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Men pay with time, energy, conversation and money spent until they get sex It seems like nowadays men pay the premium but the social contact is not honoured What contract is this? What exactly would be honouring the contract? Do you think putting any energy into an interaction with a woman should guarantee sex at the end of it? Do you think this is how it was historically?
/r/MGTOW210/03/21 06:24 PM
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Did you actually read this and look at the stats or did you just read the title and get offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 01:13 PM
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Actual, they do: https://stats.oecd.org/index.aspx?queryid=54757 This is when you include all the cooking and cleaning and domestic labour jobs that women are just quietly expected to 'knuckle down and do' without mentioning or even it being noticed by her partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:54 PM
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Women work more than men every day in every country on earth, apart from Denmark.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 03:02 PM
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I settled for a couple of ugly guys I wasn't attracted to because of low self esteem. The tiny bit of attraction I had disappeared when they dropped the 'nice' facade and started becoming entitled/abusive. Then I dumped them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/21 02:31 PM
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that is not even adult enough that can clean, cook and do essential tasks expected of an adult. That's most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:24 PM
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Never said that. What I'm arguing is that both parties should contribute to the cooking, cleaning and any other common task (as they do when they are single) and both parties should financially contribute in equal part regardless of gender. You didn't say that at all. This is what most women want but end up with a manchild who wants her to work full time and clean up after him. The idea that someone is entitled to live on someone else salary is toxic. But expecting someone to cook and clean up a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 04:16 PM
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It depends on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:59 PM
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Nah, I love my partner, I wouldn't want anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:58 PM
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But you would for an attractive one?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:46 PM
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So women should just cook and clean and pick up after you because? Because it's easy?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:09 PM
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A lot of women are, hence the divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 03:00 PM
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So you'd leave your partner for a celebrity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:03 PM
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Nothing? I love him and want to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:02 PM
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That doesn't make sense. Why are you worthy of a relationship when you sleep round but she is not?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 11:12 PM
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That's not explaining the justification other than 'just coz we're different'
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:40 PM
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Yeah because he's framing it as 'some girls are pure and good for relationships, other are tainted by casual sex'
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:39 PM
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Why do you think it's okay for you to have fwb but not her?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:36 PM
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Madonna-Whore complex?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:21 PM
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You're a complete hypocrite, you've had fwb before, but you're worthy of a relationship?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 08:02 PM
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Yes. Tell the truth and be blunt and honest so she can find someone who does want marriage.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 01:32 AM
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'She’s wants a title, but I’m not ready for that yet' Maybe tell her that?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 02:09 AM
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Tell her the truth maybe? Has that actually crossed your mind?
/r/askTRP16/02/21 01:57 AM
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Down. Used to have really low self esteem, will not be dating unemployed, ugly losers ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:25 PM
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No, absolutely not. Long term relationship potential or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:13 PM
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Social media addiction is a behavioral addiction that is characterized as being overly concerned about social media, driven by an uncontrollable urge to log on to or use social media, and devoting so much time and effort to social media that it impairs other important life areas.'' Yep, thats bad. But I asked about the actual effects on the brain and on relationships. Also porn sites often feature women that have been trafficked and abused, even actual rape video (pornhub had to delete millions …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 05:17 PM
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Do you have a stats that show the brain damage that social media does? Or the increased divorce risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:25 PM
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and everyone recommended porn That is extremely sad and misinformed. Porn does tremendous damage to an individual. You women are nuts. Out of your mind yahoos with 0 functioning brain cells. Wow, where the fuck did that come from? I make a statement about the harmful effects of porn and now me and every woman on earth is a deranged lunatic?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 02:34 PM
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Women don't think like that, this is incel theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 02:29 PM
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Yeah, I don't think all guys are either 'whores or virgins'. I just value sex and intimacy and think it should be saved for serious relationships. I don't think a man becomes dirty by having sex with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:59 AM
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Call it what you want, that pattern of thinking exists and it's vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:06 AM
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Also... girls who fit what I said—well they’re not going for any ol’ Average Joe 🤷‍♂️ I know, that's why I find it ironic lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:16 AM
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Sexually Competent" of course meaning must have practiced a lot on other women Fucking lots of random people does not make you good at sex. Women are actually less likely to orgasm from casual sex encounters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:14 AM
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Top 5% looks but 'muh women only like chads' lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 01:09 AM
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That study only suggests some kind of association. It could be that men who have smaller grey matter material to begin with default to watching more porn compulsively. Doubt it, and besides why would I put up with my partners watching naked strangers fuck each other because hey 'it might not lead to addiction right away' Hell no. Then there's the ED risk, the lower levels of relationship satisfaction, the higher divorce, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:45 AM
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I haven't seen concrete science on this that goes beyond speculation from anti-porn advocates. https://iflscience.com/brain/researchers-find-association-between-porn-viewing-and-less-grey-matter-brain/ It does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:00 AM
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For the record, I watch porn when I'm single (and only as a supplemental to erotica, which is my preference) but when I want to commit to someone I cut it out entirely. I don't think it's unrealistic, even in the more extreme case of a guy who never watches porn or who does so incredibly rarely. It shrinks the grey matter in the brain, rewiring it to a more primitive state and funds human trafficking and the exploitation of women. Women who have gone missing have been found on pornhub being rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:28 PM
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Amazing how reasonable your list is but not wanting a guy who watches porn is seen as an extreme and unrealistic expectation on mine lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:21 PM
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women want resources. I'd be more attracted to a hot guy than an average one with money. This theory is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 11:16 PM
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That's pretty bad though isn't it? Not one standards about looks (apart from don't be obese). Not a single financial requirement, most of these are choices within a guys control. Yet the majority of guys would be weeded out by this list. Also, hopefully you don’t take this as offensive, but do you meet all of the requirements you listed? I meet/exceed every single one of these. I don't really care if a guy is in great shape as long as he's not obese, but I'm in really good shape. I don't mind a …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:11 PM
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Which one of these standards do you think is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:04 PM
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The black and white thinking complex of thinking all women are either innocent virgins or damaged whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:50 PM
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Don't think women have madonna-whore complexes often
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:47 PM
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They aren't, I wrote an exclusion list a while ago and men were arguing it was asking for too much when everything on the list was under their control.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:20 PM
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They really aren't though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:44 PM
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women without transforming into an alcoholic gamer Women 'transform' you into that? Do you actually have a choice in your own life?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:43 PM
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I've got an exclusion list. - Bad hygiene - Bad at sex/doesn't care about your enjoyment (likely learned almost everything from porn which is women being paid to fake enjoyment) - Psychopathy/Narcissism/Other personality disorders - Porn sickness/ED (80% of men watch porn regularly) - Unequal distribution of labour (E.g will not cook or clean and will constantly expect you to do everything in the house, while working a full time job) - Men who only want sex/casual relationships - Men with double…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:42 PM
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Never
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:38 PM
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She loves you, you don't love her. Do the right thing and let her go.
/r/askTRP31/01/21 02:56 AM
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I went through horrible pain, like you only been in a couple relationships. I had extremely low self esteem, genuinely thought I owed every man that was nice to me a chance to date me. Ended up in 2 very abusive relationships, I wasn't really attracted to either of them, they were just 'nice in the beginning'. I was stolen from, lied to, forced to clean up after them, called names, gaslit, trapped and isolated from my friends and family. As painful as it was, I think I needed to go through it, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 02:31 AM
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I reckon that's true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 01:44 AM
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say things like “I love you, this is forever” etc. I say those things cuz it feels good but inside I know the truth, that it’s only my turn. So you've completely lied about your intentions? maybe make her feel like shit too Why do you want to hurt her? Because she slept with someone before you? Would I be stupid to do that when she’s been so good to me? So why the fuck do you want to hurt her?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:53 AM
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if you don't want to be with her long term, why not dump her now? Is it really fair to take up her fertile years like that?
/r/askTRP28/01/21 02:50 AM
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without monogamous commitment. That's depressing, pretty sure a lot of men actually want monogamous commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:22 PM
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If the only reason why guy washes his own balls and doesn't abuse people is to 'get something' in return then men are even worse than I thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:19 PM
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Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:17 PM
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You do realise this post is about men and not women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:12 PM
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This wasn't on the list, it was an afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:35 PM
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Aka "he gave me a bunch of free shit" He didn't give me anything, he was just nice, complimented me, showed genuine interest and care in my life. Of course this changed when I moved in with him where he treated me worse than anyone I've ever met in my life has. I didn't even get a birthday present from him. Dont date someone because of some nice earrings next time ffs. I had a job, he was unemployed when we started dating. I paid for literally every date we ever went on. Nice try making up an en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 11:15 PM
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We both talk go who we want This isn't even English, what the fuck are you saying? an open relationship isnt fair for men in the first place cuz women have waaaay more options for casual sex so i would never even agree to that. But it's ok for you to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:39 PM
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Because you are the one who gets to sleep around, but she doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:34 PM
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It's not an exact clone. If you want to sleep around, why won't you le her sleep around too?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:24 PM
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She'll wisen up soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:24 PM
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How was her childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:11 PM
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You can, just don't be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 07:11 PM
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So your response to some women only specifying much taller guys is to demand a woman ho is a virgin even though you've slept around? Not to mention you want to be able to fuck other women on the side but your girlfriend can't do that. Actual garbage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:31 PM
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Be a shame if someone sent everything you've said to your girlfriend, wouldn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:31 PM
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Nope, he was addicted to porn. He rarely kissed me after month 3.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 06:17 PM
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GO AWAY.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:53 PM
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Not really, I only liked him because he was nice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:53 PM
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He was nice to me at first, really nice. It's called 'love-bombing'
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:52 PM
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Also serious black and white thinking that physically attractive men are abusive and horrible, but ugly one are just really nice? Lmao, doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:20 PM
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Nice try, the first guy i ever dated was ugly and balding. He was the most abusive man I've ever encountered.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:19 PM
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Yes, they do. This is a classic 'just world fallacy' type thinking. There's no evidence behind what you're saying at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:05 PM
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Yes, they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:03 PM
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No because you're egocentric and hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 05:00 PM
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Well according to you good women don't end up with bad men, so what happened to me and all the other women who were abused by narcissistic guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:59 PM
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Being a hypocrite is wrong, wanting an 'open relationship' but only one sided is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:56 PM
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This is a just world fallacy 'bad men only go for women who sleep around, they'd never go for a 'good girl'' Also maddona-whore complex. Seriously dude, HOW many of those red flags do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:26 PM
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That proves the point then, most people who meet you think you're a good guy. You aren't a good guy, not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:25 PM
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I don't. But even if you date someone for a year and then marry them, you could just hide these things. It's happened to me a few times, guy is super nice at first, the red flags come much later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:15 PM
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You're avoiding the question. Do you think it is wise that women not date men like you? Do you see yourself as a good guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:14 PM
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Are you stupid? Do I really have to dumb this down so you understand what I'm trying to say? I'm saying, what if YOU LIKED the woman's personality, but WE DON'T want to end up married to a GUY LIKE YOU. Would you make all this shit apparent from the first day? \^
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:12 PM
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ven 25% more choosy there would be less single mothers. Most men are undatable from a personality standpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:08 PM
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Says the guy blaming women for 'being abused' instead of men for abusing them smdh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:06 PM
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Where are all these 'plenty of good men' lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 04:04 PM
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I pray this girl wisens up and leaves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:56 PM
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But we don't WANT to end up with men like you for marriage, if you stick around anyway it doesn't work, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:55 PM
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You literally have several things on this list, so you consider women who exclude you sensible?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:54 PM
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So you'd rather pimp out your own girlfriends sexuality to other men because you don't want to provide. Yeah never ind what I said because, this is beyond selfish and manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:41 PM
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unless i actually liked the woman and if you like her?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:25 PM
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No it isn't. The average woman dates a few people before marriage. Most women don't want to end up with horrible men. Which of the standards on the exclusion list is unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:24 PM
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Can she talk to guys then?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 03:23 PM
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u probably warded off all the bad guys in the first place If only women could guard against men like you for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:40 PM
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Your girlfriend agreed to a completely one sided relationship that benefits you while she gets...nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:40 PM
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? Where the hell did you make up that weird little story from? This is pure incel rhetoric, god how many red flags do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:39 PM
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Yeah, but what happens if a guy acts nice in the beginning and ends up being like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:37 PM
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Maybe if the marriage was open with a lesbian girl and we only were allowed to talk to girls. Why would a LESBIAN want to date a man? Wtf?! And i kinda expect them to be at least as attractive as me to. Its a lot to expect especially in this day and age but otherwise i’d rather just be single i think idk. Well yeah, especially considering you want a virgin but you aren't one yourself. You want an open relationship but ONLY with women of course. Why would a woman want to go for this? Seriously? *…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:30 PM
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And she shouldn't. because you're a basket of entitlement and red flags. Which is exactly the point I was making, 90% of men are undatable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:26 PM
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Yeah no doubt. So a hypocrite with double standards that he can't live up to, doesn't even know if he wants to get married or have kids and smokes weed before posting 'satire' on reddit. Yeah the exact type of person the average woman should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:17 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kqk6wz/women_are_objects_and_should_be_treated_as_such/ Well you sound like a real charmer, don't know why any woman wouldn't want you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 02:11 PM
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So you'd be happy to provide everything for your wife, work full time to support her and your children while she stays at home as a housewife. And if you divorce, you're happy to pay her alimony to make up for her years that she didn't spend in the workforce?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:50 PM
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So since you'll be providing equally, you'll do just as much housework and childcare as her I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:48 PM
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So you list criteria for marriage but you don't even want to get married? lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:44 PM
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No, most women don't want to do ALL the housework and childcare, they want a partner who splits it 50/50. As this rarely happens and women end up doing most of it, it makes sense that to be equal and fair, they demand a man brings more money. Stop assuming landing a decent man is sooo easy. Its really hard actually and women need to stop fucking around if that’s what they want. You don't say? Lol I literally wrote the post about 90% of men being undatable so I agree with you on that. We aren't '…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:24 PM
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Was a virgin when you met but isn't anymore, by your own admission you wouldn't marry her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:20 PM
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The average height for a woman is the US is 5ft 4, the average height for a man is 5'9/5'10. A average woman wanting an average size man is not hypocrisy. A woman who is slightly taller than the average might want a man who is also slightly taller than the average. Women who are tiny and want huge men are being hypocrites though. Yeah you can demand what you want, but hypocrisy is a deal breaker and most women don't want reformed sluts unless they have slept around themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:19 PM
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You ARE a hypocrite though. Sure a lot of women won't care about how many women you've slept with, but those will be the ones who've also slept around. Women who remain virgins until marriage are likely very religious (and would want someone who is also very religious) or have very strict attitudes about sex and when it is ok to have it. Most women don't want a reformed slut, even less so women who are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:16 PM
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The reason why most women expect men who earn more is because most housework and childcare is STILL done by women. Since you don't get paid for making everyones meals and taking on most of the childcare responsibilities, then a man who contributes more financially would make sense, wouldn't it? Besides we are talking about sexual double standards, not financial double standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:14 PM
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Me only wanting a virgin for marriage perfectly aligns with this extensive exclusion list right?Of course! Assuming you're a virgin yourself and can actually live up to your own standards.1ReplyshareSaveEdit level 2moneygang4life7 minutes ago They HATE FDS, go have a look.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:10 PM
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Then you're a hypocrite. No, I would never hold a man to a standard I do not meet myself, because then I'd be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:09 PM
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Yeah, this actually what FDS advises. Most men hate FDS for some strange reason though....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:02 PM
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If all men are that bad then it shouldnt be much at all to ask to wait for the right one then right Yeah, but how are you able to tell IMMEDIATELY if a guy meets anything on the exclusion list? The problem is a lot of guys are aware what turn off a lot of their behaviour and characteristics are, so try and hide it until you are somewhat trapped with them. Me only wanting a virgin for marriage perfectly aligns with this extensive exclusion list right? Of course! Assuming you're a virgin yourself …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:59 PM
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Did you actually read the exclusion list?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:00 AM
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This is a good point, never lower your standards, I completely agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:00 AM
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Because these ARE basic standards, most men fail even those nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:57 AM
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Did you even read the exclusion list?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:54 AM
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My standards are reasonable, go be autistic elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 10:51 AM
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branding them as children that are incapable of being responsible for their own decisions. Women being abused by men is not 'being responsible for our own decisions' we literally cannot control how men treat us, only how we respond. Its very easy to say youd rather not be privileged when talking from a privileged position. Trust me, the grass is not always greener on the other side. Again, being left alone is far better than being used and manipulated. I thought that women were sexually empowere…
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 12:56 PM
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Yeah? You made a claim 'You literally only have to look at the statistics on the shit show that is online dating to realise which gender has it easier. Even average looking broads are getting hundreds of likes and messages whilst most men wallow and get nothing' I'd rather get nothing than be used. Also men lie and use women for casual sex....then wonder why women would rather stay away entirely.
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 11:04 AM
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but I can guarantee that all men rejected on online dating feel like shit, as do the smaller number of women that are rejected. Being used is worse than being rejected.
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah? What's wrong with not wanting to be chinfished?
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 02:45 AM
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It's not making fun of them, it's a meme of how to spot men who try to lie and cover it up?
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 02:40 AM
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There's nothing wrong with not wanting to date a 300 pound woman, just as there's nothing wrong in not wanting to date a guy with a weak chin.
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 02:32 AM
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Good? Whoever said you had to?
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/21 02:28 AM
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This is not exactly true. What a man is looking for can largely be predicted by what platform they choose to use. If youre looking for a long term relationship on Tinder then you need to reevaluate your life, it can happen but its rare. Other dating services generally feature an older and somewhat more serious crowd depending on their focus. Not true, a woman did a study on FDS once where she asked men if they were looking for casual or relationships and many didn't answer until they found out w…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 06:29 PM
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They reciprocate the respect if the guy is decent. Not if he is low effort, a cheater, a porn addict, etc.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 06:01 PM
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That sub has over 121k followers A comment with 100 upvotes doesn't prove anything.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:53 PM
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This one comment again, where in the actual handbook does it say this?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:41 PM
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What 'misandrist' things?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:35 PM
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But most men online are looking for casual sex, most women want relationships. Getting 'loads of likes' from men who want to use you like a blow up sex doll is not as flattering as you think.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:34 PM
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What's stupid about not wanting to date a guy with a weak chin? lmao
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:31 PM
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femcels because they don't wanna date a guy with a weak chin? lmao
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/21 05:31 PM
