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Chamizo4/r/seduction14/03/18 04:36 PM
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Chamizo4/r/MGTOW29/08/16 06:01 PM
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It's cool. I will reply to this comment in 4 years.
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:39 AM
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No routines, no strategies, just Talk about something you really like. I talk about anime and videogames most of the time and I always end up with the girl interested in showing them anime and videogames in my room. Also, read a lot of books, do interesting stuff yourself. That way, you will never get afraid or boring because: You are talking about something that you are really passionate about. People will feel that cool energy from you, which makes you attractive. Good luck my man.
/r/seduction13/05/22 08:50 AM
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Why....why are you replying to a 4 years old thread my dude.
/r/seduction12/05/22 09:36 PM
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Agreeing to be "this and that" with a girl or just labeling a name to a relationship, its never going to work. Remember. Girls currency is EMOTIONS. not logic. Stop playing the logic game. But for now, you have to focus on yourself. Going into a therapyst is a good thing. Cut ties with her right now, for her you are just that person whos is going to be there for her no matter what, stop that shit. And finally. You're just 18, this situation that is happening now in your life, right now is diffic…
/r/seduction16/08/19 12:30 PM
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One girl that could potentially be in your bed that night, but looking cheap and like a retard, you burned yourself those chances.
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:30 AM
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Not good really. Makes you looks like a cheap person. Once or twice could be good, a story worth telling to people and girls (hey there was a time I got for free into the club with pure social hacking.) But if you do this everytime you try to get into the clubs. Its gonna look cheap and terrible for you, girls gonna look down on you, maybe that girl that you liked from the club gonna start avoiding you cuz you looked cheap. Just pay the fare and go to the club and enjoy your stay, you save time …
/r/seduction16/08/19 07:30 AM
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Hello talk, as well as interpals are apps that people use with the intention to "learn languages", but make no mistake, "exchanging language" its the excuse to just know more people without being direct or have to use apps such as tinder or bumble. It makes things more relaxed and not too upfront. I have a lot of suceed in this apps for exchange language thing. and tbh the process of seduction is more fun in this enviroment.
/r/seduction12/08/19 05:25 PM
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Im colombian, living in bogota, hit me up
/r/seduction05/08/19 10:47 PM
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Hey dude, I am a local living in bogota, I might travel to medellin as well, PM if you interested. I can give you advice on how to understand Colombian girls
/r/seduction05/08/19 10:46 PM
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It's all about attitude bro. Doesnt matter where you are/
/r/seduction03/06/19 09:23 AM
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No.
/r/seduction03/06/19 05:04 AM
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I think the moment of the kiss its something that should be done when things are gettin confortable with her. At any given moment its not a good calibration at all.
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:35 AM
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are you a creep?
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:17 AM
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Kissing a girl in a club its no biggie at all....AT ALL. ​ Btw, asking them if you are their, its just gonna put them away from you.
/r/seduction20/05/19 03:06 AM
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The only thing you have to spend on a woman is a beer, an ice cream or just a coffe. Im glad you are thinking about your financial future tho, keep doing that.
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:32 PM
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If you come uninvited, you gonna have a really...really bad time.....
/r/seduction17/05/19 07:31 PM
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Ok, so a lot of guys here had a really harsh and toxic response to you, and well, while I disagree with the negative tone of their comments, I have to say that I agree 100% with their opinions, and I will explain why (English ain't native, so bear with me): Back then when you were a kid, we loved ice creams a lot, and we started to try all of them cuz we loved them, however, after trying different flavours, there was this particular ice cream taste that we found we really like, and therefore, we…
/r/seduction18/04/19 06:15 PM
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I.....I don't think you grasped any of the things he wrote....
/r/seduction17/02/19 03:51 PM
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This.
/r/seduction12/02/19 03:29 PM
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Yeah I agree on this. And I also think that making the girl knows the bedroom, its pointless, unless you are seting up your date in your bedroom, thats another story, but if you go to your place after some coffe or drinks, the girl just want to fuck, not to know your place, after sex, you can show the stuff in your room. Showing the place its just ruining the vibe dude.
/r/seduction12/02/19 08:51 AM
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?
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:50 PM
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Thanks man, thanks.
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:10 PM
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so...what are you exactly looking in this sub?
/r/seduction27/01/19 06:59 PM
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Those answers.... They hurt.....even when they are not directed at me. They clearly don't wanna meet YOU. ​
/r/seduction27/01/19 05:01 AM
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Go to have fun dude. You're putting so much weight into approach a lot of girls and take them number. In those kind of enviroments, thats repulsive as fuck for them. Just have fun, they will come by themselves to you. And to be fair, in the middle of the party, they gonna be super high or wasted, so it makes things easier I guess. Btw, eye contact is super important in those kind of loud places.
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:22 AM
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cheesy and so fucking cringey ​ sorry dude.
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:16 AM
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Go solo.
/r/seduction25/01/19 06:13 AM
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Waitress girls are the most easiest, yet the most difficult ones to pick up. Literally every night tons of guys try to pick of them with stupid pick lines or akward shit like that. And I'm sorry to say, you just used a classic one. The instant the girl heard "messenger" she probably lost any glimp of interest for you. With those girls you have to use really bizzare shit or something really out of the ordinary withouth being creepy. I remember one time I just sit in the bar and started reading a …
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:23 AM
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They are defintely testing you to see if you are the same guy from before or not. They are just curious. Or they are just looking for a favour, most probably.
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:08 AM
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You don't. Girls like to get into an adventure with you, they wanna experience you. Don't ruin the mood just because you are horny. Be patient my friend. It will pay off for sure.
/r/seduction20/01/19 06:05 AM
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"Hey lets check out this amazing videogame I have in my home, you gonna love it" no seriously, it works. Specially games like rocket league or telltale games are funny for them. but of course you must have already all your home ready with the perfect enviroment for this to work, such as xbox controller, clean house, some wine or beers in your fridge, etc. ​
