’t have one then find one Your purpose plus self improvement and lifting should give you some happiness and fulfillment instead of getting it from girls, which is an easy way to stay a beta
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:15 PM
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Oh I got u, it wasn’t just the tweet. If I were you I’d leave this mental energy for something else, not why your ex was the way she was. It’ll probably take some time if you still have some oneitis for her
/r/askTRP17/01/21 05:11 PM
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Dude holy shit I don’t know what to say, that is horrible and sucks soo fucking bad. I don’t know what to say cause I’ve never lost anyone really other than a grandparent But dude just I know that I love you big dog, if you ever need to talk to someone, please pm me and I’ll send you my phone #
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:08 PM
1

This is the fact of the matter, if that guys gets girls like he says, then he would get many more if he also had a six pack and a good physique
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:03 PM
1

I’d say frame is #1 by far, followed by looks then status/money
/r/askTRP16/01/21 10:02 PM
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Dude your overreacting big time imo, that tweet is saying she’s loyal, did I miss something ?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:59 PM
1

Maybe I’m looking at the wrong tweet, but that tweet doesn’t look slutty at all, the one that says “him: she belongs to the streets her: yea then a pic of “faithful ave” ?
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:53 PM
1

How do these two connect exactly ? Maybe I’m wrong but it just seems like your overthinking and caring too much about what she’s doing. Remember this, being insecure about her wanting some other dude signals to her that your not an alpha male and that raises the chances of her actually cheating in the future
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:54 PM
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Go look yourself in the mirror and talk to yourself about how great it feels to take a shit. Yes I know, sounds retarded, but it’s a joke and it will teach you to take life not so seriously. And to answer your question, no, it’s almost impossible to give zero fucks about what anyone thinks, unless your a damn psychopath or something. That doesn’t mean I am scared to do whatever and say whatever I want, that means I just put much much less importance on what others think about what I say/do becau…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:51 PM
2

Can’t hurt me by David Goggins is an awesome book for mental strength which translates to self improvement and dealing w girls
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:46 PM
2

If she was just a plate or fwb, then there’s really no reason to do this, but if you genuinely just didn’t like hanging out with her then the dumping is appropriate But she should be taken off the potential ltrs list for sure
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:43 PM
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“How to get laid like a warlord” on the main sub is a fucking amazing post and it covers frame as well as everything else that it takes to get laid.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:40 PM
5

The fuck ??
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:38 PM
5

Def just overthinking, If she does happen to cancel tho, maybe give her one more shot if it’s a legit excuse. But if it happens again after that, you know what to do, ghost her
/r/askTRP16/01/21 08:38 PM
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I personally think monk mode is a just a rejection buffer but do as you wish my man
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:32 PM
1

No, following her around after a normal person would realize she’s not interested at all is harassment Just don’t be a sperg
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:30 PM
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I’m assuming you never even met this bitch let alone kiss or fuck her... Sorry, but your most likely already in orbiter land. Next time don’t talk to her for 6 weeks, that tells her you have no options and that you don’t value your time The chances of pulling through social media is much lower than in person, so at most just send her a few messages and a date invite
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:29 PM
3

“This month?” “Today?” “I actually only do foursomes”
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:26 PM
5

Exactly what you think, Strike when the iron is hot At least you know the mistakes you made, now you just need to actually make yourself go strike when it’s hot I’ve experienced this a bunch at the beginning of my finding trp. Girls lose interest fast if they are giving you IOI’s to come talk to her and you don’t
/r/askTRP15/01/21 03:24 PM
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Sounds like depression is the root problem. Depression can make you seem unattractive and can make people not want to be friends with you cause the mood is contagious and you aren’t as talkative. I’d suggest a therapist
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:21 PM
1

You don’t. You move on mate
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:16 PM
2

Yes natural alphas exist
/r/askTRP14/01/21 07:13 PM
2

First off, do home workouts everyday. Go as hard as you were at the gym plus you can probably go run outside as part of it. And to answer your question, now is a good time to try a bunch of new shit to see what you actually like. Paint a picture, learn the stock market, take an online class in something you’ve always wanted to learn about, etc
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:14 PM
3

D 100% your way too invested in this whole situation/girl
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:11 PM
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Realize this, the end goal is not what will make you feel happy/fulfilled. Once I reached the point of having a six pack and a good build, I didn’t feel any better than before, sure, I was definitely more confident in myself, but not any happier/fulfilled. The happiness and fulfillment comes from enjoying every step of the process, just the fact that you wake up everyday and go work out like a mad man should bring you the fulfillment.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:09 PM
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She’s not controlling, you just have a weak frame Every girl will try to control you to some extent, but your frame is what protects you from it. You just do what you want and hold frame when she gives you shit for it. And remember this, the guys that women can’t control are the ones they really want to fuck
/r/askTRP14/01/21 04:06 PM
1

Combine the best of both, be cool but UNagreeable if you need to be, while also being a bold risk taker while not being an over the top asshole
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:12 PM
3

Fuck no. You think your special enough to break two rules? Remember, no digging through the trash and no fucking with single moms
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:10 PM
4

I thought bout it for a min but honestly, fuck it, just own that shit man. BUT, if you don’t like being a virgin, then go talk to girls and fuck one. You feeling shitty for being a virgin should give you the drive to improve yourself so you can have sex
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:09 PM
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Ya most people are bullshitters in general. And I know what your talking about, first one that came to mind is coach red pill. He looks like he’s never even been to a gym, he just tells red pull truths for money on the internet. He’s definitely not in the top tier of men.
/r/askTRP13/01/21 09:06 PM
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I think that almost every single women on this planet operates under the “female nature” that is from here. But, every women is also different Negging and treating a girl like shit may work on a girl that never had a father figure, while if you tried that on a religious girl with a good father figure, it probably won’t work. And throwing in some comfort before she fucks may be required with some, others will get turned off
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:15 PM
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Dude. Stop being so insecure about your girl cheating at work. As a matter of fact, you being insecure about it will actually raise the chances that she actually does cheat
/r/askTRP13/01/21 05:10 PM
4

Not really a “rule” but the idea of AWALT is not 100% accurate in my opinion. Sure, you could say that like 99% of girls run under the female nature ideas described in the rational male, But, each girl is unique also. Some girls like being treated like absolute shit and negging works better, while other girls were raised with a great father and need some extra comfort before they will fuck
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:28 PM
5

Idek what your really asking but please for the love of god don’t get oneitis for a bisexual chick, bisexual alone is a red flag and she shouldn’t be your “primary” girl imo.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:22 PM
2

Be that wild guy that takes them to a park at night or something and fucks them, I’ll let you know right now that they love it if your confident in what your doing The key here tho is to be the leader, lead the whole date so she will see you as the leader in this dynamic and she’ll most likely go along with whatever you want to do that’s within reason
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:19 PM
1

Well you know what to do, make a damn move bro. She’s not just going to jump on your cock. And if you don’t make a move soon then she’ll most likely move on and ghost ya
/r/askTRP12/01/21 06:17 PM
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Definitely something important here There’s a huge difference between a guy that is less talkative because he feels he doesn’t need to talk a girl into bed, that she already wants to. This guy also has the aura that he won’t let anybody push him around. Big difference between that and guys that are quiet due to a lack of social skills or social anxiety
/r/TheRedPill11/01/21 09:07 PM
1

I have a psychology degree so I’ll give a few points on them... They create this badass or “I’m better than everyone” persona because they don’t have a solid sense of self, they don’t really know exactly who they are and what their personality is like, so they are able to change it much more than normal people. They also do it to cover up insecurities that they are ashamed of. They have a lot less empathy than normal people. It’s much much harder from them to put themselves in someone else’s sho…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:57 PM
1

Could be what the others said but it could also be a tactic from them to get you to feel bad for them so you won’t ghost them or leave them. Probably because you come across as attractive to them but also a player
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:52 PM
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Fwb is the best imo. You get into one because you actually enjoy spending time with her other than fucking. So you get the best of both worlds, plenty of sex and you get time together you actually enjoy without the commitment and all the bs that comes with it
/r/askTRP11/01/21 08:44 PM
2

It’s probably you just overthinking Remember your the shit
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:07 PM
1

Definitely don’t know enough about the situation to answer your question Is she receptive to going on a date ? Have you fucked her ? What is her true interest level? All that is important to know
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:05 PM
2

Good shit
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:03 PM
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Don’t start doing it, that would throw you way into her frame. Just deflect and if she starts nagging and being annoying bout it then tell her to cut the annoying shit
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:02 PM
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Yes, that means she loves you RIGHT NOW if she’s sincere. But don’t expect her to love you in the future, it depends on how she sees you. If she keeps believing that you are it, that you are the shit, then she’ll keep loving you But obviously there are some shitty girls that say that as a manipulative tactic
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:58 PM
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I’d recommend taking a break from reading trp content if you read it too much, that can fuck with you and make you think the girl is cheating or something even if she’s not. But if 15+ partners is too high, then dump her dude Remember to have a set of standards for each type of relationship (plate, fwb, ltr). If your standard for fwb is only 15 partners and your ltr standard is like 10, then stuck too it and just have her as a long time fwb
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:52 PM
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Read the sidebar first my guy Everything you need is there, there are no shortcuts in life, go read it And if you really can’t open it, then try restarting your computer or using a different device
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:47 PM
2

What I do is simple, I do nothing about it. I don’t try to keep myself extra busy to try and hide from my thoughts, I just feel them fully and roll with it
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:25 PM
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Bingo. And realize that it’s very normal to have those types of days, I feel like most people have a few days out of the month we’re they are depressed and can’t do shit
/r/askTRP10/01/21 10:24 PM
1

Text convos mean absolutely nothing. And “text game” isn’t a real thing for one main reason, you can’t raise a girls interest over text, only lower it. So why spend any effort texting her other than for setting up a time to meet ? There really is no reason.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:51 PM
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People are very un-self aware, hell, even You and I might be unaware of some shit we do to others. That’s just how it is because you can only see your actions through your perspective, and no one else’s. But there are definitely people that are dumber and more unaware and those are they ones that deserve to be cut out of your life. But in general, yes you should cut negative people out of your life
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:48 PM
1

You proceed your ass to the doctor to get the right treatment
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:42 PM
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Trust me, he’ll be ready for the red pill after this bitch divorce rapes him and takes the kid
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:41 PM
1

I guess it could come across that way depending on how you say it. You have to say it in a certain way that conveys to them that your not upset, you have to get into one of those “I don’t give a single fuck” mood and say it in a comedic type of way
/r/askTRP06/01/21 09:45 PM
1

Its probably cause she had feels for you and wants to get over it faster or she thinks that blocking you is a win for her idk
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:54 PM
1

Why not ? I’ve said it before and fucked the girl later that night If she actually does go fuck him, then who gives a shit ? She a plate and you have abundance
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:52 PM
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Mad respect for you bro Just remember every guy have been through a breakup, so your not alone even though it may feel that way at times It will take time to stop thinking about her and lose your oneitis, but it will go away after some time. Spend your free time on your purpose, lifting, doing shit with your bros, and talking to new bitches
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:51 PM
2

It ain’t real, you’ll either figure that out by read stuff here or from getting fucked over in real life by your so called “soulmate”
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:49 PM
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First thing that came to mind is, “go fuck him” It shows you don’t give a fuck about her and shows you aren’t desperate. Also shows you subconsciously think you don’t have any competition, which is the alpha male mindset
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:47 PM
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Yeah I switched naturally after finding the red pill, I guess you could say the “anger phase” got rid of it But I think a key point here is that being nice isn’t bad, but if you have the wrong reason for being nice then it’s bad. So if your nice to people because you want something from them, then your just setting yourself up for failure. I think they’re called “covert contracts” in no more mr nice guy
/r/askTRP06/01/21 04:43 PM
3

I didn’t, it’s just an example mate
/r/askTRP05/01/21 09:49 PM
32

You go approach and get rejected 1 time, you are upset and think all girls hate you You go approach and get rejected 10 times, your still frustrated your mostly getting rejected but you did get that one girls number and she seemed somewhat interested You go approach 100 times, you realize that rejection happens for a variety of reasons and so why would you take it personally ? Plus you got 7 numbers and fucked one of them You go approach 500 girls, you are learning to predict exactly what she is…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:56 PM
1

Could be a few different things if it’s not your test levels, it could be depression as you were saying, could be gay, could be your not pulling hot enough girls for your preference, etc
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:50 PM
3

She has you where she wants you She running game on you instead of the other way around. What I would do is drop her asap and get rid of the oneitis then practice your game with just plates/fwbs instead of an ltr. Ltr’s are the red pill on hard mode, so it would be wise for every guy to get their game down before entering an ltr.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 05:47 PM
2

Are you attracted to her? Do you want to date her ? Idk why your asking us what you should do
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:40 PM
13

Nothing wrong with this, it’s actually good preselection and creates competition anxiety. Just continue as normal and ignore the bitchiness from her if she gets mad at you
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:39 PM
33

Don’t lie, say “no”. If your frame is strong enough you’ll be able to easily switch the convo after
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:35 PM
3

Life isn’t unfair, life is how you see it. Simple as that. If you constantly compared what you have to others and if that’s the metric by which you rate how fulfilling a life is then of course your going to be in this hole that you dug. Wanna here something kinda wild.... I grew up rich. Like really really rich, and I’m not saying that to brag or anything like that, but I want to show you something I figured out quite early. And that is.... money doesn’t make you happy. I know you’ve heard it be…
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:33 PM
1

This is one of the things that took me the longest to identify and correct the problem I had. I knew I had a problem to fix but I couldn’t quite figure out what it was but the symptom of the problem is exactly what you are describing, feeling not enough when I’m around guys of higher smv, especially when with a girl I’m with. What I realized is that this problem is a result of a deep insecurity within me. I’ve held that insecurity my whole life, not feeling enough. And I would have the same reac…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 10:25 PM
4

I’d take a good guess and say the dudes here that whine and complain about women and call people “beta bluepilled sjw cuck” are guys that mentally masturbate to red pill content and don’t actually do anything to change their lives. So they must make fun of others to feel better. A guy truely in his purpose doesn’t have time to give a shit about what everyone else is doing.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 10:04 PM
6

None. Absolutely no benefits of marriage for a man. Women get all the benefits.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:12 PM
2

Doesn’t sound like you actually want an ltr, maybe I’m wrong but that’s what it seems like, so why would you consider an ltr if you don’t truely want one ? What I would do if I were you is go for the fwb route. But something very important to note here is that I wouldn’t have any type of “the talk” with her about it. Just keep fucking her and enjoying your time with her while it lasts.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:11 PM
1

There’s no “how to get fearless” shortcut. You must grab yourself by the sack and go approach girls and talk to people to get better. It’s kind of a feedback loop where you gain fearlessness inch by inch everytime you do something that requires fearlessness. So the more you do things that make you fearful, the more fearlessness you will get. So to start this loop you MUST push yourself out there and put yourself in tons of uncomfortable social situations. Once you start getting some fearlessness…
/r/askTRP04/01/21 06:06 PM
2

Ya fuck that guy lol he’s talking bullshit that he doesn’t live on camera for money
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:31 AM
11

Yes your dad gave you good advice. Next time make that decision for yourself
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:13 AM
3

Dude..... why would you even consider this girl for an ltr? Plate at the very most
/r/askTRP04/01/21 01:10 AM
7