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So, suppose, hypothetically, your friend was to lie. Give a fake name, use a throw-away phone, etc. Do all the RP stuff like lift, improve himself, become all alpha. Find the hottest chicks and bed them. How would he then proceed to get them to stop taking their birth control, not get an abortion, etc. Then disappear and let a beta support the woman and his child? You're a sick freak. You'd likely resent a woman like this but advocate 'tricking' one into having your child, then becoming a deadbe…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Nonsluttymen/comments/j2rh0z/hookup_culture_and_promiscuity_is_overexaggerated/ I mean that's a load of shite but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 01:17 AM
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It can be one for you. But often men are promiscuous and expect women who aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 12:39 AM
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Because if he has any awareness of anything, he would know that porn shrinks certain parts of the brain, makes it harder to get off with an actual partner, causes ED, lowers self esteem, has been linked to mental health problems. Not to mention the funding of a sick industry rife with abuse and human trafficking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:10 AM
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Men can have a sex drive and not watch porn? Porn is a fairly recent invention, wtf did men do before then? Oh yeah, not watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:54 PM
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None of them. But more than what an average person has to offer. So you're basically admitting that wanting the bare minimum from men is too much? I meet EVERY one of those standards and I exceed some too. Lower your expectations. Again, which of these standards needs to be lowered? Why is it too much to ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:47 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:38 PM
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Which one of those standards is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:38 PM
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Did you actually read the exclusion list...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 11:22 PM
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The fact that 77% of men watch porn is a me problem is it? There's not a single standard on that list that I don't meet or exceed myself, not one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:49 AM
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Source: dude trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 12:48 AM
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and neither are men, why is that so hard for men to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:49 PM
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I value sex in a relationship not sex outside of a relationship Right? But a lot of guys want this but don't want to meet that standard themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:47 PM
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As long as the man doesn't sleep around either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:44 PM
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and their prospects to sleep around will increase. Vile and disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:42 PM
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You can't dig it up because it doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:35 PM
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I don't think you realise what porn has done to men, especially in regards to sex within relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:35 PM
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Most men fail to meet the basic standards
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:31 PM
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made to penetrate" at comparable rates to women being sexually assaulted, Stats for this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:20 PM
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Aaaaand yet there is still a huge orgasm gap between men/women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:14 PM
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Most men can't even deliver the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:49 PM
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setting unrealistic standards. Unrealistic standards: https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpkgrq/9095_of_men_are_undateable/ The bare minimum is too much for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:47 PM
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Can't 'teach' someone who doesn't want to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:46 PM
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Why be with a man who isn't even going to try and satisfy you? Literally what is the point?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:45 PM
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Go and actually READ the list, there weren't any looks requirements!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:44 PM
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then slowly decreasing the amount of effort I put in (which usually drives them crazy and makes them try to be even better towards you) until she is too emotionally/mentally drained to continue on and then she breaks up with me Why would you abuse someone like this jesus fucking christ. Just break up with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:33 PM
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Even when single, the porn is industry is one of the world in the world. Women and children trafficked, pornstars die young and get addicted to drugs, increases divorce risk and rewires the brain to a more juvenile state. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:27 PM
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And wrinkles, ick. Imagine thinking that you're too good for women your own age but young women are just perfect for an aging old man lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 09:25 PM
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You said you were poor at the time so why exactly are you exceptional? Do you have 3 hairs left or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:52 PM
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Masturbation does not have to include porn. The exclusion remains.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:44 PM
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It's statistics, most women want a man their own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:43 PM
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Problem for you, is almost no young women are attracted to older men. Apart from to use for money and then he'll be tossed aside.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:29 PM
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There's nothing inherently wrong with jacking off lol. And I have nothing against that, I just don't want a man who watches porn. Men watch porn in relationships instead of having sex with their partners. So that simple black and white rule doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:20 PM
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He would most likely treat you as if you were a tinder girl that said No-Hook ups on your profile. I would not be interested in someone like that so he'd weed himself out. I'm also not interested in guys who want or have had casual sex before so there's another way to weed them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 08:06 PM
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Since OP wasn't specific about what TRP beliefs or Behaviors would require them to be disqualified, I was showing that you need to be specific in what you are repudiating. You do realise that I am the OP, right? As to why he would bother.... well Why buy yourself an engagement ring? because you want to. If I tell a guy I don't want a guy who believes in TRP ideology, then why would he still want to be with me if he is a guy who believes in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:53 PM
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TRP is not solely confidence and weight lifting. It's an entire set of beliefs and actions. If I said to a man 'I don't want a man who believes in the ideology of TRP' Then why would he bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:19 PM
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Why is us having standards bad then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:09 PM
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Any man who thinks women are inferior, solely because we are women, maddona-whore complex, use of 'dread'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:08 PM
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There are significantly fewer women that watch porn than men, if you paired people up based on that alone, there would be huge shortfall of women without partners. 'I've been blamed for being in relationships with bad women' I'm sorry, it wasn't your fault and I'm glad you got out. 'I disagree with the entire premise of your post. Shitty people find each other' Just world fallacy in a nutshell. If your partner treats you badly, it must be because you are also bad. eyeroll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 07:01 PM
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The only people who don't watch naked strangers fucking on the internet are children? Lmao don't look at r/NoFap and r/PornFreeRelationships then.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:58 PM
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Plenty of men who are confident aren't TRP. Plenty of men lift weights aren't TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:57 PM
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No? Also what are you trying to say? That unless men have an endless supply of naked couples to watch have sex, then they will go out and cheat unless they are religious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:57 PM
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that you yourself aren't meeting(or willing to meet) My exclusion list is linked at the top of this post and there isn't a single standard that I don't meet or exceed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:54 PM
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You can’t compare those times to this one. I’m not even going to put up an argument for that. Why not? Porn was not available, men did not watch it. I've found a guy like that lol. And there's an entire movement dedicated to not watching porn, many in fact. Sadly, a lot of men don't want to give up the destructive habit and try to justify it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:53 PM
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What have women got to do with this list? Whataboutism isn't a response.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:51 PM
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Porn didn't exist until recently so it wasn't even an option 50 years ago. What did these men do? Go insane? No. They just didn't watch it. I don't watch porn, it is harmful. I don't want a partner who watches it either. This is not unreasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:24 PM
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So why is having standards bad then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 06:19 PM
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complain about women's standards it's more in regards to the physical ones The only physical requirement on that list, was that he not be obese. although expecting a guy who never watches porn is kinda rediculous. Porn has extremely negative affects on the brain and relationships, i don't watch it and I expect a partner who also doesn't watch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:29 PM
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Define "ANY standards, even basic ones" and elaborate what you're doing to implement them or the like in your life. For clarification, I'm talking about standards you're expected to meet. *Sigh* I literally included a link to the original post, you can read the list there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:28 PM
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but just know that if you lower your standards you'll be shackled with the stigma of it not working out. This is an incredibly insightful thing to say, thank you for putting in into words like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 05:22 PM
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I won't date anyone who has one of these exclusions, even if he's physically extremely attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:51 PM
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Blocked, incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:43 PM
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Great, why the fuck are you commenting on this post then? Go your own way already
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:41 PM
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I hope bashing women on the internet makes you feel better about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:36 PM
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Don't. Go your own way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:33 PM
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No point in responding to you anymore, goodbye and good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:33 PM
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I don't care, it's an exclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:33 PM
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and i had to follow along aoooo You had to 'follow along'? You pathetic, spineless omega man lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:31 PM
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You want to know? Having a maddona-whore complex is considered a pretty serious disorder in the extremes. You have it, it's an exclusion for a reason lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:30 PM
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Maddona-Whore complex. Vile. Do not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:29 PM
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I don't care what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:28 PM
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It's not true but if i 'admit' it, will it make you happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:28 PM
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hahahaha oh no, however will I go on? A person on the internet who types like a child with a speech independent thinks I'm horrible at discussions!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:27 PM
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Then it's also unfair to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:26 PM
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Stop pretending like men throwing away their virginity doesnt reflect on who they r as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:09 PM
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Great! Take your Madonna-Whore complex and go your own way then. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:09 PM
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Dude, I'm already with someone who makes me happy. 'Settle' for me when I meet every single thing on this list lmao. Go back to your incel echo chamber and scream about women who want men who clean themselves and don't hit us are 'asking way too much' lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:08 PM
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No it's not lmao. Hence it's on the exclusion list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:07 PM
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This is getting tiresome. I don't have to explain myself to you and this list was meant to show how most guys fail the first hurdle when it comes to dating because of choosable life skills/problems. Most young women will seriously struggle to find a guy who is/has none of the things on this list. This is before looks have even been considered. You're an incel, you're so deep into blackpill thinking that it's like talking to a robot. It doesn't matter what I say. You just keep spitting out the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:05 PM
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That's not specific, why are any one of these basic standards asking too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:01 PM
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Its one or the other You have a maddona-whore complex, see the list. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 04:00 PM
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Which ONE of these standards is asking for too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:58 PM
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You just said 90% of men are undateable? And that's largely because most men watch porn and I don't want a partner that does. Idk what YOU bring to the table I meet/exceed every single one of these standards, every one. I ask again, which one of these standards is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:52 PM
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I never denied looks didn't play some role. You've just strawmanned yourself into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:32 PM
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None of these things are a high expectation, none. Hygiene should be a given, so should not being physically violent, so should not cheating on partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:30 PM
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For the last time, I was initially attracted based on personality because I didn't KNOW what he looked like at first. If he had any one of these things on the list, it would've been a no regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:29 PM
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You kept insisting that only your own looks matter to you & a prospective partner's doesn't, so long as they aren't obese. I said this is an exclusion list for the last fucking time, this list is the bare minimum. I said I want to look better for my own self esteem and not to attract guys, which is also true. I never said a partners looks don't matter at all, this is just a never ending strawman now.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:28 PM
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I don't bring enough to the table to get a man who isn't a porn addicted psychopath?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:26 PM
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I never said looks don't matter at all, but this is the bare minimum list for exclusion. If an extremely physically attractive man was even one of these, it would be a hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:22 PM
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Wanting a man to not be a psychopath is wanting a simp? Lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:18 PM
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I never said that, post an exact comment or you're a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:17 PM
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No I seriously haven't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:17 PM
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You explicitly mentioned several times that a prospective partner's looks don't matter to you, so long as they aren't obese I never mentioned this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:15 PM
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and a prospective partner's doesn't, so long as they aren't obese. I never said that, I said men fail to qualify based on personality, this is before looks are even considered. you have some other preferences for looks as well, which you kept denying. I never denied this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:15 PM
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YES. I. NEVER. DENIED. THAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:13 PM
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his looks played a role, which you kept denying I never said his looks played no role, stop strawmanning and get out of your NPC incel brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:12 PM
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I never once said that looks don't matter at all. I said that the only looks requirement on this list is to not be obese. I was trying to illustrate how before you even put looks into the equation, most men are undatable for women looking for serious relationships because of personality issues. The second thread you sent me to is you trying to make assumptions about why I want to look better. You think everything i want to do must be about attracting men somehow, so you strawmanned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:08 PM
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AFTER. I. ALREADY. SPENT. MONTHS. TALKING. TO. HIM. ONLINE.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:03 PM
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You had earlier mentioned you had no clue what he looked like until you met him! Where? Where did I say that? Link me to the comment. Would you still have dated him if he looked like the Elephant Man? Obviously not! Would i date a man with a severe physical deformity? No probably not. Would he date me if I had a severe physical deformity? No probably not. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:59 PM
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You've completely strawmanned. I never said I would date him 'no matter what he looked like', I said it was his personality that initially drew me to him, which is true because I didn't even know what he looked like at first.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:56 PM
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I didn't meet him on a dating app, this guy is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:52 PM
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I saw his picture AFTER I got to know him, this is not a contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpkgrq/comment/gi23qci No I wasn't lying, i did not know what he looked like at first. This is getting out of hand now, you're borderline obsessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:50 PM
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I got to know him BEFORE I knew what he looked like and it was his personality that initially drew me to him. God incels are so obsessed with confirming the blackpill that they will rewrite someone's entire relationship to fit their retarded confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:48 PM
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What is this NPC bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:11 PM
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Obviously not, that would be stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:16 PM
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I do, but the fact that you think this list is too much to ask says it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:32 AM
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And you did know how he looked like! Liking his pic is what made you want to meet him. His profile picture was a cartoon.... the lengths you are going to explain my own life and thoughts to me is pathetic. What made we want to meet him was how sweet and kind he was.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:30 AM
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Don't care incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 10:27 AM
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We did meet online, most young people do. I love the incel logic though, 'this doesn't fit with my NPC blackpilled worldview, so it must be lies'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:44 AM
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You seem to think that porn addiction doesn't exist and that many men just date women for no reason while watching porn. It's real, and we won't put up with it. End of story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:41 AM
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The fake statistics you made up - Which one are you even referring to? Regarding your SO, you chose him because he was attractive & also happened to be a good person. The point is when you saw him for the first time, you could only gauge his looks. You couldn't read his mind & tell that he was a nice person. You dated him because he was attractive & learnt about him being nice along the way. We met online, I had no clue what he looked like at first. You can stop 'incelsplaining' my life to me no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:39 AM
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Yes, they did. Why would he date random women who he didn't even like? He's a porn addict and has damaged his brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:31 AM
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if your looks matter so much to you, why don't a prospective partner's? His looks do matter to me, but not as much as him being a good person. If he was one of the things on this list, I'd immediately leave. If he started balding, or gained weight, or lost weight, I wouldn't mind. Your arguments are as hollow as the statistics you made up yourself, perhaps in your dreams, where all the women in the world provided inputs to you. That fake statistics thing alone makes you a bigot, if not delusiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:26 AM
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Then why didn't he leave me? He'd been a porn addict long before he met me and long after I dumped him. He's not dated once since I dumped him and he was dumped by every girl he'd ever been out with before me. You just don't get it. Click on the subs and see for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:21 AM
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You really don't get porn addiction. Men will shun actual relationships and sex with real women to jerk off, see r/deadbedrooms and r/PornFreeRelationships for many examples. My ex partner was a porn addict, he literally couldn't get erect if there wasn't a screen in front of him, he was so damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:18 AM
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Lie. You said he was laughing at the end & that you were crying Yes, his violence and cruelty was why I ended it. This was then met with promises that he would 'change' etc. Why are you trying to look for meaning in every word in order to 'gotcha' my own life experience to me? He was a horrible person, I ended it and I'm so happy I did. Why do you want to looks-max if getting an attractive partner isn't one of your objectives? If you're only seeking approval from yourself, why do you care about …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:16 AM
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Yes, my looks matter a lot to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:11 AM
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If you're indeed physically attractive, how come have you always encountered trashy men? Do you seriously think that trashy men just go for 'bad' looking women? lmao. You're right to be looks-maxxing, as you explicitly put it, because it can get you classy partners. I don't WANT 'classy partners', I'm already happy. I want to look good FOR MYSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:10 AM
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Lie. "Same guy who bought me flowers in the beginning was also the one shoving me into a door frame and laughing while I cried in the end." Yeah, he lovebombed me in the beginning and gradually turned worse until I dumped him, at which point he cried and begged to have me back. Why would you want to undergo surgery to look better if you're not in show-biz? Getting & retaining an attractive partner, duh! Because I want to look even better. This may astonish you but not everything people do is bou…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:08 AM
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Why am I 'throwing that away'. I only date seriously and I would only date men who are the same, I don't want a promiscuous old man, yuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:05 AM
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Nice attempt at gaslighting. Not wanting my partner to watch porn does not make me controlling, if he wants to watch it, I won't stay and demand he not do it. I'll just leave. Porn is extremely damaging to marital satisfaction and can lead to divorce, I don't want that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:03 AM
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No it isn't, men being easy and desperate does not make you better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:19 AM
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Watching porn to release stress is bizarre and stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:19 AM
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I don't care, I take relationships seriously and won't entertain one with a promiscuous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:18 AM
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Yes it is, I won't date promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:16 AM
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I've had a couple partners, all within long term relationships. Never a hook up or casual anything, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:09 AM
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Gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:06 AM
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That's not your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:02 AM
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​ Bad hygiene clickbait Whether or not that particular article was clickbait or not, having good hygiene is non negotiable. No shit he is bad at sex when it rarely happend and it always happend on her terms, the poor guy had to take what he could get. Also men do care about womens enjoyment... women are starfishes. Being bad at sex does not equal being inexperienced. Not caring about your enjoyment, not listening to you, poor hygiene, not taking their time. You could be a virgin and good at sex,…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 02:00 AM
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I don't know what the actual fuck you're talking about. Wanting to wait for sex isn't a bad thing, it's good and it's non negotiable for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:44 AM
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and these men are rarely virgins themselves, i.e they are hypocrites, which is an exclusion point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:42 AM
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To MYSELF you fucking dumbass.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:41 AM
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Yes they are. I don't want a promiscuous man, that's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:19 AM
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We can't even get onto looks, men already fail at the basics.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:13 AM
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Wrong again, I've had limited relationship experience by choice, but it was ended by me each time. No, I want to like the way I look even more than I do now. I don't hate my appearance but why would I not want to look even better? Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:12 AM
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I already have one and he's beautiful. I am indeed doing it for me, stop projecting and trying explain my own thoughts to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 01:09 AM
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And? I want to look as good as possible and I can do whatever I feel is necessary to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:51 AM
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'emcels' find sex meaningless because they want to wait before emotions have developed and been established before they do it? Lol ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:46 AM
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Yes? Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:44 AM
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Men pay for dates, that isn't 'men pay for all'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:33 AM
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I have to be Asian American to be interested in surgery in Korea?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:33 AM
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Well I haven't asked them everything on this list like an interrogation lmao, that would be weird. 90% watch consistently? Where are you getting that from? Most I dude don’t even have the time to watch anything like that. I think the 90% stat was from the US, in my own country, it's 77% in the last month.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 12:29 AM
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Yeah, thought I'd get an answer like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:26 PM
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But you have to, otherwise that 5%-10% of men will go for the other girl. No actually a lot of guys respect women who don't just have sex the first time they meet like intimacy is meaningless. Also if a guy wanted to sleep with me casually/quickly, I wouldn't be interested anymore because I only want people who take intimacy seriously and want a committed relationship before it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:24 PM
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Where on this list is 'men pays for all' a requirement?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:21 PM
