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Sure, what RP refers to as BP men will give this "don't hurt their feelings" advice too (RP pseudo-intellectual, and perhaps even a real intellectual on occasion, will say it's feminine advice that BP men echo around to each other, but I don't care much about this part of the debate). The point is BP man gets this "soft gloves" advice and BP man believes it (until it proves false with time, most of the time). "Very few people speak like this to their friends outside of the internet. This is not …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:58 AM
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No, it's not referring to the women their trying to date, who generally will just ignore them or let them down easy if ignoring doesn't work and if that doesn't work just making it clear that they're just not interested and if that doesn't work getting some intervention from other people or the law. Women in general don't just straight up say to a man that he has serious problems that he needs to fix to maybe be attractive. For instance, if a man has been or at least feels he's been "friendzoned…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 10:27 AM
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Sure, the "black pilled" or otherwise frustrated men believe women have it better. For the red pill, your post simply confirms the whole point: that you must be attractive to get women interested in you. You're complaining about the deluge of blue pill men that are not attractive, awkward, socially inept, borderline or full blown creepy, addicted to porn, who believe that you want to have sex with them because they want to have sex with you. It's the blue pill men approaching you without a chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 07:54 AM
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First, your confusing two parts of the argument. In our society, it's possible for a women to have sex with a man who is or becomes broke, there's a small chance just like there's a small chance of unwanted pregnancy every time sex happens. So, even within a society where there's child support, a women accepts that may not happen if the father is or becomes a deadbeat. Second, every society has not pursued fathers with unwanted children for child support. This is simply not true. The general cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 09:11 PM
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To add another way of thinking about this piece of wisdom is that, if you're a bad gardener you'll just go to the greener grass on the other side and fuck that grass up too, so it just doesn't matter until you've put in the work on all aspects of manliness, sexiness and responsibility; then you can legitimately tell if the grass is both greener and will get even greener with your presence.
/r/askMRP17/09/18 07:26 PM
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If your primary concern at the moment is financial then I suggest you focus on that, which you seem to already have a good plan for. For the rest, since you're wife doesn't seem to be bringing your life down, she's just passive and doesn't want to work, it's possible you're more angry with the social expectations than with your wife herself. A big part of MRP is accepting that the social expectations are one sided: the man is held to a much higher standard in terms of career, romance, sexual sat…
/r/askMRP17/09/18 04:32 PM
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Is getting her to increase her contribution your preferred outcome, and you'd divorce if a good effort fails? Or is setting up for divorce your preferred outcome and you'd only reconsider if she surprises you? In either case, you've only been turning things around for 6 months, so you may not yet be wise enough to evaluate precisely your a and b conclusion that you'll always be a 'betabux to her and that it would require an amount of effort fair beyond the value of it to pull her mutinous, bitch…
/r/askMRP17/09/18 03:20 PM
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There's no debate that in a society where there is a child-support scheme, that men should consider child support as a possible consequence of having sex and, as you suggest, can't complain about the consequences of the action. This isn't the debate here. The debate is whether sex leading naturally to babies therefore leads naturally to child support. That the consequences argument is a sufficient moral argument for legal or otherwise social responsibility schemes. TheGreasyPol is pointing out i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:28 PM
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Listen to this guy, he knows the basics of critical thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:19 PM
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What class are you in? Attractiveness (of a man) has a lot to do with basically being a higher class, such as having resources, dressing well, good education, which are traits that basically come de facto with being in a higher class. There are other advantages as well, such as the social status of whatever your parents do reflecting on to you, as well as rich parents don't hesitate to negotiate with their kids against the school or whatever institution to get what their kids want or reduce cons…
/r/askTRP17/09/18 09:30 AM
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I have 3 kids, and often travel for work, sometimes for 2-3 months. Not exactly the same but I can share what I've observed. First, kids need constant reassuring that you love them, have fun playing with them, are thinking about them, really appreciate anything they do for you like drawings or getting you a cup of water. Kids are generally in the moment and do not understand adult sources of awkwardness or worry, so all this is an issue of attitude, basically just forgetting other things and bei…
/r/askMRP17/09/18 06:57 AM
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Putting aside anti-trust issues. The central free speech issue is more to do with does a de facto monopoly on channels of information effectively create a free speech barrier. For instance, say before the internet there was a monopoly on printing services. There were many new papers and magazines, but effectively only one service to print them. This printing service could have a ToS and shutdown any outlet it wanted without that outlet having been found guilty of saying anything illegal, refusin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 04:36 PM
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Could you provide a little cost-benefit analysis to the good men offering their time to help struggling men, whatever their issue? Why is it worth 1 second of anyone's time to help you get 1 bj 1 more time? How is this going to improve your life and make you a better person, and we all look back and say "yeah, it was worth it; humanity has become 1 unit less stupid, and I was there ... aie, I was there"?