The only way to lose weight is to be in a caloric deficit. That’s it. That’s the ONLY way. You must eat less calories than your body burns in a day. I’d recommend my fitness pal to determine the amount of calories you need to eat and then you can track your caloric intake on it
/r/askTRP03/01/21 09:29 PM
9

Yeah it’s probably part of the betafication process that girls do with an alpha they are dating. They pry and pry and dig and dig into your mind to try to find your insecurities and fears, just to use them against you to put you in the beta spot My guess would be these girls’ ego is invested in their ability to make alphas into betas, and when she can’t do it then she hates it
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:52 PM
5

Your not alone, after I found trp I had this phase as well, I think they call it the “depression phase” of swallowing the red pill. But don’t worry, your brain just takes some time to adjust cause it has to switch what it derives it’s happiness and fulfillment from. It must switch from finding its happiness/fulfillment in women and relationships to finding its fulfillment in being on a life’s purpose and also doing all the other shit you love that isn’t women. So other stuff like, making new fri…
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:48 PM
8

A lot of things in life are hard, and the best things in life are achieved by doing something hard first. And if you can’t stay hard then either stop watching porn or find hotter bitches
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:42 PM
1

Eh I don’t like that example too much and here’s why.... what if your a complete prick but you never know it because you only keep friends that see you as you see yourself. Sounds like narcissistic supplier friends if you ask me. I’d rather have friends that are fun to be around, loyal, and have the balls to speak up and tell him if I’m acting like a prick or too much of an asshole But if your ego is that fragile that you need constant praise from your friends then god bless ya my man
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:38 PM
1

It’s the info about the red pill, go read it
/r/askTRP03/01/21 05:36 PM
2

I kind get what your saying, but what examples could you give of things that “enhance your frame” and things that don’t ?
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:40 PM
10

Red pill you??? Here’s your first red pill.... there’s no shortcuts in life, go read the sidebar and the rational male
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:33 PM
6

I wouldn’t say that that’s just a characteristic of narcissistic people, eliminating the things out of your life that cause more harm than good is healthy
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:32 PM
4

And for your last question, How alpha or beta you are depends on how she’s acting. If she’s acting up and being a bitch, then your alpha self should be there. If she’s acting right, then you can throw in a bit of beta ness/comfort. BUT, you should still be mostly alpha and don’t let her manipulate you.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:48 PM
5

For your first question, yes, the amount of shit tests depend on her attraction level, but it isn’t in the way you probably think it is. If the guy is below her attraction threshold, then she will not shit test him because she has zero desire to fuck him. And shit testing is an indicator of her wanting to fuck, but they have to test the guy first to make sure he’s worth it. If the guy is in the mild- moderate attraction level, then this is where the most shit testing takes place. She wants to fu…
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:46 PM
5

It’s classic female manipulation. They think that if they make him insecure by telling him about other guys that want her, that he will chase her and cater to whatever she wants. Too bad for her, you are a rp man. Don’t let this affect how you interact with her at all, zero. You don’t need her and you aren’t scared to lose her.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:40 PM
1

A good rule to follow is the 3 strikes rule. If you hang out with her 3 times without anything, then you should next her and forget about her. Your time is too valuable to let a girl play you for attention. So to answer your question, set up another time to meet up, and escalate again But ultimately to get a girl to fuck you she needs to be attracted and interested in you. You do this by doing what we do here, display high value, take them off the pedistole, and go for what you want.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:35 PM
10

Next her and don’t look back. That is the only answer here.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:33 PM
1

Sounds like a marketing bullshit dating book, it might be good idk I’ve never read it but really all you need is the rational male and the sidebar and experience irl
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:29 PM
9

Yes, unless you are at level 1000 of not giving a fuck and you just tell them everything and give zero shits about how she’ll respond to it and if she leaves you cause of it
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:20 PM
1

Social interaction is mad important. I’ve always been an introvert so I thought I’d be fine being alone for much more time than normal, I was wrong. Sure I was fine for a month or two, but you literally get depressed from not getting enough social interaction.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:18 PM
2

If there’s one thing I learned that I didn’t expect to learn from finding and implementing trp, it’s that women really aren’t that important at all. So thing about this, why would you place that much importance on them if they don’t even bring that much value/fulfillment to your life ?? Guys that don’t get much pussy think that having a girl is the end all be all of life as a man, it’s not. Men derive much more fulfillment from being on a meaningful purpose in life and doing the hobbies that you…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:13 PM
2

I’m sure everyone here has been in your spot, heartbroken and you know she’s out there probably fucking other dudes and having fun, What you should do is this, delete her off all social media’s that you have, delete her phone number, delete all the pics you have with her. When there’s nothing to remind you of her you’ll get over her quicker. It will still suck, no doubt, but that will help the sucking to end faster. Also there are a few very important things you should do during this time. Since…
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:08 PM
3

There is no red pill end goal that we all share, your end goal is YOURS, go for what you want. If you want a family then there’s nothing wrong with that, just keep rp principals in mind so you don’t get fucked over somehow
/r/askTRP01/01/21 06:03 PM
7

You don’t. She lives way too far away. But if she is in your town again and hits u up first then go for it “Keeping things warm” over text is a somewhat beta thing to do. It subtly shows a lack of confidence on your part that she will want you no matter how often you text. But don’t get me wrong, there’s nothing wrong with having occasional short text convos with plates and such, as long as it isn’t because you think she’ll leave if you don’t
/r/askTRP01/01/21 05:59 PM
1

I’m 5’9 and have no issue with girls. I think most of time, a girl “rejecting” you for your height is a shit test and no always 100% rejection. If you are unaffected by the “rejection” because you don’t give a shit about what she thinks of you and your height, then there’s still a chance she will come back and want to fuck
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:48 PM
1

If she’s doing this, she doesn’t respect you. And if she doesn’t respect you, she isn’t that attracted to you. I’d say break up with her and fix this issue. Spin plates or fwb and learn how to gain respect I’ve heard this here before, “if your her top option then it will not be hard to tell, she will be all over you and will have a great desire to please you”
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:43 PM
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This is the only answer you need. I used to have terrible social skills and social anxiety, now I have pretty good social skills and my social anxiety is near zero now. The only way you achieve this is exposure. You must put yourself in tons and tons of social situations. And make sure it’s all types of social situations, not just ones that are the most comfortable to you. Go sign up for a bunch of job interviews, even if you don’t want the job, interviews are the most uncomfortable social situa…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:41 PM
1

First off, don’t give a fuck about what she thinks of your nut hair, insecurity is the biggest turnoff so it’s better to kill your insecurities. Not saying it is a insecurity of yours, just saying that if it is then you should kill it And honestly, it doesn’t really matter except you need to keep it somewhat trimmed. I’d say most girls don’t go for the giant bush.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:36 PM
-1

Dude move out. Go live where the fun is.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:34 PM
3

Who fucking cares what she thinks after? Your never going to be with her again. Sounds like oneitis for a cluster b bitch.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:33 PM
5

Omg bro. Just fucking break up with her if she’s a pathological lier that doesn’t respect you. Jesus Christ
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:33 PM
3

Don’t live with your girlfriend. You may be new here so I’ll let you know that this is a big no no. Familiarity breeds a massive loss of attraction. How about you go live by your family and tell her she can live wherever she wants but not with you.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 07:31 PM
6

Nice post, a great read for anybody in a ltr or anyone wanting to keep plates around for a while. When you change for her, her respect and attraction goes down significantly
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 08:45 PM
3

Exactly. Some dudes are so oblivious. She isn’t fucking “asexual” she just don’t wanna fuck you anymore. In which case, you dump her because you are a man of options
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:37 PM
1

Currently working on my doctorate in psyc so I can be a clinical psychologist or some other type of occupation that deals with helping people through their mental illnesses
/r/askTRP21/12/20 08:31 PM
4

Just say, I don’t like girls that wear too much makeup. If she respects your opinion and wants you to like her, then she will chill out with it
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:28 PM
4

No. No. No. I personally wouldn’t share any type of mental issues with your ltr. LISTEN UP THO, she will definitely try to get you to open up, to share your darkest thoughts and insecurities with her, and she will do this in a very genuine way, but don’t ducking do it. Nothing good will come from sharing, so why share it ?
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:24 PM
9

Old me was exactly like this. Before finding trp I had bad social anxiety but I was a conventionally good looking guy, so honestly it felt horrible knowing that it isn’t my looks that is pushing girls away, it was my personality and insecurities. And guess what my friend, I got completely rid of it. To kill your social anxiety you must do exposure therapy, as with any type of anxiety. Go put yourself in as many uncomfortable social situations as possible. The more you avoid these situations, the…
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:23 PM
1

Just cause it’s diagnosed, doesn’t mean it isn’t something you can change. It also doesn’t mean it’s something that you just happened to get, it came from a deep insecurity within you that just grew and grew and grew. I know we sound like circle-jerking alpha wannabes but I can assure you one thing, the advice on this sub works. I had moderately-to severely bad depression at the time I found this sub. After reading a bunch of stuff here I realize that my depression stemmed from me being a pussy …
/r/askTRP21/12/20 05:18 PM
0

How are you going to come to this sub and bitch, moan, and complain about shit when you haven’t even started lifting ???? Cmon now, go get in the gym, it will build more confidence than therapy, surgery, and whatever else combined. I guarantee it
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:54 PM
3

Rap in general is sort of rp. Unless it’s some sappy drake shit. First one that came to mind was lil Wayne. “Mona Lisa” and tons of his other songs are loaded with little red pill truths
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:51 PM
2

If there’s nothing you can do about it, then just stop giving a fuck that you have a skin condition and stop giving a fuck about what your smv level is. Guess what.... from the moment you are reading this forward, you are the top dog and any bitch would be blessed to get to hang out with you.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:47 PM
1

Here’s something you need to realize.... TEXT GAME IS NOT A REAL THING. “Text game” falls under the pick up artist type of shit, and the red pill is far from pick up. The difference is that pick up is about little tips and tricks so that you can hopefully bullshit your way into fucking some girls. They are lazy and don’t want to actually make themselves a high value man. The red pill is about actually changing your life, changing yourself into an actually high value man,(an alpha male). Trp is a…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:42 PM
5

Basically u have two choices... First one is, you could just keep here around for just a little longer while you set up your future single life. You’d get sex still, but you run the risk of possibly making your oneitis worse if you have it. But the important part here is that YOU MUST PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE as much as fucking possible and make friends and meet new girls and build a social life. I’m sure you already know that because any smart dude would realize that friends aren’t just going to …
/r/askTRP20/12/20 11:36 PM
2

I usually say something like “oopss” and then you could either jump straight into logistics to set up the next date or nothing after that if u don’t want to see her. The usual rule is 3 times with no sex or anything and I’m out, but you could give her a fourth try if you think it’s close
/r/askTRP19/12/20 08:00 PM
1

Dude your not fucking special. You aren’t special enough be a exception for the rules and shit we say here Don’t dig through the trash. And if you have oneitis, it’s better to just move on
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:42 PM
1

What you did was perfect, just move on from the bitchy entitled women and find someone that’s actually interested Or you could pressure flip and say, “nahhh, you buy me a drink” with a smirk
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:40 PM
2

It’s probably from the past porn addiction. That shit can fuck with your libido like crazy, especially when you start with the weird fetishes. It’s like a drug, the higher you raise your tolerance to being turned on by watching weirder and weirder types of porn, the harder it is to have a libido with somewhat normal sex. I’d say you have two options Give it more time for your brain to go back to normal Or go tell your doc you have bad Ed and get some cialis
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:38 PM
1

No mf, they aren’t attracted to the “weird” old men. If your charming and masculine, there will be no problem pulling younger girls. (Obviously 18+ for the spergs out there)
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:33 PM
2

Just say, “just moved in here” or “I’m constantly on the move so I don’t buy a lot” Just invite her over and if she seems creeped out for some reason, which she prob won’t, then say something like above
/r/askTRP19/12/20 04:32 PM
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I’d say no-go You don’t want your business to get fucked over somehow just cause you were horny. And guess what.... there are tons of other girls out there that don’t work for you
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:57 PM
1

I dated many many girls before I found trp, I was able to do that because I’m a naturally attractive guy. But after 1 and 1/2 months, they would always dump me like clockwork. And I can assure you they were not even majority bpd girls, maybe one or two, but most were somewhat sane people. I can also assure you this, the red pill works. It works on girls regardless if they have some mental issue or not And hell, I’m not gunna sit here and tell you it’s definitely not an echo chamber on this sub, …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:54 PM
2

There’s something to be said about posts like this on this sub, long ass posts about your one particular girl, Most likely a case of oneitis like you said. I’d think about this before you go hang out w her, you don’t want the oneitis to get worse. But if you want to, then stop overthinking and follow the plan. Ask her out, be your charming self and escalate
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:51 PM
3

Does her friendship bring any value to your life ? If yes then just treat her as a friend, there’s nothing wrong with having female friends even though I prefer not to have any. If she doesn’t then stop associating/talking to her
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:47 PM
1

Btw, you forgot lifting more as one of your goals But A few of my 2020 achievements would be: learning to be more comfortable being alone. I feel like this is a trait of an alpha male that doesn’t get talked about enough here. Alphas MUST be able to be alone instead of feeling like they need girls and people around them 24/7 for validation. I’m not saying I didn’t fuck any girls or made any friends, Covid simply made it more difficult so many of us were forced to spend much more time alone than …
/r/askTRP18/12/20 05:43 PM
3

What I’d do is, Id finish med school strong then take a months after to travel and reset
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:21 PM
1

Weren’t interested enough Keep increasing your smv and approaching The more you approach, the more you’ll figure out what works
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:05 PM
4

Here’s my general rule, if I don’t get anything after the 3rd time hanging out with her then I hard next. If you think she’s just toying with you then I wouldn’t agree to go If it’s been 2 or less times that y’all have hung out and you think she’s actually a little interested, then go and be dominant and escalate
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:20 PM
3

Don’t be friends, there’s ABSOLUTELY ZERO reason to remain friends The only reason she wants to do this is so she can’t get confirmation that your not doing as good as her. And even if your doing better than her, there’s no need to prove it, needing validation is for beta males
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:17 PM
2

Resolution are for lazy people to tell themselves they are going to change but ditch it after a few weeks Changes that need to be made to your life need to be made right this moment and not on Jan 1
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:14 PM
9

Your overthinking my man, unless your dick has little Spider-Man razor blades all over it then it won’t break
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:13 PM
5

I get what you mean, I feel like once you really get the red pill and become experienced, then all gaming really is is you applying certain logical steps to get in her pants. But if it isn’t exciting to you anymore then do other shit with your time, especially getting on your purpose in life
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:12 PM
20

Just a thought but, maybe wearing a condom will take care of both of these things
/r/askTRP17/12/20 05:07 PM
5

I’m sorry about that man, I can’t relate but I’m sure that sucks fucking terribly And there’s nothing wrong with crying about this
/r/askTRP17/12/20 03:11 AM
3

Depends on how good the hypothetical ltr is acting Is she acting in a way that displeases you ?? Then up the dread, I wouldn’t overtly tell the girl your flirting with that y’all should hang out, but you should charm her and make her interested enough to we’re your ltr can visibly tell that you can pull other girls at the drop of a hat. Or is this acting right ? Then just do very very subtle dread just to show her that your perfectly capable of talking to and charm other girls by just having a n…
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:25 PM
1