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This is not the list for the 'perfect man' it's the bare fucking minimum jesus christ. Not wanting to date a porn watcher or psychopath makes me some overly demanding queen according to the guys commenting on this. Which one of these standards is seriously asking for too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:19 PM
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This post is about MEN not women. They’re equally undateable and its like sorry u cant find ur perfect guy lets just give up on men altogether as if you yourself are perfect. Not wanting to date a psychopath and porn addict is not an unreasonable or high standard, it's the bare fucking minimum. There's not a standard on this list that I don't meet or exceed myself, I'm no hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:18 PM
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ithinkoutloudtoo Which one of these standards is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:09 PM
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ithinkoutloudtoo I do find it funny that on me writing a post about standards I have for a life partner, you go through my post history, make a bunch of weird assumptions about me and come to the conclusion that I need some 'good counselling'. Women having standards for the men we want to marry and have children with makes us a bunch of 'crazy whores' or something, right? The truth is, I've been in abusive relationships before. I was in a relationship with a porn addict, who stole from me and la…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:06 PM
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She's the type who doesn't really want "help," If you'd bother to look, I literally made a post called 'huge mental health level up'. And no, I'm not really insecure. I feel better now than I have in my life and it's largely due to having standards and boundaries!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:59 PM
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Insecure about what exactly? Lmao it's funny because I'm more confident now than I've ever been in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:58 PM
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Almost every thing on this list is a choice and there's only one point about looks (don't be obese) Having standards does not make women bad, particularly if they are the bare fucking minimum like have some life goals and don't abuse me ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:55 PM
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Yeah and they're all lovely people thank goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:50 PM
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??? what are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:48 PM
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I should add another one, calling a woman 'crazy' for the slightest thing.🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:31 PM
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Wow, just because I mentioned the same thin twice I'm 'crazy' now? Lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:24 PM
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Yes, I'm saying I don't wouldn't date a man with double standards. The example I gave was merely to illustrate the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:20 PM
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The promiscuity was just an example of the kind of double standard he might hold.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 10:11 PM
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True division of labour is absolutely fine! Giving and taking and not at all hypocritical. My issue is with the guys who expect women to cook and clean for them while also working.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:32 PM
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I don't have sex casually, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:30 PM
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Oh I could write paragraphs on how fucking stupid it is. I once dated a guy who told me that I wanted to wear a particular dress because I 'unconsciously' wanted to attract other men. I wanted to wear the dress because it was my favourite colour and the fabric was soft. It's that kind of reason that it's a huge no-no for me. I don't want a guy to condescendingly explain to me that the 'REAL' reason I want to wear a dress or makeup or do anything is because of some shit that happened in a cave 10…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:14 PM
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No, I am not. I gathered this information from statistics, I didn't just pull these random facts out of my own ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 09:08 PM
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Are you saying you think any one of these standards is unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:41 PM
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I've dated a porn addict, it was absolutely awful. Porn shrinks parts of the brain, creates unhealthy body image issues, leads to erectile dysfunction, creates a higher risk for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:33 PM
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I don't base my life on it. I just assert that most men are undatable and are unsuitable for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:32 PM
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He largely draws from shakey 'evolutionary psychology' which has so many flaws, I don't even know where to start. In addition, if you're a grown adult man interested in books like '12 rules for life' which give the same kind of basic advice I got for years from family members, I really don't want such guy in my life. Imagine needing a middle aged man to write a book telling you to clean your room and be organised because the thought never really occurred to you before that? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:20 PM
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It's not, he largely draws from shakey 'evolutionary psychology' which has so many flaws, I don't even know where to start. In addition, if you're a grown adult man interested in books like '12 rules for life' which give the same kind of basic advice I got for years from family members, I really don't want such guy in my life. Imagine needing a middle aged man to write a book telling you to clean your room and be organised because the thought never really occurred to you before that? Pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:20 PM
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I guess I can only speak for myself. I maybe watch porn 1x per week, for maybe half an hour. Hasn’t altered my perceptions right what women should be or sex should be. I really don't think it's that simple, porn has a significant affect on the brain. I'm not willing to put up with that. Maybe in the UK there’s less to do, but I’d rather be partaking in my hobbies then spending hours, days, to the extent of addiction. There's plenty to do. Porn is sometimes just a means to an end for some. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 08:16 PM
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Jordan Peterson is not a Psychiatrist, he is a psychologist lmao. Big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:58 PM
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LOL no. Couldn't be more wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:57 PM
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No, I gathered statistics from government and private surveys.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:55 PM
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So 90% of men have an addiction to porn? 77% in the last MONTH in my country. I don't want a partner who watches porn at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:54 PM
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Having a basic list of requirements is a leftist meme? Lmao. How many of these apply to you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:53 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:52 PM
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Because iI'm sick of reading online that finding a partner is 'sooooo easy' for women. Men and particularly men online, act as though we have an endless list of great suitors to choose from. The list doesn't even include essentials for me like wanting a big family and STILL most men don't qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:50 PM
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This is taken from the percentage of women who actually watch porn. Can you find any actual stats on how many watch it and how many don't? Besides, there is a discrepancy, more women abstain from porn vs men. This means as a woman who doesn't watch porn and doesn't want a partner who watches one, you will have a harder time finding a partner than the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/kpkgrq/9095_of_men_are_undateable/ghzi58s/?context=3 No they aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:46 PM
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This is certainly what I was. Putting 110% into my relationship with a partner who was half this list and barely cared.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:45 PM
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Most women will put up with this, or a combination of these. I've been in a couple relationships with men who had a few things from this list. I was so utterly miserable and eventually left. Most divorces are initiated by women, we don't want this, we merely attempt to tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:43 PM
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If a guy is already fully grown before the relationship, what's the point of the relationship? To compliment someone else, to enjoy your time with another person. I'm not going to entertain a relationship with a man who is making me unhappy out of a desperate hope that he'll change. Nah, I'd just leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:41 PM
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And yet look at the comments, quite a few men telling me that with just these requirements I will be alone forever lmao. That doesn't remotely disqualify even 30% of men Yes it does, 77% of men in my country watched porn in the last month, that would already be a huge majority out. Then the remaining would have to meet all other standards in that list, which would weed out more. The fact that plenty of guys like me are incels is enough proof that you're incorrect here. No it's not, I have no ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:39 PM
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I've already got one thanks. But it's pretty sad that a list of basic requirements, most of which are choices within your own control are not something the majority of men measure up to. It's either date a lazy, cheating, porn addict or end up 'cat stock anti depressant pill popper'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:20 PM
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And you as a group don’t measure up either. This post is about men, not women. You couldn’t live up to your own expectations, and even if you did manage it, you’d be the most boring stick-up-their-ass insufferable person around. I don't hold a SINGLE standard for the opposite sex that I don't also hold for myself, I'm not a hypocrite. I'm not sure how not watching porn, being ambitious and not having a personality disorder makes me a 'boring stick up their ass' person.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:17 PM
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Obviously this woman doesn't want to have casual sex period and since you only want casual sex, her standards weeded you out. It worked.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 07:15 PM
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No I will use this post the show the same hygienic drawbacks women tend to suffer from in the West... This post is about men not women. casual flatulence round the clock and absolute disinterest in fxing their digestion so that it doesnot happen leaving the toilet even when there are brown "flecks" around the pan or rim...not taking the time to absolutely clean every square inch of the toilet with any toilet cleaning liquid after they conduct big business When they are chided to clean the toilet…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 07:10 PM
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No, it is not. This is an objective list of the general population of men. They're based on your experience & observation No, wrong. Completely wrong. These are statistics from everyone, not exclusively my social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:42 PM
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This is a post about men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:36 PM
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Women in rich western countries have the best selection of men in the world. The men in rich countries have the highest average incomes in the world. There's a lot more millionaires per capita in NYC or London than there are in Kabul or Bangui. There is no money requirement in this post. If women want nice guy male feminists, we have lots of those after decades of indoctrination. But if they want badboys, thugs, abusive assholes, confident dark triad sociopaths, we have tons of those too. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:35 PM
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And? Any man who can actually meet this list is a minority, even though most of them are choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:30 PM
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That part comes before everything else - Not for me and a lot of other women. I don't care if he's hot, if he's a porn addict who loves Jordan Peterson, he's not for me and can keep moving.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:21 PM
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just go your own way already, shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:20 PM
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Then go be an alcoholic then? I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:16 PM
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Given how rare for none of the above to apply, I'm doubting that somewhat.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:15 PM
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No, it's actually not. Most men would already fail to qualify based on this list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:10 PM
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There isn't even anything about looks on this list, most men already fail the character and personality hurdle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:09 PM
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So what's the solution? Give up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:07 PM
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There is no money requirement listed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 06:00 PM
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True, women being lonely and desperate for companionship makes this problem worse because men have no real incentive to change or improve. Why would you if you get a bangmaid either way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:55 PM
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Well nobody, but I've spent a lot of time working on myself and one day I'd love to have a family and children. I'd like to avoid as many problems as I can within that marriage so I don't end up divorced too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:52 PM
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Exactly right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 05:50 PM
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No, it isn't. Good men are extremely hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:20 PM
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Why do I sound undatable myself? This is an exclusion list, you know nothing about me. Pointing out what I will not tolerate from my partner is not 'bitterness', it's sensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:18 PM
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It's not winning them over, you're going to attract women who are insecure and fall for shit like 'dread game'. 'It's women that are attracted to superior men. So men have to be superior. It's hypergamy.' See? This is why believing in this retarded, pseudoscientific philosophy is part of the exclusion list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:18 PM
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I never made that argument, if you can pull up stats on the percentage of the general population of women that watch porn, then we can argue on an equal footing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:16 PM
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That's exactly advice I give to other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:57 PM
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That's the userbase, it's not giving information about the general population and their porn habits.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:56 PM
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There is no money requirement listed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:55 PM
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This wasn't a point or requirement, it was an afterthought.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:54 PM
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No it isn't. Don't try to gaslight me about that sub of sociopaths, there have been articles about manipulating women constantly. The very centre of red pill belief is that women are inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:52 PM
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Then you're extremely rare, good for you though. I wish you all the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:46 PM
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Women not putting in effort does not cause men to become smelly and lazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:45 PM
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Regular people. I know a lot of them. I'm also one of those. But you don't have to believe me if you don't want. Your flair is 'red pill man' that's an exclusion, so no, you wouldn't. Not sure what to think of those studies. On what country is it even based? Probably mainly the US. Other countries are usually left out. I wouldn't doubt that it could be a high percentage but this high? Idk. It's pretty consistent throughout the developed world. Just like RP and their studies when it comes to n-co…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:44 PM
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For the LAST time, this list is about MEN, NOT WOMEN. If you want to make a post about how women are undatable, then make a separate post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:40 PM
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'GAME' is using abusive tactics to get vulnerable women to sleep with you. Red pill men despise women, view them as inferior and advocate manipulating women to get what you want from them. HARD pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:39 PM
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Even if you just take the porn one, that's already most men undatable without even LOOKING at the others lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:38 PM
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What have women in the third world got ANYTHING to do with this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:36 PM
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You often hear the 80/20 rule tossed around on this sub as the explanation, and yeah that statistic works for online dating because most online dating takes away any form of personality or body language. It's mostly looks driven because that's the focal point: your pictures. In-life dating has little correlation to online dating for most people. Yup, only one of these points was about looks and it was 'don't be obese' that's it. think it's mostly because they want sex, and so they've gone along …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:21 PM
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Because they don't want to put in the effort to be anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:19 PM
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You are trying to shut down any potential conversation regarding hygiene practices of many women This post is about how most men are undatable when you take into account everything on the list, this post is not about the hygiene practices of women. Its hard to keep up a cordial conversation with somebody, who carries this much bitterness, hurt and resentment towards men. Pointing out how most men are undatable is not 'resentment'. Not wanting to date men who are psychopaths, cheaters, etc does n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:15 PM
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conjecture I included stats for some of them and it's not just based on guessing. But alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:10 PM
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who are interested in you This is not a list about me personally, this is about taking an objective look at men. 90% of men watch porn, not 90% of men who are attracted to me, but men PERIOD. I hope you realize that this is only a segment of young men. No it isn't, 80-90% of men watch porn regularly, this is not a 'segment' of young men, it is the majority. There are plenty of 20 something dudes with goals, hygiene, and health, who live lives of moderation and would love nothing more than to fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:09 PM
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I literally included an article that shows that bad hygiene is more frequent amongst men. Also, we aren't talking about women here, this is an exclusion list for dating men. 'Whataboutism' is missing the point entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:06 PM
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I NEVER said 90% of men have bad hygiene, I even LINKED TO AN ARTICLE. Where it gave an accurate number based on studies! Go back and read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 02:00 PM
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Why would you respond to this with 'both men and women have issues' this is completely derailing the point. .let's just say the top percentage of men and women take good care of themselves..are athletic tall (in case of men) or thick haired, slim or curvy (in case of women)...and people like to spend time around them There's nothing on this list about looks other than not being obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:57 PM
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Can you see alright? It's not included in the list, it's just a talking point after the list.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:49 PM
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You didn't respond to a single point I made, just more 'MUH 80/20, MUH CHAD' Npc babbling. As far as I remember, that study was based on looks, this list has only one point to do with looks and it's 'just don't be obese'.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:47 PM
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Well we get blamed for being in bad relationships, but also for not giving 'guys a chance' either way, our actions are seen as wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:45 PM
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Not a vent and how is it exaggerated? Women get blamed for ending up in bad relationships but if I make an exclusion list that predicts a high chance of me being miserable in the relationship, then it's exaggerated?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:43 PM
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Cheating and porn addiction and not having any goals is 'hamstering' now? Try turning off the knee jerk NPC for a minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:41 PM
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'Men die in wars started by other men, therefore men have never hurt women in any way'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:32 PM
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You didn't respond to a single point and just gave the classic 'NPC' answer. 'let’s go with the lie that 90% of men have no hygiene. Sure. That describes reality.' I never said 90% of men have bad hygiene, this is a strawman. When you apply those standards, most men are undateable, most things on that list are within your control too.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:27 PM
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Most men are undateable so it wouldn't make a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 01:25 PM
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having unlimited romantic opportunity with the best beta providers where the fuck is this reality, am I living in a different world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:27 PM
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I do feel sad and frustrated about how women can fuck all they want and then come and lie to their future husband about their n count and act all good and shit. Men do this as well, we don't want sluts either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:25 PM
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Lots of women don't want casual sex, they want an actual relationship. If you want casual sex and she weeded you out by doing this, then it worked and is a good strategy.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:11 AM
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Well if her strategy was to weed out guys just looking for sex, then it worked. Women who only want to date seriously and expect the guy to show actual investment before sex..... i don't think you'd have a problem with this is it was your sister doing it to a guy or something.
/r/askTRP03/01/21 10:07 AM
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That SHE should wait to avoid guys like you who just want to use her.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 09:15 PM
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What the hell did I just read? Are you a free maid? Dump this man, he doesn't not care about you at all, he probably laughed all the way home after giving you that laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/21 06:39 PM
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Why does expecting a guy to pay for a date make her crazy?
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:07 PM
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. No women will be waiting that long for a dude that makes her pussy tingle. That's little the point they are making, that you should wait.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 06:00 PM
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How would you date someone that eventually wants marriage though?
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:28 AM
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That's a load of shit, most women want relationships.
/r/askTRP01/01/21 12:02 AM
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What the actual fuck is wrong with you
/r/askTRP31/12/20 11:11 PM
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Leave, why would you pressure someone into sex when they want to wait?
/r/askTRP27/12/20 02:03 PM
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Men aren't easily sorted into 2 categories. This is pure black and white thinking, get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 06:22 PM
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Same for men, don't want to be marrying used goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 05:53 PM
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And if the dude resents women, and she sticks around, that's her biology kicking her own ass. Not my place to judge. Not her low self esteem or naive hope that he'll change. No no, her biology. It's quite amazing how you start with a premise of 'I'll treat women like shit' and then just look for reasons to blame her for that, be it biology or her just being a 'stupid cunt'.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/20 04:14 PM
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If you have to ask that question you clearly don't know the context within which most men find themselves, which is why this sub exists, of which you know nothing about. So I've asked a basic question several times and you've done nothing but deflect and use 'if you don't know, I can't tell you' defence. You've got nothing or you would say it. "woman defense" of projection. You didn't answer a single question and yet I'm being defensive? Lol. This is pretty simple, since you argue that men treat…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 12:22 AM
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You haven't even pointed out what that means. I didn't need to accuse you of anything, you volunteered this information. And you also failed to answer the question, would you be okay with women doing it too?
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 12:05 AM
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It's not going to be as black and white as that and I've no idea why you'd think it would be. That 7-8 could've grown up overweight, might have been bullied as a kid or had a bad childhood. Let's be honest, you've already decided that abusing people is absolutely fine if it gets/increases the chances of you getting what you want. Now you just need a reason to justify it.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 09:19 PM
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Emotionally abuse her.... why?
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 07:06 PM
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Women need to learn how to make a man's life easier and better, and any woman had better bring some damn fine shit to the table in order to be taken along for the ride. Focus all her attention on making a mans life better only to end up with a 'Red pill man' who will resent the shit out of her anyway? lmao, great deal.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 06:45 PM
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When women themselves prefer men like that Low notch count women certainly don't. Yucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 12:08 AM
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.....no?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:11 PM
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Nothing because of automation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:07 PM
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There are literally virgins surveyed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 09:06 PM
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This is only for women who sleep around though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:51 PM
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Firstly I haven't ever slept around or had any kind of 'casual' relationship. I dated men that I did not find physically attractive because they were both nice to me. Big mistake, they turned out to be monsters. From experience, the idea that 'hot' guys treat you worse and 'ugly' guys treat you better is one of the biggest and most pervasive lies ever told.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:42 PM
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Women don't feel safe yeah and the only reason men are more likely to die from homicide is because OTHER MEN kill them in gang warfare more? Women are far more likely to be killed by partners/ex partners than men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 08:38 PM
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I can't be assed going back and forth about all the problems with men and why women initiate most divorces. I know I won't change your mind, so what the fuck is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:23 AM
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No, we really don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 12:22 AM
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Translation: Fuck around with Chad. Where the proof of that? 'You really think every decent guy is turning them down while they're young and attractive?' Do japanese men even approach women regularly? 'TIL men die by age 62.' If you don't start looking until 44, you aren't going to be married for a few years realistically, then another year at least until you have a kid. This is also assuming you're only having one. By the time your kids grow up, you're gonna be 70+. 'Anyway I didn't mention age…
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 10:22 PM
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So getting robbed is the fault of the person being robbed because they aren't being 'responsible'?
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 05:07 PM
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" Nevertheless, Yamada says, the traditional ideal of the man as the sole breadwinner is still prized. As a result, many young Japanese women continue to live with their parents and wait for a partner. This is what I was referring to. 'Friend is likely similar age' Well age gap relationships are much more likely to end in divorce and even if it didn't if you had kids at that age as a man, you'd likely be almost dead by the time they grow up.
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 04:49 PM
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People don't just get robbed in the poorest part of detroit and people don't just get raped 'showing themselves off'. So how would you apply this to the overall situation?
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 04:14 PM
0