/r/seduction20/01/19 05:59 AM
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GG
/r/seduction11/01/19 09:09 AM
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Make a fake intagram account to follow the asian girls that you like. thats just a general advice....but to be honest with you, the reason she left is not the accounts you follow. Wihouth any doubt it was that you offered yourself like a cheap tourist guide just for her. somthing around the lines...."Hey it seems you are coming to town, thats awesome, lets have a coffee while you are here" or..."Awesome, let me show you a nice bar you can't miss while you are around" That would be much much bett…
/r/seduction10/01/19 12:04 PM
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You should stop thinking too much, in general. Over thinking about everything is actually quite bad. ​ Relax dude.
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:46 AM
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It's actually her problem. Do not let this bother you. Back then when I was virgin, I told my gf at the time, that I was virgin. That actually drove her insane into having sex with me, something like "fuck, im gonna take this guy's virginity" So it deppends on the girl. My actual reccomendation is that you should not tell the girl that you're virgin at all. Let her know AFTER you guys had sex. If shes experienced, she will notice it anyways. It's risky, but I think its the best way. Besides, tel…
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:34 AM
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Latino here. First of all, people there is quite humble, they will try to speak English with you even if they can't speak a word. Most of them are doing it just because they wanna help you, but some of course they want to ask for money in excahnge for help. I believe you will rekon who's who after 3 or 4 days. Now to the point, girls in latinoamerica are always with high energy, happy, sincere and very straight forward with you if they like you. Doesn't mean you have to answer their attitude, ju…
/r/seduction23/12/18 05:04 PM
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Social pressure and gender standards. A girl doing the first step, might look like a bitch in the eyes of society. And also, abundance of options. Girls have far more options when to choosing guys comes. When a guy tries to get a match on tinder, he might get none, maybe 1, 2 or 3 if lucky. When a girl start swaping right on profiles, it will be a insta-match with the first profile she swapped, as well, as with the next 20 or more profiles. If you think you are the only guy calling her at 9 pm, …
/r/seduction11/12/18 03:40 PM
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Tokyo game is easy af. Go solo bro.
/r/seduction20/10/18 10:40 PM
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Cringeeeeeeeeeee
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:55 PM
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"can I show her I changed in order for her to like me in that way again" This mindset right here is not good. You change because you want to be a better person. You don't do it because you want people to accept you. You change for yourself. Anyways, good luck, try to recover her, but plz take in mind first is always yourself. You are very lucky you realized all of this at 17, I did the same as you when I was your age, put her on a pedestal, clingy af, we were 16, and high school ended, after tha…
/r/seduction20/10/18 08:42 PM
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Yes sure, just give her the number, and after that just keep the date with the other girl. its a win-win for you, both girls will see you as that high value guy that girls want.
/r/seduction05/10/18 01:03 PM
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I don't understand what are you so anxious about. "Hey, thank you so much for the wine, I had a really great time with you, now is my turn. I know a great sushi restaurant that I would love to take you"
/r/seduction05/10/18 08:10 AM
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>" Women saying one thing but doing another " This isthe most important thing you must understand about the opposite sex, congratz. Now. After sex chatting with a girl, and you meet her irl, you must behave like nothing changed after that conversation. Just act relaxed and when the right time comes, shoot your shot. They will relax a lot if they see you relaxed and compose. ​
/r/seduction20/09/18 09:59 PM
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I've never heard something as stupid and contradictory as that sentence.
/r/seduction18/09/18 11:11 AM
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One night stand, as it one time thing. Most of girls who accept one night stand, they just want to fuck and leave with no strings attached. Sometimes, they will found you funny and cool to hang out with and they will stick around for a while, weeks or months. I still talk with some of my ONS, in fact one of my best friends she was a ONS when I met her in a club. But in order to do that, you have to act quick after the one night stand. In your case you said that its been weeks after that ONS. To …
/r/seduction17/09/18 04:37 PM
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This is a troll post. This pasta been kinda of a dead meme for like 6 months ago. I took the bait as well back then.
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:39 AM
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This is a troll post. This pasta been kinda of a dead meme for like 6 months ago. I took the bait as well back then.
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:39 AM
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Why would u put so much effort and investment in someone you don't even know. Why take so serious and personal something that doesnt even matter. Why you let this kind of pointless things hurt your ego like this? Not to mention as soon as you approach one of her friends, you are just giving a huge needy image, just shaming yourself further.
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:33 AM
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PUA is based on mystery method. Real seduction isnt.
/r/seduction12/09/18 04:10 PM
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Mystery method is terrible. ​
/r/seduction12/09/18 09:26 AM
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Jesus.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:34 PM
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bro.
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:32 PM
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You don't. Never ask that question.
/r/seduction02/09/18 05:47 AM
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Just start with: "I'm sorry if I interrupt your amazing time in your own world with your music, but honestly, I would like to know you, how are you today?" Something like that dude. If you start out of the blue with the "give me your number" line, you are starting things the wrong way.
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:34 PM
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So much rage and hate in such few sentences. Calm down bro. Hes being cringey and akward. Simple. In this kind of cases it's better just to be direct instead of giving such cliche positive advices. "Keep going on bro, you'll suceed one day" "Fail forward faster!" "Every rejection you are one step closer to a success!" And so on. Those are really dangerous advices with this kind of people. I've seen in many times, they will just keep going bindly doing akward shit, but hey! people are giving good…
/r/seduction25/08/18 07:26 AM
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The cringe in this post is way too high.
/r/seduction24/08/18 09:51 PM
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?
/r/seduction24/08/18 10:34 AM
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What kind of questions is this. You're in an age where is EXTREMELY EASY to meet people. Most of people keep talking all their entires lifes with the people they met in HS. Some of them even get married with some girl they knew there. My Best friend its from highschool. Jesus dude.
/r/seduction22/08/18 11:08 PM
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before approaching girls, you should accept who you are and where do you come from. Having this deep believe about yourself and your entire race, is not good at all. Just because you're Indian, doesn't means everyone else gonna hate you, there people attracted indians for sure.