/r/askTRP14/09/18 10:49 AM
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Well this seems like the basis of a healthy attitude given the cultural constraints. Just keep in mind that even if you both say you want the same thing for these practical reasons, if there's no actual attraction it could be a terrible choice. So read up on red-flags, there's great material on that in the side bar, also MPR is where you should probably post for further advice (MPR is for people who do not want their choice of making or keeping a marriage questioned, just advice on how to achiev…
/r/askTRP13/09/18 02:15 PM
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You've been texting this girl for 2 weeks and you can honestly say it's time to make the big move and lock her down?
/r/askTRP13/09/18 12:56 PM
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Yes, the whole point of places like MPR is because men generally have no friend to talk to about it and get support. Some couples also avoid displays of affection in any setting and the only indication if sex is happening is the regular appearance of children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 12:33 PM
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Yes. But if even with your criteria there's certainly some variation. By a "bit lacking", I mean whatever's the lowest level you could go on this but still be compensated by some other factor: be it looks, career, their feelings for you, position on children or no-children, etc. If the "lowest you can go" in this scenario is still really smart, just not Nobel Prize material, ok. Now imagine the relationship starting and continuing. Would the lack of any regular PH.d. dissertations, and Nobel Pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 11:01 AM
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I wrote my comments with low libido specifically for the case the other person isn't working on it: has lost interest or is simply not attracted. The case where there is some random loss of libido and both parties are working on it. Yes, very likely it will come back, and in mean time there's other forms of intimacy. As important, in this case there's a genuine attraction, genuine want to solve the libido problem, genuine recognition that it's important to the other partner. This case is not the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 08:34 AM
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There's a lot of anger in the forum of guys who can't get laid (that what the forum is for) against women that sleep around (just not with them). The first thing these participants are told if they directly complain about "high N count" women not sleeping with them, is that they're pathetic and not attractive and that's why these women don't sleep with them. A sexually frustrated man has a "love-hate" relationship with high-N count woman: He would love to sleep with her, but he hates that she do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:14 AM
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I wasn't trying to make the point that the LDR wasn't satisfying for the other person. My point is that physical relationship was expected at some point. Of course, until there is a physical relationship conversation is all that can be done long distance. What I'm trying get you to visualize is the scenario that the LDR didn't end, that you got together physically, and then no or little sex because it doesn't interest you. Ok, you still have great conversation and you're happy because that's mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:20 PM
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Probably the lingo of creeper to refer to obsessed people is a indication of something. Maybe nothing. Meeting someone who is maybe / certainly obsessed with you is easy, difficulties arise later. If she cheats on her current boyfriend with you, well RP has observed she's likely to cheat on you later. Again, if your cool with that possibility there's no issue. If noticing the creepers is incidental to work, that's how it is. But I would suggest to watch out for rationalizing away negative habits…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 07:52 PM
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These are exact examples of my points. An LDR with good conversation was fulfilling to you and lasted a long time, and the lack of physical contact didn't bother you. Did your partner view it the same way? Or did they maybe think it was the buildup to a physical relationship living in the same place at some point? RP doesn't assume everyone is as horny as them. RP accepts some women are very horny some are not so much, as well as some men are less horny. When a woman isn't in the mood, RP doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:56 PM
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Me comment is helpful. It's goal is to lower your ego for 2 seconds and step back from your fantasy and see how you yourself describe the girl, as your creeper. You wrote a lusty song, now you want to act it out in the real world with the girl you thought of when you wrote it. But she has a boyfriend and she's your creeper. Is she good relationship material? If it's just about casual sex, why her? Why are you focused on instragram enough to know how to rank your creepers? These are the questions…
/r/askTRP12/09/18 05:07 PM
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Do not engage anyone you describe as your #3 creeper. Engage with removing your head from your ass, with or without award nominations for doing so.