Maybe you could ask them? Just a thought lol
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:21 PM
4

Dude come on, why did you even have to ask this question?? Hard next.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:19 PM
4

Feel the pain, don’t avoid it. Let it come over you like a cloud and embrace it. When you don’t give the sad feelings power by trying to avoid them two things will happen: 1) they will be less intense ime. 2) the time it will take for you to get over you will shorten significantly. This is the most manly thing you can do, confront your emotions head on with no fear. The beta will run away from them, the alpha confronts them
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:17 PM
6

Just be the leader, be the alpha and do what you want to do. BUT obviously, don’t be a sperg and if she actually doesn’t want to just back off. Just don’t be a rapey sperg, which won’t happen usually if she is really into you
/r/askTRP16/12/20 08:14 PM
3

And for your last question, your attention should consist of you being with her and talking to her. What you shouldn’t do is validate her, complement her, or any other generally beta things like that.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:37 PM
2

Idk maybe invite her to your place lol or is that not an option ?
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:35 PM
1

Get on your purpose in life. When it comes to attaining an abundance mentality, yeah sure you can get it by fucking tons of girls, but... I think a stronger and more genuine abundance mentality comes from having a purpose in your life that you love working toward. This allows you to be fully self sufficient when it comes to getting your validation and fulfillment. You will get your validation/fulfillment from your purpose and not women, which gets rid of oneitis and gives you abundance
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:32 PM
5

The general rule is the 2/3 rule, you give 2 to every thing 3 gives. She texts 3 times, you text no more than 2. This goes for attention and affection also But, the texting comes later on, for girls you just met and plates, you text for logistics only. Logistics is you setting up a time to meet up together, then you stop texting once that’s done, that’s we’re the advantages of ignoring her come in. Also, since attention is so valuable to a women, you can use it to “train” her. Withdrawl your att…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 08:26 PM
1

Yeah I’m pretty sure most of the archived posts are on trp.red also
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:47 PM
1

I’d probably either say “nah” or “mad that you aren’t here sucking my cock” depending on if you want her over soon or not
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:45 PM
7

The other people here may say it doesn’t apply, but I think it does because of this one reason... I’ve found that trp principals work in most aspects of life and with most people in general. People want what they can’t have. People want to be around people of higher value than them. And despite feminism, the archetypal alpha male is still portrayed very often in movies and people still look up to and admire the alpha
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:43 PM
7

Stop giving a fuck about what other people are doing So what if girls/other people lie??? Your a man of high value that has standards. You stop associating with somebody the second you suspect they are full of shit. Or you lie better and win the game like a sociopath
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:39 PM
2

Bro......just go for your fucking run I’m assuming your new here, so here’s a few things you should try to develop that deal with this. Abundance mentality, the basis of it is that you don’t care about one particular girl flaking on you or not wanting you, because you know for a fact that you can pull two more like that Outcome independence, this naturally comes to you right after you reach a true abundance mentality. Outcome independence is what it sounds like, you don’t seek a specific reactio…
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:36 PM
2

Hahaha that’s tough
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:07 AM
2

Fuck everyone else and go get what you want Alphas don’t give a fuck about what people think about them
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:04 AM
1

Something very important to realize here is that you need to get your shit figured out before women, because your mental health is important and women sure as hell won’t fix it. Another reason to fix this first is that, from what I’ve seen, men with depression and anxiety are much easier for a women to manipulate
/r/askTRP15/12/20 02:01 AM
1

What if my brother had a vagina, then he’d be my sister
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:53 AM
4

Wtf, go read the goddamn sidebar
/r/askTRP15/12/20 01:50 AM
1

My thoughts also
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:42 PM
1

One of you is probably just not into the other as you once were at the beginning. If you lost interest in fucking her then break the plate off or just stop inviting her places
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:42 PM
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Yes and no, Yes, a solid masculine frame will get you tons of girls and frame is probably the most important part of game But no, because if you are adopting AMS’s exact idea of a masculine frame, then you are most likely doing it just to get girls. What I think you should do is, Do exactly what you want when you want, and say what you want when you want. And if you have adequate testosterone, the feeling of dominance that will come from the feeling that you can do and say whatever you want, wil…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:39 PM
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Ya I feel like 80-90% of the wuestions here could be answered by, “go actually read the sidebar my man.”
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:35 PM
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Great idea
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:34 PM
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It could be a variety of things but my guess is it’s her dread game, in the form of a mind game. But the important thing to realize here is your girl should not be able to throw you off in any way, that is the essence of a solid frame that we talk about here. So in order words, don’t be afraid to lose her, don’t think too much about what she’s trying to pull on you, get on your purpose so you get your validation and fulfillment from your purpose and not women, that is how the most solid frames a…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:32 PM
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Grow a pair and work harder Something that has helped me be more productive is writing a planner. At the beginning of each week, write down exactly what you need to do on specific days. The key here is to actually fucking do everything you wrote down on the exact day you are supposed to do it
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:28 PM
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Personally, I’ve never been to Brazil but I’ve heard that it’s cheap, plenty of fun shit to do, and there are a lot of sexy bitches
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:26 PM
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Develope a solid abundance mentality, stop giving a fuck about what people think of you, and develope outcome independence. Those 3 things are the absolute most important things when it comes to getting women, along with a solid frame which all 3 of these fall under. Along with that there’s a small thing I do that puts me in that charming and charismatic state. Whenever I look at a girl I’m going for, I just imagine myself blowing her back out while she calls me daddy, shit works
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:24 PM
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Thailand, Vietnam, Iceland, Norway, Brazil are all places that came to mind For the scuba and whale stuff, Vietnam and Thailand, Brazil, and Iceland for just whales For cheapness, Vietnam, Thailand and Brazil. I’ve been to Iceland and it’s expensive as fuck
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:20 PM
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Nah nothing really you can do except try one last time to prove your more qualified some how. But let’s thank feminism and social justice for actively pushing for more discrimination, cause if it’s discrimination against men it’s perfectly okay, but god forbid someone discriminates against someone that isn’t a man lol, it’s fucked
/r/askTRP14/12/20 06:18 PM
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Because girls want a natural alpha, it’s literally built into them to want a natural alpha the most as a sexual mate Indirectly or directly telling girls about how hard you work to be high value shows them you in fact aren’t a natural alpha I think I remember there is one law in the “48 Laws of Power,” that says something like “make it seem effortless
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:12 PM
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You can pm me Btw where do y’all live? it would be cool af to meet up with some of the fuckers on here irl
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:09 PM
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Stop using this online dating as a buffer against your fear of talking with random people irl. You don’t develope any social skills by texting a girl online
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:08 PM
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So many guys here don’t understand this, the red pill is not about little tips and tricks like this, it’s about actually becoming a man of high value so women naturally gravitate toward you due to hypergamy Do you think an alpha sits around thinking he fucked up because he double texted once ?? No. The alpha doesn’t give a shit that he double texted because he has abundance and doesn’t give a fuck if the girl gets creeped out or runs away due to the double text
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:04 PM
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Making fun of others usually comes from a place of insecurity ya know
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:01 PM
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How many girls have you approached in the past month? How many times have you just stroked up a convo with that hot check-out girl at the grocery store?? I am saying this because, your “social retardation” came to be because you weren’t social enough as a child and through today. If you aren’t putting yourself in tons of social situations, then your social retardation will never go away
/r/askTRP13/12/20 05:00 PM
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Wake up and hour and half earlier than you usually do, and go get the training in Good luck brotha
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:57 PM
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I see this happen very often if the girl’s boyfriend is a masculine high value guy. They do it because they want him also, and if the others can’t have him, then the gf shouldn’t either. It’s kinda fucked how terrible friends girls can be to each other. But this also happens when the guy has a lower smv than her. In that case, the friends amplify the hypergamous nature of the gf
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:55 PM
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For one, I would’ve talked to the guy and asked to work in with him, because if your cool and just ask them I bet he would’ve let you work in. And this is kind of a big problem, being too emotional, especially crying, is a big turn off to women and makes you seem like a pussy. Honestly what I would do if I were you I’d start training some type of martial art. Get hit in the face, it’s good for ya character as a man. It will train you to take whatever is thrown at you and not become emotional. Pl…
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:51 PM
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First off, make sure you stay on the grind of lifting, eating right, and generally staying away from bad habits like video games and porn, because if you have too much free time, you could just say “fuck it, I’m bored” and go do those things. As far as other stuff to fill your time, it seems like you already are, but you need to stay on your purpose in life. Other than that, just do the things you love doing. Hang with the bros, get good at golf, fight mma, whatever else you like doing
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:46 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to others, it will do nothing but waste your mental energy. Alphas don’t compare themselves to other, they just know they are the shit And also you need to realize that just because someone seems happy and carefree on the outside doesn’t mean that they are actually happy and carefree
/r/askTRP13/12/20 04:42 PM
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Ghost him. You don’t owe him shit, not a reply and definitely not a fight. Not saying to be a bitch, but honestly, most fights aren’t worth it. But obviously if he confronts you in person then don’t back down. Ideally, you just want to Amog him and save your energy instead of fighting, but if he swings on you, kick his ass
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:42 PM
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So if I read that right, your asking about people that simply waste your time?? Or do you also mean people that seek out confrontation for some reason ?? If it’s just for wasting your time, just be aware and not gullible. If you sense that somebody has bad intentions or is wasting your time, then just make the decision to not associate with them anymore. You do not owe anyone your time, you choose to give your time to certain people.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 06:39 PM
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You didn’t say that in your post. And no, that is definitely not small shit, especially since she’s an ltr If she was just one of many plates it would definitely be small shit and not worth thinking about
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:32 PM
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Then dump her bro, have some standards That is straight up disrespectful
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:29 PM
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Go read the fucking sidebar my man, and if you already have, go read it again You are far too worried about small shit
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:23 PM
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A very important realization that unfortunately, most people come to too late. This is one of the realizations I also had after finding trp, but you really don’t even need trp to come to this realization. This realization plus there was a post on the main sub a while ago that was called something like, “The guide to accepting yourself,” those two things helped me get rid of almost all the fear I had to approach and talk to women. But lastly and most importantly, you MUST take this to heart and a…
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:12 PM
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Classic narcissism. Basically narcissists need constant validation and admiration to feel good about themselves.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:18 PM
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People build a completely different persona on social media than what they actually are like in real life. They try to seem happy and that they do cool stuff 24/7, when in reality most people have boring lives and aren’t happy
/r/askTRP10/12/20 05:54 PM
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I grew up with a very similar personality to you. As a toddler up until I was like 6, I clung to my mom in every social situation I was in and never said anything. I wasn’t the kid to go make friends, they would have to come to me first. I was insanely shy as a kid. Then came video games, from 12-18 I was addicted as fuck to video games. I think because it allowed me to escape the reality that I had no friends and greatly lacked social skills. I got to my first year away from home at college and…
/r/askTRP10/12/20 05:46 PM
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He’d have to have insane game to pull
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:57 PM
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It’s water retention from the creatine or it’s far from the caloric surplus
/r/askTRP09/12/20 08:55 PM
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The majority of guys here don’t get this one crucial point.....trp is not about tactics and tricks to get girls, it’s about actually becoming a man of high value that doesn’t need to even think about little tricks like this when he’s gaming, it’s just natural. If your friend is free and wants to go fuck her brains out, then let him. There’s no need to play games The guy with the correct mindsets doesn’t need to play games because he could literally give zero fucks about a single particular girl …
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:53 PM
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Don’t call yourself a bitch bro, wtf is that about No wonder your becoming soft with her, you don’t have the right mindset to be successful in an ltr.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:50 PM
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You prob don’t run game good enough. Not enough teasing, zero negs, and no seductively or masculinity in your voice when you talk.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:48 PM
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Because most guys think that they deserve a girl of equal attractiveness even though they may be spending their days playing video games, jacking off, and just generally not being on a purpose of any kind And then they get mad that girls don’t want them, but it’s like, what do you expect ??? Your life is boring and unattractive
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:45 PM
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Number one, be intelligent and don’t be unintelligent Number two, live cheap as fuck and save save save Number three, put your purpose far above women because they will distract you
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:42 PM
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She’s trying to grab the power and put you in the beta spot. Girls do this when dating, but they especially do it when you guy talk about the idea of exclusivity. Just hold frame, stay on your purpose, keep lifting and don’t be afraid to lose her.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:39 PM
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Smv is more than just appearance, wealth, and occupation. Your forgetting the whole idea of the alpha that we talk about here. An alpha could be a man of any occupation, it’s all about frame and dominance.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:35 PM
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Called it lol
/r/askTRP09/12/20 12:28 AM
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Great post! Like most guys here, I found trp because I wanted to get women and I thought it was solely about how to get women, but I was dead wrong. What finding trp truely did for me was it lead me down a path of focusing on myself and myself only. Improving myself daily, setting goals and reaching them and getting that amazing feeling you get when you reach a goal. It has taught me to be real with myself, so instead of thinking that my ex broke up with me because “it wasn’t the right time in h…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/20 08:39 PM
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1) your smv probably isn’t as high as you think it is. Do you think these girls would reject an opportunity to go on a date with Brad Pitt even during Covid ? 2) I’ve also found that many middle tier girls “get off” to rejecting guys of similar smv. Their egos are boosted by tinder and they want to get some kind of revenge on men because the alphas they meet on tinder pump and dump them
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:29 PM
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She will probably find out cause girls can never shut their mouths. But you can do what you want, if you don’t care about the first girl breaking as a plate then go for it my man
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:23 PM
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Myth, estrogen isn’t bad for men and it won’t lower your test levels because for estrogen to even exist in you it needs to be converted from testosterone to E2. I will probably get downvoted because everyone believes that myth. Trust me tho, ask any dude that takes steriods and is hyper-sensitive to changes in their hormones. Higher estrogen will make you a tad more emotional, but it also boosts strength and your sense of well-being. But the synthetic estrogen in plastics prob is bad for you
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:21 PM
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She’s just very insecure. These types will constantly subtly seek validation from anybody.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 08:18 PM
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You have two options in this situation, either get a new car if you really think it’s that ugly, or stop giving a fuck about what people think
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:00 PM
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This post tells me that you have too much free time and energy that could be spent on chasing your goals and your purpose instead of worrying about something as small as this. Remember this, whoever needs the other less in a relationship has the power. In other words, don’t give a fuck about small shit like this. And if she does leave, who fucking cares ?? You can find another one no problemo
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:55 PM
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Wow she’s thinking while writing a paper, who knew
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:46 PM
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She wants to cheat, it’s your choice on if you want to escalate or not
/r/askTRP06/12/20 02:43 PM
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Holy fuck, god bless this man he’s in for a ride lol
/r/askTRP06/12/20 01:34 AM
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This op. This. How do you have no options ? Just look outside, you have options walking around everywhere
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:34 PM
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Fake it till ya make it my man But something I did when I first found trp and didn’t have any options is this.... Grab a pen and a piece of paper and right down your standards or your “code” for your frame. Examples, “I will NEVER go back to an ex” , “I will never let a girl manipulate me” , “I will never be seen as anything but the girls top option, if I can tell I’m 4th on the list then I will move my efforts elsewhere” Write it and live by it After a while these things will become built in an…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:28 PM
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Have you ever read about frame ? This is what I think your missing, a solid frame. In essence, having a rock solid frame means that you are not effected by the games she plays. Because you know who you are, you know your worth. You know you could find an even better girl at the drop of a hat if this one doesn’t stick around. Also are you on your purpose in life? That right there is the absolute foundation for getting abundance mentality, outcome independence, and an idgaf attitude. And if I were…
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:24 PM
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Because the betas, (the vast majority of guys), wouldn’t leave a girl just because she is acting a bit slutty. They just don’t have standards like that. And that is why they do it. It works on the vast majority of guys to instill some anxiety in them and get them chasing.
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:19 PM
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Yea
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:17 PM
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Yep this is what I do, it’s just automatic now that I see them as a person that is far below me because they absolutely must paint their face everyday so they has some sort of confidence, as narcissistic as it sounds it def helps
/r/askTRP05/12/20 05:16 PM
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I can understand why you think that, because it takes a while for your thoughts to switch from mostly bluepilled to mostly red pilled. Just understand this, we are men, not today’s type of “men”, but masculine men. Anything that you can learn something from,(like rejection), even if it makes you uncomfortable, even if it makes you embarrassed, it’s a good thing for you as a man. Here’s why, the more you do a certain thing, the less it will affect you. You can think of it kind of like a tolerance…
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:05 PM
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Sure whatever, I’m not a big social media guy but if you are actually gaining some clients or customers from it then keep it up. It’s just that it’s INSANELY easy to get addicted to social media apps, they are literally designed to be addictive
/r/askTRP04/12/20 08:00 PM
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Run. Have you read the sidebar? If I was a betting man, I’d put most of my shit on you haven’t. First off, mental illnesses are always a red flag. Or even just saying you have a mental illness for attention is a red flag. And I think that’s what she’s doing. She may or may not actually be depressed, but she’s manipulating you into the beta position so she’ll get tons of free attention.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:58 PM
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Cause it’s tik tok, now gtfo that app and work on your goals
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:55 PM
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Except rejection is good. It’s actually fucking great. It makes you give way less fucks in the future, it reveals to you what you need to fix in your game, and it’s just great for your character as a man. Women and children set up buffers to not feel rejected or not feel good enough, we as men need to drop all the buffers, and throw yourself into the fire so to speak.
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:52 PM
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Didn’t read all that but I understand the basic gist of your question I’ve commented this before and I think it helps the most with seeing 9s and 10s as just normal people with normal insecurities. The comment was, “Why tf would you be afraid to talk to a person that so insecure that they literally paint their face so that people will like them??”
/r/askTRP04/12/20 07:48 PM
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haha Ive actually used this one and it worked
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:25 PM
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Either don’t reply or say “I’ll see ya on Monday, I’m busy”
/r/askTRP03/12/20 08:13 PM
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Just talk business and get straight to the point with them, cause this is how you make money and feed yourself. It’s not worth getting fired just to satisfy your own ego for a bit But definitely don’t let them walk all over you
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:34 PM
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Have you ever heard of AAA?? Always Assume Attraction. Don’t waste your hamsters energy trying to decipher what she means with her eyes, just go after what you want when you see something you want
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:31 PM
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If I understand this right, you mean a place where there’s much more men than women?? If so, the same rules of the sexual marketplace still apply. Be in the top 10-5% of the men smv wise. Which honestly isn’t that hard considering most guys nowadays are fat and lazy simps that would kill for a 5 to such his dick
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:28 PM
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don’t shit where you eat! Have you forgot the basics ? And to answer your question, all you should change is not coming across as too much of a player. Because Christian conservative girls are taught their whole life to stay away from players and bad boys, even though some still go for them anyways. I know cause I grew up going to a strict southern Christian school/church
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:25 PM
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I think this is a case we’re your trying to hard to see the red pill in the real world, she could’ve just been too stupid to realize you only need to scan one. But who knows, she may have been interested, but I can’t tell you for sure cause I wasn’t there
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:22 PM
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It’s not really her catching feelings for you It’s her trying to put you in the beta position. Basically, she’s baiting you into supplying free attention to her, which seems to not be working so good job my man. Your response wasn’t horrible and it def did the job but I would have gone with something a little more mysterious and not so in your face about you being a player, because some girls will next you if you come across as too much of a player. I would said something like, “ sure, I know a …
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:20 PM
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I wouldn’t recommend getting back with her, but if you do then you should just not even bring it up. Just proceed as normal AND PLS DONT beg her for forgiveness or anything
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:29 PM
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Ultimately, the decision is yours. Go back to her if you want but take the advice here into account
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:27 PM
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Honestly, yes you are “Never dig through the trash” is a common saying here. Once your done with them, just move tf on It also signals to her that you don’t have any other good options, which instantly puts you in the beta position and gives her the power
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:24 PM
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First off, go reread the sidebar bro And why the fuck would you still ask her out after she told you all about her mental health issues???? HUGE red flag, especially telling you the first time you talked to her. Over sharing personal things to someone they just met is a sign of the girl being a borderline, which is a huge No-go. Not saying she is bpd, just an observation And yes she probably wasn’t that interested, but remember abundance mentality my man
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:20 PM
1