I don't understand, women who want to be stay at home wives/mothers.... isn't this what a lot of MGTOW see as ideal?
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 02:36 PM
-12

No? It still wouldn't be your fault?
/r/MGTOW05/12/20 01:55 PM
1

Why? You're being obtuse. 'Wait. So she leaves to go to the next cheating porning control addict,... orrrrr? How does that work, please tell me, I'd love to know.' Well she leaves in the hopes the next guy won't be like that, but many give up and it's understandable. 'Also good thing you already have your own personal Jesus. Or is he also one of them porned out addicontrollingted cheaters?'' You're right, he's great but things are never guaranteed. 'Problems? I thought there were no problems? Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 10:17 PM
1

No, I made vague generalisation.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 10:08 PM
1

You seem to be quite fixated on porn. Why is that? Because most men aren't psychopaths but 90% watch porn, it's one of the biggest issues. 'And? How are (you?) women going to solve this problem YOU have?' Well I have a partner so I don't need to, if I didn't have my partner, I'd probably just date women instead. I'm not sure what women can do because it's not up to us to change. I'd suggest for women to enforce very strict standards around dating, and if he does something like cheat, watch porn …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 09:00 PM
1

LOL It's the truth, most women aren't porn addicts, nowhere near as many women watch porn vs men. 'I don't see that as a problem at all.' Most women want a marriage and children but don't want that with a psychopath/porn addict. Many women will choose to adopt or IVF, or they'll divorce their bottom feeder husbands. Huge numbers of lonely/desperate men on the rise (we see this already with incels) more violence, huge drop in birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:50 PM
1

This isn't the 'top quality men' this is the bare minimum relationship threshold. Most men fall at the first hurdle. If say 50% of women are dateable, but only 5% of men are. This is going to be a huge problem because men aren't willing to improve and a lot of women aren't willing to settle for this \^
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:45 PM
2

I'm with someone and really happy. But the idea that there are plenty of datable/marriageable men out there is insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:40 PM
2

Find the right one? Are you kidding me? And astronomical value? Lmao. I wrote this exclusion list - Bad hygiene - Bad at sex/don't care about your enjoyment (likely learned almost everything from porn which is women being paid to fake enjoyment) - Psychopathy/Narcissism/Other personality disorders - Porn sickness/ED (90% of men watch porn regularly) - Unequal distribution of labour (E.g will not cook or clean and will constantly expect you to do everything in the house, while working a full time…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:26 PM
1

but then men could add all these other things to their side like is not overweight, doesn’t binge drink, no plastic surgery fake hair or excessive makeup, low n count, good hygiene (not all women have good hygiene for real) etc and that would remove a good portion of women too The question was about marriageable men so I'm not sure what this has to do with anything? 'Also I might be biased because I really don’t meet too many men like you described I like em white collar with master degrees whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:18 PM
1

No, promiscuous women want promiscuous men. Women who aren't promiscuous and are serious about an LTR don't want promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:16 PM
2

Obviously if you want a family, it is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:08 PM
1

What has that got to do with anything? The question asked was about marriageable men, not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 01:09 AM
2

You seem to be pretty angry at reality. Nope, I'm realistic. Most modern men are a nightmare to deal with/undateable. 'These angry bitter old women who I guess have a ton of money are going to raise child on their lonesome....and men are going to go extinct? Alright...' You don't have to be 'old' to raise a baby, you also don't need a ton of money for IVF, sperm is abundant and cheap. I never said men, I said MGTOWS. 'You got some weird ass fantasy going on, although it does not surprise me the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 11:36 PM
2

MEN commit the crimes and attacks and thus MEN are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:56 PM
1

'muh chad' I'm can't be arsed having an NPC tier argument And no, we don't want promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:22 PM
1

Notice all the things you complain about happened after Women stopped being feminine, homemaking, husband seakers? Ah of course. Men becoming morbidly obese, premature balding, pornsick, brain damaged, gaming addicted slobs was the fault of..... women not wearing pretty dresses enough! Lmao you couldn't make this up. Just curious.... is anything actually the fault of men ever? Or is it all just women 'making' them do these things? t birth control like candy, sleep with every good looking man the…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:21 PM
1

You’re using your emotions as argument. I literally stated facts, men are almost always the perpetrators and this is true statistically. How did I 'argue with emotions' here at all? 'No I’m not a nice guy. If I was I wouldn’t be putting you in your place.' LMAO how are you putting me in my place?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 10:14 PM
1

Yes men would be feeling worse after a woman manipulated them into losing all their freedom and money. Too bad when you compare men that were never married, they are much happier. I guess I could be pretty happy too if I just got a ton of money from a rigged court system. Funny how that works. Lol I knew you were going to say that fucking NPC argument. Women actually end up poorer after divorce than men, which would completely blow apart your 'muh money stealing' assertion. 'I mean I'm ok with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:31 PM
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Holding the door and other corny shit IS being nice. Men owe females absolutely NOTHING. Whenever someone does you a favor no matter how small, it could be returning a penny that is being nice. I hold the door open for everyone, it's considered good manners and is polite regardless. I don't think I owe anyone anything, but I still do this and don't expect any kind of 'praise' for doing it. 'Put in their place, yes they need this. The reason females run around half-naked acting entitled and like …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:23 PM
1

Doesn't work like that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:15 PM
1

And promiscuous men too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:11 PM
2

I'm not upset. You're the one who contradicted yourself because your woman hating victim blaming makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:09 PM
1

The fuck are you even on about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:06 PM
1

