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| 15 | Was there ever love?Wow! Sounds like me. I believe I was the perfect husband. High earner ($400k) and gave up my friends, hobbies and happiness to please her. Big house, fancy car, first-class European vacations, etc. My ‘reward’ was getting falsely arrested for felony DV and attempted rape after a 40 year marriage. I forced a big settlement in my favor by threatening going to trial. I had evidence that she had lied to the police and the court. Adult children all hate her and were willing to testify against her. I’… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/26 09:21 AM |
| 10 | The equity in the house was worth more than my freedom.Same thing happened to me. The debacle commenced with a false arrest for felony DV. She “tacked on” an attempted rape allegation in her restraining order. Two year divorce process. I eventually prevailed in the settlement because I threatened going to trial with my counter evidence and a pledge by my adult children to testify against her in court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 06:26 PM |
| 8 | What are positive aspects of being divorced?MONEY!!! My ex was a serial spender. I’m retired and my stock portfolio is growing 3x my consumption. Zero debt | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 12:27 AM |
| 2 | Looking for adviceYes. 40 years married to an ex with BPD. One Sunday afternoon she started a fight, called the cops and had me falsely arrested for felony DV and attempted rape. How do I deal with it? I’m getting even. I’m dragging my feet in the divorce so that it goes to trial. I have all 3 adult children anxious to testify against their mother. Before she disconnected from me on FB and LinkedIn, I downloaded all her friends/connections. After the divorce is finalized I have a form letter that I’ve drafted wit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 3 | As karma would have it…Interesting. I discovered the opposite. I dated approximately 25 women since divorce and EVERY one of them was nicer than my ex-wife. I discovered the ex was 10x worse than I imagined. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/11/25 07:29 AM |
| 5 | I got screwed but is there a way out???The felony charges were dropped by the DA for lack of evidence. They turned the case over to the City Attorney’s Office’s to see if they wanted to charge me with a misdemeanor. They too dropped the case. The SCARY shit for me was subpoenaed police report that indicated that the lead detective called my wife a week after the arrest and was told by my wife that she wanted me prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law!!! That’s when I knew this evil bitch needed to be put down. She spent $100k pur… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/25 10:37 PM |
| 7 | I got screwed but is there a way out???WOW!! It appears that you were quite unengaged in the process. I’m 2 years into my divorce after 40 years married. My ex has BPD and had me falsely arrested for felony DV and attempted rape. This serves as my motivation to fuck her over. I read every book on divorce I could find and drafted my own MSA. I nitpicked every nickel - Marsden-Moore Moore credits for her property, Watts credits for the marital property, half her travel points and PTO time, even the bail money from my credit card. I dra… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/25 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Just Need To VentNo. It's written by Greg Ellis. It's a divorced husband's horror story. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Just Need To VentI share your pain. I was jailed for felony DV and attempted rape (all false) by an evil BPD wife of 40 years. I highly recommend you read the book “The Respondent” that depicts a true story similar to yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/10/25 04:47 AM |
| 3 | What did YOU do wrong?Nope. Married 40 years to a wife with BPD. Was able to manage it by acquiescing, giving up friends, hobbies and being a high earner. She alienated all 3 of our adult children and they in turn begged me to leave the marriage. Offered wife generous separation terms, but she got triggered and had a meltdown. Called cops and had me falsely arrested for felony DV and attempted rape. The restraining order had her living in the McMansion alone for a year with all expenses. I earned $400k and yet she go… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | I just wanna say sorryLOVE it! My BPD wife had a meltdown, called the cops and had me falsely arrested for DV and attempted rape. She lost the alimony card because I’m 65 and I’m enjoying tearing her apart mentally and emotionally during the divorce process. Perfect wife? NO. Perfect victim? ABSOLUTELY! | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/25 05:01 AM |
| 8 | Is this normal? Letting go of everything post divorceI did the very same thing. I’m 64 and was married for 40 years. Wife and I lived in a $3.3 Million McMansion in San Diego. Gave everything away except my bike and surfboards and moved to Hawaii. Getting rid of all my stuff was absolutely the right thing to do. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 01:54 AM |
| 5 | When did you know?I can relate. Got falsely arrested for felony DV by BOD wife after 40 year marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/08/25 04:33 AM |
| 3 | Final judgment almost signed — $100k later, bittersweet but relievedSpent a year on back-and-forth bullshit. First mention of finances was a year into the process. $5 million in assets and lawyers are milking it. I earn a lot but live like a miser, so I’m inclined to stretch it out to fuck her over. I’ll gladly spend a dollar to fuck her out of a nickel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 04:41 AM |
| 9 | Final judgment almost signed — $100k later, bittersweet but relievedI’m 17 months into my divorce. I’ve spent $65k and my ex wife has spent $90k. She spent a year with a shark attorney seeking a permanent restraining order. She has BPD and one day initiated an argument, called the cops and FALSELY accused me of DV and attempted rape. Sticking to her bullshit narrative consumed her time and lawyer fees long after the criminal charges were dropped. I’m pleased to report however, that I AM raping her in the MSA negotiations. 😃 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/07/25 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Wife 45/F caught sexting then locked me up 45/M then had an affaire while kids were taken awayAs unbelievable as it sounds, it’s true. I got thrown in jail for taking my ex’s phone as well. I was told by the cops that it’s a very serious offense | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Missing her even though everything that happened, happened.I had the same problem. It solved itself after a few months. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/09/24 02:31 AM |
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