/r/seduction22/08/18 07:05 PM
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If you are doing this just because of the pressure of your exs having a new boyfriend, don't do it. You don't have to. Just do something that you like. Besides, if you still recovering from your last relationship, you are not ready for a new one. You will get hurt, and you will hurt her in the process. GL.
/r/seduction20/08/18 09:01 PM
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"Hello" never failed me so far.
/r/seduction20/08/18 08:59 PM
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Ofc we guys do the same, but thats a bit of a different situation you told us before. You wrote: I’ll still give the number of my friend and tell my friend that that guy who tried with me like her too. You give him the phone number of your friend and then after that, you rush to tell her that the guy was interested on you. This new situation you just brought up, its absolutely different, it happened meanwhile he was hitting on you. Before the rejection. In the first situation, its clearly sabota…
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:46 PM
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You guys are lucky to learn all of this stuff at such young age. I got frienzoned when I was 15, and ofc I made a lot of mistakes. But I learned from all of that. It helped me to become alpha, so it wasnt so bad. But ofc the ideal situation is to avoid all of those situations, you would use your time much better. GL guys.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:19 PM
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Oh,, I'm the kind of guy who just read and quick answer something that doesnt make sense fast. I just look for that text box. anyways you are right. This post its really popular already, hard to keep the flow of things.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:12 PM
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if he uses me to meet other girls after I rejected him, I would think that he wasn’t that interested. Why would you care if he meet other girls after you clearly rejected him.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:06 PM
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Why do you actually need to sabotage him like that telling your girl friend all that info that she doesnt need to know.
/r/seduction19/08/18 06:04 PM
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Why would you care if he meet other girls after you clearly rejected him.
/r/seduction19/08/18 05:04 PM
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Be a man and tell her to fuck off. Simple as that.
/r/seduction19/08/18 04:33 PM
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Take your time. I think right now you're not ready for a relatipnship, you must work on yourself and your confidence before gettin into the field.
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:49 PM
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I would like to know the whole story, when girls say something like: "are you ok?" after you tried to kiss them, it means you made some embarrasing or fool mistake.
/r/seduction18/08/18 12:14 PM
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Exactly. Well said.
/r/seduction18/08/18 11:58 AM
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Not really, I mean people can be toxic, you can't control that, but you can be not toxic at all. You can have amazing experiences trough competitive games, I actually had a lot of amazing experiences in csgo and overwatch. I like to talk about strategies and how a single bad move can change the flow of the game. Sometimes I invite girls to come to my place so I can teach them the wonders of overwatch and csgo. If you don't like competitive games because the toxic people, just play SP games. I ha…
/r/seduction18/08/18 11:51 AM
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My native language isnt English, I invite you to correct me sir. That would be actually more contructive than your last comment.
/r/seduction18/08/18 10:55 AM
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Do stuff. After that, you can start dating and you will have stories to share with them. Stop asking questions about them, the neediness you are showing its embarrassing. Do stuff. Get into a curse, read a book, play a videogame, go to the gym, learn a language. Something that makes you happy.
/r/seduction17/08/18 05:31 PM
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Because you don't know how to apply it correctly in your own life.
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:51 PM
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Not creepy is you say it in the correct manner. Thats why I stressed "big smiles while saying it" or just "laughs while saying it", actually, maybe a I don't give a fuck face with a short smile, is the best way to go for that joke. It shows you're not a pussy who is thinking 24/7 what is correct or not correct to say to girls. I've told way more strong dirty jokes to girls in the first date, I ended up closing with a kiss, or getting a secured second date after that. Anyways, the joke is not the…
/r/seduction17/08/18 01:21 AM
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Yeah.....if someone accept that kind of stuff, I think thats a person worth knowing in deep. I wish for that to be recorded and get uplodad in ur channel one day.
/r/seduction16/08/18 06:02 PM
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I don't think anyone would accept food or drinks from a stranger ramdomly in the open street. It's just a big no.
/r/seduction16/08/18 04:54 PM
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Don't.
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:32 PM
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I have a similar problem, but different than yours. I always go straight and tell them what I do have. So far, never got rejected from them. Just you have to treath it like a natural thing, after all its something that you were born with. You had no voice or choice on it. Also you can make good jokes about it "hey, at least im a natural when it comes to fingering" big smiles while saying it Or something like that. Just accept the way you are and tell the world what you have instead of hiding it.
/r/seduction16/08/18 12:04 PM
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First bros before hoes. Unless that guy ins't bro, then I would go ahead.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:54 AM
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Maybe clubs aren't your thing. Try some language exchange places or social clubs with activities. Truth to be told: clubbing isnt for everyone.
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:53 AM
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Listen....I don't know is this post is troll or real, but in case just is real , I just want to say, your actions, posting every fucking godammn time the same shit, just show how insecure you are. People already answered you long time ago. Use those answers to your benefit.
/r/seduction13/08/18 01:19 PM
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I love anime. I really do, I have an anime girl in my whats app profile picture. Sometimes girls ask why I have that as a porfile pic. I start talking about why I love the series that character is from. So far, most of my ex girlfriends, now they are anime fans, one of them is a 35 yo lady, and she started liking anime just 2 years ago. You have to be the full glass of water girls want to take a gulp of, not the empty glass who needs water to get replenished. Gl mah dude.
/r/seduction13/08/18 01:11 PM
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thats your problem dude. You are using the old texting chat they are used to read every fucking godamn time. Stop asking questions, girls are bored that every fucking guy ask them what the fuck are they doing. It shows needines. Go ahead and tell something about your life: "Hey check this out, I was just passing by and suddenly a wild fireworks appeared" takes a video or photo fo the firwworks "You not gonna believe what just happened in my last csgo match, it was hilarious" "What is csgo?" "It'…
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:55 PM
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I would like to see your screenshoots from your texting game, don't forget to cover your name, and her name.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:33 PM