You move the goalposts of what “nice” means. No I didn't, most men are not 'nice' in the slightest 'A female is not gonna go out in public and be put in her place or assaulted or insulted etc. She feels safe which is the reason why females have become so spoiled and entitled.' Put in her place? The fuck does that mean? Women definitely don't feel safe, most of us avoid going out at night. 'We don’t need more nice guys most are nice. One dating coach estimates that 95% of guys are nice and I agre…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:04 PM
1

What? I just said the problem is men change and you agreed, now you're saying something completely different?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 09:00 PM
1

The guy said: 'That´s the type of men women love to choose to have kids with. Dont blame men, women are extremely faulty too.' and you amplified his point by saying 'failure at vetting' 'So much so that some people simply decide to solve the problem by looking the other way. Thoughts?' I just disagree with victim blaming. I also this women should have a number of failsafes to vet men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:56 PM
1

Yeah, they did. Are you telling me a guy who cheats, lies, manipulates, or abuses/hits his partner is just 'incompatible' with his partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:44 PM
1

I wrote this list a while ago - Bad hygiene - Bad at sex/don't care about your enjoyment (likely learned almost everything from porn which is women being paid to fake enjoyment) - Psychopathy/Narcissism/Other personality disorders - Porn sickness/ED (90% of men watch porn regularly) - Unequal distribution of labour (E.g will not cook or clean and will constantly expect you to do everything in the house, while working a full time job) - Men who only want sex/casual relationships - Men with double…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:38 PM
1

Not definitive. But just a good predictor. If men change after years being in a relationship. How can you blame women for ending up with bad ones?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:27 PM
2

I don't think men are more comfortable being alone than women are. I think and have experienced the complete opposite being true. Also men are lonelier after divorce, women are happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 08:25 PM
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Agreed. Even full knowing their past, it's still just a good predictor but not definitive. People change. Exactly! So how pray tell is vetting going to help and how is it women's fault?!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:56 PM
1

Again, most guys are nice guys. No, they pretend to be nice to get what they want or paint themselves as victims. Most 'nice' guys are monsters with victim complexes. 'do corny shit like open the door and pull out a chair etc.' Being nice is a hell of a lot more than that. 'Problem is, women don’t like nice guys. There’s not a shortage of nice guys anywhere.' No, women don't like men who act 'nice' then absolutely lose their shit and start abusing us if they get rejected. 'I be nice temporarily …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:44 PM
2

'Vetting' is not fool proof. You cannot predict the behaviour of someone years or decades in advance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:41 PM
1

What has that got to do with anything? The question asked was about marriageable men, not women. Social media does also not cause ED or a complete inability to bond and love one partner, porn does.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:39 PM
1

Erotic novels are not porn. They are not an intense bombardment of hyper sexual stimuli causing ED and a complete rewiring of the brain. They aren't comparable at all, and most women don't read erotic novels at the same frequency as men watch porn. 'I don't think porn counts as "infidelity" really, I don't think it should be a fair criteria to judge a partners' value.' Yeah because you've never dated a porn addict. Hard pass, go wank yourself into oblivion.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 06:37 PM
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No they do not 'show it with remorse' abusive men lovebomb women to fool them and get them into relationships. How many women even forgive being cheated? Most of them do... No they don't? Cheating predicts divorce to a very high degree,
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:15 PM
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No porn watching, that's 90% of men eliminated already.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 10:13 PM
3

No. That's a complete strawman if you're trying to pull a 'gotcha' here.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:57 PM
3

Lmao sure, and men are fine being alone because muh stoic.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:53 PM
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So if the man turns out to be bad, it's equally the woman's fault? Lmao the victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 09:47 PM
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Most guys are “nice guys” and loving and hell, even lonely. The problem is females want something that doesn’t exist. Hahaha don't make me laugh. Give an ugly or low value guy a chance and he'll think he's gods gift to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:39 PM
1

Women demanded men to be pornsick, gaming addicted slobs? Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 08:02 PM
2

Sorry what? Are women equally as pornsick and violent? Did I miss something?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 07:57 PM
3

Well, women from 20-25 are at their peak attractiveness according to theory. It was just an example and what are you implying? That women over 25 should just give up and accept her husband watching porn and not kissing her anymore because she's 'past her peak'? Hmmm... maybe. Maybe when it's new, or later on if the stars are lined up, he did everything right, he read her subtle covert messages properly, he did the thing she wanted, she doesn't feel fat that day, she wasn't jealous of that skinny…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:39 AM
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Pornsick men who believe the world of porn is real life are the worst. Best to stay as far away as possible from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:23 AM
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She could. But she just doesn't want to. A woman can't be age 20 forever with a perfect, plastic surgery enhanced body, the skills of an acrobat, who can be a variety of degrading/disgusting sex acts on demand and also never gets even slightly tired or sick. Your argument is downright ridiculous, porn is unrealistic from the get go, women are PAID money to fake enjoyment and act as dramatic as possible. It's meant to be something that 'looks good on camera' and almost every woman has had surgery…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 02:21 AM
3

Ok, explain "onlyfannies" Onlyfans is still on a computer? How are you this dense? The men don't meet up with and have sex with these women, it's just thousands of pictures and videos ON A COMPUTER. So, any ideas (?), how do females woman up and stop being such a burden on themcollectiveselves, taking into consideration the (presumed, on the female, buyer side) preference for them (individually AND collectively) not completely finitely fucking themselves (the market) up in terms of having at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 12:07 AM
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It is not POSSIBLE to compete with porn, that's the whole point, the amount of dopamine released and changes in the brain make it one destructive addiction. It's not against other women, it's against a computer.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 10:00 PM
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Porn is thousands of images and videos of women of all ages, shapes, sizes, an unlimited variety performing unrealistic sexual acts/positions in a basically unlimited number of scenarios/ways. Obviously just one average woman can't compete with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:55 PM
2

https://www.newsweek.com/watching-too-much-porn-linked-erectile-dysfunction-study-1518280 Then there's also the divorce risk. Plus the fact that the industry ruins many women's lives and trafficks girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:36 PM
1

https://jamanetwork.com/article.aspx?doi=10.1001/jamapsychiatry.2014.93 Porn induced ED is probably one of the most discussed topics, more and more young men needing viagra. Then there's the insane number of women on the deadbedroom sub who end up divorcing or leaving because of their pornsick husbands/boyfriends. (I bet there's one for the quantity of ordinary women whoring themselves like common prostitutes on social media). What has this got to do with the subject? Just can't go a few minutes…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:22 PM
1

the erectile dysfunction and brain differences have not been shown? Lmao sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 07:18 PM
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Porn was the final nail in the coffin really.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 06:06 PM
1

90% of men watch porn, 10% don't and the damage that porn causes to men is becoming more well known, so more will be inclined to quit. I would never date a man who watches porn again, once you've been with a man who doesn't watch it, it just doesn't compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:48 PM
1

I dated a pornsick man, it was awful. He could barely get hard at all, gradually his porn addiction got worse, he stopped hugging and kissing me. Didn't initiate anything at all. When he did initiate, it was almost like he replaced the porn with me, using my hand to get himself off. It was absolutely disgusting, I wish I'd dumped him sooner. Would never date a man who watches porn EVER again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:46 PM
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Most men started watching hardcore porn by age 13, we have hardly any options lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:36 PM
1

No they don't. You've got some serious internalised misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:33 PM
1

They should all snitch and those women should get divorces.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:10 PM
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*Barf* a woman is basically punished for having kids in this scenario. I'd rather be single for life than be in such an arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 05:01 PM
1

Men are desperate and there are many more men on those apps than women. Not really surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:53 PM
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Yes, yes, yes god yes. There are almost none. Modern men are a burning dumpster fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 04:50 PM
1

And women still get raped in countries like Saudi Arabia so this doesn't make a lot of sense...
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 04:00 AM
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Men get raped too though, can they reduce rates by not dressing a certain way? Also don't most women know the men who rape them?
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 02:48 AM
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The problem with your plan is thinking women are capable of taking responsibility for their actions when in reality their entire lives are centered around absolving themselves of it. How can women 'control' being raped?
/r/MGTOW27/11/20 02:04 AM
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Female nature is leaving your husband because of boredom with no stats cited?
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 09:38 PM
-7

Which study was this?
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 08:46 PM
-11

She assumes that women leave marriage because it's bad. In fact, stats show that women overwhelmingly leave because of "boredom" or similar. Where are the stats for this?
/r/MGTOW26/11/20 05:28 PM
1

turn the fuckboy into a boyfriend, those who succeed receive not just a partner and bragging rights, but also a major ego boost. Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:36 PM
2

I wrote this list a while ago: - Bad hygiene - Bad at sex/don't care about your enjoyment (likely learned almost everything from porn which is women being paid to fake enjoyment) - Psychopathy/Narcissism/Other personality disorders - Porn sickness/ED (90% of men watch porn regularly) - Unequal distribution of labour (E.g will not cook or clean and will constantly expect you to do everything in the house, while working a full time job) - Men who only want sex/casual relationships - Men with doubl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:35 PM
1

Women should do the same, high standards or no marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 09:02 PM
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Single moms should be imprisoned. So if a man abandoned his kids or cheated on his wife, SHE is the one who should go to prison?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:58 PM
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- Harder to find LGBT women than straight men - I'd like to have a family with babies
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 08:57 PM
1

Guaranteed? Wym? Do you want to be able to rape your partner if they aren't in the mood because you're married?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:43 AM
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The fact that you posted it to begin with. Yeah it's an incel sub because the incels came here and colonised it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:10 PM
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You've posted over and over about rape, seriously doubt that's a joke. Not to mention all the incel posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:28 PM
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There are more requirement that women want. I just listed common problems in relationships with men. Even I would meet requirements in that list but I am not having an easy time, let me tell you :D Maybe because you post things like 'Rape is natural' in unpopular opinion subreddits? Possible psychopathy already. Why is drinking alcohol and watching porn problems btw? I said alcohol addiction, for obvious reasons, why would I want to date an alcoholic? The porn industry is disgusting, exploits an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 02:17 PM
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I think it shows you a lot how many options women really have if they can afford to have those high standards. Those are high standards? Really? Wanting someone with good hygiene, with some decent life goals who isn't a psychopath and doesn't watch porn is high standards? You're just proving the point. I meet every single one of those standards and more with complete ease. Only 2 of the things on the list are related to looks, the rest are within your control easily (don't watch porn, don't chea…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 01:47 PM
1

t's not a straw man, its directly relevant, why won't you answer the question? I already said 'NO', can you read or what? So? just not with ONS, but FWBs, flings, teenage cheating boyfriends..etc No it was specific to relationships. A high number of women (40%-50%) statistically state that their husbands are not the best sex partners they have had. And that likely means a previous relationship partner was. And 30% or more of women lose interest in sex in an LTR, whereas for men it is much less (…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 10:43 PM
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You think only men are capable of dichotomous thinking about the other sex? No? When did i say that? God such a strawman. What do you mean it's wrong from a statistical point? Women are more likely to have satisfying sexual experiences in relationships, not ONS. No, according to extreme TRP, women want to have sex with promiscuous men, but settle down with a "beta" man and lose interest in sex. Extreme TRP says never marry. No, they say that women want commitment from 'high status promiscuous me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 10:17 PM
1

Because women are superior, right? Uhm, what? I regularly read in r/deadbedrooms women providing an opinion that promiscuous men are good at sex, and advising women to get with such men so to learn how to enjoy sex, before settling down. But beware, these guys are so good at sex they never settle for the one woman. I've never seen anything like this and either way it's wrong from a statistical point. They see no harm in espousing such beliefs, because that is how accepted an Alpha/Beta dichotomy…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 09:41 PM
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Pussy after 10 partners does not look or feel the same as pussy after 100 But a woman having sex with the same partner constantly does nothing apparently? lmao. In a perfect world we have perfect data and Google articles on every little detail in life, so if your one of those show me a study or it does not exist types I can't help you. LOL of course, source: 'Dude trust me'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 09:39 PM
1

I don't know any women like this tbh. Seems to be men projecting their insecurities onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:38 PM
1

Men sleeping around good, women sleeping around bad because 'muh differences'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:30 PM
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We are talking about excessive sex. Lots of sex = Loose pussy . Random brusing , stretch and dark marks. The human vagina is a muscle. It does not get 'stretch marks' also how does this correlate to sex partners? I know a girl who did anal so much it tore her asshole n she now has to take pills to shit. Haha what? Why does she have to take pills? I'm calling bullshit on this one. That's before we even get to the dental issues of sucking dick everyday. Well that is a new one, got any paper on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 08:29 PM
1

That is literally what TRP is, generalising based on experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:40 PM
1

Bachelor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:14 PM
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Citation. My lived experience So again and again, lived experience is everything. If a woman has experienced this too though, that's just incorrect and 'NotAllMen'
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:41 PM
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You are joking, right? - Bad hygiene - Bad at sex/don't care about your enjoyment (likely learned almost everything from porn which is women being paid to fake enjoyment) - Psychopathy/Narcissism/Other personality disorders - Porn sickness/ED (90% of men watch porn regularly) - Unequal distribution of labour (E.g will not cook or clean and will constantly expect you to do everything in the house, while working a full time job) - Men who only want sex/casual relationships - Men with double standa…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 05:35 PM
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Agreed, they want to have standards but we can't have any? Count me the fuck out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:52 PM
2

Sex does not damage a man's body in the way it does a woman. How does sex with a man 'damage' a woman's body?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:43 PM
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I love you on the second date for example). He's the equivalent of the woman who sleeps around. No, it doesn't matter that it's harder. It matters period.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:42 PM
1

Because they pointed out mens past matters?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:40 PM
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Would you want to marry a guy with a Madonna/Whore complex? Can't imagine a worse partner tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:35 PM
1

What has this got to do with the hypocritical double standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:17 PM
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You've literally dodged the question she was asking over and over and over lmao that was almost impressive if it wasn't so pathetic. WHY is one good and one bad? Other than 'Men and women are different' with no further explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 04:10 PM
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men are more aggressive and competitive Because of the endless studies and stats that back this up. This claim doesn't come out of nowhere, nor is it guessing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:54 PM
1

So why didn't you use it?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:48 PM
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Women would benefit from thinking about how their (potentially loose) dating habits and experiences can affect their ability to have serious relationships in the future. And so would men because most low n count women don't want high n count men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:40 PM
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Only because I refuse to date a man who wants a 'low notch count woman' while having casual sex himself. Hypocrites are viileeeee.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:18 PM
1

.after he's no longer hot. hahahahaha always the way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:09 PM
1

I do think it matters. It matters for men too though, not gonna ever go for a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 03:00 PM
2

There's so much autism in this post it's almost unbearable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:43 PM
1

This is pseudo scientific bullshit with zero evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:41 PM
1

About 13 but I looked like i was about 10 which makes it even more disturbing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 02:39 PM
1

No better than 'muh chad'. Most men aren't worth dating nowadays and it certainly isn't mythical 'chads' fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:01 AM
1

MUH CHAAAAAD REEEEEEEEEEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 01:07 AM
1

You know that blaming a hypothetical male homoerotic fantasy will not solve your problems with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 11:15 PM
1