This right here, I forgot about this point but I remember reading about it somewhere. If a guys low test is directly caused by a zinc/vitamin d/magnesium deficiency, then there test will pop up a good bit
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:15 PM
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It’s all for their fucking ego The ego wouldnt like it as much if she just responded instantly saying she has other plans, her ego wants the guy to text again because he thinks she didn’t get it, her ego wants the guy to chase and chase and chase. All so they get a little ego and confidence boost
/r/askTRP02/12/20 04:12 PM
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“Im lookin to find the right one” and don’t say anything else
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:19 AM
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Dominance and they are exciting
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:14 AM
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No they aren’t, they will boost test by very very little if any at all
/r/askTRP02/12/20 12:12 AM
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You don’t do this “get into character” bs You should be the “character”
/r/askTRP01/12/20 07:48 PM
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Guess what..... you are now that super social guy. That guy that geneuinely like talking to people and getting to know them, because that is the quickest way to make friends. So, you just need to talk to tons of people, where ever you go you chat it up with some random dudes at the bar, go talk to some of the dudes in your gym AFTER your workout is done.
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:41 PM
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Sidebar. And the posts of the main sub, “How to get laid like a warlord”, and “how to manage your bitches”
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:36 PM
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How about you go for girls that ARENT in your class. For two reasons, one, you already have a reputation built. Idk what your reputation is because I’m not part of that social circle. It could be bad like your weird and pushy with girls that don’t like you or it could be good, like your a bad boy Two, it seems to not be working out to well for you in the girl classmates department, so why don’t you accept that and focus your effort elsewhere
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:33 PM
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Your not “forcing” anything, that sir would be assault. What your doing is just living in present so you can better understand what’s going through her mind. But yes, you still make the first move, if that’s what you mean by forcing In my experience, my game got like twice as good when I figured out how to loving fully in the moment. Awkwardness goes way down, overthinking stops, and you kiss/escalate in a much more natural way
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:29 PM
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Don’t think about what your doing, don’t think about where your going to put your hands or anything like that. That is how you do it awkwardly It may sound like a mom saying but it’s true in this case, “live in the moment” Once you reach being fully in the moment, your overthinking will stop, and most importantly you will literally be able to feel when and how she wants to be kissed
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:23 PM
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First off, it sounds like you do a bit of overthinking. I understand because overthinking was the beta trait that took me the longest to get rid of cause I’ve always been that way. Overthinking can ruin your game and make you seem unconfident. What I suggest you do is this, firstly, you need to be able to read the girl and tell if she’s into you or just wants the date to end. If she’s into you I guarantee she won’t reject your kids unless you do it very awkwardly. So when you can tell she wants …
/r/askTRP01/12/20 04:19 PM
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Frame is a very important part of the social dominance hierarchy. And it is definitely a huge part of being sexually attractive to girls
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:49 PM
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All three are true to some extent. Frame is very very important for effortlessly picking up girls. But, just because a guy has a very solid frame doesn’t always mean he will be able to fuck 8s and 9s, because there are some naturally ugly ass mfs out there. It’s more like a combination of both frame and looks. The more rock solid a guys frame is, the uglier he can be and still fuck the same girls as a guy that’s better looking but had a weaker frame
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:48 PM
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Honestly, fuck you Putting pussy over your homies, what a fucking simp
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:43 PM
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For one, this “neediness” is usually an attempt to bait you into beta-ness in the relationship Secondly, you could either find a girl that doesn’t annoy you, or, (the option that I think would be best for you), is to just spin plates. That way you won’t have to supply any extra attention or even care that she’s begging for attention.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:41 PM
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Technically yeah, you are improving yourself
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:37 PM
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Okay maybe not the perfect trp example but it was just to show what I mean by shared experiences. It’s like guys that go to war together, they say that they will never have another bond that even comes close to how close those guys are that fight side by side
/r/askTRP30/11/20 03:34 PM
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Idk for sure but always be real with yourself. If you actually do still have some oneitis toward her then accept it and work on fixing it
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:16 AM
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Dude, since I don’t know how ugly you really are I will give you two pieces of advice Either 1) you aren’t actually that ugly, you just have a “woe is me” mindset, that means basically you think super fucking negative about yourself and you situation. In that case, keep grinding like fuck to increase your smv, build up your confidence, and work the numbers game. Or 2) you actually are just a naturally ugly mf. In that case, you could still probably pull some type of girl, even if she’s ugly. BUT…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:14 AM
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Keep increasing your smv, and stop thinking about giving up at the first sign of resistance. Lift, get shredded, and fix your diet if it sucks. Keep getting experience in real life, yes you will get rejected a lot but that is what makes you better and shows you what you need to fix. And most importantly, get on your purpose in life. If you are chasing a purpose in life that you genuinely love, then you’ll give so many less fucks about stuff like this because your validation and happiness will co…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:08 AM
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I think the two most important in this case are being funny and gaining shared experiences with people Being funny and fun to be around will draw people to you without you even trying, AS LONG AS you are doing it because you genuinely like making people laugh, NOT because you are doing it to seek validation because they will be able to tell and you will come off as a try hard trying to fit in. And once you draw people in, having shared experiences with those people builds a connection. Examples …
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:02 AM
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One, lose this “I can’t find another like her” bullshit ass mindset. If you think like that then yeah you won’t find one because you have no confidence. So most importantly, fix that confidence issue. And really it will just take time without seeing her or hearing from her to lose that attachment and get her out of your head.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:56 PM
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Bro move the fuck on I’m sure some guys here will say it’s fine to plate your ex but I genuinely think that it’s a bad idea in most cases. But to answer your question, it depends how fast and how deeply you as a person can build an emotional connection with somebody. Extroverts are generally better at this, invtroverts generally take time to build a connection with others
/r/askTRP29/11/20 11:51 PM
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Real world experience It’s by far the most effective way to get trp down in the shortest amount of time. You can read articles till you pass out in your desk chair but that will only marginally affect the results you get w women. You must do both, read some of trp then throw yourself out there and get rejected a ton, learn from your mistakes, and improve
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:34 PM
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Too many words about one particular girl, a classic case of oneitis. And did you forget, don’t fucking mess around with girls that you work with unless you give zero fucks about losing the job.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 04:26 PM
7

Patrice O’Neil, Bill Burr, and Dave Chappelle
/r/askTRP25/11/20 08:14 PM
7

Who knew staying in your room 24/7 for 8 months would make you an anxious socially awkward lad? That’s why the part of trp I disagree with is monk mode. It’s just a buffer against rejection, because there is not a “right time” to start meeting new women, it’s as soon as possible because experience is the best teacher. I’d suggest you move out ASAP. And who cares if your scared of being out there on your own? That is how you kill those fears and actually become a man and improve.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:23 PM
1

Self awareness At least you know you have a problem, so now you need to keep yourself in check to fix it. I’d recommend writing stuff down. Write a plan for everyday with certain times to get certain stuff done so you don’t get lost in playing a video game.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 05:13 PM
5

If you truely don’t enjoy sex and you don’t think you ever will then as much as I don’t like the idea of it, going Mgtow might be the best option.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:14 PM
1

I don’t think your quite grasping what I’m trying to say. If your on your purpose, a purpose that you genuinely love, then you will have abundance even with no options But flirting is really just about charm, girls flirt and men are charming and tease. Be confident in yourself, you can fake it at first but that often is easy to see through, so you need to work on being truely confident in yourself, in who you are, and every move you make.
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:10 PM
2

I’d say this theory is fairly true Just from what I’ve noticed throughout my life, guys that grew up in a single mother household ( like myself lol) are often very feminine and beta. But just because a son has a good relationship with his father doesn’t necessarily mean that he will be masculine as hell. It really just depends on how masculine the father is, if he’s a feminine man without a spine then the son will likely be the same when he gets older. But a very masculine/alpha father figure al…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 05:07 PM
4

I know that you shouldn’t say that word in almost context if you aren’t black, but you should’ve either held a solid frame and stayed confident in what you said or don’t say it at all
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:58 PM
4

You don’t worry about obedience and shit like that with plates You simply keep railing her until she breaks, aka not accepting invites to hang out anymore. Sure you could throw out one last offer to hang out, but w two flakes it seems your turn is over
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:54 PM
3

Seems to be a long post about one single particular girl..... what does that mean?? Oneitis. At least you realize you fell back into a scarcity mindset. But do you know why you did? I’m going to take a good guess and say that you didn’t actually change your life circumstance to reach that abundance you thought you had, you just brainwashed yourself into thinking you have abundance. You need to actually do the work to build your abundance mentality. Getting on your purpose is the most important p…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 04:51 PM
1

The FeELzZ are the heroin of the female species
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:13 PM
0

A joke that’s not really a joke haha
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:11 PM
6

No, tinder is a shit show in terms of the hypergamy Like 90-95% of the girls go for the top 5% of the guys. That’s why I’ve never downloaded tinder plus the women are generally more damaged on there.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:04 PM
1

“JUST DO IT” -Shia lebouf
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:02 PM
1

I’d say yes most of the time that is true Guys fall in “love” with a girl for who she is plus the ass she provides Women fall in “love” with a guy for the roller coaster of emotions he gives her, what he provides, and his dick giving abilities
/r/askTRP23/11/20 09:01 PM
1

Such broad terms and such a broad conversation that has blue pilled written all over it. You don’t try to negotiate attraction and interest with a women
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:55 PM
1

Get off fucking whatsapp and stop giving a shit about her leaving you on read. Get busy on your purpose. Texting is for logistics. Text her when you want to ask her to do something with you and that’s it. If she says yes then she’s interested, if she says literally anything else then she’s not and you should move on.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 08:53 PM
1

With what attitude is she mentioning other guys? Cause I’m envisioning her saying it in a narcissist bitchy tone. It could be completely different but if she’s doing it in the way I said, then she’s doing it because her ego is hurt that you aren’t dying to get into an exclusive relationship with her, and because I’ve found that when you argue with a girl, they never let it go. What I’d do is assume she’s fucking other dudes and treat your relationship with her accordingly. She doesn’t get to spe…
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:49 PM
3

Read “No more mr nice guy” I think that describes this situation to a t
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:37 PM
1

So does it raised cortisol or lower it? And how does each affect test levels
/r/askTRP23/11/20 04:34 PM
1

I started long distance running for cardio and this is definitely another positive side effect from it. You almost feel drunk after a hard 7 mile run we’re you push your pace
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:33 AM
7