/r/askTRP12/09/18 04:25 PM
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Neither do I know. That's my point, this isn't the forum to discuss it. Where did I say there wasn't a political force acting against men? If you want to believe that someone who sees problems with unregulated capitalism and it's connection to things TRP says is bad (like porn addiction), that person is therefore a communist, then you're free to believe that or participate in a political forum if you want to have your view challenged. This forum avoids endorsing any particular political view, so…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 04:13 PM
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It is not safe to say. Lot of members mention unregulated capitalism as the main driver for porn, GF / wives addicted to consumerism (men generally become immune if they're working / paying for it), unhealthy diets, and Hollywood (again a pillar of modern capitalism) as a big driver for hookup culture and BP relationship views of unicorns, extravagant weddings and living beyond one's means. Likewise, if your records don't get made so you can't get paid, and if you can't get paid you don't get la…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 03:37 PM
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Yes, we agree they are not RP by definition of RP. If you know they aren't RP (by RP's definition) then it's talking about something else, so you should expect confusion. People who are not RP, don't take responsibility for their actions and accept life as it is to make the best of it without whining; if they associate or self-identifying as RP, this is a different issue. I totally agree that the forums fill up with the people you describe. The whole point of the forums is to help people go from…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:52 AM
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You really don't know much about RP. RP is about blaming yourself. Accepting that (most) women are attracted to certain things and working on these things will greatly help (not guarantee) either finding a relationship (including non-committal sexual relationships, if that's what your looking for) or keeping a relationship healthy, isn't "blaming women" for anything. It sounds like blaming women from a BP lens of believing women "shouldn't act like they are obviously acting" (chasing the top 20%…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 10:18 AM
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Most men are genuinely looking for a LTR. The stories of "spinning plates" and "getting laid" is actually unattractive to most men. Most men view themselves as "not that kind of man", some out of genuine ethical principle and others simply because they can't have that so they prefer to interpret their inability as noble. However, RP isn't just for guys who want to increase their attractiveness, increase their confidence with women, sleep with a lot of women and never want to commit. This is a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 09:43 AM
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You seem to be talking about how you imagine things in the future, not talking from experience in the past. Now you maybe right, you might prefer conversation to a healthy sex life. But you're statement is from your perspective that your man loses his libido. It's much more likely that you lose your libido (or are no longer or never were attracted to you man) and your man does not. This will destabilize the relationship. It's possible that your man loses his libido and you still want to have sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 06:27 AM
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I should have specified poorer classes in the West, who do generally have internet (but I said lower-class than upper-middle class, so inclusive to middle class, working class as well, all don't have attractiveness by default from being from a rich family). But even if you're so poor you have no internet access someone could tell you about RP ideas and why you maybe having trouble with women. The RP interpretation would be to become less poor and you'll have better luck then. This isn't how I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 05:41 AM
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Can confirm. Just to add some notes. At first I thought the language was to be edgy, but I think it has more to do with economics. Most men aren't intellectuals, the nuances of politically correct psycho-babble language that express the same concepts they just don't get. RP is mostly a tool useful for poorer men. It's not so relevant to upper-middle and upper-class kids, who (statistically speaking) are nearly guaranteed to stay in the same class and have the attractiveness that goes with it by …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:56 PM
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It doesn't work for the good women you have in mind. Other women are active participants in hookup culture and you have to more attractive than then next guy to participate with them. Now, maybe it's not a win for them in the end, they later said "he just strung me along and was never going to commit, I wasted my time", but during the process (that Mr_Smoogs points out) they can go from being totally cool it's just a fun sexual thing, to entertaining thoughts of commitment the next day, to being…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 06:33 PM
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You've got it backwards "Sustain" refers to what keeps a relationship healthy after it forms, with connotation of over the long term. Due to hookup culture, having sex with someone is nearly irrelevant to settling down with that person, so guys and girls will think about a lot of things to evaluate who to settle down with (though often totally wrong things, many things other than sex none-the-less). But generally, most guys intuit psychological problems would be not good as a partner and especia…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:41 PM