But nobody is asking you that at all. You're right that no one has ever waked up to me and explicitly asked that. But quite a few guys commented that I'd never know because they're good at 'hiding it'. Which I find quite disturbing. hey, guys, y'all fucking crazy, teach me how to avoid guys like you Yes :)
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 07:08 PM
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Victim blaming? Who is the victim? They chose to and then complain about it.Most people would be like tough shit/not my problem. Like I say, everyone has a system. Who are the ones falling for the same tricks,lies,games etc? Blaming these women for falling for the 'same lies, tricks, etc' instead of blaming the men doing it. I'm not this red pill platitude espouser. It's common sense. Well how would you expect someone to respond? Well FDS preaches waiting for sex until commitment has been establ…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 06:46 PM
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Gotcha, it's a huge turn off anyways lol
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:19 PM
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Wow this sounds personal, I'm sorry if this happened to you :(
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:18 PM
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Think we've just found one, hm?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:16 PM
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This is some seriously great advice, thank you!
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:14 PM
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"Avoiding Ex RP" in such a condescending way as if we have the plague or some shit isn't really welcome here. You're in a sub aimed at helping people to detox from that shit, coming here and talking about them "Ex RP" right in our face as if we were eternally damaged goods is kinda lame. People already feel bad enough about having engaged on TRP and whish they could forget that chapters of their lifes. Well I don't have too many standards but 'not being and never being a woman hater' is certainl…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:12 PM
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Isn't that more an incel thing?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:09 PM
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He would say nah, she would never do that, she has kind of caught me and still stayed, she is kind of dumb etc. His words not mine. I'd say to him know how many other guys have said that? This woman is clearly a pickme and further evidence as to why FDS is so important, he's taking her for a fucking joyride.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 04:06 PM
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Well see, the one thing that doesn't get brought up is, who are the ones fucking these guys? Other chicks. Who are the ones falling for the same tricks,lies,games etc? Other chicks. Who is not calling out these chicks? So called liberal feminist gatekeeper types etc. Pure, unadulterated victim blaming. gee, maybe you shouldn't fuck guys like that. It keeps going on and on. This is literally FDS, which most RPM hate.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:57 PM
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if you think all redpillers are manipulating evil misogynistic men The sidebar literally advocates lying and manipulation. You refer to women as 'plates' (objects not people) But sure pal, it's about, MUH MASCULINITY.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:56 PM
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commitment and consequence free sex for guys like me when I wanted it. The ideology has permanently damaged and diminished two generations of western women, even the ones who refute it. YOU are the one who was partaking in the activity that you believes 'damages' women, so by your own admission, you don't care about how many people you hurt as long as you benefit.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:51 PM
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it didn't work for them cause they realize no matter what they do or how hard they try, it's not good enough or they risked getting fucked over. How exactly did women's rights 'fuck you over'?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:48 PM
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Why the hell is it my job to reach out to people who advocate lying and trying to manipulate women into sex? I want to AVOID them, not reach out to them.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:46 PM
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Some people make you jump through hoops instead of trying to work with you. What has this got to do with women having rights, what hoops are you being made to jump through?
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:43 PM
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I've even seen threads where they recommended to lie about what they think of women and their rights and never tell the truth "that doesn't fit in current liberal narrative" or something like that. It's funny that they accuse women of lying/being manipulative and then do that themselves. Plus they say that women want a 'RP' man, but then have to lie about their beliefs to make themselves desirable.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:36 PM
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His disproportionate anger & emotional outburtst finally hit the level that I always feared they would, which is was him getting physically violent. I was so scared of him on that car ride as he beat the shit out of his steering wheel that all I did was say "it's over" as I left his car and ran inside my house. This sounds so scary and I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. I think the ideology attracts men that are already broken/emotionally unstable so this isn't too much of a surprise. You s…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:33 PM
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This is so useful, thanks!
/r/ExRedPill17/11/20 03:29 PM
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This is all just 'I think, I think', you need more evidence to back that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 11:48 PM
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Boomers are a huge population set where the same social obligations that pressured them into marriage at 18 as virgins pressured women into lying about cheating. Most boomers weren't 18 year old virgins when married lmao. Millennials are another massive generation, but they weren’t raised with the same social constraints as boomers. So from my perspective the numbers coming out of millennials are more honest than previous. Oh your 'perspective' is it? So one stat that shows a 1% difference has g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 10:33 PM
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I didn't ignore the stats, I asked why did you only bring this up for one age group?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 09:35 PM
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Not liking something and tolerating it is very different from not caring. Do you even understand how emotions work?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:08 PM
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No one said women are innocent little victims. Men cheat more at every other age, by much more than 1%, why didn't you bring that up hm?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 04:06 PM
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The survey found that 11 percent of married women from 18 to 29 state they are guilty of infidelity versus 10 percent of married men. So a difference of 1%..... Men cheat more at almost a double rate at every other age but a difference of just 1% and you're like OMG OMG SUCK IT. So pathetic lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 03:04 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly my defense. You have no proof that women are lying, none. You just don't like that men tend to be the worse ones in almost every scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:19 PM
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I've rarely heard of women who 'prefer' that, usually just tolerate it because they like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:18 PM
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Why? If it were really his happiness that you cared about without regard to its utility to yourself it wouldn’t matter how he expressed it or whether or not he expressed it. That's true, I do care more about whether he is actually happy, but it's nice to see it expressed. ...because it suggests that you will get a certain type of treatment from him. If he treated me really well and treated other people horribly, I wouldn't like him. Skilled psychopaths behave in ways that turn you on. But they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:24 AM
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Having a “nice” smile has nothing to do with whether or not he’s happy. I like seeing him happy and it expressed in him physically. Not necessarily, and if so the reason that you appreciate these qualities in him is likely that you imagine he will apply them in his relationship with you. That too, but that's not me getting something from him, it's me liking his personality. ...or a highly skilled one. No, i know him far too well. Psychopaths and the way the behave turn me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 02:08 AM
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Why does it matter to you whether or not his smile is “nice, Because when he's happy, I feel happy and it's nice to see that on him. Him having a good relationship with his mother means he's a good person, he's caring, gentle and sweet. He cares about animals, has lots of empathy and shows consideration to even the smallest creature. He's the opposite of a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:21 AM
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You mean the one with 11% and 10%? lol men cheat more at literally every other age and your defence is 'yeah well, if the stats show that men cheat more, then the women just must be lying'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:55 PM
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Yeah? Men cheat more, do less housework and childcare, care less about how their partner is feeling, have more leisure hours per week, the list really goes on. Not hard to see why it seems to be women complaining more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 11:34 PM
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I think you and I fundamentally disagree on women "having their own money, work, do most housework and childcare and cooking." No, it's a fact, not an opinion. https://ktul.com/archive/4-in-10-women-primary-breadwinners-half-think-it-makes-it-harder-on-marriages 40% of women are breadwinners for their households. https://slate.com/human-interest/2015/01/gender-and-housework-even-men-who-don-t-work-do-less-than-women.html Women do more household work and childcare, even when men are unemployed. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:25 PM
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You didn't even read the first comment did you? My god you're fucking slow.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:53 PM
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No they find it unappealing that most women do not bring anything to the table other than their body and 'emotional bonding'. Most women have their own money, work, do most housework and childcare and cooking, what the fuck more could you want? Women have kept their traditional gender role while men have largely abandoned theirs and yet, you STILL aren't satisfied?! If you are the type of woman to setup dates and take the initiative in the relationship, then you are part of the 10% of women that…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 09:31 PM
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I meant to say that nature is designed in such a way that 30 percent men (lower end) will always end up dead without having experienced sex or romance through their lives How? how is nature designed in this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:58 PM
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I think most high value men think the same about women. What they find it unappealing that the opposite gender only want them for sex? Most men with a drive for success don't give a rats ass about 'emotional bonding' because it orthogonal to their goals. I really don't think this is most men at all, you're honestly staring to sound like a psychopath. Perhaps if a man wants to raise a family, then he attempts to vet the women for their loyalty and ability to be a mother. However, most 'liberal' w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 07:57 PM
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That's pretty sad and depressing. I think it's pretty ironic that so many men complain about women not wanting them but then you admit they're only trying to get laid. If men were only interested in sex and nothing else about me, I wouldn't ever date men again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:14 PM
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Oh shut the fuck up 'high order design coded by nature' do you have ANY idea how fucking ridiculous this sounds? There aren't set 'rules' and much fewer that humans follow. We have the ability to self analyse and reflect, no other animal on earth can do this. How many 16-18 year olds have died for their army, empire, country without ever holding hand with a romantic love? tens even hundreds of millions.. What the fuck does this have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 06:10 PM
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Sigh, stopped reading the second I read 'Chad'. Most women are ordinary people who want relationships with other ordinary people. I'm so damn tired of this incel bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:52 PM
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I know because I’m old enough to have observed many women and many marriages - including my own. Purely anecdotal evidence. Means nothing with stats backing it up. If you inquire deeply, all the things which you appreciate about a given man are rooted in how they affect his ability to be useful to you. No? How is having a nice smile being useful to me? Or having a good relationship with his parents? Or liking animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:26 PM
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Men spend more time at the office yet you expect them to split chores 50/50. Even when women are breadwinners and their husband is unemployed, we still do more housework & childcare. Women work more than men in every country on earth when you combine paid/unpaid work. Women give up their careers and lose out on savings, pensions, work related benefits like insurance, etc. Hence despite claims to the contrary, women actually end up poorer after divorce. Women cheat just as much as men. Women comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:25 PM
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Nah, they don’t. How would you know? I've never liked a man for what his 'utility' to me. It was always personality (pr fake personality), looks and interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:16 PM
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Love requires appreciation of their being without regard to their utility to yourself . And most women do or they wouldn't bother getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:12 PM
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Women divorce men because of how we are treated by them. Infidelity, abuse, left to do 90% of the housework, childcare, cooking, cleaning, on top of working. It's just not fair so we leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:11 PM
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Exactly, that isn't exploring the reasons, they've already 'decided'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 05:10 PM
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how shitty women talk about their husbands online, And men just talk about how wonderful their wives are all day and night, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:54 PM
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He wants sex with a fertile woman while she wants money. jfc, does love or any kind of emotion even exist inside the minds of people who believe in this toxic, bullshit ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:50 PM
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and many prefer sexually experienced men. definitely not experienced through many casual flings. That's plain vile.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:44 PM
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even if they themselves have hooked up a lot casually in the past , men have stringent standards for LTR n it is perfectly reasonable. and there is the problem. Standards for me, not for thee.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:43 PM
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You are not going to get Non BP men to marry Most women wan to avoid 'RP' men anyway....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:30 PM
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Because in an ideal world, it wouldn't be. Creating a loving family with someone who wants to share responsibilities is probably one of the best things you could have in life. Men don't want that though, so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:29 PM
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that women have no desire to over-ride their instinct and actually love a man, Most women who get married very much love their husbands, this is literally just paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:15 PM
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Yes, hypergamy. So if a woman divorces a man, with literally no evidence, your automatic claim is that it must be 'hypergamy'?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:10 PM
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That's why we use them. What's that supposed to mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:04 PM
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Women are going to vote themselves into becomming slaves to a bunch of tendie neckbeards. Eugh, I'd rather KMS. Here's to putting all my extra earnings into a pension so the unemployed incels can't touch it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:59 PM
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Thing is, women are cheating at similar rates to men now. Gonna need sources
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:57 PM
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Uh huh, that’s why you’re here trying to convince men to get married and getting triggered when men post studies You don't provide studies, that's the entire problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:49 PM
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I actually knew a girl who did exactly that once, she was bragging about it during working hours....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:37 PM
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It’s much harder for men to follow these rules than it is for women. Most women are attractive to some degree and few of them are so unattractive that they repel all of their suitors. But attractive to get what? To get used and tossed aside? Hardly a win there...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:26 PM
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men don't really care about the second threshold/hide our true nature in order to have sex. So men couldn't care less about what kind of person a woman is, or whether they have anything in common? And they lie and pretend they do in order o get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:24 PM
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They don't. You are not listening to me. "Women work full time" was derived artificially by shifting the definition of "full time". In the example I gave, the women were BREADWINNERS. You just keep ignoring the parts of my statements that don't fit your narrative. I can't speak on behalf of unemployed husbands; I never was one. See? You're dodging again. Just because you've never personally been int that situation, doesn't mean you can't form an opinion as to whether it is fair or not. Drains cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:47 PM
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Men work so much that they come home to take a shower, drink a glass of water, fall asleep, and leave back to work in the morning (if we're talking about "statistical men", not your personal bad experiences that obviously/s were none of your fault). Women work more hours on average so this isn't a good argument at all. Women feel tired too but no one cares because we're just expected to deal with it. Being in a relationship with a partner who didn't clean was my fault right? I should've predicte…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 05:23 PM
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It has relevance because women clean up after themselves. AND ALSO MEN. We don't want to be a free maid for a lazy partner and it happens to women constantly. And? Exactly, this is an anecdote, but statistically, this happens to women far more often than men. Women in every country work more when you combine housework and paid work. Also again, women do more housework than men even when they're the breadwinner and the husband is UNEMPLOYED. Men already do more childcare than ever since the begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 04:48 PM
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So is wiping your ass after shitting and rubbing one out when your partner isn't in mood. How does this have relevance? Women should just shut up and clean up after men because men wipe their own asses? You are free to improve them further. Thus far, around 95% of the improvement that happened - was invented, implemented, and paid for by men. "But dishwasher was invented by a woman!" - No, circular glass/mug washer was invented by a woman. A device that went obsolete back in my school years. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 03:10 PM
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Well at least we're on agreement about one thing! I doubt that most people would support that though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:45 PM
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No I did not. Women currently do less house chores and less child care than ever in history. They have less kids than ever in history. Why are you so neurotically fixated on husbands doing exactly half of these things, if thanks to the husbands you don't have to do as much of them? Because it is unpaid and women suffer when they take on most of it. Just because 'things have improved' it doesn't mean we should just sigh in defeat and accept the way things are now. And men sleep less. Source? (and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:16 PM
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So how would you feel if women walked around in bikinis at night and when they get attacked, they open fire?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:05 PM
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Because it doesn't allow civilians to carry guns?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:21 PM
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You ignored everything I said. Why do women now have to work full time jobs and still do most of the housework and childcare?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:20 PM
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Women are now breadwinners in 40% of households: https://washington.cbslocal.com/2013/05/29/mothers-now-breadwinners-in-4-in-10-us-households/ Yet women do more housework and childcare, even when working full time, even when their partner is unemployed: https://phys.org/news/2017-03-european-women-housework-partners-unemployed.html https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7287573/Women-housework-93-cent-British-homes-study-reveals.html They also have less leisure time than men when married. So w…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:08 AM
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Men have tried to stop raping us? To stop murdering us? To actually do housework and childcare? Am I missing something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:46 AM
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link This talks about wealth, which wasn't my point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 01:12 AM
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Yes, we are aware that misandry is is culturally acceptable, despite the openly understood hypocrisy. Pointing out problems isn't man hating, it's pointing out problems. We can't even do that without being accused of wanting to destroy men or enslave them or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 11:59 PM
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Most rapes are committed by men to women, sometimes other men. Men are the common denominator. Most countries in the world don't allow civilians to own guns so...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 07:48 PM
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Okay so you've chosen one issue to fixate on: divorce. Fairly predictable given that seems to be one of only a few talking points of the Mens right/MGTOW crowd. I'm afraid you've been sold a lie, women actually end up poorer after divorce: https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-worse-off-after-divorce-than-men-5368335.html https://mensrights.com.au/family-law/women-poorer-men-lonelier-after-divorce/ > a 'mens rights' website even backs this up https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:03 PM
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Why are you coming at this with a whiny victim complex? Women can point out problems and criticise men without hating them and wanting to segregate from them. The fact is that on balance, women suffer more in relationships with men and want things to be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:53 PM
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No, women get raped in all kinds of places, they aren't immune from rape in the countryside. Why not carry a gun? Seems like a logical winner here. Oh thats right, cities don't allow guns because ummm? I live in a country where guns are illegal, the entire fucking world isn't the United States.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:47 PM
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What point were you trying to make with that link? What exactly were you trying to prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:25 PM
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Not a city, a world with men in it. Women don't just get raped in cities. Well, women worry about being mugged and killed AND raped on top. We also don't have the same muscle mass or body strength to fight off an attacker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:25 PM
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??? You got no point then lol. Why would you link me to a stat like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 04:22 PM
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https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=Trend%20data%20going%20back%20to,40%20to%2049%20(18%25) So men cheat way more than women at almost every age..... ok? The point you're making is?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:14 PM
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Given how much they hate women, it's hardly surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:10 PM
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I don't know what to search for because i literally do not know where you got this information from or if it even exists. If it exists, then link it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 03:09 PM
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Anyone who once believed these horrible things about women is not someone I or other women who want a lasting, loving relationship should engage with.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 03:08 PM
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HAHA how typical, you make outlandish claims and then when I ask for proof or where you're getting this from: 'Uh idk, google it' You made the claim, I don't even know if such evidence exists. The burden of proof is on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:54 PM
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Hopefully women wise up and avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:40 PM
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You worry about being raped and then blamed for that because of what you wore?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:24 PM
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Ah I'm sorry, you've 'seen' it, therefore it is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 02:18 AM
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How is having sex losing? Because this whole ideology supports the idea that women 'lose value' by having sex. She doesn't know if she's going to be used any more than the man does; he can be used for other things; either way, the sex is a requirement for both parties. Well if she wants a relationship and he's just pushing to have sex quickly, her delaying sex until commitment has been established is a good way to avoid being used, no? You seem to believe that women should just accept that men r…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 02:17 AM
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I think i trained my brain so well where i just can't feel romantic attraction to anyone now. That's most likely what they wanted and why this ideology is so toxic.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/20 12:48 AM
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There's not 2 'types' of men (Assholes/Nice guys) This is called 'black and white thinking' (splitting) and is a sign of mental illness. Most women cannot 'predict' the behaviour of men years down the line, a man who seem nice in the beginning can gradually turn into a monster. Those are articles, not studies. There is no link to women being attracted to cruel men, there is however the attraction to confidence which often co-occurs with these traits. Most men who abuse women start of nice, 'love…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:26 AM
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Typical 'redemption is always possible for men, but never women'
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:12 AM
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Since it is easy for women to get casual sex they are rightfully despised for engaging in it. That 'just because something is difficult, the person who does it is admirable' is shit logic and doesn't apply well in other situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:10 AM
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Well you're spouting out incel rhetoric like it's all proven facts. Most men are terrible partners to women, even when standards are massively lowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 12:02 AM
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muh 80/20, muh hypergamy, muh CHAAAAAAAAD. You know that same study which is solely based on tinder, showed that 66% of men are sending messages to the top 33% of women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 11:51 PM
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Huge swathes of women are not getting into relationships either. The way you talk about women's 'hypergamous' nature is like a robot reading off a screen, you've been sold a lie within your echo chamber and now you just repeat it endlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:56 PM
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So either give up sex early and be used or don't give up sex and have no interest? Seemingly no way to win if you're the women in this scenario.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:55 PM
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70% of all males in prison are there after being raised by these wonderful single mothers The fact that you blame the parent that stayed and somehow the men who commit the crimes have NO responsibility in this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:49 PM
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sexually satisfied >Sexually satisfied >Having sex with men Pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:46 PM
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Again this is false, the rates of cheating has recently been found to be about equal or more towards women being the majority Sources?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:44 PM
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but women are okay with men having a high n count. Low n count women certainly aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:43 PM
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Where does FDS advocate manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:31 PM
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be emotionally distant and show her that you have other options. This is awful, I can't imagine feeling like that with a man. Much better off alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:29 PM
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Stay away from them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:22 PM
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dating and women are fundamentally broken... Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:17 PM
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The ultimate question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 10:10 PM
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I'd be able to go out at night without getting worried. That'd be really nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/20 09:21 PM
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The first guy called it weird.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:23 PM
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So why's it bad/weird?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 07:16 PM
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Whats weird is when they ask for commitment before you have even hit it once! That would keep men who just want to use her for sex away?
/r/askTRP08/11/20 06:26 PM
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If the roles were reversed, you'd be going on about how this dynamic clearly shows 'female nature' and that all women are predisposed into doing this. This man isn't an alpha, he's a fucking loser. He let her do everything, including work and take care of him like a literal child, he contributed NOTHING to the relationship and after all that, he cheats on her with multiple women for years? So he can have it all, a submissive slave at home and he also gets to cheat? The only reason she's staying …
/r/askTRP08/11/20 02:52 PM
1