This isn’t mgtow and I have no clue what your asking
/r/askTRP23/11/20 12:21 AM
2

Do you talk to people? Are you outgoing and like talking to people ? If you aren’t very social then why do you expect to be invited to everything even though you don’t make the effort to become close friends with people. Maybe I’m wrong, maybe it’s because of another reason I also struggled with this for a while and I realized I wasn’t “weird” or not fun to be around, I was only those things because I had that self-defeating belief about myself so I decided to become that guy that actually likes…
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:29 PM
3

Calm down ego, I know it feels good but she’s probably joking
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:22 PM
1

Never bought one but I bet it depends on how expensive she is
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:21 PM
4

What # date was this with this particular girl ? If it’s the very first then I’d say maybe she just has never done anything with a guy on the first date But my gut tells me it’s because she just didn’t feel the “tingles/feelz” when with you
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:16 PM
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Even though it seems like it to you, nothing is wrong here. I have a long time fwb that is the same way, I think it’s just how the really feminine girls are Remember, girls are more afraid of rejection than guys are. As long as she doesn’t start denying your moves then your doin just fine bro
/r/askTRP22/11/20 06:10 PM
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Stop overthinking Realize that rejection is better than regret. That nagging feeling of regretting not even trying to go for the kiss is much worse than rejection There’s no special “next move”, just ask her out somewhere and don’t puss out this time
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:08 PM
3

He probably took your “position” because you care way too much about your position in your group and people can sense that insecurity Just focus on having fun and enjoying being with the people in your friend group but also know when to stand up for yourself if someone is directly disrespectful
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:04 PM
3

It’s not “going through the roof” You just feel the pent up horniness that has accumulated from not watchin porn and jacking off Your actually test levels probably did go up by just a little bit but not a lot
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:07 PM
1

It’s either that’s just a weird turn on for her and it’s not at all about being dominant or she gets off to it because she sees it as her being dominant because you don’t like it
/r/askTRP21/11/20 04:05 PM
1

Yeah there’s really nothing you can do about it so why be angry or depressed about the nature of women and the world.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 03:56 PM
7

You may be her top option right now, but that doesn’t guarantee you’ll always be her top option. But that’s a good mentality to have, you are the prize
/r/askTRP20/11/20 09:27 PM
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DO NOT try to find this lack of emotional connection and your need for being genuinely loved from women. Trying to find that in a women is a fast way to become a super needy beta Instead, you can find it in two other places. The first being male friends. I promise you, having strong bonds with some male friends is very underrated on this sub. It makes you less needy, happier, and gives you people to talk to about your troubles in life. The second is finding it through your purpose in life. A man…
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:15 PM
2

Yeah I should’ve pointed that out, instilling discipline in a child doesn’t necessarily mean he will be an alpha, that’s just what I’ve noticed from how a natural alpha’s father raised him The alpha ness comes from observing the fathers attitudes and behaviors
/r/askTRP20/11/20 04:08 PM
11

What do u expect, this is the matrix after all
/r/askTRP20/11/20 01:47 AM
6

Stop giving a fuck Stop giving a fuck about being embarrassed, and to do that you have to first stop giving a fuck about what people think of you. You do that by switching where your happiness and validation comes from. Betas get their validation and happiness from being socially accepted and from what others think about them. While an alpha gets his validation and happiness from chasing his goals, from being on his purpose and from lifting and doing other shit you love
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:56 PM
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Here’s what I’ve noticed to be true on this topic, If the dad is a beta, then he will either teach the child to be a beta also or the child will just naturally become one through observing his dad If the dad is an alpha, he will usually teach and discipline the boy in a way that turns him into an alpha also.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:53 PM
4

Discipline. That’s the only way.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:51 PM
2

Yes he’s one of the red pill you tubers that are actually pretty good. Him and AMS are my two favorites
/r/askTRP18/11/20 07:50 PM
38

Why would you help the people that despise you for having money ?
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:22 PM
3

Then stop being friends with him if you don’t like how he acts as a friend. Remember, abundance mentality. It applies to most aspects of life, not just women
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:17 PM
3

Your thinking about confronting your friend because he doesn’t respond to you fast enough on social media ??? Cmon now man, you realize how pathetic that sounds ? Stop using social media and get on your purpose, a high value man that’s on his purpose would give absolutely zero fucks about this
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:15 PM
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You have reached a point in your trp journey that I’d say most of the guys here aren’t even close to, I know cause it took me years and years to get here also. I think once a man truely becomes an alpha, he doesn’t really want to go out and chase ass anymore. Sure, he can with no problem, but the principal of supply and demand applies here as with most aspects of life. The less women a man can get, the more he desires to get lots of women. Once a man has done all of that and fucked plenty of wom…
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:17 AM
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Listen man, you won’t find a girl that is a prepackaged “unicorn,” you just won’t. BUT, if you become an alpha male, hold a solid frame during the whole relationship, and mold her into what you want in a women, then you will have yourself a “unicorn” So focus on self improvement and improving your game and girls will be dying to be your unicorn cause all these other guys are complete pussies
/r/askTRP18/11/20 01:11 AM
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Then you don’t need to play these tricks on women, because you should have abundance given that your on your purpose right ? I know that once I found my purpose in an area that I geneiunly loved, I didn’t give a fuck if a girl stayed with me or left So there’s no reason to play games in the hope that it will make her like you more, because you aren’t scared of her leaving or losing attraction
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:07 PM
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It’s really not impossible, but it is definitely tough to get there But the good thing is, you don’t need to go make millions of dollars or buy a Ferrari to become an alpha, it’s all in your state of mind How do you get to that alpha mindset? You must develope the key sub mindsets that alpha have had since they were kids, dominance, abundance mentality, idgaf attitude, and outcome independence. You develop those by getting on your purpose and lifting weights like an animal. Getting on your purpo…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:01 PM
1

We had a brief period of complete lockdown where I’m from, and I’m not going to lie, it made my depression almost come back What I would do is definitely put a ton of focus on working out with the equipment you have at home. Dial in your diet and write training plans for yourself, and also set weekly or daily goals detailing what lift you want to increase the weight for that day/week. Stay away from drugs and alcohol, lockdown has caused so many addictions and suicides cause of those two things.…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:57 PM
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Dude, I keep saying this but nobody gets it.... Trp is not about little tips and tricks to pull on a girl, it’s about living your life in a way that naturally pulls women to you. And how do you do that ?? You get on your purpose. You will become naturally busy so you pass these availability tests without even thinking about it
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:49 PM
3

I’m an ex addict, and phenibut was one of my addictions. You may have more self control than I did but please for the love of god don’t take it more than once a week or once every two weeks
/r/askTRP17/11/20 02:46 PM
3

The best book that applies to almost all aspects of life is 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:04 PM
2

First off, read the sidebar if you haven’t already, and if you already have I’d review it or read it again In summary, you get girls by increasing your smv. Smv is combination of your status, looks, money, and most importantly, your game.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 09:02 PM
2

No, just treat her well and try to give her little lessons on not becoming a whore because of insecurity and a need for attention
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:57 PM
7

I’d say do it when a girl your trying to fuck has an ego that’s through the roof because those are the guys they usually end up fucking
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:54 PM
2

How about you get on your n your purpose so you stop giving a fuck about how long it is a taking a girl to text back
/r/askTRP16/11/20 08:50 PM
36

They literally paint their face so that people will like them. Why would someone be scared to talk to someone that is that insecure
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:15 PM
1

If you want the red pill basics, then just wear some jeans that FIT WELL and a t shirt that also FITS WELL, it will show you lift
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:09 PM
1

Either ignore or just say “cause I don’t want to” and end the discussion DARE not DEER, one of the Es in deer stands for explain. You don’t need to explain shit to a girl, alphas don’t feel the need to justify their behavior
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:07 PM
2

Do not finish inside a girl, never. Not even when she has an iud and you have a condom, just don’t. You don’t want to be that .01% that has a baby with this bitch that you don’t really want to have around for any long than a few months. Nutting onto a girls back/stomach/face/ass is very normal, it’s also very fun. And no, she won’t lose respect for you after doing this as long as you stay in your confident frame
/r/askTRP16/11/20 05:04 PM
7

You didn’t give them the tingles or the feelz
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:58 PM
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That means he had better game and displayed more alpha characteristics than you Calling you “more attractive” means they find you more conventionally attractive, which is purely visual
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:57 PM
4

Bull fucking shit, she left him because she wanted her cut of the money pile right that second
/r/askTRP16/11/20 04:53 PM
20

He’s a simp, she would definitely cheat on him with an attractive alpha if the opportunity presented itself at the right moment
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:46 AM
2

Either don’t give a fuck what they think or start right now to build a better reputation
/r/askTRP15/11/20 06:03 PM
1

Yes, that’s about it
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:59 PM
5

This is the whole goal of trp. To help guys realize that chasing women and doing everything for them is a complete waste of time, and that you will fuck so many more bitches if you derive your happiness from chasing your goals Good shit my man
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:56 PM
3

Depends how well you can bartend
/r/askTRP15/11/20 05:50 PM
2

How ? Lol it’s actually seen as charisma by women
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:50 AM
1

Here some crazy narcissistic shit for ya.... There is a huge group of women that have tinder but never meet any guys from tinder. They just use it for free attention and to stroke their egos
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:48 PM
1

There’s no harm in being the first guy to be social and talk to people. That is what an alpha does, he says fuck what everyone else is doing I’m going to do what’s best for me. If making friends is what’s best for you and your mental health, then go for it
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:46 PM
2

Don’t know lol, but this happened early after finding trp. This was probably the biggest thing that showed me that damn the red pill really does work like a charm
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:43 PM
1

Step 1, become attractive (lift, hygiene, clothes) Step 2, get on your purpose and chase your goals Step 3, you should already be at abundance after those two steps But what about approaching a ton of women? Yeah that will definitely help with abundance but I’ve found that chasing goals within your purpose that you fucking love is by far the biggest abundance boost
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:40 PM
1

I bet you these slim or in-shape women would be interested in you if you had a six pack and if your on your purpose crushing goals and makin dough Not saying to do all this for women though, you must do it for yourself or it won’t stick. It will definitely helps with women tho
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:36 PM
1

How bad are the Covid restrictions in your city? Can you go bars? You can where I’m at but I assume most are still shut down. Can you go to the gym? If you can then you should still be lifting like hell, plus you can meet friends and some girls there after your workout is done Any other social places open ?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:33 PM
4

Amused mastery comes with a lot of experience, you can’t really attain it without getting a ton of experience approaching, dating, and fucking women first. Amused mastery is basically a guy thinking that most things a girl does is funny, or that he’s amused, because he’s seen it all before. He can almost predict every move a girl is going to make and why they make those specific moves because he’s just that experienced in dealing with women. He treats shit tests like they’re coming from a little…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 08:27 PM
2

You lost frame because you care too much about what she thinks of you You lost frame because you think text game is a real thing You lost frame because your not confident in what you texted her
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:17 PM
5

Talking in a charismatic way that is seductive and turns girls on is not being thirsty Being thirsty would be simping, bringing up sexual topics too much or at the wrong time Just so you know, “a sexual frame” does not mean you are talking about anal for an hour on a date. You have a normal convo but talk in a seductive masculine way
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:15 PM
2

Good, getting shit on builds character Now you need to identify what you did wrong and fix it
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:11 PM
10

I’ve felt with a girl exactly like this.... She was practically telling me to fuck her right there in the restaurant without saying it, extremely flirty, touchy, “the fuck me eyes”, etc But once we got in bed making out she would tease and shit but she didn’t fuck until this happened.... It was the 4th time hanging out with her, this would have been my last chance for her before I moved on. She sees a note that one of my fwb left on my desk, she was sad for about 4 min, then she did a 180 and wa…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 03:07 PM
2

This sub is for questions only, this will most likely be removed soon But yeah it’s pretty obvious you lose the attachment you had to an ex over time
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:59 PM
1

You could do either one of these two things.... Switch up your program WHILE ALSO progressing in how much your lifting Or you could stick with the same program and also progress in weight
/r/askTRP14/11/20 02:57 PM
8

Nothing, focus on your workout, not the women
/r/askTRP13/11/20 09:00 PM
1

You fix your self esteem by kicking life’s ass Keep lifting like hell. Also you should get your diet in check and eat healthy if you don’t already. Set goals and achieve them, I think that is the biggest self esteem boost. Get on your purpose Go meet a bunch of women and do the sexy time on them
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:22 PM
5

The same way anyone else gets dates, go throw yourself out there and talk to tons of women
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:19 PM
3

Good, a prenup is an absolute must if your going to get married anyways
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:17 PM
9

You have to realize one thing about women, emotions and attention are like heroin to them. Just like how sex is to us men. And usually it doesn’t even matter if the attention and emotions is positive or negative, they just need it in general. So yes, negative emotions and attention can still make her want to fuck you
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:16 PM
9

They are loyal to your solid frame, not you personally. They stay loyal to an alpha male for the most part. On the topic of marriage, hell no, marriage is a horrible idea for the man. If you guys get divorced all the laws are set up to benefit the women, and they know this. That is why the second a couple gets married, the women knows she has leverage on him and she absolutely will use that against you.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 05:04 PM
5

Lifting and being on your purpose, even though your purpose takes more than 20% of your effort. Those both create an abundance mentality, switch where you get your validation from (from women like a beta to achieving goals like an alpha). Switching your validation to that then creates outcome independence, idgaf attitude, abundance, because you no longer need women .The most important parts of game.
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:19 PM
1

For a plate, no it doesn’t matter If she’s an ltr prospect, hell yes that is way too much for an 18 year old, especially since they literally all lie about their N count, so it’s probably more in the range of 10-20 dicks
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:12 PM
5

Believe it or not, my hottest hookup goes against trp principals for the most part. This happened before I found trp and this was actually when I lost my virginity also. She was 21 and I was 16, it was the absolute perfect example of “right place, right time” as we say here. She had just gotten dumped by a fucking pro bodybuilder, and we were both drinking. I was beta as fuck so idk how I landed this one, the only thing I had going for me was having a somewhat naturally attractive face and body,…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:10 PM
1

There’s nothing wrong with posting your gf on social media. It would be wrong if you post her too much, give some kind of validation in your caption ( like “I wouldn’t want anyone else”). And as long as you are following the 2/3 rule, you send 2 texts for every 3 she sends you, you give 2 displays of affection back to her 3. So she should be posting you more than you post her. In fact, this can bring preselection
/r/askTRP12/11/20 07:03 PM
1

I wasn’t alive in whatever time you are referring to as “the good ol days” but I do know one thing for sure... Not all men were alpha badasses, in fact, most guys back then were betas. That is just how the human species evolved to be like, around 90% of guys are betas
/r/askTRP12/11/20 06:59 PM
5

Ur kidding right ?
/r/askTRP11/11/20 06:12 PM
11

Yes mf. Stop jackin off and go meet women
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:30 PM
2

48 laws of power ! Best book other than the rational male imo
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:27 PM
1

No opinion, do what you want
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:26 PM
0

Do what you want, but if I were you I’d make a budget first to make sure you will still have money left over for all your nessessary things like food, rent, etc
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:20 PM
3

Realize that if you never met this girl and saw her randomly on the street, you wouldn’t think twice about her The only reason she seems so amazing in your mind is because you emotionally invested in her during your relationship, not saying you shouldn’t have, just telling you why this happens. Time is what you need to get over it. As time goes on without her in your life, you’ll think about her less and less. You should also be lifting, being on your purpose, chasing your goals, hanging with yo…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:16 PM
11