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Seduction isn't PUA. PUA is the less attractive thing you can do.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:19 PM
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Stop wasting your time Broken. I've seen this post at least once a week.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:04 PM
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This post again. Stop dude.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:03 PM
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PUA are desperate dudes begging for pussy, thinking 24/7 about how to get da pussy, doing everything they can to get it by any means. Lying, changing their own true self, deceiving, dressing the way they don't like. All just because they want to get pussy. At the end, ironically, they get what the longed for: Being a pussy. PUA is shit.
/r/seduction13/08/18 12:02 PM
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Be a man and invite her yourself.
/r/seduction12/08/18 12:39 AM
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Well, you are actually trying to do, exactly the same thing we are trying to accomplish in this seddit everyday. It doesn't matter how many advices we write here and how useful they are. If they don't decide to move their asses and take action, our efforts are wasted. You might have the advatange because you actually can help him irl, but its the same. Doesn't matter how many times you talk with him, how many times you help him going out and try to grab a duo of girls to talk with you guys, does…
/r/seduction11/08/18 03:06 PM
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That looks like a teenager chat. I don't deny that ocasionally talking to the girl in chat is good, but the way you do it, is cringe worthy. I invite you to ask some of your girl friends what they think about your method and ask them to reply honestly. You'd be suprised.
/r/seduction10/08/18 11:42 PM
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Easy as F. TBh.
/r/seduction10/08/18 01:17 AM
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"Hey"
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:27 AM
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You're a fucking creep.
/r/seduction09/08/18 06:45 AM
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Never happened to me at all. After the sexting, I meet with them and act like nothing like happened. Deep inside we know sex is going to happen. No pressures, just have a good time.
/r/seduction09/08/18 05:04 AM
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Is a fucking gift.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:24 PM
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Yes.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:09 PM
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This is actually terrible. The 48 laws of power from robert greene is not something that you should combinate with seduction. theres is a chapter dedicated to seduction in that book, but thats all about it. Robert had to write a whole book about seduction becayse he knows well, that you can't combinate this 2 topics. The Art of Seduction, read it guys, is worth it.
/r/seduction08/08/18 01:03 PM
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Keep us posted dude, good luck with your interaction
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:54 AM
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so you guys are having a chat now I guess
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:49 AM
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To me, shes chasing you, testing you, and getting bored of your lack of response. Just answer something naturally. No pressures dude.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:43 AM
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This is one of the easiests situations to scalate and go for a kiss. First you have to lead her and do some natural kino while you guys are moving between people, you can touch her shoulders and say something like "hey it seems the concert is about to start" or "I can't wait for the concert to start" Stuff like that. If things goes well, shes gonna smile a lot, thats a good sign. and, when the mood of the concert is super hot, you should just go and try to kiss her. Concerts are easy game becaus…
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:38 AM
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I have no idea how the hell do you believe this is a shit test. No dude. Not at all.
/r/seduction07/08/18 11:31 AM
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Is this shit legit, or are you just trying your writing skills with us dude.
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:00 AM
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"so, whats going on"
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:59 AM
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It doesn't matter which suburb, city, country, continent, planet, galaxy, universe, dimension, alternate timeline you're from. 95% of the time, guys must initiate and ask for their contact info. I know Its unfair, I know it shouldnt be like that. But thats how it universally works. I not saying it doesn't happens, but is extremely rare.
/r/seduction07/08/18 09:15 AM
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haha....hahaha..... HAHAHAHAHHHHAHAAHAHHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
/r/seduction07/08/18 08:13 AM
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I'm glad my words are helping someone like you and perhaps other readers from this sub reddit. I watch a great channel that its content is absolutely gold, down to earth, easy to understand, and not also about seduction, but about how to give your max everyday. BUT sadly, its only in spanish, my native language. I will link the channel right here, just in case you can speak spanish, or if perhaps you would in the future. https://www.youtube.com/user/cienciadelexito
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:47 PM
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I just read the edited OP post. Well, we can clearly conclude that seduction ain't fair at all. BTW, I;m ghsoting a girl right now, she asked me 24/7 where should I go today, what I would do, and if I had time for her. Those questions, every day, anoyying af. Anyways, GL dude, I think all readers we can learn from this disucssion.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:42 PM
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Ok thanks for letting me know this was a copy pasta. Whos knows if I wasted my time or not, a lot of people read this sub reddit, and if at least, one of the readers can learn or get some help from what I wrote, then, it's totally worth it.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:30 PM
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You don't need to ask for another way of contact, you are already chatting with her on facebook. Messenger is a really confy app to talk. I would understand if you want to change app location if you were using tinder, hinge, ok cupid chats. Those apps are terrible and slow af when it comes to text. But dude, you are using messenger, is good enough already, asking for her number out of the blue first or second day, just shows how needy you are to chat with a girl. She just knows you for a day, so…
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:23 PM
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So you for friendzoned uh
/r/seduction06/08/18 08:05 PM
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Facebook oneitis? explain that further dude.
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:25 PM
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Nope. It's not. Is cheap, and you might hurt some people along the way. The best and only cure? LOVE YOURSELF AND GET SOME REAL HOBBY WORK OR SOMETHING FUCKING ELSE THAT YOU LOVE TO DO. GL.
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:04 AM
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If you are a waiter, girls will talk to you more frequently than you'd think. When girls are tipsy or drunk they will say a lot of crazy stuff, do no mind them or take them seriosly at all. Your frame "I'm working but ok, I will listen to your not related job question" was good. But if the girl that you are REALLY interested isnt talking to you. Just start a conversation with her and say something like: "Excuse me, how are you?. You see.... I think you seem like a really interesting girl to meet…
/r/seduction06/08/18 11:01 AM
2

