ChamomileSteel Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Ex broke up with me, so I told him to move out of my (“our”) apartment immediately. Now what?	SEEKING ADVICE	ChamomileSteel	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 10:18 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
158	Today's 👀 moment (can you spot the 🚩?) “Is that too much?” Sent me. He thinks he’s in the running towards becoming America’s Next Top Victim... pathetic 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 12:05 PM
17	Men should have to submit resumes and cover letters for dates. I hear ya...but I think talk is cheap 😂🤭 If they provided multiple references, then we’d at least be able to attempt to investigate.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 05:49 PM
120	We are never safe. Ee Lee, a 36 year old woman was beaten, raped, and murdered by underaged men. I have no words...except that enough is enough 💔	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 01:23 AM
7	Tell me why Valentine's Day is worth celebrating. I celebrate by buying discount chocolate for myself in the days after Vday. I lay in bed in comfy clothes that make me feel sexy, read /watch something emotionally stimulating, and drink champagne, eat chips, and cheap chocolate. It’s to die for. I started this when I was 21. Im 27 now & it’s always a me day.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/02/21 12:45 AM
2	Are non materialistic women still a thing? Have they ever been a thing? Yes they exist.	/r/MGTOW2	09/02/21 10:09 PM
1	This question is for those who do not want to get married Please be honest with people regarding your intentions to not be married. Then you’re good :) There are plenty of women who don’t want to get married/ re-marry who are in the same boat.	/r/MGTOW2	29/01/21 05:07 PM
1	Didn't know where else to post: Why are men seen as creepy or weird if they are late 20s/early 30s and are not married or have kids? I don’t think it’s creepy. I do, however, think it’s selfish to stay in a relationship with someone who wants to get married while having no intention of marrying them. As a lady, I respect & am grateful when men are completely honest about MGTOW sentiments. Because then I know, as someone who would like to be married, that we’re not a good fit. It’s nothing personal. And we go our own ways, as it were.	/r/MGTOW2	29/01/21 04:54 PM
1	Japan's sexlessness is because of excessive feminism, and the West is taking the same path No one is owed sex. Full stop. No one is entitled to get laid.	/r/MGTOW2	29/01/21 04:49 PM
1	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? I wouldn’t make that sweeping generalization about gender. How do you know what “most women” do? Either way- If a girl is laying down without interacting with you during sex-it sounds like she could be uncomfortable or isn’t enjoying herself. Maybe you’re one of those folks whose slept around without bothering to become a good lover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 11:25 PM
1	Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider? Independence.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 05:40 PM
6	Honestly whats all the fuss about Body counts? “Body counts” don’t necessarily equate to sexual skill/ability.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/20 05:07 PM
2	Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too Seriously I hear you.. but everyone is different. People judge each other on appearance regardless of their gender. Men and women and everyone in between. It’s also not inherently bad that people have preferences.	/r/seduction	14/12/20 04:17 PM
2	Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too Seriously Who you are is so much more attractive than what you look like. Period.	/r/seduction	13/12/20 01:30 PM
9	Yes to this!!! ....And then of course LVM comes in and has to include his nonsense (in the comments) Hey I can’t see the link to the original post 😫 are you able to share it? Thank you 💜	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/20 01:57 AM
37	Scrotes afraid of women trapping them into fatherhood and wasting their time and money IM FUMING SO IDK HOW COHERENT THIS WILL BE. This one’s for the scrotes/make lurkers reading: Fuck offffff~ Though I’m sure it varies by state & nation- Child support payments can only be enforced if a father’s name is on the child’s birth certificate. Father’s are not forced to sign the birth certificate (UNLESS baby’s mom gets a court order for the guy to take a paternity test). If the father DECLINES to sign the birth certificate, then they don’t get custody rights of the child therefore not f…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/03/20 03:40 AM
1	Relationships in college? Hey :) Remember every individual has their own values & intentions they bring to every relationship. A marriage timeline is subjective because it all depends on how soon either person wants to get married. Verbalizing clear intentions is crucial. If someone’s end-goal is to be married, it’s their responsibility to speak up. Both people have to be onboard or else you risk being a forever gf...waiting for a partner to make up their mind. Forever girlfriends stay with partners because they fantasiz…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/02/20 12:33 AM