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In my own marriage and talking with friends in marriages. Men (including myself) like sex. If sex life is good, life is good and there aren't much complaints and everything their women does is amazing. The only other thing that I see bother men enough to talk about it, is when their partner makes irrational decisions. In Western culture, women are not only allowed but often encouraged to make completely contradictory decisions, hold completely irrational positions, and have completely irrational…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 10:54 AM
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I think it's just semantics. Even if it takes work and active engagement, at some point someone invites you into a relationship, even if the inviting is mutual. Five_Decades is just pointing out that people who have never been in a stable relationship obviously "stay on the market" and possibly stay "not good relationship material", whereas the people who are good relationship material get into relationships. In my own experience, all my friends in high-school who had focus, easy to get a long w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 09:19 AM
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If testing is something you gotta do, then set it up and keep it in the back of your mind and do it discretely and then never talk about it if it's your child. However, I would suggest not being paranoid and fully enjoy and immerse yourself in your wife's pregnancy. The ultrasound, when done at a specific time in the first trimester, is pretty accurate predicting the due date. But it's not accurate predicting date of conception. The zygote can float around before anchoring to the uterus, and the…
/r/askMRP09/09/18 06:24 AM
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Essentially all the comments, except screechhater, are advising divorce. The better of these comments point out the social fallout of divorcing a pregnant mother will be. I will chime in with screechhater on this. Though divorce maybe the final outcome; jumping to divorce is simply the appearance of being strong, but in these circumstances are a cowardly way to attempt to makeup for past weakness. This is a general trend of poor decision making, which is that when mistakes are finally realized t…
/r/askMRP03/09/18 05:32 PM
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I'm fairly alpha and neither happy nor unhappy. I lead a corporation. I'm happy because I've achieved some things, but unhappy because I haven't achieved other things and I have little time to relax. If my goal was simply to feel happy, being a beta-provider and confining my thoughts to my immediate surroundings would achieve that. The reason to go through the considerable effort to build and lead an organization -- anyone that calls themselves "alpha" who is not making daily decisions that effe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 03:36 AM
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In that case, you're better off not going to school at all, keep home schooling. Join a whole bunch of clubs and sports for socializing. Go on organized learn-something-tourism like survival in the wilderness, history tours, or whatever (really easy to make transient friendships, learn from diverse age groups, in this sort of setting). When you can drive, it becomes even easier to diversify activities. Read a lot obviously. School in any form will not bring you any happiness in the next 4 years.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 12:14 PM
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If financial concerns aren't an issue then education doesn't really matter. Doing well in education environment only matters significantly to people trying to break out of poverty, or at least be less poor than their parents. For wealthy people, educational performance doesn't correlate much with anything, since parents are available to provide education, and school is marginal added value (poor people who don't do well in school and have dysfunctional or absent families, largely because parents…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 10:12 PM
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The whole flirting thing is because that's what any adult-younger-girl jovial interaction looks like to the outside world. There's no way to convince someone otherwise, so no need to argue about it. What's normal in a classroom is not normal to the rest of society. So simply accept remain aloof and uninterested in what your students do or say when other adults are around, or then accept most people will assume your flirting on some level, conscious or subconscious. Obviously you can't do anythin…
/r/askMRP20/05/18 07:10 PM
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Totally agree with the basic message here. Giving the number is just plain weird (as well as her asking for it in the first place). Reacting strongly (in a beta fashion) also only serves her purpose. So you need a non-beta shutdown. Word pimp maybe too strong, depends on the kind of person you are. Other options are simply ignore issue and simply say "I'm not engaging in this nonsense" next time she brings it up.
/r/askMRP15/05/18 06:52 PM
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The explanation you describe is simple, but that's the problem. If it's as simple a thing as you describe then it should be far more widespread within mammal species. Why does mothers competing with their daughters result in menopause in humans and 2 whale species, but not in lions, elephants, bears, wolves, apes, mountain goats, meerkats etc. which is not to say these are the best comparison examples just that there are a lot of mammals where mothers enter into competition with their daughters …
/r/askMRP15/05/18 01:02 PM
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He could, I agree that would solve his problem. But his worry is people asking probing questions that will destabilize him. If he's internalized STFU and living for himself he wouldn't have this problem to begin with, my suggestion is to simply point out another option at his disposal.