Never ask a woman about when or where to meet. Be the man Hey, how was your trip? It was good, thx for asking :) I'm glad it was, cuz the fun ain't over yet, I have an amazing plan for us" Or something similar. Just be the man dude.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:50 AM
1

Ironically, your indecision, nervouness and fear, is exactly what drives them far, far away from you. Believe it or not, they can feel it, like instantly. It's time to cultiavate and train your confidence. GL.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:41 AM
1

Maybe she saw ur message, but was busy at that precise moment. so she forgot to answer you. Right now for her, you are someone new into her life, she must prioritize another people, like her friends or family. She most likely opened ur chat but had no time to start a long conversation with you. It's more common than you'd think tbh. Give it another try, say hello again, but if this time, if she ignores you once again, Defintely that's a 100% leave it case. GL.
/r/seduction06/08/18 10:36 AM
6

All rsd advice is terrible, except max, good choice right there. The other guys, I didn't know them till you liked them, so I took my time and watch couple of videos they made. My review?: Bunch of guys with bad advices, seems like they are looking to get more internet approval for their PUA skills, rather, than sincerely trying to help out people. However, I just met (thanks to you) this Based Zeus channel, its refreshing that style of videos + He actually give really good advices. The attracti…
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:36 AM
9

Most likely she wanted to know if you landed ok or not. I have done this a lot of times since I travel a lot, after I messaged them like a friend, they will stop texting you and add you to fb or intagram, whatever social network you guys have. You don't have to text her back ever again after the social network contact swap obviously. Because for girls, it feels like a good end of the relationship. They feel like they slept with someone valuable who is very busy going on with his life. So they wa…
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:22 AM
-2

So its ok for girls to ghost, but no for us. You're part of the problem dude.
/r/seduction06/08/18 07:12 AM
1

good luck trying to get anywhere with them if they don't speak English. This is absolutely false. Korean girls will try to speak broken English with you. In fact, I believe, the less korean you know, the best chances you have to get em.
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:29 AM
2

Lived in Korea for a long time, Seoul game is better at hongdae, Sincheon is only good at mc kevins, and is quite small. avoid Itaewon and Gagnam. Itaeon is full of 40's and 50's old women, unless you are into them. Gagnam is really strict about dress code, and most of korean girls are looking for suggar daddys there. Busan is way better, sepcially now in this late summer, just go to heundae beach, very good place. Best night game pick is Kyunsung univ pukyeong univ station, is defintely the bes…
/r/seduction06/08/18 05:27 AM
1

No.
/r/seduction04/08/18 09:11 AM
1

"It's ok, we I'm not in a hurry" Exactly what I said like a year ago when this happened to me. The next 2 days, she invited me to stay at her home, just stay with your cool frame,
/r/seduction04/08/18 02:03 AM
1

Then, if sports aren't you stuff, do something that really you have a passion for it. First your hobbies and goals, then girls, not the other way around.
/r/seduction04/08/18 01:51 AM
3

Get into some sport and they will fall for you easily. Plus, thats really good for your health.
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:30 PM
5

people like you are diminishing the meaning of ama.
/r/seduction03/08/18 01:00 PM
7

Not much tbh.... 18 - 21 are horny af, but they are really boring to talk.
/r/seduction03/08/18 12:58 PM
2

If you are chatting with a girl in a club, you are wasting your time to begin with. Dancing and body language is the key in those places. but if you realy want to talk, just ask her to have a drink in a place in the club that is not that loud.
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:24 PM
5

Just start with a hello, thats the best opener in the world. After that, just talk about anything really. And stop describing yourself with all of those negative words
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:22 PM
1

Terrible video, terrible tumbail, obnoxious host, plz don't.
/r/seduction28/07/18 09:16 PM
13

You are lucky. In some countries, you will get shot just for trying to hit in someone important girlfriend, it happened to one of my friends brother. Rip. So this is a good experience for you to analyze and learn how to read the atmosphere of your enviroment, with practice, you will read the situation in matter of seconds. GL next time.
/r/seduction28/07/18 08:39 PM
2

I don't think you should ask here, you should contact with a professional and these days im studying for this kind of reason. I hope theres a professional couch or psychologist among us, don't accept ramdom advice for your case.
/r/seduction27/07/18 12:03 AM
0

"hello"
/r/seduction26/07/18 06:52 PM
1

Cinema and then Videogame center, never failed me so far.
/r/seduction26/07/18 05:19 PM
3

I don't know what kind of class you mean, but I'm gonna assume, is some high school, academy or university that you are talking about. If so, in that kind of enviroment, seduction is extremely easy. In fact, you don't even need to seduce to seduce.
/r/seduction26/07/18 04:51 PM
-2

You have nothing to lose, why not.
/r/seduction26/07/18 03:54 PM
3

Whos gonna put effort into you, when you can't put effort on yourself to begin with.
/r/seduction26/07/18 01:30 PM
6

Once a week.
/r/seduction25/07/18 03:55 PM
1

You don't.
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:45 PM
1

I agree, Brazilian girls are really easy to get.
/r/seduction23/07/18 08:57 PM
1

When you are in another contry, you are exotic and different. It's no suprise you got a gf that fast. BTW from my experience, US girls are really easy to get, they are brutally honest and open about relationships, easy to talk, and they usually invite you to their places.
/r/seduction23/07/18 08:56 PM
4