Yes, because you’ve decided that it requires too much effort to make yourself attractive and go meet girls irl to fuck. It’s beta as hell cause you decided watching another dude fuck the girl you wish you were fucking, instead of actually fucking a girl. Your cucking yourself
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:12 PM
1

It’s probably just a coincidence
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:09 PM
7

You already said this but, neediness is definitely takes the #1 spot for most unattractive trait, and jealously is a big one to. Some more would be, being unsure about yourself( opposed to being confident in every move you make). Complimenting a women too much. Having no goals or purpose that your working towards. Letting other men push you around( not standing up for yourself). Having a boring ass daily routine.
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:18 PM
1

First off, I hope you’ve learned your lesson, never live with a girl your dating. Holding frame is much much more difficult if you never get time by yourself to relax. But if I were you I’d do some research on what social activities/events/bars are open where you are. And I’d definitely do calisthenics and run hard daily
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:09 PM
1

What I would’ve done if I were you is not delete it, but you should’ve greatly monitored how much time you are spending on it. Sure, if you can’t control yourself and end up spending hours at a time on social media then you probably should delete it all cause you have a real problem But if you have self control I don’t see a reason why you should delete it
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:07 PM
4

“I’m looking to find a girl I enjoy hanging out with, and then we’ll see where it goes from there”
/r/askTRP10/11/20 05:03 PM
11

Yikes
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:21 PM
1

Who pays the fuckin rent ?
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:17 PM
4

Ya just break it in half
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:13 PM
1

Can’t tell who’s the real beta here but stop giving a fuck about them. Why would she want them instead of you? Your the shit, the best she’ll get. That’s what your mindset should be
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:03 PM
8

You have a long way to go, start by re-reading the sidebar and lifting like hell. You got this mate
/r/askTRP09/11/20 04:01 PM
20

How bout you just stop being clingy Your clingy because you don’t have enough good male friends and your not on your purpose. Trp is not about tactics and little tricks like this, it’s about fixing the underlying cause of your beta-ness. Good luck brother
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:53 PM
2

Stop analyzing your past mistakes too much, I used to do this and it did nothing but make me cringe and become more socially awkward. But once I stopped, social interaction became much easier because that anxiety was gone. So to answer your question, realize you have made a mistake, but don’t analyze your past too much, then make the nessesary changes
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:50 PM
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So something I think your missing is this, it’s not what you say to a girl, it’s how you say it. For example, take two dudes of the exact same smv in terms of looks, status, money, but not game, The first guy that just tries to say the right lines gets a pity hug from the girl then never heard from her again. The second guy that has confidence, swagger, a seductive tone, and a solid frame goes up to the girl and says the same exact thing as the first guy, but the way he says it and the emotion h…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 03:45 PM
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Fuck no, invest like 90-95% of that.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:26 AM
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You think your going to be able to fuck a girl by making her hate you? Sorry bud but it has to be a push/pull, not all push. Unless she has a fetish for being treated like complete shit lol
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:23 AM
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Read the sidebar and don’t go mgtow
/r/askTRP09/11/20 01:21 AM
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Yeah this usually happens to me as well and I’m sure it happens to most high value guys. You see, there is a HUGE lack of guys with standards, solid frame, and abundance in today’s world. So the girls are used to being able to do literally whatever the fuck they want and the guy still not get fed up and leave. It’s sad honestly, I wish guys would grow a pair and have some self respect. But when she meets a guy that has the upper hand, it takes a few dates for her to shit test enough to figure ou…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:08 PM
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First off, just know this is happens to every guy, your no different. We all used to get a bit nervous when we just started getting experience . That being said, this will go away the more you meet new girls. But to reach that point you need to swallow that nervousness and go meet her with confidence. It’s a positive feedback loop, you meet a new girl and your confident, she will probably want to fuck you if your in the right smv range. Once you fuck, you get more confidence to approach and fuck…
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:03 PM
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Also to add to this, if your on your purpose and chasing your goals, you won’t have the time, or desire to sit around texting.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/20 05:10 PM
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I’m sure there’s apps to meet up with people that share the same hobbies as you, but also you shouldn’t use this as a buffer cause there is people everywhere you can go chat with
/r/askTRP06/11/20 07:50 PM
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Get into Buddhism and meditation But what mental illness is it? If it’s something small then your just using it as an excuse to not put yourself out there But you can still slay even with a mental illness, I have actually OCD, not the kind people just throw out there to get attention, and it fucking sucks but guess what, I still fuck
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:51 PM
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Either your hormones are low for you personally, like I get that there is a normal range but some dudes bodies are used to certain levels of test and e2 compared to others But most likely, it’s just life my man. Everyone goes through ups and down, it’s the strong men that can experience that and not let it deter them from their purpose in life
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:49 PM
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Honestly I’d give it a 75% chance that she has no intention of fucking you because a girl that truly wants you would never deny a kiss. But if you want to, invite her over to your place to watch a movie, that will tell you wether she really wants to fuck or not because a girl that is just looking for orbiters wouldn’t go over to a dudes place to “watch a movie” alone
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:44 PM
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Yeah it could help for preselection, but don’t use Instagram too much or social media in general. They are made to be addictive and will hinder your progress toward lifting and your purpose
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:38 PM
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Lifting is very important because it gives you an attractive physique that women will want to fuck and men won’t want to fight, it increases your testosterone by a little, sets your brain up to chase goals, and there is probably more I forgot to add. But don’t use the lack of a group as an excuse, you can chat it up with ANYBODY, women, men, old people, kids, whatever. Just make yourself do it and the more scary the social situation, the better
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:35 PM
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Fuck that, just be who you are and hold frame. A rock solid frame is 1# when it comes to getting women. You ever wonder how those feminine type dudes like russel brand absoluly slay, it’s a rock solid frame
/r/askTRP05/11/20 06:31 PM
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First and foremost, keep lifting hard. Like really hard and also get your diet in check. I also grew up with bad social anxiety so I have a few tips on how to get completely rid of it. Really the only way to get rid of social anxiety is exposure therapy. Go put yourself into uncomfortable social situations over and over and over again for a long time. Your anxiety over time will consistently go down until it reaches zero. This is the only way, there is no easier way. Just literally force yoursel…
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:00 PM
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Yeah it’s most likely a shit test. They may be thinking your soft spoken-ness is a crack in your frame that they are pushing to exploit. Just pass the test and don’t change how you speak
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:54 PM
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Need more context
/r/askTRP04/11/20 08:50 PM
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Broken homes are a big red flag 99% of the time, I wouldn’t ever ltr a girl from a broken home and here’s why Firstly, she will most likely have some type of daddy issues Secondly, psychology teaches us that children often turn out a lot like their parents because they have the biggest influence on a child. So, she may eventually become bored like her mom and cheat or something
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:34 PM
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Lol what, you aren’t too dominant in conversation if you still have these underlying issues. Sounds like a fear of rejection mixed with a little social anxiety. You won’t truly be dominant in conversations till you fix those two things
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:28 PM
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If she’s still interested, tell her to come along with you to a bar sometime. Something like, “hey, I’ll be at X bar on Thursday, you should come along” Just whatever you do, don’t chase or seem butthurt that she had to reschedule
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:25 PM
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I don’t really see this phenomena irl. Most of the straight feminine and cowardly dudes I’ve met try everything they can to avoid rustling anyone’s feathers because they know they can’t fight. And part of that is treating everyone else like they are better than you.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 05:19 PM
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The sidebar has answers pal You obviously haven’t read it
/r/askTRP04/11/20 01:49 AM
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It really just depends on what the issue is, if telling her your issue could be seen as insecure or if the issue itself is because of insecurity then I wouldn’t tell her
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:13 PM
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Supplements will only increase testosterone if your deficient in that certain vitamin/mineral, it won’t do shit if you have good levels already
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:07 PM
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I wouldn’t
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:05 PM
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Yeah I grew up with a strict Christian single mom and went to a Christian school up until college
/r/askTRP03/11/20 08:59 PM
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Depression can come in the form of being angry in men, it’s not always just feeling sad and helpless
/r/askTRP02/11/20 10:09 PM
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Who gives a shit about your value in her eyes? You should be more concerned with her value in your eyes, cause you are the fucking prize, not her Btw, I wouldn’t fuck with a girl that your doing business with at all
/r/askTRP02/11/20 09:54 PM
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Because they know how much men would do it get that It’s really the root of all their manipulation on men. A mans desire to fuck is very powerful and women know that, so they want to make the guy do tons of shit for them by withholding sex. It’s like the “how to train your bitch” thing w do here. Withdrawl your attention when she’s acting out of line and reward with extra attention when she’s being a good girl. But the women train men with rewarding him with sex or withdrawling sex
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:08 PM
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She does that the first few times, ignore it like she didn’t even say it She keeps doing it after that doesn’t work, you check her and tell her to stop doing that while withdrawing your attention for a while She keeps on, you next her
/r/askTRP02/11/20 07:00 PM
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I could tell after you said you met her off a dating app lol I would never even think about ltr-ing a girl I met off a dating app unless I extensively vetted her and tested her I have no clue why you think it would be a good idea to marry a girl off a dating app, let alone ltr her The most fucked up, damaged, alpha widowed, and man hating girls I’ve met were from tinder
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:54 PM
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“I’m sorry, I probably shouldn’t have done that” Then change the topic and move on from it because some girls will still push for an arguement even tho you apologized
/r/askTRP02/11/20 06:51 PM
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I usually go everyday, but I’ll go easy on 1-2 days a week and just do accessory movements and cardio
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:12 PM
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Evolution and feminism Women evolved to be much more skilled at mind games and manipulation in order to get resources and protection from men because they aren’t as physically strong This manipulation is then used in the feminist movement. Feminism at its core is basically a push to make men bow down to them, make men weak, while also still holding the traditional idea that men should provide for women even though they work also. So to answer your question in short, women have manipulated men to…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 10:06 PM
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That’s a good sign Say “yeah, I’m deciding between a few things”
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:07 PM
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Cause this is for questions, post it on the main sub
/r/askTRP29/10/20 08:27 PM
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This is how the night should go, you talk to her like a normal person, not putting her on a pedistole But don’t talk to much about yourself, she should be doing like 80% of the talking Pass all her shit test with A and A or whatever other method Tease her a bit while not escalating yet to build the sexual tension. Then when you can see that “I really want to fuck you rn but I don’t want to seem like a slut” look in her eyes, then you strike Escalate with dominance, then fuck
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:40 PM
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At least you realize your using self improvement as an excuse to not talk to girls So why did you ask this? You know what you need to do, go approach a bunch of girls, they are just people like you and me, no reason to be scared Stay busy with your purpose and improving yourself WHILE ALSO approaching and gaming
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:35 PM
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Drink a beer or two throughout the date with her, it’s a normal thing to do and it will help you hold in your nut for a bit longer when you get down to it
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:30 PM
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Her interest in you is low If your a girl’s top option she will literally do anything to spend time with you. She would would just agree with whatever you planned. The work thing may or may not be a fake excuse because she has better options to go meet that night This is what you should do when you sense the lack of interest, you withdrawl your attention from her and count her as not a plate prospect anymore, UNLESS she hits you up first asking to meet up
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:28 PM
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I don’t really agree fully, and here’s why... I don’t believe being a porn addict, a beta, no discipline, a pussy is who you truely are, it’s just a fucking disease you have that blocks the REAL you. I fully believe every guy have an alpha badass hidden in them deep down, guys have just being lied to about everything when it comes to women and being a man. But yeah I agree, the advice “just be yourself” is horrible cause that is telling the guy he doesn’t need to change at all. So I think it sho…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/20 04:06 PM
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Status and social circle could be added also For gaining status, talk to people, make high value friends, fuck the hot girls that all guys want to fuck, join a club, You could also consider joining a fraternity, instant status jump around campus, and hanging out with high value guys all the time will make you better
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:59 PM
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Grow a pair and be more confident brother. Who cares if your experienced enough? She’s just a plate you shouldn’t give a shit about her opinion Btw start approaching and getting your own plates, approaching a ton of women will get you to top red pill shape the fastest
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:54 PM
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Ehh, don’t fully agree with you, there’s pros and cons to ltrs. If you hold frame, check her when she’s acting up, have her in her submissive energy, then I think that is one of the biggest pros to having an ltr. The sex is better imo when you actually care about them. Also, humans are social creatures so we need connection to people, but that should be fulfilled by having some good bros to hang with.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:51 PM
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Cause you fucking don’t deal with a single moms kids or baby daddy. Do not date single moms, that’s a big no-go here. They are usually the most manipulative and twisted because they really don’t give a shit about you, she really just cares about her kids and extracting resources from you to care for them
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:44 PM
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I’ve thought about this one for a while cause I genuinely enjoy making people laugh but I also didn’t want to be a “dancing monkey” as AMS says. Dancing monkeys try to be funny far too often and for the wrong purpose, they do it so girls and people in general will like them, it’s basically an overcompensation for not feeling like you are enough BUT, there is nothing wrong with being the funny guy, as long as your doing it because you genuinely enjoy making people laugh from time to time and your…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:39 PM
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Best piece of advice I can give you is have no fear. No fear of walking up to a 9, no fear about her rejecting you.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:35 PM
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Definitely agree with this one Everyone especially girls can tell when a guy is inexperienced with gaming them, and it dries her up faster than a hell It’s weird but it seems like there a clear “fork in the road” when talking about experience and dating skills, the guys that don’t ever get interest from girls in middle and high school never learn how to get girls so they get even less girls in the future because inexperience is very unattractive, but the top 10-20% of guys will get interest and …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:37 PM
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Ive been a conventionally attractive guy, but for some reason, after about 1.5 months of talking to a specific girl they would dump me and that shit happened everytime like clockwork. I had no clue why they didn’t want me, I had a six pack and a bit of muscle, good face, did everything right in the bluepilled sense, treated them like goddesses, but they would always leave and it pissed me off So I was doing some YouTube research on why that may happen and I stumbled upon a red pilled YouTuber an…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:22 PM
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First off, go find that middle school writing and grammar book that’s sitting in your basement, that was tough To answer your question, I don’t know exactly what you’ve done to train your mind, could you tell me ? It seems to me you haven’t really done shit other than lifting a bit after you found the red pill You must take risks and train your mind not to be scared of shit, You see a hot girl and get nervous but you really want to go talk to her, then tell yourself to stop being such a goddamn …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:18 PM
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There’s pros and cons to both With just going for quantity, you will improve your game a good bit faster because you’ll gain experience talking to a wide variety of girls. Experience is the best teacher, you can read all the trp you want but going out and talking to a ton of different women will improve your skills the most When your going for strictly quality I see a dilemma, how are you going to know for sure which women are quality and which aren’t ? That’s why I think you should combine the …
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:07 PM
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Being selfish is exactly why humans are so far advanced. Selfish desires create the great innovations and inventions in the world. Do you think Alexander Bell invented the telephone with no reward in mind, or was he expecting a monetary reward ? That’s a selfish desire. Even back to hunter gatherer days, if that selfish attitude that comes from living in constant danger and the need to make sure at least yourself stays alive, in a moment of near death you will always think about yourself first. …
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:58 PM
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No, trp is about turning yourself into a guy that has alpha male characteristics, and dominance is probably the most prominent characteristic in alpha males
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:51 PM
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I used to be just like you, scary similar. I absolutely HATED going out of my comfort zone to do anything. I was also raised by a single mom, so I was such a pussy cause my mom is a very feminine women. To answer your question, you must adopt the “fuck it, just go” method I came up with. This is basically you not overthinking when your about to go do something that scares you and is out of your comfort zone. Just give yourself a little talk right before and tell yourself “your being a giant fuck…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:44 PM
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No, if you suddenly take back a invite to something you’ll look butthurt. Doing that is basically communicating to her that you really wanted her to accept the invite because you don’t have any other options, then when you suddenly tell her “nevermind don’t bother coming” it makes you look like you got mad/butthurt that she isn’t crazy about coming. This is why we say to get on your purpose, you have too much free time to worry about dumb shit like this Instead you should ask girls out like this…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 02:37 PM
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Use a planner. Wrote down everything you need to do at the start of each week, put a specific day for each task to be done on, then actually do everything
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:41 PM
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Read the sidebar and grow a pair
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:11 PM
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Was your social circle was formed around drinking and smoking ? That could be your answer, they may thinking your trying to be better than them or they dislike you simply because you made a change in your life that they don’t have the will power to make
/r/askTRP24/10/20 04:03 PM
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Your lacking the wonder and awe of romantic relationships that you had before. Simply not knowing the ins and outs of how women operate and really just people in general, you start to see every move they make coming so not much surprises you
/r/askTRP24/10/20 02:15 AM
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Get muscular AND lean
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:53 PM
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This should NEVER be a goal in your life and here’s why.... I get that there are certain advantages you get from turning yourself into a narcissist, BUT to understand the big con to this whole situation you have to understand why narcissists are the way they are.... A deep deep insecurity is what causes npd, (narcissistic personality disorder) so they basically think of themselves as better than everyone as a coping mechanism for feeling not as good as everybody else. BUT, you could take some of…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 06:03 PM
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Like the other guy said, I’d head to the outdoors if I were you. Plenty of cool shit to do put there, hike, camp, mountain bike, skiing, etc. And idk if they allow this in your country, but a very manly hobby you could pick up is hunting
/r/askTRP23/10/20 05:57 PM
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Most guys learn either learn this the hard way or never learn it..... Rejection is ALWAYS better than regret That “I’m such a goddamn pussy” feeling you get from not escalating even though you really want to, is much worse than just getting rejected
/r/askTRP23/10/20 05:51 PM
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Feels good
/r/askTRP22/10/20 08:39 PM
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So it’s definatly the overthinking that fucking with you. Go read a post on the main sub called something like “Guide to Accepting yourself even if others don’t” It changed how I think by a good bit. It basically says, most people think that they matter way more than they do and that they’re every move is earthshatteringly important, which causes social anxiety and other shit. You don’t matter that much so it doesn’t matter what you say or do, that’s the root of the idgaf mentality
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:33 PM
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I feel like most naturally intelligent people have this one beta ass trait in common, overthinking and constant analyzation. In don’t know for sure if this is the root cause of all your problems but it’s my guess on why these things happen. Intelligent people are great at analyzing situation and seeing all the possible outcomes to a situation, and if you add that with being bullied as a kid then you will naturally see these outcomes as probably being a negative thing, which causes you anxiety. B…
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:21 PM
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Who cares about fucking a hundred phone addicted sluts from tinder, I wish people lived in the real world not on fucking phones all the damn time
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:06 PM
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I know this, I said this due to the lack of technology addiction
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:04 PM
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Yeah I know it wasn’t perfect back then, but at least life was lived in the real world, not through a little screen on a box
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:04 PM
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Ya that also. Dude I truely wish I was born in like the late 50s or early 60s
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:25 PM
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True, I’ve slowly grown to hate social media cause it’s just bullshit, it doesn’t do what it was intended to do, bring people closer by allowing faster communication. Instead, it has turned girls into like and follower hungry robots that need to feed their ego to cover up the deep insecurity of not being enough
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:17 PM
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Because feminism is a giant shit test designed to turn men into bitches and give women the power, and most guys are failing the shit out of it
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:00 PM
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Yeah most women are naturally sociopath-like, but apparently men are the evil ones lol give me a fucking break, I’ve met way more manipulative and twisted girls than dudes that I’ve met
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:04 PM
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Exactly, evidence and logic is no where to be found nowadays in a lot of different areas It’s better to be safe than sorry in this situation. Women can basically snap their fingers and have some dude fired for any bullshit lie she wants to create
/r/askTRP21/10/20 06:02 PM
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Yes it happens to everyone Just remember to keep yourself in check and don’t get oneitis, and if you do then next her and learn from your mistakes The trp journey is never a straight line slanted up, it’s a all over the place. I’ve had a period early on we’re I was fucking girls left and right, then I went through a oneitis period and got off my purpose a bit, then I’m back to my purpose and doing well with girls again
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:58 PM
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Shit test. Don’t look it up or even try harder to make her cum, just keep doin u bro
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:56 PM
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No are you fucking illiterate ? Big red flag, plate at the most
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:55 PM
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Here’s why your still a virgin .... you give way too many fucks and I can tell you have a very hard working male rationalization hamster in your head You know how many girls there are on a college campus? And almost all of them are in the cock carousel period in their lives which means they are easier to fuck. So stop giving a shit about giving a girl “bad dick” remember abundance mentality
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:51 PM
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The dudes that say “just wait till she contacts you after the first date” don’t really know women and are probably losing a lot of possible second date fuckings If everything went well, she was submissive, showed interested and responded well to escalation then there is nothing wrong with you hitting her up first. Don’t be needy or text for a while tho, just hit her up inviting her out again. But if she says no or even a maybe, then don’t chase her just move on
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:44 PM
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It’s only unattractive to girls if you think it is, cause then it will lower your confidence. You’ll be much more attractive if you don’t give a fuck that your short
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:18 PM
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Nothing. Cause you don’t give a single fuck that your short
/r/askTRP20/10/20 07:04 PM
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Then go with that if that’s what you want to do, just sharing a suggestion that seems to work for me
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:49 PM
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I think a better way to find some true friends is befriending as many dudes as possible that look high value and share interests with you. Then you wait to see if they ever backstab you or wether they truely got your back over time, and if they can’t be trusted as a true friend then stop being friends w him
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:42 PM
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It happen to me kind of naturally due to going through a extremely depressed period in my life. I was suicidal but I decided not to kms, now I’m just stuck without a fear of dying
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:38 PM
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Either learn how to fight or you could go with the old Snowboard18 method lol which is losing your fear of being hurt/death. Once you lose that fear you can do almost anything in life because ultimately every fear response we have as humans our brain thinks it’s between life and death, even though it may just be a dog running your way or something else small I would like a psychopath lol but hey, it works
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:33 PM
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I had a fwb that lasted for about a year and I honestly think it’s the best type of relationship to have with a girl With plates, there is often no emotional connection and you probably don’t enjoy your tome spent with her because why else would you just fuck her and nothing else? Cause you don’t like spending time with her for whatever reason Ltrs have too much attachment, that is, the girl being too attached to you so you feel too much pressure because you are basically in charge of her happin…
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:29 PM
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If she’s a narcissist, she’ll even tell you she has a boyfriend and laugh about the fact that she’s cucking him If she’s more normal, then she most likely won’t bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend and will only cheat if no one would be able to find out what she did, but definatly would possibly cheat if it’s the right guy at the right time And for the “unicorns,” she most likely won’t cheat as long as you hold your solid frame and she still sees you as the prize
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:23 PM
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Nooooo. Do not check her for just poking a little friendly fun at you, because you could possibly lose your job if it doesn’t go well Just say “ya” and ignore or change the subject, you don’t want to lose your job over something as stupid as this
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:18 PM
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If ANY girl I was with walked over to an ex while I was with her and talk for more than 1-2 min and didn’t even try to engage me in the convo at all, then this is what I’d do.... I’d just get up and leave. She’s not about to waste my fucking time, don’t even tell her, just leave her there and ghost her
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:15 PM
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Stop looking for validation from other people. You will never be a true alpha male until this happens, because what happens if there is nobody there to give you a little ego boost when you accomplish something? You’ll lose motivation to keep accomplishing shit because you weren’t doing it for yourself
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:10 PM
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Ya welcome to the depressing world of reality. No wonder so many things were put in place to keep people from seeing the true nature of the world, no just women but the whole world is kinda fucked Being a good boy who truely cares about everyone won’t get you very far in life. Religion was created so people won’t fall into a nihilistic mindset and they stop giving a fuck and do whatever they want. The government and media manipulated the masses, and etc
/r/askTRP19/10/20 08:06 PM
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I try to drop some sugarcoated red pill truths on my friends when I can tell their going deeper into simphood
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:39 PM
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She’s probably not very interested in you, she’s just a slut. If a girl truely likes you she’ll do ANYTHING in bed for you
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:33 PM
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Yes because feminism is actively teaching girls to not be tied down to a ltr and if you do get a boyfriend you should manipulate him and disrespect him while fucking chads on the side. So yes, “good girls” are rare as diamond
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:27 PM
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Nah I just got a half lb
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:23 PM
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The 48 laws of power. If you haven’t read it already, then go read it because it’s very valuable knowledge that you won’t learn anywhere else. It’s much like trp because it is generally frowned upon by the general public due to its somewhat dark but true truths it gives about people and how they are vulnerable to manipulation
/r/askTRP19/10/20 04:16 PM
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Here is the only sign you need.... How does she respond to escalation. If she’s into it and you end up fucking her or getting top then she’s not just leading you on to suck attention out of ya
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:08 PM
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“It depends how much I like you “ Get her chasing that sweet validation
/r/askTRP18/10/20 05:06 PM
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You get better at recognizing them the more you approach and just generally talk to women in public But tbh, you don’t need choosing signals to go talk to a girl. AAA (always assume attraction)
/r/askTRP18/10/20 04:59 PM
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Cause they don’t need to be funny to get fucked and manipulate men
/r/askTRP14/10/20 10:34 PM
6