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:44 AM
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But that's precisely the issue. How then does it evolve, only three mammal species have menopause. Helping grandchildren, great-grandchildren, genes get diluted. In the mathematics of simple gene transmission, there's a big advantage for having more that one more direct offspring. A theory needs to show why menopause helps humans, killer and pilot whales but not every other mammal species. What's unique to the human and whales with menopause is complex language and experience. Since there's no p…
/r/askMRP12/05/18 12:31 AM
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Yes I also mentioned the energy factor (which I agree is a factor), but the problem with only this hypothesis is that why stay around at all? Are grandmothers really valuable in terms of just labouring for their grandchildren? I don't think it's clear. The knowledge argument is that some patterns in nature are fairly long term, 50 year, 100 year flood type of events. There's no qualitative comparison with having lived something compared to having just been told about it. I think this would be tr…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 06:57 PM
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Am new too, but this seems like an easy case. Few possibilities. Girl might be attracted to you but put off by alcohol, she knows you like her so she wants to keep you as a possibility while she looks for better. Big reason I can think of that she's attracted but resisting, is your alcohol problem. Get that sorted, don't get drunk around her, see if her attitude changes. Drunk sex is bad sex for women. As Shakespeare says, wine provides the desire but takes away the means. Other reason is that s…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 06:03 PM
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Thanks for not being lazy. Good reads. Though I took some courses touching on evolutionary biology in uni (not my field but interested), from what I understand the prevailing theory to explain menopause is the "grandmother effect". Rollo seems to believe that there is a brutal evolutionary process that makes older women redundant unless they have status, and that menopause somehow is evolution's way of killing them off. If this was true then menopause would be fatal, which it obviously isn't. Mo…
/r/askMRP11/05/18 04:29 PM
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Good comments. Only thing to add is simply make some random non-marital story up to explain the change. Say captain butt-face came by (I'm going to go out on a limb and assume you're not an officer) and chewed you out and it was some sort of military readiness awakening. I assume you're in some support roll, but go on about vigilance and needing to step up if needed and such things. Tell the story of admiral who-the-fuck-cares who achieved in his youth some daring victory against impossible odds…
/r/askMRP10/05/18 09:00 PM
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There are some easy answers here. House, strength, career are all in themselves tools to accomplish something else; without that something else these things quickly become "nice but where I'm I going, what purpose do they serve". An expensive sports car also a tool, in some round-a-bout way of needing status to then accomplish things. Being a great dad is not a tool to then accomplish something else (unless you're a psycho with kids to work or sell), so clearly is a mission (that may have all th…
/r/askMRP10/05/18 08:40 PM
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Great. Just never use this to score a point against your wife unless in a court room. It will just set off a nuclear bomb for all intents and purposes. Keep it confidential with the professional, calm and measured; don't overthink and certainly don't over-speak. Sometimes responsibility is done in secret and is kept a secret, and it is responsible to lie when necessary to keep it so.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 04:56 PM
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Awesome.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 04:49 PM
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I expected you to double down on your foolishness, but was hoping otherwise. As promised, I will entertain yoru arguments for the beneift of anyone reading this; perhaps even yourself. Emotional and relationship issues refered to my wife, not to me. This should be essentially totally clear from the context: sex is emotional, brought a lot of emotions to fore for my wife, emotional issues she would translate into relationship issues. So, misunderstanding what refers to what is your first mistake.…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/18 04:45 PM
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Yes, another point I thought about for new fathers is that, if you get into it, it's also a really win-win leadership opportunity. You may think it's fine that the mother just leads the baby stuff, which of course overall is true. However, if your wife is like mine she has a long list of observations, reflections and worries about the baby. Getting into this list and comforting where there's no actual action to take (we'll love our child no matter what, everything will be fine), "keeping an eye …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 02:34 PM
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Great! But I also meant this in a practical sense. If you see some barriers I'm sure many posters could have good advice. Also since you'd be engaging parents a lot in this endeavor; making a forum post about your general pitch, value-added-proposition, I'm sure you'd get some great feedback from the fathers in this forum. However, if you're at the "I see it in my mind, need to just jump into it" moment, then jumping and not hesitating is definitely the right attitude. Feedback after some initia…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 02:14 PM