3	[Discussion] How should I proceed with trust - can I reasonably require men to show me their phones in relationships? Hey I hear ya regarding concerns with trust. I’ve had to come to terms with the fact that it’s easy for people to hide anything. Sometimes they slip up & we catch them...but I’m sure there’s tons of people who will always get away with it. Some people have multiple phones. Getting access to their accounts isn’t even close to a guarantee. Your intuition is a better gauge, I think. Trust your gut ❤️ It’s helped me to try & give someone the benefit of the doubt until they cross a boundary. If they …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/02/20 08:18 PM
25	Read this as "I don't respect you or your body". Complete scum. Posting for a friend BOY BYEEEEEEEEEEEE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/19 03:05 AM
2	Ex broke up with me, so I told him to move out of my (“our”) apartment immediately. Now what? HONESTLY	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:31 PM
2	Ex broke up with me, so I told him to move out of my (“our”) apartment immediately. Now what? Thank you for your insight & support ❤️Aaand yes he could (SHOULD) definitely be moving his stuff on weekends...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/19 02:30 PM
2	Gross and bad joke. His favorite quality is a sense of humor... perhaps to make up for his own poor taste? What the fuck	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 05:55 PM
28	RED FLAGS: Signs a Man Should Be Cut Off He didn’t tell his friends we were dating while he was on a bachelor party trip to Nashville. When I asked if his friends knew I was his girlfriend, he said, “No...because It never came up in conversation”. good BYE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/19 05:53 PM
1	I’m going to get some hate for this but I accidentally attracted a girl I wasn’t attracted to myself I’m a mandated reporter...so Idk if I can give an objective answer to this. My legal compass says to call it in asap.... I also have a personal bias due to working in an in-patient psych ward & multiple deaths by suicide in my personal life. This is legit my biggest ethical conflict as a social worker. I’m sorry if this wasn’t helpful.	/r/seduction	20/11/19 04:27 AM
1	I’m going to get some hate for this but I accidentally attracted a girl I wasn’t attracted to myself You thought you were ready for commitment & you weren’t. Be honest with her.. but be sensitive to her impending heartbreak. You have to be accountable for your actions. You have to own your behavior.	/r/seduction	19/11/19 03:19 AM
1	Girls of reddit what gives you pleasure during sex? What should guys do to make it more pleasurable for you? Everyone is different...but personally, I like when a partner asks what I like (before we’re in the bedroom). The best time to have those discussions is outside of the proverbial bedroom. It’s pleasurable to many people when their partner is invested in pleasing the other person. And honestly, It’s wayyy more likely that your partner will reciprocate if you try your best to get them off.	/r/seduction	19/11/19 01:57 AM
1	Is it legal for me to carry out her fetish? Choking is so risky tbh. You could 100% be charged with a crime if you accidentally hurt your partner. A signed document would NOT LIKELY hold up in court. In fact, I’m almost certain it would NOT acquit you. Even if it’s consensual, you could easily be charged with involuntary manslaughter. If someone’s asking you to put their life in your hands (which is what she’s asking),YOU are still completely responsible for the consequences. The fact that you’re even asking the question should illuminate…	/r/seduction	19/11/19 01:52 AM
3	my friend's bf raped me Hey :) Hope you’re doing okay. You’re not alone. You didn’t do anything wrong here... Regarding your friend- We can only control our own actions. There’s nothing you can (or should feel compelled to) do to make her empathize with you at this time. It may take her a while to accept what her bf did, but she may never believe you (unfortunately). It’s not your responsibility to convince her- but if you wanted to, discussing what happened may help her get away from this violent man. You don’t owe yo…	/r/seduction	18/11/19 10:34 PM
1	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? That being said....How do women approach the disdain some men express about feeling obligated to pay for everything? Is it simply a verbal gesture of gratitude? What are the specific expectations, in your opinion? If it’s problematic that men are made to feel obligated to provide....What is the solution?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 05:25 PM
2	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? It’s easy for me to lose sight of the sentiments you expressed...I feel the solidarity right now & I’m so grateful. Thank you for taking the time to give feedback.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 02:42 PM
8	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? So it’s not sexy to be financially independent...and y’all don’t want to pay our bills... The logic is impeccable. Thanks for enlightening us 🙏🏼	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 02:07 PM
10	Who in this sub would really like to go back to the time when women couldn’t support themselves and were second class citizens? (Not Sarcasm) Am I (26F) a chump for never asking men to pay for anything? I thought financial independence was sexy... It’s also crucial to women’s survival that we not depend on y’all financially. That way, if/when a man walks out on us, we’re not left destitute. Expecting men to support us financially is a one-way ticket to relationships where the man has control over you. That’s not safe for us...Ladies- keep grinding & work hard till you own it ❤️😽	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/19 01:53 PM