It’s because you feel inferior to him. This is because you are most likely very insecure and you can’t talk shit back because you take it personally and become emotional. Get on your purpose, lift, increase smv and stop give a fuck about what other people say Good luck boss
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:54 PM
2

Instead of “I could tell be the way u kissed me back” I’d say, “of course you do” You need to understand the key to women is texting and conversations in a way we’re you can say the most obsurd shit and she’ll think your joking Btw, I can tell you have a ton more groundwork to do because a high value guy with abundance wouldn’t be worried about saying the wrong thing over text or even feeling the need to text
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:38 PM
1

It’s not really a test at all imo, it’s just in interest indicator because she’s flirting with you. I’d say something like, “you shouldn’t” wink
/r/askTRP14/10/20 06:34 PM
12

The fuck is a penis sleeve ? But whatever that thing is, I’d personally tell her hell no im not getting or wearing one of those
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:25 PM
1

I don’t know how often you do generous things for people so correct me if I’m wrong but, Your generous gestures start to lose value if you do them too often or make being “generous” part of your personality that people see. If balance being an alpha asshole with doing generous things for people then your favors will be appreciated much more and more people will respect you and like you, because people naturally like people with various characteristics because they aren’t boring
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:23 PM
4

Honestly, I kind of think going for girls at your gym is shitting were you eat, but it’s your college gym so idk if it’s the same. But if your going to do it anyways, here’s one thing you NEED to do, be 100% focused on your workout while your working out, nobody else. If you want to talk to a girl after then I don’t see a problem with it
/r/askTRP14/10/20 03:13 PM
6

This is facts like always vas If she put on a few pounds as a SINGLE women, then you better expect her to start eating like a pig if she locks you down. Personally, I wouldn’t ever think of ltr-ing a girl that doesn’t stay fit and take care of herself. But you could go the harder route and use the old attention method to train your bitch. More attention when she does good, (starts making the gym and eating right a ROUTINE, not just a few times to please you). If she does bad, you withdrawl atten…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 07:00 PM
2

Of course brother
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:55 PM
14

The reason why some guys get very angry after finding trp is because of one simple mindset shift that hasn’t been made yet. Most of us pre-red pill looked for our validation, self esteem, and happiness in wether women want him or not. So once you realize your main source of validation is corrupt and manipulative then almost all guys here get angry, it’s just a natural reaction. You may be asking, well where should I get my validation and happiness ? As a now redpilled man you should get these th…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:53 PM
2

Tbh, fuck dating apps. I’ve never had one and never will. First off, it’s a rejection buffer for so many dudes cause they’re scared to go ask a girl out in real life. Second, if you aren’t VISUALLY attractive, then why even bother. Cause girls can’t feel your alpha energy through a relationship be second glance at your best picture. Thirdly, I’ve heard way too many stories about crazy ass girls that guys have met off dating apps.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:45 PM
5

Yeah, people in general fucking hate seeing somebody who decided to take on full responsibility for their life and problems intstead of either overtly or covertly blaming them on other people. Good work but there’s one thing that’s important to understand about alphas... To be a true alpha and STAY a true alpha you must not look for praise or validation for your achievements anywhere. Except for inside you my brother, that awesome feeling of reaching a goal should keep you moving forward and kee…
/r/askTRP13/10/20 06:34 PM
4

I agree a lot of the “red pilled” coaches on YouTube are just betas that are role playing to try and make some money off of YouTube. But I think AMS and steph is cold are the real deal
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:41 PM
1

How about you actually try out game in real life instead of being worried youll get rejected But in general, tinder is all about looks and real life is about looks plus game
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:27 PM
2

"heart reacts" I don't quite know what u mean by this, but yes, giving girls validation on social media is beta behavior
/r/askTRP12/10/20 08:25 PM
3

Go search AMS on YouTube, he’s by far the best red pilled YouTuber for game tips
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:11 PM
1

Ignore or jump straight into logistics without saying anything about the selfie she just sent you
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:07 PM
3

Nah I don’t think that would come across as butthurt, I’ve seen a lot worse on this sub. And btw, it will come across as butthurt if you seem butthurt at all the next time you see her if you end up seeing her again.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 05:48 PM
1

Yup this works like a charm, I was once in a ltr at the beginning of my trp journey(I probably shouldn’t have cause I didn’t spin plates first). I saw her Snapchat and she had streaks with a few male friends, even though they are betas it’s more about the principal of it, so I said “oh sweet I didn’t know we were doing that” and for the next few months she was under dread and treated me like a god
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:47 PM
1

Ignore, hold frame, remain an alpha, and your girl will not listen to her one bit because girls love doing things for alphas
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:43 PM
4

Plate them if you want since you don’t care about the job But dude please work on developing skills to get a better job than this one
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:39 PM
16

I’d say it’s definatly a red flag that she told you this shit. It’s one thing for a girl to like getting looks because all girls do and even most guys do, but her straight up telling you that she likes other guys looking at her means she doesn’t have much respect for you
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:36 PM
3

Hey, shit happens man, don’t be too hard on yourself or constantly think about it. But, what you need to do now is grab yourself by the balls, learn from your mistakes, hit the gym and focus on your purpose and other bitches
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:33 PM
14

A lot of those guys are either other celebrities, which gives them insane status that adds into smv, or they are fucking loaded, or they are alphas
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:30 PM
2