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What the fuck are you talking about. I wouldn't even condescend to participate in this forum if I had an ego problem. I'd just assume I know everything, take 3 pieces of advice from the side bar and continue my thing. Getting to the top of the corporate hierarchy requires constant ego management. Too arrogant or greedy and you fuck yourself, too weak or complying and you get fucked. Anyone who's moved up in a corporation can tell you that. From the outside it can seem like arrogance, but it's on…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/18 02:06 PM
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I came here motivated by sex and I’m working to shift my motivation away from sex. I’m not there yet but getting closer. Great attitude here. Also came for sex advice and now expanding my scope, also not there yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 11:14 PM
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Definitely great sign wife initiating. But not caring is not game or dread. You're getting what you want! Game is thus over. Since you're used to initiating and you initiate when you're horny, you assume you'd just get super horny when your wife initiates. So that not happening is new experience. You need to make this the best kind of sex to thus encourage your wife to initiate more but also because she's presumably in a horny mood to initiate in the first place and thus wanting more and better.…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 11:08 PM
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Second this. You can also get as active as possible with your existing kids. This creates quality time and exercise and increases attractiveness to wife. Carry your kids often and as much as possible. Get a baby carrier for new born, plan outings that need a lot of carrying and use strollers for other kids (if it's too far for them to walk the whole way), don't use pram or stroller for babies until they are toddlers and can walk (it's also good for babies to be carried, so improving babies healt…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:46 PM
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This is some major shit. basic pattern is expected. You upped your game, shown your wife a better you and better time, then regressed so now it's "proof that you're not compatible", that the old you is the real you. This is the basic message, now you have to work harder to prove her wrong. I say the basic pattern because the suicide thing is alarming. No one in good mental health threatens suicide, whether to push someone's buttons or not. Certainly not a mother. For this suicide point, you need…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:25 PM
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Have to give props here for owning your decisions. No use wondering; if she wanted kids she definitely had a situation to have them; if you wanted them badly you would have been willing to put in the effort. If you both like kids, there's lot's of ways either through family, friends, sports or various charity programs to interact with and help out kids. Throwing it out as potential vision material; it is very natural to pass on knowledge and experience to the next generations (also very natural …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 10:05 PM
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CaptainRaise is spot on here. To add to it, you can't possibly know or test your hypothesis, it's just a dead end, rewriting the past and make your situation feel worse than it is and could only serve your wife's purpose to make you feel even worse (or even basically inception her into the same hopeless thought pattern) if you ever said this thought out loud. A theme in a post above is that the biggest attractiveness boost for a women is seeing other women attracted to you; ice_walker had an acc…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 09:50 PM
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Am new so haven't followed your previous posts, so fill me in if there's anything important I've missed. I really like your rock climbing for kids with disorders idea. Accomplishing this goal I think will be good in itself, obviously develop your leadership, but also help you on boundaries as working with other people necessitates a lot of boundary navigation (yours and theirs) and allows you to essentially practice on others instead of your wife; especially as a leader of a project you need to …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 09:27 PM
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That's really crazy. I kind of get vampires, especially with all the teen-vampire-soap-operas (though is an effect or the cause I wonder), but werewolves ... very curious. ::Edit:: You forgot pirates.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 08:11 PM
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Have to agree herewith the PR planning. The value of Musk's image is publicly stated in their filings as a reason they can raise money cheaper (pre-orders, lower interest rates, equity, lower rocket insurance rates, you name it) than other multinationals, and that this is a huge benefit to the corporation, be it SpaceX or Tesla. He recently got snappy with a question and Tesla lost 2B market value, or 2% which would be 1B. Point is, when public appearances can have billion dollar impact on marke…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:49 PM
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women's top fantasies are vampires, werewovles, billionairs, doctors Is this a proven thing? I'm really surprised if it is, but the world is full of surprises.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 07:22 PM