I've been in many countries around the world. And most of the things here works no matter where you are. You just have to calibrate some specific things depending the country. But for realz, girls dont change much tbh.
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:25 AM
2

5000 girls....... Jesus crist dude. The only time I used snapchat was because a girl wanted to move from whats app to there just to exchange nudes. Thats the only reason why snapchat exists Its not an app to text chat.
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:04 AM
1

Sure dude! Just let me know anytime
/r/seduction23/07/18 12:56 AM
3

Deppends on the mood.
/r/seduction22/07/18 10:09 PM
-1

How are you so sure that she used the fake call app?
/r/seduction22/07/18 02:31 AM
2

Colombian here. If you come here (Bogota) let me know it, game here is easy for you, and most of colombian girls are really hot and sweet. Btw I lived in Japan as well, good times, good times they were, roppongi everyday.
/r/seduction21/07/18 09:17 PM
1

You are giving too much thought when literally nothing has happened yet. Move into another match mah dude.
/r/seduction20/07/18 05:41 PM
2

yeah, so? If you go solo, you must show that it doesnt affect you in the slightest. Ramdom fact: going solo increases your chances of gettin a threesome.
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:35 PM
1

"where are your friends" "well, they are at their homes, maybe watching netflix"
/r/seduction20/07/18 01:23 PM
0

If you are a white guy, you don't need a wingman or PUA advice. They will fall for you and do most of the job for you. A classic video that actually happened in HK. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eJLGpOBV764 The only advice I can give is that HK girls think too much highly of tehemselves, even tho the average HK girl its not very attractive tbh. You must go trough her princess frame and show her whos the men.
/r/seduction20/07/18 12:10 PM
3

It seems this girl put a trauma into you. Just read yourself dude. From the beggining you have no balls and guts to tell her a straight and clear "No." You're not sure if you want to get a revenge or just show to her that you are not her pet. You have to constantly remind yourself phrases like "I definetely NOT be doing said" "I don't care about this person in that way anymore" "I'm not her errand boy". It only shows how insecure you are about all of this. You introduce yourself as a "friend zon…
/r/seduction20/07/18 11:46 AM
1

Go solo.
/r/seduction20/07/18 10:10 AM
1

10 minutes? You're lucky. A decade ago girls would play with you for weeks going back and forth. And I learned from that. In fact reading her description, it almost fit the description of the girl I liked at the time. With that kind of girl, you have to play the "I don't give a F" game. With them you must be though, you must show a "rock" man frame, a man that stands for what he believes and doesnt let her foolish whim control and confuse his emotions. You must be rough with her, I don't mean be…
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:40 AM
3

You already show needy behaviour. The issue is not even about her boyfriend and all of that stuff. Is your constant pushing for hanging out with her that drives her away. Stop texting her, you'll see how sooner or later she will offer you to hang out. If nothing happens, well, good one, move on and use that energy in a new girl instead of stressing out for this girl that don't want anything with you.
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:33 PM
2

It's better that you stop the relationship with her before moving. Do it as a signal of respect for the relationship. If you don't feel realized as a person, as a man, now is the time to do it, before the years pass and you grow up being a frustrated man. Is for the best.
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:27 PM
1

As I said before, that's not the case. I can count with my fingers the "ugly" girls that I had in my life. And I've met countless girls around the world, many races, many great woman I met. So if we put it in statistics, those "ugly" women it would be about 2% of the girls I had so far. but I honestly liked those girls. And specially one of them was a really special story in my life, in fact the first time I met her I thought she was ugly af, but at the end, many things happened that made me lik…
/r/seduction17/07/18 06:17 PM
2

We are talking about human beings right here. Using someone else feelings just to boost up your reputation, is not a really good thing. The seduction way of life is more than getting chicks and have an ego booster. It's something that should help you to imprrove as a person to yourself and the people around you. BTW you are not using the term "whiteknigt" correctly.
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:23 PM
1

I don't understand what you can't comprehend from they are beatiful to me. Even tho they are ugly to the rest of the world. I would agree with you if all the girls that I had something with were all ugly. Not the case.
/r/seduction17/07/18 05:16 PM
3

Super conservative Christian background.. she wouldn't kiss me...[ yet I saw another guy go at it.with her and she didn't reject him. Major red flag I brought it up and she apologized she said she didn't really know.him)... https://i.redd.it/mzf1cqsfkxiz.jpg
/r/seduction17/07/18 04:59 PM
1

Oh, they're ugly in society perpective, my bad, I should be more preccise nexte time.
/r/seduction17/07/18 07:44 AM
1

Ukranian girls are super talkative, they can be a little weird and serious while talking, but don't let that stop from being you.
/r/seduction16/07/18 09:03 PM
1

No. I agree with all that you said, and theres more: They are making seduction looks like Nuclear Physics, you might end up more confused than before. In a very deep mind lvl, they are inviting you to inaction. for them is more beneficial that you stay with their youtube videos rather than getting the girl and happiness you deserve. They are also inviting you to a lifestyle that is being dependant of girls. And thats unnactrative af. Theres a lot of more reasons but I'm just gonna mention these …
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:49 PM
2

Oh man, you deserve gold mah dude.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:36 PM
7

Jesus dude. Seems like you approached her because you had no better choices. That's just terrible, just dump her and stop wasting each other time. But you MUST learn from this experience and re evaluate yourself deeply. I don't approve your way of thinking at all, but is all worth it if you learn from this experience in order to become a better person. BTW, I had some ugly and not so much hot girlfriends in the past. But to my eyes, they were beatiful as a rose. Tastes are different I guess.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:35 PM
7

from my experience, they will tell you before hand the truth.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:22 PM
2