Alan would be what we call a “natural alpha” here. Most natural alphas have naturally higher testosterone levels, naturally given them alpha characteristics and that test also influences their behavior to behave in a more alpha manner (quiet confidence, no need to prove themselves/get validation from others, aggressive, dominant) On the other side of this, us guys on this sub didn’t get blessed with that naturally high testosterone, so we had to figure out how to be an alpha the long and unnatur…
/r/askTRP11/10/20 05:26 PM
2

I’ve been on this sub for like 4 years bud, I didnt even need to read the entire thing of word vomit you just wrote about ONE girl in particular to know you have oneitis I read your tldr And I bet u actually are interested in her sexually, why else would you care so much about this little hand holding incident that occurred
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:14 PM
1

Congrats, your an orbiter with oneitis
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:10 PM
2

Here the ONLY piece of advice you need with this questions ..... You don’t ever have a fucking long distance relationship, it will NEVER work
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:05 PM
1

I’d probably go to your religious center/church if they allow you to talk to the girls there, or just play the numbers game.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 09:02 PM
2

No one here every said that you absolutely MUST be cold, distant and fuck multiple women to be loved and attractive. The first reason is because, love doesn’t really exist how most people believe it exists. Women love conditionally, and men love unconditionally for the most part. Secondly, yes being cold and distant makes you attractive, ive seen it work over and over and over and over again. Also I only partially think your statement, “your beliefs make your reality,” is true. Yeah, believing y…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/20 05:40 PM
8

It’s because they are insecure and care too much what people think, start doing shit for yourself and not other people
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:27 PM
5

There is no “public” or “private” confidence, you just aren’t confident. Part of being red pill aware is being real with yourself. So analyze yourself from a third person viewpoint, pick out the shit you need to fix, then put a plan together to fix it.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:25 PM
3

Girls probably see him as the bad boy type because of the heavy drinking, smoking, and rap.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:20 PM
13

What happened was, you invested way too much of your ego into the money your dad had.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:14 PM
1

Yes they probably wanted to fuck
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:11 PM
2

Great post my man, I agreed with every word of it and perfectly written
/r/TheRedPill09/10/20 10:55 PM
2

You MUST make a move to figure shit like this out It’s the most effective and quickest method of gauging a women’s real interest level, not the fake interest level girls might show to attract attention and validation
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:45 PM
3

It doesn’t matter because your a happy dude that loves himself and the life he has so you don’t need women to be happy. Also you probably won’t smash with this self defeating ass mindset. Do you realize how Unconfident “what if she fucks one of my other brothers?” Sounds. Be confident even if you have to fake it
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:39 PM
3

It may sound like we are “at war with women” but we actually aren’t really. It may sound that way due to the nature of tomassis writing style plus there actually probably is some dudes on this sub that just hate women cause they can’t get any so it makes us look like women haters. The reason the red pill is mostly about power dynamics is because that’s really just the main idea of trp, to succeed in a relationship you need to hold the power. And focusing on oneself is part of the advice given to…
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:35 PM
21

Stop being a bitch and go have fun dude
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:27 PM
9

If there’s one sure way to make myself completely fuck up a date and my game is to overthink like this. If I were you I’d go meditate before, tell yourself “my goal is to just have fun and enjoy my time and nothing else,” no validation seeking no overthinking just be there
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:23 PM
1

Agree and amplify
/r/askTRP09/10/20 10:16 PM
6

It’s really just easier to keep it to just alphas and betas. Omegas are just betas that are invisible to women and can’t get any at all. One that maybe should be included is the Sigma, it’s kind of like an introverted alpha. Not introverted like scared of talking to people or lacks social skills, Sigmas can be social and they have good social skills but they would just rather spend more time with themselves and they don’t care about the social hierarchy like alphas and betas
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:33 PM
2

Are you hard nexting because you don’t enjoy spending any time with her or you don’t like the sex? Then there’s no reason to soft next, just hard next her because why would you waste your time with a girl you don’t enjoy.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:28 PM
1

Ehhh it may work but that just sounds stupid as hell to do every time she shit tests you lol. Instead, when she shit tests you, just pass the test w AA or any of the other ways to pass When she is straight up disrespectful, the first time I’d say something like “watch yourself” with a stern face and if she keeps going I’ll probably just next her because why would I stay with a girl that’s constantly disrespectful when I have abundance and I know I could find a new one fast?
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:23 PM
2

It all depends on what type of person you are If you have a very addictive personality then I’d stay away because the addictive tendency could take over and before you know it your smoking 5 times a day and not chasing your goals. Personally I smoke a good bit, just once a day right before bed so It doesn’t affect my productivity during the day
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:18 PM
1

Just conversate and tease her a bit, if you think she’s interested and would be fun to be around, then ask her out I think how a girl responds to being teased is the best way to tell
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:15 PM
1

Yes you will have to make more money than her if your talking about an ltr/girlfriend, or she’ll have little respect for you and she’ll feel that she’s better than you. And when she feels she’s better than you, that’s when hypergamy kicks in and she’ll look for someone else. I think your also asking if you will be able to find a “good girl” right? Some guys here will say they’re all hoes, but I think there are “good girls” or “unicorns” out there, they are just EXTREMELY hard to find and she’ll …
/r/askTRP09/10/20 07:09 PM
7

Perfectly said bro
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:39 PM
1

Theyre famous and hot, but not a perfect 10. Dudes are just horny lol
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:23 PM
5

Ehh don’t think that connection is right Dude is 100% a textbook aspd. Aka he’s a psychopath. He was probably the dominant one in the relationship because that’s the key characteristic of psychopaths, they must be dominant And he wasn’t murdering for pussy. He was murdering for that feeling of complete dominance over any other person, which is why serial killers can’t stop
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:18 PM
1

Be a true alpha male who kicks life’s ass, or display alpha traits and have one night stands Be confident, don’t be insecure about anything and dominant and you can fuck most bitches
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:10 PM
1

Then tell her to come over lol it’s usually both with girls that want u
/r/askTRP08/10/20 10:07 PM
8

It’s just the social justice liberal agenda, they get super offended and cry if they don’t see 13 lesbians on every tv show, commercial, movie, etc. So worry about the things that directly impact you and not stuff like this
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:24 PM
3

Its really not that difficult, I don’t know why some people say it’s very hard. It’s easy if you plan ahead and make sure your work and studying is done at least a few days before it’s due. When I was in college I worked out for like 2 hours a day, hung out with friends, and rushed a fraternity and still made all A s and Bs
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:22 PM
10

She may possibly have an std already that she got before she met you and just doesn’t want to tell you. But either way, std or not, it is always a good idea to wear a condom. If you give the girl sole responsibility for not becoming pregnant, then she has the option to Baby trap you
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:18 PM
2

Yes you should do this, Basically what he is saying is test them to figure out their true interest level so you don’t end up wasting time on a girl that was just trying to get attention from you.
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:15 PM
3

What I’ve realized is that you shouldn’t constantly analyze your character and if your being an alpha or a nice guy or whatever. If you constantly self analyze you will most likely develop an insecurity in if your alpha enough or not. And we all know insecurity dries up pussy, but she’ll only dry up if your frame breaks and you overreact trying to protect your alpha persona. So instead of becoming a narcissist that acts super alpha to cover insecurity, you should work on killing your insecurity …
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:09 PM
2

Girls with rich dads are usually spoiled like fuck and that will make them believe that they are the center of the universe, making them think they deserve attention 24/7. So, she is just trying to get some attention and validation out of you. Don’t budge, text the same amount you already are or less
/r/askTRP08/10/20 07:03 PM
18

It’s probably a combo of your specific grieving process and because you two wearnt extremely close
/r/askTRP07/10/20 06:54 PM
2

Be attractive, have goals, put your purpose before any girl, have the ability to talk to almost any girl in a very natural type of way and be able to get them to bed.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:42 PM
2

“Just ridin it out to see where this goes”
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:40 PM
1

No telling girls to respect your time is not needy at all, actually it’s the opposite, it’s attractive to them. It’s attractive because almost all guys these days have no fucking standards and it’s sickening. They go on a date with a girl that just sits there on her phone the whole time, he’ll pay for her shit, just for a shot at having sex with her even though he probably won’t. It’s good to have standards, don’t think this is needy at all, show her that your time is valuable making you valuabl…
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:37 PM
2

There’s nothing wrong with having a heart, the guys here shouldn’t aim to be sociopaths lol. But use your big heart on other people in order for you to game girls at your best. Oneitis absolutely kills your game.
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:31 PM
1

It all depends on what kind of physique you want to have eventually. Do you want to get shredded and lose the extra fat? Then eat in a caloric deficit. Do you want to just aim for the biggest you can get? Then eat in a caloric surplus. Do you want to stay the same? Then don’t change
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:28 PM
2

Don’t give any girls your gaming an ego boost/validation, that is for the betas. I’d review the sidebar again if I were you. And you need to stop letting what girls think about you effect your ego. This is why we tell guys to get on their purpose. When your working relentlessly on your purpose, your validation comes from the shit you achieve in that endeavor, instead of from women
/r/askTRP07/10/20 03:21 PM
19

No it’s your job. He’s not only disrespecting her, he’s disrespecting you also. He thinks your a pussy that he can say anything to and you won’t stand up to him.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:20 PM
57

If I had to bet, one of those guys used to date/fucked the girl you were with. The first time I wouldn’t have just sat there on my phone while he talked to her. I would have just sat there relaxed and made strong eye contact with him and give him a look that says, “can you go the fuck away so I can enjoy my time here” and if he did leave shortly I would have told him to leave and not come back.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:11 PM
2

Yeah I tried two different antidepressants during a very dark period of my life. I think one of them was an ssri and the other was bupropion. The ssri was ducking horrible to say the least, about two hours after I took the pill I had a full blown intense panic attack in the middle of a lecture in college. Never again lol. The bupropion worked for like a week, it works on dopamine and norepinephrine so it gave me the energy back that the depression took and improved my sense of well-being, but sa…
/r/askTRP06/10/20 06:03 PM
14

Not exactly. From my experience, beta bait usually occurs the most from the second you start interacting with her until she either breaks down your frame and figures out you were just a fake alpha that’s really a beta or she gives up because she realizes that your a “natural” alpha. This here is just an average response to being dumped.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 05:58 PM
4

Yeah I wouldn’t teach kids in church this shit, your just asking to be told to never come back
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:10 AM
17

Could be a coping mechanism for insecurity or from being bullied in school, so he thinks to get people to like him he needs to be the most dominant and arrogant person in the room. Real alphas don’t have to constantly run their goddamn mouth about how great they are, they just are great and everyone can sense it
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:02 AM
2

No adrenochrome???
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:55 AM
1

I will go shit in my living room right now if you actually have every drug from fear and loathing lol
/r/askTRP06/10/20 02:49 AM
3

Edgy This isn’t a movie, connecting with others is very important and fulfilling. I used to think this way and isolated myself, yeah I got a lot of shit done and crushed my goals, but I was feeling so empty and alone
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:48 PM
2

Ahhh I’m dumb
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:45 PM
1

Haha okay pal
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:43 PM
1

Bro wtf are you asking for lol ??? Your post is as vague as the ghost of stonewall Jackson
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:42 PM
4

Then fix that shit first, I have had bad depression problems in the past and let me tell you right now that you need to fix it before you date fr. You are so much more likely to get oneitis because the thought of her makes your depression a little better
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:40 PM
2

I did lol, what are you asking for with this broad ass post? Did you want something other than what I said ?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:39 PM
7

You should focus on what you can fix. You can fix your body, so keep lifting and progressing your physique. You can’t fix your face, BUT you can fix how insecure you are about your face. Because insecurity is one of the biggest turn offs to women.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:36 PM
6

I swear some dudes on this sub don’t know how to use their brain at all lol Yes it’s a red flag, you can’t help her and she’ll drag you down with her. Hard next this bitch. And she’ll play the “I’m going to kill myself if u do X” manipulation bullshit
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:30 PM
3

You won’t lose fat at maintenance, you have to lower your calories
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:22 PM
4

There is only one way to lose fat.... eating in a caloric deficit. That’s it, that’s the only way, there are no tricks or shortcuts. Go online and look up your maintence calories, which is the calories you need to eat to stay the exact same weight. Then subtract anywhere between 100-500 calories and eat that amount of calories per day Btw losing weight is 90% diet, but cardio can help you lose fat a little bit faster
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:46 PM
1

First off, unlike a lot of newbies here you actually grew a pair and made a solid move, respect for that. And yeah, she was probably just not that into you and that’s why she wants to put you in the friendzone, just don’t accept the friendzone by saying,”I’m good, I already have plenty of friends” then just ghosting her
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:43 PM
1

Bruh really ? Just dump her if you don’t want to be with her lol
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:33 PM
6

You can’t control everything they do, so stop being insecure and worrying about small shit like this. A man that’s actually on his purpose wouldn’t have the time or energy to care about petty shit like this
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:29 PM
49

Probably a good indicator of some kind of depression, so yes, I’d say it’s a red flag
/r/askTRP05/10/20 04:26 PM
2

Nepal. The Himalayas are absolutely fucking beautiful. The local mountain people are incredibly nice and hospitable and they give out free homemade wine and want to party with tourists
/r/askTRP04/10/20 11:03 PM
1

Yeah just text her “see ya in a few”
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:50 PM
2

Dumb as fuck
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:49 PM
2

I’d say like 8/10 times, but not everytime some girls are just truely insecure
/r/askTRP04/10/20 10:47 PM
3

Your a grown man, it doesn’t matter
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:22 PM
1

If she’s annoying you then stop hanging out with her
/r/askTRP04/10/20 07:16 PM
0

Who cares
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:48 PM
12

Either don’t answer or just say “ya” and let the convo die out. I’d honestly just show no interest and let her figure it out if it’s a girl in your friend group, reason being, girls absolutely hate being rejected and if she’s crazy she may try to start shit.
/r/askTRP04/10/20 04:47 PM
3

Narcissistic personality disorder, which is very common in hot girls. Entitled hoes that think they are floating above the rest of us, not fun to be around. In general, steer clear of girls with mental issues
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:17 PM
3

Stop caring bout it, problem solved
/r/askTRP03/10/20 08:08 PM
7

Just say “it’s a long story” and nothing else. It will let their mind wonder, and when their mind wonder and they don’t know much about you they think your doing some crazy shit like doing a ton of blow and fucking bitches like a machine
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:04 PM
3

Only 1 way, going out and being social a lot. Sure books and trp will put the basics in your mind, but you HAVE TO go be social a fuck ton in order for you to truely develop your social skills.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 05:00 PM
50

Very fishy. I’m getting big jailbait vibes
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:58 PM
0

I like the bar and park idea. Or just tell your roommates not to interrupt if you choose to cook.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 04:53 PM
4

Bruh it’s not the snake that’s the reason you aren’t fucking a lot, she’s not gunna care
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:37 PM
2

Build a solid ass fucking frame and you’ll be able to fuck like crazy still
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:35 PM
4

Dude just fucking read it, it’s not that complex
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:33 PM
1

I used to think that dark triad traits were the way to go, but after integrating some of those traits in me, I can tell you that it helps very little. Reason being, it is way to difficult to keep track of the lies you tell, and girls will test you on those lies to make sure your story is straight. For that reason, nowadays, I just tell the truth. No matter what reaction I get from telling the truth I tell it straight up and don’t sugarcoat. Once you have abundance, idgaf, outcome independence, a…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 07:30 PM
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