So this woman did everything for him and babied him for years at her own expense and his way of showing gratitude was to cheat on her?
/r/askTRP07/11/20 09:11 PM
2

It is much more profitable to rent them in their prime and dispose when they are useless. You sound like a great guy
/r/ExRedPill06/11/20 01:57 AM
5

Please seek help offline
/r/ExRedPill06/11/20 01:32 AM
1

I have a mommy fetish Yeah ok, can see you're a troll now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 12:40 AM
1

Lol exact opposite from experience
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:54 PM
1

specially when you consider many men strive to be great in other “non sexual components” to for the sole goal of becoming more sexually attractive. That's so pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:52 PM
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No relationship without sex and no relationship period. After we've been fucking for a while maybe i can upgrade her to a girlfriend. As my girlfriend she's free to fuck whoever, I'll be fucking her and someone else. Well that would be an effective technique for rooting out men like you then. If no sex until a relationship has been established, then you'd stay away. Yeah she's special so I'd need to rock the boat rock keep her on board. That isn't 'keeping her on board' it's abuse. Motherly qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:02 PM
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No i don't think i have the time or the patience. Then why would a woman being a good mother be something you see as important? Yes. She gets a great boyfriend, conditionally of course. That isn't what you said, you said your behaviour would 'drop off a steep cliff'. 'Oh you would. I'll give a year of consistency, best BF treatment then fall off a steep cliff. After a year you definitely will be hooked, lol' Correct, but i will be having sex just not with her. So you'd be in a committed relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:33 PM
2

I'd wait, beat skeet and delete. A woman will not make a man wait unless she sees the man as being beta or less than. So if she made you wait months for sex, you would wait for that and then leave? You assume the attraction is one sided,if it's mutual it's not a problem until SHE becomes the problem. You made a claim in this thread that you would lie and misrepresent yourself and be the best boyfriend ever. I'll admit i was wrong for doing this, but these days if i sense serious trauma I'll just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:37 PM
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Good means discipline, no self esteem issues and zero traumas. They have a strong connection with their fathers and the rest of the family. In my experience thats only 20% of the female population. So if a woman has low self esteem or trauma (which isn't her fault) then she deserves to be abused? So if a man is a deadbeat or a bad father, it's also the daughters fault and she deserves abuse? Do you not see the pattern of blaming women for the things men have done to them? And using that to justi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 04:18 PM
2

It's not. I'm skilled at charming and disarming a woman and getting her excited about being with me long term. Then why do this? Many women want to have a family and children and you're making them distrustful and angry at men AND taking up time where they could be getting married and having kids. That's so cruel. I mean I'd recommend therapy, because game doesn't work on good women. It just doesn't. 'Good' women? Meaning what exactly? Women who don't have self esteem issues or some kind of emot…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 01:46 PM
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I don't. But almost all men on this sub do. It's our fault for not 'figuring it out' or something. So again, how do we avoid men like you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 01:32 PM
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I don't because i understand what attracts women. Lol sure you do. It's not possible. Narcissistic assholes are hard to spot and even if you do they can charm their way into your life anyway. Exactly, so why do women get 'blamed' for choosing a bad man?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 12:04 PM
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You dodged the question. Actually both questions: Again a lot of people on this sub blame women for not being able to 'sense' they are being used by men, how can women avoid men like you who go to such lengths?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 11:55 AM
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So you admit the only way to get sex from women at the frequency you desire is to lie and commit to them having absolutely no intention of sticking around? Again a lot of people on this sub blame women for not being able to 'sense' they are being used by men, how can women avoid men like you who go to such lengths?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 03:15 AM
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'The world has gone to shit' so you should lie to, manipulate and emotionally damage women which might take them years to get over.... how the fuck does that make sense? Sticking to a moral code is one thing, you could just have casual sex with women and tell them you don't want anything else. This \^ is a long term abuse strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 02:42 AM
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Exactly, so here the nicer and better the woman, the greatest effort you would go to to hide who you really are. You're literally like the manual of a LVM here according to FDS. I'm showing this every-time I get the 'pIcK bEtTeR mEn' comment now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 02:17 AM
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Less oxytocin, which leads to less empathy which leads to cheating, cucking, open relationships, and divorce Oxytocin isn't 'finite' it does not 'run out'.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:10 PM
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Oh you would. I'll give a year of consistency, best BF treatment then fall off a steep cliff. After a year you definitely will be hooked, lol Textbook abusive lovebombing. It's funny how men believe that it's a woman's fault for picking a 'bad' man and yet you openly admit you'd falsify your entire personality for a year to make a woman invested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:05 PM
1

How is there 'nothing wrong with that' when she loves him and wants to be with him?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 04:17 PM
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Tell the truth.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 04:01 PM
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says the gender that sticks cucumbers, aubergines, bananas, carrots, brushes, toys, younameit up their pussys... ....Where on earth did you get this idea from? 😂
/r/MGTOW26/10/20 08:34 PM
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It's so much harder to hear these stories when you know their life story. You see it all. Their hopes, their dreams, the passions they have, the ideas they're full of. Knowing a literal flaming dumpster fire of a human took all that away ughhhhhhh. Raging and sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:26 PM
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For added laughs, google 'Matt Forney' He literally looks like an egg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:06 PM
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Did you confront him about that bullshit? Honestly don't even know how I'd recover my trust for men if this happened to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:57 PM
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he has been dicking me around all these years and IS only interested in fucking me. Ok this actually sounds terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:47 PM
1

This is so sad :( Did they say why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:44 PM
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Don't date potential or ideals, look at the man in front of you objectively and make a clear assessment based on that. Do your research and NEVER overlook red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:24 PM
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I wanna cry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:20 PM
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Not even that tbh, even just admiring something about a guy warrant accusations of being a 'hypergamous slut' according to these guys. Meanwhile they will openly oggle every women they see because 'mAlE bIoLoGy'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:11 PM
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Translation: PLS LOWER YOUR STANDARDS, PLS PLS PLSSSSSSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:08 PM
1

We would? I haven't observed men going insane because couple of fems went lesbian. Perhaps a guuy or two butthurt, but far from "men going insane". Incels have killed people in terrorist attacks, women are attacked for turning down men constantly See: https://whenwomenrefuse.tumblr.com/ Just saying that "bad experience" is not exclusively a female thing and there are lots of bitter angry females out there whom we wouldn't even notice having gone pursue females (preferably successfully, too). The…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 10:38 PM
1

My then girlfriend semi-cheated on me with two of my friends ...how does someone 'semi cheat on you'.....
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 04:41 PM
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Instead of actually communicating I used some red pill tactics and made her cry a bunch of times. Just pretty much turned into a major asshole that broke up at the first sign of trouble. Please leave her for god sake.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 03:31 PM
1

This was a big problem in my past relationship. I was 100% in and ready, he took forever to consider comittment, so i left, and then he freaked out that I left. . And it's confusing as a woman how men seem to act like they don't care, but when we leave they have a meltdown.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 03:18 PM
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Don't think I'd ever date an 'ex red piller' for this reason. They're just damaged.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 03:10 PM
1

Why do some men fuck donkeys? Are donkeys arousing for men?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 02:29 PM
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A definite narcissist and based on the debate with Destiny, can't seem to answer basic questions about the things he believes in so much.
/r/ExRedPill24/10/20 01:55 PM
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You would have no sweet clue who any of us are if you met us in person. Yeah, I would. Obviously you all learn the same shit from the same sources, easy enough to figure out when you start using certain lines or pulling certain shit (dread). I can only imagine what a sad, pathetic, beta life you must live. Lurk around a bit more and maybe you'll learn something useful and stop being so pathetic. If women were so attracted to this then they'd be no issue with it would there? People don't like kno…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 12:24 PM
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So you basically admit you're just here to troll. Nope, by gaining insight into how you think after being brainwashed, it's easier to avoid you and warn other people against you. Women are attracted most to men with these ideologies, Nope, confirmation bias. Using manipulative techniques such as 'dread' works on everyone with low self esteem, men and women because you're trying to exploit a persons insecurity. What you think is a magical trick to pull women to you is abusive.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 12:13 PM
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Why else are people here if not to learn that? To find out how mentally damaged, bitter people like you thing and avoid them accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 12:03 PM
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The fact that you believe in an all encompassing 'female nature' based on bullshit evo psych shows just how far you've fallen into this retarded cult ideology. 'Survival' pfft, women actively want to avoid people who believe in this stuff, but omg it's all about 'survival' haha you sick freak
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 11:51 AM
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Nah it's because women don't wanna date people who believe in manipulation lmao
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 04:01 AM
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If this is true, then why would women lose interest once they find out you believe in RP ideology?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/20 03:10 AM
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'mutations' can you point towards the genes responsible for homosexuality? Sparingly? 1/10-1/20th of the population is hardly 'sparingly' You completely missed the point of not every single thing in the world can fit into the narrow context of evolutionary biology. This is just interpretation of evolutionary biology anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 10:45 PM
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Low notch count women should reject high notch count men more, they really think they can 'have their fun' and settle down at 30 with STIS and a receding hairline.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:32 PM
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By that logic, gay people wouldn't exist at all because you can't reproduce with the same sex. Muh 'everything is easily explained with evolutionary biology'
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:24 PM
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There are women you fuck and there are women you marry. Grooooooss, low notch count women don't want your nasty ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 08:20 PM
1

Did you actually bother to read the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:35 PM
1

I gave a source, what exactly do you want?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 06:29 PM
1