A real player never brags about his success. This is a low thing to do, what happen between you and a woman, should stay between you two. Looking for validation from the internet is no bueno.
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:17 PM
2

I'm bad at dancing, i do not enjoy it at all. So when I go to the club, what I do is telling to the girl "hey listen, if you want the WORST dancing experience, you shouldn't dance with me" They always get curious and dance with me regardless. Sometimes I get the kiss close while dancing. If not, don't dance too long, (after a while they will get bored cuz bad dancing movements) after a while, just say that you are tired of it and you should go to grab a drink and talk together where theres no mu…
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:06 PM
2

No soy de Argentina pero tuve 2 novas argentinas Una de ellas era eso de feminismo y todo eso, y yo simplemente ignoraba el tema le decía: " si te soy sincero el feminismo es un movimiento que se basa mucho en sentimientos negativos, a mi me gusta que las mujeres y los hombres se acerquen unos a los otros sin necesidad de tanto odio" Y nunca mas volvió a tocar el tema. como dijo el otro chico, si se sienten ofendidas, diles "discúlpame molestarte, solo deseaba conocerte, que tengas buen dia!" y …
/r/seduction16/07/18 08:00 PM
3

RED ALERT RED ALERT RED ALERT RED ALERT
/r/seduction17/06/18 01:43 PM
1

dissapear. It's for the best.
/r/seduction09/05/18 11:14 AM
1

Just say no? End of the story. Better safe than sorry.
/r/seduction06/05/18 04:27 PM
1

About lying, thats not cool, unless you are looking for casual sex, might be ok, but for short and long relatiponships, its gonna shoot you back sooner or later. I'm sure we'd all quit our jobs if we could!! I totally agree with you, and ofc having a life never gonna equate with work.
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:43 AM
2

The thing is: I never said anything about social status or career prospects. Or having a lovely social life. No. Being busy doesnt literally means you must have a job. Being busy its just means doing something with your life. Any activity that keeps you interested and you have some passion about it. Its super attractive. Even collecting beans.
/r/seduction05/05/18 06:42 AM
5

First I would do something with my life before trying to approach girl. Being busy and having a life its far more attractive than a couple of pick up lines or some dating apps. BTW I think you belong in some sub reddit about sel improvement, not here.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:56 AM
2

I use a lot youtube links of music videos I like. So we discuss them even if she doesnt like them. Also, in some countries people often use voice messages, it helps a lot. A message texting her a photo you took in the street, also helps to break the ice, specially when its in a really unexpected time. For example, you can take the photo of the train station you are atm, then add a text with something like: "first time in flinders street, crowded af" Or you can take a photo of your breakfast oran…
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:33 AM
1

awww this is so cute, to be young again.... Have fun, dont worry about those things, and oh. Bring comdoms, girls at that age worry a lot about that. They dont have enough experience to birh control themselves. GL!
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:13 AM
1

It's been 1 month, but just to sum it up: I was right, she was just being shy and she didnt know how to act or respond The event was fine I had a lot of fun tbh. After the event, she asked if I was upset because she bring her friend..I said: "yes, cuz I wanted to know you more, im interested in you" After that she invited me to watch a movie and we ended up having a relationship It's over now but we had a lot of fun and good memories.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:03 AM
1

You should train your enviroment sense, she had a book all the time, so you should make a conversation about the book. As easy as that. The attempt talking about the glasses its not that bad, but unless you are an expert about glasses, discussion gonna be super short. On the other hand, talking about the book she was reading, a lot of talk can be taken from it. Even if you don't like the book, you can discuss with her why you don't like it. GL next time. Learn all as you can from this small even…
/r/seduction18/04/18 01:32 PM
3

Where are you from? from your nickname I guess spanish/latino. anyways, it seems that shes afraid of losing the benefits of have you AS A FRIEND. I dont know what happened before the story you wrote, but it seems like you took it a little bit bad. She felt it, and now shes looking for you cuz she dont wanna lose the benefits of you as a friend (or a possible future orbiter) This is what I feel from your story, but we need more background.
/r/seduction18/04/18 12:43 AM
0

What the fuck is wrong with you
/r/seduction27/03/18 01:09 AM
1

well, not saying I buy drinks 24/7 to girls. But when I do I score. No room for you m8. Sorry.
/r/seduction25/03/18 05:45 PM
1

Not only insecure mindset, but also scarcity as well. I see.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:13 AM
2

when I was 21 yo I met a girl 38 yo. One day I showed to her how good I was a Stepmania. She got really impressed. She fall in love with me after that. Best sex of my life. this ain't a joke story, this truly happened. Mora of the story: Be yourself.
/r/seduction19/03/18 09:09 AM
3

some people don't have the time to go to public places and make approach, the can barely make time for a coffe date or a couple of beers. Thats what tinder is for.
/r/seduction19/03/18 07:11 AM
1

I use earplugs, they just find it interesting, thats it.
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:32 AM
1

This sum it up. take your vote good man.
/r/seduction18/03/18 04:28 AM
1

I've been in Korea and Japan, and trust me. The less you know about their languages, the more chances you have to get a girl. It's all about this "exotic aura" you naturally have from being a foreigner. Knowing the language, or trying so hard to speak their language kills that vibe. Don't get me wrong, some girls will find cute that you are trying to learn their languages and they will help you with your learning process, the classic "lets go to my home to exchange languages!" works like a charm…
/r/seduction18/03/18 04:19 AM
1

I don't think the friendzone its beneficial at all in any situation. But I do agree having girlfriends its ok as long as you are 100% sure you dont feel anything for her.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:50 AM
8

If I were you, I would just start talking to the guy explaning the truth. "I dont know whats going m8, but you should know shes the one who invited me to dance, thats the truth" with that single phrase, you can get her in trouble. It's kinda late for this, but an experience for next experiences. she assaulted you with no reason, if the club is a serios club, they gonna have cameras for sure, you can press charges if you want too, or just let it go and forget about that terrible situation.
/r/seduction18/03/18 03:46 AM
1