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I agree pregnancy may not be the main issue, but the warning that game and dread are unlikely to improve things I think is a good warning. My point is that the lack of progress is expected, and so the fact that he hasn't made much progress is not in itself a sign of anything. I agree with other posters that have suggested to wait what the new normal becomes and re-evaluate. My advice on top of this is that improving as a father will both help his kids (that I assume he cares about) and improve h…
/r/askMRP08/05/18 06:34 PM
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Yeah, I know where to find it. But when I first started reading, I thought dread referred to the 60 days of dread which is right smack in the sidebar with 8 levels clearly visible. I quickly figured out that there must be some other reference because people referred being dread level 10 or 11 which is obviously higher than the 8 levels in the sidebar (but maybe some people miss this or can't do math). My point is this poster obviously didn't read the main dread reference as it clearly states dre…
/r/askMRP08/05/18 05:12 PM
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How is this ego stroking? It is far better to be above the CEO than below. This is simply fact. Before I was the CEO; it's a crazy amount of work and your responsible for everything that goes wrong. Getting to where you want to be in life is not stroking your ego. Criticizing people with empty and womenly pshych arguments I would say is ego stroking, if I was a women. Since I'm a man I say you're an ass. Have read the sidebar. If you're so learned, what principle am I not applying.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/18 04:05 PM
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The 12 stages of dread are for some reason not on the sidebar, but there's a disclaimer in it that dread is likely to backfire during pregnancy. Pregnant women want you to engage in the pregnancy, get into parenting books and discuss them, make plans for every possible health problem, make plans for the baby, discuss how living arrangements and schedules will change and what to about it, how long breast feeding is good (is 6 months really enough, is 2 years too much) etc. Engaging in these topic…
/r/askMRP08/05/18 03:12 PM
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I found this sub after the "incel rebellion" running people over with a van. Had never heard of incel before and, though sexual frustration is a main hypothesis for what drives violent men, usually this frustration is channeled into other things not literally spelled out as "I haven't got any sex and now I have a righteous cause to go on a killing spree" (not saying all or even most incels view this as reasonable, but enough do for some to take action on it). So this really jolted me into the di…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/18 04:20 PM
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Never watched madmen. A pro-tip is don't watch TV. Others seemed to have pointed out the flaws in this characters behaviour. But I'd like to criticize the idea that women don't want fathers. Women generally want kids and good fathers for their kids. If you're already a good father then this provides definitive proof and so it is extremely attractive to women. Now, if you don't want more kids, then for women in childbearing age starting to think about children, they will either sense that you don…
/r/askMRP07/05/18 01:09 PM
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Yes, but awakened to what? If you look closer and reflect a bit longer, you may notice that most of this sub is basic self-help stuff and useful for people needing basic help. The only thing political about this forum is the whole "right to a male space", which I think everyone here agrees with. Beyond this there's not really the substance of a political or spiritual foundation on which to build a new society (though I'm sure many posters project their own idea of this onto the forum). To organi…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 11:14 PM
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Ok, but do you mean in terms of some sort of plan for mass outreach (either coordinated or small things people can do which collectively amount to something), or a guide "on going Morpheus" on friends and acquaintances?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 10:53 PM
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You're going to have to provide more information. I honestly have no idea what you're talking about. You want to bring others along, why? To help them too? or to overthrow the social order? If it's to help them, you cannot help those who does not want to be helped. And, if you're eyes still hurt because realizing Western society is profoundly messed (this RP stuff being only a small fraction of what's wrong with our society) is so recent, to use your own analogy: perhaps you are indeed blinded b…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 10:42 PM
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I agree with other posters main advice that vescectomy makes no sense. However, if this is really what you want, not just some kneejerk reaction, but you really want a vasectomy to be sure no children happen when you don't want, then probably you really don't want kids and don't want to marry. Once you're on the marriage and kids path, there's not really a "perfect time", it happens when it happens. I used the ovulation cycles + pullout method with my wife for a couple of years before and after …
/r/askMRP06/05/18 07:48 PM
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I haven're read your other posts, so maybe some backstory I'm missing, but I would say a lot of posts here are simply trying to bait you into ruining your life for no reason. There is, however, some good advice that I'll try to repeat and build on. First, pregnant women say all sorts of stuff, and as the birth approaches hormones increase as well as stress over the approaching birth itself. You seem to be too focused on yourself; you may not be a sociopath, I have no idea, but focusing on yourse…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 01:13 PM
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