Muh pair bonding is important for whamen, not really that important for men. Wrong, the promiscuously and likelihood of cheating still apply to men. You don't get to escape standards because you personally don't want them being applied to you lol. Hypocrisy is even more unattractive than promiscuity. 'Standards for thee, but not for me' lol fuck off. We either commit or not, and the muh bonding feeling ain't a big part of that. And rumour has it that muh "pair bonding enabled" whamen drop in num…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 06:21 PM
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Of course you don't, because you're engaging in modern retardaded society and don't even realize that it could be any other way. Ala you're a young en. Thus small scale promiscuity doesn't even count as promiscuity to you (even though it obv is). I never said I was engaging in it. I said if it was only 1-2 RELATIONSHIPS per year, I wouldn't view it as promiscuity as the motivating factor would be the person, not just fucking them and leaving. Of course, a person who'd been in 10 6 month relation…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 05:48 PM
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It's much easier to argue against something someone hasn't said than to understand and respond intelligently. All assumptions, and stupid ones. I've read the side bar, they are advocating manipulation and abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:50 PM
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Because they are dangerous, predatory and try to actively harm women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:47 PM
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No, I don't care what they think. Their ideology is toxic, manipulative and horrible. All I want is for them to stay away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 04:32 PM
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obviously it's a generalisation, I can't go through every man on earth and anaylse him accordingly on this sub, can I?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 03:26 PM
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I got treated horribly by less attractive man, while the most attractive treated me nicely. He never threatened me or stole from me, that isn't 'halo perspective', it's the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:54 PM
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We are not dating men, so it doesn’t matter to us if women have it worse or not. Haha, spoken like a true psychopath. It's just funny to complain about things as though it's most women doing them, when in fact men do them more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:23 PM
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Yes, but you're discounting all of those potential partner people based off of what is a very loose correlation, and you've made broad sweeping statements about the views you have of those people based on these loose correlations. Young en. It's not at all a 'loose correlation' it's pretty damn strong lol. People can be promiscuous all they want, I won't treat them badly. I'll just never date them. We'll just see how you feel about that when you're old. Young en. I've already made peace with the…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:25 AM
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You underestimated the power of the hypergamy. I'm sick of this cult language bullshit. Men do the same shit to women, all the time. Not every man looks like christ hansen if they got a shower. Not every man is tall. Not every man is naturally buff. Your eyes in only aimed at attractive men, hence why you think an average man can just shower. There's shit tons of ways you can fuck up and not be born correct as a man, cause unless you look like a literal celebrity you'll never going to get the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:04 AM
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You don't under how low the bar is for men. Stop with the cult language, it's boring now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:01 AM
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'Im not sure what it is that you're asking that I'll bring to the table, I'm a dude. I bring high income, could bring stability, tho choose not to for thoties (esp around 30+, just on principle), pretty in shape currently, high ed, higher iq, high height, decent social status (tho I moved recent so now I have barely any bros in the area), good fam, decent fam wealth. Yet, you describe women as 'thoties'
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 11:00 AM
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Nope, the phrase 'starter wife' exists for a reason. 'You're a hypergamous' lol high IQ red pill man is high IQ.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 10:55 AM
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You seem to have extremely confusing and contradictory views based on your post history too: 'Which is why exploring before your one and only marriage leads to problems. A duh' '" Woman experiments with past hook ups " All of my lulz. "experiments". I thought you were pro-promiscuity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:37 AM
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Do you walk outside your apt/house or drive/ride in a car? Do you always wear a hat in direct sunlight even when not at the beach/pool? Do you steer well clear of all houses with no lightning rod/tall trees in every storm? Do you take special care around your house hold furniture (from tripping/falling)? Do you have a little hand rail for getting into and standing in your shower? Your chance of cancer/lightning/falling to death/dying in car/walking is higher doing those things than they are from…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:15 AM
1

Well I just went for personality because 'looks' is a bit more abstract. At average height and build, I'm sure I'd be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:13 PM
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This for me was one of the most painful realisations that came from reading FDS. I've been an all around doormat for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:02 PM
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If he cheats, he has options. Don't choose a man with options,and it won't happen. ....so choose a man who has zero other interest from any women including gold diggers, both now and in the future? How on earth could that be done? Or very wealthy, but basically yeah. Fact is, attractive women get treated better. The bigger the disparity, the better treatment the woman gets. If a guy treats you badly, he's most likely above you in objective SMV. It's utter bullshit, this is all just speculation f…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:34 PM
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I gotta use this when they throw out one of those shit lines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:31 PM
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Just had to check this twice because I thought I was seeing things. The 'light' woman is marked as 'new' my god
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 10:30 PM
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Already said cancer above derp, very small chance, even smaller that it is fatal. congenital herp is 0.82 deaths per 100 000 for children. Again, a big meh. Children are not dropping dead in huge numbers (32 a year in 380ish milly people) from the 1/3 or whatever of americans with herp 2 being their mom. Much more likely to just get aborted/miscarried/SIDS/flu etc. Why on earth would I want to take a risk when I could just yknow, not? I don't fancy getting cancer. I'm promiscuous and I don't lac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 10:26 PM
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No? Plenty of white people are tanned but I think pale looks best. Pale isn't usually considered attractive on white people either, I'm an outlier here. I'm not sure how that relates to being in the top 20%? Average height is 5'9 in my country, but I wouldn't just go for guys with that EXACT height, I'd go above or below it. Average build for me ranges from thin to chubby, as long as no extremes. This literally goes against every top 20% because on height and build alone, I'd be going for most g…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:37 PM
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No it wouldn't work for most women. You haven't dated men, this is all just what you assume. I assumed logically that dating a man who I wasn't really that attracted to but at the time, seemed to be nice would ensure good treatment too. Men will throw away happy marriages of 20-30+ years to cheat. Men don't act as logically as you'd like to believe. Your logic is, if women get treated badly it's not the mans fault, it's her fault for choosing someone too 'good looking'.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:31 PM
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a man of average height and build are the top 20%? Or is it the personality traits that make that top 20%? I'm the exact average height for a woman in my country, I'm average weight (athletic, trim but with some muscle), pale skin, I have a LOT of hobbies and I've been building up a business during the COVID pandemic that I have great hopes for. So yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:19 PM
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I don't really 'go' for guys now. Largely lost interest due to how I was treated in the past. Previously though I liked average height, average build, pale skin, kind, has many hobbies, ambitious, intelligent. I think I'd be exactly like that as a man because that's pretty much me as a woman? lol. I tend to be attracted to guys who are more like me vs less like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:12 PM
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It's their values that I find revolting. What values?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:03 PM
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Cheating, emotional abuse, divorce, abandonment, domestic abuse, being blamed for the choices she keeps making, etc Does MGTOW take note or even care that statistically men do most of these things more often?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 09:02 PM
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Well both are subjective, an average job then lets say. I'd just meet them in friendship circles or at work/hobby places. I'd start off by befriending them and gradually as I get to know them, start the flirting. That always worked on me. Plus if it does work out, you end up in a relationship with your friend so it's more comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:52 PM
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Well I guess you'll just have to take my word for it. The guy now lives with his parents nearing 30 and hasn't had a girlfriend since, it's been years and he's definitely been trying lol. I never did ANYTHING bad to him, I was the ultimate pickme, treated him extremely well and had it all thrown back in my face. That's once reason I was drawn to FDS, I wanted to know how I could treat someone so well and come out so poorly. Well I did that and it didn't, it doesn't for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:50 PM
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"Linked to" (correlation) is not causation. The correlation is there. Plus promiscuity is also linked to substance abuse. There's rarely going to be a direct correlation with this these things but here's the thing. Promiscuity is a risky behaviour and is associated with every other kind of 'risky behaviour you can think of. Gambling, drug abuse, alcoholism, spending sprees etc. Being promiscuous shows many things about his character. 1. He lacks self control 2. He doesn't value sex/intimacy or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:47 PM
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They have less desire for self control, less social and bodily consequences, opportunity to reproduce might be fleeting. Still wouldn't be into it, even if I was hornier, it's a no-go. It would also be a no-go for any potential partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:35 PM
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I think those women need to understand that whatever you tolerate from men, collectively lowers the bar for 'all women'. Why would a guy put in the effort being decent if some pickme will tolerate being treated like a doormat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:33 PM
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26% of men in London don't wash their genitals properly So if I washed, have a good job, I'm not a sociopath and I don't believe in casual sex. I'd already be better than a sizeable chunk of men out there, that doesn't even take into account my earning potential, desire to have a stable family or other character traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:28 PM
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He hasn't changed his profile picture in 4 years and it's one that greatly obscures his face. There's a reason for this. He's short, balding with terrible skin too. I doubt this was my objective looksmatch lol. The shit treatment I got? Being threatened, lied to, stolen from, massive temper tantrums from him when I asked him to clean up after himself. Yeah totally not living up to my high standards lmao. You're just so far into incel ideology that you honestly think that if a women chooses her l…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:23 PM
0

I agree? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 08:20 PM
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Different drive.. yeah and? Still wouldn't be into casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:57 PM
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I was in a relationship with an ugly man and all he did was treat me like shit. Dating for a woman isn't as black and white as you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:55 PM
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Its going to change your behavior. No it isn't. I've been on medication with 'mood changes' as a side effect. I can see when I might not be acting rationally and alter to fit this. I'd do the same if I was a man. I wouldn't turn into an animal without introspection and self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:47 PM
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Spoken as if women are prizes Not wanting to be becky bucks means they are prizes? lol that's BARE MINIMUM self respect. If they're not catches, then work on becoming catches. Don't settle for a manchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:15 PM
1

Not an excuse for not having self control.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:11 PM
1

it would be extremely easy to get the kind of relationship I wanted How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:08 PM
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Assuming I was suddenly female, with my male brain, and straight so I suddenly wanted guys (and a real LTR), I'd find that nerdy, ok looking, hard working guy who is on his way to becoming wealthy and own him body and sould pretty quick. I could also go the established man route and do well there but that group would be harder to outright own, they have more experience He'd trade you in the second he was successful. See: Betty Broderick I would have my pick of the 30 year olds, which is young en…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:08 PM
3

High n is linked to cheating and divorce? Also STDS?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:02 PM
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You'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:02 PM
2

You aren't seeing the point, are you? Someone having a deep emotional connection with you and loving you for who you are inside and out. VS Young women merely tolerating you for money and she resents every time she has to see you. But sure, these things are both the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:56 PM
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I'd have no trouble getting woman at all lmao, just having a job and basic hygiene and I already beat quite a few men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:50 PM
2

ots of Becky Bucks supporting young dudes who are in and out of both jail and temp work - though they do tend to be far less bitter about it than the inner city “working class” Becky Bucks with whom I am familiar. Euuuugh why do women have self esteem so low they'll support parasitic men like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:49 PM
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Source: Dude trust me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:41 PM
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How do you feel about relationships between teenagers and adults significantly older than them? Vile and creepy, you have nothing in common with someone significantly younger/older. The younger partner is likely just looking for a needed self esteem boost (see: daddy issues stereotype) and the older partner will be seeking to exploit this, likely for sexual gain. If you had teenage kids, to what extent would you be willing to tolerate them dating someone significantly older? I wouldn't, I'd put …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:35 PM
3

Best thing women as a collective can do is not date them. Leaving them out in the cold will hopefully teach them that they can't be like this and expect a decent partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:54 PM
2

Flashing your money to attract gold diggers doesn't make you attractive lol, it makes you a utility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:49 PM
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Like I said... this is the thinking of young boys. Older men... we do the judging. Haha, I'm sure you do
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 04:39 PM
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That's true but I think that depends heavily on the police in question Might be worth a shot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:53 AM
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Men are so pathetic lmao, it's not even a good reason like 'I also have little experience and I'd prefer a partner who values sex' Literally more like 'I'm never gonna make her finish so I need to make sure she's never been with a guy who has made her finish so I don't look bad' Lmao omg
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:53 AM
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That only applies if both partners are inexperienced. This is just hypocrisy, yet again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 11:47 AM
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I feel so sad reading this I hope you reported that sick bastard to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:01 AM
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I often find it interesting/horrifying at how so many practices around the world that harm women E.g FGM, footbinding, forced marriage, etc seem to be centered around a main theme. Not letting women escape/get away from men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:58 PM
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of course, a woman walking down a runway in a purple suit is all about men isn't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:48 PM
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Women all want the same exact characteristics Just an assumption, most men end up in relationships with women who like them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:33 PM
1

It's full of incels?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:30 PM
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N eglect emotionally aaaaand this is why FDS exists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:28 PM
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If men judged you intensly on the size of your genitals and your ability to make sex enjoyable... then you would also care a lot about your partners experience level. So you'd prefer women to have less experience so they wouldn't be able to tell if you were small/shit in bed essentially?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:25 PM
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god i'm so damn tired of the incel memes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:22 PM
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I've had 2 guys who basically sponged off me because I truly felt sorry for them/cared about them. NEVER AGAIN.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 07:17 PM
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Women don't have a 'mating strategy' you brainwashed freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 02:09 PM
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I never said it was insignificant. Just that it was something random where if one was not on reddit for a month, one would not see that. Where as the sidebar is what everyone sees and is the actual underlying theory. Which is just as bad. I'll concede what that poster said is manipulation, even though it sounds effective, likely why it got all those upvotes. Personally I'm not a fan of manipulation. And yet most people who subscribe to this ideology don't give 2 fucks about manipulating someone.…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:59 AM
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So do you and become an asexual, or start pursuing females. And if more women did that, men would be going insane. I agree cheating is a choice, but you can probably relate that by your observations men are more promiscuous no? Yes, but just because men cheat more, I wouldn't say that it is ''male nature'' That implies it will always happen or there is a tremendous drive towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:56 AM
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IDK, you do you. I'm not attracted to men, so I can't explain why someone would be. You missed the very obvious point I was making, if it's male NATURE to cheat, then there isn't much point pursuing anything serious with you ever. So maybe it is, you tell me. Why would you say cheating is female behavior I don't think it's a 'fact' of either, cheating is a choice. You aren't a robot drone with zero free will no matter how many men try to make this absurd claim as to why they cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:44 AM
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In a way, it is male nature to be cheaters. So why on earth would we want to be with you? Should we have some kind of female strategy to 'control' you? Also if it is in male nature to cheat, then it's also in female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:35 AM
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So yes, it is a random post and not underlying TRP theory as outlined in the sidebar. With 2.2 thousand upvotes, but yeah that's totally insignificant isn't it? Your interpretation of one section which you cherry picked in an attempt to discredit the entire body of work. Interpretation? How does it need to get any clearer? Should he have just said 'LIE SO YOU GET SEX TIL SHE FIGURES IT OUT' What else is the point of deliberately misleading someone? So this one post discredits all of TRP? Should …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:33 AM
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The post about manipulating women has over 2 thousand upvotes lol but sure 'just a random post' Yes, in the sidebar there is also this lovely gem about how 'handle' women asking for a relationship. Instead of being honest about your intentions, you should deliberately be vague (I'm guessing so the man doesn't lose his steady supply of sex when she realises he's not actually interested in a relationship). 'If confronted, be vague. "Hey baby... I thought we had a nice thing going here... we like e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 11:16 AM
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R/incels exists? r/IncelsWithoutHate You choose to view it as manipulating through your lens, which likely has partially been formulated by hours of ingesting incel internet posts. Ah yes, 'Three ways to consciously manipulate women before they subconsciously manipulate you' isn't at all about manipulation, it's about lifting weights and bettering yourself *eyeroll*. I view trp as self betterment. Nature is survival of the fittest and we all evolved to be attracted to the best. To increase your …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:56 AM
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Yes with one HELL of a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:54 AM
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They haven't banned the incel sub. TRP men aren't logical by definition, their ideology is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:45 AM
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Most men here are incel/MGTOW/TRP and the purge week just makes them more upfront about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 10:08 AM
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Well considering how the men here talk about women, is it really surprising?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:09 PM
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Oh and she's also mentally ill even classier. It's pure, cold hearted exploitation, it's actually sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:05 PM
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This is so true and so heartbreaking. Poor thing doesn't even see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:04 PM
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'Why men love bitches' vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:03 PM
2

Isn't this also ILLEGAL? Wtf. Report the guy to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:33 PM
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As I've read many times here; if he wanted to, he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 10:23 PM
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