Its ok dude, just try once again after a while, one or 2 weeks. But from my personal experience...if shes really interested, she will find that silence awkward and she will text you to know whats going on. Its not a 100% rule, but it works most of the time as long as shes interested
/r/seduction17/03/18 06:21 PM
9

Reading your story its clear to me that you dont like to go to crowded and loud places such as bars and clubs. Theres is a missconception among people believing that only in those places you can pick up girls. Truth to be told, yes, those enviroments are one of the most easiest to get a girl. But theres another truth to be told. Not everyone fits for that kind of enviroment. Some PUA artists will try to convince you that clubs are the perfect and the only place on earth to pick up girls. What th…
/r/seduction17/03/18 11:05 AM
3

Where are u from? BTW, just stop texting her, at this point its pointless to keep going on with her texts. Just put her on fridge mode, she will return to you, sooner or later. Theres no reason on why she started being cold, girls are super unstable and their feelings can change in matter of seconds. La donna è mobile. But if we try to search for a logic explanation it might be this: Analyzing your chat log, you started asking too many questions, be acertive dude, just say for example: "Hey, I'm…
/r/seduction17/03/18 10:42 AM
2

We are talking with a girl whos got her local sushi place right? If so, just get know to her as a regular customer. you can talk a bit if you want too, get her to know you as "the guy who always order spicy sushi" (for example) Very soon, you'll notice she gonna feel confortable when you arrive the store. Thats when you can easily take her number. I've succesfully done this with: 3 girls working at 7 eleven. Bussines secretary. Banking worker Girl Clothes Shop Sandwich shop girl Just one time in…
/r/seduction17/03/18 10:00 AM
1

usually its a big no to buy a drink to a girl. But, if you really want to buy her a drink, do it, thats totally fine. What it really matters its the attitude you have when buying her a drink. Are you the guy who buys her a drink to gain her approval? or Are you the guy who buys her a drink just to relax things in order to enjoy a cool conversation with her? Make your choice.
/r/seduction17/03/18 01:27 AM
2

That's a really insecure mindset right there.
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:24 PM
1

Update: I'm gonna bring a friend as well, I lost at lot of interest in this girl, so I'm just gonna have a good time, I love korean food after all. Because I was unable to avoid her shit test, now this is a friend meeting. Lesson learned.
/r/seduction15/03/18 07:54 PM
2

I've met counteless girls saying they are taken and that same day they are on my bed dude. It doesnt really matter what she says, attraction doesnt work like a clock or math. It's unpreddictable af and crazy things can happen. But still, you can calibrate what are her intentions with her voice tone, dont stick like a social akward creep after her voice tone emanate vibes like "Just get out of here and leave me alone".
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:44 PM
1

Its a waste of time, there aint anything at all to confirm what she said its true or not.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:56 AM
2

Its that inner belief that its preventing you from gettin the white pussy. As soon as you stop seeing yourself as a very high disturbacne to them, things will start to change.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:37 AM
1

A perfect description of rsd. 10/10 dude.
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:25 AM
3

Yeap, this right here, I wish I could go back to those years. But at the time I was too afraid and beta.... Oh the time wasted!
/r/seduction15/03/18 10:20 AM
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I am 30 and everytime I go to those bars I have a lot of succesful one night stands n dates. The true about this situation is that you mus not feel like a threat. If you do, they will perceive you like that. Just chill dude, be confident and take care of yourself, thats it. Avoid phrases like: "in my times" "that tv show was really popular back then in the 90's..." "remember that old trend that was so popular starting the 2000's? and such. You will look bad. Just live the present mah dude, its a…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:17 AM
2

I've met a lot of girls in my life, and I understand your meaning and it happened to me a lot of times as well to know better a girl after a month or more. But experience gives you a better perception about how people really is after a couple of minutes of interaction...you can visualize and predict better what to and not to expect from them, you can visualize better the real person behind the mask. But in this case....I'm pretty sure this girl is full inexperience. Its not the first time I've m…
/r/seduction15/03/18 02:08 AM
1

Yeap, I also like this kind of answer as well, and yes I failed shit test, but hey, I learned what to do in this situation, I've been in many situations and I ended up pretty well after a lot of shit test, but this one its the only one that caught me with my guard down. thx dude.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:59 AM
1

Thx dude, but I think I would feel uncortable in that situation, besides if the other girl its not attractive to me, its going to be hard to fake some attention and interest, it will feel forced af.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:57 AM
3

I love this one, I failed this test this time, but for sure I will use something similar to this next time, thx a lot dude
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:56 AM
2

yep, easy and simple.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:56 AM
4

Too agressive for my style, not to mention shes way too nerdy for that kind of answer. I honestly believe you need to calibrate from experiencie what kind of women you're dealing with. I do not believe that kind of answer is for everyone.
/r/seduction15/03/18 12:56 AM
1

you never know...maybe He's lettin her do whatever she wants as long as she pay for his stuff, ez life. But something in his face tells me this isnt the case....
/r/MGTOW10/08/17 11:25 AM
1

I'm gonna give you my honest advice dude. You need to grow up and stop being this damn reactive. Specially from a woman that already lost all respect for you. I just read ur convo and theres a single sentence that really cracks me up. "I'll trow a fucking cardboard box at you if I want to LMAO" Jesus dude, move on, left her and grow the fuck up before gettin involved in a new relationship. Good luck sir.
/r/MGTOW10/08/17 11:00 AM
3

Finally a decent post from this reddit, Finally. Upvoted.
/r/MGTOW10/08/17 10:47 AM
0

Not chad, call me chamizo m8.
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